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Hey guys, welcome back to the homework assignment.

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I'm your host RJ Patino and today again we're going to discuss how to find the balance between

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work life and home life.

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We have a guest here today, Blake Clark with Limitless Reality.

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He's agreed to join us and kind of break down really what his business is and how he runs

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it and some of the things he's learned along the way about running a magnificent team,

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building a team, scaling his business and really getting down kind of to the nitty-gritty on

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how he personally is able to balance his home and work life.

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So Blake, welcome.

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Thanks, appreciate you guys having me, man.

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We appreciate you being here. So tell us a little bit about Limitless Reality.

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What do you guys got going on?

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Yeah, so we've been open just a little over two years.

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So when we opened it, I've been in real estate since 2015, started off as a solo agent, started

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a team at the end of 2017, going into 2018, did that all the way through 2020, mid-21

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that's when we launched Limitless Real Estate and so just passed our two-year mark in May.

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Fantastic.

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How many have?

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Sixty-eight agents as of today that work for us.

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That's freaking fantastic.

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And like we were just having a conversation, well like two months ago, how many did you

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have?

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We had 30, 38 I think around there.

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Yeah, so it's double.

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Yeah, that's phenomenal.

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So obviously you've worked in real estate for a while and you've been a part of some

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different companies, right?

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Yes, I have.

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So what made you kind of want to break off and start your own thing?

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So it's interesting because like I told everybody when I got into real estate, I had zero intentions

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of doing real estate, which is funny because I tell people that.

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But I started off because I was working corporate America, had the 401k, had all that stuff.

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I lost my job and then I basically found myself kind of doing some freelancing stuff in between.

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I was doing some marketing for a chiropractic office.

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I was running a phone dialer system for a big call center for a while there.

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Did that.

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Then I'd started a couple of e-commerce businesses at the time.

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So I was kind of doing a little bit of everything, but I didn't have that like retirement and

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still being young at that time.

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I was in my mid 20s, 25, 26 and I was like, I got to do something.

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It's still early enough in time.

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So I wanted to basically get into flip properties and rental properties is what it was.

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So I got my real estate license solely to just buy properties.

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And even then I didn't really know what the hell I was doing.

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I did it just because everybody I was watching that was like wealthy, they all seemed to

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own real estate.

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I didn't even know what it really meant, they were just like, yeah, if you want to be wealthy,

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you own real estate.

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So I hate to tell people that because I really went into this thing blind.

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But when I went into it, it was really good because I am really good with like numbers

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and sales.

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And the problem with real estate is everybody's really emotionally attached to it.

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People buy houses, it's where they raise their families, they raise their kids there.

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So it's always an extremely emotional process where for me it's not just an asset.

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I've always looked at it that way.

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I'm like, it's just a house.

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You can buy it, sell it, flip it, turn it into more money, buy something bigger.

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Buy something smaller.

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So I've always literally looked at things as like just a game of Monopoly.

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That's it.

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Like how can I buy a property?

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How can I improve it?

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So Michaela and I, my wife, when we had bought properties, I had bought one that was a foreclosure.

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My very first house at 22 years old, picked it up.

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It was ugly as all heck and I lived in it and fixed it up and sold it.

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When I met her, I'd rented it out for a little while before we sold it, lived in her house,

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fixed it up.

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We bought one that was a massive fixer-upper.

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So we'd gone and flipped about two to three properties that we had personally lived in

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before we got to the house we're at now so we could save up enough money for a down payment

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for it to make sense.

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And then just doing so well from like a numbers perspective, it just naturally turned into

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a couple friends reached out to me, did a good job, did a good job.

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Threw in a little bit of marketing and consistency and all the things I learned from corporate

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America that I structured my personal business.

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Because that's the problem.

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A lot of entrepreneurs get into real estate.

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They don't have any structure.

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They just, I'm into it because I'm free.

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And in reality, that's actually what makes you fail.

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You have to be structured and disciplined and treat it like a job, especially.

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Yeah, I mean, they see these guys that have been doing this for 20 years that are on the

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beach drinking the pina coladas and they think they can go from point A to point B. So I

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never saw things that way.

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For there, it just took off.

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Just slowly compounded, compounded, compounded.

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And by year three, I was ready for a team.

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100%.

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So that kind of carries into like, yeah, you're talking about your systems where you operate

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your company, obviously.

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I always kind of tied into football.

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I saw a lot of players you know that went to NFL and stuff like that that were great.

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And then they would want to coach afterwards and they can't necessarily do it.

