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the one and only Eve.
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So let's get into it.
Today's vibe of the day is, who's giving y'all?
Sound like my voice a little rusty,
y'all don't like all that sound.
But today's vibe of the day is company.
Yes.
The reason why today's vibe of the day is company
is because, like I said,
we're still in the peak of our new year.
And I feel like this topic needs to be said
as well as the vibe needs to be, you know,
explained on a good and bad level.
So let me get into it.
Company, we think of company as,
people think of like a company so there's a business.
No, we're not talking about that type of company.
We're talking about the people that you keep around you.
We're talking about the people that you have in your circle.
We're talking about the people that you consider your A1 day one,
besties, bros, all that, sis, all that.
Yes.
The reason why I'm talking about this is because,
y'all was watching Bandys.
Y'all was watching Bandys.
And I'm not a big fan of the show,
but within the show, it just bug me the wrong way
because it's like, you know,
at times friends have their moments,
but it's just like, if you're this type of person,
I keep around me,
and you should stand 10 toes down with me
as just as much as I stand 10 toes down with you.
So let me just talk about the good side of it
because I just talked about the bad little bit
because that is how I feel when it comes to the company
that you keep, you know?
So let's talk about the good side of the company.
The good side of the company is that
when you have people in a corner
that have been down for you since day one,
they know what's going on,
which you know what's, they know what's real,
you know what's not,
they know your ups and downs,
they know what your flaws and everything is,
and they know how y'all rocking
to the worst fall off and all that good shit.
Versus, now I'm gonna talk a little bit about the bad,
versus if you're the company I keep,
and it's this situation going on,
you know at times I might not be my best entrance
or might not be at my best,
but you know what's up with me,
like I know what's up with you,
so you don't defend me as well as I would defend you,
oh it's a problem right there on the site.
So let's get more deep into the good part of company.
When it comes to company you keep,
those are the people that you know for a fact
you don't need to worry about
when it comes to anything, business or not,
but I feel like when it comes to the business side
of the company,
I'm gonna talk a little bit about that as well,
since you know it's company,
I feel like when it comes to the side of business,
they always say don't put your family in this,
you're part of a company,
but I feel like sometimes you need to,
I feel like it's not your immediate family,
then don't put them in there,
but if it's other people outside your family
that you cool with,
you know why not have them in your business
when it comes to your company and things like that.
But, when it comes to the business side of things,
the company is a lot that comes with running a company,
it comes with a lot of baggage,
you have to go in your bed days,
you have days where you making a lot of money
or a lot of progress,
and some days you not making shit,
and then some days it's like up and down,
some days it's surprise,
like you just never know.
So when it comes to a company,
where everybody be like,
oh I want a million dollar company,
you gotta put that shit on,
you gotta put that shit in,
it's like a lot that comes with everything that you do,
especially within a company,
it won't be a CEO or a boss,
and then it comes with that lot,
it's not easy,
and I feel the same way,
because I wanna have my own company,
I wanna have my own big old podcast platforms,
to the point where I have people wanting me
to the point where they may become a podcast,
or whatever it is,
so if you have a company,
your name, that's your establishment,
you don't wanna buy fucking it up,
you want the best of the best,
so when it comes to the company,
I feel like if I was to have a company
bigger than what it would be,
I don't want nothing but the best of my food,
and when it comes to your company as well,
you don't wanna buy that don't know what the fuck they doing,
or don't know what they talking about,
so that's why they say,
like don't have,
I guess that's why they say,
don't mix business with your family,
and don't do that,
but I feel like it sounds,
if you know your family,
like if you know what your family was a good at,
not good at,
why not put it on the team,
but if you know you've had some of them family members
or friends that are pushovers,
and get over motherfuckers,
don't put them on the company,
say thank you for your friends,
don't put them on the company,
if they ain't gonna get the shit rolling,
you know,
so back to the company as in the people
that you keep around you on the good side,
back to when I said like,
I'm the type of person that,
if I'm your friend,
you don't gotta worry about certain stuff
that you would have to worry about with the people like,
oh she trying to get over me,
oh she trying to be like me,
oh she trying to take,
nah,
I'm gonna be one of your biggest goddamn cheerleaders,
that's just me,
for my homeboys,
homegirls,
I don't even like saying that sometimes,
homegirls, homeboys,
like,
