Hey y'all whether it's morning evening or afternoon I'm just glad that you guys had decided to vibe
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those of you who are new welcome welcome welcome welcome and for those who are not new to this
but you're new to this. Hey y'all what's up what's up and what's good and as always what if you're
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I'm just glad that you guys had decided to rock out with me because every vibe of the day is
something special. So let's get into it. Today's vibe of the day is starting. Yes today's vibe of
the day is starting and the reason why I chose this vibe of the day is because when it comes to
starting any and everything it impacts with pros and cons but I always try to think of starting
as a good impact for someone especially for me because in order for you to get into something
you have to be prepared to start it that alone time is a terrible thing to waste and tomorrow's
not promised. So whatever you've been dreaming of manifesting x y and z start that thing now
start it now don't wait until it's too late because like I said time is a terrible thing to waste
and tomorrow is not promised so if you feel the need to start on something do it now okay because
what's the worst that can happen you know you don't know until you start so let's get into it.
So what is starting? Starting referring to the beginning of something new such as a project
such as a new project job or chapter in your life it can be both exciting and devoting at the same
time as it involves oftentimes it involves things such as like being able to step out of your comfort
zone and taking a leap on faith like I mentioned earlier. However starting is on an essential
part of growth and that development it is important to embrace new beginnings and the opportunity that
comes your way. So with that being said whatever like I mentioned whatever you guys are manifesting or
what's that word what's that word
we do it all the time I just can't get it out of my the tip of my tongue it is so that is so hurtful
I don't want to say backpedaling last minute let's just say last minute anymore I think we need to
we need to change that we need to stop we need to stop letting things slide on a back burner we need
to stop waiting till the last minute to get things done we need to be able to if we say we're gonna
do it do it now don't wait because you know sometimes I say it's better late than ever I agree on that
too but at times you don't want to be so late to the point where it's like you don't have the energy
to start something if that makes sense you know like at times within any and everything that we do
in our life we always say I'm gonna start on this I'm gonna start on that but at times it's just like
we don't give ourselves that push that drive that motivation to be able to start doing whatever we
want to do because like I mentioned when it comes to starting any and everything in your life I always
think of the positive side of it because you got to think positive you want to think positive
thoughts and you want to say positive things because you don't want to say something bad and it comes
to life because I always believe in the term the tongue is a powerful thing and whatever you say
it could stay it could even stand you for life or probably haunt you for life so I always
manifest saying good things manifest within being in good situations and things like that because
I don't want to be having that mind where it's though I don't have a growth mindset when I do
you know so when we want to start on things guys start on it now don't procrastinate there's a word
y'all don't procrastinate on because you never know when you start something it's the best feeling
ever just to get your feet in the door you know get your feet wet and everything like that once you
are able to get a feel of it and start that blueprint out y'all know I love that blueprint and if
you're new here I love a blueprint a blueprint is one of the many things that helped you get all your
visions onto a piece of paper and then see it comes to light you want to make sure everything on that
blueprint that you started will be able to start it coming to reality so with that being said starting
is important it's like it's important life it's important in our life because it allows us to
grow learn and evolve as individuals it presents us with a new challenge and opportunities that
help us develop new skills to broaden our horizons and to discover our true potentials
whether it's starting a new project job or chapter in your life each new beginning brings within
possibility of personality and professional growth so starting can help us overcome our fears and
build our confidence as well as to navigate new situations and take a risk so basically y'all
what I'm saying like starting is one of the very most important things in our life so don't be afraid
to start I'm not gonna lie y'all as a person like me it took me a while to start doing what I want to
do because I was always like oh if I start now what if I don't have time and the thing that people
fail to realize is you you're gonna make time for something that you really really love and you're
gonna make time for people that you really really care about like I said time is precious and time
is a terrible thing to waste and a person when it comes to starting something you have to make sure
your starting this at this time and you're willing to put in all the time that's needed to start
especially when it comes to a new chapter in your life starting over you know starting over
such as with the your wardrobe career goals living arrangements x y z whatever it is anything
impacting with start starting start or starting in that sentence I want you to know this now don't
be afraid to just do it like Nike just do it because you never know how good of a feeling
just for you to step into that new threshold in your life because I feel as though it's nothing
wrong with fresh start it's nothing wrong with starting and especially if it's starting over
we all have the moments in our life where we just be like I want a fresh start I need to start doing
this I need to start doing that and starting that now will help you mentally and physically
and if you're new here baby I'm big on the mental because your mind is racing every chance it gets
