1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:05,360 Hey y'all whether it's morning evening or afternoon I'm just glad that you guys 2 00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:12,240 had decided to vibe with me. Yes I'm E. I'm your host for the ones that don't know. 3 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:18,000 Welcome to Vivaldi with E and to the oldie bagoody Vivald babies. 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Today's vibe of the day is fashion. 11 00:00:57,080 --> 00:01:04,440 Yes today's vibe of the day is fashion and let me say a lot I thought today I 12 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:10,240 should talk about fashion because like I said you know the black national black 13 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:18,240 business month came out or whatever and you know I'm a female who loves fashion 14 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:22,640 is obsessed with it and gets all her fashion ideas from Pinterest shout out 15 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:28,200 to Pinterest like I'm telling y'all like I get it from Pinterest Instagram 16 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:34,600 Amazon and things like that and most definitely the Amazon influencers because 17 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:39,800 them girls be given all the time but I'm only the men out to cuz y'all 18 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:45,520 fashion because I'd be stealing y'all dad on cargo pants okay y'all pants mm the 19 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:50,080 pants and t-shirts everything I tried to like combine both genders together 20 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:54,960 within my fashion and then because sometimes I'm gonna stop that men have 21 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:59,920 or make it pull off especially if it's plain Jane or design nothing big pull 22 00:01:59,920 --> 00:02:04,960 it off well let's get into it y'all so let me give you a little rundown from 23 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:09,360 the black book about fashion from like my research and Louis stuff that I wrote 24 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:16,240 down so let's get into it. Fashion is considered changing the world like it 25 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:21,160 is constantly can changing is constantly changing the world y'all like 26 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:27,640 fashion is really really really changing the world like including the clothes 27 00:02:27,640 --> 00:02:34,960 accessories makeup and hairstyles it's a way for us to express ourselves and 28 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:40,640 showcase our unique identity like the fashion trends that are influenced by 29 00:02:40,640 --> 00:02:49,560 social culture economics and artis factors it plays a significant role in 30 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:54,720 shaping popularity cultures and reflecting the values of different 31 00:02:54,720 --> 00:03:01,800 social realities like the fashion world is a dynamic industry that is inspired 32 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:11,040 that has inspired us to explore our true style like I'm not a lot like from 33 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:16,840 the black on businesses itself I've seen a lot of people from their designs their 34 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:21,800 logos and everything their fashion has put a very big impact onto the world and 35 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:26,120 some other cultures as well like it's does such that was amazing like that was 36 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:31,200 really amazing me like when it comes to fashion I feel like people need to 37 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:36,720 respect others fashion choices like it's a way to acknowledge the diversity and 38 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:44,200 appreciate different perseverance like denying them the freedom to like express 39 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:52,200 themselves is harmful like celebrating each other's fashion creates an exclusive 40 00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:58,760 society where everyone feels value and empowered to be themselves let me stop 41 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:04,040 right here before I finish the reason why that part I really wrote when I was 42 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:09,280 like thinking when I was thinking about what I'm gonna talk about deeper to 43 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:14,360 fashion cuz like it's a lot to talk about but that I said you know a lot of 44 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:20,920 people get judged on how they dress and why they dress the way they do why they 45 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:25,640 do the hair they make up because why they wear this and that a lot of people do 46 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:33,560 not like just how can I put this in the like then I'm not gonna say negative it's 47 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:36,560 not negative but how can I put this in a way to everybody want to stand it it's 48 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:42,000 like everybody's different we're all different like my style may be different 49 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:46,840 from the next person like if a dude got a certain style is different like 50 00:04:46,840 --> 00:04:51,160 culture wise like I'm abuse like you know Baltimore for example I'm born and 51 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:58,480 raised in Baltimore we are known for any balance then I give moves okay like New 52 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:01,920 York they're known for the Timberlands and the bubble coach you know like in a 53 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:06,280 lot of cultures in cities and stuff like that they're known for a lot of things 54 00:05:06,280 --> 00:05:11,040 when it comes to this fashion so when it comes to fashion everybody is different 55 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:17,240 and I respect that because some of these people are doing I want to do it 56 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:23,040 but I'd be like oh I could do that I could do that but this is the thing that messes 57 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:29,280 up is the fashion world as well sometimes like you can't really sometimes 58 00:05:29,280 --> 00:05:34,640 when it comes to fashion sometimes we do get a little bit uncomfortable on even 59 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:40,280 just wanting to wear or do certain stuff because we're always gonna get backlash 60 00:05:40,280 --> 00:05:45,600 and the thing about fashion I like is that it's a way to express yourself the 61 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:50,680 art that you create like the visions that you have in your mind when it comes to 62 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:55,000 the art that you want to do because I feel like this once you put outfit 63 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:59,520 together you're walking you're walking piece of damn art I'm not even really 64 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:04,600 a lot like a lot of people I see especially Bobby going to HBCU and I'm 65 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:12,080 around a lot of my people their fashion ideas are very very unique to me some of 66 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:17,040 the stuff they that I want to pull off I'd be like I can't do it but I like to 67 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:21,440 see other people do it it's phenomenal especially with the hairstyles oh my 68 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:27,560 gosh like the one color that I'm I'm scared of bright colors y'all I'm scared 69 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:32,600 to put bright colors in my head because I'm like scared already enough like I 70 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:37,920 don't think I need to put anything more light than me like light green light 71 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:43,280 blue yellow purple but I'm not gonna but I'm I just be like I can't do it people 72 00:06:43,280 --> 00:06:47,520 like why are you knocking yourself do it do it do it I be like no shout out to 73 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:52,160 my brown skin and dark skin women because they pull they can pull off them 74 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:56,720 colors like once they had them colors on their hair and you know like once you 75 00:06:56,720 --> 00:07:02,640 