Hey y'all whether it's morning evening or afternoon baby I'm just glad that you
had decided to vibe with me today and I am so so so so anxious to express this
vibe of the day with y'all so whether you at home on the move I just want you
to sit back relax and enjoy this episode because today's vibe is something
okay like I tell you are you ready today's vibe is support when it comes to
support you will honestly see who is with you and who is against you yes I
said it and I'm gonna be the one to say it you know like on white chicks oh my
god she was thinking it but you started that's me baby that's for me in this case
for you okay support is being actively interested in like consider it for
someone success baby I am the type of person that is very supportive like no
matter what it is I don't care if you are selling waters dinners I don't care
from the clothing lines to the head to the nails all that even if I don't if I'm
not a client like with a hair or nail client I'm still gonna support your
business I'm gonna give your flowers when it's due and I'm gonna give credit to
when his mother fucking do okay because a lot of people especially within the
black community they don't support you y'all know y'all see them post this all
the time all over social media like oh a black company sells a bag for like a
thousand dollars versus Chanel is like seven thousand dollars you still gonna
end up buying the Chanel because I look in the popular and how popular the name
is versus a black business you would end up not buying the damn bag because it's
not popping it's not hot like for example the tell far bags I love the
tell far bags like plain and simple looks to me draws my attention all the
time just by having a big symbol or like the graphic of your logo or whatever
that attracts me and yes by being a black business baby I'm going to support
that okay I'm going to support it because you are a black man or a black
woman trying to make it out and you're trying to create your crowd and you doing
so damn good to the point where that this is your motherfucking crap and you
stand in term you stand in firm and talk to this okay and that's what I love
about our black community is because we don't give a damn what it is it could be
a lunchbox glasses purses hair we can turn nothing into something okay and I
love it that's why I supported so much because people don't understand it takes
a long time to create a business it takes a long time to push to get a
degree it takes a long time to get a house it takes a long time it's a
process with everything and what matters the most I feel like if you're my
friend or you my family member like I really talk to you constantly throughout
the day you should be my number one biggest goddamn supporter because if I
ride with you like that you should ride for me like that and that's why today's
vibe is support because I'm not gonna lie and the making of this podcast I
kept it on the low for so long because I didn't want to you know I'm not gonna
say jinx myself but I didn't want to put it out there without making sure my
blueprint was firm like make sure it was firm make sure it was what I wanted
tip-top shape it's like what it's supposed to give in my vision like my
vision you know make sure my vision is coming true the comments are like you
know shit like that however I'm not even alive see like I mentioned I'm very big
on support I'm a big supporter but when it comes to my turn for support I try
not to look for it work to Wale do not hold you up lost for me cuz let me tell
you something when I graduated from high school and did the community college a
lot of people had a lot of negative things to say and at times it did hurt
me better than the day I'm like baby I'm young I'm young I graduated with a
associate's degree in as a certified counselor what's at a young age what's
what how many people you know doing it how how many exactly and it's not even
to toot my own horn but it's to show that this is something that I work so
hard for and in the outcome of the graduation like when graduation came and
stuff certain people didn't support me and that's fine I said okay that's fine
that's cool it's okay it's alright but the biggest support team I feel like you
should only worry about is your immediate family or your close friends like
your best friends and shit like that if they not supporting you like they
supposed to then baby you need to find yourself a new group of friends and you
need to step away from those family members because baby let me tell you
something about my village my immediate family I'm the oldest of two siblings
okay everything they do I supported I supported I really supported like I push
them into like making sure academics wise they're doing what they supposed to do
like any little thing they want to do any little dream not little dream any
little thing they want to do where they come they dreams aspiration and fish and
all that I pushed them I scrapped them because once they get in the real world
people will try to turn them down and I'm not with that I'm not not with that
shit I don't like that and that goes for their friendships to like yes I know
they're still young they not older like me at that point yet but you can tell the
type of friends you keep that support you as well my group of friends that I have
some friends that are entrepreneurs and things like that oh baby I support into
the fullest or every social media platform they have on mainly Instagram
because everybody pulls a certain I'm promoting it to the point where I'm
buying it you know I'm the supportive friend and I just want that in from a
turn from the people around me yes like I said at times however when it's my turn