not even every chance I'm gonna take that back it it's racing every second every every second it's
racing because your brain your brain is one of the I feel like one of the best features body parts
whatever for a person because your brain can remember a lot of things your brain has photographic
memory everything in it so when it comes to you know if you had a time in your life where you just
didn't feel so joyful whatever the case may be it's best to start making progress for yourself
so when it comes to your mental and physical appearance you will start seeing that by you being
able to just say I'm gonna starting I want to start something new you'll start seeing results
for example at one point during the pandemic I started seeing me not being the best me I could
be yeah I was still doing things I had to do like making sure I finished I was strong
during high school but I just saw a change in my life that was just like I'm not this not this is
not me I'm not liking it I need to start all over I need to start from scratch to get things done
especially by me going to college now because I feel like once you out of high school you're wrong
some of us turn 18 XYZ is like grown now so I got to start taking things a little bit serious
and more with a grain of salt what's going on because I'm starting to realize reality is hitting
I'm starting to also realize that if things are not the same I have to do this in order to get this
done in order for me to do this I got to do XYZ basically and when I tell y'all before like
during you know the pandemic was sucked it sucked it messed a lot of things up for everybody it did
and I seen it and I and I even had conversations with older folks saying yes the pandemic had
messed him up to the point where I just didn't feel comfortable with even wanting to start doing
things I used to do but it took that day they woke up and said I'm gonna start I'm gonna do it hey
I'm gonna do it why not I'm gonna start it take that risk of starting over getting used to what I'm
doing just having those little mirror conversations with yourself like listen up hey we need to start
doing this I need to start doing that whatever you talk to yourself a third person hey be my guest
I feel like at times having mirror conversations will also motivate you and impact a lot in your
life especially when it comes to starting anything or starting to become a new person so without
further ado let me tell y'all the pros and cons of when it comes to starting okay so starting can
have both pros and cons depending on the situation some of the pros of starting includes I'm gonna
give y'all five of each okay as I wrote them down I was like okay this one's gonna be good you know
potential something different going back to me digging some more so number one for pros is new
opportunities with that being said starting something new can open up new doors and opportunities
that you may not have otherwise had without being said like I said with new opportunities
let's think of a job God had a by me being the age that I am I probably went through I always give
jobs at least two to a year or two of commitment because at times you know if you know a company
first I feel like after them six months of you being at a job you learn you know your way around
what's what who's who and x y and z and when it comes to new opportunities y'all they will not
like that you hear it new opportunities will knock at your door or whoever you believe in
will tell you before you're able to know what's going on so one day I was just like I was at work
and I was talking to my mom like something gotta give something has to give by me just now transferring
to the university I'm at now go Bears go Bears the one and only Morgan State University by me had just
last semester transferring to Morgan and working at the job I was at I was like something gotta give
now because due to me working how I was in going to school as much as I was things wasn't things
were clashing into each other to the point where like we all know when it comes to money you don't
want nothing messing it up however when it comes to your education too you don't want nothing messing
that up either so I had to have a never conversation let alone talk to the person I believe in and
ask Jesus Christ himself and my mom I was like okay something gotta get so I had an opportunity
to get another job that also helped impact me was also going to school however no this is a kicker
I got another job while working at the job I was working at before I left them before I did what I
had to do because at times when you're at a place for so long it's like okay I know I'm gonna be here
and I'm gonna make my mark here but when opportunity is knocking on your door you gotta go you always
want to leave on a good no not bad terms and I left that job on good terms not no bad terms
because I wasn't a bad employee one thing about me when it comes to working at any company I make
sure I'm uh the best employee I could be even though at times we all have our little ups and downs
but I know my limits I know my limits until this day I know my limits on what and what not to do
and how and what not to do okay so with that being said y'all don't be afraid to if you see them
opportunities or you know an opportunity is in mind for you start that process now start it while
you can start it while you see hits whatever you see started starting now because opportunities is one
of the biggest and best things ever at times sometimes the opportunities that we're that we get
are not so but they're worth it it's a start it's better than nothing okay number two personal
growth starting you know starting that new step into your life by let me do it the right way y'all
that I'm trying to not look at the screen because I hate reading things like off the screen by me
going to school I've always learned like to summarize and don't keep reading on a screen
because that's annoying but I'm gonna read off the screens like y'all know what's going on y'all
know I'm raw and uncut if you knew here yes it's raw and uncut I don't edit nothing unless I have
to okay but parts so let's go to number two I said part so part two is is calling Johnny finish
yet let me let me finish so number two personal growth start requesting you to step out of your
comfort zone and take risks which can help you grow and develop as a person now for the ones