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They had the talent, they had the skill, but they didn't know how to coach.

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They didn't know how to do that.

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So running a business is way different than working in a business, in my opinion.

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So kind of digging a little deeper to that, we had a conversation a few weeks back where

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you talked to me kind of about your background a little bit.

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And you mentioned all these other companies you worked for didn't really have a culture.

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So you were really wanting to build a culture.

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So what is your guys' culture at Limitless?

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We have a culture, basically, it's very family centric.

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So it's just, you know, I made a rule for myself when I left corporate America and I

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decided to start my own business.

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I didn't want to walk through the doors and work with people I just didn't like to work

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with.

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Like, and that's kind of the cool thing about when you build a business, you kind of have

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that choice.

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Now, you have to be realistic with it.

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You can't just say, hey, you know, everybody's just like me.

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We do this really stupid exercise.

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I tell people all the time, but when people come into my company, we ask them, you know,

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what animal are you?

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You get four choices.

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Are you a lion?

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Are you a monkey?

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Are you a puppy or are you an owl?

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And they always look at me like, what the hell are you talking about?

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But one of my business coaches that I had back in the day taught me that question because

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he's like, the problem is if you hire a bunch of yous, what's your what are you strong?

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So like really, when you lay down on paper, we're all amazing at some things that were

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horrible, right?

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We fall somewhere in the middle of that spectrum based on what type of a personality profile

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we have.

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So for me, I'm a high D, high driver, like always very good to go for results.

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But the problem is, is somebody like me, I'll stack body bags, right?

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Like it's just one of those things like I care about the end result so much.

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So one would identify as like a lion, right?

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In that scenario, problem is I'm not detailed.

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I'm not organized.

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I'm not structured.

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I'm not really all that analytical.

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In most cases, it's just wake up every day.

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Here's the end result.

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We're going to get that end result.

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But if I have a bunch of guys with me, that's great.

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We're going to get a lot of sales.

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And I did when I back when I first started my first sales team at one of my corporate

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jobs, I hired a bunch of guys like me.

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Guess what?

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Everything customer service sucked, follow up sucked, client retention sucked, conversion

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rates sucked.

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You know, all that sucked because yeah, we were great at this end, but we didn't have

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the back end details.

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Every successful business needs both sides of that.

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For every person that's a massive driver, you need a little bit of people behind the

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scenes that can tie it all together for you and structure it.

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You need basically have the visionary and the integrator, right?

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That's really what it is.

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And I didn't figure that out for a lot of times.

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So now when we come in, we really have a clear expectation and idea of, hey, what do I need

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in this business?

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What are we heavy on?

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Are we heavy on drivers?

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Do we need a little bit of people to tie behind?

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When we look at a position that needs filled, I don't really look at it necessarily as like

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I just hired somebody, for example, my personal assistant, but I didn't say, hey, I need a

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personal assistant.

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I said, here's all the things that I need that I'm lacking in my business.

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What would this person look like personality wise that can fill those gaps for me?

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And then I basically took the skill set and filled it in there.

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And that's how we hire people now.

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So we build the culture out based on what we need.

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Are we are we high on a bunch of owls right now?

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I got a bunch of analytical people sitting around that need some drivers behind them.

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OK, let's bring in some drivers.

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So when you start to build an organization that way, you really build it more of like

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a masterpiece is what it is because you can kind of paint what you need in there instead

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of just taking anybody in the door.

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You know, yeah 100 percent.

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That's fantastic.

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You and you mentioned Michaela a second ago so obviously

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She's your wife, right?

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So how does her being in business with you really affect your home life?

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What's your home and work schedule and how does that?

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It was a massive struggle.

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So when we met, we worked together.

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We met at Corporate America.

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We had different roles and we were in different departments.

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So we never really worked together.

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We just rode to work together, which is super cool.

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But then when we actually started working together, we used to butt heads a lot.

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It was really, really bad for a while.

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She's like I'm more of like a driver, not organized, careless type person, big picture

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visionary.

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She's very much a details, organized structure type person.

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And so you guys know how that goes opposite the track.

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The problem was where we really struggled in business and this is where I think a lot

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of couples is that they always try to overstep their boundaries in business.

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So for example, she would try to step in and overtake the trainings and overtake the things

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that I was really good at and just frustrate the hell out of me.

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I would come in and overtake things that she was really good at like organizing.

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I'd be like, oh, that's not important.

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Don't worry about it.

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And we were just, there was just no gray area.

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We had the same talk.

