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Hey y'all whether it's morning evening or afternoon I'm just glad that you guys had decided to vibe

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with me. Yes the one and only E and I'm thrilled to tell you guys today's vibe of the day. So for

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those of you who are new welcome welcome welcome welcome and for those who are not new to this

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but you're new to this. Hey y'all what's up what's up and what's good and as always what if you're

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new here I want you guys to sit back relax enjoy the show whether you're going to go on the move.

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I'm just glad that you guys had decided to rock out with me because every vibe of the day is

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something special. So let's get into it. Today's vibe of the day is starting. Yes today's vibe of

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the day is starting and the reason why I chose this vibe of the day is because when it comes to

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starting any and everything it impacts with pros and cons but I always try to think of starting

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as a good impact for someone especially for me because in order for you to get into something

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you have to be prepared to start it that alone time is a terrible thing to waste and tomorrow's

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not promised. So whatever you've been dreaming of manifesting x y and z start that thing now

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start it now don't wait until it's too late because like I said time is a terrible thing to waste

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and tomorrow is not promised so if you feel the need to start on something do it now okay because

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what's the worst that can happen you know you don't know until you start so let's get into it.

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So what is starting? Starting referring to the beginning of something new such as a project

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such as a new project job or chapter in your life it can be both exciting and devoting at the same

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time as it involves oftentimes it involves things such as like being able to step out of your comfort

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zone and taking a leap on faith like I mentioned earlier. However starting is on an essential

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part of growth and that development it is important to embrace new beginnings and the opportunity that

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comes your way. So with that being said whatever like I mentioned whatever you guys are manifesting or

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what's that word what's that word

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we do it all the time I just can't get it out of my the tip of my tongue it is so that is so hurtful

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I don't want to say backpedaling last minute let's just say last minute anymore I think we need to

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we need to change that we need to stop we need to stop letting things slide on a back burner we need

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to stop waiting till the last minute to get things done we need to be able to if we say we're gonna

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do it do it now don't wait because you know sometimes I say it's better late than ever I agree on that

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too but at times you don't want to be so late to the point where it's like you don't have the energy

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to start something if that makes sense you know like at times within any and everything that we do

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in our life we always say I'm gonna start on this I'm gonna start on that but at times it's just like

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we don't give ourselves that push that drive that motivation to be able to start doing whatever we

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want to do because like I mentioned when it comes to starting any and everything in your life I always

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think of the positive side of it because you got to think positive you want to think positive

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thoughts and you want to say positive things because you don't want to say something bad and it comes

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to life because I always believe in the term the tongue is a powerful thing and whatever you say

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it could stay it could even stand you for life or probably haunt you for life so I always

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manifest saying good things manifest within being in good situations and things like that because

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I don't want to be having that mind where it's though I don't have a growth mindset when I do

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you know so when we want to start on things guys start on it now don't procrastinate there's a word

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y'all don't procrastinate on because you never know when you start something it's the best feeling

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ever just to get your feet in the door you know get your feet wet and everything like that once you

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are able to get a feel of it and start that blueprint out y'all know I love that blueprint and if

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you're new here I love a blueprint a blueprint is one of the many things that helped you get all your

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visions onto a piece of paper and then see it comes to light you want to make sure everything on that

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blueprint that you started will be able to start it coming to reality so with that being said starting

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is important it's like it's important life it's important in our life because it allows us to

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grow learn and evolve as individuals it presents us with a new challenge and opportunities that

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help us develop new skills to broaden our horizons and to discover our true potentials

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whether it's starting a new project job or chapter in your life each new beginning brings within

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possibility of personality and professional growth so starting can help us overcome our fears and

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build our confidence as well as to navigate new situations and take a risk so basically y'all

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what I'm saying like starting is one of the very most important things in our life so don't be afraid

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to start I'm not gonna lie y'all as a person like me it took me a while to start doing what I want to

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do because I was always like oh if I start now what if I don't have time and the thing that people

