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Without further ado I want you guys to sit back relax and enjoy the show and if you're new here
same thing I just want you to sit back relax and enjoy the show because today's VOD of the day
is always something special like I tell y'all always okay now let's get into it. Today's VOD of the
day is friends and the reason why today's VOD of the day is friends is because as I get older I see
a lot of things I observe a lot of things I do a lot of thinking or things and when it comes to
friends I have a thin line between trust I ain't gonna say hate because hate is a real big word
I don't like but yes I have a real thin line when it comes to trust and when it comes to friends
you know when you get older you see who's there for you and you see who's not you have people
that come for a season and who's been people who's there for a reason and I always remind myself
that like you know like sometimes certain people you got to keep in certain categories and some
just like they there for you forever until death do us part so let's get into it y'all. Friends are so
important in our lives like they are the people we choose to let into our inner circle based on
our shared interests values and emotional bonds. True friends provide us with comfort
companionship and a sense of beginning they are though they are there to share within our joys
offer us support through challenge and times and be a listening ear to us that is a real
fucking friend a real friend is someone who respects and cares for us offering loyalty and
honesty friendships can vary into different things but they all play an important role in
our emotional well-being like they enrich in their lives with laughter shared experience in a sense
of unity like having friends honestly I feel like it's important for our emotional well-being as well
especially when it comes to growth like they provide us with support empathy and they are there when
we need them like within like challenges depression anxiety things like that like friends offer a
unique perseverance when it comes to the bond and the person that they are regardless like it reduces
are like it just reduces thing that we have like our isolations and building connections with others
like they help us out in many ways that they don't know that they do and like within shared
experience and meaningful conversations that we contribute to it helps our mental health like
friendships are encouraged to explore and learn and enhance overall the habit and qualities of
life with each other or through each other like I completely agree that having friends is like is
a cure to our emotional well-being and growth like there are many different types of friendships that
each are often like unique you know defined within our lives such as like your childhood friends
your work friends close friends social friends or not friends long distance friends and new friends
all bring something special to the table for us because at times when you need them or you're
going through things at that time like say you at work and you need your friend your work friend
or nothing and they there to help you know if your close friend or child or friend out there you
know can't pick up whatever you know long as you have those type of friends that dynamic when it
comes to their friends it helps you a lot by them just support and they provide the support to empathy
and like you know been there for the challenges and reduces the isolation and build connection
and being able to share experience and meaningful conversation to contribute our health mental health
overall friendships are encouraged to explore and learn and enhance our habits of qualities of life
with each other and also to learn from them vice versa as well so yes friends is very very big
in my book and the reason why I say friends is very big in my book because when I consider you a
friend especially like you know those types like a best friends close friends things like that I feel
like is deeper once you have those type of close friends and best best friends and then the best
of friends those are the closest titles to ever having the book within mankind and the reason
why I say that is because like me we all bend to those stages like you know through elementary
school mid school high school up to college you see who your friends are and y'all see them post on
instagram you know like every year every new year I think since 2014 that was young I was really
young like when we were introduced to social media around that time we'll buy a little bit sooner than
that I would always see them post as like each year that go by or like each grade level you go by
you're like you know beginning you have a lot of friends and then towards the end like getting to
adult life you don't have a lot of friends because at times we outgrow each other and I always say
that like I'd rather outgrow with the person than to leave off on a bad note with a person because
when you leave off on a bad note with a person things can escalate to any and everything like
it can really escalate to things that you just don't know that's going to escalate to and me I like
peace I'm all about my peace I don't play when it comes to my peace like if we friends you consider
me your friend and things like that I'm gonna let you know from the get go I'm that type of friend
that's going to be on you like glad especially when it comes to something that's very important that
