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Hi, Nick here from Pods with Nick and James. Just a quick one before we get into this podcast.

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Anyway, back to the podcast.

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Welcome to Pods with Nick and James, a podcast where two blokes talk about some deeper subjects,

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which are the sorts of conversations you'd have at a pub and wished you remembered more of the night after.

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Sorry, the morning after. I know that's how I feel a lot about these things.

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So far, we've covered some interesting topics like ancient authority and myself remembering that one of the first recorded kings in history was King Sargon.

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I still love that name. Not going to get over that anytime soon.

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Looking a little bit at political systems and remembering that out of all of the political systems, oligarchy seemed to be quite possibly the worst next to tyranny,

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along with the education system and now with, yeah, how not everything we've taught is quite there to enable us.

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I also learned about Jonestown, something which I've seen mentioned but assumed wasn't real.

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Sometimes ignorance is bliss, but I don't know. The truth will set you free.

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All right. How are you doing today, Nick? I am good, sir. I am very good.

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Yeah, been a short break since the last time we recorded. Obviously you went on holiday, but. Absolutely.

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Absolutely. It was a great time. I went to West Wales and it's a beautiful country is all I can say.

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It is. I've been to South Wales. It is very, very beautiful. As Lee Evans says,

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the thing about Wales is every time you go out, you go to the shop, you go up a hill, you go home from the shop, you go up a hill.

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That's one thing I remember from Wales. That is absolutely true.

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Like what did I also love how I'm, you know what? Right. Sorry. I'm going to go very slightly off topic. Please bear with me listeners.

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This will just be a minute. All right. So I went to Wales and I love it because five minutes from the holiday camp,

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there was a castle whose name I'm not going to even try and pronounce. But I went there and it was a really impressive affair.

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Like it was at least the height of a four story building. There were some parts of it which were nearly intact and other bits were in ruin.

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You know, it's the sort of thing where if you scaled it down, you would see nerds in a hobby shop placing miniatures on it.

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Absolutely amazing. Like and I say that because I am one of those nerds and it's the sort of shit I make in the spare time.

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But it was just so it was incredibly impressive. And what it had was a sign outside of it, a couple of safety rails, very few warning signs.

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But the safety rails were there and it just seemed to be common sense. You know, you can climb all over the castle.

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You can go all over the castle, but there's no one here to check on you. Yeah.

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Tell you what, there's a place where I grew up, which is called Hadley Castle, which is down in Essex, down near South End.

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And it's not much of a castle. Like it's a castle wall more than anything in the upright of a roundel.

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But there's a sign as you walk in that says don't climb on the castle. But like if you do,

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there's no no barriers to stop you from climbing the castle. And to be fair, I've climbed on top of one of the roundels.

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But sense and sensibility says you don't go too high and you don't climb the big one.

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And I don't think many people do. I think that it's just kind of implied, isn't it?

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Well, that's it. But like, I guess the thing that weirded me out was that you have this random castle at the end of a country road

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with nothing more than one house and an old person's home next to it.

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And then to contrast that with I went to a wedding the other weekend and there's a massive hill outside of Salisbury.

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And it turns out that like one of the largest castles in England at one point was there.

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And there's absolutely very little left of it. There's a cathedral that was constructed on top of the hill and then struck by lightning five days after its consecration.

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It's just plain ironic. But anyway, there's that there and it's all it's just the foundations and that's all that's there.

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And there's less of this castle up on this hill in Salisbury than there is this random one in Wales.

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And what really weirded me out was this massive manmade hill in Salisbury with less castle on it.

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They want the there's a ticket office. There's a cafe and they want eight pound fifty to take a look around the almost non-existent ruins.

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As opposed to the three intact to it and multi-level ruins that there were in Wales.

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Yes, it's silly, isn't it?

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It just kind of made me go, go, but anyway, right. Sorry. OK, right.

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Moving on. Today's topic is about ethics.

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My although I use the Internet for some of this stuff, the main source of this talk where I've got my questions from comes from Eva, The Good Place,

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which is a series of Netflix, which a lot of people can enjoy.

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Chidi being quite possibly the best character in that.

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But also just need to put this out there. Simon Blackburn's book for the Oxford Press, ethics, a very short introduction.

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So I'll start with just one of the basic questions.

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What's the difference between ethics and morality, Nick? Do you know what?

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I think the way that I always remembered it was morals equals me.

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Ethics is socially imposed. Morals is your own imposition.

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That's like I'm going to be honest with you, mate, like 10 out of 10, you've hit the nail on the head there.

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What I found from ethics is it's both broader and more specific.

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Ethics is kind of like the study of morals from what I can tell.

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So morality, every person has a morality, just as everybody has a fee, their morality being part of it.

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But ethics seems to be the study of that morality.

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And if you want, if you like the the judgment of that morality and the good and bad that that morality produces.

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Yeah, don't agree with everything Simon wrote, but he definitely did a good job.

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Do you reckon ethics has increased or decreased in the last 10, 20 years?

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And can you give me an example? Ethical behavior as a whole.

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I think all the need of ethics. So.

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All right. So I guess Simon. All right.

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So Simon defines it as an ethical environment is is a surrounding climate of ideas of how to live.

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It determines what we find acceptable or contemptible.

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Sorry, acceptable or unacceptable, admirable or contemptible.

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It determines our view of when things are going well or badly.

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That's one definition he gave. But I was just wondering it from a personal view.

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And if so, like, what would you what can can you think of an example where things have gotten better or like how it has changed?

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So I realize that's a big, broad question, but I just kind of wanted you to know that there's not really a wrong answer here.

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I just want to get. No, no, I think I think it's if you look at it like if you try to look at it like whether ethics has whether there's more ethics in modern day.

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And I think you look I think potentially you look you you you start the conversation wrong, if you will.

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I don't mean that in an assault way. I mean that my grandparents had a completely different level of ethics to what I have today.

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For example, their ethics brought about more chivalry in some aspects.

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Their ethics brought out a bit more community.

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I can remember my Nan telling me stories about how it was completely normal for her to sit out in her front garden, a table and chair and talk to everybody that went by.

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I actually remember one New Year's Eve party.

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We walked out and did the can can all the way down my Nan's road and everybody on the street came out and joined the can can.

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And so we went all the way down the road and all the way back up again.

