1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:05,840 Hey y'all whether it's morning evening or afternoon I'm just glad that you guys had decided to vibe with 2 00:00:05,840 --> 00:00:16,040 E the one and only okay so without further ado I want you guys to sit back relax and enjoy listening to my voice 3 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:23,760 and for the ones that are new here welcome welcome welcome and for the ones that are not new to this but true to this 4 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:31,040 Hey y'all what's up with the poppin I hope you all are having an amazing day and also happy Valentine's Day to all the 5 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:38,400 lovers out there and the ones that are not in love happy Valentine's Day to you as well baby even though it is Valentine's Day 6 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:45,080 and you know people always say you know Valentine's Day is for lovers but honestly it's for lovers and friends I think of Valentine's Day 7 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:51,160 as a day you know to spread love a little bit extra and I find it so special for to be in the same 8 00:00:51,160 --> 00:00:57,040 way to be around the time it's black history month I don't know it's just me I just felt like that's just a really 9 00:00:57,040 --> 00:01:04,600 deeper side effect when it comes to Valentine's Day because like wow it's the part of black history month like wow 10 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:09,360 that's beautiful so this month has it's like it's full of love for God you know you have your 11 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:15,720 Valentine's Day Valentine's Day and you're learning your history about your people as well like that's big I like 12 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:23,960 that I'm all for it so without further ado let's get into it so today's Bible today will be impacted on 13 00:01:23,960 --> 00:01:33,360 Valentine's Day so I just say love even though I did talk about love before I want to get deeper on it I want to get 14 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:43,960 deeper on it when it comes to like acceptance what does it mean so I guess today is what is love and how do you 15 00:01:43,960 --> 00:01:51,480 know when you're in love so this goes they overall getting down a nitty gritty about love so let's start 16 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:58,920 from this love is a noun and a verb because you know at times we'd be like I can show you better not 17 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:07,920 can tell you however at times when it comes to love we rather hear it and also feel it so with that 18 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:16,720 being said somebody's telling me they love me I want them to make sure that they are saying it but they 19 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:22,080 mean it at the same time as well as they're showing me when it comes to your family and friends and 20 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:27,960 your lovers especially when it comes to lovers that's it in honor of Valentine's Day I know there's a lot of 21 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:32,000 lovers out there that is loving on the people and I know there's a lot of friends out there too 22 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:40,640 those loving on these people too you know how I go so you know I'm here for it I'm here for it even though 23 00:02:40,640 --> 00:02:47,480 I don't have a Valentine's I don't have a lover but I'm not the type to be petty or have a pity 24 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:51,640 party with things like this and that's what I'm gonna talk about too when it comes to like holidays 25 00:02:51,640 --> 00:02:57,560 and love because you know I always have to give the pros and the cons even though at times you 26 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:03,440 don't want to but you have to and I feel like when it comes to love you have to give the good in 27 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:08,760 the bad side because at times it's like when it comes to love sometimes we do things out of love 28 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:14,400 that is fucked up but it's like in reality you gotta do what you gotta do because at another day 29 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:20,920 when it comes to that four letter word that shit is deep I feel like love hate forever and promise 30 00:03:20,920 --> 00:03:25,600 are very strong words in my book especially because it holds so much weight it holds a lot of 31 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:30,240 power that a lot of people don't understand especially when it comes to love like you can 32 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:36,000 love a person and sometimes you don't even fucking like them like I remember I told my brother 33 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:40,440 early I was like I love you to death bro but I don't like you at times because it's just that you 34 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:45,160 know sometimes when it comes to family let's talk about loving family you know they say you got a 35 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:49,200 lover on yours you got a love on your family let me tell you this when it comes to my immediate 36 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:54,960 household or that's my family the ones that I saw in my household yes they are my family I'm 37 00:03:54,960 --> 00:04:00,560 loving to death but at times you gotta love people from a distance because at times when you give 38 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:07,640 so much love and don't get it in return it's like I gotta step back and then when you feel like you 39 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:12,960 been disrespected time and time again and people want to play with you and try to do little 40 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:19,320 mmm shut them loses up I'm dying I gotta I gotta escape I gotta walk in silence I gotta disappear 41 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:24,400 from you because I feel like you're taking my love for advantage you're taking it for granted 42 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:32,080 you're not really loving me like how I love you the right way and that sounds it is hard to I'm 43 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:35,960 not gonna say stop loving your loved ones because I heard some stories that people really said they 44 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:40,800 stopped loving them and that's really hard because like it's actually like it takes a lot out of a 45 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:46,240 person to stop loving someone period I can understand that within relationships but within 46 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:51,120 family that's deep because it's blood and I know the same blood is taking the water but sometimes 47 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:56,880 you need that water so motherfuckers survive so let me tell you like I said when it comes to family 48 00:04:56,880 --> 00:05:02,680 the ones in my immediate household those are the ones that are my family even though I do have you 49 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:10,280 know family other family members on both sides of my parents at times you gotta distance yourself 50 00:05:10,280 --> 00:05:15,600 but you always gotta remember you gotta remind them so I love you and that's where the other side 51 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:20,320 of family comes in the kinfolk sometimes your kinfolk's the ones you know they say your fake 52 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:25,280 cousins or playcubs or whatever auntie stuff those be the ones also like they love you harder 53 00:05:25,280 --> 00:05:30,320 that's where that water that's what they say you know that need their water to survive coming you 54 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:36,240 know blood thinking in water but you need that water to survive like y'all I didn't see and came 55 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:43,760 across a lot of kinfolk's they love me so deep that's not even my blood I want to have a think 56 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:47,680 about that I want to keep that in mind because I know y'all going through this right now you're 57 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:54,800 dealing with family issues and you're always going to keep in mind I love you but I gotta keep this 58 00:05:54,800 --> 00:06:00,560 shit the distance because when it comes to things in your life when it comes to the morals and values 59 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:05,680 that also impacts my blood a lot of people don't respect a lot of people morals and values and we 60 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:10,880 understand that in family and sometimes we don't especially in the black community