Hey y'all whether it's morning evening or afternoon I'm just glad that you guys
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listen to my voice okay so let's get into it. Today's vibe of the day is fashion.
Yes today's vibe of the day is fashion and let me say a lot I thought today I
should talk about fashion because like I said you know the black national black
business month came out or whatever and you know I'm a female who loves fashion
is obsessed with it and gets all her fashion ideas from Pinterest shout out
to Pinterest like I'm telling y'all like I get it from Pinterest Instagram
Amazon and things like that and most definitely the Amazon influencers because
them girls be given all the time but I'm only the men out to cuz y'all
fashion because I'd be stealing y'all dad on cargo pants okay y'all pants mm the
pants and t-shirts everything I tried to like combine both genders together
within my fashion and then because sometimes I'm gonna stop that men have
or make it pull off especially if it's plain Jane or design nothing big pull
it off well let's get into it y'all so let me give you a little rundown from
the black book about fashion from like my research and Louis stuff that I wrote
down so let's get into it. Fashion is considered changing the world like it
is constantly can changing is constantly changing the world y'all like
fashion is really really really changing the world like including the clothes
accessories makeup and hairstyles it's a way for us to express ourselves and
showcase our unique identity like the fashion trends that are influenced by
social culture economics and artis factors it plays a significant role in
shaping popularity cultures and reflecting the values of different
social realities like the fashion world is a dynamic industry that is inspired
that has inspired us to explore our true style like I'm not a lot like from
the black on businesses itself I've seen a lot of people from their designs their
logos and everything their fashion has put a very big impact onto the world and
some other cultures as well like it's does such that was amazing like that was
really amazing me like when it comes to fashion I feel like people need to
respect others fashion choices like it's a way to acknowledge the diversity and
appreciate different perseverance like denying them the freedom to like express
themselves is harmful like celebrating each other's fashion creates an exclusive
society where everyone feels value and empowered to be themselves let me stop
right here before I finish the reason why that part I really wrote when I was
like thinking when I was thinking about what I'm gonna talk about deeper to
fashion cuz like it's a lot to talk about but that I said you know a lot of
people get judged on how they dress and why they dress the way they do why they
do the hair they make up because why they wear this and that a lot of people do
not like just how can I put this in the like then I'm not gonna say negative it's
not negative but how can I put this in a way to everybody want to stand it it's
like everybody's different we're all different like my style may be different
from the next person like if a dude got a certain style is different like
culture wise like I'm abuse like you know Baltimore for example I'm born and
raised in Baltimore we are known for any balance then I give moves okay like New
York they're known for the Timberlands and the bubble coach you know like in a
lot of cultures in cities and stuff like that they're known for a lot of things
when it comes to this fashion so when it comes to fashion everybody is different
and I respect that because some of these people are doing I want to do it
but I'd be like oh I could do that I could do that but this is the thing that messes
up is the fashion world as well sometimes like you can't really sometimes
when it comes to fashion sometimes we do get a little bit uncomfortable on even
just wanting to wear or do certain stuff because we're always gonna get backlash
and the thing about fashion I like is that it's a way to express yourself the
art that you create like the visions that you have in your mind when it comes to
the art that you want to do because I feel like this once you put outfit
together you're walking you're walking piece of damn art I'm not even really
a lot like a lot of people I see especially Bobby going to HBCU and I'm
around a lot of my people their fashion ideas are very very unique to me some of
the stuff they that I want to pull off I'd be like I can't do it but I like to
see other people do it it's phenomenal especially with the hairstyles oh my
gosh like the one color that I'm I'm scared of bright colors y'all I'm scared
to put bright colors in my head because I'm like scared already enough like I
don't think I need to put anything more light than me like light green light
blue yellow purple but I'm not gonna but I'm I just be like I can't do it people
like why are you knocking yourself do it do it do it I be like no shout out to
my brown skin and dark skin women because they pull they can pull off them
colors like once they had them colors on their hair and you know like once you
get a fresh do you start glowing and let me tell y'all my first week of school
