Hey y'all, whether it's morning, evening, or afternoon,
I'm just glad that you guys had decided to dive with me,
the one and only E.
Yes, and today I'm so thrilled to give you guys
the vibe of the day.
I'm so excited for this one because this one's really good
and it don't have a lot of negativity,
so let's get into it.
But as always, I want you guys to sit back, relax,
and enjoy me.
Enjoy listening to me.
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So with that feeling of doing, like I said,
I want you guys to sit back, relax, and enjoy listening
to my voice.
So let's get into it.
The day's vibe of the day is pop out.
We pop out, it's a party, tight-ish, like Poloji said.
The reason why today's vibe is pop out is because, one,
like I said, the beginning of the year,
that's one of the things that we're carrying this year.
We're popping out.
We're being selfish, and we're taking control.
So with that being said, why am I getting to, like, why are we
popping out?
Are you like, why?
Like, what is so important about popping out?
I'm gonna tell you.
Well, I'm gonna tell you.
So sit back, get real comfortable, wherever you are.
OK?
So pop out means to be bold, daring, and daring.
It's a way of expressing your empathy and passion.
It's a way to stand out and make a lasting impression.
You can have the most incredible pop out vibes in everyday life
by wearing vibrant, vibrant, and colorful outfits.
Having, you know, the nice bold makeup look
or the accessories with candy-eyed jewelry.
You can express your pop out vibes by speaking up in meetings
or taking on new challenges and embracing
your unique tasks and qualities.
Without being said, with the pop out vibes in everyday life,
can have significant benefits, such as, like, several,
like, it boosts your self-confidence
and encourage self-impression.
And I'm gonna stop right there.
Because y'all know, and if you don't know,
Vivaldi is all about self-improvement and self-estouth
empowerment.
I feel like this is by far probably one of my favorite ones,
because every time I hear pop out, people are like,
oh, you have a pop out.
You know, I'm gonna do this.
I'm gonna rock out.
But we really never dig deep into, like, why do people
do what they do when they pop out?
And for me, when I pop out, it's every so rare.
When I pop out, you don't know when I'm a pop out.
Shoot, you never know.
I'll pop out today.
Because next couple hours, next month, you know?
But when you pop out, I feel like you need to pop out
and make sure you feel comfortable while you pop out.
Because at times, like, we pop out, and we hop out,
and we don't feel comfortable.
Before you pop out and hop out, baby, you ought to make sure
you're 100% on your A before you get out there.
Because there's been times, y'all, when I feel like,
okay, I look good.
I look good, you know?
Put that on my mama or my hood.
And then I get to where I'm at or whatever.
And then just like, my social battery goes down.
Or how my energy goes down.
And when you pop out, you want to make sure you keep that
same energy from when you wake up and so you get there.
You know, you feel good.
You look good.
That makes sense.
So, you know, let's go back to, like, it's self-confidence
and then courage, self-impression.
It allows individuals to embrace their true self
without a fear of judgment.
It can also attract positive attention and springing others
to follow their passion and to live authentically.
Embracing pop out vibes can lead to personal growth,
increase happiness, and a more fulfilling life.
With that being said, y'all, let's just talk about it as you,
as a person in us.
So, like, what is popping out for where I would do a little
deeper?
So, popping out refers to a social activity in which a group
of people or a person, typically friends or colleagues
with your family, they go out together for a fun,
outing, or adventure.
Now, within my generation, I'm from Baltimore,
we always say I'm a pop out.
You popping out tonight with X, Y, and Z.
Half the time, when you do pop out,
you expect you and the whole team, the whole crew,
to gang, got to pop out like you.
And one thing about me, when I pop out,
when it comes to social activities,
I got to make sure we're on the same vibe.
Because I don't want to overdo it.
Because sometimes I went to plenty of events in my life,
and I feel like I overdid everything.
I popped out way too hard, and some people
was not ready for that.
You know, I want to pop out, but I don't want to pop out
too much to the point where people would be like,
should I actually better than you?
She thought she did, she didn't say that.
But like I said, within the pop out,
it helps you with your self confidence,
and you feel comfortable.
And sometimes, you don't want to be a son of attention,
because y'all, I can't stand being a son of attention,
but sometimes you can't help it.