that are not new to this protruding show I'm no I already made an episode on risk and when it comes
to personal growth take a risk within starting something new that will help you in your comfort
within your comfort zone and with your growth is one of the amazing things ever with that being
saying personal growth my personal growth for myself is about my comfort zone was being able
to have this podcast and once again for the ones that are not new to this but true to this
you already know the story but the ones that are new here I'm gonna tell it again because I like
using this as an example as a person like me that was shy as hell to talk in front of people
it took me a good amount of years to start being able to step in front of people and have conversations
in front of a crowd to be able to speak in front of people period by me a by me being able to start
coming out my comfort zone being able to practice practice practice practice and having a whole
bunch of presentations and being in situations where you have to speak in front of people and you
have to have stage presence and did things that involve being on stage it helped me with my personal
growth be able to start accepting that I have a gift that people see that I didn't see that now
that I see this gift I'm able to start to also give people the blueprint of how it is just by
me being able years ago to be able to be new to it not new this but true to this put an impact on
me to make my podcast come to life because at times it takes a while for people to start
and yes I'm not gonna lie when it came to the podcast I'm fascinated I had this in mind I will
say probably two years two years a year or two years a year or two years ago I know I was talking
to somebody it was like you love to talk why don't you be a youtuber or something I said
YouTube it was like no because I don't like sometimes I be having bad hair days or something
I don't want anybody to see the truth in it you know I don't know I see how I look you know most
of the time but it's okay you know when I was like okay I look into it YouTube and then when I was
thinking and doing the research I watch youtubers and I was like they can do this they can do this
me I'm like I can't start it because I know I'm not not built for this so shout out to all you
youtubers because I applaud y'all I can't do it I just couldn't do it so then I was like okay I love
podcasters I love us in the podcasters in their podcast so I was like why not and then I was like
okay my birthday is coming up this was this year I was like my birthday coming up I didn't know what
to get myself I was like I didn't know what I wanted to do so I was like okay freaking I'm I just I made
a promise to myself to start a podcast before you know my birthday and this was a gift to myself and
this is one of the best gifts ever that I can go back to because this was one of the things that I've
been manifesting and I started that process in the blueprint of everything and once I've seen that
blueprint I was like I'm this is gonna this is it this is what I wanted I'm manifesting it and I'm
gonna start it and it's gonna happen and look where we are today I appreciate everybody
that listens to me I really do shout out to y'all I appreciate a lot because if it wasn't for y'all
I wouldn't really be pushing as much as I can and taking y'all advice also helps too so thank you
for helping me with that number three when it comes to starting it also helps increases confidence
successfully starting something new can help you build confidence in yourself and your abilities
with that being said going back to number two the personal growth don't be afraid to start something
because within that start of you doing whatever you want to do it increases your confidence like
I said be me being able to go out in front of people speak to people down there to 15 to 50 to
500 x y z people it will make once you keep doing it and doing it and then giving yourself
those words of encouragement having a mirror conversation having people around you that
supports and cares for you it puts an impact on you because that type of confidence helps you
even more when it comes to start starting something new that you want to help you
and it builds your confidence it builds you up the best feeling ever is to build yourself up and
not have anybody say they build you up okay because you want to be able to tell people this my shit
and I know how to do this and being confident was saying that this is yours and this is x y and z
the best feeling ever like for example again by me starting my podcast it made me feel
like dang I'm a CEO of my own business and one day this will make so much money that I walk around
and say it helped me build my confidence not because of the money but because of the people that
really took their time out of their day to listen to me a regular girl from Baltimore City
they took the time to listen to me and seen me and heard me go through what I'll go when I went through
and by me being who I am it helped them also build confidence that's another thing too certain
people who help you start building confidence as well so with that being said y'all
now within starting it helps increase confidence it helps you be able to feel more confident feel
more motivated to feel more of a person that you've been dreaming for to be the person that you are
just by starting any and everything you want to do okay number four senses of accomplishments
completing a new project or achieving a goal that you have set for yourself can bring you a sense of
pride and accomplishments like I said going back to number three being able to stand there
and start on any and anything you want to do whatever the big project a big whatever big it is
in your book being able to start that goal start that dream start that project and rock out with it
it have an amazing result afterwards can start having more of a sense to you saying that if this
was to ever happen again to me I wouldn't be afraid if someone was to come to me and ask me about
something you know I wouldn't be afraid because that's one of the best feelings I've earned the
world once you get a sense of being a sense a sense of accomplishments and your and your and your books
you damn it's like okay this one accomplishment okay let me see how many more I can get and I feel
like accomplishments have no limits okay it's no limits to this it's no limits to what you can do
