Hey y'all whether it's morning evening or afternoon I'm just glad that you had decided to vibe with E.
Yes, I'm your host and I'm thrilled to share the vibe of the day with you guys today. So without
further ado whether you want to go or at home I just want you guys to sit back, relax and enjoy
the show because today's vibe is something special but that's every day like that's always something
new every time y'all hear me. All right so let's get into it. Today's vibe of the day is birthdays.
Oop yes today's vibe of the day is birthdays because I just wanted to reflect on my birthday that just
passed, previous birthdays I had and then how I celebrate others and maybe it'll get a rub off on
y'all for real. Okay so my birthday is July 15th which was Saturday that just passed and let me
just tell y'all my birthday was this birthday this year was one for the books and the reason why I
say this one was one for the books because like I'm older like I'm legal legal okay so
but that means that this birthday just shined so much like shined a light on me because
within my previous birthdays I didn't do so much like I really wasn't the type to do so much like
all that flashy parties and dinners and trips and the past I did do parties they was always home
I never did no ballroom type parties you know the halls the block parties none of that I did a
dinner party last year and I should say that was a disaster but yeah let me just give y'all a little
rundown on my birthday week so for my birthday Saturday I plan to go to DC and I took the train
but I took the mark not the mark train the Amtrak train y'all and let me just tell y'all I woke up
let me just say I had really really started that night of my birthday you know like the peak of it
coming in everybody mouths asleep except me my mom me mom was uh we was watching I forgot that show
but it's by Tammy Romy the show was it's so interesting to me so I was in her room we just
talking or whatever I was those and all my mom got the screaming heavy right that I'm like oh my gosh
so you know I was up like okay I'm up so that like the like the entrance of my birthday was cool
because my mom always is my mom and dad always tell me birthday first then family members things
like best friends stuff things like that so that morning I got ready you know I was getting ready
to go to DC however my train just kept delaying delaying delaying on me to the point where that
they changed it to like around the time where I was supposed to go to brunch and I was so upset
because I'm like oh my god they gonna mess up they gonna say I can't do this you know my reservation
stuff like that because I'm big on reservations like once I make a reservation that's it I'm not
doing all that if I change it I'll call them but they wasn't answering the phone I was like you know
let me just cancel it and just find something else and big shout out to my best friend because
I was losing my mind because I'm like oh my gosh we planned this trip and events because the original
plan was to go to Miami but I was like hmm do I really want to go to Miami I let me try something
different you know DC is not too far from me and I'll be on tiktok in DC be having a lot of
interest and stuff on there I want to try I want to do something like we ball come on let's do it
so y'all in the midst of us trying to figure out what's the next restaurant we'll be going to do
about this train we found the restaurant I went to bus boys and poets in DC y'all that restaurant
is so freaking amazing like it's so good it has we have one up here to in Baltimore I tried but the
one in DC top notch from the drinks my food everything the atmosphere the people it was amazing
so we get to the airport we get to the train station y'all it changed again like 20 minutes
of delay the lady at the front dash she was so nice to us it was so good and one of the passengers
or whatever that was going on the train too she was like girl next time do the mark train you ain't
got worry about all that delaying all that stuff and I was like okay somebody to mark train so we
get on the train whatever y'all it never went a little fast man it didn't feel like 45 minutes
no one passed so we got off the train we go to the museum for black girls that museum is it's a
photo museum and a lot of people will be like oh that's how the museum it's a photo museum if you
know me I love the museums like I don't love it especially a like exhibits of anything black
I don't care I'm in it and photo museum student was amazing like I got some good pictures
me my best friend got pictures they had drinks and all that stuff it was about
then we went to bus boys the poets that was so good overall my experience of my birthday was just
lovely and I'm so glad that I did go to DC and didn't change it and I went with my best friend as
well so yeah so this year this birthday was really good and I hope next year and years after that
then birthdays be good as well so now let's reflect on why I chose birthdays overall
the reason why I chose the vibe of the day for birthdays is because within the past when I had
you know like when it's my time like my time to celebrate me I never got this same experiences
I got for when I was little you know like when you little those birthdays be the best birthdays
ever because you were going to checkie cheese six flags um port discovery of in that um
brain force cafe type stuff I think once I turned 16 I was over it like I was over it like my
birthdays were not as special to me because it's like I felt like it was just a regular day because
