Hey, y'all, I'm just glad that you guys are able to decide to tune in with me today
Whether it's morning evening or afternoon
I'm just glad that you decided to turn vibing with E because today the vibe of the day is all about moving on
I know y'all probably wondering like why do you have the first episode the first real episode baseball moving on?
And let's just say this
Well, my opinion when it comes to moving on moving on from things that you have been used to
It sucks, you know when you have to just move on from moving on is one of the biggest hardest things to do no matter what it is
It sucks so bad moving on from someone or something
Can trigger you but it's like
That's just how that's just how it goes or as they say that's just how the cookie crumbles. Yeah
Moving on from a toxic situation or a person is most
Definitely a big step within the pack in your life
Like I had to learn the hard way of moving on from someone within a situation that I didn't want to but it was just like
As you get older
Sis, let it go from that moment. I finally realized that I had to move on
So
So I could live for me and feel better because once you have that burden on you
It can hurt you
Maybe sometimes trigger you even more
Especially if it's impacting a person like for example a lot of people be in
Relationships and they feel as though like from the beginning, you know in the beginning stage
It's always so good because it's always good vibes good energy
Like you're getting what you're supposed to give the person is giving you what they supposed to get but not only just the relationships
It happens in friendships, you know, like in the beginning we meet a girl or a boy and y'all become really close within a friendship
Y'all just like vibing like everything is good
You sis bro, whatever y'all just good and tell one day a situation happens between y'all and
You work it out, you know and ladies have an old like okay. This cannot happen again
However, it starts to happen again, which turns into a very
Toxic situation that leads you to feel like is it worth fighting for or is this gonna like mess me mentally and physically up
And that's what I'm all about. I'm all about my mental
I cannot and I will not let nobody mess with my mental because
When somebody is trying to mess up your mental baby, let it go like let that situation go let that person go
Even like a situation to like even if it's a job
school sports whatever your passion is sometimes that could be its time
Situation from the point where you just have to let go to the point where you just have to
Exit yourself from being in this situation because it's like I
I've seen and heard a lot of stories from a lot of people saying that things
That was so toxic that was so hard for them
It triggered them to just losing it all like from losing their self losing the people around them
And that's another thing too that can cause a lot of problems when a toxic situation or person gets involved
The people that's around you that care for you the most and that sees this going on
They want you to do better and at times. Yes, it is hard to even try to do better because at times
You feel like the people around you are jealous
It just depends on the situation and who it is
But at times me personally, I know how I am if I feel as though my friend or my family member or whoever I
Feel like they're in a situation. Where's though they need to fix it before it gets out of hand
I'd be like look sis bro. Like you need to hell is now before it gets into a toxic situation
Let you know these people into only one thing
Violets or going back and forth on the net and that's very toxic
Going back and forth on the internet is just like one of the most craziest things that I would say because
The internet is just like I feel like it's a place where anybody could be anybody like I
I could be easy day and then try to act like Beyonce the next day knowing that's not me, you know
and
That's just how the cookie crumbles. So I'm not even gonna
Target those type of things because it's just like that's what people does. That's what they want to do
but I always just say to myself like
good vibes only I
Can't deal with that negativity because once it turns negative it gets toxic and
Nobody likes a toxic situation. I feel as though like once you get older like in your 20s
Like once you hit your 20s, I feel like that's it like you don't want no toxic
You don't want it like me personally like yeah, I'm in my 20s. I do not
tolerate any
toxic stuff none of that cuz it's just like when you have a lot riding on you in a lot that you
Want to do for yourself?
