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So the big question is this, how do young men like us, who didn't listen to society,

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who are on our own, how do we grow and prove ourselves so that we can live a better tomorrow?

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That is a question and this show will give you the answers.

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My name is James Radzynski and welcome to the Ascend Momentum Show.

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Welcome back everyone.

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So as you can tell, my new microphone cable has not arrived yet.

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It is supposed to arrive today by 10.

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So hopefully tomorrow if I can set it up and figure it out, I'll be able to have a better

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mic tomorrow for you guys.

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And also tomorrow is my first day of school and I'm excited because it's going to be my

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easiest semester yet.

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It's going to be my easiest year because I'm graduating early.

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And currently I have, my classes are looking like I've got first through fifth and then

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sixth, seventh, eighth are off.

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So I'm definitely going to go in and change that because that's unacceptable because I

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got a bunch of unrequired classes that I'm taking.

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So I only have to take two English classes and one gym class left to graduate.

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So I'll be going, I'll be doing first period and second period is English and then third

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period is gym and then fourth period will be lunch and I'll just leave during lunch

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and then the rest of the day I have off.

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That's what my schedule is going to look like.

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I tried to go in today but they didn't let me in because today was the freshman day where

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all the freshmen go in and figure out their schedules and I wasn't allowed in because

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they said the staff was only focusing on the freshmen today.

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It's completely understandable.

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So I just followed up on with my counselor and e-billed her until they're going in tomorrow.

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So I want to tell you guys, I have seen some crazy good benefits just from doing this one

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breathwork exercise with a metal straw.

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So I have a metal straw and it's an exercise that helps strengthen your core and it definitely

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works.

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So you get a metal straw, I get one with a bend in it so it's harder and the straw is

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for resistance, increased resistance.

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So you put the metal straw in your mouth but you put it towards the tip of your lips so

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you have to be precise about where you're breathing in and then you breathe in through

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your mouth for like four or five counts.

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Eventually you want to get longer and longer.

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Like right now my record is like eight counts in but sometimes I can only do like four.

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I don't know, it's weird.

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I've been doing it for like two weeks maybe.

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And that exercise helps so much with increasing your core strength.

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So when you breathe in, you breathe in through the mouth and then through the stomach.

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So you increase the stomach all the way up and then once your stomach is full you finish

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off through your chest, like breathe through the chest.

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And then once you breathe all that up then you hold it.

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You just hold your breath for like the same amount of time that you breathed in.

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So if you breathed in for five seconds you hold for five seconds.

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And then you exhale for the same amount of time, five seconds.

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And then you hold it at the bottom for the same amount of time, five seconds.

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And that's the breath work exercise but there's actually one thing that I added to it.

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So I do the breathe in, I hold it and then exhale.

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And then on the hold at the bottom, when you're holding the exhale for the five seconds I

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do a vacuum which is like a bodybuilding thing.

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It's basically where you like pull your gut in, like you pull your stomach in.

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Not with your hands but you just like control your stomach to go in.

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And then you go, it's, it's hard to explain on a podcast, just look up how to do a vacuum.

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And so I do that at the bottom.

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And at the beginning I was terrible at vacuums, it hurt.

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But I kept pushing through and I kept doing it more and more.

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And now I'm pretty decent at vacuums and also my abs are so much better now.

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It's, I noticed that when I'm doing sit ups.

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I do sit ups at the gym with, we have this like bench that you can get like an incline

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or a decline on.

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So imagine doing the decline bench press but not decline, not doing bench, you do sit ups.

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So we have one of those for sit ups.

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And I usually hold onto a 45 pound plate while I'm doing it.

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And before I was only able to do like 8 to 12 reps.

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But now I can do 16 reps slowly, like slow descent reps.

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So my core strength has definitely gone up and it's only been like 2 weeks.

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Now I did not see any benefits or results until like today, I'm not even kidding.

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But there's also one other thing that I have found that it's helped with.

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And I also at the end of doing that, I do the breath work in the morning after my 30

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minute meditation.

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So I meditate for like 40 minutes basically.

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Because the breath work I am meditating still.

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I have my eyes closed and I focus on the breath.

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But I also lay on my stomach, like on my mat, because I sleep on a tatami mat.

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But I lay on my stomach and it's because my top abs, or like my physiology is really weird

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in this sense.

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My top abs poke out, like if I'm standing straight up, my top abs, my top 2 abs poke

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out more than my chest.

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So it's really weird looking.