you know your birthday you're going to celebrate it with people that you care a lot for and you're
close with now my mean like my household let them downhill like my mom and dad they'll figure out a
way to make something shake I don't care they don't care what it is like when I was younger like growing
up I had parties like a turkey cheese the restaurants and at home I love my home parties because
a lot of people came over and you know when we were younger we were like we were tight like when
we were younger we were tight with others you know we older it's not the same no more because a lot
of animosity and things like that happen so you know how that go but I yeah I was talking to one
of my coworkers well my manager actually about it we was like really reflecting on birthdays we
know like we say you know like when we get older our birthdays not the same no more because
when you look on social media it displays this image of us that we gotta do big shit when we
know goddamn well we ain't got no money like that and trying to put on a front for these people
you know just a display like this is how you should celebrate your 20th 18th 21st 25th 30th
birthday when at times that's not the case because I'm gonna tell you something like with the reason
why I don't do parties no more and dinner parties with a lot of people is because when is your time
to celebrate you you know you'll see who's there for you you see who's somewhat there you see who's
not there for you at all and like or the dinner party I had last year it was a disaster because
you know when you had them dinner party some of them be like oh these people don't come you got a
payday part or no call no show type shit and I was like I can't do it and then like like I say
I'm the type of friend that I'm gonna support you I'm gonna give you your flowers I'm gonna be there
like every step I'm be like boom boom boom just all that because that's me but I had to talk to
my mom too before my birthday I was like you see who's there for you and you see who's don't you
see who remembered things and care and stuff like that who don't and I'm not that type of people that
be on Instagram like oh and if you ain't telling you happy birthday is fuck you I don't like that
like I don't understand why people do that like at first I was like okay I think I understand but
now I'm like I don't understand because like y'all y'all saying if you didn't tell me happy
birthday is f y'all but when it's their birthday you don't tell them happy birthday either so what's
the difference like I'm like what's what's the damn difference child like like and that's what I say
too the media plays a big part in that too because it's like I never heard no shit like that like
until I got older and I will see people be like thank y'all for all the birthday wishes and to those
who didn't tell me happy birthday but see my polls fuck y'all I be like baby my views on Instagram
when I post my stories it'd be like four or five hundred six hundred people wouldn't be used and
half of them I don't know you know half of them you don't know I'm not the type to be pressed about
people not acknowledging me when it's my time to be acknowledged because it's like it is what it is
but I do get mad at the people that I talk to if I talk to you every day or every other day and I
don't hear nothing from you I want to feel like when I'm like damn what the fuck like like did you
forget you know so yeah that's why I was like I really wanted to talk about birthdays because you know
when you get older I'm gonna say like once you turn 16 that's when the narrative of you got to go
bigger go home start at because you know when you a girl sweet 16 we'll boy I don't think they do sweet
16s I don't think they do that they do something else for the 16 birthday price for clubs I'm who
knows I don't know but I just know like at that peak when I turn 16 it was just like it's like
all I was grateful for was to be alive and that's how I was my one birthday that just passed
it I was I'm just grateful to be alive but I also had to say I always I also had to think back to
like I gotta do for me like I gotta show out sometimes sometimes it's best to show out because
the birthdays you want those birthdays to be special some birthdays it has to be special
like you know I know people that go out every year for the birthday to you know the pool the
pile la la la la me it depends like certain times I really want to go put us off for my birthday
because like I really don't do much and like when it is like when my legs like before my
birthday came around I would keep the countdown I would look at I'm like damn time is going so fast
or I'd be like here I'm like I just be like damn slow down real quick but I wasn't I would say I
wasn't I wasn't rushing it that's the thing too like my birthday I did rush it because like
it's gonna come regardless my only thing was for me to be able to see it to wake up to see it to be
able to live in that moment for my birthday you know and a lot of people like I don't I don't um
I don't judge nobody that does the things they do for their birthday because that's you
but I know for a fact for me if I ain't got it like that I'm not doing it like my trip from Miami
that was gonna do for birthday I was stuck in guessing because I was like at the time I had it
but I really didn't have it have it and I'm not afraid to let it be known like at times like if I
don't have it I'm not going outside I'm not doing this I'm not doing that and I'm not dipping in my
savings no I'm not doing that like you know because once you dip in it is a habit like once you're
