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Every vibe of the day is one of those special vibes. It's always been so many special
So let's get into it today's vibe of the day is love
I'm like I'm right like I know she not about to go ahead make a rant about love all the positive things
By loving all the no I'm gonna get to the nitty-gritty. I'm gonna get to the good the bad the pretty the ugly of love because
Love does not just have to be based on relationships love goes for loving yourself
Loving the ones around you that you consider your friends loving your family and your spouse and your animals too
So yeah, I'm not going to compare animals to things because they are important just as much as people are
So let's get into it. Love is a deep emotion that everyone experienced at times and a point in their life
It creates a strong connection and inspires you
to care about others
Love can bring in fulfillment to your life and help you grow as an individual
It is a beautiful thing that enriches our life in many ways
I'm spitting to you like my name or we should for real
Love is a complex and a personal emotion that requires trust vulnerability and opens communication
it can bring joy and challenging and it requires empathy and
Promising
It enriches it enriches our lives God's
Purpose and connects us others
Love is a beautiful force that has the power to bring us closer
together and remind us of
our shared humanity
It is a language
That it's a beautiful thing that a lot of people feel about
Like love is one of the many things
There people I feel like at times play with
I'm sorry. I'll stop right in the middle of
But I decided to say that right after that because I feel like a lot of people
Play when it comes to this L word and the reason why I say the L word because a lot of people don't take it seriously
Like love is not just a feeling but it is like a decision that we make every day
to like
Realize is this what all within our well-being and happiness of our loved ones?
So with that being said when it comes to love like
Let us all celebrate the power of love by nurturing our relationships and spending it. It's the light
But you know like waiting and things like that
And may love guide us through the life challenges and joy and uplift us expire us and things like that
Because you know why love is a powerful force that can
And connect us with others bringing us warmness and joy for our lives
It isn't inspiring empathy promise understanding and drives personality growth
I'm taking bits and pieces of my form and stand and stand saying it and then speaking on you know my behavior, you know just
Rambling on about my behavior about love so let's move to it after that little snippet from the black book
I'm gonna just say this when I think of love
It's not just by saying I love you
You can just say it and some people don't mean it and the reason why I say a lot of people say they don't mean it because
Especially within a text is you can tell when it's genuine or not if you don't put an eye in front of that message
I don't think it's genuine genuine if you just say love you. I'm like
Where's the eye like I feel it like you love me and then
When people say I love you I feel like in order for you to say that
You love me you have to show me
don't just tell
That man that woman that boy
That young boy that young girl that baby that you love them and you don't show it and
I'm gonna get into it with the family first because growing up as a child
I feel as though that's you know your parents are your first teachers your parents teach you about things like you know
respecting your elders
The basic skills of life and also the basic things before you go to school and they also teach you about loving one another
my parents were real strict on the L word because
Growing up in a two-parent household. That's what we seen every day love. Yes. Love is a beautiful thing
but at times
love can
Be a little bit ugly
Because sometimes you got to do things out of love to show that you care like at times me and my siblings
We go at it, but I love them to death no matter what but I'm a gold war for them because I
Love them and we go to war go go at it
We tell her because at times, you know, we feel as though like one feel like there's they right the other one may feel like
They write it in both of us and then one's like I don't care. I know I'm right
But it's all out of love. It's not all of these spiteful a lot of people just fell a lot like
Certain people do things out of love because they care for you and some people just do it cuz they just don't give to
Help don't give to don't give to help
Give to shit and I just don't like that. I feel as though
Oh
Love should be genuine like everything that you do should be genuine because
Why fake the funk? Why are you faking something that you know, ain't right?
Yeah, I'm not gonna sit around and fake something
That's not right like faking your feelings saying that you love somebody if you know good or well
You don't love that man on love that woman. Don't tell them that you love them
Don't don't do that cuz I say this all the time
I
promise
Yeah, love promise
Forever love promise and forever are three words that I say
That are very very very strong words
That you should not play with and also hate
You know cuz hey, that's a real strong word with somebody say I hate you and it's out of anger. Oh, they mean it
I ain't no fighting games. You know when you druggy back home?