Your focus is all in that and that's just how I am like I go to school. I work two jobs. I have the podcast now
so
That's my only concerns. It's just those four main things school
My two jobs in my pockets, you know
Yes at times. I know
That can even get toxic because it's like, okay, I have to study for this make sure I upload this make sure I go to work at this job on time
Make sure I clock in and make sure I tell this job
I will come at this time something it does become toxic
But the number one thing that I tell people that makes me be
On tracking everything is be organized get a dad going
Get a dad going
Planner it's gonna help put in your phone like it works
So you don't have to have these toxic situations where you feel so drained where you feel like oh my gosh
Is this really happening? I'm going insane, you know type type shit. You don't want that
so nevertheless
like I
Just feel like
This situation this topic this vibe
I really just
Hit to me because when you move on from things
It couldn't even be a good or bad outcome
especially when it comes to
Moving on from things that
You're too old for like I know some people that used to party so much like every night
Every night they party they got older. They like I can't do this. Don't I can't do this the more cuz it's not me and then
They look at I remember one time I was talking to this person. They was like yeah
It's the party all the time
Then I got older and now I'm looking at how the new generation is this they was like I can't do it no more because one
I'm not built like that no more to is very very
very tricky to
Put your trust in people because people are doing all types of crazy stuff out here
that's leading people to
Be in situations where it gets so so sad that you can't do it no more
Like you can't do it no more and you know, you don't want to be in those type of situations
where
It messes you up for good like all it takes is one time for you to be out or doing something
And if you know it messes up and it triggers you
Trust me is like wow this is happening. Oh my god. I don't want to do this no more tight
From a bad perspective point of view you can say on a good note of moving on it's just like
Moving on to something that you've been manifesting that you finally got out the mud
And this is how I feel with this podcast because it took me a
while a good while to even
Do this for real like I remember before the new year even hit a friend of mine
We were on FaceTime and she was just like let's make a vision board. I'm like a vision board
I made a vision board before and
My vision board when 11th grade had so much stuff on there a little bit of that stuff
I did a little bit of that stuff. I was like, I'll do it one day and I just say forget it
But this vision board that I did for 2023
I'm really doing it like I had the podcast on there
It's a lot of things that I had but not a lot
I'll say like probably like a good nine to ten pictures on there to keep it short
Keep it keep it simple because like I mentioned 11th grade
I had probably like 20 pictures on there and half of that stuff I did didn't do or said forget it
so
Moving on with that like being able to just get the ball rolling with this is just
Excites me because this is what I've been dreaming for this is all I ever wanted and
Yes, I do you support other
Podcasts as well and just listening to them every time like when I'm at school at work in the gym or just at home
Just doing nothing or maybe doing laundry and washing dishes or whatever I
Listen to them and I was just like wow if they can do it
I could do it with their busy life too. I could do it too fine time make time do what I could do
You know, it's like
You never know what you're capable of doing
Just once you move on from something or someone don't let something or someone hold you back from moving forward
Don't move backwards and that's what I always also tell myself like the goal is to move forward
Don't go backwards such as like with things in the past like you can't bring the past into the present
And if you bring it into the future, it's gonna mess up what you really had sat on or what God has sat on has set for you
You know so that even if that impacts people
Certain little things I used to do in the past
I can't bring it into the present now and I'm not gonna bring it into the future because that's going to even
You don't know what type of outcome is gonna get but if it was a bad toxic not so good
Situation or person. Oh, I'm leaving you where you at, you know and moving on
That's one of the many things people fail to realize to a time when you move on
You don't have to explain yourself
That's the that's what I feel like that's the number one thing like once you move on
You should I have to explain yourself on why you moved on you did what you did because you did it for you
And a lot of people just be like, oh my gosh, they moved on for me or they moved on from that situation
They don't deal with me. No wonder that
Sis bro, they had to move on because that was from them
Like everyone deals with things in many different ways like maybe is healthy or is not in a long run for them
It's just that
Moving on is a step of growth
Like that's just one of the many things I feel like is growth
Once you move on from something or someone or you have been manifesting
To move to a situation move from a situation or move on up from a situation
That's a sign of growth
No matter if it was a short-term long-term goal
That's what you wanted to do and moving on does not happen overnight like things do not happen overnight. It takes time
It takes patience
For everything to happen for you like
it takes a lot of
Time for some people to get certain stuff done like going to school for some people
They go in a 20s maybe drop out go back in the 30s
But me personally I feel like school has no limit on it
Especially when it comes to college or trade school or wherever getting your GD or whatever it has the limit
The goal that I just the main priority forget the goal
Well the goal and the priorities someone saying whatever I guess you can say this case is that you did it and you did it for you
Even if back then you couldn't do it you manifested to move on to okay in the future or this time
I'm gonna get this done and I'm gonna just done for me
You know certain people just do not
Understand why people do the things they do and it triggers me sometimes like
Why can't you just be happy for that person?
You know and at times I see why people do not tell people
They're playing right away because one people even try to steal it to move on what they got or two
They don't support you and I'm big on support
So I say this to say leaving y'all on this note today on this episode of
Bobbing the vibe of the day is moving on
Whatever you do sister bro do it for you
if you have to move away from a
Situation or person or anything that involves you to move on do it
Do it do it right now like start that plan
Started off start that blueprint off started off
started off because
At the end of the day your mental matters
At the end of the day you gotta think what's good for you?
What's good for me? Who's good for me? What's not good for me?
Where's gonna be good for me? What's not gonna be good for me?
Where's not gonna be good for me?
You know you have to ask yourself them five what them five them five questions like who?
when why
What and how I think I messed up with oh well, but y'all know what I'm saying, but
Yes, like you just really really really
Have to think about you
So as I mentioned as I leave here on this note with y'all today's vibe is moving on and I hope
And I hope that this episode today
We'll have an impact on to somebody because
It's going to work
Trust me. It's gonna work. I manifest this on myself and it did and I'm happy. I'm happy now
I'm calm. I figure out ways how to deal with my situation and trust me
It's going to work only thing you got to do is just start that first step is moving on
But none of the less I hope you have an amazing day. I hope you stay hydrated because it is summer time
Have a good time while you outside or at work whatever, you know, you're doing but most of all stay blessed
And yeah, I see y'all next time I hear if y'all will hear from me next time