to show the world what I'm so proud of to show others I honestly don't get the
same energy in return but I gotta remember I did this shit for me so I did
this for me and what only matters the most is that my village is my biggest
supporters my biggest cheerleaders that's what matters to me the most like like I
mentioned from your closest friends and family you would expect them to be the
ones to be the first group of people to be your supporters however some people
I can't speak on me cuz like I mentioned like my village they are they're right
there beside me they right there my immediate family they like they're there
for me they they ride a my brother died they dare for me however sometimes in
the friend group yes it is like some people has different ways of showing
they support baby I'm the type of friend that's gonna flowers balloons like
what else do you want like I go over the top however you got some friends that
just be playing Jane and I just be like okay sometimes at one point I ain't
going to lie at one point I felt as though if I'm giving you your flowers
throwing balloons and shit I should expect the same shit from you that I
received so like you know you get what you receive and that's what I was looking
for but I have to remember everybody's not the same everybody's not built like
you everybody's not genuine like you and that's when it comes to when support
when you know the support is genuine you ain't had to doubt it at times yeah
people be supportive but is it really support so a lot of people be like
having secret animosity and shit against you that just be like damn what
did I do you know and sometimes it don't even be you it just be like how much
strength energy and people are really supporting you because it's like you do
the same thing but you could do the same thing and you might get a little bit
more attention than they are and that's when things starts to crumble shadow
like damn this bitch think she got one up on me and that's not the case it's
just that people like it you know people fuck with moms like that and it's not
and then and then it's not like trying to shit on nobody it's just that that's
what the people like you know you can't argue with what the people like and
that's arms you know you have a business or something you might not get all the
people you want you might not make all the money you want but as you contain
you don't give up on that shit keep going and going and going girl you good
son you good like you know just keep going don't stop this shit but yes that's
why I say support is so big because like you see genuine support and you'll see
fake support like me I want to see everybody that I deal with be happy I
want to see them to be happy I'm supporting you regardless if it's school
word you buy a house anything whatever big girl big boy move you're making I
support it not even if it's not a big boy move it's a little move like if you
like bro I just really like stepped up like I just put myself out there to the
world like I'm really just trying to start a crowd I'm trying to like step out
of the box a little bit I support it because at times it takes a prop it's a
process of being able to just let your voice be heard let alone just even just
stepping out and when it comes to support you it needs a lot it means a lot
I'm not realize you it means a lot support really really means a lot
especially from the strangers okay the strangers out here y'all like it's
people that you know you follow you know on social media things like that sis
bro they supporting you just as much and y'all don't even barely know each other
from a can of pain y'all know like how they be saying oh that's my social media
cousin stuff like that yeah that's what I be getting from like pain she support
what I support she's supporting me I'm supporting her that's what I like and
that's what I'm all about I'm not afraid to give somebody their flowers when
it's due because if I feel like you doing what you doing you doing a good job
sis bro I'm right there like that's right that's right I know that's right and
I'm proud of you and because you doing something you really doing something for
yourself you're not doing nothing and that's where the supports come in when
you doing something better than nothing support really takes you a long way
because when you think about support and you look back and like say like you just
starting off something maybe like dang I remember this person told me this and it
took me a long way and I barely even know this person from a damn can of paint
like just the amount of support even from somebody you knew for five ten years
versus the support you get from somebody you don't know takes you a long way like
I'm not in real life see a lot of the people that I'm cool with I be getting a
lot of words and encouragement from them versus the ones I don't know and their
words be deep to it be like oh my god it be having me in my mind like oh my god
it's like I'm loving this because support means everything especially in the black
community I feel like support ship is like support is very strong and is very
like stern because it's hard at times to get some damn support for any and
everything you trying to do like I support everybody that's willing to
support me to even if I'm not doing enough and at that time back back then
at that time I wasn't doing much I mean I was on something I'm school I'm still
in school so hey we're gonna number the green number two but business wise like
you know starting a business from the ground up to something yeah back then I
wasn't but now I am now I'm hot now I'm hot now like I'm not gonna feel which
are now I see how this go I'm like wow and there's some friends I have that
