1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,800 Hey y'all whether it's morning evening or afternoon 2 00:00:03,900 --> 00:00:09,900 I'm just glad that you guys have decided to vibe with E and yes by now 3 00:00:09,900 --> 00:00:14,140 I should be your favorite podcastor because this is what episode 4 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:28,800 Already know the drill I just want you guys to sit back relax and enjoy this episode because you already know 5 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:34,640 Every vibe of the day is one of those special vibes. It's always been so many special 6 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:39,280 So let's get into it today's vibe of the day is love 7 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:48,800 I'm like I'm right like I know she not about to go ahead make a rant about love all the positive things 8 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:57,040 By loving all the no I'm gonna get to the nitty-gritty. I'm gonna get to the good the bad the pretty the ugly of love because 9 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:03,820 Love does not just have to be based on relationships love goes for loving yourself 10 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:12,460 Loving the ones around you that you consider your friends loving your family and your spouse and your animals too 11 00:01:12,460 --> 00:01:19,440 So yeah, I'm not going to compare animals to things because they are important just as much as people are 12 00:01:20,380 --> 00:01:28,500 So let's get into it. Love is a deep emotion that everyone experienced at times and a point in their life 13 00:01:29,060 --> 00:01:33,020 It creates a strong connection and inspires you 14 00:01:33,660 --> 00:01:35,660 to care about others 15 00:01:35,660 --> 00:01:43,060 Love can bring in fulfillment to your life and help you grow as an individual 16 00:01:44,420 --> 00:01:49,180 It is a beautiful thing that enriches our life in many ways 17 00:01:50,420 --> 00:01:53,080 I'm spitting to you like my name or we should for real 18 00:01:54,220 --> 00:02:02,420 Love is a complex and a personal emotion that requires trust vulnerability and opens communication 19 00:02:02,420 --> 00:02:10,580 it can bring joy and challenging and it requires empathy and 20 00:02:12,020 --> 00:02:14,020 Promising 21 00:02:14,260 --> 00:02:18,780 It enriches it enriches our lives God's 22 00:02:19,780 --> 00:02:21,780 Purpose and connects us others 23 00:02:22,380 --> 00:02:27,220 Love is a beautiful force that has the power to bring us closer 24 00:02:28,020 --> 00:02:30,020 together and remind us of 25 00:02:30,020 --> 00:02:33,460 our shared humanity 26 00:02:34,220 --> 00:02:36,220 It is a language 27 00:02:36,740 --> 00:02:40,860 That it's a beautiful thing that a lot of people feel about 28 00:02:41,300 --> 00:02:43,300 Like love is one of the many things 29 00:02:44,220 --> 00:02:47,060 There people I feel like at times play with 30 00:02:48,020 --> 00:02:50,180 I'm sorry. I'll stop right in the middle of 31 00:02:51,900 --> 00:02:56,380 But I decided to say that right after that because I feel like a lot of people 32 00:02:56,380 --> 00:03:04,140 Play when it comes to this L word and the reason why I say the L word because a lot of people don't take it seriously 33 00:03:04,140 --> 00:03:09,540 Like love is not just a feeling but it is like a decision that we make every day 34 00:03:10,180 --> 00:03:12,180 to like 35 00:03:12,340 --> 00:03:17,220 Realize is this what all within our well-being and happiness of our loved ones? 36 00:03:17,580 --> 00:03:20,180 So with that being said when it comes to love like 37 00:03:20,180 --> 00:03:27,220 Let us all celebrate the power of love by nurturing our relationships and spending it. It's the light 38 00:03:28,020 --> 00:03:30,220 But you know like waiting and things like that 39 00:03:31,140 --> 00:03:38,740 And may love guide us through the life challenges and joy and uplift us expire us and things like that 40 00:03:39,140 --> 00:03:43,900 Because you know why love is a powerful force that can 41 00:03:43,900 --> 00:03:51,340 And connect us with others bringing us warmness and joy for our lives 42 00:03:52,260 --> 00:03:59,140 It isn't inspiring empathy promise understanding and drives personality growth 43 00:04:01,900 --> 00:04:10,300 I'm taking bits and pieces of my form and stand and stand saying it and then speaking on you know my behavior, you know just 44 00:04:10,300 --> 00:04:17,140 Rambling on about my behavior about love so let's move to it after that little snippet from the black book 45 00:04:17,140 --> 00:04:19,140 I'm gonna just say this when I think of love 46 00:04:20,100 --> 00:04:23,900 It's not just by saying I love you 47 00:04:24,420 --> 00:04:31,500 You can just say it and some people don't mean it and the reason why I say a lot of people say they don't mean it because 48 00:04:32,300 --> 00:04:39,620 Especially within a text is you can tell when it's genuine or not if you don't put an eye in front of that message 49 00:04:39,620 --> 00:04:43,740 I don't think it's genuine genuine if you just say love you. I'm like 50 00:04:44,700 --> 00:04:49,220 Where's the eye like I