Welcome to the Feminine Power Podcast and today's
episode is quite unique. I'm speaking with Lynn,
a former high -class escort who now works as
a sensuality practitioner offering deeply intentional
sessions to individuals and couples seeking reconnection
with their bodies and desires and playfulness.
We're not talking about sexual services here
so that you understand the context. We're exploring
the world of sensual services. a space many can
be unfamiliar with and so a space that might
carry a lot of stigma but also quite a potential
for healing and you will see why. Lynn shares
how she chose this profession consciously and
how she now continues to deepen her skills and
how sensuality when held with safety, presence
and care can become a getaway for emotional release,
nervous system regulation and deep deep intimacy.
I personally find this work fascinating. I have
had her services. And if you're curious, I invite
you to keep listening with an open mind. I'm
your host Maria Grinina, founder of Feel, a global
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let's begin. I always love to say that I've been
raised incredibly open -minded. So that is definitely
a privilege. that many people don't have, meaning
lots of topics were always open, including sexuality
or sensual expression. And yet, it took me so
many years to really indulge it myself. I had
these stories in my mind of self -judgment and
maybe lack of confidence. And that held me back
for many years, even though I think I must have
been around the age of 20. For me, it started
with a movie I saw about a high -class escort.
And I watched that movie and I thought, that
is me. I really felt that, like, that is me.
That's my life. That's what I want my life to
be, which is a very unpopular choice of profession.
There were so many other things I also liked.
So I studied, so I had another career. And yeah,
it took me until I reached the age of 30. And
by that time I had already gone to many erotic
events and parties. I had dipped my toe in the
world of eroticism, but it turned, yeah, it turned
30 and then I felt ready to make it my professional
life. So on my side, when I look at central services,
yeah, I see that this is something that is a
much quicker answer to a state that a lot of
people like a state of surrender, a state of
bliss, a state of joy, a state of connection.
And you have such deep skills, so trained, highly
trained in different modalities that you have
this ability to put people into a state of bliss
and surrender while feeling so safe and seen
in a short amount of time, I must say. So in
the world that is constantly seeking for solutions
for connection and mental health and relaxation,
what you can offer, I find it so special. And
I enjoyed my time with you. And I want to start
here, actually, with this personal outlook. When
I asked you to give me a session, which was a
session of Shibari and sensual body manipulation.
And basically I asked you just make me submit
and relax. For me it was like, I'm going through
this marketing launch and I'm all in this doing,
doing, doing energy and I have to perform. And
every day I have to be all together for about
a month. So it's really intense time. And me,
myself, knowing how important my nervous system
is for my success, including as for many years
of life, but also for the actual success of the
launch. And be like, I'll do anything I need
to make sure I'm healthy and relaxed. Although
I did massages during that stage, your session
just took me out of my mind. And that was what
I needed at that time, because I already started
to even losing my libido. I started losing my
like softness at all. I was like, so, oh, and
just in one hour I was like, ah, okay, now I'm
good. So, I know we haven't given a lot of background
yet, but I want to start from the spicy bit right
away and the background is going to open. What
did you do to me? How? I wish I had an answer,
right? That would be incredible if I would say
like, yeah, I just did this and then I could
teach that to everyone. But the truth is I work
on intuition and that is an intuition I've developed
over years of experience and lots of education.
By now I cannot tell really what it is that I
do exactly other than I do believe I have an
incredible skill in being able to read what someone
wants before they can actually speak into that.
And I would say the base of that is something
I use all the time. I think a lot of people have
no idea what it is that they are actually desiring.
in general, but even when they do book a sexual
service. And I've come to realize that it's very
rarely about sex. Actually, it's never. And so
then there is this whole gray area in which we
can explore. And if you have never tried different
things like centric work or body work or shibari
or hypnosis for that matter, then how can you
know what it is that you need? So I would say
that for me as a professional, it is up to me
to make sure that the menu is presented in a
way that someone can choose which modality kind
of feels most attractive. Or what is the starting
point, let's say, because once you start somewhere
and you feel the connection is there, then kind
of the sky's the limit. If we would have another
session, you would probably tell me, do whatever
you feel is right. So yeah, I think it's just
a combination of a lot of experience. Here for
all the listeners who are like, what? And now
I want to give a background. We in this modern
world have a lot of stigma around escort, sex
work. Then the narrative there is that, oh, this
is for people who are lonely. That's why they
just can't have get sex elsewhere. So that's
why the book is sexual service. And this is because
we just don't have enough information. We just
don't know what is possible, what is out there.
