WEBVTT 00:00:02.080 --> 00:00:05.860 Welcome, this is the Men Church Stuff Podcast. 00:00:16.699 --> 00:00:19.219 This is the show where brothers -in -law DJ Culp 00:00:19.219 --> 00:00:23.000 and Brad Coleman talk about stuff from our perspective 00:00:23.000 --> 00:00:26.480 as men. It's a show for anyone who wants to hear 00:00:26.480 --> 00:00:29.039 how Christians interact with the world. And don't 00:00:29.039 --> 00:00:31.670 worry, we're real. We've grown up in church, 00:00:31.789 --> 00:00:34.090 and we want to share our experiences with you. 00:00:34.509 --> 00:00:37.990 We'll talk life stuff, church stuff, man stuff, 00:00:38.229 --> 00:00:49.689 and stuff stuff. Here we go. Greetings, listeners 00:00:49.689 --> 00:00:51.630 here and there and everywhere all across the 00:00:51.630 --> 00:00:56.909 land. This is episode 100 of the Men Church Stuff 00:00:56.909 --> 00:01:02.659 podcast. As always, here with my beloved brother 00:01:02.659 --> 00:01:07.040 -in -law, Brad Coleman. Dude, Brad, episode 100. 00:01:08.680 --> 00:01:12.359 Crazy. It seems like yesterday we were just talking 00:01:12.359 --> 00:01:14.560 about doing a podcast and now we're hitting episode 00:01:14.560 --> 00:01:20.120 100. No, man. 100 conversations between me and 00:01:20.120 --> 00:01:24.040 you. DJ did not like my idea of dressing up as 00:01:24.040 --> 00:01:26.579 if we were 100. No, I didn't. We had to do a 00:01:26.579 --> 00:01:31.519 kindergarten. So we didn't. Yep. Now, people 00:01:31.519 --> 00:01:33.379 can do that in kindergarten. I will let them. 00:01:33.680 --> 00:01:36.959 I don't want to do it. I could have put some 00:01:36.959 --> 00:01:38.700 baby powder in my beard. It would have been. 00:01:38.980 --> 00:01:40.560 You don't need baby powder in your beard, dude. 00:01:40.640 --> 00:01:47.719 I see enough gray. It's there. All right. So 00:01:47.719 --> 00:01:50.299 let's do a little quick update here, Brad. And 00:01:50.299 --> 00:01:52.420 rather than tagging out the end of the show, 00:01:52.500 --> 00:01:55.280 listeners, we have an important update for you. 00:01:56.330 --> 00:02:00.390 we now have an official website. It is, ready? 00:02:00.890 --> 00:02:06.709 www .menchurchstuff .com How original, Brad. 00:02:07.150 --> 00:02:09.849 I hope that you can remember it, guys. I know 00:02:09.849 --> 00:02:12.949 it's tough. I know it's tough. You made it simple 00:02:12.949 --> 00:02:15.629 so I could find it. That's exactly right. Yeah, 00:02:15.710 --> 00:02:17.250 and I thought about adding a bunch of periods 00:02:17.250 --> 00:02:21.409 like men .church .stuff. Nah. Nope, just mentoredstuff 00:02:21.409 --> 00:02:28.050 .com. It's active. It's a live website. Obviously, 00:02:28.110 --> 00:02:31.210 it is still under construction because there 00:02:31.210 --> 00:02:34.949 are going to be things that Brad and I both will 00:02:34.949 --> 00:02:39.939 add in the coming days. I mean, we got a homepage. 00:02:40.099 --> 00:02:42.340 We have an About Us page with some photos of 00:02:42.340 --> 00:02:44.620 Brad, Tabitha, and the kids and me and Sharon, 00:02:44.659 --> 00:02:48.979 the kids, some bios. We've got pictures that 00:02:48.979 --> 00:02:50.699 have absolutely nothing to do with either one 00:02:50.699 --> 00:02:52.240 of us because I haven't gone through and updated 00:02:52.240 --> 00:02:54.639 those yet. If you want to look at some random 00:02:54.639 --> 00:02:58.500 pictures. Yeah, there's a very attractive yellow 00:02:58.500 --> 00:03:01.919 background. Like, I appreciated the saturation 00:03:01.919 --> 00:03:07.120 of the photo. There's a there's a contact us 00:03:07.120 --> 00:03:09.699 page if you want to be on the show you can fill 00:03:09.699 --> 00:03:13.319 out a short little form That will send that will 00:03:13.319 --> 00:03:17.680 be sent to our email account There are yeah, 00:03:17.740 --> 00:03:20.379 just just go navigate the page there's some there's 00:03:20.379 --> 00:03:23.219 some cool stuff to look at but we are we are 00:03:23.219 --> 00:03:27.900 official now we've got a website and I have never 00:03:27.900 --> 00:03:30.219 designed a website in my life. So if you are 00:03:30.219 --> 00:03:34.599 web designer and you would like some um very 00:03:34.599 --> 00:03:39.099 free work then you can contact us if you would 00:03:39.099 --> 00:03:42.199 like to get paid in nothing yeah right i mean 00:03:42.199 --> 00:03:44.099 we'll give you shout outs in the show i'll be 00:03:44.099 --> 00:03:47.039 happy to do that um how awesome this website 00:03:47.039 --> 00:03:52.159 was made by this person over here right but as 00:03:52.159 --> 00:03:55.659 it stands right now i am the web i am the web 00:03:55.659 --> 00:03:59.340 designer no i am not looking for paid work i 00:03:59.340 --> 00:04:02.639 have enough on my plate But if you are impressed 00:04:02.639 --> 00:04:05.919 by it, I mean, feel free to let me know. I'm 00:04:05.919 --> 00:04:09.379 always willing to accept praise for things that 00:04:09.379 --> 00:04:12.699 I do. And if you're not, just let me know. Yeah, 00:04:12.699 --> 00:04:15.080 right. Yeah, let Brad know. I'll break it to 00:04:15.080 --> 00:04:20.139 DJ softly. Very softly. People think the website 00:04:20.139 --> 00:04:26.500 is horrible. I mean, horrible. Sorry. I mean, 00:04:26.540 --> 00:04:29.259 I don't think it's bad, you know? I think it's 00:04:29.259 --> 00:04:31.319 good. I think it's good. I think it's good and 00:04:31.319 --> 00:04:32.480 it's going to get better. Especially for a first 00:04:32.480 --> 00:04:36.800 go. Yeah. You know? Hey, it would have been bad 00:04:36.800 --> 00:04:40.740 if you had tried to make it www .men .church 00:04:40.740 --> 00:04:43.399 .stuff. Because no one would have ever, I wouldn't 00:04:43.399 --> 00:04:45.379 even be able to find us. I was like, are you 00:04:45.379 --> 00:04:48.980 sure we got a website? Google has buried us so 00:04:48.980 --> 00:04:53.689 far. The only way to find our website through 00:04:53.689 --> 00:04:56.009 Google is if you just type in four question marks. 00:04:56.490 --> 00:04:59.990 Then it would have pulled it up. So, listeners, 00:05:00.189 --> 00:05:02.790 I mentioned to you guys a couple weeks ago that 00:05:02.790 --> 00:05:05.389 Show 100 is going to be a special show. And it 00:05:05.389 --> 00:05:11.069 is a special show. But I need to say this. I 00:05:11.069 --> 00:05:18.170 asked my wife multiple times over to be on the 00:05:18.170 --> 00:05:22.100 show. And what you need to know as a husband, 00:05:22.339 --> 00:05:24.699 guys, if you're out there listening and you're 00:05:24.699 --> 00:05:28.560 married, you do need to know when you need to 00:05:28.560 --> 00:05:31.800 stop asking your wife things. And that was one 00:05:31.800 --> 00:05:36.459 of the things. Your wife says, I would rather 00:05:36.459 --> 00:05:42.519 go get root canals on all of my teeth than be 00:05:42.519 --> 00:05:47.139 on your show. See, Brad, I appreciate that, you 00:05:47.139 --> 00:05:50.360 know, the comedy in that. But it got to the point 00:05:50.360 --> 00:05:55.399 where Shara actually said, you're just not going 00:05:55.399 --> 00:05:57.860 to let this go, are you? That's when I was, okay, 00:05:58.000 --> 00:06:02.259 I need to be done. So here's what we did. Rather 00:06:02.259 --> 00:06:05.720 than having our wives on the show, this show 00:06:05.720 --> 00:06:12.160 in commemorating our 100th episode. Brad and 00:06:12.160 --> 00:06:18.660 I typed up a 10 -question questionnaire. I don't 00:06:18.660 --> 00:06:21.000 know how to word that. Question sheet. Question 00:06:21.000 --> 00:06:24.160 sheet. Brad and I typed up 10 questions for our 00:06:24.160 --> 00:06:33.009 wives to answer. This is actually an episode 00:06:33.009 --> 00:06:36.970 of Brad and I revealing to each other what our 00:06:36.970 --> 00:06:39.750 wives said about our questions. So listeners, 00:06:39.930 --> 00:06:43.730 sit back and enjoy. Brad and I are going to dive 00:06:43.730 --> 00:06:49.129 into 10 questions about our show. This marks 00:06:49.129 --> 00:06:57.449 two years and a month since our podcast has started. 00:06:57.689 --> 00:07:00.709 Do what? It's our two -year -and -a -month -versary. 00:07:01.110 --> 00:07:04.569 Two -year -and -a -month -versary. Yes. There's 00:07:04.569 --> 00:07:06.649 a bunch of hyphens in that one. Must be a fancy 00:07:06.649 --> 00:07:09.610 thing. I don't get it. Okay, so question number 00:07:09.610 --> 00:07:14.189 one. How have you seen DJ and Brad grow together 00:07:14.189 --> 00:07:17.420 since the beginning of the show? Brad, this is 00:07:17.420 --> 00:07:43.459 what Cher says. Well, Tabitha said, And, like, 00:07:43.839 --> 00:07:48.259 um... Shara and I were with the kids, and we 00:07:48.259 --> 00:07:52.000 had just left watching a movie here in Milan. 00:07:52.500 --> 00:07:57.379 And something came up, and I told Shara about 00:07:57.379 --> 00:07:59.680 it, something that you and I had talked about. 