You know, by you just popping out, like I said,
like you know, with that good hairstyle, nice cut,
nice neat face, or natural face, you know,
the scent of smell, and the body, whatever you got on,
et cetera, et cetera, is the main reason
why people are looking at you.
Because how you popped out, that draws attention.
And at times, we be like, bro, I don't want
that type of attention shit right now.
Like I'm just popping out, you know, I feel good,
I look good, you know, let me rock out.
However, at times, people get attracted to that,
and it's like sometimes you can't control it, y'all.
Like I be saying that like, you know,
I just throw this song, and people are like,
you really popped out, I like that, you know.
You all like, you just threw something,
nah, nah, you put this shit together,
and I be like, nah, baby, I just, I literally just,
sometimes when I do pop out, I be like,
last minute outfits, or accessories, whatever the case may be,
they be making me feel good.
Or like whatever the vibe is,
you can maybe wanna pop out for real and have it so.
But also with them popping out,
it is a significance and a contact
as it promotes bond strengthening relationships
and provides the opportunity to relaxation
and enjoyment outside of the usual routine.
Now let's talk about how like popping out
involves with outings.
So like I said, when it comes to pop out,
I don't pop out every so often.
And the reason why I say that is because sometimes,
you really gotta give me a good reason
why I'm going outside.
It gotta be somebody's event, a birthday,
it gotta be something that leads me to say,
okay, I'ma pop out, and I'ma look good, you know,
I'ma put that shit on.
Because if it's not something that's really like,
okay, you pop out, girl, you gonna do this,
you gonna do that, I don't wanna do it.
And then like I said too,
when you pop out, the vibe also impacts
with how you feel mentally and spiritually.
And physically, because like I said,
physically I'ma look good, but mentally,
if I don't feel like, I'ma put that heart,
I need to pop my ass back in the house.
Because this ain't it, you know,
sometimes when we go outside, it's like,
okay, I'm popping out at the parties,
I'm with the king, I'm with the crew,
whatever y'all consider y'all friends,
like friend group, I'm outside with them.
I don't wanna feel like, ugh, I'm stuck in the corner,
I got popped out, I look good,
but like I don't feel good.
But like I say, I always do the pros and the cons of this.
And that's the cons sometimes, you know,
we pop out and then we get this, like what the fuck?
You know, so me and I'm building vibes,
hello, vibe with E, you know.
So when I'm out, whatever I'm doing,
I gotta make sure my vibe is on point
because I don't want nobody or anything
to get me messed up.
Especially if I look good, I wanna feel good,
I wanna act good, act bad, act bad, act bad.
I wanna look good, I wanna feel good, you know,
cause I'm here, we young, I'm young,
like you know, when you young, you wanna pop out here
and they have a good time, you know,
stuff like that.
And the crazy thing is y'all,
if you're not from Baltimore,
you know I'm supposed to be in the FN,
I'm Vontag, made a good point.
It was last Wednesday, I went Instagram
and he had a video, he was like, you know,
you pop out, he had a video,
a picture like how the club scene used to look like
versus how it is now.
When I was younger, I was like,
I would like to go to the club,
cause it looks so fun, you know,
anybody didn't see it and they had a good time,
blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
Now, it's like you go to the club,
I never went to the club,
the most I did was hooker lounge.
Now when I see people at the club,
it's like, oh, you gotta have a section.
And nobody really on the floor for it.
Everybody in the section, pop and bottles,
popping, you know, they popping out,
popping bottles, they look good and stuff,
but you really don't see a lot of people on the floor,
you know, and that's the type of person I am like,
I like to have fun.
When I went to the hooker lounge
on my best friend in her romance room,
we had a bar, I popped out,
you know I had on some simple, nice and simple,
but I still popped out and had a good time,
because another thing too, when you pop out,
you wanna make sure everybody you with
and including the scenery or event,
you're going to the atmosphere, you gotta be sane.
But if it's not, it's going to fuck up
what you are going on,
and you make sure you wanna pop back to where you was at.
Like it make me wanna say, all right, I'm going home.
But that's why I say, it's every so rare when I pop out,
I like to leave a mystery when I pop out.