when I seen all the beautiful black women with all the different color
hairstyles and a fashion unique system with it I'm like girl I like that and I
love to give compliments when it's do you gotta give them people compliments when
it's due because that could make somebody down like oh my gosh girl like
your hair I like how you ate it your nails your makeup and stuff like that
because that is being a part of fashion world is one of the major things that I
feel like us black people is taking over like when it comes to the head the
makeup the accessories the clothes the shoes any designer and past with that we
turn nothing into something like we are so creative it is ridiculous like back
to national black owned business mom I seen a lot of people like I started
seeing new you know businesses that's in the city as well local in local in the
city or starting out and I've seen their craft and how they did this turn this
into this and did this and did that one piece of clothing material that I say
people can really really turn snuff and something is denim denim I feel like I
love denim I love a good denim outfit anything if you can turn one piece of
denim cloth into a hair bag bows earrings anything you good you good at
your craft because when it comes to this fashion industry people be like I
can't do that I won't do that but you're saying that but the next person is like I
want that and I'm like that because when we sometimes people have small
minded people think very small they don't think of other ways they always
think of one way but when you have that other aspect on like thinking creative
you know the growth mindset you are a stopper especially when it comes to this
fashion like fashion is one of the key ways that I feel like the culture has
been impacted in so many ways because it's like over the years especially with
the hair styles over the years for both black men and women hair styles mean
it meant everything but like cornrows the patterns the textures colors things
like that like you're our hair back then with our ancestors love you know the
type of art that we get in our head that was more like cold secret cold jewels to
like how to escape how to do this how to do that and until this day it's still a
lot and it is so inspiring me like box braids not list cornrows straight backs
all that type of stuff the afro kinky texture here all that it's like so
empowering because like it's a pack with fashion because I feel like to like your
hair is up your hair's art regardless of what it is like when I look at my hair
sometimes I be like this thing right here on top of my head like a mop but
somebody else this like is art like look at your texture look at your color look
at the length like this is art and that impacts on the fashion world too because
certain things that we might not do like walk outside with our hair where is the
people are making it look good and that's what fashion I feel like it's all
about making something look good some people may think it's tacky but I don't
think so that's why I say like that's why I said like we have to value
everybody's opinions especially in this fashion world because turn people be like
I'm not wearing that I'm not doing that that's your business but I'm telling you
if you don't want to wear it okay that's your business but the next 45678
million people will be on this trend and it's gonna make some money and that's
the thing some people like they don't you're not looking for that they just
doing that cuz this is what they like to do and shout out to the people that make
their own clothes and do everything by their self when it comes to the fashion
because like I see a lot of girls they like the hats made like literally you
sitting on a tiktok doing the yarn crocheting all that together the bags
everything like it's like when it comes to this fashion world you gotta be
talented and you gotta make sure that blueprint you have in your head or drawn
out really comes to life like that sketch and everything make sure it is what
you said you have it set on to be because it's like it's not easy in the
fashion world it's not and that's why I wrote like we have to respect each other's
fashion choices because we all have a different way of expressing ourselves
fashion is a way to express ourselves especially what we wear and how we wear
it especially when it comes to us women if we have it hard especially when it
comes to the fashion world because we can wear certain stuff and people like
uh-uh that's slutty that's tacky I can't do that but then four or five months
later or a couple days later another person has this on but they're like
another race but then oh that's fashion no I feel like it should be equal
boundaries like if a black woman can pull off wearing a one piece on a daily
she should not be called she should not be shamed she should not be such slain
through anything first with a white woman all that's fashion no I feel like it
should be the same way however like I said I rise from our black community we
gonna make anything look good I don't give nobody say so y'all can talk all
day about how we look at my it's all like we gonna make that shit look good