like I said but 61 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:17,840 I'm gonna say it again and if you're new here I'm gonna tell you I'm a social media I live for this 62 00:06:17,840 --> 00:06:24,160 I live to learn about my people because we've been through shit that needs to be broken like family 63 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:32,160 generation curses and shit needs to be broken now before it gets so eye-hissed like you can see it 64 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:38,560 from your eyes instead of point where like bro people don't love each other no more and it's so 65 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:47,760 sick and it's just so it's so disturbing and it's so like it's heartbreaking because I'm the type 66 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:54,400 of person that I'm a loving person I love to love on others I love you if you love me and at times 67 00:06:54,400 --> 00:07:01,760 I had moments where I felt like I love so hard with others that they didn't love me especially 68 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:09,440 within families friends in those roughly in you know trying to talk to people but like I said 69 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:15,760 when it comes to love you want to feel it and you want to hear it and I think that's our thing is 70 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:22,720 we want to hear it and sometimes we get blind when we don't see it like for me I grew up in the 71 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:31,840 superman household I've seen love I've seen at times you know you can love a person so so much and do 72 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:36,480 beyond and sometimes you could love a person so much and you just do the bare minimum it all 73 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:43,840 drops down on how do you display love and how do the person accept it you know to say like in order 74 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:50,000 for me to give respect I have to get in return and I feel that way with love in order for me to give 75 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:55,920 love I have to return a love back and I always said to myself to as I get older I was like I always 76 00:07:55,920 --> 00:08:01,360 want to show love and then sometimes I look about 50 cent when he says show the love love that you 77 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:08,080 kill because at times it can so it's like when it comes to the word love and getting yourself 78 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:15,920 into the dickiness when it comes to being in love or trying to show love it's hard because at times 79 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:21,600 you you don't know people's intentions and like I said with the family if you know a family by now 80 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:27,120 you know what it is you know you gotta love things from a distance but you gotta remind them to like 81 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:34,000 hey I love you just right now I don't like you right now you know but I would never stop loving 82 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:38,720 you and that's the thing that people feel I realized sometimes people be like I can't do it I can't 83 00:08:38,720 --> 00:08:47,840 do it but you know it is what it is I understand but when it comes to that L.L.V.E baby that's 84 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:51,360 something you don't want to play about because I tell you all the time like don't tell nobody you 85 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:56,800 love them if you don't love them for real and if you're not showing it let alone you don't feel that 86 00:08:56,800 --> 00:09:03,440 way don't even see it I feel like honesty is the key to everything like like since I'm like I'm in 87 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:08,480 my 20s I feel like honesty is the key to everything I feel like me having a voice that alone 88 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:16,720 expresses my feelings and me really like just expressing how I feel period puts a big impact 89 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:22,800 on to me and I feel it takes a load off of me especially when it comes to things that I love 90 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:28,400 or cherish or people that I love and cherish and especially when it comes to me I'd be damned if 91 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:35,040 I let anybody try to tell me or test me when it comes to that full little word when it comes to 92 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:41,120 the things that I love I go above and beyond and when it comes to people that I love I go above 93 00:09:41,120 --> 00:09:46,560 and beyond especially like I said when it comes to my family my immediate family is my family 94 00:09:46,560 --> 00:09:55,280 whoever I live with that's my family seen done everything those are the ones that I have a very 95 00:09:55,280 --> 00:10:01,040 very type of strong love for and it is possible to have different types of love for people especially 96 00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:06,640 when it comes to family friends and lovers so let's dip into the friends part a little bit because 97 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:11,280 I'm definitely dead man like I'm telling y'all the good in the bed but you know I'm y'all know 98 00:10:11,280 --> 00:10:17,920 how I am I like the remove like I'm a move a mover and shit so you know but when it comes to friends 99 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:22,560 that's that's a different type of love a real different type of love I'm gonna tell you why 100 00:10:22,560 --> 00:10:30,960 I can say my friends that I have today each house to them that I they know who they are 101 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:37,440 the love I have for them is very different because those are the ones my close friends and I consider 102 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:43,680 them my family my kin folks the one I love to death if anything was to happen to them I would lose my 103 00:10:43,680 --> 00:10:53,840 mind because those are the ones that since day one I know like you can tell when you release and 104 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:59,200 people are going to be connected just by conversations like I said and if you don't know 105 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:04,320 your I'm real big on talking I'm real big on communication I'm real big on having communications 106 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:10,320 I'm real having to sit down and communicate I'm real big on exploring I'm real big on just 107 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:15,440 learning a person and let alone being real that's what it is and when it comes to love you can tell 108 00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:19,920 this to really you can tell what's nice especially the friendships at times it's very hard to identify 109 00:11:19,920 --> 00:11:24,880 who you don't like at times when you come in the best friend job I have a girl to boy best friend 110 00:11:25,600 --> 00:11:31,920 I love them the pieces my family loves them it's two pieces at times like I said like I said my 111 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:36,800 little brother I love him to death I love my siblings to death but sometimes I don't like that 112 00:11:36,800 --> 00:11:40,480 like sometimes we're like bro I ain't got the time for you today like yo I love you but 113 00:11:41,120 --> 00:11:46,000 bro get out my face and that's how it is with your best friends at times like me and my 114 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:51,840 girl best friend knowing each other since we graduated out of middle school and my best friend 115 00:11:51,840 --> 00:11:57,440 we know each other through elementary school but we came very very close in high school so with 116 00:11:57,440 --> 00:12:03,680 that being said when it comes to you know you see you can imagine the girl and the boy relationship 117 00:12:03,680 --> 00:12:09,280 with me my best friend's like my sister she's like my older sister because she's older to me by a couple 118 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:17,040 months it's been times where we would have arguments that would be like bro most friends would be like 119 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:23,600 oh fuck her I don't want to be her friend no more to the point where we got it we thought about it 120 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:28,800 like you got things like we've been friends for years I know how to handle it yes at times this 121 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:36,160 has been situations where I felt like she didn't love me and I never told her and if she listened 122 00:12:36,160 --> 00:12:41,280 to this I'm sorry but you know it happens you know sometimes we have those feelings because 123 00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:47,520 