I don't even tell people, that's the thing too,
when you pop out, nobody tell nobody, just do it like,
you see me like, damn, they like, damn, where you with at?
Yeah, yeah, pop out on you so you can see,
you know, I got that little, I got that thing, you know,
took me a while, you know, all this old old,
I got this pounding, I had to put it together, you know,
work my needs, but not for real, they all like,
I feel like when you pop out, you feel good,
you wanna make sure you feel good, look good,
and you are willing to do it,
because like I said, it takes a lot of energy out of me
to even go outside and have to bike, pop out,
cause like all my routine is, I go to really low school,
I do my, I go to the job, I go to my job,
do the park hands, I love y'all,
going to school to get this degree number,
so, and that's about it, and go home, eat, take a shower,
and curl up with my iPad and my bed, right?
You know, sometimes it's like, when you pop out y'all,
that's another thing, you gotta make sure,
you ready for what it is, cause that's another thing too,
let's go back to like popping out, going outside,
the whole point is for you to have the opportunity
to for life to enjoy yourself, you know,
once in a while, let's your hair down,
you know, have a good time, rock out with your friends,
close family, whoever you with, and that's another thing too,
I don't like to pop out with just any and anybody,
not doing that, I'm not doing that,
I'm not going outside with just any and anybody,
and I know for a fact that I know that do not have my best,
that do not have my best interests,
I'm going outside with people that I know
have my best interests, you know,
and I know that probably looking through like,
Papa, I'm talking, think you talk about relationships,
now let's get into that, we gonna get into that,
like we gonna get into the pop out relationships,
because that's another thing too,
that's why I say you gotta leave a mystery,
so within this episode, we talking about, you know,
popping out outside events, like in relationships,
in with life in general, because like I said,
the three things for this year is pop out selfish
and taking control, so when it comes to pop out,
everything you do leave a mystery, you surprise,
because within, even if you popping out with your friends,
by yourself, accomplishments, or with a significant other,
it's a surprise, nobody knows, you leave a mystery,
like I told you in previous episodes,
I like to leave a mystery of everything I do,
I don't like to, I don't tell everything, certain stuff,
like if you asking where it's from,
it's like, gate keep, no, I'm gate keeping information,
but when it comes to something that has impacted my life,
and it's so dear and true to me, yeah,
I'm gonna pop out and show the world what I'm ready to,
or sometimes I even, but wait until like,
it's three or six months in, and it'll be like,
dang, how long have you been,
six, three, four months, five years, stuff,
they be like, whoa, a year, whatever, like, you know,
so, when it comes to the outings, y'all, like I said,
when you come to pop it out,
and also go back to the episode about company,
you wanna make sure you go out,
the company you work, you feel comfortable with,
and you know what the intentions is,
and they know what's up, and then another thing too,
like for us females, I feel like, if I look good,
you have to look good too, I'm not the type of friend
that's gonna let my friend come outside looking like,
she just rolled out of bed, or a homeboy,
I'm not doing that, because I know full fact,
you could put that shit on,
and my friends, they be putting that shit on,
so I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna do that,
that's nothing to I hate when I go out,
and I see people like, why do you have your friend out here
looking like this, but you look like a five star chick,
or you look like that man, but your man's,
or your homegirl looking like, what?