dipping them savings and birthday savings stuff like that for a birthday and stuff like that
it's one turns to a habit that you don't can't get out of you don't want to get out of or you can't
get out of for I learned my lesson before and I'm not doing it anymore and I'm okay with that
you know but yeah when it comes to birthdays y'all I just feel like certain birthdays you need to
make sure that you make it fun like you do what you want to do like you do you go beyond if you
have to I feel like certain ages I go beyond for like my turn 18 at house party due to the fact that
COVID came so I was like okay let's do a little house party and of course motherfuckers ain't have
masks going I ain't even have no mask on but and I also like I love house party like I love house
parties especially house party three I always wanted to have a house party type birthday party
and I did that but my party turned like at a certain time my party turned into the old
baguette party because my father took over but I was like okay I don't even care but yeah it's like
I always try to like do the traditional house parties because that's what I like to do sometimes
I don't like going out to eat for my birthday because sometimes I'm like dressing up like when
it's hot when it's hot as hell I'm not putting no dress on and makeup and stuff like for my
birthday I had on these nice little flattery pants they were wide leg but not so scratchy up the
top and had this nice little white button-up crop shirt on I had no makeup on only thing I did have
on that really was I know was hot and I was rubbing through it with my wig my lace wig and I'm not a
big fan of lace licks but you know I was like let me try something different my birthday you know
let me put it on I did put that on it went nice and then it fell off and I had like two three days
afterwards I was like okay cool because I saw my best friend I was like don't glue this down
because it's hot and in DC it was hot as hell like it was so hot I was like everywhere we went
like when we left the train station and we got to the Uber's when we was it was hot period like it
was hot everywhere we went in DC then I came back home like god damn it's like it's not so humid up
here but it was even until down there but yeah when is it like because sometimes I don't like to
dress up when I know it might melt like makeup and stuff I didn't even know makeup on the only thing
I had on was lipstick I had lip gloss on that first but I ate in this smurged up in our last
time I didn't put some lipstick on because it stays and stuff like that but yes nevertheless
y'all I just feel like when it comes to birthdays we don't acknowledge ourselves the way we're
supposed to most of us as that like somebody like me something like I love to have a good time
it's nothing wrong with having a good time especially when you know you work so hard and you
put so much pressure on yourself baby let your head down you know have a good time especially
when it's your time to shine you need to give yourself that ability to just be free you know
celebrate yourself because you know I always remember the saying like you're here today and
gone tomorrow I experienced that twice in my life and with my uncle and my grandfather and
I always this I always think of you know biggie smalls when he say birthdays but the worst days
now we slip champ pain when we Thursday I would like damn because like sometimes our birthdays do
be the worst like especially when it comes to like when you tell people this yep that was coming
together when you tell people what you want to do for your birthday and you want them to be a part
of it and like you know in the beginning like yeah bro yes if I'm with I'm down you know whatever
and when you give them the reminder like you know don't forget you know like if it's money involved
you like hey don't forget you know give me your money or don't forget you know have your
shit ready you know so when it's time for us to be good we go to you for room then when it's time
the day of the event or whatever mom is gonna be like oh I ain't got no money I'm fucked I'm like
that shit right there pisses me off now y'all I know y'all probably like he's got a little
mad she ain't a little mad the reason why it pisses me off because it's like I wouldn't say it's
an honor to celebrate somebody's birthday with them but that's a big ass life you should feel
grateful that I wanted to spend my birthday with you because sometimes people only want to spend
their birthday with people like it sounds me I rather spend it with my household and my best friends
that's it like because over the years I've learned like when you try to involve your friends
you know associates and stuff you know you know trying to have a good time with them because when
y'all are together outside y'all have a ball but then when it's time for you to bring other people
around it's always some who is she what she bow who he is is he cute who he bow mother freaker
you're here for me you're not worried about them and that's the thing you do like at times people
do be like that because I remember like when I was younger sometimes when I used to go to
birthday parties with people people do used to act funny like when they around their other friends
they act funny but when it's just y'all behind closed doors it's a total different story so sometimes
I get it and sometimes I be like now you're doing too much because I'm the type of friend like
at times it is like I have to roll myself up to be around people I don't know and now it's like