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And I've noticed that doing the breath work and laying on my stomach has definitely helped.

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It hasn't fixed it yet, but it has only been like 2 weeks.

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But it's definitely helped.

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And my abs, like I have good abs and I've always had like defined abs.

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But my abs have gotten so much more defined and they look way better.

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And they're kind of evening out.

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Because one of my abs is bigger than the, my top right ab from my perspective is bigger

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than my top left ab and it's really weird.

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But they're kind of evening out.

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So I foresee in the next couple weeks or months that my abs will be way better.

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Even more better.

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So that is one of the exercises that I learned from this guy that I met.

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His name is Alex.

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I met him in the beginning of summer.

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And he's a bodybuilder and he is like 30 years old.

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And he's been lifting for, since he was like 14 or 13.

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And he was like the most jacked bodybuilder.

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He had a video where he was like the most jacked bodybuilder 18 year old in the world.

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Or at least one of them.

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And so he's like the real deal.

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And we've like talked to him all summer.

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And he told me that exercise and I did it.

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Every single day since he taught me that.

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And then he also taught me another thing which is balancing on a ball, a medicine ball.

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And doing like squats on it.

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So I've been doing that.

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I'm on like day six.

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And I can do nine squats consistently.

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Or nine squats in a row.

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That's my record.

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And then he also, we were talking to him yesterday.

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I talked about this on the podcast yesterday.

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But I'm going to say it again.

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He taught us another exercise for the, another exercise.

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And so I didn't take it lightheartedly because the last two things he taught me I've been

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doing and I've seen amazing benefits.

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So this exercise that he taught me is a neck exercise.

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And he said that he wished that he's been doing it since our age.

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Since he was our age.

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But he didn't add it until recently I think.

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And it's basically where you do the bridge.

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If you know what the bridge is, it's where you like bend your back and you're holding

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yourself up with your feet and hands.

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It's like where you lay on your back and then push yourself up with your feet and hands.

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So your back is bent like a bridge.

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But instead of pushing yourself up with your hands, you push yourself up with your neck.

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And you basically just put your two feet on the ground bent like you would a bridge.

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I like to rest my arms on my stomach, or rest my hands on my stomach.

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But in the beginning I like used my elbows to help support me because my neck was not

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like strong enough to actually do it on its own.

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And so you basically just like lift yourself up with your neck and then you like bend your

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neck kind of up and down.

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Or you could just do a static hold.

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I found that the static hold works just fine in the beginning.

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And that's like really what the three exercises that I've added to my routine.

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And also today was the first day that I did my new schedule.

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So I ate one cup of white rice.

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I cooked one cup of white rice so it turned out to be like more than a cup of cooked.

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So it was like 600 calories.

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I added that to my day.

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So I'm going to have 600 calories more every day.

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So I'm getting on a bulk now.

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And before I was just maintaining I wasn't really worried about my calories.

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But I'm getting on a bulk now.

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And I'm still not going to worry about my calories but I'm just going to eat the same

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thing every day and that same thing as 600 calories more than I was eating before.

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So I'm definitely going to be increased weight.

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And also I moved my time that I go to the gym from 6am to 1pm.

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The reason for this he gave me many reasons why I should do it.

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It works perfectly because I wake up at 4am, do my morning routine and then at 6am I study

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until I have to leave for school.

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And then I eat rice and then go to school.

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And then I come home, eat and then go to the gym.

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And since I'm only going to have three periods I'll be able to do it all plus do an hour

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of podcasting every day.

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So it will work out perfectly.

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And so the reason why I go to the gym at 1am instead of in the morning is because he said

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that and what he said makes sense to me.

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If you're going to the gym in the morning you've only gotten one meal in you.

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So you're barely going to have any energy, like any calories in you already.

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And barely any water also.

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But if you go in the afternoon then you'll have all of your meals in you and then you

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also will have all of your water in you.

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Plus in the afternoon you'll have more energy or you'll be able to lift better.

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So I'm doing that now.

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And so I'll be gaining some, I'll be gaining a lot more now.

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I'm fairly confident in that.

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And before I was doing push pull legs seven days a week, just going every single day unless

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I needed to take a rest day every once in a while.

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Or I had to do something that I couldn't go to the gym.

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But now I'm doing legs pull push, rest rest, legs pull push.

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And he said that the reason is because when you hit legs, well legs first.

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I don't remember exactly why but legs increase test.

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So you want all of your energy on legs.

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So you want to rest up two days and then just go crazy hard on legs.

