1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:16,920 Hi, this is my first podcast and I thought what better not to have my sister on my first 2 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:22,360 podcast I can get comfortable and look at her setup if you guys are watching from YouTube 3 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:24,520 look at her setup. 4 00:00:24,520 --> 00:00:31,520 So wow, long time. 5 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:32,520 Beautiful. 6 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:33,520 Thank you. 7 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:34,520 So do you. 8 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:35,520 Thank you. 9 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:43,280 So I have my notes here and I thought let's start it for people that pretend people don't 10 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:44,280 know you. 11 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:47,040 So, okay, let's start it like that. 12 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:52,200 Obviously, I already said we're sisters, but let's just dive in. 13 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:54,480 So we have the one and only. 14 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:55,480 Jada Amour. 15 00:00:55,480 --> 00:01:02,480 She has 600,000 plus followers on Instagram. 16 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:04,480 I love this. 17 00:01:04,480 --> 00:01:07,480 And I got my celebrity. 18 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:11,480 Yeah, you got all though, like a Instagram one. 19 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:17,480 So I want to just open up the video for people that may not know you like let's start with 20 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:18,480 their social media. 21 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:23,880 So like, when how old were you when you first started on social media preferably your Instagram 22 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:27,440 because that's kind of where you have the bigger following right? 23 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:29,280 Right, right, right, right. 24 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:31,680 Okay, we'll interview. 25 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:40,840 So it started I think I was what 16 when we went into homeschooling and I was bored. 26 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:42,200 So I was like, I want to model. 27 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:50,200 I want to, you know, work on my Instagram and I think around 17 is when it started climbing 28 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:57,080 because I was with my first boyfriend and I posted a little couple videos and those 29 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:59,160 were going viral. 30 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:01,680 And so it climbed my Instagram up. 31 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:07,600 So I've been doing social media since I was a teenager, like a young age. 32 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:13,880 And then after that I went into 18 we moved to LA and that's when I started modeling and 33 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:20,180 you know, being a little bit more of like an Instagram model and yeah, that's that's 34 00:02:20,180 --> 00:02:21,180 where it started. 35 00:02:21,180 --> 00:02:22,760 So I've been doing it for a long time. 36 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:26,600 So when you started it was like a couples thing that kind of made you grow like the 37 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:29,200 couple photo Instagram era. 38 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:35,840 And then when you guys broke up, where did you start taking your platform from there? 39 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:38,600 Like what was your content? 40 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:43,640 So that's when my content was just in a swimwear working for fashion over pretty little thing 41 00:02:43,640 --> 00:02:47,200 I got brands with them and I was working for them full time. 42 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:51,960 I kind of just would just ride the wave of whatever was trending. 43 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:54,520 So when I first started that's what was trending was like couples. 44 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:57,520 You had a lot of YouTube couples that are going viral. 45 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:00,080 So I was sticking to what's working. 46 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:01,080 Yeah. 47 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:05,560 So what made you continue with social media till this day? 48 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:06,560 Do you enjoy it? 49 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:07,560 Yeah. 50 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:09,560 I was like, I like it. 51 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:11,560 I was like, I like it. 52 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:13,560 I don't know. 53 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:14,560 Okay. 54 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:15,920 It's just a part of me. 55 00:03:15,920 --> 00:03:16,920 Yeah. 56 00:03:16,920 --> 00:03:17,920 I don't even remember. 57 00:03:17,920 --> 00:03:18,920 I don't even remember. 58 00:03:18,920 --> 00:03:19,920 You started when you were young. 59 00:03:19,920 --> 00:03:22,360 So it's like a part of my confidence. 60 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:25,000 So it's like kind of an ego thing. 61 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:29,120 I kind of have to showcase myself of like what my new journey is. 62 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:30,120 Yeah. 63 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:31,120 Like a part of my life. 64 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:32,720 It's a part of my life. 65 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:35,200 I don't think I necessarily enjoy it sometimes. 66 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:38,800 I don't want to do it, but it feels weird not to do it. 67 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:39,800 Yeah. 68 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:40,800 I feel that. 69 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:41,800 I feel the same way. 70 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:46,360 So do you have any regrets on starting that young on social media? 71 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:49,960 Like how's it affected your self-esteem? 72 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:53,840 Maybe your self-value, your self-worth, your confidence. 73 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:59,320 Cause I know for a minute it was skyrocketing our confidence. 74 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:01,440 So any regrets? 75 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:03,320 What's your, what do you feel? 76 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:04,320 Absolutely. 77 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:06,920 I don't want my kids on social media. 78 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:15,520 Oh, when I have children, it, it boosts my confidence at the time because I just endured 79 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:21,840 what we both endured, like just bullying and just bad experience experiences in our teenage 80 00:04:21,840 --> 00:04:22,840 years. 81 00:04:22,840 --> 00:04:30,960 And so I think it did boost our confidence and made us feel good, but it also, you get 82 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:34,920 addicted to going viral and seeing the views. 83 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:36,720 So there was mistakes we definitely made. 84 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:41,560 I definitely made to get quick either money or views. 85 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:45,360 And yeah, when you're doing social media and you started that young, you're just, 86 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:49,880 you don't see how this stuff will affect your life. 87 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:50,880 It's just fun. 88 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:51,960 You're in the moment. 89 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:56,600 You're very much in the moment and it can ruin your reputation by making the wrong mistake 90 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:58,600 or saying the wrong thing. 