1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,040 Hey y'all, whether it's morning, evening, or afternoon, 2 00:00:03,040 --> 00:00:06,760 I'm just glad that you guys had decided to dive with me, 3 00:00:06,760 --> 00:00:08,600 the one and only E. 4 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:12,640 Yes, and today I'm so thrilled to give you guys 5 00:00:12,640 --> 00:00:14,280 the vibe of the day. 6 00:00:14,280 --> 00:00:18,000 I'm so excited for this one because this one's really good 7 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:20,160 and it don't have a lot of negativity, 8 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:22,760 so let's get into it. 9 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:26,960 But as always, I want you guys to sit back, relax, 10 00:00:26,960 --> 00:00:29,120 and enjoy me. 11 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:31,400 Enjoy listening to me. 12 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:34,400 And if you're new here, welcome, welcome, welcome. 13 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:38,600 And if you're not new here, well, hey, what's up? 14 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:40,560 What's happening? 15 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:42,760 I hope you're all doing good. 16 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:44,600 So with that feeling of doing, like I said, 17 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:47,720 I want you guys to sit back, relax, and enjoy listening 18 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:49,520 to my voice. 19 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:51,400 So let's get into it. 20 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:55,680 The day's vibe of the day is pop out. 21 00:00:55,680 --> 00:01:01,800 We pop out, it's a party, tight-ish, like Poloji said. 22 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:05,120 The reason why today's vibe is pop out is because, one, 23 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:06,760 like I said, the beginning of the year, 24 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:08,960 that's one of the things that we're carrying this year. 25 00:01:08,960 --> 00:01:10,120 We're popping out. 26 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:13,080 We're being selfish, and we're taking control. 27 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:16,160 So with that being said, why am I getting to, like, why are we 28 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:17,080 popping out? 29 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:18,040 Are you like, why? 30 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:20,240 Like, what is so important about popping out? 31 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:21,600 I'm gonna tell you. 32 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:22,680 Well, I'm gonna tell you. 33 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:25,600 So sit back, get real comfortable, wherever you are. 34 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:27,040 OK? 35 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:31,080 So pop out means to be bold, daring, and daring. 36 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:34,640 It's a way of expressing your empathy and passion. 37 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:38,240 It's a way to stand out and make a lasting impression. 38 00:01:38,240 --> 00:01:43,360 You can have the most incredible pop out vibes in everyday life 39 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:49,480 by wearing vibrant, vibrant, and colorful outfits. 40 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:52,840 Having, you know, the nice bold makeup look 41 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:55,960 or the accessories with candy-eyed jewelry. 42 00:01:55,960 --> 00:02:00,880 You can express your pop out vibes by speaking up in meetings 43 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:03,680 or taking on new challenges and embracing 44 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:07,200 your unique tasks and qualities. 45 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:10,840 Without being said, with the pop out vibes in everyday life, 46 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:15,520 can have significant benefits, such as, like, several, 47 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:18,600 like, it boosts your self-confidence 48 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:21,520 and encourage self-impression. 49 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:22,280 And I'm gonna stop right there. 50 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:23,920 Because y'all know, and if you don't know, 51 00:02:23,920 --> 00:02:29,000 Vivaldi is all about self-improvement and self-estouth 52 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:30,440 empowerment. 53 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:35,520 I feel like this is by far probably one of my favorite ones, 54 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:38,320 because every time I hear pop out, people are like, 55 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:39,200 oh, you have a pop out. 56 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:40,120 You know, I'm gonna do this. 57 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:40,880 I'm gonna rock out. 58 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:44,600 But we really never dig deep into, like, why do people 59 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:46,600 do what they do when they pop out? 60 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:49,080 And for me, when I pop out, it's every so rare. 61 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:51,040 When I pop out, you don't know when I'm a pop out. 62 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:51,760 Shoot, you never know. 63 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:53,360 I'll pop out today. 64 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:55,840 Because next couple hours, next month, you know? 65 00:02:55,840 --> 00:02:58,520 But when you pop out, I feel like you need to pop out 66 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:01,760 and make sure you feel comfortable while you pop out. 67 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:06,240 Because at times, like, we pop out, and we hop out, 68 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:07,760 and we don't feel comfortable. 69 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:10,080 Before you pop out and hop out, baby, you ought to make sure 70 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:13,560 you're 100% on your A before you get out there. 71 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:15,240 Because there's been times, y'all, when I feel like, 72 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:16,680 okay, I look good. 73 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:18,760 I look good, you know? 74 00:03:18,760 --> 00:03:21,400 Put that on my mama or my hood. 75 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:23,760 And then I get to where I'm at or whatever. 76 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:26,560 And then just like, my social battery goes down. 77 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:29,520 Or how my energy goes down. 78 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:31,720 And when you pop out, you want to make sure you keep that 79 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:33,960 same energy from when you wake up and so you get there. 80 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:34,800 You know, you feel good. 81 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:36,000 You look good. 82 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:38,480 That makes sense. 83 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:42,680 So, you know, let's go back to, like, it's self-confidence 84 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:48,120 and then courage, self-impression. 85 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:50,720 It allows individuals to embrace their true self 86 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:52,000 without a fear of judgment. 87 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:56,120 It can also attract positive attention and springing others 88 00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:59,520 to follow their passion and to live authentically. 89 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:03,040 Embracing pop out vibes can lead to personal growth, 90 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:06,840 increase happiness, and a more fulfilling life. 91 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:10,560 With that being said, y'all, let's just talk about it as you, 92 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:12,640 as a person in us. 93 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:15,840 So, like, what is popping out for where I would do a little 94 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:16,600 deeper? 95 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:19,600 So, popping out refers to a social activity in which a group 96 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:22,560 of people or a person, typically friends or colleagues 97 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:25,360 with your family, they go out together for a fun, 98 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:26,800 outing, or adventure. 