1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:06,880 Hey y'all whether it's morning evening or afternoon I'm just glad that you had decided to vibe with E. 2 00:00:06,880 --> 00:00:13,120 Yes the one and only E. Mrs. Vodin with E. Mrs. Vodin's knowledge and good stuff. 3 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:19,600 Without further ado I want you guys to sit back relax and enjoy the show and if you're new here 4 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:24,800 same thing I just want you to sit back relax and enjoy the show because today's VOD of the day 5 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:31,440 is always something special like I tell y'all always okay now let's get into it. Today's VOD of the 6 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:40,240 day is friends and the reason why today's VOD of the day is friends is because as I get older I see 7 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:46,880 a lot of things I observe a lot of things I do a lot of thinking or things and when it comes to 8 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:53,200 friends I have a thin line between trust I ain't gonna say hate because hate is a real big word 9 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:59,120 I don't like but yes I have a real thin line when it comes to trust and when it comes to friends 10 00:00:59,920 --> 00:01:05,440 you know when you get older you see who's there for you and you see who's not you have people 11 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:12,560 that come for a season and who's been people who's there for a reason and I always remind myself 12 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:17,680 that like you know like sometimes certain people you got to keep in certain categories and some 13 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:24,800 just like they there for you forever until death do us part so let's get into it y'all. Friends are so 14 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:30,960 important in our lives like they are the people we choose to let into our inner circle based on 15 00:01:30,960 --> 00:01:37,520 our shared interests values and emotional bonds. True friends provide us with comfort 16 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:44,160 companionship and a sense of beginning they are though they are there to share within our joys 17 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:51,120 offer us support through challenge and times and be a listening ear to us that is a real 18 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:57,440 fucking friend a real friend is someone who respects and cares for us offering loyalty and 19 00:01:57,440 --> 00:02:04,160 honesty friendships can vary into different things but they all play an important role in 20 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:10,960 our emotional well-being like they enrich in their lives with laughter shared experience in a sense 21 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:18,800 of unity like having friends honestly I feel like it's important for our emotional well-being as well 22 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:26,160 especially when it comes to growth like they provide us with support empathy and they are there when 23 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:33,600 we need them like within like challenges depression anxiety things like that like friends offer a 24 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:40,880 unique perseverance when it comes to the bond and the person that they are regardless like it reduces 25 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:49,840 are like it just reduces thing that we have like our isolations and building connections with others 26 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:55,280 like they help us out in many ways that they don't know that they do and like within shared 27 00:02:55,280 --> 00:03:03,200 experience and meaningful conversations that we contribute to it helps our mental health like 28 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:09,920 friendships are encouraged to explore and learn and enhance overall the habit and qualities of 29 00:03:09,920 --> 00:03:18,080 life with each other or through each other like I completely agree that having friends is like is 30 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:23,920 a cure to our emotional well-being and growth like there are many different types of friendships that 31 00:03:24,480 --> 00:03:31,840 each are often like unique you know defined within our lives such as like your childhood friends 32 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:38,480 your work friends close friends social friends or not friends long distance friends and new friends 33 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:45,920 all bring something special to the table for us because at times when you need them or you're 34 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:49,360 going through things at that time like say you at work and you need your friend your work friend 35 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:53,760 or nothing and they there to help you know if your close friend or child or friend out there you 36 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:58,000 know can't pick up whatever you know long as you have those type of friends that dynamic when it 37 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:06,000 comes to their friends it helps you a lot by them just support and they provide the support to empathy 38 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:11,520 and like you know been there for the challenges and reduces the isolation and build connection 39 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:18,080 and being able to share experience and meaningful conversation to contribute our health mental health 40 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:23,840 overall friendships are encouraged to explore and learn and enhance our habits of qualities of life 41 00:04:23,840 --> 00:04:32,560 with each other and also to learn from them vice versa as well so yes friends is very very big 42 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:38,560 in my book and the reason why I say friends is very big in my book because when I consider you a 43 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:42,880 friend especially like you know those types like a best friends close friends things like that I feel 44 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:50,240 like is deeper once you have those type of close friends and best best friends and then the best 45 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:56,400 of friends those are the closest titles to ever having the book within mankind and the reason 46 00:04:56,400 --> 00:05:01,680 why I say that is because like me we all bend to those stages like you know through elementary 47 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:06,960 school mid school high school up to college you see who your friends are and y'all see them post on 48 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:14,320 instagram you know like every year every new year I think since 2014 that was young I was really 49 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:18,720 young like when we were introduced to social media around that time we'll buy a little bit sooner than 50 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:24,000 that I would always see them post as like each year that go by or like each grade level you go by 51 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:27,760 you're like you know beginning you have a lot of friends and then towards the end like getting to 52 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:34,560 adult life you don't have a lot of friends because at times we outgrow each other and I always say 53 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:41,040 that like I'd rather outgrow with the person than to leave off on a bad note with a person because 54 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:47,120 when you leave off on a bad note with a person things can escalate to any and everything like 55 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:54,800 it can really escalate to things that you just don't know that's going to escalate to and me I like 56 00:05:54,800 --> 00:06:02,000 peace I'm all about my peace I don't play when it comes to my peace like if we friends you consider 57 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:07,040 me your friend and things like that I'm gonna let you know from the get