1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:06,120 So the big question is this, how do young men like us who didn't listen to 2 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:14,440 society, who are on our own, how do we grow and improve ourselves so that we can 3 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:20,160 live a better tomorrow? That is the question and this show will give you the 4 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:32,720 answers. My name is James Radzynski and welcome to the Ascend Momentum Show. So 5 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:39,240 welcome back everyone. So right before reading or right before recording this 6 00:00:39,240 --> 00:00:49,400 episode, maybe five minutes ago, I was reading about a statistic which I heard 7 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:54,400 maybe a year or two ago and then I was trying to look up the statistic when I 8 00:00:54,400 --> 00:01:00,240 first started my podcast but I couldn't find it and then today I just thought of 9 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:09,640 it again and so I wanted to look up the statistic again and that statistic is 10 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:20,840 what percent of podcasters, it was something about how many podcasters 11 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:29,840 make it past like episode 20. Yeah so I looked up how many podcast shows make 12 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:38,160 more than 25 episodes and then in the people also asked how many podcasts make 13 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:52,080 it past 20 episodes. There is a article by Webacaster who is citing a blog post 14 00:01:52,080 --> 00:02:01,280 or not a blog, a Reddit post made by Rebel Muso Society and he is citing a 15 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:10,520 video by Modern Wisdom, one of the podcasts that I used to listen to and 16 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:20,280 excellent podcast by the way I recommend but I'm pretty sure that podcast is 17 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:27,240 where I heard it, where I heard that statistic and it's that, here 18 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:36,200 actually I'll just read it to you, 90% of podcasts don't get past episode 3 so 90% 19 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:44,220 of people make it past episode 3 and since this is like episode 23, yeah 20 00:02:44,220 --> 00:02:52,560 episode 23, I'm already in the top 90% of podcasts like top 10% and then it said 21 00:02:52,560 --> 00:03:05,360 of the 200,000 left 90% will quit after 20 episodes so that means that to be in 22 00:03:05,360 --> 00:03:13,880 the top 1% of podcasts in the world, in the world, top 1%, you just need to 23 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:23,920 publish 21 episodes so I've already, as of today of recording this, I finished 24 00:03:23,920 --> 00:03:33,720 publishing episode 18, episode 18 published this morning and so today is 25 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:39,800 Friday so that means on Monday I will have joined the top 1% of podcasts in 26 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:46,320 the world and I'm guaranteed it already because I already recorded the video, I 27 00:03:46,320 --> 00:03:54,160 already recorded that my 21st episode, this is actually my 23rd episode so I'm 28 00:03:54,160 --> 00:04:00,320 not in the top 1% yet but I'm guaranteed top 1% alright so that's 29 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:06,000 actually crazy and it's not that hard, it was really easy, all I did was just 30 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:10,840 add it to my routine, my daily routine and then just did progressive overload 31 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:15,640 like how I do at the gym, I started my first podcast, my first video, the trailer 32 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:23,480 was like two, like three minutes long and then the next episode was eight and then 33 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:36,440 I didn't think, I didn't like think to do progressive overload until episode, around 34 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:44,160 episode four or five and then around episode five I was like okay I'm gonna 35 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:49,320 do progressive overload and just keep adding more and more time and then it 36 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:55,960 took me 14, it took me 15 episodes until I got to one hour and one hour was my 37 00:04:55,960 --> 00:05:04,200 benchmark so now all my episodes are around one hour long, I finished my what 38 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:11,960 I was saying at one hour and then I wrap up so literally just three weeks, only 39 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:19,400 three weeks of posting every day and you're already in the top 1% that's 40 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:25,960 crazy, that is actually awesome, it's really inspiring pushing me forward and 41 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:32,960 but what I wanted to talk to you guys about today was yesterday, if you guys 42 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:37,240 didn't hear yesterday's episode I do not recommend to listen to it, it was 43 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:42,240 terrible, it was my worst episode I've ever published, I was like super tired, I 44 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:50,720 was super down, just everything was going bad but today things changed, today I did 45 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:55,600 not go to the gym and I just studied Reality Transurfing for like two hours 46 00:05:55,600 --> 00:06:05,000 this morning and there's one thing that I realized, I realized this yesterday but I 47 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:12,720 couldn't figure out how to do it and it's that you have to interpret 48 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:19,240 every situation as bad, look for the positive in every situation so every 49 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:24,080 cloud has a silver lining and you just have to look for the positive in every 50 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:28,720 single situation because every single situation has a positive no matter how 51 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:35,320 negative the situation is there is always a positive to it and also keep your 52 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:43,200 positive things that happen in your head in your mind so let me explain there are 53 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:47,840 so many little tests that happen to us throughout the day whether it's stubbing 54 00:06:47,840 --> 00:06:52,880 the toe, dropping something, just making a mistake, there are so many little tests 55 00:06:52,880 --> 00:07:01,320 throughout the day that basically make or break your mood at that moment 56 00:07:01,320 --> 00:07:07,880 and usually for the rest of the day so for example this morning in my house in 57 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:15,560 my kitchen we have a broom that is hanging up in the corner and that broom 58 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:22,840 also has one of those like broom dustpan things on it that just clips onto it 59 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:29,160 but it can fall off really easily so I was over in that corner this morning and 60 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:33,760 somehow the broom fell down I don't remember what I did to make it fall I 61 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:38,880 must have bumped it or something but I right away caught it with like with my 62 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:43,120 left hand which is my non-dominant hand so I just caught it right away that never 63 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:48,800 happens it always just falls and so today I caught it just out of instinct 64 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:57,840 and then but the dustpan fell down and usually like since it's a habit usually I 65 00:07:57,840 --> 00:08:01,760 would have gotten mad I would have been like oh or I would have just gotten it 66 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:05,920 would just like lowered my mood I would have interpreted that situation as 67 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:11,840 negative but I remembered the principles of trans surfing and so I chose to 68 00:08:11,840 --> 00:08:17,160 interpret it as positive because there is always a positive thing I didn't at 69 00:08:17,160 --> 00:08:22,120 the time I could have reacted that the dustpan fell off and that was just 70 00:08:22,120 --> 00:08:27,120 negative but I chose to interpret that I caught it I caught it with my hand I 71 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:31,320 caught the actual broom with my