Hey y'all whether it's morning evening or afternoon I'm just glad that you guys had decided to
vibe with me the one and only E and I am thrilled to give y'all the vibe of the day.
So without further ado if you're new here welcome how y'all doing I hope all is good and for my
oldie but goodies with that was popping I hope you guys are doing good as well so like I said
without further ado I want you guys to sit back relax and enjoy today's episode because there's
always a revival of day is something special like come on now so let's get into it in honor of
October I wanted to pay attention to one of the national holidays you know we hear about breast
cancer all the time so I'm gonna change something a little bit I want to talk about the topic that I
feel like everybody has gone through from three to now I don't care if you're 16 17 30 20 50 years
old we all tell this day steals with still deals with this situation that needs to be said it's
said and done but I know it's going to be hard because it starts from at home or what's to do
and what not to do so that would so with that being said y'all today's vibe of the day is the bullying
in honor of national bullying prevention month we're going to talk about bullying so let me
give y'all a rundown of what bullying is like that what is this national bullying awareness is so in
October it is national bullying awareness month and this is an opportunity to ensure the nation to
take action at the local level to create a supportive organization bullying is unacceptable
and comments or conducts that disgraces or determinations our style or adversity should not
be tolerated with that being said bullying is a no no in my eyes I'm sorry no no and in honor of
bullying they also wear orange and I'm gonna look up why they wear orange for bullying because
I always want to know so we're gonna get into that too because I always want to know like I always see
because I'm almost my siblings at their school they wore orange for bullying I was like why do
y'all wear orange and it says orange they wear orange there they ensure people to wear orange to
show their support for bullying prevention so okay so now we know and I know okay so yeah boom
so yeah boom all right so let's get into it I'm sorry y'all let's get into it this topic y'all
know every topic I feel it needs to be said everybody's be sad and bullying it's no pros in
this in this shape there's gonna be one topic that will not have no damn pros because I feel
as neat as I feel as though there's no need of bullying to have no fucking pros bullying is
fucking cons like how they say con artists is the con holy shit I'm sorry bullying is I don't
tolerate it I don't like it and I just don't understand it because I am as they say a victim of
the bullying things like that all of us have been a bully a victim of bullying or were bullies okay
it's always a two-way street and what I learned is coming up is the ones that bully you are the
ones that's getting bullied more but they always try to pick on people that's like be so called below
them because of the person that they are or their appearance and things like that so let's get into it
children like I said it starts from at home now let's we are if y'all live in the house with
siblings or cousins nieces and nephews stuff yes you're gonna be able you're gonna you're able I
guess to pick on them yes but it's limits to this shit y'all I'm sorry it's limits to this
shit that we do and why I say this to say is because it's limits to shit that everything that we do
especially when it comes to the things that come out of our mouth because the tongue is one of the
powerfulest things ever I don't give a damn what nobody said they don't say the tongue is a powerful
thing they are bad motherfuckers because baby the tongue is the power is one of the most powerful
things ever that will believe a scar on a person and I tell you this why for those of you who don't
know I am a social work major I'm learning about I have taken a course right now called family
domestic violence and one of the many things that affects a child is verbal abuse verbal mentally
emotionally spiritually and also physically abuse are the five things that affects a child and it
always starts at home it always starts at home because there's no way in the world a child will
wake up and supposedly is bullying and harassing a person no it starts at home and I know y'all
find it hard to believe but y'all y'all gotta read the between lines y'all gotta do your research
y'all gotta do a lot of shit just to analyze and see these things I'm telling y'all because when you
think about it you be like damn you got a point I know I do because hello I'm studying this shit so
I'm not gonna say y'all wrong I'm telling y'all I'm gonna I'm giving y'all every jewel I know
I'm putting y'all on I don't gatekeep nothing because one thing I learned don't gatekeep nothing
you know you never know that can really help somebody in life and they probably be interested
in you know so yeah don't gatekeep y'all keep that in mind too well let's go back on the vibe y'all
always know I get off topic sometimes but yes the back to the topic yes most of the time