99 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:29,000 Now, within my generation, I'm from Baltimore, 100 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:30,520 we always say I'm a pop out. 101 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:33,000 You popping out tonight with X, Y, and Z. 102 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:34,760 Half the time, when you do pop out, 103 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:38,600 you expect you and the whole team, the whole crew, 104 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:40,800 to gang, got to pop out like you. 105 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:42,360 And one thing about me, when I pop out, 106 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:44,360 when it comes to social activities, 107 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:47,720 I got to make sure we're on the same vibe. 108 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:49,520 Because I don't want to overdo it. 109 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:51,600 Because sometimes I went to plenty of events in my life, 110 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:53,240 and I feel like I overdid everything. 111 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:55,520 I popped out way too hard, and some people 112 00:04:55,520 --> 00:04:57,840 was not ready for that. 113 00:04:57,840 --> 00:05:00,360 You know, I want to pop out, but I don't want to pop out 114 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:02,360 too much to the point where people would be like, 115 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:03,440 should I actually better than you? 116 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:04,840 She thought she did, she didn't say that. 117 00:05:04,840 --> 00:05:06,840 But like I said, within the pop out, 118 00:05:06,840 --> 00:05:08,960 it helps you with your self confidence, 119 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:10,280 and you feel comfortable. 120 00:05:10,280 --> 00:05:14,280 And sometimes, you don't want to be a son of attention, 121 00:05:14,280 --> 00:05:17,520 because y'all, I can't stand being a son of attention, 122 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:19,280 but sometimes you can't help it. 123 00:05:19,280 --> 00:05:22,000 You know, by you just popping out, like I said, 124 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:25,240 like you know, with that good hairstyle, nice cut, 125 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:27,720 nice neat face, or natural face, you know, 126 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:31,080 the scent of smell, and the body, whatever you got on, 127 00:05:31,080 --> 00:05:33,960 et cetera, et cetera, is the main reason 128 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:35,200 why people are looking at you. 129 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:38,440 Because how you popped out, that draws attention. 130 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:40,960 And at times, we be like, bro, I don't want 131 00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:42,160 that type of attention shit right now. 132 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:43,600 Like I'm just popping out, you know, I feel good, 133 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:46,080 I look good, you know, let me rock out. 134 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:48,680 However, at times, people get attracted to that, 135 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:50,680 and it's like sometimes you can't control it, y'all. 136 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:53,320 Like I be saying that like, you know, 137 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:55,960 I just throw this song, and people are like, 138 00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:58,320 you really popped out, I like that, you know. 139 00:05:58,320 --> 00:05:59,920 You all like, you just threw something, 140 00:05:59,920 --> 00:06:01,440 nah, nah, you put this shit together, 141 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:04,240 and I be like, nah, baby, I just, I literally just, 142 00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:07,200 sometimes when I do pop out, I be like, 143 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:10,680 last minute outfits, or accessories, whatever the case may be, 144 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:13,120 they be making me feel good. 145 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:15,640 Or like whatever the vibe is, 146 00:06:15,640 --> 00:06:19,080 you can maybe wanna pop out for real and have it so. 147 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:21,680 But also with them popping out, 148 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:24,640 it is a significance and a contact 149 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:28,040 as it promotes bond strengthening relationships 150 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:30,760 and provides the opportunity to relaxation 151 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:33,960 and enjoyment outside of the usual routine. 152 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:36,120 Now let's talk about how like popping out 153 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:38,560 involves with outings. 154 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:40,760 So like I said, when it comes to pop out, 155 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:44,200 I don't pop out every so often. 156 00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:49,200 And the reason why I say that is because sometimes, 157 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:51,320 you really gotta give me a good reason 158 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:52,760 why I'm going outside. 159 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:55,440 It gotta be somebody's event, a birthday, 160 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:57,600 it gotta be something that leads me to say, 161 00:06:57,600 --> 00:07:00,080 okay, I'ma pop out, and I'ma look good, you know, 162 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:02,320 I'ma put that shit on. 163 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:06,840 Because if it's not something that's really like, 164 00:07:06,840 --> 00:07:09,920 okay, you pop out, girl, you gonna do this, 165 00:07:09,920 --> 00:07:12,080 you gonna do that, I don't wanna do it. 166 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:13,920 And then like I said too, 167 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:16,200 when you pop out, the vibe also impacts 168 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:19,040 with how you feel mentally and spiritually. 169 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:21,080 And physically, because like I said, 170 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:24,200 physically I'ma look good, but mentally, 171 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:26,360 if I don't feel like, I'ma put that heart, 172 00:07:26,360 --> 00:07:29,040 I need to pop my ass back in the house. 173 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:30,800 Because this ain't it, you know, 174 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:32,400 sometimes when we go outside, it's like, 175 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:34,560 okay, I'm popping out at the parties, 176 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:36,600 I'm with the king, I'm with the crew, 177 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:38,080 whatever y'all consider y'all friends, 178 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:40,400 like friend group, I'm outside with them. 179 00:07:40,400 --> 00:07:43,480 I don't wanna feel like, ugh, I'm stuck in the corner, 180 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:45,040 I got popped out, I look good, 181 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:47,400 but like I don't feel good. 182 00:07:47,400 --> 00:07:52,080 But like I say, I always do the pros and the cons of this. 183 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:53,400 And that's the cons sometimes, you know, 184 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:57,560 we pop out and then we get this, like what the fuck? 185 00:07:57,560 --> 00:08:00,800 You know, so me and I'm building vibes, 186 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:02,840 hello, vibe with E, you know. 187 00:08:02,840 --> 00:08:06,080 So when I'm out, whatever I'm doing, 188 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:07,720 I gotta make sure my vibe is on point 189 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:10,560 because I don't want nobody or anything 190 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:11,840 to get me messed up. 191 00:08:11,840 --> 00:08:14,280 Especially if I look good, I wanna feel good, 192 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:17,680 I wanna act good, act bad, act bad, act bad. 193 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:21,400 I wanna look good, I wanna feel good, you know, 194 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:23,720 cause I'm here, we young, I'm young, 195 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:26,280 like you know, when you young, you wanna pop out here 196 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:27,760 and they have a good time, you know, 197 00:08:27,760 --> 00:08:28,600 stuff like that. 198 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:30,440 And the crazy thing is y'all, 199 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:31,720 if you're not from Baltimore, 200 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:33,800 you know I'm supposed to be in the FN, 201 00:08:33,800 --> 00:08:36,680 I'm Vontag, made a good point. 