feel it like you love me and then 51 00:04:50,020 --> 00:04:56,380 When people say I love you I feel like in order for you to say that 52 00:04:56,980 --> 00:05:00,340 You love me you have to show me 53 00:05:00,900 --> 00:05:02,900 don't just tell 54 00:05:02,900 --> 00:05:06,500 That man that woman that boy 55 00:05:06,500 --> 00:05:11,380 That young boy that young girl that baby that you love them and you don't show it and 56 00:05:12,500 --> 00:05:16,980 I'm gonna get into it with the family first because growing up as a child 57 00:05:16,980 --> 00:05:23,940 I feel as though that's you know your parents are your first teachers your parents teach you about things like you know 58 00:05:24,620 --> 00:05:26,620 respecting your elders 59 00:05:26,620 --> 00:05:36,780 The basic skills of life and also the basic things before you go to school and they also teach you about loving one another 60 00:05:37,500 --> 00:05:41,820 my parents were real strict on the L word because 61 00:05:43,500 --> 00:05:51,780 Growing up in a two-parent household. That's what we seen every day love. Yes. Love is a beautiful thing 62 00:05:51,980 --> 00:05:53,820 but at times 63 00:05:53,820 --> 00:05:55,580 love can 64 00:05:55,580 --> 00:05:57,580 Be a little bit ugly 65 00:05:57,740 --> 00:06:05,260 Because sometimes you got to do things out of love to show that you care like at times me and my siblings 66 00:06:05,260 --> 00:06:11,820 We go at it, but I love them to death no matter what but I'm a gold war for them because I 67 00:06:12,500 --> 00:06:16,060 Love them and we go to war go go at it 68 00:06:16,060 --> 00:06:23,620 We tell her because at times, you know, we feel as though like one feel like there's they right the other one may feel like 69 00:06:23,620 --> 00:06:27,980 They write it in both of us and then one's like I don't care. I know I'm right 70 00:06:28,860 --> 00:06:35,340 But it's all out of love. It's not all of these spiteful a lot of people just fell a lot like 71 00:06:36,500 --> 00:06:42,300 Certain people do things out of love because they care for you and some people just do it cuz they just don't give to 72 00:06:42,940 --> 00:06:45,900 Help don't give to don't give to help 73 00:06:46,300 --> 00:06:50,540 Give to shit and I just don't like that. I feel as though 74 00:06:50,540 --> 00:06:52,460 Oh 75 00:06:52,460 --> 00:06:58,220 Love should be genuine like everything that you do should be genuine because 76 00:06:59,380 --> 00:07:03,820 Why fake the funk? Why are you faking something that you know, ain't right? 77 00:07:03,820 --> 00:07:06,780 Yeah, I'm not gonna sit around and fake something 78 00:07:07,500 --> 00:07:12,660 That's not right like faking your feelings saying that you love somebody if you know good or well 79 00:07:12,660 --> 00:07:15,500 You don't love that man on love that woman. Don't tell them that you love them 80 00:07:16,260 --> 00:07:19,180 Don't don't do that cuz I say this all the time 81 00:07:19,180 --> 00:07:21,180 I 82 00:07:21,340 --> 00:07:23,340 promise 83 00:07:24,980 --> 00:07:26,980 Yeah, love promise 84 00:07:27,580 --> 00:07:32,340 Forever love promise and forever are three words that I say 85 00:07:32,900 --> 00:07:36,680 That are very very very strong words 86 00:07:37,260 --> 00:07:40,260 That you should not play with and also hate 87 00:07:40,740 --> 00:07:47,220 You know cuz hey, that's a real strong word with somebody say I hate you and it's out of anger. Oh, they mean it 88 00:07:47,220 --> 00:07:49,980 I ain't no fighting games. You know when you druggy back home? 89 00:07:50,980 --> 00:07:52,980 I hate you sometimes. I'm like 90 00:07:54,900 --> 00:07:56,740 What I do, you know, so I'm like, oh my gosh 91 00:07:56,740 --> 00:08:02,500 My gosh and sometimes I have to catch myself. I like oh my gosh, you know, you don't hate that person you let them down. He'll 92 00:08:03,660 --> 00:08:05,660 you know, but 93 00:08:06,060 --> 00:08:10,460 Yes, when it comes to love I feel as though love should start at home 94 00:08:10,460 --> 00:08:15,820 You should learn love at home from your parents guardian grandparents 95 00:08:15,820 --> 00:08:23,140 Whoever's taking care of you. They should be the ones displaying you real love and the reason why I say that I was gonna 96 00:08:23,580 --> 00:08:28,740 Talk about the family love because like I said growing up in a two-parent household. I was died 97 00:08:29,660 --> 00:08:36,980 Was displayed around love and still is displayed around love and displayed how a man should treat a woman and how a woman should 98 00:08:36,980 --> 00:08:38,780 treat men and 99 00:08:38,780 --> 00:08:43,580 How siblings should treat each other even though at times they do your last monkey nerve 100 00:08:43,580 --> 00:08:47,460 You still love them and care for them. You do things for them 101 00:08:48,180 --> 00:08:50,820 And make sure they're good you make sure this they 102 00:08:51,620 --> 00:08:56,500 Comfort things like that you do it. And that's another thing too what I say actions 103 00:08:57,420 --> 00:09:03,420 Don't tell me you love me not showing the action noticing y'all actually speaking out of it than words 104 00:09:03,420 --> 00:09:07,380 And in this case when it comes to love the action should be displayed 105 00:09:07,380 --> 00:09:13,900 Don't just tell somebody you love them and then I'm quick to ask you why you love me why? 106 00:09:14,780 --> 00:09:16,780 You know like why do you love me? 107 00:09:17,540 --> 00:09:21,540 What in your mind gave you the reason to say I love this girl? 108 00:09:22,060 --> 00:09:28,260 What do you do for me that show that you care? What do you do that displays that you love me? 109 00:09:28,780 --> 00:09:32,500 Like what is it that you do that displays that you love someone? 