go I'm that type of friend 58 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:11,920 that's going to be on you like glad especially when it comes to something that's very important that 59 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:17,040 you share with me or it's something that I know for a fact that you're good at like all my friends 60 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:21,760 can tell you when it comes to school I'm on their ass like if you're in school or you trying to go 61 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:25,920 to school or you're trying to pursue something that you really love and passionate about and then you 62 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:30,320 feel like you falling out the cracks of it I'm gonna be on your ass like look you got shit to do 63 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:35,600 you got to handle your business that goes for my homeboys homegirls I don't know how they go like 64 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:40,240 I'm real big on them because it's like I see something in you that you don't see in yourself 65 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:45,200 and I'm gonna help you see that vision because you're my friend you're my motherfucking friend 66 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:50,240 and as a real motherfucking friend I'm gonna tell you what you need to do and I'm gonna help you and 67 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:55,680 miss something like I'm not gonna really really tell you what to do but my job as a friend is to be 68 00:06:55,680 --> 00:07:02,000 there for you mentally and physically if you need me like physically if you need me in the present 69 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:07,840 time if you having those bad dreams or you just need me to celebrate whatever it is I'm there 70 00:07:07,840 --> 00:07:12,000 mentally if you need me mentally if you're going through the pressure anxiety stress let me know 71 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:15,040 of how could I help you I'm gonna give you your space that's what I'm gonna do I'm gonna give you 72 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:20,640 your space no doubt but I'm also I'm gonna stay constantly check it up when you because I kid 73 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:25,120 and I'm that type of friend and all my friends like you act like somebody's mother when you become 74 00:07:25,120 --> 00:07:30,640 a mother you'll be fine I'd like please stop doing that mother word like I'm not ready to have a kid 75 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:36,160 right now and always tell my friends y'all have kids first because y'all they be in love and everything 76 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:42,400 first or they in committed relationships and stuff like that me I'm like I'm out here focused on 77 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:48,880 other things once love comes around and I might feel it okay cool but right now you're my main 78 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:54,880 concern one of my main concerns but it's all jokes all jokes y'all all jokes and love and 79 00:07:54,880 --> 00:08:01,520 peace of head reaching all that good shit but guess like when it comes to friends I'm so big on 80 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:09,120 that word because it's like we all been through those experience in our life where we thought the 81 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:15,600 people that you know we had so much close connection to at times you know thought was gonna stay 82 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:20,400 forever thought was gonna be there forever and at times they don't be there forever because 83 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:26,000 certain things happen or something happened and it just didn't escalate the way it's supposed to 84 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:30,960 or it got too deep to the point where like yeah it escalated to the point where they oh yeah this 85 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:36,000 is this is it I don't want to see you no more I don't want a connection I don't want to let and 86 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:40,320 that happened to me before to the point where like I just I just can't see this person I can't see 87 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:44,480 these people no more don't get me wrong like I'm not the type of person the dog I'm out you know I 88 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:49,040 wish them nothing but peace and blessings you know you know and all that good stuff but I just 89 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:54,000 feel like if we were in a room together I probably wouldn't acknowledge them because depending on the 90 00:08:54,000 --> 00:09:01,440 situation that's the thing too like like I said like I'd rather fall out with a person like fall 91 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:07,680 out with them like you know when you grow up and y'all lose contact type stuff rather than falling 92 00:09:07,680 --> 00:09:13,680 out with a person to the point where it is to me and them going back and forth saying negative 93 00:09:13,680 --> 00:09:19,680 stuff and is probably still going on in their mind on my mind see me after is like if we have words 94 00:09:19,680 --> 00:09:24,880 and anything is over it's done with like I said what I say and it's it and I my new thing is if I 95 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:30,400 say peace and blessings that's it I'm not going back and forth because it's like I say peace to you 96 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:36,800 and I wish you nothing but blessings because it's like you know where I'm from nobody is saying 97 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:42,400 these things we quick to grab the Glock instead of sitting down and talking about it and it's just like 98 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:48,960 you know it's like you never know like one conversation can fix everything I say to all 99 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:54,960 the time one conversation could just fix any goddamn thing however at times if you feel like it's 100 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:58,400 constantly and constantly and constantly keep fucking happy it's like all right I need to let 101 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:02,560 you go and you need to get the fuck out of my face because I'm sick of it you know sometimes like 102 00:10:02,560 --> 00:10:08,480 you gotta stop it you know sometimes they gotta be stopped but me I'm always the type two fine 103 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:13,760 piece at times I'm gonna be fucked up about it you know before I have to sit down or whatever 104 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:19,120 which I'm like I'm fucked up we all gonna have that moment like if he or she come off crazy I'm 105 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:23,680 gonna fuck them up but you gotta think that's not what you hear for you know you want to make peace 106 00:10:23,680 --> 00:10:28,400 and the beast is the best way possible because at the end of the day you all were friends you know you 107 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:34,800 were friends and real friends you know real friends have real issues and real friends finds out ways 108 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:42,000 to fix it like for example I love insecure and if y'all don't know insecure is by Issa Rae oh my 109 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:50,320 god love Issa Rae for insecure because she really like weighed like really really like highlighted 110 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:55,760 experiences on everything like how to get cows to hide is to be in a relationship with somebody 111 00:10:55,760 --> 00:11:01,040 you know loving the death but then at times like they not doing stuff you gotta change being friends 112 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:06,480 with people from a time and wearing our hotties to work for a nonprofit but most of all I would 113 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:12,080 is to have a best friend that you love to death and y'all are on different paths like her best friend 114 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:18,080 was Molly Molly was