but my friends are general,
and my family in general,
the people that I even scrangest,
I will be people's biggest cheerleader,
cause you never know,
as people don't know the story of the shit
that people go through,
especially when it comes to things such as,
even wanting to build a company,
trying to get things out together,
trying to get a degree,
trying to do things out of the norm,
do something that they have been dreaming for,
so when it comes to the company,
you wanna keep people that's wanna see you win,
people in your corner that's wanting to see you win,
and you wanna see them win as well,
I'm real big on like support,
cause support don't cost you nothing,
support don't cost a dime,
if you ask me,
cause it doesn't,
people always,
people always try to find a reason to get into things
and make things bigger than what they are,
and I feel like at times when people turn up
bringing the people that has been there for them,
it shows that,
okay, you are the company I kept around me,
but now you trying to do some shady stuff to me,
and I don't like that,
ain't no to saying you're growing up as a kid,
you know, be careful of the company you keep around you,
because at times the company that you keep around you
can either impact on you or affect you,
and I feel like the company that I had around me
when I was younger,
they didn't impact me as much in certain ways,
but then they did,
you know it was over 50,
you have the impact and the effect,
and I know with some people out there
they probably say the same thing about me,
but I don't know the day I learned,
right from wrongs from the company that I kept,
then from the company that I have now,
when it comes to company on the good side of things
like I said,
you know who's there for you,
and you know without a doubt if anything was to happen,
they fight them in there,
they're fed and fucking scared,
front line all that,
same thing when it comes to you,
when it's their turn,
you know what you can do and what you cannot do,
you know, and like I said,
it's time soon when you have the company around you,
sometimes you gotta tell how it is,
I've had the bad company that's in my corner,
I've had my company that's in my corner,
tell me when I'm fucking up,
tell me when shit ain't right,
tell me if they feel like I'm changing
or being wishy-washy, you know,
rather than have the company that let me suffer,
rather than let me suffer.
See me and the type of person
that I'm really good at reading people and reading things,
and reading, especially reading a room,
if I feel like the vibe is off,
you know, I'm big on the vibes,
like I love eat with the vibes,
eh, but if I feel like the vibe is off
or somebody is off or something, just not, right?
And if there's a company that's around me,
and that's probably their company too,
I'ma let it be seen,
I'ma say it in a way,
and then they'll pull you up and tell you about it.
Come out of the day, like I say, I'm big on respect.
I don't play about it,
especially if you are somebody that's in my corner,
that I truly, truly, truly love and is down for,
do anything for,
I don't want you in a predicament with somebody
that doesn't want to see you win.
That's another thing too,
that kind of the company you keep,
you can sell who's here for a season,
who's here for a reason.
The ones that's here for a reason,
that's the ones that I'd have doubt
you don't gotta worry about.
Those are the ones that I don't have to really like,
look over my shoulder and be like,
oh, this bud, they playing me,
oh, this bud, I don't have to do that.
But when you have been ones that's here for a season,
oh baby, sometimes you gotta keep your eyeballs on them,
because I feel like, and they say to you,
you can tell who's your friend,
and who's your best friend.
You have your friends and you have your best of friends.
Sometimes your own friends,
you see,
are up ahead,
you can only be here for a season,
while your best of friends is here for a reason.
Well, sometimes you have it all around.
But in my defense, I think right now,
with my friends and best of friends,
it's good.
The company I'm keeping right now is good.
And that's another thing too,
it comes a company you keep it a good way.
It's okay,
that is this purpose and it's stable right now.
It'll be like, oh, your circle's so small,
that's so boring.
No it's not.
I'm gonna tell you how this,
and I know I'll tell you all about the truth,
that's not gonna be real,
because that's just me.
I'm not sugarcoating shit that goes on,
especially because why would I lie on a platform
that I know people?
Like I said, the company that I keep
knows what's up with me from the top to the bottom.
Know about me, you know?
I'm not gonna sit on here lying on a platform.
I'm gonna tell you this right now.
If you're so small, it's okay.
Sir, ma'am, it's okay.
If you got three, four, five, six, seven,
eight close people,
when the numbers go on.
It is okay if you do have a big circle,
but another day,
you have to be able to know
who's good company and who's bad company,
especially when you get older.
I feel like you find out who's there for you,
but you get legal, you sound legal.
I feel like that's when shit gets popping up.
And then also, the little thing they used to have
growing up on social media.
I'm gonna say like,
then maybe still laying around a day,
haven't seen it.
I'm gonna say, last time I seen it was I went high school.
