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Hey y'all whether it's morning evening or afternoon I'm just glad that you had

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decided to vibe with the one and only each today y'all already know the drill

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whether you're at home or on the go babes I just want you to sit back and

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relax and enjoy the show because today vibe is something special let alone is

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a little bit deep to me so without further ado let's get into it so today's

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vibe of the day is worth and before I really get deep into this I just want

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to say this to y'all I want to take a moment to remind you of something

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incredibly important you are unique you are remarkable individual with limitless

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talents and dreams your worth is not defined by external accomplishments

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achievements anything like that to others because it comes from your core

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your kindness your care everything and the impact you have on the world around

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you you don't need to earn or provide your worth it is your brightness

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simply by you being here so always remember to embrace your worth believe

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in your abilities and never let anyone or anything make you doubt your value you

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are worthy you are worthy love love happiness and all the good things that

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life has a store for you because you are enough just you are enough okay just as

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you are and always remember this the world is the better place because of you

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and the world is yours okay so I just want to start off this vibe of the day

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with that because like this topic let alone vibe is really like is deep is so

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many different types of narratives that people have when they are expressing the

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definition of worth to this to to others and what it means to

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themselves so understanding the importance of word is like it is like a

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responsibility I wouldn't say is a response of value or significance of

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someone or something like work can be referred to of like a variety of aspects

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such as like personal wealth the worth of objects or the worth of actions and

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accomplishments and here's some of those words that is important that people

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fail to realize at times first is like realizing your own words it's crucial

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for developing a healthy self-image and maintaining a positive self-esteem it

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helps you believe in yourself and makes like confidence decisions and pursue

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your dreams and goals with determination with that being said personal wealth is

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everything that you feel and when I see someone maybe someone I'm close with or

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someone I don't know at all when they express their self to me I'd be like

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you're worthy you're worth a lot excuse me because you have a gift that you just

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don't know that is in front of you like you really really have a gift that a lot

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of people don't know sorry I'm music but off of my phone but a lot of people

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just be like I don't know what my worth is I don't know if I'm worthy of being

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in someone's life or if I'm worthy of anything and I'm quick to say look

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to ads I say this to say bro sis whoever this may concern don't you ever

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ever ever ever ever tell yourself down when it comes to your word because your

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personal work slash self-worth is powerful and you are powerful as well

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because worth plays a significant role for us that we just don't know like

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worth is reflected on things that we just don't know like I question myself a

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lot as I graduated high school I was like am I worth going to college is it

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worth me going to school for all these amount of years to get these many

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degrees is it worth it and let me tell you something it is worth it whatever

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you're passionate about dreaming of your ambitious about is worth it you just

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have to be able to have that blueprint you got to be prepared you got to be in

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tunes you got to really really really just be prepared for what's the outcome

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going to be and yes it's not going to come overnight because it takes a while

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for things to be intact especially if you have this blueprint or vision you

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want to make sure this vision comes to life like so visual to the point where

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it's like this is the realistic version you know like in a movie they have the

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trailer or whatever like you know little sneak peeks of it you know in your mind

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you had a little sneak peeks of it be like okay these eyes won't go time

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won't go then once you released it like they released a movie that's the full

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outlook of what you've been looking for that's what you should be like that's

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my worth right there so whatever you have you know set on doing or being just

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make sure you have that blueprint and make sure that visual comes to life and

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is and it's the visual you had in your mind or whatever you had this visual

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make sure like when it comes to realization this is what you've been

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manifest and praying and everything for okay secondly word plays a

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significant role and to interpersonal relationships with that being said

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people seek out relationships where are where they are valued and respect when

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you are realized when you realize your worth you are less likely to tolerate

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mistreat moments or settling for unhealthy relationships it also helps

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you set boundaries and expect to be treated with the dignity and respect

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that you motherfucking deserve okay with this secondly being said this is

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talking about the word from a person or people but mainly it's just from matter

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fact it's from both freak that it's from both so with that being said ladies and

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gentlemen if you're on a relationship talk and stay situation ship whatever it

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is I'm gonna tell you right now thank for a moment

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ask yourself what is my worth within this relationship or within this

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situation that I have going on with this person what is my word are they

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displaying the things that I've been telling them what's my word or they are