you share with me or it's something that I know for a fact that you're good at like all my friends
can tell you when it comes to school I'm on their ass like if you're in school or you trying to go
to school or you're trying to pursue something that you really love and passionate about and then you
feel like you falling out the cracks of it I'm gonna be on your ass like look you got shit to do
you got to handle your business that goes for my homeboys homegirls I don't know how they go like
I'm real big on them because it's like I see something in you that you don't see in yourself
and I'm gonna help you see that vision because you're my friend you're my motherfucking friend
and as a real motherfucking friend I'm gonna tell you what you need to do and I'm gonna help you and
miss something like I'm not gonna really really tell you what to do but my job as a friend is to be
there for you mentally and physically if you need me like physically if you need me in the present
time if you having those bad dreams or you just need me to celebrate whatever it is I'm there
mentally if you need me mentally if you're going through the pressure anxiety stress let me know
of how could I help you I'm gonna give you your space that's what I'm gonna do I'm gonna give you
your space no doubt but I'm also I'm gonna stay constantly check it up when you because I kid
and I'm that type of friend and all my friends like you act like somebody's mother when you become
a mother you'll be fine I'd like please stop doing that mother word like I'm not ready to have a kid
right now and always tell my friends y'all have kids first because y'all they be in love and everything
first or they in committed relationships and stuff like that me I'm like I'm out here focused on
other things once love comes around and I might feel it okay cool but right now you're my main
concern one of my main concerns but it's all jokes all jokes y'all all jokes and love and
peace of head reaching all that good shit but guess like when it comes to friends I'm so big on
that word because it's like we all been through those experience in our life where we thought the
people that you know we had so much close connection to at times you know thought was gonna stay
forever thought was gonna be there forever and at times they don't be there forever because
certain things happen or something happened and it just didn't escalate the way it's supposed to
or it got too deep to the point where like yeah it escalated to the point where they oh yeah this
is this is it I don't want to see you no more I don't want a connection I don't want to let and
that happened to me before to the point where like I just I just can't see this person I can't see
these people no more don't get me wrong like I'm not the type of person the dog I'm out you know I
wish them nothing but peace and blessings you know you know and all that good stuff but I just
feel like if we were in a room together I probably wouldn't acknowledge them because depending on the
situation that's the thing too like like I said like I'd rather fall out with a person like fall
out with them like you know when you grow up and y'all lose contact type stuff rather than falling
out with a person to the point where it is to me and them going back and forth saying negative
stuff and is probably still going on in their mind on my mind see me after is like if we have words
and anything is over it's done with like I said what I say and it's it and I my new thing is if I
say peace and blessings that's it I'm not going back and forth because it's like I say peace to you
and I wish you nothing but blessings because it's like you know where I'm from nobody is saying
these things we quick to grab the Glock instead of sitting down and talking about it and it's just like
you know it's like you never know like one conversation can fix everything I say to all
the time one conversation could just fix any goddamn thing however at times if you feel like it's
constantly and constantly and constantly keep fucking happy it's like all right I need to let
you go and you need to get the fuck out of my face because I'm sick of it you know sometimes like
you gotta stop it you know sometimes they gotta be stopped but me I'm always the type two fine
piece at times I'm gonna be fucked up about it you know before I have to sit down or whatever
which I'm like I'm fucked up we all gonna have that moment like if he or she come off crazy I'm
gonna fuck them up but you gotta think that's not what you hear for you know you want to make peace
and the beast is the best way possible because at the end of the day you all were friends you know you
were friends and real friends you know real friends have real issues and real friends finds out ways
to fix it like for example I love insecure and if y'all don't know insecure is by Issa Rae oh my
god love Issa Rae for insecure because she really like weighed like really really like highlighted
experiences on everything like how to get cows to hide is to be in a relationship with somebody
you know loving the death but then at times like they not doing stuff you gotta change being friends
with people from a time and wearing our hotties to work for a nonprofit but most of all I would
is to have a best friend that you love to death and y'all are on different paths like her best friend
was Molly Molly was a lawyer you know she was a good attorney she's run for a good law firm things
like that lot and Molly was living good you know nice old penthouse got a nice little dog family was