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Everybody doing the can can. Something that wouldn't happen nowadays.

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As a matter of fact, if somebody tried to do that, everybody would be looking out the window.

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I say everybody. I mean proverbially everybody would be looking out the window judging those people for trying to do that.

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Like they were strange. So I think ethics has changed over the last 50 years at least.

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Absolutely. I guess we live in times of great change at the moment.

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In the last couple of hundred years, this country has changed massively.

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Sorry to go back to this, but cities like Salisbury, cities like Coventry, which once dominated the landscape and like were powerhouses or cities like Ely even,

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which were political powers in and of themselves are now, I hate to say it, backdrops.

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Like they're not. Yeah, they're not. They're not centers of like they still exist and they've still got historical importance.

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But I don't know. I can't think of the last political movement that came out of Salisbury Coventry or Ely, you know, not that I mean to pick on these places.

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If you're from those places, fair play to you. Your house is probably worth a lot more than what I'm going to be able to afford.

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Right. Okay. Well, something that Simon brought up and you've scraped upon it because your point is more about community and about the fact that there were times when you could just let your guard down in a community.

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There were times when people could talk to each other and it was perfectly acceptable to talk to each other.

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Like, for example, I know one of my neighbors is a guy called Tango and he's a really nice bloke.

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But the only reason I speak to him is because he fixes up cards on the road and ends up using up a lot of parking spaces.

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However, he redeems himself because he talks. He talks to you and he's always very happy because he knows he's using up more than his fair share, if you will.

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He's always willing to move and that and he's always willing to have a chat.

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So that kind of actually possibly makes him my best neighbor, even though it does frustrate me when I'm having people over and all of the spaces are taken up on the road.

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But that's we all going to make a living, you know?

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I think, as you said, the redeeming feature, the redeeming factor is that he, despite the fact that he's using up a lot of space, he isn't unapproachable.

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And he hasn't put a wall up, almost like this is my entitlement and I'm going to have it.

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Instead, being quite open and approachable, it's almost like I respect the fact that I'm overstepping the mark and I'm more than happy to move.

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But if it's no bother, I'm going to use it, which is completely acceptable, I think.

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Yeah, yeah, there was a time when it used to frustrate me simply because my housemate and landlord is in many, many ways very chill.

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But I myself am very territorial as a person.

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Like if I'm working on a desk and someone puts some of their stuff on my desk, I'll let it slide for 15 minutes, but I will bring it up with them at a later point if they haven't moved it, which is somewhat hypocritical because I myself make mistakes and often cross people's boundaries.

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But anyway, okay, so it's interesting here that you spoke about your grandparents sense of chivalry as well.

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Yeah, and that is something that Simon talks about in his book.

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How today's society is obsessed with rights.

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Rather than good, or it's obsessed with rights, rather than duty, it's always, what do I deserve, rather than what is expected of me.

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Yeah, now I don't mean to be a boomer here, or I don't think I'd even technically am one, but I don't mean to put all of the buck on people for their own happiness and for their own well being I know there's a lot of complicated issues out there that we're now aware of.

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But I don't see

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in advertisements, it's always about your rights and creating a sense in you of lack of contentment.

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In a way, adverts are out there to rob you of your peace but I feel that what's happened in society is as we've all kind of watched these things over the years. We've all started feeling like we are entitled to lots of stuff that perhaps we're not, and none of us want to, none of us want to step out, step up to the plate and do good, but we want to have good done to us.

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Yeah, yeah I completely agree with that. Now I spent a lot of my, as I said when we were talking about education, I spent a lot of my time in school being bullied.

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And one of the worst things that I will remember, and I'll remember it to the day I die, I was encircled by a group of people that I went to school with, whilst two people kicked live in hell at me.

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All I can remember is this circle of people that were not doing anything about it. I could not have been one of those people on the outside watching what was going on without getting involved, without stopping what was happening, even if I didn't even like the person on the floor.

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Even if they'd done something terribly wrong, that was wrong. And I couldn't stand by and watch that. And that kind of comes into that duty thing. I would feel like I had a duty to humanity, not just to that person, but to humanity to be responsible.

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And to say, no, that's not how this is going to go.

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Unfortunately, in my respect, they didn't. Nobody, nobody was looking on thought it prudent that they or nobody felt the duty, should we say, to stop that.

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And I just had to wait until these guys kind of had their fun. But there's been times in the past where I've, I've stopped a bully from starting on somebody less able than myself or even more able but just less able to stand up for themselves.

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And there's been a couple of times where a couple of a couple of really tough looking kids being picked on and I'm like, No, you're not going to do that. I don't care. I'm a complete weed, but I don't care. You know, you're not doing that.

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No matter what the threat to my own safety it was. And that comes under morals, doesn't it? I think I've always been a very strongly moral person. I know discussions with certain religious door to door.

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Should we say religious door to door salespeople have had numerous long hour long conversations with me about how their, their religion could benefit me.

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And I politely remind them or inform them that my morals are more than adequate for me to be assured of my positive input to humanity.

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And that's good enough for me.

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Okay. I think that's also touched upon another point there that we all.

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We all look to our own safety. Okay, several points here. I can't remember exactly what it was called. I'll maybe I should start Googling this but I don't want to waste our listeners time by Googling this.

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I know there was a case in New York, where 37 people witness, a man being kicked to death in a back alleyway and 37 different people saw it from their various apartments.

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Not a single one of them called the police.

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Everyone assumed.

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That someone else would do it.

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And unfortunately that kind of takes the whole spectator sport of drama, if you will, kind of really puts that on the head, I'm going to need to look up the exact numbers and find the exact example and it's probably, it may not have been 37 it's probably.

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I'm hoping for the sake of humanity it's less than that but I will look it up and find out about that later. See I don't have the faith in humanity that you do so I'm quite, it probably is 37 if I'm honest.

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Yeah, I just, you know what I've got a load of endorphins kicking around my things I've just started doing some aerobics and that so I've got endorphins in me at the moment now I'm really glad we don't record this immediately after work or there would be all sorts of shit pouring out of my mouth.

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Quick disclaimer also sorry for swearing there.

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The other time I was talking about democracy, and I thought that the ancient society had a good system. What I was saying there is that the idea of people having a vote as whether to go to war or not.

