Hey y'all whether it's morning evening or afternoon. I'm just glad that you had decided to vibe with
me today. Yes, I'm E your host and I'm thrilled to share the vibe of the day with you. So you
already know the drill. I just want you to sit back, relax and enjoy the show because today's
vibe of the day is something special as always. Okay, so let's get into it. All right, so let's
get into it. Today's vibe is something I would say a lot of us needs to know. We really do.
And with that being said, let me turn this back up so y'all don't hear this and y'all
spank us and y'all like, oh my god, I can hear you like I hear you. I hear you but you're too loud.
So today's vibe of the day is all about choices. The choices that you make and why you make them.
So choices is the vibe of the day because a lot of people fail to realize that a lot of people
make the choices that they do depending on whether it is gonna be such as with the episode I had made
previously with them moving on and also your work. So with that being said, the choice that you make
in life carries and it follows you especially when it impacts things that you never thought it would
impact such as like the choices that you make. I feel like those are the choices that you make
because it benefits you in the end of the day. Now nobody else is you. Like sometimes we be
insucizive about what we want to do and why we do what we do but a lot of people just don't understand
that this is the life I live and these are the choices that I'm gonna make rather as big or small
choices that I need to make with them in my life. This has to be done and said because I need to fix
this. So when it comes to choices, a lot of people be like, dang, the choices that I made in life
either impact me in an amazing way or fuck me up in a way I never thought it would.
And it happens to the best of us. Trust me. I know like the choices I made always bring school as
a prime good example because like once you leave high school the choice is yours. Like you know
some of us graduated in 18, 17, 16 if you're really really smart you know whatever the case may be
16, 17, 18, 19 from high school and the choice is left to you. There's no more mommy and daddy
telling you oh yeah get up time to go to school. The choice is yours is either you go to school
you go to community college four year college go to a trade school join the navy and the military
is all up to you now or get a full-time job or become a CEO you know all the choices are to you
however some people made the choices where as though I seen like they went to school
and then they found out school was not for them because leaving college
is a whole different ballgame like the whole different shebang and I've seen that for myself
within the pandemic like are you prepared to wake up every morning for this class
like are you prepared are you prepared to get on your zoom because you know you got to get on
your zoom like I had to keep that in mind like let me get on this zoom these teens and all this
stuff because this impacts my life and this is the choice that I've made for myself so these
are the choices that I'm making and it's the choice I made I need to follow this choice because if not
I'm going to be fucked and you don't want to do that versus the choices that you make
and it do or do not work out for you for example like with the beginning of the year I had the
opportunity to work for an amazing children's hospital as a clinical assistant however when I
went into the facility you know was in there I was a full-time like not full-time but like I was
fully an employee and did the training doing the training and stuff I was like okay I should be fine
and I should be fine but my last training y'all it it wasn't for me like I was working with children
that has disabilities and they are known for hitting biting pulling things like that and by
me being their clinical assistant being an assistant I had to be prepared so you stopped that and know
how to deal with it and mentally it was getting to drown me but physically it was hurting me because
didn't hit her I'm not gonna lie to you so a shout out to all the clinical assistants out there that
can handle those dogs because I chose that path and it got caught cut short within like my months
tops because it was not for me you know this is the choice that we make this is the life that we
choose the things we do you know but I'm gonna tell you about these choices choices is one of the
many things that people fail to realize like you'd be surprised at what you could do like some of
the choices that I made in my life I just some of them that came off the dome was like oh let me do
this oh let me do that so I choose to do this do I choose to do that like I was debating you know
little things that was debating about like a nose ring I was like if I choose to get a nose ring
and you're gonna make me look a certain type of way am I gonna feel better am I gonna look better
whatever so I took that risk and got that nose ring and the choice that came with this nose ring
I'm gonna tell you it's good and bad it's good because it make you look good I feel a little
bit pretty and like I'm used to it now that is when you go out when you go out and you say me I like
to wear eyewear I like to wear sunglasses and sometimes I read my reading glasses if that
guy going stud or hoop is not clicked or in there good baby's gonna fall like I'm not gonna lie to