we older is like and this is Baltimore you'd be surprised who the hell you see at these parties
and stuff like oh I follow you on Instagram oh I know your cousin some people be like oh dad
I know your baby mom baby daddy I'd like you can't tell nobody that but like hey it's Baltimore you
know Baltimore was big but working around and people know people is like oh my god because I've
been in those situations where like I went to a birthday party and I was like oh my god I know
so yeah but yeah I just feel like if somebody's having a birthday party or birthday trip or something
and they invite you you should feel honored to really be a part of that celebration because
some people don't want to be bothered with that bullshit that's how I am like for this birthday
I just passed for me like this year it's my birthday I didn't want to do too much I knew for a
fact that I wanted to celebrate my best friend period both of them at that but one he's you know
he doing stuff for schools so I had to respect that and he working I respect that you know
so hey it wasn't nothing my best friend like every year since we've been friends we do things for
each other on our birthdays or like around our birthdays but it's always on birthdays and we
always make sure we get each other what we want or surprising because sometimes me like when it
comes to gifts for myself I'd be like surprised me but they'd be like no I don't want to do that
because if you don't like it I'm grateful for God because I'm grateful for God is what you give me
you know and I'm like you know me like you know you know you know what I like so you know make a
shake for real but me on other hand sometimes I do do surprises a little bit extra surprises
but I also want to know exactly what you want because it's like you know like Christmas besides
Christmas sometimes like say like if you didn't get the gift you wanted for your birthday you
had to wait till Christmas or like when you do a good deal and stuff like that no I said I'm
gonna change the narrative like you know if you don't wait till Christmas let me know now
I don't care how much it is like because if we cool like that we real close like that money is no
option like that goes for my siblings my parents and my close friends and some family members that
I'm close with but you know money is not an option to me because it's like I can make it right back
you know you turn a certain age only once I'm like how you know you only turn 20 this time 21
22 23 only a year you don't repeat it 345 years you feel me so live in a moment do what you I do
do it like a show be day baby okay so I say this to say as well like for birthdays I know a lot of
people that be like I don't want to deal with motherfuckers I want to do me I'm gonna do me
it's my birthday I want to you know I want to have me time so I'm gonna break me in the best way
and I applaud that too because sometimes you do just want to be by yourself sometimes you
don't want to deal with all the nonsense or have to worry about this one not having any money or
that one saying they're gonna give haven't no sometimes you'd be surprised you know at your
people that they come together and is able to pay their parts but from what I'll be looking at for
my generation it don't go as well like some of the plans don't go as well I feel like the plans
will go as well if y'all just cool if y'all cool you know you're talking to each other every day in
the circle you know they find that situation things like that you cool when you add the people in
from the outside that job really that's really not in your circle when you click yeah that makes a
lot of conflict like I always hear that narrative like when girls go to DC not DC meet Miami for
a trip they come back now friends I'd be like what the fuck what that mean and then I realized like
you know people don't be having the right money people don't be having no money or people just
have secret animosity against you because you around other people or they around people they
really don't know you know and me like I almost went on a trip like almost went on a trip to Miami
but I didn't go because I was straight up I'm like look I right now I'm trying paid his bill
off for school and my birthday you know before yours for real so I'm like I don't know how this
gonna go but you know me I'm honest about it like if I don't got it I don't got it if I if I want to
go I'm gonna let you know but sometimes I just be like now I'm like wrong I'm like baby I like
to be by myself sometimes you or I be like you know after before your trip you know me and you
can go out I can you know take you whatever restaurant you want to go I pay for your dinner
whatever lunch brunch I don't kill you know sometimes like you don't really want to be around
all that drama but you want to respect the person and the person should respect you because it's
your birthday you know me so yeah you're bad but because when it comes to the birthdays y'all
like a lot of people just don't understand that it's my birthday like I should be treated with
the up-dude respect and it should be vice versa you should treat people with the up-dude respect
but like I say also too a lot of people are stuck in his narrative too like oh it's my birthday
bow down to me bitch like no you can't do that and you can't do that because sometimes people like
don't want to do that you know like okay like I said earlier like people be like if you ain't
telling me birthday is fuck you in my mind I'm like did you tell them happy birthday because if I
