How do young men like us who didn't listen to society who are on our own?
How do we grow and improve ourselves so that we can live a better tomorrow?
That is a question and this show will give you the answers
My name is James Redzinski and this is the ascend momentum show
So I want to tell you guys a story that I heard from
Maureen Byron, I think let me oh
Myron Golden my muffle
so
It was in your first final challenge
the extra day the celebration and
There were two so I'm just gonna get into the story there are two eagles and they were pregnant so
the they decided to build a nest and
They laid their eggs in the nest and then the birds were hatched
Every day they would come to the bird to feed them food and then the birds would say hey mom and dad
Can you teach us how to fly?
The mom would say no, maybe tomorrow this repeated for 15 20 days then on the 20th day
The bird was like hey mom and dad
Can you teach us how to fly and then?
They were like sure tomorrow is the first lesson
so tomorrow rolls a rolls around and
the first one gets on the mom's back and
So they start flying up and the mom
Starts flying up higher and higher and then the kid is like higher higher higher because he's so excited and
Then the mom swoops around and drops the kid
The kid is falling screaming crying like oh, I'm falling like I'm gonna die and
then
The mom suddenly right before he made lands on the ground
cat swoops up and catches the bird and
So the bird comes back to the nest and says like don't this is crazy
Don't do it and so the mom forces all the rest to do it the same thing and
And so the next day rolls around and they're all like no we're not doing this
but the mom forces them to and they continue to have
Flight lessons like this same way every single day and it's super scary and they feel like they're gonna die every day
And then on the 20th day
The bird flies
The mom takes the bird all the way up drops it like usual and then suddenly the wind catches its wing
Perfectly and then he starts gliding and then so he flies back. He's able to fly back to the next on his own and
So he finally achieved
Flight the goal that he was chasing and
and so
The learning curve for learning how to fly
Learning equals learning how to fly is not just straight upwards. It's actually you you have to drop down and
before you'll be able to fly up and
So that's the learning curve. That's just the learning curve for everything. You have to fall down before you're able to climb back up and
birds
Succeed 100% of the time and learning how to fly
But humans only succeed 3% of the time
Why is that?
Because we have choice
So many of us choose not to
Act and we choose not to fall before we can rise again
So that's something that I learned today
Today was a very long day for me
I've been on my computer from 10 until right now and it's 447
Super tired. I was watching the webinar all day long and
I'm once I'm done with this
webinar
Which I have like one more thing tomorrow of two hours. I am done with the computer
Of watching videos. I'm gonna get my studying from reading
I'm really stressed out right now because my sister got home and
She's like right above me and I get a lot of anxiety and I don't want my
Family members to see my work and so I'm just talking
quietly on my podcast
talking you guys
and my sister's like right there and
If you guys have read the book reality Transurfing
I'm rereading it again. I 100% recommend you read it and read it and read it
and
I'm taking into notice that
people can be pendulums also and
pendulums can act through people and
So that's why I'm I actually don't know why I'm nervous right now
So today I
Contacted five more people and I have not gotten any response back from anyone yet
Not from the five people now and not from the five people from yesterday
And it is Saturday, so hopefully they'll respond back on Monday
But I'm gonna contact five more new people every single day
until I
find work and what I'm doing is I'm gonna
Basically build them a funnel I'm finding local businesses and
and local brick and mortar businesses and emailing them or calling them and
Seeing if I can build them a funnel and right now. I'm just doing it for the learning experience to see
Just so I can learn how to do it learn the process and then I'll be able to sell it and
Hope and
Hopefully the first one goes well and I get a testimonial
And maybe even a tip
But right now I'm just doing it for the learning experience and while I'm doing it I'm maintaining my routine of
Studying expert secrets every day and
meditating and all this other stuff, but
That's what I learned in
Garrett J. White's part of the 30 days book
The core for which the only one that I remember is meditating
Man I'm so nervous right now. I'm so sorry you guys this is a really bad episode
My sister's like right up there and I I just
You know what screw this bro
Screw this
Okay, I'm awake
Let's frickin do this thing
Okay, so what did I learn today?
I just learned something and that it's I need to
Remember what I've learned so last night I read something in Transurfing
I'm right now. I'm only in like the first 50 pages or so and
He was introducing like pendulums and stuff which are just
Actually, I am gonna explain it to you because that's the best way to see if you actually understand it a
Pendulum is
Something that is formed when people think
So when a group of people think of the same thing a pendulum is formed and it's like a separate structure
It's like an energy based structure
and then it goes on on its own and then it tries and gets more adherence which are just like
followers basically and
And it can zap like it can suck people in through their emotions through many different things and
It's all pendulums are bad but
Not but you don't have to avoid them it's actually impossible to
Break free from all pendulums
but
Yeah, I don't really understand it that much even though I've read the whole book. That's why I'm rereading it again
It's a really
complicated concept to
understand and it's tough to explain it simply but
pretty much
They fight for adherence and then when you're thinking about it you lose your energy to it so it steals your energy and
it's best to
Just
Accept that it exists and then
Go on with your day like except that it exists, but don't accept it into your world
Just accept it that it exists and then just walk on
indifferently
so
That's huge another thing one thing I want to teach you guys is
When you're meditating when you're doing your nightly meditation. I
like to have a 20 minute journaling session
beforehand and
It's huge journaling has been so I
Only have been journaling for the past month and three days maybe
like consistently for the past month and three days and
It's I
I 100% recommend it because I'm able to keep myself
on target and
On track and what what I do is I I made these questions up on my own
So I recommend you guys make your own questions up that you ask yourself every day
But my questions I started with two and then I moved on to three and then four and then today or last night
I added two more the first one is what did I do today to move towards my goals?