get a fresh do you start glowing and let me tell y'all my first week of school 76 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:06,560 when I seen all the beautiful black women with all the different color 77 00:07:06,560 --> 00:07:13,120 hairstyles and a fashion unique system with it I'm like girl I like that and I 78 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:16,760 love to give compliments when it's do you gotta give them people compliments when 79 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:19,280 it's due because that could make somebody down like oh my gosh girl like 80 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:22,640 your hair I like how you ate it your nails your makeup and stuff like that 81 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:29,840 because that is being a part of fashion world is one of the major things that I 82 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:35,760 feel like us black people is taking over like when it comes to the head the 83 00:07:35,760 --> 00:07:40,760 makeup the accessories the clothes the shoes any designer and past with that we 84 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:48,160 turn nothing into something like we are so creative it is ridiculous like back 85 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:55,480 to national black owned business mom I seen a lot of people like I started 86 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:59,240 seeing new you know businesses that's in the city as well local in local in the 87 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:03,880 city or starting out and I've seen their craft and how they did this turn this 88 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:10,520 into this and did this and did that one piece of clothing material that I say 89 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:17,600 people can really really turn snuff and something is denim denim I feel like I 90 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:23,880 love denim I love a good denim outfit anything if you can turn one piece of 91 00:08:23,880 --> 00:08:30,760 denim cloth into a hair bag bows earrings anything you good you good at 92 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:36,280 your craft because when it comes to this fashion industry people be like I 93 00:08:36,280 --> 00:08:41,800 can't do that I won't do that but you're saying that but the next person is like I 94 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:48,400 want that and I'm like that because when we sometimes people have small 95 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:54,040 minded people think very small they don't think of other ways they always 96 00:08:54,040 --> 00:09:02,560 think of one way but when you have that other aspect on like thinking creative 97 00:09:02,560 --> 00:09:08,000 you know the growth mindset you are a stopper especially when it comes to this 98 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:15,440 fashion like fashion is one of the key ways that I feel like the culture has 99 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:20,240 been impacted in so many ways because it's like over the years especially with 100 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:26,600 the hair styles over the years for both black men and women hair styles mean 101 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:33,840 it meant everything but like cornrows the patterns the textures colors things 102 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:38,840 like that like you're our hair back then with our ancestors love you know the 103 00:09:38,840 --> 00:09:44,800 type of art that we get in our head that was more like cold secret cold jewels to 104 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:49,960 like how to escape how to do this how to do that and until this day it's still a 105 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:58,400 lot and it is so inspiring me like box braids not list cornrows straight backs 106 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:03,880 all that type of stuff the afro kinky texture here all that it's like so 107 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:08,080 empowering because like it's a pack with fashion because I feel like to like your 108 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:14,120 hair is up your hair's art regardless of what it is like when I look at my hair 109 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:19,680 sometimes I be like this thing right here on top of my head like a mop but 110 00:10:19,680 --> 00:10:23,440 somebody else this like is art like look at your texture look at your color look 111 00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:28,240 at the length like this is art and that impacts on the fashion world too because 112 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:33,680 certain things that we might not do like walk outside with our hair where is the 113 00:10:33,680 --> 00:10:38,800 people are making it look good and that's what fashion I feel like it's all 114 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:46,160 about making something look good some people may think it's tacky but I don't 115 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:51,400 think so that's why I say like that's why I said like we have to value 116 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:56,320 everybody's opinions especially in this fashion world because turn people be like 117 00:10:56,320 --> 00:11:00,440 I'm not wearing that I'm not doing that that's your business but I'm telling you 118 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:04,440 if you don't want to wear it okay that's your business but the next 45678 119 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:09,880 million people will be on this trend and it's gonna make some money and that's 120 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:12,400 the thing some people like they don't you're not looking for that they just 121 00:11:12,400 --> 00:11:15,640 doing that cuz this is what they like to do and shout out to the people that make 122 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:21,040 their own clothes and do everything by their self when it comes to the fashion 123 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:25,560 because like I see a lot of girls they like the hats made like literally you 124 00:11:25,560 --> 00:11:30,440 sitting on a tiktok doing the yarn crocheting all that together the bags 125 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:35,400 everything like it's like when it comes to this fashion world you gotta be 126 00:11:35,400 --> 00:11:39,520 talented and you gotta make sure that blueprint you have in your head or drawn 127 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:44,560 out really comes to life like that sketch and everything make sure it is what 128 00:11:44,560 --> 00:11:49,960 you said you have it set on to be because it's like it's not easy in the 129 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:54,720 fashion world it's not and that's why I wrote like we have to respect each other's 130 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:59,640 fashion choices because we all have a different way of expressing ourselves 131 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:04,720 fashion is a way to express ourselves especially what we wear and how we wear 132 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:10,520 it especially when it comes to us women if we have it hard especially when it 133 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:16,800 comes to the fashion world because we can wear certain stuff and people like 134 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:22,000 uh-uh that's slutty that's tacky I can't do that but then four or five months 135 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:27,120 later or a couple days later another person has this on but they're like 136 00:12:27,120 --> 00:12:32,480 another race but then oh that's fashion no I feel like it should be equal 137 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:38,640 boundaries like if a black woman can pull off wearing a one piece on a daily 138 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:42,200 she should not be called she should not be shamed she should not be such slain 139 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:46,320 through anything first with a white woman all that's fashion no I feel like it 140 00:12:46,320 --> 00:12:51,720 should be the same way however like I said I rise from our black community we 141 00:12:51,720 --> 00:12:55,800 gonna make anything look good I don't give nobody say so y'all can talk all 142 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:59,080 day about how we look at my it's all like we gonna make that shit look good 143 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:06,240 okay because whoo one thing about us black people we won't make something 144 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:14,000 shake even when