Hey y'all whether it's morning evening or afternoon. I'm just glad that you guys had decided to vibe with me today
Yes, I'm E. I'm your host and I'm thrilled to share the vibe of the day with you today
Whether you're at home or on the go
I just want you to sit back relax and enjoy this episode because today's vibe of the day is something special
That I tell you all the time
So today's vibe of the day is living life
And the reason why I say today's vibe of the day is living life because you know two episodes ago I explained
with health
with men and then I
Explained it on love, but I really didn't
Pick in a lot when it came to like
Life and just being able to live in it and being happy and things like that. So
Yeah, I'm a go in today. Why just talk about living your life
So let's do start
baby
Live your life to the fullest because at any given moment it could be taken away
So stop being so down all the time and get up and do something that brings you peace and happiness or
Try to do something you never did before. I
Know life at times suck, but baby on the bright side life is a beautiful journey
Throughout life. We are giving countless opportunities to grow
Enjoy and connect with others. You should embrace each other each moment with grace and gratitude
And you should also enjoy the complex of what life is giving you especially when you get your adulthood
So with that being said like take adventures of the challenges that shape you and see them as valuable lessons for growth
Baby
Love and support are built on relationships
So you should be
cherishing and cherishing the moments by embracing
With passion and being able to guide you into these new experiences
So remember that life is not only about, you know, that destination
But it's also about that journey and the present moment that is being given within the magic of each
passive day
so may you
with passion
trust in
Dignity live your life that you deserve for yourself within a positive impact
And then leaving a positive impact with the world
Just living your life is a true
precious gift
That is unique
Like you
Each day presents you with the opportunity to purposely
Pursue your passion and chase your dreams and follow your heart
But nevertheless by living your life to the fullest you can discover your true potential and
Experiment the joy that comes with you
Remember that life is a journal a journey and it's consistent of growth
and evolve
And every experience is good or bad
But it plays a certain role in your life that will shape you until who you are
embracing life always
Embracing life always and also always be able and open to connect with others
Because you never know what beautiful moments that you can make with each other and what positive
experience that you'll get out of each other and
That is a little snippet out of my leg book. So for every episode
Now I'm gonna start off with a little, you know, a little poetry or whatever some words that I've been thinking about
Before I really go deep into the topic
for the main reason why you mean I wanted to talk about living life is because
I'm an order like my birthday is in a couple of days from now
and a
Few days prior
Within my family we had a tragic tragic loss and it was so crazy to me because
Like literally as I dropped the men's mental health awareness
so that's what happened and
It won't all of us up like, you know
Yes, you need to live your life
But you also need to make sure that you're healthy make sure everything up the palm make sure you're okay, you know
And you know living your life just does not mean you know wake it up every day
Gonna work go to school to come home not doing nothing. No living life means a lot
Like you could get up in the morning try different routines like me like in the morning since school was over
I'm trying to routine like get up in the morning. I read
Please some poetry you look at some poetry on my mind. This is part
Go to the gym or do all that while I'm looking to the gym while I'm going to the gym
So while I'm in the gym, I might listen to a podcast that's like speaking within today's
Issues or what's going on in the black community and things like that. So living your life
I just feel as though you should just take you're taking control of what you want to do
so while living your life, I just say don't be a dipping downer all the time because
That messes up the mental y'all know I'm big on the mental so I advise everybody to try to at least like a
Month or two, whatever like every other week
Try to do something different like live in a moment do for you treat yourself
Because like as I mentioned like every day in your life is a journey
Even if it's big or small within that journey that you discovered something
You're learning from it. So with that this that live your life, but also
Do for you try new things or do things that make you happy like for example like me I
Did something so like I do things that I just be like wow
This makes me happy. But you know every 15th of the month I
get me something
because my birthday is July 15 and