You know what I mean?
Your freshman year, you have a lot of friends.
You got a big company, you got a big friend circle.
12th grade year is semi-gibberish, smaller.
Love grade year gets smaller.
12th grade year gets real small
because at times like I say,
when you get to a certain point in life,
things change and people change.
People was here for a season,
and someone's here for a reason.
And you find out who your real friends are
when shit hits the fan,
or when you need them,
or when they need you.
Yeah, yeah.
Let's thank them for a minute, y'all.
Like, we all have the moments
where we had people in our life where
they know what was up and they know what was not up.
I feel like their friends,
they know you're gonna go back to your head
and it's the best of friends.
They're friends that some might know, you know,
and be like, oh my God, are you okay?
They're just friends.
But your best of friends are gonna be like,
what's up?
Like, what's going on?
Are you okay?
Like, they're gonna get down to the business.
Even though, like I said,
it's level to all the friendships, you know.
Who invited the episode ahead of friends?
I'm gonna do a little recap on that too,
because the company you keep also impacts with friends,
also within the family level as well.
Okay, so we talked about three things here.
Company as a business,
company in a good way with the impact of your family,
and your friends,
and company in a bad way with your family and friends.
So, let me just make sure y'all are here with me,
because I feel like I'm getting a little bit off track,
but we back.
So we're on the part now of, you know,
basically just the good and the bad of company
with their family and friends.
So yeah, when it comes to the people that you keep
in your life, the company that you keep,
you gotta be real careful with it.
You gotta be careful with it,
because you know what it's time,
we pick up on habits of our friends,
and we always try to pick up the good habits
and our bad ones.
And I just thought about it before I recorded,
I was like, when I was younger,
one of my very close best friends,
he could tell you right now,
he was on the show already, they on,
he could tell you already.
We were younger, I was quiet as a mouse.
I didn't start being so vocal like this,
probably until my seventh grade year,
seventh grade going on to eighth grade year.
And the reason why I say that is because like,
at times you get to see, you get to observe all day,
you get to learn a lot of people.
Like I say, I'm good at reading the room.
I'm big on vibes, I'm big on reading the room.
Even within a job setting as well as being a student
at a university, we gotta get a little soup,
I'm gonna get a little deep in that as well.
Because sometimes you create the friendships that you do
at, you know, a company that you work for,
or a school, or university, wherever you, you know,
you attend to.
So I thought about it, I was like, you know,
I didn't have a lot of friends back then,
the company I didn't keep.
I didn't have to worry about, you know, like,
over and friends that was fast and that, you know,
sometimes we, well, I feel like we're young
and we can't control how our friends are.
I can't, you know, but I feel like once we get old,
I feel like once you reach 18, that's when reality hit.
I feel like when you hit them, 20s pass ones shit gets to real.
Like, so when I got older, no high school,
and right after high school,
and with the college, I seen how a lot of things quit.
I was very, very, very, very big on a company that kept
because, like I said, you know,
once you hit 18, 19, 20, 20, 20, 20, 20, all that,
shit gets real.
When I turned 18, I was sure that I was 17 when I graduated.
The month after graduation, I just turned 18.
Then after that, straight with the college,
community college online, because during the pandemic,
the thing that I kept, you know,
I was really, really, really, really close to it.
That's my dollars, you know, forever then.
And it's some of the people that I was cool with,
you know, it's like, you know, it's no bad below.
We just don't talk like that no more.
And so, you know, we just had to keep, you know, our distance.
It is okay, because like I said,
at times you need to notice the red damn flakes.
Like I said, I'm very big on observing vibes.
I'm big on observing a room.
If I don't feel comfortable,
and I don't feel like the vibe is where it's supposed to be,
I'm a little bit numb, because like I said, also,
at some point in time in life,
you do be afraid to speak up.
But I feel like now, when you get older,
you need to speak up and be 10 toes down with everything,
because if it's affecting you, or it's hurting you,
especially if it's the company that you keep,
you need to let it be known.
Because like I said, we're grown.
We don't wanna be, okay, at times we do do kitty shit,
but it's a time and a place for everything, you know?
Because time is the time to tell everything the way,
and I ain't got time to be telling no grown ass,
no women, no grown ass man, what to do?
You know, so when it comes to company,
you really got to bring your piece of cues,
because there's always the flip side
of the company that you keep at times,
that it's just like, whoa, I ain't know who's like that.