okay because whoo one thing about us black people we won't make something
shake even when it comes to like the vengeance the vintage styles like oh my
god's like on canvas y'all I seen one girl she had on what is in jeans called I
don't know but they weren't the I can't think of but they were very vintage I
think we were little we had these jeans I can't think of she put the jeans on she
designed it real good like I see the patterns the details the art everything
she had like it was so dope to me like I was just like oh my god that looks so
good like how did you do that like anything vintage y'all I am obsessed
with it because it's like old stuff like this action is the new thing now I
feel like a lot of things are coming back like high waist pins cargos the
certain tops especially the sweatsuits like the valver ones with soft feeling
and stuff like that like for example the big brand we were little baby fat when
they made that comeback last year and someone still this year every girl in
America was back wearing baby fat like I swear like everybody was wearing it in
like it was just like coming back or like people wearing baby fat juicy
couture when they made their comeback everybody was on it I was even on it
was so bad I couldn't even find my size so like where they come to fashion
anything vintage it turns me up like it really really turned me up and because
back then we used to like we were little and you see like pictures of let's say
your parents when they taught you to wear their clothes or like their old
magazines or pictures like when you're school they be like showing you
pictures of people in their fashion like that's some ass what is that yeah we
get orders like I want to be like that because those fashion ideas and the
creators behind it they make them money and still to this day like I said like
baby fat and juicy couture when they made a little comeback on stuff people were
on it like people really really really was on that stuff it like and still to
this day when it comes to a lot of stuff like seven jeans true religions loot
Levi like people are still on this stuff but people just don't know like I've
seen some girls wearing baby fat I was like whoa they're wearing baby fat like
certain stuff people be like oh my god it's not making a comeback little by
little it is it's just not probably as big as one company or companies as now
but they're big like for example with the accessories like the bag I love a good
tote bag tote cross body I love it I'm real big on supporting the black
business like you know we got the Teleford the Brandon blackwood
protect black women and so on and so on those bags day by day are getting notice
every day just by the fashion icons every single day and I tried so hard to
get certain bags that I want but every time I get in there go and like oh my
god it makes me bad but I'd like it's not my time right now I'm gonna get that bag
though but I'm gonna tell you all like when it comes to this fashion world it's
amazing it's really amazing like from every idea that I see on Pinterest like
I mentioned earlier Pinterest really sets the ball rolling for everybody
especially for this generation like I seen a lot of pieces on Pinterest that I
remember like I recreated like sometimes when I'm being on Pinterest I'm like okay
I need to get an idea by many things to get an idea from the picture not to copy
it but sometimes I like if it really look good I would like oh yeah I gotta do
this I have to do this because if it looked good on the model or how they had
like you know the board of from the hairstyle the shirt the bottoms the shoes
the accessories and how it's supposed to look and if I really really fuck with
that layout I want to take that layout and run with it okay like it's
gradually when it comes to hit the tone because I'm gonna tell you all the people
behind that make these boards all the women and men that make them boys on
Pinterest Instagram Facebook Twitter all that shout out to y'all because y'all
really take your time and it y'all really help people in need especially
for like people that like I can't dress I don't know how to dress I would tell
people some you'll know how to dress and stuff baby I'm gonna help you Pinterest
was a post placement postmark whatever is thank postmark they sometimes they
put it outfit together the model will have it and say oh you could wear this
with that when they sell it like put it in the description some people be like
we do this do that but also this is another thing to like when you shop online
like Amazon oh my god shout out to Amazon y'all like Amazon emailed me about
being in swanson and it shocked me because I was like oh my gosh like you know
when you in your flooring so bad you really really really got to stay on the
top of content y'all so please say soon said that yes I will be making some
content on Amazon give me all a little bit of insight because like I said I
love fashion like well little girl it was so bad I want to be my own fashion
designer however I can't draw I couldn't draw and it's like you have to sketch how
you want to design the look and I was like I cannot draw for nothing but I
didn't let that stop me because like even though I'm not a personal fashion