91 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:02,640 There's plenty of times I've gone on live and people screen recorded them and I was 92 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:08,960 like cussing out an ex or somebody and that is on YouTube and that's not even a part of 93 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:11,560 my character anymore. 94 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:19,240 And also it would affect me when I settled down into getting married. 95 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:23,400 I had such a big ego because I was used to getting praised all the time. 96 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:24,520 That's another thing. 97 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:32,000 I was used to people being more mesmerized by me and caring about everything I do that 98 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:36,800 I had a hard time not being narcissistic. 99 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:41,280 And I think that social media does create a lot of narcissistic people. 100 00:05:41,280 --> 00:05:43,640 I mean, how could it not? 101 00:05:43,640 --> 00:05:48,840 People are following you to see what you're doing, how you're doing it. 102 00:05:48,840 --> 00:05:50,200 You're going to get a little big headed. 103 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:51,280 I agree. 104 00:05:51,280 --> 00:05:55,200 So lightly like kind of going into getting obsessed with being viral. 105 00:05:55,200 --> 00:06:00,360 Like you said, I lightly just want to touch on this because I know we're probably not 106 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:07,200 the main piece for this, but lightly want to touch on kind of when I first became viral 107 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:16,280 being on social media too with you was, you know, we got a little caught up into a scandal. 108 00:06:16,280 --> 00:06:18,520 And I feel like we've never talked about it. 109 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:26,800 And I know it's cringy and I don't think people know how bad we like are just so embarrassed 110 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:27,800 of that time. 111 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:28,800 It's so embarrassing. 112 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:30,760 Like I was 17. 113 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:32,160 You were 18 years old. 114 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:38,120 I would never, you know, even care to do any of that anymore, but I did. 115 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:39,120 I want to talk about it. 116 00:06:39,120 --> 00:06:47,360 For the people that don't know, we are talking about a scandal we were involved in with some, 117 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:50,960 I won't name them, but they're the two, they're two. 118 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:53,880 At the time there were some famous YouTubers. 119 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:59,920 They were married and they had a family channel and basically correct me if I'm wrong, but 120 00:06:59,920 --> 00:07:04,920 we kind of, you know, hopped on. 121 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:10,920 We hopped on because, you know, we knew there was some infidelity and we right away turned 122 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:17,240 it into a YouTube video telling the story of what we witnessed of the infidelity and 123 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:26,720 yeah, I just, it was my first time really being on social media. 124 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:32,800 And I think, you know, we always shy away from talking about this, but it's kind of 125 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:36,160 how I started my following to be completely honest with you. 126 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:42,240 I blew up, got 10,000 followers in like two months because of that situation. 127 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:48,120 And I think before we posted this YouTube video, we didn't really have any idea that 128 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:52,120 it was going to become as big as it was. 129 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:55,160 Of course we knew people were going to see it and people were going to talk about it 130 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:58,560 and it was drama because that's what we were doing, but I don't think we realized it was 131 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:01,040 going to blow up. 132 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:02,480 It's still on the internet. 133 00:08:02,480 --> 00:08:04,080 I mean, it really is. 134 00:08:04,080 --> 00:08:14,040 So I don't think we realized that far into it and how was receiving someone's entire 135 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:21,280 million follower fan base attacking you and us, me, you and the third person involved, 136 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:24,440 but like how was that? 137 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:25,440 How was that on you? 138 00:08:25,440 --> 00:08:32,160 Wasn't that your first time like getting really severely a whole fan base just bullying you? 139 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:33,320 Yeah. 140 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:41,320 I mean, we went from kind of having some followers and doing our own little thing to a lot of 141 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:44,400 people had their eyes on us and in a bad way. 142 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:50,120 And I think the dumbest part was that mean you didn't have contact with this guy. 143 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:54,320 We weren't intimately involved with this guy. 144 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:59,200 We were friends with a girl that was and we just so happened to be like, oh, this would 145 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:03,040 be a great opportunity to also get our name out there. 146 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:10,120 And it was the dumbest way to possibly take advantage of some followers. 147 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:11,120 Of some followers. 148 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:16,320 And when you're young and you're, you know, there are people that don't mind trolling 149 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:20,880 and don't mind having that associated with their name. 150 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:27,200 But I think that being older, having a team, you know, a management team is so important 151 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:31,200 because they will tell you what is smart and what's not smart. 152 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:36,560 And when we're young and just have access to social media, you want to, you might get 153 00:09:36,560 --> 00:09:43,840 a little like, oh, this will go viral or this will, and you're not thinking about, hey, 154 00:09:43,840 --> 00:09:46,160 wait a second, this is like real life. 155 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:47,160 Yeah. 156 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:50,400 People that are actually really married, you know? 157 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:51,400 Yeah. 158 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:56,680 And I think too, like pay backing off of that, us both kind of being in me engaged and you 159 00:09:56,680 --> 00:10:01,560 married, like I couldn't imagine my marriage. 160 00:10:01,560 --> 00:10:03,720 Yeah, I couldn't imagine that. 161 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:04,720 Yeah. 162 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:05,720 And it's just like now we're older. 163 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:09,000 We realize, you know, marriage has struggles, has ups and downs. 164 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:12,280 It has, it's forgiveness, it's work. 165 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:18,360 So to know that, you know, what we did, we were just not thinking anywhere near that. 166 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:19,360 Immaturity. 167 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:20,360 Yeah. 168 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:26,400 Honestly, you know, when you're a little bit younger, not to make excuses, but you're 169 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:31,200 not really in real life, like thinking about real life, you know what I mean? 170 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:36,680 Like, to me, as just YouTubers, they make videos and do stuff to a viral at the time, 171 00:10:36,680 --> 00:10:37,680 so why can't we? 172 00:10:37,680 --> 00:10:43,440 But that's their brand, they have an agreement, they go through, they still married and go 173 00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:44,440 through their own things. 