it comes to like the vengeance the vintage styles like oh my 145 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:21,240 god's like on canvas y'all I seen one girl she had on what is in jeans called I 146 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:26,160 don't know but they weren't the I can't think of but they were very vintage I 147 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:31,960 think we were little we had these jeans I can't think of she put the jeans on she 148 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:36,560 designed it real good like I see the patterns the details the art everything 149 00:13:36,560 --> 00:13:41,360 she had like it was so dope to me like I was just like oh my god that looks so 150 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:47,960 good like how did you do that like anything vintage y'all I am obsessed 151 00:13:47,960 --> 00:13:53,800 with it because it's like old stuff like this action is the new thing now I 152 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:59,920 feel like a lot of things are coming back like high waist pins cargos the 153 00:13:59,920 --> 00:14:06,280 certain tops especially the sweatsuits like the valver ones with soft feeling 154 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:11,680 and stuff like that like for example the big brand we were little baby fat when 155 00:14:11,680 --> 00:14:17,640 they made that comeback last year and someone still this year every girl in 156 00:14:17,640 --> 00:14:25,320 America was back wearing baby fat like I swear like everybody was wearing it in 157 00:14:25,320 --> 00:14:32,720 like it was just like coming back or like people wearing baby fat juicy 158 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:39,080 couture when they made their comeback everybody was on it I was even on it 159 00:14:39,080 --> 00:14:44,200 was so bad I couldn't even find my size so like where they come to fashion 160 00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:50,800 anything vintage it turns me up like it really really turned me up and because 161 00:14:50,800 --> 00:14:56,280 back then we used to like we were little and you see like pictures of let's say 162 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:59,760 your parents when they taught you to wear their clothes or like their old 163 00:14:59,760 --> 00:15:03,260 magazines or pictures like when you're school they be like showing you 164 00:15:03,260 --> 00:15:06,760 pictures of people in their fashion like that's some ass what is that yeah we 165 00:15:06,760 --> 00:15:13,240 get orders like I want to be like that because those fashion ideas and the 166 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:17,000 creators behind it they make them money and still to this day like I said like 167 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:22,240 baby fat and juicy couture when they made a little comeback on stuff people were 168 00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:28,760 on it like people really really really was on that stuff it like and still to 169 00:15:28,760 --> 00:15:34,920 this day when it comes to a lot of stuff like seven jeans true religions loot 170 00:15:34,920 --> 00:15:41,000 Levi like people are still on this stuff but people just don't know like I've 171 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:45,160 seen some girls wearing baby fat I was like whoa they're wearing baby fat like 172 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:48,760 certain stuff people be like oh my god it's not making a comeback little by 173 00:15:48,760 --> 00:15:55,240 little it is it's just not probably as big as one company or companies as now 174 00:15:55,240 --> 00:16:01,000 but they're big like for example with the accessories like the bag I love a good 175 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:07,880 tote bag tote cross body I love it I'm real big on supporting the black 176 00:16:07,880 --> 00:16:13,400 business like you know we got the Teleford the Brandon blackwood 177 00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:21,680 protect black women and so on and so on those bags day by day are getting notice 178 00:16:21,680 --> 00:16:29,320 every day just by the fashion icons every single day and I tried so hard to 179 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:32,520 get certain bags that I want but every time I get in there go and like oh my 180 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:37,360 god it makes me bad but I'd like it's not my time right now I'm gonna get that bag 181 00:16:37,360 --> 00:16:43,840 though but I'm gonna tell you all like when it comes to this fashion world it's 182 00:16:43,840 --> 00:16:51,560 amazing it's really amazing like from every idea that I see on Pinterest like 183 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:56,800 I mentioned earlier Pinterest really sets the ball rolling for everybody 184 00:16:56,800 --> 00:17:04,240 especially for this generation like I seen a lot of pieces on Pinterest that I 185 00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:10,040 remember like I recreated like sometimes when I'm being on Pinterest I'm like okay 186 00:17:10,040 --> 00:17:17,040 I need to get an idea by many things to get an idea from the picture not to copy 187 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:21,000 it but sometimes I like if it really look good I would like oh yeah I gotta do 188 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:25,520 this I have to do this because if it looked good on the model or how they had 189 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:31,360 like you know the board of from the hairstyle the shirt the bottoms the shoes 190 00:17:31,360 --> 00:17:37,120 the accessories and how it's supposed to look and if I really really fuck with 191 00:17:37,120 --> 00:17:41,920 that layout I want to take that layout and run with it okay like it's 192 00:17:41,920 --> 00:17:46,800 gradually when it comes to hit the tone because I'm gonna tell you all the people 193 00:17:46,800 --> 00:17:52,080 behind that make these boards all the women and men that make them boys on 194 00:17:52,080 --> 00:17:56,080 Pinterest Instagram Facebook Twitter all that shout out to y'all because y'all 195 00:17:56,080 --> 00:18:01,280 really take your time and it y'all really help people in need especially 196 00:18:01,280 --> 00:18:05,040 for like people that like I can't dress I don't know how to dress I would tell 197 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:08,960 people some you'll know how to dress and stuff baby I'm gonna help you Pinterest 198 00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:14,480 was a post placement postmark whatever is thank postmark they sometimes they 199 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:18,040 put it outfit together the model will have it and say oh you could wear this 200 00:18:18,040 --> 00:18:21,520 with that when they sell it like put it in the description some people be like 201 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:25,000 we do this do that but also this is another thing to like when you shop online 202 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:30,800 like Amazon oh my god shout out to Amazon y'all like Amazon emailed me about 203 00:18:30,800 --> 00:18:35,160 being in swanson and it shocked me because I was like oh my gosh like you know 204 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:39,920 when you in your flooring so bad you really really really got to stay on the 205 00:18:39,920 --> 00:18:44,880 top of content y'all so please say soon said that yes I will be making some 206 00:18:44,880 --> 00:18:49,960 content on Amazon give me all a little bit of insight because like I said I 207 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:54,560 love fashion like well little girl it was so bad I want to be my own fashion 208 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:58,800 designer however I can't draw I couldn't draw and it's like you have to sketch how 209 00:18:58,800 --> 00:19:04,800 you want to design the look and I was like I cannot draw for nothing but I 210 00:19:04,800 --> 00:19:09,840 didn't let that stop me because like even though I'm not a personal fashion 211 00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:15,600 designer I'm my own designer I have my best friends out my friends my parents 212 00:19:15,600 --> 00:19:21,160 my siblings anybody that be asking me I need help can you help me or like what 213 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:26,320 you got on can you help me with a similar look I don't gatekeep nothing I'm not 214 00:19:26,320 --> 00:19:30,320 the type to gatekeep nothing if you want to know where I got it from I'll let you 215 00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:38,280 know oh Amazon she was got Amazon she a car a gap like you know sometimes you 216 00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:44,760 don't have to go to the high brand stores to make a good outfit like going to 217 00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:49,840 simple