it's like bro whoa because sometimes the situations that we dealt with and we deal 124 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:51,360 with it's like bro I feel like you don't love me no more because the way you act or how things 125 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:57,600 happen but at times like I said once you had the conversation and sit and see what's going on 126 00:12:57,600 --> 00:13:06,000 but you understand like when you are very right close with somebody it's tough love that's when 127 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:11,200 love gets really tough and the love got real tough for me and my best friend but I'm gonna tell you 128 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:18,320 that love made us stronger and until this day I call my bestie like look blah blah blah blah 129 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:22,400 at times yes it's important to be with me and her I felt like we were gonna get the fist bite in 130 00:13:22,400 --> 00:13:28,880 it but like I said the love that you have within your friendship you can know when it's real love 131 00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:33,600 and when it's fake especially like you know how they have on instagram twitter facebook like they 132 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:43,840 have them the means where your real friend will do any and everything for you versus your friends 133 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:48,720 the fake friends that like don't really do much I feel like your close friends will go above and 134 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:53,920 beyond but your friends or your whatever they just do the bare minimum and I believe in that 135 00:13:53,920 --> 00:13:57,600 especially when it comes to love especially when it comes to any and everything that impacts with 136 00:13:57,600 --> 00:14:03,360 your life and achievements and whatever case me when it comes to my best friend it's like my boy 137 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:09,520 best friend love him to death but he makes me sick too and if you're listening yes and he already 138 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:13,840 know he makes me sick like anytime where me and him be really fighting like brothers brothers 139 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:20,000 and he's like my older brother too because he's older than me by what a year or two so like y'all 140 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:25,840 see the y'all see like how I'm saying like both of my both of my best friends are older than me 141 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:30,720 they're like my sibling we fuss and fight like them and there's been times where I wanted to 142 00:14:30,720 --> 00:14:37,200 scrap with them because that's how hard it is but that's just the love that we have for each other 143 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:42,720 like we go above and beyond for each other that's the ones I love I would do any and everything 144 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:49,920 for because it's so hard to develop a friendship let alone develop a love for someone that you can 145 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:54,560 just be like okay I know I ain't gotta worry about this or I know if anything goes ahead but I know 146 00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:58,800 I could depend on this person and I know they're gonna do this for me because it's out of love 147 00:14:58,800 --> 00:15:03,520 and that's another thing too it becomes a friend you can tell when people doing things out of love 148 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:09,440 and tell when people just doing it just to get something in return like when it comes to my 149 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:16,800 best friends we do above and beyond we go we do what we do out of love versus your friends some 150 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:21,600 of your friends is gorgeous because I'm gonna tell you this my best friend my girl my best my girl my 151 00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:26,320 boy best friend love and the death I have other friends too that are my very very close friends 152 00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:34,000 they are like down there in the same category as my best friends they do a lot of things out of 153 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:39,760 love we don't do it to be like like shitey and nothing and that's how I am with my family too I 154 00:15:39,760 --> 00:15:45,760 do things out of love I don't do things to get anything in return because you get a blessing 155 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:52,000 regardless I say that every day I'm blessed because you never know things will be taken away 156 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:57,520 and shit can go left within the blink of an eye so when it comes to love y'all I want y'all to 157 00:15:57,520 --> 00:16:01,680 remember when it comes to your family friends and lovers you really gotta let people know it's at the 158 00:16:01,680 --> 00:16:06,800 tone of what you love and what you don't love and how you love so let's talk about that when it comes 159 00:16:06,800 --> 00:16:12,080 to how you love within friendships families or relationships you gotta let that person know you 160 00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:18,720 gotta let these people know like this is my love language this is where I don't love this is what I 161 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:25,600 do love because at times we always say like if you listen to the Lil Wayne song how to love that's 162 00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:30,960 a perfect example to listen to like that's one of my favorite songs by Lil Wayne when he broke it down 163 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:37,680 and like that song was really like a storytelling song because when you when he was saying like how 164 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:42,960 you know she had a lot of crew try to steal her heart and she never really knew how to love 165 00:16:42,960 --> 00:16:49,520 and I feel like at times when it comes to love we we double back on how we were raised because I 166 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:54,560 feel like your household your parent or guardian whoever took care of you should have been the 167 00:16:54,560 --> 00:17:01,120 first ones to display love like how they say for daughters their dads are supposed to one other ones 168 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:06,320 that are supposed to display true love to them to you know display how a real man is supposed to 169 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:12,080 treat you as well as when it comes to a mother and son the mother has to display love to her son 170 00:17:12,080 --> 00:17:17,040 that represents how a woman should love you now however at times it's tricky gay because like you 171 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:22,400 can go up in a household with both parents or you know two parents whatever however household 172 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:27,040 will say your parents are separated or they you know but they're still involved if your parents 173 00:17:27,040 --> 00:17:30,800 in your life period or guardian you've been surrounded by love I feel like you should be able 174 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:37,200 to know how to love properly and what to do now sometimes people be in that situation and still 175 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:42,800 fuck up like how you going try to act like you don't know what love is when you grew up in that 176 00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:49,520 foundation see I understand if a person was not loved properly growing up and they have that trauma 177 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:56,640 and I understand if some grew up in that trauma but know how to love so good and so hard because 178 00:17:56,640 --> 00:18:01,520 they want that so that's another thing see when it comes to love it's so tricky because it's like 179 00:18:02,960 --> 00:18:09,600 you want to know what's real and you want to know what's fake especially when it comes to 180 00:18:09,600 --> 00:18:16,480 like I said seeing it and seeing it now let's go to the other side I'm gonna love once 181 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:22,640 I feel like that's so puppy love high school baby that's puppy love it was love to me 182 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:30,480 so you know I please I guess you say first love whatever y'all want to call it shoot I mean 183 00:18:31,840 --> 00:18:38,160 you know I've been there I understand even though it didn't last long I still experience how it is 184 00:18:38,160 --> 00:18:45,280 to deal with a person that stuff opposite gender of me I understood how certain boys 185 00:18:45,280 --> 00:18:50,480 display they love I understand how certain boys don't know how to display they love I understand 186 00:18:51,120 --> 00:18:56,880 how certain men because back then like we were young but now I'm older so it's like 187 00:18:58,160 --> 00:19:04,640 it's so much that a boy can learn up until he becomes a man same thing with a what a girl so much 188 00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:10,720 that she can learn as a girl until she blossom as a woman to understand to see and know her values I 189 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:17,280 feel like when I was younger when I was in a relationship yes you know it was we had our 190 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:23,760 moments we did you know we lived and we learned and we are cool and cordial you know no bad blood 191 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:30,320 or nothing but as I got older I knew what my love language is now because like I said I grew up in a 192 00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:34,800 household where I love still do to this day I still live with my parents and I'm not ashamed to say 193 00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:42,080 it at my age I grew up and I grew up in a house I'm in a household with love so when it comes to a 194 00:19:42,080 --> 00:19:46,720 relationship I expect nothing but the same thing I grew up in a household with my mother and my 195 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:51,520 father I seen how my father do my mom when it comes to love and I seen how my mom displayed love 196 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:56,880 with my dad as well even if like you say you love you do you could show affection non-touch 197 00:19:56,880 --> 00:20:04,800 and all that it's the way love is everybody has their own way of expressing it but I'm born to believe 198 00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:11,440 in genuine love I don't want to believe in scripted love and when I say script love is the media I don't 199 00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:17,040 want to believe that oh a man got a look a man love me he's gonna buy me a Rolex and shit like that 200 00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:22,240 like what no and then the thing is too a lot of people be like oh my gosh when it comes to love 201 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:27,360 is a lot of people don't want to show they love her off sometimes you gotta live the private life 202 00:20:27,360 --> 00:20:34,400 and I was younger when I was in a relationship me and my lover at the time we supposed to have a lot 203 00:20:34,960 --> 00:20:38,240 and then we got older we had a conversation about it we led by like he was like bro we really 204 00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:42,480 supposed to have every day he probably was like yeah I'm so sick of seeing these mother fuckers 205 00:20:43,680 --> 00:20:51,520 but now that I'm older I think that the things that I love the most and that you guys love the most 206 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:57,200 you just need to keep private and the reason I said that because sometimes people don't love what 207 00:20:57,200 --> 00:21:03,920 you love is somebody don't don't want to see you happy like my Tuesday night class y'all I love that 208 00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:07,680 class like I just don't know what it is like my professors just be putting on these podcasts 209 00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:14,960 and stuff and they just have me like whoa like it makes me so energized to be recording even more 210 00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:20,320 with you guys because like this is the shit that's happening now we watch the podcast and class 211 00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:24,960 talk about women's mental health and how like the pandemic impact them and then how like you know 212 00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:30,880 the old saying it's like black way you see black women as super women super woman and then they 213 00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:36,880 see like how you know when it comes to us black women we don't like uplift each other a lot and 214 00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:42,640 when it comes to love up in the relationship it's like do I have to depend on this person to do for me 215 00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:51,440 me now when like I say when it comes to love I love her side yes I have friends that are in love 216 00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:57,200 and I'm not mad at them yes I joke with them be like oh you in love I wish you would get married 217 00:21:57,200 --> 00:22:03,280 next week but I gotta tell you I love love like it all the events I was like like y'all I love love 218 00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:07,840 like everything about it is just like it's so beautiful it's like why would you want to hate 219 00:22:07,840 --> 00:22:11,920 you something that's so beautiful that's like hating a baby like I don't understand like 220 00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:16,960 some people are really just crazy like how can you just hate on a sweetest precious thing like 221 00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:24,640 that is so happy like the vibe the energy the love that's in the air like be happy because like I 222 00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:30,160 just don't like miserable people people that are miserable don't have love period they just so evil 223 00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:37,600 and they go about oh I'm so cold hearted and I'd be like why and they don't never say I'd like it 224 00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:43,760 wasn't behind a person or was behind something on and like I say y'all previous episodes ago 225 00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:49,920 it's okay to go see somebody it's okay to talk to somebody it's okay I did it and I'm about to go 226 00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:55,760 back to my counselor soon just to check up just you know do a little check up and just just talk 227 00:22:55,760 --> 00:23:01,840 basically two hearts is explain like how everything going and I feel like people that are so hard like 228 00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:06,560 cold hearted and things like that those are the ones that are so hard but those are the ones that 229 00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:12,960 want to love so bad those are the ones that need the love so bad so like at times it's okay to be 230 00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:18,480 cold hearted but every time bro like no that makes somebody don't want to be around you and that's 231 00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:23,920 when the term you know this like I don't love you I feel like if somebody was to say that somebody 232 00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:28,000 that's really harsh because it's really like it gotta take a lot out of you to say you don't love a 233 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:34,880 person like when people say they hate a person it takes a lot I feel like it takes a lot out of 234 00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:43,040 a person to say those things because like how can a person make you so like how can you love a person 235 00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:49,040 so much to the point where it's like I hate you or I don't like basically say I don't give two 236 00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:54,880 fucks about you you know it's just like bro I'm the type of person that love love like I'm gonna 237 00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:59,440 talk we're gonna talk about the good side of love now because like I've got to talk about like bits 238 00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:03,040 and pieces of like how it's bad and it's good let me talk about the good side of love when it comes 239 00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:09,840 to your family and love that's keep me I'm keep me in track on track of the order when it comes to 240 00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:14,480 love with your family with your immediate family or whoever you consider your family like I said 241 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:19,760 with your kids it's a cute folks or whatever like that that love right there is love that you probably 242 00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:26,400 won't experience ever again sometimes in life because I'm telling you when it comes to family 243 00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:32,960 family is very deep you know like I said bro it's thicker than water and sometimes you need the world to survive 244 00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:39,120 so whatever you consist of being your family if you know and you feel it and they tell you that they 245 00:24:39,120 --> 00:24:44,240 love you and they show it not even in the certain way it's just being there for you your support system 246 