1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:13,280 Hello and welcome back to another episode of Upfront and Undivided with Luke and Dina. 2 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:14,280 Hi. 3 00:00:14,280 --> 00:00:15,280 Hey babe. 4 00:00:15,280 --> 00:00:16,280 How's it going? 5 00:00:16,280 --> 00:00:17,280 It's good. 6 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:18,280 How are you? 7 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:19,280 Good. 8 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:20,280 Happy almost turkey day. 9 00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:21,280 Happy almost turkey day. 10 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:22,280 Yes. 11 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:23,280 Yay. 12 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:24,280 How are we doing? 13 00:00:24,280 --> 00:00:25,280 I'm okay. 14 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:26,280 How are you? 15 00:00:26,280 --> 00:00:27,280 How are we feeling? 16 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:29,560 I got was good until like two minutes ago. 17 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:30,560 Yeah. 18 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:31,560 Yeah, you were. 19 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:32,560 Yeah. 20 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:33,560 We want to tell everybody why. 21 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:34,560 Jesus this Lord. 22 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:35,560 Yeah. 23 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:38,440 And it is good and it is fine. 24 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:44,280 Because you just got a text from your brother saying that the booklet of Take Your Vitamins, 25 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:45,280 I don't know. 26 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:47,060 Again, it's like, is it just his copy? 27 00:00:47,060 --> 00:00:49,080 Is it one copy out of the batch? 28 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:53,680 But you know, this is the joys of sending it off somewhere to get printed just small 29 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:55,240 batch at a time. 30 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:56,240 Yeah. 31 00:00:56,240 --> 00:01:00,160 And his booklet had a couple of duplicate pages. 32 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:01,160 Yeah. 33 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:02,160 So yeah. 34 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:04,360 Which on our end, you looked before we started this. 35 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:05,360 Yeah. 36 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:07,560 I looked at what was sent to the printers and there were no duplicates. 37 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:09,760 So I don't know. 38 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:10,760 Yeah. 39 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:11,760 Which is frustrating. 40 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:17,000 So that means that from here on, we need to look through every one of the copies to double 41 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:18,280 check and make sure. 42 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:20,720 Not only when we send it off, but when we receive it. 43 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:25,640 Because the beautiful thing is the place that we do go through, they say if you are not 44 00:01:25,640 --> 00:01:28,680 satisfied they will refund or they will fix it. 45 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:30,680 So I just, dang. 46 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:31,680 Yeah. 47 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:32,680 I was like, what? 48 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:34,200 And he goes, just letting you know. 49 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:36,800 And I'm like, ugh. 50 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:40,720 So if Bobby, if you listen to this one, thank you. 51 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:41,720 Yes. 52 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:44,400 Frustrates me, but it's not on you. 53 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:48,560 I'm grateful that he got back to us because I don't know. 54 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:50,720 See I haven't had any feedback from anybody else. 55 00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:51,780 Nobody else has said anything. 56 00:01:51,780 --> 00:01:54,480 So now I'm going to have to reach out to the people that have bought. 57 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:59,160 Have they just been graciously taking it with a smile and be like, oh, they're new. 58 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:02,720 Potentially, which in my brain, they would be those people. 59 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:03,720 We've got amazing friends. 60 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:04,720 We're going to support them. 61 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:05,720 They're starting out. 62 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:06,720 Yes. 63 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:09,320 We know that, but at the same time I want to go, I'm grateful. 64 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:10,880 Help us improve. 65 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:12,800 Yes, because we need to. 66 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:15,280 And that's what this is about. 67 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:17,620 This is a journey that we're going on. 68 00:02:17,620 --> 00:02:21,960 You guys happen to go on the journey with us. 69 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:22,960 And we get to learn. 70 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:28,000 So it's frustrating because now I'm like, all right, well, now we've got to get my brother 71 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:31,960 a proper copy because that's not okay. 72 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:34,120 Dang it. 73 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:36,800 And we're at the tail end of batch number two. 74 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:37,800 Yeah. 75 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:42,080 So now I'm going, as soon as we get done with this, I'm going to go upstairs and look through 76 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:45,800 the rest of the remainder of the books and be like. 77 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:47,520 We're about to order batch three. 78 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:48,520 Yeah. 79 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:51,720 And we can't be having that because everything that we saw. 80 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:53,320 It's fine. 81 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:56,360 Yeah, it's fine. 82 00:02:56,360 --> 00:02:57,360 It keeps us on our toes. 83 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:59,120 It keeps us from being lazy. 84 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:00,120 Yes. 85 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:01,120 It's fine. 86 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:02,120 Yes. 87 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:07,080 And then we're about to put two weeks more into the devotional and then we're done. 88 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:08,080 Yeah. 89 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:13,680 So the last thing we need is our devotions to be jacked and weird. 90 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:16,640 And if we, you know, it's fine. 91 00:03:16,640 --> 00:03:17,640 Hi guys. 92 00:03:17,640 --> 00:03:20,520 Welcome to this is how we, what is it? 93 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:24,760 You sent me a reel and we literally just did that. 94 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:25,760 What is it? 95 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:28,480 The talk to the talk to think and the thing to talk. 96 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:29,480 Yes. 97 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:30,480 Yeah. 98 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:31,480 Yes. 99 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:34,080 Because inevitably this is kind of one of the things that we wanted to talk about today. 100 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:38,560 I was the one that came up with the idea because you're like, you know, what's our subject? 101 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:43,520 And I said subject, how we process holidays and such. 102 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:44,520 Yes. 103 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:50,400 Because it's like, and you have one person that processes holidays with, I have Christmas 104 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:52,800 music going on in the kitchen. 105 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:54,680 Our daughter is just steadily baking. 106 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:55,680 I was cleaning. 107 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:58,640 I'm getting to the point where I shampooed carpet. 108 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:00,040 I did all this stuff. 109 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:02,520 We are hosting Thanksgiving. 110 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:06,520 I'm not, I'm not everything has to be perfect girl. 111 00:04:06,520 --> 00:04:07,720 And I appreciate that. 112 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:11,480 I've determined this is the revelation that came to me today. 113 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:16,680 I'm not that everything has to be perfect girl, but I am the, I really want you to feel 114 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:22,360 special and honored today when you come and visit my home. 115 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:24,960 Like that girl. 116 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:32,560 And when it comes to the holidays or celebrations, birthdays, things of that nature, I want people 117 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:35,440 to come and be like, wow. 118 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:38,200 Like I feel, I feel like a little bit. 119 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:39,200 Yeah. 120 00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:44,320 Like even, even though the people that are coming over for Thanksgiving are family that 121 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:47,120 see us weekend, week out, they know us. 122 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:48,120 We know them. 123 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:49,120 Yep. 124 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:50,120 Yep. 125 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:52,960 But it's still, it's a special occasion. 