places if you like know how to dress or you have somebody that's there 218 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:58,120 to help you they'll go to stores that's probably under $200 and help you make an 219 00:19:58,120 --> 00:20:04,120 outfit that's under $200 that's including accessories the shoes everything like I 220 00:20:04,120 --> 00:20:09,160 love going to stores and they and there are people in there that are willing to 221 00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:14,800 help you put stuff together because at times it's hard to find clothes like you 222 00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:18,480 know when you're younger your parents put all your outfits together and sometimes 223 00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:21,960 you like this time in it and then we'll get to a certain age and you start making 224 00:20:21,960 --> 00:20:25,960 money and stuff is like okay I'm doing what I want with my money and buying this 225 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:31,960 I'm buying that like I tell y'all I lie to y'all not when I started making money 226 00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:39,120 and started like knowing what I want to wear and how I want to wear stuff 227 00:20:39,120 --> 00:20:45,120 basically finding what I like within my fashion like finding what makes me and 228 00:20:45,120 --> 00:20:50,640 who I am I was unstoppable especially when it comes to the hair now when it 229 00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:55,800 comes to the hair y'all I didn't realize from a woman's perspective it's hard 230 00:20:55,800 --> 00:20:59,640 especially when you younger like I feel like once you get to high school that's 231 00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:03,720 when you had the choice like to wear like weave and stuff like that and that's 232 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:07,680 how to wear weave in high school I was natural from a little kid up till ninth 233 00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:12,640 grade but and then I started playing sports so it was like if I was to get a 234 00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:19,080 sewing y'all it would fray up because it's hot for one you going back to school 235 00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:25,320 it's hot still I play sports so every time I had long hair that thing being 236 00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:28,880 a ponytail so then I was like okay it's back to going to breathe that's nothing 237 00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:32,840 to when I was younger too like it was either your natural hair or breeze that 238 00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:39,320 was the only incentive you was getting or fake bond that was about it but when 239 00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:42,760 you got older like ninth grade college enough that's on you that's your choice 240 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:48,360 you know if you want to weave get a weave you want box braids box braids you 241 00:21:48,360 --> 00:21:56,600 know you know once you get older and you start like I don't want to say I do 242 00:21:56,600 --> 00:22:00,520 want to say identifying itself but then I don't want to say identify yourself 243 00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:04,800 when you feel comfortable that's why I want to say comfortable thing yourself and 244 00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:08,120 know what you like and know what you don't like you even out the options of 245 00:22:08,120 --> 00:22:13,280 how you want things to go like you want to stop it was like say for instance 246 00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:17,300 like me when I was young on mom we used to shop at Target for us a gap 247 00:22:17,300 --> 00:22:25,280 children's place justice airpods store amber Comby till this day I don't wear 248 00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:30,600 nothing from them so forget except forget like certain stuff I just you know 249 00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:35,120 children's space up that's for children justice out of business you know certain 250 00:22:35,120 --> 00:22:38,760 stories like it's out of business or on their way out of business when I got 251 00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:43,560 older and started knowing what I like and knowing what I don't like especially 252 00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:47,160 when it came to fashion I was unstoppable and that's the thing about 253 00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:55,560 fashion I like a lot that fashion really really fashion is always one of the ways 254 00:22:55,560 --> 00:23:01,960 that it helps people identify they self it helps people know who they really are 255 00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:08,920 like I said fashion is like one of the many things that I feel like it's making 256 00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:14,440 money real fast it does and it helps people identify who they are and fashion 257 00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:20,840 is when you put something on brand new old vintage I don't care if you make 258 00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:26,920 that shit look good baby you are walking art because trust me it 259 00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:32,240 sometimes we're like this outfit looks a mess I got on people like I'm like that 260 00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:37,120 I'd like this looks a mess or you know the old saying like your parents say 261 00:23:37,120 --> 00:23:42,400 mainly your mother's grandmother's aunties this old thing yes I'm fine I 262 00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:48,760 realized to you that old thing can look so new to somebody it makes them be like 263 00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:52,520 where you get it from and what makes it mad too if it's really old and it's 264 00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:56,720 the worst about a business like damn I can't tell you I tell you like it's like 265 00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:59,240 damn I want to tell you but I don't because I don't want to hurt your 266 00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:05,680 feelings like so trust me like I really really really believe that fashion is the 267 00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:12,200 way to connect and express ourselves like it influence trends reflect 268 00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:19,040 identities in it is more accessible than ever like the industry is always 269 00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:24,960 changing like sparking creativity and confidence in us like things to own our 270 00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:32,240 shopping if there's fashion brands fashion is more like accessible is 271 00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:39,280 making it easy for people to express with new looks it's fake up to date with 272 00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:46,320 the latest trends like fashion is empowering and empowering us individuals 273 00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:57,480 to show like to showcase our uniqueness in fashion like our fostered confidence 274 00:24:57,480 --> 00:25:03,240 within it's an expression also when it comes to this like passion is a canvas 275 00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:12,440 of self-expression where style becomes art and creativity like no and it has no 276 00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:18,880 boundaries like no no boundaries so we will go out here wearing a chin chila 277 00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:25,920 down here you wearing a chin chila lion tiger if you make that look good baby 278 00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:30,440 I'm not judging cuz I'm quick to say you got some money cuz I ain't walking around 279 00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:35,320 with no real chinchilla I'm sorry that's another thing too and I was little I was 280 00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:41,240 obsessed with fur y'all like fur coats like I don't know what it was it's I 281 00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:45,200 felt like if you had a fur coat we had some money for a lover coat I felt like 282 00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:50,400 you had some money like and tell this day I feel like oh you got a fur coat you 283 00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:54,480 got some money but every time I think about fur now I think of job dozzling 284 00:25:54,480 --> 00:26:00,040 with Stevie through the drink and she said oh you just messed up my friend 285 