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Hey y'all whether it's morning evening or afternoon. I'm just glad that you guys had decided to vibe with me today

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Yes, I'm E. I'm your host and I'm thrilled to share the vibe of the day with you today

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Whether you're at home or on the go

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I just want you to sit back relax and enjoy this episode because today's vibe of the day is something special

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That I tell you all the time

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So today's vibe of the day is living life

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And the reason why I say today's vibe of the day is living life because you know two episodes ago I explained

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with health

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with men and then I

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Explained it on love, but I really didn't

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Pick in a lot when it came to like

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Life and just being able to live in it and being happy and things like that. So

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Yeah, I'm a go in today. Why just talk about living your life

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So let's do start

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baby

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Live your life to the fullest because at any given moment it could be taken away

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So stop being so down all the time and get up and do something that brings you peace and happiness or

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Try to do something you never did before. I

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Know life at times suck, but baby on the bright side life is a beautiful journey

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Throughout life. We are giving countless opportunities to grow

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Enjoy and connect with others. You should embrace each other each moment with grace and gratitude

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And you should also enjoy the complex of what life is giving you especially when you get your adulthood

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So with that being said like take adventures of the challenges that shape you and see them as valuable lessons for growth

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Baby

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Love and support are built on relationships

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So you should be

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cherishing and cherishing the moments by embracing

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With passion and being able to guide you into these new experiences

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So remember that life is not only about, you know, that destination

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But it's also about that journey and the present moment that is being given within the magic of each

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passive day

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so may you

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with passion

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trust in

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Dignity live your life that you deserve for yourself within a positive impact

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And then leaving a positive impact with the world

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Just living your life is a true

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precious gift

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That is unique

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Like you

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Each day presents you with the opportunity to purposely

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Pursue your passion and chase your dreams and follow your heart

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But nevertheless by living your life to the fullest you can discover your true potential and

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Experiment the joy that comes with you

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Remember that life is a journal a journey and it's consistent of growth

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and evolve

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And every experience is good or bad

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But it plays a certain role in your life that will shape you until who you are

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embracing life always

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Embracing life always and also always be able and open to connect with others

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Because you never know what beautiful moments that you can make with each other and what positive

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experience that you'll get out of each other and

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That is a little snippet out of my leg book. So for every episode

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Now I'm gonna start off with a little, you know, a little poetry or whatever some words that I've been thinking about

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Before I really go deep into the topic

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for the main reason why you mean I wanted to talk about living life is because

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I'm an order like my birthday is in a couple of days from now

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and a

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Few days prior

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Within my family we had a tragic tragic loss and it was so crazy to me because

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Like literally as I dropped the men's mental health awareness

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so that's what happened and

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It won't all of us up like, you know

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Yes, you need to live your life

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But you also need to make sure that you're healthy make sure everything up the palm make sure you're okay, you know

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And you know living your life just does not mean you know wake it up every day

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Gonna work go to school to come home not doing nothing. No living life means a lot

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Like you could get up in the morning try different routines like me like in the morning since school was over

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I'm trying to routine like get up in the morning. I read

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Please some poetry you look at some poetry on my mind. This is part

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Go to the gym or do all that while I'm looking to the gym while I'm going to the gym

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So while I'm in the gym, I might listen to a podcast that's like speaking within today's

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Issues or what's going on in the black community and things like that. So living your life

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I just feel as though you should just take you're taking control of what you want to do

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so while living your life, I just say don't be a dipping downer all the time because

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That messes up the mental y'all know I'm big on the mental so I advise everybody to try to at least like a

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Month or two, whatever like every other week

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Try to do something different like live in a moment do for you treat yourself

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Because like as I mentioned like every day in your life is a journey

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Even if it's big or small within that journey that you discovered something

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You're learning from it. So with that this that live your life, but also

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Do for you try new things or do things that make you happy like for example like me I

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Did something so like I do things that I just be like wow

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This makes me happy. But you know every 15th of the month I

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get me something

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because my birthday is July 15 and

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Harry 15 so since this new year's one last year. So I started it in March. So March 15th April 15th

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June 15th, you know, and you know April major all that every 15th. I will buy me something