hand and that was awesome so I just let that 72 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:39,760 thought sit in my head for like 10 like maybe like a minute or two and I was 73 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:45,080 just happy and excited that I caught that and so the more and more I do little 74 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:50,840 interpret little things as positive and try to find the positive in things it's 75 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:59,800 slowly becoming a habit so that is trans surfing principles that I didn't catch 76 00:08:59,800 --> 00:09:05,240 on I did catch on them but I didn't turn them into habits my first read through 77 00:09:05,240 --> 00:09:11,000 but reading it a second time I realized that that is literally how you train 78 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:16,920 that's how you transfer that's how you become a transfer and so that those 79 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:33,280 principles are essential okay so today I came up with the idea to talk to you 80 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:38,160 guys about trans surfing like this is just gonna be a trans surfing episode 81 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:52,680 and I'm just gonna roll through a bunch of my big points in that so when I read 82 00:09:52,680 --> 00:09:57,240 my reality transfer fee and I write stuff down I write notes down in a 83 00:09:57,240 --> 00:10:02,440 separate journal so I'm just gonna read the most important notes because I 84 00:10:02,440 --> 00:10:08,800 always star the most important notes and actually two days ago since I didn't get 85 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:14,000 enough time to read trans surfing I actually did a review day where I read 86 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:18,120 through my entire book and then just wrote down or I read through the entire 87 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:23,280 journal wrote read all of my notes which was like 20 pages maybe maybe more and 88 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:30,400 then I wrote down all of the biggest ideas that were most important so I'm 89 00:10:30,400 --> 00:10:36,120 actually gonna go through that and then I'll go through my notes from yesterday 90 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:42,800 and today in trans surfing and by the way if you guys haven't heard my other 91 00:10:42,800 --> 00:10:46,660 episodes of me raving about trans surfing train reality trans surfing 92 00:10:46,660 --> 00:10:54,120 parts one through five by vatom zone is the best book in the world for self 93 00:10:54,120 --> 00:10:59,960 improvement if I had to choose only one book to ever read it would be reality 94 00:10:59,960 --> 00:11:04,400 transfer fee I would just read it and the reared reared it and constantly 95 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:12,360 read it study it and because of that I am stopping I'm going to be going to the 96 00:11:12,360 --> 00:11:17,240 gym three days a week instead of seven days a week so I can have more time to 97 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:26,120 study reality transfer fee okay so let's get into the notes the first thing that 98 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:31,000 I wrote down is when something pleases me make it a point to keep it in my mind 99 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:37,560 for a while so that's what I touched on with the broom situation this morning 100 00:11:37,560 --> 00:11:42,440 when I knocked over the broom but then caught it with my hand me catching it 101 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:47,840 pleased me so I made it a point to keep it in my mind and just get excited about 102 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:53,200 that and there's always something that you can look for like this morning I was 103 00:11:53,200 --> 00:12:00,640 down I was feeling down when I was biking home from the park but then I 104 00:12:00,640 --> 00:12:04,680 just quickly looked for I realized that I was feeling down and then I also 105 00:12:04,680 --> 00:12:11,040 remembered reading you can't change your it's it's futile to change your to try 106 00:12:11,040 --> 00:12:15,320 and change your emotions but you can change your attitude so you can't change 107 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:21,640 your emotions but you can change your attitude and at the time I didn't really 108 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:25,600 realize what that meant but then this morning I realized that my emotions were 109 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:33,080 down so then I was looking for something to be excited about and keep that in my 110 00:12:33,080 --> 00:12:37,120 mind and that would in turn change my attitude and then change my emotions 111 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:45,640 because attitude or emotions stem stem from attitude and the reason why keeping 112 00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:50,480 something that pleases you in there in your mind for a while is important is 113 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:56,800 because you're right one you're radiating thought energy that attunes 114 00:12:56,800 --> 00:13:01,800 with more things that pleases you so more things that please you will pop up 115 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:12,080 in your life but also little things well you'll just be more happier even if you 116 00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:15,760 don't believe in the thought energy stuff you'll just be happier so why would 117 00:13:15,760 --> 00:13:23,040 you torture yourself by being miserable when you could be happy plus if there's 118 00:13:23,040 --> 00:13:27,640 a small change positive change that happens in your life or a negative 119 00:13:27,640 --> 00:13:33,000 change that you interpret as positive that happens in your life those are the 120 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:38,480 messengers of the wave of fortune which is essentially where you're on a path 121 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:46,400 the wave of fortune is a specific path in life where like you're just the most 122 00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:51,440 lucky person ever you have the most luck you are very lucky everything just seems 123 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:57,080 to go on seems to be going great for you that's the wave of fortune and when you 124 00:13:57,080 --> 00:14:02,040 interpret things as good you're accepting the wave of fortune but then if 125 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:06,640 you let those things stay in your mind you're attuning your thought energy to 126 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:11,680 that frequency the wave of fortune frequency and that's one of the 127 00:14:11,680 --> 00:14:19,080 principles of trans surfing to get on the wave of fortune okay let's read the 128 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:24,680 next thing in every moment that I give to the trans surfing practice I am 129 00:14:24,680 --> 00:14:31,280 consciously moving towards my goals that is one of the things that I kept 130 00:14:31,280 --> 00:14:37,600 reminding myself of like a week ago when I when I read it for a couple days and 131 00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:44,800 then I kind of stopped and then now rereading it that is very important like 132 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:50,240 you always have time for practicing the trans surfing principles and those are 133 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:56,200 always helping you move towards your goals more so than not the next thing is 134 00:14:56,200 --> 00:15:01,200 cherish and know any positive change in my life because these are the message 135 00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:09,200 of the wave of fortune I already touched on that that has a lot of benefits 136 00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:16,480 because you're attuning your thought energy to that so you get more of it so 137 00:15:16,480 --> 00:15:21,200 then you're closer to the wave of fortune and eventually get on it and 138 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:28,800 plus once you make it a habit you won't have to really try that hard to do it so 139 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:36,040 then it'll be better the majority of people respond antagonistically to an 140 00:15:36,040 --> 00:15:44,520 undesirable event do not be the majority yeah if you read if you respond 141 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:51,160 antagonistically to an undisciple undesirable event well let's just assume 142 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:57,400 that you don't believe in the emotional stuff if you just respond antagonistically 143 00:15:57,400 --> 00:16:02,440 well then your mental is gonna be worse but if you respond positively and look 144 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:09,600 for