00:07:59.959 --> 00:08:02.860 And I looked at Shara, and I said, with a smile 00:08:02.860 --> 00:08:05.620 on my face, one of the things I didn't realize 00:08:05.620 --> 00:08:11.720 that was going to happen with the podcast is 00:08:11.720 --> 00:08:13.620 that I was going to get another best friend out 00:08:13.620 --> 00:08:16.589 of it. Yeah. I wasn't expecting that. And I don't 00:08:16.589 --> 00:08:21.209 know why, but like, what's cool is, you know, 00:08:21.209 --> 00:08:24.110 on my end, at least Brad, when you and Tabitha 00:08:24.110 --> 00:08:28.250 got married, I was, and you and I have mentioned 00:08:28.250 --> 00:08:30.810 this on the show before, but I was very excited 00:08:30.810 --> 00:08:32.769 that you were entering our family because our 00:08:32.769 --> 00:08:37.690 family. It was so cool. I mean, duh. Yeah. So 00:08:37.690 --> 00:08:41.610 cool. But our family like welcomes with open 00:08:41.610 --> 00:08:46.929 arms. Yeah. And I was super, super excited to 00:08:46.929 --> 00:08:51.950 welcome you in as a brother. And over the years, 00:08:52.029 --> 00:08:55.289 that brother relationship has certainly deepened. 00:08:55.830 --> 00:09:01.210 But dude, I just wasn't expecting me and you 00:09:01.210 --> 00:09:05.289 to grow so close doing the show. Yeah. Well, 00:09:05.389 --> 00:09:07.669 and again, we're an odd couple, but I think it 00:09:07.669 --> 00:09:11.350 works. Yeah, we are. Absolutely an odd couple. 00:09:12.409 --> 00:09:17.309 yeah it's a counterbalance i think that's what 00:09:17.309 --> 00:09:20.370 makes again and like i told you just a few minutes 00:09:20.370 --> 00:09:23.190 ago i because we haven't uh done this in over 00:09:23.190 --> 00:09:26.190 a week but like i've missed this and we've been 00:09:26.190 --> 00:09:28.730 in contact it's not like we were just like not 00:09:28.730 --> 00:09:30.990 talking at all or not having any communication 00:09:30.990 --> 00:09:34.690 but we weren't here talking uh you know kind 00:09:34.690 --> 00:09:38.090 of face to face over the zoom and yeah I've missed 00:09:38.090 --> 00:09:41.409 that. Yeah, I have too. And I've missed, again, 00:09:41.409 --> 00:09:45.149 just even having the outlet of why the show even 00:09:45.149 --> 00:09:49.090 began of just knowing that I've got a thought 00:09:49.090 --> 00:09:51.590 or I've got a question or I've got something 00:09:51.590 --> 00:09:54.389 that I want to mull over and I want to talk to 00:09:54.389 --> 00:09:59.049 Brad about it. And I know for the next 45 to 00:09:59.049 --> 00:10:02.730 50, 55 minutes, whatever, about an hour, I'm 00:10:02.730 --> 00:10:06.190 going to have an opportunity to spend some time. 00:10:06.789 --> 00:10:10.669 with my brother and dig into whatever the thought 00:10:10.669 --> 00:10:19.549 is. And I love that you are so open to diving 00:10:19.549 --> 00:10:22.629 into that stuff too. You know, like it means 00:10:22.629 --> 00:10:29.629 a ton that you're not one that, you know, either 00:10:29.629 --> 00:10:35.639 is just a yes man or is out to... answer every 00:10:35.639 --> 00:10:39.980 every single question right and one of the things 00:10:39.980 --> 00:10:43.100 that that i really appreciate is is there's been 00:10:43.100 --> 00:10:45.980 i think at least once for each of us where we've 00:10:45.980 --> 00:10:48.580 come together to get ready and record the show 00:10:48.580 --> 00:10:51.440 and we've something's been on our mind or heart 00:10:51.440 --> 00:10:53.679 something bugging us and and we've just spent 00:10:53.679 --> 00:10:57.279 that time and just just kind of talked it through 00:10:57.279 --> 00:11:02.039 and hey we'll record the show later And we just 00:11:02.039 --> 00:11:06.379 spent that time. And I appreciate that we have 00:11:06.379 --> 00:11:10.000 that. And I think there's a lot of guys out there 00:11:10.000 --> 00:11:13.379 that probably don't have that. They don't have 00:11:13.379 --> 00:11:18.440 someone. I feel blessed to have you. I feel blessed 00:11:18.440 --> 00:11:22.539 that I have at least a handful of guys that I 00:11:22.539 --> 00:11:24.539 know I could call and just say, hey, I just need 00:11:24.539 --> 00:11:27.820 to get this off my chest. I just need to do that. 00:11:27.899 --> 00:11:30.909 And I think it's important. to have that too. 00:11:31.049 --> 00:11:35.549 So, and, and to be that. And to be that. Yeah. 00:11:37.529 --> 00:11:41.110 Yeah. Do you want to take a question too? Yeah. 00:11:41.129 --> 00:11:44.330 So question two was, have you seen a change in 00:11:44.330 --> 00:11:46.610 your husband since the beginning of the show? 00:11:46.870 --> 00:11:51.250 And if so, how? So Tabby said, I think Brad has 00:11:51.250 --> 00:11:53.830 become more confident and comfortable sharing 00:11:53.830 --> 00:11:57.330 his opinions. Sometimes he holds back due to 00:11:57.330 --> 00:12:00.970 his conscientiousness. But DJ balances that. 00:12:03.409 --> 00:12:07.549 Yes, I do. I'd have to 100 % agree with that 00:12:07.549 --> 00:12:12.169 entire statement. Yeah, absolutely. You have 00:12:12.169 --> 00:12:17.129 got me to talk about topics on a podcast that 00:12:17.129 --> 00:12:21.129 I would have. Not in one -to -one conversation, 00:12:21.289 --> 00:12:23.769 but on a podcast being sent out in the airwaves 00:12:23.769 --> 00:12:25.750 would have avoided like the plague had it not 00:12:25.750 --> 00:12:28.309 been for you. Right. But also, she's right. I 00:12:28.309 --> 00:12:36.690 think in doing that and not dying, I realized, 00:12:37.009 --> 00:12:43.590 you know, okay, we can do this sometimes. Yeah. 00:12:44.230 --> 00:12:52.019 Yes. Speech is safe. I mean, it can be it can 00:12:52.019 --> 00:12:55.600 be hurtful. But but to me, dude, that's that's 00:12:55.600 --> 00:12:58.159 always been that's always been a part of my persona 00:12:58.159 --> 00:13:00.899 ever since I can remember. Like, I need to talk 00:13:00.899 --> 00:13:05.799 things out. And I had to learn, obviously, but 00:13:05.799 --> 00:13:08.639 I had to learn how to talk things out without 00:13:08.639 --> 00:13:14.200 insulting people or giving without I had to talk 00:13:14.200 --> 00:13:17.200 things out and give them opportunity to participate. 00:13:17.919 --> 00:13:19.580 I remember in middle school and high school, 00:13:19.639 --> 00:13:22.220 I was really bad about that, that I would just 00:13:22.220 --> 00:13:26.100 I would just talk and talk. And here's my opinion 00:13:26.100 --> 00:13:28.159 and here's your opinion. That's right. Yeah. 00:13:30.100 --> 00:13:34.159 I am my mother's son. Right. Here we go. My share 00:13:34.159 --> 00:13:38.899 is share is answer to that. Have you seen a change 00:13:38.899 --> 00:13:41.399 in your husband? And if so, how DJ has enjoyed 00:13:41.399 --> 00:13:43.580 spending more time with Brad, having their in 00:13:43.580 --> 00:13:46.279 -depth conversations and ridiculous conversations. 00:14:10.700 --> 00:14:18.179 So... So... I am probably more subtle than that. 00:14:19.019 --> 00:14:23.340 Like if I'm meeting with some guy and like a 00:14:23.340 --> 00:14:27.580 ministry kind of thing for coffee, at some point, 00:14:27.600 --> 00:14:30.299 it's probably going to work into the conversation. 00:14:31.519 --> 00:14:34.120 Probably more often than not, I'll carry one 00:14:34.120 --> 00:14:37.840 of our mugs, you know, that has my face on it. 00:14:37.919 --> 00:14:41.120 This one's not as like, you know, sometimes people 00:14:41.120 --> 00:14:44.610 will be like, is that your face? But the yellow 00:14:44.610 --> 00:14:47.990 one that I have that has like, you know, basically 00:14:47.990 --> 00:14:53.929 our logo, like full color, you and my face, people 00:14:53.929 --> 00:14:57.110 will still be like, do you have a mug with your 00:14:57.110 --> 00:14:59.429 picture on it? That's awesome. And it really 00:14:59.429 --> 00:15:03.210 opens the conversation. Well, yeah, let me. And, 00:15:03.230 --> 00:15:04.730 you know, we have the homeschool network that 00:15:04.730 --> 00:15:07.649 meets at the church. And so, you know, again, 00:15:07.750 --> 00:15:12.379 I'm not as like. comfortable as maybe you are 00:15:12.379 --> 00:15:15.059 in some of those things. So again, I get the 00:15:15.059 --> 00:15:17.059 job done just differently. I was like, I will 00:15:17.059 --> 00:15:19.899 usually use one of those cups, you know? And 00:15:19.899 --> 00:15:22.820 so, Oh yeah, I do a podcast. And a couple of 00:15:22.820 --> 00:15:24.879 people have been like, Oh, let me look it up. 00:15:24.899 --> 00:15:26.440 Oh, I'm going to share this with my husband or 00:15:26.440 --> 00:15:29.960 whether they ever did. And whether their husband 00:15:29.960 --> 00:15:32.799 is if, Hey, if you're in the homeschool network 00:15:32.799 --> 00:15:35.720 and your wife shared this podcast with you and 00:15:35.720 --> 00:15:37.620 you're still around, Hey, we're glad to have 00:15:37.620 --> 00:15:43.070 you. Yeah, absolutely. Um, yeah, I'm, I don't 00:15:43.070 --> 00:15:48.490 do it all the time. Um, but I'll, I'll say it's 00:15:48.490 --> 00:15:51.789 almost like I kind of, I kind of, I, I, uh, I 00:15:51.789 --> 00:15:54.730 test the spirit. Like, like I really want to, 00:15:54.730 --> 00:15:56.350 I really want to mention this to this person. 