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I thought was a good system, not the idea of only landowners being able to vote. Just to be super clear on that to everybody. I realized it's very easy for that to be misconstrued.

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So anyway, apologies for that. Right back to this topic though and back to your own behavior there Nick. I actually really respect the fact that you speak to door to door people, as a lot of people won't do that the moment you are approached by someone.

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It's annoying because you only seem to be approached by, I myself have been scammed by loads of people who have approached me on the street, either selling me something, offering me something. I'm not even going to go into it.

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It does annoy me though the number of times that I've done that rather than just telling them to do one. Because they could be, you know, each time you interact with a person they could be genuine.

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But I really like the fact that you do speak to door to door people because I've also spoken with them. I've done some of the studies with them and that and although I don't necessarily agree with everything those guys say, the whole reason why we're doing this podcast is because you should be able to talk about morality.

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You should be able to talk about politics, you should be able to talk about religion, you know, and you should be able to talk about sexuality and although sexuality is the one that's being pushed in schools. I'm not against that.

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But I just think you should be able to talk about the other stuff as well. I think that that's you hit the nail on the head there I was going to say the same thing like the whole reason we've started doing this podcast.

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I wanted to do this podcast myself for personal reasons is because I want people to feel like it's okay to challenge not other not just definitely not other people's perspectives but definitely their own perspectives, I actively seek to challenge my own perspective by having these conversations

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with people Jehovah's Witnesses Mormons whoever come to the door. I say to them, essentially, convert me.

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I am very strongly opinionated as I'm sure you're aware.

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But I'm also educated to a level.

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But I don't profess to know everything. What I do know is that these religions have entranced and enlightened for lack of a better term, millions of people.

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There's obviously a reason for that. So don't, I'm not going to act like I know what that reason is and it's not good enough for me.

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If it's good enough for millions of people, why wouldn't it be good enough for me.

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Why is it so good.

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And if it still doesn't resonate with me then I know then I know why it doesn't resonate with me I know why it doesn't make sense to me, and I actually have more faith in my own beliefs than I had before I started.

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And that's actually something which in the early days of communism, started as a movement, what they would do was they would take a new recruit, put them with an older person who would be quiet, just for the sake of safety, and they would send that pair out onto a street corner for that

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communist convert to try and convert other people. And the reason they would do that would be to mature them, like quickly, and mature them through conflict.

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Because on the street, not everyone's going to have the same opinion as you. And if you're the one who's part of a movement, you will often find yourself up against resistance.

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So I love the fact that what you're doing there is, yeah sorry, what the point you've made is that your, your views may have become more entrenched, but they've become better informed and refined through conflict.

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I also was massively challenged by Simon's book, like and there were some parts where he took a view I had, and he absolutely smashed it apart. And there are other times when he seems to think he was smashing it apart, and he'd missed the point.

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it's weird that me and you are having this conversation, the sort of conversation that people used to have down the pub every single day, yet we're having it maybe once every week once every two weeks in a contained environment because these sorts of conversations make people

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And there's good reason for that and that's because my beliefs are so niche that people feel almost insulted by them sometimes.

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So, I think I've come to these, these, for lack of a better term, assumptions based through research like hours and hours and hours of research and logical deduction. So, to me, it absolutely makes sense but there's so many people that it genuinely shakes their foundations

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that they insult you to kind of validate themselves. And it's, it's a very immature way to deal with that kind of attack but like you said it comes from fear isn't it comes to comes from that fear of challenge that fear of, of change, or, or, yeah, lack of security in your own foundation.

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And I think we've all done that, and I've been. I've been massively disappointed by some people I've been speaking to and they've reacted that way because up until they did that.

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They may not have even been aware that they were winning the argument they were winning me over.

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So one thing that Simon put through in his book is the idea about us being focused more on right, rather than duties, however, later in the book he also talks about how freedom from a particular type of suffering is a really good way to start a movement

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which I completely agree with but I do think it sometimes gives a sense of entitlement but we'll touch about that again.

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Some of the ways that I feel that society has made huge steps forwards.

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The tolerance of other sexualities other than just the traditional straight one has, I feel has come forward, like massively I remember, like in secondary school, gay jokes were normal.

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Like nowadays, just, you just don't get people talking that kind of shit anymore. No, no, but I worked in elderly care homes for 14 years.

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And you wouldn't believe how normal it is for, and I'm quoting here I'm paraphrasing here I'm using words that other people have used to as example but like the, like the words blackie and stuff like that completely normal to come up in conversation.

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And yet, for me, when the first time I heard somebody refer in that way to somebody I was working with, I, my jaw hit the floor and my heart sank. And I was like, wow, like this is the 21st century and people still think it's okay to use that terminology man, come on.

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But it's just the time they came from and that's no excuse against it please don't think that I'm excusing these people. Quite often these people that I was looking after had dementia, and didn't, they were they were regressing back to when that was okay they weren't thinking

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that was okay to do now they were genuinely back in the 1930s. And they were living it was okay.

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They, some of the conversations that they are having are so adult some of the comments that are coming out their mouth so many insults they're throwing are so adult that you know it's not their words.

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It's their parents and they've heard their parents say that their aunts and uncles say that and they've, they're regurgitating that because they think it's cool because their parents said it so why wouldn't it be cool, you know.

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So what are they calling each other immature, or toxic, or no no just just jaded.

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It's like the terminology they're using isn't something that you would expect like a seven or eight year old kid to start using, but they're using it because they're their parents, you can almost hear their parents telling them that that's what that kid that that kid.

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That kid behaves that way because, because his mom's a diss that and the other you know or something like that. You know, wow. Okay, so they're still going for the jugular and they're still being mean it's just a different place.

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I feel that there is that I'm glad that, like, less of, not less.

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safety is somewhat of an illusion so it's actually better to get involved like I love things like live music events or Kaylee's because you, sorry, a Kaylee is like English barn dance listeners who haven't done it they don't happen all that often but like you know they're out there.

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And although you've got a partner you've got the people around you and you'll have to look at each other and figure out what you're doing and what you're doing right and it's just kind of like because of the movement and because you're dancing the music and you're giving it a go, you end up smiling at each other

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I'm glad that people are aware of their own rights, but I wish that we would all fight and do a little more for the rights of others.