00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:07,000 so I don't care what nobody say to this day I still believe that if you were in 286 00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:15,600 a fur chin chila tiger lion leather you got money cuz man prices on fashion too 287 00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:22,680 is high like oh my gosh y'all like fashion is so high especially when it 288 00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:29,760 comes to the clothing when it comes to the clothing y'all it is so crazy 289 00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:35,920 because like for example me I'm real big on outerwear when it's gonna say 290 00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:42,520 outerwear I mean jackets hoodies coats things like that I'm big on that 291 00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:50,480 especially when a jean jacket lover jackets sweaters cardigans I'm big on 292 00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:57,880 that and I feel like that has to be a part of my outfit I don't care how warm 293 00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:05,000 cold hot it is I have to wear a jacket now let me go back let me backtrack oh 294 00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:08,120 this is how I tell I'm not wearing no jacket I'm sorry I'm at the wear a shirt 295 00:27:08,120 --> 00:27:13,520 that's like a good lip you know like the shoulder length or a tank something like 296 00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:17,280 that you know but sometimes I feel like it was one my side it's a must I have a 297 00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:21,240 jacket on cuz they go without fit because it's another thing to with fashion 298 00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:27,360 like I'm sure what colors like this thing that if that makes me excited 299 00:27:27,360 --> 00:27:31,520 every time when I think about fashion and people be like I don't want to wear so 300 00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:36,880 much colors I don't want to do this I'm just a people on time black white black 301 00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:42,920 white gray go with anything black white and gray go with anything like those 302 00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:47,120 colors go with anything I don't care if you got an all-orange girl you better 303 00:27:47,120 --> 00:27:52,960 have some white black or gray in that outfit like you better have something 304 00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:56,160 they like yeah I'm gonna tell y'all on my first day of school y'all got so 305 00:27:56,160 --> 00:28:02,000 follow me on Instagram I wore three shades of gray I really did I wore three 306 00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:05,400 shades of gray like my shirt was a different type of gray it was like a 307 00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:14,560 off no my shoes like a off gray tight vibe then my cargoes they were like a 308 00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:20,920 medium gray tone and then like my shirt was like a light tone now let me tell 309 00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:24,920 y'all something it's always somebody's gonna say why do you have all that on 310 00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:29,560 like I've been and not be like I like this cuz this is how I like to dress 311 00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:35,680 that's thing too like some people be like you know how to dress and then you 312 00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:41,680 be looking at them like this is what I like I can't judge you for what you like 313 00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:45,600 but you try to judge me for what I like and what I wear no and that's the thing 314 00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:48,920 too like the number one rule I think should be in fashion is don't judge 315 00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:53,200 nobody cuz everybody's fashion statement is different especially when it comes to 316 00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:58,880 the dudes I'm not gonna lie y'all can turn plain Jane outfits into something 317 00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:06,280 especially when it comes to the white the black T's polo like pasta oh my gosh 318 00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:12,080 hangs if y'all still even wear those or the designer shirts y'all I'm slowly falling 319 00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:18,280 love with a money exchange like I was on there their website earlier they got a 320 00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:23,760 sale going on I was like these little plain Jane shirts look a little cute and 321 00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:28,560 for the price of it I was like this even more better shout out to the men y'all 322 00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:33,280 y'all really be putting that shit on like I really be seeing y'all putting 323 00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:35,880 that shit on especially when I'm looking at my home we're like okay you'll put 324 00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:41,440 that shit on I fuck with it they got a fresh cut we twisted fresh brains or 325 00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:45,160 whatever they be really filling a cell but I'll be pumping it up cuz I pop them 326 00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:50,080 up but they be the truth because like where I'm from we big old fashion too 327 00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:54,840 and we big on a lot of fashion and we set trends people like bottom way set 328 00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:59,240 nothing baby we set some trends I'm keeping nobody saying y'all are with me 329 00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:05,240 all day but one thing about us bought some rings quote-unquote we're gonna throw 330 00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:11,520 that shit on we're gonna put it on okay like I don't give nobody say like I 331 00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:17,200 really feel like when it comes to this fashion world anybody can put it on but 332 00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:21,000 you just have to be confident within it that's me that's the thing to that should 333 00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:27,000 be like number one two as well well number one should be be confident within 334 00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:34,280 your clothes like you know like the saying the person don't make the clothes 335 00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:37,920 don't make the person the person makes the clothes and that's what I'm saying 336 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:43,120 to you with this fashion like if you see a piece make sure you know you feel 337 00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:46,720 comfortable within that piece of clothing that you have on because it's 338 00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:54,560 like it's really a sign of feeling good I feel like why am I here man y'all got 339 00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:58,760 not with breeze I'm telling y'all I said six to seven hours faithfully with these 340 00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:05,560 to get these breeze these not list but lift breeze okay not list but learn 341 00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:11,360 okay I haven't had not list since last year of September I was determined to 342 00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:14,320 get my head done especially since the semester was coming up and I'd be working 343 00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:18,560 and I do the podcast too don't be wrong I love the weeds I love natural hair but 344 00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:28,920 I'm giving my hair a good break so when it comes to like your hairstyles your 345 00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:34,320 clothing when you decide and you finally decide on it please make sure you're 346 00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:38,400 comfortable and you like you're standing turn you stand in firm on this 347 00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:44,200 because once it's there like once it's it is it like once you know it's there 348 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:49,320 it's there you know or nothing you can really do about it because like you know 349 00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:54,600 once you got it you got it like once you got it in your head okay this one 350 00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:58,520 would do