00:15:57.629 --> 00:16:01.070 And I won't say verbatim in my heart, God, should 00:16:01.070 --> 00:16:03.450 I? But I'll just be like, is this one of these 00:16:03.450 --> 00:16:05.710 moments where I probably need to say something? 00:16:06.370 --> 00:16:08.870 And if that's the case, then I'll say, so just 00:16:08.870 --> 00:16:10.070 out of curiosity, do you listen to podcasts? 00:16:10.669 --> 00:16:13.990 And if they say no, I'll be like, okay, cool, 00:16:14.090 --> 00:16:16.610 never mind. Well, and so I had coffee with John 00:16:16.610 --> 00:16:18.429 Reeder, who obviously listens to the podcast. 00:16:19.250 --> 00:16:21.950 Shout out to John. What's up, man? John was going 00:16:21.950 --> 00:16:24.029 to preach, and he actually preached at church 00:16:24.029 --> 00:16:28.220 on Father's Day. It came up in the conversation 00:16:28.220 --> 00:16:31.120 that I've kind of been hesitant to even just 00:16:31.120 --> 00:16:34.200 sharing it with the church because I don't want 00:16:34.200 --> 00:16:38.480 it to be like self -promotion and all of that 00:16:38.480 --> 00:16:43.840 stuff. So John worked with Tabby and Emily in 00:16:43.840 --> 00:16:46.139 making the slides and had a slide put up at the 00:16:46.139 --> 00:16:49.659 end. It took a couple minutes to be, hey, like, 00:16:49.679 --> 00:16:51.519 I don't know if you guys know this, but our pastor 00:16:51.519 --> 00:16:55.500 does a podcast. Dude, that's awesome. Here's 00:16:55.500 --> 00:17:00.220 the information. So, yeah, so you can say your 00:17:00.220 --> 00:17:03.720 shout out thanks to John. Yes. There for that. 00:17:03.779 --> 00:17:08.579 Yeah, shout out to John again, man. Thanks. I 00:17:08.579 --> 00:17:10.680 don't want to do the next question. Well, I'm 00:17:10.680 --> 00:17:12.900 going to tell you, I just read it because Tabby 00:17:12.900 --> 00:17:14.720 had gave me the answers to all the others that 00:17:14.720 --> 00:17:16.720 she was doing them. But she had left this one 00:17:16.720 --> 00:17:19.660 blank, and now I'm reading it for the first time. 00:17:19.779 --> 00:17:22.500 Oh, man. So I just read it, and I'm like, oh, 00:17:22.559 --> 00:17:25.819 yeah, this is fun. So listeners, we'll do this. 00:17:25.920 --> 00:17:29.819 There is another question, and they have answers. 00:17:30.900 --> 00:17:34.539 Moving on. Yeah. Okay, the question is, what 00:17:34.539 --> 00:17:36.279 is something embarrassing about your husband 00:17:36.279 --> 00:17:40.720 that you would like the listeners to know? And 00:17:40.720 --> 00:17:46.539 my wife said nothing. My wife said DJ doesn't 00:17:46.539 --> 00:17:48.640 have any embarrassing moments in his history. 00:17:49.140 --> 00:17:56.339 I married the perfect man. We are men of action. 00:17:56.460 --> 00:18:03.880 Lies do not become us. That's true. Okay. Dang 00:18:03.880 --> 00:18:05.980 it. I'm just like, I don't know what yours is. 00:18:06.140 --> 00:18:07.660 And I'm like, yours is going to be worse than 00:18:07.660 --> 00:18:10.200 mine. And then mine's like, oh, yeah. It is. 00:18:10.420 --> 00:18:14.920 No problem. DJ was a part. Of a group of guys 00:18:14.920 --> 00:18:18.720 in college who performed lip sync Backstreet 00:18:18.720 --> 00:18:23.160 Boys songs with choreographed moves, and we called 00:18:23.160 --> 00:18:27.900 ourselves the Front Street Boys. I did not know 00:18:27.900 --> 00:18:31.920 this. Are there videos? No, see, Brad, that's 00:18:31.920 --> 00:18:36.940 not another question. It's only is there an embarrassing 00:18:36.940 --> 00:18:41.119 moment. That's it, Brad. Don't worry. I am an 00:18:41.119 --> 00:18:45.839 investigative journalist at heart. It's out there. 00:18:45.880 --> 00:18:52.200 I will find it. Yes, there is. And Shara even... 00:18:52.200 --> 00:18:55.039 Did you send the link? Wait, wait. Did she send 00:18:55.039 --> 00:18:56.779 the link in the email? I didn't even look at 00:18:56.779 --> 00:18:59.980 it because we weren't... Shara has a dedicated 00:18:59.980 --> 00:19:05.180 DVD. Oh, yes. Which will be on sale later in 00:19:05.180 --> 00:19:15.440 the... At the Venture Podcast Store. We're going 00:19:15.440 --> 00:19:16.940 to sell out. We're going to sell out. We're going 00:19:16.940 --> 00:19:19.440 to sell out. Hey, I think we've just funded the 00:19:19.440 --> 00:19:28.599 podcast forever. That's right. Exclusive. Exclusive. 00:19:28.799 --> 00:19:33.680 Okay, Brad. Enough about me. Yeah. Well, something 00:19:33.680 --> 00:19:35.440 embarrassing about your husband that you would 00:19:35.440 --> 00:19:38.680 like the listeners to know. Brad smells his hands 00:19:38.680 --> 00:19:43.180 after he touches anything, all caps, like anything. 00:19:44.119 --> 00:19:48.119 In everything. I'm not nervous about you, Brad. 00:19:48.700 --> 00:19:52.299 Well, you know. It's like Robert from Ray doing 00:19:52.299 --> 00:19:56.559 the Dutch's gin while he eats. I've learned to 00:19:56.559 --> 00:20:01.359 be a lot more subtle about my nuances and will 00:20:01.359 --> 00:20:04.200 resist in certain situations. But yes, when I'm 00:20:04.200 --> 00:20:08.900 at home. I do know what a lot of things smell 00:20:08.900 --> 00:20:13.079 like. Just like, you know, like transmission 00:20:13.079 --> 00:20:16.819 fluid versus... You realize that now, like every 00:20:16.819 --> 00:20:18.720 podcast, that's what I'm going to be looking 00:20:18.720 --> 00:20:20.900 for. On your end, all I'm going to hear is... 00:20:20.900 --> 00:20:26.740 Because I'm just waiting for Brad to smell his 00:20:26.740 --> 00:20:30.880 hands. Well, most of the time, it's like if there 00:20:30.880 --> 00:20:33.559 was something on it that I might have picked 00:20:33.559 --> 00:20:37.769 up on my hands. and it really comes from like 00:20:37.769 --> 00:20:41.230 when i was like a kid and then some of my sensory 00:20:41.230 --> 00:20:44.529 stuff and then some of my like germophobia so 00:20:44.529 --> 00:20:47.190 it was like i would smell okay did i get that 00:20:47.190 --> 00:20:49.450 on my hand yeah but it would drive me nuts if 00:20:49.450 --> 00:20:52.089 i have a bad smell on my hand even though like 00:20:52.089 --> 00:20:54.789 it's down here it's down here like my brain is 00:20:54.789 --> 00:20:57.890 like no i can't handle it i know and then i like 00:20:57.890 --> 00:21:05.410 i gotta get coffee grounds Are good for getting 00:21:05.410 --> 00:21:08.390 some smells off of your hands. So, yes, actually, 00:21:08.450 --> 00:21:11.630 I did. I did. This was several years ago, but 00:21:11.630 --> 00:21:15.549 I was I got I got to be curious about about getting 00:21:15.549 --> 00:21:18.130 a new cologne. And so I think we were in like 00:21:18.130 --> 00:21:21.329 we were in a Macy's, maybe upscale department 00:21:21.329 --> 00:21:24.630 store if it wasn't Macy's. But they actually 00:21:24.630 --> 00:21:28.599 had little jars of coffee beans. So that, like, 00:21:28.700 --> 00:21:30.680 you know, you get the testers, you spray it, 00:21:30.759 --> 00:21:34.420 you wave it, let the alcohol kind of go away. 00:21:34.519 --> 00:21:38.579 And then once you smelled it, they've got this 00:21:38.579 --> 00:21:41.079 coffee beans for you to smell the coffee beans, 00:21:41.140 --> 00:21:44.099 kind of cleanse that palate so that the smells 00:21:44.099 --> 00:21:46.400 don't kind of overlap and you don't really know 00:21:46.400 --> 00:21:49.559 which smell is which. So coffee is awesome. Coffee 00:21:49.559 --> 00:21:51.960 is amazing. It has so many different uses to 00:21:51.960 --> 00:21:55.880 it. So, you know, later on on the website. We'll 00:21:55.880 --> 00:22:00.119 have a nice list of things that Brad likes to 00:22:00.119 --> 00:22:03.059 smell and things that Brad does not like to smell. 00:22:03.220 --> 00:22:05.299 I'll just differentiate for you. These are good. 00:22:05.599 --> 00:22:12.359 We can do a good smell, bad smell. And honestly, 00:22:12.519 --> 00:22:14.119 I'm the kind of person that there's not a whole 00:22:14.119 --> 00:22:16.619 lot in between. There's not a whole lot of like, 00:22:16.720 --> 00:22:20.480 this is, there's a few, but most stuff it's. 00:22:21.150 --> 00:22:23.650 Okay, so Brad, Brad, I'm going to put you on 00:22:23.650 --> 00:22:26.769 the spot. Is there something that you love to 00:22:26.769 --> 00:22:31.170 eat because it tastes great but smells terrible? 00:22:33.049 --> 00:22:37.009 Shrimp. You don't like the smell of shrimp. Not 00:22:37.009 --> 00:22:40.910 like the… I didn't know that. Fishy, oily, yeah. 00:22:41.069 --> 00:22:42.450 Yeah. I mean, you probably haven't smelled your 00:22:42.450 --> 00:22:45.269 fingers after you've ate shrimp. Oh, well, I 00:22:45.269 --> 00:22:47.910 mean, I cook with shrimp often. So, yeah, I mean, 00:22:47.910 --> 00:22:51.980 it's a super, super… It's a different fishy, 00:22:52.099 --> 00:22:54.920 you know. And again, like, fish would probably 00:22:54.920 --> 00:22:56.799 be in that, like, too. Like, I don't particularly 00:22:56.799 --> 00:23:00.779 care for the fish scent. I like to catch fish. 00:23:00.920 --> 00:23:04.460 Yeah. I like to eat fish. Right. But, yeah. The 00:23:04.460 --> 00:23:06.059 in -between. That's probably the biggest one, 00:23:06.099 --> 00:23:09.599 like, seafood or fish seafood kind of in general. 