So the big question is this, how do young men like us who didn't listen to society
who are on our own, how do we grow and improve ourselves so that we can love a better tomorrow?
That is the question and this show will give you the answers.
My name is James Radzinski and welcome to The Ascend Momentum Show.
Welcome back everyone. So let me tell you yesterday in my consulting business where I am
going, I'm trying to build a funnel for local businesses. My critical task was to go in person
and try and get my first client in person and then I just didn't do it. I lied to myself and
told myself that I wanted to study reality trans surfing instead.
And my friend slowly but surely without hurting my ego brought it to my attention and then
got then over time I was able to realize that I got to do it today. And so I did it today and the
first place that I went to I was super nervous and I was biking there and I did my research beforehand.
I like looked up what each of their names were. I was super nervous biking there and I was super
nervous once I was actually walking over to the store and it was closed and so I was like oh what a
relief but then I was also a little bit disappointed too. And so I was thinking to myself oh well
there it is that was my task today but then I realized that man that was that did not count.
I just biked over to a store and then didn't do anything. So then I found another my second
dream customer and biked over there and the person was actually there it was actually open
and I talked to the owner and I she wrote down my number and my name because she was busy at the
moment and was going to text me for another time to talk. So that's good. Hopefully it's good.
Hopefully she wasn't just respectfully rejecting my offer but it's looking good. Hopefully she'll
text me and we can move things forward from there because I really believe that once I get my first
client I'm just set free because then I'll work super hard to get that first client some good
traffic and then show right me a good review because I'll do it for free and then once I do that then
I'll be able to charge a lot of money. So let me tell you what one of today's lessons is and it's
something that I needed to remind myself today and I did remind myself when it mattered and it was
a concept that I learned about in Reality Transurfing a book by written by Vadim Zelland
and that concept is it's basically where you do things as if you are grabbing
your mail from the mailbox. You do things with the same emotion as you were grabbing your mail
from the mailbox. So when you go and get your mail you just get it like there's no emotion tied
to it you just go and grab it just like it's normal it's just how it is. So think to yourself
how you feel, act and how you're thinking when you grab your mail to the mailbox and that's how you
should do most things when you're that's how you should do things and I've only read it one time
through and I haven't read that part yet so on my second time through so I'm not very knowledgeable
on this topic yet but I think that you're supposed to do that when you're doing important work
and today I tried my hardest to while I was going to the business I was trying my hardest to
do it as if I was grabbing my mail and it was tough and I definitely did not do it as if I was
grabbing my mail but it definitely helped me through the experience and that was that was one thing
that got me through the experience. Another thing is I'll explain to you in story format.
I've already explained I've already told the story before on my podcast
but I'm going to explain it again. So there's this have you heard of this thing called LOA
law of attraction right? Well there's also this other thing called law of advancement
and what that law says is you must go down before you go up everything that goes down will come up
think this law applies to everything in nature so think a house you have to dig
the found you have to dig a hole so you go down and then you get to fill it and fill the foundation
and then before you can start going up to build the actual house so that is one thing you everything
must go down before it comes up and I want you to think about another thing think about a seed
and this is a tree seed so it will grow into a tree if it wants to grow into a tree it doesn't
just go straight up and grow into a tree right where does it go it goes down and spreads its roots
so it goes down and spreads its roots and then goes up into a tree so it must go down before it
can actually go up now I want to tell you a quick story real quick there were two eagles
and they were pregnant the wife was like honey we're pregnant and the father was like oh that's
amazing news let's go build a nest so they go fly over to the tree build a nest and they have four
eagles four baby eagles and though they're sorry my there's dogs and upstairs and it's distracting
I'm sorry guys but let me keep going with the story there are four eagles right and the mom
flies in every day to bring them food and all the babies are like mom when we can we learn how to
fly can we learn how to fly and the mom is like no not today and then the next day rolls around
mom flies in and brings in some food that the babies see that the mom can fly and they're
amazed they want they want it for themselves and they're like mom can you teach us how to fly can
we learn how to fly and the mom is like no and then this repeats for 20 days and then on the 20th
day the mom flies in gives them food and then the babies are like mom can you teach us how to fly
the mom is like no not today but tomorrow is your first lesson
so tomorrow's by all the babies all the baby eagles are none of them slept
because they're so excited they're so excited to start learning how to fly and they fight over who