174 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:48,520 And this is very much a personal issue that could have been brought to her personally 175 00:10:48,520 --> 00:10:52,480 instead of not thinking about that part, you know what I mean? 176 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:57,440 And yes, like you said, now being married and you're engaged and we're in very serious 177 00:10:57,440 --> 00:11:02,840 relationships, you see that, we see that you go through rough times and you don't want 178 00:11:02,840 --> 00:11:08,800 anybody knowing the rough times or getting leaks before you got to decide if you even 179 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:11,320 want that information out. 180 00:11:11,320 --> 00:11:12,320 It's exactly. 181 00:11:12,320 --> 00:11:13,320 Yeah. 182 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:14,320 I agree. 183 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:16,000 So just had to touch on that. 184 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:18,040 We've never talked about that in years. 185 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:19,040 Yeah. 186 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:20,040 Okay. 187 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:21,040 This is a big... 188 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:24,920 Well, if she ever comes across this, we apologize for... 189 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:27,520 I do sincerely apologize. 190 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:34,360 I do sincerely apologize, but I'm glad to see, you know, hopefully she's in a happier place 191 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:35,360 today. 192 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:36,360 That always makes me feel good. 193 00:11:36,360 --> 00:11:37,360 So... 194 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:38,360 Amen. 195 00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:39,360 Yes. 196 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:49,000 So, taking a turnover on social media and your platform, what you do, let's bring it 197 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:51,680 back to what you did. 198 00:11:51,680 --> 00:11:55,800 And I want to talk about only fans. 199 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:56,800 So... 200 00:11:56,800 --> 00:11:57,800 Okay. 201 00:11:57,800 --> 00:11:58,800 Okay. 202 00:11:58,800 --> 00:11:59,800 I'm scared. 203 00:11:59,800 --> 00:12:00,800 No. 204 00:12:00,800 --> 00:12:01,800 Okay. 205 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:04,240 So me and you both kind of started OnlyFans. 206 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:06,760 We opened up an OnlyFans account at the same time. 207 00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:12,400 I remember I was 19 and we were texting about it and I hadn't heard of it yet, but you were 208 00:12:12,400 --> 00:12:14,200 like, should I get on it? 209 00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:16,120 I heard, you know, you make a lot of money. 210 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:17,120 Should I do it? 211 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:18,600 And I was like, hold on. 212 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:19,600 Let's do it. 213 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:20,600 It makes sense. 214 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:22,600 We have all these male followers. 215 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:29,800 It's really easier to make money when you have a lot of male followers than using fashion 216 00:12:29,800 --> 00:12:31,960 brands because they see your insights. 217 00:12:31,960 --> 00:12:33,880 They see you don't have a lot of females. 218 00:12:33,880 --> 00:12:34,880 Right. 219 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:38,880 So it's harder to get paid and I don't know if a lot of people that aren't influencers 220 00:12:38,880 --> 00:12:44,760 know that, but it's actually, you know, brands like to work, fashion Nova fashion brands 221 00:12:44,760 --> 00:12:47,320 like to work with people that have a lot of woman followers. 222 00:12:47,320 --> 00:12:52,280 You know, why would they want to pay somebody that's got mainly men? 223 00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:59,040 So at the time it sounded perfect to, for both of us, I think my, I think I had 80% 224 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:00,040 male followers. 225 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:01,560 Could you say this near the same? 226 00:13:01,560 --> 00:13:03,280 Yes, nearly the same. 227 00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:04,280 So yeah. 228 00:13:04,280 --> 00:13:06,600 So it just made sense. 229 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:11,200 This platform made sense to make money from it, make money from all these followers we 230 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:12,840 have to hop on. 231 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:18,760 Only fans, I don't think either one of our intentions nor did we was to be nude or, you 232 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:22,480 know, the real reputation only fans has or had. 233 00:13:22,480 --> 00:13:23,480 Right. 234 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:27,880 But, you know, the photos we were already posting were very seductive. 235 00:13:27,880 --> 00:13:31,040 So why not, you know, put it on something where you can get paid. 236 00:13:31,040 --> 00:13:36,800 So don't be into only fans, I feel like you talk a lot about only fans on your Instagram. 237 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:43,120 You're very open with how you quit only fans and what came after that financially. 238 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:49,480 So I kind of just speak for you, but I want to know like in the beginning of only fans, 239 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:52,560 what was your thought process of using this platform? 240 00:13:52,560 --> 00:13:56,240 What did you want to gain from this platform? 241 00:13:56,240 --> 00:13:57,240 Money. 242 00:13:57,240 --> 00:13:58,240 Yeah. 243 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:01,960 I love how professional you are with these questions. 244 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:04,720 Girl, money broke. 245 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:06,120 I was broke. 246 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:07,120 Okay. 247 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:12,160 And I remember specifically that so many people told me that I should do only fans. 248 00:14:12,160 --> 00:14:13,560 I was like, no, I can't do it. 249 00:14:13,560 --> 00:14:20,000 No, I can't do it because I'm already so extra on Instagram wearing bathing suits and my booties 250 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:22,160 all out most of the time in these bathing suits. 251 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:25,360 And when I found out you said, I'm going to do only fans. 252 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:26,600 I could just post swimsuits. 253 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:36,080 I said, what little miss, you are very little miss conservative, very, I don't want people 254 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:37,920 to see me a certain way. 255 00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:41,920 And so when you were hopping on it, I said, I'm doing it. 256 00:14:41,920 --> 00:14:45,400 And I wanted to make some money. 257 00:14:45,400 --> 00:14:52,440 I owed money to an apartment and I was working so for fashion over at the time, but it's 258 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:54,720 not as big of a check as only fans. 259 00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:57,000 And you can just pay off everything. 260 00:14:57,000 --> 00:14:58,520 And that's why, honestly. 261 00:14:58,520 --> 00:14:59,520 Okay. 262 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:05,080 So this is going to be the hot question of the day. 263 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:10,040 What is the most money you made on only fans in one month? 264 00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:11,040 10,000. 265 00:15:11,040 --> 00:15:15,960 Girl, people would make it more though. 266 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:17,680 I know, I know them. 267 00:15:17,680 --> 00:15:18,800 I know some of them. 268 00:15:18,800 --> 00:15:23,600 But okay, how old were you when you made 10,000 a month off of pictures? 269 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:25,480 Yo, how old were you? 270 00:15:25,480 --> 00:15:26,480 You had to be 20. 271 00:15:26,480 --> 00:15:27,480 I was 19. 272 00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:28,480 20. 273 00:15:28,480 --> 00:15:29,480 20. 