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Hey y'all what's up with the poppin I hope you all are having an amazing day and also happy Valentine's Day to all the
lovers out there and the ones that are not in love happy Valentine's Day to you as well baby even though it is Valentine's Day
and you know people always say you know Valentine's Day is for lovers but honestly it's for lovers and friends I think of Valentine's Day
as a day you know to spread love a little bit extra and I find it so special for to be in the same
way to be around the time it's black history month I don't know it's just me I just felt like that's just a really
deeper side effect when it comes to Valentine's Day because like wow it's the part of black history month like wow
that's beautiful so this month has it's like it's full of love for God you know you have your
Valentine's Day Valentine's Day and you're learning your history about your people as well like that's big I like
that I'm all for it so without further ado let's get into it so today's Bible today will be impacted on
Valentine's Day so I just say love even though I did talk about love before I want to get deeper on it I want to get
deeper on it when it comes to like acceptance what does it mean so I guess today is what is love and how do you
know when you're in love so this goes they overall getting down a nitty gritty about love so let's start
from this love is a noun and a verb because you know at times we'd be like I can show you better not
can tell you however at times when it comes to love we rather hear it and also feel it so with that
being said somebody's telling me they love me I want them to make sure that they are saying it but they
mean it at the same time as well as they're showing me when it comes to your family and friends and
your lovers especially when it comes to lovers that's it in honor of Valentine's Day I know there's a lot of
lovers out there that is loving on the people and I know there's a lot of friends out there too
those loving on these people too you know how I go so you know I'm here for it I'm here for it even though
I don't have a Valentine's I don't have a lover but I'm not the type to be petty or have a pity
party with things like this and that's what I'm gonna talk about too when it comes to like holidays
and love because you know I always have to give the pros and the cons even though at times you
don't want to but you have to and I feel like when it comes to love you have to give the good in
the bad side because at times it's like when it comes to love sometimes we do things out of love
that is fucked up but it's like in reality you gotta do what you gotta do because at another day
when it comes to that four letter word that shit is deep I feel like love hate forever and promise
are very strong words in my book especially because it holds so much weight it holds a lot of
power that a lot of people don't understand especially when it comes to love like you can
love a person and sometimes you don't even fucking like them like I remember I told my brother
early I was like I love you to death bro but I don't like you at times because it's just that you
know sometimes when it comes to family let's talk about loving family you know they say you got a
lover on yours you got a love on your family let me tell you this when it comes to my immediate
household or that's my family the ones that I saw in my household yes they are my family I'm
loving to death but at times you gotta love people from a distance because at times when you give
so much love and don't get it in return it's like I gotta step back and then when you feel like you
been disrespected time and time again and people want to play with you and try to do little
mmm shut them loses up I'm dying I gotta I gotta escape I gotta walk in silence I gotta disappear
from you because I feel like you're taking my love for advantage you're taking it for granted
you're not really loving me like how I love you the right way and that sounds it is hard to I'm
not gonna say stop loving your loved ones because I heard some stories that people really said they
stopped loving them and that's really hard because like it's actually like it takes a lot out of a
person to stop loving someone period I can understand that within relationships but within
family that's deep because it's blood and I know the same blood is taking the water but sometimes
you need that water so motherfuckers survive so let me tell you like I said when it comes to family
the ones in my immediate household those are the ones that are my family even though I do have you
know family other family members on both sides of my parents at times you gotta distance yourself
but you always gotta remember you gotta remind them so I love you and that's where the other side
of family comes in the kinfolk sometimes your kinfolk's the ones you know they say your fake
cousins or playcubs or whatever auntie stuff those be the ones also like they love you harder
that's where that water that's what they say you know that need their water to survive coming you
know blood thinking in water but you need that water to survive like y'all I didn't see and came
across a lot of kinfolk's they love me so deep that's not even my blood I want to have a think
about that I want to keep that in mind because I know y'all going through this right now you're
dealing with family issues and you're always going to keep in mind I love you but I gotta keep this
shit the distance because when it comes to things in your life when it comes to the morals and values
that also impacts my blood a lot of people don't respect a lot of people morals and values and we
understand that in family and sometimes we don't especially in the black community like I said but
I'm gonna say it again and if you're new here I'm gonna tell you I'm a social media I live for this