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We would sit down a couple of years ago and we said, listen, if we're going to do this,

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especially when we open the brokerage up, she wanted to go in and be behind the scenes,

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the ops.

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And she does really good on sales on her own, by the way, but she's not like the hey, everyday,

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get out and kill type guy like I am.

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But we basically clearly defined, hey, this is what you're super good at.

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This is your role within the business.

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Here's what I'm super good at.

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This is what's important to me.

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This is what's important to me.

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I just stay out of her lane now.

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I say, hey, this is a you thing.

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You know, if you need my input, ask.

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And then she does the same for me.

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And ever since we had that dynamic of like, this is our roles and I respect your role,

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you respect my role and together, it works very well.

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Things really smoothed out for us at that point.

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So I think that's super important.

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Like that took me a while to learn, especially when I was like when we were growing our business

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here at Elder trying to figure out like, OK, hey, I want to I need this here and I want

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to bring someone in.

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And maybe that wasn't their talent.

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I don't know.

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Having to step back and be like, OK, this is their talent.

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If I put them here, they're going to be able to excel even more.

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And on top of that, they love what they do.

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They know what they're good at.

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So their drive is tenfold compared to over here where they may not really like that as

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much.

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They're not good at it.

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So that's a great point.

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I was listening to I think was one of your stories on Facebook and or Instagram, whatever

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the case is.

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And you were talking about your get up at 3 a.m.

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Is that right?

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So and you were talking about creating that time for yourself.

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So why is that important in your life to have that time for yourself?

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Well, I mean, here's the thing.

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When you start to grow a business and this isn't even for business owners as anybody

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six, seven o'clock in the morning, the world needs you.

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Like and so I tell people, like at some level, the world needs you.

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Your boss is going to need you.

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Your job is going to need you.

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Your spouse is going to need you.

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In my case, kids, all the things I get my kids up from school.

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So a lot of people like to make the excuse.

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I just can't get up early in the morning.

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And then they complain when they don't get to do self-development.

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They complain when they don't get to go to the gym.

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And really what it is when you look at a lot of people that don't have that balance, like

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what we're talking about balance between work and life, it's because they're spending a

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lot of time at work and they're spending a lot of time not doing things for themselves.

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And a lot of people like, oh, it's selfish to do things for yourself.

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What I did was I built it into my schedule where my first three hours a day are my self-time.

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It's not taking away from anybody else.

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My kids are still asleep.

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My wife was still asleep.

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As of recently, she's actually been getting up and going to the gym with me early too.

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But for the longest time, I would get up at three, go do my morning cardio, do a couple

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mile jog in the morning, walk, listen to my podcast, my personal development, listen to

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audiobooks.

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I'll go do that.

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Then go to the gym and lift weights.

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So all my fitness, all my personal development, all my me time, I got three hours dedicated

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to solely me before the expectation of me giving myself back to the rest of the world.

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Now I've got myself taken care of.

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I'm in the right frame of mind because truth be told, every day I wake up, I'm not in a

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great mood.

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Things happen.

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You're a business owner.

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You're carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders every day.

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You've got a lot of responsibility as it is as a husband, dad, all the things.

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So there's no way that I can't get up in the morning and I'll wake up like a crabby asshole.

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I'll be honest, some days I'm just frustrated where after listening to a podcast for an

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hour, getting two miles of cardio in, going to the gym, lifting weights, getting cleaned

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up, getting a shower, and then my kids wake up, then I'm not already in a good mood.

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I got all my personal issues have been completely sorted out within the first two, three hours

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of my day and everybody's like, how are you so positive every morning?

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Well, I took two to three hours to work on myself every frigging morning.

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A lot of people hear that and they're like, oh, it's just a pain in the butt to get up

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two hours early.

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Well, try giving yourself personal time.

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Buy your time back.

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Your life will feel a whole lot balanced because now when you have an entire day and you lay

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your head down at night, it doesn't feel like I spent my whole day giving it to other people.

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I got two, three hours to give to myself.

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I felt great.

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I got myself aligned with where I needed to be.

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I got my attitude.

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Now I can focus on the rest of my day giving to everybody else the highest and best version

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of myself.

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Yeah.

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I think that's a lot of things that people like growing up in my business, seeing other

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business owners, meeting people that are starting their own type of business stuff, that was

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a big portion that was missing.

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A lot of the people that I started my business around, they don't have theirs now.

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I think a big part of that is the self-development app, creating that time for yourself.

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You'll burn out.