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fail to realize is you you're gonna make time for something that you really really love and you're

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gonna make time for people that you really really care about like I said time is precious and time

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is a terrible thing to waste and a person when it comes to starting something you have to make sure

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your starting this at this time and you're willing to put in all the time that's needed to start

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especially when it comes to a new chapter in your life starting over you know starting over

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such as with the your wardrobe career goals living arrangements x y z whatever it is anything

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impacting with start starting start or starting in that sentence I want you to know this now don't

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be afraid to just do it like Nike just do it because you never know how good of a feeling

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just for you to step into that new threshold in your life because I feel as though it's nothing

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wrong with fresh start it's nothing wrong with starting and especially if it's starting over

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we all have the moments in our life where we just be like I want a fresh start I need to start doing

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this I need to start doing that and starting that now will help you mentally and physically

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and if you're new here baby I'm big on the mental because your mind is racing every chance it gets

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not even every chance I'm gonna take that back it it's racing every second every every second it's

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racing because your brain your brain is one of the I feel like one of the best features body parts

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whatever for a person because your brain can remember a lot of things your brain has photographic

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memory everything in it so when it comes to you know if you had a time in your life where you just

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didn't feel so joyful whatever the case may be it's best to start making progress for yourself

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so when it comes to your mental and physical appearance you will start seeing that by you being

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able to just say I'm gonna starting I want to start something new you'll start seeing results

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for example at one point during the pandemic I started seeing me not being the best me I could

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be yeah I was still doing things I had to do like making sure I finished I was strong

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during high school but I just saw a change in my life that was just like I'm not this not this is

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not me I'm not liking it I need to start all over I need to start from scratch to get things done

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especially by me going to college now because I feel like once you out of high school you're wrong

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some of us turn 18 XYZ is like grown now so I got to start taking things a little bit serious

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and more with a grain of salt what's going on because I'm starting to realize reality is hitting

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I'm starting to also realize that if things are not the same I have to do this in order to get this

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done in order for me to do this I got to do XYZ basically and when I tell y'all before like

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during you know the pandemic was sucked it sucked it messed a lot of things up for everybody it did

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and I seen it and I and I even had conversations with older folks saying yes the pandemic had

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messed him up to the point where I just didn't feel comfortable with even wanting to start doing

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things I used to do but it took that day they woke up and said I'm gonna start I'm gonna do it hey

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I'm gonna do it why not I'm gonna start it take that risk of starting over getting used to what I'm

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doing just having those little mirror conversations with yourself like listen up hey we need to start

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doing this I need to start doing that whatever you talk to yourself a third person hey be my guest

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I feel like at times having mirror conversations will also motivate you and impact a lot in your

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life especially when it comes to starting anything or starting to become a new person so without

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further ado let me tell y'all the pros and cons of when it comes to starting okay so starting can

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have both pros and cons depending on the situation some of the pros of starting includes I'm gonna

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give y'all five of each okay as I wrote them down I was like okay this one's gonna be good you know

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potential something different going back to me digging some more so number one for pros is new

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opportunities with that being said starting something new can open up new doors and opportunities

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that you may not have otherwise had without being said like I said with new opportunities

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let's think of a job God had a by me being the age that I am I probably went through I always give

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jobs at least two to a year or two of commitment because at times you know if you know a company

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first I feel like after them six months of you being at a job you learn you know your way around

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what's what who's who and x y and z and when it comes to new opportunities y'all they will not

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like that you hear it new opportunities will knock at your door or whoever you believe in

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will tell you before you're able to know what's going on so one day I was just like I was at work

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and I was talking to my mom like something gotta give something has to give by me just now transferring

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to the university I'm at now go Bears go Bears the one and only Morgan State University by me had just

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last semester transferring to Morgan and working at the job I was at I was like something gotta give

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now because due to me working how I was in going to school as much as I was things wasn't things

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were clashing into each other to the point where like we all know when it comes to money you don't

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want nothing messing it up however when it comes to your education too you don't want nothing messing