I live to learn about my people because we've been through shit that needs to be broken like family
generation curses and shit needs to be broken now before it gets so eye-hissed like you can see it
from your eyes instead of point where like bro people don't love each other no more and it's so
sick and it's just so it's so disturbing and it's so like it's heartbreaking because I'm the type
of person that I'm a loving person I love to love on others I love you if you love me and at times
I had moments where I felt like I love so hard with others that they didn't love me especially
within families friends in those roughly in you know trying to talk to people but like I said
when it comes to love you want to feel it and you want to hear it and I think that's our thing is
we want to hear it and sometimes we get blind when we don't see it like for me I grew up in the
superman household I've seen love I've seen at times you know you can love a person so so much and do
beyond and sometimes you could love a person so much and you just do the bare minimum it all
drops down on how do you display love and how do the person accept it you know to say like in order
for me to give respect I have to get in return and I feel that way with love in order for me to give
love I have to return a love back and I always said to myself to as I get older I was like I always
want to show love and then sometimes I look about 50 cent when he says show the love love that you
kill because at times it can so it's like when it comes to the word love and getting yourself
into the dickiness when it comes to being in love or trying to show love it's hard because at times
you you don't know people's intentions and like I said with the family if you know a family by now
you know what it is you know you gotta love things from a distance but you gotta remind them to like
hey I love you just right now I don't like you right now you know but I would never stop loving
you and that's the thing that people feel I realized sometimes people be like I can't do it I can't
do it but you know it is what it is I understand but when it comes to that L.L.V.E baby that's
something you don't want to play about because I tell you all the time like don't tell nobody you
love them if you don't love them for real and if you're not showing it let alone you don't feel that
way don't even see it I feel like honesty is the key to everything like like since I'm like I'm in
my 20s I feel like honesty is the key to everything I feel like me having a voice that alone
expresses my feelings and me really like just expressing how I feel period puts a big impact
on to me and I feel it takes a load off of me especially when it comes to things that I love
or cherish or people that I love and cherish and especially when it comes to me I'd be damned if
I let anybody try to tell me or test me when it comes to that full little word when it comes to
the things that I love I go above and beyond and when it comes to people that I love I go above
and beyond especially like I said when it comes to my family my immediate family is my family
whoever I live with that's my family seen done everything those are the ones that I have a very
very type of strong love for and it is possible to have different types of love for people especially
when it comes to family friends and lovers so let's dip into the friends part a little bit because
I'm definitely dead man like I'm telling y'all the good in the bed but you know I'm y'all know
how I am I like the remove like I'm a move a mover and shit so you know but when it comes to friends
that's that's a different type of love a real different type of love I'm gonna tell you why
I can say my friends that I have today each house to them that I they know who they are
the love I have for them is very different because those are the ones my close friends and I consider
them my family my kin folks the one I love to death if anything was to happen to them I would lose my
mind because those are the ones that since day one I know like you can tell when you release and
people are going to be connected just by conversations like I said and if you don't know
your I'm real big on talking I'm real big on communication I'm real big on having communications
I'm real having to sit down and communicate I'm real big on exploring I'm real big on just
learning a person and let alone being real that's what it is and when it comes to love you can tell
this to really you can tell what's nice especially the friendships at times it's very hard to identify
who you don't like at times when you come in the best friend job I have a girl to boy best friend
I love them the pieces my family loves them it's two pieces at times like I said like I said my
little brother I love him to death I love my siblings to death but sometimes I don't like that
like sometimes we're like bro I ain't got the time for you today like yo I love you but
bro get out my face and that's how it is with your best friends at times like me and my
girl best friend knowing each other since we graduated out of middle school and my best friend
we know each other through elementary school but we came very very close in high school so with
that being said when it comes to you know you see you can imagine the girl and the boy relationship
with me my best friend's like my sister she's like my older sister because she's older to me by a couple
months it's been times where we would have arguments that would be like bro most friends would be like
oh fuck her I don't want to be her friend no more to the point where we got it we thought about it
like you got things like we've been friends for years I know how to handle it yes at times this
has been situations where I felt like she didn't love me and I never told her and if she listened