274 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:30,480 Yeah. 275 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:33,440 So that's a young age. 276 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:34,920 That's what I was going to say. 277 00:15:34,920 --> 00:15:39,680 Being 20 and receiving $10,000 in a month. 278 00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:41,720 Like how did you spend your money? 279 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:46,120 Like were you, that's a lot for a 20 year old to have. 280 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:48,120 I just want to know. 281 00:15:48,120 --> 00:15:49,120 Irresponsibly. 282 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:50,120 Tell us. 283 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:51,120 What did you buy? 284 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:56,120 Girl, I don't even know because you didn't invest in anything. 285 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:57,120 Nothing. 286 00:15:57,120 --> 00:16:05,080 I got myself an apartment at the top floor with a beautiful view that cost me thousands 287 00:16:05,080 --> 00:16:06,520 of dollars a month. 288 00:16:06,520 --> 00:16:11,560 I got a swinging chair, a little swinging chair. 289 00:16:11,560 --> 00:16:17,360 That sounds like sexual, but it was one of those just hammock chairs and that cost me 290 00:16:17,360 --> 00:16:24,360 a couple hundred dollars, got myself a huge screen TV, paid for a maid monthly, went to 291 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:25,360 Miami twice. 292 00:16:25,360 --> 00:16:26,360 I remember that. 293 00:16:26,360 --> 00:16:27,360 One month. 294 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:28,360 Yeah. 295 00:16:28,360 --> 00:16:30,600 You went with, I bought your plane ticket. 296 00:16:30,600 --> 00:16:31,600 You did. 297 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:32,600 I did. 298 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:33,600 And you bought the airplane. 299 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:39,480 Which show, which show Hoochie Money and I bought the ticket for you. 300 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:44,400 It cost $700 that we decided to go to at the last minute. 301 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:45,400 And what else? 302 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:51,200 And then we took a boat ride and we did all kinds of stuff. 303 00:16:51,200 --> 00:16:53,080 What else went to Atlanta? 304 00:16:53,080 --> 00:17:01,440 I invested $10,000 into a short film because I wanted a member, but I don't have access 305 00:17:01,440 --> 00:17:03,120 to it because the guy that. 306 00:17:03,120 --> 00:17:04,120 Okay. 307 00:17:04,120 --> 00:17:07,480 We are getting a little. 308 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:12,040 The guy that helped direct it, put his name on it and I couldn't do nothing with it. 309 00:17:12,040 --> 00:17:14,520 So I wasted 10 racks on that. 310 00:17:14,520 --> 00:17:15,720 Thanks, sir. 311 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:16,720 We appreciate that. 312 00:17:16,720 --> 00:17:19,360 Thank you for a waste of money. 313 00:17:19,360 --> 00:17:20,680 It was fire too. 314 00:17:20,680 --> 00:17:24,640 CGI at all. 315 00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:26,040 So what the heck? 316 00:17:26,040 --> 00:17:30,520 If you could go back, what would you have invested that only fans money on for yourself? 317 00:17:30,520 --> 00:17:39,160 So one thing I did do well is I, I, I, with my last few checks, I, uh, got a seven apartment 318 00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:44,600 me, my husband, apartment and, and we went, I went and paid in full esthetician school 319 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:48,720 and I opened my business with the little money I had saved. 320 00:17:48,720 --> 00:17:52,520 So I think that was the best investment if you know, sometimes me and him talk about 321 00:17:52,520 --> 00:17:55,760 it because at the time I was married when I still had it only fans. 322 00:17:55,760 --> 00:17:59,760 And we wish that, you know, with those last checks, you know, just went in, maybe got 323 00:17:59,760 --> 00:18:05,760 some property, some houses, air be the, the, I see only fans girls do that. 324 00:18:05,760 --> 00:18:06,760 Just be a little smarter. 325 00:18:06,760 --> 00:18:08,760 If you're going to make a decision like that, you don't want to just do all the things that 326 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:09,760 you're going to do. 327 00:18:09,760 --> 00:18:10,760 You want to just do only fans. 328 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:14,320 And then the day you do quit, you have nothing, you know, you haven't built anything. 329 00:18:14,320 --> 00:18:18,280 So if you're going to make a decision like that, at least be, you know, spartan, I think 330 00:18:18,280 --> 00:18:21,120 being an esthetician, I do make pretty good money. 331 00:18:21,120 --> 00:18:25,600 But I wish I, you know, I wish I, I did more because I, I don't have much to show for it. 332 00:18:25,600 --> 00:18:27,160 So that's what I was going to say too. 333 00:18:27,160 --> 00:18:31,120 Like I, because I didn't invest really in any of it at all. 334 00:18:31,120 --> 00:18:32,120 Really. 335 00:18:32,120 --> 00:18:35,960 I mean, I got my boobs done and put a couple hundred away for that, but that was just for 336 00:18:35,960 --> 00:18:38,040 a down payment on them. 337 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:41,200 That was about the most I did, but I didn't make that much. 338 00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:44,720 I think I made like 4,000 on my highest month. 339 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:51,400 And I mean, I didn't really have a high month after that, but same, I would say now to girls 340 00:18:51,400 --> 00:18:56,000 on it, women on only fans, like do what you want to do. 341 00:18:56,000 --> 00:19:01,920 You know, I'll talk in a minute on why, maybe why you quit doing it, but if you are going 342 00:19:01,920 --> 00:19:10,280 to do it, invest in it, like, you know, cause this is not a sustainable, you know, I mean, 343 00:19:10,280 --> 00:19:11,960 your only fans can get removed. 344 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:13,640 Your Instagram can get removed. 345 00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:17,680 I mean, I remember that being always my biggest fear cause that's how I promoted it was through 346 00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:19,680 my Instagram followers, obviously. 347 00:19:19,680 --> 00:19:25,640 So if my Instagram got banned, you ain't getting no more people to go to your only fans. 348 00:19:25,640 --> 00:19:31,880 So, um, and then obviously there's other stuff that comes from that, like, you know, yourself 349 00:19:31,880 --> 00:19:39,160 a seam, your worth, it's, you know, everything kind of gets shot down, but invest in it. 350 00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:41,880 Have a game plan, have a timeline. 351 00:19:41,880 --> 00:19:48,960 Um, cause you know, I don't think it's, especially if you're making $10,000 a month plus, you 352 00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:51,240 should have been bought a house. 353 00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:56,560 Girl, I could have paid off a house. 354 00:19:56,560 --> 00:19:57,560 Right. 355 00:19:57,560 --> 00:19:58,560 Okay. 356 00:19:58,560 --> 00:20:01,400 Tell us why you walked away from only fans for the people that don't know. 357 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:08,160 I know you've spoken on it on YouTube, Instagram before, but, um, you know, why did, why would 358 00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:12,720 somebody who's making a 10,000 month at 20 years old in her early twenties, why would 359 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:16,120 you get off of that platform? 360 00:20:16,120 --> 00:20:21,520 So one thing you did say is, um, like, you know, do what you want to do. 361 00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:24,560 And at the end of the day, I know that we can't stop people from doing what they want 362 00:20:24,560 --> 00:20:25,560 to do. 363 00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:33,720 But I would say don't do it literally as try your hardest to pick something else because 364 00:20:33,720 --> 00:20:37,880 the aftermath of it is just not worth it. 365 00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:45,120 Um, I would say one big reason obviously is my relationship with God. 366 00:20:45,120 --> 00:20:48,360 I started to convert. 367 00:20:48,360 --> 00:20:51,600 I would say, I wouldn't say we really grew up religious. 368 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:52,600 Yeah. 369 00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:54,640 We didn't grow up with that in our household. 370 00:20:54,640 --> 00:21:00,160 Like mom believed in God, but we didn't really talk about it until I, you know, got married 371 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:04,480 and he did come from a religious home and they were in the church and I started to read 372 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:08,200 the Bible more and it made me feel very convicted. 