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You'll burn yourself out real fast.

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You'll burn yourself out very quick.

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You go to the gym, obviously.

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How has that affected your business, being able to go to the gym and actually exercise?

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It all ties into everything.

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You can't operate from a high place of confidence, self-value if you don't look and feel good

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about yourself.

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Especially me, I'm in a sales position.

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Really, we're all in sales position.

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If you work for a company, you got to sell yourself.

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You got to sell your skills.

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You got to sell your knowledge.

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It doesn't matter what you do.

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Every day if you wake up and you look in the mirror and you can't be happy or proud with

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who you are, whether that's mentally, physically, emotionally, financially, if you can't look

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at you as a solid pillar, how do you expect anything around you to be held up?

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You're the foundation of everything around you.

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You can make a choice and say, I'm going to fix everything.

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I'm going to fix myself first because no matter how much you try to fix in your business,

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fix everything, you're the pillar of that.

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If you can't set aside time to fix that, for example, me going to the gym, staying in shape.

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I like having high energy.

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I like being... I don't want to be freaking sluggish.

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I don't want to be out of shape.

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I don't want to be in the doctor's office all the time with high blood pressure or anything

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like that.

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I want to look at myself in the mirror and say, yeah, I've got high confidence.

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I look good.

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I'm in shape.

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I'm working on my thought process every day.

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I'm working on my mindset.

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I'm working on my knowledge so that every day I'm basically showing up as the highest

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and best version of myself.

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That's going to pour into every aspect of your business and life.

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Yeah 100%.

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I want to understand.

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So your kids, I know, what age are your kids?

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My oldest is 15.

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My youngest right underneath that is 13 and then the youngest below that's nine.

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So do they participate with you guys in any exercise or anything like that?

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Not necessarily.

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They still sleep.

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They're teenagers and they're in that super cool lazy phase at the moment.

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With that being said, they're all super active though.

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Both my daughters are in competitive cheer.

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My son plays football and all that.

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They're just not on board with the 3 a.m. schedule yet, but they'll get there.

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Yeah.

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I was asked last week, hey you know, for business owners that are so busy running a business and like for

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you, your wife is intertwined with your business and stuff, you know some people are like, okay, you know people

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need to be at home taking care of the kids.

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Well, in my opinion, the kids can watch their parents.

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That example they say and that's what they're really going to feed off of 100% you know.

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So I was just curious about that.

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Well, that's fantastic.

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So for going back to the balance of home and work life, when you were a kid, what was your

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vision of your work life and home life growing up?

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What was your want and need?

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Did you have something figured out?

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Is this always what you wanted to do?

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No, I didn't.

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I wish I could tell people that.

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I don't have that story of like, oh, I knew I was going to be in real estate when I grew

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up.

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So background was just crazy.

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It was just, I don't know, it's interesting because I look back at it and everybody likes

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to throw all these words around like trauma and all this shit today and it's just life.

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I don't get tied up and let that lean on me.

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Stuff happens and there's always somebody out there that has a worse story than mine.

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Too many people like to get in these competitions and contests today of the woes me and I've

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had a worse story.

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This shit happens.

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Some people are worse, some people are better.

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None of that matters.

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It really just, hey, where did you pick up the torch at and where do you start running?

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That's really what matters.

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Work with what tools you got.

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So when I grew up, we grew up in Vegas.

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That's where I was born and raised at.

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My dad, hardworking dude, owned a little concrete business.

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Nothing major, like literally one truck and like three of his buddies and they used to

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pour concrete and sidewalks and stuff like that.

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When I was seven, I have a sister who's one year younger.

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She was six and I have a little brother who was four and he ended up passing away.

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Basically my dad had an old, it was like a 64, 65 Chevy pickup and we would ride when

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my dad would back in the yard every day from coming home from doing concrete work.

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We'd jump on his bumper and we'd back in the yard.

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He had a little ball hitch, like a two inch ball hitch and my little brother, we were

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both standing on the bumper and his foot slipped and he did a face plant on the ball hitch

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and the ball hitch went basically through his eye socket.

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So I'd saw that and beat on my dad's door and so my dad stops.

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And it's crazy because I was seven and I can remember that exactly like it was yesterday.

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It was one of my craziest childhood things. You know 

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So did that, my dad went into a crazy depression because my brother had unfortunately passed

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away from that.

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We lived in a rental property for six months and got evicted from that and we literally

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ended up in Arizona with 500 bucks in our pocket.

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My mom was out here back in 96 doing campaigning for a guy.