to this I'm sorry but you know it happens you know sometimes we have those feelings because
it's like bro whoa because sometimes the situations that we dealt with and we deal
with it's like bro I feel like you don't love me no more because the way you act or how things
happen but at times like I said once you had the conversation and sit and see what's going on
but you understand like when you are very right close with somebody it's tough love that's when
love gets really tough and the love got real tough for me and my best friend but I'm gonna tell you
that love made us stronger and until this day I call my bestie like look blah blah blah blah
at times yes it's important to be with me and her I felt like we were gonna get the fist bite in
it but like I said the love that you have within your friendship you can know when it's real love
and when it's fake especially like you know how they have on instagram twitter facebook like they
have them the means where your real friend will do any and everything for you versus your friends
the fake friends that like don't really do much I feel like your close friends will go above and
beyond but your friends or your whatever they just do the bare minimum and I believe in that
especially when it comes to love especially when it comes to any and everything that impacts with
your life and achievements and whatever case me when it comes to my best friend it's like my boy
best friend love him to death but he makes me sick too and if you're listening yes and he already
know he makes me sick like anytime where me and him be really fighting like brothers brothers
and he's like my older brother too because he's older than me by what a year or two so like y'all
see the y'all see like how I'm saying like both of my both of my best friends are older than me
they're like my sibling we fuss and fight like them and there's been times where I wanted to
scrap with them because that's how hard it is but that's just the love that we have for each other
like we go above and beyond for each other that's the ones I love I would do any and everything
for because it's so hard to develop a friendship let alone develop a love for someone that you can
just be like okay I know I ain't gotta worry about this or I know if anything goes ahead but I know
I could depend on this person and I know they're gonna do this for me because it's out of love
and that's another thing too it becomes a friend you can tell when people doing things out of love
and tell when people just doing it just to get something in return like when it comes to my
best friends we do above and beyond we go we do what we do out of love versus your friends some
of your friends is gorgeous because I'm gonna tell you this my best friend my girl my best my girl my
boy best friend love and the death I have other friends too that are my very very close friends
they are like down there in the same category as my best friends they do a lot of things out of
love we don't do it to be like like shitey and nothing and that's how I am with my family too I
do things out of love I don't do things to get anything in return because you get a blessing
regardless I say that every day I'm blessed because you never know things will be taken away
and shit can go left within the blink of an eye so when it comes to love y'all I want y'all to
remember when it comes to your family friends and lovers you really gotta let people know it's at the
tone of what you love and what you don't love and how you love so let's talk about that when it comes
to how you love within friendships families or relationships you gotta let that person know you
gotta let these people know like this is my love language this is where I don't love this is what I
do love because at times we always say like if you listen to the Lil Wayne song how to love that's
a perfect example to listen to like that's one of my favorite songs by Lil Wayne when he broke it down
and like that song was really like a storytelling song because when you when he was saying like how
you know she had a lot of crew try to steal her heart and she never really knew how to love
and I feel like at times when it comes to love we we double back on how we were raised because I
feel like your household your parent or guardian whoever took care of you should have been the
first ones to display love like how they say for daughters their dads are supposed to one other ones
that are supposed to display true love to them to you know display how a real man is supposed to
treat you as well as when it comes to a mother and son the mother has to display love to her son
that represents how a woman should love you now however at times it's tricky gay because like you
can go up in a household with both parents or you know two parents whatever however household
will say your parents are separated or they you know but they're still involved if your parents
in your life period or guardian you've been surrounded by love I feel like you should be able
to know how to love properly and what to do now sometimes people be in that situation and still
fuck up like how you going try to act like you don't know what love is when you grew up in that
foundation see I understand if a person was not loved properly growing up and they have that trauma
and I understand if some grew up in that trauma but know how to love so good and so hard because
they want that so that's another thing see when it comes to love it's so tricky because it's like
you want to know what's real and you want to know what's fake especially when it comes to
like I said seeing it and seeing it now let's go to the other side I'm gonna love once
I feel like that's so puppy love high school baby that's puppy love it was love to me
so you know I please I guess you say first love whatever y'all want to call it shoot I mean
