1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:06,320 Hey y'all whether it's morning evening or afternoon baby I'm just glad that you 2 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:16,440 had decided to vibe with me today and I am so so so so anxious to express this 3 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:22,520 vibe of the day with y'all so whether you at home on the move I just want you 4 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:29,840 to sit back relax and enjoy this episode because today's vibe is something 5 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:40,400 okay like I tell you are you ready today's vibe is support when it comes to 6 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:47,840 support you will honestly see who is with you and who is against you yes I 7 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:52,160 said it and I'm gonna be the one to say it you know like on white chicks oh my 8 00:00:52,160 --> 00:00:57,640 god she was thinking it but you started that's me baby that's for me in this case 9 00:00:57,640 --> 00:01:05,960 for you okay support is being actively interested in like consider it for 10 00:01:05,960 --> 00:01:12,480 someone success baby I am the type of person that is very supportive like no 11 00:01:12,480 --> 00:01:18,080 matter what it is I don't care if you are selling waters dinners I don't care 12 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:22,920 from the clothing lines to the head to the nails all that even if I don't if I'm 13 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:26,320 not a client like with a hair or nail client I'm still gonna support your 14 00:01:26,320 --> 00:01:29,680 business I'm gonna give your flowers when it's due and I'm gonna give credit to 15 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:33,200 when his mother fucking do okay because a lot of people especially within the 16 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:36,920 black community they don't support you y'all know y'all see them post this all 17 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:42,400 the time all over social media like oh a black company sells a bag for like a 18 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:47,440 thousand dollars versus Chanel is like seven thousand dollars you still gonna 19 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:52,120 end up buying the Chanel because I look in the popular and how popular the name 20 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:59,200 is versus a black business you would end up not buying the damn bag because it's 21 00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:05,600 not popping it's not hot like for example the tell far bags I love the 22 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:11,360 tell far bags like plain and simple looks to me draws my attention all the 23 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:16,680 time just by having a big symbol or like the graphic of your logo or whatever 24 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:21,200 that attracts me and yes by being a black business baby I'm going to support 25 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:26,520 that okay I'm going to support it because you are a black man or a black 26 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:30,880 woman trying to make it out and you're trying to create your crowd and you doing 27 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:34,600 so damn good to the point where that this is your motherfucking crap and you 28 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:38,680 stand in term you stand in firm and talk to this okay and that's what I love 29 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:45,200 about our black community is because we don't give a damn what it is it could be 30 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:53,160 a lunchbox glasses purses hair we can turn nothing into something okay and I 31 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:59,000 love it that's why I supported so much because people don't understand it takes 32 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:05,000 a long time to create a business it takes a long time to push to get a 33 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:09,520 degree it takes a long time to get a house it takes a long time it's a 34 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:15,320 process with everything and what matters the most I feel like if you're my 35 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:19,320 friend or you my family member like I really talk to you constantly throughout 36 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:25,200 the day you should be my number one biggest goddamn supporter because if I 37 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:30,200 ride with you like that you should ride for me like that and that's why today's 38 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:35,120 vibe is support because I'm not gonna lie and the making of this podcast I 39 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:42,200 kept it on the low for so long because I didn't want to you know I'm not gonna 40 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:46,440 say jinx myself but I didn't want to put it out there without making sure my 41 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:51,360 blueprint was firm like make sure it was firm make sure it was what I wanted 42 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:55,480 tip-top shape it's like what it's supposed to give in my vision like my 43 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:59,080 vision you know make sure my vision is coming true the comments are like you 44 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:06,040 know shit like that however I'm not even alive see like I mentioned I'm very big 45 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:12,520 on support I'm a big supporter but when it comes to my turn for support I try 46 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:17,960 not to look for it work to Wale do not hold you up lost for me cuz let me tell 47 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:22,920 you something when I graduated from high school and did the community college a 48 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:27,720 lot of people had a lot of negative things to say and at times it did hurt 49 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:33,840 me better than the day I'm like baby I'm young I'm young I graduated with a 50 00:04:33,840 --> 00:04:40,840 associate's degree in as a certified counselor what's at a young age what's 51 00:04:40,840 --> 00:04:48,840 what how many people you know doing it how how many exactly and it's not even 52 00:04:48,840 --> 00:04:55,120 to toot my own horn but it's to show that this is something that I work so 53 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:59,640 hard for and in the outcome of the graduation like when graduation came and 54 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:03,320 stuff certain people didn't support me and that's fine I