y'all I went to the pool and I have my sunglasses on I like big frames because I have a big face so
I have to wear big things I don't like the little I have little frames y'all yes but I love a big
face because it covers all the eyelashes and I bought everything from you know the nitty gritty
needs to do within that choice I made within that y'all doesn't say I lost the nose ring came home
found it in my bag but nonetheless the choices that you make within life you just have to remember
these are for you nobody else no matter how big or small the choice is you got to think of the
outcome of it yes at times the choices we made are either long term or short term choices but you
got to think the choices you make are for you nobody can force you to do whatever you want to do
the choices I make within my life is because I feel this way about it nobody can tell you what to
do because I'm at that peak where I'm able to vouch for myself once I turn 18 I felt like I was
able to express myself vouch myself more and be able to write my name on dotted lines that people
would never thought I would write my name on brother thought I would write my name on a dotted line
shoot so the choices that you make in life y'all I'm just saying is just be very careful and
cautious what you do because at times like I mentioned when it comes to support you know
within the third episode I made about support you gotta you really really gotta think about
these choices that you make and be able to live with it and when it comes to the support
I feel like when it comes to the support within the choices that you make like I mentioned within
episode for support you gotta remember who are there for you and you gotta make sure your day
ones are able to accept the choices that you make in your life especially if it's for the better
because if you feel like you're going down like going down downhill or whatever and it's time
for you to make some sacrifices some choices that you thought you would never have to do do it and
if the people around you don't understand it then let them go you know within the choices you make
too you make choices of people also when you move on you when you in that stage where okay I'm
preparing for the better this is the choice I made I'm going to prepare for it at times it comes
with things you have to eliminate people things toxicity like whatever made you realize you had
to choose this because of x y and z bro assist do it because you feel as though it needs to be done
don't do it just do it and that's a lot of people feel it realized too don't do it because you see
John and Sean in all him doing all these choices no do it for you if you know you need to change
something about you you need to choose the right way to do it and when to do it the choice is yours
you know like they say the choice is yours like is either you want to go this way or you want to
go that way you want to go to this path or you want to do that path you got to like even out
these things because a lot of people be like I don't know what to do like this is the choices I
don't know what to do the bad toys let me tell you something and the peak of these choices that you
make okay it prepares you for things that you might not be paid for like I say within the
choices that you make you just really have to make sure that this is what you want do your research
even if it's not something to be researchable just do some type of oh skinny research because
you never know like say if you were a move out of the country and you like or out of state you know
and it's the choice that you made for yourself because this is what you've been looking for this
what you want to do you know some people choose to start a new lifestyle so a new path doing
new chapter in a life but this is what they want to do and they're tired of living in the situation
that they are now so the choice that you make within moving in a new state I always tell people
like if you want to do this you want to do that do your research and also have a second opinion
and also have a backup plan because sometimes the first choice might not last you know like when I left
the the children's hospital I still had a backup plan I still had enough jobs see one thing about me
I'm gonna keep two jobs I'm gonna keep two jobs okay because you never know what can happen and I'm
glad that I kept my last I'm glad that I kept that side job because because I still had to make ends
meet regardless I still had to make sure that me financially was stable and as I say this to say
again shout out to all you caregivers because I'm gonna tell you something not everybody's
boat to be a caregiver and I had my fair share within the caregiver field for a little bit and I
said no this stop for me because once you become a caregiver you are like this is your position you
have to care for these patients mentally and physically from children the adults elderly
whatever field that you are caregiver in with whether it is like just for caregiving within
mentally or physically or both absolutely because I'm going to tell you when I stepped in there
like I had it like I was good I was good but certain patients in certain positions and I had
doing stuff I was like okay I don't think this is going to work but I'm gonna tell you this that's
the choice I made for me because that's what I felt back then when I first made this choice that okay
I got this I can do this I did my research anything else I can do is I got this but once I got in the