oriented things like that Molly on the other hand she's working for a nonprofit standing a
somewhat nice apartment you know she you know she was they just different but they love each other
regardless however they did have their scenes like in in the show where it got real to the point where
like they felt like they couldn't deal with each other no more because like you know when you
like evolve and elevate you know when you used to be you don't want to be stagnant I always say you
don't want to be steady within anything you don't want to be stagnant you want to move you want to
level up with stuff Issa started leveling up and so did Molly and it became a lot on them and then
when it came to dudes involved too that became an issue and I'm a speaker on that too. I'm a speaker
that's like we all went through those friendships we're at times relationships made make or break
the friendship because you know some relationships you know the person that your friend is with at
times may rub you off in a good way or a bad way you know that's why I always say first person
is key so don't come around me you feel my friend boyfriend or girlfriend don't be coming around
without a good first person because I'm like I like to read people I like to read feel y'all know
I'm big or vibes like that's me I'm a vibe I'm big or vibe and if your vibes is not what I feel is
though and be like it's not my place because you know that's not you know you're not the person
that's whining down me or whatever you're doing to my friend but I know my boundaries and I know
they boundaries but my thing is also too like I don't want to overstep my boundaries with my friend
because you know that's hard that's hard really that's his business you know I ain't gonna get into it
but I always say like certain stuff I just don't allow and this vice versa they be like certain
stuff that I do they don't allow like I give second chances they like I don't give second
chances fuck that shit I don't know how you do it I'd be like sometimes you really got to see the
good is a person they be like I don't want to see it because like if this if you do something
right then it is over and you know like now in a generation it's the red flags we big on red flags
and I'm looking at the red flags now back then I wasn't really paying attention to any flags
because it's just like you know especially when you young and you dating and you tell your friend
when you know like high school I'm gonna say like you know we all started dating in high school for
real when we took somebody seriously you know was like high school so I was a good service in high
school because like we're a little bit older you know you're mature now you should be mature
somewhat or fully you know shit god damn but like you know when that come around you know sometimes
it's like when you dealing with a dude and you you know you know you gotta separate the two like
your friends and your spouse you know and sometimes with the spouse I'd be like he tried to be she
or he tried to be my business but I don't really don't beef with that because it's not my business
and vice versa they don't beef with me but sometimes you know you gotta be careful would you tell your
friends about your spouse and would you tell your spouse about your friends because if we together
and they're looking at you side out and you looking at them side out yeah it ain't gonna be pretty but
most we're sure about that let's get back to what I'm saying about it scared basically like with
Issa and Molly they've been friends since college and you know they've seen everything they've been
through everything together to points where like you know sometimes within a friendship I understand
this too sometimes you gotta give each other space like you know like with my best friends
I love them downhill both of them downhill and at times I try not to be so so so I don't want to
say eggy or press I try not to be all up on them because I know they have a life too like we all
go to college we all work busing our ass to go to school and I always contact them or they might
contact me first or whatever like you know longest you know we still there for each other that's it
versus like what your other friends sometimes too is like me as a friend I always check up on them
make sure they okay they good if I see them on Instagram Twitter Facebook whatever you know
get a little you know stuff like that however you know I'm just that type of friend that I'm
always there for you regardless if you know me your friendship is down good down right good
to tell you ain't gotta worry about me feeling any type of way about you calling me however you
know like I said back to what I said about the different type of friends like you know you got
them you got them friends where it's like you know you got the stages you meet somebody they're your
queens then you might you know want to call me your friend and then if they get the title of a
close or best friend and you know congratulations you have it but at times some of them take
advantage of it's like some of them will take advantage of it like in certain friendships
like it's just like I don't know like I think you don't know too much or you want to be too soon
I was like mmm because you know like I'm gonna just say this child love friends I have a few
child love friends I'm gonna say I do see you child friends we are not close like we were when we
were children but like you know when we see each other it's still all of respect that's still my