the positive in it you switch to a problem solver or a hopeful mindset so 145 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:17,080 that's already better but if you respond positively so think about it like this 146 00:16:17,080 --> 00:16:26,980 only like 10% or 1% of people in the world are successful like top 1% of the 147 00:16:26,980 --> 00:16:35,440 money has like error top 1% of the people have like 99% of the money or 148 00:16:35,440 --> 00:16:42,280 something like that so if you are the majority you don't want to be part of the 149 00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:46,080 majority you want to do what the top people are doing and the top people are 150 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:51,800 not responding antagonistically to undesirable events because then they 151 00:16:51,800 --> 00:16:56,280 would that would be the majority the majority people it's just simple logic 152 00:16:56,280 --> 00:17:00,240 it seems like if you want to be successful do not follow what the 153 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:09,760 majority of people do which is the general public find joy in all parts of 154 00:17:09,760 --> 00:17:14,560 my world and I will turn it into a paradise so that is referring to a 155 00:17:14,560 --> 00:17:22,800 tuning like changing your thought energy to attune to positive things to to allow 156 00:17:22,800 --> 00:17:28,080 for positive changes to happen so then even if you have a miserable existence 157 00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:34,640 but if you find joy in your miserable existence slowly but surely your 158 00:17:34,640 --> 00:17:40,840 miserable existence will actually become like a paradise it'll actually become 159 00:17:40,840 --> 00:17:47,800 great but even like I said before even if you don't believe in that mental 160 00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:54,560 power you might as well try and find joy because it it's not gonna change unless 161 00:17:54,560 --> 00:17:59,880 you do something about it and you might as well find joy because then it'll be 162 00:17:59,880 --> 00:18:09,920 easier to make a change just there's like there is separate benefits to doing 163 00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:17,560 all of the manifestation stuff because you're just gonna be happier in general 164 00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:22,400 I personally believe in the manifestation stuff but I'm trying to 165 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:27,840 make a point that that's not the only reason that's not the only benefit the 166 00:18:27,840 --> 00:18:36,600 benefit is you're just me a happier person when I suffer a setback that 167 00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:42,440 setback was created by a pendulum to get its hook into me so a pendulum is 168 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:51,960 something that it's like an idea or a thought that tries to take your energy 169 00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:56,960 that's like its only purpose to steal your energy so everything is a pendulum 170 00:18:56,960 --> 00:19:01,720 essentially but one of the biggest pendulums in my life right now is school 171 00:19:01,720 --> 00:19:07,440 school is a pendulum and every time I'm thinking about school like right now I'm 172 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:12,960 radiating thought energy of that and then I'm giving it that energy to that 173 00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:21,400 pendulum and it's just stealing my energy so if I were to get a bad grade 174 00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:28,200 in school well that that's a setback and it was created by the pendulum maybe 175 00:19:28,200 --> 00:19:33,960 this is not the best example but let's you experience setbacks throughout your 176 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:41,680 life and those are created by pendulums to try and hook on to you and steal your 177 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:50,920 energy basically and that the way it gets its hook into you is onto your 178 00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:57,280 importance levels so if you think that something is important well then you're 179 00:19:57,280 --> 00:20:03,960 gonna react in a certain way and then that is how it got its hook into you but 180 00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:13,360 if you reduce your importance then it can't actually affect you break mental 181 00:20:13,360 --> 00:20:19,560 habits to gain choice so that's a thing if you have a mental habit to react 182 00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:24,480 negatively well then you're not gonna remember in time to react positively so 183 00:20:24,480 --> 00:20:28,240 that's why you got to break the mental habits and then you get the choice to 184 00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:35,800 either react negatively or positively that is what I meant when I wrote it the 185 00:20:35,800 --> 00:20:40,080 first time but now having gained more knowledge I'm interpreting this in two 186 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:47,640 ways that way and another way is if you have a habit of creating a lot of 187 00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:58,480 importance well then a lot of obstacles will show up in your path but if you 188 00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:03,480 break that habit then you gain the freedom of choice and that freedom of 189 00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:06,800 choice is basically you get to choose your lot in life you get to choose 190 00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:16,920 whatever you want in life so for example me I'm choosing to go to Florida and 191 00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:30,200 September and I'm also choosing to go to Hawaii to move there when I haven't set 192 00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:36,480 a time but I'm choosing that I'm choosing that lot in life and you guys 193 00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:42,040 will see that it will come true but the only obstacles in my path towards those 194 00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:46,200 things are the importance that I place on them so if I feel that it's extremely 195 00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:49,980 important that I get to Florida well then I'm gonna experience a lot of 196 00:21:49,980 --> 00:21:55,440 obstacles and potentially not even make it so you just got to reduce importance 197 00:21:55,440 --> 00:22:07,280 and just make you take action basically and without importance attributed to it 198 00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:13,880 the first step of trans surfing learn to ride the wave of fortune yep that I've 199 00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:18,240 already talked about that next thing my thoughts always return to me like a 200 00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:23,600 boomer I kind of touched on this over various things but basically if you 201 00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:28,320 think positively well then you're gonna have positive experiences in your life 202 00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:31,880 but if you think negatively you're gonna have negative experiences in your life 203 00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:39,320 it just returns back to you like a boomer next on an energetic level all 204 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:45,640 material are of equal significance so that is good context to know for balance 205 00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:54,000 keeping balance and reducing excess potential created and on it like if you 206 00:22:54,000 --> 00:23:03,080 if you think about it your me and you are equal on an energetic level every 207 00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:09,640 single human is equal on an energetic level so if you feel superior to someone 208 00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:17,200 else you're creating excess value onto yourself you're basically idolizing 209 00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:22,160 yourself over that person and that destroys the balance because in reality 210 00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:29,040 you're both equal so you're if you think about a scale both me and you are equal 211 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:33,880 but if I feel that I'm of more value then my side of the scale will start to 212 00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:42,800 go down because it'll be more valuable and yours will go up and that I will be 213 00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:47,840 creating excess potential and that excess potential generates balancing 214 00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:55,120 forces to maintain the bounce to bring it back to balance and doing that it 215 00:23:55,120 --> 00:24:03,120 will basically if I idolize myself over you I will the impact of