will understand if you told them happy birthday any take a birthday you feel a time away but if you
ain't telling happy birthday girl boy but no but it's mainly the girls that do that boy they don't
give a damn they do whatever for their birthday like I know like most dudes up here they go to
script clubs the club had a section the bottles on that bake long trip since the they don't do what
we do like they don't do that now I applaud y'all for I applaud y'all I really applaud these because
they don't care they always be getting on us like y'all do too much y'all be doing too much I expect
too much like fuck it like they don't show you that problem where it's like you know you know
that's the words of encouragement because like I have got friends and they be on they piece of
cues I ain't even realizing because I'll be telling them I'm like I don't understand like why females
do that because they be the ones to that be dealing with females that's somewhat like that and they
be saying I'll be putting her in chat letting her know I'm like you're putting check they like no I
just give her words of encouragement like you know it's not worth it because I'll never forget one
of my friends he was like you know who your real friends are when it's times where you need them
the most which is true because like like your birthdays or like when you down bad and things
like that you'll see who your real friends are you'll see who the ones is there for you that care
for you they're really really really really love you and really love you downhill because
like I say like a lot of people you really can't give a lot of flowers to and a lot of people you
can't give them to like when it comes to birthdays I remember some I was like you ain't even post me
for my birthday like why you I'm like what I didn't know people get mad about posters I don't get mad
about a post I'm grateful if you tell me happy birthday you take a happy birthday that's it
I never knew some people get offended if you don't post them on a birthday and give them the more
word paragraphs or like that me I'm just like this I'm give you the same energy you gave me
if you text me for my birthday I'm gonna text you for my your birthday if you text me and you
post me for my birthday I'm gonna do the same thing you know I'm giving and receiving what you
you know I'm getting what you give me and you're gonna receive what you receiving from me like it
is what it is I'm not you know you can't do the most don't do the most if they ain't do the most
for you that's where it comes from like previous episodes when I said like when you give that when
you give that person all they fly with but when it's your turn they don't give you shit like
they're not trying to give you what what you what you really supposed to get like I don't like that
I don't like it it irks me it really does because it's like it's people out here like me that will
really give you the shirt off the back and don't expect nothing from it versus people that'll do
that and they expect some shit out of it like what no you did a good deed that's all I look at like
whoever you pray to or whatever they look at and like you did a good deed like what who cares about
getting it back like who cares I don't care about that it is what it is I did what I did I did the
kinds of my heart I didn't do it just to do what I did it because that's how I felt in that moment
and that's like person I am you see and when it comes like I said to the birthdays I do things
because the kinds of my heart and if you gave me something like like if you give me something
I'm a price match it I'm a price match to the same thing you gave me and I'm gonna give you
something truly from me from my heart because that's how I am that's who I am sometimes you
can't give people you can't introduce people to things that they cannot be introduced to especially
when it comes to gifts for their birthday like you know some girls I know like they got dudes that
they introduced them to the finest thing the finer things like you know taking the nice first and
ones you know introduce them to designer things like designer the cologne clothes you know things
like that however some of the impacts I've seen on there like the dudes are really like giving back
now I'm like oh she introduced me to this for my birthday or graduation level so now I gotta
introduce her to something that I learned from her different like say if I introduce introduce
a dude a product and he introduced me to like Bob Bird I know other but I never had it and he just
give it to me give me something like that that's genuine because like dang oh my god you introduced
me to something that I didn't know that really like put an impact on me like dang you really got me
this because I got you that and I guess the price is somewhat mixed I'm not sure y'all I do my research
a little bit but yeah like that's what I'm saying too with gifts to like I use the problem that
would be my best friend we invest friends for we've been friends for so long and best friends for
a good while and we were younger like versus the gifts that we have now versus the gift we gave
each other the gifts we gave each other back then we made it leveled up because I'm gonna tell y'all
like I'll never forget the first gift that we gave each other it was like it was under a hundred
dollars all budget was 50 and my best friend went above above me because she was working like that
and I wasn't really working like that but I saved I know how to save so I was like I'm gonna make
something shake for her and every year I'm like oh my god just gives me better than mine I would