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that up either so I had to have a never conversation let alone talk to the person I believe in and

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ask Jesus Christ himself and my mom I was like okay something gotta get so I had an opportunity

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to get another job that also helped impact me was also going to school however no this is a kicker

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I got another job while working at the job I was working at before I left them before I did what I

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had to do because at times when you're at a place for so long it's like okay I know I'm gonna be here

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and I'm gonna make my mark here but when opportunity is knocking on your door you gotta go you always

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want to leave on a good no not bad terms and I left that job on good terms not no bad terms

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because I wasn't a bad employee one thing about me when it comes to working at any company I make

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sure I'm uh the best employee I could be even though at times we all have our little ups and downs

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but I know my limits I know my limits until this day I know my limits on what and what not to do

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and how and what not to do okay so with that being said y'all don't be afraid to if you see them

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opportunities or you know an opportunity is in mind for you start that process now start it while

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you can start it while you see hits whatever you see started starting now because opportunities is one

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of the biggest and best things ever at times sometimes the opportunities that we're that we get

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are not so but they're worth it it's a start it's better than nothing okay number two personal

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growth starting you know starting that new step into your life by let me do it the right way y'all

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that I'm trying to not look at the screen because I hate reading things like off the screen by me

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going to school I've always learned like to summarize and don't keep reading on a screen

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because that's annoying but I'm gonna read off the screens like y'all know what's going on y'all

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know I'm raw and uncut if you knew here yes it's raw and uncut I don't edit nothing unless I have

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to okay but parts so let's go to number two I said part so part two is is calling Johnny finish

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yet let me let me finish so number two personal growth start requesting you to step out of your

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comfort zone and take risks which can help you grow and develop as a person now for the ones

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that are not new to this protruding show I'm no I already made an episode on risk and when it comes

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to personal growth take a risk within starting something new that will help you in your comfort

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within your comfort zone and with your growth is one of the amazing things ever with that being

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saying personal growth my personal growth for myself is about my comfort zone was being able

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to have this podcast and once again for the ones that are not new to this but true to this

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you already know the story but the ones that are new here I'm gonna tell it again because I like

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using this as an example as a person like me that was shy as hell to talk in front of people

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it took me a good amount of years to start being able to step in front of people and have conversations

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in front of a crowd to be able to speak in front of people period by me a by me being able to start

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coming out my comfort zone being able to practice practice practice practice and having a whole

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bunch of presentations and being in situations where you have to speak in front of people and you

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have to have stage presence and did things that involve being on stage it helped me with my personal

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growth be able to start accepting that I have a gift that people see that I didn't see that now

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that I see this gift I'm able to start to also give people the blueprint of how it is just by

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me being able years ago to be able to be new to it not new this but true to this put an impact on

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me to make my podcast come to life because at times it takes a while for people to start

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and yes I'm not gonna lie when it came to the podcast I'm fascinated I had this in mind I will

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say probably two years two years a year or two years a year or two years ago I know I was talking

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to somebody it was like you love to talk why don't you be a youtuber or something I said

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YouTube it was like no because I don't like sometimes I be having bad hair days or something

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I don't want anybody to see the truth in it you know I don't know I see how I look you know most

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of the time but it's okay you know when I was like okay I look into it YouTube and then when I was

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thinking and doing the research I watch youtubers and I was like they can do this they can do this

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me I'm like I can't start it because I know I'm not not built for this so shout out to all you

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youtubers because I applaud y'all I can't do it I just couldn't do it so then I was like okay I love

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podcasters I love us in the podcasters in their podcast so I was like why not and then I was like

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okay my birthday is coming up this was this year I was like my birthday coming up I didn't know what

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to get myself I was like I didn't know what I wanted to do so I was like okay freaking I'm I just I made

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a promise to myself to start a podcast before you know my birthday and this was a gift to myself and

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this is one of the best gifts ever that I can go back to because this was one of the things that I've

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been manifesting and I started that process in the blueprint of everything and once I've seen that