a lawyer you know she was a good attorney she's run for a good law firm things 115 00:11:18,080 --> 00:11:26,320 like that lot and Molly was living good you know nice old penthouse got a nice little dog family was 116 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:30,720 oriented things like that Molly on the other hand she's working for a nonprofit standing a 117 00:11:30,720 --> 00:11:38,160 somewhat nice apartment you know she you know she was they just different but they love each other 118 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:46,320 regardless however they did have their scenes like in in the show where it got real to the point where 119 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:51,280 like they felt like they couldn't deal with each other no more because like you know when you 120 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:56,640 like evolve and elevate you know when you used to be you don't want to be stagnant I always say you 121 00:11:56,640 --> 00:12:01,680 don't want to be steady within anything you don't want to be stagnant you want to move you want to 122 00:12:01,680 --> 00:12:07,680 level up with stuff Issa started leveling up and so did Molly and it became a lot on them and then 123 00:12:07,680 --> 00:12:15,040 when it came to dudes involved too that became an issue and I'm a speaker on that too. I'm a speaker 124 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:22,160 that's like we all went through those friendships we're at times relationships made make or break 125 00:12:22,160 --> 00:12:31,200 the friendship because you know some relationships you know the person that your friend is with at 126 00:12:31,200 --> 00:12:36,240 times may rub you off in a good way or a bad way you know that's why I always say first person 127 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:41,920 is key so don't come around me you feel my friend boyfriend or girlfriend don't be coming around 128 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:49,680 without a good first person because I'm like I like to read people I like to read feel y'all know 129 00:12:49,680 --> 00:12:56,880 I'm big or vibes like that's me I'm a vibe I'm big or vibe and if your vibes is not what I feel is 130 00:12:56,880 --> 00:13:01,600 though and be like it's not my place because you know that's not you know you're not the person 131 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:06,480 that's whining down me or whatever you're doing to my friend but I know my boundaries and I know 132 00:13:06,480 --> 00:13:11,520 they boundaries but my thing is also too like I don't want to overstep my boundaries with my friend 133 00:13:11,520 --> 00:13:15,600 because you know that's hard that's hard really that's his business you know I ain't gonna get into it 134 00:13:15,600 --> 00:13:20,720 but I always say like certain stuff I just don't allow and this vice versa they be like certain 135 00:13:20,720 --> 00:13:25,200 stuff that I do they don't allow like I give second chances they like I don't give second 136 00:13:25,200 --> 00:13:30,000 chances fuck that shit I don't know how you do it I'd be like sometimes you really got to see the 137 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:34,320 good is a person they be like I don't want to see it because like if this if you do something 138 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:41,040 right then it is over and you know like now in a generation it's the red flags we big on red flags 139 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:51,280 and I'm looking at the red flags now back then I wasn't really paying attention to any flags 140 00:13:51,280 --> 00:13:56,320 because it's just like you know especially when you young and you dating and you tell your friend 141 00:13:56,320 --> 00:14:00,560 when you know like high school I'm gonna say like you know we all started dating in high school for 142 00:14:00,560 --> 00:14:07,120 real when we took somebody seriously you know was like high school so I was a good service in high 143 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:14,320 school because like we're a little bit older you know you're mature now you should be mature 144 00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:21,600 somewhat or fully you know shit god damn but like you know when that come around you know sometimes 145 00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:28,960 it's like when you dealing with a dude and you you know you know you gotta separate the two like 146 00:14:28,960 --> 00:14:35,520 your friends and your spouse you know and sometimes with the spouse I'd be like he tried to be she 147 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:40,080 or he tried to be my business but I don't really don't beef with that because it's not my business 148 00:14:40,080 --> 00:14:43,760 and vice versa they don't beef with me but sometimes you know you gotta be careful would you tell your 149 00:14:43,760 --> 00:14:47,120 friends about your spouse and would you tell your spouse about your friends because if we together 150 00:14:47,120 --> 00:14:51,760 and they're looking at you side out and you looking at them side out yeah it ain't gonna be pretty but 151 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:56,240 most we're sure about that let's get back to what I'm saying about it scared basically like with 152 00:14:56,240 --> 00:15:01,680 Issa and Molly they've been friends since college and you know they've seen everything they've been 153 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:07,280 through everything together to points where like you know sometimes within a friendship I understand 154 00:15:07,280 --> 00:15:12,480 this too sometimes you gotta give each other space like you know like with my best friends 155 00:15:12,480 --> 00:15:21,760 I love them downhill both of them downhill and at times I try not to be so so so I don't want to 156 00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:28,560 say eggy or press I try not to be all up on them because I know they have a life too like we all 157 00:15:28,560 --> 00:15:35,680 go to college we all work busing our ass to go to school and I always contact them or they might 158 00:15:35,680 --> 00:15:41,520 contact me first or whatever like you know longest you know we still there for each other that's it 159 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:47,600 versus like what your other friends sometimes too is like me as a friend I always check up on them 160 00:15:47,600 --> 00:15:51,680 make sure they okay they good if I see them on Instagram Twitter Facebook whatever you know 161 00:15:51,680 --> 00:15:56,480 get a little you know stuff like that however you know I'm just that type of friend that I'm 162 00:15:56,480 --> 00:16:01,680 always there for you regardless if you know me your friendship is down good down right good 163 00:16:01,680 --> 00:16:06,240 to tell you ain't gotta worry about me feeling any type of way about you calling me however you 164 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:10,240 know like I said back to what I said about the different type of friends like you know you got 165 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:16,640 them you got them friends where it's like you know you got the stages you meet somebody they're your 166 00:16:16,640 --> 00:16:24,080 queens then you might you know want to call me your friend and then if they get the title of a 167 00:16:24,080 --> 00:16:30,160 close or best friend and you know congratulations you have it but at times some of them take 168 00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:36,640 advantage of it's like some of them will take advantage of it like in certain friendships 169 00:16:36,640 --> 00:16:44,000 like it's just like I don't know like I think you don't know too much or you want to be too soon 170 00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:52,080 I was like mmm because you know like I'm gonna just say this child love friends I have a few 171 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:58,800 child love friends I'm gonna say I do see you child friends we are not close like we were when we 172 00:16:58,800 --> 00:17:03,600 were children but like you know when we see each other it's still all of respect that's still my 173 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:07,280 friend and you know they ever need something to what they have I miss something you know I'm a 174 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:15,120 com if I can you know whatever work friends now this is what I learned within having friends 175 00:17:15,120 --> 00:17:21,520 within the work environment some people