202 00:08:36,680 --> 00:08:40,040 It was last Wednesday, I went Instagram 203 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:41,560 and he had a video, he was like, you know, 204 00:08:41,560 --> 00:08:44,320 you pop out, he had a video, 205 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:47,560 a picture like how the club scene used to look like 206 00:08:47,560 --> 00:08:49,040 versus how it is now. 207 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:51,000 When I was younger, I was like, 208 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:52,400 I would like to go to the club, 209 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:54,040 cause it looks so fun, you know, 210 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:56,520 anybody didn't see it and they had a good time, 211 00:08:56,520 --> 00:08:58,560 blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. 212 00:08:58,560 --> 00:09:02,160 Now, it's like you go to the club, 213 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:03,960 I never went to the club, 214 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:06,440 the most I did was hooker lounge. 215 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:08,040 Now when I see people at the club, 216 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:11,000 it's like, oh, you gotta have a section. 217 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:13,240 And nobody really on the floor for it. 218 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:15,920 Everybody in the section, pop and bottles, 219 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:17,280 popping, you know, they popping out, 220 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:18,680 popping bottles, they look good and stuff, 221 00:09:18,680 --> 00:09:23,680 but you really don't see a lot of people on the floor, 222 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:26,040 you know, and that's the type of person I am like, 223 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:27,880 I like to have fun. 224 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:28,880 When I went to the hooker lounge 225 00:09:28,880 --> 00:09:30,880 on my best friend in her romance room, 226 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:32,720 we had a bar, I popped out, 227 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:34,440 you know I had on some simple, nice and simple, 228 00:09:34,440 --> 00:09:37,120 but I still popped out and had a good time, 229 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:38,840 because another thing too, when you pop out, 230 00:09:38,840 --> 00:09:40,640 you wanna make sure everybody you with 231 00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:42,920 and including the scenery or event, 232 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:45,040 you're going to the atmosphere, you gotta be sane. 233 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:46,480 But if it's not, it's going to fuck up 234 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:47,480 what you are going on, 235 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:50,800 and you make sure you wanna pop back to where you was at. 236 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:53,200 Like it make me wanna say, all right, I'm going home. 237 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:57,840 But that's why I say, it's every so rare when I pop out, 238 00:09:57,840 --> 00:09:59,800 I like to leave a mystery when I pop out. 239 00:09:59,800 --> 00:10:01,840 I don't even tell people, that's the thing too, 240 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:04,000 when you pop out, nobody tell nobody, just do it like, 241 00:10:04,000 --> 00:10:07,480 you see me like, damn, they like, damn, where you with at? 242 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:11,040 Yeah, yeah, pop out on you so you can see, 243 00:10:11,040 --> 00:10:15,440 you know, I got that little, I got that thing, you know, 244 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:17,480 took me a while, you know, all this old old, 245 00:10:17,480 --> 00:10:20,320 I got this pounding, I had to put it together, you know, 246 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:23,880 work my needs, but not for real, they all like, 247 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:28,680 I feel like when you pop out, you feel good, 248 00:10:28,680 --> 00:10:30,360 you wanna make sure you feel good, look good, 249 00:10:30,360 --> 00:10:32,040 and you are willing to do it, 250 00:10:32,040 --> 00:10:35,560 because like I said, it takes a lot of energy out of me 251 00:10:35,560 --> 00:10:39,360 to even go outside and have to bike, pop out, 252 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:41,960 cause like all my routine is, I go to really low school, 253 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:44,400 I do my, I go to the job, I go to my job, 254 00:10:44,400 --> 00:10:47,200 do the park hands, I love y'all, 255 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:49,840 going to school to get this degree number, 256 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:54,840 so, and that's about it, and go home, eat, take a shower, 257 00:10:55,120 --> 00:10:58,680 and curl up with my iPad and my bed, right? 258 00:10:59,680 --> 00:11:03,200 You know, sometimes it's like, when you pop out y'all, 259 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:05,880 that's another thing, you gotta make sure, 260 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:09,440 you ready for what it is, cause that's another thing too, 261 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:13,200 let's go back to like popping out, going outside, 262 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:16,400 the whole point is for you to have the opportunity 263 00:11:16,400 --> 00:11:18,480 to for life to enjoy yourself, you know, 264 00:11:18,480 --> 00:11:19,920 once in a while, let's your hair down, 265 00:11:19,920 --> 00:11:22,480 you know, have a good time, rock out with your friends, 266 00:11:22,480 --> 00:11:25,400 close family, whoever you with, and that's another thing too, 267 00:11:25,400 --> 00:11:28,600 I don't like to pop out with just any and anybody, 268 00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:31,480 not doing that, I'm not doing that, 269 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:33,560 I'm not going outside with just any and anybody, 270 00:11:33,560 --> 00:11:36,680 and I know for a fact that I know that do not have my best, 271 00:11:36,680 --> 00:11:38,440 that do not have my best interests, 272 00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:40,000 I'm going outside with people that I know 273 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:42,360 have my best interests, you know, 274 00:11:42,360 --> 00:11:44,040 and I know that probably looking through like, 275 00:11:44,040 --> 00:11:46,440 Papa, I'm talking, think you talk about relationships, 276 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:49,240 now let's get into that, we gonna get into that, 277 00:11:49,240 --> 00:11:51,560 like we gonna get into the pop out relationships, 278 00:11:51,560 --> 00:11:53,840 because that's another thing too, 279 00:11:53,840 --> 00:11:55,560 that's why I say you gotta leave a mystery, 280 00:11:55,560 --> 00:11:57,920 so within this episode, we talking about, you know, 281 00:11:57,920 --> 00:12:01,600 popping out outside events, like in relationships, 282 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:04,960 in with life in general, because like I said, 283 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:07,240 the three things for this year is pop out selfish 284 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:09,840 and taking control, so when it comes to pop out, 285 00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:12,520 everything you do leave a mystery, you surprise, 286 00:12:12,520 --> 00:12:15,160 because within, even if you popping out with your friends, 287 00:12:15,160 --> 00:12:18,560 by yourself, accomplishments, or with a significant other, 288 00:12:18,560 --> 00:12:22,120 it's a surprise, nobody knows, you leave a mystery, 289 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:24,560 like I told you in previous episodes, 290 00:12:24,560 --> 00:12:26,920 I like to leave a mystery of everything I do, 291 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:30,560 I don't like to, I don't tell everything, certain stuff, 292 00:12:30,560 --> 00:12:31,800 like if you asking where it's from, 293 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:34,280 it's like, gate keep, no, I'm gate keeping information, 294 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:36,400 but when it comes to something that has impacted my life, 295 00:12:36,400 --> 00:12:38,560 and it's so dear and true to me, yeah, 296 00:12:38,560 --> 00:12:42,080 I'm gonna pop out and show the world what I'm ready to, 297 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:44,880 or sometimes I even, but wait until like, 298 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:47,800 it's three or six months in, and it'll be like, 299 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:48,920 dang, how long have you been, 300 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:50,560 six, three, four months, five years, stuff, 301 00:12:50,560 --> 00:12:54,200 they be like, whoa, a year, whatever, like, you know, 302 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:59,200 so, when it comes to the outings, y'all, like I said, 303 00:12:59,320 --> 00:13:00,480 when you come to pop it out, 304 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:03,600 and also go back to the episode about company, 305 00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:04,960 you wanna make sure you go out, 306 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:07,640 the company you work, you feel comfortable with, 307 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:10,400 and you know what the intentions is, 308 00:13:10,400 --> 00:13:12,920 and they know what's up, and then another thing too, 309 00:13:12,920 --> 00:13:15,880 like for us females, I feel like, if I look good, 310 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:18,560 you have to look good too, I'm not