things that kids do it starts from at home you know once a child I'm gonna say one years old start
talking and but walking excuse me walking then one and a half to two years old they start talking
maybe once they fully you know three day getting them prepared for school once they turn four
is it that's over that's it they picking up on every little thing you're saying you're doing
especially with them actions because I'm gonna tell you some children when they're like under four
years old and they're not verbal they're gonna use them actions and that can also be a sign of
bullying too the way they pull the way they pinch bite yeah you like oh my god he's a baby
baby no y'all gotta be careful because when they grow up that's a sign of bullying you ain't gonna
that's a sign of bullying like there'll be you know ready to hustle in the hallway and stuff you know
like come on so yeah you know children people you gotta keep in mind my professor always tell me this
children are not many adults children are little human beings that don't know know better and it's
our job for the ones that are raising kids such as like in a household with children and they're
part of the village of raising a child seeing a child you know be brought up to a child needs to
put off foot down especially when it comes to you see signs of things that you don't want them to do
you want to see signs that you want to prevent like certain stuff that you do around a child
you need to be really really careful the children pick up on a lot of things I'm not gonna hold y'all
like children will pick up on things and it leads them to do things that they know that they don't
know means hard but to us as a people that's part of the village know it brings harm and we need to
stop it at us a p because that's how it forms a start of bullying abuse and things like that to
others that's one way second way don't display anything in a household you know you don't want
your child to be around in the outside world for example don't be cussing highland screaming at your
kid if you don't want somebody else cussing and screaming how about your child and I always say
practice what you preach don't tell somebody oh don't do that and you're doing that you know make
it make sense and another thing the overall ice on the cake like I said abuse at times starts from
home and it's really really not from our families so don't think that sometimes like abuse will
start at home and that is a sign of bullying also mentally physically emotionally spiritually
like it's not it's not fun it it y'all be a social work major i'm gonna tell y'all it's good and bad
it's good because it's like you're learning as you go but it's bad because it's at times where
you're reading an article or chapter on anything involving a child elderly family
and there's always somebody abuse it makes you sit there and break down because it's something called
a cycle that repeats itself over and over and over and over again and sometimes it don't break
generational cursing and if they always use the african-american family as an example and it hurts
me because it's like not all of us are dealing with this cycle it's all different types of general
when you watch lifetime you see the white folks and all so i just it hurts me because every time
you see when you read is a black people this black people that you don't hear a lot of whites
because they try to cover it up be like oh ben and jerry ain't doing nothing like girl bye anyway
yes so with that being said y'all with children we just have to really really teach them in ways
that you'll get through their noggin they little noggins because you know their brain has not fully
developed like ours it's not so it's our job as the older generation the village x y z whatever
to make sure that we mold this into children's head that it's not right to tease a child it's not
right to put your hands on a child because god forbid anything can happen and people don't always see
the other side of bullying now when it comes to bullying like i mentioned earlier the bullies are
always the ones that are getting teased the most or don't have less or have less of something like
that basically i'm gonna just put like this scratch all that shit a bully is a jealous ass person i
said what i said and the reason why in the beginning i said it starts at three years old up until
whatever age you are now because we do little bullying stuff too i'm not finna lie at our big
age we still do things that we're not supposed to do especially when it comes to bullying and this
is the reason why i wanted to talk about it because like i said in honor of october you know national
bullying prevention love i stand tall and firm on bullying because like i said i've been a part of
that world of being bullied it's not it's not it's not damn easy especially when you're a person like
me that is still developing tough skin as they go y'all i'm telling y'all 75 percent of me is getting
tougher in the 25 75 percent of me is tougher it's getting tougher skin 20 25 percent of me is still
got that sensitive side like older no i'ma scream on my holly and sometimes that 25 percent be taken