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There was a guy running for state senator.

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My mom was like an admin support helping out with that.

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So they had an office over off of Indian school.

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And so at that time my dad basically didn't even tell her.

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He literally had a yard sale.

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Everything that didn't sell, we just threw in a U-Haul and we got like 500 bucks from

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the yard sale.

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It's just what we had left.

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Our old 64 Chevy Suburban and this like old, it was like an 86, 87 Cadillac El Dorado.

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That's what we had left.

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So we literally showed up in Arizona.

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Told my mom, my dad's like, we're here.

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We're going to figure it out.

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We don't know.

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And luckily the guy, when we got here that my mom was working for, let us stay in his

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office building.

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He had a little, it's like a little building in downtown Phoenix and he's like, you guys

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can stay there.

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So we stayed there for a couple of weeks.

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My dad got a job doing underground utilities, digging tractor backhoe type work and stuff

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like that.

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We ended up in South Phoenix renting a property.

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We didn't know South Phoenix was South Phoenix at the time.

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So we stayed there.

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Had two of our cars stolen within an eight month period.

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Nothing fancy.

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This one car, we woke up one morning, it was just gone.

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They took it and lit it on fire.

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Took it for a joyride.

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Bought another one.

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It was like this old 80, I think it was like an 89 or 90 Buick La Sabre.

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Nothing crazy.

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Literally four months later they stole that and they found it out in the desert smashed

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up with like three other cars.

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And then the breaking point, we were at El Prado school, or El Prado Park.

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It was right there on like 19th Avenue in Dobbins area.

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My sister and I were at a swim meet.

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Some gang got in a shootout.

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It was like a Saturday morning.

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A couple gunshots broke out in the park.

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All my parents were like, well, he's got to get the hell out of here.

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My dad happened to be doing a job site all the way out in Maricopa, Arizona.

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Mind you, this was like back in 96, 97.

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Nothing out there.

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There was nothing out there. He was doing a job site and he goes, you know, I found this really great deal on this trailer.

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It was like a single wide like 6, 700 square foot trailer out there that we could get into

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and they were willing to do like an owner finance situation for my dad on like three

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acres.

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That's where we moved.

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Bought this little single wide trailer out there.

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I remember them taking me out there because mind you, I grew up in like Vegas at the time.

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So it's like, you know, my dad was concrete business and did kind of DJing on the side

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of these little dive bars at night to pay the bills to like, we go out there.

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And I kid you not going down like the highway, there's a guy on a horse.

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I'm like, what the hell is this out here?

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This is out in the middle of freaking nowhere.

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So we went to school.

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That's where we moved.

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We grew up.

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I moved out there.

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I think I was like seventh grade, eighth grade, and we went to a two way school.

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Elementary, middle, high school was all there.

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My graduating class, I graduated in 03.

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I think there was only like 30, 40 of us.

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oh wow. Yeah, tiny school, our graduation was over like 30 minutes.

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Principal lived across the street.

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And yeah, so that's where I grew up.

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So you know, to tie all that together, I had a conversation with my friend actually on

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the way here.

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He grew up out there.

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He owns an extremely successful AC company.

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He comes from a very similar background.

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I grew up out there on his parents work the farms and he grew up in a little house out

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there and stuff.

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Is he the guy that jut came and fixed your AC?

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Yes.

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Yes.

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So him and I were literally chatting.

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He just called me.

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He's like, hey, I was going on the freeway.

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I was like, hey, I was going to this Lambo and I was trying to race him.

476
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I thought it was you.

477
00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:05,480
And you know, we started laughing because he's like, it's crazy because we both like,

478
00:19:05,480 --> 00:19:08,920
you know, we're two very successful people that came out of this little town.

479
00:19:08,920 --> 00:19:13,240
And so I was talking to him about it and we got on the topic.

480
00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:17,720
But to really circle back to all of this is that I just got really freaking tired of not

481
00:19:17,720 --> 00:19:20,680
having, you know, I grew up and it was always can't afford this, can't have this.

482
00:19:20,680 --> 00:19:24,000
Got my first job at 12 years old washing airplanes because it was the only thing that was out there.

483
00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:25,000
That's an interesting job.

484
00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:26,720
It was a glider ride place out there.

485
00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:28,960
So it was within three miles of my house.

486
00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:31,440
So I used to get up at five in the morning and ride my bike down there.

487
00:19:31,440 --> 00:19:33,840
And I'd wash airplanes in the morning when I was 12 and I'd stay there.