you know I've been there I understand even though it didn't last long I still experience how it is
to deal with a person that stuff opposite gender of me I understood how certain boys
display they love I understand how certain boys don't know how to display they love I understand
how certain men because back then like we were young but now I'm older so it's like
it's so much that a boy can learn up until he becomes a man same thing with a what a girl so much
that she can learn as a girl until she blossom as a woman to understand to see and know her values I
feel like when I was younger when I was in a relationship yes you know it was we had our
moments we did you know we lived and we learned and we are cool and cordial you know no bad blood
or nothing but as I got older I knew what my love language is now because like I said I grew up in a
household where I love still do to this day I still live with my parents and I'm not ashamed to say
it at my age I grew up and I grew up in a house I'm in a household with love so when it comes to a
relationship I expect nothing but the same thing I grew up in a household with my mother and my
father I seen how my father do my mom when it comes to love and I seen how my mom displayed love
with my dad as well even if like you say you love you do you could show affection non-touch
and all that it's the way love is everybody has their own way of expressing it but I'm born to believe
in genuine love I don't want to believe in scripted love and when I say script love is the media I don't
want to believe that oh a man got a look a man love me he's gonna buy me a Rolex and shit like that
like what no and then the thing is too a lot of people be like oh my gosh when it comes to love
is a lot of people don't want to show they love her off sometimes you gotta live the private life
and I was younger when I was in a relationship me and my lover at the time we supposed to have a lot
and then we got older we had a conversation about it we led by like he was like bro we really
supposed to have every day he probably was like yeah I'm so sick of seeing these mother fuckers
but now that I'm older I think that the things that I love the most and that you guys love the most
you just need to keep private and the reason I said that because sometimes people don't love what
you love is somebody don't don't want to see you happy like my Tuesday night class y'all I love that
class like I just don't know what it is like my professors just be putting on these podcasts
and stuff and they just have me like whoa like it makes me so energized to be recording even more
with you guys because like this is the shit that's happening now we watch the podcast and class
talk about women's mental health and how like the pandemic impact them and then how like you know
the old saying it's like black way you see black women as super women super woman and then they
see like how you know when it comes to us black women we don't like uplift each other a lot and
when it comes to love up in the relationship it's like do I have to depend on this person to do for me
me now when like I say when it comes to love I love her side yes I have friends that are in love
and I'm not mad at them yes I joke with them be like oh you in love I wish you would get married
next week but I gotta tell you I love love like it all the events I was like like y'all I love love
like everything about it is just like it's so beautiful it's like why would you want to hate
you something that's so beautiful that's like hating a baby like I don't understand like
some people are really just crazy like how can you just hate on a sweetest precious thing like
that is so happy like the vibe the energy the love that's in the air like be happy because like I
just don't like miserable people people that are miserable don't have love period they just so evil
and they go about oh I'm so cold hearted and I'd be like why and they don't never say I'd like it
wasn't behind a person or was behind something on and like I say y'all previous episodes ago
it's okay to go see somebody it's okay to talk to somebody it's okay I did it and I'm about to go
back to my counselor soon just to check up just you know do a little check up and just just talk
basically two hearts is explain like how everything going and I feel like people that are so hard like
cold hearted and things like that those are the ones that are so hard but those are the ones that
want to love so bad those are the ones that need the love so bad so like at times it's okay to be
cold hearted but every time bro like no that makes somebody don't want to be around you and that's
when the term you know this like I don't love you I feel like if somebody was to say that somebody
that's really harsh because it's really like it gotta take a lot out of you to say you don't love a
person like when people say they hate a person it takes a lot I feel like it takes a lot out of
a person to say those things because like how can a person make you so like how can you love a person
so much to the point where it's like I hate you or I don't like basically say I don't give two
fucks about you you know it's just like bro I'm the type of person that love love like I'm gonna
talk we're gonna talk about the good side of love now because like I've got to talk about like bits
and pieces of like how it's bad and it's good let me talk about the good side of love when it comes
to your family and love that's keep me I'm keep me in track on track of the order when it comes to
love with your family with your immediate family or whoever you consider your family like I said
with your kids it's a cute folks or whatever like that that love right there is love that you probably
won't experience ever again sometimes in life because I'm telling you when it comes to family