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And I actually agree because legs is the hardest so you want all of your energy for it.

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And then the next day is pull day because the main difference between the male and the

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female body is that male has 30% more back muscle.

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So we should be working our backs a lot more.

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So that's like second on the priority list back day which is pull day for me because

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I like push pull legs.

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And then third is chest day just because it's the least important out of the three.

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But it's still like valuable.

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That's why we still hit it.

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So legs pull push, rest rest, legs pull push.

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I'm going to actually have a rest day structured into my routine for the first time in a long

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time.

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So I've been lifting for a little over two years now.

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I think like basically two years at this point.

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Maybe a little bit more.

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My gains recently once I started, once my diet was better and my test was higher and

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I feel like my gains are going to be way better now that I'm working in the afternoon because

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I never work out in the afternoon.

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It's always first thing in the morning.

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Right after I'm done with my morning routine.

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So I feel like my gains are going to get a lot better.

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And it's perfect because I've been prioritizing studying over gym now.

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And so I was going to cut out gym and then only work out at the gym for three days a

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week.

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But now I can basically do the same thing except work out a little bit more.

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Four to five days a week.

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And then I can also have studying first thing in the morning.

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So I'll like study first.

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I'm pretty sure studying first thing in the morning is the most optimal.

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I'll have to look it up.

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But I study first thing in the morning and I also study at night like after my podcast.

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Because right now I'm studying two books which I probably wouldn't suggest but I just want

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to read Reality Transurfing and I want to read Extra Secrets and I don't want to wait.

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So I just figured I'll read them both.

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But yeah that's like basically what I'm doing right now.

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But I went today for the first time in the afternoon after having like three meals and

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I will say my strength and power just everything is so much better.

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I like it a lot more.

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I feel like I got a way better workout today than I did before when I was going in the

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mornings.

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But I wouldn't have changed it because I'm glad I went in the mornings before because

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that was the most convenient time for me because I didn't have that much energy in the afternoon

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after school because many reasons but one of the biggest ones is that I got out of school

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at 3.11 but now I'm getting out of school at like 10.30 so I'm going to have a lot more

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energy in the day.

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And plus before I had like low tests my health was bad.

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Now I have I'm pretty sure my testosterone is way well I mean yeah my testosterone is

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way higher for sure and also my health is better.

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I'm going to be honest with you guys.

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I wasted my whole morning this morning.

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I still did all my morning routine and I studied but we didn't go to the park because we were

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going to work instead and so I literally just got on my computer and got distracted and

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it's because I didn't know what I was going to do right away and I let myself get distracted.

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reason because I developed bad habits.

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The solution is I'm not going to let myself on my computer like I'm not even going to

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go on my computer until I define the critical task for the day.

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My mission critical task the one task that I need to do that day and I define like the

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step by step outline of how to get it done so then I can figure it out before and then

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get on the computer and actually take action.

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And that second part I actually didn't do before.

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What I did before was I just defined the critical task and then figured it out on my computer

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and then that led to me getting distracted pretty easily.

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But now I'm going to define it and then not like I'm going to define the task and then

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outline a step by step thing in my head of exactly what I need to do so I'll have an

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outline of what needs to be done.

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And I think that will help my productivity a lot because I should be doing a lot better

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but I'm not and I've been like procrastinating.

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I'm a watch for newer right now I'm not even a lot of the only thing entrepreneurial like

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that I'm doing is the podcast but I don't really count that because I mean it will count

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once I start getting a big audience but right now I don't really have that big of an audience

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but I don't really count the podcast because it's just something simple that I do every

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day.

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Just something in my routine and what really is what I need to be doing is building some

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funnels for some people and this morning I actually took action and I joined I signed

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up for Upwork and I applied for one of the jobs on there and I'm basically just going

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to be a funnel builder and build the person an ad campaign and help them develop their

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product into a new opportunity and create a new movement for them.

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Just help them market very well all in general and so hopefully I get that job.