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blueprint I was like I'm this is gonna this is it this is what I wanted I'm manifesting it and I'm

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gonna start it and it's gonna happen and look where we are today I appreciate everybody

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that listens to me I really do shout out to y'all I appreciate a lot because if it wasn't for y'all

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I wouldn't really be pushing as much as I can and taking y'all advice also helps too so thank you

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for helping me with that number three when it comes to starting it also helps increases confidence

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successfully starting something new can help you build confidence in yourself and your abilities

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with that being said going back to number two the personal growth don't be afraid to start something

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because within that start of you doing whatever you want to do it increases your confidence like

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I said be me being able to go out in front of people speak to people down there to 15 to 50 to

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500 x y z people it will make once you keep doing it and doing it and then giving yourself

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those words of encouragement having a mirror conversation having people around you that

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supports and cares for you it puts an impact on you because that type of confidence helps you

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even more when it comes to start starting something new that you want to help you

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and it builds your confidence it builds you up the best feeling ever is to build yourself up and

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not have anybody say they build you up okay because you want to be able to tell people this my shit

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and I know how to do this and being confident was saying that this is yours and this is x y and z

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the best feeling ever like for example again by me starting my podcast it made me feel

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like dang I'm a CEO of my own business and one day this will make so much money that I walk around

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and say it helped me build my confidence not because of the money but because of the people that

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really took their time out of their day to listen to me a regular girl from Baltimore City

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they took the time to listen to me and seen me and heard me go through what I'll go when I went through

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and by me being who I am it helped them also build confidence that's another thing too certain

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people who help you start building confidence as well so with that being said y'all

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now within starting it helps increase confidence it helps you be able to feel more confident feel

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more motivated to feel more of a person that you've been dreaming for to be the person that you are

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just by starting any and everything you want to do okay number four senses of accomplishments

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completing a new project or achieving a goal that you have set for yourself can bring you a sense of

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pride and accomplishments like I said going back to number three being able to stand there

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and start on any and anything you want to do whatever the big project a big whatever big it is

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in your book being able to start that goal start that dream start that project and rock out with it

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it have an amazing result afterwards can start having more of a sense to you saying that if this

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was to ever happen again to me I wouldn't be afraid if someone was to come to me and ask me about

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something you know I wouldn't be afraid because that's one of the best feelings I've earned the

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world once you get a sense of being a sense a sense of accomplishments and your and your and your books

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you damn it's like okay this one accomplishment okay let me see how many more I can get and I feel

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like accomplishments have no limits okay it's no limits to this it's no limits to what you can do

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out here you know why the world is yours and you're gonna rock out for godless you know why you're

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gonna rock out because of that start of you that you just created for yourself by you just starting

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any and anything and your any and everything in your life that gave you the key to success and you

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just don't know it so don't stop can't stop won't stop never stop okay and last but not least

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learning experience starting something new can be a great learning experience as it often involves

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overcoming challenges and problem solving that's all over all over basically overall of out of

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all the positive that comes with starting such as you know the new opportunities the personal

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growth the increased confidence and sense of accomplishments and finally the learning experiences

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just by you being able like I said to put your foot to the metal to put your foot on the gas to

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take off to what you want to do is one of the best things ever that can happen to you that could

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be a great learning experience it can also be one of those experiences that wow be one of the best

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moments in your life that will help you in your career in your life your personal professional

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life and everything like that that will also put an impact on two others so without being said when

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it comes to starting don't be afraid to put your foot on that gas to take off can't stop won't stop

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never stop and also remember this whatever you put your mind to whatever you put on that blueprint

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make sure it comes to light before starting because you want to make sure what everything you said

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you were going to do within starting it it starts it is going to start today now let's get to the

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side where it's like what like really I don't want to hear it but you got to hear it okay and like if

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you don't know now you know when it comes to every vibe I always point out the pros and cons because

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you know in everything we do in life at times it shows you what can happen for the good and what can