said okay that's fine 55 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:09,840 that's cool it's okay it's alright but the biggest support team I feel like you 56 00:05:09,840 --> 00:05:14,240 should only worry about is your immediate family or your close friends like 57 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:18,960 your best friends and shit like that if they not supporting you like they 58 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:24,200 supposed to then baby you need to find yourself a new group of friends and you 59 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:28,640 need to step away from those family members because baby let me tell you 60 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:34,680 something about my village my immediate family I'm the oldest of two siblings 61 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:43,080 okay everything they do I supported I supported I really supported like I push 62 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:48,320 them into like making sure academics wise they're doing what they supposed to do 63 00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:53,320 like any little thing they want to do any little dream not little dream any 64 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:57,040 little thing they want to do where they come they dreams aspiration and fish and 65 00:05:57,040 --> 00:06:01,240 all that I pushed them I scrapped them because once they get in the real world 66 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:07,360 people will try to turn them down and I'm not with that I'm not not with that 67 00:06:07,360 --> 00:06:12,800 shit I don't like that and that goes for their friendships to like yes I know 68 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:18,440 they're still young they not older like me at that point yet but you can tell the 69 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:23,760 type of friends you keep that support you as well my group of friends that I have 70 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:28,280 some friends that are entrepreneurs and things like that oh baby I support into 71 00:06:28,280 --> 00:06:32,080 the fullest or every social media platform they have on mainly Instagram 72 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:35,600 because everybody pulls a certain I'm promoting it to the point where I'm 73 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:41,080 buying it you know I'm the supportive friend and I just want that in from a 74 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:47,000 turn from the people around me yes like I said at times however when it's my turn 75 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:53,160 to show the world what I'm so proud of to show others I honestly don't get the 76 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:58,320 same energy in return but I gotta remember I did this shit for me so I did 77 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:03,640 this for me and what only matters the most is that my village is my biggest 78 00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:08,480 supporters my biggest cheerleaders that's what matters to me the most like like I 79 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:14,320 mentioned from your closest friends and family you would expect them to be the 80 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:20,520 ones to be the first group of people to be your supporters however some people 81 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:25,000 I can't speak on me cuz like I mentioned like my village they are they're right 82 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:29,120 there beside me they right there my immediate family they like they're there 83 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:33,440 for me they they ride a my brother died they dare for me however sometimes in 84 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:36,800 the friend group yes it is like some people has different ways of showing 85 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:41,880 they support baby I'm the type of friend that's gonna flowers balloons like 86 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:46,440 what else do you want like I go over the top however you got some friends that 87 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:52,640 just be playing Jane and I just be like okay sometimes at one point I ain't 88 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:57,080 going to lie at one point I felt as though if I'm giving you your flowers 89 00:07:57,080 --> 00:08:01,920 throwing balloons and shit I should expect the same shit from you that I 90 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:06,360 received so like you know you get what you receive and that's what I was looking 91 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:10,680 for but I have to remember everybody's not the same everybody's not built like 92 00:08:10,680 --> 00:08:14,320 you everybody's not genuine like you and that's when it comes to when support 93 00:08:14,320 --> 00:08:19,640 when you know the support is genuine you ain't had to doubt it at times yeah 94 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:24,040 people be supportive but is it really support so a lot of people be like 95 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:29,600 having secret animosity and shit against you that just be like damn what 96 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:35,880 did I do you know and sometimes it don't even be you it just be like how much 97 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:41,040 strength energy and people are really supporting you because it's like you do 98 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:45,880 the same thing but you could do the same thing and you might get a little bit 99 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:52,280 more attention than they are and that's when things starts to crumble shadow 100 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:56,040 like damn this bitch think she got one up on me and that's not the case it's 101 00:08:56,040 --> 00:09:01,960 just that people like it you know people fuck with moms like that and it's not 102 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:06,800 and then and then it's not like trying to shit on nobody it's just that that's 103 00:09:06,800 --> 00:09:11,200 what the people like you know you can't argue with what the people like and 104 00:09:11,200 --> 00:09:17,080 that's arms you know you have a business or something you might not get all the 105 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:20,880 people you want you might not make all the money you want but as you contain 106 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:25,600 you don't give up on that shit keep going and going and going girl you good 107 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:32,560 son you good like you know just keep going don't stop this shit but yes that's 108 00:09:32,560 --> 00:09:41,360 why I say support is so big because like you see genuine support and you'll see 109 