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they displaying that I'm worthy to them am I displaying too much of my worth to

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them am I doing little like you got a thing but when you're in a relationship

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you expect to have all the things you've been manifested praying for within this

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person to come to life for example for me in a relationship I expect my partner

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to be there for me 100% as much as I'm going to be there for him 100% with

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that being said 100% within my words I'm going to be able to show him I care you

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know like destiny shall say cater to they today partners you know whatever it is

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that I feel as though is necessary that this man deserves it should be done you

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know physically or mentally but mainly mentally because a lot of people feel

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the vilage that worth it's also impact with the mental you got to stay in turn

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you got to stand tall and firm on every thing that you say and do especially

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in a relationship don't tell your girl don't tell that man that you're going to

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do this you're going to show them that they worth this you're going to do this

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you're going to do that and you don't do it because that's that's where they draw

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the line and that's where it comes to tolerating mistreatment or settles for

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unhealthy relationships your work should not be tolerated on things that don't

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tolerate you I say this to say to when you in a relationship whatever in the

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beginning the old the beginning stages where it gets good we get that nitty

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gritty where it gets like it's like is everything you ever dreamed of it should

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stay consistent you know it should stay consistent however at times it don't at

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times some days of do some days is like look I can't like I don't know but

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that's the thing when the worst is involved communication needs to be

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involved to you nobody wants to keep tolerating a mist misleading toxic

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partner because that's not what they're worth sis bro I know you know you're

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worth out there I know you know you were familiar books because I when things

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like when the cookie crumbles and when it's time for you to dip you know you

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say like I'm worth it like I'm the best thing you ever had or I'm worth what you

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need and you know how I go when things go down and y'all just be saying whatever

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the hell y'all want to say because at times yes y'all do it out of anger but

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at times it needs to be said because if I know I'm worth more I'm worth a lot and

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you just you just showing me that you're not worth nothing do so I got

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throw them dooses up cuz I can't stay in this predicament as well as friendships

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it don't matter how long y'all be friends you worth a lot and within a

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friendship to I feel like that's more where the worth is displayed yes in

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relationship it is worth but you know sometimes partners coming up but friends

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at times that's hard it's hard to make new friends at times to some people it's

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hard to make friends it is sometimes like at one point time for me it was hard to

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make friends because at times like I was afraid to express myself I was afraid to

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even start a conversation but now when you get older and you know your worth

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and if you be like you're people's person you're worthy of being so much

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I said okay let me take it to my advantage and I'm cool with people that I

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became my friends and I hope we be friends to the end okay but when it

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comes to them friendships baby it goes the same way with them relationships I'm

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not tolerating no mistreating friendship I'm not retaliating I'm not tolerating

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tolerating no unhealthy friendship like sister bro is either like we're friends

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and we were we're gonna display the word to each other one thing I don't like

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within the friendship is when sometimes you think the friend think they are

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hitting you now let's just say this their worth is different than yours yes it is I

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know it is I know it is I know you don't want to hear it but I'm gonna give it to

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you tell it sometimes their work is not the same as yours and your worth is damn

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sure not the same as theirs because they are both different people however within

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the worth of a friendship is real is genuine so like you should be getting

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that real that real stuff like y'all should be really be getting the real like worth

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having a good time like it should be worth a friendship that you've been dying

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for like this a friendship that you feel comfortable with like that's that friend

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you feel comfortable like little sis bro let's say you did like it shouldn't be

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that friendship where you doing most of the worthy stuff like giving all the

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flowers and doing that and they just just not doing nothing or it shouldn't be

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that friendship where that one friend calls you and just brag brag brag brag

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brag about their worth and then when it's time for you to talk oh I gotta go

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but no that's not how friends go or I should not hear from you when your worthy

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goes down and you need me to cheer you up and then once I cheer you up you go on

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back to your life doing what you're doing and you got your worth back up like

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how you get your self-esteem back up it's like I'm good now I call you and I

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need you I don't like that I don't like that because somebody's worth and it's

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like you a lot of people don't have the same worth especially within a friendship

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you're not gonna get that friend and all the other friends like and friends you

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had those friend groups where you know who to bring around and you know who not

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to bring around certain people because they're worth and their values and