Is that what the best of us are right now,
or is that what the negative side of company
within family and friends?
When it comes to the family, at times you would think
you wouldn't have to deal with that.
But at times you do, I ain't know nothing,
like I'm not really as close with my family,
and sometimes it's like outside of my household,
and sometimes that sucks, you know,
like when I get older, I'm like,
damn, you know, we get around,
and it's like kind of weird.
I feel like it's kind of weird,
but sometimes it's like, I don't,
sometimes you don't meet that type of company in your life,
because you know what's best for you, you know,
what's not, you know?
So when it comes to family, I'm really on that.
When it comes to company for them, I don't want no negativity,
I don't want no drama, I don't want no kitty,
I don't want nothing, that's gonna get me out of character,
and the type of person, and like, you know,
I'm very sweet, you know.
I don't give off mood, girl, right?
Sometimes people think, that's not a thing too,
I feel like with a couple you keep to,
and then like, I feel like when you introduce somebody
to another part of your friend group,
besides your company that you keep going out,
sometimes they be like, oh, this bitch,
that's all right, she bougie, this, this,
that's all right, she bougie, this, this, that,
never, like there's another thing too,
like when it comes to company, you keep,
you can tell who know you or who don't,
and you can tell if the company,
you keep telling their company,
they're outside their company, how you move,
how are you, you know?
And sometimes I don't want to call certain companies,
like I said, like when it comes to friends,
and your best friends, sometimes you cannot clash them
together, because at times it's like,
it could be good and it can be bad.
And like I said, when it comes to my friends,
it's very small.
So it's like everybody in my friend group
are like my best friends, literally,
like they're my best friends.
I really don't have as many like friends friends,
like just say friend, it's my friend,
I've considered like the ones I'm close with,
it talks to them down there almost every day,
they're my best friends, because those are the people
that I feel as though that I don't have no problems with,
you know, I don't have no problems with,
you know, we never have moments, you know,
sometimes I'd be like, oh, like I'd be mad at them,
and they'd be mad at me, but we get over it.
Sometimes with your friends, like the company you keep
at times, you can tell who's here for a season
or who's here for a reason.
And I know y'all are experienced,
especially when it comes to your family, at times,
like they say, you can't do that to your family.
Sometimes you gotta at least swim with them alone.
Somebody who's only here for a season,
somebody who's home is here for a reason,
as well as some kin folks, shout out some kin folks,
because sometimes the kin folks is there for you
to your own blood, they say blood is thicker than water,
but sometimes that water, you need that water
to survive, baby.
So when it comes to the company you keep,
especially with your family,
please stay 10 toes down with them.
And I ain't very loud to you.
I had something that was that I would be afraid
to have around, take the time to talk,
you know, things like that.
And I have something that I just,
I feel like it wouldn't go good, but it's okay.
Cause you know how it is, and you know what you can handle,
what you cannot handle, especially when it comes
to the company that you keep around you.
So, with that being said, if you are dealing with things
that come from the company you keep,
I want you to like evaluate on everybody,
everything about it.
If you feel like you've been getting a vibe
from people that just not have been going good,
you feel like he or she being a slave,
or he or she not doing the things that you do,
like I mentioned a few episodes ago,
like when it comes to support that impacts us
of the company to come out to keep your friends,
the family, whoever you consider your own,
the A1, A1, sub-bitter ones,
that are torn the most flowers for you,
this as well as you do.
And if you notice, like you do the most
and you don't receive the most in return as a real flag,
and that's not somebody you will keep at your corner
because they're not respecting you the same way
you respect them, that's a done deal.
I'm sorry, people are like, that's not fair,
you can't do that with it, not like that,
it doesn't matter.
I feel like when it comes to a lot of things
that people accomplish in life and do in life,
it's the give them the same amount of energy flowers
in all that, the same way they give it back to you in return.
Because those are the people that you need to keep
in your company, those are the people
that you need to keep on your side,
those are the people that you need to ride or die for
because they're the ones that just, you know,
like I said, it's people that are really genuine
and it's some that's like in the middle like,
oh I'm genuine but then I'm really not,
and it's some that just don't care.
And you can tell, say something to the company,
you can tell who in your company is there for you
who's not, you can tell your company
who really supports you and who don't,
you can tell your company just to be there,
just to support the need to the family or the family
to say, oh, he or she, thank this, miss Spain
or miss Spain, miss something, you know how that goes.