friend and you know they ever need something to what they have I miss something you know I'm a
com if I can you know whatever work friends now this is what I learned within having friends
within the work environment some people that you work with you have to keep them in a friend
environment when it comes to us within the place of business that you getting your coins from okay
certain jobs I had I was always the youngest and every job I had always the youngest like I worked
in nursing homes children's hospitals retails you know I always was the youngest and make a long
story short I'll get along with the older crowd because you know have respect stuff for them
as time certain people you cannot let involved in your life because you know
it sometimes it's like it's skeptical it's real skeptical you know it's like okay
hey I say like y'all go out for drinks or eat something cool like here and there but
not so much the point where like like you do with your clothes from your best friends if they turn
into those type of friends and you feel comfortable and you trust them cool but yeah I say this from
experience is like you got to be able to separate the two like okay we friends but we're gonna be
work friends strictly because you know sometimes you can read a person within like the atmosphere
you're right like if you have work and you know how it is I work and they tell you how it is outside
sometimes it's not for you like I'm like I work with older people some of them love the party
and stuff like this that's not for me like sometimes it depends on the party and what type
party it is if it's a casual party get dressed up get cute you know type 40 nice food nice
drinks cool going out to the club I'm not a club scene person the only club you might see me at
here and every now and then is the hookah lounge okay them hook them club scenes is not really for
me because it's like you know it's not me I prefer somewhere like hookah lounge because it's real
simple and it's not so much and a lot of people don't really deal with who could like they so yeah
but yeah like we're work friends like you know I do have just work friends and I do have some friends
at work that I do hang out with but it's not every so many because you know some you know like I said
you got to even out show options on you know the friends like you know some people you got to be
really careful of going out with same thing when it comes to like talking stages talking to dudes
or girls you know you got to be real you got to be real real cautious about everything you know so
I always be cautious because you know you don't want to end up in situations where you get close
to a person and then the friendship just goes haywire you know so yeah work friends it's not bad
just you know way out what they want you want to keep being your friend at work or you're gonna be
outside friends up like that close friends now this is the thing it takes I feel like for me it
takes a real good time for you to be considered my close friend it really does they really really
does like we really have to bond so good for me and you to be considered close friends because it's
like this is the thing about me my circle is very small very very very very small and the reason why
my circle is very small is because I just don't I don't like um I don't sometimes I don't like being
bothered with a lot of things or like trying to have a lot of people because sometimes you know
when you do know a lot of people sometimes it's like oh no sometimes it's like you know that's not
for me or it is for me like you know like when you were school like I feel like we's the elementary
and middle school you try to be friends with the people that was it because they were known they were
the it crowd they were known but I always was outcast that's why I love outcast the group because
they're different and the way they their music everything style everything's different and that's
what I was and I'm still in my outcast and it's okay it's fine with it and that's what my message
is today too when it comes to your friends it's okay to be an outcast within a friend group
things like that because that's another thing too in a friend group you always have certain ones
that have certain titles another thing like one name back when I was in elementary middle school
where they had the little things where you got the mean friend you got the nice friend you got the
right of fight friend you got that friend that's you got that friend that's still professional
and that's how it is with me like I have friends that if I know it's something like jump off or
something I know who to call if I if I need a business plan I need you to help me with a business
proposal I call that friend but let me tell you something like you know you always got to separate
certain friends from each other because sometimes certain vibes don't clash with each other and
certain vibes do clash with each other to the point where oh I feel comfortable to the point
where that we all become friends and I feel we feel comfortable with each other and it's good
so let me tell you all like when it comes to friends like you really just gotta be cautious on
who you consider your friends childhood friends that's like I feel like that's childhood friends
like your little kids like you know when little kids you're known to have a lot of friends and
those friends you do have no certain you know y'all certain communication you know group
