Hey y'all whether it's morning evening or afternoon I'm just glad that you had
decided to vibe with the one and only each today y'all already know the drill
whether you're at home or on the go babes I just want you to sit back and
relax and enjoy the show because today vibe is something special let alone is
a little bit deep to me so without further ado let's get into it so today's
vibe of the day is worth and before I really get deep into this I just want
to say this to y'all I want to take a moment to remind you of something
incredibly important you are unique you are remarkable individual with limitless
talents and dreams your worth is not defined by external accomplishments
achievements anything like that to others because it comes from your core
your kindness your care everything and the impact you have on the world around
you you don't need to earn or provide your worth it is your brightness
simply by you being here so always remember to embrace your worth believe
in your abilities and never let anyone or anything make you doubt your value you
are worthy you are worthy love love happiness and all the good things that
life has a store for you because you are enough just you are enough okay just as
you are and always remember this the world is the better place because of you
and the world is yours okay so I just want to start off this vibe of the day
with that because like this topic let alone vibe is really like is deep is so
many different types of narratives that people have when they are expressing the
definition of worth to this to to others and what it means to
themselves so understanding the importance of word is like it is like a
responsibility I wouldn't say is a response of value or significance of
someone or something like work can be referred to of like a variety of aspects
such as like personal wealth the worth of objects or the worth of actions and
accomplishments and here's some of those words that is important that people
fail to realize at times first is like realizing your own words it's crucial
for developing a healthy self-image and maintaining a positive self-esteem it
helps you believe in yourself and makes like confidence decisions and pursue
your dreams and goals with determination with that being said personal wealth is
everything that you feel and when I see someone maybe someone I'm close with or
someone I don't know at all when they express their self to me I'd be like
you're worthy you're worth a lot excuse me because you have a gift that you just
don't know that is in front of you like you really really have a gift that a lot
of people don't know sorry I'm music but off of my phone but a lot of people
just be like I don't know what my worth is I don't know if I'm worthy of being
in someone's life or if I'm worthy of anything and I'm quick to say look
to ads I say this to say bro sis whoever this may concern don't you ever
ever ever ever ever tell yourself down when it comes to your word because your
personal work slash self-worth is powerful and you are powerful as well
because worth plays a significant role for us that we just don't know like
worth is reflected on things that we just don't know like I question myself a
lot as I graduated high school I was like am I worth going to college is it
worth me going to school for all these amount of years to get these many
degrees is it worth it and let me tell you something it is worth it whatever
you're passionate about dreaming of your ambitious about is worth it you just
have to be able to have that blueprint you got to be prepared you got to be in
tunes you got to really really really just be prepared for what's the outcome
going to be and yes it's not going to come overnight because it takes a while
for things to be intact especially if you have this blueprint or vision you
want to make sure this vision comes to life like so visual to the point where
it's like this is the realistic version you know like in a movie they have the
trailer or whatever like you know little sneak peeks of it you know in your mind
you had a little sneak peeks of it be like okay these eyes won't go time
won't go then once you released it like they released a movie that's the full
outlook of what you've been looking for that's what you should be like that's
my worth right there so whatever you have you know set on doing or being just
make sure you have that blueprint and make sure that visual comes to life and
is and it's the visual you had in your mind or whatever you had this visual
make sure like when it comes to realization this is what you've been
manifest and praying and everything for okay secondly word plays a
significant role and to interpersonal relationships with that being said
people seek out relationships where are where they are valued and respect when
you are realized when you realize your worth you are less likely to tolerate
mistreat moments or settling for unhealthy relationships it also helps
you set boundaries and expect to be treated with the dignity and respect
that you motherfucking deserve okay with this secondly being said this is
talking about the word from a person or people but mainly it's just from matter
fact it's from both freak that it's from both so with that being said ladies and
gentlemen if you're on a relationship talk and stay situation ship whatever it
is I'm gonna tell you right now thank for a moment
ask yourself what is my worth within this relationship or within this
situation that I have going on with this person what is my word are they