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I'm not trying to play the violin and make people feel sorry for me but I've experienced what it's like to not have people step up so rather than allow that wheel to keep turning.

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It's on me to stop that wheel turning isn't it it's on me to stop that cycle from continuing to happen. And maybe, maybe by people seeing that I can be a bit courageous and I can stand up for other people.

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And they can go, you know what that wasn't that difficult, and he didn't get challenged that much like he was right for doing that, therefore I'm going to do that too.

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I think, I think it was Mahatma Gandhi that said be the change you want to see in the world. And there's never been a proverb that I've lived by more.

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That's fantastic and that's something we all aspire to. I'm glad that you're, you're living it I'm not sure I am at the moment but I'm working on it.

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I'm sorry I keep on calling him Simon as if I know him in the book, it covers seven threats to ethics. Unfortunately, this book.

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Something there because he has made me aware of this. Anyway, five threats to ethics in the modern world in today's zeitgeist if you will.

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He was covering the threat of the death of God, as in the move away from religion in today's Western society.

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Morals, morals, objectivity used to, in some part in many thinking cultures, rely on fears and as a way of providing object value to these subjective ideas.

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He covers this quite well, although I will admit, he was obviously raised in a Christian household and fell away from it because he just shits over my own religion and the thing I love quite a lot, and does it quite well in some parts and not so well in others, but what he basically

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Everybody, if you're listening to this, go out and buy Ethics,

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a very short introduction by Simon Blackburn.

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Just to be clear, I don't have a book deal.

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I disagreed with him.

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At one point he meets Jesus,

373
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and Jesus casts...

374
00:49:57,000 --> 00:49:59,000
I won't go through the whole interaction,

375
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:03,000
but the demons call themselves legion

376
00:50:03,000 --> 00:50:06,000
because there is a lot of them in this bloke.

377
00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:09,000
I'm not going to pretend to understand what's going on here,

378
00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:13,000
but Jesus casts them out into a bunch of pigs.

379
00:50:13,000 --> 00:50:17,000
The pigs all run down into the lake and die.

380
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:19,000
Now, I realize it sounds like a load of bollocks,

381
00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:22,000
and although I believe it happened,

382
00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:23,000
I don't necessarily have proof,

383
00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:28,000
and I don't have the farmer's market records from 2000 years ago.

384
00:50:28,000 --> 00:50:30,000
But Simon was saying because Jesus did that,

385
00:50:30,000 --> 00:50:35,000
he didn't care about property rights of the people who owned the pigs.

386
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:38,000
And I'm like, you've missed the point.

387
00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:45,000
The point is that God cares about that one individual complete waster of a man

388
00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:52,000
than he does about the additional welfare of a load of rich folk.

389
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:57,000
Even now, I'm saying the story wrong,

390
00:50:57,000 --> 00:51:00,000
and if I get struck by lightning later tonight, you'll know why.

391
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:04,000
But still, it's just like...

392
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:06,000
Simon took that out of context,

393
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:13,000
and I just felt that that was badly researched compared with the sheer quality.

394
00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:18,000
There's a chance that this Simon is basing it on his own experience.

395
00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:22,000
He may very well have had a negative experience. I certainly did.

396
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:25,000
Maybe he comes from a wealthy background,

397
00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:27,000
and actually wealth looks after wealth.

398
00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:32,000
So what he would see out of his own experience there is that that was damage to property,

399
00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:38,000
and that in itself is a crime.

400
00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:44,000
Whereas my own morals come in from no money,

401
00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:53,000
I look exactly at the humanity of the situation where God banished the demons out of the human

402
00:51:53,000 --> 00:52:01,000
to give him a better chance at being a normal human.

403
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:03,000
But it swings around about it.

404
00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:07,000
As we said earlier, it's what you live and what you learn, isn't it?

405
00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:08,000
Absolutely.

406
00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:14,000
We're nearly out of time, but I can't believe this.

407
00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:17,000
I've actually done a better job than I thought I'd done.

408
00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:20,000
I've got loads of stuff still here to cover.

409
00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:22,000
What you mean is...

410
00:52:22,000 --> 00:52:30,000
We managed to talk the ears off of the topics that you'd researched.

411
00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:31,000
Yeah.

412
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:38,000
Well, I've got a load of other... Okay, so we'll move on from the threat of the death of God.

413
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:50,000
And the next one is the threat of relativism to the idea of ethics being worthwhile and valuable.

414
00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:57,000
One of the main things that is covered here is when...

415
00:52:57,000 --> 00:53:00,000
Well, that's just your opinion.

416
00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:03,000
How often have you had that said to you?

417
00:53:03,000 --> 00:53:06,000
Like, I know it's thrown around in media a fair amount of times.

418
00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:10,000
It's seen as a polite refusal.

419
00:53:10,000 --> 00:53:19,000
I find it's thrown at me when I prove my point beyond point of argument.

420
00:53:19,000 --> 00:53:26,000
And they don't have a counter-argument, so then they make out that it's my opinion.

421
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:33,000
Yes, because that's the only way to undermine your victory is to say that the victory doesn't matter.

422
00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:34,000
Yeah, exactly.

423
00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:36,000
So I quite often...

424
00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:46,000
I will research a topic that I believe in quite firmly to the point where I back it up with quite a lot of fact.

425
00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:55,000
And I'm very careful about what I say so that I am clear in what is hypothetical or logical deduction

426
00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:59,000
and what is based on factual research.

427
00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:12,000
So when I am arguing the point with someone and I manage to get my point across,

428
00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:18,000
because it is so strongly backed up, if I do actually argue, bear in mind I don't argue,

429
00:54:18,000 --> 00:54:23,000
so if I do end up arguing it's because I firmly believe in what I'm saying and I firmly know what I'm talking about.

430
00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:30,000
So I give everything over and then they go, oh crap, I've got nothing to come back with.

431
00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:33,000
So well, you're entitled to that because that's your opinion.

432
00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:37,000
No, I am entitled to that because it's not just opinion, that is fact.

433
00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:44,000
And if it wasn't fact, I wouldn't have wasted half of my day trying to prove to you that that was fact.

434
00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:47,000
If it was my opinion, I would have kept it to myself.

435
00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:54,000
Or they'll call you insecure or petty for putting the effort in to engage them in conversation.