And we also have a lot of shame and stigma and
a lot of other conditioning that we can go into
for a very long time if we wanted to, but we
won't. If we actually come back into, hmm, what
is it that is true to me? What feels good? What
do I need? And if we also connect to other people
from a space of love and acceptance, this kind
of service. can be a beautiful way of Even releasing,
reconnecting with oneself, experiencing a desire,
having a new experience with your body. Especially
connection to the body is so powerful that can
be explored when there is somebody who is professional,
who can take you to certain places. And what
I love about you is that you are really trained
in so many different modalities. And then indeed,
as you say, you can have a menu and you can pick
and choose different things and combine them
into a recipe. bring something to a person that
they actually need in a moment. And that can
all range from being in a power dynamics, having
sexy talk, dirty talk, having an experience of
bondage, having just a sensual connection. It
may also not even involve any kind of sexual
connection in this experience. For example, for
myself, it was enough that you tied me and put
me to the ground and then spoke to me nicely,
like, right? So it's like, it's a whole hour
of essential experience. It just brings me back
to the body. So people imagine that this just,
oh, sex service is about penetration, right?
And that's such a small look at it. And in reality,
there is a whole world of body, embodiment connection,
especially when there is somebody that is so
skilled. Tell me, what is it that you do? What
is your menu? Well, my starting point was as
a high -class escort. And I stepped into that
with not that much experience, other than just
being very fascinated. And then... did lead me
into all these different skills that I learned.
So shibari, tantric work, body work, hypnosis,
more power play dynamics. And it came with a
huge conclusion for me, which was, hey, it's
actually never about sex. And so right now the
services that I offer evolve around, I would
call it sensuality. So it's not longer a sexual
service. But I do play in that area where there
is, let's say the gray zone of sensuality. So
that is erotically charged, even though it doesn't
go into penetrative or oral sexual services.
I have divided it kind of into different things
that work really well for me. So first of all,
shibari. What an incredible tool in a really
soft way, connect to someone's body and create
a sense of. I mean, to me, it feels as if I'm
being like wrapped up and held. It's so soft,
so tender. And you can also go into suspension,
which is very technical skill. And there simply
are not so many people, especially women in Europe
that offer this service. So I give Shibari sessions,
private or lessons to couples or people with
their play partner. You don't need to be a romantic
couple. Besides that, I offer a few tantric experiences.
One of them is genital massages, something I
am deeply adoring myself. I love to give it.
There are so many people who have never experienced
their genitals being touched other than it being
to get aroused, like in preparation of sex or
in a medical manner. To offer that to me is very,
yeah, it's just beautiful. incredible. I offer
tantric couple sessions where it's more about
reconnecting together in a different way. And
I offer domination sessions or lessons, which
is basically a bit more power play dynamics in
reality. So yeah, I think all the things that
I offer, I also want to teach because I just
get a lot of requests from couples saying like,
Oh, could we come together on a session or how
could we learn this? And I thought it's kind
of important that. If you don't want to go into
a group workshop, but you do want to learn something
new, that you can have a private learning experience.
Exactly. Yeah. And often that's just deeply touching
also. In a couple dynamic to reconnect together
with someone being present who is just giving
tips and tricks and new ideas. What an incredible
thing to see. Like for me even to see that unfolding
is just, it warms my heart so deeply. And let's
break it down a little bit for those who might
not know so much what does this actually mean.
Starting from genital massages, what are they?
So these are basically different techniques to
work with pressure points around your genitals.