the balance 216 00:24:03,120 --> 00:24:07,600 forces their aim is to reduce my influence on the world so essentially I 217 00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:13,520 am not gonna be able to achieve my goals if I idolize myself over you so from a 218 00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:19,360 purely selfish standpoint do not ever create excess potential don't ever judge 219 00:24:19,360 --> 00:24:25,120 people don't ever idolize yourself never have an inferiority or a superiority 220 00:24:25,120 --> 00:24:33,400 complex all the above because then then if you do then you'll have less 221 00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:40,560 influence on the world and that is not good if you want to achieve your goals 222 00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:48,280 when I am dissatisfied with myself I end up in conflict with my soul when I am 223 00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:53,920 dissatisfied with the world around me I'm in I end up in conflict with a large 224 00:24:53,920 --> 00:25:02,280 number of pendulums that is very important so I haven't on my second 225 00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:06,720 read through I haven't gotten to the part of unity of the heart and mind but 226 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:14,080 from the a little bit that I remember the vague remembrances from my first 227 00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:22,720 read through you need to have your heart and mind united in order to basically 228 00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:29,640 push the wind like to start the wind of outer intention and have the world help 229 00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:37,480 you along your path so if you're dead dissatisfied with yourself any any 230 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:43,320 characteristic by yourself then you end up in conflict with your soul and that 231 00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:46,320 destroys the unity of the heart and mind so then you won't be able to achieve 232 00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:51,240 your goals as well but if you're dissatisfied with them and then you take 233 00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:55,140 action like self-improvement then balance is not destroyed because you're 234 00:25:55,140 --> 00:26:01,320 taking action as long as you're not like beating yourself up about that thing as 235 00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:05,280 long as you just make it a point to make it better and then just end it with that 236 00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:09,920 just call it just know that you're gonna make it better and then don't beat 237 00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:16,080 yourself about it and just you know and then when you're when I'm dissatisfied 238 00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:19,840 with the world around me I end up in conflict with a large number of 239 00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:24,440 pendulum so that's basically if I'm dissatisfied with the fact that I have 240 00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:28,240 to go to school well then I'm in conflict with that the school pendulum 241 00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:32,600 and then it will grip onto my importance that place on not going to 242 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:36,840 school and then it'll basically just drain my energy and then I won't be able 243 00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:43,080 to achieve my goals and so that's like if you're dissatisfied with the world 244 00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:49,640 around you then you'll be in conflict with the pendulums around you it's 245 00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:54,200 basically how it is when a person creates excess potential the impact of 246 00:26:54,200 --> 00:27:01,520 balanced forces it's aimed at reducing their influence on the world yeah I 247 00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:06,600 already touched on this but this is very important basically what it means 248 00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:12,400 is never create excess potential and you will be able to have more influence on 249 00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:17,760 the world and then you'll be able to achieve your goals and excess potential 250 00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:23,520 creates balancing for it's excess potential generates balancing forces but 251 00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:27,560 we create the excess potential so basically when we create excess potential 252 00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:32,760 we're basically creating the balancing forces to bring back the balance and I 253 00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:37,720 already touched on this with the scale if I idolize myself if I think that I'm 254 00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:42,720 more important than you are well then I'm destroying the balance and then I 255 00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:48,240 won't be able to achieve my goals then always look for the positive and every 256 00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:52,600 negative situation that I encounter I already touched on this multiple reasons 257 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:59,360 next no one has the right to judge but everyone has the freedom of choice yeah 258 00:27:59,360 --> 00:28:05,120 so that is no one has the right to judge and because of that if we judge we 259 00:28:05,120 --> 00:28:10,640 destroy the balance but everyone can choose their lot in life so everyone can 260 00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:17,400 choose to achieve everyone can choose to be a millionaire I can I'm gonna choose 261 00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:24,280 to be a millionaire I am going to choose to be in the top 1% of podcasters and I 262 00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:33,160 already chose that and it's already made so yeah that is crazy I'm in the top 1% 263 00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:41,960 of podcasters that's awesome all right if I if my intention is strong I will 264 00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:50,200 eventually get there that was referencing if you are trying to not get 265 00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:54,720 hooked by pendulums but then you get hooked by a pendulum and then you 266 00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:59,920 realize it just don't get mad just know that relax with the fact that if your 267 00:28:59,920 --> 00:29:04,160 intention is strong then you'll eventually get there which basically 268 00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:07,560 means if you keep keep at it you'll eventually not be affected by 269 00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:14,520 petulance and this is I wrote this in this position in this spot because that 270 00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:20,040 is true with all things like if you if your intention is strong so you make it 271 00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:26,120 a point to keep going at it then you will eventually get there so I made it a 272 00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:31,040 point to keep going at it for podcasting yesterday even though I didn't want to 273 00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:37,120 do it and I knew that I was feeling bad yesterday but I knew that soon I will 274 00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:44,040 get to a better position so I've gotten to a better position but now also I 275 00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:50,160 will also have made it a little bit further on my podcast journey and as 276 00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:54,640 long as I keep that mindset I will make it to whatever my goal is with 277 00:29:54,640 --> 00:30:00,640 podcasting I mean currently my I'm just doing it every day I don't really have a 278 00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:07,320 goal I just want to do it every day for a year but as I spoke about earlier in a 279 00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:14,200 couple of episodes back I said that don't make yourself the goal of doing it 280 00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:19,640 every day for a year just make yourself the task to do it every single day like 281 00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:23,160 add it to your routine because if you say I'm gonna do it every single day for 282 00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:28,400 a year that's a huge number that's 365 days but if you make yourself the goal 283 00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:32,160 to do it every day like you add it to your routine so you can do it easily 284 