the type of friend 311 00:13:18,560 --> 00:13:20,520 that's gonna let my friend come outside looking like, 312 00:13:20,520 --> 00:13:22,880 she just rolled out of bed, or a homeboy, 313 00:13:22,880 --> 00:13:25,400 I'm not doing that, because I know full fact, 314 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:27,120 you could put that shit on, 315 00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:29,920 and my friends, they be putting that shit on, 316 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:32,480 so I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna do that, 317 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:34,080 that's nothing to I hate when I go out, 318 00:13:34,080 --> 00:13:39,080 and I see people like, why do you have your friend out here 319 00:13:40,560 --> 00:13:43,560 looking like this, but you look like a five star chick, 320 00:13:44,680 --> 00:13:47,520 or you look like that man, but your man's, 321 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:50,480 or your homegirl looking like, what? 322 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:54,760 That's another thing, well we outside, and we pop out, 323 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:57,520 I wanna make sure everybody is on their peas and queues, 324 00:13:57,520 --> 00:13:59,760 everybody feel comfortable, everybody look good, 325 00:13:59,760 --> 00:14:01,640 because you know, everybody has their own sense of style, 326 00:14:01,640 --> 00:14:04,800 but you also wanna be on one accord, 327 00:14:04,800 --> 00:14:07,080 I don't like to overdo things, unless I have to, 328 00:14:07,080 --> 00:14:10,240 like it's my birthday, or it's my graduation party, 329 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:14,280 or like promotion, whatever it is, if it's about you, 330 00:14:14,280 --> 00:14:17,360 cool, lock out, but if it's about the other person, 331 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:19,200 you gotta give them a like, that's another thing too, 332 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:21,840 I do not like when it comes to pop it out at times, 333 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:23,320 when it comes to pop it out at times, 334 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:25,240 say like it's an event, you see your close friend, 335 00:14:25,240 --> 00:14:27,760 or family member, let them have that shine, 336 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:29,600 at times people do little stuff, 337 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:32,000 like go over the top where they pop out of outfits 338 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:34,160 to get attention, and I don't like that, 339 00:14:34,160 --> 00:14:38,200 because like bro, sis, you know that's fair, 340 00:14:38,200 --> 00:14:40,560 this their day, give them a green light, 341 00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:42,320 you know you wanna make this color coordination, 342 00:14:42,320 --> 00:14:45,560 or whatever, match the colors, but don't do too much, 343 00:14:45,560 --> 00:14:47,160 if they told you how they're gonna do it, 344 00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:50,120 or they have an idea what they're gonna do, 345 00:14:50,120 --> 00:14:52,920 don't take it, like I seen it before, 346 00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:55,880 I seen it like when people try to go over the top, 347 00:14:55,880 --> 00:14:58,920 and it's like bro, I appreciate your pop out, 348 00:14:58,920 --> 00:15:00,880 you know you look good, but dang, 349 00:15:00,880 --> 00:15:03,400 you know this was my event, my business, 350 00:15:03,400 --> 00:15:07,600 whatever is going on, don't try to steal my shine, 351 00:15:07,600 --> 00:15:11,280 you know, don't do that, I don't like that, 352 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:14,280 like that makes me, makes me mad at y'all, 353 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:18,280 I'm like bro, let that girl know that I'm in handy day, 354 00:15:18,280 --> 00:15:20,720 shoot, don't do that, 355 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:25,080 yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 356 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:27,920 so let's talk about it, okay, 357 00:15:29,200 --> 00:15:31,560 so, let's talk about the end of professional setting, 358 00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:34,440 and your work setting, because pop it out, boom baby, 359 00:15:34,440 --> 00:15:35,760 I know you're probably like pop it out, 360 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:38,080 in my professional setting is kinda crazy, 361 00:15:38,080 --> 00:15:39,680 it's not because I'm about to tell y'all, 362 00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:43,360 I'm like, hey, for real, hey, I ain't know that, 363 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:46,920 you gonna know, in a professional setting, 364 00:15:46,920 --> 00:15:50,160 you can incorporate pop out vibes by 365 00:15:50,160 --> 00:15:52,280 especially your unique ideas, 366 00:15:52,280 --> 00:15:54,480 and preferences during meetings, 367 00:15:54,480 --> 00:15:58,240 or like within like conferences or whatever y'all have, 368 00:15:58,240 --> 00:16:01,440 taking on a leadership boat, and a project or whatever, 369 00:16:01,440 --> 00:16:03,960 and dressing professionally, the attire, 370 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:07,280 that showcases your style and confidence, 371 00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:09,000 so for me, like one of my girls, 372 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:10,720 I work at Finish Line, one of the girls 373 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:12,120 that work at Finish Line, 374 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:14,360 and me wear a uniform, 375 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:16,160 sometimes I like to pop out my uniform, 376 00:16:16,160 --> 00:16:19,240 like it's first of all, it's a must for our dress code 377 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:22,440 that we look clean from head to toe, 378 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:25,400 hair, knee, everything, especially from the feet, 379 00:16:25,400 --> 00:16:27,000 you're a shoe store, you work in a shoe store, 380 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:29,880 you gotta have the latest, the highest shit on, 381 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:32,880 even if it's old, and people be like, damn, 382 00:16:32,880 --> 00:16:35,000 how you get that, I used to get that, 383 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:36,240 I get it all the time, not used to it, 384 00:16:36,240 --> 00:16:38,560 I still get to this day, like how do you not that, 385 00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:39,880 like damn, I wanna do something, 386 00:16:39,880 --> 00:16:42,960 you gotta be on your P's and Q's, 387 00:16:42,960 --> 00:16:45,000 and when it comes to speaking up for yourself 388 00:16:45,000 --> 00:16:47,640 and giving people the help of your team, 389 00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:50,120 even if you're not a manager, 390 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:51,600 a system manager or supervisor, 391 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:54,680 even if you're just an employee working under somebody, 392 00:16:54,680 --> 00:16:58,600 you still have the right to pop out to speak your piece, 393 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:00,840 and it brings my face because at times, 394 00:17:00,840 --> 00:17:04,400 even managers, supervisors, and assistant managers, 395 00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:07,280 and all that, they need our help too, 396 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:09,640 point blank period, we work for them, 397 00:17:09,640 --> 00:17:11,720 but we know what's going on too, 398 00:17:11,720 --> 00:17:15,360 we ain't stupid, half the time it's like stupid, 399 00:17:15,360 --> 00:17:17,320 I'm not gonna say half, we not stupid period, 400 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:18,640 cause like I said, like if there's times 401 00:17:18,640 --> 00:17:20,960 where I'm talking to my manager, assistant manager, 402 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:22,880 they're like, hey, we could probably do this, 403 00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:25,320 we could do this, like give them little tips 404 00:17:25,320 --> 00:17:27,800 to show them your way of being engaged, 405 00:17:27,800 --> 00:17:29,360 but I just pop it out, we stand, 406 00:17:29,360 --> 00:17:30,720 and I just stand, and I'm like, 407 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:34,320 y'all, we had our first ever meeting, 408 00:17:34,320 --> 00:17:36,440 then they probably was like, 409 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:37,680 I know they probably like, hey, 410 00:17:37,680 --> 00:17:38,520 you talking a little too much, 411 00:17:38,520 --> 00:17:40,400 I'm like, hey, I see this, 412 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:42,800 I've been with y'all company for a minute now, 413 00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:45,640 and I wanna pop out and give you all the time, 414 00:17:45,640 --> 00:17:48,240 I'm popping out, I'm giving you all the time to shine, 415 00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:51,320 I'm giving my time to shine now, cause shit. 416 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:53,840 But I wasn't rude at any time, 417 00:17:53,840 --> 00:17:56,000 I was like, you know, hey, like, 418 00:17:56,000 --> 00:17:57,680 give them little heads up and stuff like that 419 00:17:57,680 --> 00:18:00,840 because it's value information that people need to know, 420 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:03,680 