The second one is is this actually helping or am I just distracting myself?
the third one is
Am I doing enough to move towards my goals and the fourth one is
What should I do tomorrow?
Like my daily my critical task and I also remind myself of my new routine additions. So I write down
to remind myself to do a podcast to record three videos and to
email five new people on my dream 100 list and
And then on the the new addition that I added last night
And I just added this because I started studying
Expert secrets and I'm starting to actually study now before I was reading books
Just to read them and learn from them, but now I'm actually sitting down and studying them
Which I recommend both
Because I was reading them and trying to learn I guess I was always studying
But now I'm actually having a set amount of time daily
To study expert secrets and pretty much what I'm just I'm just reading it. I'm not really studying it
But the studying comes at nighttime is what I realized and
And I read it right when I get home from the gym in the morning around 7 30 for 30 minutes
and
Then at nighttime right before I go to bed the fifth question I ask myself in my journal is
What did I learn in
my studies
for expert secrets the book that I read in my morning studies and
Then I write down what I learned. So last night I learned that you have to
There I was just reading the first part and the first part was to
in order to
Build a movement you have to have an expert such guide
which is the leader and then a
New opportunity which is the vehicle and then a future-based cause which is the result and
The leader uses a new vehicle the leader guides the dream customer
To the future-based cause through the the vehicle
so and then
The fifth question or the sixth question that I asked myself in my journal journal in is
What did I learn in my nighttime?
but it's a
nighttime
learning study session which at nighttime I study
reality transurfing and
Yesterday I talked about this earlier, but yesterday I
learned
That I have to remember I have to remember what I've learned in reality transurfing and
I'm gonna give you guys one of the biggest things that I've learned in reality transurfing and what you need to
You won't be able to like build this skill or have it or whatever it is
Unless you read the book
You won't be able to get it by listening
You won't be able to you might be able to have some success
But if you truly want to change your mind
I always love reading because you morph your mind into what that author wants
you to get so you like
Build those new channels in your mind and that's why rereading it strengthens those channels
And then adds more of those mini channels that the author
gets like the first time you read the book you build the
Maybe the trunk you get the main idea and then the second time you start to branch out and build the thicker branches and
Then the third time you read it you make the twigs and then the fourth time
You make the leaves. It's not
It's not that maybe I don't know
Probably like closer to ten times to be able to make the full tree probably more to be honest, but
That's just an example and
If you read Transurfing you'll learn this one
huge thing and it's to
stay awake and
Once you read Transurfing you'll learn what that actually means, but pretty much it means that it's just a game
life is just a game and
You should not get absorbed into it. You should you do not get
Absorbed don't play the game
Be a viewer be a bystander. Don't play the game watch the game from the sideline
While still participating in the game
What I mean is that so many people let life live them they don't live life on purpose
They live it on accident. They live life accidentally and they just let life pass them by
but and so
What on the day-to-day what that looks like is a pendulum pops up and then they get sucked in and
They end up doing exactly what the pendulum wants them to do not their own free will
So what Transurfing has taught me is to stay awake and live life on purpose
live life purposefully
Do things on purpose and don't just let life pass me by and
When I first read it I instantly woke up
But then I fell back asleep and then I kept on reminding myself to wake up and so today
Now I'm even more awake than I was back then, but I'm still not
Awake enough. I want to be awake a hundred percent of the day and
one of the ways to do that is to practice mindfulness and
Focus on your breath all the time be conscious of your breathing consciously breathe
So my business plan
Here to wrap things up. Let me just explain
The lessons today today's lessons
What were today's lessons the learning curve is there for a reason
Cuz without it we wouldn't be able to fly and then
Was the other thing I
taught
Stay just stay awake
Stay awake
So I'm gonna tell you guys my business plans moving forward I'm gonna maintain my
daily routine of
Recording three tick tocks and one podcast and then
And that's it so I'm doing for my business
I'm just trying to provide you guys as much value as possible and I'm actually
If you guys want to go to the self-improvement guidebook
Dot com then go for it, but I'm gonna stop sending you guys there
Because I realized that I have to start providing you guys a lot of value before you guys can actually
Like trust me so I'm gonna
Go in on providing you guys value and while I'm doing that it works out perfectly because
while I'm doing that
I'm actually growing myself because I'm becoming a better speaker using this podcast and also
While I'm doing that I'm gonna add to my daily routine which I have added yesterday and today is
To get into contact with five new people on my dream 100 list so my current