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happen for the bad so however there are also some cons to starting and that's number one fear of the

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unknown starting something new can be scary as often involves stepping into the unknown and taking

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risks now going back to the episode I did on taking risks if you haven't heard it after this or whatever

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please go listen to it because I'm telling y'all it's going to help you don't get me wrong at times

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when it comes to starting something new we all have that fear of none of the unknown and at times

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it can be good because you know we all believe in our conscience you know we all believe we all

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have that conscience and that gut feeling at times it's like do I really want to do it because if I

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do it it's gonna do this or if I start this this might be risky and it might take me a little time

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and it might have me like okay I'm gonna start it but I don't finish you know so we all have fear

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of the unknown which is okay because I always tell people to them bad times don't last forever so don't

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always have that in your mind you know maybe right now it's not the best time for you but when you

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feel comfortable and willing to start putting that into motion by all means okay number two

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risk of failure starting something new can also come with the risk of failure which can be

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discouraging and then you know it could demolish a lot of things that risk of failure we all been

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through it but you know if at first you don't succeed dust yourself off and try it again where

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it's with you don't get me wrong it's going to take a minute good minute for us to like be able to

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sit there and to be able to you know take that risk on building to start but I'm telling y'all

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you gotta think about it you know when we do a lot of things sometimes we don't think sometimes

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we just do sometimes we want our actions to do the talking instead of us talking through it first

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then to do it but at times things are not always how we think it's going to go and that's okay

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because the risk taking risks is also a fishy thing as well because of the risk factors that we go

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through at times in life it's like okay if I do this it'll succeed if I don't do this it'll fail

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but within both of these it's like you gotta think what's best for you or what's best for who if you're

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doing as a group what's best for y'all so do you know it's don't get me wrong risk of failure it happens

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but if it don't succeed the first time take a few days weeks months don't take too long

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within them years just start all over okay number three uncertainty starting something new can be

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uncertain as you may not know what to expect or how things are now and like I say it basically

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then impacts with risk factors and fears if I'm known within it within having you know them

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uncertain and un you know unfulfilling thoughts it's okay to have that it's okay to have it when

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you're uncertain and you don't know if this is certainly something worth it you always gotta

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think what's best for you though before you do anything I always be like think about it take

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all the time you need but don't take too long because time is a terrible thing to waste make sure

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you just map out everything have that pros and cons live and see what's what what's not okay because

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sometimes being uncertain about things will have you feel uncertain about a lot of things and we

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don't want that to happen because I've been in that mindset before like if I do this it's not going

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to do this I'm going to do that but one time it's like one time when you see growth by you just

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starting it's like I'm okay it's okay I got it I don't care about what didn't happen I'm caring

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about what happened now what I put into the light now that's making something happen just by me being

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able to start so it's okay to be uncertain about certain things but don't let that put a hold on you

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to be able to start eating everything number four time and energy haha starting something new can be

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time consuming and requires a lot of energy which could be a challenge if you have other other

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obligations so like I said time is a terrible thing to waste and the energy is also something

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that you have to have when it comes to eating everything that you put yourself into regardless

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of how big or small it is you have to make sure you're able to have time management and also be

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able to have that energy to stay up to par yes I'm telling you having the podcast at times

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every times when I almost forgot to post or to even make episodes due to me being so busy with school

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or my organization at my school or family life because at the end of the day you're still you're

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still human you know you got a personal life your school life your professional life and whatever

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other life you got going on business entrepreneurs if you were volunteer whatever but you always

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got to remember you matter first always put you first but you always got to remember too what's

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for you and what's not for you especially when it comes to like I said time is a terrible thing to

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waste and energy is something you cannot get back this as well as time so when it comes to starting

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and time and energy involved please be very mindful of what you sign yourself up for and get yourself

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into because you were started and you don't want to start out something and then you already don't

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have time for it and you just like I don't want this shit no more you know it's like I don't care

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and the physical mental appearance will show when your energy is just out of it you just like I'm

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done I don't want to part this is it this is not it so before you start eating everything make sure