00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:48,880 things like that you could show love with it any type of way like the christmas song I know you're 247 00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:53,680 gonna be like girl it is February christmas it's not even here yet like the jacks the power of things 248 00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:58,320 they give love on christmas day I feel like we need to give love every day because you don't know 249 00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:05,520 what people are going through you don't know like just simply telling somebody that you love them or 250 00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:11,120 like or whatever give them a confident a copy making really spark somebody's day or spark 251 00:25:11,120 --> 00:25:15,840 up them to give the confidence that they have especially with them loving their stuff more 252 00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:20,400 and being and seeing that somebody loves them for them because like y'all I'm gonna say that like 253 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:28,400 when I was younger myself was things piss poor it was piss poor it took me a while to love me for 254 00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:34,480 me it took me a while to love myself and that's why I took it with you like you have to love yourself 255 00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:40,880 before you can love others such as like when it comes to lovers you gotta love yourself first 256 00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:47,120 though before you can try to love somebody else and if they can't love you for you do what the 257 00:25:47,120 --> 00:25:52,560 hell are you in your life for what they are around for that goes for friends too you can't be 258 00:25:53,360 --> 00:25:58,960 there for your friend in love go friends so much that they don't love you that much it's like what 259 00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:06,320 am I here for and sometimes people be using people as clickbait I don't like a user because you you 260 00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:11,360 think that oh I'm doing this and doing that oh I got her in the bed why I got him in the bed you 261 00:26:11,360 --> 00:26:19,200 know I got a trick how they're doing this out of love but you're you're thinking oh this ain't no 262 00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:23,680 this ain't really love they just doing this because I said so no this person's really doing this 263 00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:29,520 going above me all because they love you and like I said I'm gonna keep it on the pause and nobody's 264 00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:35,760 I just had to get that because like I said like it takes you have to love yourself before you love 265 00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:43,440 others especially when it comes to family friends and lovers you gotta make sure you good you gotta 266 00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:49,680 make sure you are able to love on you right properly we're coming at self care like I say you gotta 267 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:54,880 if you guys take five ten fifteen twenty twenty five thirty two hours to have the mirror conversation 268 00:26:54,880 --> 00:27:01,520 or just do anything to that impact with yourself less than impact to help you love when you do it 269 00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:08,080 like I said this year we're being selfish we're taking control and we pop it now but you also 270 00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:14,480 gotta remember you gotta love on you before you love on anybody else once you are able to love 271 00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:20,080 on you then yeah I'm gonna love on these people but you gotta you you know I'm gonna tell you this is 272 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:30,960 everybody like oh my gosh you know who love you when shit get real can I say I think it is because 273 00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:36,800 I think that's true and I see it's true because like when shit the fan you can tell who love you 274 00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:43,360 who's genuine and it's all out of love you can tell and I love that so much because that's on a 275 00:27:43,360 --> 00:27:50,960 positive side like you can tell somebody you love them and mean it but once you go out there and do 276 00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:56,160 it from the littlest thing you know I don't see me I'm not big on material things yes I got a you 277 00:27:56,160 --> 00:28:00,880 know a few materials like I got some material stuff but it's like when it comes to love you can show me 278 00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:07,040 love by being there for me support me you know do stuff like that like little things like that can 279 00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:12,640 honestly help a person especially when it's impacting love because support costs well because 280 00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:18,160 support comes at no cost therefore don't hesitate to support your people because it can benefit them 281 00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:23,280 in the long run just by being there that's that type of shit right there's a form of love if people 282 00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:29,680 don't even know it so when I say this to say y'all when it comes to love and honor of Valentine's Day 283 00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:36,960 don't just think of oh lovers all these lovers no you gotta think it's more true like Valentine's 284 00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:41,040 Day you know Valentine's Day is the day where female friends they celebrate their female 285 00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:46,880 friends they celebrate the love for their female friends like for example for me I celebrated 286 00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:54,560 Valentine's Day that Saturday the Saturday past Saturday with my friend Naya that was on the podcast 287 00:28:54,560 --> 00:29:03,280 and and I had an amazing time and it was like I was able to be there for my friend let alone 288 00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:10,960 give her her flowers I was able to finally be able to finally give somebody physical flowers like 289 00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:15,120 bro I give flowers like I was giving them like you know like say the words of encouragement but 290 00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:18,960 actually sitting there give me somebody some fucking flowers I don't know what it was but 291 00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:23,840 it just made me so happy like see little things like that make me happy if people be like what the 292 00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:31,440 like it makes me happy because like bro stuff like this like little stuff like this I feel like 293 00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:38,240 little stuff brings more out of love than big stuff because big stuff like okay I'm like I'm 294 00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:43,200 still gonna be appreciative of God because I feel like the little things matter the little things 295 00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:49,200 matter being there Texas whatever you got to do calls face I whatever just being there for somebody 296 00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:53,920 putting a smile on somebody's face could just affect the love even more the face of specials 297 00:29:53,920 --> 00:30:00,800 give me the vibe whatever just love period can honestly put a thought on a person and I'm telling 298 00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:09,040 you I feel like sometimes people can break that for us like help us love deeper love the right way 299 00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:13,520 love properly like I say you know sometimes people are grown up in a household that they 300 00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:18,160 have and the had not been more properly until they have people that they consider their family 301 00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:23,120 friends or lovers help them guide them in the way of being love property properly and once 302 00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:27,520 that's happened that is one of the most amazing things ever in the world so as I say this is for 303 00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:33,440 y'all even though it is that was Thursday regardless give love every day because I'm telling you 304 00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:37,520 you never know that can really help somebody especially when it comes to the mental and if 305 00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:42,720 you don't know now you know I'm really big on a mental and the mental is something