field did what I had to do and seeing the outlook I was like there's also down do what you do what
you know you used to like get in the field that you know you used to but like I say within the
choice that we make at times you got to take a risk and that was my risk I took and this is what
I'm trying to tell y'all as well when you make these choices in your life rather is like big or small
whatever just remember don't be afraid to do that if you choose to do that within the person place
of thing or just for you whatever it is don't be afraid because that's what you want to do bro
well since that's what you chose to do and this choice that you made was okay I want to do this
I'm gonna do that I'm gonna do this I'm gonna do that this time I'm gonna flip this I'm gonna make a
shape do it don't let nobody discourage you on what you want to do because at the end of the day
this is the choice that you made and it's the choice that you're going to stand on like I said
even if your choice ends up like how mine was you got out in the field and then you did it and then
you was like this ain't for me let me just say this you didn't give up it didn't give up because
most people be like you know oh don't do it it ain't worthy how because it wasn't worth it for you
if it wasn't worth it for you how you know it's not worth it for me we two different people
then that's another thing too with the choices you make people always on that bull or like some
oh you want to do that why you want to do that what chose you to do that what
then just I don't understand like sometimes you gotta have that that person in your ear to give you
give it to you raw none cut but sometimes it's like come on like come on it's even like you
supported or not if not just just keep it pushing because sometimes the choice that you make you make
them because this is what you have to do sometimes even if it is choice that you didn't want to do
like I know when you get older it's a lot of choice you got to make like such as like financially
sometimes you'd be like do I really want to pick up a second or third job
but you gotta think these are toys you gotta make in order to make sure you got lights and food and
everything you know so I say this to say within the choices that you make y'all just stands her
and firm on it just stand tall through it all because at the end of the day this is the choice
that you made and that's gonna be the life you live within choices that we take had times it comes
out to be a beautiful blessing and sometimes it comes out to be like a lesson learned and within
every lesson you learn even as a good or bad lesson you learn something like every day you learn
something not even just about yourself but about people around you anything you do you're gonna learn
even if you're not in school that's why I tell people to you don't have to be in school to learn
something new every day you don't you don't have to sit in front of a professor you don't have to
sit behind a a laptop or computer to learn from somebody you can learn from somebody just by sitting
down being in the comfort of your home home you can learn from me and I'm not no professor no teacher
no nothing I'm just a regular person well student in this case but yeah a lot of people be like I
can't learn you you gotta learn when you in school no you can learn anywhere see this the choices that
you're playing some people choose to go to school in line and some people choose to teach
they suffer learn on their own damn time and okay I say this to say with the choices that we make a
life I'm gonna tell you when you get older once you reach them peak of them 20s baby you want to
see the choice that you make back when you were a teenager I'm not choosing that again I'm sorry
I'm not because the choice I made when I was teenagers I'm gonna tell you those choices were
either good or bad if some of them was just like risk taking but I'm gonna tell you after all
them choices I have made I learned from every last one of them I learned what to do what not to do
how to fix this how to manipulate this how to make this work how to make that work what not to do
what to do like in a lot of things that you learn within the peak of the choice that you make
and I say this to say as well don't be like I said don't be afraid to do it don't be afraid
just go out there and do it because you never know that could be a blessing in disguise for you
you can never know within that choice you make you never know who you can run into or what you
can run into that's able to help you to within this choice that you're making I don't want to
seem like I'm preaching but I'm preaching to you a little bit because it's hitting me because I'm
like I'm debating by the choice I want to have now and within the podcast it was a choice that I
made I was like yeah do a broadcast or should I do a podcast and you know what the broadcast you
got to show your face and everything is sometimes I don't want to show my face but the choice that's
okay a broadcast that's at a broadcast wouldn't be bad I mean you're gonna hear my voice but that's
not so bad you know either you know this is the life we live the choice that we have to make
I just had to make sure this was a choice that I wanted to take because this is my show it's not
like it wasn't a partner deal or nothing no everything that impacts with Vodum with E was from me
every last thing from the slogan from the blueprint everything was me it was nobody else it was me