designer I'm my own designer I have my best friends out my friends my parents
my siblings anybody that be asking me I need help can you help me or like what
you got on can you help me with a similar look I don't gatekeep nothing I'm not
the type to gatekeep nothing if you want to know where I got it from I'll let you
know oh Amazon she was got Amazon she a car a gap like you know sometimes you
don't have to go to the high brand stores to make a good outfit like going to
simple places if you like know how to dress or you have somebody that's there
to help you they'll go to stores that's probably under $200 and help you make an
outfit that's under $200 that's including accessories the shoes everything like I
love going to stores and they and there are people in there that are willing to
help you put stuff together because at times it's hard to find clothes like you
know when you're younger your parents put all your outfits together and sometimes
you like this time in it and then we'll get to a certain age and you start making
money and stuff is like okay I'm doing what I want with my money and buying this
I'm buying that like I tell y'all I lie to y'all not when I started making money
and started like knowing what I want to wear and how I want to wear stuff
basically finding what I like within my fashion like finding what makes me and
who I am I was unstoppable especially when it comes to the hair now when it
comes to the hair y'all I didn't realize from a woman's perspective it's hard
especially when you younger like I feel like once you get to high school that's
when you had the choice like to wear like weave and stuff like that and that's
how to wear weave in high school I was natural from a little kid up till ninth
grade but and then I started playing sports so it was like if I was to get a
sewing y'all it would fray up because it's hot for one you going back to school
it's hot still I play sports so every time I had long hair that thing being
a ponytail so then I was like okay it's back to going to breathe that's nothing
to when I was younger too like it was either your natural hair or breeze that
was the only incentive you was getting or fake bond that was about it but when
you got older like ninth grade college enough that's on you that's your choice
you know if you want to weave get a weave you want box braids box braids you
know you know once you get older and you start like I don't want to say I do
want to say identifying itself but then I don't want to say identify yourself
when you feel comfortable that's why I want to say comfortable thing yourself and
know what you like and know what you don't like you even out the options of
how you want things to go like you want to stop it was like say for instance
like me when I was young on mom we used to shop at Target for us a gap
children's place justice airpods store amber Comby till this day I don't wear
nothing from them so forget except forget like certain stuff I just you know
children's space up that's for children justice out of business you know certain
stories like it's out of business or on their way out of business when I got
older and started knowing what I like and knowing what I don't like especially
when it came to fashion I was unstoppable and that's the thing about
fashion I like a lot that fashion really really fashion is always one of the ways
that it helps people identify they self it helps people know who they really are
like I said fashion is like one of the many things that I feel like it's making
money real fast it does and it helps people identify who they are and fashion
is when you put something on brand new old vintage I don't care if you make
that shit look good baby you are walking art because trust me it
sometimes we're like this outfit looks a mess I got on people like I'm like that
I'd like this looks a mess or you know the old saying like your parents say
mainly your mother's grandmother's aunties this old thing yes I'm fine I
realized to you that old thing can look so new to somebody it makes them be like
where you get it from and what makes it mad too if it's really old and it's
the worst about a business like damn I can't tell you I tell you like it's like
damn I want to tell you but I don't because I don't want to hurt your
feelings like so trust me like I really really really believe that fashion is the
way to connect and express ourselves like it influence trends reflect
identities in it is more accessible than ever like the industry is always
changing like sparking creativity and confidence in us like things to own our
shopping if there's fashion brands fashion is more like accessible is
making it easy for people to express with new looks it's fake up to date with
the latest trends like fashion is empowering and empowering us individuals
to show like to showcase our uniqueness in fashion like our fostered confidence
within it's an expression also when it comes to this like passion is a canvas
of self-expression where style becomes art and creativity like no and it has no
boundaries like no no boundaries so we will go out here wearing a chin chila
down here you wearing a chin chila lion tiger if you make that look good baby
I'm not judging cuz I'm quick to say you got some money cuz I ain't walking around