out here you know why the world is yours and you're gonna rock out for godless you know why you're
gonna rock out because of that start of you that you just created for yourself by you just starting
any and anything and your any and everything in your life that gave you the key to success and you
just don't know it so don't stop can't stop won't stop never stop okay and last but not least
learning experience starting something new can be a great learning experience as it often involves
overcoming challenges and problem solving that's all over all over basically overall of out of
all the positive that comes with starting such as you know the new opportunities the personal
growth the increased confidence and sense of accomplishments and finally the learning experiences
just by you being able like I said to put your foot to the metal to put your foot on the gas to
take off to what you want to do is one of the best things ever that can happen to you that could
be a great learning experience it can also be one of those experiences that wow be one of the best
moments in your life that will help you in your career in your life your personal professional
life and everything like that that will also put an impact on two others so without being said when
it comes to starting don't be afraid to put your foot on that gas to take off can't stop won't stop
never stop and also remember this whatever you put your mind to whatever you put on that blueprint
make sure it comes to light before starting because you want to make sure what everything you said
you were going to do within starting it it starts it is going to start today now let's get to the
side where it's like what like really I don't want to hear it but you got to hear it okay and like if
you don't know now you know when it comes to every vibe I always point out the pros and cons because
you know in everything we do in life at times it shows you what can happen for the good and what can
happen for the bad so however there are also some cons to starting and that's number one fear of the
unknown starting something new can be scary as often involves stepping into the unknown and taking
risks now going back to the episode I did on taking risks if you haven't heard it after this or whatever
please go listen to it because I'm telling y'all it's going to help you don't get me wrong at times
when it comes to starting something new we all have that fear of none of the unknown and at times
it can be good because you know we all believe in our conscience you know we all believe we all
have that conscience and that gut feeling at times it's like do I really want to do it because if I
do it it's gonna do this or if I start this this might be risky and it might take me a little time
and it might have me like okay I'm gonna start it but I don't finish you know so we all have fear
of the unknown which is okay because I always tell people to them bad times don't last forever so don't
always have that in your mind you know maybe right now it's not the best time for you but when you
feel comfortable and willing to start putting that into motion by all means okay number two
risk of failure starting something new can also come with the risk of failure which can be
discouraging and then you know it could demolish a lot of things that risk of failure we all been
through it but you know if at first you don't succeed dust yourself off and try it again where
it's with you don't get me wrong it's going to take a minute good minute for us to like be able to
sit there and to be able to you know take that risk on building to start but I'm telling y'all
you gotta think about it you know when we do a lot of things sometimes we don't think sometimes
we just do sometimes we want our actions to do the talking instead of us talking through it first
then to do it but at times things are not always how we think it's going to go and that's okay
because the risk taking risks is also a fishy thing as well because of the risk factors that we go
through at times in life it's like okay if I do this it'll succeed if I don't do this it'll fail
but within both of these it's like you gotta think what's best for you or what's best for who if you're
doing as a group what's best for y'all so do you know it's don't get me wrong risk of failure it happens
but if it don't succeed the first time take a few days weeks months don't take too long
within them years just start all over okay number three uncertainty starting something new can be
uncertain as you may not know what to expect or how things are now and like I say it basically
then impacts with risk factors and fears if I'm known within it within having you know them
uncertain and un you know unfulfilling thoughts it's okay to have that it's okay to have it when
you're uncertain and you don't know if this is certainly something worth it you always gotta
think what's best for you though before you do anything I always be like think about it take
all the time you need but don't take too long because time is a terrible thing to waste make sure
you just map out everything have that pros and cons live and see what's what what's not okay because
sometimes being uncertain about things will have you feel uncertain about a lot of things and we
don't want that to happen because I've been in that mindset before like if I do this it's not going
to do this I'm going to do that but one time it's like one time when you see growth by you just
starting it's like I'm okay it's okay I got it I don't care about what didn't happen I'm caring
about what happened now what I put into the light now that's making something happen just by me being
able to start so it's okay to be uncertain about certain things but don't let that put a hold on you
to be able to start eating everything number four time and energy haha starting something new can be
time consuming and requires a lot of energy which could be a challenge if you have other other
obligations so like I said time is a terrible thing to waste and the energy is also something
that you have to have when it comes to eating everything that you put yourself into regardless
of how big or small it is you have to make sure you're able to have time management and also be
able to have that energy to stay up to par yes I'm telling you having the podcast at times