even at times like when I'm there, we don't know, 421 00:18:03,680 --> 00:18:06,200 so sometimes things we don't know, we need to know, 422 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:09,080 you know, so when it comes to being in the work setting, 423 00:18:09,080 --> 00:18:11,680 tell them to be afraid to pop out 424 00:18:11,680 --> 00:18:13,440 and tell them people your ideas, 425 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:16,160 and plus when it comes to showcasing your style, 426 00:18:16,160 --> 00:18:18,640 like I said, we only wear a T-shirt, 427 00:18:18,640 --> 00:18:19,920 but the bottoms is black, you know, 428 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:22,680 you wear jeans, you wear sweat, joggers, whatever, 429 00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:23,600 make sure it's appropriate, 430 00:18:23,600 --> 00:18:25,960 especially when it's from the fire time, 431 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:28,560 but I always try to pop out with different styles, 432 00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:30,760 like, okay, I got these on, put this shit on, 433 00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:32,040 with the look of the look of like this, 434 00:18:32,040 --> 00:18:33,800 make sure my hair look like, you know, 435 00:18:33,800 --> 00:18:35,720 I like to throw a little shit on, 436 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:39,240 but when I actually pop out outside of the work environment, 437 00:18:39,240 --> 00:18:42,480 baby, catch me on a good day, catch me, 438 00:18:42,480 --> 00:18:46,040 catch me out there, baby, because, you know, 439 00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:49,520 they'll be like, that shit me, yes, me, it's me, 440 00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:51,160 and I feel like when you pop out those, 441 00:18:51,160 --> 00:18:53,280 you're the one which you feel so good about yourself, 442 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:55,680 that shows myself a stand at coffee to go through the roof, 443 00:18:55,680 --> 00:18:58,960 because if I took my time and patience on this outfit, 444 00:18:58,960 --> 00:19:02,520 on this, like, from the T, like, from the place, 445 00:19:02,520 --> 00:19:04,240 from where we going, how we going, 446 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:07,080 even to where I'm going, I'm going to pop out, 447 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:10,760 I'm going to do a P, because like I said, we're young, 448 00:19:10,760 --> 00:19:13,400 and if you're not, you, I'm going to say this, 449 00:19:14,720 --> 00:19:17,280 you got one life to live, live it up, 450 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:18,600 where the jobs going and that, 451 00:19:18,600 --> 00:19:22,040 do it like a show, be like, every day, baby, 452 00:19:22,040 --> 00:19:25,920 like do it like a show, have fun, don't be, 453 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:31,800 don't be boring, you know, you got to expand your horizons, 454 00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:35,560 you got to do more, you got to do things that will help you 455 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:39,280 socially, physically, mentally, and emotionally. 456 00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:41,720 I feel like when you go out, pop out with people, 457 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:43,160 you even meet new people, 458 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:45,040 when you build a bomb with them, something like that, 459 00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:49,280 it helps you, even like for me, by going to an HPC, 460 00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:53,120 you're one of the best HPC used in the universe, 461 00:19:53,120 --> 00:19:56,680 hands down, more than state bears, 462 00:19:56,680 --> 00:19:59,440 I was able to express myself, I was able to be social, 463 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:01,960 I was able to do things that I never thought I would do, 464 00:20:01,960 --> 00:20:04,240 just by me just being able to pop it out, 465 00:20:04,240 --> 00:20:07,160 and put myself out there, had helped me in many ways, 466 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:09,040 especially when it came to my business, 467 00:20:09,040 --> 00:20:12,360 when it came to academics, when it came to my future career, 468 00:20:12,360 --> 00:20:15,440 just being able to network can help you pop out 469 00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:18,200 in various ways as well, y'all, so I'm telling you this, 470 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:21,360 don't be afraid to pop out, don't be afraid to take the risk 471 00:20:21,360 --> 00:20:23,680 on doing things that you never really done before, 472 00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:26,240 take a leap off it, just pop out on that thing, 473 00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:30,560 because you never know how far it can take you, 474 00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:33,600 just by you popping out doing stuff you usually don't do, 475 00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:34,680 stepping out to your comfort zone 476 00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:37,120 is one of the many things that helps you at times, 477 00:20:37,120 --> 00:20:38,600 there's one of the many things that I show you like, 478 00:20:38,600 --> 00:20:42,960 hey, you can't stay stagnant for long, don't stay stagnant, 479 00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:45,360 you gotta expand, you gotta explore, you gotta do things, 480 00:20:45,360 --> 00:20:47,720 you gotta step out of your comfort zone here and there, 481 00:20:47,720 --> 00:20:50,520 just to see what's popping, okay? 482 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:55,120 Just by embracing pop out vibes can lead to a personal growth 483 00:20:55,120 --> 00:20:58,280 and increase in happiness and more fulfilling life, 484 00:20:58,280 --> 00:21:01,840 and fulfilling your life, take it from me, y'all, 485 00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:04,440 I'm not gonna lie to y'all, this is why I make the podcast, 486 00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:07,520 but self-improvement is self-empowerment, 487 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:10,720 I'm sorry y'all, there's not a preview, 488 00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:14,400 but yes, these topics I tell y'all, 489 00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:19,320 this is to help us improve and to self-taxed out empowerment, 490 00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:21,520 because at times we need to teach, 491 00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:22,840 sometimes we need to teach ourselves, 492 00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:25,720 sometimes we need to listen to others to help us as well, 493 00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:28,520 and I always say to y'all, if my podcast 494 00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:31,520 don't help a lot of y'all, long as it helps somebody, 495 00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:34,120 because that's how I feel, I like helping people, 496 00:21:34,120 --> 00:21:35,480 especially when it comes to the mental male 497 00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:38,480 and learning more about it, how to control something, 498 00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:42,840 we need it, we need it, we need somebody to help us, 499 00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:45,600 we need self-approving, self-control, self-empowerment, 500 00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:48,000 ain't gonna powering the self, we just need the help, 501 00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:51,280 and it's okay to pop out and get the help that you deserve, 502 00:21:51,280 --> 00:21:53,560 because take it from me, like I said, I'm not gonna lie to y'all, 503 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:57,600 I know how this is, I'm learning every day, 504 00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:00,720 you're learning every day, we're learning every day together, 505 00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:03,120 and it's okay, because I'm telling y'all, 506 00:22:03,120 --> 00:22:04,560 once y'all get the groove of things, 507 00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:06,920 you're gonna feel more happy, you're gonna feel like, 508 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:08,200 okay, I'm not gonna let this rest me out, 509 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:09,680 I'm not gonna let him or she stress me out, 510 00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:12,160 I'm not gonna let nothing or nobody piss me off, 511 00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:14,600 I'm not gonna let anything turn toffee, 512 00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:17,520 because you know why, at times when you do pop out, 513 00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:20,000 you get to pop it off, and we don't want that, 514 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:22,400 we're on a level where we are being selfish, 515 00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:24,120 taking control and popping out this year, 516 00:22:24,120 --> 00:22:26,880 because we got better and bigger things to do, 517 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:30,400 this year is our year where we're getting everything 518 00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:32,840 we said we wanna do out the way, 519 00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:35,240 pop out and let that shit happen, 520 