that you work with you have to keep them in a friend 176 00:17:22,240 --> 00:17:28,720 environment when it comes to us within the place of business that you getting your coins from okay 177 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:35,920 certain jobs I had I was always the youngest and every job I had always the youngest like I worked 178 00:17:35,920 --> 00:17:42,400 in nursing homes children's hospitals retails you know I always was the youngest and make a long 179 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:48,480 story short I'll get along with the older crowd because you know have respect stuff for them 180 00:17:48,480 --> 00:17:53,920 as time certain people you cannot let involved in your life because you know 181 00:17:55,360 --> 00:17:59,760 it sometimes it's like it's skeptical it's real skeptical you know it's like okay 182 00:17:59,760 --> 00:18:06,320 hey I say like y'all go out for drinks or eat something cool like here and there but 183 00:18:06,960 --> 00:18:12,960 not so much the point where like like you do with your clothes from your best friends if they turn 184 00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:17,840 into those type of friends and you feel comfortable and you trust them cool but yeah I say this from 185 00:18:17,840 --> 00:18:24,080 experience is like you got to be able to separate the two like okay we friends but we're gonna be 186 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:29,040 work friends strictly because you know sometimes you can read a person within like the atmosphere 187 00:18:29,040 --> 00:18:34,000 you're right like if you have work and you know how it is I work and they tell you how it is outside 188 00:18:34,640 --> 00:18:39,120 sometimes it's not for you like I'm like I work with older people some of them love the party 189 00:18:39,120 --> 00:18:43,200 and stuff like this that's not for me like sometimes it depends on the party and what type 190 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:49,360 party it is if it's a casual party get dressed up get cute you know type 40 nice food nice 191 00:18:49,360 --> 00:18:56,000 drinks cool going out to the club I'm not a club scene person the only club you might see me at 192 00:18:56,000 --> 00:19:02,480 here and every now and then is the hookah lounge okay them hook them club scenes is not really for 193 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:08,480 me because it's like you know it's not me I prefer somewhere like hookah lounge because it's real 194 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:12,400 simple and it's not so much and a lot of people don't really deal with who could like they so yeah 195 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:18,400 but yeah like we're work friends like you know I do have just work friends and I do have some friends 196 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:24,640 at work that I do hang out with but it's not every so many because you know some you know like I said 197 00:19:24,640 --> 00:19:29,920 you got to even out show options on you know the friends like you know some people you got to be 198 00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:34,880 really careful of going out with same thing when it comes to like talking stages talking to dudes 199 00:19:34,880 --> 00:19:41,280 or girls you know you got to be real you got to be real real cautious about everything you know so 200 00:19:41,280 --> 00:19:45,040 I always be cautious because you know you don't want to end up in situations where you get close 201 00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:52,000 to a person and then the friendship just goes haywire you know so yeah work friends it's not bad 202 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:57,520 just you know way out what they want you want to keep being your friend at work or you're gonna be 203 00:19:57,520 --> 00:20:02,320 outside friends up like that close friends now this is the thing it takes I feel like for me it 204 00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:06,960 takes a real good time for you to be considered my close friend it really does they really really 205 00:20:06,960 --> 00:20:12,640 does like we really have to bond so good for me and you to be considered close friends because it's 206 00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:20,320 like this is the thing about me my circle is very small very very very very small and the reason why 207 00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:30,800 my circle is very small is because I just don't I don't like um I don't sometimes I don't like being 208 00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:38,480 bothered with a lot of things or like trying to have a lot of people because sometimes you know 209 00:20:38,480 --> 00:20:44,400 when you do know a lot of people sometimes it's like oh no sometimes it's like you know that's not 210 00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:49,200 for me or it is for me like you know like when you were school like I feel like we's the elementary 211 00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:54,720 and middle school you try to be friends with the people that was it because they were known they were 212 00:20:54,720 --> 00:21:01,040 the it crowd they were known but I always was outcast that's why I love outcast the group because 213 00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:05,920 they're different and the way they their music everything style everything's different and that's 214 00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:10,240 what I was and I'm still in my outcast and it's okay it's fine with it and that's what my message 215 00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:15,920 is today too when it comes to your friends it's okay to be an outcast within a friend group 216 00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:20,240 things like that because that's another thing too in a friend group you always have certain ones 217 00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:24,480 that have certain titles another thing like one name back when I was in elementary middle school 218 00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:28,720 where they had the little things where you got the mean friend you got the nice friend you got the 219 00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:33,200 right of fight friend you got that friend that's you got that friend that's still professional 220 00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:39,680 and that's how it is with me like I have friends that if I know it's something like jump off or 221 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:45,760 something I know who to call if I if I need a business plan I need you to help me with a business 222 00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:50,800 proposal I call that friend but let me tell you something like you know you always got to separate 223 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:54,800 certain friends from each other because sometimes certain vibes don't clash with each other and 224 00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:59,040 certain vibes do clash with each other to the point where oh I feel comfortable to the point 225 00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:04,560 where that we all become friends and I feel we feel comfortable with each other and it's good 226 00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:09,280 so let me tell you all like when it comes to friends like you really just gotta be cautious on 227 00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:16,640 who you consider your friends childhood friends that's like I feel like that's childhood friends 228 00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:20,320 like your little kids like you know when little kids you're known to have a lot of friends and 229 00:22:20,320 --> 00:22:24,720 those friends you do have no certain you know y'all certain communication you know group 230 00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:29,840 neighborhood whatever you'll remember them you're going to remember them same thing also when it 231 00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:34,160 is packed with like preschool elementary kids and maybe middle school if y'all grew up together so 232 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:38,640 childhood friends I really wouldn't like dictate much on because like you know you grew up with 233 00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:43,040 people and your parents may know they parents and stuff like that so I wouldn't