436
00:54:54,000 --> 00:55:02,000
And this is the annoying thing, although everyone likes to be right, no one likes to be wrong,

437
00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:06,000
that's why I struggled reading this book because there are several points in which I'm wrong.

438
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:14,000
This is why I struggle with arguments as I'm bad at putting my points across and I get muddled in my speech.

439
00:55:14,000 --> 00:55:32,000
But when I'm defeated, I'm not having read this, I'm definitely going to try and be far more positive about the situation than, well, that's just your opinion.

440
00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:35,000
Like, well, that's just your opinion.

441
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:42,000
It doesn't give the person it's not providing an answer.

442
00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:51,000
It's not providing an opportunity to continue discussing or to even change the subject of conversation.

443
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:54,000
It's not an admission of being wrong.

444
00:55:54,000 --> 00:56:01,000
It's just literally saying that everything that we've talked about doesn't matter because it's all subjective.

445
00:56:01,000 --> 00:56:09,000
And if you're going to look at things like ethics, you can't just say that's just your opinion

446
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:16,000
because then what you're basically saying is the entire conversation is a waste of time.

447
00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:23,000
And this is a point I did really agree with Diamond about.

448
00:56:23,000 --> 00:56:30,000
It's not, well, that's just your opinion is it's a terrible phrase.

449
00:56:30,000 --> 00:56:48,000
And it's something, yeah, it's something which people will say to stuff they disagree with as a way of allowing themselves to continue believing what they believe unchallenged.

450
00:56:48,000 --> 00:56:50,000
You know? Yeah.

451
00:56:50,000 --> 00:57:01,000
Like, I don't know how you feel, but sometimes I actually use that I actually use the phrase in the return.

452
00:57:01,000 --> 00:57:12,000
In the return sense. So instead of saying, oh, that's just your opinion in order to save somebody the need to argue with me, which is never going to go well.

453
00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:20,000
And I quite often say, but it's OK, because that's just my opinion and then leave it there and walk away.

454
00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:22,000
Oh, bugger.

455
00:57:22,000 --> 00:57:25,000
You use it as a mic drop.

456
00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:27,000
Exactly that. Exactly that.

457
00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:35,000
So what I've learned over the years is quite often people will go to say it as a means to get out of an argument.

458
00:57:35,000 --> 00:57:43,000
But if you take that away from them, they kind of sit there going, oh, yeah.

459
00:57:43,000 --> 00:57:47,000
So, and I like doing that.

460
00:57:47,000 --> 00:57:56,000
So, you know, I will quite often give across my opinion, quite give across my opinion or based on the research that I've done.

461
00:57:56,000 --> 00:57:58,000
And then I'll go. But it's OK. That's only my opinion.

462
00:57:58,000 --> 00:58:05,000
And then leave them to chew on it. OK.

463
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:07,000
Well, that's yeah, that's fair enough.

464
00:58:07,000 --> 00:58:14,000
But I find it interesting that when talking about.

465
00:58:14,000 --> 00:58:24,000
Now, this is the thing I'm really worried about when when anyone talks about like subjectivity and objectivity, subjectivity is used as a way of softening things.

466
00:58:24,000 --> 00:58:36,000
And you get, you know, like French philosophers who were saying that reality is the biggest illusion here simply because I can't actually prove anything to do with anything.

467
00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:57,000
Whereas every every person who's properly tried to think about things seems to come to the conclusion that objective reality, although they can't prove it, seems to be real through its shared and consistent nature, even though it's a chaotic and changing nature.

468
00:58:57,000 --> 00:59:12,000
So what I find interesting is that the idea that everything subjective and nothing really matters seems to be held by.

469
00:59:12,000 --> 00:59:15,000
Well, I know I was one of these people.

470
00:59:15,000 --> 00:59:36,000
And it's OK. So, you know what? I'll describe myself as I was when I was younger or when I was first dipping my toe into philosophy subjectivity seemed to be incredibly attractive because it had the glamour of being very liquid.

471
00:59:36,000 --> 00:59:47,000
It should almost justify anything, say anything, interact with anything on a light level and on your terms when it's subjective.

472
00:59:47,000 --> 00:59:59,000
And because it's subjective in that way, it's a very attractive view for the young and for those who haven't necessarily invested or researched a topic yet.

473
00:59:59,000 --> 01:00:07,000
You come at it from a light hearted subjective point of view, and that allows you to or facilitates you to learn more about it.

474
01:00:07,000 --> 01:00:21,000
And I see that as fair enough. But just because that's your view of it, it shouldn't mean that you can assume that everyone else should hold that same view.

475
01:00:21,000 --> 01:00:23,000
You know, yeah.

476
01:00:23,000 --> 01:00:31,000
It's it. I do find it weird, though, although I disagree with.

477
01:00:31,000 --> 01:00:34,000
Absolute relativism.

478
01:00:34,000 --> 01:00:44,000
The amount it gets shit on by every single serious philosophy professor I've read is is baffling.

479
01:00:44,000 --> 01:00:54,000
It's something they obviously find themselves hitting their head against a brick wall about, like literally it gets shot on more than religion.

480
01:00:54,000 --> 01:00:58,000
Like, and I'm wondering,

481
01:00:58,000 --> 01:01:02,000
is

482
01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:14,000
OK, it's something that seems to be on the rise in in society on the whole. Optimists optimistic nihilism.

483
01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:18,000
And I'm going to be honest with you.

484
01:01:18,000 --> 01:01:22,000
Maybe it's just my autism. Maybe it's my own stupidity here.

485
01:01:22,000 --> 01:01:24,000
I can't get my head around it.

486
01:01:24,000 --> 01:01:29,000
Yeah, to be fair, when you said that, my brain kind of went, where?

487
01:01:29,000 --> 01:01:33,000
Right. OK, so nihilism is obviously the belief.

488
01:01:33,000 --> 01:01:42,000
I hate I hate when people say basically, obviously all of this lot, because unfortunately, a work colleague.

489
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:53,000
Yeah, he shall remain nameless because I doubt he'll be very happy with me using his name on this podcast pointed out to me how often I said basically in conversations.

490
01:01:53,000 --> 01:02:00,000
And annoyingly, I've now picked up on that and I've picked up on how often my brother says it.

491
01:02:00,000 --> 01:02:05,000
And everyone says it all the time.