126 00:04:52,960 --> 00:04:57,520 You know, it's, it's like, you know, Hey, you know, special occasion dress up for work 127 00:04:57,520 --> 00:04:58,520 or something like that. 128 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:02,120 You know, you just, you put a little extra, a little extra effort into it. 129 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:04,360 Like Gabri's making homemade bakes. 130 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:05,360 Yeah. 131 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:06,360 Yeah. 132 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:10,320 And then it's like, and then tomorrow she's doing homemade mac and cheese. 133 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:12,720 Like I'm kind of stoked about this. 134 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:17,200 We're making homemade like mashed potatoes, garlic mashed potatoes, all the things. 135 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:20,840 And it's just, everything is going to be done intentionally with love. 136 00:05:20,840 --> 00:05:22,200 I don't think I'm making anything. 137 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:23,200 I'm not making anything. 138 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:25,240 I'm warming up some green beans. 139 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:28,000 Probably going to warm up the corn on the cob. 140 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:32,440 I, I, you are the cooker, honestly, out of the two of us. 141 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:35,900 You really, you show up and show off. 142 00:05:35,900 --> 00:05:38,480 I am the hospitality crew. 143 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:45,880 Like I make everything pretty and just hopefully make people feel comfortable. 144 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:48,800 And it's like, find you that person. 145 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:53,080 Cause here's even Gabri, you know, I'm sitting in the living room for a second, just to rest 146 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:54,080 for a minute. 147 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:59,080 And she comes out in, you know, in the kitchen, pops her head around the corner and says, 148 00:05:59,080 --> 00:06:04,180 mom, I've determined that my future husband, he's going to have to like putting away clothes. 149 00:06:04,180 --> 00:06:05,720 He's going to have to like putting away the laundry. 150 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:07,120 I will wash it and dry it all day. 151 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:10,360 And I go, amen sister, cause she gets that from me for sure. 152 00:06:10,360 --> 00:06:15,000 And then she's like, um, and then like, he can be, he can be the cook. 153 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:16,000 I'll do the dishes. 154 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:20,960 I'd like the dishes get gross mom, but like something about it, like it's satisfying and 155 00:06:20,960 --> 00:06:21,960 I don't mind it. 156 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:25,880 And I I'll do that and then I'll bake all day and do all the stuff. 157 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:28,360 And I was like, okay, it's funny. 158 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:33,080 Cause like she's being a little bit more specific sometimes with some of her requests. 159 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:38,760 In my mind, again, I'm like triggering back to our, our subject today. 160 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:48,720 Like when you're married to the opposite person, because I talk to think you think to talk. 161 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:54,640 And it's like when you have two different people in two different mind spaces, like 162 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:56,520 again, I like the music. 163 00:06:56,520 --> 00:06:57,520 I like the noise. 164 00:06:57,520 --> 00:07:02,360 I like the, maybe not the noise, but I like the bustle and the stuff. 165 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:06,880 You come up for five minutes and it could absolutely just make you go right back downstairs 166 00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:10,120 again and just kind of like be quiet. 167 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:11,120 Yes. 168 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:15,920 Which is funny because I come into your office and you'll have your laptop going. 169 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:20,080 You'll be looking at Instagram and you're going to be working all at the same time. 170 00:07:20,080 --> 00:07:26,840 And I'm like, I've determined it's not necessarily the noise. 171 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:32,720 It's you don't like the feeling of the chaos and you're not completely in control of the 172 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:34,720 noise. 173 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:36,720 Yeah. 174 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:38,480 Yeah. 175 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:39,960 I think that's what it is. 176 00:07:39,960 --> 00:07:41,160 It's not so much the cast. 177 00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:42,160 It's the control. 178 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:43,160 Yep. 179 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:46,520 Cause it's like, I mean, cause I'll be honest. 180 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:50,520 There's a lot of times music, there's a lot of music I don't like. 181 00:07:50,520 --> 00:07:51,520 Yeah. 182 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:53,400 You don't like Christmas music? 183 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:54,400 A lot of it. 184 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:55,400 No. 185 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:56,400 Okay. 186 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:57,400 I don't like. 187 00:07:57,400 --> 00:07:59,440 We are 12 and a half years in, Dave. 188 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:03,040 And I'm just now figuring out that you do not care for Christmas music. 189 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:09,840 Cause a lot of times I just put my head down and I, it's for the good of the family. 190 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:14,440 What happened to you as a child that you don't like Christmas music? 191 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:16,200 Like what's, what's that? 192 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:19,880 I, I mean, I don't know. 193 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:20,880 It's like, 194 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:22,800 It really sucks because your birthday is December 11th. 195 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:25,360 Your mom is Christmas Eve baby. 196 00:08:25,360 --> 00:08:26,360 No, I know. 197 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:27,360 I don't know. 198 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:32,360 Like we got, let's, let's get, let's jump into this. 199 00:08:32,360 --> 00:08:35,240 Let's figure this out. 200 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:41,360 Cause I think that that's part of, you guys are literally listening to this as we're processing 201 00:08:41,360 --> 00:08:42,360 this. 202 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:43,360 But it's, but it's not just, it's not just Christmas music. 203 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:45,360 There's just a lot of music I don't like. 204 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:46,360 Okay. 205 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:48,360 It's like, cause I mean, even normal times, 206 00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:50,360 You who's a jukebox. 207 00:08:50,360 --> 00:08:51,360 Yeah. 208 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:55,360 Like even, even the times that we're in the kitchen and you're like, Oh, I'm just going 209 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:56,360 to put the radio on. 210 00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:58,360 And I'm like, yeah, I'm okay. 211 00:08:58,360 --> 00:08:59,360 Yeah. 212 00:08:59,360 --> 00:09:01,360 There's a lot of music I just don't like. 213 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:09,640 And it's like, I just don't like, I don't, if I'm doing something like I can, I can handle 214 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:11,360 it while driving. 215 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:13,120 Yeah. 216 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:18,880 A lot of times, but I mean, for the most part, I'm not somebody that likes to listen to music, 217 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:22,480 just to listen to music or listen to the radio, just listen to the radio. 218 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:23,480 Where I am that girl. 219 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:24,480 Yes. 220 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:30,600 Like you before, you know, when you were figuring some stuff out before we started this, I'm 221 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:31,600 on the treadmill. 222 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:33,680 I have music playing in my head. 223 00:09:33,680 --> 00:09:34,680 This is what we're doing. 224 00:09:34,680 --> 00:09:35,680 Yeah. 225 00:09:35,680 --> 00:09:37,880 Like I am a walking jukebox. 226 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:45,560 Like I will listen to music in the radio just because I think in my mind it's car equals 227 00:09:45,560 --> 00:09:46,560 music. 228 00:09:46,560 --> 00:09:47,560 Okay. 229 00:09:47,560 --> 00:09:49,640 And it's just, that's what you do. 230 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:50,640 Okay. 231 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:54,400 But that's when you, that's when you listen to music is in the car. 232 00:09:54,400 --> 00:09:56,480 What do you listen to when we go to the gym? 233 00:09:56,480 --> 00:10:01,480 I mean, I'll try to listen to like heavy stuff, but it's, it's not stuff that you like. 234 00:10:01,480 --> 00:10:02,480 And so it's like, I think that's part of it. 235 00:10:02,480 --> 00:10:05,040 Or you'll do the extreme and you do classical music. 