00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:36,600 every day well that's an easier number that's just one you just have to do it 285 00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:40,480 once and then your goal is complete and then you just do that every day and that's 286 00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:47,080 simple as that it's just routine and I mean so far it's working for me I'm on 287 00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:51,400 episode 23 so just see it 288 00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:59,480 to idolize something means to over stimulate it put it on a pedestal to 289 00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:05,560 worship it or to create an idol of it yeah I touch on idolizing and idolizing 290 00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:09,520 creates excess potential which is actually the next point idolizing creates 291 00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:18,440 excess potential and I feel as though a lot of people idolize a lot of things 292 00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:27,200 yeah that I could get into it but let me go the next thing judging people 293 00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:32,920 destroys balance thus creating excess potential I already touch on this when I 294 00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:37,560 judge I idolize myself yeah so when you judge someone you're basically saying I 295 00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:42,440 am superior to you like even though you're not saying it out loud if you 296 00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:46,320 judge someone you're basically telling yourself that you're the angel and 297 00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:49,920 they're the devil like you're basically saying I'm better than this person so 298 00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:54,280 I'm gonna judge them and so you're essentially idolizing yourself creating 299 00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:59,520 excess potential never scorn anyone I don't know what scorn it means but I've 300 00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:03,560 written it down a lot and I've said it a lot so I'm gonna look it up right now 301 00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:12,120 scorn definition the feeling or belief that someone or something is worthless 302 00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:22,600 or despicable contempt was contempt me the feeling that a person or a thing is 303 00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:28,880 beneath consideration okay yeah I actually understand now because never 304 00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:33,560 scorn anyone and then what some of the examples he gave in the book is do not 305 00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:40,040 scorn a homeless person because then you're gonna multiple things happen you 306 00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:44,720 you radiate thought energy and then the way to return balance because you 307 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:50,000 destroy balance by doing that you'll become homeless yourself if you do that 308 00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:54,880 so I don't want to come homeless so I'm going to not scorn a homeless person 309 00:32:54,880 --> 00:33:02,680 that's purely a selfish standpoint but a unselfish standpoint is don't scorn a 310 00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:08,200 homeless person because what do they do deserve it there that's their choice 311 00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:16,360 they're living like that is us wait why do we care or why do we care enough to 312 00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:24,360 scorn them it doesn't affect us so we should just move on you know feelings of 313 00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:28,920 superiority and inferiority create excess potential I already touched on 314 00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:33,800 that never compare myself to others I already touched on that let go of trying 315 00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:39,880 to control the world yeah this is one of the things that I needed to remind 316 00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:43,000 myself of when I was emailing my counselor yesterday I was trying to 317 00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:47,520 control everything I was trying to take control of my schedule and drop all my 318 00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:55,880 classes and it's bad to control the world because then you affect other 319 00:33:55,880 --> 00:34:04,440 people's desires but trans surfing offers a way to not affect other people's 320 00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:11,840 stuff the stronger I want something the less likely I am to get it yeah that's 321 00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:16,600 pretty much if you desire something so much well then you're just gonna be 322 00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:22,680 creating pure excess potential and you're never gonna get it because you're 323 00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:29,680 the way to create balance is to push it further and further away from your life 324 00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:35,880 the only type of desire that becomes reality so let me let me start with 325 00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:41,040 this desire is not a bad thing and that was one of the things that I thought 326 00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:46,800 when I was reading it the first way through desire is not bad I thought that 327 00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:51,480 it was bad and I was trying to reduce my desire but desire is not bad what is bad 328 00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:56,440 is the two other types of desires which I didn't write down but it's basically 329 00:34:56,440 --> 00:35:01,880 when you become dependent to that object of desire you that never becomes 330 00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:08,200 reality and also I forgot what the second one was but it doesn't really 331 00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:13,600 matter just know that the only type of desire that becomes reality is a strong 332 00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:19,000 desire transforms into the determined intention to have something and do 333 00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:26,720 whatever it takes to get it and this is because the energy of pure intention is 334 00:35:26,720 --> 00:35:31,360 all that it takes to achieve a goal pure intention is desire and action without 335 00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:38,160 the attribution attribution of importance so pretty much if you want to 336 00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:42,440 achieve your goal you have to have desire towards it and then turn that 337 00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:47,640 desire into a determined intention to have something and do whatever it takes 338 00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:56,360 to get it so just intend to have it and I'm not very explaining I'm not 339 00:35:56,360 --> 00:36:01,800 explaining intention very well because I haven't gotten to that part in the book 340 00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:06,280 on my second read through and I just have a fake understanding of it because 341 00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:10,240 I only read it once and I only read through it once but now I'm studying it 342 00:36:10,240 --> 00:36:16,720 and it's going in and out of my brain at least ten times but my first read 343 00:36:16,720 --> 00:36:21,520 through it only went in and out of my brain once or twice if I talked about it 344 00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:39,600 to my friend okay next page okay well that was the study session done now I'm 345 00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:45,200 getting into my notes from yesterday my yesterday study session the greater and 346 00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:50,400 the greater an event is valued the more likely it is to fall through in some way 347 00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:55,240 so that kind of goes hand-in-hand with the more you want something the less you 348 00:36:55,240 --> 00:37:02,920 are the less likely you are to get it and also if you value something so much 349 00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:08,280 so if I were to value going to funnel hacking live next September so much well 350 00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:12,640 that just creates excess potential because in the energetic field it's 351 00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:19,160 equal it's equal to me walking at a park and if I don't value going to