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I put my hourly rate as $100 an hour because I remember when I was looking at the hourly

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rate I remember I was going to do like $15 an hour or $20 an hour but I remember looking

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at or I remember seeing a hands-on video a couple weeks ago and he told us story about

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how he was doing coaching where he was literally doing selling his time for like one hour,

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one dollar an hour, one dollar an hour and people weren't really taking it seriously

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they were just kind of goofing off on the calls and basically just wasting both of their

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times and then he read a book and on there he said you have to 10x your time or you have

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to value your time way more so he like reluctantly after a lot of being like a lot of emotion

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going through like being scared of fear all this stuff he put like his hourly rate at

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like a hundred dollars an hour or something like that and then he posted it on his video

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his YouTube channel and he was expecting a lot of hate which did come but people actually

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joined his calls and took it seriously and then I also after I saw that I read in Russell

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Brunson's book Expert Secrets that you actually have an obligation to charge your customers

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money and a lot of money because people who pay pay attention and that proved that was

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proved in Hamza's story where when they were paying one dollar they did not pay attention

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and they just didn't take it seriously but if he was charging them a hundred dollars

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well that's a higher quality thing and so it was just the same person same training

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but different price and the people who paid a hundred dollars got way more out of it and

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they actually they actually got results like the people who were charged one dollar did

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not get results they always did not like follow through on the plans that Hamza built for

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them and they were not consistent they were just had bad they were not successful at all

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but the people who paid a hundred dollars were like way more successful and it's because

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they paid they invested in their self and themselves so we actually have a moral responsibility

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to charge a lot of money so that's why I put one hundred dollars an hour also one another

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reasoning behind it is if everyone else is charging like twenty dollars an hour and I'm

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charging a hundred dollars an hour well I stand out so then I can actually provide a

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lot more value and then also he'll take it a lot more seriously and take what I have

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to say into heart and I'll be a lot more committed because a hundred dollars an hour is no small

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number for me right now like all summer I've been working for maybe like twenty dollars

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an hour thirty dollars an hour which is a lot of money for someone my age but it's not

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a lot of money for me because I know my worth and I know I'm worth a lot more than twenty

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dollars an hour but most people my age are working like fifteen ten dollars an hour maybe

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I don't know but I'm not I'm not like that I'm I care about how much I make so I'm charging

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a hundred dollars an hour and we'll see if I get the job I hope I do and I think that

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I definitely know that I could help them a lot I know all the strategies I don't know

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any of the tactics though so I have to figure out the tactics on the way and the strategies

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is like the how to do something so like I know a lot of the marketing stuff like how

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you should do something but I don't know the tactics of what to do like what exactly how

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to do like the outline the plan I don't know what software to use I don't know what how

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to use the software you know I know how to use click funnels but I'm not that good at

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it and I also don't know how to use click funnels for someone else so I'll have to figure

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that out and I want to follow up on you guys about my first client that I got on I think

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it was episode 21 I talked about it where I got my first client after like a whole week

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of attempting to get new clients and it fell through and it's because one to be honest

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I'm kind of too lazy to actually build it which is absolutely terrible on my part I

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have to fix that and two I texted her and she didn't she like read it but she didn't

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respond that was like last Wednesday and right now it's Monday so I kind of failed on that

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part but I'm I'm seen as a success because on the journey to be able to get my first

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client like when I was first starting I could not get a client at all because my comfort

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zone was not it was way smaller but after I was like expanding my comfort zone I was

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able to go in there confidently and actually talk to her and sell my skills basically sell

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my stuff so I feel like way more confident if I wanted to just go out to another store

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and try and get a client in person so that I see this as a success because on the path

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to getting my first client I gained the abilities to get clients I didn't just spend a week

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to get a client and that doesn't mean that I'll spend another week to get another client

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it means that now I have the skills to get another client

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I gotta get some water

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so on my studies today in reality transsurfing I read about following going with the flow

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and basically is where most people are either a so in life here let me explain this first

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the alternatives flow is just a chain link so imagine like a link of chains of cause

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and effect so this event will cause that event which will cause that event and then it just

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goes down so as you live your life you go down the link of cause and effect but it doesn't

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actually work like that in most people's lives because if you the mind likes to reason so

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when you come up with a problem when you come across a problem your mind likes to reason

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so you use your brain to decide the best course of action through logic so you use logic to

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decide what is the best course of action through this problem and most of the time 99% of the

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time it is not the most efficient or energy efficient or optimal way forward and so as

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a result you transfer to a different chain a cause and effect chain and when you transfer

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that means that you're not on your that you're on a different path now different lifeline

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and so nature never wastes energy nature always takes the path of least resistance so if it

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was up to nature you would always just go forward in that same chain link but since

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you're wasting a lot of energy you're essentially in a boat a paper boat so the chain link here

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let me explain this the chain link imagine you're in a stream like a river and when you're

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going downstream you're just going down the chain link so imagine you start flailing