That's another thing, well we outside, and we pop out,
I wanna make sure everybody is on their peas and queues,
everybody feel comfortable, everybody look good,
because you know, everybody has their own sense of style,
but you also wanna be on one accord,
I don't like to overdo things, unless I have to,
like it's my birthday, or it's my graduation party,
or like promotion, whatever it is, if it's about you,
cool, lock out, but if it's about the other person,
you gotta give them a like, that's another thing too,
I do not like when it comes to pop it out at times,
when it comes to pop it out at times,
say like it's an event, you see your close friend,
or family member, let them have that shine,
at times people do little stuff,
like go over the top where they pop out of outfits
to get attention, and I don't like that,
because like bro, sis, you know that's fair,
this their day, give them a green light,
you know you wanna make this color coordination,
or whatever, match the colors, but don't do too much,
if they told you how they're gonna do it,
or they have an idea what they're gonna do,
don't take it, like I seen it before,
I seen it like when people try to go over the top,
and it's like bro, I appreciate your pop out,
you know you look good, but dang,
you know this was my event, my business,
whatever is going on, don't try to steal my shine,
you know, don't do that, I don't like that,
like that makes me, makes me mad at y'all,
I'm like bro, let that girl know that I'm in handy day,
shoot, don't do that,
yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
so let's talk about it, okay,
so, let's talk about the end of professional setting,
and your work setting, because pop it out, boom baby,
I know you're probably like pop it out,
in my professional setting is kinda crazy,
it's not because I'm about to tell y'all,
I'm like, hey, for real, hey, I ain't know that,
you gonna know, in a professional setting,
you can incorporate pop out vibes by
especially your unique ideas,
and preferences during meetings,
or like within like conferences or whatever y'all have,
taking on a leadership boat, and a project or whatever,
and dressing professionally, the attire,
that showcases your style and confidence,
so for me, like one of my girls,
I work at Finish Line, one of the girls
that work at Finish Line,
and me wear a uniform,
sometimes I like to pop out my uniform,
like it's first of all, it's a must for our dress code
that we look clean from head to toe,
hair, knee, everything, especially from the feet,
you're a shoe store, you work in a shoe store,
you gotta have the latest, the highest shit on,
even if it's old, and people be like, damn,
how you get that, I used to get that,
I get it all the time, not used to it,
I still get to this day, like how do you not that,
like damn, I wanna do something,
you gotta be on your P's and Q's,
and when it comes to speaking up for yourself
and giving people the help of your team,
even if you're not a manager,
a system manager or supervisor,
even if you're just an employee working under somebody,
you still have the right to pop out to speak your piece,
and it brings my face because at times,
even managers, supervisors, and assistant managers,
and all that, they need our help too,
point blank period, we work for them,
but we know what's going on too,
we ain't stupid, half the time it's like stupid,
I'm not gonna say half, we not stupid period,
cause like I said, like if there's times
where I'm talking to my manager, assistant manager,
they're like, hey, we could probably do this,
we could do this, like give them little tips
to show them your way of being engaged,
but I just pop it out, we stand,
and I just stand, and I'm like,
y'all, we had our first ever meeting,
then they probably was like,
I know they probably like, hey,
you talking a little too much,
I'm like, hey, I see this,
I've been with y'all company for a minute now,
and I wanna pop out and give you all the time,
I'm popping out, I'm giving you all the time to shine,
I'm giving my time to shine now, cause shit.
But I wasn't rude at any time,
I was like, you know, hey, like,
give them little heads up and stuff like that
because it's value information that people need to know,
even at times like when I'm there, we don't know,
so sometimes things we don't know, we need to know,
you know, so when it comes to being in the work setting,
tell them to be afraid to pop out
and tell them people your ideas,
and plus when it comes to showcasing your style,
like I said, we only wear a T-shirt,
but the bottoms is black, you know,
you wear jeans, you wear sweat, joggers, whatever,
make sure it's appropriate,
especially when it's from the fire time,
but I always try to pop out with different styles,
like, okay, I got these on, put this shit on,
with the look of the look of like this,
make sure my hair look like, you know,
I like to throw a little shit on,
but when I actually pop out outside of the work environment,
baby, catch me on a good day, catch me,
catch me out there, baby, because, you know,
they'll be like, that shit me, yes, me, it's me,
and I feel like when you pop out those,
you're the one which you feel so good about yourself,
that shows myself a stand at coffee to go through the roof,
because if I took my time and patience on this outfit,
on this, like, from the T, like, from the place,
from where we going, how we going,
even to where I'm going, I'm going to pop out,
I'm going to do a P, because like I said, we're young,
and if you're not, you, I'm going to say this,
you got one life to live, live it up,
where the jobs going and that,
do it like a show, be like, every day, baby,
like do it like a show, have fun, don't be,
don't be boring, you know, you got to expand your horizons,
you got to do more, you got to do things that will help you
socially, physically, mentally, and emotionally.