00:23:09.700 --> 00:23:13.900 Like, I'm not so fond of the, like, now the aroma 00:23:13.900 --> 00:23:18.609 of them. Like if they're cooking, it's a little 00:23:18.609 --> 00:23:23.690 different than like the oils, the fish oil. I 00:23:23.690 --> 00:23:26.710 don't like fish oil on my fingers. I don't like 00:23:26.710 --> 00:23:30.670 the way it smells. All right, Brad, number four, 00:23:30.730 --> 00:23:34.869 go. What have your thoughts and feelings been 00:23:34.869 --> 00:23:37.910 about the show? Were you on board with the idea 00:23:37.910 --> 00:23:42.029 of the show? So I'm not going to do this justice 00:23:42.029 --> 00:23:46.359 in any way. Former fashion, because I just I 00:23:46.359 --> 00:23:48.900 don't have the emotional palette that my wife 00:23:48.900 --> 00:23:51.940 does. So you guys will just have to imagine this 00:23:51.940 --> 00:23:55.799 being said in a very excited manner. I freaking 00:23:55.799 --> 00:24:01.000 love the show. It's legitimately as if I'm sitting 00:24:01.000 --> 00:24:03.140 in the room with the two of you when I listen. 00:24:03.299 --> 00:24:08.279 Yeah. Does Tabitha listen to the show? So she 00:24:08.279 --> 00:24:12.240 is not the I'm going to catch every episode and 00:24:12.240 --> 00:24:16.160 not miss it. yeah she does listen there's times 00:24:16.160 --> 00:24:18.460 when we'll we'll listen together especially if 00:24:18.460 --> 00:24:20.700 we're on like a a road trip or something and 00:24:20.700 --> 00:24:23.119 she'll she'll just put on the podcast and she'll 00:24:23.119 --> 00:24:25.380 sometimes she'll scroll through and look for 00:24:25.380 --> 00:24:27.740 one that looks interesting to her that's fun 00:24:27.740 --> 00:24:31.359 that's cool yeah so so you gotta keep up on those 00:24:31.359 --> 00:24:35.319 titles dj that's right okay yeah shara shara 00:24:35.319 --> 00:24:36.960 doesn't and it's not because she doesn't like 00:24:36.960 --> 00:24:40.339 our podcast she she never got on the podcast 00:24:40.339 --> 00:24:43.720 train like ever she hates her she hates our podcast 00:24:43.720 --> 00:24:47.119 yeah actually her answer says this show's stupid 00:24:47.119 --> 00:24:56.160 i hate both no like yeah anytime that she has 00:24:56.160 --> 00:24:59.420 listened to the show she does like it but again 00:24:59.420 --> 00:25:02.220 it's it's not it's not the way that she that 00:25:02.220 --> 00:25:05.599 she learns um it's not the way that she that 00:25:05.599 --> 00:25:09.460 she processes you know it's it's just podcasting 00:25:09.460 --> 00:25:13.720 is not something that shara really connects with 00:25:13.720 --> 00:25:16.839 so but here's what she here's what shara has 00:25:16.839 --> 00:25:19.940 to say at first and this is true dude at first 00:25:19.940 --> 00:25:22.079 i was not sure how long the show would last due 00:25:22.079 --> 00:25:25.400 to dj's habit of going all in hard and fast on 00:25:25.400 --> 00:25:29.180 a new idea because what like and i'll i'll finish 00:25:29.180 --> 00:25:32.990 the idea uh that she's driving at Anytime that 00:25:32.990 --> 00:25:34.750 there's something brand new in my life, what 00:25:34.750 --> 00:25:37.609 I typically do is I go hard and fast. I'm all 00:25:37.609 --> 00:25:41.269 in. And then I get tired of it. I get sick of 00:25:41.269 --> 00:25:44.930 it. I run out of ideas or something like that. 00:25:45.130 --> 00:25:49.150 And to be honest, dude, just kind of like thinking 00:25:49.150 --> 00:25:51.890 off the top of my head right now, I think part 00:25:51.890 --> 00:25:55.309 of the reason that the show has continued like 00:25:55.309 --> 00:26:02.019 is because. I know that you're relying on me 00:26:02.019 --> 00:26:08.880 to be on my end of the bargain. I'm glad to help. 00:26:09.960 --> 00:26:17.119 I'm glad to be of assistance. I'm good with that 00:26:17.119 --> 00:26:20.579 one. Yes, you are. I've been made for that role. 00:26:21.539 --> 00:26:25.230 Well, here's what she continues. I could see 00:26:25.230 --> 00:26:27.910 how much both DJ and Brad were enjoying the podcast 00:26:27.910 --> 00:26:31.210 and the excitement and momentum just kept increasing. 00:26:31.569 --> 00:26:38.150 I was supportive of his idea at first and still 00:26:38.150 --> 00:26:45.089 am now. I don't think Shara freaking loves the 00:26:45.089 --> 00:26:48.710 show, but she loves that it's a part of my life, 00:26:48.829 --> 00:26:53.900 that it's another outlet for me. So I am going 00:26:53.900 --> 00:26:56.059 to take the opportunity, Brad, and speak for 00:26:56.059 --> 00:27:00.099 her on this part. Be careful. This is being recorded. 00:27:00.099 --> 00:27:03.380 I know. I know. I know. And feel free to repeat 00:27:03.380 --> 00:27:06.640 this. Right. And I am the one receiving it. Yeah, 00:27:06.640 --> 00:27:11.940 right. Yeah. Hey, Sharon, just tune in. 12 .34 00:27:11.940 --> 00:27:19.380 seconds. 12 minutes. So I think one of the reasons. 00:27:20.910 --> 00:27:24.150 that shara does love that we're still doing the 00:27:24.150 --> 00:27:31.109 podcast i think she loves seeing in a very bittersweet 00:27:31.109 --> 00:27:35.390 way she loves seeing you and me interact even 00:27:35.390 --> 00:27:37.930 though we're not siblings but but you and i interact 00:27:37.930 --> 00:27:43.410 as brothers in a way that it was taken from her 00:27:43.410 --> 00:27:50.000 right um um and and i think i think that And 00:27:50.000 --> 00:27:52.099 I'm not going to go into detail, but when when 00:27:52.099 --> 00:27:55.799 Adam first died, I didn't even want to call Tabitha. 00:27:56.400 --> 00:27:59.900 Yeah, I needed to. I had to. I had to call my 00:27:59.900 --> 00:28:02.880 sister, but I didn't want to because I didn't 00:28:02.880 --> 00:28:08.000 want under any circumstance to to, you know, 00:28:08.000 --> 00:28:14.400 to bring bring about envy, you know, on Cher's 00:28:14.400 --> 00:28:17.079 part that I could call my sibling and she couldn't. 00:28:17.079 --> 00:28:21.720 And so. Obviously, those those days have have 00:28:21.720 --> 00:28:25.640 have gone. But but I do. I think that there's 00:28:25.640 --> 00:28:29.819 an element of you and me doing this that brings 00:28:29.819 --> 00:28:33.599 her peace and brings her, you know, a very certain 00:28:33.599 --> 00:28:37.380 sense of joy through that. As long as we do it 00:28:37.380 --> 00:28:39.940 and we don't have her on the show. That's right. 00:28:40.059 --> 00:28:44.859 Yes. Yeah. Yeah. If seriously, it would be it 00:28:44.859 --> 00:28:48.740 would be. the one of the worst experiences of 00:28:48.740 --> 00:28:54.119 our lives if we had her on the show and i quote 00:28:54.119 --> 00:28:56.279 no joke and i quote she finished this up last 00:28:56.279 --> 00:29:01.440 night and i quote i couldn't i there's no way 00:29:01.440 --> 00:29:03.579 i'd be i would have been able to do that in real 00:29:03.579 --> 00:29:08.160 time just answering questions like this because 00:29:08.160 --> 00:29:12.940 she she is like she's just so self -conscious 00:29:12.940 --> 00:29:15.539 you know i mean and it's okay like Some people 00:29:15.539 --> 00:29:17.440 have, have the fear of not being able to, not 00:29:17.440 --> 00:29:19.700 being able to, to, to think on, think on their 00:29:19.700 --> 00:29:23.700 feet. And again, she's a processor. She needs 00:29:23.700 --> 00:29:26.940 to sit down. She's got to have time to really 00:29:26.940 --> 00:29:31.920 mull things over. So, so I don't know about you, 00:29:32.019 --> 00:29:35.279 but, but question number five, it's not a very, 00:29:35.299 --> 00:29:38.259 not a very detailed answer here, but question 00:29:38.259 --> 00:29:40.660 five listeners, we thought, I thought, you know 00:29:40.660 --> 00:29:43.099 what? Let's ask this. I'm curious to know what 00:29:43.099 --> 00:29:45.839 Cher has to say. Has the show or its influence 00:29:45.839 --> 00:29:49.980 impacted our marriage in any way? And Cher says 00:29:49.980 --> 00:29:52.079 this, opportunities have opened to talk about 00:29:52.079 --> 00:29:54.740 various topics that DJ and Brad had discussed 00:29:54.740 --> 00:29:57.619 on the show. And that's true. So Tabby said, 00:29:57.740 --> 00:30:02.279 I think it's helped us in our journey to better 00:30:02.279 --> 00:30:06.099 communicate, especially for insecurities. It's 00:30:06.099 --> 00:30:08.380 a good starting point for a lot of good conversations. 00:30:08.859 --> 00:30:11.539 Yeah. Yeah. There, there have been moments where 00:30:11.539 --> 00:30:14.240 you and I will have had a topic that we've talked 00:30:14.240 --> 00:30:16.180 about or shoot man, just something that you would 00:30:16.180 --> 00:30:18.700 have just something you, you would have dropped 00:30:18.700 --> 00:30:22.079 almost, almost like casually that I'll go back 00:30:22.079 --> 00:30:25.220 and I'll be like, you know, Brad said this, I'm 00:30:25.220 --> 00:30:27.299 curious. So like, what's, what has, have you 00:30:27.299 --> 00:30:28.900 ever had that happen? What's been your experience? 