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you are ready to manage the time and try to manage the energy too that you give off because you

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don't want to put yourself in a big predicament where it's like okay I'm gonna start off and then

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you start slacking and it also affects you because like okay I don't want to do it no more but like

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I said it's okay it's okay because everything is not for everyone and it takes time because it's like

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you can get something done but you want to get it down the right way and not the wrong way you

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know for example like people be like oh she got her license are you working on yours but right now

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it's just not your time but you want to have that time so that's basically what I'm saying whatever

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you want to start make sure you prepare yourself for that time and energy because the time is the

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thing the waste and energy is something you just want to have and you don't want to waste too

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because you can get burned out fast especially if you're young you don't want to get burned out fast

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okay and last but not least overwhelming that impacts what you know being burned out

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starting something new can be overwhelming as there may be a lot of information to process and

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decide and decisions to make but they're deciding if you want to start it I'm not gonna lie to y'all

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I was a little bit overwhelmed when it came to school working two jobs still making sure

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everybody your household is okay and go on to school and have it a business it had me like whoa

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well I'm gonna have some meantime but like I said like it impacts with the time management

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certain certainly risk of failure and fear of unknown that also impact me but I had to

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change the narrative because it's like I started this and I don't want to give up on this because

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when you start something y'all you don't want to give up on it at times you have to because

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if it impacts your well-being or something coming away it's okay but I always believe in making sure

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you end off on a good note at times it might be bad but it's like okay I had to do what I had to do

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and this is why and everything's gonna be all right at the end of the day regardless if you start

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something now later down the line you always got to keep in mind life can put you in situations

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where you don't know if you want to start it or not but also just keep in mind that it's all right

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is all right it's all right we have our moments it's all right trust me nobody is perfect because

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if we was we will all be the same that's why I like being different because you never know

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how your starting journey may be you never know so

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I guess okay it's all right but your life can bring us through many changes and it's all right

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you know just don't give up know that it's gonna be okay it's gonna be all right regardless of how

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we started when you want to start it and why you're starting it just remember that you're

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gonna be all right okay so I'm gonna end off with this

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is it worth starting something new I'm gonna try that question I'm gonna give you a little bit

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of time to think about that is it worth starting something new is it worth it

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like is it worth it is it really really really worth it is it worth starting something new

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is it I asked myself that too is it worth starting to take a leaf from our face is it worth me

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starting to do this XYZ is it worth me starting to stop having all these thoughts like what is

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going on like you know but I'm gonna tell you whether or not starting something new is worth it

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largely depending on the individual in the situation meaning you guys if you feel that

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the benefits of starting outweighs the potential drawbacks then it may be worth taking the risk

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and dividing it into something new however if you feel that cause of outweighing the pearls

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then it may be best to hold off on starting until you feel more comfortable and confident

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but it is important to weigh the potentials risk and the rewards before making a decision

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and to make sure that you are prepared for the challenges that may come with the starting

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something new so basically all like I told y'all when it comes to the pros and the cons is all right

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whenever you're ready to put your foot on that gas to take off keeping mine can't stop won't stop

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never stop okay and I leave y'all out with this note as always I wish you guys nothing but peace

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and blessings please be careful and safe out here by being daytime was that daytime late

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time ending whatever going on it gets dark at five o'clock please be safe out here please

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because it's holiday time people getting wicked out here and yeah please be safe also please please

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please get them flu shots get all everything out the way because it is flu season and cold

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but it's still going around so please get your flu cold shots everything so please maintain your

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health your safety but most of all I want you guys to be in the holidays fear because Thanksgiving

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is right around the corner in Christmas and we're almost out of 2023 it's like crazy like I felt like

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like dang we just started like what not too long ago but like I said y'all time was a terrible thing

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to waste and time flies so fast so with that being said y'all I'm just you know please be safe out

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here wish y'all nothing but peace and blessings and as always you guys will hear from me next Wednesday

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Yay! Byeeee!