I hate you sometimes. I'm like
What I do, you know, so I'm like, oh my gosh
My gosh and sometimes I have to catch myself. I like oh my gosh, you know, you don't hate that person you let them down. He'll
you know, but
Yes, when it comes to love I feel as though love should start at home
You should learn love at home from your parents guardian grandparents
Whoever's taking care of you. They should be the ones displaying you real love and the reason why I say that I was gonna
Talk about the family love because like I said growing up in a two-parent household. I was died
Was displayed around love and still is displayed around love and displayed how a man should treat a woman and how a woman should
treat men and
How siblings should treat each other even though at times they do your last monkey nerve
You still love them and care for them. You do things for them
And make sure they're good you make sure this they
Comfort things like that you do it. And that's another thing too what I say actions
Don't tell me you love me not showing the action noticing y'all actually speaking out of it than words
And in this case when it comes to love the action should be displayed
Don't just tell somebody you love them and then I'm quick to ask you why you love me why?
You know like why do you love me?
What in your mind gave you the reason to say I love this girl?
What do you do for me that show that you care? What do you do that displays that you love me?
Like what is it that you do that displays that you love someone?
So I want you to think about that and it's still on the family the family
topic with love we don't a family part of love because
Like I said
Whoever raised you should have taught you to love one another and all
ways
Always show your love
Don't don't be negative
You know don't don't be nasty and you know if you love somebody let it be known because you never know that might make somebody say
But somebody tell me they love me maybe shocking like my siblings because we don't say so we don't say it to each other often
But we display it, you know
At times I don't tell them all the time, but I show it but I do
Want to keep saying it now so they know like I love you. You know, I love you to death
I show you and everything I spent all my money and stuff on you
You know
White
But nevertheless, that's another thing too material things don't always to show that you love somebody just take a care that and being in a corner
for real I
Feel as though shows that you love somebody because that's that's deep
That's deep a lot of people don't come from homes like that too and it's hard especially from people that been
Wanting love all their life and it starts with the parents
It starts with the parents regarding whoever takes care of you those are the ones that need to display love to you because once you get in that real world
You'll see who loves you who don't
Trust me. I know
And let's get into that too when it comes to the friends
It's good and ugly too with the friends
But that's back up a little bit with the family because now this pride brings in at times
At times your family, you know, besides the ones that are in your immediate household
Sometimes, you know the saying like I like you. I don't like you, but I love you type of
Some people don't love a family members or don't like them at all and it be for the pettiest craziest reasons
Or it'd be like it's different types of love
like
My cousin came over not so long ago and we had a conversation what she was addressed herself
And she was like it's a different type of love that I have for you
It's like I have the real love and I have love and she said real love is to find that it's like I really
Extremely extremely care for you to the point where I would hurt somebody for you versus love is like I love them
But I won't go I won't go as hard for them and they had me question like
well, you everybody do anybody else think like this like I
Like the real love is like I go to bat in a war for you versus love in general
Like am I really gonna go to bat in war for you?
you know and
I could believe and then when I started, you know when I heard that and when I had it
We playing in my mind when she kept saying
I'm like what the hell like real love versus love and then I started thinking about
Mary J Blass on brown like she thought about a man so
She says she searches for real love someone's in my heart, you know the song and I was like, mmm
That's my little she's trying to find with the man
When me and my cousin had this conversation we talked about within the family members and I was just like this and family friends general
I'm just like whoa
And he touched me. I'm like wow
And that's what leads me to the friends like 50 cents
one of my favorite quotes by 50 cent is
show don't love love get you cute and
Why I say this is because it comes to the friends at times
When you do as much for them friends and they don't do as much for you
You have you in them predicaments where you are if up like if you're ever seen paid in full
Like how Mitch and all that stuff. I feel like that line just impacts everything because like
You when you show no love like when you don't show a lot of interest when they don't show a lot of interest to you
Don't you know basically let me just summarize like this
Don't just show all your love for somebody they not showing it for you. Let me say this again show no love
you
Let's all
Marry me on it listen about that and if you don't know where does came from 50 cent do your research like now
Be your research do your research right now
But yes, I know you're probably like damn you were straight in on the friends and the negative side because you know why
Because a lot of people don't put a lot of people don't go full in the detail on why a lot of friendship
Friendship in and a lot of in it and it ends in bad situations and the love that they have for each other goes away
And the reason I say this because I've been in situations where I
Love people and they didn't love me. I
Love them for them, but they love only what I did for like can't stop saying yeah, he loved what you do for
You know that could be for he see them, you know, they love what you do for them, but they don't love you for you
And I you know
This big that I am now like a matter of hostile stuff like that, you know when you younger
You know your parents tell you you gonna see who your real friends are
and
I did and that's why my circle is small now because the friends I have now I love them to death
They don't want to kept me sane
Especially my best friends. I love them down here like it's years into this like I
Love them deaf and I show my love every time
Every time and I tell them every chance I get to I love you
I hope you okay like just just showing that you love that person and letting them know that you're there
Mentally and physically for them. That's one of the number one things that a lot of people fail to rely on when they come to love
materialistic things and money
It's just make like that do not define love and that don't really
That don't really need love somebody because you could just give somebody something and he's like oh, yeah, I love you like
What made you wanna give you gonna what made you want to give me this just say you love me and
It's not real
Then that's when I say to a
Lot of people fail to rely on they come to love
You gotta feel it you got to really feel it in your heart in your soul
That you really love somebody because I'm gonna tell you something love
Plays a tricky game on you too even in relationships, but I'm about to get into that too and the reason why I say I
started off with the friendships, you know on the bad side because
This generation that I live in this generation that I live in
We don't show a lot of love to each other. We show a lot of hate in his in his
Saddened to me because like
We all have potential for everything you never know who loves you just as much as you love them
But the way to find out about love is when you display it
And now I'm again to the positive side of love when it comes to the positive side of love
You know, that's your real friend when they did for you. They support you they there when you need them the most like
Mentally and physically love plays a big part in things a lot of people fail to realize because they're not used to it
They're not used to it like if in a friendship, you know how they say that, you know
The good good girlfriends and the rest my bro's. Hey, love, you don't see that that much you be like what is this?