a walk in 352 00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:27,560 the park a lot but I why would I so then why would I value the same level of going 353 00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:35,960 to an event as in September so that's basically that don't value something more 354 00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:42,640 than like just don't overvalue something because everything is equal on an 355 00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:52,480 energetic level you always get the things you love to hate so I don't really 356 00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:59,200 remember exactly what I was referring to but I think it's if you hate something 357 00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:06,200 so much you end up loving hate to hate it so then you're radiating that thought 358 00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:11,200 energy and then it just comes true and then you hate it even more is just as a 359 00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:21,880 cycle it becomes manifested into your world things can no more be good all the 360 00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:29,040 time then they can be bad all the time so that basically means I don't really 361 00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:33,120 know what that means because he said that you can ride the wave of fortune 362 00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:41,720 all the time I'm pretty sure so I'm not sure exactly what this sentence means 363 00:38:41,720 --> 00:38:48,760 but I think that means that you can't always have good times or else I won't 364 00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:56,280 have balance I don't know kill is pure excess potential yeah kill you're 365 00:38:56,280 --> 00:39:01,480 basically X you're basically admitting they did something bad and you're 366 00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:08,120 accepting punishment you're accepting to be punished but since none of that 367 00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:13,800 happened maybe you did something bad but since you're you haven't actually 368 00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:18,680 gotten punished just pure excess potential I don't think I'm explaining 369 00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:24,920 that very well but for the balance forces both good and bad deeds are 370 00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:37,080 equivalent so what that means is if I were to kiss or no let's say this if I 371 00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:45,840 were to give someone some flowers that would be a good deed or if I were to 372 00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:54,840 give someone some poisonous flowers that would be a bad deed but to balance 373 00:39:54,840 --> 00:40:00,320 forces those are equal you're not creating any you're not destroying 374 00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:05,600 balance at all by doing either of those but what happens is if I were to feel 375 00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:11,600 guilty about giving that person poisonous flowers well then I would be 376 00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:16,760 destroying balance and then that creates excess potential which will in 377 00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:21,360 turn reduce my influence in the world reducing my capabilities of achieving my 378 00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:31,920 goals so yeah just don't feel guilty but it also goes for the opposite is true if 379 00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:40,240 you were proud of yourself for so since guilt is the expectation of a punishment 380 00:40:40,240 --> 00:40:47,160 proud pride if you're proud of yourself that's expectation of a reward if you 381 00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:52,240 are proud of yourself for giving flowers to someone well then you're gonna be 382 00:40:52,240 --> 00:40:59,800 creating excess potential and deeper in the book I remember it gets into 383 00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:05,080 guardian angels so basically you give the pride to your guardian angel but 384 00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:11,680 keep the feeling of happiness or something like that that's like really 385 00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:17,520 deep into the book and I vaguely remember it but for now I think pride is 386 00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:29,680 not good to have just keep the feeling of happiness if you behaved badly became 387 00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:33,560 aware oh yeah this is what I just said if you became badly became aware of it 388 00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:38,820 and then started feeling guilty ie I should be punished you will have 389 00:41:38,820 --> 00:41:47,800 creative excess potential also if you acted well became aware of it and 390 00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:53,600 started feeling proud of yourself ie I should be rewarded then you will have 391 00:41:53,600 --> 00:42:01,480 created excess potential so yeah it's true for both cases all right now this 392 00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:09,480 morning study session was probably it was a very long study session I'm gonna 393 00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:14,720 get into it now feelings of guilt always produce a script that includes 394 00:42:14,720 --> 00:42:18,640 punishment I actually wrote that yesterday and not this morning I just 395 00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:24,640 wanted it just went on the next page so I added it feelings of guilt produce a 396 00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:30,480 script that includes punishment so back to what I said if you feel guilty you're 397 00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:35,280 basically saying I should be punished so your thought energy is attuning to a 398 00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:42,600 punishment in the future asking for forgive okay this is one of the things 399 00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:47,600 that I starred so it must be good asking for forgiveness emitting your 400 00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:52,800 mistakes praying for forgiveness and confession are all ways of eliminating 401 00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:59,520 the excess potential of guilt and only ask forgiveness once everyone has the 402 00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:04,520 right to ask for forgiveness once and only once if you ask for forgiveness 403 00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:09,560 once and then your guilt comes back up well you're not deserving of that so 404 00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:19,280 just drop the guilt eliminate the idea of potential punishment from your mind 405 00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:24,360 that's basically eliminating guilt personal independence and dignity are 406 00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:28,440 valued more highly than physical strength so what he was talking about 407 00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:36,640 was in there is this thing that happened in the old Russian Republic or some 408 00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:43,800 place like that I don't remember exactly what it was called but they would 409 00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:54,040 imprison the political criminals so I assume that means I don't know but they 410 00:43:54,040 --> 00:44:00,640 would imprison the political criminals in the same jail or the same prison as 411 00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:09,720 their public criminals so like their gang leaders like gang members drug 412 00:44:09,720 --> 00:44:16,120 dealers like a bunch of tough criminals like real criminals and what they what 413 00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:27,440 actually happened was the public the politicians those people had personal 414 00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:36,200 independence and dignity so they were actually valued more and they didn't 415 00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:41,800 feel guilty so they actually climbed the ladder of status in the prison and they 416 00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:45,440 became the leaders I'm not explaining this very well because I didn't write it 417 00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:55,240 down but I just remember vaguely reading it this morning the key to personal 418 00:44:55,240 --> 00:44:59,800 dignity is absence of guilt yeah so they didn't feel guilt so they were able to 419 00:44:59,800 --> 00:45:04,560 feel personal dignity all right and then I started this and wrote down remember 420 00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:09,400 no one has the right