Hey y'all, whether it's morning evening or afternoon, I'm just glad that you guys had decided to
vibe with me, the one and only E. I am thrilled to welcome you guys into 2024, the first Wednesday
ever. So why not rock out with a bang to open the new year? Because this year, the theme is selfish.
And with that being said, we are taking control of everything in our lives when it comes to the mental,
physical, social aspects of ourselves. Okay, so happy New Year's, happy Kwanzaa, Merry Christmas,
Hanukkah and all those good things as well. If I forgot to say it, you know, because 2023 been a
year and if you haven't got a chance to listen to the recap 2023, I advise y'all to go check that out.
So with that being said, I want you all to sit back, relax and enjoy here my voice,
whether you want to go or at home, get real comfortable to enjoy hearing me. And for the
ones that are new, hey, what's up with popping? Welcome, welcome, welcome. If for the ones that
are not new to this, but true to this, hey, y'all, what's up? And I hope all is well with everyone.
So without further ado, let's introduce today's vibe of the day. So to open up 2024, the first
Wednesday of the year. Today's vibe is New Year, New Year. Yeah, yeah, New Year, New Year. That's
getting syllable. So the reason why I did New Year, New Year's because every year, we tell ourselves
that things are going to be different and we're taking control on things and we're doing things
differently, such as within our mindset, when it comes to businesses and whatever we got going on
in life, we're taking control of it. We're getting it back and we're getting it out the mug or doing
whatever like everything is going to change. Like we say is a new year, new you or is a new year
and things are going to change. And I always say that people be like, oh, y'all say this bullshit
every year, these new resolutions like, oh, this year, I'm gonna do this, I'm gonna do that, I'm
gonna do that. And I'm a firm believer of vision boards. Vision boards also help within the new
year and also helping within you because those those those dreams that you're manifesting will
most definitely come to reality because I will never forget the first time I ever made a vision
board in so many years with one of my friends. I checked off most of the stuff off my vision board
and then she added the same thing. And I'll just tell everybody like just write down,
even if you got to do pictures, do what you have to do to make sure that whatever you want to do
within the new year, no matter how long it is, just write it out or cut pictures of it or whatever.
And it tells a story either way, go like pictures, tell a story, words, whatever, whatever way is
best for you to explain how you want things to go for you in the new year that impacts with the new
you do it baby because that's for you and for you only. Okay, so let's get into it. New year, new you.
New year, that means taking action and doing something that will lead you to desire outcomes
with desire outcome. Break down your goals into management pieces and start taking them one step
at a time with that being said, like I said, within the vision boards or the goals you right now,
however you do and make a list or whatever, take it one step at a time, do one thing at a time,
don't try to do everything at once because it's going to be very discombobulated and it's going
to give you a headache. Like you cannot do but so much at one time. If that makes sense, you know,
like for me, my goal is one of my goals is to travel more. So in order for me to travel more,
I got to get a passport. So I've been like saving money on the side to like be prepared for when
it's time for me to, you know, make the payment to be my passport. I'm gonna make it because baby,
once the semester is over, I'm going somewhere, even if it's not out of the country right away.
I'm going to be traveling more because I deserve it and you only have one life. So living to the
fullest, even though in life we go through a lot of obstacles, if in the good and the bad,
them bad times don't last forever. So without being instead, take that risk on doing those things
that you want to do and that's what I want to do. Take that risk on traveling. I'm gonna take that
risk on updating my closet. And the reason why I said update my closet because the appearance,
like I'm a social work major, soon I will be in my internship where I am in an internship,
you know, getting the feel of how it is when you officially had your license, your degree,
and be able to do what you want to do. And then when you're working in those type of settings,
you have to pee on your P's and Q's and you have to look professional from head to toe.