Harry 15 so since this new year's one last year. So I started it in March. So March 15th April 15th
June 15th, you know, and you know April major all that every 15th. I will buy me something
I could be small big but not as big to be honest because I was you know on your birthday you want go big or go home
Oh like every 15th of those months before my birthday
I would do something get me something or do something that I want to do for myself to make me happy
So like I remember I think
March of this month, but this year I'm sorry March of this year
I got me a while it because I needed it. So certain stuff that I do is like I need it
Oh, I really wanted and I needed this but also wanted it see so that it was a win-win situation
But yeah, that's a problem example like you know every every month, you know
Say if your birthday is like the end of the year with middle of the year, you know
You know for your birthday, whatever get you something make you feel like it's your birthday because I feel like every day
You should wake up and you should
Feel like you're living your life for a purpose and you not just here just because
If that makes sense like you should wake up every day. Yes, that's how I know we have problems
We get frustrated and I believe in the same like don't go to bed
Crumpy because you're gonna wake up grumpy
And I believe that like it's been times where I woke up. I just was so pissed
Why people were things and I'd be like and I wake up and it's still on my mind because like it hurt me
And you know sometimes it's like
Within that given moment you got to settle that issue within that moment because if it leads up to you know
You coming home or you know, but you're gonna sleep
It's going to keep it going true. You and it's gonna mess up how you want to
You know, just live your life and things like that
I learned that it can affect you so bad because it's like every little incident that you get into is
Gonna rub you the wrong way and it's gonna make you seem like the angry person and would trip not
And Bobby saying this is because like I recently had that moment like I just I can't do it like
Sometimes, you know, you go to work
You have your moment
But sometimes the moments catch you to the top and you just be like, okay, I gotta figure out how to
Let this go so it don't mess up my mental and don't mess up for me. Just you know
Be who I am my regular base. Yes at times it is hard
To try to let it go within that moment
But I give myself like a couple minutes to what I was to give it away
I feel like if something bothering me, I'm gonna talk it out before I go lash out
Before distillation out. So, you know, just talk about it or lash out. I usually back to them
But yes, so with that being said, I just say like
Love your life with a purpose. Don't live your life feeling like
You gotta be a dipping down all the time or you gotta take control of these you got to control that cuz sometimes I'm telling you like when you are
In charge of my girl have a high title or whatever at times you want to step you can step back
You can step back to the day behind that title. You're still human
Like I mentioned when it came to men within the men's mental health
Episode get you a man. You still human if you want to cry now that do it
Do it like if you're having your moments where you need to just let go
Do it cuz this is your life and you need to do what I'm just gonna make me happy
With and you live in your life if you've got a like if you got a cry one moment
It didn't get it out go ahead
But also if you have no moment and you like dang I want to do something go do it
No, do it like don't just sit there and pity all day go out there and do it like take adventures
Do things you never did before go to new restaurants try that new outfit try that new business like do
Thanks for you live in your life living in your glory because baby any given time any given day you could be gone
That's why every day I think I've awakened up. I think often showing me things that I
Been moping about crying about manifesting everything. I think I think and don't matter if it's big small
Whatever it is. I think him so much for doing the things that he's done for me
Putting people in my life removing people in my life because same thing was living your life at times
You gotta live you have to live for you. You can't live for everybody
And that's another thing too. I learned like you cannot live for everybody
Everybody's not going to be because people are not gonna go as hard for you as you do for them
Like nobody's gonna go as hard for you as you do for them. And if so, that's your true friends. It's not
Okay
And I say this to say because like in the journey of living your life you want to be surrounded by people that's
in that same
During with you that's that's willing to
Do things that is going to impact them. That's going to make them feel
You know happy it's going to make them feel better and not a dip downer and
I know we all have our dip you down a dip you down a moment, but the moments don't last
hard times on last forever
That's another thing hard times on last forever because you know why?