gets to go first and during the first lesson the mom puts the mom puts the first baby eaglet on her
back and then she starts flying and the baby goes higher higher mom higher the mom goes higher and
higher and higher and then eventually woohoo the mom turns over and drops the eagle and so the eagle
is falling to its death falling to the ground and he's screaming he's like mom why i'm gonna die
i'm gonna die and then he's super scared he's like extremely scared and then right before he lands
on the ground the mom swoops up and catches him and saves him and so the the baby is like
why would you do this why why the baby was super scared and sad and like feels almost betrayed and
so that he tells his brothers and sisters don't don't try don't do it she's evil and one by one
they all have their first lesson and then that same experience happens with all of them so
then the next day rolls around and they're all planning a mutant being right they're all trying
they're all trying to overthrow their mother because they don't want that experience to happen on the
day two training so day two rolls by and the mother says it's time to start start time for day two
practice and so they're all like no no and then the mom forces the first one to go and then the
same experience happened the mother flies super high and then drops the baby the baby is extremely
scared fall into his death and then suddenly last second she swoops up and saves him so this
experience happens with all the siblings for 20 days and then on the 20th day they're all
super scared still because they're falling to their death every day and then on the 20th day
they the first lesson happens and they go up up up and then she drops the baby and then this time
it was different the baby eagles wings the wind caught the wings just perfectly to where he started
gliding and then he realized that he could fly and so now he started flying over to his home he
started flying back to the nest and the same experience happened with all of them they were
all able to fly now so this whole thing teaches us that in order for you to learn how to fly you
the baby the eagles don't learn how to fly by going up up up like how in the beginning of the
lessons the mother would fly up and up and up that wasn't teaching them how to fly in reality
they were learning how to fly by falling down down down and then they were able to after a while
of falling down they were able to actually start flying up up up so that's the that's the learning
curve actually you go down and then you go to go up and so baby eagles success rate for learning
how to fly is 100 percent now humans success rate on the other hand is 3 percent now why do you think
that is well it's because we have choice we get to choose what we become so think about an oak tree
an oak tree does not get to choose what it becomes it could be cut down and turned into
toothpicks it could be turned into a wooden plank it could be turned into a chair little bit
toothpicks are worthless a wooden plank is a little bit more valuable a chair is a little
bit more valuable or it can be turned into an eight million dollar cello or a piece of music
instrument and that is worthless to some people or that that is priceless to some people sorry about
that but what I'm trying to say is the oak tree doesn't have choice of what it gets to become
it gets to become whatever someone else chooses it to become and that could either be a toothpick
worthless or it could be an eight million dollar cello played by the world's most famous amazing
musician and that is priceless so what I'm trying to say is the tree could either become worthless
or it could become amazing but it doesn't have choice it can't choose either or
or someone else chooses for him and this applies to us because we only see eagles succeed 100%
of time but we only succeed 3% of time because we have choice so are you gonna choose to be a
toothpick or are you gonna choose to be an eight million dollar cello and it really is a choice
and it boils down to choice most people choose to be toothpicks chairs some worthless stuff
some terrible like not even good but you but 3% of people get to 3% of people choose to become that
million dollar cello three and that's what the 1% is that's why 1% of the world is like
has a lot of the money and the 0.01% of the world has most of the money those people chose that
they didn't get it on accident like the oak tree accidentally turned into a toothpick they
chose it and they did it on purpose and right now we're all choosing whatever we get everything you
get is because you chose to get that thing so that whole story starting at the law of attraction
I heard from an amazing speaker named Myron Golden and if you have the opportunity to listen to him
speak he is outstanding now I haven't heard him speak out outside of other things but I did hear
him speak at Russell Brunson's your first funnel challenge and he he was amazing
he talks about mindset and all kinds of things he's also like he's really into business too so
he talks about business as well so in my studies this morning while studying expert secrets this
morning I realized that there's one thing that is an extremely valuable tool that I've been
I've been trying to use a lot and it's when you're teaching something if you when you're
teaching something you teach first you introduce the topic and then second you tell a story of how
you earned it or learned it and what this does is it builds the value to it builds the value of
that thing that you're sharing because people won't see the value in that thing that you're sharing
unless they see what it took for you to get that thing and once they see that piece then they can
realize that oh I want to save myself from that so I will I'll be able to listen to what you're