And I love the professional look. So each day, every day I'm on country's looking at professional
looks on the head to toe. Like, guys, I'm so big on sneakers. It's gonna be so hard to try to wear
flats. I'm gonna wear flats. I'm not real big on heels. Like, I'll wear it here and there, but
I'm a sneaker girl. I'm a sneaker. I gotta take my time. So yes, y'all, when it comes to anything
that you have written down or your vision board or however you break down what you want to do for
your dish new year, take it one step at a time. Take it one step at a time. Like, it's just like,
it's not gonna, I'm gonna say this, don't rush it. One thing you don't want to do is don't rush
anything. Because once you rush it, it's like, you think you look back and it's like, whoa,
I rushed it and I don't feel like I did enough or I feel like it went by too quick. Well, I just
did it just to get it over with. No, because within everything that you do is a lesson learned,
even if it didn't even even if you thought that it would be bigger than what it is. And sometimes
it's nice. Okay, long as you took that risk and did it, you know, long as you did that for you.
And another thing that I want to tell y'all to when it comes to breaking down your goals
and to the pieces and taking, you know, taking them one step at a time, you don't need to announce
it to everybody. I'm real big on leaving a mystery within everything I do because a lot of people
will either let's break it down like this. It's some people that are really genuine,
like, you know, the people your day one, they genuine. And then there's people that are just
there to be nosy. They're there just to get the scoop on what's going on. They're not there to
support you. They're just there just to see what's going on. And then when you do tell them your
game plans, those are the same ones that are taking everything that you're doing. And they're
trying to do it the same way. Like it's ridiculous. But this is the world we live in. You know,
like if you just say this is the evil world we live in, and every time I see that video,
it makes me cringe, y'all. But it's like, it's true. This is the world we live in. Like,
sometimes people don't want to see you happy. Most of the time people want to see you fall.
And that's another thing when it packs in new year, new you, I want to let y'all know this.
Don't ever let nobody shun you. Don't let nobody little boy, little girl you. It's in times where
I had to like shun myself and be quiet because I couldn't. I felt like it wasn't my place to speak.
No, we're not doing that. This year we're putting our foot down. If something or someone is trying
to test you or do something to you that you're not feeling, let it be known. Because like I said,
you are human and you have feelings too. And most of the time when people are doing the things
they're doing is to get under your skin and because they're jealous of you. So when it comes to the
new year, new you, we're not going to match energy. If we feel threatened or something, we're going
to say it in the most respectful way ever. And it's only, and we only, oh, excuse me, we're only
going to say it once. Like it's only going to be one time that I'm going to tell you. Because after
that I'm going to keep on showing you and I'm not going to tell you no more. You know, like new year,
new year for me before I get deeper into it with y'all. Y'all know I got to take my, you know,
I got to take my time and tell y'all for me. I told myself it was a new year, new me. I'm not letting
anyone or anything get under my skin no more. I'm being able to say what I have to say, no matter
how big or small it is. If it's brought into me face to face and I don't like it, I'm going to let
it be known. Because like I said, you're human. I'm human. I have feelings too. And my feelings matter
just as well as anybody else's. Let alone, I'm big on respect. Especially if you respect them,
they need to respect you. You know, at times we'd be like, you don't want to get nasty. Like I had
the whole, we had the whole conversation on respect. We big on respect. Because of family members,
friends, co-workers, lovers, whatever. We're not letting no one slide no more. When people try to
throw jabs and stuff at us, we're going to address them. Because me, people would throw jabs and I'd
be like, okay, no, I'm not doing that no more. Because once they throw a jab, they're going to keep on,
keep on, keep on, keep on, keep on, keep on. Because like, oh yeah, I got you now. No. So with that being
said for me, when it comes to feelings this year, my God is really, really bad when it comes to my
feelings. No matter who you are to me, family, friends, lover, I don't care. Because this year,
it's about chill. Like I said, the theme for me is being selfish. You taking control of things that
you didn't really have a lot of control of. Like you had 50, 50%, but now it's like, you need that
100% of taking real control on who you are and what you are, especially when it comes to that
mental. Y'all know I'm big on that mental. And if you're new here, I am so big on the mental because
the brain is always racing. Your brain is always racing, even when you think it's not it is.