family is very deep you know like I said bro it's thicker than water and sometimes you need the world to survive
so whatever you consist of being your family if you know and you feel it and they tell you that they
love you and they show it not even in the certain way it's just being there for you your support system
things like that you could show love with it any type of way like the christmas song I know you're
gonna be like girl it is February christmas it's not even here yet like the jacks the power of things
they give love on christmas day I feel like we need to give love every day because you don't know
what people are going through you don't know like just simply telling somebody that you love them or
like or whatever give them a confident a copy making really spark somebody's day or spark
up them to give the confidence that they have especially with them loving their stuff more
and being and seeing that somebody loves them for them because like y'all I'm gonna say that like
when I was younger myself was things piss poor it was piss poor it took me a while to love me for
me it took me a while to love myself and that's why I took it with you like you have to love yourself
before you can love others such as like when it comes to lovers you gotta love yourself first
though before you can try to love somebody else and if they can't love you for you do what the
hell are you in your life for what they are around for that goes for friends too you can't be
there for your friend in love go friends so much that they don't love you that much it's like what
am I here for and sometimes people be using people as clickbait I don't like a user because you you
think that oh I'm doing this and doing that oh I got her in the bed why I got him in the bed you
know I got a trick how they're doing this out of love but you're you're thinking oh this ain't no
this ain't really love they just doing this because I said so no this person's really doing this
going above me all because they love you and like I said I'm gonna keep it on the pause and nobody's
I just had to get that because like I said like it takes you have to love yourself before you love
others especially when it comes to family friends and lovers you gotta make sure you good you gotta
make sure you are able to love on you right properly we're coming at self care like I say you gotta
if you guys take five ten fifteen twenty twenty five thirty two hours to have the mirror conversation
or just do anything to that impact with yourself less than impact to help you love when you do it
like I said this year we're being selfish we're taking control and we pop it now but you also
gotta remember you gotta love on you before you love on anybody else once you are able to love
on you then yeah I'm gonna love on these people but you gotta you you know I'm gonna tell you this is
everybody like oh my gosh you know who love you when shit get real can I say I think it is because
I think that's true and I see it's true because like when shit the fan you can tell who love you
who's genuine and it's all out of love you can tell and I love that so much because that's on a
positive side like you can tell somebody you love them and mean it but once you go out there and do
it from the littlest thing you know I don't see me I'm not big on material things yes I got a you
know a few materials like I got some material stuff but it's like when it comes to love you can show me
love by being there for me support me you know do stuff like that like little things like that can
honestly help a person especially when it's impacting love because support costs well because
support comes at no cost therefore don't hesitate to support your people because it can benefit them
in the long run just by being there that's that type of shit right there's a form of love if people
don't even know it so when I say this to say y'all when it comes to love and honor of Valentine's Day
don't just think of oh lovers all these lovers no you gotta think it's more true like Valentine's
Day you know Valentine's Day is the day where female friends they celebrate their female
friends they celebrate the love for their female friends like for example for me I celebrated
Valentine's Day that Saturday the Saturday past Saturday with my friend Naya that was on the podcast
and and I had an amazing time and it was like I was able to be there for my friend let alone
give her her flowers I was able to finally be able to finally give somebody physical flowers like
bro I give flowers like I was giving them like you know like say the words of encouragement but
actually sitting there give me somebody some fucking flowers I don't know what it was but
it just made me so happy like see little things like that make me happy if people be like what the
like it makes me happy because like bro stuff like this like little stuff like this I feel like
little stuff brings more out of love than big stuff because big stuff like okay I'm like I'm
still gonna be appreciative of God because I feel like the little things matter the little things
matter being there Texas whatever you got to do calls face I whatever just being there for somebody
putting a smile on somebody's face could just affect the love even more the face of specials
give me the vibe whatever just love period can honestly put a thought on a person and I'm telling
you I feel like sometimes people can break that for us like help us love deeper love the right way
love properly like I say you know sometimes people are grown up in a household that they
have and the had not been more properly until they have people that they consider their family
friends or lovers help them guide them in the way of being love property properly and once
that's happened that is one of the most amazing things ever in the world so as I say this is for
y'all even though it is that was Thursday regardless give love every day because I'm telling you