saying and actually see it with more value and then once you explain that story you go into
the strategy of it so just the outline the overview and then you go into the tactics one by one like
each step by step the tactics like how it's actually done and then lastly you explain
social proof and that social proof is how it has affected other people other than you so that's
one thing that I need to work on in my in my consulting business because I feel as though
people when I go up to them and I say hey I want to build a funnel for you they don't really know
what it means and I and I don't tell them the story I don't teach them that piece of content
well I just go up and say I want to build a funnel for you and hope that they say yes even
though they won't actually see the value until I explain it to you to explain it to them and show it
to them sorry guys I just had to take a quick break and use the restroom so what I was talking about was
I need to start teaching that my frameworks better when I'm when I'm going to their business
because right now people don't know what a funnel is and they don't see the value of it but I see
the value of it and I need to teach them the value of it or else they just won't they won't accept
the deal because they don't see what's in it for them even though it could potentially be a million
dollar opportunity it could even be more than that that's how valuable funnels are but I am not
doing a good job for training and it's this is why this is good that I'm going to their businesses
because to be honest I'm really shy and I'm an introvert and I get I think I have social anxiety
anxiety because I'm like really nervous around people that I don't know and I when I was walking
into the rest the the flower shop today that I went to I was super nervous and I think that she
could tell and she did a good job but she basically carried me in that conversation because she was
like oh well how about I get your number then we can text the details later and so that was very good
I don't know if she did that on purpose or she was just trying to reject me reject my opportunity
respectfully which that is not a possibility for sure too but either way it's good that I'm doing
this because I'm getting out of my comfort zone and it's like super uncomfortable and nerve racking
for me to do this but I'm growing more and more because and I know that I am because when I first
started cold calling when I did my first cold call I was super nervous and I was like
contemplating whether I should do it or not do it for like a decent amount of time and then
now I can cold call people pretty easily I still have a little bit of nerves but not nearly as much
as I did the first time and so I believe that the more I go in person and try and sell my opportunity
to people the better I'll get at it essentially and that's really what self-improvement is you just
got to keep working on it you'll suck in the beginning but eventually you'll suck so little you'll
actually be good I that I kind of butchered that quote but that was from Garrett J. White
who I haven't really consumed much of his content but I but I heard of him through Russell's stuff
and I watched him speak at your first funnel challenge and he's the real deal I really look
up to him even though I haven't really looked into him that much
so today I have I probably did the two hardest things I wouldn't say the
going to the growth the business in person was the hardest one of the hardest things I've done
but it was definitely one of the most one of the most uncomfortable and hardest things that I've
done in my life and the other hardest thing that I've ever done was lately me and my friend
I'm going to tell you a quick story real quick but just to give some context but
lately me and my friend have been climbing a lot of trees we hang out every single day at the park
and we climb trees barefoot and no shirts so we're only wearing underwear and shorts
and we just climb trees and hang out up there and it's fun because we're with nature
and climbing trees are really good for you and
and yesterday we climbed the hardest tree we'd ever done which was usually we only climb trees
where we can reach the bottom we can reach a bottom branch but yesterday for some reason
we chose to climb a tree that was not the bottom branch was not reachable so my strategy was to
bare crawl like basically hug the tree and inch my way up and mind you I was I was just wearing
shorts I wasn't wearing a shirt or anything and so I was getting cut up the tree was scratching me up
tearing up my skin on the way up but then I made it and that was an awesome achievement
but it did take the toll on my skin because my skin got cut up and then while we were on top of
that tree we were up there for we were probably sitting up there for like at least 30 minutes
maybe longer and just chilling and we saw this tree right next to the tree that we were on
and it was an even more difficult tree the lowest branch was even higher than that first tree that
we climbed so we had to bear crawl even higher all the way up and the type of the texture of the log
was even more tough so it would tear up our skin even more and so we were just like let's climb
that tomorrow and we said that yesterday and so today came around and I climbed it I went all the way
up and I was just inching my way up it probably took me I don't even know how long it took me to
climb up felt like two minutes maybe three minutes but it was probably only like a minute or two and
that skin tore up my skin a lot and it was very painful I didn't really bleed that much just like
on my legs and my feet but other but my like entire stomach and all of my arms are like cut up
not bleeding but like the skin is torn up and that that was I was able to climb it and that was one