neighborhood whatever you'll remember them you're going to remember them same thing also when it
is packed with like preschool elementary kids and maybe middle school if y'all grew up together so
childhood friends I really wouldn't like dictate much on because like you know you grew up with
people and your parents may know they parents and stuff like that so I wouldn't worry about that my
major science will always be like work friends and close friends to be honest like considering
people close friends now social friends um some people you can be social with and some not like
I have we all have our moments when it comes to that let me tell y'all like I tell you all the time
when it comes to my vibes I always point out the pros and cons and when it comes to the talk about
friends you know I'm giving y'all a little bit of both and when I say this to say when it comes to
friends you can make friends anywhere I made friends anywhere especially when it comes to social media
you'll meet friends anywhere in long distance y'all like with being on social media you'll
meet friends from the D like I say that EMB area but you know Baltimore don't count the
NBR they always say we don't count it's a BNB area y'all the long story about that you don't you're not
a Baltimoreian you got to look it up for yourself but yeah like I've got some friends in Virginia
Philly DC and half of them I've met within school or social media or through people that I know
you know and then we become friends and we stay being friends or we acquaintance whatever you know
well some of us may end up being friends for a minute you know and when it comes to the new friends
y'all let me tell y'all something I am very very very very very very very sure with myself
that I'm going to be able to make friends this semester especially because I go to college I
go to HBCU I go to one of the biggest goddamn known HBCUs in the city let alone the world when it
comes to like HBCU you know home of the bad and we're gonna stay and you would expect for you
know me to have at least a good five to six or seven amount of friends now that's about the case
you know like I met some people when we because of the friends however we just grew apart because
you know certain times you know certain things I wasn't doing like me like I said when it came to
parties I can't keep up with the college parties I can't homecoming and stuff like that big or
events like that oh yeah I'm there I'm there that's school spirit and you see a lot of people you
know man goes up like that however the other parties they be having like on the side point
and stuff I can't keep up with that I can't I give that word or I'm coming home from work or I find out
the day of you know but yeah I said new friends let me tell you about the new friends like it's
like a little pro and con but a new friends type situation you know because sometimes I feel like
you don't need to make new friends because you know Drake you know he's on no new friends no new
friends no new friends no no no however sometimes you need to make new friends because sometimes
like I said you rather grow apart from your friends certain friends than to wild out with them
and be in beef and then it carries on for a while then it be so much sometimes we grow apart because
certain things that we do or certain moves that we have to make but it's no beef it's no ill will
you know we're still all love sometimes you have to grow apart because it's like you can't take
with so much and I know a lot of people who that's listening be like yeah I've been through that
however I'm big on I'm big on communication I'm big on making things work and you know we all
have them friendships where we want to make it work sometimes we can't make it work but it's like
you know at least the effort has tried and then I always tell people you know I'm here if you need me
you know sometimes if we you know I have some friends like I had in high school we not close
like they're no more but it's like you know that's them you know I'm a speaker whatever I'm gonna be
shady but some of them I'm not gonna speak to because it's just like no like we were just acquaintances
I mean like we were or we were friends and then it just got weird because you probably did something
or I probably did something to you you mean like you know hey we all got our opinions but yeah it's
when it comes to friends just pick and choose them you know very carefully especially when you get
older you know I'm big on the saying like I really want to have friends to the point where you know
you grow old with them you know and then y'all have kids they be the best of friends things like that
so you know when you get older you just be like wow I really really really you know you explore
the ups and downs of friendship I know I did in elementary school through middle school
definitely in high school and right now currently college you know college I wouldn't say is it
haven't been big like I haven't had no no real real like craziness you know versus like when we were in
high school middle school elementary school because like when you're young you coming up sometimes you
know when you hang around certain people you tell them certain stuff they're quick to think one way
and not other ways to figure out things like me I was one of them people at the time they always
thought one way like if you made me mad you know I'm done depending on the situation who it was
but like you know sometimes I'm like okay if I know we've been friends with this long and they said