have been a sis and I seen the behind scene to them right at times stressing
stressed out like just over to the point where they want to quit and that's why
I come in like nah you're not doing that you're not doing that because this is
something you live for this is something you created this is your baby like you
really like nurtured this baby into the world don't give up on your baby don't
give up on this because this is you this is what you have something to look back
to me like this is me I'm the CEO this my shit nobody have to look over me to
tell me if I'm doing a good or bad job no I tell myself I'm doing a good or
goddamn bad job this is my shit you know like my mom she she's known by like in
our household saying like when you when like when you really want something make
like manifest that and and tell yourself this is mine this my shit and nobody's
gonna take that away from me and that's how I look at things from like when you
grow up I'm like this my shit this gonna be mine this is my shit this is this
with his you know so I say this to say make sure when it comes to support you
can tell the difference between genuine and fake support yeah yeah yeah at times
with the fake support baby they be dressing that shit up and making it real
like if you just say dress up make it real for me sometimes that damn support
do not be as real as the motherfucking shoes they be wearing you know like
sometimes it don't be real but you know when it's real when they genuine with the
words like how they're wording it like if it's like a comment type the way they're
wording it you know it's genuine if you're kidding if you're hearing it
verbally like on the phone FaceTime or in person and the tone of voice okay
there's like a genuine and I'm big on tone of voice like watch your time with
me because during text messages to when it comes like support or just a
conversation I likes to read the message in that person's voice and if I feel
like the wording of that text messages that text message or comment is not
going well I'm like what you mean what's up like what's going on and what's going
on but like you guys time to talk verbally so I can understand what's
going on because at times it have you fucked up like what in the hell is you
saying like it got you free has you feeling some type of wet you know it'll
have you feel it's like wait like what the fuck like huh but nevertheless y'all
when it comes to support just always remember like you have to remain humble
and also remember the people that was there from you from the beginning you
know the famous saying like don't forget about me when you blow up don't ever
forget about them people because them people was there from you since day one
they they they had a choice like they could have stayed with you or they could
say I don't want to stay here but they stayed with you for a purpose show your
a1 day ones those be the ones you really really really got a hold on tight to
because those the ones that been there from the job yes at times when you get
you know get your clout and get famous or whatever at times you sort of kinda
shouldn't even have to like worry about them but at times yes jealousy does come
into play but you know it's real when they've been there for you you know they
live up to they own up to that title they have that they want your a1 so as I
say just say just be very strong and stand tall through it all when it comes to
support not even just within my business your business but within others
business to businesses dreams aspiration just be there like you never know with
your with your token of support that you get is someone that can make somebody's
day and you don't even know it just being able like to take somebody and say
hey I know we don't know each other like that for real or whatever but I think
you but I really believe or think you know whatever come to mind you doing a
damn good job at what you don't I see you do this I see you did that even if you
was there from day one or wasn't there from day one but just got a glimpse of
it you just give them some kind words of encouragement like encouragement
really is a good way of supporting people like just being there for somebody
this really just really being nice being nice just takes you a long way to like
cuz you never know who's watching like you never know who's watching like just
giving good vibes out and just really being so nice and kind and caring to
others just it just makes me feel so warm and good and soft because you never
know what somebody's going through vice versa for me like when people give me
kind words of encouragement when I'm at my at my job or whatever it's cool
whatever I like wow that's a my day because you didn't have to say that to
me you didn't you could just walk past did what you did but you did that
because you felt in your spirit in your soul or whatever that you had to say
that and you know what I'm not at you because you give me a good encourage you
give me some good encouragement I'm encouraged you right back and that type
of encouragement is support and then you don't even know me or I know you or
something you know it just makes you feel good so I leave this to say today on
this beautiful day like I mentioned wherever you listening to or whenever
you listening to maybe it's rain shine morning afternoon and I I leave y'all
with this message to say don't be afraid to support someone and do not be afraid
to speak out if you feel like you're not getting enough support from your
village or your close friend you have a voice you're able to speak the way you
speak you're able to feel the way you feel okay I wish y'all nothing but peace
and blessings y'all be safe out here and y'all will hear from me next time bye