What is this like? I don't know what this is and let me tell you something love is a powerful force that connects us with others
That brings one and strength
Enjoy to our life that we never thought we needed
And a lot of friendships that I had over the past year even though they didn't last long I
Was starting I love them. I did I had love for them
But it's from a distance now
And you know at times those type of relationships them type of friendships made rekindle, you know, right?
Maybe we can go one day we can do one damn time we can do
They might we can do one day and if it does that means it's real love and it was meant to be if it don't like that's why I say
Don't end on bad terms with anybody. I try not to end off on bad terms with anybody
however, if it come to my respect I
Amma get this respect where the justice the time I'm so disrespectful
I'm so disrespectful and I don't like being disrespectful
But if I feel like you playing with my intelligence and my love for you and stuff like that. Oh
I'm starting right here, and you ain't gonna like that. You like dang
But let me tell you something like I said when it comes to your parents
They do things too out of love for you your family members
They do things even though it might be f'd up but at times they do it out of love because they care for you
That's the same way that I think about it with my friendships everybody
I deal with because of my family friends and if I'm dating a guy or something
I'm gonna treat you the same way because I do stuff. I'm going to do stuff
Because I care and I love you
I'm not gonna sugarcoat anything and that's another thing people fail to realize that
When someone put they all in force that's everything into you that means that's the sign of like they're showing that they love you
Because they got your back. That's when that means when that physical come that means when physically
Emotions they'll come in like they really care
They really want to see you win because a lot of people here like I said we'll say I love you and they don't give me
They don't really mean it
So don't so don't say them words y'all y'all know y'all don't mean it don't be on your tongue that man or that girl that baby that
girl little young girl or young boy that you got them
In our times this is what I'm going to get to the relationship part as they say love will make you be crazy things
Baby, I haven't experienced that because I must was never was love like that before
for me
Where it's not in my mom I must have never was in love like that before
For me to be in a predicament where love will make me do some crazy things
However, when I was in love, you know once in a blue moon at the
That stuff happened had to love him from a distance because you know
At times love do you make you?
Do things that you don't want to do but you have to think it is a bit
To be
But if it's not the time right now be honest and straight up about it
You know don't just have that person sticking around and they sticking around and you just
Making it harder. That's when you get to talk to me
And that's when they start to love me from a distance because they can't do it no more
You know, so you got to be really careful what you do
things and stuff we get in a relationship and
Like I say, you know, I was in love and a
Lot of people be like your Instagram we make them jokes like when we go on FaceTime and stuff. I'm in love with you right away
new
I can't fall in love, you know phone. I gotta fall in love with you in person
I can't fall in love, you know phone like what?
Like how do you fall in love through the phone like that? I feel like you already plan
In order for me to feel like I'm loved from a guy
He has to show a lot. Don't you ain't got to spoil me with material things
You can spoil me mentally mainly mentally because I want to hear
somebody I want to hear you
You know help me uplift me be my supporter like
Just do things that you know what helped the mental and his vice versa. You already know the vice versa
I'm consistent with a lot of things like I'm consistent with checking up on you know, same saying good morning
How are you? Okay?