236 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:06,040 Yeah. 237 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:07,040 Which fascinates me. 238 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:08,040 Yeah. 239 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:09,360 But when you're out in the shop, you don't listen to music. 240 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:11,000 You listen to audio books. 241 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:12,000 Yeah. 242 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:14,600 Okay guys, so this is what we do, right? 243 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:16,520 Like, okay, those are things that we knew. 244 00:10:16,520 --> 00:10:17,520 Yeah. 245 00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:20,880 And then you realize as far as just music is not something that you... 246 00:10:20,880 --> 00:10:25,440 I'm not, I'm not a fan of just listening to music to listen to music. 247 00:10:25,440 --> 00:10:27,280 See music just puts me in a space. 248 00:10:27,280 --> 00:10:29,480 Like it's not just to listen to it. 249 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:36,400 Like it, it helps me move into my day and gets me in a good head space. 250 00:10:36,400 --> 00:10:39,680 And it puts you in a different space where you don't like to be there. 251 00:10:39,680 --> 00:10:40,680 Dang. 252 00:10:40,680 --> 00:10:42,120 So what do we do? 253 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:43,120 No, sincerely. 254 00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:48,320 So this is, these are the things because again, listen, we've had friends, some of the friends 255 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:53,280 that are coming to us on Thanksgiving, they have watched, they have watched you. 256 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:54,280 Yeah. 257 00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:55,280 Or Easter. 258 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:56,280 Okay. 259 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:57,280 Easter. 260 00:10:57,280 --> 00:10:58,280 Was it Easter? 261 00:10:58,280 --> 00:10:59,280 Yeah. 262 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:00,280 Yes. 263 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:01,280 Tracy will concur. 264 00:11:01,280 --> 00:11:02,280 I'll call it out. 265 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:03,280 Tracy was right there. 266 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:04,280 Yeah. 267 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:05,280 No, I'm not arguing it. 268 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:06,280 I remember what you're talking about. 269 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:07,280 I just don't remember the... 270 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:08,280 Yeah. 271 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:09,280 It was Easter. 272 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:10,280 Okay. 273 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:13,760 And you were about to start working on whatever side dishes that you were going to start working 274 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:14,760 on. 275 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:15,760 Was it potatoes? 276 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:17,320 I think I was working on potatoes again. 277 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:18,320 Probably. 278 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:19,320 You're good at it. 279 00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:20,600 Like, listen, you're good at it. 280 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:23,320 There's certain things you just, babe, just run. 281 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:26,600 But it's like you start working on something. 282 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:30,200 I can see you slowly getting more and more agitated. 283 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:36,560 I walk over and it's like, I don't know if you asked me or if I just knew and I turned 284 00:11:36,560 --> 00:11:37,560 off the radio. 285 00:11:37,560 --> 00:11:38,560 I think I mentioned something. 286 00:11:38,560 --> 00:11:39,560 So I was like, I just want it quiet. 287 00:11:39,560 --> 00:11:40,560 Yes. 288 00:11:40,560 --> 00:11:43,440 I think you sounded it just like that. 289 00:11:43,440 --> 00:11:48,120 And I turned off the radio and I said, I'll concede. 290 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:52,400 And I was like, ooh, I didn't mean it like that, but I did. 291 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:53,400 I did. 292 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:54,400 And it was bad. 293 00:11:54,400 --> 00:11:55,480 And I apologize. 294 00:11:55,480 --> 00:11:56,480 I did apologize. 295 00:11:56,480 --> 00:11:57,960 I was like, babe, I am sorry. 296 00:11:57,960 --> 00:11:59,640 I didn't mean it quite like that. 297 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:01,120 I did, but I didn't. 298 00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:06,440 And I think that that might be one of those keys when it comes to marriages, when it comes 299 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:12,400 to these dynamics, because again, our daughter loves the music. 300 00:12:12,400 --> 00:12:16,240 She would have it blaring right now if you were not in the house. 301 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:18,000 It's just that simple. 302 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:22,840 And she will respectfully be respectful. 303 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:29,040 I have it down to a space where maybe it might be you're not in the kitchen, but it's there. 304 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:31,800 So that way she's, okay, I'm making cookies now. 305 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:34,440 I'm making stuff and all the things. 306 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:45,880 But it's like, I think vocalizing those things, vocalizing how you are feeling in that moment, 307 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:51,040 it's like, I think that there's some days and you're really good at it. 308 00:12:51,040 --> 00:12:53,340 There's some days. 309 00:12:53,340 --> 00:12:57,100 And I would like to say that I think that I do fairly well too. 310 00:12:57,100 --> 00:13:00,880 If you are having a moment or having a hard time, I'm all about it. 311 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:05,120 I'll be like, okay, I'll do whatever it is that I need to do to help make you comfortable 312 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:09,880 or to get you out of that head space. 313 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:14,840 We also know that there are, and this is where we'll need the video because I'm looking at 314 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:18,400 you smiling and you're just like, uh-huh, yep. 315 00:13:18,400 --> 00:13:25,360 There's also those days where I want to thump you in the head and go, I need you to not 316 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:29,640 do this because when you do this, actually I said it today. 317 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:31,600 I said, babe, are you okay? 318 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:33,040 And you're like, I'm trying to be. 319 00:13:33,040 --> 00:13:37,840 And I said, okay, so every time I do this, you do that. 320 00:13:37,840 --> 00:13:40,720 And it makes me not want to do this. 321 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:43,320 But it was also, there was other stuff going on. 322 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:49,320 And we talked about that there's other stuff going on, which I'm willing to share on this. 323 00:13:49,320 --> 00:13:53,840 But again, it's just, and I think that's a lot of times when there is stuff like that, 324 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:55,960 it's like, I know that you really like music. 325 00:13:55,960 --> 00:13:57,680 I know that our daughter really likes music. 326 00:13:57,680 --> 00:14:00,000 I know our son really likes music. 327 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:02,360 How many times does he say, hey, can I just play this? 328 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:04,880 Hey, I just want to listen to music. 329 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:07,200 There's even times where he's like, dad, can we listen to music in the car? 330 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:09,560 And I'm like, I really don't want to. 331 00:14:09,560 --> 00:14:19,880 But yeah, but it's just, so it's like, I know y'all love music and love listening to music 332 00:14:19,880 --> 00:14:21,200 just to listen to music. 333 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:22,200 And so I'm like, you know what? 334 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:26,120 I'll just go somewhere else in the house. 335 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:32,000 It's like, this is y'all, I'll go elsewhere. 336 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:33,000 Which is hard. 337 00:14:33,000 --> 00:14:37,280 And I mean, I don't see it as offensive. 338 00:14:37,280 --> 00:14:38,280 I don't take offense. 339 00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:39,280 Good. 340 00:14:39,280 --> 00:14:46,600 I mean, I hope that you guys don't take offense to it because it's, I think in my mind it's 341 00:14:46,600 --> 00:14:48,440 a preference thing. 342 00:14:48,440 --> 00:14:51,400 At the end of the day, it's a preference thing. 343 00:14:51,400 --> 00:14:52,400 This is your preference. 344 00:14:52,400 --> 00:14:54,000 This is my preference. 345 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:58,400 And it's just, hey, that's not my cup of tea. 346 00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:01,840 Okay, I just won't participate. 347 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:06,440 And I think that's, I mean, in my mind it's like that simple. 348 00:15:06,440 --> 00:15:07,720 It's like, oh, that's your thing? 349 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:08,720 Okay, cool. 350 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:09,800 I'll just be over here. 351 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:13,280 We don't have to do the same thing. 352 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:16,040 I think that that's, maybe that's what it is. 353 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:17,720 That's what causes a lot of the problems. 