over the 20s the 75 percent y'all because i'm telling y'all i don't we come to the kids y'all i
don't play when it comes to the kids i love children too deaf because i love the way they think i love
the way they express themselves and i love learning learning new things about them because you have to
treat a child like a child you cannot mold a child into being an adult they don't know what adult is
it's like to be an adult like when was younger we thought it was cool to be an adult because of
what we've seen our mothers fathers aunties uncles grandma grandpa and cousins did if
reality this shit is not easy it's not so one of the biggest things i feel is though as we get older
we need to teach everyone around us but we need to taste we need to teach the kiddos most is bullying
do not bully a person because they do not have something you don't add don't bully a kid because
he or she came to school today not looking up to par you never know what the situation may be
you cannot just nick pick on a person and try to get laughs from others around you that's a part
of bullying i've been in those situations where who y'all almost said that who almost said something
almost got me canceled let me hold my tongue almost said a bad word that i'm not supposed to use but
i'm gonna keep it to myself um i'm in a part of that situation before and i'm gonna tell y'all
like i'm gonna just give you a short little story in the middle in middle school sixth grade the peak
of sixth grade y'all i hated sixth grade i hate it i hate it sixth grade and the reason i and now i
know hate is a very strong word but let me tell y'all why i just disliked sixth grade with a passion
fresh we fresh out of elementary school so like we like in between uh we just left elementary school
we're we're somewhat still got that fifth grade energy but now it's time to transition to sixth
grade because you're really in the middle of elementary and then on your way to high school
in two three years well two three years some people got skipped you know all i go i could have
been skipped too but you know how to go y'all but nevertheless i've been in those situations where
you're being laughed at just because your style the way you are and who you are affects the motherfucker
and uh y'all know you're gonna i know y'all gonna get a good laugh out of this the same
motherfucker that was bullying you be the same ones right now that probably see you in person or
social media be the ones just be the ones click click tap tapping away to slide in your dm or
your inbox i i'm god i'm i don't lie to y'all i tell y'all the truth i can like i don't remember
faces real good before i remember names at times i remember faces and then faces of them dudes let
on them girls that you know bullied me and people that i was supposed to be the same ones are trying
to be cool with you and let me tell y'all why when i was in sixth grade i wore my natural hair i didn't
start like wearing fake only time you'll see me wearing fake hair was you know when you get your
hair braided and i like you know you bring back day when i was growing up we was wearing
hair what is it kinky twists some stills aren't kinky twists box braids um y'all i love me a mohawk
and then curl it up um weave it was not so much and if you did have weave it was like two or three
pieces to blend in with your hair we wouldn't walk around with a whole head full of hair and me personally
always told myself i'm not wearing a wig or no weave unless i have to or is a style that i really
want that i had to y'all do on a pandemic i was wearing wigs because i was tired of my head i got
sick so i was like you know and it is what it is but yes y'all so i used to wear my natural hair
by my head shape y'all let me tell you this one time in one time only i have an egghead
i've heard that line ever since i was 11 years old up until now i'm grown i'm 21 years old
i've been hearing that line for so damn long it for 10 years like i what like nobody want to keep
hearing that like when i was in middle school it used to make me so upset because another thing as we
grow up ladies as we grow up you know we start to have crushes and things like that i was the
quietest child in every class i was a quietest child up until probably my seventh grade year
because like i said i always analyze the room i always x y z i always read people and i really
never spoke unless i wanted to speak as like answering the question or the teacher put me
asked me a question that was it you in here peeked out of me after that you asked me a question i may
answer it if i want to answer the question you're gonna see me raise my hand and ask it and answer
it or if i raise my hand to ask a question that's about it those the three times you're gonna hear
from me nevertheless y'all egghead you can call that all my life egghead um i remember a time you
know when instagram started like for us i'll never forget this little joke that they had on instagram
called starter packs the starter packs was like of a person described their starter packs y'all
i remember the starter pack that i liked it you know back then they was going to be honest
is great to be rude and all that wild shit my dumbass liked that post starter packs somebody