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I could be small big but not as big to be honest because I was you know on your birthday you want go big or go home

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Oh like every 15th of those months before my birthday

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I would do something get me something or do something that I want to do for myself to make me happy

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So like I remember I think

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March of this month, but this year I'm sorry March of this year

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I got me a while it because I needed it. So certain stuff that I do is like I need it

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Oh, I really wanted and I needed this but also wanted it see so that it was a win-win situation

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But yeah, that's a problem example like you know every every month, you know

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Say if your birthday is like the end of the year with middle of the year, you know

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You know for your birthday, whatever get you something make you feel like it's your birthday because I feel like every day

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You should wake up and you should

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Feel like you're living your life for a purpose and you not just here just because

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If that makes sense like you should wake up every day. Yes, that's how I know we have problems

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We get frustrated and I believe in the same like don't go to bed

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Crumpy because you're gonna wake up grumpy

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And I believe that like it's been times where I woke up. I just was so pissed

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Why people were things and I'd be like and I wake up and it's still on my mind because like it hurt me

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And you know sometimes it's like

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Within that given moment you got to settle that issue within that moment because if it leads up to you know

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You coming home or you know, but you're gonna sleep

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It's going to keep it going true. You and it's gonna mess up how you want to

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You know, just live your life and things like that

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I learned that it can affect you so bad because it's like every little incident that you get into is

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Gonna rub you the wrong way and it's gonna make you seem like the angry person and would trip not

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And Bobby saying this is because like I recently had that moment like I just I can't do it like

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Sometimes, you know, you go to work

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You have your moment

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But sometimes the moments catch you to the top and you just be like, okay, I gotta figure out how to

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Let this go so it don't mess up my mental and don't mess up for me. Just you know

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Be who I am my regular base. Yes at times it is hard

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To try to let it go within that moment

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But I give myself like a couple minutes to what I was to give it away

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I feel like if something bothering me, I'm gonna talk it out before I go lash out

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Before distillation out. So, you know, just talk about it or lash out. I usually back to them

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But yes, so with that being said, I just say like

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Love your life with a purpose. Don't live your life feeling like

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You gotta be a dipping down all the time or you gotta take control of these you got to control that cuz sometimes I'm telling you like when you are

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In charge of my girl have a high title or whatever at times you want to step you can step back

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You can step back to the day behind that title. You're still human

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Like I mentioned when it came to men within the men's mental health

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Episode get you a man. You still human if you want to cry now that do it

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Do it like if you're having your moments where you need to just let go

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Do it cuz this is your life and you need to do what I'm just gonna make me happy

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With and you live in your life if you've got a like if you got a cry one moment

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It didn't get it out go ahead

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But also if you have no moment and you like dang I want to do something go do it

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No, do it like don't just sit there and pity all day go out there and do it like take adventures

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Do things you never did before go to new restaurants try that new outfit try that new business like do

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Thanks for you live in your life living in your glory because baby any given time any given day you could be gone

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That's why every day I think I've awakened up. I think often showing me things that I

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Been moping about crying about manifesting everything. I think I think and don't matter if it's big small

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Whatever it is. I think him so much for doing the things that he's done for me

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Putting people in my life removing people in my life because same thing was living your life at times

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You gotta live you have to live for you. You can't live for everybody

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And that's another thing too. I learned like you cannot live for everybody

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Everybody's not going to be because people are not gonna go as hard for you as you do for them

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Like nobody's gonna go as hard for you as you do for them. And if so, that's your true friends. It's not

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And I say this to say because like in the journey of living your life you want to be surrounded by people that's

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in that same

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During with you that's that's willing to

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Do things that is going to impact them. That's going to make them feel

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You know happy it's going to make them feel better and not a dip downer and

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I know we all have our dip you down a dip you down a moment, but the moments don't last

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hard times on last forever

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That's another thing hard times on last forever because you know why?