492
01:02:05,000 --> 01:02:09,000
And it now annoys me. And it wasn't a pet peeve.

493
01:02:09,000 --> 01:02:15,000
And now it is. So thank you very much. That particular work colleague who pointed that out to me.

494
01:02:15,000 --> 01:02:20,000
Right. Just you know, mate, it wasn't yourself.

495
01:02:20,000 --> 01:02:40,000
It with with optimistic nihilism, I can understand it's incredibly freeing, but it's only incredibly freeing when you have food on the table, reliable systems of support and governance and a long and happy life ahead of you.

496
01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:52,000
Optimistic nihilism simply simply gives you freedom in that context. And I can see it working for a lot of young people.

497
01:02:52,000 --> 01:02:56,000
I can't see it working for anyone else.

498
01:02:56,000 --> 01:03:13,000
Yes, I just read a little bit on optimism, optimistic nihilism, just to verse myself. No, I didn't. I wasn't fully versed on nihilism myself. But obviously nihilism is life has no meaning.

499
01:03:13,000 --> 01:03:16,000
Is that right? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

500
01:03:16,000 --> 01:03:31,000
Well, it's not it's not just that life has no meaning. It's that everything has no meaning. Like you can you can be an atheist, but not a nihilist if you still believe that certain things are important.

501
01:03:31,000 --> 01:03:48,000
Nihilism seems to be the complete shutdown almost depression of all thought. Yeah. Yeah. And like, and this is the weird thing because you've got a lot of smart kids who are now going for this.

502
01:03:48,000 --> 01:03:59,000
Yeah. So optimistic nihilism is like nothing has any meaning. So nothing has any meaning other than what you give it.

503
01:03:59,000 --> 01:04:14,000
And so therefore it's like seen as this ultimate freedom. But if nothing has any meaning, then it means that when people hurt you or when you've hurt them, it no longer matters.

504
01:04:14,000 --> 01:04:29,000
And although it's good not to dwell too much on the past and not to beat yourself too much up, there are times when you should attempt to make amends.

505
01:04:29,000 --> 01:04:57,000
There are. Although I believe people should forgive things, they shouldn't just say it doesn't matter. And I guess this is something that kind of annoys me because even in things like anime like Attack on Titan, can't even remember one of the characters name, but they have the most intelligent character in the series.

506
01:04:57,000 --> 01:05:04,000
And I would basically point out the subjective nature of morality.

507
01:05:04,000 --> 01:05:32,000
And part of me was so disappointed in the writers of that series at that point because if because the character was so intelligent and had done so much. It was disappointing to see them.

508
01:05:32,000 --> 01:05:43,000
And their their raw substance would have given them a greater insight than to simply pander to the masses.

509
01:05:43,000 --> 01:06:02,000
But anyway, that's that's right. Sorry, I've gone off on one again. Apologies. Okay, so subjectivity and relativism, death and then finally nihilism. All of those things kind of.

510
01:06:02,000 --> 01:06:08,000
They all take a stab at ethics, but I don't feel they defeat it.

511
01:06:08,000 --> 01:06:19,000
And that might just be because of my own immature moral emotional thinking, but that's that's that's just myself.

512
01:06:19,000 --> 01:06:23,000
All right. What we've got here.

513
01:06:23,000 --> 01:06:29,000
What we've got next is the threat of egoism. I'm going to just group these all together, even though they are separate.

514
01:06:29,000 --> 01:06:44,000
The threat of egoism, evolutionary doctrine and determinism. Egoism being that everybody does everything out of self interest all the time.

515
01:06:44,000 --> 01:07:00,000
I would argue that even if somebody does something kind to make themselves feel better, it doesn't make it makes it not altruistic, but it doesn't mean that it's not kind.

516
01:07:00,000 --> 01:07:05,000
It undermines it, but it doesn't destroy it. What do you think?

517
01:07:05,000 --> 01:07:08,000
No, I agree. I agree.

518
01:07:08,000 --> 01:07:20,000
Okay. When it comes to the evolutionary principles again, Simon takes a massive stab. I didn't see this coming. He takes a massive stab at Dawkins.

519
01:07:20,000 --> 01:07:25,000
And points out that even if we are.

520
01:07:25,000 --> 01:07:30,000
The way that he put it was really good and I wish I had written this down.

521
01:07:30,000 --> 01:07:35,000
He was looking at like different ethical kind of papers and stuff.

522
01:07:35,000 --> 01:07:40,000
And one of them was explaining about motherly love.

523
01:07:40,000 --> 01:07:45,000
And it was saying that motherly love exists.

524
01:07:45,000 --> 01:07:49,000
Here are the examples and here's why it exists.

525
01:07:49,000 --> 01:07:52,000
Therefore, motherly love doesn't exist.

526
01:07:52,000 --> 01:07:56,000
And that's the way he pointed out that it's flawed.

527
01:07:56,000 --> 01:07:58,000
It's a flawed investigation.

528
01:07:58,000 --> 01:08:13,000
Because if you're saying that motherly love is only made up of all of these things, splitting it up into different pieces doesn't mean the collective whole of those pieces does not exist.

529
01:08:13,000 --> 01:08:16,000
Which I found interesting.

530
01:08:16,000 --> 01:08:25,000
If nothing else, the final one he used was, and he only touched upon this briefly as he said there was whole other books to be written about this.

531
01:08:25,000 --> 01:08:33,000
Determinism, the fact that everything is already determined, the fact that your choices are not real choices.

532
01:08:33,000 --> 01:08:42,000
They're just the form of the calculations that you make in your brain.

533
01:08:42,000 --> 01:08:49,000
I've got a mate of mine who's a chemistry and biology teacher.

534
01:08:49,000 --> 01:08:56,000
And he's a smart man, but he only believes in determinism.

535
01:08:56,000 --> 01:09:09,000
And I will admit, if determinism is true, then I understand why it kind of somewhat destroys ethics.

536
01:09:09,000 --> 01:09:11,000
Unfortunately, I wasn't.

537
01:09:11,000 --> 01:09:13,000
This is the annoying thing.

538
01:09:13,000 --> 01:09:19,000
So all of our listeners, you may have guessed by now, I'm not a very smart man.

539
01:09:19,000 --> 01:09:28,000
I was not able to understand Simon's arguments against determinism.