And I mean, honestly, We all have had a massage
before. We have knots in our muscles. We love
it when they're being cracked open. But our genitals
are never touched. And for women, our breasts
are never touched. Well, actually, those are
the places where we store so much tension, so
much emotional blockages. And so our muscles
around our genital area are often incredibly
tense for men and for women, actually. So I love
to give people the experience of actually loosening
up that area and really sinking into their body,
sinking into what it feels like to be touched
there without needing to do anything in return,
just to receive it. And very often it's actually
a very emotional experience rather than very
arousing. First you have to get all that shit
out, like all these emotional blockages, and
then... you will feel that also your arousal
will be different afterwards. And what about
the tantric experiences for couples? What is
it that you do them? It's mainly about slowing
down together. And taking a moment to explore
together and just to take time. I think the key
word there is slowing down. And it also includes
different way of touching or holding each other
and kind of trying different things. I mean,
especially couples who have been together for
many years, you just have your ways, and it's
very difficult to change your ways. And it's
just a beautiful experience, I believe, to under
guidance, go into something together that feels
really connective. And just for those wondering,
there is an option of being naked, that's not
necessary. It doesn't include penetration of
any kind. But I do feel when we strip there and
we kind of reveal ourselves a true connection,
and if people feel comfortable, you're welcome
to be naked. Like that's just natural, but it's
definitely not necessary. So I love it. You help
couples to go through these experiences and slow
down with your guidance, right? It sounds like
a perfect fit. With these experiences, I know
you also teach central domination. We've done
workshops with you. They were always amazing
and you do this now more and more in Europe.
And they're about stepping into this seductive
dominatrix energy, which... For me, and especially
on this Feminine Power podcast, it's such a big
and important topic. It's like, how do we as
women embody our powerful energy, a leader energy,
a dominatrix energy, which can be really challenging
for many people because we are taught to be submissive
and we're taught to listen and to be good girls.
So embodying such energy is really, it can be
really out of comfort zone for many people, but
also so empowering. And I personally would use
it, and I use it very much outside of my sensual
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Thank you for being here with us. Well, then
I have to go back to how I started. For me, what
really changed something was starting pole dance
and sensual dance. Always when I tell people
that, let's say four years ago, I was incredibly
shy while moving my body. And the first time
I went to pole class, you're there in your pole
outfit, which is basically a bikini, in a class
full of mirrors. And I thought, what? And over
the course of that year, I learned so much what
it meant to feel sexy for myself. And that I
can highly advise everyone. And you know, some
people feel they're most confident when they're
cooking and others feel they're most confident
when they're making art. And for me, it was central
movement. It's so personal. That's beautiful.
So that helped you to feel confident and sexy.
What about the leader energy, the dom energy?
Yeah, I do have to admit that that's something
I was kind of... I had since childhood. I have
this incredibly funny anecdote actually, which
is when I was about let's say 10 years old, we
had this summer camp in school. And I remember
that we were all like in a forest building huts,
everybody was building their house. And then
I had a house and there were three boys from
my classroom, my dog all day long. And they were
just walking around and following me around and
I was giving them orders. Which in that time
was just like a way of playing and very innocent.
But if I look at it now, a part of this, you
can fake it till you make it. And then there
is this little part where some of us just have
that, which I would say makes the difference
between being a professional in it or just using
certain techniques or skills to get more confident.
And that is beautiful too. What do you usually
teach to people when you teach them a little
bit of a domination experience? I would say it's
about confidence more than anything else. It's
about for women to feel confident, to show themselves,
to reveal themselves, to ask for what they want.
And with that, actually guide their partner.
male or female doesn't really matter, guide their
partner into like a blissful state. Because I
feel that if we do speak about the masculine
and the feminine, for the masculine, they also
just want to do it right. And sometimes they
simply don't know how or what the woman wants.
And the more the feminine learns to actually
express what it is we desire, the more easier
it becomes and I have been surprised how many
women find that incredibly difficult to actually
start a sentence with, I want you to do this
or that to me, or I would like to do this or
that to you. We never really learned to ask for
what we want or need. Yeah. Yeah. So most of
these workshops are really about embracing your
power. and growing in confidence and actually
inviting sensuality in. Yeah, inviting sensuality
that you desire, not because you want to please
someone, but because you want it for yourself.