that you have 306 00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:46,080 to have to have to keep on the peace of queues especially when it comes to love because your 307 00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:52,080 heart is the biggest the biggest as they say body part or whatever that keeps racing it keeps going 308 00:30:53,040 --> 00:31:00,080 and I and I do believe in the same people do die from a broken heart because it happens so I'm just 309 00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:05,840 being really really really really cautious on things I say and do because then for one I don't 310 00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:11,360 give off mean girl but sometimes I heard that like ooh she give off mean girl but no I'd be chilling 311 00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:16,720 I know at times my face expressions be like ooh she look like she's gonna fight me like I'm not 312 00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:21,440 waiting for people like oh my god you're always mugging I get that from my dad because like sometimes 313 00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:26,320 he be mugging but she I get that from both parents sometimes they be mugging but when it comes to 314 00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:31,280 my lips as I'm about to say it gets is worse because I got big lips like my father and whatever 315 00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:35,840 and this is like you look like you be bad but when you talk to me you say something to me I'm 316 00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:41,520 going you're gonna see some you're gonna see all 32 teeth okay I'm not gonna keep me not gonna mug 317 00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:45,600 you only time I'm muggy if you say something stupid or something fucked up I don't like then 318 00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:50,800 yeah I'm gonna break my mug down like what is this I like that's when it's not gonna be lovely 319 00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:58,160 anymore but so yeah it's like just to explain love even if it's not a holiday a special occasion 320 00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:03,760 you'll ever give love show love because you never know who need that love and once you show it and 321 00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:09,920 display it makes you a better person this is the positive side of love the positive side of love 322 00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:15,200 is being there for a person showing that you care telling them that you care but also staying in 323 00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:21,920 time standing firm on it staying tall and firm on it like I said when it comes to this game called 324 00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:27,760 love in this world it's like another love it's not community we need to love when we shall we 325 00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:31,200 need to be there for each other even though we get on each other's motherfucking nerves we still 326 00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:36,320 out of ladies have a know that I'm here for you bro I just but I love you know I'm here for you 327 00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:40,080 that's why I like me even though at times you gotta be a bigger person than shit 328 00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:46,880 in the relationships where friendships you know relationships families whatever that I had to walk 329 00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:52,160 away from but I'm never gonna be afraid to tell you that I'm here for you and I'm never gonna be 330 00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:58,000 afraid to tell you look I still love you and if you hear if you need me I'm here because I'm a person 331 00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:03,440 I am and that's how I was raised because my love is very strong and my love is real and is deep 332 00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:10,800 even though at times I feel like it's ticket for granted and I've seen it been taken for granted 333 00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:14,880 but it's like okay I'm gonna take you with a grain of salt and I'm gonna learn from it 334 00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:20,880 because at times you know I see not everybody deserves your love not everybody deserves the real 335 00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:25,600 love that you give out no matter what even though you try and try to get that person to benefit 336 00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:30,880 of the doubt to like love one them properly they gotta love a self first before you can love them 337 00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:34,720 properly like I said you gotta love yourself or you gotta put yourself first you gotta make sure 338 00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:40,400 your self-esteem yourself empower me yourself improvement is there before you can put all 339 00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:46,080 that on another person especially when it comes in the relationship like I said I don't have a 340 00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:53,120 valentine or whatever but I know for me like if I was to have one I would want to make sure that 341 00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:59,280 I'm I'm at a place in my life where I love me and I'm loving on me right before I had somebody 342 00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:05,440 else trying to love on me and like I said to within our generation at times it is hard to trust 343 00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:10,560 because sometimes a lot of people don't know what love is so like I'm big on music like I said like 344 00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:14,400 you all gotta listen to Lil Wayne song how to love if y'all didn't listen to it listen to 345 00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:20,400 us a good song but you also gotta listen to like Lauren Hill like you know like you gotta listen 346 00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:25,200 to music especially when it comes to talk about love you got Mary J real love like there's a lot 347 00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:30,960 of songs out there that are based on love Brianna Future Love like you know it sounds like it's 348 00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:36,160 I want y'all just listen to it in honor of freaking fucking Valentine's Day if you know about 349 00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:40,720 Valentine but not I just want y'all listen to Lil's song and I want y'all to see the message 350 00:34:40,720 --> 00:34:46,320 listen to the message and see if you can visualize the story to me when I hear something like I'll 351 00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:54,560 listen to music I want to be able to imagine it I want to be able to see the visual especially 352 00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:59,200 like I said with their little Wayne song how to love before the video before I seen the video 353 00:34:59,840 --> 00:35:04,400 I was young too y'all like you know when I'm older now it's like dang it's deeper 354 00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:11,200 when he was explaining you know in like his list of how to love I was like whoa because you know 355 00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:17,200 we try to find I feel like for females us females African-American female like that people be like 356 00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:22,640 oh she deal with this man and that man because she's trying to find love that she didn't receive 357 00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:29,520 from the male figure in her life sometimes it's true and sometimes it's not and I don't like the 358 00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:36,080 stereotypes that we get when it's impacting love within a man because they be like oh black woman 359 00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:42,480 do black woman black woman will do anything for love that's not true we wouldn't do any goddamn 360 00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:46,880 thing for love shit I'm not jumping off a cliff or doing no flips and tricks for nobody just to 361 00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:53,200 get some love no hell no so like I said too like certain things you say you gotta really be careful 362 00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:58,880 and mindful because like bro not everybody's doing that not everybody is doing crazy shit or living 363 00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:04,800 in crazy worlds and shit when it comes to love yes everybody deserves love I said all the time 364 00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:13,120 everybody deserves love I don't care what color you are