with no real chinchilla I'm sorry that's another thing too and I was little I was
obsessed with fur y'all like fur coats like I don't know what it was it's I
felt like if you had a fur coat we had some money for a lover coat I felt like
you had some money like and tell this day I feel like oh you got a fur coat you
got some money but every time I think about fur now I think of job dozzling
with Stevie through the drink and she said oh you just messed up my friend
so I don't care what nobody say to this day I still believe that if you were in
a fur chin chila tiger lion leather you got money cuz man prices on fashion too
is high like oh my gosh y'all like fashion is so high especially when it
comes to the clothing when it comes to the clothing y'all it is so crazy
because like for example me I'm real big on outerwear when it's gonna say
outerwear I mean jackets hoodies coats things like that I'm big on that
especially when a jean jacket lover jackets sweaters cardigans I'm big on
that and I feel like that has to be a part of my outfit I don't care how warm
cold hot it is I have to wear a jacket now let me go back let me backtrack oh
this is how I tell I'm not wearing no jacket I'm sorry I'm at the wear a shirt
that's like a good lip you know like the shoulder length or a tank something like
that you know but sometimes I feel like it was one my side it's a must I have a
jacket on cuz they go without fit because it's another thing to with fashion
like I'm sure what colors like this thing that if that makes me excited
every time when I think about fashion and people be like I don't want to wear so
much colors I don't want to do this I'm just a people on time black white black
white gray go with anything black white and gray go with anything like those
colors go with anything I don't care if you got an all-orange girl you better
have some white black or gray in that outfit like you better have something
they like yeah I'm gonna tell y'all on my first day of school y'all got so
follow me on Instagram I wore three shades of gray I really did I wore three
shades of gray like my shirt was a different type of gray it was like a
off no my shoes like a off gray tight vibe then my cargoes they were like a
medium gray tone and then like my shirt was like a light tone now let me tell
y'all something it's always somebody's gonna say why do you have all that on
like I've been and not be like I like this cuz this is how I like to dress
that's thing too like some people be like you know how to dress and then you
be looking at them like this is what I like I can't judge you for what you like
but you try to judge me for what I like and what I wear no and that's the thing
too like the number one rule I think should be in fashion is don't judge
nobody cuz everybody's fashion statement is different especially when it comes to
the dudes I'm not gonna lie y'all can turn plain Jane outfits into something
especially when it comes to the white the black T's polo like pasta oh my gosh
hangs if y'all still even wear those or the designer shirts y'all I'm slowly falling
love with a money exchange like I was on there their website earlier they got a
sale going on I was like these little plain Jane shirts look a little cute and
for the price of it I was like this even more better shout out to the men y'all
y'all really be putting that shit on like I really be seeing y'all putting
that shit on especially when I'm looking at my home we're like okay you'll put
that shit on I fuck with it they got a fresh cut we twisted fresh brains or
whatever they be really filling a cell but I'll be pumping it up cuz I pop them
up but they be the truth because like where I'm from we big old fashion too
and we big on a lot of fashion and we set trends people like bottom way set
nothing baby we set some trends I'm keeping nobody saying y'all are with me
all day but one thing about us bought some rings quote-unquote we're gonna throw
that shit on we're gonna put it on okay like I don't give nobody say like I
really feel like when it comes to this fashion world anybody can put it on but
you just have to be confident within it that's me that's the thing to that should
be like number one two as well well number one should be be confident within
your clothes like you know like the saying the person don't make the clothes
don't make the person the person makes the clothes and that's what I'm saying
to you with this fashion like if you see a piece make sure you know you feel
comfortable within that piece of clothing that you have on because it's
like it's really a sign of feeling good I feel like why am I here man y'all got
not with breeze I'm telling y'all I said six to seven hours faithfully with these
to get these breeze these not list but lift breeze okay not list but learn
okay I haven't had not list since last year of September I was determined to
get my head done especially since the semester was coming up and I'd be working
and I do the podcast too don't be wrong I love the weeds I love natural hair but
I'm giving my hair a good break so when it comes to like your hairstyles your
clothing when you decide and you finally decide on it please make sure you're