had the audacity to make a starter pack of me and it was with my a bun so a girl with a bun a pair
khakis because we went with the school we wore uniform a khaki pants our uniform shirt was free
and i forgot what type of tennis shoes it was now mind you when it came to my feet i never
that's not going with it i'm in play that's this is the phrase that i did not play with it came to
my feet i must sneak your head for life i did not play when it came to my feet when i seen the
starter pack everything else i didn't give a fuck about what the feet y'all tried to play they tried
to play on my feet oh i didn't play with a shoe game baby i did not play with it i stayed in the
latest jordan's new balance all that cool y'all when i seen that i i didn't care about the uniform
and the hairstyle what pissed me off was the starter pack on the shoes like if you want if you
want as we say if you want to pack pack right okay don't pack wrong pack right so y'all i've been
in these motions where i seen bullying bullying especially on on social media instagram was
one of the biggest things that we was bullying people want i'm not really high at y'all we as my
generation they we were bullying it would be so bad and y'all i think i didn't get my voice until
get a voice really in middle school probably a three i'm telling you bullying is one of the key
things that will hurt a person to the point where that people don't realize that anything you say out
your mouth can affect the child or anything you do or write about going to check in fact and affect
the person period i don't care what age you are i don't care how much money you got i don't care if
you live in a big-ass house a little condo park i don't give a fuck what makes you think you have
the right to tear down another person especially when it comes to the african-american community
y'all know i love y'all downhill but i'll be damned if i see y'all keep doing that oh who
looked better who got this who got that why y'all can't just uplift each other we got to think like
i said the children think about the children because bullying starts finding for the children on who
they look up to you i can't stand the bullying i can't stand these bully ass motherfuckers i can't
because i once was in a situation where i was getting bullied i hated it and i always told my
mom like why why why do i get bullied and like going back to what i said about the crushes the
crushes that i had on boys y'all be surprised at the ones that i had crushes on they was totally
out of my damn league totally out of my damn league compared to them i wasn't nobody they liked
them girls i was fast as hell fast as hell bad-ass old girls and i was just like why they don't like
me and as i get older now and realize i wasn't fast i wasn't grown in the ass i didn't grow up
before my time and i thank god for my parents for being on my ass yeah we go to high school yeah you
want you smell yourself and you realize who you are and what you are i've been there done that y'all
so i have two siblings i have a sister i have a brother that's in his senior year i have a sister
that's in her sophomore year baby i lay hands if anybody was to ever if there was a come to me
and say somebody's bullying them in high school middle school elementary school i was i was like
oh really you want me to come up there and they never wanted me to come up there i'd be like would
y'all want me to come up there or you want your mother your father to come up there like which
which one do y'all want for to come up there like which one because like i said i don't i don't
tolerate bullying i can't stand it it was to the point where y'all when bully like it was to the
point where y'all i was so afraid that i was gonna get in a fight one day because of me having to stand
up for myself i wasn't afraid to fight i was just afraid of me getting into one because i was like
i know i'm a herder person because my uncles my two favorite uncles god best one of his souls
god best one of my uncle's souls they taught one taught me what to say and one taught me how to fight
including my father too he told me both all for them by them teaching me how to protect myself
and how to use my hands when needed i always was scared for if the day was to come but i had to
fight somebody because it should not be nowhere in the world that you down there 10 11 12 years old
8 19 years old having to fight for your damn respect because bad-ass baby kids don't know what
to say out they damn mouth because they always want to make a damn joke out of something that
is not on joking time i hated that and like when i used to take my little brother and sister to school
because they like after i left elementary school and middle school after i left they still was at
that school my brother was in middle school and my sister was still in the elementary school part
my sister had my brother to protect her when i went to school i had my damn self that was another
thing too by being the oldest is hard because you got to protect yourself at all time when you're
the middle child you have your oldest you have the oldest you got them youngest in the baby oh you