And this is really powerful, your reclaiming
sensuality and playing with it this way. Also
irresistible for yourself and for the other,
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beautiful experiences for lovers? How to create
those incredible experiences? Where do we start?
What is out there? What are the options? There
are so many options. Well, for me, I think what
is really important is a lot of people have this
illusion that arousal is something that just
exists. So it just pops up like a surprise. Whereas
for a lot of us, that's not the case at all.
It's something like that needs to be awakened
that needs to be like that needs to grow. And
that can grow throughout the day. So I always
really love to tell people to not underestimate
the power of doing nothing, of especially not
giving the other person what they might want
or need. And just play with that desire and let
that arousal and the wanting it slowly grow throughout
the day. And then take a moment, like set the
scene. Especially for those who have children,
they know how impossible it is to just kind of
go with spontaneity. So set the scene, make sure
you book a certain time frame and plan that in
the agenda. And for those who think that's not
sexy, well, actually it is just as sexy as spontaneity.
If we bring it into an example context, it's
good to play with this desire for a date, for
an experience, for each other. So in a part of
it could be planning a moment when sensual experience
or sex or a date would happen. And then you'd
play before then with this idea. And how would
you play with this idea before then to build
up to it? So I will just talk about myself because
all our desires are different, so I can use myself
as an example. So I am really sensitive for beautiful
spaces and smell. For some reason. So for me,
it's really important that if I go into some
sort of sensual play, that the room, the light
is nice. There are candles. It smells good. I
just came out of the bathtub. I feel soft, clean,
relaxed. And that for me is a beautiful starting
point. So to invite someone into that, it could
be someone telling me. hey let's take a really
nice long bath and when you get out of there
I will have the room exactly how you would desire
it to look like so it's also like these little
acts of showing interest into creating a scenario
that you know arouses the other person I love
to also try different things even if I don't
know yet if I enjoy it or not but then again
like I like to set a scene so I say like okay
on Monday night I have read something, I would
like to try this out. And in worst case scenario,
if it's not arousing, then at least we've tried
something new and we laughed about it. And that's
also fine, you know, to not be shy to have a...
That so -called not good experience. I mean,
what is that even? You will never figure out
what you're into if you are not willing to also
try a bunch of stuff that you realize you don't
like at all. Yeah, yeah, true. I feel like it's
an amazing moment now that you're having that
can help destigmatize setting up a date. setting
up a time and a date and booking in a sex date,
for example. Most people still have a resistance
to it. Most people still think that this is unsexy,
this is something for desperate people or for
really busy people who don't care about each
other. But in reality, if we think about it,
when we date in other stages of dating and when
we book a date with each other, it's kind of
the same thing. Right? Like we know that most
likely we're going to go for dinner and then
the most likely we're going to have sex afterwards.
Like most likely we prepare for ourselves. We
have, when we think about our underwear, think
about how we wear, we take a shower, right? So
there is a preparation and we know it happens
on Thursday evening at 8 p .m. And suddenly when
we are in a couple and we live together for a
long time and we're just every day together and
people have children, people have busy lives
and then they just want connection to happen.
by itself and then it doesn't happen. And then
people get frustrated. So why don't they also
just book a date, right? And be it the sex date,
be it a romantic experience where indeed one
partner prepares a bath for another. And as you
say, tells them when you go out, the room is
going to be exactly as you want. Why don't you
tell me how? So creating these experiences that
are intentional and you book a time out for it
can be amazing. On another hand, There are affairs,
sometimes people are dissatisfied from these
experiences they have with their long -term partners
and maybe they have an affair and they hide this
from their partner. And what they do, they actually,
again, book a date with their lover. And again,
they book a date, right? So we see these experiences
that people are doing and those that they seek.
very often involve booking a time. I just want
to make a point out of it and try to help people
to change their mindsets around it and start
booking dates. And I feel like you can share
many different... date scenarios that people
can take a note of and benefit from. What would
be your, say, date menu? If people are now listening
and like, oh, okay, I want to start setting up
dates with my partner. What could they start
with? Oh yeah, let's first say that I completely
agree. We book everything in our agenda. Why
not sexy time? That is so crazy that we skipped
that. So what kind of dates I like? Well, There
are just certain spaces that arouse me. For example,
I'm personally, I love the spa. I love warm spaces
and to be naked. For me, that's just, I love
to be around my partner when we're both like
sweaty and nude. Like for me, that's a very deeply
relaxing and therefore arousing experience. I
could come up with one million different ideas.