110 00:09:32,500 --> 00:09:37,780 So I want you to think about that and it's still on the family the family 111 00:09:38,780 --> 00:09:41,740 topic with love we don't a family part of love because 112 00:09:42,460 --> 00:09:44,060 Like I said 113 00:09:44,060 --> 00:09:50,100 Whoever raised you should have taught you to love one another and all 114 00:09:51,140 --> 00:09:52,660 ways 115 00:09:52,660 --> 00:09:54,660 Always show your love 116 00:09:56,060 --> 00:09:58,420 Don't don't be negative 117 00:09:58,420 --> 00:10:05,460 You know don't don't be nasty and you know if you love somebody let it be known because you never know that might make somebody say 118 00:10:05,460 --> 00:10:11,780 But somebody tell me they love me maybe shocking like my siblings because we don't say so we don't say it to each other often 119 00:10:12,020 --> 00:10:14,220 But we display it, you know 120 00:10:14,940 --> 00:10:19,540 At times I don't tell them all the time, but I show it but I do 121 00:10:20,060 --> 00:10:24,020 Want to keep saying it now so they know like I love you. You know, I love you to death 122 00:10:24,020 --> 00:10:27,300 I show you and everything I spent all my money and stuff on you 123 00:10:27,300 --> 00:10:29,300 You know 124 00:10:30,980 --> 00:10:32,380 White 125 00:10:32,380 --> 00:10:40,060 But nevertheless, that's another thing too material things don't always to show that you love somebody just take a care that and being in a corner 126 00:10:40,060 --> 00:10:41,300 for real I 127 00:10:41,300 --> 00:10:44,700 Feel as though shows that you love somebody because that's that's deep 128 00:10:44,980 --> 00:10:51,540 That's deep a lot of people don't come from homes like that too and it's hard especially from people that been 129 00:10:52,420 --> 00:10:55,460 Wanting love all their life and it starts with the parents 130 00:10:55,460 --> 00:11:02,740 It starts with the parents regarding whoever takes care of you those are the ones that need to display love to you because once you get in that real world 131 00:11:03,860 --> 00:11:05,860 You'll see who loves you who don't 132 00:11:06,380 --> 00:11:08,380 Trust me. I know 133 00:11:08,860 --> 00:11:11,500 And let's get into that too when it comes to the friends 134 00:11:12,860 --> 00:11:14,860 It's good and ugly too with the friends 135 00:11:14,860 --> 00:11:19,980 But that's back up a little bit with the family because now this pride brings in at times 136 00:11:19,980 --> 00:11:26,140 At times your family, you know, besides the ones that are in your immediate household 137 00:11:26,860 --> 00:11:32,460 Sometimes, you know the saying like I like you. I don't like you, but I love you type of 138 00:11:32,940 --> 00:11:40,140 Some people don't love a family members or don't like them at all and it be for the pettiest craziest reasons 139 00:11:40,700 --> 00:11:43,340 Or it'd be like it's different types of love 140 00:11:44,060 --> 00:11:45,660 like 141 00:11:45,660 --> 00:11:51,020 My cousin came over not so long ago and we had a conversation what she was addressed herself 142 00:11:51,740 --> 00:11:55,580 And she was like it's a different type of love that I have for you 143 00:11:55,620 --> 00:12:04,500 It's like I have the real love and I have love and she said real love is to find that it's like I really 144 00:12:05,060 --> 00:12:12,900 Extremely extremely care for you to the point where I would hurt somebody for you versus love is like I love them 145 00:12:12,900 --> 00:12:17,700 But I won't go I won't go as hard for them and they had me question like 146 00:12:18,300 --> 00:12:22,580 well, you everybody do anybody else think like this like I 147 00:12:23,140 --> 00:12:28,820 Like the real love is like I go to bat in a war for you versus love in general 148 00:12:28,820 --> 00:12:31,820 Like am I really gonna go to bat in war for you? 149 00:12:32,140 --> 00:12:33,820 you know and 150 00:12:33,820 --> 00:12:38,540 I could believe and then when I started, you know when I heard that and when I had it 151 00:12:38,900 --> 00:12:41,180 We playing in my mind when she kept saying 152 00:12:41,180 --> 00:12:47,260 I'm like what the hell like real love versus love and then I started thinking about 153 00:12:48,140 --> 00:12:51,180 Mary J Blass on brown like she thought about a man so 154 00:12:51,740 --> 00:12:57,060 She says she searches for real love someone's in my heart, you know the song and I was like, mmm 155 00:12:57,060 --> 00:12:59,140 That's my little she's trying to find with the man 156 00:12:59,820 --> 00:13:05,980 When me and my cousin had this conversation we talked about within the family members and I was just like this and family friends general 157 00:13:05,980 --> 00:13:07,980 I'm just like whoa 158 00:13:07,980 --> 00:13:09,980 And he touched me. I'm like wow 159 00:13:09,980 --> 00:13:14,420 And that's what leads me to the friends like 50 cents 160 00:13:15,020 --> 00:13:19,260 one of my favorite quotes by 50 cent is 161 00:13:20,500 --> 00:13:24,660 show don't love love get you cute and 162 00:13:25,140 --> 00:13:28,980 Why I say this is because it comes to the friends at times 163 00:13:29,740 --> 00:13:35,300 When you do as much for them friends and they don't do as much for you 164 00:13:35,300 --> 00:13:43,460 You have you in them predicaments where you are if up like if you're ever seen paid in full 165 00:13:43,860 --> 00:13:50,340 Like how Mitch and all that stuff. I feel like that line just impacts everything because like 166 00:13:51,500 --> 00:13:56,700 You when you show no love like when you don't show a lot of interest when they don't show a lot of interest to you 167 00:13:58,340 --> 00:14:01,500 Don't you know basically let me just summarize like this 168 00:14:01,500 --> 00:14:07,420 Don't just show all your love for somebody they not showing it for you. Let me say this again show no love 169 00:14:09,020 --> 00:14:11,020 you 170 00:14:11,020 --> 00:14:12,100 Let's all 171 00:14:12,100 --> 00:14:19,020 Marry me on it listen about that and if you don't know where does came from 50 cent do your research like now 172 00:14:20,300 --> 00:14:22,540 Be your research do your research right now 173 00:14:23,140 --> 00:14:28,700 But yes, I know you're probably like damn you were straight in on the friends and the negative side because you know why 174 00:14:28,700 --> 00:14:35,900 Because a lot of people don't put a lot of people don't go full in the detail on why a lot of friendship 175 00:14:36,420 --> 00:14:43,740 Friendship in and a lot of in it and it ends in bad situations and the love that they have for each other goes away 176 00:14:43,740 --> 00:14:47,260 And the reason I say this because I've been in situations where I 177 00:14:48,220 --> 00:14:52,620 Love people and they didn't love me. I 178 00:14:52,620 --> 00:15:00,700 Love them for them, but they love only what I did for like can't stop saying yeah, he loved what you do for 179 00:15:02,180 --> 00:15:08,620 You know that could be for he see them, you know, they love what you do for them, but they don't love you for you 180 00:15:09,780 --> 00:15:11,780 And I you know 181 00:15:12,140 --> 00:15:16,780 This big that I am now like a matter of hostile stuff like that, you know when you younger 182 00:15:16,780 --> 00:15:19,900 You know your parents tell you you gonna see who your real friends are 183 00:15:19,900 --> 00:15:21,900 and 184 00:15:21,940 --> 00:15:28,620 I did and that's why my circle is small now because the friends I have now I love them to death 185 00:15:28,620 --> 00:15:30,620 They don't want to kept me sane 186 00:15:31,140 --> 00:15:36,140 Especially my best friends. I love them down here like it's years into this like I 187 00:15:37,620 --> 00:15:42,780 Love them deaf and I show my love every time 188 00:15:43,660 --> 00:15:47,260 Every time and I tell them every chance I get to I love you 189 00:15:47,260 --> 00:15:56,380 I hope you okay like just just showing that you love that person and letting them know that you're there 190 00:15:57,260 --> 00:16:02,260 Mentally and physically for them. That's one of the number one things that a lot of people fail to rely on when they come to love 191 00:16:03,100 --> 00:16:05,100 materialistic things and money 192 00:16:05,340 --> 00:16:09,340 It's just make like that do not define love and that don't really 193 00:16:09,340 --> 00:16:16,340 That don't really need love somebody because you could just give somebody something and he's like oh, yeah, I love you like 194 00:16:17,540 --> 00:16:23,260 What made you wanna give you gonna what made you want to give me this just say you love me and 195 00:16:23,900 --> 00:16:25,740 It's not real 196 00:16:25,740 --> 00:16:27,740 Then that's when I say to a 197 00:16:28,260 --> 00:16:30,540 Lot of people fail to rely on they come to love 198 00:16:31,260 --> 00:16:36,700 You gotta feel it you got to really feel it in your heart in your soul 199 00:16:36,700 --> 00:16:39,540 That you really love somebody because I'm gonna tell you something love 200 00:16:40,100 --> 00:16:47,180 Plays a tricky game on you too even in relationships, but I'm about to get into that too and the reason why I say I 201 00:16:48,300 --> 00:16:51,900 started off with the friendships, you know on the bad side because 202 00:16:52,940 --> 00:16:56,980 This generation that I live in this generation that I live in 203 00:16:58,260 --> 00:17:02,420 We don't show a lot of love to each other. We show a lot of hate in his in his 204 00:17:03,820 --> 00:17:05,820 Saddened to me because like 205 00:17:05,820 --> 00:17:13,060 We all have potential for everything you never know who loves you just as much as you love them 206 00:17:14,260 --> 00:17:18,420 But the way to find out about love is when you display it 207 00:17:19,220 --> 00:17:25,180 And now I'm again to the positive side of love when it comes to the positive side of love 208 00:17:25,620 --> 00:17:31,860 You know, that's your real friend when they did for you. They support you they there when you