displaying the things that I've been telling them what's my word or they are
they displaying that I'm worthy to them am I displaying too much of my worth to
them am I doing little like you got a thing but when you're in a relationship
you expect to have all the things you've been manifested praying for within this
person to come to life for example for me in a relationship I expect my partner
to be there for me 100% as much as I'm going to be there for him 100% with
that being said 100% within my words I'm going to be able to show him I care you
know like destiny shall say cater to they today partners you know whatever it is
that I feel as though is necessary that this man deserves it should be done you
know physically or mentally but mainly mentally because a lot of people feel
the vilage that worth it's also impact with the mental you got to stay in turn
you got to stand tall and firm on every thing that you say and do especially
in a relationship don't tell your girl don't tell that man that you're going to
do this you're going to show them that they worth this you're going to do this
you're going to do that and you don't do it because that's that's where they draw
the line and that's where it comes to tolerating mistreatment or settles for
unhealthy relationships your work should not be tolerated on things that don't
tolerate you I say this to say to when you in a relationship whatever in the
beginning the old the beginning stages where it gets good we get that nitty
gritty where it gets like it's like is everything you ever dreamed of it should
stay consistent you know it should stay consistent however at times it don't at
times some days of do some days is like look I can't like I don't know but
that's the thing when the worst is involved communication needs to be
involved to you nobody wants to keep tolerating a mist misleading toxic
partner because that's not what they're worth sis bro I know you know you're
worth out there I know you know you were familiar books because I when things
like when the cookie crumbles and when it's time for you to dip you know you
say like I'm worth it like I'm the best thing you ever had or I'm worth what you
need and you know how I go when things go down and y'all just be saying whatever
the hell y'all want to say because at times yes y'all do it out of anger but
at times it needs to be said because if I know I'm worth more I'm worth a lot and
you just you just showing me that you're not worth nothing do so I got
throw them dooses up cuz I can't stay in this predicament as well as friendships
it don't matter how long y'all be friends you worth a lot and within a
friendship to I feel like that's more where the worth is displayed yes in
relationship it is worth but you know sometimes partners coming up but friends
at times that's hard it's hard to make new friends at times to some people it's
hard to make friends it is sometimes like at one point time for me it was hard to
make friends because at times like I was afraid to express myself I was afraid to
even start a conversation but now when you get older and you know your worth
and if you be like you're people's person you're worthy of being so much
I said okay let me take it to my advantage and I'm cool with people that I
became my friends and I hope we be friends to the end okay but when it
comes to them friendships baby it goes the same way with them relationships I'm
not tolerating no mistreating friendship I'm not retaliating I'm not tolerating
tolerating no unhealthy friendship like sister bro is either like we're friends
and we were we're gonna display the word to each other one thing I don't like
within the friendship is when sometimes you think the friend think they are
hitting you now let's just say this their worth is different than yours yes it is I
know it is I know it is I know you don't want to hear it but I'm gonna give it to
you tell it sometimes their work is not the same as yours and your worth is damn
sure not the same as theirs because they are both different people however within
the worth of a friendship is real is genuine so like you should be getting
that real that real stuff like y'all should be really be getting the real like worth
having a good time like it should be worth a friendship that you've been dying
for like this a friendship that you feel comfortable with like that's that friend
you feel comfortable like little sis bro let's say you did like it shouldn't be
that friendship where you doing most of the worthy stuff like giving all the
flowers and doing that and they just just not doing nothing or it shouldn't be
that friendship where that one friend calls you and just brag brag brag brag
brag about their worth and then when it's time for you to talk oh I gotta go
but no that's not how friends go or I should not hear from you when your worthy
goes down and you need me to cheer you up and then once I cheer you up you go on
back to your life doing what you're doing and you got your worth back up like
how you get your self-esteem back up it's like I'm good now I call you and I
need you I don't like that I don't like that because somebody's worth and it's
like you a lot of people don't have the same worth especially within a friendship
you're not gonna get that friend and all the other friends like and friends you
had those friend groups where you know who to bring around and you know who not
to bring around certain people because they're worth and their values and
morals are very different and you don't want them to you don't want them to clash