488
00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:37,680
I worked for two bucks an hour and I got tips on the weekends and then I'd push the airplanes

489
00:19:37,680 --> 00:19:38,720
back.

490
00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:39,720
So I did that.

491
00:19:39,720 --> 00:19:42,280
I picked melons in the melon field, just did whatever I could.

492
00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:48,000
But I got it's just one of those things like I would see people that were successful and

493
00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:49,000
I never really understood.

494
00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:52,760
There was always just seemed like there was this massive gap, you know.

495
00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:54,480
And I truly believe that's why I like who I am today.

496
00:19:54,480 --> 00:19:58,000
I try to pour into so many like kids and stuff like that is just trying to be that bridge

497
00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:01,960
because it's really it was just a matter of I didn't know anybody successful growing up.

498
00:20:01,960 --> 00:20:04,160
I grew up like with people that were just average blue collar.

499
00:20:04,160 --> 00:20:05,160
Like I literally had nobody.

500
00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:07,040
They're like, oh, I make really good money.

501
00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:08,040
This is how you do it.

502
00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:09,040
Right.

503
00:20:09,040 --> 00:20:10,040
They can really show me how to build.

504
00:20:10,040 --> 00:20:11,040
Mentors, yeah. 

505
00:20:11,040 --> 00:20:12,040
How to build that bridge from here to here.

506
00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:13,040
Like how do you get from here?

507
00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:14,280
I didn't have that.

508
00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:16,760
And so I just had this crazy relentless drive.

509
00:20:16,760 --> 00:20:18,440
I didn't know what it was going to look like.

510
00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:21,320
You know, I started off doing construction, underground utilities, dirt work.

511
00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:22,320
I got very lucky.

512
00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:25,920
I got a random phone call one day from a lady that I used to go to school with that had

513
00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:27,120
a job at University of Phoenix.

514
00:20:27,120 --> 00:20:28,520
And that was my very first sales job.

515
00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:29,520
Didn't know what I was doing. Oh wow.

516
00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:30,520
She's like, you want a job?

517
00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:31,520
I was like, doing what?

518
00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:33,680
And she was like, just making calls to people.

519
00:20:33,680 --> 00:20:35,120
I'm like, is it in the air conditioning?

520
00:20:35,120 --> 00:20:38,200
I remember I was sitting in Fountain Hills and a frigging backhoe digging a ditch for

521
00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:39,800
cocks putting in fiber optic line.

522
00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:42,080
It was July, hundred and some degrees out.

523
00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:43,080
And I'm like, is it an AC?

524
00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:44,080
She's like, yes.

525
00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:45,080
How much?

526
00:20:45,080 --> 00:20:46,080
She's like 13 bucks an hour or something.

527
00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:47,080
I'm like, done.

528
00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:48,080
I'll try.

529
00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:49,080
I don't even know what I'm doing.

530
00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:50,080
I'll try.

531
00:20:50,080 --> 00:20:51,840
You know, that was the first time I ever even had a pair of dress pants.

532
00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:53,400
Like she's like, you gotta wear dress clothes.

533
00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:57,960
I'm like, I got jeans and work boots and stuff and I thought it was the easiest thing ever.

534
00:20:57,960 --> 00:20:59,600
I'm like, this is a cakewalk job.

535
00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:02,480
Like I used to make 11 bucks an hour digging frigging ditches and laying asphalt.

536
00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:05,840
And you're telling me I could work in the AC and make 35 grand a year and go to school

537
00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:07,640
for free.

538
00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:08,640
So I just killed it.

539
00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:11,600
I'm like, this is so much better.

540
00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:15,360
And so, you know, I guess if I had to really summarize it, you just take opportunities

541
00:21:15,360 --> 00:21:16,360
as it comes.

542
00:21:16,360 --> 00:21:17,360
You know what I mean?

543
00:21:17,360 --> 00:21:18,360
It's really hard to map out.

544
00:21:18,360 --> 00:21:21,680
When I hear these kids that are like 20, you're like, I'm going to go do this.

545
00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:22,680
I don't know.

546
00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:25,360
There's a lot of things I thought I wanted to do and I tried it and it's like, I just

547
00:21:25,360 --> 00:21:26,360
don't love that.

548
00:21:26,360 --> 00:21:27,360
It's just not what I'm good at.

549
00:21:27,360 --> 00:21:28,360
Yeah. Trial and error.

550
00:21:28,360 --> 00:21:29,840
And then now, I mean, it's really true.

551
00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:30,840
You kind of build the life you want.