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your arms around that is what you do when you come up come across a problem and so you

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start flailing your arms around splashing the water just wasting a lot of energy trying

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to like move around where you could just keep going like keep going forward but so when

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you do that you transfer to a different chain link and the way most people live is they're

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in like a paper boat that gets helplessly pushed across the stream and they don't really

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dictate where they're going they just let life live them like let life pass them by

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and they don't really have they don't really have any vision or like decisions they don't

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make that much control over their lives really so they whatever happens to them they just

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say I'll let fate take the wheel and then the other type of person is in the boat but

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they they actually have a vision for the future and they like set course to their goals but

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instead of going with the flow and letting the flow take them and use most of the energy

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take them to their goals they flail their arms around and try and use a bunch of energy

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to when they come up across obstacles and things like problems in the road they flail

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around and try and swim around and they come up with complicated solutions to simple problems

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and that wastes a lot of energy they may or may not get to their goals but they follow

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the kind of saying that you have to fight for your place under the sun so those are

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the two types of people which is fine they just they choose to live that way that's their

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choice but the transsurfing transsurfing type of person like the person that transsurfing

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teaches how to become is someone who goes with the flow and they use as little energy

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as possible to correct course so they set course towards their goal and then just let

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the flow of life take them and then when they come across a problem they first realize that

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all problems and obstacles in life are created by the mind so they figure out where they

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place too much importance and then they reduce the importance and then the problem usually

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disappears and then when they come when they have to make a decision they listen to the

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rustle in the morning stars which is basically your subconscious speaking or telling you

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feelings and most of the time like most people do not listen to their subconscious at all

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because the brain feels that it's more logical and it's always right which is absolutely

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wrong it's absolutely not true because if it was then the heights that our civilization

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would reach would be astronomical but that's another topic so in order to listen to the

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rustle the morning stars you make a decision so let's say you come across a event where

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you have to make a decision should I wear should I buy this shirt or that shirt should

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I go to the like some decision any decision that you make in life and the way you listen

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to the rustle the morning stars is you imagine yourself having made one decision and then

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you quiet your mind you contemplate the emptiness and you just feel how you feel your inner

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peace like do you feel inner peace or do you feel inner tension it you'll either feel peaceful

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or you'll feel like bad like you'll have turmoil inside or you just won't be able to feel anything

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and that just means that you're not like you're not good at listening to the heart and that's

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fine because I'm like that right now too so you just have to get better and I forgot how

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to get better I think it's just practice I'm just trying to practice more and more but

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if you feel inner peace then you should go forward with that decision if you feel inner

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tension you should choose the other decision or don't make a decision at all if the other

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decision gives you inner tension also and so going with the flow is basically how you

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get to your goals because the story that he told to symbolize this is it actually stuck

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in my mind so imagine you're in this in like a circle dome I'm changing the story up to

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make it better and like make it better for me to say because I don't remember the exact

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story so imagine you're in a circle a big circle area and you're at the outer edge of

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the circle and there are and that circle is filled with people and all on the outer edge

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is people who are goal-determined they're all trying to get to their goals and you're

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one of them let's say there's a hundred people scattered all the way across this big circle

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and in the middle represents your goal so the dead center is your goal so everyone's

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trying to go towards that goal but in on the way to the goal there are so many people all

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needy people trying to ask for help they want money or all of it and all these problems

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arise on the way to that center circle the center of the circle and the normal person

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this is the second type of person I talked to remember the first person just lets the

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paper boat float across the stream float down the stream and the second person tries restlessly

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and uses a lot of energy to swim downstream so the second type of person who's trying

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to get to their goal would always get stopped by the people along the way and they'd be

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like hey can I have money or can I have help I need help or and then it just many different

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problems arise for them and this represents the journey towards a goal in life this whole

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story that's that person and they may make it or they won't but if they make it they

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use so much more energy they will have used so much more energy than they would have otherwise

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so they basically wasted a lot of energy and that whole that whole if they make it alright

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so let's say they make it then that will represent a story for other people who are like minded

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and use the same tactics to get there just try and push through all of those people and

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then all the other people will try and do the same thing so everyone will be end up

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using a lot of energy and those the people and the problems on the path that need help

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on the path to the goal those arise because of importance you place too much importance

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and that's basically excess potential and so the second type of person the trans surfing

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person this so let's talk about the trans surfing person going towards their goal so

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they start at the outer outer edge and they just walk towards their goal they just put

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one foot forward in front of the other and then they go with the flow and an amazing