354 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:26,200 That causes a lot of the agitations when it comes to couples, when it comes to marriage, 355 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:27,200 right? 356 00:15:27,200 --> 00:15:33,120 Just that you don't have to be doing the same thing constantly, which is good. 357 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:36,360 I think if you say, hey, it's really important. 358 00:15:36,360 --> 00:15:39,000 I'd really like for you to be in this space with me. 359 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:41,800 I want to be with you. 360 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:50,680 I think having that kind of conversation, expressing that kind of, just expressing it. 361 00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:52,520 Just vocalize what you want. 362 00:15:52,520 --> 00:15:53,520 What do you want? 363 00:15:53,520 --> 00:15:54,520 Babe, what do you want? 364 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:59,520 I would like for you to come into the kitchen with me and bake with me and maybe cook with 365 00:15:59,520 --> 00:16:00,520 me. 366 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:03,800 And tomorrow you and I are going to be in the kitchen together. 367 00:16:03,800 --> 00:16:05,800 There's going to be a lot of activity in the kitchen. 368 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:07,760 There's going to be a lot of activity in the kitchen. 369 00:16:07,760 --> 00:16:10,720 And it's like, what do you do? 370 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:11,720 What do you do? 371 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:17,640 It's like in the mornings, Sunday mornings, you'll turn on the TV and you have soccer 372 00:16:17,640 --> 00:16:21,720 going or you have rugby going. 373 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:22,720 I don't want it. 374 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:24,200 I don't want anything to do with it. 375 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:26,720 Could care less about it, but you're fine with it. 376 00:16:26,720 --> 00:16:29,560 So it's not a big deal. 377 00:16:29,560 --> 00:16:37,640 So I think it's like, understand you've said it, but I want to say it again because I want 378 00:16:37,640 --> 00:16:39,420 to have a greater understanding. 379 00:16:39,420 --> 00:16:48,920 So understanding more of the preference of your person and say, okay, where do you eventually 380 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:57,600 go though where maybe one person feels like their preference is being preferred over the 381 00:16:57,600 --> 00:17:00,240 other? 382 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:02,420 How would you address something like that? 383 00:17:02,420 --> 00:17:06,560 And again, I think that's where the conversations need to happen. 384 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:10,920 And it's like you said, tomorrow we're both going to be in the kitchen. 385 00:17:10,920 --> 00:17:12,680 There's going to be a lot of activity in the house. 386 00:17:12,680 --> 00:17:14,520 I might just put my headset on and just... 387 00:17:14,520 --> 00:17:18,920 And see, and I almost said, in my mind, I was like, I'll just grab my headphones and 388 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:19,920 I'll put on a book. 389 00:17:19,920 --> 00:17:23,920 All of us are going to put on our headphones. 390 00:17:23,920 --> 00:17:26,200 It's like that silent dance party thing. 391 00:17:26,200 --> 00:17:27,200 Yes. 392 00:17:27,200 --> 00:17:28,200 Yes. 393 00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:29,200 You got to be down with that. 394 00:17:29,200 --> 00:17:30,200 I'm like, okay, that's cool. 395 00:17:30,200 --> 00:17:31,200 I really would. 396 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:32,200 Would you? 397 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:33,200 But would we be dancing to the same music, babe? 398 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:34,200 Does it matter? 399 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:35,200 It does. 400 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:36,200 It does. 401 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:37,200 Because we do it at the gym. 402 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:39,960 We will dance to different music at the gym. 403 00:17:39,960 --> 00:17:42,160 But baby, we're doing two different things at the gym. 404 00:17:42,160 --> 00:17:47,200 When we're dancing, we need to be kind of in sync doing the same thing. 405 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:51,680 But wouldn't it be funny if we could find music that's like the same BPM, different 406 00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:52,680 music, same BPM? 407 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:53,680 Yes. 408 00:17:53,680 --> 00:17:59,200 It's like the videos with the how to do the BPM to the cardio or to the CPR. 409 00:17:59,200 --> 00:18:00,200 Yes, actually. 410 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:01,200 That would be funny. 411 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:02,200 That would be funny. 412 00:18:02,200 --> 00:18:03,200 Yeah. 413 00:18:03,200 --> 00:18:04,200 All right. 414 00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:07,680 Now my brain has just went to a completely different space. 415 00:18:07,680 --> 00:18:08,680 But it is. 416 00:18:08,680 --> 00:18:10,640 I think it's what you said. 417 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:22,940 It's that preference of... And again, it's that the conversations, the prayer, the introspection 418 00:18:22,940 --> 00:18:26,920 of is this something major? 419 00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:28,400 Is this a deal breaker? 420 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:31,160 We talk to other couples. 421 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:32,320 We talk to singles. 422 00:18:32,320 --> 00:18:38,040 We talk to our gayberry, not so much Sebastian yet. 423 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:39,040 But what are your non-negotiables? 424 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:40,040 That's it. 425 00:18:40,040 --> 00:18:41,040 Yeah, that's it. 426 00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:42,800 What is your hard and fast? 427 00:18:42,800 --> 00:18:45,040 This is a yes or no. 428 00:18:45,040 --> 00:18:48,480 I need you to be on the same page as me on this. 429 00:18:48,480 --> 00:18:51,280 But over here, eh. 430 00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:53,700 Yeah. 431 00:18:53,700 --> 00:18:59,560 It's like, again, on the weekend mornings, especially Sunday mornings, getting ready 432 00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:02,160 for church, I love turning on football. 433 00:19:02,160 --> 00:19:05,600 And I do my best not to have it too loud. 434 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:10,000 So it's just, I'm watching. 435 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:14,560 But you're in the bathroom, usually have your music going, and you're just getting ready 436 00:19:14,560 --> 00:19:17,440 for the day. 437 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:26,360 And it's like, again, those two experiences, situations don't really conflict with each 438 00:19:26,360 --> 00:19:27,360 other. 439 00:19:27,360 --> 00:19:32,520 And if something is important, like, hey, I need you to come in here. 440 00:19:32,520 --> 00:19:34,360 We need to have a conversation with this. 441 00:19:34,360 --> 00:19:39,600 Or hey, what we're going to be doing involves the same space. 442 00:19:39,600 --> 00:19:45,280 And for the most part, if it's, hey, what's going on in the game is kind of bothering 443 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:47,480 me, OK, I'll change it. 444 00:19:47,480 --> 00:19:48,640 Or something. 445 00:19:48,640 --> 00:19:51,120 But I do. 446 00:19:51,120 --> 00:19:53,160 I think it's one of those, it is. 447 00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:55,360 It's the having the conversations about it. 448 00:19:55,360 --> 00:19:59,920 It's the what are your non-negotiables? 449 00:19:59,920 --> 00:20:02,960 Is it really this important type thing? 450 00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:08,520 I mean, if it's constantly, well, I don't like what's going on, so I'm constantly going 451 00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:10,160 to be on the other side of the house. 452 00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:14,480 It's like, OK, that's a conversation we need to have because now we're avoiding each other 453 00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:15,480 in the same house. 454 00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:16,480 Right. 455 00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:17,480 Right. 456 00:20:17,480 --> 00:20:18,640 No, absolutely. 457 00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:25,740 But if it's one of those things where it's like, you know, I mean, even today before 458 00:20:25,740 --> 00:20:29,040 we started recording, it's like, Gabri's baking upstairs. 459 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:30,040 You were on the treadmill. 460 00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:31,040 I was like, you know what? 461 00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:34,840 I'm going to go do my next chapter of the relationship certification. 462 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:37,240 You know, it's like, I'll just I'll just knock that out. 463 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:40,240 And this is what I'll do. 464 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:41,240 Yeah. 465 00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:51,720 And I think I think it's also because because when you do that, you know, yes, you're you're 466 00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:56,640 focusing on what what you need to take care of, what's on your project list or your to 467 00:20:56,640 --> 00:20:58,880 do list, whatever. 468 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:06,200 But it's also taking care of those things so that when you do come together, it's more 469 00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:07,200 quality. 470 00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:08,200 I like that. 471 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:11,560 You know, because a lot of times if it's like, well, I've got this on my mind, I've got this 472 00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:16,240 on my mind, I got to knock out this project, you got to make progress on that project. 473 00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:23,240 When you do get them together, you almost you can almost be distracted too much of what 474 00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:25,160 I need to be getting done. 475 00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:26,160 Right. 