540
01:09:28,000 --> 01:09:35,000
However, the very fact that he was able to make any kind of argument against it still gave me somewhat hope.

541
01:09:35,000 --> 01:09:48,000
I realize this is a bit of a weird word, and I didn't know that determinism referred to this. I just knew that it was a view that my mate had that we are just chemicals.

542
01:09:48,000 --> 01:09:51,000
There is no choice.

543
01:09:51,000 --> 01:09:57,000
Things will happen in response to.

544
01:09:57,000 --> 01:10:05,000
We are just the response of our genetic disposition and external stimuli.

545
01:10:05,000 --> 01:10:10,000
So essentially, biological fate.

546
01:10:10,000 --> 01:10:13,000
Yes. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly.

547
01:10:13,000 --> 01:10:15,000
Not spiritual fate.

548
01:10:15,000 --> 01:10:29,000
Everything's pre written and and God's had a hand in everything, but your your sociological and biological history outlines your future.

549
01:10:29,000 --> 01:10:32,000
It determines it completely. That's why it's called determinism.

550
01:10:32,000 --> 01:10:35,000
Sorry. And again, that sound that came out wrong.

551
01:10:35,000 --> 01:10:38,000
Sorry about that.

552
01:10:38,000 --> 01:10:49,000
Sorry. Yes, you've hit the nail on the head, but it's like literally you have no choice. Everything that will happen to you will happen to you.

553
01:10:49,000 --> 01:10:52,000
You are not a moral agent.

554
01:10:52,000 --> 01:10:54,000
You are just the result.

555
01:10:54,000 --> 01:10:56,000
And you continue to be the result.

556
01:10:56,000 --> 01:10:58,000
See, I don't I don't.

557
01:10:58,000 --> 01:11:17,000
And this is where I think determinism is going to be massively not for me because like I've had experience with a number of different people, should we say, who have experienced a number of different things.

558
01:11:17,000 --> 01:11:23,000
Myself, I've had a should we say a colorful past.

559
01:11:23,000 --> 01:11:31,000
I personally have not been a very nice person at times, and I have had not very nice things done to me.

560
01:11:31,000 --> 01:11:45,000
My choice now is to have learned from those experiences and to act against any kind of negative inhibitions I may have.

561
01:11:45,000 --> 01:12:14,000
Whereas I have also got I've also I also know of people that I grew up around who had similar I won't say the same because they weren't in my shoes directly, but similar backgrounds that choose not to act on experience, not to grow from negative experiences and not to more to dwell on those negative experiences and to continue those cycles turning.

562
01:12:14,000 --> 01:12:21,000
And you tend you tend to find that they choose.

563
01:12:21,000 --> 01:12:29,000
And it is an active choice because I know I can almost put my finger on exactly when I made the choice not to be this person.

564
01:12:29,000 --> 01:12:57,000
So for me, it was very clear when I chose to be a good person. And so when I see people having had the same experiences, the same richness of history, shall we say, and they choose not to learn, then like determinism is completely thrown out the window because biologically

565
01:12:57,000 --> 01:13:12,000
near on exactly the same people hereditary hereditary, should we say even to the point where some of my cousins may fall into the same bracket.

566
01:13:12,000 --> 01:13:30,000
And like one of my cousins is even got his dad is my dad's brother and his mom is my mom's sister. So, like, it couldn't be any more cousins if we tried you know the genetics are very much there.

567
01:13:30,000 --> 01:13:35,000
And yet, wait, so you both got the same set of grandparents.

568
01:13:35,000 --> 01:13:40,000
Yeah, yeah, yeah, it was off. It's awfully bizarre but welcome to my world.

569
01:13:40,000 --> 01:13:44,000
Okay, I can't.

570
01:13:44,000 --> 01:13:46,000
My family's from Somerset.

571
01:13:46,000 --> 01:13:49,000
I'll leave it at that.

572
01:13:49,000 --> 01:13:53,000
Okay, you know what, maybe if that requires further stuff.

573
01:13:53,000 --> 01:14:02,000
I think every you know what no I'm not I'm not gonna I'm not gonna I'm not gonna go I'm not gonna go I'm not gonna go on record everywhere has got that that that.

574
01:14:02,000 --> 01:14:20,000
Like, I'm currently living in Sussex and they tell me that the people from this place or that place or inbred or that place and this place or inbred or that place and, you know, everywhere's got that you, you know, I was brought up in South End and we used to say that

575
01:14:20,000 --> 01:14:29,000
people from Pitsy were inbred you know I mean, but I think that's possibly scary maybe everyone is inbred I just.

576
01:14:29,000 --> 01:14:48,000
Well, my own my own my own family history. If you remember back to our first podcast where I brought up royalty and then I mentioned about Charlemagne and our, the seven, the extension of seven yes everybody is inbred at some point.

577
01:14:48,000 --> 01:15:05,000
So yeah, let's not let's not go there but yeah the terminus determinism I think is completely.

578
01:15:05,000 --> 01:15:21,000
On the outside but it's one of those things that I think this is what I kind of do I kind of go well that doesn't resonate with me. Let me find out why, let me find out why that doesn't resonate with me let me really know why that doesn't make sense.

579
01:15:21,000 --> 01:15:37,000
I'll tell you why this doesn't resonate with me, but I will admit fully.

580
01:15:37,000 --> 01:15:53,000
I have considered, like, we're all making choices, all the time.

581
01:15:53,000 --> 01:16:00,000
I, I, I don't know I almost see

582
01:16:00,000 --> 01:16:11,000
reality is like either a pinch point like this. I believe in the power I believe that choices is real, that free will is real.

583
01:16:11,000 --> 01:16:25,000
And I believe in possibilities and I know that I've there have been loads of times when I could have made a stupid choice, and I didn't, or I could have made a good choice.

584
01:16:25,000 --> 01:16:27,000
And I haven't.

585
01:16:27,000 --> 01:16:30,000
Yeah.

586
01:16:30,000 --> 01:16:36,000
My ability to choose is.

587
01:16:36,000 --> 01:16:43,000
If everything is pre if if determinism is real, then slavery doesn't matter.

588
01:16:43,000 --> 01:16:46,000
Because choice is an illusion.

589
01:16:46,000 --> 01:16:49,000
You know, and I feel that.

590
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No choice.