373 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:13,480 And I started to gain this faith of like, if I let this go, I don't know if you ever 374 00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:17,760 seen the picture of the, the teddy bear Jesus has the teddy bear, the big teddy bear brought 375 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:19,560 his back and he's saying, give me the little teddy bear. 376 00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:24,360 Well, my only fans with my little teddy bear, I mean, that was my comfort money, my security 377 00:21:24,360 --> 00:21:28,640 and I just felt him saying, give this to me and then I will give you back something greater. 378 00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:30,200 And I was so scared. 379 00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:31,920 I was so scared because it's comfort. 380 00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:32,960 It's fast money. 381 00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:34,560 It's easy money. 382 00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:38,000 And once I let it go, that's when the tradition started happening. 383 00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:39,280 I went to a statistician school. 384 00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:41,200 I got really good, really fast. 385 00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:48,080 I opened a business and God has just had my back all the way through and I, I feel better 386 00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:54,040 as a woman that I'm not doing something that just sexualizes me. 387 00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:56,680 I'm doing something where I'm proud. 388 00:21:56,680 --> 00:22:03,560 I'm wearing scrubs, you know, to work, you know, and then when I go on my lunch break, 389 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:04,960 you know, people ask, what do you do? 390 00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:06,600 And I get to say, well, I run a business. 391 00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:13,960 I'm an statistician and it just feels good besides doing something that, you know, men 392 00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:15,520 pay to see my body. 393 00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:16,520 Yeah. 394 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:18,360 And it's just, it's just, you're worth more. 395 00:22:18,360 --> 00:22:23,800 I wish I really believed that the time that I was worth more and then, you know, and then 396 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:25,320 it's attached to your name forever. 397 00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:26,320 Yeah. 398 00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:27,840 You know, it's attached to your name forever. 399 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:31,760 There are people that follow me that are always going to remember me as that, that it 400 00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:33,680 will never respect me no matter what I say. 401 00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:36,600 If I say I'm a Christian woman now, if they were to see me on the street, they're going 402 00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:43,160 to still whistle or say, oh, I've seen you half naked, you know, there's also, it messes 403 00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:44,160 with your mind. 404 00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:45,160 Yeah. 405 00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:46,160 Heavily, right? 406 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:47,880 I think you can agree to that. 407 00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:53,960 It, you, when you get money like that, it makes it 10 times harder to humble yourself. 408 00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:58,360 It's so hard to accept slower weeks or slower months financially. 409 00:22:58,360 --> 00:22:59,360 Yeah. 410 00:22:59,360 --> 00:23:04,160 It's like, it's just so easy that I could just, I could just go and do this hustle, you 411 00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:08,880 know, you know, there's people that see me in a way. 412 00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:14,520 I don't want them to have seen me, even though I didn't do porn specifically. 413 00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:19,120 I was sexual, you know, I was sexualized myself. 414 00:23:19,120 --> 00:23:23,160 There's people, anybody has access to your only fans and they can see you in that way. 415 00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:26,040 And we tell ourselves, we don't care. 416 00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:30,400 You know, we tell ourselves, well, I'm a free, I'm a woman, I can do whatever I want and 417 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:32,040 anybody should accept me. 418 00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:34,640 Well, I think let's be realistic. 419 00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:37,760 You should know if you're going to do that, if people are going to look at you a certain 420 00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:42,040 way or treat you a certain way, you have to be okay with that because it's just not realistic 421 00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:44,120 that everyone's going to respect that. 422 00:23:44,120 --> 00:23:45,120 It's just not. 423 00:23:45,120 --> 00:23:46,120 Yeah. 424 00:23:46,120 --> 00:23:47,120 You know what I mean? 425 00:23:47,120 --> 00:23:52,800 So how was it getting in like in a relationship with that, like finding your now who you are 426 00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:53,960 married to? 427 00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:54,960 How was that? 428 00:23:54,960 --> 00:24:00,840 How, you know, how did a woman come back from doing that and find a husband who is strong 429 00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:02,720 in faith? 430 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:03,720 Was that difficult? 431 00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:04,720 Did he accept you? 432 00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:08,600 Did you guys have a conversation about that? 433 00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:16,320 I remember just sitting in the car and he just wasn't supportive, you know, of it. 434 00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:19,280 He did, but he didn't like, it's like, okay, this is what you ought to do to make money, 435 00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:24,200 but I can tell that he was just like, you know, like you could be doing something else. 436 00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:28,600 And that would make me mad, but it was that conviction, that guilt, that like feeling 437 00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:30,120 just like support what I'm doing. 438 00:24:30,120 --> 00:24:31,720 And like, he can't support sin. 439 00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:33,280 It's just not a part of who he is. 440 00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:39,360 And like he thinks that a woman should be more covered or just, you know, value themselves 441 00:24:39,360 --> 00:24:41,200 and keep themselves just for the man. 442 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:45,320 And then when we got married is when it really started to take up a notch. 443 00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:47,920 Before we were married, it was like, I get that's what you want to do. 444 00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:52,440 I think you could do something else, you know, and, you know, put your gifts into somewhere 445 00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:53,440 else. 446 00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:55,160 He was very supportive of any other dream I had. 447 00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:56,160 Yeah. 448 00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:57,160 You know, he's very supportive. 449 00:24:57,160 --> 00:25:00,640 And then when we got married, he said, you know, I don't, I don't like this. 450 00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:02,140 Like, you're my wife. 451 00:25:02,140 --> 00:25:03,140 You know what I mean? 452 00:25:03,140 --> 00:25:10,080 And you're making money off these, these men, you know, and it just made him feel comfortable. 453 00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:13,480 Also like he goes back home to his family and friends. 