476 00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:31,760 Versus, OK, well, all that's taken care of or I've moved on, I've made enough progress 477 00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:35,560 where I can now focus 100 percent and be in this spot with you. 478 00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:36,560 Right. 479 00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:40,720 So I'm totally focused, undistracted, spending time with you. 480 00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:41,720 Yeah. 481 00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:42,720 No, that's good. 482 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:43,720 Yeah. 483 00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:44,720 I like that. 484 00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:47,920 My I heard everything that you said. 485 00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:48,920 No, I know. 486 00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:53,080 I was literally thumbing through the pages of the book in my brain. 487 00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:54,080 Yeah. 488 00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:55,080 Horrible. 489 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:56,080 That's bad. 490 00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:57,080 No, it's OK. 491 00:21:57,080 --> 00:21:58,080 Maybe I should have looked at it before. 492 00:21:58,080 --> 00:21:59,080 You even said that. 493 00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:00,080 I did. 494 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:01,080 I want to go see it because I knew this was going to happen. 495 00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:04,200 I was like, you're like, I'm like, you're going to I'm going to hone in, but then I'm 496 00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:05,200 going to like not. 497 00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:06,200 It's good. 498 00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:07,200 It's fine. 499 00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:08,200 Yeah. 500 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:14,160 No, because then it is like you said, understanding that there is enough things that you can come 501 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:19,840 together on that that you can say we're together. 502 00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:20,840 That's all that matters. 503 00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:21,840 Yeah. 504 00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:22,840 We're together. 505 00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:23,840 That's all that matters. 506 00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:31,040 And so because it's like I mean, you can like you said, if you wanted to talk about some 507 00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:34,800 of the stuff that you were talking about earlier, that was kind of also on your brain. 508 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:39,160 Like, you know, you're potentially about to start going into the office on a more regular 509 00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:40,160 basis. 510 00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:44,880 And, you know, you being in the house all the time is not healthy for you. 511 00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:45,880 No. 512 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:47,640 Where it's not healthy for me either. 513 00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:51,920 But I actually can be in here more often than I think anybody else in the house. 514 00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:52,920 Yeah. 515 00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:53,920 But that's who I am. 516 00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:56,760 And that's where God has gifted me in this season. 517 00:22:56,760 --> 00:22:57,760 Like what? 518 00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:02,480 Well, I was going to say, and I think also the bonus is, you know, the days that you 519 00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:05,600 are home, you know, you're you're bebopping around the house. 520 00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:06,600 You know, you're not just. 521 00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:12,360 And whereas when I'm at the where I'm quote unquote working in the office, not working, 522 00:23:12,360 --> 00:23:15,600 not quote unquote working, I am working, I'm quote unquote in the office. 523 00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:16,600 Right. 524 00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:17,600 You know, it is. 525 00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:23,760 I'm I will say I'm in one space and I'm sitting and I will I will completely lose track of 526 00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:24,760 time. 527 00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:25,760 Right. 528 00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:31,480 And so it's like I am, you know, it's like I was messaging somebody talking about, you 529 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:33,800 know, getting back in shape and fitness and all. 530 00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:37,920 And I'm like, yeah, I'll lose track of time and I'll be sitting in one spot for eight 531 00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:38,920 to ten hours. 532 00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:39,920 Right. 533 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:40,920 Not healthy. 534 00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:42,480 No, definitely not healthy. 535 00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:49,240 You know, and it's but it is it's you know, because and it's you know, it's like I said 536 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:52,720 to you earlier, it's. 537 00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:57,400 You know, when you work from home. 538 00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:05,040 And then you're where you podcast and do your studying and researching and working on your 539 00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:09,400 certifications is in the exact same chair as your work chair. 540 00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:10,400 Right. 541 00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:17,920 You know, it's like there is there that that line of work and home or work and not work 542 00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:19,640 gets very, very blurred. 543 00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:20,640 Right. 544 00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:22,880 If not, to some degrees, not existent. 545 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:23,880 Right. 546 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:27,600 And over the you know, over the past four years, that's really weighed on me. 547 00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:28,600 Right. 548 00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:33,720 You know, even the six even the six weeks that I was, you know, on that that 100 percent 549 00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:34,720 remote detail. 550 00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:35,720 Yeah. 551 00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:41,240 You know, at least now I go into the work, the office one day a week. 552 00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:43,440 And you are charged by the time you get home. 553 00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:45,160 Like you're completely different. 554 00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:47,000 It's not even you're a completely different person. 555 00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:48,000 You're my husband. 556 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:49,000 Yeah. 557 00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:50,000 Oh, there you are. 558 00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:51,000 Hi, babe. 559 00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:52,000 Yeah. 560 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:54,000 So you're like, I went to work, I left it at work. 561 00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:55,000 Yes. 562 00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:56,000 Yes. 563 00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:59,280 Whereas when I'm at home, it's like I was I was at work and and now I'm I'm at work 564 00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:00,280 home. 565 00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:01,280 Yeah. 566 00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:02,280 Thirteen steps up. 567 00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:03,280 I didn't get a chance to commute. 568 00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:04,280 Right. 569 00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:09,960 Decompress and do other things because I'd even asked you when you got off work today, 570 00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:12,200 I just said, do you need to go somewhere? 571 00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:13,560 Do you need to go for a drive? 572 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:14,560 Yeah. 573 00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:17,480 Do you need to just kind of be, you know, what what is it that you need? 574 00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:20,120 And you're like, no, no, I'm OK. 575 00:25:20,120 --> 00:25:21,560 You know, like I'm OK. 576 00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:26,840 But it is it's it's I think being intentional, being 577 00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:27,840 proactive. 578 00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:28,840 Yeah. 579 00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:39,200 Understanding the preferences of the other person, understanding that there are times 580 00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:48,480 when those preferences need to take precedence and for someone's mental health. 581 00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:54,640 And I'll even say just your it's we talk about yours a lot, but even the fact that you are 582 00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:59,880 sensitive to mine, you're sensitive to our daughter and to our son. 583 00:25:59,880 --> 00:26:05,720 That we're all very the three of us, four of us, but the three of us, the kids and I 584 00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:09,160 very emotionally high IQ kids people. 