to judge me and I have the right to be myself yeah this is 421 00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:15,000 one of the points that he italicized so it's definitely important and it's 422 00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:20,480 you have the right to be yourself and no one has the right to judge you so just 423 00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:26,400 do whatever you you want to be yourself because once you be yourself no one will 424 00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:30,920 dare to judge you it's only you that let them judge you and it's only you that 425 00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:35,920 judge yourself first that gives them permission so just drop the feelings of 426 00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:44,200 guilt and be yourself all right so this is about money upcoming is about money 427 00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:50,680 and I wrote remember and I started be happy if money has come to me but never 428 00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:56,200 kill myself worrying about not having enough money or spending it or else I 429 00:45:56,200 --> 00:46:02,080 will have less and less so don't worry about not having enough money or spending 430 00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:06,880 it one because it's pointless to it creates excess potential three it 431 00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:13,040 attunes your lifeline and it tunes your thought energy to lifelines of having 432 00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:17,840 less and less money so you will actually get less and less money if you worry 433 00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:27,200 about not having enough or worry about spending it when you spend money just 434 00:46:27,200 --> 00:46:34,000 accept like feel good about that and don't feel guilty 435 00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:42,040 number one accept and enjoy what money I have remember things could always be 436 00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:48,840 worse number two take the position of the gambler who could at any moment just as 437 00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:54,360 easily hit the jackpot as lose everything I was actually talking about 438 00:46:54,360 --> 00:47:01,200 this with my friend today and since we have no money but we feel as though we 439 00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:04,680 don't want to risk anything there really is nothing to risk it's just our brains 440 00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:10,840 telling us it's our brains holding us back so at any moment we could just as 441 00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:14,320 easily hit the jackpot as lose everything but it wouldn't matter if we 442 00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:18,560 lost everything because we have nothing so there's nothing to lose but we could 443 00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:24,600 hit the jackpot so yeah number three be careful about my goals focus on my goals 444 00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:30,800 not on money money is a pendulum's payment so basically money is a 445 00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:40,840 byproduct of creating money is like a an attribute an extra attribute of it 446 00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:47,200 follows you as you create the path to your goal so don't focus on money or 447 00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:53,240 else you'll be it that just never works focus on what you want so for me I'm 448 00:47:53,240 --> 00:47:57,920 focused on surfing I'm not focusing on money because I don't care about money I 449 00:47:57,920 --> 00:48:04,520 want to surf but obviously I do care about money because that's how I could 450 00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:13,640 get to surfing but that's not trance surfing you focus on the goal if I have 451 00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:18,020 placed the likelihood of achieving my goal on the condition of getting rich 452 00:48:18,020 --> 00:48:22,280 first drop that condition fast yeah so that's what basically what me and my 453 00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:27,400 friend were doing this past like month maybe we were thinking oh we're gonna 454 00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:31,960 get rich first and then we're gonna be happy or we're gonna get rich first and 455 00:48:31,960 --> 00:48:38,880 then we're gonna achieve our goals yeah no don't do that that doesn't mean that 456 00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:44,440 I'm stopping working on my business it just means that I'm not focusing on 457 00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:52,080 getting money this is what this one I wrote remember in big letters and started 458 00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:58,240 it is not that the goal is achieved with the help of money but rather the money 459 00:48:58,240 --> 00:49:06,360 that follows as you create the path to your goal so what that means is you 460 00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:16,880 don't achieve your goal by using money you get the money you get the money on 461 00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:25,040 the path to achieving your goal yeah I still don't really understand it that 462 00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:33,440 much but yeah all right we're do okay so this reduce the importance of capital 463 00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:40,760 to a minimum think only of the thing that I want to achieve yeah so drop the 464 00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:45,480 importance on money money is not important all right so this next section 465 00:49:45,480 --> 00:49:55,600 is on importance and importance is just pure excess potential importance is the 466 00:49:55,600 --> 00:50:00,160 most common cause of excess potential importance arises when something is 467 00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:08,260 attributed excess meaning so I talked on that everything is equal in the 468 00:50:08,260 --> 00:50:14,440 energetic level but it's us that give a hundred dollar more meaning than a piece 469 00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:20,200 of paper so even though they're both equal on an energetic level and even on 470 00:50:20,200 --> 00:50:24,880 a material level I would argue but it's us that gives the hundred dollar value 471 00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:33,200 more meaning and more important so that's more excess potential importance 472 00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:39,960 represents excess potential and pure form there are two forms of importance 473 00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:46,200 inner and outer importance so inner or personal importance represents an 474 00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:52,840 overestimation of my own virtues or shortcomings and the formula is I am an 475 00:50:52,840 --> 00:51:05,520 important person or I do important work so putting or puffing my chest up and 476 00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:11,160 sticking my nose in the air is only one side of the coin the other is the 477 00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:18,800 opposite excessive modesty modesty and self deprecation so yeah you can think 478 00:51:18,800 --> 00:51:22,960 you're all that you create access potential but if you think you're 479 00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:27,440 nothing you're so you're also creating access potential so both sides like 480 00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:32,640 balancing forces don't care whether it's positive or negative it's off-balance 481 00:51:32,640 --> 00:51:43,840 then you're creating access potential outer importance is created when a 482 00:51:43,840 --> 00:51:48,840 person attributes huge meaning to an object or event taking place in the 483 00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:54,360 external world the formula is such-and-such means an awful lot to me so 484 00:51:54,360 --> 00:52:01,440 getting a surfboard they are no my surfboard means so much to me I don't 485 00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:06,240 actually have a surfboard but let's say I did I would say my surfboard means so 486 00:52:06,240 --> 00:52:12,000 much to me it's super important I clean it every day I'm extremely obsessive 487 00:52:12,000 --> 00:52:16,960 over it that's pure access potential something will happen to my surfboard 488 00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:23,400 that's the only way to bring balance to it and the other way is it is really 489 00:52:23,400 --> 00:52:28,200 important to me to do such-and-such so I already talked about this it's really 490 00:52:28,200 --> 00:52:32,440 important to me to go to funnel hacking life that's pure access potential 491 00:52:32,440 --> 00:52:40,720 something