and this is what I'm trying to tell y'all within the choice that you make always make sure that
when you do those choices even if it's with somebody too like a business plan or whatever
make sure you or whoever is the person you went to as well it's a path for these choices it's a path
for this lifestyle or whatever y'all are trying to do so let me tell you something I believe in 50-50
I don't believe in that 100 in zero or that 75 and all that uh-uh no especially if it's a partner
choice or a collaborative everyone should do that part and if it's the choice that you made that okay
this will be going to do so I advise you to choose wisely on what you want to do and say
because nobody got time for that mess nobody got time for that mess especially when it comes to a
business now that I think about it I brought up the broadcast or the park has type of situation
when it comes to a business they always say they're going business with your family because it
cuts conflict sometimes we're going business with your family with your family or your friends it might
the choice that you make within that might be a good outcome especially when it comes to your
friends because at times you wouldn't think that you and your friend we're ever fall out sometimes
it happens that's why I see a lot of people just go by these stuff just like all right I got this
by myself now when it comes to the choice of collaboration oh yeah heck yeah I'm all for it
like if I see somebody out there that has a podcast or a podcast clothing design clothing designer or
or whatever the case may be and they want to collab sure but I'm gonna tell you straight up
within this choice that I'm making and within this deal you're trying to sign over to me
I advise you to choose wisely because when it comes to these people too when you collab and
choose to do this and that I'm real big on like getting the ball rolling if I tell you I choose
this thing or I choose this x-line Z I choose you to make sure you know what you're doing too because
this is not a one man street especially if you ask me to help you collab promote or whatever maybe it
takes two or how many other people behind you to to make sure that this goes well within the
choices that we're making with each other because this is not just gonna be no fly and I and I think
of everything as I'm not going to say perfection but I think of it as like make it your official
copy in natural drive of course you have to have a drive like when you write a paper you gotta have
a rough draft but with the rough draft you don't want to have so many errors to the point where
when it comes to making the final draft it's like freak like what else like I don't like you know you
lost I feel like within a draft that's where most of your creative skills and everything should be
coming that blueprint that little rough draft blueprinted of it yeah it's gonna have a little
bit of average but you don't want so many errors to like when it comes to the full the full you know
path of it of the product or whatever you'd be like what the hell next time I'm gonna do like
damn I don't know what else to think so yeah within the choice that you make y'all I just want y'all to
remember this do that for you bro assist don't do that for nobody else do that choice because
this is what you want if you choose to be with that boy or that girl do it if you choose to live
in that big old house or apartment for for the first step do it if you choose to go to a two-year
college or four-year college do it choose and every time you choose that I know it's you between
two or four things but you gotta weigh your options out and like I said you got to your research yes
people federalize when you can't just jump in the field without at least getting some type of
background information or what the heck are you doing or investing in so yeah I say this to say by
leaving y'all with this choices we have to make every day and some of them choices are the best
thing that ever happened to us or the saddest thing that ever happened to us but let me let y'all know
these within every choice that you had have an experience or experience you're learning as you
go it's a blessing or maybe not a blessing in disguise but I'm gonna say this with every blessing
I'm saying it was good a bled I'm still blessed because you know why you're still alive okay and
you stepped out in that field Craig you wasn't scared you didn't buy Felicia that's that choice
you stick to that choice that you made you know so I leave with this to say to y'all whenever y'all
hear this that choice you make sister bro do it because you want to do it do it because that's
what your mind or your heart is telling you sometimes I know your mind or your heart plays a
tricky game but in this situation it was impacting your mind or your heart do it don't stand like
don't fight it do it okay do it and as I say this to say it's always peace and blessings to all
you beautiful people out there I wish you nothing but the best beautiful pieces and blessings ever
come your way and as always you will hear from your one and only favorite broadcaster soon
but yes I also leave with y'all to say please be safe and be careful out here because then you
know it's summertime and all these fabulous events and holidays coming up so I just want
y'all to be safe and be mindful stay hydrated and everything and as always please thanks for
watching y'all next time well y'all will hear from me next time bye