Dada things like that because like I said within the mental health
Park has for the men a lot of us women don't check up on our men and not right there is a sign of love because
Right there people like that. Oh, huh? That's love. Yes
It is you showing that you care for them and then you don't even have to say you love them at times
Yes, us ladies we feel as though that we need to hear that word because we need to know that
You love us at times. I feel like I do believe in saying what's understood don't need to be explained
And it goes for all three parties family friends in their relationship
If you know
That y'all know y'all roles, you know, what's going on y'all know y'all know the bad
You should already know
It doesn't need to be explained
Yeah, let me tell you something
For me, I was hard-hitting. I was like what boy, you better tell me something
I don't want to keep casting like no like no, no gas. I don't want to guess tell me straight up because I
Can't do it like I'm like no no tell me straight up like what's going on
It's all you know time with pads, you know, I was like, okay. I know what you mean
You know what I love you for that. I love you for really just
Telling me what it is and I see what it is because it's real
You know at times things happen at least if you know, it's okay. It's cool
But like I say just don't end on bad terms because once you know bad terms is that's when that hate word come in
You know, baby boy, y'all know
No, you bet always told Jody she hated him, but she really felt him type
Yeah, you we don't want that. We don't want this. So that's why I always say
Just be on the turn for people don't be on bad terms because
You never know they can rekindle they can rekindle back in your life in your relationship
Can be better than it was before and I love him
Like it's some friendships that I do want to rekindle but in order for that to happen
I've been
Two parties gotta come together and y'all know that saying to you like the phone works both ways. Yes
but at times it takes
someone to really be prepared to you know
Pick up their phone and text and be able to
Have the words
To text what they want to say like to say what they want to text, you know
And I did it before and you know
It took a lot
Everyone say like a much lot of me, but it took me a while to be like do it because I'm like what if I do it?
I respond what if I do it? It's like I'm done too. We didn't end on bad terms, but you know at times
You know people could be like I don't want to do it. I'm on, you know
I'm gonna love you from a distance and I have my moments where I had to love
Some family members some friends from a distance and some dudes that I talked to you from a distance because like I
I got love for you, but it was starting to get rocky
It was starting to get toxic and I couldn't deal with it
So I had to love you from a distance and you know if you ever need me you ever need me you could call me, but I
Don't think it will be the same. You know no more like it was in the beginning
So when I say this to say when it comes to love just don't think of it as
you know, there's a word
because
It is it's like if I feel like it's a now
verb
Ever all that good stuff because you can show your love
You can love someone or something
But I feel as though
once you
Say you love someone show it, you know how they say
I
Bromstones I was very safe Tori Lane's but I give you the people that
Originally said it, you know, you don't have to do more than just say it
You don't have to do less when you prove it that with them two lines right there. I feel as though
It's impactful flow to you. So just like if you if you love me
Say it if you trust me prove it
And you know good relationship, you know, if you want me show it
Something by now, please look it up either brownstone or
Tori Lane's
But yes, you're like
Just
Be real is staying
And tall and firm on it. Don't be having people out here feeling like
They not love something something when you just out of the blue tells about I love them like I love you
Just out of the blue. I don't care if it's middle night and they sleep. Don't say remember design rate. Oh, okay
Get me in the morning. I'm like
You know and his wife first like I send the message out like I'm just thinking about you
What you doing? I mean, I think I just want you to know this is a lot. I love you, you know
So I say this to say y'all
When it comes to love don't just think of it as a word think of it as many things and
Don't be afraid to show someone that you love them when it comes to your family your friends your
love your lover or potential lover
Don't be afraid to let them know what's going on
And how you feel and why why you feel the way you feel and don't be afraid to tell them why you love them because I
Ain't gonna lie to you once you tell somebody why you love them that just turns everything around me thing
more
Silly like I don't care if you write a whole book saying why I love you
You just make sure you tell it but you also
Back it up
You know, so you know how they say you talk that talk make sure you can back it up
And things like that. So just always remember like don't be afraid to tell somebody that you love them because you never know
So as I end out with this episode
I hope that you guys got a clear understanding of love or you know got a little bit more
information and insight on love when it comes from
You want it only?
Who was you know on the poet on the side, you know might start
Mixing some of the episodes with some poetry the beginning and just going off going straight into it like I always do
But yes, I say this today, I hope you guys have a beautiful day
by there you listen to this in the morning
Afternoon or evening midnight whenever you're listening to this, I just hope that this puts an impact to you
I hope that you are
Able to listen to me like take my advice because that's the whole point of podcast somebody learned for me
and yeah, I
Was love to hear y'all feedback about like it just it brings joy to me and it helps me like impact on some things and you know, you know
Take some criticism things like that for y'all as well
But yes, I hope you guys have a beautiful day whether you're afraid or shine
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