comfortable and you like you're standing turn you stand in firm on this
because once it's there like once it's it is it like once you know it's there
it's there you know or nothing you can really do about it because like you know
once you got it you got it like once you got it in your head okay this one
would do it I'm gonna do this and I'll make sure I do it like this and it come
out like this I'm good now however when it comes to fashion you're not gonna lie
we all had them bad moments when we had them outfits in our mind and we put it
on it it looked like what the hell Craig like I lied to y'all not like your hair
could be done that's another thing too I'm not putting on no new clothes my
hair not done it all my hair does not look like something I think that's a
girl thing I really think it's the girls thing because like men they don't
young kids and I respect that for y'all but me and the other ladies that's
listening I know y'all can relate like if my head not done I'm not putting on
no new outfit because it's like I got a little good from here to talk and it's
not even for other people it's just for me it's for me my sanity this is what I
like and this is what our vision in my vision ain't come to what I thought it
was that's why y'all I feel like too you got always have other ideas in mind
because sometimes like at the first one I'm gonna go to the second one
third four fifth 10 I don't care long as you feel comfortable within that outfit
you like okay this why I feel like this I'm staying firm on cool I applaud it I'm
not you know sometimes we all had a moment like wise this person outside
like this and now I got older I'm like that's that's how they express
they sell this is you know like I say we are walking art like we're walking
pieces of art with every little thing we have on is art I don't care nobody say
even from the tattoos that's art that's body art you know I love tattoos like
what I got my first tattoo a month ago I was a little skeptical because I'm like
you know the stage on it forever forever and you know like a old and gray and
in the grave this will tell me forever and people are going to see this and I
have to make sure that I'm feel comfortable with it because at the end
of the day this decision I made for myself and this is a piece of art that
everybody's going to see I don't and then you have to be prepared for the good
in the bed that's another thing to when it comes to fashion like you just got to
be prepared for the negative outcomes you gotta be prepared for the good but
you always got to remember you made this shit work and that's all that matters so
when it comes to the clothes perspective I applaud everybody know how to put that
shit on that want to put it on for them this how they express themselves this is
you know adding little own pieces ideas and everything I applaud y'all because
like it's not easy like it's not easy especially like if you're not a perfect
I'm not a professional designer I'm not but I feel like low-key I am for myself
because it's like this is me like oh my god I'm really dressing myself up like
this and I'm also helping other people too like especially coming events with
my friends especially my best friend she like I need your help please help me
find outfit I'm like I always be like how you want to how you want to look you
want to look classy you want to look you know you want to show a little skin you
know that's another thing to with the fashion like sometimes different
occasions you got it you know when you young your parents be like or your
guardians be like these clothes are your play clothes these clothes are going out
clothes these are school clothes these are school shoes you know stuff you have
shoes for every different occasion and for when you need to put them on especially
when it comes to outfits oh my gosh I don't laugh many outfits those be the
ones sometimes I'd be like damn I wish this vision was in my head like even
sometimes where I'll wake up because sometimes I draw not sometimes most of
the time I always try I keep saying try most of the time I have clothes laid out
for like school work and events however if I know if I forget an event or
something or like I was really tired to come put no clothes look come put no
clothes out whatever I see first shirt pants literally I put it on and if it
look good they're like damn damn I thought this outfit was gonna be
brummy but really it turned out to be a good one and that's just how it is in
the fashion world like at times certain things we like make fun of make fun of
it's really impacting thousands and thousands and millions and trillions of
people all year like when you are trend set up baby you set trends and people
are following it that's good it brings happiness it brings a sound of like oh
my god somebody is really loving my work they're loving what I bring to the
table in my ideas I'm gonna keep going so shout out to all y'all everybody that
has their own way unique style of defining itself and they feel comfortable
when you're within who you are like because it's hard y'all is really hard
sometimes to be able to go outside and be different because you don't want to be
like everybody else basically come to fashion you don't want to be dressed