worry about that my 234 00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:47,760 major science will always be like work friends and close friends to be honest like considering 235 00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:54,480 people close friends now social friends um some people you can be social with and some not like 236 00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:58,640 I have we all have our moments when it comes to that let me tell y'all like I tell you all the time 237 00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:03,680 when it comes to my vibes I always point out the pros and cons and when it comes to the talk about 238 00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:10,720 friends you know I'm giving y'all a little bit of both and when I say this to say when it comes to 239 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:16,400 friends you can make friends anywhere I made friends anywhere especially when it comes to social media 240 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:22,160 you'll meet friends anywhere in long distance y'all like with being on social media you'll 241 00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:27,200 meet friends from the D like I say that EMB area but you know Baltimore don't count the 242 00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:33,520 NBR they always say we don't count it's a BNB area y'all the long story about that you don't you're not 243 00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:40,080 a Baltimoreian you got to look it up for yourself but yeah like I've got some friends in Virginia 244 00:23:40,080 --> 00:23:47,840 Philly DC and half of them I've met within school or social media or through people that I know 245 00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:52,160 you know and then we become friends and we stay being friends or we acquaintance whatever you know 246 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:58,000 well some of us may end up being friends for a minute you know and when it comes to the new friends 247 00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:04,720 y'all let me tell y'all something I am very very very very very very very sure with myself 248 00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:11,440 that I'm going to be able to make friends this semester especially because I go to college I 249 00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:18,160 go to HBCU I go to one of the biggest goddamn known HBCUs in the city let alone the world when it 250 00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:24,480 comes to like HBCU you know home of the bad and we're gonna stay and you would expect for you 251 00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:30,880 know me to have at least a good five to six or seven amount of friends now that's about the case 252 00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:35,840 you know like I met some people when we because of the friends however we just grew apart because 253 00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:40,000 you know certain times you know certain things I wasn't doing like me like I said when it came to 254 00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:45,520 parties I can't keep up with the college parties I can't homecoming and stuff like that big or 255 00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:50,080 events like that oh yeah I'm there I'm there that's school spirit and you see a lot of people you 256 00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:55,360 know man goes up like that however the other parties they be having like on the side point 257 00:24:55,360 --> 00:25:01,360 and stuff I can't keep up with that I can't I give that word or I'm coming home from work or I find out 258 00:25:01,360 --> 00:25:07,920 the day of you know but yeah I said new friends let me tell you about the new friends like it's 259 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:13,520 like a little pro and con but a new friends type situation you know because sometimes I feel like 260 00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:18,160 you don't need to make new friends because you know Drake you know he's on no new friends no new 261 00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:23,280 friends no new friends no no no however sometimes you need to make new friends because sometimes 262 00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:30,960 like I said you rather grow apart from your friends certain friends than to wild out with them 263 00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:37,600 and be in beef and then it carries on for a while then it be so much sometimes we grow apart because 264 00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:42,960 certain things that we do or certain moves that we have to make but it's no beef it's no ill will 265 00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:49,040 you know we're still all love sometimes you have to grow apart because it's like you can't take 266 00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:54,160 with so much and I know a lot of people who that's listening be like yeah I've been through that 267 00:25:54,160 --> 00:26:00,560 however I'm big on I'm big on communication I'm big on making things work and you know we all 268 00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:04,240 have them friendships where we want to make it work sometimes we can't make it work but it's like 269 00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:09,520 you know at least the effort has tried and then I always tell people you know I'm here if you need me 270 00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:13,840 you know sometimes if we you know I have some friends like I had in high school we not close 271 00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:17,680 like they're no more but it's like you know that's them you know I'm a speaker whatever I'm gonna be 272 00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:23,440 shady but some of them I'm not gonna speak to because it's just like no like we were just acquaintances 273 00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:28,080 I mean like we were or we were friends and then it just got weird because you probably did something 274 00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:32,560 or I probably did something to you you mean like you know hey we all got our opinions but yeah it's 275 00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:40,640 when it comes to friends just pick and choose them you know very carefully especially when you get 276 00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:46,800 older you know I'm big on the saying like I really want to have friends to the point where you know 277 00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:52,320 you grow old with them you know and then y'all have kids they be the best of friends things like that 278 00:26:52,320 --> 00:27:03,120 so you know when you get older you just be like wow I really really really you know you explore 279 00:27:03,120 --> 00:27:09,520 the ups and downs of friendship I know I did in elementary school through middle school 280 00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:16,880 definitely in high school and right now currently college you know college I wouldn't say is it 281 00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:24,240 haven't been big like I haven't had no no real real like craziness you know versus like when we were in 282 00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:28,400 high school middle school elementary school because like when you're young you coming up sometimes you 283 00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:34,160 know when you hang around certain people you tell them certain stuff they're quick to think one way 284 00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:39,920 and not other ways to figure out things like me I was one of them people at the time they always 285 00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:45,760 thought one way like if you made me mad you know I'm done depending on the situation who it was 286 00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:50,000 but like you know sometimes I'm like okay if I know we've been friends with this long and they said 287 00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:56,240 that we're going this always going to be two ways to figure this out but however you know like if 288 00:27:56,240 --> 00:28:01,200 you know like you feel like your gut you don't want to finish you don't want to do it let it go 289 