So with that being said, I'm not letting anything or anyone get into my head. Because they're
jealous or they just want to be mean or whatever the case may be. No. Then in the day, I'm living
for me. Every day, I'm going to make it worth the while. Even if I have a moment where things don't
go right. I'm gonna bounce back because always another day is going to be a brighter day tomorrow.
You know, and that's another thing too. You don't want to live in that space where you feel like
you got to fight all the time. Like sometimes you get tired of it. You get tired of having to
tell this one this, tell that no, not doing that no more. It should only take one time and one time
only for you to let something or someone know what's going on. And another thing, once you say
it, that's it. Action is going to speak a lot of them words. And if they don't respect that,
chuck them deuces up and do what you got to do. Because at the end of the day, you have one life,
live it to the fullest and take control of your life. Even if things right now in your life is
not going so good, take that control. Take that five, 10, 15, 20 minutes in the mirror in your car.
I don't care where you're at. To have that conversation with yourself or with whoever
you believe in, have that conversation. So you feel comfortable with thing yourself.
You know, like, it just, it has me like, whoo, it got me shaking. It got me like, it got me excited
because this is how I feel that feeling of literally being able to stand up for yourself,
being able to just take that risk going, taking control of everything that people doubted you on
is one of the best things ever. This year, I said is selfish. It's selfish here because
you did a lot for others. Now it's time to take control for you. Now it's time for you to get
back into that place where you had everything in order. Well, is you getting yourself back in
order? You're doing for you. Yes, you're still going to be there for the ones you were there for,
but you need to take that time for you. You need to do for you, baby. Like for me, I told myself,
I'm not going to let anyone or anything have me in an uproar. I'm not. You have one life
and make it count because tomorrow is not promised sometimes. It's not promised.
It's not promised. So live every day to the fullest, even when it's hard times, like even if you work
a job and the people there just get on your nerves. It's always a light at the tunnel and you're almost
there because some bad times don't last forever. And whoever you believe in has that blueprint,
that master plan for you. They're not ready. It's just when they feel as though you're ready,
they're going to throw it out there. So for me, like strong believer of Jesus Christ,
that's my savior. It's been times where I feel like I've been tested. I feel like some things were
not for me and my gut feeling and then the man of above always got my back because, baby,
I'm one of God's favorites. Okay. Hey, y'all are too. Whoever you believe in as well, you're their
favorite because they're not going to let nothing or anyone play with you because they know what you
can handle. Okay. Because I always say this too, God is not going to put you in a predicament
where you can't handle it. Yeah, in your mind, you like you can't do this, you can't do this,
but I guarantee you you'll be able to do it. And that's why I say for this year, this new year,
new me, I'm coming for everything that's mine. Everything, even if I have to go through so
many obstacles to get to the shit, I'm going to do it because I deserve it. And that's something
that I've been praying and manifesting for. And I pray and manifest that you guys get the same thing.
The theme for this year also is to take control. And with that being said, taking control is
taking the lead on things that you usually don't take the lead on. You know, at times you don't
want to take the lead on things because you know it's not for you. But you never know what the
outcome can be when you take the lead on things. Take a leap on faith. Take a leap on that bridge.
Just take the leap on anything that you feel as though you didn't believe in it at first.
Take it, do it. You never know where it can take you. Just do it. Like, Nagi baby, just do it.
Like, you what's the worst that can happen at times? You know, just do it. You never know.
Like, it could really put a major impact on to your life. And that's another thing to
when I say be selfish and leave a mystery, whatever you got going on in your life,
you know who to tell and you know who not to tell. And I feel as though also,
when it comes to social media, don't let social media know. Let them know until after you finish.
Pop out. That's another thing to do. So the theme is selfish, taking control and pop out.