got a village you you go good you go she you got it but when you the oldest that shit hurts that
shit's hard because you gotta excuse me you gotta be silent you gotta be tough you gotta know when
and when not to act an ass y'all so that's why at times like i say when i was in school i was laid
back i didn't say nothing in middle school eighth grade year that's when you hear a lot from me
one thing about me i was no dummy i'm not no dummy when it comes to this education shit i'm on my
piece of keys on a roll principle all the i didn't play that down play that shit and that was another
thing i'm not forget i got bullied for being smart how the fuck can you get bullied for being smart
oh like i always thought of that like how are you gonna bully me for being smart like the
egghead comments that was just one but i feel like the ice on the cake was being called a nerd
i just feel like it's just that ice on the cake for being called a nerd and this is like what the
fuck like really that's that's what we doing that's how you feeling okay mind you when you be the nerd
those be the people the dummies the dumb asses that always want to for help
they always come for you for help when i went to high school
i went to parkville and nobody know what that is parkville is in parkville maryland
i guess she can stay in the county it's bottom of county yeah and i'm from bottom of city what
i'm doing in bottom of county because i didn't want to go to school in the city no more i'm
starting to see his kids just to end up back in the damn city but i'll say this i feel like
when i older brilliant was like oh baby you can say and do anything on social media or social
media you can say anything to me that brought me the wrong way that was all bets were off i
didn't give a shit y'all it's been within my life i would say i almost i never fought never but three
good times i had a chance to but i just felt like every time i wanted to get my hands on the person
that kept messing with me i thought they were snitching on me and i'll never forget y'all like
i don't know you y'all know when y'all have that urge when y'all just want to be like all right
fucking that's all like let's do it let's up like let's go and back then when i was growing up we
were saying squad up i was like i was ready i was gonna go because this i say you know what
when you bully someone and that person that's enough enough is enough enough is enough and
that's how i felt enough was enough and i wanted to get my leg back but i couldn't because i'm sitting
here now with the principal vice principal and all these people because they want to make a change
they want to talk uh in my mind i know who i was raised by my mama and my father in my head is like
hell no all bets off if they if they was not in this room right now i would jump over this table
and whoop their ass but that's the thing y'all the whole message involved that i want y'all to
understand within this is that bullying is one of the things that causes a lot of problems and it
affects a person long time bullying is one of the things that i hate so much like i said hate is a
very strong word but i hate it because why would a person want to crack on a person for being
different or something about them is not something they see on the daily especially when it comes to
people that has disabilities that shit pisses me off at this big age that i am if i was to see another
person that has this big age that i am try to crack slick on somebody that has disability
regardless of how old the person is that has disability i'm sorry i'm i'm like we see me outside
because first of all all of us are born different for one we're all born different but we bleed the
damn same way you see the difference and i just don't understand how any arrogant motherfucker
will have the audacity to sit there crack a joke sniggle giggle whatever the fuck you want to call
it to try to tell another person down isn't so many times y'all at like i say at my big age
i witness grown ass people older than me probably my mom and daddy age that crack through people
like are you are you are you kidding me like are you fucking kidding me you're really going to sit
here crack on this this woman or this is the man because of what they have on or how they're talking
or how they displaying they sell y'all worse than the damn kids the kids the kids learn from y'all
let alone us and i'm telling y'all this because bullying will you do your research on bullying
y'all look at the suicide percentage of how many people with the pack how suicide impacts bullying
just look at it it should not be nowhere in the world that kids that are in elementary school
up until college are getting bullied and it's to the point where there's committing suicide
think about it like i said the tongue is one of the most powerful things you can say something to
a person that you think in your so-called right mind is not bad but to that person that is bad
because you don't know what type of person they are like i said not everybody is built the same
i'm who day by day my skin is getting tougher and tougher and in some part of me that's still
