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Hey, y'all, I'm just glad that you guys are able to decide to tune in with me today

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Whether it's morning evening or afternoon

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I'm just glad that you decided to turn vibing with E because today the vibe of the day is all about moving on

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I know y'all probably wondering like why do you have the first episode the first real episode baseball moving on?

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And let's just say this

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Well, my opinion when it comes to moving on moving on from things that you have been used to

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It sucks, you know when you have to just move on from moving on is one of the biggest hardest things to do no matter what it is

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It sucks so bad moving on from someone or something

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Can trigger you but it's like

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That's just how that's just how it goes or as they say that's just how the cookie crumbles. Yeah

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Moving on from a toxic situation or a person is most

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Definitely a big step within the pack in your life

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Like I had to learn the hard way of moving on from someone within a situation that I didn't want to but it was just like

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As you get older

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Sis, let it go from that moment. I finally realized that I had to move on

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So

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So I could live for me and feel better because once you have that burden on you

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It can hurt you

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Maybe sometimes trigger you even more

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Especially if it's impacting a person like for example a lot of people be in

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Relationships and they feel as though like from the beginning, you know in the beginning stage

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It's always so good because it's always good vibes good energy

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Like you're getting what you're supposed to give the person is giving you what they supposed to get but not only just the relationships

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It happens in friendships, you know, like in the beginning we meet a girl or a boy and y'all become really close within a friendship

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Y'all just like vibing like everything is good

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You sis bro, whatever y'all just good and tell one day a situation happens between y'all and

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You work it out, you know and ladies have an old like okay. This cannot happen again

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However, it starts to happen again, which turns into a very

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Toxic situation that leads you to feel like is it worth fighting for or is this gonna like mess me mentally and physically up

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And that's what I'm all about. I'm all about my mental

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I cannot and I will not let nobody mess with my mental because

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When somebody is trying to mess up your mental baby, let it go like let that situation go let that person go

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Even like a situation to like even if it's a job

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school sports whatever your passion is sometimes that could be its time

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Situation from the point where you just have to let go to the point where you just have to

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Exit yourself from being in this situation because it's like I

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I've seen and heard a lot of stories from a lot of people saying that things

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That was so toxic that was so hard for them

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It triggered them to just losing it all like from losing their self losing the people around them

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And that's another thing too that can cause a lot of problems when a toxic situation or person gets involved

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The people that's around you that care for you the most and that sees this going on

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They want you to do better and at times. Yes, it is hard to even try to do better because at times

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You feel like the people around you are jealous

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It just depends on the situation and who it is

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But at times me personally, I know how I am if I feel as though my friend or my family member or whoever I

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Feel like they're in a situation. Where's though they need to fix it before it gets out of hand

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I'd be like look sis bro. Like you need to hell is now before it gets into a toxic situation

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Let you know these people into only one thing

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Violets or going back and forth on the net and that's very toxic

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Going back and forth on the internet is just like one of the most craziest things that I would say because

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The internet is just like I feel like it's a place where anybody could be anybody like I

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I could be easy day and then try to act like Beyonce the next day knowing that's not me, you know

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That's just how the cookie crumbles. So I'm not even gonna

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Target those type of things because it's just like that's what people does. That's what they want to do

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but I always just say to myself like

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good vibes only I

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Can't deal with that negativity because once it turns negative it gets toxic and

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Nobody likes a toxic situation. I feel as though like once you get older like in your 20s

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Like once you hit your 20s, I feel like that's it like you don't want no toxic

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You don't want it like me personally like yeah, I'm in my 20s. I do not

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tolerate any

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toxic stuff none of that cuz it's just like when you have a lot riding on you in a lot that you

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Want to do for yourself?

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Your focus is all in that and that's just how I am like I go to school. I work two jobs. I have the podcast now

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That's my only concerns. It's just those four main things school

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My two jobs in my pockets, you know

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Yes at times. I know

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That can even get toxic because it's like, okay, I have to study for this make sure I upload this make sure I go to work at this job on time

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Make sure I clock in and make sure I tell this job

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I will come at this time something it does become toxic

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But the number one thing that I tell people that makes me be

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On tracking everything is be organized get a dad going

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Get a dad going

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Planner it's gonna help put in your phone like it works

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So you don't have to have these toxic situations where you feel so drained where you feel like oh my gosh

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Is this really happening? I'm going insane, you know type type shit. You don't want that

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so nevertheless

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Just feel like

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This situation this topic this vibe

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I really just

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Hit to me because when you move on from things

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It couldn't even be a good or bad outcome

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especially when it comes to

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Moving on from things that

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You're too old for like I know some people that used to party so much like every night

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Every night they party they got older. They like I can't do this. Don't I can't do this the more cuz it's not me and then

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They look at I remember one time I was talking to this person. They was like yeah

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It's the party all the time

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Then I got older and now I'm looking at how the new generation is this they was like I can't do it no more because one

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I'm not built like that no more to is very very

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very tricky to

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Put your trust in people because people are doing all types of crazy stuff out here

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that's leading people to

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Be in situations where it gets so so sad that you can't do it no more

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Like you can't do it no more and you know, you don't want to be in those type of situations