of the hardest things I've done all summer maybe not all my life but definitely all summer and
because think about it I was basically hugging the tree with my legs and I was just squeezing it
with my legs and my arms and then squeezing super hard with my legs and then moving my arms up a
little bit and then squeezing super hard with my arms and then moving my legs up a little bit and
I would just inch up like that like an earthworm and slowly but surely after a lot of pain I made
it up my first try and that was one of the hardest things ever because first of all that but also my
it's probably because I'm deficient in some nutrient but after I did that my arms felt
super weak like more weak than they ever felt and they like hurt they were like they felt like they
were on fire you know it wasn't my arm like my skin or my bicep or my tricep it was kind of like the
meat around my my elbow almost and so that was an extremely painful thing just sitting up there and
so then I eventually went down and that was going down hurt just as much as coming up because it
was too high of a drop to just land and drop with my drop just normal because I wasn't wearing shoes
and also it's just too high of a drop anyways too high of a fall I would have like broke my leg
and so I essentially went I've hung off the lowest branch and then hugged the trunk with my legs and
then let go and quickly grab the trunk with my arms and then I was essentially sliding down the
branch like I would slide down a rope imagine getting rope burn but sliding down a tree trunk
and that was me today and it like tore me up again and then halfway through I was able to
just jump off and it's because I was low enough to fall down
and that like tore up my that tore up my skin a lot and then plus my both of my arms were
extremely weak and in pain and that lasted for probably 20 minutes well probably longer I don't
know how long let me tell you the next part of the story so then we walked all the way over to
back to the grass uh the sunny grass area where we usually hang out at the park and then
we just like got some water and then laid down and then we started meditating just in the sun in
the grass laying down just trying to relax my entire body laying down on my back and
and relaxing my body eased the pain a little bit and then you know what happened so we were
let me paint the picture first we were in the middle of the park it was like a soccer field
and we were just laying down not moving at all with our eyes closed laying on our backs
in the grass with no shirt no shoes and I was my skin was all cut up too maybe they saw that
but someone called the cops and we didn't see who did but the cop like while we were in the middle
of the meditation well while we were in the middle of the meditation the cop was like are you guys
okay and I had no idea there's a cop and I like got up and I realized that there was a cop talking
to us and we were like oh yeah and so he was like you guys live here around here and we were like
yeah and then he was like this is a wellness check someone we got a call from someone to check in on
you guys and so he checked in on us and he was we were basically like we're just meditating and then
he was like okay and then he left so it was nothing no big deal we didn't break any laws or anything but
that was just something funny that happened and so we were in the middle of that meditation maybe
10 15 minutes and we both got pretty started to get pretty deep into it we were just getting into
the deep meditation and my arms felt a little bit less on fire so that was good after that
meditation but they were still hurting just enough to where it was really uncomfortable to concentrate
and focus so that after a little bit of talking about what just happened and just life in general
we just went back into meditation and then that time we were meditating a lot longer and I essentially
healed my arms I don't know if they would have healed anyways probably would have but I like to think
that I healed my arms in the meditation because they they didn't hurt that like after that last
meditation and we got super deep into it again no new crazy lessons learned like I did yesterday if
you haven't checked out episode 14 I believe it is yesterday's episode that episode is probably the
best episode that I have recorded out of my entire podcast so I highly recommend that if you go and
listen to that and pretty much let me tell you when I was when we first went to the park this morning
before we climbed the tree I told them that I failed my critical task yesterday and my critical task
yesterday was to go to a local business and sell to them in person and I explained this earlier
and I told him that I told my friend that I failed yesterday's task and then just over time
uh we he was slowly giving me an epiphany and then in that second meditation that I had today
after the cop um interrupted us in the second meditation I was just thinking about that I was
thinking about my critical task and how I was just pushing it off and all of that and I was
essentially just running a slide in my head which was just a scene in my head of me actually going
to the right the store and being successful and that helped expand my comfort zone to where when
I actually got out of the meditation my friend was like so what's your critical task today
and I instantly said I'm doing it today because earlier I said that I was pushing it off till
tomorrow and then I just said I was doing it today and I did it today and it was worth it
because I was scared and I was just trying to put it off till tomorrow and I was going to be scared
tomorrow so I might as well have done it today and I grew from it so that's good and it'll be even
better once she respond once she texts me for a time to actually communicate and talk about what