that we're going this always going to be two ways to figure this out but however you know like if
you know like you feel like your gut you don't want to finish you don't want to do it let it go
you know sometimes you can't force you can't force anything you can't force anything and nobody's
perfect because things happen and people have certain things in life that they want to focus on
and they want to be around certain people that's willing to do the same thing you know like within
my friends like I say my best of friends they we all of us go to school we work we have our
loves you know we have a little time and stuff but you know certain stuff is not for everybody
and certain friends you just can't bring around like you know like I'm friends with people that
like to go out every weekend club have myself like that they know not to call me it's not for them
and that's respect right there you know and it's another thing too where it comes to friends a
lot of people have to realize you have to respect your friends because those are the ones if you
consider me your friend you got to also consider having respect for me as much as I'm going to
have respect for you and I feel like too like that's another thing at times where some friendships
fall because it's not communication respect and boundaries being set you know that happens with
everything you know and I feel like in order for things to be good you have to have you know you
have to have boundaries you have to give respect and you just have to you know you gotta you gotta
you gotta think you gotta really think about it you gotta think you don't always think with one
mind sometimes you gotta think with two three four five on and so you get a plan you know like you
gotta have respect you know you gotta give respect you have to give everybody respect I don't care
sometimes you gotta fake it to you make it give respect the way you want to give it back you need
you know you want to be back in return boundaries in communication like you have to have those three
in order for your friendship to be good and not every friendship is perfect you know sometimes
we all have been periods with our friends it's like we don't know if we're gonna be friends again
but however sometimes it just takes things naturally to happen on its own for things to get sorted out
you know sometimes like I've been there so especially with your best friends those the ones
that you consider like your ace the first people you've run to before anybody like I know my best
friends they get tired of me but it's like I trust them so much I consider them as family and that's
another thing too turn friends you can and cannot bring in your home like certain people you cannot
let come to your residence and I've seen that too you know you've seen that too you know so when it
comes to friends it's pros and cons as always like it's good and bad you have your friends you have
those friends where you know you feel comfortable with them to the point where oh I want you to
meet my family versus the ones okay we cool whatever but you know you know like certain stuff you
just certain stuff you don't allow and you know whoever you live with or you have your own house
you're not gonna allow it to your front door you know and I and like when I was growing up and I had
friends childhood friends they love come over my house they loved it because like we had the
playground the pools like we had things that we as kids poster had even when we got older we still
like you know within the playground got knocked down we still gotta we upgraded the pool and
everything we still you know we're good however when I got to high school and so I was like some
people just don't need to come to your house you know because sometimes you know some people can't
come to your house because you know like if your mother father or guardian whoever you live with
or yourself or spouse whatever it's not gonna allow some of the stuff that they hear and Steve
coming you come in front door because they don't some people don't don't tolerate that like me
I like peace I like to have a good time and if you can't show peace respect and have a good time
in a nice fashion manly way you cannot come in some of my residence because like you know certain
people don't allow that especially within the neighborhood you live in or like if you live in
apartments whatever you know so yeah like you just gotta be really cautious like don't be wrong like
you know that's why it's called friend groups like you have certain friends you go you know got
you got certain friends you've got to categorize them you know you got you got to work friends
your social friends you your party friends school you know certain ones you've got to keep in certain
groups because of certain things but I ain't going out of like some of the people that that are now
my close friends I didn't think we were gonna be close friends because you know just a matter of
the time that we had shared together like I love them so much I love them so much like we can go out
have fun and we don't have no problems and those be the nights where I just be having the time of
life and that's that's they too we have friends that you didn't think we're gonna be your friend
within you know this far those who the friendships that last forever like my girlfriend we didn't
think we were gonna be best friends it just instantly happened and you know that funny
saying that also was on Instagram was like I didn't like you at first and the person didn't