God or whoever that you pray believe and they're working on those they're working on those moments for you
And in order for you to get out those moments
You got to put a step forward like you got to do a little something in order to get more out of it, you know
So with the dipping downers I have my mom yes, I do it sometimes I like
I can't I got ah
But then like you know when I sit back and think about it for a minute and be like, okay
I could do this I could do that because if I be a dip you downer for the rest of my life
It's gonna be depressing and I'm not living the life and then dip you down as they don't want to be around me
They don't want to be around people. They don't want to do this. They just they just don't want to live like period and I feel like
life is like it's good and bad like you know
They got it said my life gives you lemons make lemonade
So when life gives you things, you know, you gotta make the best out of it
Like when you were a kid like you know if your parents give you a ball
You know what you want to do with that ball you want to figure out so many things to do with the ball
Because no matter what even though it might not be nothing
You made nothing into something
So same thing when you get older like you know, you won't live your life
It's sometimes same old routine is not it no more. So you find something and you make it
You make you something even more special to you like for me. I'm living my life to the fullest because
When I look back at those moments where I cried and
I mean took away so much stuff for me and stuff
I was just like I can't do this and it's not for me because like I mentioned
Any given day it could be taken away like you like to be taken away
It could be your time to go and you know, and there's no
As I say expiration date or anything for when your time is up is not
So this is why like every day I try to find something to
Keep me going keep me going even if it's little or small like keep me going especially
Talking to people and stuff that keeps me going like just knowing that I could put a smile on my face
Make somebody happy and stuff like that that keeps me going
And vice versa too when people do the same thing for me
It keeps me going because that makes me feel happy and that makes me feel like I have a reason
for what I'm doing and I feel like
Somebody is recognizing me and somebody feels the same way or somebody just genuinely like
Giving you my flowers and that's another thing to you know live your life in the moments where
You know at times, you know when you live in a moment and you don't pull out your phone
So those be the best moments of being around people that make you forget you have a phone
Those be the best moments ever because like you're away from social media
And everything like that is like it's just you and them people enjoying life enjoying whatever you're doing
I don't care if you got some park water park whatever
Whatever you're doing if you're around people that love to do things and try new things
But overall is in their prime of living a life brought us with you and a few of the hands
Because them people don't care about no phones
They don't care about recording every moment because sometimes every moment you don't need to record
You need to feel it within that moment like so you could go back and be like I remember
When I was such a such this age or this time such such such I'll be like dang
That was like a moment in my life where I felt
So relieved I felt free I felt comfortable, you know
Memories play a big big big big big big impact on them in life making them memories
With people or with yourself in general just having a good time most around yourself by things that you love
Love to do or trying to do
Those be the best like I can
Really really relate to that too because like I guess it's been times where I be forgetting how to song
Like yes, I record memories stuff
But sometimes most of the time excuse me. I don't post it and if I do post it is like months
days weeks from now like
Except from when the event has been sometimes you got to keep to yourself, you know
Some people they just live in a moment, but they just they have to snap everything. I'd be like, yeah snappy, but
Sadie belated so people like I'm all right like you know, but hey
sometimes you gotta live in a moment even if it's a good
Negative impact coming to it. Do you think that make you happy?
If that make you happy recording everybody doing what they doing and that give a moment shoot do it, but
Don't post it all about
Don't post all that one, you know, just you know, I like to have people guess that like what the heck
What were you doing? What's with it? You know
Just one thing about me. I'm gonna live my life
Like a word just living my life like it's gold
Yes, that's all right there resonates with me because I'm at that era
I know that's the thing now to you in an era of
You know, you got a soft girl era your soft boy. Well, excuse me. That's all boy era. You in your soft girl era
I don't know the errors for the boys. I don't know so please forgive me, but
I'm in that era in that space where all I want to have is peace
but I also want to live my life to the fullest because I
Work so hard for everything that I've done
That I need to celebrate and I say this to say to everyone who is listening
Don't be afraid to give yourself the props and praises that you deserve because you know why
Even if people don't see it, you know what's going on behind closed doors because you are doing this for you
It's been times in your life where you've been at your lowest and you see yourself at the highest
You better celebrate
You know why because like I say any
Giving moment it could be taken away your life to be taken away. You could be gone
All for bed
You could be gone
So I say this to say don't be afraid to take advantage of
Living your life doing things with people or doing them by yourself
To the point where it brings you joy like going on solo day. I did those before
I've been slipping but
I do know I don't care if it's a solo date to the mall
Solo day to a restaurant solo dates the nail hair salon
I don't care. I'm gonna go like I did something
recently
By myself solo. I didn't tell a lot of people but I did it because I was like I want this I want it so bad
I'ma sit there. You done. I got it done. That was that
That's another thing too if you want it and you've been like oh, it's gonna help you in life or it's gonna
If or it's gonna put an impact on your life or mean something to you in your life doing like when people
um
Get piercings tattoo
New hair colors things like that especially with the colors in the hair
Because I read a lot of women's stories. They were like I cut all my hair off because you know
Some of that hair like during that time I had my hair
It had bad memories or it was a struggle to get it to where it's at
Such such things like that and when they cut it they's like I feel free
You know, I feel free. I'm able to live my life better without having to worry that oh, is it gonna split?