the offer is so there's I've been studying reality transfer a lot lately
and that's probably been one of the best things that I've ever done done in self-improvement
first read that book and then also second study it my second time through
that book essentially teaches you how to win at life like there's nothing more to it just teaches
you how to win at life teaches the best way to do everything when it comes to life and teaches you
how to achieve your goals like legit achieve your goals and I haven't achieved my goal yet
but I will and by the time I'm famous and you guys come back to the first couple episodes and
rewatch my entire podcast binge listen you guys will see that this guy was podcasting while he was
poor while he was broke and he was he believed that he will be a millionaire and now he is a
millionaire because you guys will be listening in the future so reality transfer fin is even if
even let's just say hypothetical which will never happen but even if I don't achieve my goals
reality transfer fin is still the best thing that I've ever done because I'm way happier in life now
I'm just way happier I don't let things get to me anymore and that's what reality transfer fin teaches
you literally in the first couple pages or not maybe not pages but first couple chapters like
definitely in chapter two it teaches you how to not teaches you to not
not not give so much anger not be so angry and all that basically how to be detached from
pendulums which pendulums are I'm still trying to wrap my head around the concept and this is my
second time reading it pendulums are like us information or an enter energy structure that
is born when
people's thought energy are united but a pendulum is also us everything around us in a
is pendulum in fact the world can be seen as the ebb and flow of pendulums the there
was oscillation of pendulums just swaying back and forth the world can be seen as every
like the oscillating of all pendulums everything this world can be seen as oscillating pendulums
and I didn't understand that I didn't even know what that was the first time I was reading it but
now the second time reading it through I understand it a lot more I definitely don't understand it
completely but I understand a lot more and now now I am able to more efficiently and more
or better just better in general at living life and applying transfer fee because every moment you
spend practicing the transfer fee
you are consciously moving towards your goals and that's just one thing that I've been
and I've really been repeating to myself lately because especially today I needed to hear it because
I was using transfer fee while I was doing that uncomfortable thing of going to a local business
and trying to pitch them my business and help them out so I was using my transfer
fee techniques while also using just pure inner intention which is your like what you do
sorry if you guys can hear that my grandparents brought their dog and now my dog and that dog
are playing upstairs oh wow now they're coming down here sorry guys
and they're just playing sorry let me uh let me end this real quick
the dogs just ran down here I should have closed the door
I only have one dog but my grandma my grandma's dog is here now too
I I deal with it they might come back but what I was saying about pendulum and studying
reality transfer fee so studying reality transfer fee is really one of the best things that I've
ever done in combination with meditating and these past couple episodes I know they've all
been about essentially studying reality transfer and meditating but really this is one of the best
self-improvement things that I've ever done because reality transfer fee alone is powerful
but in combination with consistent daily meditation like I meditate in the morning and at night and
sometimes during the day so I'm getting over an hour of meditation every day and I I know for a fact
that just from experience and from my friends experience too that meditating plus transfer fee
is essentially how you win at life like you can achieve whatever you want
as long as you're studying reality transfer fee and meditating and what I mean by studying
is not just reading I made the mistake of just reading it through and trying to read as much
pages as possible I was reading like 50 pages a day towards the end of my first read through
and I was reading for like five six seven hours every day and my brain was fried
during those times and really I don't think I retained that much information so it was really
just a waste of time I still it was still very valuable to me but it was not the most efficient
time so now I'm only studying maybe 30 to an hour in the morning of expert secrets and then 30
to an hour at night before my nighttime routine of reality transfer fee and when I am studying I am
I bought an extra notebook like a whole brand new notebook for each of my books so I have a notebook
that I labeled dot com secrets a label a notebook that I labeled expert secrets and one that I labeled
reality transfer fee and those are the three books that I'm really only reading right now for the time
being I haven't started dot com because I'm reading expert and reality first and I want to keep the
maximum amount of books I'm reading at time to two and so when I'm reading then I read until
I see something read something that I know I'll need and I know I want to memorize or keep in my
I want to actually retain so I write it I write that down and I explain it and then
I maybe sometimes I draw a picture representing it so today in expert secrets I was reading his
chapter on teaching frameworks teaching your frameworks so essentially how to teach and
I realized that that lesson was that chapter alone was so valuable that I actually I actually
first read it yesterday and then I also read it today and I wrote down a bunch of stuff about it