sensitive matter of fact forget the 75 and 25 percent y'all i'm motherfucking in the middle 50-50
because at times it's like okay i'm tough but right now that's it's something so deep to me
affects me yes i'm screaming howl about it yes i'm gonna have some type of i'm a feel
type of way i'm a cry about it whatever it is because i did it the day two people need to
understand this and people were always like oh i'm so i'm so heartless you have feelings too i don't
give a damn if you say you don't you have feelings regardless something will make you feel some type
way is someone i'm telling y'all we have to teach our kids how to approach things what to say what
not to say how to carry things how not to carry things don't touch people's kids if it's not in
the proper way when i say touch people kids not in the proper way like if your friends high five
gently not rough hug gently not rough don't be touching on people and don't touch people
so that don't belong to you okay so we really just have to really be careful and cautious when
it comes to what we do and how we do things because like i said children are many or not many adults
they're children they mean no harm but once they are left out of our presence our like presence and
that they're in a day cares ooh whatever once they're in their presence we have to keep in mind
that we have to display to them positivity and we also have to let them know sometimes
you gotta get crazy like y'all go off the bed like i tell y'all it's kind of a little bit in
three fights my whole life of living i would have been by then and like my parents always was like
i don't want y'all out here fighting because they were fighting but like i said times has changed
now kids is one of the kids has some of the most reckless damn miles ever i'm not a lot of y'all
and it's hard it's so hard sometimes to even be able to drill them because it's like okay you
gotta learn for yourself like when we were growing up we had beyond scarcery i felt like if nobody
could get to you beyond scarcery should be a show that that shows you that you don't want to be in
these situations because them people behind them doors them big dogs behind them doors are the most
biggest bullies ever they're gonna you think you a bully out here you got your freedom baby try being
behind them bars and don't have no freedom you'll be bullied every damn day for dumb shit just for
dumb shit and i feel like people won't understand shit until it's done to them so i know y'all
probably out here like damn that's crazy it is crazy this is the risk of the life we live and
the cookie shouldn't crumble like that and you know at times i say that's how to keep combos but in
this case that this cookie should not come out of the way it does because bullying is one of the most
most common things that happens every day on a daily that we don't pick up on at times because
sometimes we like it is what it is cracking jokes at times can even define bullying especially if
you run a group of friends and say you tell them about a situation or something and they're around
other people and y'all friends they try to crack jokes and try to be slick that's bullying if i tell
you something why the hell you try to crack a joke you try and make a mockery out of me you try and
make a fool out of me what the fuck that's why i say y'all bullying is one of the things that i just
cannot stand it it eats me up the side because if i had the power to if i feel like it was a law
about bullying i think everybody be in jail because like bullying is just so damn hardcore it doesn't
make any sense other things that people do and people don't think you know you gotta think before
you speak bullies don't think before they speak they go off by reaction and actions that triggers me
so much because it's like y'all bullying makes me so mad because like i said we all have been victims
to bullying and i always told myself i cannot sit there and tear down a person for whatever
situations or circumstances that they're going through because i always been the person to act
are you okay do you need help up until this day same thing that's why i want to work with children
those are the ones that i feel as though children need to live a normal childhood children need to
be the children children don't need to be grown-ass adults at four or five years old you're younger
than that children need to be able to do children things play outside play with other children
express their self watch children stuff yes at times children gonna listen to the stuff we
don't see but we gotta keep a pg you know so let that be a saying y'all when it comes to bullying
please please bullying comes in all different shapes and sizes of forms we need to keep up with it
we need to stay on our peace and keep to look at everything around us because it honestly
like i said i'm 21 years old i i heard you know the sense of
long ago in 10 11 years i've been here saying a kid and stuff like that it took me a while to
embrace my crown and when i think my crown in my real hair it took me a long time to embrace my
crown as the the synagogues i've seen it took me a long time to embrace my shape because of the
shit of the starter pack its situation there's another thing i missed i forgot to mention to