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thing happens no people along the way stop them or interrupt them maybe they'll get

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some people stopping them say hey can I have help but they realize that this person is

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different and they just move along and they focus on other people so I want you to imagine

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this scene there is a big circle with a hundred people all across the circumference of the

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circle the outer edge and those are goal driven people ninety nine of them are the most are

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like normal people and they ninety nine of them are like the second type of person who

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tries to swim and uses a lot of energy down the stream that's ninety nine of them one

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of them is a trans surfer someone who has read studied and applied the principles of

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reality trans surfing that book now they all are going towards a goal which is in the dead

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center of the circle everyone can get that goal it's no like limited scarcity everyone

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can get that goal there's enough for everyone you just have to choose to get there and and

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then I want you to add something to that image on the way to the goal so in between the outer

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edge and the center is a lot of people thousands of people it's kind of like a marketplace

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just lots of people standing there and those are basically representing problems that arise

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in your life so let's start the simulation everyone starts moving towards the goal all

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one hundred people let's say seventy let's say all ninety okay let's say everyone arises

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with a first problem that first problem happens because you place too much importance so then

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everyone just tries all ninety nine of those normal people will try to come up with the

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most complicated solution to the problem but the trans surfer will listen to the rustle

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the morning stars and they will drop the importance and then remember that this was this problem

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was created by the mind and they will figure out the simplest solution because nature always

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takes the path of least resistance they nature never waste energy so the transfer will figure

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out the simplest problem so that they get through the problem the same energy used just

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walking forward which they would have done anyways so basically they never experienced

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a problem but they did but it didn't really affect them now all ninety nine other people

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let's say seventy of them get through that first problem now they used a lot of energy

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to get through that first problem they had to come up with some crazy solutions because

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the mind always comes up with the most complicated solutions for the simplest problems but let's

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say the twenty or the twenty nine or so other people that did not make it through their

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problem that first problem they just gave up and they gave up on their goal so now we're

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down to like I don't know the numbers I'm just gonna say let's say we're down to one

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transfer for in seventy normal people normal goal driven people alright so now the transfer

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for realize that they have to drop their importance so now that they drop their importance they

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don't experience any more goals or they don't experience any more problems along the way

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all of the people that are representing those problems just go they don't bother the transfer

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for they move on to the other seventy people and so the transfer for the way to get to

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their goal they simply just have to put one foot in front of the other and just keep repeating

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that just keep putting one foot in front of the other and keep doing little things all

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the way until they reach the goal so they basically reach the goal in the same time

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that it would take to walk to the goal it's because they basically did just walk to the

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goal they just simply walk to the center of the circle so if you know what a radius is

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it's basically the distance between the center of the circle to the edge of the circle so

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they basically just walked on the radius it just walked there now let's look at the other

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seventy people they came across their next goal now they've already used so much energy

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so they have to use a lot more energy on the second goal and let's say only fifty of them

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make it through that second problem and now I want you to look at their paths so the transfer

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their path was straight to the goal all of the seventy other people now fifty they're

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walking sideways diagonal they're going all different directions getting distracted by

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problems now let's say on problem three that arises fifty of them are left and then twenty

453
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of them fail the problem three so now there's thirty of them left and so they're closer

454
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but their path traveled is not straight towards the goal they're going right they're going

455
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left they're cutting turns they're going a lot all over the place they're like a lost

456
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pencil drawing a scribble just aimless because all these problems are distracting them on

457
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their way and pulling them off course now let's repeat this simulation until they get

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closer and closer to the goal ten people drop out five more people drop out until finally

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only one normal person out of the ninety nine other people make it so only one person that

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uses normal worldview strategies makes it so that's a one percent success rate essentially

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and they make it to their goal and they had to use a lot of energy and they're going to

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be happy about making that goal and then they'll share that story and everyone else will be

463
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inspired and wants to do the same thing so then the cycle will repeat the new simulation

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will restart all another ninety nine people will batch up but let's talk about this the

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trans surfer had a one hundred percent success rate now let's make another simulation fifty

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trans surfers fifty normal people let's say one person makes it which is a two percent

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success rate one normal person makes it which is lucky for fifty people these aren't actual

468
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numbers i'm making them up but i'm just representing how bad the world general worldview is compared

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to trans surfing all right so there's fifty normal people fifty trans surfers two of the

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or let's say one of the normal people actually makes it to the goal after lots of energy