it I'm gonna do this and I'll make sure I do it like this and it come 351 00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:02,440 out like this I'm good now however when it comes to fashion you're not gonna lie 352 00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:06,720 we all had them bad moments when we had them outfits in our mind and we put it 353 00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:13,840 on it it looked like what the hell Craig like I lied to y'all not like your hair 354 00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:16,600 could be done that's another thing too I'm not putting on no new clothes my 355 00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:21,320 hair not done it all my hair does not look like something I think that's a 356 00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:25,480 girl thing I really think it's the girls thing because like men they don't 357 00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:29,960 young kids and I respect that for y'all but me and the other ladies that's 358 00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:33,160 listening I know y'all can relate like if my head not done I'm not putting on 359 00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:38,360 no new outfit because it's like I got a little good from here to talk and it's 360 00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:43,320 not even for other people it's just for me it's for me my sanity this is what I 361 00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:47,440 like and this is what our vision in my vision ain't come to what I thought it 362 00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:53,720 was that's why y'all I feel like too you got always have other ideas in mind 363 00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:57,080 because sometimes like at the first one I'm gonna go to the second one 364 00:32:57,080 --> 00:33:01,520 third four fifth 10 I don't care long as you feel comfortable within that outfit 365 00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:07,360 you like okay this why I feel like this I'm staying firm on cool I applaud it I'm 366 00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:11,800 not you know sometimes we all had a moment like wise this person outside 367 00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:16,440 like this and now I got older I'm like that's that's how they express 368 00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:22,560 they sell this is you know like I say we are walking art like we're walking 369 00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:26,880 pieces of art with every little thing we have on is art I don't care nobody say 370 00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:33,080 even from the tattoos that's art that's body art you know I love tattoos like 371 00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:39,040 what I got my first tattoo a month ago I was a little skeptical because I'm like 372 00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:45,040 you know the stage on it forever forever and you know like a old and gray and 373 00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:51,440 in the grave this will tell me forever and people are going to see this and I 374 00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:56,080 have to make sure that I'm feel comfortable with it because at the end 375 00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:59,160 of the day this decision I made for myself and this is a piece of art that 376 00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:02,400 everybody's going to see I don't and then you have to be prepared for the good 377 00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:05,400 in the bed that's another thing to when it comes to fashion like you just got to 378 00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:10,040 be prepared for the negative outcomes you gotta be prepared for the good but 379 00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:17,240 you always got to remember you made this shit work and that's all that matters so 380 00:34:17,240 --> 00:34:23,280 when it comes to the clothes perspective I applaud everybody know how to put that 381 00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:27,600 shit on that want to put it on for them this how they express themselves this is 382 00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:32,480 you know adding little own pieces ideas and everything I applaud y'all because 383 00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:37,520 like it's not easy like it's not easy especially like if you're not a perfect 384 00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:43,280 I'm not a professional designer I'm not but I feel like low-key I am for myself 385 00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:47,080 because it's like this is me like oh my god I'm really dressing myself up like 386 00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:50,800 this and I'm also helping other people too like especially coming events with 387 00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:53,240 my friends especially my best friend she like I need your help please help me 388 00:34:53,240 --> 00:34:58,920 find outfit I'm like I always be like how you want to how you want to look you 389 00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:03,200 want to look classy you want to look you know you want to show a little skin you 390 00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:06,760 know that's another thing to with the fashion like sometimes different 391 00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:11,280 occasions you got it you know when you young your parents be like or your 392 00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:15,560 guardians be like these clothes are your play clothes these clothes are going out 393 00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:18,680 clothes these are school clothes these are school shoes you know stuff you have 394 00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:24,720 shoes for every different occasion and for when you need to put them on especially 395 00:35:24,720 --> 00:35:28,160 when it comes to outfits oh my gosh I don't laugh many outfits those be the 396 00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:34,320 ones sometimes I'd be like damn I wish this vision was in my head like even 397 00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:39,280 sometimes where I'll wake up because sometimes I draw not sometimes most of 398 00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:45,040 the time I always try I keep saying try most of the time I have clothes laid out 399 00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:53,160 for like school work and events however if I know if I forget an event or 400 00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:56,600 something or like I was really tired to come put no clothes look come put no 401 00:35:56,600 --> 00:36:02,040 clothes out whatever I see first shirt pants literally I put it on and if it 402 00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:07,040 look good they're like damn damn I thought this outfit was gonna be 403 00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:11,760 brummy but really it turned out to be a good one and that's just how it is in 404 00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:17,640 the fashion world like at times certain things we like make fun of make fun of 405 00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:24,280 it's really impacting thousands and thousands and millions and trillions of 406 00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:31,560 people all year like when you are trend set up baby you set trends and people 407 00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:36,960 are following it that's good it brings happiness it brings a sound of like oh 408 00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:41,960 my god somebody is really loving my work they're loving what I bring to the 409 00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:48,800 table in my ideas I'm gonna keep going so shout out to all y'all everybody that 410 00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:53,680 has their own way unique style of defining itself and they feel comfortable 411 00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:58,600 when you're within who you are like because it's hard y'all is really hard 412 00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:05,040 sometimes to be able to go outside and be different because you don't want to be 413 00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:08,480 like everybody else basically come to fashion you don't want to be dressed 414 00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:13,240 like everybody you want to stand out and trust me sometimes you got to do the 415 00:37:13,240 --> 00:37:17,760 most people like why you got all that on it cuz this is what I want I brought it 416 