y'all my house in middle school i was fat old beast baby yeah it wasn't good i wouldn't say like
you know as ooh sloppy but it still was obese like i should not be down there 200 something pounds
down there 10 11 12 years old in middle school you know no because that's what i'm telling y'all
bullying cause a lot of things for a child that they should not be going through depression
rumano uno no child should be going through depression at a young age two anxiety three
having thoughts of don't want to be here so everything y'all normally say anything and
packing a mental y'all know i'm being going that shit no child should have to worry trust
their self out to the point where that they can't concentrate they don't they lacking the things
that they love to do because of the stuff that they're getting bullied for if if you love to draw
baby who was giving me draw you could be the next goddamn Picasso and they'll be the next motherfucker's
act your show trying to buy your shit or want you to draw for them baby i don't if you like to cook
you be the next chef brardy there'll be the next mother fuckers in your restaurant trying to talk
about you all so holy but you ain't gonna forget what they said about you baby i don't give a crap
if you love to sing if you can sing like Anita Baker there'll be the next ones at your show
trying to get in for free but you ain't gonna forget what they said
baby i don't care if you used to look like who didn't know why and now you look like oh i
i'm the baddest thing out here i'm the handsomest thing out here they're gonna be the ones that's
trying to be all up in your face trying to get up all up in your space trying to see what's up
with you and how can we make it do what it do remember guys the ones that used to bully you
are the ones that's always going to try to swerve or as we say spin the block on you
like i said last week we learned how to forgive and forget with certain stuff we just ain't gonna
forget we ain't gonna forget especially when it comes to bullying words hold power we need to keep
in mind words hold damn power if we like sticks and stones may break my bones but words can't
shit tell it to somebody else people that are close with you not even let me just let's break it down
like this strangers yes that's hard a stranger's believe but imagine your own family and friends
bullying you on shit that's the hardest damn pill to swallow and i know we all that are listening to me
can relate y'all i'm 40 minutes into this taping you know i'm on you know about my business because
usually i'll be done but it's like i said we need to prevent bullying because this is something that
has been going on for decades and decades and decades this been going on when my mother and
father was younger their mother's father was younger their mother and so on and so on and people
just never picked up on what it is but i'm gonna tell you what it is it needs to stop it's getting
out of hand bullying is one of the things like i said it hurts so bad because everybody can't take
a joke trust me certain jokes i'm not taking i'm sorry i'm sorry please argue with your mama i'm
no no even when i crack jokes i know my limits on what i'm saying what i'm not going to say because
whoever i'm joking with i don't give is my homeboys or my best of girlfriends best of girls that are
friends okay let's rephrase that because i know people like to crack jokes on that i know my limits
with them i know my damn limits i know what to crack and what not to crack instead same thing with
my siblings and parents and closest family members i know what to say to them and what not to say
because if i say something that is it cranks up a little bit they're gonna crank it even higher
and if they say something cranking even higher in a joke that i don't like all bets are off and i'm
on your ass like grass i'm telling y'all like i said there is no pros when it comes to this bullying
shit is hella cons that needs to be fixed now not tomorrow right now and i say this to say
in honor of national bullying prevention us as a union have to make sure that we display nothing
but positivity yes at times we're going to have them days where i'm like look joe and all of
don't stop with me and they might come off nasty but i'd rather say it in a way that you understand
better than me saying something that's not going to be so pleasant and a form of bullying that always
tops the cake is taking is making a joke and creating a scene and when you create a scene
and things like that people love to hit that's what they're thinking too bullies keep your damn
hands to yourself don't be touching people's kids if you don't want to be touching you okay that's
another thing bullies fail to realize what makes you think you have the right to put your hands on
somebody and that's another thing bullies always like i said bullies always try to pick on the
people that they know ain't gonna try to tussle back shit took the devil's life because the people
that you all be trying to bully on nice allotin baby they got hands and they've been waiting for
you to try and i was wondering if i had if i'm telling y'all if it's not good for it's not i'm