Oh, is it gonna fall out? Oh, you know, how is this gonna hold?
Is this product gonna hold it? Is it gonna hold this is like the style won't hold till I did
And I didn't realize y'all those stories hit me a lot because
me
I wear weeks
Breeds things like that my natural hair is died. I died in like
A year ago and I wore my hair
You know, very very very very
Frequently
But
Got hot then I was like I can't do it no more
And I'm gonna tell you when I got that color in my hair like because you know, I started wearing my hair frequently
I felt different. I felt good about myself that put an impact on my life because
When you get new things try new things, you know new looks and things it put an impact on your life
It's like oh
It could be little to others but to you was big because this is something even manifesting
Or this is something that you really really wanted to do and you did it you took that risk and you was like, okay
Like I told myself like I like I did my little video about myself or whatever
I'd be like, oh my gosh for this color in my eye, I feel
A little bit older and I feel comfortable because
I was procrastinating like it's her stuff in my life. Yes. I procrastinate on doing
I'm not gonna procrastinate on that schoolwork now everything else like like
Trying new things I might procrastinate on but now I'm like, you know after
Doing some of my episodes right in some of the episodes of things down. I'd be thinking like, you know
take that risk
Don't be afraid because like, you know any give up on me your time could be up
So live your life to the fullest live your life like golden be kind to others
Love yourself. That's another thing she was living like that's what I wanted to say for that
Within the process of living life. I want people to realize that
Love you more. Love will you more if nobody else is loving on you more you should be loving on yourself more
And why I say that is because a lot of people will be like
I don't feel like this. I don't get this. Nobody love me like this
Maybe you should love yourself the number one person that you should love is yourself
Then whoever you praise to believe in your family friends things like that
because you
are one person
And nobody's gonna know how to get to you and do the things you do unless
You display it and let it be known
Like, you know at one point in time we all had our insecurities. I'm telling you I add some
Instacurities before I got to the age that I am now. I was like in middle school
And you know, like when you transfer at elementary middle school high school college
Your life changes
It's like do you want to live in that moment? Do I want to live out that moment?