like everybody you want to stand out and trust me sometimes you got to do the
most people like why you got all that on it cuz this is what I want I brought it
and I'm aware it hello and sometimes people like oh your outfit's too loud
good I'm glad it got your attention because I was the point sometimes we are
doing we do things like that to get points but it sometimes like this this I
just put this on cuz I liked it I felt comfortable in it and you know this is
why like where are the women I know I'm not only one in a man weeks I know I'm
not if I got on if I got on Keisha if I got my you know good nice long middle
part jet black wig on feeling like Keisha you know sometimes like you want to
feel like sometimes I want to feel presidential sometimes I want to feel
like feel tomboy sometimes I want to feel girlish that's just how the fashion
world is that's the thing I love about fashion you could be anybody you want
that day within the fashion within the clothes but you know underneath them
clothes you steal your government name or your nickname you go by way so like
safe I'm looking like Michelle Obama I know I know I'm even call it you know
I'm irregardless my appearance just give off Michelle but I'm not like Michelle
I'm y'all that but now with accessories like hats earrings hats earrings bags all
that stuff no let me tell y'all fun people are really creative with it really
especially with the hats I love me a good fitted the fitted adjustable all that I
love that I'm obsessed with hats like hats are really just like all different
types of hats as well to the bucket hat the yarn hats I'm starting to really fall
in love with the yarn hats because the girls that be wearing it it's like oh my
gosh another level of love with who is the beanies oh my gosh when dudes wear
the beanies oh my god I thought I thought so in love with it because I'm like that
also impacts the outfit I'm not very loud to y'all you know I feel like accessories
plays a big part within the outfit too because that helps the outfit out a lot
that puts a big impact on outfit cuz like for example like for girls sometimes
we got a bummy outfit on we put them hoop earrings on the band who earrings on
in a minute and it makes the outfit a little bit better and we get that makeup
on or put a little bit of lip gloss blush eyelashes do the brows whatever that's
going to make the outfit better so I always say like accessories always play
a key part the bags hats the jewelry anything that impacts with your outfit
and you want to put dazzling up on the dress up a little bit real you know put
a little sookie sookie sookie you want it the accessories always gonna play a big
part because they are helping reflect the outfit and it's helping reflect you as
well like man I love fashion like oh the fashion world is just amazing is it so
mind-blowing to me y'all like it's just so it's worth it's worth it like oh my
gosh especially when you are on like social media and look at the celebrities
too sometimes those trends do set I'm not even a lot because certain stuff that
I'd like where now some celebrities I got inspired with but mainly when it comes
to them in the Florence's or social media they also helped me too because like
that's what I like to when it comes to the floor answers everybody comes in
different shapes and sizes and it always they all like that's no but I'm gonna
give this a fashion over fashion over there display a person that's a
different shape versus with a different size as well the same outfit but they
just display how it would look on a different person and that makes me so
happy because like certain store nowadays certain stuff you can't get
within a plus size if it's in regular size and it makes me mad I'm like dang I
want the same thing that they had in regular size I'm not ready to squeeze
my ass and anything that I can't fit especially when it comes to the shirts
and the pants I'm not squeezing anything in it like I'm not finna do it so like
when people like online and stuff they really like you know have the same
product was on a different person at a different state besides it makes me feel
so good because I'm okay they have that so I don't got to feel bad if not having
it you know that's nothing about fashion too like we all come in different
sizes but whatever we wear the fashion that we you know display and stuff I
feel like it tells a story I feel like the clothes tells a story like you know
when you're having a bummy days like it's like okay I see how you feel sometimes
also too like I'm gonna put in my major y'all I'm a social work major sometimes
when you see a client and they dress in certain way you like are you okay like
sometimes look your outfits can just tend express how you feeling before you can
even say it out your mouth like it's been times where I come to like I would come
to school and it'd be lazy also some bummy stuff because I'm like I'm tired I
just put something on and everybody say the sweatpants and the hoodie just tops
off lazy depressed depending on how you wear it and I'm like that's true but if
I'm wearing a sweatsuit and I look good and I got a little detail don't say I'm
depressed or don't say who or she is depressed because they look good the