Like, come on, especially in the black community,
y'all know how this goes, y'all know how this shit goes,
y'all know how word of mouth get around
and time and time again.
But this is what I need y'all to let this soak in,
I want y'all to leave this lingering in your mind.
The company that you keep can affect you in ways
that you wanted to go.
And sometimes I think like a person can't make you do stuff.
And I'm totally agree with that because how can a person
make you do something that you don't want to do?
You are in control of everything that you do.
You are in control of every single thing you do.
Keep that in mind, I'm gonna say it again.
You are in control of everything you do.
Every little thing from the decisions that you make,
from the people you allow in your life,
to the things you allow in your life.
So when it comes to that company,
when it comes to that company,
what do you think about it?
Especially when it comes to company to your house.
Yeah, that's another thing too, I'm gonna talk about.
When it comes to company,
it comes into your house.
I feel like a lot of people do not need to know
where you lay your head at.
A lot of people do not need to know your safe place at.
Cause a lot of people do not belong in your house
to be your company.
Like I said, there's something that really can't.
You have that company that's really all you're into.
You know your house is so amazing.
Then there's something that's like they're here
to get a tour and report to the family and friends
what's going on.
Then there's something that just wanna be playing nose
and you were trying to shit on you,
you were trying to really go toe to toe to protect you.
Like oh, how you do this?
I'm a post-abidemore post-abidemore,
the only one who had that.
Nah, we're not doing that.
So in 2024, I want you all to die from this.
The company that you keep, you are controlled.
You are in control of who you keep it up.
And why you cut some people off.
That's another thing I wanna talk about.
When it comes to company,
a lot of people be like why you do this,
why you do that?
Why you don't wanna deal with me?
Cause sometimes the things that you do,
I don't allow.
Sometimes your move, I don't like that.
And I know it's hard at times to accept
because it's like some of these people we grew up with,
some of these people we met,
you know like I don't wanna do this to you.
But at times you have to.
But like I said, when it comes to the company you keep,
you need to stay 10 toes down on it.
You need to feel respected.
You need to understand that you're important,
you are valuable.
You are the most important thing in the world.
You are everything, you're amazing.
You're one of a kind.
You are going to make an honest living.
You're gonna be somebody.
You are important.
You know, I'm not the type to talk down
on nothing or nobody.
I'm the type to manifest on a lot of things.
I don't like talking about negativity,
but sometimes it's like you gotta get it out.
Because like I said, I'm not gonna report
the world crap to y'all.
I'm gonna report everything that I can in a positive way.
And I'm gonna tell you the truth.
I've been in situations where the company
and I couldn't even keep no more
because of where the people move.
The company that I have now, I love them so hard.
It's nothing in this world I wouldn't do for them.
Certain stuff is a limit, you know?
Certain stuff, if it involves a lot,
yeah, you got me going.
Now I'm good.
But not on the real like,
I'm the type of friend that'll go all in.
Fairly remember, I'm gone in like my immediate family,
anything they do to put a biggest,
the littlest of caution, I don't give a damn what it is.
I'm the biggest goddamn chiller they got in that company.
Then there's the company, that's the company, that space.
When it comes to friends, when it comes to people
coming in your house, I'm still on that topic right now.
Let's jump back on that.
I'm real big on my safe place.
When it comes to the company that I bring in this house,
if you don't, you know how it is,
the first three links, I'm gonna treat you like a guest.
But after that third baby, you should know
what's going on now.
You should know what's going on,
you should know how to operate
and why you operate the way you do.
And I feel like we're coming to somebody else,
act like you know.
Act like you know, for instance,
when I come to, you know, when I tell you,
you know, you come over, you know.
In my mind, I'm like, we grown,
you should know what to do, what not to do.
So it kind of comes from the end of the part,
like, oh, you talk about companies, like businesses,
oh, we gonna get back on that too, y'all.
But then you talk about the company, you bring in your house.
That's another thing.
I do not play with it come to people that come to my house,
they got an ass-y-ass attitude.
My mama is so big or sage, so big or positive energy.
If you come in here with negative energy,
it'll like, you know, affect one of us,
oh, she's gonna sage this entire house.
My mother does not tolerate toxic energy.
Both my parents don't.
My mother's just really big on that sage.
And instead of proving like, I got into it,
like, if I feel like you come to my house
and your energy is off, oh, we not coming back, you're not.
Or if you come to my house, or like, if you stay in like,
if any of you know what they're coming over here,
it's no problem.