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God or whoever that you pray believe and they're working on those they're working on those moments for you

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And in order for you to get out those moments

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You got to put a step forward like you got to do a little something in order to get more out of it, you know

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So with the dipping downers I have my mom yes, I do it sometimes I like

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I can't I got ah

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But then like you know when I sit back and think about it for a minute and be like, okay

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I could do this I could do that because if I be a dip you downer for the rest of my life

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It's gonna be depressing and I'm not living the life and then dip you down as they don't want to be around me

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They don't want to be around people. They don't want to do this. They just they just don't want to live like period and I feel like

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life is like it's good and bad like you know

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They got it said my life gives you lemons make lemonade

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So when life gives you things, you know, you gotta make the best out of it

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Like when you were a kid like you know if your parents give you a ball

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You know what you want to do with that ball you want to figure out so many things to do with the ball

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Because no matter what even though it might not be nothing

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You made nothing into something

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So same thing when you get older like you know, you won't live your life

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It's sometimes same old routine is not it no more. So you find something and you make it

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You make you something even more special to you like for me. I'm living my life to the fullest because

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When I look back at those moments where I cried and

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I mean took away so much stuff for me and stuff

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I was just like I can't do this and it's not for me because like I mentioned

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Any given day it could be taken away like you like to be taken away

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It could be your time to go and you know, and there's no

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As I say expiration date or anything for when your time is up is not

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So this is why like every day I try to find something to

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Keep me going keep me going even if it's little or small like keep me going especially

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Talking to people and stuff that keeps me going like just knowing that I could put a smile on my face

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Make somebody happy and stuff like that that keeps me going

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And vice versa too when people do the same thing for me

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It keeps me going because that makes me feel happy and that makes me feel like I have a reason

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for what I'm doing and I feel like

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Somebody is recognizing me and somebody feels the same way or somebody just genuinely like

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Giving you my flowers and that's another thing to you know live your life in the moments where

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You know at times, you know when you live in a moment and you don't pull out your phone

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So those be the best moments of being around people that make you forget you have a phone

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Those be the best moments ever because like you're away from social media

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And everything like that is like it's just you and them people enjoying life enjoying whatever you're doing

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I don't care if you got some park water park whatever

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Whatever you're doing if you're around people that love to do things and try new things

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But overall is in their prime of living a life brought us with you and a few of the hands

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Because them people don't care about no phones

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They don't care about recording every moment because sometimes every moment you don't need to record

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You need to feel it within that moment like so you could go back and be like I remember

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When I was such a such this age or this time such such such I'll be like dang

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That was like a moment in my life where I felt

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So relieved I felt free I felt comfortable, you know

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Memories play a big big big big big big impact on them in life making them memories

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With people or with yourself in general just having a good time most around yourself by things that you love

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Love to do or trying to do

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Those be the best like I can

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Really really relate to that too because like I guess it's been times where I be forgetting how to song

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Like yes, I record memories stuff

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But sometimes most of the time excuse me. I don't post it and if I do post it is like months

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days weeks from now like

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Except from when the event has been sometimes you got to keep to yourself, you know

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Some people they just live in a moment, but they just they have to snap everything. I'd be like, yeah snappy, but

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Sadie belated so people like I'm all right like you know, but hey

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sometimes you gotta live in a moment even if it's a good

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Negative impact coming to it. Do you think that make you happy?

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If that make you happy recording everybody doing what they doing and that give a moment shoot do it, but

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Don't post it all about

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Don't post all that one, you know, just you know, I like to have people guess that like what the heck

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What were you doing? What's with it? You know

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Just one thing about me. I'm gonna live my life

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Like a word just living my life like it's gold

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Yes, that's all right there resonates with me because I'm at that era

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I know that's the thing now to you in an era of

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You know, you got a soft girl era your soft boy. Well, excuse me. That's all boy era. You in your soft girl era

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I don't know the errors for the boys. I don't know so please forgive me, but

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I'm in that era in that space where all I want to have is peace

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but I also want to live my life to the fullest because I

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Work so hard for everything that I've done

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That I need to celebrate and I say this to say to everyone who is listening

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Don't be afraid to give yourself the props and praises that you deserve because you know why

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Even if people don't see it, you know what's going on behind closed doors because you are doing this for you

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It's been times in your life where you've been at your lowest and you see yourself at the highest

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You better celebrate

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You know why because like I say any

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Giving moment it could be taken away your life to be taken away. You could be gone

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All for bed

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You could be gone

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So I say this to say don't be afraid to take advantage of