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wasted and it took a lot longer too now guess how many trans surfers make it all fifty and

472
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it's because they just know how to make it to their goals as simply and quickly and most

473
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efficiently possible you just have to go with the flow because the world takes care of us

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but all of the goal driven people don't think that they think they have to fight for their

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place in the sun so they do because you get what you choose they chose to fight for their

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place in the sun and the trans surfers just chose to take just chose to go out and get

477
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it no nothing special about it and so that's that's how that's how important like that's

478
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how valuable trans surfing is because i am that's why i'm just going to constantly study

479
00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:42,280
it because that's really how you get to your goals by learning all the trans surfing principles

480
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and applying them because i want to be that trans surfer i don't want to be the normal

481
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:54,440
person i will like if before i read trans surfing i was going to be the normal person

482
00:49:54,440 --> 00:50:00,040
and i may have made it i may have been the one that made it who knows i probably wouldn't

483
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have been because that's low odds and having wasted a lot of energy i would have given

484
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up but using trans surfing i'm going to get my goals with the least resistance possible

485
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and really the way you do it all of those people along the way all the problems that

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arise they represent pendulums and pendulums grip on to you onto your importance but if

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you don't have importance if you're empty to them then they have nothing to hold on

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to so they just die so essentially the trans surfer all of the people just stop all their

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energy around them all the problems just stop like they just cease to exist they just slow

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down if you know what a pendulum is it's like a string with something attached to it that

491
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like sways back and forth that's what a pendulum is in real life but in real life there's also

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pendulums it's the concept of basically problems and also like school is a pendulum so you

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and i are a pendulum this podcast is a pendulum i still don't completely understand the concept

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of a pendulum but i can give you vague definitions and all pendulums are out for their own good

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they're not they don't worry about their adherence and adherence are people who are whose thought

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waves are their thought energy is attuned to the same frequency as a pendulum and when

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that happens the pendulum's sway swings higher and higher and you're basically feeding the

498
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pendulum some energy and it's stealing it's feeding off of your energy so you're reducing

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your energy but let's say that pendulum tries to grip on to you but you don't have importance

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so it can't grip on to you so then the sway slows to a stop and when the pendulum happens

501
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so let's say you stub your toe that's a pendulum trying to get to you and you react negatively

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they got to you because you had too much importance but let's say you just don't react you slow

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their sway but there's another way you can kill a pendulum and for the for example you

504
00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:32,560
stub your toe you you laugh you get super excited that isn't an inappropriate response

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00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:38,000
to that because no one does that the pendulum wasn't expecting that and the pendulum will

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be defeated simply by the fact that you reacted inappropriately and one of the stories that

507
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he told in the in the book is he was with his friend or no there was a story i'm not

508
00:52:55,640 --> 00:53:05,640
gonna tell that one i'm gonna tell this one there was a smaller dude who was in a situation

509
00:53:05,640 --> 00:53:13,680
where a gang like a real gang would he was in the gang house and they like brought him

510
00:53:13,680 --> 00:53:22,720
there unwilfully so he was forced to go there in front of the gang leader and so the person

511
00:53:22,720 --> 00:53:29,160
was like oh man this is a bad situation so he couldn't just get out of it by staying

512
00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:38,480
indifferent because if he didn't react they still would have beat him up but he reacted

513
00:53:38,480 --> 00:53:45,900
inappropriately instead of being scared and all that he like ran straight to the gang

514
00:53:45,900 --> 00:53:54,520
leader grabbed him by his ear and said do you want me to break your jaw first or rip

515
00:53:54,520 --> 00:54:00,360
off your ear first and so the gang leader got super scared and he just basically defeated

516
00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:07,040
the pendulum because all of all of the gang members were were super scared after that

517
00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:13,400
and then he was let go because they didn't want to deal with his trouble so he defeated

518
00:54:13,400 --> 00:54:21,520
the pendulum and the pendulum let him go so that's basically the power of that and pendulums

519
00:54:21,520 --> 00:54:29,600
aren't just like big things like big dangerous things like gangs it's also like the school

520
00:54:29,600 --> 00:54:39,480
for example school is a pendulum and it's also valuable things too like the gym the

521
00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:46,120
gym is pendulum everything is pendulum basically and all pendulums are destructive all pendulums

522
00:54:46,120 --> 00:54:53,960
don't care about its adherence but you just have to find your pendulums and you have to

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00:54:53,960 --> 00:55:00,740
decide how much you want them to how deep you want them to how deep you will let them