They don't want me to take it away.
They wanna get crazy.
Oh, baby, you getting,
once you leave, all the attitudes and moves that vibe in there,
they're gonna stay in here style.
Cause I feel like also too, when it comes to a company
that come in your house, baby,
you gotta really be tent toes on them.
You really gotta stay in here,
be the cute and really, really keep it out,
open up on them.
Because like I said, your house, your apartment,
wherever you consider your home is one
of the most safest places ever.
That's the place where you feel safe.
That's the place that you are able to say,
this is my house, this is my room, this is my safe place.
This is where I feel safe at.
Wherever you consider your safe things,
you really gotta be big.
Or who you allow in here?
I don't care.
I don't care how close y'all are.
I don't care how long you knew that person.
At times you really gotta be picky and choosy
on if you wanna have a person come in your house.
Like it took me a minute to have certain friends over.
It took me like, especially when it comes to dating,
when it comes to dating, I'm not letting just anybody
come back for a no.
If we cannot go good turns before you become my company,
we'll make sure that you go step foot on this threshold
of my house.
We'll make sure that you're gonna step on that bucket mat.
Let it think in, though, because I know we've been through this.
And like I said, as we enter 2024,
we gotta really think big.
And we really gotta think what we're gonna allow
and we're not gonna allow.
Cause the three things are we being selfish,
we popping out, we taking control of this year.
And when it comes to company, take control
of what you're gonna allow and what you're not gonna allow.
So one, when it comes to your house,
you, whatever you consider your safe space,
take control of that.
Don't let anybody or anything try to control
what you got going on.
Cause one, they don't pay your bills,
they don't put nothing in your house,
or they not even a roommate or whatever y'all consider.
You're a guest, act like you know.
All right?
All right.
So let's jump back into the business
when it comes to company.
When it comes to a company, I always consider like,
when it's first thing comes to a million dollar con,
that million dollar company,
that's finally in dealing with million dollar contract,
you don't want that shit fucked up.
Baby, I work for a company for a good year and a half.
And I'm gonna say like the first two, three months
when I was working for like, working with this company
and learning all the ins and outs of it.
When you dealing with a company and dealing with people,
shit's not easy.
It's actually when you deal with a company that's so big,
when you're working for a company that's big
within the retail world and things like that,
or like business, world finance, whatever it is,
y'all really gotta learn the ins and outs
from the people that work inside of your company,
such as like, you know, that store or whatever,
versus the people that's higher up,
versus the people that's watching you.
I learned a lot when it comes to this company business.
Bobby just working for this one particular company.
Another company I work for, but then like the health field,
I love it.
I love the health field company because the way they operate
with their staff, the way the benefits and everything,
and not even just that, but the way they carry themselves
and the way they don't allow certain stuff
to be going on in their business.
First is when the retailer, at times you have
those certain retail stores that they are with the shit.
Some is like, I'm with it, then I'm not.
And some is like, I don't even care.
I seen it firsthand, doubt with it, and I tell myself
that I just like, I'm not gonna say if I ever,
because I am gonna have me accompany,
and I'm gonna be a bar CEO.
I consider myself a CEO because of my parkings,
and I'm manifesting that this park is going below the fuck up.
For the point where, you know, it helps me out
in the long run, but like I say all the time,
if my parkings don't help a lot of people,
long as it helps someone, because that's the whole motive.
When it comes to a company too, you wanna also be able
to advertise the right stuff.
You don't wanna ever advertise BS.
Because when it comes to a company,
people are looking at you on a higher pedestal.
They're looking at you differently.
They're looking at you like, oh, she, oh, he,
you know what you talking about.
They know what they're doing.
They know how to run a business.
They know what's good.
They know the ins and outs, the whoops, the whoops,
the corners, all that.
You know, so when it comes to a company, y'all,
that's another thing too.
When it comes to the company on a business side of things,
you really gotta build your piece of Q.
You really gotta also have that mentality as well.
It's that attitude, that vibe that you really want
to mean it.
Cause like I said, I work for a company for a year
and a half now, dealing with their retail.
Baby, it's like the ins and outs.
It's like sometimes you wanna be like,
dang, I wanna sit with the CEO of this company
and be like, woo, I wanna just have a talk with it.
Sometimes I'm like, nah, I think I'm gonna leave that alone.
But yeah, y'all, when it comes to a company,
I work for three firms, a company that I talked about
the day, such as the company that you work for,
the company that you keep, and the company that you consider,
you know, around you.