not typing fights up but letting it be known because people need to understand just because a person
may be short quiet whatever the case may be i'm nervous enough and once somebody's tired they're
gonna show you okay and most of the time them people that are getting bullied whoops them bullies asses
is he wants that bully ass gets whooped that's all better off for their ass because everybody's
going to be talking about you down and then you're going to be laughing damn stop and then you're
going to feel exactly how it felt when you were bullying that that man that woman that girl that
boy okay so y'all i say this to say i'm gonna leave us out on this note with this when it comes to
bullying stand up stand up especially when it comes to children bullying if you see a child if you
like if you work with children period and have kids uh across the parents x y and z parents like
that whatever guardians kinfos whatever if you know your child you know they got a slick tongue and
all that cut it out now get it now because if they don't they're going to do something so bad
and it's not going to be good and if you know a child or children are getting bullied help them
before it be too late like i said let's keep in mind if i could pull up the numbers of children
or people in general that committed suicide due to bullying y'all will be shocked because i was
shocked when i see it i can't remember the numbers i'm not going to pull up right now because it's
gonna take me a good time to look up the one i was reading but yes as i say this to say
if you know a child that's being bullied get them the help they deserve be the change
help them be with them make sure that you know they're telling you what's going on
or if you see it if you get a sense of bullying stop it especially when it comes to teachers day care
about us coaches all that if y'all know y'all children that y'all work with for years stuff like
that get on top of it don't let it slide because if you was a if you were a witness to that you
could prevent you can prevent anything for it happening same thing with parents as well you
know your child you know your child got a slick tongue and want to be get them for both parties
basically both parties please help them so we won't get out of hand because y'all i'm telling y'all
even at my big age we still we still get bullied whatever age you are 20 and up 20s 30s 40s 50s
60s 70s 80s get bullied for shit that should not even be relevant for you to even crack a joke let
alone want to make a mockery out of okay so must say this again as this as this being said please be
the change please create a change please be a leader for children let alone the youth period
all of us period because there's some adults out here that just god help us with that being said y'all
please please please if you know see anything would ever prevent it for it escalates because
we don't need to wake up and see on social media the media are here touching such as this or this
happened to such such x y and z prevent that stuff before it gets so out of hand to the point where
it's like whoa okay i noticed a lot of taking this episode was really long but it touched
based on something that needs to be said it needs to be done because bullying is it's not a joke it's
not and before i was told we're in please wear orange y'all i'm aware of my orange either tomorrow
before halloween how about that i'm aware of my orange if i knew sooner y'all probably
would be wearing orange and pink all month but i didn't know like as always i don't know as soon
because you don't hear as much of it so yeah you know get me wrong we we we fight for breast cancer
we love it we're bullying too we need to put a stand order and make it as no as well okay so
i leave you guys on this note by saying i thank you guys for taking the time out to listen to me
because baby this one is long almost 50 minutes down there i wish y'all nothing but the best peace
and blessings like i say all the time please be safe out here wherever you are please be safe
if i get dark outside like at five o'clock so please be on your peace accused out here you
know it's getting holiday time people get wicked and all that shit isn't it please when your peace
accused please mind the what be safe this is that time where we get sick most of us so yes please be
on your peace and keys when it comes to the mental physical appearance make sure that everything's
intact make sure you're safe if you have any protection on you please you know use it when
necessary and as always please please please please please please put yourself first even if you have
a bad day take by 10 15 20 however long minutes you need to do to regroup on yourself because your
mental matters and it's coming from me because i'm practicing what i preach on myself so with
that being said y'all i wish y'all a happy wednesday or whenever you guys listen to me please be safe
out here and as always you guys will hear from me next week next Wednesday okay so i see y'all later
well i hear from y'all later y'all will hear from me later and please do not be afraid to send me
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