00:30:29.000 --> 00:30:33.559 That kind of thing. Yeah. So it has not been, 00:30:33.579 --> 00:30:36.900 it has been at least positive and not detrimental. 00:30:37.140 --> 00:30:41.930 So. Yeah. Yeah. That's good. I take that as a 00:30:41.930 --> 00:30:44.609 win answer. Oh, absolutely. It's a win. All right, 00:30:44.609 --> 00:30:46.809 Brad, you're up to bat. All right. The question 00:30:46.809 --> 00:30:51.630 number six, what cartoon duo? Wait, did I skip 00:30:51.630 --> 00:30:55.089 one? Nope. No. Okay. What cartoon duo would you 00:30:55.089 --> 00:30:58.730 describe DJ and Brad as on the show? I'm interested 00:30:58.730 --> 00:31:00.809 to see what Tabitha has to say. She took, she, 00:31:00.890 --> 00:31:03.009 again, I was sitting there watching and she was 00:31:03.009 --> 00:31:06.019 like. Thinking and typing like and looking and 00:31:06.019 --> 00:31:09.700 doing all this kind of she took a lot of time 00:31:09.700 --> 00:31:13.579 on on on this question. And then she smiles. 00:31:16.160 --> 00:31:20.700 Her answer is pinky in the brain. I'll let you 00:31:20.700 --> 00:31:23.539 dot dot dot dot. I'll let you decide who is who. 00:31:28.359 --> 00:31:31.299 I mean, I think that we know who is who. I take 00:31:31.299 --> 00:31:37.240 a little offense to it. I mean, one is a genius, 00:31:37.359 --> 00:31:41.539 the other is insane. Although, DJ, you do need 00:31:41.539 --> 00:31:45.579 to know that my theory on the show is that the 00:31:45.579 --> 00:31:48.980 brain is actually the insane one and Pinky is 00:31:48.980 --> 00:31:51.440 actually the genius. You think he's the genius? 00:31:51.779 --> 00:31:54.940 Well, for one, he foils the brain's attempts 00:31:54.940 --> 00:31:59.160 to take over the world. He does. Almost every 00:31:59.160 --> 00:32:01.960 episode. And there's been a few episodes where 00:32:01.960 --> 00:32:04.920 he's kind of let out these really intelligent, 00:32:05.019 --> 00:32:10.599 genius side of him. So just to muddy the water 00:32:10.599 --> 00:32:14.980 a little. Yeah, right. OK, so I'm going to say 00:32:14.980 --> 00:32:18.460 that there's a that at least a portion of Cher's 00:32:18.460 --> 00:32:22.779 answer has like is directly related to. The stage 00:32:22.779 --> 00:32:25.220 of life that our children are in right now, because 00:32:25.220 --> 00:32:28.740 out of nowhere, they started binge watching every 00:32:28.740 --> 00:32:34.680 single day. This this series of movies. I am 00:32:34.680 --> 00:32:39.559 Buzz Lightyear and you are Woody. Like like DJ 00:32:39.559 --> 00:32:43.039 and Brad, they are best friends. Enjoy each other's 00:32:43.039 --> 00:32:45.079 company, loyal and determined to make a difference. 00:32:45.559 --> 00:32:49.819 And very, very different. Very different. In 00:32:49.819 --> 00:32:53.900 every other aspect. Apparently, I live a life 00:32:53.900 --> 00:32:58.099 of delusion. Right. That's right. I'm trying 00:32:58.099 --> 00:33:01.700 to bring you down to earth. You're a toy, DJ. 00:33:02.380 --> 00:33:07.359 You're a toy. You can't fly. That's not flying. 00:33:07.400 --> 00:33:10.700 It's falling with style. That's right. You're 00:33:10.700 --> 00:33:13.910 a sad, sad man. And you have my pity. Farewell. 00:33:13.910 --> 00:33:19.250 Somebody poisoned the water hole. It was a good 00:33:19.250 --> 00:33:26.089 question. Okay. Dude. Brad, I love Shara's answer 00:33:26.089 --> 00:33:29.170 to this. Question number seven. This is Brad's 00:33:29.170 --> 00:33:32.289 question, actually. If the show becomes famous 00:33:32.289 --> 00:33:36.809 and DJ and Brad have lots of money. I love the 00:33:36.809 --> 00:33:40.029 hypothetical here, the ridiculousness. What is 00:33:40.029 --> 00:33:43.390 the stupidest thing that they would each spend 00:33:43.390 --> 00:33:46.970 money on? Now, I need to say this. This is stupid 00:33:46.970 --> 00:33:50.470 according to Cher's definition. Right, right. 00:33:50.569 --> 00:33:52.609 I would agree. I would agree with that cinema 00:33:52.609 --> 00:33:55.289 after looking at what my wife did. Her answer 00:33:55.289 --> 00:33:58.549 is, this is not stupid. Are you serious? This 00:33:58.549 --> 00:34:01.509 is the greatest answer she could have ever come 00:34:01.509 --> 00:34:05.819 up with for me. DJ, coffee from every country 00:34:05.819 --> 00:34:09.880 in the world. That's not stupid. I'm not drinking 00:34:09.880 --> 00:34:13.179 it, DJ. I'm not drinking the coffee that comes 00:34:13.179 --> 00:34:16.900 out. I am in. I am so in on this. That comes 00:34:16.900 --> 00:34:19.599 through the digestive system of a little rodent. 00:34:19.599 --> 00:34:22.699 I'm out on that one. Dude, if I've got that much. 00:34:22.699 --> 00:34:24.920 All the rest, I will try it with you. At least 00:34:24.920 --> 00:34:28.099 once. Yes, in my head. As long as you don't tell 00:34:28.099 --> 00:34:31.340 me what it is. If I know that I'm actually eating. 00:34:33.410 --> 00:34:38.889 That? Or I'm drinking that? Yeah, like, no. ABD 00:34:38.889 --> 00:34:43.690 coffee? Yeah. Already been digested? Or ABP, 00:34:43.710 --> 00:34:47.769 already been pooped. Exactly. Yeah. This will 00:34:47.769 --> 00:34:50.550 clean you out. It works for the mongoose. That's 00:34:50.550 --> 00:34:54.170 right. Yeah, or maybe there's something bad about 00:34:54.170 --> 00:34:56.090 it. Like, dude, it didn't make it through that 00:34:56.090 --> 00:34:58.230 thing's digestive tract. Why do you think it 00:34:58.230 --> 00:34:59.829 didn't make it through yours? And you know what 00:34:59.829 --> 00:35:02.449 I'm afraid of? I'm afraid it would be as good 00:35:02.449 --> 00:35:04.309 as they claim it would be. I know, I know. And 00:35:04.309 --> 00:35:08.769 then I would just want to drink it. All right, 00:35:08.789 --> 00:35:10.869 so for me, coffee from every country in the world, 00:35:10.889 --> 00:35:14.690 and for you, all the gear available to catch 00:35:14.690 --> 00:35:20.139 monster catfish. That's right. And a trip. To 00:35:20.139 --> 00:35:23.659 fish for the whales catfish in Europe. In Europe. 00:35:23.920 --> 00:35:27.539 Yeah. I have seen pictures of those things and 00:35:27.539 --> 00:35:32.079 it's, I mean, scary. It's like a flathead catfish 00:35:32.079 --> 00:35:36.079 with a back of a tadpole. Yeah, it's exactly 00:35:36.079 --> 00:35:39.420 right. And they get like nine feet long and like 00:35:39.420 --> 00:35:44.059 hundreds of pounds. It's the one where I've said, 00:35:44.159 --> 00:35:46.539 I want to catch one. And when it gets to the 00:35:46.539 --> 00:35:49.360 surface, I want to look and be like. I don't 00:35:49.360 --> 00:35:51.260 need to go like to Nineveh or somewhere, right? 00:35:52.639 --> 00:35:56.739 That's right. Get yourself right with God before 00:35:56.739 --> 00:36:02.159 you catch this thing. So my wife said, for me, 00:36:02.340 --> 00:36:08.860 Star Wars Lego sets and fishing stuff. Which 00:36:08.860 --> 00:36:13.739 is a little bit of a simplification. But I accuse 00:36:13.739 --> 00:36:17.920 your sister a lot. of oversimplifying things 00:36:17.920 --> 00:36:21.340 is it i know i over complicate things so when 00:36:21.340 --> 00:36:23.800 she does oversimplify so when she does it you 00:36:23.800 --> 00:36:27.260 still are critical of it like so when you say 00:36:27.260 --> 00:36:31.300 star wars lego sets Right. I mean, like the, 00:36:31.400 --> 00:36:33.860 you know, I've got the Millennium Falcon and 00:36:33.860 --> 00:36:38.760 the AT -AT, the big like $800 job would look 00:36:38.760 --> 00:36:41.679 really nice on that other shelf across the room. 00:36:42.179 --> 00:36:47.619 That'd be a good start. But she's not, you know, 00:36:47.679 --> 00:36:51.719 she's not wrong. And yeah, and fish and stuff. 00:36:51.780 --> 00:36:56.099 I think Shara kind of just opened up what Tabby 00:36:56.099 --> 00:36:59.300 was. was uh was trying to get their fishing stuff 00:36:59.300 --> 00:37:04.980 yeah right like because i guess to that to that 00:37:04.980 --> 00:37:08.420 point if you do say all the gear available to 00:37:08.420 --> 00:37:10.760 catch monster catfish well what about all the 00:37:10.760 --> 00:37:15.650 gear available to catch catfish, right? I mean, 00:37:15.670 --> 00:37:18.050 because if we had lots and lots of money and 00:37:18.050 --> 00:37:20.769 you wanted to spend it on what she claims is 00:37:20.769 --> 00:37:25.150 stupid stuff, I don't see you limiting your fishing 00:37:25.150 --> 00:37:30.750 to monsters. I mean... What is this in your... 00:37:30.750 --> 00:37:33.550 What do you got here in the backyard, Brad? Oh, 00:37:33.550 --> 00:37:37.989 I'm raising shad. I'm raising shad. I'm going 00:37:37.989 --> 00:37:41.389 to make them super big. I found a way to... Dude, 00:37:41.449 --> 00:37:44.199 wouldn't it be awesome... To have a coffee room. 00:37:45.639 --> 00:37:50.519 Probably not in your Shad Shack. No. Shad Shack. 