552
00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:33,560
Like for me, it's just my life's an entire game of Monopoly.

553
00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:37,640
I literally buy houses, sell houses, market houses, buy rental properties, fix them up.

554
00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:38,640
It's a shit ton of fun.

555
00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:39,640
It's so fun to me.

556
00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:40,640
Like, and I love it.

557
00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:43,360
Like I don't get tired of, you know, in the hardest days, you know, I want to go home

558
00:21:43,360 --> 00:21:44,520
and not talk to anybody.

559
00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:47,880
But I finally, but that was never on my radar when I was a kid.

560
00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:48,880
I never grew.

561
00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:52,840
I don't want to be a real estate agent when I grew up and everybody wants to be an astronaut

562
00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:53,840
or a cop or some stuff like that.

563
00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:57,800
It's just opportunity comes and a better opportunity comes and a better opportunity comes and you

564
00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:00,400
find something a little more that you like and a little more of it you like and you really

565
00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:01,400
identify don't like this.

566
00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:05,720
I'm going to go do something different until you find something you just love and happen

567
00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:08,520
to make good money at and you can be really good at it.

568
00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:11,520
I wouldn't even say it's passion because to be honest, like my passion is building cars

569
00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:12,520
and working on cars.

570
00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:14,080
I don't do that for a living.

571
00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:15,080
You know what I mean?

572
00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:18,280
Because eventually I get tired of it, but I'm really good at real estate and it pays

573
00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:19,280
me good.

574
00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:21,280
You know, I'm between the two and here's where I am now.

575
00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:22,840
So now you can use that to build cars.

576
00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:23,840
You got it 100%.

577
00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:24,840
 Yeah you're building one right now.

578
00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:26,760
I'm really eager to see what comes from that.

579
00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:29,680
So going back to the hunger aspect.

580
00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:31,400
So you said, Hey, what really drove you?

581
00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:35,160
The hunger that you had was really being sick of not having anything.

582
00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:40,040
So now that you have stuff, now that you've grown a successful company and built yourself

583
00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:42,600
into a seven figure person is what I would call it.

584
00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:44,760
Like what do you do to keep that hunger there?

585
00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:46,920
Keep it, keep it going.

586
00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:49,880
It's not, it's really so motivation changes, right?

587
00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:53,680
Like when I was a kid, it was, I remember I put a Facebook post up.

588
00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:57,560
It's like 22 and I was like, if I could just make a hundred grand a year, I'd be set.

589
00:22:57,560 --> 00:22:58,680
It was the craziest thing.

590
00:22:58,680 --> 00:23:00,400
Like that was, that literally was like my goal.

591
00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:01,400
A hundred grand.

592
00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:03,480
If I can make a hundred G's a year, I'd be set.

593
00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:05,800
It popped up in my memories like three years ago and I laughed.

594
00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:10,560
I was like, if I made a hundred grand right now, like in my position for like what I do,

595
00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:12,280
I literally would consider myself homeless.

596
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:15,040
So from, from my capabilities, you know what I mean?

597
00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:21,280
And so with that being said, it's, I really have just learned that it's never, there is

598
00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:22,280
not an end game.

599
00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:23,280
It's an infinite game.

600
00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:26,680
A lot of people that get into business, they have this picture painted of I'm going to

601
00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:29,280
do this, this, I'm going to build my company, this, I'm just going to sell my company.

602
00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:31,920
And it never almost ever works out that way.

603
00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:35,240
And it's really, it's a frustrating way when you think about that, because at that point

604
00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:36,800
you always have your eye on a finish line.

605
00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:41,560
At that point, you're always like, okay, I'm just aiming for this, this $10 million valuation

606
00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:44,920
of my business so I can sell it and go sip Pini Coladas on a beach.

607
00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:48,560
But in reality, if you just fall in love with the process of growing every year, right?

608
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:51,680
Like if you were to ask me when I very first got into real estate, I'll never have a team.

609
00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:52,680
I didn't want one.

610
00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:55,440
Like my first team, I did literally, I had to have it out of necessity because I got

611
00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:56,440
so busy.

612
00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:57,960
My wife literally was like, you're hiring somebody.

613
00:23:57,960 --> 00:23:59,280
I said, no, hell no.

614
00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:00,960
When I left corporate America, I don't want to work for anybody.

615
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:01,960
I'm working for myself.

616
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:05,880
Grew a team, grew in successful, found out, you know, I really love taking people that

617
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:08,240
have a passion for real estate and teaching them how to do a business.