I feel like when you go out, pop out with people,
you even meet new people,
when you build a bomb with them, something like that,
it helps you, even like for me, by going to an HPC,
you're one of the best HPC used in the universe,
hands down, more than state bears,
I was able to express myself, I was able to be social,
I was able to do things that I never thought I would do,
just by me just being able to pop it out,
and put myself out there, had helped me in many ways,
especially when it came to my business,
when it came to academics, when it came to my future career,
just being able to network can help you pop out
in various ways as well, y'all, so I'm telling you this,
don't be afraid to pop out, don't be afraid to take the risk
on doing things that you never really done before,
take a leap off it, just pop out on that thing,
because you never know how far it can take you,
just by you popping out doing stuff you usually don't do,
stepping out to your comfort zone
is one of the many things that helps you at times,
there's one of the many things that I show you like,
hey, you can't stay stagnant for long, don't stay stagnant,
you gotta expand, you gotta explore, you gotta do things,
you gotta step out of your comfort zone here and there,
just to see what's popping, okay?
Just by embracing pop out vibes can lead to a personal growth
and increase in happiness and more fulfilling life,
and fulfilling your life, take it from me, y'all,
I'm not gonna lie to y'all, this is why I make the podcast,
but self-improvement is self-empowerment,
I'm sorry y'all, there's not a preview,
but yes, these topics I tell y'all,
this is to help us improve and to self-taxed out empowerment,
because at times we need to teach,
sometimes we need to teach ourselves,
sometimes we need to listen to others to help us as well,
and I always say to y'all, if my podcast
don't help a lot of y'all, long as it helps somebody,
because that's how I feel, I like helping people,
especially when it comes to the mental male
and learning more about it, how to control something,
we need it, we need it, we need somebody to help us,
we need self-approving, self-control, self-empowerment,
ain't gonna powering the self, we just need the help,
and it's okay to pop out and get the help that you deserve,
because take it from me, like I said, I'm not gonna lie to y'all,
I know how this is, I'm learning every day,
you're learning every day, we're learning every day together,
and it's okay, because I'm telling y'all,
once y'all get the groove of things,
you're gonna feel more happy, you're gonna feel like,
okay, I'm not gonna let this rest me out,
I'm not gonna let him or she stress me out,
I'm not gonna let nothing or nobody piss me off,
I'm not gonna let anything turn toffee,
because you know why, at times when you do pop out,
you get to pop it off, and we don't want that,
we're on a level where we are being selfish,
taking control and popping out this year,
because we got better and bigger things to do,
this year is our year where we're getting everything
we said we wanna do out the way,
pop out and let that shit happen,
we not going back and forth with it,
we're not gonna procrastinate,
this is not the time for procrastination anymore,
it's time for you to put the big girl or big boy boots on
and get the margin, because baby, you got things to do,
and shit do not last forever,
and time does not wait for no one,
because every day something else is going on, oh that,
so, in a professional said thing,
you know, you could just pop out,
popping out anywhere you go,
you could stand out just by doing what you wanna do,
even doing challenges you could pop out,
just you can stand out by volunteering for things,
challenging assignments and offering,
and voluntary solutions to a problem,
like I said, well, if I had problems
in my job a few times, yeah,
and I helped my people out because we're here,
and if I've been here and know the system,
you know, learn what's going on,
took a leap and everything,
I'm gonna pop out and be like, hey,
I'm gonna speak up,
because I feel like we can speak up
as you popping out your shell,
and I'm like, hey, you right,
when you take a leap on things,
or anything that you pop it out of your shell,
so yeah, basically like popping out is part of your shell,
like stand out your comfort zone,
out your shell, doing stuff that you may or may not
usually do, but you take it a leap on,
faithfully like hey, why not,
you only live once, I'm young,
and you turn, you know,
even if you say you not turn, baby, you turn,
I don't care nobody say,
everybody is turning their own type of way,
even me, certain things I do,
people be like, what is that, I'm turned, baby,
I'm turned, you gonna turn and get on way too,
but we all wanna pop out some type of way, baby,
we are, like pop out,
and like a surprise gift that jumps out of nowhere
to grab your attention and light you,
like hold on now, we gonna pop out,
have a good time, we gonna show you what it's about,
okay, now let's talk about pop out with the significant,
oh, no, I really don't talk about relationships like that,