like I look at I can't I can't but then when I started working constantly and started working two
jobs of stuff it was vice versa she was like you don't know you can't do that now I gotta do that
but now it was like we don't care because it's like you know it's genuine sometimes I'd be like
alright we want to price match but sometimes I'd be like forget it you know it is what it is
because we know each other for so long and we started from introducing each other from something
small to introducing us to big things and like I just never forget like when it came to our
birthdays like per birthdays after Christmas in New Year's so I'd be like damn it's gonna be hard
because for Christmas we try to go real like you know we try to go do good but birthday we try to do
beyond but I'd be like for me it's hard because I'd be trying to go beyond for both I'm trying to
go beyond for both of her but it's like you know now I know you know I just be like okay you know
get a wishy get a one big gift and then get a bigger gift you know between one day's worth
but yeah when it comes to your birthday y'all I feel like you should be celebrating it do it like a
joe b day do what you want to do with who you want to be with like I know a lot of y'all been in
this situation where it's the light some birthdays you just be surprised that you just need a break
from everyone and you need to just introduce yourself to something you need to do something for
you for change because at times it's like I said within the social media the image that they
display for us is like oh we gotta go to Miami or we gotta go to Vegas I gotta go to here to have a
good time when you don't like you can go to place like DC for a day Philly New York like you can do
day trips and have the time it like with your partner by yourself with your best friend with your
family now buy yourself I'm a little shaky about that because I'm not taking a day trip by myself
and probably till I get like 30 years old right now I'm not doing that uh uh but yeah like sometimes
I was like you gotta do for you yeah you might introduce yourself to like trips by yourself
shop is trips whatever just doing something for yourself or you and your partner like hey babe
you know I want us to do this that or they even do a surprise where you're like I never had a
surprise party or a surprise gift yet I would die for that like I would really be dying if
somebody gave me a surprise party or surprise gift just because but you know you know because I
always be the ones those be the moment you really be like oh my god this is so crazy like what made
you want to do this for me but yeah sometimes you really really gotta think like it's your birthday
your birthday only comes once a year once a year so me I try to prepare myself sometimes I change
my plans in the midst of it like I always keep a backup plan just in case but I'm telling y'all
from experience this is like don't let the media define you don't let the media define what a good
time look like because I'm gonna tell you something them house parties I had in this house what I didn't
post them them videos because it's like once you post them people be like oh I want kind of one
some people you can't invite in your house even I'm big on that some people don't even need to know
where you live in some people need to know your address where you from like wish you don't none
of that so like when I had them house parties y'all I had the time my life because I was
surrounded by the people that I care like I really care for me and I care for them you know so yeah
like even if it's you don't have to go as big you don't even have to go as hard for your birthday if
you you know you don't want to you all I'm saying is do for you but do it the way you really want
to do it don't tell nobody your plans Eva if you don't want them involved like if you say you want
to have a birthday party theme like how they do the sneaker gala and you want to do it but mix it
up with a little something like you know give it prom type theme don't tell somebody because I'm
telling y'all they're going to take your ideas I've seen that happen before and they try to do it
like you but they mess up like you like you can't take my idea like you I'm Picasso in this motherfucker
and you trying to be Michelangelo baby you can't do that you can't you can't take what Picasso is
displaying and try to do it over but do it as Michelangelo's type no you can't do that and that's
what a lot of people do too like that's another thing too we have with the media too like people be
like oh my god my birthday I went to Miami and she going to Miami she got a private she got a jet
and all that or private boat and all that let it go like this it's not a competition sometimes
like I said like I said you can't tell everybody what you want to do because they're gonna say oh
I'm gonna do that you can mean ideas and then be turned around like let me show you how to do this
let me show you how to do it right I feel like overall for your birthday make it how you want
to make it but make sure if you do want to celebrate it with motherfuckers make sure it's the
motherfuckers that you truly truly truly is down with like they truly like it's your a one day
ones and you don't gotta feel no secret animosity or nothing with it because I've been there before
had birthday parties and dinners and stuff and people came with had secret animosity or didn't
show up and I ain't here for them ever since and I wish them nothing but the best because it's not