wrote my own pictures out and then guess what I write it again so I probably write it four
times by now total and I might even read it again tomorrow that's how valuable it is
and so that's what I mean by studying it you don't worry about what page number you're on at the
end of the day don't worry about how much you're reading your time just make sure you're getting
in a fit you set a timer I set a timer for 30 minutes and just get a an efficient study session
where you're reading and writing things down and then at the end of the day while I'm icing my
balls yes you heard that right I ice my balls with an ice pack and look into it because it
increases your testosterone that's a topic for another day though so I'm not going to get into
that so while I'm icing my balls for 10 minutes I reread all of my journals of all my study sessions
at nighttime and in the morning when I'm icing my balls in the morning I read my journal from the
night before because I journal every day so in the morning I'm reading my journal that I'm journaling
just that's just normal journaling and then at night I'm rereading my studies my study journals
and so what that does is it also plus while I'm journaling at night I answer six questions before
I actually start journaling the first is what did I do today to move towards my goals the second is
what is that actually helping or am I just uh distracting myself the third question is
am I doing enough the fourth question is what should I do tomorrow the fifth question is what did I
learn in my first study session so what did I learn in expert secrets and then I basically recap the
most valuable stuff that I learned that day in my journaling and then the sixth question is what did
I learn in my second study session which is reality transfer fee and I recap that too so I am constantly
reminding myself and rereading and re-explaining all of the different things I probably hey let
me count so I read it first in the morning I write it down and then this is if I'm only reading it
once and then at night time I read it and then I write it again and then the next morning I read it
again so essentially I'm instead of just passively reading like most people do and what I did before
where I would only the information would only pass through my brain once essentially now my all the
information is passing through my brain at least five times it's passing through my brain five times
so that gives me five chances to retain and then it also gives me five opportunities to solidify
and connect all the information because after I'm done reading the first time and studying I do a
meditation so that solidifies it also so what I'm trying to say is once you pick up a book like I
wouldn't do this with all of the books I'm only doing this with like business books and reality
transfer fee because those are some stuff that I really want to study and get drill into my brain
and what I'm trying to say is you should study your books not just read them because you'll get
so much more value and then your time will be way more efficient trust trust me because this is
coming from someone who would be reading literally six hours plus every day back to back to back to
back literally six hours every day even on weekends even on weekdays and I would do that all
like all the time and doing that I learned a lot don't get me wrong I learned a lot
but once I started studying and doing the the methods that I just taught you
I I've realized that it's way more efficient and I've learned way more and I'm actually able to
understand and explain way more
more let me get some water real quick
look
so also I'm bringing it back to meditation
I know I've been getting distracted a lot lately in my episodes just from people and outside forces
distracting me like for example this episode my dog and also I'd use the restroom
but because I started meditating consistently every day and I'm doing it like over an hour every day
my focus is so much better and I'm actually if you guys are familiar with this thing called being in
the zone athletes are in the zone they that's their goal they try to get into the zone and then
basically once you're in the zone you're like the most optimal efficient human being that you can be
at the moment because your brain just runs efficiently and it's basically like on autopilot
you don't have to think you're just you're just doing you don't think you just do and that's what I
noticed meditation has been for me it's allowed me to get into the zone during times like this
of podcasting and stuff like that and that's super valuable because once I get the ball rolling and
start actually getting some real work done for my clients then I'll be at like I'll just be an
efficient human being I'll be like a machine plus in combination with trans surfing it'll be super
powerful so that's one thing in trans surfing and I'm going to connect this back to a picture my friend
sent me today is you should be happy now if you're expecting happiness to come in the future it'll
never be in the future it'll never come it'll always just be in the near future and you need to be
happy now if you're ever going to be happy that's one thing that I've been working on
and that's a big principle in trans surfing and I'm connecting it back to a picture my friend sent
me this morning and it was just a picture of a page from a book that he's read I don't remember
what he didn't tell me what book it was but I could tell it was a stoicism book and
rally trans surfing and stoicism are very similar and I could tell by that one page I haven't read
any stoicism books but he has and he also has read trans surfing so he knows and
it essentially said we must be able to work where we're at now or else we won't be able to work at