591
01:16:51,000 --> 01:17:00,000
It's just not. Yeah, but at the same time, I realized that that is incredibly scientifically flawed and incredibly naive.

592
01:17:00,000 --> 01:17:13,000
I think on a cellular level, absolutely. If you go down to the, if you go below self awareness, then determinism is a very strong factor.

593
01:17:13,000 --> 01:17:29,000
You know, absolutely, but when you become self aware, then determinism, you have to, you have the ability to almost break your programming, for lack of a better term.

594
01:17:29,000 --> 01:17:51,000
And yes, I'm aware that I'm almost quoting AI. When you make something self aware, then it has the opportunity to learn and when you have the opportunity to learn, then you have the opportunity to choose to do different than you were determined to do.

595
01:17:51,000 --> 01:17:53,000
Absolutely.

596
01:17:53,000 --> 01:17:55,000
That's, that's true.

597
01:17:55,000 --> 01:18:00,000
So I think I've covered.

598
01:18:00,000 --> 01:18:13,000
I'm going to call it there, but like, there were several things that were gone into in the book, where they started talking about

599
01:18:13,000 --> 01:18:29,000
abortion and euthanasia. Again, I was like someone, or the weird thing is, I was somewhat challenging some things but there were some bits where me and

600
01:18:29,000 --> 01:18:47,000
the author were entirely in the right, it's just in the idea that things are not as black and white as anybody likes to think they are, but I think maybe things like euthanasia things like abortion should be topics for things in in and of themselves, rather than

601
01:18:47,000 --> 01:18:50,000
just something that we skip over now.

602
01:18:50,000 --> 01:18:59,000
I guess the final question that I have here because I've just found a whole bunch of questions I was supposed to ask you but we have actually covered them.

603
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Do you have a favorite moral philosopher.

604
01:19:06,000 --> 01:19:21,000
I think I have favorite proverbs, and I've already said my favorite, which is be the change you want to be in the world and that was Mahatma Gandhi. But I am a man of many proverbs. And I think a lot of my rule book.

605
01:19:21,000 --> 01:19:43,000
Should we say is these proverbs that I've heard or I've come up with my own way. And over the ways over the over the years. And you can ask any one of the people that have spent a lot of time with me quite often I will annoyingly come out with a random metaphor or, or make like that will explain a situation

606
01:19:43,000 --> 01:19:46,000
almost perfectly.

607
01:19:46,000 --> 01:19:59,000
That's fair enough. All right, I'll tell you. Well, from what I've learned recently, I'm liking can't and disliking niche.

608
01:19:59,000 --> 01:20:03,000
Just generally, although I wouldn't.

609
01:20:03,000 --> 01:20:11,000
I wouldn't. I haven't read enough of their stuff so we'll be covering them at a later point. Who was I can you got a little bit of robot.

610
01:20:11,000 --> 01:20:19,000
No worries. So I'm. I enjoyed can't.

611
01:20:19,000 --> 01:20:21,000
Emmanuel can't.

612
01:20:21,000 --> 01:20:23,000
And I'm.

613
01:20:23,000 --> 01:20:30,000
The annoying thing is, Albert Einstein was massively inspired by Frederick niche.

614
01:20:30,000 --> 01:20:36,000
But niches a lot of niches philosophy seems to be incredibly reductive.

615
01:20:36,000 --> 01:20:56,000
But maybe that's just trying to use science within psychology, as it was still in its infantile state and I do love the, the quote from Frederick each nationalism is an infantile disease.

616
01:20:56,000 --> 01:21:17,000
As it really kind of sums up the stupidity of war over lines drawn on a map or authority for, you know, if a leader truly values that people, then they will think twice before going to war rather than just can I get away with this can it be

617
01:21:17,000 --> 01:21:26,000
get but anyway sorry that's another thing. I tell you what Neil. That's right. I'll tell you what Nick sorry.

618
01:21:26,000 --> 01:21:31,000
Yeah, right.

619
01:21:31,000 --> 01:21:33,000
I.

620
01:21:33,000 --> 01:21:42,000
One of my favorite Proverbs is taken from the Bible but I learned even during this that it's wasn't originally spoken there.

621
01:21:42,000 --> 01:21:50,000
I love the golden rule of ethics. And that is, do unto others, as they would do to you.

622
01:21:50,000 --> 01:21:59,000
I love it. It's one of my favorite quotes from the Bible because it's then followed by, because in this is summed up the law and the prophets.

623
01:21:59,000 --> 01:22:11,000
See, I would, I would probably change that little bit based on personal experience to do unto others as you would have done unto yourself.

624
01:22:11,000 --> 01:22:15,000
Okay, yeah, well I probably I've probably said it wrong.

625
01:22:15,000 --> 01:22:27,000
That that's my favorite moral quote although I had to do have several others. Since you've said that you have a whole system of Proverbs, what, which one would you say is your favorite.

626
01:22:27,000 --> 01:22:31,000
Oh god give me a scenario like this.

627
01:22:31,000 --> 01:22:42,000
Okay, so they are applied to individual scenarios. Absolutely. Which, which one do you think is the most important overarching

628
01:22:42,000 --> 01:22:57,000
Proverb or thought, or are they all practical in nature. I think they're all just they're all practical so I will quite often come up with Proverbs because Proverbs are my way of understanding

629
01:22:57,000 --> 01:23:08,000
each individual scenario, because although every scenario in itself is unique and

630
01:23:08,000 --> 01:23:17,000
being autistic, it becomes very difficult to like try to look at each individual scenario and understand it entirely.

631
01:23:17,000 --> 01:23:30,000
If I make it into something that I know, then I understand it better. So,

632
01:23:30,000 --> 01:23:42,000
yeah, I'm trying to think of an example but like I said without having the scenario there, then it becomes difficult for me to think up something.

633
01:23:42,000 --> 01:23:44,000
That's fair enough.

634
01:23:44,000 --> 01:23:48,000
Well, listeners, well, I'm going to call it a day there.

635
01:23:48,000 --> 01:23:53,000
If you have gotten through all of this, thank you once again for your time.

636
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I can't pay you back.

637
01:23:55,000 --> 01:23:58,000
On that, I wish you good night.

638
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Thanks very much for listening guys. Take care.

639
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Bye bye.

640
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Bye bye.