Pop out. Yeah, you're gonna pop out when you want to hear in there. I told myself, you know,
I'm not big on social media like that anyway. And if I do, it's for the podcast, post a video or two
of me here and there and a quote, and whatever going on today, like if it's a countdown or event,
that's the only time you'll see me. You're not gonna see me on there every day, posing all these
quotes and you know, I'm not doing that because that takes up most of your time. I'm not realizing
social media can take up a time like that and you can miss out on a lot, you know. So when I say
pop out, pop out when you know you damn right now when it's time for you to buy about like,
like we pop up at your party type shit. You don't even have to pop up with the gang or not
because most of the time, baby, this year, I guarantee you will be popping out by yourself
with a lot of achievements, accomplishments and things that you have been manifesting and praying
for it. Because that's how I'm like I said, it's people that are there in your corner that support
you and is your cheerleader and it's people that's on the sidelines that is watching you because
they're observing everything they want to do everything that you're doing and they want to
take every little thing that you're doing and do it because some people don't have their own identity.
And it's just like when you're a trendsetter at times, it's like, wow, why is people doing what
times people try to do what I do? And it's right there. You're a trendsetter. You're doing something
that you're doing something that you think is just just because for the somebody is like, they want
to do it. I'm gonna do it. And in their mind, they're gonna do it 10 times better. But sometimes
nobody can be better than the original. Let's sink on that. Let's sink
then a little bit like nobody is better than the original word adjustment. And like, I believe
that I believe that because nobody cannot be better than the original, like the original product.
Yeah, you could bootleg it. But that's the thing bootleg like bootleg DVDs is all muffled and stuff
like that versus the original is clear high death in your face. Boom. Like, what?
So yeah, like New Year, New You, Baby, take this time to set a goal and make a plan to achieve it.
Start by taking small steps back and break your goals into smaller pieces, more manageable tasks,
and give yourself credit for each accomplishment. And you will be well on your way to achieving
your goals. With that being said, take credit for everything that you're doing. Take the time to
appreciate yourself. Give yourself the glory to praise and everything. Be your biggest cheerleader
because at the end of the day, no matter how big or small your accomplishment is, it's people out
there that don't give two fucks about you. But you got to remember, you got to stay solid
and stay stagnant within yourself because at the end of the day, you know how this
obstacle was. You knew how this journey was because a lot of people will be like, oh,
congratulations. And you could tell the fake from the phony, you know, sometimes your own blood won't
support you. A stranger will go out they way before and times your own blood will. And I'm just
speaking facts because when it comes to things, when it comes to goals, turning dreams to reality,
baby, it's not easy. This shit ain't easy. And I tell people all the time, take it one step at a time.
Don't rush it because when you rush, it's not going to be the way you imagine it to be. It's not going
to be the way how you had it on that blueprint. Another thing, y'all know I'm big on that blueprint.
If you're here and if you're new here, baby, I'm big on a blueprint. And with a blueprint, you have it
out, you lay out how you want something to go like a building. They have a sketch on the blueprint,
how it's going to come. So whatever's on that paper is supposed to come to reality.
So with that being said, I don't care. Like I said, how big or small it is. Take some steps back
if you have to to break your goals down into the smallest pieces before you jump into them big
pieces because it has to take time for you to see these dreams come to reality. It's not going to
happen overnight. And once you put a lot of umph in it, a lot of time, long hours, whatever it is,
into whatever you got to do, that shows how dedicated and hard you are. And that's the thing too,
like I said, when it comes to pop out, you ain't got to let everybody know what the fuck going on.
That's another thing. Once you let them know a snippet, they're like, oh, I'm on your ass now.
I know what you're doing. So this year, like I said, the theme is selfish, taking control and
pop out because it is important to stay positive and focus on your goals as this will help to keep
you motivated in on track. Because like I said, like I tell y'all, you have to be
your biggest goddamn cheerleader because if nobody is, long as you know you are, and the person you
believe in the end, whoever you believe in, for me is my immediate family, my immediate household,
and my closest friends, anybody other than that, I don't know what to tell you. I don't know what to
tell you because when it comes to this new you, this new year, new you, it's not easy.