need them the most like 209 00:17:31,860 --> 00:17:40,500 Mentally and physically love plays a big part in things a lot of people fail to realize because they're not used to it 210 00:17:40,740 --> 00:17:45,420 They're not used to it like if in a friendship, you know how they say that, you know 211 00:17:45,420 --> 00:17:52,100 The good good girlfriends and the rest my bro's. Hey, love, you don't see that that much you be like what is this? 212 00:17:53,300 --> 00:18:00,140 What is this like? I don't know what this is and let me tell you something love is a powerful force that connects us with others 213 00:18:00,140 --> 00:18:02,140 That brings one and strength 214 00:18:02,660 --> 00:18:05,500 Enjoy to our life that we never thought we needed 215 00:18:07,460 --> 00:18:12,540 And a lot of friendships that I had over the past year even though they didn't last long I 216 00:18:13,540 --> 00:18:16,780 Was starting I love them. I did I had love for them 217 00:18:17,780 --> 00:18:19,780 But it's from a distance now 218 00:18:20,220 --> 00:18:26,180 And you know at times those type of relationships them type of friendships made rekindle, you know, right? 219 00:18:26,180 --> 00:18:31,620 Maybe we can go one day we can do one damn time we can do 220 00:18:32,220 --> 00:18:40,420 They might we can do one day and if it does that means it's real love and it was meant to be if it don't like that's why I say 221 00:18:41,420 --> 00:18:47,260 Don't end on bad terms with anybody. I try not to end off on bad terms with anybody 222 00:18:47,660 --> 00:18:50,160 however, if it come to my respect I 223 00:18:50,160 --> 00:18:55,600 Amma get this respect where the justice the time I'm so disrespectful 224 00:18:55,960 --> 00:18:59,880 I'm so disrespectful and I don't like being disrespectful 225 00:19:00,360 --> 00:19:05,000 But if I feel like you playing with my intelligence and my love for you and stuff like that. Oh 226 00:19:05,760 --> 00:19:09,480 I'm starting right here, and you ain't gonna like that. You like dang 227 00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:12,480 But let me tell you something like I said when it comes to your parents 228 00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:15,320 They do things too out of love for you your family members 229 00:19:15,320 --> 00:19:20,440 They do things even though it might be f'd up but at times they do it out of love because they care for you 230 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:24,480 That's the same way that I think about it with my friendships everybody 231 00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:28,960 I deal with because of my family friends and if I'm dating a guy or something 232 00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:32,480 I'm gonna treat you the same way because I do stuff. I'm going to do stuff 233 00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:35,200 Because I care and I love you 234 00:19:35,800 --> 00:19:40,640 I'm not gonna sugarcoat anything and that's another thing people fail to realize that 235 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:49,600 When someone put they all in force that's everything into you that means that's the sign of like they're showing that they love you 236 00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:55,720 Because they got your back. That's when that means when that physical come that means when physically 237 00:19:56,800 --> 00:19:59,080 Emotions they'll come in like they really care 238 00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:04,840 They really want to see you win because a lot of people here like I said we'll say I love you and they don't give me 239 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:06,320 They don't really mean it 240 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:12,920 So don't so don't say them words y'all y'all know y'all don't mean it don't be on your tongue that man or that girl that baby that 241 00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:16,400 girl little young girl or young boy that you got them 242 00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:27,240 In our times this is what I'm going to get to the relationship part as they say love will make you be crazy things 243 00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:34,240 Baby, I haven't experienced that because I must was never was love like that before 244 00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:36,240 for me 245 00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:40,560 Where it's not in my mom I must have never was in love like that before 246 00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:45,840 For me to be in a predicament where love will make me do some crazy things 247 00:20:47,040 --> 00:20:51,080 However, when I was in love, you know once in a blue moon at the 248 00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:55,760 That stuff happened had to love him from a distance because you know 249 00:20:56,640 --> 00:20:58,640 At times love do you make you? 250 00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:03,880 Do things that you don't want to do but you have to think it is a bit 251 00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:06,520 