454 00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:19,040 And if they, you know, they're talking about, oh, his wife, you know, it's shaking her butt 455 00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:20,040 on only fans. 456 00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:22,800 And this isn't embarrassing for a man. 457 00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:27,280 And if you respect your man, I really feel, and he feels some type of way. 458 00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:29,960 Instead of twisting of like, you should just accept me for who I am. 459 00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:33,680 I think it's a partnership where it's like, okay, let me sacrifice something. 460 00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:37,520 And to be honest, what I'm sacrificing is something that is okay to be sacrificing. 461 00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:39,120 It's not the best thing that I'm doing. 462 00:25:39,120 --> 00:25:40,120 Yeah. 463 00:25:40,120 --> 00:25:42,360 So me giving it up isn't like, you're taking something from me. 464 00:25:42,360 --> 00:25:44,200 It's like, you want me to be a better woman. 465 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:48,440 So I value that and respect it, but how he felt for sure. 466 00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:49,440 Yeah. 467 00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:56,000 I think same to everything you said, I, um, I was on it and yeah, we weren't doing porn 468 00:25:56,000 --> 00:26:01,600 or anything like that, but still, you know, those type of pictures and I actually don't 469 00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:03,360 know if you even know this. 470 00:26:03,360 --> 00:26:04,360 I hid it. 471 00:26:04,360 --> 00:26:05,480 I hid it from him. 472 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:09,720 The first, I mean, I didn't tell him. 473 00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:11,120 I hid him from my stories. 474 00:26:11,120 --> 00:26:12,640 Actually, he knows this now. 475 00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:16,680 So I'm telling the world, but what was his reaction when he found out? 476 00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:21,520 I had actually deleted it. 477 00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:26,560 Um, right when we were started having the conversation about how we wanted to get engaged 478 00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:29,360 and I was like, I can't do this. 479 00:26:29,360 --> 00:26:31,280 Like I, it's a different one. 480 00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:32,680 We're dating up in the beginning. 481 00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:33,960 We were a long distance. 482 00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:37,000 I still felt like I had my, I was my own person. 483 00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:40,880 And then when we started talking about, okay, we're going to get engaged in the next few 484 00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:43,000 months, I knew it was coming. 485 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:48,160 I, that's kind of when my panic settled in, cause I was not going to go into this next 486 00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:49,480 step in our life. 487 00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:51,760 And I also felt just a huge amount of guilt. 488 00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:53,360 That's so embarrassing. 489 00:26:53,360 --> 00:26:55,480 And I don't want to be that type of wife. 490 00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:58,440 Like if I'm about to be somebody's wife, I want to be a wife. 491 00:26:58,440 --> 00:26:59,760 So that's how I felt. 492 00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:00,760 Yeah. 493 00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:01,760 Yeah. 494 00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:02,760 It's just like, now this isn't cute anymore. 495 00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:04,120 Like before it was kind of cute. 496 00:27:04,120 --> 00:27:07,400 So I actually, um, I deleted it. 497 00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:08,480 I found a job. 498 00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:11,960 I found a job in my field, um, which I loved. 499 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:13,560 It was, it was good money. 500 00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:20,240 Um, I actually prayed months, uh, leading up to being engaged, that I would find a job. 501 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:25,400 And I landed a job that paid me about the exact same that I was getting monthly on only 502 00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:26,400 fans. 503 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:32,480 Um, and I was praying for that because I needed that financial stability, you know, at the 504 00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:33,480 time. 505 00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:37,520 So I prayed and prayed and I got this random opportunity. 506 00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:38,800 They reached out to me. 507 00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:42,840 Um, it was everything in my field is what I love to do. 508 00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:45,720 Um, it was paying the same amount. 509 00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:50,680 They hired me within like a week and I still believe to this day that was God. 510 00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:52,400 Cause I never applied to this job. 511 00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:53,880 I never applied to this job. 512 00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:55,320 I didn't know these people. 513 00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:56,960 It was actually a bourbon company. 514 00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:59,960 Uh, no idea what bourbon whiskey, none of that stuff was. 515 00:27:59,960 --> 00:28:02,920 I was not educated in that, but I learned real quick. 516 00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:07,320 Um, and it came a couple months before I got engaged. 517 00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:12,800 And as soon as I got my first paycheck from my job, my new job, I deactivated. 518 00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:18,080 The only fans cause I told myself, and I could have kept both the double. 519 00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:19,080 Yeah, yeah. 520 00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:20,080 I prayed. 521 00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:23,920 I told, I told God, I said, God, I will delete it. 522 00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:27,440 I will delete it if you can replace it. 523 00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:31,920 And I never had anything in my head where I was like, Oh, I'll kind of want to keep 524 00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:32,920 it now. 525 00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:33,920 Like double the money. 526 00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:34,920 Why not? 527 00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:35,920 I never had that never popped in my mind. 528 00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:42,080 I, I instantly deleted it and I just watched the, the money get, you know, it all was over 529 00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:43,080 for me. 530 00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:46,520 And, um, I told him after I deleted it. 531 00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:47,520 I was so ashamed. 532 00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:50,200 I was so embarrassed. 533 00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:57,200 And, um, I showed him a couple of things I would post on there, um, that I had found 534 00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:59,200 online or whatever, so on my phone. 535 00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:02,760 So he kind of knew that it wasn't like, you know, terrible. 536 00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:06,760 I think his biggest thing was like, he was glad it was gone and, and he was glad that 537 00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:09,400 I had came to that mentality myself. 538 00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:11,480 Like, and this is not it. 539 00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:17,200 So, um, I, uh, that's kind of how he found out. 540 00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:18,200 Yeah. 541 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:22,560 And he, he wasn't even like, it wasn't that scary of a conversation either. 542 00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:29,320 So I kind of wish I had it earlier, but, um, it's done now and don't have it. 543 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:32,560 I love that sometimes about like, like men of the faith there. 