will fall through effect if I think that way for outer importance it 492 00:52:40,720 --> 00:52:47,500 is harder to control so a safety net is required so inner importance you can 493 00:52:47,500 --> 00:52:53,760 control your inner importance you can change the fact that I am you can change 494 00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:58,280 your thoughts you can stop thinking so highly of yourself or so lowly of 495 00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:05,480 yourself but let's say you were asked this is the example he gave in the book 496 00:53:05,480 --> 00:53:11,680 you were asked to walk across a wooden plank on the floor yeah really easy 497 00:53:11,680 --> 00:53:16,720 anyone could do that but let's say you were asked to walk across that same 498 00:53:16,720 --> 00:53:26,560 wooden plank but instead it was suspended over two buildings two roofs 499 00:53:26,560 --> 00:53:34,360 of two buildings so you're basically walking across that plank super high up 500 00:53:34,360 --> 00:53:42,000 in the sky well you're gonna create a lot of outer importance on that and 501 00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:47,960 then balance will be destroyed and so X the balancing forces will either push 502 00:53:47,960 --> 00:53:59,640 you off or keep you on or there's that I think but it'll probably push you off 503 00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:08,880 it's just that that's the easiest way to return balance and so but if you want 504 00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:16,760 to destroy outer importance and reduce the excess potential just get a net put 505 00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:22,120 a net under that and then you'll be like oh okay they just put a safety net under 506 00:54:22,120 --> 00:54:28,560 it and then you'll survive like if you fall so then it won't matter if you fall 507 00:54:28,560 --> 00:54:33,960 you won't be creating that outer importance so the most important thing 508 00:54:33,960 --> 00:54:42,840 is not to place everything on one side of the scales there has to be some kind 509 00:54:42,840 --> 00:54:48,000 of counterbalance protection or alternative plan and those are safety 510 00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:57,240 nets for outer importance all unbalanced feelings are all manifestation of 511 00:54:57,240 --> 00:55:05,760 importance yeah so guilt scorn contempt judgment superiority inferiority that's 512 00:55:05,760 --> 00:55:14,560 all just importance just different representations this one I said remember 513 00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:20,560 excess potential is only created when you attribute excess importance to an 514 00:55:20,560 --> 00:55:27,680 object or event that exists inside or outside of your yourself of yourself excuse 515 00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:30,560 me I'm gonna get some water 516 00:55:44,600 --> 00:55:49,840 projected importance creates excess potential which calls forth the winds of 517 00:55:49,840 --> 00:55:56,480 balanced forces to return to a condition of harmony with the rest of the world 518 00:55:56,480 --> 00:56:02,320 and free myself from the burden of the pendulum I have to be able to diminish 519 00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:09,440 importance yeah importance is the only obstacle in your path to your goal 520 00:56:10,560 --> 00:56:15,680 remember I have to be able to keep my inner guardian from dozing off so that 521 00:56:15,680 --> 00:56:19,960 it can observe the level of importance I place on myself in the world around me 522 00:56:19,960 --> 00:56:24,920 this is one thing that I was talking about talking about with my friend today 523 00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:33,360 at the park so I actually he's he talks about you your inner guardian has to 524 00:56:33,360 --> 00:56:38,440 keep an eye on your levels importance I actually agree but I think your inner 525 00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:44,920 guardian is much much more than that and I feel as though he knows too I haven't 526 00:56:44,920 --> 00:56:48,800 gotten to the part where he talks about that but your inner guardian basically 527 00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:57,400 keeps you awake keeps you present and it also makes sure that you're not creating 528 00:56:57,400 --> 00:57:06,960 excess potential like it watches your levels of importance and it's just 529 00:57:06,960 --> 00:57:14,440 anything it's anytime you're trying to stay vigilant about something your inner 530 00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:19,360 guardian basically does everything for you and you have to make sure that you 531 00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:27,840 just have to treat it good make it so it doesn't doze off by reducing the level 532 00:57:27,840 --> 00:57:32,720 of importance I place on things I immediately reestablish a state of 533 00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:37,280 balance yeah because you're you're stopping the thing that's causing on 534 00:57:37,280 --> 00:57:44,400 balance the emptiness which is emptiness is absence of excess potential so the 535 00:57:44,400 --> 00:57:51,840 emptiness gives pendulums nothing to hook on to and consequently no means of 536 00:57:51,840 --> 00:57:58,240 establishing control over me so if you don't have excess potential which means 537 00:57:58,240 --> 00:58:04,000 that you'll have importance then pendulums cannot hook on to you and 538 00:58:04,000 --> 00:58:08,840 control you or steal your energy 539 00:58:08,840 --> 00:58:16,880 it is futile to fight my emotions emotion stems from attitude so rather 540 00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:21,360 than fighting my emotions it is more purposeful to change my attitude yeah I 541 00:58:21,360 --> 00:58:27,080 talked about that earlier also feelings and emotions are simply a consequence of 542 00:58:27,080 --> 00:58:32,360 my relationship or attitude to something that attitude is caused by one thing 543 00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:41,120 importance yeah so just watch your importance once you let go of inner and 544 00:58:41,120 --> 00:58:48,600 outer importance you obtain the freedom of choice yeah this is like the biggest 545 00:58:48,600 --> 00:58:58,400 piece of information across the entire beginning part of his book in order to 546 00:58:58,400 --> 00:59:02,240 attain the freedom of choice which everyone has freedom of choice but we 547 00:59:02,240 --> 00:59:07,600 just don't know how to use it so the way to get it is to let go of inner and 548 00:59:07,600 --> 00:59:15,360 outer importance all importance we attribute to things is a projection yeah 549 00:59:15,360 --> 00:59:20,600 because it's not actually that important and I said remember the only obstacle on 550 00:59:20,600 --> 00:59:25,520 the path to fulfilling my desires is the protection is projection of artificial 551 00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:38,600 importance alright so today I just went over a lot of the principles of 552 00:59:38,600 --> 00:59:45,800 trans surfing and if you're not convinced right now to get the book I'll 553 00:59:45,800 --> 00:59:50,640 tell you if you think that any of these principles will benefit your life at all 554 00:59:50,640 --> 00:59:55,840 just go buy the book because you're just gonna forget about this stuff because 555 00:59:55,840 --> 01:00:02,040 there's a quote that I heard that I read one time and you hear something you 556 01:00:02,040 --> 01:00:06,480 forget it if you see something you remember it if you do something you 557 01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:13,680 understand it so if I were to hear a podcast about trans surfing I would 558 01:00:13,680 --> 01:00:17,960 just forget what what it said and I actually listened to a video the other 559 01:00:17,960 --> 01:00:24,520 day about trans surfing I forgot all about it and but if you see something 560 01:00:24,520 --> 01:00:29,880 you remember it so if you read the book you'll remember that stuff but once you 561 01:00:29,880 --> 01:00:35,360 actually take action once you read that book and then take action on it then you 562 01:00:35,360 --> 01:00:40,840 will begin to understand it and that is why I'm starting to understand a lot a 563 01:00:40,840 --> 01:00:45,600 lot more because I feel as though writing it down on a piece of paper is 564 01:00:45,600 --> 01:00:51,120 kind of like taking action so you're actually beginning to understand it a 565 01:00:51,120 --> 01:00:56,080 little bit more but it's not until you actually take action for real until you 566 01:00:56,080 --> 01:01:00,600 actually understand a lot a lot more and I agree because I'm taking action a lot 567 01:01:00,600 --> 01:01:06,640 of the principles now that I didn't before and I understand it a lot more 568 01:01:06,640 --> 01:01:12,480 and I I'm able to explain it a lot better than I was even like five days 569 01:01:12,480 --> 01:01:20,640 ago to wrap things up don't forget to download your favorite episodes and 570 01:01:20,640 --> 01:01:26,080 subscribe to the ascend momentum show but before you guys leave make sure to 571 01:01:26,080 --> 01:01:42,840 remember the Eagles