To be 252 00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:11,040 But if it's not the time right now be honest and straight up about it 253 00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:18,040 You know don't just have that person sticking around and they sticking around and you just 254 00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:20,920 Making it harder. That's when you get to talk to me 255 00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:25,480 And that's when they start to love me from a distance because they can't do it no more 256 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:28,520 You know, so you got to be really careful what you do 257 00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:32,320 things and stuff we get in a relationship and 258 00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:38,320 Like I say, you know, I was in love and a 259 00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:46,040 Lot of people be like your Instagram we make them jokes like when we go on FaceTime and stuff. I'm in love with you right away 260 00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:48,480 new 261 00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:53,040 I can't fall in love, you know phone. I gotta fall in love with you in person 262 00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:56,440 I can't fall in love, you know phone like what? 263 00:21:57,720 --> 00:22:01,760 Like how do you fall in love through the phone like that? I feel like you already plan 264 00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:07,320 In order for me to feel like I'm loved from a guy 265 00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:14,160 He has to show a lot. Don't you ain't got to spoil me with material things 266 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:18,440 You can spoil me mentally mainly mentally because I want to hear 267 00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:21,160 somebody I want to hear you 268 00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:26,200 You know help me uplift me be my supporter like 269 00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:32,200 Just do things that you know what helped the mental and his vice versa. You already know the vice versa 270 00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:39,000 I'm consistent with a lot of things like I'm consistent with checking up on you know, same saying good morning 271 00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:41,000 How are you? Okay? 272 00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:46,000 Dada things like that because like I said within the mental health 273 00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:53,120 Park has for the men a lot of us women don't check up on our men and not right there is a sign of love because 274 00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:58,040 Right there people like that. Oh, huh? That's love. Yes 275 00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:03,120 It is you showing that you care for them and then you don't even have to say you love them at times 276 00:23:03,120 --> 00:23:08,040 Yes, us ladies we feel as though that we need to hear that word because we need to know that 277 00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:15,440 You love us at times. I feel like I do believe in saying what's understood don't need to be explained 278 00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:20,480 And it goes for all three parties family friends in their relationship 279 00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:22,760 If you know 280 00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:29,280 That y'all know y'all roles, you know, what's going on y'all know y'all know the bad 281 00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:31,920 You should already know 282 00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:34,280 It doesn't need to be explained 283 00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:36,680 Yeah, let me tell you something 284 00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:41,360 For me, I was hard-hitting. I was like what boy, you better tell me something 285 00:23:41,360 --> 00:23:47,920 I don't want to keep casting like no like no, no gas. I don't want to guess tell me straight up because I 286 00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:52,560 Can't do it like I'm like no no tell me straight up like what's going on 287 00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:58,240 It's all you know time with pads, you know, I was like, okay. I know what you mean 288 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:04,480 You know what I love you for that. I love you for really just 289 00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:08,880 Telling me what it is and I see what it is because it's real 290 00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:13,360 You know at times things happen at least if you know, it's okay. It's cool 291 00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:21,600 But like I say just don't end on bad terms because once you know bad