00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:23,120 and I'm aware it hello and sometimes people like oh your outfit's too loud 417 00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:29,920 good I'm glad it got your attention because I was the point sometimes we are 418 00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:33,680 doing we do things like that to get points but it sometimes like this this I 419 00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:40,480 just put this on cuz I liked it I felt comfortable in it and you know this is 420 00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:44,120 why like where are the women I know I'm not only one in a man weeks I know I'm 421 00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:49,880 not if I got on if I got on Keisha if I got my you know good nice long middle 422 00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:56,880 part jet black wig on feeling like Keisha you know sometimes like you want to 423 00:37:56,880 --> 00:38:01,520 feel like sometimes I want to feel presidential sometimes I want to feel 424 00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:08,440 like feel tomboy sometimes I want to feel girlish that's just how the fashion 425 00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:11,720 world is that's the thing I love about fashion you could be anybody you want 426 00:38:11,720 --> 00:38:16,200 that day within the fashion within the clothes but you know underneath them 427 00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:20,880 clothes you steal your government name or your nickname you go by way so like 428 00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:26,600 safe I'm looking like Michelle Obama I know I know I'm even call it you know 429 00:38:26,600 --> 00:38:31,760 I'm irregardless my appearance just give off Michelle but I'm not like Michelle 430 00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:42,080 I'm y'all that but now with accessories like hats earrings hats earrings bags all 431 00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:46,280 that stuff no let me tell y'all fun people are really creative with it really 432 00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:50,960 especially with the hats I love me a good fitted the fitted adjustable all that I 433 00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:57,080 love that I'm obsessed with hats like hats are really just like all different 434 00:38:57,080 --> 00:39:00,920 types of hats as well to the bucket hat the yarn hats I'm starting to really fall 435 00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:04,080 in love with the yarn hats because the girls that be wearing it it's like oh my 436 00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:11,320 gosh another level of love with who is the beanies oh my gosh when dudes wear 437 00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:17,040 the beanies oh my god I thought I thought so in love with it because I'm like that 438 00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:22,040 also impacts the outfit I'm not very loud to y'all you know I feel like accessories 439 00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:26,240 plays a big part within the outfit too because that helps the outfit out a lot 440 00:39:26,240 --> 00:39:31,880 that puts a big impact on outfit cuz like for example like for girls sometimes 441 00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:35,840 we got a bummy outfit on we put them hoop earrings on the band who earrings on 442 00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:42,280 in a minute and it makes the outfit a little bit better and we get that makeup 443 00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:49,120 on or put a little bit of lip gloss blush eyelashes do the brows whatever that's 444 00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:55,560 going to make the outfit better so I always say like accessories always play 445 00:39:55,560 --> 00:40:02,520 a key part the bags hats the jewelry anything that impacts with your outfit 446 00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:06,880 and you want to put dazzling up on the dress up a little bit real you know put 447 00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:11,080 a little sookie sookie sookie you want it the accessories always gonna play a big 448 00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:15,680 part because they are helping reflect the outfit and it's helping reflect you as 449 00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:23,920 well like man I love fashion like oh the fashion world is just amazing is it so 450 00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:29,800 mind-blowing to me y'all like it's just so it's worth it's worth it like oh my 451 00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:35,160 gosh especially when you are on like social media and look at the celebrities 452 00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:41,200 too sometimes those trends do set I'm not even a lot because certain stuff that 453 00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:47,040 I'd like where now some celebrities I got inspired with but mainly when it comes 454 00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:52,240 to them in the Florence's or social media they also helped me too because like 455 00:40:52,240 --> 00:40:56,040 that's what I like to when it comes to the floor answers everybody comes in 456 00:40:56,040 --> 00:41:01,840 different shapes and sizes and it always they all like that's no but I'm gonna 457 00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:05,520 give this a fashion over fashion over there display a person that's a 458 00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:10,760 different shape versus with a different size as well the same outfit but they 459 00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:16,120 just display how it would look on a different person and that makes me so 460 00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:21,520 happy because like certain store nowadays certain stuff you can't get 461 00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:26,040 within a plus size if it's in regular size and it makes me mad I'm like dang I 462 00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:31,360 want the same thing that they had in regular size I'm not ready to squeeze 463 00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:35,600 my ass and anything that I can't fit especially when it comes to the shirts 464 00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:42,040 and the pants I'm not squeezing anything in it like I'm not finna do it so like 465 00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:47,160 when people like online and stuff they really like you know have the same 466 00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:51,400 product was on a different person at a different state besides it makes me feel 467 00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:56,440 so good because I'm okay they have that so I don't got to feel bad if not having 468 00:41:56,440 --> 00:42:00,880 it you know that's nothing about fashion too like we all come in different 469 00:42:00,880 --> 00:42:07,760 sizes but whatever we wear the fashion that we you know display and stuff I 470 00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:12,960 feel like it tells a story I feel like the clothes tells a story like you know 471 00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:19,840 when you're having a bummy days like it's like okay I see how you feel sometimes 472 00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:25,320 also too like I'm gonna put in my major y'all I'm a social work major sometimes 473 00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:32,240 when you see a client and they dress in certain way you like are you okay like 474 00:42:32,240 --> 00:42:37,080 sometimes look your outfits can just tend express how you feeling before you can 475 00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:41,920 even say it out your mouth like it's been times where I come to like I would come 476 00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:46,080 to school and it'd be lazy also some bummy stuff because I'm like I'm tired I 477 00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:49,760 just put something on and everybody say the sweatpants and the hoodie just tops 478 00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:56,400 off lazy depressed depending on how you wear it and I'm like that's true but if 479 00:42:56,400 --> 00:43:00,320 I'm wearing a sweatsuit and I look good and I got a little detail don't say I'm 480 00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:04,000 depressed or don't say who or she is depressed because they look good the 481 00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:08,600 only way I would say it'd be depressed if they got a big oversized million of 482 00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:14,040 some oversized sweatpants and they had the hood on and they