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Living your life doing things with people or doing them by yourself

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To the point where it brings you joy like going on solo day. I did those before

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I've been slipping but

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I've been slipping but

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I do know I don't care if it's a solo date to the mall

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Solo day to a restaurant solo dates the nail hair salon

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I don't care. I'm gonna go like I did something

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recently

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By myself solo. I didn't tell a lot of people but I did it because I was like I want this I want it so bad

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I'ma sit there. You done. I got it done. That was that

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That's another thing too if you want it and you've been like oh, it's gonna help you in life or it's gonna

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If or it's gonna put an impact on your life or mean something to you in your life doing like when people

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Get piercings tattoo

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New hair colors things like that especially with the colors in the hair

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Because I read a lot of women's stories. They were like I cut all my hair off because you know

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Some of that hair like during that time I had my hair

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It had bad memories or it was a struggle to get it to where it's at

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Such such things like that and when they cut it they's like I feel free

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You know, I feel free. I'm able to live my life better without having to worry that oh, is it gonna split?

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Oh, is it gonna fall out? Oh, you know, how is this gonna hold?

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Is this product gonna hold it? Is it gonna hold this is like the style won't hold till I did

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And I didn't realize y'all those stories hit me a lot because

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I wear weeks

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Breeds things like that my natural hair is died. I died in like

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A year ago and I wore my hair

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Got hot then I was like I can't do it no more

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And I'm gonna tell you when I got that color in my hair like because you know, I started wearing my hair frequently

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I felt different. I felt good about myself that put an impact on my life because

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When you get new things try new things, you know new looks and things it put an impact on your life

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It's like oh

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It could be little to others but to you was big because this is something even manifesting

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Or this is something that you really really wanted to do and you did it you took that risk and you was like, okay

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Like I told myself like I like I did my little video about myself or whatever

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I'd be like, oh my gosh for this color in my eye, I feel

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A little bit older and I feel comfortable because

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I was procrastinating like it's her stuff in my life. Yes. I procrastinate on doing

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I'm not gonna procrastinate on that schoolwork now everything else like like

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Trying new things I might procrastinate on but now I'm like, you know after

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Doing some of my episodes right in some of the episodes of things down. I'd be thinking like, you know

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take that risk

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Don't be afraid because like, you know any give up on me your time could be up

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So live your life to the fullest live your life like golden be kind to others

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Love yourself. That's another thing she was living like that's what I wanted to say for that

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Within the process of living life. I want people to realize that

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Love you more. Love will you more if nobody else is loving on you more you should be loving on yourself more

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And why I say that is because a lot of people will be like

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I don't feel like this. I don't get this. Nobody love me like this

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Maybe you should love yourself the number one person that you should love is yourself

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Then whoever you praise to believe in your family friends things like that

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because you

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are one person

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And nobody's gonna know how to get to you and do the things you do unless

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You display it and let it be known

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Like, you know at one point in time we all had our insecurities. I'm telling you I add some

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Instacurities before I got to the age that I am now. I was like in middle school

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And you know, like when you transfer at elementary middle school high school college

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Your life changes

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It's like do you want to live in that moment? Do I want to live out that moment?

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And in that moment of my life I was out of it because another thing to like living life, you know

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It's not the same when you're a little kid versus to be being wrong. It's not the same

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You know when you were a kid you was like, I want to be a adult so bad because I want to I want to

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Have my own car. I

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Want to go when I want to go. I want to do this. I want to do that

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Versus now when you are an adult and you see how your kids like how your kid life was like I was free

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I didn't have to worry about paying bills and none of that but

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But I say this in both of those time frames like when you were a kid you lived your life freely

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You didn't have to worry about building. You had to worry as much about school

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But you did, you know, you had to come home with some good grades

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Versus when you were a doll is like, okay, I'm living my life

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But I also got to make sure before I live my life my priorities is straight and that's another thing to

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Do when you in the midst of living your life make sure your priorities straight first like before you do anything

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Make sure that everything that you responsible for every day is straight like if you go to school or to work make sure that your

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Homework project everything is in order your bill that anything before you go out that night or that day and say you want party

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You know, you got a light bill that's do that day or the night before