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:48,640 fake support like me I want to see everybody that I deal with be happy I 110 00:09:48,640 --> 00:09:52,480 want to see them to be happy I'm supporting you regardless if it's school 111 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:59,840 word you buy a house anything whatever big girl big boy move you're making I 112 00:09:59,840 --> 00:10:04,360 support it not even if it's not a big boy move it's a little move like if you 113 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:09,960 like bro I just really like stepped up like I just put myself out there to the 114 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:14,240 world like I'm really just trying to start a crowd I'm trying to like step out 115 00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:18,720 of the box a little bit I support it because at times it takes a prop it's a 116 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:24,320 process of being able to just let your voice be heard let alone just even just 117 00:10:24,320 --> 00:10:30,080 stepping out and when it comes to support you it needs a lot it means a lot 118 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:34,120 I'm not realize you it means a lot support really really means a lot 119 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:39,800 especially from the strangers okay the strangers out here y'all like it's 120 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:44,680 people that you know you follow you know on social media things like that sis 121 00:10:44,680 --> 00:10:48,320 bro they supporting you just as much and y'all don't even barely know each other 122 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:51,960 from a can of pain y'all know like how they be saying oh that's my social media 123 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:57,120 cousin stuff like that yeah that's what I be getting from like pain she support 124 00:10:57,120 --> 00:11:01,160 what I support she's supporting me I'm supporting her that's what I like and 125 00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:06,120 that's what I'm all about I'm not afraid to give somebody their flowers when 126 00:11:06,120 --> 00:11:10,560 it's due because if I feel like you doing what you doing you doing a good job 127 00:11:10,560 --> 00:11:14,520 sis bro I'm right there like that's right that's right I know that's right and 128 00:11:14,520 --> 00:11:20,160 I'm proud of you and because you doing something you really doing something for 129 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:25,120 yourself you're not doing nothing and that's where the supports come in when 130 00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:30,360 you doing something better than nothing support really takes you a long way 131 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:37,800 because when you think about support and you look back and like say like you just 132 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:44,360 starting off something maybe like dang I remember this person told me this and it 133 00:11:44,360 --> 00:11:48,320 took me a long way and I barely even know this person from a damn can of paint 134 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:53,480 like just the amount of support even from somebody you knew for five ten years 135 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:59,680 versus the support you get from somebody you don't know takes you a long way like 136 00:11:59,680 --> 00:12:05,720 I'm not in real life see a lot of the people that I'm cool with I be getting a 137 00:12:05,720 --> 00:12:10,960 lot of words and encouragement from them versus the ones I don't know and their 138 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:15,360 words be deep to it be like oh my god it be having me in my mind like oh my god 139 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:23,080 it's like I'm loving this because support means everything especially in the black 140 00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:28,600 community I feel like support ship is like support is very strong and is very 141 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:34,440 like stern because it's hard at times to get some damn support for any and 142 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:39,760 everything you trying to do like I support everybody that's willing to 143 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:45,360 support me to even if I'm not doing enough and at that time back back then 144 00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:49,840 at that time I wasn't doing much I mean I was on something I'm school I'm still 145 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:56,680 in school so hey we're gonna number the green number two but business wise like 146 00:12:56,680 --> 00:13:01,240 you know starting a business from the ground up to something yeah back then I 147 00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:05,520 wasn't but now I am now I'm hot now I'm hot now like I'm not gonna feel which 148 00:13:05,520 --> 00:13:10,920 are now I see how this go I'm like wow and there's some friends I have that 149 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:14,520 have been a sis and I seen the behind scene to them right at times stressing 150 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:19,840 stressed out like just over to the point where they want to quit and that's why 151 00:13:19,840 --> 00:13:23,800 I come in like nah you're not doing that you're not doing that because this is 152 00:13:23,800 --> 00:13:28,360 something you live for this is something you created this is your baby like you 153 00:13:28,360 --> 00:13:33,200 really like nurtured this baby into the world don't give up on your baby don't 154 00:13:33,200 --> 00:13:37,720 give up on this because this is you this is what you have something to look back 155 00:13:37,720 --> 00:13:45,640 to me like this is me I'm the CEO this my shit nobody have to look over me to 156 00:13:45,640 --> 00:13:50,280 tell me if I'm doing a good or bad job no I tell myself I'm doing a good or 157 00:13:50,280 --> 00:13:58,480 goddamn bad job this is my shit you know like my mom she she's known by like in 158 00:13:58,480 --> 00:14:04,800 our household saying like when you when like when you really want something make 159 00:14:04,800 --> 00:14:10,520 like manifest that and and tell yourself this is mine this my shit and nobody's 160 00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:14,880 gonna take that away from me and that's how I look at things from like when you 161 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:20,920 grow up I'm like this my shit this gonna be mine this is my shit this is this 162 00:14:20,920 --> 00:14:31,200 with his you know so I say this to say make sure when it comes to support you 163 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:37,640 can tell the difference between genuine and fake support yeah yeah yeah at times 164 00:14:37,640 --> 00:14:41,720 with the fake support baby they be dressing that shit up and making it real 165 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:46,040 like