terms is that's when that hate word come in 292 00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:24,280 You know, baby boy, y'all know 293 00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:30,400 No, you bet always told Jody she hated him, but she really felt him type 294 00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:34,500 Yeah, you we don't want that. We don't want this. So that's why I always say 295 00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:39,760 Just be on the turn for people don't be on bad terms because 296 00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:46,200 You never know they can rekindle they can rekindle back in your life in your relationship 297 00:24:46,360 --> 00:24:49,560 Can be better than it was before and I love him 298 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:57,400 Like it's some friendships that I do want to rekindle but in order for that to happen 299 00:24:57,400 --> 00:24:58,920 I've been 300 00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:04,040 Two parties gotta come together and y'all know that saying to you like the phone works both ways. Yes 301 00:25:05,120 --> 00:25:07,120 but at times it takes 302 00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:11,120 someone to really be prepared to you know 303 00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:15,640 Pick up their phone and text and be able to 304 00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:18,360 Have the words 305 00:25:18,360 --> 00:25:22,320 To text what they want to say like to say what they want to text, you know 306 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:25,600 And I did it before and you know 307 00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:27,600 It took a lot 308 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:33,600 Everyone say like a much lot of me, but it took me a while to be like do it because I'm like what if I do it? 309 00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:39,200 I respond what if I do it? It's like I'm done too. We didn't end on bad terms, but you know at times 310 00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:42,760 You know people could be like I don't want to do it. I'm on, you know 311 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:45,640 I'm gonna love you from a distance and I have my moments where I had to love 312 00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:52,920 Some family members some friends from a distance and some dudes that I talked to you from a distance because like I 313 00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:57,640 I got love for you, but it was starting to get rocky 314 00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:00,200 It was starting to get toxic and I couldn't deal with it 315 00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:07,400 So I had to love you from a distance and you know if you ever need me you ever need me you could call me, but I 316 00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:12,240 Don't think it will be the same. You know no more like it was in the beginning 317 00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:16,640 So when I say this to say when it comes to love just don't think of it as 318 00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:19,520 you know, there's a word 319 00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:21,080 because 320 00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:24,760 It is it's like if I feel like it's a now 321 00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:26,760 verb 322 00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:30,040 Ever all that good stuff because you can show your love 323 00:26:32,360 --> 00:26:35,400 You can love someone or something 324 00:26:36,360 --> 00:26:38,360 But I feel as though 325 00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:40,160 once you 326 00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:43,840 Say you love someone show it, you know how they say 327 00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:45,840 I 328 00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:54,440 Bromstones I was very safe Tori Lane's but I give you the people that 329 00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:59,200 Originally said it, you know, you don't have to do more than just say it 330 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:04,720 You don't have to do less when you prove it that with them two lines right there. I feel as though 331 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:11,120 It's impactful flow to you. So just like if you if you love me 332 00:27:11,120 --> 00:27:15,480 Say it if you trust me prove it 333 00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:19,360 And you know good relationship, you know, if you want me show it 334 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:25,200 Something by now, please look it up either brownstone or 335 00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:28,280 Tori Lane's 336 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:31,040 But yes, you're like 337 00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:34,240 