how how like you carry yourself your shape 365 00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:20,960 or nothing you deserve love period take it from me a person that is a very loving person and always 366 00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:29,840 get miscontrued with being like the mean girl because you're look I'm gonna tell y'all something just 367 00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:35,680 one conversation with a person can turn things to a whole number of levels to a point where that you 368 00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:42,560 fall in love with them I feel like the effect that I have on people sometimes like they're gonna fall 369 00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:50,560 in love even if it's like not even on a relationship level it's on just on a friendly level friends or 370 00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:55,920 whatever because that's just me and that's how I was raised I wasn't raised on hate I was raised on 371 00:36:55,920 --> 00:37:02,400 love I was raised on being able to love one another being able to show love display it and most of 372 00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:09,520 all don't forget what it is and also be able to display love at every chance you can get being there 373 00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:15,280 for somebody there's one of the biggest ways of displaying love especially when it comes to things 374 00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:22,960 in their life where they've been dealing with things or like right now is not the time so like 375 00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:30,480 I say this to say when it comes to family outside of your immediate household it'll okay don't be 376 00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:36,000 afraid to call them check up on you know be like hey what's up you know just display love 377 00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:41,600 display love every chance you can get because like I said in all the Valentine's Day this is all 378 00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:48,800 about love in all different shapes and forms so this will be called surrounding love in honor of 379 00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:52,720 Valentine's Day we are surrounding love we are talking about everything that is impacted with 380 00:37:52,720 --> 00:38:00,160 surrounding love and I'm not even ready hold you this Valentine's Day I feel a little different 381 00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:06,880 because I bought a lot of damn treats for my loved ones because they're like my damn not Valentine's 382 00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:11,840 day even though you don't have like like I say Valentine's Day is dedicated to lovers and friends 383 00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:19,360 where it's ushers John and Luda had to do it again lovers and friends like even though Valentine's 384 00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:25,040 was full like you know the girls the gals I feel like Valentine's Day is everybody you know the 385 00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:29,760 males the girls like you know just show love period I know it's different for dudes like you're 386 00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:36,160 gonna be like bro I don't know they know like that but it's just you know just so love period this is 387 00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:41,360 what like love it should be showing display like this is the day where love is like very spontaneous 388 00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:46,560 and many different forms in shapes and sizes because the little kids make it even better when 389 00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:51,840 they come home and have hearts and stuff like that y'all like stuff like that like stuff like that 390 00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:56,160 this is something I feel like should be the day where it's definitely probably to be stronger like 391 00:38:56,160 --> 00:39:00,320 Christmas and things like that this holiday is I feel like it's impacted with that same because 392 00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:03,680 it's all surrounding by love every time you think about something you think about love 393 00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:08,800 and think about hearts think about keep it you think about red and pink you don't think about 394 00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:14,080 no gleamy and no bullshit type of vibes you know you think of happy thoughts so I want it to 395 00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:20,160 continue that way and when I start having kids and when I get a man you know and stuff like that 396 00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:25,360 I want to keep those traditions going because that's what's going on in my house like my house 397 00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:31,360 my parents give us Valentine's Day gift no matter how old I get I still get a Valentine's Day gift 398 00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:37,920 okay and they now that you know I'm able to I'm working and stuff they give Valentine's Day gift 399 00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:44,640 shoot too like everybody got their own treats for me and I'm good like hey you know even though 400 00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:49,040 you just those type of things I feel like always at this point in love people don't understand that 401 00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:56,000 people like because everybody has a different way of forming spring love showing love and receiving 402 00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:59,600 love in their love language especially like I said with the relationships when it comes to love 403 00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:06,480 languages ladies don't hesitate on telling that man what it is in men don't hesitate on telling 404 00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:12,400 females what it is don't be afraid because I can tell you love is very strong and is a strong word 405 00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:20,880 and it's just it's a verb in and out people don't understand that you can show it and you can feel it 406 00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:27,440 but don't don't do one of the other you gotta do both you can't just say oh I love you don't show it 407 00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:32,480 like that's some bullshit like what how you gonna say you love me you don't need show it and don't say 408 00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:39,280 I love you and you don't mean it I feel like you could tell the difference when it comes to somebody 409 00:40:39,280 --> 00:40:44,720 saying they love you and they don't and I'm real big on tone of voice in body language I think 410 00:40:44,720 --> 00:40:48,240 because like my social work major and like that's what I got to really focus on when it comes to 411 00:40:48,240 --> 00:40:56,000 my clients is their body language and the way they are you know communicating with me but in general 412 00:40:56,000 --> 00:41:00,800 like even like I said with your family friends and lovers you gotta pay attention to the body 413 00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:03,920 language you gotta pay attention to everything especially when it comes to love because love 414 00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:09,280 is so strong you need love I don't want to hear anybody say oh I don't need no love baby you need 415 00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:15,040 love regardless I don't care if you love a plant you need some type of shape or form of love like 416 00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:23,200 I feel like love brings the brighter things love brings the brighter side of things and love brings 417 00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:30,000 out things for us that we thought we didn't love for me like with little kids I love little kids 418 00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:35,680 for them when I say look here they bring the different side of me it's like bro whoa how can 419 00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:40,480 you like I said how can you not love a baby how can you not love the little cheeks a little 420 00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:47,440 add-on how can you not love that because we don't you know it's kind of crazy that's that that's that 421 00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:55,120 I'm so hard I'm so hard that's that hard I mean I'm like I got a cold heart inside shit man drop it 422 00:41:55,120 --> 00:42:02,800 today and honor the other hard hard all the cold heart here we go we shall love we display 423 00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:08,880 in love and we give in it any type of shape or form like fellas out there you got flowers and girls 424 