00:37:50.519 --> 00:37:53.599 No, no, no. Shad Shack? Those two smells don't 00:37:53.599 --> 00:37:56.079 go together. B -52 should have sang about that. 00:37:59.340 --> 00:38:08.320 All right. Dude, I cannot wait to hear. Yeah, 00:38:08.960 --> 00:38:15.130 you're up. Am I up? Am I up already? If DJ and 00:38:15.130 --> 00:38:18.590 Brad both told you to sit down and shut up, how 00:38:18.590 --> 00:38:24.489 would you respond? Now, I will say that I think 00:38:24.489 --> 00:38:30.630 this answer that she gave is not true. It's watered 00:38:30.630 --> 00:38:34.210 down. Because I think if we were to both say 00:38:34.210 --> 00:38:39.690 that, that the podcast would be over. And you 00:38:39.690 --> 00:38:42.150 guys would all be welcome to our joint funeral. 00:38:43.670 --> 00:38:47.650 No, Tabitha wouldn't kill me because it's nothing 00:38:47.650 --> 00:38:50.789 for me to tell her to sit down and shut up. Okay, 00:38:50.949 --> 00:38:56.469 well, you'd have a new guest host. Okay, that's 00:38:56.469 --> 00:39:00.550 fair. She said you would both get the teacher 00:39:00.550 --> 00:39:03.309 slash mom look, and I would most likely yell 00:39:03.309 --> 00:39:07.699 at you both. Honestly, neither of you are. And 00:39:07.699 --> 00:39:15.159 in all caps, that stupid. I love it. Well, I 00:39:15.159 --> 00:39:17.659 want you to know that. I'm interested to see 00:39:17.659 --> 00:39:20.699 what your wife is going to say. Because, like, 00:39:20.699 --> 00:39:23.980 I do not know the answer to this. I would not. 00:39:24.400 --> 00:39:28.360 And she's a Kentucky country girl. As we recently 00:39:28.360 --> 00:39:33.980 learned, yes. So, like, I got a little more wisdom 00:39:33.980 --> 00:39:43.010 in me than that. So, this is actually true. I 00:39:43.010 --> 00:39:46.230 mean, top to bottom. I was like, I've never yelled 00:39:46.230 --> 00:39:51.110 at your wife to shut up and sit down. Just for 00:39:51.110 --> 00:39:55.269 the record, everyone. Or my wife. Well, it doesn't 00:39:55.269 --> 00:39:57.809 say yelled sit down and shut up. Just if we told 00:39:57.809 --> 00:40:01.889 them to sit down and shut up. Cher says, I would 00:40:01.889 --> 00:40:03.869 be stunned at first and probably speechless. 00:40:04.670 --> 00:40:06.909 Then I would shoot them a look that could kill 00:40:06.909 --> 00:40:10.929 and say with attitude, excuse me, that would 00:40:10.929 --> 00:40:13.670 be all. Because after that, they would be begging 00:40:13.670 --> 00:40:16.050 for forgiveness. I would sit down and shut up. 00:40:17.369 --> 00:40:19.550 Sheryl looked at me like that. I would sit down 00:40:19.550 --> 00:40:23.250 and shut up and probably apologize like profusely 00:40:23.250 --> 00:40:25.409 in the process. Like I'm going to shut up now, 00:40:25.489 --> 00:40:27.489 but I just want you to know that I will never 00:40:27.489 --> 00:40:29.849 do that again. And I'm sorry, man. My bad. My 00:40:29.849 --> 00:40:38.630 bad. He made me do it. He made me do it. Yeah. 00:40:38.730 --> 00:40:41.590 And I think, like, I love that question because 00:40:41.590 --> 00:40:46.750 it really does put things in an odd perspective 00:40:46.750 --> 00:40:48.809 because Tabitha and I being brother and sister, 00:40:49.030 --> 00:40:52.590 I can tell that to her all day long and it not 00:40:52.590 --> 00:40:57.670 faze me. But seeing, like, thinking about what 00:40:57.670 --> 00:41:01.150 would Cher do if even Brad told her to sit down 00:41:01.150 --> 00:41:05.300 and shut up? I don't, yeah, Brad, uh -uh. Don't 00:41:05.300 --> 00:41:08.480 dude. No, I mean, just don't, just don't. Right. 00:41:08.519 --> 00:41:10.519 Like, listen, the only way that that happens, 00:41:10.559 --> 00:41:15.420 the only way that happens is if Jesus looks me 00:41:15.420 --> 00:41:16.920 down the eye and says, you need to tell your 00:41:16.920 --> 00:41:20.300 wife this. And then I'm like, are you sure? Are 00:41:20.300 --> 00:41:23.280 you sure? Right. You're going to Gideon it. I 00:41:23.280 --> 00:41:28.719 need you. I need you to put the dew on the grass, 00:41:28.960 --> 00:41:32.710 leave the sponge dry. Okay, you know what? Let's 00:41:32.710 --> 00:41:34.809 do this again. Let's do it one more time. You 00:41:34.809 --> 00:41:38.750 know how I shut your sister up? By telling her 00:41:38.750 --> 00:41:40.989 you love her and giving her a hug? Especially 00:41:40.989 --> 00:41:44.150 early on. Even like kind of when we first started 00:41:44.150 --> 00:41:46.409 dating. Or actually, in one way, this is how 00:41:46.409 --> 00:41:55.730 we started dating. I kiss her. Like we were not 00:41:55.730 --> 00:41:58.590 dating. She liked me. It was just... You know, 00:41:58.610 --> 00:42:00.630 she kind of pursued me. Then she gave up on me. 00:42:00.690 --> 00:42:02.130 Then I got jealous when she was dating another 00:42:02.130 --> 00:42:07.710 guy. And then I locked my keys in my truck, which 00:42:07.710 --> 00:42:12.050 was parked illegally on campus. And it was running. 00:42:13.269 --> 00:42:17.929 Oh, dude. And it was, I had this big project 00:42:17.929 --> 00:42:19.710 due the next day, which I was getting ready to 00:42:19.710 --> 00:42:23.969 spend an all -nighter on. Every place that I 00:42:23.969 --> 00:42:26.710 called was like, oh, your truck has this bar 00:42:26.710 --> 00:42:29.349 that keeps you from being able to just easily 00:42:29.349 --> 00:42:31.909 do that. There's only like a couple of guys that. 00:42:32.199 --> 00:42:35.360 can actually do that. And it looks like they 00:42:35.360 --> 00:42:38.800 were all on vacation that day. So finally, like, 00:42:38.840 --> 00:42:41.039 I'm texting your sister, who was my best friend 00:42:41.039 --> 00:42:43.119 at the time. And she was like, do you want me 00:42:43.119 --> 00:42:45.099 to come out there? And I was like, yes. But then 00:42:45.099 --> 00:42:46.719 she came out and then she just kept talking. 00:42:46.860 --> 00:42:49.139 She kept talking. She kept talking. She kept 00:42:49.139 --> 00:42:51.840 talking. And I was like, I knew better even then 00:42:51.840 --> 00:42:55.559 to, hey, you need to shut up. And so I kissed 00:42:55.559 --> 00:43:00.960 her. You kissed her. Dang, dude. And she was 00:43:00.960 --> 00:43:05.349 silent. Which, I mean, this was, yeah. Anyway, 00:43:05.469 --> 00:43:08.329 longer story for another day. But I love that 00:43:08.329 --> 00:43:10.650 this is now on public record. Yeah, well, she 00:43:10.650 --> 00:43:15.849 knows. That any time that Brad goes in for a 00:43:15.849 --> 00:43:19.269 kiss, there are one of two reasons. Either A, 00:43:19.449 --> 00:43:22.210 he just wants to show his love for her, or B, 00:43:22.329 --> 00:43:24.969 he needs Tabitha to shut up. I would prefer to 00:43:24.969 --> 00:43:27.449 think that Brad kisses my sister to make her 00:43:27.449 --> 00:43:30.590 shut up all the time. And I'm fine with that. 00:43:32.500 --> 00:43:36.159 I would disagree with that statement, but definitely 00:43:36.159 --> 00:43:38.780 times I've done. I think as we, like if we're 00:43:38.780 --> 00:43:41.840 in a conversation with other people and I feel 00:43:41.840 --> 00:43:46.099 like she's going like either, like she's about 00:43:46.099 --> 00:43:49.920 to give too much information or something. Like 00:43:49.920 --> 00:43:52.280 if we're sitting, I will just tap her on the 00:43:52.280 --> 00:43:56.139 leg, like with my hand, just gently. But if we're 00:43:56.139 --> 00:43:59.679 standing, I'll do it behind her, just kind of 00:43:59.679 --> 00:44:02.719 gently tap her on the side or whatever. And then 00:44:02.719 --> 00:44:06.519 sometimes she gets mad, and she'll just out me 00:44:06.519 --> 00:44:10.880 to the people we're talking to. She's like, my 00:44:10.880 --> 00:44:14.619 husband just gave me the signal that I shouldn't 00:44:14.619 --> 00:44:17.280 say what I'm about to say to you, so I'm going 00:44:17.280 --> 00:44:19.760 to say it anyway. Okay. Blah, blah, blah. Like, 00:44:19.760 --> 00:44:22.559 okay. Like, you didn't have to do that. That 00:44:22.559 --> 00:44:24.780 right there. That right there is our segue. I 00:44:24.780 --> 00:44:29.659 love that this is our segue. In my opinion. share 00:44:29.659 --> 00:44:32.800 his answer to question nine is the best answer 00:44:32.800 --> 00:44:35.300 i have ever heard her give pretty much in my 00:44:35.300 --> 00:44:37.820 entire life outside outside of do you want to 00:44:37.820 --> 00:44:40.579 marry me and are we gonna have kids right all 00:44:40.579 --> 00:44:43.559 right so question nine listeners is if you had 00:44:43.559 --> 00:44:45.960 to pick actors and actresses to portray both 00:44:45.960 --> 00:44:50.219 couples who would you pick all right so for me 00:44:50.219 --> 00:44:54.170 chandler from friends I'm sarcastic, funny, socially 00:44:54.170 --> 00:44:56.889 awkward at times, caring and loving. For her, 00:44:56.989 --> 00:45:00.070 Monica from Friends. She's an organizer. She's 00:45:00.070 --> 00:45:01.869 a planner. She likes things done a certain way. 00:45:01.969 --> 00:45:03.730 She's competitive and she's loving, which is 00:45:03.730 --> 00:45:09.889 true. I love, more than anything else, her answers 00:45:09.889 --> 00:45:12.469 for you and Tabitha. Do you want yours first? 