walking around like 483 00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:20,240 yeah something wrong something right but that's why I believe like you know the 484 00:43:20,240 --> 00:43:25,160 clothes don't make the person the person makes the clothes so you know you 485 00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:28,680 really can't judge like I always say you can't judge a book by its cover until 486 00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:32,320 you sit down really open and see what's going on because sometimes they can be 487 00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:35,560 just running errands and they just don't anything that's nothing to when I go 488 00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:39,720 outside sometimes I'm running errands and I know I'm running errands like 489 00:43:39,720 --> 00:43:43,920 literally going here to get this that they're not walking like a fashion show and 490 00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:48,440 that's another thing too sometimes the narrative for us women is also like you 491 00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:52,640 gotta stay up to par because you don't know who's watching you sometimes do I 492 00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:58,200 really want to get up do my hair make sure my eyebrows look like this my 493 00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:04,520 lashes look like this just to impress somebody no no if I want to impress 494 00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:09,800 somebody I'm gonna do it but it like sometimes you're not looking for the 495 00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:13,000 energy and that's nothing too when it comes to being a female the things that 496 00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:17,800 we wear sometimes it do draw attention and even if you have a nice shape it 497 00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:24,440 just it makes it hard for you to us some include myself it makes it hard for us 498 00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:29,160 to really just like wear clothing and be comfortable with it on hold because it's 499 00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:34,200 always somebody that's trying to attack us and same thing for men too because 500 00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:37,640 certain stuff that they wear to they get attacked and it's just like we're wearing 501 00:44:37,640 --> 00:44:44,040 clothes even if it's like fully covered body like fully covered clothing you 502 00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:47,480 still get attacked just because of your shape and I'm gonna tell this to this 503 00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:52,320 should be a rule also in the fashion world be comfortable in your skin don't 504 00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:59,280 worry about your shape just be overall you feel good about who you are so 505 00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:03,400 basically that it does impact with the rule I said earlier about what is being 506 00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:08,200 a confident feeling comfortable because with their fashion is to display how you 507 00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:13,760 feel how you are what you like why you did this why you did that and I really 508 00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:18,040 say that we're working we're working art we're working piece art because art 509 00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:22,520 tells a story a picture is worth a thousand words our outfits are the work 510 00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:29,360 a thousand words too because the way you wear it how you like design did or put 511 00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:36,280 the accessories hair makeup together as well it explains how you are what a 512 00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:43,960 person you are and what you like and that makes you you so y'all this look 513 00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:48,400 this this episode a little longer than I thought it was and I'm glad it was 514 00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:54,840 because I really just feel like fashion should just be a vibe that needs to be 515 00:45:54,840 --> 00:46:01,080 said but in the positive way because like I said who does not like fashion and 516 00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:05,320 some people you know they're not big on fashion but I say either way you go you 517 00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:09,200 have to like fashion because you wear clothes and even if your clothes is 518 00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:14,040 basic plain change that still expresses who you are it's like you just not just 519 00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:18,200 like people think oh cuz you're just playing you just wear plain stuff like 520 00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:24,480 uh sometimes a good thing because like you can put anything with plain the 521 00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:30,480 accessories can top it off the hair your makeup your nails toes whatever the 522 00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:35,640 little details can also help impact it outfit in a big way that goes for both 523 00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:40,440 males and females like a lot of us have different ways of expressing ourselves 524 00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:46,040 sometimes we'd be playing tomboyish feminine masculine it is what it is just 525 00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:52,120 as long as you feel comfortable in them clothes and in your skin you have nothing 526 00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:58,960 to worry about okay so I believe with I believe y'all with this when it comes to 527 00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:03,800 the next time you wake up in the morning I don't care if you're gonna work going 528 00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:11,400 to school running errands ready to walk the dog I don't care whatever you put on 529 00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:17,120 feel comfortable in it I don't care if you are happy sad depressed excited 530 00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:24,800 whatever just be comfortable in your own skin that's another thing that within 531 00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:29,280 the fashion world always say to you like be comfortable who you are who cares 532 00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:34,120 what the next person say because who cares that's their opinions you know what 533 00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:40,720 you are and you know who you are okay so the next time I'm okay what you doing I 534 00:47:40,720 --> 00:47:44,360 don't care what you doing or what you wearing just make sure you comfortable 535 00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:49,760 in it and do when you ask please please be prepared for the backlash but as 536 00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:54,320 the end of the day maybe be comfortable with them whatever you're wearing I don't 537 00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:57,840 care if you go outside like I said I don't give you a go outside with a 538 00:47:57,840 --> 00:48:02,320 mink coat on if you feel like the baddest thing in there so I get and if 539 00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:05,480 people hate it on you let them hate because if you don't have no head is 540 00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:14,840 you ain't poppin okay so yes I hope you guys have enjoyed this episode because I 541 00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:20,440 did like this this part of the longest episode I have so far I don't think 542 00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:24,920 nothing's topping the one I made about you know minutes or so I but this one 543 00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:28,040 probably is I'm not sure I haven't looked at the time but I know it's a little bit 544 00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:38,920 over the 45 minute range but yes I leave I just want y'all to be safe be blessed 545 00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:43,800 you know still hot outside so you don't drink your water make sure you feel good 546 00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:49,440 you know make sure you don't everything that helps you feel like the best you 547 00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:55,160 you can be I wish y'all a whole piece of blessings and I cannot wait for you guys 548 00:48:55,160 --> 00:49:01,240 to hear me next time bye