00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:12,480 ain't got no balance on give a flower yes as you explain like you know you know you ain't got a 425 00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:16,640 man shorty is okay I'm gonna give you a flower because you deserve I'm telling you I feel like 426 00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:22,720 when you give me flowers this is like I don't know this is like oh my god like bro like I'm 427 00:42:22,720 --> 00:42:26,080 gonna be displaying you know I'm showing you that you're important that's another thing too when it 428 00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:32,160 comes to love it displays importance it displays it displays importance not importance these y'all 429 00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:40,240 and it displays importance especially when it comes to people that you know are fucking genuine 430 00:42:40,240 --> 00:42:45,040 and it was not genuine you could tell because like I said but they're my best friends love them to 431 00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:49,200 death when I know something when they know something they write they won't let me know when 432 00:42:49,200 --> 00:42:53,760 this vice versa as well as my close friends when they know something ready like 433 00:42:56,000 --> 00:43:01,120 especially when it comes to like when you're trying to talk to people they be the ones like 434 00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:08,000 don't do it you don't know like I don't know I know you're probably listening like thanks you really 435 00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:16,480 want to something right now yes because like I said in honor of valentine's day this is the day 436 00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:22,400 where we're talking about love we're talking about everything surrounding love that's the vibe of the 437 00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:28,240 day everything surrounding love and honor of valentine's day there we go y'all because it took me 438 00:43:28,240 --> 00:43:33,360 a while to figure out because I didn't like from what I remember from talking about love when I first 439 00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:40,000 started to park it was plain and simple but now I feel like it's valentine's day love being able to 440 00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:45,520 understand and accept what it is what it's not and you know what you what you know is love and what's 441 00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:50,480 not your love language and stuff you're learning as we were learning as we go and like I say all 442 00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:54,880 the time if my broadcast don't have a lot of people wrong as it helps somebody especially within this 443 00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:58,960 episode I feel like you should help a little bit like you should help some of y'all because it's 444 00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:03,680 helping me as I go and like I said like I'm learning as I go too because I'm a social work major 445 00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:09,680 and then I'm learning as I go within my household with my friends my family I don't have a love 446 00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:16,720 again but I learned from a past experience that you know it's okay sometimes to drop out of love 447 00:44:16,720 --> 00:44:22,080 but don't have that mindset because you never know who is able to sweep you off your feet and love 448 00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:27,280 you the way you want to be loved and that's how you do have to love people from a distance because 449 00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:31,680 at times things happen it's just like you know what I can't do it but I want you guys to remember 450 00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:38,640 like love is something that is so precious that you just don't want to fuck it up especially when 451 00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:46,400 it comes to family friends and lovers if that person is displaying nothing but love to you 452 00:44:46,400 --> 00:44:52,880 in ways that you never seen before why fuck it up you need to cherish that because it's people out here 453 00:44:52,880 --> 00:45:02,400 really dying for love or dying from love that's deep so I want y'all to know this I'm gonna end 454 00:45:02,400 --> 00:45:08,160 off with this because baby I didn't know we're almost down there 15 minutes I'm just I knew 455 00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:12,640 this year I said this year I know I'm going to go a little harder with the needs recordings because 456 00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:18,560 you know like it's deep every day I'm learning and every day you're learning if not some of y'all 457 00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:23,920 someone's learning and if no one's not learning right in there it's okay you can go back sometimes 458 00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:30,400 we gotta go back and we you know we look over things and it's okay trust me I do it all the time 459 00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:37,040 you know but like I said on a valentine's day y'all even if you do or do not have a valentine's 460 00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:42,000 time it's okay love on you you know sometimes you gotta be self like I said this year with me as 461 00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:45,760 selfish we're taking control of me probably now if you don't have a valentine's time it's okay 462 00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:52,080 you have to whip the whip the whip again tongue tied you know if you have traditionally family or 463 00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:57,840 friends group or relationships or not you know whatever the case may be do something display 464 00:45:57,840 --> 00:46:02,240 loves today that's all I want y'all to do is like in honor in honor of valentine's day do nothing 465 00:46:02,240 --> 00:46:10,000 but spread it show it either way be be nice and nice is impact with love don't be ugly because 466 00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:19,760 ugly is impact with hate see that there hmm let's let's just be how can I put this let's be great 467 00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:28,720 let's just display love give love because you never know that can really put a big back impact 468 00:46:28,720 --> 00:46:34,160 on somebody and don't be afraid to let somebody know that you love them even though if you have 469 00:46:34,160 --> 00:46:37,600 to talk to them in a minute or you just have it set in a minute but you say you know you can say 470 00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:42,240 like bro says I love you and don't you forget it forever and always that's why I say forever and 471 00:46:42,240 --> 00:46:51,600 always you know so as I leave off of this I want you guys to enjoy your valentine's day please be 472 00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:56,320 safe out here if you do decide to go out or you are going out with your lover and friends 473 00:46:56,320 --> 00:47:00,320 family members whoever or by yourself please be careful and please be on your peace of 474 00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:04,960 queue because yes it's still hectic out here people don't care what they do is even though we 475 00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:10,000 trying to change the narrative of the day people don't give two shits and it's kind of crazy but hey 476 00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:17,280 this is the world living that's the car or just the cold heart of people I want y'all to like you 477 00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:22,480 know just throw your piece of cues I wish I nothing but peace and blessings but I also want to leave 478 00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:30,000 y'all with this when it comes to love please please please know what real love is and what's not 479 00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:36,800 know who's real and know who's not know the difference between real genuine love and just 480 00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:42,160 loving the moment and knowing if a person love you by the tone of their voice in the way that 481 00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:48,240 they're displaying it like I said love is a now in a verb you can tell somebody you love them 482 00:47:48,240 --> 00:47:55,360 but can you show them a person can love you but do they really love you for you think about it 483 00:47:55,360 --> 00:48:00,640 I'ma leave y'all off with that I wish you guys nothing but peace and blessings and as always you 484 00:48:00,640 --> 00:48:05,840 guys will hear from me next Wednesday please enjoy your balance time and the rest of your weekend 485 00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:18,160 and the rest of your week and weekend bye love you guys