00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:06,560 you know sometimes you can't force you can't force anything you can't force anything and nobody's 290 00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:12,960 perfect because things happen and people have certain things in life that they want to focus on 291 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:17,440 and they want to be around certain people that's willing to do the same thing you know like within 292 00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:23,680 my friends like I say my best of friends they we all of us go to school we work we have our 293 00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:29,760 loves you know we have a little time and stuff but you know certain stuff is not for everybody 294 00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:34,000 and certain friends you just can't bring around like you know like I'm friends with people that 295 00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:39,520 like to go out every weekend club have myself like that they know not to call me it's not for them 296 00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:43,280 and that's respect right there you know and it's another thing too where it comes to friends a 297 00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:47,680 lot of people have to realize you have to respect your friends because those are the ones if you 298 00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:54,160 consider me your friend you got to also consider having respect for me as much as I'm going to 299 00:28:54,160 --> 00:29:00,240 have respect for you and I feel like too like that's another thing at times where some friendships 300 00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:08,240 fall because it's not communication respect and boundaries being set you know that happens with 301 00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:13,280 everything you know and I feel like in order for things to be good you have to have you know you 302 00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:20,720 have to have boundaries you have to give respect and you just have to you know you gotta you gotta 303 00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:25,280 you gotta think you gotta really think about it you gotta think you don't always think with one 304 00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:30,160 mind sometimes you gotta think with two three four five on and so you get a plan you know like you 305 00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:35,840 gotta have respect you know you gotta give respect you have to give everybody respect I don't care 306 00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:41,280 sometimes you gotta fake it to you make it give respect the way you want to give it back you need 307 00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:47,040 you know you want to be back in return boundaries in communication like you have to have those three 308 00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:51,920 in order for your friendship to be good and not every friendship is perfect you know sometimes 309 00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:56,880 we all have been periods with our friends it's like we don't know if we're gonna be friends again 310 00:29:56,880 --> 00:30:02,480 but however sometimes it just takes things naturally to happen on its own for things to get sorted out 311 00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:07,600 you know sometimes like I've been there so especially with your best friends those the ones 312 00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:14,560 that you consider like your ace the first people you've run to before anybody like I know my best 313 00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:19,120 friends they get tired of me but it's like I trust them so much I consider them as family and that's 314 00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:25,840 another thing too turn friends you can and cannot bring in your home like certain people you cannot 315 00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:32,400 let come to your residence and I've seen that too you know you've seen that too you know so when it 316 00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:37,520 comes to friends it's pros and cons as always like it's good and bad you have your friends you have 317 00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:42,720 those friends where you know you feel comfortable with them to the point where oh I want you to 318 00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:50,320 meet my family versus the ones okay we cool whatever but you know you know like certain stuff you 319 00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:54,400 just certain stuff you don't allow and you know whoever you live with or you have your own house 320 00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:59,360 you're not gonna allow it to your front door you know and I and like when I was growing up and I had 321 00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:05,200 friends childhood friends they love come over my house they loved it because like we had the 322 00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:12,880 playground the pools like we had things that we as kids poster had even when we got older we still 323 00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:17,760 like you know within the playground got knocked down we still gotta we upgraded the pool and 324 00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:25,200 everything we still you know we're good however when I got to high school and so I was like some 325 00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:30,160 people just don't need to come to your house you know because sometimes you know some people can't 326 00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:35,440 come to your house because you know like if your mother father or guardian whoever you live with 327 00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:39,760 or yourself or spouse whatever it's not gonna allow some of the stuff that they hear and Steve 328 00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:45,200 coming you come in front door because they don't some people don't don't tolerate that like me 329 00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:53,280 I like peace I like to have a good time and if you can't show peace respect and have a good time 330 00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:58,720 in a nice fashion manly way you cannot come in some of my residence because like you know certain 331 00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:02,080 people don't allow that especially within the neighborhood you live in or like if you live in 332 00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:09,200 apartments whatever you know so yeah like you just gotta be really cautious like don't be wrong like 333 00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:15,360 you know that's why it's called friend groups like you have certain friends you go you know got 334 00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:20,080 you got certain friends you've got to categorize them you know you got you got to work friends 335 00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:26,160 your social friends you your party friends school you know certain ones you've got to keep in certain 336 00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:33,120 groups because of certain things but I ain't going out of like some of the people that that are now 337 00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:37,280 my close friends I didn't think we were gonna be close friends because you know just a matter of 338 00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:43,360 the time that we had shared together like I love them so much I love them so much like we can go out 339 00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:48,480 have fun and we don't have no problems and those be the nights where I just be having the time of 340 00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:54,720 life and that's that's they too we have friends that you didn't think we're gonna be your friend 341 00:32:54,720 --> 00:33:01,120 within you know this far those who the friendships that last forever like my girlfriend we didn't 342 00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:06,400 think we were gonna be best friends it just instantly happened and you know that funny 343 00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:11,520 saying