00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:37,240 we not going back and forth with it, 521 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:38,680 we're not gonna procrastinate, 522 00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:41,280 this is not the time for procrastination anymore, 523 00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:45,440 it's time for you to put the big girl or big boy boots on 524 00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:48,000 and get the margin, because baby, you got things to do, 525 00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:50,000 and shit do not last forever, 526 00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:55,400 and time does not wait for no one, 527 00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:58,400 because every day something else is going on, oh that, 528 00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:05,560 so, in a professional said thing, 529 00:23:06,120 --> 00:23:07,960 you know, you could just pop out, 530 00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:10,080 popping out anywhere you go, 531 00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:13,440 you could stand out just by doing what you wanna do, 532 00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:15,600 even doing challenges you could pop out, 533 00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:18,680 just you can stand out by volunteering for things, 534 00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:21,880 challenging assignments and offering, 535 00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:23,360 and voluntary solutions to a problem, 536 00:23:23,360 --> 00:23:25,440 like I said, well, if I had problems 537 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:27,320 in my job a few times, yeah, 538 00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:30,920 and I helped my people out because we're here, 539 00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:33,520 and if I've been here and know the system, 540 00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:35,800 you know, learn what's going on, 541 00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:36,840 took a leap and everything, 542 00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:38,920 I'm gonna pop out and be like, hey, 543 00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:39,800 I'm gonna speak up, 544 00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:40,800 because I feel like we can speak up 545 00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:42,640 as you popping out your shell, 546 00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:45,600 and I'm like, hey, you right, 547 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:47,120 when you take a leap on things, 548 00:23:47,120 --> 00:23:49,480 or anything that you pop it out of your shell, 549 00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:52,280 so yeah, basically like popping out is part of your shell, 550 00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:53,360 like stand out your comfort zone, 551 00:23:53,360 --> 00:23:55,640 out your shell, doing stuff that you may or may not 552 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:58,000 usually do, but you take it a leap on, 553 00:23:58,000 --> 00:23:59,080 faithfully like hey, why not, 554 00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:00,880 you only live once, I'm young, 555 00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:02,680 and you turn, you know, 556 00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:04,760 even if you say you not turn, baby, you turn, 557 00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:06,080 I don't care nobody say, 558 00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:08,040 everybody is turning their own type of way, 559 00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:09,560 even me, certain things I do, 560 00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:12,400 people be like, what is that, I'm turned, baby, 561 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:16,160 I'm turned, you gonna turn and get on way too, 562 00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:18,520 but we all wanna pop out some type of way, baby, 563 00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:21,640 we are, like pop out, 564 00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:24,320 and like a surprise gift that jumps out of nowhere 565 00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:27,200 to grab your attention and light you, 566 00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:29,880 like hold on now, we gonna pop out, 567 00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:33,040 have a good time, we gonna show you what it's about, 568 00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:36,680 okay, now let's talk about pop out with the significant, 569 00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:41,680 oh, no, I really don't talk about relationships like that, 570 00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:43,520 because I'm not in one, 571 00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:45,720 so I don't really talk about it, 572 00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:48,560 but I don't have nothing against it, 573 00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:51,760 I love love, I love everything about it, 574 00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:54,440 like just seeing it, being around it as a kid, 575 00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:56,920 up and telling it out with my parents, shout out to them, 576 00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:58,400 having friends on some relationships, 577 00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:00,840 things like that, XYZ, I've been in one before, 578 00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:03,760 I've been in a situation where to pop out, I did, 579 00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:06,240 and let me tell you all about pop out relationships, 580 00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:11,160 pop out relationships are very, very interesting, 581 00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:12,800 I've reached my friends because I could be like, 582 00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:15,200 I never thought you would end up with a person like this, 583 00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:16,800 I never thought you would really take the risk 584 00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:19,200 on popping out with this man on this woman, 585 00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:20,560 let me tell you all something, 586 00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:26,840 whoever you love, your type, you like, your style, skills, 587 00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:29,840 whatever, with the person, I applaud you, 588 00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:32,600 that's you baby, don't let no one or nothing 589 00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:34,640 try to tell you otherwise about what you like, 590 00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:36,240 like me, I like brown skin, 591 00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:40,840 in dogs game, brown skin thing, do your thing, 592 00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:45,840 you know, I have, I have nothing against people 593 00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:50,840 when it comes to their type and why they like that, 594 00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:52,880 and they pop out with the people sometimes 595 00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:54,720 that might be the complete opposite, 596 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:59,120 and it be like that, more of the way it is, 597 00:25:59,120 --> 00:26:03,620 when people pop out in relationships or for babies, 598 00:26:03,620 --> 00:26:08,080 you know, families, married, I love it, I applaud, 599 00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:10,680 especially my black community, I love what y'all do, 600 00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:13,880 especially when it comes to things that make y'all happy, 601 00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:15,680 and you pop out when you're ready to, 602 00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:17,680 that's another thing too, don't do things 603 00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:19,600 with you know you're not ready to show the world 604 00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:22,880 or like to share it, when it comes to pop out, 605 00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:24,920 take your time, take your time, 606 00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:27,760 especially when it comes to relationships, 607 00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:28,920 don't rush it like it's time, 608 00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:31,480 it would be like, I have to be, 609 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:36,480 be I be in relationship within seven and eight months, 610 00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:39,880 sometimes, sometimes, yes, sometimes no, 611 00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:42,240 I always say like 36 months, 612 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:44,440 but then sometimes I'm like, you know, you never know, 613 00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:47,280 I'm always saying let's buy it out, 614 00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:49,680 and if it buy, if the buy a workout, why not, 615 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:52,320 and if it just so happens to automatically 616 