only way I would say it'd be depressed if they got a big oversized million of
some oversized sweatpants and they had the hood on and they walking around like
yeah something wrong something right but that's why I believe like you know the
clothes don't make the person the person makes the clothes so you know you
really can't judge like I always say you can't judge a book by its cover until
you sit down really open and see what's going on because sometimes they can be
just running errands and they just don't anything that's nothing to when I go
outside sometimes I'm running errands and I know I'm running errands like
literally going here to get this that they're not walking like a fashion show and
that's another thing too sometimes the narrative for us women is also like you
gotta stay up to par because you don't know who's watching you sometimes do I
really want to get up do my hair make sure my eyebrows look like this my
lashes look like this just to impress somebody no no if I want to impress
somebody I'm gonna do it but it like sometimes you're not looking for the
energy and that's nothing too when it comes to being a female the things that
we wear sometimes it do draw attention and even if you have a nice shape it
just it makes it hard for you to us some include myself it makes it hard for us
to really just like wear clothing and be comfortable with it on hold because it's
always somebody that's trying to attack us and same thing for men too because
certain stuff that they wear to they get attacked and it's just like we're wearing
clothes even if it's like fully covered body like fully covered clothing you
still get attacked just because of your shape and I'm gonna tell this to this
should be a rule also in the fashion world be comfortable in your skin don't
worry about your shape just be overall you feel good about who you are so
basically that it does impact with the rule I said earlier about what is being
a confident feeling comfortable because with their fashion is to display how you
feel how you are what you like why you did this why you did that and I really
say that we're working we're working art we're working piece art because art
tells a story a picture is worth a thousand words our outfits are the work
a thousand words too because the way you wear it how you like design did or put
the accessories hair makeup together as well it explains how you are what a
person you are and what you like and that makes you you so y'all this look
this this episode a little longer than I thought it was and I'm glad it was
because I really just feel like fashion should just be a vibe that needs to be
said but in the positive way because like I said who does not like fashion and
some people you know they're not big on fashion but I say either way you go you
have to like fashion because you wear clothes and even if your clothes is
basic plain change that still expresses who you are it's like you just not just
like people think oh cuz you're just playing you just wear plain stuff like
uh sometimes a good thing because like you can put anything with plain the
accessories can top it off the hair your makeup your nails toes whatever the
little details can also help impact it outfit in a big way that goes for both
males and females like a lot of us have different ways of expressing ourselves
sometimes we'd be playing tomboyish feminine masculine it is what it is just
as long as you feel comfortable in them clothes and in your skin you have nothing
to worry about okay so I believe with I believe y'all with this when it comes to
the next time you wake up in the morning I don't care if you're gonna work going
to school running errands ready to walk the dog I don't care whatever you put on
feel comfortable in it I don't care if you are happy sad depressed excited
whatever just be comfortable in your own skin that's another thing that within
the fashion world always say to you like be comfortable who you are who cares
what the next person say because who cares that's their opinions you know what
you are and you know who you are okay so the next time I'm okay what you doing I
don't care what you doing or what you wearing just make sure you comfortable
in it and do when you ask please please be prepared for the backlash but as
the end of the day maybe be comfortable with them whatever you're wearing I don't
care if you go outside like I said I don't give you a go outside with a
mink coat on if you feel like the baddest thing in there so I get and if
people hate it on you let them hate because if you don't have no head is
you ain't poppin okay so yes I hope you guys have enjoyed this episode because I
did like this this part of the longest episode I have so far I don't think
nothing's topping the one I made about you know minutes or so I but this one
probably is I'm not sure I haven't looked at the time but I know it's a little bit
over the 45 minute range but yes I leave I just want y'all to be safe be blessed
you know still hot outside so you don't drink your water make sure you feel good
you know make sure you don't everything that helps you feel like the best you
you can be I wish y'all a whole piece of blessings and I cannot wait for you guys
to hear me next time bye