that also was on Instagram was like I didn't like you at first and the person didn't 344 00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:16,080 like you at first and then we all talk to each other and get to know each other and stuff y'all 345 00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:23,520 unstoppable y'all are very unstoppable for boys girls all that for everybody like it's very it's 346 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:29,920 very funny how things work like it's very very funny when it you know how things working out 347 00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:37,680 situations is like friends you know friends coming low but don't be afraid to meet new people don't 348 00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:45,280 be afraid to let your people meet your people if you know they are willing to meet new people 349 00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:50,400 and vice versa you know like with me like my best friend when she moved on campus I was a little 350 00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:56,080 nervous for her I ain't gonna lie and if you hear this buzz yes I was nervous I was nervous for her 351 00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:59,760 because I was like oh my gosh I'm the best friend I don't know best one like the back of my hand 352 00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:03,440 and I know how she is with certain things get and that's another thing too when you've been friends 353 00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:10,000 with someone for so long you start to pick up on how they are and what triggers them what they like 354 00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:15,680 what they don't like you know and that's why I said friends is like they always are like the best 355 00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:20,640 of people in my world I feel like when you in the certain friends with the categories especially 356 00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:26,160 your best friend your close friends when you know them so well and you know what they like what they 357 00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:30,240 don't like what they tend to do what they not gonna do what they gonna tolerate but they not 358 00:34:30,240 --> 00:34:34,000 gonna tolerate all that stuff I was terrified of my best friend a little bit because I was like 359 00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:40,640 oh my gosh she goes to cop and state that's another big school another big hvc u s in the city too 360 00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:46,800 and it's a part of the world as well and I was like oh my gosh you know because my best friend 361 00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:51,440 moved on campus and we always talked about we was gonna go to school together but you know 362 00:34:51,440 --> 00:35:00,000 pandemic everything it all are all our plans shift you know but we still went to hvc but we 363 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:05,840 got together however when she when you know had the roommates and stuff I was like oh no please 364 00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:12,080 and my mind like oh hey that gave me a drama nothing but when I met them I instantly like we 365 00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:17,760 all became friends like it was just like well I feel like I know y'all for a good little couple 366 00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:22,240 million a couple months and I just know y'all for a couple minutes and that's another thing too when 367 00:35:22,240 --> 00:35:27,680 you have those friends or you meet those people that instantly have good vibes and don't give 368 00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:34,400 us stuck up or you know bougie you have a time your life like I ain't going a lot of y'all like 369 00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:41,600 even though I go to Morgan and the best one go to cop and when I go up there and I be with her friends 370 00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:45,920 I don't feel left out because like that's another thing too when you grew up when you grow up and 371 00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:51,920 stuff too you see how it is like with certain people you cannot be around their friends or their 372 00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:56,480 friends are not just for you y'all can only be friends together like y'all can only do stuff together 373 00:35:56,480 --> 00:36:02,400 like sometimes you can't bring all your friends together because like all your friends are not 374 00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:06,720 the same and that's what makes people different and that's what makes every friendship different 375 00:36:06,720 --> 00:36:11,120 because everyone's different and I've seen that for myself like I said growing up how I'm going to 376 00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:16,320 you gonna have to use growing up a lot because I'm gonna tell y'all everything y'all listen to this 377 00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:22,800 and y'all get the you know doing the xyz like dang doing the compare and contract with me 378 00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:29,200 comparing comparison with me compare and compare and compare and compare and like me you're gonna 379 00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:35,760 be like wow like you're going to separate like the pros and the cons like the similarities and 380 00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:37,300 not so much similarities. 381 00:36:37,300 --> 00:36:41,220 I'm telling y'all because I feel like every episode I had, 382 00:36:41,220 --> 00:36:43,640 people would text me or DM me, be like, 383 00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:46,940 yo, I got the, they get it, like thank you. 384 00:36:46,940 --> 00:36:49,980 I'm like, I didn't think of that way until I started hearing 385 00:36:49,980 --> 00:36:52,740 from you when I read it or went back again or read it 386 00:36:52,740 --> 00:36:54,860 because I have the translation on too. 387 00:36:54,860 --> 00:36:57,500 They're like, dang, it opened your mind. 388 00:36:57,500 --> 00:37:00,460 And I'm like, for real, it opened your mind. 389 00:37:00,460 --> 00:37:02,900 You know, a lot of people can open your mind. 390 00:37:02,900 --> 00:37:04,700 A lot of things will open your mind 391 00:37:04,700 --> 00:37:06,660 just from their experience might rub off 392 00:37:06,660 --> 00:37:07,500 with your experience. 393 00:37:07,500 --> 00:37:10,500 Like for example, my dad, some of the experiences he deal 394 00:37:10,500 --> 00:37:12,580 with friends too, they rub off on me. 395 00:37:12,580 --> 00:37:13,660 My mom as well. 396 00:37:13,660 --> 00:37:15,700 And they handle it different because they're older. 397 00:37:15,700 --> 00:37:19,420 And you know, when they were younger, social media 398 00:37:19,420 --> 00:37:21,580 and all that was, what was that? 399 00:37:21,580 --> 00:37:23,620 That didn't happen to like what? 400 00:37:23,620 --> 00:37:26,900 0506 with my face and stuff like that. 401 00:37:26,900 --> 00:37:29,860 They still really wasn't even hyped on that as much. 402 00:37:29,860 --> 00:37:33,260 But my mom always telling me like neighborhood friends, 403 00:37:33,260 --> 00:37:34,940 you know, they were neighborhood, you know, 404 00:37:34,940 --> 00:37:37,220 they did little things, the girls did they things. 405 00:37:37,220 --> 00:37:39,540 And my dad was telling me the boys would do all types 406 00:37:39,540 --> 00:37:41,000 of sports and things like that. 407 00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:44,260 And they still have their childhood friends. 408 00:37:44,260 --> 00:37:46,100 Like their childhood friends and them are still close 409 00:37:46,100 --> 00:37:47,180 to this day. 410 00:37:47,180 --> 00:37:49,100 And then they got some friends they grew up with middle school 411 00:37:49,100 --> 00:37:50,620 and high school and stuff like that too. 412 00:37:50,620 --> 00:37:52,260 And then, you know, some of the ones they grew up with 413 00:37:52,260 --> 00:37:53,100 and they fell apart. 414 00:37:53,100 --> 00:37:56,220 But it's, you know, it wasn't no beef enough, you know, 415 00:37:56,220 --> 00:37:59,140 just we people grow out, grow each other. 