544 00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:35,080 They care about your growth, you know, more than anything. 545 00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:37,120 It's not like, Oh my gosh, how could you have done this to me? 546 00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:41,760 Like I'm glad that you're like stepping into a mature womanhood and you, you figured that 547 00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:42,760 out on your own. 548 00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:43,760 I love that. 549 00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:47,800 And I love that you talked about God because that's how I felt with the only fans in the 550 00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:51,680 need to become an aesthetician because, um, I remember praying and praying, praying when 551 00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:54,760 I opened my, the doors to my business and I was like, this is dumb. 552 00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:59,360 Like what if I just like lose so much money and my first client that walked in and I had 553 00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:03,320 a lot of faith leading up to that point because I let it go when I went and gave the full 554 00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:08,000 money and cash to, you know, pay off school and I went in and I was like, okay, I deleted 555 00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:10,200 it because I'm in school now and this is what I'm doing. 556 00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:16,680 But my first day opening, um, this girl walked in my very first client walked in and she 557 00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:20,360 said, so I know your believer, know your Christian woman. 558 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:21,360 I am too. 559 00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:25,720 And she was like, and I seen your story and I want you to know that like I'm so proud 560 00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:26,720 of you. 561 00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:30,720 And I was like, first of all, how I'm in Vegas. 562 00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:38,840 Yeah, my first client walking in here, a Christian woman who's validating me and you know, comforting 563 00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:41,280 me and I prayed right before she walked in God. 564 00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:42,280 I'm so scared. 565 00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:44,440 I'm nervous, but isn't God good? 566 00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:48,160 That's why I'm like God will open the doors man for you. 567 00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:49,160 Right. 568 00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:53,160 And just, I mean, it happened two months before I got engaged. 569 00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:56,960 It was like count, count, count down. 570 00:30:56,960 --> 00:31:03,680 And yeah, I 100% know that that was God and I did exactly what I promised to him too that 571 00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:05,200 I was going to do. 572 00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:07,960 And now we are here. 573 00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:08,960 Look at us. 574 00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:13,960 I want to, um, yeah, I want to wrap it up a little bit. 575 00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:14,960 Okay. 576 00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:22,920 And kind of just know like, what is next for the one that only did a more, what is next 577 00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:23,920 for you? 578 00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:29,080 What's next in, you know, where your career, your plans with your social media? 579 00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:34,600 What's next for you that, you know, people on here listening can take from you and, 580 00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:38,120 and, and move forward with you with? 581 00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:43,560 So one thing I feel like, you know, even though I built up my social media the wrong way for 582 00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:48,800 years, I think that now I have, you know, a lot of people watching me, followers. 583 00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:53,680 And I think our job now is just to kind of spread, you know, either God's word or just 584 00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:54,680 wisdom. 585 00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:55,680 Amen. 586 00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:59,760 Um, how we learned, how we matured so we could help guide other people. 587 00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:02,320 So one thing right now I'm kind of focused on is fitness. 588 00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:06,040 Um, I'm not really like an athlete, but I didn't lose weight. 589 00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:12,120 So I kind of talk about that transition, but more focused on, um, the sicknesses that were 590 00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:18,480 in my mind from eating poorly and just, um, dealing with different spiritual attacks and 591 00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:20,520 how losing weight helped me. 592 00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:25,280 A lot spiritually and physically and mentally. 593 00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:29,600 And then I think I might do a podcast, you know, my hubby thinks I should. 594 00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:31,360 So I could talk about, I think you should. 595 00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:33,280 And that, yeah, that was one thing too. 596 00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:40,280 I was like, I really think you can educate and just gain so much, you know, people's 597 00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:46,560 knowledge in marriage and being married young and being like, I'm going to grow together 598 00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:51,440 growing together and I really want that space for you, which is kind of why I didn't bring 599 00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:54,040 it, bring any, uh, marriage stuff up today. 600 00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:56,040 Cause I know you're going to have podcasts. 601 00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:58,320 I'm pushing you to do it. 602 00:32:58,320 --> 00:32:59,320 Yeah. 603 00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:00,320 Yeah. 604 00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:01,720 You have to do it. 605 00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:02,720 You have so much. 606 00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:05,880 And I love what you're doing cause you have so much. 607 00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:10,560 You guided me through the hardest season of my marriage and you're engaged. 608 00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:11,640 You know what I mean? 609 00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:13,320 So I know you're going to be a phenomenal wife. 610 00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:14,320 You're doing it the right way. 611 00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:15,320 You're learning each other. 612 00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:16,320 Yeah. 613 00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:17,320 I'm proud of you. 614 00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:18,320 Thank you. 615 00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:19,320 That was great. 616 00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:21,760 My little sister, but you're my big sister in ways. 617 00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:23,880 We're not that far apart. 