It's not easy. It's like when it comes to the new year, new you, it's a lot. It's a lot because you
can't change overnight. You can't. And some things that you have to weigh out the pros and cons about
yourself such as like, what I got to do better, why I need to take away, what I got to stop doing,
you know, and that's where constructive criticism comes in also. And sometimes we hate it, but it's
like it's the truth. And then you can see who can take it and who can dish it, you know. So,
like it's important to stay positive and focus on your goals as this will help to keep you motivated
and on track. It also helps to break down your goals into small tasks that are easier to achieve
such as like if you're trying to lose, like trying to lose weight and your goal is to lose such as
five pounds a month, you know, you're going to do everything in your power to lose them pounds.
If you have to double the scale every other week, two times a week or whatever to see how it is,
do it. And if you get to that level every month, reward yourself, baby. Like reward yourself with
something small like a new pair of sneakers. See, that's something I would do. That's something I
would do. I would reward myself with a pair of sneakers, okay, or a nice little jacket. Okay. Or
like just take the day off or like have a cheat day, you know what I'm saying? Because speaking about
like taking risk and doing things really small, every 15th of the month, that's when I spoil myself
because my birthday is July 15. So like before my birthday, like starting like January 15th,
or baby, I might be getting me a little something. It don't have to be big. It's only something little
like if I'm like, let's say January 15th, I might buy me a cheesecake, cheese or a cheesecake
factor. That's like $10.60. That's plus tax, everything. You know, a little cheesecake or
probably a little dinner, probably some headbands of beanie. Like, you know, just something to show
my appreciation for myself. You don't, you know, like you have to appreciate yourself. Like we have
to give ourselves flowers too. I thought about that too. I thought about giving myself flowers
because I'm not big on them. Like I see them all the time on social media. My friends be like,
Oh my God, he bought me flowers. You know, and I just be so in awe when they tell me that or when
I see other people like, Oh, that's so sweet. And I'd be like, I want somebody to give me some flowers.
But I'd be like, Hmm, even you're gonna give yourself some flowers. When are you going to give
yourself some flowers? When are you going to applaud yourself? That's another thing too. Like I said,
y'all, with them three themes being selfish, taking control and popping out, you also have to think
about you. You have to give yourself some credit, not credit, you need to give yourself credit
period. And I haven't really gave myself a lot of credit. I haven't. And I just thought about like,
I literally just thought about that when I said, when are you going to appreciate yourself? When
you're going to applaud yourself? We're going to appreciate yourself by like flowers here and there.
That might be one thing I got to start now. Y'all. So I hope y'all are like really, really,
I hope this episode is really, really, really, really digging into y'all. Because like it really
is digging into me. Like it has my mind like, phew, like I'm just so, so big on my people. Like
shout out to my black community, Kings and Queens, because I see y'all. If nobody gonna see y'all,
I'm most definitely gonna see y'all. If nobody gonna give you your flowers, I am. Because I'm the type
of person I am. I'm not the type to not give another person the other their flowers, the
parades, the confetti and all that. I'm the type to give it to you. Because I know how it feels to
not get anything at times from people that you think are there for you. But you never know how
that would make a person feel just a little compliment, no matter how big or small it is.
No matter how big it is, big or small it is, give somebody some credit. Give them that type of
feeling that they feel appreciated. Even if you don't even know them, even if they're strange or
not, like even if it's a small compliment, like I like your hair, you look so pretty, you smell
good, something like that. Like this year, like I feel like that's the one thing that we need to
work on. That we just need to appreciate ourselves and others. Because this world, like I said,
we're at the future, this evil world we live in, like it's just crazy. Like we just entered the new
year and violence is already happening more within our black community. Like it's just crazy. And if
you guys don't know, I'm from Baltimore City. Like it's just crazy. Like, I would think you were
coming to the new year and violence would just like simmer down below. Because in order for it
to simmer down, we have to think of ways to control ourselves. And I feel as though, like I said
last year, counseling therapy, go, go do it. Go get it. Don't be as shiny like me. Like
when I took, when I had my first session in October, I felt amazing. And I'm not ready
like y'all. Y'all know I don't lie to y'all about stuff. When I had my first session, I busped down
in tears because I was able to express myself to someone that don't know me from a can of paint
and is, you know, went to school for this profession. And like they are willing to help me.