Wait, I just realized I've never explained to you guys what the dream 100 list is
the dream 100 list is
Your list of 100 people or more or less it doesn't really matter just the name
Your list of 100 people who if you're in contact with them, they will help you who have the capabilities of
Letting you achieve your goals. So if you were selling high ticket items your dream 100 list was would be
100 people of your dream customers and then you would just sell to them
but if you
were selling like
Smaller items or most people if you're like most people
selling not million dollar products
Then your dream 100 list would be the people who own or control the traffic
Excuse me, I just sneezed the dream 100 people would be the people who
Control
Who basically have your dream customers congregated already so that would be let's say
It would be like influencers like youtubers tiktokers and then you would try and get into contact with them
So you could gain access to their
their viewers
But my dream 100 right now is local brick and mortar businesses
and
I am trying to
email like get into contact with them so that I can
Build them funnels build them a funnel and this will be a huge learning thing for me
And it'll be my first thing where I'm actually taking action
and
I feel like it'll actually propel me forward
It's a entrepreneurship because right now I'm using my the fact that I'm not 18 as an excuse to not really
Make any moves in entrepreneurship
So this bites in the in the butt so I can start to learn the skills before I actually apply it to my business
So there's one thing that I
Realize and its entrepreneurship
really makes you
Makes you the man
Like I am becoming way. I'm growing so much more
As long as I keep pushing forward and taking action
and
the growth if you're an entrepreneur the growth is I
Think that it's the most that you can ever have I'm just hearing all these success stories of people
Making it like making all the money that they need in life in one year less than a year I
Really believe that I can do that too. I
Feel like I'm on the right life life line
I'm just trying to document my journey
But I'm gonna be honest I've really made any big big money mover
You know what I haven't made any big money mover
Steps in the right direction yet. I've just been making incremental steps
tomorrow
No tomorrow. I'm gonna email 20 people
Not five screw that. I'm emailing 20 people tomorrow
I'm gonna write it down right now
email
20 people on my dream 100 list
So that I can get a response email
20 dream 100
I'm not stopping until I get one client and then once I get that one client
I'll be able to work with them and my journey begins that'll be the first
That'll be the first difficult thing that I do in entrepreneurship
going to their business and
Building something for them. That'll be the first real entrepreneur move that I've done so far. I've just been doing
tiny
scaredy cat moves and
Right now. I'm just screwing over screwing over my future family. I'm screwing over
My future wife. I'm screwing over my future kids. I'm screwing over
myself
By not making action not taking enough action. I have to be relentless. I
Have to be relentless
Man
All of this stuff it's so difficult
But I can do it. I can do it. I can do it. I have all of these thoughts running through my mind that
I can't do it. I'm too scared but
I'm in the same position here and I am so scared of doing all this stuff
The only reason why I'm podcasting right now is because I spent 14 days straight practicing on my own without uploading
And then I after the 15th day I finally built up the balls to upload
And so I'm like extremely scared, but you know what?
If I change my mindset if I focus
My mind if I focus all of my energy on being intentional with my mind
And my thoughts and my thinking
Then I will be successful
It starts with the mind the my mind is holding me back. I keep on reminding myself. Oh, I can't do this. I'm too scared
I why am I scared?
Why none of this stuff matters? I'll die
And no one will remember anything
Because I'm not doing anything
And even if I did do something
No, no one even remembers
What?
I'm not doing anything
No one even remembers what how life does not even matter. So why do I?
Why am I so scared? It's because society has trained us to keep us down
And we need to be intentional about our thinking
And change our thinking first to be able to
To be able to counter what society has taught us and to
To prevail and to live a better life than society lets us live
Society has molded our brains
To keep us down we're being held down by society
So while I'm doing podcasting and
And videos and stuff
I'm actually growing so much more now because I'm teaching you guys things
and if you
I'm not sure if I'll upload this video, but
I made a
Tiktok
to my drafts
About that eagle story that I told you at the beginning of this episode
And I actually drew it out just like how
That speaker drew it out
and
I
I am like learning so much more
I'm being able to understand so much more where I'm lacking in knowledge and where
I actually understand, you know
So if you guys just
What while you're learning books
Do like a five minute daily podcast just in your voice memos. You don't even have to upload it. Just
teach
Someone on your voice memos on your phone
What you learned that day in reading
And I never did that until I started this podcast
And I actually find that it's extremely beneficial
For me and for you because I can teach you guys what I learned and also it strengthens my own
learning
All of that
So with that
That's going to be the end of the episode
Thanks for listening. Have a great day