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00:55:00,740 --> 00:55:09,440
into you so for example for me I don't like you can't avoid pendulums it's it's a waste

525
00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:18,620
of energy to try and avoid pendulums and it goes against like nature too so that's why

526
00:55:18,620 --> 00:55:24,880
you have to find your pendulums so for example for me the gym is a is my pendulum I don't

527
00:55:24,880 --> 00:55:33,520
but I still stay indifferent to it but I use it I use it to my advantage and then if it

528
00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:41,840
pulls me in too much I just don't let that happen like I don't go all day to the gym

529
00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:46,520
I don't find the gyms extremely important you have to release your importance towards

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00:55:46,520 --> 00:56:05,320
the gym and so you basically just have to find your own pendulums

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I'm really excited to get my new mic tomorrow I'm gonna have to figure out how to set that

532
00:56:11,680 --> 00:56:17,440
up after school I might have to go to bed late tomorrow I'm trying not to though I'll

533
00:56:17,440 --> 00:56:29,440
have to go to the gym quick eat quick get out of school quick do all that but I'm actually

534
00:56:29,440 --> 00:56:36,120
really excited for the new school year because I will have a lot more time and I'll use it

535
00:56:36,120 --> 00:56:42,120
on studying and working on my podcasts and then on the weekends I'll work on business

536
00:56:42,120 --> 00:56:53,520
stuff but I only have three periods like all my full entire high school career I always

537
00:56:53,520 --> 00:57:02,000
had eight periods so I always went to school at eight and then got out at like 311 except

538
00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:10,200
for freshman year because freshman year was weird because we were on covid it was on zoom

539
00:57:10,200 --> 00:57:14,520
and last year first semester I had one early dismissal and that was like the best thing

540
00:57:14,520 --> 00:57:20,840
ever so now I'm having literally the entire day off I just have three periods I have five

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00:57:20,840 --> 00:57:29,680
periods off so that's gonna be awesome I'm gonna get so much progress I'm gonna grow

542
00:57:29,680 --> 00:57:37,740
so much I'm gonna learn so much I'm also excited for Russell's new book to come to me the lynch

543
00:57:37,740 --> 00:57:47,840
pin which is a he was using that funnel to upsell into funnel hacking live and I'm reading

544
00:57:47,840 --> 00:57:57,780
his extra secrets books book and he said that you use an information product to give someone

545
00:57:57,780 --> 00:58:05,120
enough knowledge to move them up your value ladder so he's using that lynch pin book to

546
00:58:05,120 --> 00:58:10,120
give me enough knowledge to prepare me for funnel hacking live because funnel hacking

547
00:58:10,120 --> 00:58:17,120
live is the next step on his value ladder it's the it's the upsell of that funnel and

548
00:58:17,120 --> 00:58:23,760
since I'm already going and I bought the book I'm definitely gonna study it before funnel

549
00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:34,280
hacking live so I can be prepared that'll be huge I'll have very good background knowledge

550
00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:42,100
and then I'll be able to learn from him himself in person so it'll just deepen my understanding

551
00:58:42,100 --> 00:58:54,440
and everything like that I could get some water yeah this episode was really good I

552
00:58:54,440 --> 00:59:04,440
think because I usually for the past couple episodes I've been having my computer on but

553
00:59:04,440 --> 00:59:09,080
today I just sat down and recorded my episode before I even turned my computer on and that

554
00:59:09,080 --> 00:59:14,640
helps with my focus a lot I'm not sure if you guys could tell I'm sure you guys can

555
00:59:14,640 --> 00:59:21,080
because over the past couple episodes I was extremely like scattered and I was literally

556
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like surfing the web on like episode 23 or something like that where I said everyone

557
00:59:26,600 --> 00:59:32,640
has off days and I use that as an excuse no there's no excuse that was just a very terrible

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00:59:32,640 --> 00:59:42,440
episode but I'm keeping it out there because I want you guys to see that even I suck like

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everyone sucks and I mean I'm I still feel like even though I'm speaking very confidently

560
00:59:50,020 --> 00:59:57,480
on my podcast I go throughout the day just like everyone else it's like problems arise

561
00:59:57,480 --> 01:00:03,280
all these I'm not good at following the Transurban but I'm getting better and better every day

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01:00:03,280 --> 01:00:10,560
and that's all that matters to wrap things up don't forget to download your favorite

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episodes and subscribe to the ascend momentum show but before you guys leave make sure to

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remember the Eagles