618
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:09,240
I was good at it. Yeah.

619
00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:10,440
Ran a successful team.

620
00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:12,000
I'll never own a frigging brokerage.

621
00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:13,000
I don't, forget that.

622
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:15,760
I don't get too much overhead, too much work, too much responsibility.

623
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:16,760
Here I am.

624
00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:17,760
Right.

625
00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:21,040
So if I were to follow that rule of my whole life's planned out, right, instead of just

626
00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:24,980
having an open mind to things, right, what feels good, what feels right, what opportunities

627
00:24:24,980 --> 00:24:28,800
cross my plate and what's next, I could be doing something completely different in the

628
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:29,800
next 20 years.

629
00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:32,400
I don't know, you know, but as long as I love what I'm doing and as long as I still see

630
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:34,840
that there's runway to grow, I'm going to keep doing that.

631
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:36,920
And I tell people that in business all the time.

632
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:38,640
I'm like, don't lock yourself into one thing.

633
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:40,640
There is a thing where you have to stay consistent, right?

634
00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:43,900
There's an opposite side of that where you get these young guys that are like every you

635
00:24:43,900 --> 00:24:45,920
see it every other month, they're doing something new.

636
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:50,480
I'm selling frigging, you know, this whatever, you know, MLM program and I'm doing this and

637
00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:51,480
I'm doing this and I'm doing this.

638
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:54,200
And you're like, holy crap, dude, like you're not giving yourself enough time for your seeds

639
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:56,160
to plant, you know, that you put down.

640
00:24:56,160 --> 00:25:00,560
But at this point in my career, to answer your question, to keep it going, it's an infinite

641
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:01,560
game.

642
00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:02,800
Like I couldn't even see myself retiring.

643
00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:04,320
I don't even know what that would look like.

644
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:05,480
It looked to me.

645
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:06,960
It looks like depressing.

646
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:07,960
Yeah.

647
00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:08,960
Yeah.

648
00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:13,600
I picture myself like retired and just traveling around and sitting like it doesn't even.

649
00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:14,880
And now could that change?

650
00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:15,880
Maybe.

651
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:18,880
But right now I'm just more focused on like, hey, how can we continue to grow?

652
00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:19,880
How can we get better?

653
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:20,880
How can we focus?

654
00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:23,720
And then as long as I keep that mission, naturally things behind me are going to grow.

655
00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:25,000
I don't get tied to a dollar amount.

656
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:27,160
I don't get tied to a here's my exit plan.

657
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:28,160
I don't tie to any of that.

658
00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:30,540
It's just every year am I moving forward?

659
00:25:30,540 --> 00:25:32,240
Every year is my income growing.

660
00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:33,840
Every year is my business growing.

661
00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:34,960
Every year am I growing.

662
00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:38,360
And that's all my field goal is, is every year to make sure that it's a little further

663
00:25:38,360 --> 00:25:42,560
and a little further and a little further and where the chips lie in that I'm okay with.

664
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:43,560
Yeah.

665
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:44,560
So that's fantastic.

666
00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:48,000
So yeah, that was pretty much every single question that I had.

667
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:51,120
I mean, we really just want to dig into like what you do and kind of your perspective on

668
00:25:51,120 --> 00:25:52,120
everything.

669
00:25:52,120 --> 00:25:56,040
How can people get ahold of you if they want to buy a home, sell a home?

670
00:25:56,040 --> 00:26:01,120
All over social media, Blake_sells_AZ Facebook, Blake Clark, I'm

671
00:26:01,120 --> 00:26:02,560
all over there, all over the internet.

672
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:03,560
Just Google it.

673
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:07,000
Yeah we'll have your links at the bottom page for all of you guys, I want to, you know, like I said, he's a great

674
00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:08,000
realtor.

675
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:09,200
He's been able to do some work on his house.

676
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:13,760
And so to be able to see different kinds of side of him, especially from a business aspect

677
00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:17,800
and really kind of working together as a team to kind of make his house come to life.

678
00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:18,800
So it's been fantastic.

679
00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:19,800
He's a great guy.

680
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:22,400
Like I said, there's nobody else that would be better to sell your home or help you find

681
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:23,400
a home.

682
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:24,400
So that's Blake Limitless Realty.

683
00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:28,400
Thank you guys for tuning in to Homework Assignment and stay tuned for the upcoming episodes.

684
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:29,400
Thanks for having me guys. Appreciate it. 

685
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:42,760
We'll see you soon.