And in that moment of my life I was out of it because another thing to like living life, you know
It's not the same when you're a little kid versus to be being wrong. It's not the same
You know when you were a kid you was like, I want to be a adult so bad because I want to I want to
Have my own car. I
Want to go when I want to go. I want to do this. I want to do that
Versus now when you are an adult and you see how your kids like how your kid life was like I was free
I didn't have to worry about paying bills and none of that but
But I say this in both of those time frames like when you were a kid you lived your life freely
You didn't have to worry about building. You had to worry as much about school
But you did, you know, you had to come home with some good grades
Versus when you were a doll is like, okay, I'm living my life
But I also got to make sure before I live my life my priorities is straight and that's another thing to
Do when you in the midst of living your life make sure your priorities straight first like before you do anything
Make sure that everything that you responsible for every day is straight like if you go to school or to work make sure that your
Homework project everything is in order your bill that anything before you go out that night or that day and say you want party
You know, you got a light bill that's do that day or the night before
No, some people put their priorities to the side. I'd be like, uh
No
No, uh
I think you want to fix that like I think you want to
Before we go out, you know and party and all that
Baby, you know, you ain't got it or whatever be honest, you know
We live in a life where at times you got to fake the funk
I'm not doing that because I'm real at times. Yes, we all have our moments where we don't want to say anything
But it's like when you the realest in the room
They grab people gravitate to you more because they feel like oh, she's not ashamed of anything. No, I'm not ashamed
One point of time. Yes, we all were the same this time
But now you get older is like it is what it is because this is a life and it's the life that we live
So you have to be able to accept everything that comes with it. Yes in life
You want to be able to explore things living those moments had those journeys those beautiful journeys with beautiful people by yourself
But also
There's been times in your life
It was at the darkest moment
Or you have to sacrifice things that you didn't want to do
But you have to in order to make sure your life is okay like bills you have to make sure if you have a house
You gotta make sure you got lights water
Cable food everything because you need that to survive. If not, you're you're asked out
And when you have your own when you live in your life and you got your own
Shizny you don't want to buy you don't want to be at your lowest and then have to
Ask people to live with them or stay with them
Because you know they invite you in yeah, they want to invite you in
But they're gonna expect something from you. They might say I worry about they expect this happen because you're in their house
You're sucking up. They free air
Eating up they fool you suck it up. They water and stuff
so at least you know
Think about stuff before you risk it like
I feel as though like it's been times for me too
I had to make sacrifices like I wanted to do this so bad. I wanted to go out
So bad to get this bag so
bad credit card bill do
So, you know what
Okay, the bag doing Nordstrom's all that cool
okay
I'ma pay this bill and once this bill paid off. I'ma get that I'ma get that damn bag
And that's exactly what I did once the credit card bill was paid for
I shrink out that big because listen if I didn't pay on credit card bill. I would have been fucked
And when you don't pay them bills on time
Your credit scores go down or you don't give them a heads up like a notice without you know
You gotta you gotta weigh out things and like
You know, we all want to live that moment. We are yeah, we want to have fun
We're gonna turn up on yeah
But in the midst of you living your life
Very
You gotta make sure before you step out that door and want to take a little adventure make sure you got nothing
Or nobody on your back, you know, like you don't want that monkey on your back. You be like, aw
Shoot, I forgot it. Oh, I forgot that
You need some nevertheless y'all I say this to say
Go out there live your life like Jocelyn said do it like it's your b-day
Do every day like it's your b-day because you never know when is your lap
However, when you're living your life like it's your b-day every day make sure you ain't got no worries. Okay
Hey, make sure everything is set like make sure all your nickels and pennies is in a row
Make sure everything that you you know, your bills life and everything is
In order make sure your priorities is straight before you go out there and want to
Live life on the edge experience things or do things that you want to do because like I said
Don't be a dippy down all the time. You know at times we've had them moments, but those moments don't last forever
Because hard times ain't gonna last forever and they could change it any given moment
Okay, so I say this to say also
Live that life, you know, live your life like it's your b-day
but also
You know the saying to live with no fear sometimes you might have to live
and you know sometimes like
living fear
It might affect you who live a life sometimes you don't live your fear might not affect you in your life
Either way go we're just gonna stay on this topic that
Do it like it's your b-day
Live your life to the fullest but before you live your life to the fullest make sure everything is straight
Before you do the little things for yourself make sure that you're straight before you go out here and do things
You know before you go out here and do things that you know in the back of your mind like oh
Man this gotta get paid or that that big, you know
But or do like I said too you don't have to really go out is your life to the fullest do things for you
But before you you know go out there take that risk
Make sure all your ducks in the row
Make sure that you're okay immensely and physically
But also make sure that this decision is what you want to make it to be okay
So go out there let your head that
Do what you gotta do
And as always
I wish you guys nothing but peace of blessings be safe out here as well
Whether it's rain on shine, please stay on your feet and cute and be safe
And you all guys who hear from me next time. Bye