00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:55,480 ties into a relationship, why not, 617 00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:58,340 and if we ready to pop out, we gonna do that, 618 00:26:58,340 --> 00:27:02,720 because like I said, time is a terrible thing to waste, 619 00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:04,240 and you don't wanna waste a person's time 620 00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:07,160 because that's the time that you're wasting as well, 621 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:08,480 you don't want to waste their time, 622 00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:09,940 and you don't wanna waste your time as well, 623 00:27:09,940 --> 00:27:13,040 and vice versa, so when it comes to popping out y'all, 624 00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:15,240 in the black community, 625 00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:18,920 my black community y'all love to pop out 626 00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:23,360 when it's Christmas, Valentine's Day, 627 00:27:23,360 --> 00:27:27,280 National Girlfriend, National Boyfriend's Day, 628 00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:31,160 any years, those are days, those days I spend all the time, 629 00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:35,840 I'm like, bro, y'all are so like, oh my God, 630 00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:37,200 some of them need to be shocked, 631 00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:40,640 like I'm not really like, when I popped out, I was shocked, 632 00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:42,320 because like, you know, you be like, wow, 633 00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:45,920 people get you like, wow, you in love and all that stuff, 634 00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:48,960 and it be like, yeah, I had to pop out, 635 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:50,840 and show y'all like, yeah, like, 636 00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:55,800 yeah, I say this is my little yeah, yeah, 637 00:27:55,800 --> 00:28:00,800 but yes, I love love, and I love how everybody is 638 00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:02,920 private on certain stuff, and that's why I say too, 639 00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:04,760 like, when it's time for you to pop out, you know, 640 00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:06,400 pop out when you're ready to, 641 00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:10,080 even if it comes to career, relationship, education, 642 00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:14,760 do anything, take your time, don't rush it, 643 00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:19,320 because like I said, it's all about you. 644 00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:24,160 So, when it comes to popping out, 645 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:26,120 why do people pop out? 646 00:28:26,120 --> 00:28:27,920 Let's go a little bit about that. 647 00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:28,760 I think I already talked about it, 648 00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:30,320 I'm talking about it again. 649 00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:32,280 Why do people pop out? 650 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:34,320 People pop out for various reasons, 651 00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:36,320 so as to celebrate a special occasion, 652 00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:38,160 like birthdays or anniversaries, 653 00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:40,400 to explore a new city or, you know, 654 00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:45,400 a tourist attraction, or simply enjoy recreating activities, 655 00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:50,240 like hiking, picnicking, or visiting the aquariums, 656 00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:52,600 I mean, amusement parks, let's use, you know, 657 00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:56,360 whatever, some popular pop outings include like, 658 00:28:56,360 --> 00:29:01,160 ticket trips, movies, camping, great restaurants, 659 00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:03,600 dinners, whatever. 660 00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:05,080 So, why do people pop out? 661 00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:09,200 Most of the times because they know what they're looking for. 662 00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,440 They know what they're gonna be, 663 00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:13,640 I'm saying it, I'm looking for, 664 00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:15,920 I say, why people pop out is because 665 00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:17,920 they do it when they're ready to, 666 00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:20,040 that's what I meant to say, y'all. 667 00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:21,640 I'm getting a little too over my stomach, 668 00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:23,880 they could lose, they need to love it, 669 00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:25,400 but why do people do what they do 670 00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:26,880 is because they do it on their terms, 671 00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:28,920 there's nothing to it, they're stepping out their shell, 672 00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:31,200 they're exploring the world around them, 673 00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:33,480 they're exploring another world that they have been dreaming of 674 00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:34,760 and they were afraid to do it now, 675 00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:37,160 they're able to step out of their shell and do it. 676 00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:38,840 That's what popping out is really all about is, 677 00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:41,760 I'm gonna pop out to explore, 678 00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:44,440 step out of my shell and see what's going on. 679 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:45,680 That's what I did a few times, 680 00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:47,800 like I went to some restaurant, 681 00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:49,040 met some people, like I said, 682 00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:50,680 did some things on campus, you know, 683 00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:52,160 took risks on certain things. 684 00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:54,360 I'ma say this to y'all, 685 00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:58,040 don't be afraid to pop out of your shell, 686 00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:00,960 you never know what is out there for you, 687 00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:04,720 you never know who may be for your best interest 688 00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:06,240 for you to pop out with. 689 00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:09,200 So I say this to say also, 690 00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:11,800 when it comes to the pros and cons of popping out, 691 00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:16,800 pop out has numerous benefits for mental well-being. 692 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:20,560 Being, you know, I was like, what am I doing? 693 00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:22,400 I was coming. 694 00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:24,120 When it comes to the pop outs, 695 00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:28,120 they provide a break from the daily scenarios 696 00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:32,600 and routines and allows us individuals to relax and recharge. 697 00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:36,000 Engaging in fun activities where others can boost our mood, 698 00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:39,240 foster a sense of belonging and social connection 699 00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:41,400 and it promotes positive emotions. 700 00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:44,880 However, sometimes when it comes to pop out, 701 00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:46,920 the potential downside of popping out 702 00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:49,200 is that they can be accosting 703 00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:52,280 in time consuming, requesting, 704 00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:56,720 carefully planning and contradictions. 705 00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:59,680 Now, let's talk about what times might it's hard for you 706 00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:01,880 to pop out, like I said, you plan to start 707 00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:03,760 and sometimes when it's time for y'all to do 708 00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:07,040 what y'all gotta do, it's always a bull. 709 00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:10,320 Come on now, you know, we older, things happen. 710 00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:13,600 You know, we all know, we all do, 711 00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:17,760 we all go through things, okay? 712 00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:21,320 It happens, it's life. 713 00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:24,080 But don't be bluffing out like I'm from, from Baltimore. 