all there will always be distractions there will always be a nicer house we have to be able to
love our house that we're at now so we can appreciate the nicer house once we get it and
that is just true I'm really working on becoming better at that wow there's a daddy long legs right
here I'm sorry I know I just talked about how it wasn't getting distracted but there's a daddy long
legs spider literally crawling on my wall right next to where I'm at in my basement and I like
suck my finger out towards it to let it walk on me and it just ran away in fear it just like try to
run away and that's one thing that I realized all my life I've been scared of like spiders and bees
and all these little tiny things that I have no reason to be a scared of and like just this past
summer like literally maybe within the three months past three months I overcame those fears
I don't know how I just was conscious of how I was afraid and I was being a wuss and
and they're afraid of us so I mean they have way more of an excuse to be afraid of us because
we're like a thousand times bigger than them and they are just tiny and we can squish them with
one of our ten fingers if we wanted to and kill them completely so there's really no reason to be
afraid of spiders and that's what I realized that's the one of the reasons why I stopped being afraid
of spiders and worked towards stopping my fear of spiders is when I read David Dida's book the way
of the superior man and in that he said that men should not be afraid of spiders like we we as men
if we stand up on a chair in fear next to our our girl our woman what will she think of us she'll
think that we're a wuss because it's just a tiny little spider she's the one that should be afraid
and we're the one that should come in and save the day that's essentially what he said and that's
why I stopped being stopped being afraid of spiders and if you're wondering how you do that the first
step is to be conscious and then over time you'll make your decisions based on that new awareness
of your fear and you'll overcome it so reading man reading is one of the best things that I've
ever done like seriously reading I'm so grateful I started reading and I've only been reading for
maybe 11 months probably less I started reading maybe September or October of last year and in
the beginning I was reading very slowly because I was like that was during school and I didn't have
much time but I was still trying to get a lot of reading in so I've maybe read like four or five books
maybe four books last year and this year I've already read
like over 20 I'm I've probably read like 26 or 27 books total which is not that much
really it's not that much and I'm already like super far ahead because I have read all those books
so that's why I believe that reading is extremely valuable even if you're still read it even if
you're not planning on acting on it like taking action right away because it molds your brain it
really changes your brain and changes your subconscious so if you can change your subconscious
to make better decisions that is probably one of the best things ever because then you're going to
want to make those decisions and also you might make those decisions on autopilot next time like
when you're asleep which you don't want to be asleep but I know the reality of it were all
all have been conditioned to fall asleep and what I mean by asleep is not present
so if you can change your subconscious to make better decisions that's huge and that's why I
believe that reading is such a valuable thing because you're really just consuming another
person's life work most of the time it's their life work and it's like all of their experiences
and lessons and stuff that they learn throughout their entire life and if you get it from a good
author and you really read their stuff even the first read through most of that most of my books
I've only read once I've only read another book completely through a second time and I was millionaire
fast lane I've only read one book so far two times and all my books I've read once and I've
heard my mind my mind has been shifted and molded based off their life lessons and stuff just from
one read and that's why I've picked my best books and I'm rereading them over and over and over again
because those are just so valuable and I want their life I want their knowledge to mold my brain
to have their knowledge and just I want my brain to be able to make those decisions on its own
easily subconsciously that's why I'm focused on Transurfing because Transurfing is probably one
of the best things one of the definitely no Transurfing is 100% the best book that I know of
to mold your brain to make decisions subconsciously because if you can if you're a Transurfer
subconsciously you are one powerful human being and you can essentially do whatever you want and
that's really what Jesus was I'm sorry to bring this to Jesus I'm not a Christian I grew up in a
Christian household but I'm not a Christian and but I I definitely believe in God and I know that
Jesus exists because that's like facts from history but that's essentially what Jesus was
and Jesus was I believe that Jesus was also a god son so I'm not into the religion pendulum but
I'm into all the stuff that comes with it most of the stuff that comes with that I should say
but that's what Jesus was he was essentially a Transurfer and he I mean he could walk on water
he could heal lepers he could do whatever he wanted because he was a Transurfer and he was
present 100% of the time he was awake all from the second he was born to the second he died
to after he died also and came back up and I can't believe I'm teaching about this I did not even
expect this to come out of my mouth right now that's the power of being in the zone
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