00:45:12.550 --> 00:45:14.130 Do you want Tabitha's first? I don't know. The 00:45:14.130 --> 00:45:16.730 anticipation is killing me. Okay, then let's 00:45:16.730 --> 00:45:23.239 do yours. Patrick Warburton. Oh, okay. Yeah. 00:45:23.420 --> 00:45:25.780 If you don't know who this is, that's the voice 00:45:25.780 --> 00:45:28.579 of Crunk. It's the high five guy from Seinfeld. 00:45:29.000 --> 00:45:33.539 It's very stone. That's right. Low intensity, 00:45:33.679 --> 00:45:37.539 doesn't talk much, funny and silly. But, dude, 00:45:37.639 --> 00:45:45.900 the winner, Tabitha, Molly Shannon. I love this 00:45:45.900 --> 00:45:48.139 answer. I don't know who that is. Oh, yes, you 00:45:48.139 --> 00:45:51.449 will when you look her up. Funny, forward, bold, 00:45:51.610 --> 00:45:54.750 and TMI gives too much information at times. 00:45:54.849 --> 00:45:58.510 Oh, yes. Yeah, I didn't know her name. That is 00:45:58.510 --> 00:46:02.210 the winner. It's the greatest answer in the world. 00:46:02.710 --> 00:46:05.250 Even I wouldn't have come up with this. When 00:46:05.250 --> 00:46:09.010 I read this, I was like, that is absolutely my 00:46:09.010 --> 00:46:12.250 sister. If there was a person that could easily 00:46:12.250 --> 00:46:16.190 replace Tabitha's personality on camera, that 00:46:16.190 --> 00:46:19.190 is who it is. No other actress that I could rack 00:46:19.190 --> 00:46:23.650 my brain exists that has that. Everybody, if 00:46:23.650 --> 00:46:26.170 you imagine those two actors being in a sitcom 00:46:26.170 --> 00:46:30.130 together, raising children. I love it. It's so 00:46:30.130 --> 00:46:35.150 good. It's so good. I'd watch it. I would watch 00:46:35.150 --> 00:46:40.090 it. Yeah, right. All right, so Tabby's answers 00:46:40.090 --> 00:46:47.449 for me, she said Billy Gibbons. Billy Gibbons? 00:46:47.630 --> 00:46:53.670 Yeah, so he's one of the guys from ZZ Top. Okay. 00:46:56.519 --> 00:46:59.639 Is it just the beard? No, she watched this show 00:46:59.639 --> 00:47:04.579 called Bones, and he plays the dad in that role. 00:47:05.300 --> 00:47:10.239 Bones, like the forensic drama. Yeah, I love 00:47:10.239 --> 00:47:12.380 that show. I didn't know he was in that. Well, 00:47:12.539 --> 00:47:15.099 so Monica, is it Monica? No, it's not Monica, 00:47:15.139 --> 00:47:16.579 is it? Anyway, it doesn't matter. One of the 00:47:16.579 --> 00:47:20.659 ladies on the show, her dad is actually him. 00:47:21.050 --> 00:47:24.289 And so he plays himself. Billy Gibbons plays 00:47:24.289 --> 00:47:26.289 Billy Gibbons. Billy Gibbons, yeah. That's awesome. 00:47:26.369 --> 00:47:29.070 As her dad. And so he's country. I don't remember 00:47:29.070 --> 00:47:33.309 that. When he talks, there's not a big fluctuation 00:47:33.309 --> 00:47:37.909 of emotion. And he's got a big beard. And he 00:47:37.909 --> 00:47:40.130 does have a big beard, dude. I approve. Very 00:47:40.130 --> 00:47:46.110 cool guy. I'll take that. And she said for her, 00:47:46.230 --> 00:47:51.250 Sandra Bullock. But apparently she had thought 00:47:51.250 --> 00:47:53.889 that one out for a long time because she was 00:47:53.889 --> 00:47:56.590 like, I've always thought if I got to pick somebody 00:47:56.590 --> 00:47:58.889 to play me on screen, who would it be? Sandra 00:47:58.889 --> 00:48:00.610 Bullock, obviously. I think Sandra Bullock is 00:48:00.610 --> 00:48:04.309 too tame for Tabitha. She doesn't, I mean, I'm 00:48:04.309 --> 00:48:09.230 sure that Sandra Bullock could like sort of channel 00:48:09.230 --> 00:48:15.449 and like a boisterous, you know, crazy energetic. 00:48:15.789 --> 00:48:17.869 So the question we need to ask, the question 00:48:17.869 --> 00:48:20.679 that we need to ask is, Is that the way that 00:48:20.679 --> 00:48:25.179 Tabitha sees herself? Does she see herself again? 00:48:25.559 --> 00:48:28.119 Well, I mean, in that case, I'm Tom Cruise, baby. 00:48:28.440 --> 00:48:31.900 No, I'm just saying like personality -wise, like 00:48:31.900 --> 00:48:36.019 the way that she is on screen, where it's fun 00:48:36.019 --> 00:48:40.179 but reserved. Reserved being the key word I'm 00:48:40.179 --> 00:48:43.489 looking for. Is that the way that my wife sees 00:48:43.489 --> 00:48:45.650 herself? Does Tabitha know what the word reserved 00:48:45.650 --> 00:48:49.369 means? And this is why I asked, because again, 00:48:49.429 --> 00:48:52.030 we've had this conversation for a long time. 00:48:52.190 --> 00:48:57.489 I did not realize that I'm the way I am. I felt 00:48:57.489 --> 00:49:00.750 like, because I feel strong emotions. Sure. I 00:49:00.750 --> 00:49:04.840 felt like that those were. erupting out of every... 00:49:04.840 --> 00:49:07.260 Christmas at the Culp's will open your eyes to 00:49:07.260 --> 00:49:10.460 what your emotions are like. Especially if you 00:49:10.460 --> 00:49:12.619 give me something that I really like and it's 00:49:12.619 --> 00:49:15.840 like, this is awesome. Yeah, this is awesome. 00:49:15.880 --> 00:49:19.079 And that's it. That's it. It's like, yeah. And 00:49:19.079 --> 00:49:22.860 Tabby has started doing the thing where she's 00:49:22.860 --> 00:49:24.880 like, now, if you want it, here, I'm going to 00:49:24.880 --> 00:49:28.260 demonstrate how Brad really feels. That's right. 00:49:28.539 --> 00:49:31.619 I love that. I love the demonstration. It erupts 00:49:31.619 --> 00:49:34.860 with excitement. It's just right. I'm like, I 00:49:34.860 --> 00:49:37.880 feel that. I got your name as a draw gift like 00:49:37.880 --> 00:49:42.119 seven years ago. And, dude, I racked my brain. 00:49:42.320 --> 00:49:46.559 And I told Shara, I think I want to get Brad 00:49:46.559 --> 00:49:49.909 a. like a jacket, like a heavier kind of like 00:49:49.909 --> 00:49:52.369 wintry coat. We were in JCPenney and I found 00:49:52.369 --> 00:49:54.929 this one that was like Sherpa lined, you know, 00:49:54.929 --> 00:49:58.829 it was denim. I was like, I really see, I can 00:49:58.829 --> 00:50:01.909 see Brad enjoying that. She's like, oh yeah, 00:50:02.010 --> 00:50:03.469 I think he would really like it. So you opened 00:50:03.469 --> 00:50:07.409 it and you did your Brad, you did your Patrick 00:50:07.409 --> 00:50:10.349 Warburton face. Let me tell you what, I loved 00:50:10.349 --> 00:50:15.769 that coat. I actually, I lost that coat. Figured 00:50:15.769 --> 00:50:18.610 out what happened. Well, and this is sometimes 00:50:18.610 --> 00:50:22.110 the way God works, okay? I'll be honest. We're 00:50:22.110 --> 00:50:25.170 pretty sure I left it at Donna Phelps, who helps 00:50:25.170 --> 00:50:27.869 a lot of low -income people, helps a lot of people 00:50:27.869 --> 00:50:31.989 in homeless -type situations. And so we're pretty 00:50:31.989 --> 00:50:34.550 sure I left it at her house, and it got given 00:50:34.550 --> 00:50:37.969 to somebody. But yeah, I wore that coat for years. 00:50:38.630 --> 00:50:42.510 And I loved it. You're right. And you have that 00:50:42.510 --> 00:50:48.039 ability. But yeah. But here's the thing. I remember 00:50:48.039 --> 00:50:55.619 Tabitha calling and saying, so Brad wants you 00:50:55.619 --> 00:50:59.039 to know. Oh, no, no, no. You sent a text. That's 00:50:59.039 --> 00:51:01.380 what it was. You sent a text. Thank you for the 00:51:01.380 --> 00:51:03.199 code or something like that. And then Tabitha 00:51:03.199 --> 00:51:05.940 called as a way almost to confirm. Brad wanted 00:51:05.940 --> 00:51:10.400 to know. He said, do you think DJ would appreciate 00:51:10.400 --> 00:51:13.539 a text like this? letting him know that i really 00:51:13.539 --> 00:51:16.820 love the coat and she was like well yeah so she 00:51:16.820 --> 00:51:19.980 called and said brad just wanted brad wanted 00:51:19.980 --> 00:51:21.820 you to know that he loves that coat and i'm like 00:51:21.820 --> 00:51:24.880 okay that's great because i wasn't too sure but 00:51:24.880 --> 00:51:26.860 but here's and here's the secret you have to 00:51:26.860 --> 00:51:30.599 know about me again i am very like i'm an empath 00:51:30.599 --> 00:51:34.500 and i i see people observe people right so i 00:51:34.500 --> 00:51:40.159 like i see when your reaction to my reaction 00:51:40.800 --> 00:51:45.000 right so i see and i feel like okay he was just 00:51:45.000 --> 00:51:48.199 like i disappointed him in that you know he's 00:51:48.199 --> 00:51:50.860 disappointed and he thinks that i don't like 00:51:50.860 --> 00:51:55.159 it probably and that's not the case but i can't 00:51:55.159 --> 00:51:59.460 be what he needs you to be in this situation 00:51:59.460 --> 00:52:06.400 so how can i do that Yay. Without coming across 00:52:06.400 --> 00:52:09.980 as crass and sarcastic. Yeah. Right. And I talked 00:52:09.980 --> 00:52:11.920 to Tammy because I was so worried. I was like, 00:52:11.980 --> 00:52:14.480 do you think that the kids think I hate everything? 00:52:15.760 --> 00:52:19.530 She's like, your kids know you. So they know 00:52:19.530 --> 00:52:23.429 your nuances. They can read that better than 00:52:23.429 --> 00:52:25.449 anybody else. So they know what it looks like 00:52:25.449 --> 00:52:29.170 when you're excited. And so they see that, even 00:52:29.170 --> 00:52:33.050 though it's very low -key and may even look like 00:52:33.050 --> 00:52:35.030 not excitement. Because I was like, I don't want 00:52:35.030 --> 00:52:36.929 my kids to grow up thinking my dad hates everything. 