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morals are very different and you don't want them to you don't want them to clash

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and you don't want them to like you don't want to get heated you don't so I

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say this to say also when it comes to the relationships comes to the family

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members okay when it comes to family parents they their children are their

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worth trust me when it comes to my parents they display every day like my

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worst is my children my worst is y'all like I fight sacrifice everything like

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they did a lot for us because we're worth where they're worth we they took

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time cherish everything for us that's we're at work like they pride and joy

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like family members don't understand to like at times don't do it I feel like

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family members should be cold accountable just as much as within a

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relationship type of work in a friendship type of work like that love that

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y'all have for each other should be displayed as you say it's supposed to

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be like if you love me as much then show that worth within you at least saying

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something nice you know at least to be nice to somebody don't be nasty and

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negative but you know within the black family it happens it happens you just

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gotta gotta deal with it with your own your own way of dealing with it you

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know you know it's hard y'all is really hard but it's like you gotta think it

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in today you know what you worthy of doing and you know what you're worthy of

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not doing so let's just keep that word worth on the brain okay so thirdly in

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when it comes to worth is understanding the worth or values of

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different opportunities that can make a better decision like just evaluating the

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outcome and weighing your worth that allows you to pick and choose when it

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comes to your goals values and long-term well-being so this lastly is well the

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third third thing is just basically this focus on you so like my little message

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I had in the beginning so this is just focus on you like what is your worth

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like what is your goals what is your long-term well-being goals whatever like

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what is it that you know that you're worthy of and you know within a long

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run is gonna make a long shot for example like me my words when I was 15

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years old I made a oath oath promise whatever y'all want to call it so myself

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that I must get four degrees four three degrees is a must and I must do all the

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things that I said I want to do especially within like the vision boys I

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created because I know I'm worth making them dreams come to reality I know I'm

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worth something and I know these things that I have for myself are worthy to me

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because this is what I want for myself not anybody else around me this is for

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me this is for E and what he wants he's gonna do it and he's gonna get it no

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matter what no if ands a but even though it might take time for it to come or

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whatever but I'm not gonna be around a bush or anything about it I'm not gonna

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procrastinate no more because life is too short and you never know when is your

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last so why not just go out there and do it and that's just with this with the

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last like the third thing I just said just being able to understand the worth

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of value that you have for yourself and making sure that you're making it with

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in the better decision and making it come to life and lastly I leave y'all with

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this I say this to say as I exit this out on the day realizing your worth can

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inspire you to make a positive impact on the world around you understanding

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your unique ability skills talent and helps you it will help you realize how

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you can contribute a meaningful to society your community or your profession

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it is encountered that you pursue these opportunities that are impacting with

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your value and your strength to make a difference as I said within the third

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thing I mentioned just understanding your worth and value to what you really

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want making sure that whatever you do is a positive impact and it's not

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negative it's not spiceful you know making sure whatever you do is like it's

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genuine it's real and this is you and this displays you because this is who

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you are and this is what you are entitled to be this what you this is the

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name let's say like that this is the name you set for yourself this is the

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outcome the perspective that you have for yourself this is you whatever you do I

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always remember my parents say whatever you do it follows you good or bad but

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you mainly want to have you build you mainly want to display good because

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people remember that bad old people would love to talk about it so like I

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always say y'all I say this to say just just remember that you are somebody in

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your word something and you're worthy to somebody baby so sis or bro if you in

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that situation ship and it ain't going how you wanted to go whether it is with

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a person or something that you're dealing with financially whatever it is you

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need to come up with the blueprint playing a visual laid out and way out to

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opposing cons of that situation because baby your worth does not tolerate the

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negativity and that's not what we about we're about good vibes only like we

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about positivity we're about flower giving you know we're about giving the

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good at times you're gonna have to get the bad but when it comes to your worth

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all you want is good things to come not bad things so as I leave this to say I

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wish y'all nothing but beautiful peace and amazing blessings to come to you as

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I close out with this episode I just want y'all to remember that you are

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somebody you're very worthy no matter what it is big or small you work a lot

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and I just cannot wait for y'all to hear more of what I gotta say within the

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next time so y'all be blessed y'all be safe and just just think a lot just

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think deep on what your worth is I see y'all later bye