585 00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:10,160 Right. 586 00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:12,720 To where we feel everything. 587 00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:13,720 Yeah. 588 00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:19,920 And that can be overwhelming to you, but you are very, very gracious and good to us. 589 00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:26,600 So I think understanding your spouse, understanding your children, even understanding the the 590 00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:33,160 spaces that you're going to be walking into for the holidays, just just be aware of how 591 00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:36,080 you're feeling in that moment. 592 00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:37,080 You don't have to be a jerk. 593 00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:38,080 You don't have to just bounce. 594 00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:41,360 You don't have to be like, well, you're not being sensitive to my needs. 595 00:26:41,360 --> 00:26:42,680 It's not about you. 596 00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:46,760 As much as it is about you, it's not because with all due respect, Luke and I will literally 597 00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:48,880 look at each other and say, OK, I can't have that. 598 00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:52,400 This can't be about us right now. 599 00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:54,200 What can I do to help you? 600 00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:58,440 But ultimately, we need to do it in a way to where we're not trying to absolutely wreck 601 00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:01,400 everybody else's day. 602 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:04,520 Because can I say I'm going to say it? 603 00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:06,800 I'm just gonna be real. 604 00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:11,380 Because I unfortunately understand you have it too. 605 00:27:11,380 --> 00:27:12,380 We both do. 606 00:27:12,380 --> 00:27:13,380 We both do. 607 00:27:13,380 --> 00:27:14,380 We both do. 608 00:27:14,380 --> 00:27:15,380 And I think that's the best way to do it. 609 00:27:15,380 --> 00:27:17,660 Where there are family members or there are friends and they are the they are the gray 610 00:27:17,660 --> 00:27:18,660 cloud. 611 00:27:18,660 --> 00:27:21,320 Yeah, the ear of the bunch. 612 00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:26,200 And it's like you want them to come alongside you want to be your was always invited, which 613 00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:27,200 was beautiful. 614 00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:28,200 And that was great. 615 00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:29,200 Yeah. 616 00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:30,200 OK, that's great. 617 00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:35,920 But listen, Tigger and Kanga and the ones that are just jumpy and constantly full of 618 00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:36,920 joy. 619 00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:41,160 Piglet, all the things like like don't be such a damper. 620 00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:42,160 Yeah. 621 00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:45,280 Because you are affecting people in such a negative space. 622 00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:46,760 There is a fine line. 623 00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:48,400 And I understand. 624 00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:52,640 Like if you're if you're struggling, man, like I want you to tell me you're struggling. 625 00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:57,400 But there's got there's got to be a difference between a struggle and I'm having just a yeah, 626 00:27:57,400 --> 00:27:58,400 a flip of a day. 627 00:27:58,400 --> 00:27:59,400 Yeah. 628 00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:05,440 I was gonna say it's or it's it's also you know, where, you know, the ones that will 629 00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:08,600 insist that you come down to their level when they come around. 630 00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:09,600 That part. 631 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:10,600 That part. 632 00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:12,560 That's the point. 633 00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:15,800 Because I will say as as much as Eeyore was like that, he never insisted people come down 634 00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:16,800 to him. 635 00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:17,800 And he always showed up. 636 00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:18,800 Always showed up. 637 00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:19,800 He always showed up. 638 00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:22,800 Man, babe, that will preach in itself. 639 00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:25,280 Sincerely, even in the crap of the day, show up. 640 00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:26,280 Yeah. 641 00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:27,280 Yes. 642 00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:28,280 He always showed up. 643 00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:32,240 Yes, he was always sad and down, but he never insisted people come down and join him. 644 00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:33,240 Yes. 645 00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:34,240 He just said, here's what's going on. 646 00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:35,240 This is who I am. 647 00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:36,240 Yeah. 648 00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:37,240 I lost my tail again. 649 00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:38,240 You know, 650 00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:41,560 I keep pinning it to him. 651 00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:42,560 Just sew it. 652 00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:43,560 It'll be fine. 653 00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:44,560 They're young. 654 00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:47,240 They're they're not allowed needles. 655 00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:48,840 But they are allowed to have tacks. 656 00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:49,840 Yes. 657 00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:50,840 Okay. 658 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:52,640 It's a safety tack. 659 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:53,640 Oh, okay. 660 00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:54,640 Yeah. 661 00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:55,640 Yeah. 662 00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:56,640 But still. 663 00:28:56,640 --> 00:29:00,640 But yeah, yeah, that is, you know, I mean, again, like you said, that'll that'll that's 664 00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:01,640 a lesson right then and there. 665 00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:02,640 I love that. 666 00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:05,240 He always showed up and he never insisted people join him. 667 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:06,240 Yes. 668 00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:07,240 Just this is what's happening. 669 00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:08,240 Yeah. 670 00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:09,240 Oh, okay. 671 00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:15,040 See, now I'm like, where do we end on this conversation? 672 00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:16,800 Did that even tie into what we had to say? 673 00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:17,800 I think so. 674 00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:18,800 Okay. 675 00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:19,800 I think so. 676 00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:22,840 Because again, we're talking about preferences and initially, I labeled this kind of, you 677 00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:24,520 know, like holiday stress relief. 678 00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:25,520 I like it. 679 00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:28,240 You know, find find a stress relief. 680 00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:29,240 Yeah. 681 00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:30,240 What you need to do. 682 00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:31,240 Yeah. 683 00:29:31,240 --> 00:29:32,240 What does your spouse need from you? 684 00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:34,120 What do your children need from you? 685 00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:37,320 Look at your spouse or the people around you. 686 00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:43,720 You know, like, I mean, our amazing friends that that do battle with the same things. 687 00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:44,800 Right. 688 00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:51,560 What, what is a, not so much a safe word, but what's a code word of just like, Hey, 689 00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:55,080 it's just getting a little, it's getting a little loud. 690 00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:57,600 I'm just going to excuse myself for just a second. 691 00:29:57,600 --> 00:30:00,320 But hey, like have the one person. 692 00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:01,320 Yeah. 693 00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:02,320 Like, look at me. 694 00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:03,320 Right. 695 00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:05,400 I'm going to go step out for just a second. 696 00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:06,400 Yeah. 697 00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:10,600 If you don't see me back in like 10 minutes, though, go ahead and come find me. 698 00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:11,600 Yeah. 699 00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:12,600 Okay. 700 00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:19,800 You know, and again, I think it helps that, you know, tomorrow for Thanksgiving, it's 701 00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:21,520 going to be just, just family. 