00:52:37.650 --> 00:52:39.650 You know, my dad hated everything I ever gave 00:52:39.650 --> 00:52:42.170 him, everything I ever brought him. Because this 00:52:42.170 --> 00:52:44.170 is how I am at Christmas. I'm like, thanks, this 00:52:44.170 --> 00:52:46.510 is awesome. Yeah, this is great. It's how I express. 00:52:47.110 --> 00:52:52.099 Yep. All right, so last question here, Brad. 00:52:52.199 --> 00:52:56.840 Close the show. Show 100. This is, again, to 00:52:56.840 --> 00:52:59.119 our wives. Do you think the show should continue 00:52:59.119 --> 00:53:02.539 and why? And Shara says yes. No, you skipped 00:53:02.539 --> 00:53:06.980 something. We did not talk about who she picked 00:53:06.980 --> 00:53:10.000 for you. For me and Shara. Or me and Shara, that's 00:53:10.000 --> 00:53:13.920 right. Okay, so you're Billy Gibbons and she's 00:53:13.920 --> 00:53:18.079 Sandra Bullock. Me and Shara. Okay, Steve Carell 00:53:18.079 --> 00:53:24.340 and Anne Hathaway. And who? Anne Hathaway. Dude, 00:53:24.900 --> 00:53:29.260 I love that. I accept Steve Carell hardcore. 00:53:29.460 --> 00:53:33.440 I'm there. I'm not a big Office fan. Actually, 00:53:33.460 --> 00:53:38.840 I'm not an Office fan, but I love Steve Carell's 00:53:38.840 --> 00:53:42.429 personality. Comedic timing. All of that's great. 00:53:42.530 --> 00:53:45.909 And dude, Anne Hathaway, I bet Anne Hathaway 00:53:45.909 --> 00:53:49.929 opposite Steve Carell would be a great duo. Cause 00:53:49.929 --> 00:53:53.889 she's funny. She can be dry, but she's also like, 00:53:53.949 --> 00:53:56.510 I definitely see, I definitely see kind of like 00:53:56.510 --> 00:53:58.949 the reserved nature of Anne Hathaway coming out 00:53:58.949 --> 00:54:04.769 in Shara. Yeah. That's awesome. All right, so 00:54:04.769 --> 00:54:06.929 last question. Do you think the show should continue 00:54:06.929 --> 00:54:09.889 and why? Shara says, yes, I think it should continue. 00:54:09.989 --> 00:54:12.210 Both Brad and DJ are having a great time with 00:54:12.210 --> 00:54:14.449 the show and are strengthening their relationship. 00:54:14.650 --> 00:54:18.150 I have heard several of our friends and acquaintances 00:54:18.150 --> 00:54:21.030 tell DJ that they are still really enjoying the 00:54:21.030 --> 00:54:28.130 show. It always means a lot to me, a ton to me. 00:54:28.409 --> 00:54:32.500 Very endearing when... you know someone says 00:54:32.500 --> 00:54:37.380 i listened to the show i loved your show um and 00:54:37.380 --> 00:54:40.300 i'm a person unfortunately to my detriment i'm 00:54:40.300 --> 00:54:45.920 a person that like do people still love the show 00:54:45.920 --> 00:54:48.199 you know what i mean i appreciate that you that 00:54:48.199 --> 00:54:49.880 you said that you enjoyed that episode or that 00:54:49.880 --> 00:54:53.500 you've enjoyed episodes up to this point um and 00:54:53.500 --> 00:54:56.650 so it's always encouraging um, to know that, 00:54:56.650 --> 00:54:59.309 you know, that, that our, our show is, is, is 00:54:59.309 --> 00:55:01.389 impacting. And I want to, I want to take this 00:55:01.389 --> 00:55:03.449 moment real quick, Brad, before, before you read 00:55:03.449 --> 00:55:06.449 Tabitha's, um, it was about a month ago, maybe 00:55:06.449 --> 00:55:08.690 even two months ago. And I responded back, but 00:55:08.690 --> 00:55:10.469 I want to, I want to give him a shout out to, 00:55:10.469 --> 00:55:14.829 uh, Steve Chappius, Chappie. Um, he, Chappie 00:55:14.829 --> 00:55:18.309 Facebook messaged me once and said, um, and I 00:55:18.309 --> 00:55:20.050 remember what the episode was, but he said that 00:55:20.050 --> 00:55:22.730 he really appreciated the episode, um, that it 00:55:22.730 --> 00:55:25.769 spoke to him. Um, And, like, it's just little 00:55:25.769 --> 00:55:28.769 stuff like that. You know, Chappy, I really appreciated 00:55:28.769 --> 00:55:33.429 that, man. I really did. So, all right. Go ahead, 00:55:33.489 --> 00:55:37.550 Brad. Like I said, I absolutely do, exclamation 00:55:37.550 --> 00:55:40.329 point. I think you guys are making a difference 00:55:40.329 --> 00:55:44.090 in lots of men and young men's lives. One thing 00:55:44.090 --> 00:55:47.469 this world needs more of is honest truth that 00:55:47.469 --> 00:55:50.409 comes from love and that is what you all do. 00:55:50.530 --> 00:55:57.929 That's what you all do. I appreciate that. Um, 00:55:58.170 --> 00:56:02.610 I'll let your sister know. Yeah. Right. Like 00:56:02.610 --> 00:56:04.670 she'll listen to this episode. Yes, she will. 00:56:04.750 --> 00:56:06.769 There's no doubt. Like she will listen to this 00:56:06.769 --> 00:56:10.150 episode. Don't tell her actually make her listen 00:56:10.150 --> 00:56:12.110 to the episode to see, to see who, to see who, 00:56:12.150 --> 00:56:20.130 uh, shared said Tabitha was. Um, but, uh, I don't 00:56:20.130 --> 00:56:25.869 know about you. I, I love, Brad, just even having 00:56:25.869 --> 00:56:29.710 another opportunity to get real about things. 00:56:31.690 --> 00:56:38.010 You know what I mean? Yeah, yeah. I like meaningful 00:56:38.010 --> 00:56:41.369 conversation. Yes. Yeah, meaningful conversation. 00:56:41.429 --> 00:56:49.489 And I love being able to... you know, be the 00:56:49.489 --> 00:56:53.289 one or bounce ideas off of you, but getting to 00:56:53.289 --> 00:56:56.269 choose the topic of the real conversation. My 00:56:56.269 --> 00:57:02.030 computer's about to die. Yeah, I was about to 00:57:02.030 --> 00:57:05.429 say, Brad, you're lagging. I think it's going 00:57:05.429 --> 00:57:09.750 in low power mode. Well, while Brad fixes that, 00:57:09.829 --> 00:57:14.449 listeners, thank you. Brad and I thank you so 00:57:14.449 --> 00:57:17.210 much for tuning in and being a part of our show. 00:57:18.720 --> 00:57:23.119 We really hope that our show impacts you. That's 00:57:23.119 --> 00:57:27.800 why we do it. It's not because we think that 00:57:27.800 --> 00:57:31.840 we're wiser than anyone, actually quite the opposite. 00:57:32.820 --> 00:57:37.659 But the topics that we talk about, we feel that 00:57:37.659 --> 00:57:42.739 God has really brought us through different things 00:57:42.739 --> 00:57:47.599 in our lives that has given us insight. on these 00:57:47.599 --> 00:57:50.880 topics um and the show is absolutely going to 00:57:50.880 --> 00:57:54.340 continue um i remember reading brad that uh in 00:57:54.340 --> 00:57:56.239 listeners i'll let you know this too if you if 00:57:56.239 --> 00:57:58.059 you guys don't know anything about podcast statistics 00:57:58.059 --> 00:58:02.980 that generally speaking it takes a podcast two 00:58:02.980 --> 00:58:06.519 years and or 100 episodes to really start gaining 00:58:06.519 --> 00:58:10.900 traction in the podcast world and so the fact 00:58:10.900 --> 00:58:14.659 that we have hit 100 episodes is a in the world 00:58:14.659 --> 00:58:20.360 of podcasting is a huge mile marker. But that 00:58:20.360 --> 00:58:24.440 said listeners, I really want to kind of get 00:58:24.440 --> 00:58:26.400 authentic here. Not to say that I haven't been 00:58:26.400 --> 00:58:31.059 up to this point, but like I've often, I've often 00:58:31.059 --> 00:58:34.900 tossed around the idea, you know, what if, what 00:58:34.900 --> 00:58:42.019 if we were to get big and I love not having. 00:58:42.400 --> 00:58:49.000 any worry at all about about accountability from 00:58:49.000 --> 00:58:53.119 places that it doesn't need to come from i wish 00:58:53.119 --> 00:58:57.239 i could say that i yeah love feeling that way 00:58:57.239 --> 00:59:00.039 too yeah right buddy but brad doesn't but it 00:59:00.039 --> 00:59:02.659 doesn't matter if it is a real thing or not i'm 00:59:02.659 --> 00:59:06.480 still going to worry about it yeah i'm i'm always 00:59:06.480 --> 00:59:10.579 i'm always worried i say worried i'm I try to 00:59:10.579 --> 00:59:13.000 be conscientious as to as to how things come 00:59:13.000 --> 00:59:17.599 out. But I mean, how I think is how I think and 00:59:17.599 --> 00:59:19.400 how other people think is how other people think. 00:59:19.460 --> 00:59:22.679 Right. I mean, that's so I'm told. Yeah, right. 00:59:22.800 --> 00:59:29.239 Go read Hosea. I've been told that I need to 00:59:29.239 --> 00:59:35.440 stop trying to make myself responsible for regulating 00:59:35.440 --> 00:59:40.849 other people's emotions. Good word. I'm guessing 00:59:40.849 --> 00:59:43.469 that has come from your, from, from your wife. 00:59:45.150 --> 00:59:50.570 In part. Yes. In part. Yes. But yeah, but backed 00:59:50.570 --> 00:59:54.889 up by some other people. Yeah. Well, I'm working 00:59:54.889 --> 00:59:58.789 on it. All that said listeners, we love you guys. 00:59:58.909 --> 01:00:01.329 We, we really do this. It's not superficial. 01:00:01.489 --> 01:00:06.889 I promise. And we would love for you to contact 01:00:06.889 --> 01:00:10.019 us. So. 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