you never know that can really help somebody especially when it comes to the mental and if
you don't know now you know I'm really big on a mental and the mental is something that you have
to have to have to keep on the peace of queues especially when it comes to love because your
heart is the biggest the biggest as they say body part or whatever that keeps racing it keeps going
and I and I do believe in the same people do die from a broken heart because it happens so I'm just
being really really really really cautious on things I say and do because then for one I don't
give off mean girl but sometimes I heard that like ooh she give off mean girl but no I'd be chilling
I know at times my face expressions be like ooh she look like she's gonna fight me like I'm not
waiting for people like oh my god you're always mugging I get that from my dad because like sometimes
he be mugging but she I get that from both parents sometimes they be mugging but when it comes to
my lips as I'm about to say it gets is worse because I got big lips like my father and whatever
and this is like you look like you be bad but when you talk to me you say something to me I'm
going you're gonna see some you're gonna see all 32 teeth okay I'm not gonna keep me not gonna mug
you only time I'm muggy if you say something stupid or something fucked up I don't like then
yeah I'm gonna break my mug down like what is this I like that's when it's not gonna be lovely
anymore but so yeah it's like just to explain love even if it's not a holiday a special occasion
you'll ever give love show love because you never know who need that love and once you show it and
display it makes you a better person this is the positive side of love the positive side of love
is being there for a person showing that you care telling them that you care but also staying in
time standing firm on it staying tall and firm on it like I said when it comes to this game called
love in this world it's like another love it's not community we need to love when we shall we
need to be there for each other even though we get on each other's motherfucking nerves we still
out of ladies have a know that I'm here for you bro I just but I love you know I'm here for you
that's why I like me even though at times you gotta be a bigger person than shit
in the relationships where friendships you know relationships families whatever that I had to walk
away from but I'm never gonna be afraid to tell you that I'm here for you and I'm never gonna be
afraid to tell you look I still love you and if you hear if you need me I'm here because I'm a person
I am and that's how I was raised because my love is very strong and my love is real and is deep
even though at times I feel like it's ticket for granted and I've seen it been taken for granted
but it's like okay I'm gonna take you with a grain of salt and I'm gonna learn from it
because at times you know I see not everybody deserves your love not everybody deserves the real
love that you give out no matter what even though you try and try to get that person to benefit
of the doubt to like love one them properly they gotta love a self first before you can love them
properly like I said you gotta love yourself or you gotta put yourself first you gotta make sure
your self-esteem yourself empower me yourself improvement is there before you can put all
that on another person especially when it comes in the relationship like I said I don't have a
valentine or whatever but I know for me like if I was to have one I would want to make sure that
I'm I'm at a place in my life where I love me and I'm loving on me right before I had somebody
else trying to love on me and like I said to within our generation at times it is hard to trust
because sometimes a lot of people don't know what love is so like I'm big on music like I said like
you all gotta listen to Lil Wayne song how to love if y'all didn't listen to it listen to
us a good song but you also gotta listen to like Lauren Hill like you know like you gotta listen
to music especially when it comes to talk about love you got Mary J real love like there's a lot
of songs out there that are based on love Brianna Future Love like you know it sounds like it's
I want y'all just listen to it in honor of freaking fucking Valentine's Day if you know about
Valentine but not I just want y'all listen to Lil's song and I want y'all to see the message
listen to the message and see if you can visualize the story to me when I hear something like I'll
listen to music I want to be able to imagine it I want to be able to see the visual especially
like I said with their little Wayne song how to love before the video before I seen the video
I was young too y'all like you know when I'm older now it's like dang it's deeper
when he was explaining you know in like his list of how to love I was like whoa because you know
we try to find I feel like for females us females African-American female like that people be like
oh she deal with this man and that man because she's trying to find love that she didn't receive
from the male figure in her life sometimes it's true and sometimes it's not and I don't like the
stereotypes that we get when it's impacting love within a man because they be like oh black woman
do black woman black woman will do anything for love that's not true we wouldn't do any goddamn
thing for love shit I'm not jumping off a cliff or doing no flips and tricks for nobody just to
get some love no hell no so like I said too like certain things you say you gotta really be careful
and mindful because like bro not everybody's doing that not everybody is doing crazy shit or living
in crazy worlds and shit when it comes to love yes everybody deserves love I said all the time
everybody deserves love I don't care what color you are how how like you carry yourself your shape