Like I said, basically, in the times,
I like the company you keep with them.
So basically the two, like, company you keep,
but when you're family or friends,
and the companies that you work for
or wanna work for or wanna have.
So you're different from those two.
When it comes to those two,
I hope you guys learned something from it
because it's very important, especially, like I said,
with a new year, new shit going on.
If you are building an empire company, congratulations to y'all.
Shout out to y'all, cause that's a lot.
It's a lot to run a company.
And I pray, and I hope that y'all have a million dollar
company, cause it's like I said,
when you build stuff from the ground up
with one of the beautiful things.
When you have that blueprint out, baby,
that's one of the most amazing things.
I was like, have you ever been here, baby?
I'm gonna talk about a blueprint.
I'm big on a blueprint, cause whenever I got on a blueprint,
I wanna see it come to reality.
I want that dream to come to reality.
I wanna see it.
Whatever I manifest, will I pray for?
I wanna see it come to reality.
And if you by dealing with the company that you keep in,
baby, I'm gonna tell you this right now,
have that miracle conversation by our 10, 15, 20,
20, 25, 30, I don't care.
If you need to talk to yourself or talk to somebody,
you wanna talk to the person you believe in,
Jesus Christ or whoever, have that conversation
to see who's here for a season and who's here for a reason.
Cause at times, like I said, we ignore the signs.
I've been there down there, y'all.
Please don't get in my butt.
I'm telling y'all, I'm telling y'all nothing but the truth.
I'm not gonna show you cold nothing.
Not doing that.
We're human.
We're real.
Like my podcast is based on self empowerment
and self improvement.
We're gonna improve in any and everything
that we do over here, okay?
Cause I'm improving elevating just like y'all are every day.
So when it comes to the companies that you,
the company that you keep,
if you feel like something ain't right,
take time, you know, sit back and observe, observe, observe.
And I'm gonna tell y'all,
I think I learned my good observer skills from my father.
He loved wearing glasses.
And I think that's why like when it comes to shades,
when I'm out, I think I'm big on that too now because
my face expressions be bad.
I'm not like, I feel like something's not right.
My face, my mug gonna break down like, what?
Nah, mm-mm, so yeah.
Take your time.
If you need to read that personally, well,
if you need to pull that person up,
we're like, hey, let's have a chit chat, you know?
Can we talk for a bit or whatever?
See it.
If they're giving off signs
that they only here for a season, it's okay.
You know, tell them the respectful way,
dog, you know, the dog way, be the bigger person, you know?
It's not the wrong way having to sit down with a person
and seeing what's going on with a hand.
If you feel this dog that they're having a moment
or something that you could get through, you know?
If you can understand that person, good.
But if you feel like it's just a bull, bull,
ain't like they only here for a season, you know, just,
rub your hands, you know, slap that on the wrist, whatever.
Just end it in the respectful way
so it won't be a way, you know,
certain people have animosity and be like,
it's a secret beef, but it's not.
Because like I said, this is all about being selfish,
all about taking control, all about popping out.
And we not popping out with no bull crap.
And we're not gonna take control.
We're not gonna let our actions take control of bull crap.
And we're not gonna show people the negative side
because another day this year is all about positivity
and we wanna show nothing but the good side of things.
So with that being said, if you're trying to build a company,
Kudo, see you baby, you got this,
million dollar contract, some million dollar platform,
million dollar company, it's all a go favor.
And to those other side of you building a company
that you feel is better, rock with you to the world's top
or they're here for a reason, big shout out to y'all.
And if y'all have mixed feelings about the ones that are here,
put your flag is here for a season,
pull them up and you know, do what you gotta do.
If it gets ugly, then you know what's going,
you know what type of company they are
and you just court them in the act.
So with that being said, I think y'all so very much
for taking your time out of your busy, busy ass days.
So it's fitting time to be because,
listen to me because this is a long one.
And I feel like this had to be said
because I felt in my heart and in my spirit
that I needed to say this because we go through it.
We go through things.
And sometimes the company that we keep
is good for us and it's good for us.
And sometimes the companies that we work for
or we run in is good or bad for us as well.
So on that note, I wish you guys
whether we're peace and blessings,
please be safe out here and please be safe out here.
And please stay bundled up
and please stay on your peace and queues.
And with that being said,
you guys will hear from me next Wednesday.
Bye.