702 00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:22,520 Yeah. 703 00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:27,520 You know, and, and so it's like, everybody knows it's like, and I'm comfortable enough 704 00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:32,280 where with, with everybody that if it does get a little too extra, I'll just be like, 705 00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:34,000 Hey, I'm just going to go in the other room. 706 00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:35,000 Yeah. 707 00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:36,560 And then they will follow you. 708 00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:37,560 They will follow. 709 00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:38,560 Yeah. 710 00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:41,560 But then they're, but I don't, I don't say, Hey, I'm going into the other room to be by 711 00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:42,560 myself. 712 00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:43,560 Right. 713 00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:44,560 Hey, I'm going to the other room. 714 00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:45,560 Yeah. 715 00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:50,600 I'm going to be by myself for just a second and I'll be right back. 716 00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:51,600 Yeah. 717 00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:52,600 Yeah. 718 00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:54,640 Like we have, I mean, it feels like 14 years ago. 719 00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:57,360 That's those are the moments where it's like, I'm going to go smoke. 720 00:30:57,360 --> 00:30:58,360 Yeah. 721 00:30:58,360 --> 00:30:59,360 But sorry, babe. 722 00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:00,360 Yeah. 723 00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:01,360 Like you. 724 00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:04,360 I mean, I don't know. 725 00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:06,600 No, but it is. 726 00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:09,720 I think just have a game plan. 727 00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:10,720 Yeah. 728 00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:13,080 Vocalize what's going on. 729 00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:14,080 Have a greater understanding. 730 00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:16,360 Cause again, guys, you just heard it. 731 00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:17,360 Yeah. 732 00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:22,720 However many years now, like I'm looking at you going, you don't like Christmas music. 733 00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:27,360 Like I'm not a huge Mariah Carey fan, but girl, like there's those times where I'm like, 734 00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:29,200 yes, girl, let's just, let's go. 735 00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:30,840 All I want for Christmas is you babe. 736 00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:31,840 Like that's it. 737 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:32,840 Let's go. 738 00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:33,840 But it is. 739 00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:37,960 It's I, so, um, so thank you. 740 00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:38,960 Thank you. 741 00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:39,960 Appreciate you. 742 00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:46,480 Appreciate genuinely appreciate, appreciate that you, you let the kids and I have our 743 00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:47,480 Christmas and yeah. 744 00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:48,480 Cause I know it's important. 745 00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:49,480 See, because I did. 746 00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:57,760 I ultimately know it's important and you babe and me not liking music is not that important. 747 00:31:57,760 --> 00:31:58,760 Yeah. 748 00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:00,760 Like I want to, you asked me earlier. 749 00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:06,640 Like I would like to go see the lights come on because we used to do it all the time. 750 00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:07,640 And I'm like, that would be great. 751 00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:08,640 And you're like, I'm fine. 752 00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:18,840 But if you want to go, I do, but like, but if you don't then say, yes, I want to go. 753 00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:20,440 I would really like to go. 754 00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:21,440 Then we'll go. 755 00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:22,440 Okay. 756 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:27,440 And we could see if maybe it's, it's from five to eight and they, they plan on flipping 757 00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:28,440 the switch around seven. 758 00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:29,440 Okay. 759 00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:33,600 And then we can just bounce or just have a good time. 760 00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:36,800 But like it's, it's a fun memory. 761 00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:41,160 It's, it's, I mean, the fact that it used to be our tradition and now it's like, you 762 00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:46,320 know, our girls going off with her buddies, but it's like, Oh my gosh, mom, we haven't 763 00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:47,760 done this in a really long time. 764 00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:49,440 Cause we've usually been in Texas. 765 00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:55,080 We've usually been in Texas, but like, I was like, Oh, that would really, that would really 766 00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:57,280 be that I would think I would enjoy that. 767 00:32:57,280 --> 00:32:59,600 So we shall see. 768 00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:00,800 Yeah, we'll see. 769 00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:01,800 We can go. 770 00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:02,800 Okay. 771 00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:03,800 We'll go. 772 00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:04,800 Okay. 773 00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:05,800 Yeah. 774 00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:06,800 Are you sure? 775 00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:07,800 Yes. 776 00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:08,800 I'm sure. 777 00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:12,280 I know that sometimes that just is not a lot of fun for you. 778 00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:13,280 He's bigger now. 779 00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:17,480 The last time we went was when Sebastian was on your shoulders and he's tiny. 780 00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:18,480 Yes. 781 00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:24,840 And again, tomorrow, just like back then, I enjoy watching y'all enjoy things. 782 00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:25,840 Yeah. 783 00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:26,840 I truly do. 784 00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:27,840 I really do. 785 00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:33,880 You know, again, I, I growing up, it was one of those things I never understood how, you 786 00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:40,640 know, dads or parents could enjoy not really getting anything for Christmas, you know, 787 00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:42,560 but yet still having a blast. 788 00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:43,560 Yeah. 789 00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:51,920 And it's like now on this side of, you know, seeing that joy in, in your kids' faces, you 790 00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:55,120 know, and, and it is, it's like, this, this is what it is. 791 00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:56,120 Yeah. 792 00:33:56,120 --> 00:34:01,040 And there's so many things about, I mean, this could, this, I could go talk about this 793 00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:10,080 for a while, but just how many things about kids, you know, babies, toddlers, you know, 794 00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:18,900 just how they bring some of the lessons and the stories and the things from the Bible 795 00:34:18,900 --> 00:34:19,900 to life. 796 00:34:19,900 --> 00:34:20,900 Yeah. 797 00:34:20,900 --> 00:34:26,040 In a, in a visual, tangible illustration, so to speak. 798 00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:32,520 And, you know, like, like when Sebastian was a baby, you know, it's like, we would sing 799 00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:37,480 a song at church, you know, you know, talking about gazing up within wide-eyed wonder. 800 00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:39,040 And it's like, what is that? 801 00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:40,040 What is, what does that look like? 802 00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:41,040 What does that feel like? 803 00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:46,560 And then all of a sudden it's like, you're holding an infant and yes, they're probably 804 00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:51,240 just looking at the lights, but you know, who knows what they're looking at, you know, 805 00:34:51,240 --> 00:34:57,120 because, because, but again, it's, it's just that wide-eyed, that open mouth, that just 806 00:34:57,120 --> 00:34:59,360 look of amazement and astonishment. 807 00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:00,360 Yeah. 808 00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:01,360 Yeah. 809 00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:02,360 You know, on their, their face. 810 00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:03,840 And it's like, that's okay. 811 00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:05,560 That's what the, that's what that is. 812 00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:06,760 That is wide-eyed wonder. 