because I'm not in one,
so I don't really talk about it,
but I don't have nothing against it,
I love love, I love everything about it,
like just seeing it, being around it as a kid,
up and telling it out with my parents, shout out to them,
having friends on some relationships,
things like that, XYZ, I've been in one before,
I've been in a situation where to pop out, I did,
and let me tell you all about pop out relationships,
pop out relationships are very, very interesting,
I've reached my friends because I could be like,
I never thought you would end up with a person like this,
I never thought you would really take the risk
on popping out with this man on this woman,
let me tell you all something,
whoever you love, your type, you like, your style, skills,
whatever, with the person, I applaud you,
that's you baby, don't let no one or nothing
try to tell you otherwise about what you like,
like me, I like brown skin,
in dogs game, brown skin thing, do your thing,
you know, I have, I have nothing against people
when it comes to their type and why they like that,
and they pop out with the people sometimes
that might be the complete opposite,
and it be like that, more of the way it is,
when people pop out in relationships or for babies,
you know, families, married, I love it, I applaud,
especially my black community, I love what y'all do,
especially when it comes to things that make y'all happy,
and you pop out when you're ready to,
that's another thing too, don't do things
with you know you're not ready to show the world
or like to share it, when it comes to pop out,
take your time, take your time,
especially when it comes to relationships,
don't rush it like it's time,
it would be like, I have to be,
be I be in relationship within seven and eight months,
sometimes, sometimes, yes, sometimes no,
I always say like 36 months,
but then sometimes I'm like, you know, you never know,
I'm always saying let's buy it out,
and if it buy, if the buy a workout, why not,
and if it just so happens to automatically
ties into a relationship, why not,
and if we ready to pop out, we gonna do that,
because like I said, time is a terrible thing to waste,
and you don't wanna waste a person's time
because that's the time that you're wasting as well,
you don't want to waste their time,
and you don't wanna waste your time as well,
and vice versa, so when it comes to popping out y'all,
in the black community,
my black community y'all love to pop out
when it's Christmas, Valentine's Day,
National Girlfriend, National Boyfriend's Day,
any years, those are days, those days I spend all the time,
I'm like, bro, y'all are so like, oh my God,
some of them need to be shocked,
like I'm not really like, when I popped out, I was shocked,
because like, you know, you be like, wow,
people get you like, wow, you in love and all that stuff,
and it be like, yeah, I had to pop out,
and show y'all like, yeah, like,
yeah, I say this is my little yeah, yeah,
but yes, I love love, and I love how everybody is
private on certain stuff, and that's why I say too,
like, when it's time for you to pop out, you know,
pop out when you're ready to,
even if it comes to career, relationship, education,
do anything, take your time, don't rush it,
because like I said, it's all about you.
So, when it comes to popping out,
why do people pop out?
Let's go a little bit about that.
I think I already talked about it,
I'm talking about it again.
Why do people pop out?
People pop out for various reasons,
so as to celebrate a special occasion,
like birthdays or anniversaries,
to explore a new city or, you know,
a tourist attraction, or simply enjoy recreating activities,
like hiking, picnicking, or visiting the aquariums,
I mean, amusement parks, let's use, you know,
whatever, some popular pop outings include like,
ticket trips, movies, camping, great restaurants,
dinners, whatever.
So, why do people pop out?
Most of the times because they know what they're looking for.
They know what they're gonna be,
I'm saying it, I'm looking for,
I say, why people pop out is because
they do it when they're ready to,
that's what I meant to say, y'all.
I'm getting a little too over my stomach,
they could lose, they need to love it,
but why do people do what they do
is because they do it on their terms,
there's nothing to it, they're stepping out their shell,
they're exploring the world around them,
they're exploring another world that they have been dreaming of
and they were afraid to do it now,
they're able to step out of their shell and do it.
That's what popping out is really all about is,
I'm gonna pop out to explore,
step out of my shell and see what's going on.
That's what I did a few times,
like I went to some restaurant,
met some people, like I said,
did some things on campus, you know,
took risks on certain things.
I'ma say this to y'all,
don't be afraid to pop out of your shell,
you never know what is out there for you,
you never know who may be for your best interest
for you to pop out with.
So I say this to say also,
when it comes to the pros and cons of popping out,
pop out has numerous benefits for mental well-being.