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where

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It messes you up for good like all it takes is one time for you to be out or doing something

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And if you know it messes up and it triggers you

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Trust me is like wow this is happening. Oh my god. I don't want to do this no more tight

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From a bad perspective point of view you can say on a good note of moving on it's just like

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Moving on to something that you've been manifesting that you finally got out the mud

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And this is how I feel with this podcast because it took me a

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while a good while to even

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Do this for real like I remember before the new year even hit a friend of mine

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We were on FaceTime and she was just like let's make a vision board. I'm like a vision board

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I made a vision board before and

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My vision board when 11th grade had so much stuff on there a little bit of that stuff

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I did a little bit of that stuff. I was like, I'll do it one day and I just say forget it

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But this vision board that I did for 2023

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I'm really doing it like I had the podcast on there

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It's a lot of things that I had but not a lot

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I'll say like probably like a good nine to ten pictures on there to keep it short

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Keep it keep it simple because like I mentioned 11th grade

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I had probably like 20 pictures on there and half of that stuff I did didn't do or said forget it

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so

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Moving on with that like being able to just get the ball rolling with this is just

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Excites me because this is what I've been dreaming for this is all I ever wanted and

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Yes, I do you support other

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Podcasts as well and just listening to them every time like when I'm at school at work in the gym or just at home

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Just doing nothing or maybe doing laundry and washing dishes or whatever I

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Listen to them and I was just like wow if they can do it

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I could do it with their busy life too. I could do it too fine time make time do what I could do

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You know, it's like

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You never know what you're capable of doing

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Just once you move on from something or someone don't let something or someone hold you back from moving forward

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Don't move backwards and that's what I always also tell myself like the goal is to move forward

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Don't go backwards such as like with things in the past like you can't bring the past into the present

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And if you bring it into the future, it's gonna mess up what you really had sat on or what God has sat on has set for you

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You know so that even if that impacts people

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Certain little things I used to do in the past

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I can't bring it into the present now and I'm not gonna bring it into the future because that's going to even

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You don't know what type of outcome is gonna get but if it was a bad toxic not so good

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Situation or person. Oh, I'm leaving you where you at, you know and moving on

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That's one of the many things people fail to realize to a time when you move on

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You don't have to explain yourself

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That's the that's what I feel like that's the number one thing like once you move on

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You should I have to explain yourself on why you moved on you did what you did because you did it for you

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And a lot of people just be like, oh my gosh, they moved on for me or they moved on from that situation

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They don't deal with me. No wonder that

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Sis bro, they had to move on because that was from them

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Like everyone deals with things in many different ways like maybe is healthy or is not in a long run for them

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It's just that

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Moving on is a step of growth

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Like that's just one of the many things I feel like is growth

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Once you move on from something or someone or you have been manifesting

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To move to a situation move from a situation or move on up from a situation

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That's a sign of growth

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No matter if it was a short-term long-term goal

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That's what you wanted to do and moving on does not happen overnight like things do not happen overnight. It takes time

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It takes patience

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For everything to happen for you like

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it takes a lot of

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Time for some people to get certain stuff done like going to school for some people

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They go in a 20s maybe drop out go back in the 30s

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But me personally I feel like school has no limit on it

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Especially when it comes to college or trade school or wherever getting your GD or whatever it has the limit

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The goal that I just the main priority forget the goal

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Well the goal and the priorities someone saying whatever I guess you can say this case is that you did it and you did it for you

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Even if back then you couldn't do it you manifested to move on to okay in the future or this time

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I'm gonna get this done and I'm gonna just done for me

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You know certain people just do not

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Understand why people do the things they do and it triggers me sometimes like

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Why can't you just be happy for that person?

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You know and at times I see why people do not tell people

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They're playing right away because one people even try to steal it to move on what they got or two

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They don't support you and I'm big on support

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So I say this to say leaving y'all on this note today on this episode of

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Bobbing the vibe of the day is moving on

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Whatever you do sister bro do it for you

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if you have to move away from a

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Situation or person or anything that involves you to move on do it

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Do it do it right now like start that plan

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Started off start that blueprint off started off

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started off because

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At the end of the day your mental matters

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At the end of the day you gotta think what's good for you?

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What's good for me? Who's good for me? What's not good for me?

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Where's gonna be good for me? What's not gonna be good for me?

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Where's not gonna be good for me?

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You know you have to ask yourself them five what them five them five questions like who?

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when why

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What and how I think I messed up with oh well, but y'all know what I'm saying, but

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Yes, like you just really really really

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Have to think about you

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So as I mentioned as I leave here on this note with y'all today's vibe is moving on and I hope

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And I hope that this episode today

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We'll have an impact on to somebody because

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It's going to work

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Trust me. It's gonna work. I manifest this on myself and it did and I'm happy. I'm happy now

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I'm calm. I figure out ways how to deal with my situation and trust me

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It's going to work only thing you got to do is just start that first step is moving on

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But none of the less I hope you have an amazing day. I hope you stay hydrated because it is summer time

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Have a good time while you outside or at work whatever, you know, you're doing but most of all stay blessed

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And yeah, I see y'all next time I hear if y'all will hear from me next time