813 00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:12,580 That is, you know, the childlike faith of, you know, if you say, you know, Sebastian is 814 00:35:12,580 --> 00:35:16,360 convinced that I'm the smartest person in the world, probably outside of pop-pop, you 815 00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:17,360 know. 816 00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:18,800 I mean, I'd have to agree. 817 00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:22,840 But you know, I could, I could say anything and he knows that I know. 818 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:23,840 Yes. 819 00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:24,840 Beyond a shadow of a doubt. 820 00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:25,920 He knows dad knows. 821 00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:27,840 Our daughter is kind of in the same boat. 822 00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:28,840 Yeah. 823 00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:32,320 I mean, it helps that I have some, I mean, I'll pat myself on the back. 824 00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:35,840 It helps that I actually do like look some, look a bunch of the stuff up. 825 00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:37,400 And it's like, I do know this. 826 00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:38,400 I really do know this. 827 00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:44,400 I'm not just pulling facts out of a random space, but you know, but I could, I could 828 00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:47,160 randomly say anything and he'd be like, okay, dad said it. 829 00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:48,160 It's real. 830 00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:49,160 Period. 831 00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:51,600 You know, it's like when I was a kid, it's like I would look at my dad. 832 00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:53,440 I don't, I can't use the same example. 833 00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:54,440 Yeah. 834 00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:58,280 I can't use the same answer that my dad did, but you know, I would look at my dad. 835 00:35:58,280 --> 00:35:59,560 I was like, dad, how do you know that? 836 00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:01,440 I read it in a book. 837 00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:04,760 You know, I don't, I don't read as many books as my dad, but it's like, I Googled it. 838 00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:05,760 Yeah. 839 00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:08,920 I've Googled it enough times in the past that you know that this is that I now know 840 00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:09,920 it. 841 00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:10,920 Yeah. 842 00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:15,000 I am, I am that person that I will find, Oh, what's an article about random facts? 843 00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:16,000 Okay, cool. 844 00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:17,000 Yes. 845 00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:23,640 And I was like, that I sent you some of them the other day that like the Roman Coliseum 846 00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:28,760 was built and unveiled around the same time that the gospels were being written. 847 00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:29,760 Crazy. 848 00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:30,760 Absolutely crazy. 849 00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:31,760 Yeah. 850 00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:36,040 That the fact, I mean, the fact that the Coliseum was not active when Jesus was alive. 851 00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:37,040 Yeah. 852 00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:38,040 Man, man. 853 00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:39,040 That's crazy. 854 00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:40,040 Yeah. 855 00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:41,040 Yeah. 856 00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:42,040 So preferences. 857 00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:43,040 Yeah. 858 00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:44,040 Preferences. 859 00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:45,040 Preferences. 860 00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:46,040 Yes. 861 00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:47,040 Learn the preferences. 862 00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:50,040 Learn, learn the signals. 863 00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:51,040 Yes. 864 00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:58,120 Don't, don't be offended if your person doesn't maybe want to be in a particular space. 865 00:36:58,120 --> 00:36:59,120 Yeah. 866 00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:01,680 Double check, ask them, ask questions. 867 00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:04,560 Don't assume anything. 868 00:37:04,560 --> 00:37:12,080 And then when you are out and about, maybe at other places, when it, when you need to 869 00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:18,200 make space or maybe when it's time to go and make sure that you, you kind of have a plan 870 00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:19,200 of escape. 871 00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:20,200 Yeah. 872 00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:25,400 You know, that, that does it in a way to where you're doing your best to not disrupt somebody 873 00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:26,400 else's holiday. 874 00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:27,400 Yeah. 875 00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:28,400 Be a good person. 876 00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:29,400 Yeah. 877 00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:31,280 Just be a good person. 878 00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:34,640 And if it's, if it's important to you, say so. 879 00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:35,640 Say so. 880 00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:36,640 Absolutely. 881 00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:37,640 You don't have to try to coerce anybody. 882 00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:39,640 You don't have to try to manipulate the situation. 883 00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:42,000 Just, hey, going to the plaza lights. 884 00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:43,000 Is important to you. 885 00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:44,000 Yeah. 886 00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:45,000 Okay. 887 00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:46,000 We'll go. 888 00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:47,000 You're my favorite human. 889 00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:48,000 It's that simple. 890 00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:49,000 Yes. 891 00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:50,000 Yes. 892 00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:53,000 You're my, but if you said, babe, I'm not feeling it. 893 00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:54,000 I would be fine. 894 00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:55,000 I know. 895 00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:56,000 Yeah. 896 00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:57,000 Yeah. 897 00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:58,000 Aw. 898 00:37:58,000 --> 00:37:59,000 You're my favorite. 899 00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:00,000 I love you. 900 00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:01,000 I love you too. 901 00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:02,000 I'm grateful for you, babe. 902 00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:03,000 Thank you. 903 00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:07,560 See, I'm trying not to cry because it's like, I am. 904 00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:09,800 I'm grateful for you. 905 00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:11,200 And we are grateful for our listeners. 906 00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:14,560 We're grateful for you guys. 907 00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:15,920 We're going to figure out this book thing. 908 00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:16,920 Yes. 909 00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:17,920 Yes. 910 00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:18,920 Dang it. 911 00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:19,920 It's going to be all right. 912 00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:20,920 Yeah. 913 00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:21,920 It's going to be all right. 914 00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:25,400 We're about to owe people books potentially. 915 00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:26,400 Yeah. 916 00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:27,400 It's going to be all right. 917 00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:28,400 Yes, it will. 918 00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:29,400 Jesus is Lord. 919 00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:30,400 It's fine. 920 00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:31,400 That's right. 921 00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:32,400 But we are going to get fixed. 922 00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:33,700 We're going to get figured out. 923 00:38:33,700 --> 00:38:38,680 If you guys are interested in purchasing, take your vitamins by all means. 924 00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:39,960 Let us know. 925 00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:46,640 And then also just know that our marriage divisional is going to be on the horizon soon. 926 00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:58,360 So but yeah, have a safe, have a blessed, have a heart full of gratitude Thanksgiving 927 00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:00,760 and know that we will see you guys next time. 928 00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:01,760 Okay? 929 00:39:01,760 --> 00:39:02,760 Yes. 930 00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:03,760 Have the best week, guys. 931 00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:24,040 Bye.