no beef I'm that's one thing about me I'm not beefing you know at times it do pisses you off
though especially like if you had them trips and then dinner parties and stuff and you tell people
give the dates and all that and I don't like to get smart I only get smart when it's time to get
smart like you get smart at me okay now I got you motherfuckers like let's go ahead but it's like I
should not have to be doing all this because you know your birthday is special that's a special
moment especially for your parents because like if your parents are here to still see parents or
guardians you know is here to see it too you know those are special moments even if they're not here
off-bed you know they're not here they're still watching they still grateful you know because
the baby they they don't want them ages so hey like when my birthday is coming around my parents be
you know just excited as I am whenever they come around because I'm able to celebrate it and I'm
able to give them the flowers that they deserve I'm able to give them what they want you know I'm
able to pull strings and do things like that for them because like I said you only turn a certain
age once so do it right and you know sometimes go big old home sometimes you might not want to go
big old home but whatever the case may be enjoy your birthday the way you want to enjoy it do what
you want to do for you when it's time for you to celebrate you and if the motherfuckers that say
they fuck what you don't do for you let them go sometimes you got to love people from a distance
and not learn that too and you know when it comes to your birthdays like I say my birthday I don't
expect for a lot of people to call me anywhere text me or post me anywhere because you know sometimes
it's like I don't deal with a lot of people at times you know some of them like I deal with them
heavy and that I associate stuff like that you know sometimes you I know what to I feel like I
know to it what to expect but for my birthday I didn't expect a lot of people to call try to give
gifts and things like that you know but I appreciate I appreciate a lot and the ones that did give
gifts and stuff y'all I'm gonna give you a gift back you know because that's just me
but yeah I say this to say to leave y'all on this note for your birthday do it like a yo bday
baby do what makes you happy do the things that you've been dying to do do any like I said like
in the previous episode wake up sometimes you wake up and you just want to try new things on your
birthday that's the time to you you want to go here do what you want to do this do you want to try
this you want to do this you want to try something different do you want to make a tradition for
your birthday do it but what I'm all I'm saying is all together is just make sure when is your
birthday you're able to say I enjoyed it because as times you know we had them birthdays we're like
we really enjoy it but it's okay because you can do like the weekend of or whatever the day before
whatever you know but your actual birthday I feel like you should actually have a good ass time because
you actually deserve it you actually should do what you want to do because it's you you know
now but yes nevertheless I just hope that this episode put some ideas and people's
head about you know the company you keep um previous birthdays future birthdays you know
just keep an eye opening you know on things and you know for your birthday it's special those
the special days like each year is that's a special that's special because you're turning
you're turning into a new person even though you're aging you know you're aging well you know
you're going to age well but it's like you're evolving you're leveling up to a new chapter
in your life that you as a little kid made was waiting for or you really haven't paid a pension
for like I feel like everybody when you get older you pay digital 16 18 21 25 30 birthday then you
know 30th birthdays which is okay too you know but like I said just live for those moments do what
you gotta do in those moments but do it for you don't do it for nobody else if you want to go crazy
go stupid do it but be responsible to you there's nothing be responsible be careful because you know
sometimes you go to places you know like we can go out of town they'll know you're you're not from
here and they'll try to use some crazy shit to you so if your birthday is coming up happy birthday
to the cancers you know leo's virgos all yours happy birthday to y'all whenever y'all listen to
this happy birthday though y'all but big shout to them can't live but I'm not going you know
shout nobody out you know be a birthday if you're leo Virgo leave her all at you know every birthday
and events but yes as I believe with I'm leaving y'all out with this to say do it do it do it just
do it like Nike okay nevertheless I wish y'all nothing but peace and blessings um please stay
safe out here in this heat please stay hydrated things like that be safe as well have a good
time because there was some of time and the rain is not having raining as much I'm glad but I feel
like it's gonna come back again but yes like live it up just live your life to the fullest every day
and be prepared for the next episode because soon season one is coming to an end soon like y'all
we're getting prepared for season two and I cannot wait because y'all will hear from others as well
like I know y'all love hearing my voice but I want to hear from y'all and I want y'all to hear from
others just like me and you for real but yes I wish y'all nothing but the best be safe be blessed
until next time bye y'all