And I went to school to be a counselor. And it's also helping me too for when I speak social
worker, just sitting down talking to someone that don't know you. I feel as though we'll help you
in the long run, because they're not going to judge you. And that's the first thing you have to do
first thing you have in a session. They say who they are. And they say from the jump,
this is your safe place. Wherever you are not discussed is confidential and it stays between
us. But if it's harmful, yes, has reported to the police, ASAP. You know, even if it's about
self harm, stuff like that, it has to be reported. But nevertheless, just being able to sit with
someone that is in that profession, that had went to school and did all the hours and things like
that to be in that profession to help people and their people at that. That's a big, big,
big thing to me. Because when it comes to us, black people, we all know the sand grown up.
Black people don't even know therapy. Shit. Hold on. I think we all do. And I think that'll be one
of the things to help us even more. To close some some chapters in our lives to get some skeletons
out the closet, because in order for you to feel and to get to a place to get a fresh start, you
need to let everything that has been hurting you or haunting you or anything in your life,
let it flow, let it go and let it flow. Word to Tony Braxford. Okay. No matter how big or small
it is, even if it's what a friendship's family members, immediate family members, ex lovers,
coworkers, whatever it is, if it has put a burden on you to the point where at times, like you just
at times you just feel a certain type of way and is affecting you as a person on how you control
and handle things, baby, go see somebody. Don't be ashamed. And at times you don't have to tell
people, but I tell people because, like I say, I'll be working in a profession with people that
has probably gone through twice as biggest things that I've never gone through. And it's my job.
It'd be my job, my duty to help them, to help them the best way I know how to
so they can live a new normal life. I was like, I mentioned last year, there's no such thing as
going back to normal. When you're dealing through things, you have to adapt to a new normal.
So regardless of if you felt so happy inside, sometimes your new normal be extra happy,
stress free, you know, so don't be afraid to go see somebody. It's not going to make you less of a
person. It's just going to, it's going to help you better because when you're talking to someone,
like I said, that's specialized within this field. It's going to help you 10 times better because
I'm telling y'all since October 2023 and going to counseling, it has helped me. Like I see
what can I take, what I can't take no more. I'm learning myself each and every day. And that's
why when I'm on my platform with you guys and just talking to you guys, it makes me feel so amazing.
And I'm so full of joy. And I'm so uplifted because like I said, if my podcast don't help a lot of
people, long as it helps somebody because you never know what somebody is going through, especially
within this journey of the new year, new new, it's not easy. It's not easy to start over.
Sometimes you have to, you know, you got to take steps back. You got to create steps. You
got to write it down, have pictures or whatever, like vision boards or bullet points or whatever,
take notes on what you want to do. So with that being said, even if it's like, I'm a stranger
to mostly y'all and some of y'all I'm not and I'm already lots of y'all my doctor.
I didn't know her from a can of pain. She didn't know me until a few sessions we had up until
December. She has made my life so amazing and she don't even know. And she doesn't even know.
And I tell her every day I thank you so much when she don't know how much she changed it.
Like she just changes so much. And it helped me to be able to navigate on this new year, new
meet. That's why I said the theme is selfish, taking control and pop out. Because at times, you have
to be your biggest cheerleader within everything. And when it comes to taking control, you have to
take control of what is yours, what belongs to you, especially when it comes to your mental
identity, your respect. Take control of that. Because within this new year, this new you,
you got to embrace the change and strive to be the best, the best you that you can be.