or nothing you deserve love period take it from me a person that is a very loving person and always
get miscontrued with being like the mean girl because you're look I'm gonna tell y'all something just
one conversation with a person can turn things to a whole number of levels to a point where that you
fall in love with them I feel like the effect that I have on people sometimes like they're gonna fall
in love even if it's like not even on a relationship level it's on just on a friendly level friends or
whatever because that's just me and that's how I was raised I wasn't raised on hate I was raised on
love I was raised on being able to love one another being able to show love display it and most of
all don't forget what it is and also be able to display love at every chance you can get being there
for somebody there's one of the biggest ways of displaying love especially when it comes to things
in their life where they've been dealing with things or like right now is not the time so like
I say this to say when it comes to family outside of your immediate household it'll okay don't be
afraid to call them check up on you know be like hey what's up you know just display love
display love every chance you can get because like I said in all the Valentine's Day this is all
about love in all different shapes and forms so this will be called surrounding love in honor of
Valentine's Day we are surrounding love we are talking about everything that is impacted with
surrounding love and I'm not even ready hold you this Valentine's Day I feel a little different
because I bought a lot of damn treats for my loved ones because they're like my damn not Valentine's
day even though you don't have like like I say Valentine's Day is dedicated to lovers and friends
where it's ushers John and Luda had to do it again lovers and friends like even though Valentine's
was full like you know the girls the gals I feel like Valentine's Day is everybody you know the
males the girls like you know just show love period I know it's different for dudes like you're
gonna be like bro I don't know they know like that but it's just you know just so love period this is
what like love it should be showing display like this is the day where love is like very spontaneous
and many different forms in shapes and sizes because the little kids make it even better when
they come home and have hearts and stuff like that y'all like stuff like that like stuff like that
this is something I feel like should be the day where it's definitely probably to be stronger like
Christmas and things like that this holiday is I feel like it's impacted with that same because
it's all surrounding by love every time you think about something you think about love
and think about hearts think about keep it you think about red and pink you don't think about
no gleamy and no bullshit type of vibes you know you think of happy thoughts so I want it to
continue that way and when I start having kids and when I get a man you know and stuff like that
I want to keep those traditions going because that's what's going on in my house like my house
my parents give us Valentine's Day gift no matter how old I get I still get a Valentine's Day gift
okay and they now that you know I'm able to I'm working and stuff they give Valentine's Day gift
shoot too like everybody got their own treats for me and I'm good like hey you know even though
you just those type of things I feel like always at this point in love people don't understand that
people like because everybody has a different way of forming spring love showing love and receiving
love in their love language especially like I said with the relationships when it comes to love
languages ladies don't hesitate on telling that man what it is in men don't hesitate on telling
females what it is don't be afraid because I can tell you love is very strong and is a strong word
and it's just it's a verb in and out people don't understand that you can show it and you can feel it
but don't don't do one of the other you gotta do both you can't just say oh I love you don't show it
like that's some bullshit like what how you gonna say you love me you don't need show it and don't say
I love you and you don't mean it I feel like you could tell the difference when it comes to somebody
saying they love you and they don't and I'm real big on tone of voice in body language I think
because like my social work major and like that's what I got to really focus on when it comes to
my clients is their body language and the way they are you know communicating with me but in general
like even like I said with your family friends and lovers you gotta pay attention to the body
language you gotta pay attention to everything especially when it comes to love because love
is so strong you need love I don't want to hear anybody say oh I don't need no love baby you need
love regardless I don't care if you love a plant you need some type of shape or form of love like
I feel like love brings the brighter things love brings the brighter side of things and love brings
out things for us that we thought we didn't love for me like with little kids I love little kids
for them when I say look here they bring the different side of me it's like bro whoa how can
you like I said how can you not love a baby how can you not love the little cheeks a little
add-on how can you not love that because we don't you know it's kind of crazy that's that that's that
I'm so hard I'm so hard that's that hard I mean I'm like I got a cold heart inside shit man drop it
today and honor the other hard hard all the cold heart here we go we shall love we display
in love and we give in it any type of shape or form like fellas out there you got flowers and girls
ain't got no balance on give a flower yes as you explain like you know you know you ain't got a