if you just say dress up make it real for me sometimes that damn support 166 00:14:46,040 --> 00:14:52,680 do not be as real as the motherfucking shoes they be wearing you know like 167 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:58,320 sometimes it don't be real but you know when it's real when they genuine with the 168 00:14:58,320 --> 00:15:04,400 words like how they're wording it like if it's like a comment type the way they're 169 00:15:04,400 --> 00:15:08,600 wording it you know it's genuine if you're kidding if you're hearing it 170 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:13,840 verbally like on the phone FaceTime or in person and the tone of voice okay 171 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:19,440 there's like a genuine and I'm big on tone of voice like watch your time with 172 00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:25,360 me because during text messages to when it comes like support or just a 173 00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:32,880 conversation I likes to read the message in that person's voice and if I feel 174 00:15:32,880 --> 00:15:38,200 like the wording of that text messages that text message or comment is not 175 00:15:38,200 --> 00:15:42,400 going well I'm like what you mean what's up like what's going on and what's going 176 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:46,640 on but like you guys time to talk verbally so I can understand what's 177 00:15:46,640 --> 00:15:53,920 going on because at times it have you fucked up like what in the hell is you 178 00:15:53,920 --> 00:15:58,760 saying like it got you free has you feeling some type of wet you know it'll 179 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:04,480 have you feel it's like wait like what the fuck like huh but nevertheless y'all 180 00:16:04,480 --> 00:16:13,840 when it comes to support just always remember like you have to remain humble 181 00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:19,760 and also remember the people that was there from you from the beginning you 182 00:16:19,760 --> 00:16:24,520 know the famous saying like don't forget about me when you blow up don't ever 183 00:16:24,520 --> 00:16:27,920 forget about them people because them people was there from you since day one 184 00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:33,200 they they they had a choice like they could have stayed with you or they could 185 00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:38,160 say I don't want to stay here but they stayed with you for a purpose show your 186 00:16:38,160 --> 00:16:43,360 a1 day ones those be the ones you really really really got a hold on tight to 187 00:16:43,360 --> 00:16:47,280 because those the ones that been there from the job yes at times when you get 188 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:52,960 you know get your clout and get famous or whatever at times you sort of kinda 189 00:16:52,960 --> 00:16:57,960 shouldn't even have to like worry about them but at times yes jealousy does come 190 00:16:57,960 --> 00:17:04,360 into play but you know it's real when they've been there for you you know they 191 00:17:04,360 --> 00:17:12,120 live up to they own up to that title they have that they want your a1 so as I 192 00:17:12,120 --> 00:17:20,000 say just say just be very strong and stand tall through it all when it comes to 193 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:24,840 support not even just within my business your business but within others 194 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:31,240 business to businesses dreams aspiration just be there like you never know with 195 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:35,920 your with your token of support that you get is someone that can make somebody's 196 00:17:35,920 --> 00:17:41,040 day and you don't even know it just being able like to take somebody and say 197 00:17:41,040 --> 00:17:47,640 hey I know we don't know each other like that for real or whatever but I think 198 00:17:47,640 --> 00:17:52,560 you but I really believe or think you know whatever come to mind you doing a 199 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:56,720 damn good job at what you don't I see you do this I see you did that even if you 200 00:17:56,720 --> 00:18:00,000 was there from day one or wasn't there from day one but just got a glimpse of 201 00:18:00,000 --> 00:18:04,200 it you just give them some kind words of encouragement like encouragement 202 00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:08,800 really is a good way of supporting people like just being there for somebody 203 00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:16,080 this really just really being nice being nice just takes you a long way to like 204 00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:20,360 cuz you never know who's watching like you never know who's watching like just 205 00:18:20,360 --> 00:18:26,120 giving good vibes out and just really being so nice and kind and caring to 206 00:18:26,120 --> 00:18:33,040 others just it just makes me feel so warm and good and soft because you never 207 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:37,000 know what somebody's going through vice versa for me like when people give me 208 00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:41,640 kind words of encouragement when I'm at my at my job or whatever it's cool 209 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:45,600 whatever I like wow that's a my day because you didn't have to say that to 210 00:18:45,600 --> 00:18:50,080 me you didn't you could just walk past did what you did but you did that 211 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:54,800 because you felt in your spirit in your soul or whatever that you had to say 212 00:18:54,800 --> 00:19:00,560 that and you know what I'm not at you because you give me a good encourage you 213 00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:04,320 give me some good encouragement I'm encouraged you right back and that type 214 00:19:04,320 --> 00:19:09,200 of encouragement is support and then you don't even know me or I know you or 215 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:16,960 something you know it just makes you feel good so I leave this to say today on 216 00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:21,760 this beautiful day like I mentioned wherever you listening to or whenever 217 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:27,720 you listening to maybe it's rain shine morning afternoon and I I leave y'all 218 00:19:27,720 --> 00:19:33,040 with this message to say don't be afraid to support someone and do not be afraid 219 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:37,040 to speak out if you feel like you're not getting enough support from your 220 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:42,480 village or your close friend you have a voice you're able to speak the way you 221 00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:49,040 speak you're able to feel the way you feel okay I wish y'all nothing but peace 222 00:19:49,040 --> 00:20:15,920 and blessings y'all be safe out here and y'all will hear from me next time bye