618 00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:29,480 We're not, but you've always been very, you, you do a lot of self work, you know. 619 00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:30,480 Um, thank you. 620 00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:35,000 I don't know if that's just you being the baby and seeing our brother and then me just 621 00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:39,560 make a whole lot of mistakes and then you're the baby and you're like, Oh, hey, I'm not 622 00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:43,840 following up the office steps, but yeah, you, you've done a lot of self work. 623 00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:48,440 So I've learned a lot from you and I'm excited for you to actually maybe talk about, you 624 00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:52,760 know, how to prepare better for marriage cause you, you know, helped me prepare better to 625 00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:55,200 be a wife, you know, so thank you. 626 00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:56,200 Yeah. 627 00:33:56,200 --> 00:34:01,200 And I've learned a lot through you too and seeing, you know, just being young and being 628 00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:03,120 married already and being strong. 629 00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:08,040 I think you're very, you're a very strong wife and, you know, in times maybe that you 630 00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:13,360 weren't, you knew you weren't being strong and, you know, you got there through faith, 631 00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:14,360 of course. 632 00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:16,360 So, um, yeah, amen. 633 00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:19,360 Well, this is so fun. 634 00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:21,360 Podcast. 635 00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:26,360 No, but this is such a great podcast. 636 00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:28,360 Um, I was your future. 637 00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:29,360 Oh, okay. 638 00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:30,360 With this podcast. 639 00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:32,360 You're coming back on me. 640 00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:33,360 I really episode. 641 00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:37,640 Like what are we going to expect with the rest of this show? 642 00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:45,280 I really want to have everybody and anyone on here that can come with things that women 643 00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:47,640 and men can learn from. 644 00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:51,280 And you know, being young, being in our twenties, figuring it all out. 645 00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:57,880 It's kind of hard, you know, and I think listening to other people, um, as yourself who has overcome 646 00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:04,440 so much stuff, you know, with social media, relationships, only fans, money, financial, 647 00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:06,360 figuring out what you're going to do financially. 648 00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:07,360 Um, law. 649 00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,640 And a lot of women in their twenties are going through that. 650 00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:12,200 It doesn't have to be people with followers. 651 00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:16,560 And one thing I really want to do is I don't even care to have people on here that, you 652 00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:17,560 know, do have a following. 653 00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:22,240 Like I'm, I'm having my friends on here because I've learned stuff from them. 654 00:35:22,240 --> 00:35:23,240 So, right. 655 00:35:23,240 --> 00:35:29,240 Um, I just want to help and I get so much help from other people's experiences. 656 00:35:29,240 --> 00:35:30,240 Yeah. 657 00:35:30,240 --> 00:35:31,240 Right. 658 00:35:31,240 --> 00:35:33,320 So like, I want to put it on there. 659 00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:35,640 I want to put it publicly. 660 00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:37,320 So, thank you so much. 661 00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:38,320 Of course. 662 00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:40,320 Thank you for having me. 663 00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:43,480 You did so good. 664 00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:46,960 And um, I'm going to have you back on again later. 665 00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:53,200 Uh, I want you to start up your stuff first and then we can also talk about more about 666 00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:57,760 marriage and stuff, but I would love for you to have, uh, your time to have that first, 667 00:35:57,760 --> 00:35:58,760 I think. 668 00:35:58,760 --> 00:35:59,760 Okay. 669 00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:00,920 I love that. 670 00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:01,920 You did great. 671 00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:02,920 Thank you. 672 00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:05,200 Well, thank you for having me. 673 00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:10,280 I'm very excited to come on again and I'm excited to see all of the phenomenal advice 674 00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:12,280 and conversations you can have with people. 675 00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:13,280 Thank you, sis. 676 00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:18,160 Well, um, do you want to let anybody know what your social media is if they are hearing 677 00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:19,480 you for the first time? 678 00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:20,480 Yeah. 679 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:24,480 So my name on social media is Jada more J-A-D-A-M-O-R. 680 00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:27,840 Uh, that's what I go by on TikTok. 681 00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:29,880 I am Jada the vegan. 682 00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:31,760 We're all fitness. 683 00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:34,680 I don't really use social media besides that. 684 00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:39,200 Oh, but you can support most actually just this, this gotta go first. 685 00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:40,200 Yeah. 686 00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:41,700 But you support my business. 687 00:36:41,700 --> 00:36:44,000 I was going to say that. 688 00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:45,000 Honeybun by Jada. 689 00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:46,000 Yes. 690 00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:47,000 I'm an ascetician. 691 00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:48,000 An ascetician. 692 00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:49,000 Oh, really big, very. 693 00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:50,000 Yes. 694 00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:54,500 And you're actually redoing your entire studio. 695 00:36:54,500 --> 00:36:56,000 Got to tell people. 696 00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:57,000 Sorry. 697 00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:59,920 Um, but you are located where? 698 00:36:59,920 --> 00:37:01,680 In Las Vegas, Nevada. 699 00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:02,880 Um, yep. 700 00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:08,240 I'm independent and I'm by apartment only, but if you could come in, if you're watching, 701 00:37:08,240 --> 00:37:13,920 um, I love my clients there and I'm, um, I'm actually a Brazilian waxer, uh, specialized 702 00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:16,720 in Brazilian waxing and the J'shaws and bleaching. 703 00:37:16,720 --> 00:37:18,520 So that's my specialty. 704 00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:19,520 So yep. 705 00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:21,520 If you're watching in the wax coming. 706 00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:23,920 I was going to do now. 707 00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:26,480 I love it and you're great at it too. 708 00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:27,480 Thank you. 709 00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:28,480 Yes. 710 00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:29,480 All right. 711 00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:30,880 Well, thank you, Jada. 712 00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:31,880 It's been a pleasure. 713 00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:32,880 It's a happy. 714 00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:36,880 I will call you after this. 715 00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:37,880 Okay. 716 00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:38,880 Bye. 717 00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:39,880 Bye. 718 00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:40,880 Bye. 719 00:37:40,880 --> 00:38:01,880 Bye.