man shorty is okay I'm gonna give you a flower because you deserve I'm telling you I feel like
when you give me flowers this is like I don't know this is like oh my god like bro like I'm
gonna be displaying you know I'm showing you that you're important that's another thing too when it
comes to love it displays importance it displays it displays importance not importance these y'all
and it displays importance especially when it comes to people that you know are fucking genuine
and it was not genuine you could tell because like I said but they're my best friends love them to
death when I know something when they know something they write they won't let me know when
this vice versa as well as my close friends when they know something ready like
especially when it comes to like when you're trying to talk to people they be the ones like
don't do it you don't know like I don't know I know you're probably listening like thanks you really
want to something right now yes because like I said in honor of valentine's day this is the day
where we're talking about love we're talking about everything surrounding love that's the vibe of the
day everything surrounding love and honor of valentine's day there we go y'all because it took me
a while to figure out because I didn't like from what I remember from talking about love when I first
started to park it was plain and simple but now I feel like it's valentine's day love being able to
understand and accept what it is what it's not and you know what you what you know is love and what's
not your love language and stuff you're learning as we were learning as we go and like I say all
the time if my broadcast don't have a lot of people wrong as it helps somebody especially within this
episode I feel like you should help a little bit like you should help some of y'all because it's
helping me as I go and like I said like I'm learning as I go too because I'm a social work major
and then I'm learning as I go within my household with my friends my family I don't have a love
again but I learned from a past experience that you know it's okay sometimes to drop out of love
but don't have that mindset because you never know who is able to sweep you off your feet and love
you the way you want to be loved and that's how you do have to love people from a distance because
at times things happen it's just like you know what I can't do it but I want you guys to remember
like love is something that is so precious that you just don't want to fuck it up especially when
it comes to family friends and lovers if that person is displaying nothing but love to you
in ways that you never seen before why fuck it up you need to cherish that because it's people out here
really dying for love or dying from love that's deep so I want y'all to know this I'm gonna end
off with this because baby I didn't know we're almost down there 15 minutes I'm just I knew
this year I said this year I know I'm going to go a little harder with the needs recordings because
you know like it's deep every day I'm learning and every day you're learning if not some of y'all
someone's learning and if no one's not learning right in there it's okay you can go back sometimes
we gotta go back and we you know we look over things and it's okay trust me I do it all the time
you know but like I said on a valentine's day y'all even if you do or do not have a valentine's
time it's okay love on you you know sometimes you gotta be self like I said this year with me as
selfish we're taking control of me probably now if you don't have a valentine's time it's okay
you have to whip the whip the whip again tongue tied you know if you have traditionally family or
friends group or relationships or not you know whatever the case may be do something display
loves today that's all I want y'all to do is like in honor in honor of valentine's day do nothing
but spread it show it either way be be nice and nice is impact with love don't be ugly because
ugly is impact with hate see that there hmm let's let's just be how can I put this let's be great
let's just display love give love because you never know that can really put a big back impact
on somebody and don't be afraid to let somebody know that you love them even though if you have
to talk to them in a minute or you just have it set in a minute but you say you know you can say
like bro says I love you and don't you forget it forever and always that's why I say forever and
always you know so as I leave off of this I want you guys to enjoy your valentine's day please be
safe out here if you do decide to go out or you are going out with your lover and friends
family members whoever or by yourself please be careful and please be on your peace of
queue because yes it's still hectic out here people don't care what they do is even though we
trying to change the narrative of the day people don't give two shits and it's kind of crazy but hey
this is the world living that's the car or just the cold heart of people I want y'all to like you
know just throw your piece of cues I wish I nothing but peace and blessings but I also want to leave
y'all with this when it comes to love please please please know what real love is and what's not
know who's real and know who's not know the difference between real genuine love and just
loving the moment and knowing if a person love you by the tone of their voice in the way that
they're displaying it like I said love is a now in a verb you can tell somebody you love them
but can you show them a person can love you but do they really love you for you think about it
I'ma leave y'all off with that I wish you guys nothing but peace and blessings and as always you
guys will hear from me next Wednesday please enjoy your balance time and the rest of your weekend
and the rest of your week and weekend bye love you guys