714 00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:25,720 Y'all can't tell, let me tell you now. 715 00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:29,960 Don't bluff out on me right when it's time to get things done. 716 00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:32,600 Don't do it, that hurts my feelings. 717 00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:33,920 And it also helps another person, 718 00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:35,600 it also hurts another person's feelings too 719 00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:38,640 because like you take this person, 720 00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:40,400 or you take it, be out of my comfort zone. 721 00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:42,040 I'm popping out of my shell. 722 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:43,800 And then when it's time for us to do, 723 00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:47,080 we gotta do, like pop out or do we do it? 724 00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:49,880 And you just go ghost, it's very tiring. 725 00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:52,160 And it hurts a person's feelings because like, 726 00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:53,800 if you don't have a legit reason 727 00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:55,640 on why you just good in like, 728 00:31:57,600 --> 00:31:59,800 like agree with what we doing, 729 00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:01,680 you don't let me know, don't wait till it's time 730 00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:04,920 but like, oh, thanks bro, I can't do it, da, da, da. 731 00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:07,400 I feel like I'm the type of person that, you know, 732 00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:11,640 I can, you know, understand. 733 00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:13,000 I'm a very understanding person. 734 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:14,760 However, if it happens multiple times, 735 00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:16,520 like bro, we're not gonna do this. 736 00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:19,080 We just can't do this, like sis bro, I don't know. 737 00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:20,120 We're gonna try another time, 738 00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:23,640 we're gonna, give me your schedule and give it to the T. 739 00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:25,400 Cause I feel like bro, nobody wanna 740 00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:27,320 got time to waste money and stuff like that 741 00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:28,760 because you know, sometimes when it comes 742 00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:30,480 to certain events too, I take these off, 743 00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:31,720 I take that they off. 744 00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:35,280 Cause if it's like something like that's very like, 745 00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:37,640 top consuming, like if I'm going out 746 00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:40,360 and it's a very like classy type event, 747 00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:42,080 okay, I wanna get my hair done. 748 00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:44,880 I might even wanna put some, you know, makeup on, you know, 749 00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:46,960 I wanna feel a little more extra pretty. 750 00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:50,000 It takes time, like I said, it's time consuming 751 00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:53,480 and it requires this careful planning. 752 00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:55,880 When it comes to popping out with your friends, family, 753 00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:58,400 whoever, a person, make sure y'all are 754 00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:02,760 having a good blueprint, there it is. 755 00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:05,000 If you don't know, now you know, I love saying 756 00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:09,240 about love a blueprint, like, wow. 757 00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:11,520 Make sure y'all have the blueprint mapped out. 758 00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:14,800 So whatever you have jot down or the image 759 00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:16,480 scratched, sketched or whatever, 760 00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:19,600 make sure it comes to life because maybe, you know, 761 00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:22,720 how they say like, whatever was said in the group message 762 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:24,360 and the message is finally made it out. 763 00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:27,240 So like, you know, like when it comes to popping out, 764 00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:31,400 especially like when you get older within being able 765 00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:34,760 to, you know, just try to travel, get a little sense 766 00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:37,480 of something, nobody wanna wait till the time of you 767 00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:40,640 get tickets or something, it's like, oh, you backing out. 768 00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:43,080 Cause that hurts person feeling, hurts person time. 769 00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:48,000 So when it comes to popping out, please keep in mind 770 00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:51,600 that you and other people are stepping out of their shells 771 00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:54,360 to take risks on doing things, but also having a good time 772 00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:57,080 to brighten y'all mood, physically, mentally 773 00:33:57,080 --> 00:34:00,560 and emotionally and spiritually, you know? 774 00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:04,200 So with that being said y'all, I hope you guys 775 00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:07,640 have learned a few things and took a little, you know, 776 00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:09,680 dive into the pop out side for y'all. 777 00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:10,520 Cause I know I did. 778 00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:13,280 Like I said, this year we're popping out, 779 00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:16,160 we're taking control and we're being selfish. 780 00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:18,080 So with that being said y'all, I encourage y'all 781 00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:19,880 to pop out this year in many ways. 782 00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:22,120 I don't care how big or small the pop out is 783 00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:24,640 if a relationship or not, business or not, 784 00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:28,240 no care what it is, pop out when you're ready to do things 785 00:34:28,240 --> 00:34:29,480 when you are ready. 786 00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:32,800 And as always, keep a mystery to everything you're doing. 787 00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:34,200 Cause everybody don't need to know what's going on 788 00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:37,560 until you're ready to let the world know. 789 00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:38,600 All right? 790 00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:40,160 So with that being said y'all, I wish y'all 791 00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:41,760 not gonna put the best, please the best 792 00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:44,000 into all y'all, please be safe out here. 793 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:46,840 It's getting, the weather's been a little crazy after like, 794 00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:49,520 it's super cold one day and it's chilly the next day 795 00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:51,480 and it's like ooh, little breeze, little warm 796 00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:54,480 and like a week or two or so. 797 00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:57,520 Y'all, so please like, please be safe, 798 00:34:57,520 --> 00:34:59,600 please be mindful of the weather, you know? 799 00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:01,080 If you feel sick, don't go nowhere, 800 00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:02,960 don't go to school, don't go to work, you know? 801 00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:03,880 You're supposed to be around here too 802 00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:07,040 cause it is flu season and all that good stuff. 803 00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:12,040 So yes, please, please, please be careful. 804 00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:17,640 And as always, you guys will hear from me next Wednesday 805 00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:20,320 or whatever you guys hear from me shoot. 806 00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:32,160 Bye.