Being, you know, I was like, what am I doing?
I was coming.
When it comes to the pop outs,
they provide a break from the daily scenarios
and routines and allows us individuals to relax and recharge.
Engaging in fun activities where others can boost our mood,
foster a sense of belonging and social connection
and it promotes positive emotions.
However, sometimes when it comes to pop out,
the potential downside of popping out
is that they can be accosting
in time consuming, requesting,
carefully planning and contradictions.
Now, let's talk about what times might it's hard for you
to pop out, like I said, you plan to start
and sometimes when it's time for y'all to do
what y'all gotta do, it's always a bull.
Come on now, you know, we older, things happen.
You know, we all know, we all do,
we all go through things, okay?
It happens, it's life.
But don't be bluffing out like I'm from, from Baltimore.
Y'all can't tell, let me tell you now.
Don't bluff out on me right when it's time to get things done.
Don't do it, that hurts my feelings.
And it also helps another person,
it also hurts another person's feelings too
because like you take this person,
or you take it, be out of my comfort zone.
I'm popping out of my shell.
And then when it's time for us to do,
we gotta do, like pop out or do we do it?
And you just go ghost, it's very tiring.
And it hurts a person's feelings because like,
if you don't have a legit reason
on why you just good in like,
like agree with what we doing,
you don't let me know, don't wait till it's time
but like, oh, thanks bro, I can't do it, da, da, da.
I feel like I'm the type of person that, you know,
I can, you know, understand.
I'm a very understanding person.
However, if it happens multiple times,
like bro, we're not gonna do this.
We just can't do this, like sis bro, I don't know.
We're gonna try another time,
we're gonna, give me your schedule and give it to the T.
Cause I feel like bro, nobody wanna
got time to waste money and stuff like that
because you know, sometimes when it comes
to certain events too, I take these off,
I take that they off.
Cause if it's like something like that's very like,
top consuming, like if I'm going out
and it's a very like classy type event,
okay, I wanna get my hair done.
I might even wanna put some, you know, makeup on, you know,
I wanna feel a little more extra pretty.
It takes time, like I said, it's time consuming
and it requires this careful planning.
When it comes to popping out with your friends, family,
whoever, a person, make sure y'all are
having a good blueprint, there it is.
If you don't know, now you know, I love saying
about love a blueprint, like, wow.
Make sure y'all have the blueprint mapped out.
So whatever you have jot down or the image
scratched, sketched or whatever,
make sure it comes to life because maybe, you know,
how they say like, whatever was said in the group message
and the message is finally made it out.
So like, you know, like when it comes to popping out,
especially like when you get older within being able
to, you know, just try to travel, get a little sense
of something, nobody wanna wait till the time of you
get tickets or something, it's like, oh, you backing out.
Cause that hurts person feeling, hurts person time.
So when it comes to popping out, please keep in mind
that you and other people are stepping out of their shells
to take risks on doing things, but also having a good time
to brighten y'all mood, physically, mentally
and emotionally and spiritually, you know?
So with that being said y'all, I hope you guys
have learned a few things and took a little, you know,
dive into the pop out side for y'all.
Cause I know I did.
Like I said, this year we're popping out,
we're taking control and we're being selfish.
So with that being said y'all, I encourage y'all
to pop out this year in many ways.
I don't care how big or small the pop out is
if a relationship or not, business or not,
no care what it is, pop out when you're ready to do things
when you are ready.
And as always, keep a mystery to everything you're doing.
Cause everybody don't need to know what's going on
until you're ready to let the world know.
All right?
So with that being said y'all, I wish y'all
not gonna put the best, please the best
into all y'all, please be safe out here.
It's getting, the weather's been a little crazy after like,
it's super cold one day and it's chilly the next day
and it's like ooh, little breeze, little warm
and like a week or two or so.
Y'all, so please like, please be safe,
please be mindful of the weather, you know?
If you feel sick, don't go nowhere,
don't go to school, don't go to work, you know?
You're supposed to be around here too
cause it is flu season and all that good stuff.
So yes, please, please, please be careful.
And as always, you guys will hear from me next Wednesday
or whatever you guys hear from me shoot.
Bye.