every times when I almost forgot to post or to even make episodes due to me being so busy with school
or my organization at my school or family life because at the end of the day you're still you're
still human you know you got a personal life your school life your professional life and whatever
other life you got going on business entrepreneurs if you were volunteer whatever but you always
got to remember you matter first always put you first but you always got to remember too what's
for you and what's not for you especially when it comes to like I said time is a terrible thing to
waste and energy is something you cannot get back this as well as time so when it comes to starting
and time and energy involved please be very mindful of what you sign yourself up for and get yourself
into because you were started and you don't want to start out something and then you already don't
have time for it and you just like I don't want this shit no more you know it's like I don't care
and the physical mental appearance will show when your energy is just out of it you just like I'm
done I don't want to part this is it this is not it so before you start eating everything make sure
you are ready to manage the time and try to manage the energy too that you give off because you
don't want to put yourself in a big predicament where it's like okay I'm gonna start off and then
you start slacking and it also affects you because like okay I don't want to do it no more but like
I said it's okay it's okay because everything is not for everyone and it takes time because it's like
you can get something done but you want to get it down the right way and not the wrong way you
know for example like people be like oh she got her license are you working on yours but right now
it's just not your time but you want to have that time so that's basically what I'm saying whatever
you want to start make sure you prepare yourself for that time and energy because the time is the
thing the waste and energy is something you just want to have and you don't want to waste too
because you can get burned out fast especially if you're young you don't want to get burned out fast
okay and last but not least overwhelming that impacts what you know being burned out
starting something new can be overwhelming as there may be a lot of information to process and
decide and decisions to make but they're deciding if you want to start it I'm not gonna lie to y'all
I was a little bit overwhelmed when it came to school working two jobs still making sure
everybody your household is okay and go on to school and have it a business it had me like whoa
well I'm gonna have some meantime but like I said like it impacts with the time management
certain certainly risk of failure and fear of unknown that also impact me but I had to
change the narrative because it's like I started this and I don't want to give up on this because
when you start something y'all you don't want to give up on it at times you have to because
if it impacts your well-being or something coming away it's okay but I always believe in making sure
you end off on a good note at times it might be bad but it's like okay I had to do what I had to do
and this is why and everything's gonna be all right at the end of the day regardless if you start
something now later down the line you always got to keep in mind life can put you in situations
where you don't know if you want to start it or not but also just keep in mind that it's all right
is all right it's all right we have our moments it's all right trust me nobody is perfect because
if we was we will all be the same that's why I like being different because you never know
how your starting journey may be you never know so
I guess okay it's all right but your life can bring us through many changes and it's all right
you know just don't give up know that it's gonna be okay it's gonna be all right regardless of how
we started when you want to start it and why you're starting it just remember that you're
gonna be all right okay so I'm gonna end off with this
is it worth starting something new I'm gonna try that question I'm gonna give you a little bit
of time to think about that is it worth starting something new is it worth it
like is it worth it is it really really really worth it is it worth starting something new
is it I asked myself that too is it worth starting to take a leaf from our face is it worth me
starting to do this XYZ is it worth me starting to stop having all these thoughts like what is
going on like you know but I'm gonna tell you whether or not starting something new is worth it
largely depending on the individual in the situation meaning you guys if you feel that
the benefits of starting outweighs the potential drawbacks then it may be worth taking the risk
and dividing it into something new however if you feel that cause of outweighing the pearls
then it may be best to hold off on starting until you feel more comfortable and confident
but it is important to weigh the potentials risk and the rewards before making a decision
and to make sure that you are prepared for the challenges that may come with the starting
something new so basically all like I told y'all when it comes to the pros and the cons is all right
whenever you're ready to put your foot on that gas to take off keeping mine can't stop won't stop
never stop okay and I leave y'all out with this note as always I wish you guys nothing but peace
and blessings please be careful and safe out here by being daytime was that daytime late
time ending whatever going on it gets dark at five o'clock please be safe out here please
because it's holiday time people getting wicked out here and yeah please be safe also please please
please get them flu shots get all everything out the way because it is flu season and cold
but it's still going around so please get your flu cold shots everything so please maintain your
health your safety but most of all I want you guys to be in the holidays fear because Thanksgiving
is right around the corner in Christmas and we're almost out of 2023 it's like crazy like I felt like
like dang we just started like what not too long ago but like I said y'all time was a terrible thing
to waste and time flies so fast so with that being said y'all I'm just you know please be safe out
here wish y'all nothing but peace and blessings and as always you guys will hear from me next Wednesday
Yay! Byeeee!