like you at first and then we all talk to each other and get to know each other and stuff y'all
unstoppable y'all are very unstoppable for boys girls all that for everybody like it's very it's
very funny how things work like it's very very funny when it you know how things working out
situations is like friends you know friends coming low but don't be afraid to meet new people don't
be afraid to let your people meet your people if you know they are willing to meet new people
and vice versa you know like with me like my best friend when she moved on campus I was a little
nervous for her I ain't gonna lie and if you hear this buzz yes I was nervous I was nervous for her
because I was like oh my gosh I'm the best friend I don't know best one like the back of my hand
and I know how she is with certain things get and that's another thing too when you've been friends
with someone for so long you start to pick up on how they are and what triggers them what they like
what they don't like you know and that's why I said friends is like they always are like the best
of people in my world I feel like when you in the certain friends with the categories especially
your best friend your close friends when you know them so well and you know what they like what they
don't like what they tend to do what they not gonna do what they gonna tolerate but they not
gonna tolerate all that stuff I was terrified of my best friend a little bit because I was like
oh my gosh she goes to cop and state that's another big school another big hvc u s in the city too
and it's a part of the world as well and I was like oh my gosh you know because my best friend
moved on campus and we always talked about we was gonna go to school together but you know
pandemic everything it all are all our plans shift you know but we still went to hvc but we
got together however when she when you know had the roommates and stuff I was like oh no please
and my mind like oh hey that gave me a drama nothing but when I met them I instantly like we
all became friends like it was just like well I feel like I know y'all for a good little couple
million a couple months and I just know y'all for a couple minutes and that's another thing too when
you have those friends or you meet those people that instantly have good vibes and don't give
us stuck up or you know bougie you have a time your life like I ain't going a lot of y'all like
even though I go to Morgan and the best one go to cop and when I go up there and I be with her friends
I don't feel left out because like that's another thing too when you grew up when you grow up and
stuff too you see how it is like with certain people you cannot be around their friends or their
friends are not just for you y'all can only be friends together like y'all can only do stuff together
like sometimes you can't bring all your friends together because like all your friends are not
the same and that's what makes people different and that's what makes every friendship different
because everyone's different and I've seen that for myself like I said growing up how I'm going to
you gonna have to use growing up a lot because I'm gonna tell y'all everything y'all listen to this
and y'all get the you know doing the xyz like dang doing the compare and contract with me
comparing comparison with me compare and compare and compare and compare and like me you're gonna
be like wow like you're going to separate like the pros and the cons like the similarities and
not so much similarities.
I'm telling y'all because I feel like every episode I had,
people would text me or DM me, be like,
yo, I got the, they get it, like thank you.
I'm like, I didn't think of that way until I started hearing
from you when I read it or went back again or read it
because I have the translation on too.
They're like, dang, it opened your mind.
And I'm like, for real, it opened your mind.
You know, a lot of people can open your mind.
A lot of things will open your mind
just from their experience might rub off
with your experience.
Like for example, my dad, some of the experiences he deal
with friends too, they rub off on me.
My mom as well.
And they handle it different because they're older.
And you know, when they were younger, social media
and all that was, what was that?
That didn't happen to like what?
0506 with my face and stuff like that.
They still really wasn't even hyped on that as much.
But my mom always telling me like neighborhood friends,
you know, they were neighborhood, you know,
they did little things, the girls did they things.
And my dad was telling me the boys would do all types
of sports and things like that.
And they still have their childhood friends.
Like their childhood friends and them are still close
to this day.
And then they got some friends they grew up with middle school
and high school and stuff like that too.
And then, you know, some of the ones they grew up with
and they fell apart.
But it's, you know, it wasn't no beef enough, you know,
just we people grow out, grow each other.
And at times like I say, like, you know,
you have people that is here for a season
and you have people that's there for a reason
and those be the ones you be like, wow,
I didn't think we were going to be friends that long.
But, you know, it's crazy how things work
because like I say all the time, whoever you believe in
brings people in your life at the times
that you need them the most, you know,
those people you need the most will be there for you
in ways that you like, wow.