416 00:37:59,140 --> 00:38:00,980 And at times like I say, like, you know, 417 00:38:00,980 --> 00:38:03,540 you have people that is here for a season 418 00:38:03,540 --> 00:38:05,660 and you have people that's there for a reason 419 00:38:05,660 --> 00:38:10,060 and those be the ones you be like, wow, 420 00:38:10,060 --> 00:38:12,940 I didn't think we were going to be friends that long. 421 00:38:12,940 --> 00:38:15,980 But, you know, it's crazy how things work 422 00:38:15,980 --> 00:38:19,900 because like I say all the time, whoever you believe in 423 00:38:19,900 --> 00:38:22,240 brings people in your life at the times 424 00:38:22,240 --> 00:38:25,980 that you need them the most, you know, 425 00:38:25,980 --> 00:38:28,740 those people you need the most will be there for you 426 00:38:28,740 --> 00:38:30,820 in ways that you like, wow. 427 00:38:30,820 --> 00:38:33,880 And those are the ones that you consider 428 00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:36,420 your various true friend. 429 00:38:36,420 --> 00:38:37,940 Those are the ones that the right of doubt for you 430 00:38:37,940 --> 00:38:38,780 that's going to be there for you, 431 00:38:38,780 --> 00:38:40,700 help you every little thing. 432 00:38:40,700 --> 00:38:41,860 I'm telling y'all, if you only watch 433 00:38:41,860 --> 00:38:43,300 at Secure Go, watch it now. 434 00:38:43,300 --> 00:38:44,720 It's five seasons. 435 00:38:45,780 --> 00:38:49,700 Up until season five is 10 episodes before three, two, one 436 00:38:49,700 --> 00:38:53,700 is eight episodes in each season. 437 00:38:53,700 --> 00:38:55,660 It's on Netflix if you don't, if you got it. 438 00:38:55,660 --> 00:38:58,160 It's on HBO Max if you got it. 439 00:38:58,160 --> 00:38:59,000 Just watch it. 440 00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:00,780 Cause like I'm telling y'all, like when y'all watch 441 00:39:00,780 --> 00:39:02,700 that when you watch at Secure Go, you're like, 442 00:39:02,700 --> 00:39:04,980 whoa, like, oh my God. 443 00:39:04,980 --> 00:39:06,340 It's like, it's very interesting. 444 00:39:06,340 --> 00:39:10,540 And I love watching series that impacts with the real world 445 00:39:10,540 --> 00:39:13,940 and that's impacted on people like me 446 00:39:13,940 --> 00:39:16,140 in the black community because it's like, wow. 447 00:39:16,140 --> 00:39:18,380 A lot of people don't show this stuff. 448 00:39:18,380 --> 00:39:19,860 Especially when it comes to friends 449 00:39:19,860 --> 00:39:23,060 and real hard life stuff because it's like, 450 00:39:23,060 --> 00:39:26,460 you always see like not so good side. 451 00:39:26,460 --> 00:39:29,700 And at times when you are going through those moments, 452 00:39:29,700 --> 00:39:31,540 your friends will pick up on them 453 00:39:31,540 --> 00:39:33,580 before you can even elaborate on them. 454 00:39:33,580 --> 00:39:34,740 That's how I am. 455 00:39:34,740 --> 00:39:36,140 And that's how my friends are with me. 456 00:39:36,140 --> 00:39:38,380 Like if I know something right, I'm like, 457 00:39:38,380 --> 00:39:39,900 something right, you don't wanna talk about it. 458 00:39:39,900 --> 00:39:40,740 What you wanna talk about it? 459 00:39:40,740 --> 00:39:41,860 We wanna figure it out. 460 00:39:41,860 --> 00:39:46,860 But nevertheless, y'all, we gonna wrap this up right now. 461 00:39:48,060 --> 00:39:52,940 I hope you guys have enjoyed this episode about friends 462 00:39:52,940 --> 00:39:55,460 because like I mentioned in the beginning, 463 00:39:55,460 --> 00:39:58,660 friends are very important people in our life. 464 00:39:58,660 --> 00:40:02,100 Like they are the people that we choose to let in. 465 00:40:02,100 --> 00:40:04,660 You can't let everybody in because, you know, 466 00:40:04,660 --> 00:40:07,500 certain people feelings and boundaries are not the same. 467 00:40:07,500 --> 00:40:09,420 And then you have some friends that's gonna tell you 468 00:40:09,420 --> 00:40:11,500 how it is and then some friends, you know, 469 00:40:11,500 --> 00:40:14,180 that's really not going to tell you how it is. 470 00:40:14,180 --> 00:40:16,060 But it's okay, you know, you learn from it 471 00:40:16,060 --> 00:40:20,300 and you always have other decisions to wear your options on. 472 00:40:20,300 --> 00:40:24,420 So yeah, I hope you guys have learned 473 00:40:24,420 --> 00:40:28,500 or feel connected with me in any type of source away. 474 00:40:28,500 --> 00:40:31,300 You know, I really hope that you guys, you know, 475 00:40:31,300 --> 00:40:33,820 are very, very, very, getting a sense of what I'm saying. 476 00:40:33,820 --> 00:40:36,380 And it's like, oh, like juggling your mind as well. 477 00:40:36,380 --> 00:40:37,340 That's how I am. 478 00:40:38,540 --> 00:40:42,420 But yes, nevertheless, I hope you guys had a great day, 479 00:40:42,420 --> 00:40:44,580 a beautiful week, you know, whether it is morning, 480 00:40:44,580 --> 00:40:47,140 evening or afternoon, y'all listen to this. 481 00:40:47,140 --> 00:40:49,780 I just hope that you guys are watching 482 00:40:49,780 --> 00:40:51,700 because no little sneak peeks. 483 00:40:51,700 --> 00:40:55,260 I just hope you guys are like in a very good mindset. 484 00:40:55,260 --> 00:40:57,780 And you know, y'all are at peace with y'all in itself 485 00:40:57,780 --> 00:40:59,060 and doing things for y'all 486 00:40:59,060 --> 00:41:00,820 and have those people in your life 487 00:41:00,820 --> 00:41:05,820 that is cheering you on and being there for you as well. 488 00:41:05,780 --> 00:41:09,580 As always, you guys will hear from me every Wednesday 489 00:41:09,580 --> 00:41:13,860 at 5.30 p.m. on the dot. 490 00:41:13,860 --> 00:41:16,580 And you will be seeing a little bit of clips of myself 491 00:41:16,580 --> 00:41:18,460 within these episodes. 492 00:41:18,460 --> 00:41:22,340 Every Wednesday, maybe at six or five o'clock, 493 00:41:22,340 --> 00:41:25,140 but mainly six o'clock because on YouTube, 494 00:41:25,140 --> 00:41:27,180 they don't go like by the minutes. 495 00:41:27,180 --> 00:41:28,900 It has to be like hours. 496 00:41:28,900 --> 00:41:32,020 So y'all see the little clips at six o'clock p.m. 497 00:41:32,020 --> 00:41:36,340 every Wednesday, but you will hear from me, you know, 498 00:41:36,340 --> 00:41:40,060 every 5.30, 5.30 every Wednesday. 499 00:41:40,060 --> 00:41:41,380 So yes, who's kidding? 500 00:41:41,380 --> 00:41:42,820 Nevertheless, y'all, I wish y'all enough 501 00:41:42,820 --> 00:41:43,660 of a peace and blessings. 502 00:41:43,660 --> 00:41:44,740 Please be safe out here 503 00:41:44,740 --> 00:41:46,780 because you know, sometimes even though school is in session, 504 00:41:46,780 --> 00:41:47,860 everything like that. 505 00:41:47,860 --> 00:41:49,820 And you know, things are back on the routine. 506 00:41:49,820 --> 00:41:52,420 If you go to school, trade school, most hard, 507 00:41:52,420 --> 00:41:55,380 and whatever, you know, we're back in that motion now 508 00:41:55,380 --> 00:41:58,820 it's time to get focused, real focused and things like that. 509 00:41:58,820 --> 00:42:00,100 So I wish y'all nothing but the best. 510 00:42:00,100 --> 00:42:01,660 Please be safe out here. 511 00:42:01,660 --> 00:42:04,940 Please be safe, you know, weather and stuff changing, 512 00:42:04,940 --> 00:42:06,140 gotta change stuff all that. 513 00:42:06,140 --> 00:42:09,580 Be safe, you know, give good vibes. 514 00:42:09,580 --> 00:42:13,900 Be a vibe in most of all, you guys will hear from me later. 515 00:42:13,900 --> 00:42:16,260 Also, another thing before I leave, 516 00:42:16,260 --> 00:42:17,140 a lot of people will be like, 517 00:42:17,140 --> 00:42:19,540 uh, I can't get certain stuff. 518 00:42:19,540 --> 00:42:20,980 Now you can get everything. 519 00:42:20,980 --> 00:42:25,620 I have access to Apple podcasts, Google podcasts, 520 00:42:25,620 --> 00:42:30,620 our hard radio, Pandora, YouTube, and it's another one, y'all. 521 00:42:31,660 --> 00:42:33,580 Oh, Amazon music. 522 00:42:33,580 --> 00:42:34,420 I knew it was another one. 523 00:42:34,420 --> 00:42:36,100 I put it all on every platform now. 524 00:42:36,100 --> 00:42:39,540 So y'all guys can hear me from anywhere. 525 00:42:39,540 --> 00:42:41,460 Yes, anywhere. 526 00:42:41,460 --> 00:42:44,140 Oh, I think I forgot to mention Pandora. 527 00:42:44,140 --> 00:42:45,980 But yeah, y'all can hear me everywhere. 528 00:42:45,980 --> 00:42:47,580 So don't forget, you know, 529 00:42:47,580 --> 00:42:50,340 and as always, you guys will hear from me next Wednesday 530 00:42:50,340 --> 00:42:51,780 at 5.30. 531 00:42:51,780 --> 00:42:53,100 Please be safe and be good. 532 00:42:53,100 --> 00:42:55,540 And please, please, please display good vibes 533 00:42:55,540 --> 00:42:56,780 to yourself and to others. 534 00:42:56,780 --> 00:43:00,260 And on that note, y'all hear from me next Wednesday. 535 00:43:00,260 --> 00:43:20,660 Bye.