and you don't want them to like you don't want to get heated you don't so I
say this to say also when it comes to the relationships comes to the family
members okay when it comes to family parents they their children are their
worth trust me when it comes to my parents they display every day like my
worst is my children my worst is y'all like I fight sacrifice everything like
they did a lot for us because we're worth where they're worth we they took
time cherish everything for us that's we're at work like they pride and joy
like family members don't understand to like at times don't do it I feel like
family members should be cold accountable just as much as within a
relationship type of work in a friendship type of work like that love that
y'all have for each other should be displayed as you say it's supposed to
be like if you love me as much then show that worth within you at least saying
something nice you know at least to be nice to somebody don't be nasty and
negative but you know within the black family it happens it happens you just
gotta gotta deal with it with your own your own way of dealing with it you
know you know it's hard y'all is really hard but it's like you gotta think it
in today you know what you worthy of doing and you know what you're worthy of
not doing so let's just keep that word worth on the brain okay so thirdly in
when it comes to worth is understanding the worth or values of
different opportunities that can make a better decision like just evaluating the
outcome and weighing your worth that allows you to pick and choose when it
comes to your goals values and long-term well-being so this lastly is well the
third third thing is just basically this focus on you so like my little message
I had in the beginning so this is just focus on you like what is your worth
like what is your goals what is your long-term well-being goals whatever like
what is it that you know that you're worthy of and you know within a long
run is gonna make a long shot for example like me my words when I was 15
years old I made a oath oath promise whatever y'all want to call it so myself
that I must get four degrees four three degrees is a must and I must do all the
things that I said I want to do especially within like the vision boys I
created because I know I'm worth making them dreams come to reality I know I'm
worth something and I know these things that I have for myself are worthy to me
because this is what I want for myself not anybody else around me this is for
me this is for E and what he wants he's gonna do it and he's gonna get it no
matter what no if ands a but even though it might take time for it to come or
whatever but I'm not gonna be around a bush or anything about it I'm not gonna
procrastinate no more because life is too short and you never know when is your
last so why not just go out there and do it and that's just with this with the
last like the third thing I just said just being able to understand the worth
of value that you have for yourself and making sure that you're making it with
in the better decision and making it come to life and lastly I leave y'all with
this I say this to say as I exit this out on the day realizing your worth can
inspire you to make a positive impact on the world around you understanding
your unique ability skills talent and helps you it will help you realize how
you can contribute a meaningful to society your community or your profession
it is encountered that you pursue these opportunities that are impacting with
your value and your strength to make a difference as I said within the third
thing I mentioned just understanding your worth and value to what you really
want making sure that whatever you do is a positive impact and it's not
negative it's not spiceful you know making sure whatever you do is like it's
genuine it's real and this is you and this displays you because this is who
you are and this is what you are entitled to be this what you this is the
name let's say like that this is the name you set for yourself this is the
outcome the perspective that you have for yourself this is you whatever you do I
always remember my parents say whatever you do it follows you good or bad but
you mainly want to have you build you mainly want to display good because
people remember that bad old people would love to talk about it so like I
always say y'all I say this to say just just remember that you are somebody in
your word something and you're worthy to somebody baby so sis or bro if you in
that situation ship and it ain't going how you wanted to go whether it is with
a person or something that you're dealing with financially whatever it is you
need to come up with the blueprint playing a visual laid out and way out to
opposing cons of that situation because baby your worth does not tolerate the
negativity and that's not what we about we're about good vibes only like we
about positivity we're about flower giving you know we're about giving the
good at times you're gonna have to get the bad but when it comes to your worth
all you want is good things to come not bad things so as I leave this to say I
wish y'all nothing but beautiful peace and amazing blessings to come to you as
I close out with this episode I just want y'all to remember that you are
somebody you're very worthy no matter what it is big or small you work a lot
and I just cannot wait for y'all to hear more of what I gotta say within the
next time so y'all be blessed y'all be safe and just just think a lot just
think deep on what your worth is I see y'all later bye