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No, some people put their priorities to the side. I'd be like, uh

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No

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No, uh

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I think you want to fix that like I think you want to

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Before we go out, you know and party and all that

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Baby, you know, you ain't got it or whatever be honest, you know

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We live in a life where at times you got to fake the funk

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I'm not doing that because I'm real at times. Yes, we all have our moments where we don't want to say anything

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But it's like when you the realest in the room

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They grab people gravitate to you more because they feel like oh, she's not ashamed of anything. No, I'm not ashamed

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One point of time. Yes, we all were the same this time

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But now you get older is like it is what it is because this is a life and it's the life that we live

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So you have to be able to accept everything that comes with it. Yes in life

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You want to be able to explore things living those moments had those journeys those beautiful journeys with beautiful people by yourself

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But also

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There's been times in your life

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It was at the darkest moment

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Or you have to sacrifice things that you didn't want to do

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But you have to in order to make sure your life is okay like bills you have to make sure if you have a house

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You gotta make sure you got lights water

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Cable food everything because you need that to survive. If not, you're you're asked out

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And when you have your own when you live in your life and you got your own

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Shizny you don't want to buy you don't want to be at your lowest and then have to

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Ask people to live with them or stay with them

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Because you know they invite you in yeah, they want to invite you in

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But they're gonna expect something from you. They might say I worry about they expect this happen because you're in their house

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You're sucking up. They free air

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Eating up they fool you suck it up. They water and stuff

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so at least you know

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Think about stuff before you risk it like

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I feel as though like it's been times for me too

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I had to make sacrifices like I wanted to do this so bad. I wanted to go out

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So bad to get this bag so

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bad credit card bill do

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So, you know what

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Okay, the bag doing Nordstrom's all that cool

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okay

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I'ma pay this bill and once this bill paid off. I'ma get that I'ma get that damn bag

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And that's exactly what I did once the credit card bill was paid for

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I shrink out that big because listen if I didn't pay on credit card bill. I would have been fucked

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And when you don't pay them bills on time

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Your credit scores go down or you don't give them a heads up like a notice without you know

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You gotta you gotta weigh out things and like

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You know, we all want to live that moment. We are yeah, we want to have fun

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We're gonna turn up on yeah

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But in the midst of you living your life

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Very

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You gotta make sure before you step out that door and want to take a little adventure make sure you got nothing

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Or nobody on your back, you know, like you don't want that monkey on your back. You be like, aw

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Shoot, I forgot it. Oh, I forgot that

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You need some nevertheless y'all I say this to say

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Go out there live your life like Jocelyn said do it like it's your b-day

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Do every day like it's your b-day because you never know when is your lap

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However, when you're living your life like it's your b-day every day make sure you ain't got no worries. Okay

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Hey, make sure everything is set like make sure all your nickels and pennies is in a row

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Make sure everything that you you know, your bills life and everything is

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In order make sure your priorities is straight before you go out there and want to

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Live life on the edge experience things or do things that you want to do because like I said

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Don't be a dippy down all the time. You know at times we've had them moments, but those moments don't last forever

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Because hard times ain't gonna last forever and they could change it any given moment

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Okay, so I say this to say also

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Live that life, you know, live your life like it's your b-day

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but also

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You know the saying to live with no fear sometimes you might have to live

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and you know sometimes like

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living fear

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It might affect you who live a life sometimes you don't live your fear might not affect you in your life

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Either way go we're just gonna stay on this topic that

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Do it like it's your b-day

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Live your life to the fullest but before you live your life to the fullest make sure everything is straight

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Before you do the little things for yourself make sure that you're straight before you go out here and do things

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You know before you go out here and do things that you know in the back of your mind like oh

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Man this gotta get paid or that that big, you know

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But or do like I said too you don't have to really go out is your life to the fullest do things for you

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But before you you know go out there take that risk

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Make sure all your ducks in the row

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Make sure that you're okay immensely and physically

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But also make sure that this decision is what you want to make it to be okay

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So go out there let your head that

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Do what you gotta do

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And as always

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I wish you guys nothing but peace of blessings be safe out here as well

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Whether it's rain on shine, please stay on your feet and cute and be safe

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And you all guys who hear from me next time. Bye