You have to strive to be the best version of yourself. Consistency is key when making a
lifestyle change. Celebrate your success and stay motivated. Even when things get tough,
believe in yourself and you can achieve anything. Like it was so crazy when New Year's hits,
January 1st, 2024. I have a mirror. You know the Dollar Tree mirrors you have. Like we go to the
beauty salon or like when you go to the barbershop or whatever and they have them little, the handheld
mirrors. My handle broke off. So I would put it on my dresser on top of my bin that has like my
feminine products in there. And I would use it when I fix my hair. And I did have words on there,
but it faded away. So then I was like, hold up. I look at this mirror every day. And you know,
if you've ever seen the commercials where the little boy was like, and his father was telling him,
you're going to do great things today. And if you've ever watched the help, you know, you was kind,
you was smart, you was important. I thought of those two and I was like, you know what,
if you start off every day by saying something positive about yourself, that'll help you boost
your day as well. And like I said, consistency is key in being consistent with it as well.
So to make a little story short, I got my marker and I started hashtagging things on my mirror.
I was like, hashtag, you're amazing. Hashtag, you're beautiful. Hashtag, you're smart. Hashtag,
you're the one hashtag today is going to be a great day. Hashtag, you're going to take control
of things like I was just writing things like that words of encouragement, because that's another
thing too. When it comes to the new year, new you, you have to encourage yourself. You have to put
yourself in a mindset where so you are able to feel powerful. You're able to say nice things
about yourself. If no one else is going to tell you what that means. Like celebrate you no matter
how big or small the accomplishment is. I don't care if you just got an A on the paper. If you
just lost five pounds, celebrate you because you did it. Even if nobody knows about it, still
celebrate it. Because like I said, you never know. And tomorrow is not promised. So you got to take
the leap, my faith. You got to do things that you never thought you could do it. Now you're
going to do it. You got to do things that is worth living for for you. Take that risk and do for you.
Do what you got to do. And I want to leave y'all with this. 2024 is your season when it comes to
better life, inner peace, financial freedom, and you will prosper as well as the big plan.
You're stepping into a new season of your life. You're worthy. You can do anything
that you want. Because you got this. And my favorite quote, a little long favorite song
from the person in the fraud. And I'm almost there. And I'm almost there. And another quote I love
from a song, my favorite artist, Wale, he says, that's my theme song for this year.
Ambitious girl, your drive drives me crazy. Everything you do within the hustler in the
business, how to lose ambition. If you don't know, y'all need to play it. Y'all need to get into it.
Just songs that will help you motivate you as well. To help you to the new year, new you.
Just find things that are going to help you to open your mindset. Make you feel
important, but also help you physically and mentally. Like if you got to change your role,
if you want to change up your wardrobe, do it. You want to change your head, do it. Baby, I did it.
I'm born with a little bit of brown. Y'all got so many cuffs in here. I don't even know. But if you
want a new look, do it. Whatever you want to do, do it. The new, this is a new year, new you.
Do for you. Find your new norm. Because there's nobody wants I amma tell you. Tomorrow's not promise.
Live for you. Be your biggest goddamn cheerleader. And always remember, whoever you believe in,
it's not going to put anything in your life that they know you cannot handle. Yeah, you may think
you can't handle that storm. But baby, after that storm, it's always a beautiful rainbow at the end.
And especially when it comes to that tunnel is always a light at the end.
And I'm going to leave you off with this one. No matter how small the change are,
stay consistent and focus on your goals. Believe in yourself and stay consistent.
Anything is possible. Take it into your hands. And with that being said, I wish you guys nothing
but peace and blessings. I hope this year brings you nothing but amazing things in life.
And if like I said, if I don't help a group of y'all, long as I help somebody. And as always,
please stay safe out here. It's a new year. It's still cold outside, so please bundle up.
Also, please, please, please pay attention to your surroundings. Even though the new year just
kicked in and people, you know, still a little crazy, still a little holiday time, people still
getting sales and X, Y and Z. As always, you guys will hear from me next Wednesday. I love you all
so very much. And if you want to get in touch with me through my Instagram is vibing with that.
E. Until next week y'all. Bye.