How do young men like us who didn't listen to society, who are on our own, how do we
grow and improve ourselves so that we can live a better tomorrow? That is the question,
and this will give you the answers. My name is James Retzinski, and this is the Ascend
Momentum Show.
Welcome back everybody. Today I want to talk about something that came up today. So today,
I was participating in ClickFunnels, your first funnel challenge, and I was doing day
one, and while watching that, some big things came up. Really, business is not difficult
at all physically. It's 100% mental. Anyone can do it. You just have to be able to push
through the mental struggles you have to keep pushing through. One thing that I realized,
I really realized before, I talked about this in my guidebook, self-improvement guidebook,
and it's a quote that got me to keep reading, but this quote came back to me today. What
I talked about originally in the self-improvement guidebook is you're not who you are. The
quote is something like you aren't who you need to be to get the life you want to have.
It's something like that. So in order to be who you need to be to be able to have the
life you want, you have to keep working, growing, and improving, and learning more and more.
I only found that applicable with my reading, with learning and reading, but it came back
to me in the webinar and this person said, this comfort helps you grow to become the
one you need to be. So I just wanted to be able to be who you are. I just wanted to be
who you are. So I just wanted to be who you are. So I just wanted to be who you are.
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wanted to be who you are. So I just wanted to be who you are. So I just wanted to be who
Answers to help you from his experience which death his answers definitely help and he
Definitely has a better idea of how to move forward than most people
But the thing is he doesn't he's if he were to start a brand-new business today
He still would feel that fear of the unknown because he does not know what is in store
so that's really
motivating to me because
Nobody knows what they're doing so now I can move forward without knowing what I'm doing and not feel
Well, I'll still feel worried and nervous and scared
But at least I'll realize that that's everyone there's not a single person who knows the future and
everyone had to go through these experiences and
It's only the people who push through it who are successful and
And that's gonna be me
So I've over I've gone through some many discomforts and
The past like 12 days
so over the past maybe 30 days I've been journaling and
And
Pretty consistently I started like 30 days ago
And have been journaling every day since
Just tracking my progress writing down
Answers to my day like what I did that day and if I was moving forward just basic stuff and
Over the past 12 days I
Have not done a single thing
I've just been distracting myself and
Enough is enough I have to move forward now I have all the tools I need
in order to move forward and
I'm gonna move forward
It's gonna be scary, but that's the whole point the whole point is to filter out people who are not ready to
obtain their life
But I'm ready
So
That
That was a lot and
And I just have to keep reminding myself that
Their discomfort is how you grow
But let me tell you one thing that I came to a realization last night during my meditative journaling
Which is a habit that I recommend everyone do meditate for 30
set a chunk of time of 30 minutes before you go to bed and just meditate and have a journal near you and
first you
Journal I always answer four questions
At off the bat what did I do today to move towards my goals?
Is this actually helping me or am I just distracting myself?
another question I ask is
Am I doing enough and then the last question I ask is
What should I do tomorrow? I?
Just answer those and then once I answer those I meditate
for the remainder of the 30 minutes and
If any thoughts pop up into mind I
That is important. I always write it down and I came through some
Extremely valuable insights. This is probably one of the best habits that I
Begun doing 20 to 30 days ago
But I want to tell you the lesson that I learned last night during my meditative journaling and
Over these past cut like 10 12 days that I haven't really done anything I
Realized last night why that is and it's because I
Don't have a vision for my business. I don't have a vision for my life. I
I
Kind of when I was reading reality Transurfing during the slides portion. I
went through and
Kind of just went through the motions and kind of made a generic slide of like a dream house, but it's not really
Specialized to me. I like made many things that I would like but didn't really take the time
to go through it and
And also I didn't have any
Slides that I like to call mini slides or tiny slides a mini slide. I came up with last night
It's basically what he says in the book is
The vision or the goal in at towards the end of your current lifeline
Which is or your current transfer link which
So for example, if I was just beginning my business my
The end slide for my current transfer link would be maybe to
Make my first sale or something like that, but then that would be my
Or let's say my mini slide
When I am just getting into business would be to move out
Then make enough money to move out
But then my tiny slide would be even smaller than that and it would be to make my first sale and then
What I did after that was break it down into steps. So
for that the first step would be create a website or create a funnel and
That's step one, but and
Then I also realize that you can't know step two unless until you actually finish step one
So only focus on a percent on step one and then come up with step two and then just keep moving forward
What and then keep running the slide in your mind what he says in reality?
Transurfing is
Run the slide and then keep moving and then place one foot in front of the other so that's just
Keep thinking about the slide and then take action
and
Stay present only think about that
So that's why I came to realize last night
So that's the lesson have a vision and
What else was it have a vision and also
Nobody knows what they're doing fear is universal
All right, that's the end of the episode
Have a great day