Just 338 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:36,800 Be real is staying 339 00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:41,680 And tall and firm on it. Don't be having people out here feeling like 340 00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:48,720 They not love something something when you just out of the blue tells about I love them like I love you 341 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:54,160 Just out of the blue. I don't care if it's middle night and they sleep. Don't say remember design rate. Oh, okay 342 00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:56,160 Get me in the morning. I'm like 343 00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:03,880 You know and his wife first like I send the message out like I'm just thinking about you 344 00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:09,360 What you doing? I mean, I think I just want you to know this is a lot. I love you, you know 345 00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:12,560 So I say this to say y'all 346 00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:19,280 When it comes to love don't just think of it as a word think of it as many things and 347 00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:26,880 Don't be afraid to show someone that you love them when it comes to your family your friends your 348 00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:32,600 love your lover or potential lover 349 00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,440 Don't be afraid to let them know what's going on 350 00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:42,260 And how you feel and why why you feel the way you feel and don't be afraid to tell them why you love them because I 351 00:28:42,260 --> 00:28:48,380 Ain't gonna lie to you once you tell somebody why you love them that just turns everything around me thing 352 00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:50,160 more 353 00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:55,280 Silly like I don't care if you write a whole book saying why I love you 354 00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:59,160 You just make sure you tell it but you also 355 00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:01,240 Back it up 356 00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:06,160 You know, so you know how they say you talk that talk make sure you can back it up 357 00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:14,040 And things like that. So just always remember like don't be afraid to tell somebody that you love them because you never know 358 00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:20,840 So as I end out with this episode 359 00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:27,720 I hope that you guys got a clear understanding of love or you know got a little bit more 360 00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:31,200 information and insight on love when it comes from 361 00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:34,120 You want it only? 362 00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:36,920 You want it only? 363 00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:40,000 Who was you know on the poet on the side, you know might start 364 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:49,440 Mixing some of the episodes with some poetry the beginning and just going off going straight into it like I always do 365 00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:58,680 But yes, I say this today, I hope you guys have a beautiful day 366 00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:02,960 by there you listen to this in the morning 367 00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:10,600 Afternoon or evening midnight whenever you're listening to this, I just hope that this puts an impact to you 368 00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:12,600 I hope that you are 369 00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:20,400 Able to listen to me like take my advice because that's the whole point of podcast somebody learned for me 370 00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:23,360 and yeah, I 371 00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:33,360 Was love to hear y'all feedback about like it just it brings joy to me and it helps me like impact on some things and you know, you know 372 00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:35,360 Take some criticism things like that for y'all as well 373 00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:42,600 But yes, I hope you guys have a beautiful day whether you're afraid or shine 374 00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:44,720 Like I say all the time in summer time 375 00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:51,400 So please stay hydrated be safe and be careful peace and blessings to all you beautiful people out there 376 00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:54,640 And you guys will hear your favorite 377 00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:57,600 Podcaster by now voice 378 00:30:57,600 --> 00:31:21,600 So bye guys