And those are the ones that you consider
your various true friend.
Those are the ones that the right of doubt for you
that's going to be there for you,
help you every little thing.
I'm telling y'all, if you only watch
at Secure Go, watch it now.
It's five seasons.
Up until season five is 10 episodes before three, two, one
is eight episodes in each season.
It's on Netflix if you don't, if you got it.
It's on HBO Max if you got it.
Just watch it.
Cause like I'm telling y'all, like when y'all watch
that when you watch at Secure Go, you're like,
whoa, like, oh my God.
It's like, it's very interesting.
And I love watching series that impacts with the real world
and that's impacted on people like me
in the black community because it's like, wow.
A lot of people don't show this stuff.
Especially when it comes to friends
and real hard life stuff because it's like,
you always see like not so good side.
And at times when you are going through those moments,
your friends will pick up on them
before you can even elaborate on them.
That's how I am.
And that's how my friends are with me.
Like if I know something right, I'm like,
something right, you don't wanna talk about it.
What you wanna talk about it?
We wanna figure it out.
But nevertheless, y'all, we gonna wrap this up right now.
I hope you guys have enjoyed this episode about friends
because like I mentioned in the beginning,
friends are very important people in our life.
Like they are the people that we choose to let in.
You can't let everybody in because, you know,
certain people feelings and boundaries are not the same.
And then you have some friends that's gonna tell you
how it is and then some friends, you know,
that's really not going to tell you how it is.
But it's okay, you know, you learn from it
and you always have other decisions to wear your options on.
So yeah, I hope you guys have learned
or feel connected with me in any type of source away.
You know, I really hope that you guys, you know,
are very, very, very, getting a sense of what I'm saying.
And it's like, oh, like juggling your mind as well.
That's how I am.
But yes, nevertheless, I hope you guys had a great day,
a beautiful week, you know, whether it is morning,
evening or afternoon, y'all listen to this.
I just hope that you guys are watching
because no little sneak peeks.
I just hope you guys are like in a very good mindset.
And you know, y'all are at peace with y'all in itself
and doing things for y'all
and have those people in your life
that is cheering you on and being there for you as well.
As always, you guys will hear from me every Wednesday
at 5.30 p.m. on the dot.
And you will be seeing a little bit of clips of myself
within these episodes.
Every Wednesday, maybe at six or five o'clock,
but mainly six o'clock because on YouTube,
they don't go like by the minutes.
It has to be like hours.
So y'all see the little clips at six o'clock p.m.
every Wednesday, but you will hear from me, you know,
every 5.30, 5.30 every Wednesday.
So yes, who's kidding?
Nevertheless, y'all, I wish y'all enough
of a peace and blessings.
Please be safe out here
because you know, sometimes even though school is in session,
everything like that.
And you know, things are back on the routine.
If you go to school, trade school, most hard,
and whatever, you know, we're back in that motion now
it's time to get focused, real focused and things like that.
So I wish y'all nothing but the best.
Please be safe out here.
Please be safe, you know, weather and stuff changing,
gotta change stuff all that.
Be safe, you know, give good vibes.
Be a vibe in most of all, you guys will hear from me later.
Also, another thing before I leave,
a lot of people will be like,
uh, I can't get certain stuff.
Now you can get everything.
I have access to Apple podcasts, Google podcasts,
our hard radio, Pandora, YouTube, and it's another one, y'all.
Oh, Amazon music.
I knew it was another one.
I put it all on every platform now.
So y'all guys can hear me from anywhere.
Yes, anywhere.
Oh, I think I forgot to mention Pandora.
But yeah, y'all can hear me everywhere.
So don't forget, you know,
and as always, you guys will hear from me next Wednesday
at 5.30.
Please be safe and be good.
And please, please, please display good vibes
to yourself and to others.
And on that note, y'all hear from me next Wednesday.
Bye.