I mean, I love to go to like a fancy. like dinner,
like have a great dinner and to both not wear
underwear. Like it's such a simple thing. We've
heard it in 1 million different places. We've
seen it in movies and still we're not really
doing that. You know, I adore it. For me, that's
such a warm welcome of inviting a bit of eroticism
into the room. Like it's such an easy thing to
do. I love little tasks personally. Like I use
this sometimes in my domination sessions as well.
This could be Throughout the day, you know, I
would like to eat this piece of fruit in a way
how you would eat my pussy. Or I would like you
to go to the toilet and touch yourself until
you're really hard. And then you can come back
and sit at the table with a heart on. You know,
these little tasks throughout the day, I love
them. Like it's something that just kind of like
putting little bits of oil on the fire. Yeah,
and in my private life, I love sweet dates in
the morning, drinking coffee together, reading
a book in the bed. For me, this can be really
the sweetest date in simplicity. I think this
is also why my personal life is sometimes not
a great example. My life has been so much evolving
around all of these examples is that sometimes
I feel I live my life upside down. I've made
it so much my work that in my private life, I
want all the sweet stuff and I want to just sip
coffee in bed and read a book. For me, that is
the perfect date. Would you actually book a session
with your partner as a couple? Is that a date?
Yes. I feel like having a date where someone
can guide a couple is an amazing thing to do
and I would love that myself. What if I was to
book it? I would be like, what's my intention?
My intention is to create the next different
level of experience that we don't usually have.
So, and very often when someone else guides us
to, it is an opportunity for both people to surrender
into the experience. As usually, as everything
is in union, someone needs to guide, someone
needs to lead. But here, if there is a guide,
then two can fully surrender into the experience.
which I feel like that's the real, the US view
of such an experience. I think it's also such
a new thing, kind of. It feels to me as if it's
something that kind of popped up as an option
within the last years. I mean, prior, if you
wanted to experience something, let's say naughty
together with your partner, you would either
go on a dating website or you would book an escort
to have a threesome. But what if you actually
want to learn something and you don't want to
go in a group setting? Like these private lesson
workshop curated sessions, I think that's still
quite new and such a sweet gift to give to your
couple, to give for a special occasion or even
like once every so -called month. A lot of people
are interested in how to make sure their long
-term relationships are fulfilling and meaningful
and passionate. I'm really glad that a lot more
people are interested and sexuality and sensuality
and actual sexual connection is so important.
It's so natural to crave it and a lot of people
lose it with time because they don't invest in
it. And such solution of having a guide is basically
one of the ways so people can invest into it.
Create new experiences and satisfy fantasies
and have someone teaching them something new.
You know, you can read books with tips and tricks
and, you know, maybe one of the two is more interested
in it than the other. You can talk about it.
But to actually have an embodied experience of
someone who is showing you examples also, like
how to approach, how to try different things.
I believe that's very different and actually
very sweet. Yeah. Yeah. Oh, I can see all of
that. Yeah, I love it so much because when I...
When I smile or my eyes tingle right now it's
because I see the couples in front of me who
have been emotional and touched and horny and
all these things that come up and they're like,
wow, we never expected this and we never knew
where to find this kind of session. It must be
fulfilling to see people really connecting as
a result. Yeah, together, but also alone, right?
Like also sessions as an individual for women,
poor men, doesn't matter. Such an indulging thing.
It's such a luxury also to be able to put time
and energy and money into something like that.
And at the same time, it's the core of what we
want as humans. We want to be touched, we want
connection, we want... to feel aroused. This
connection is in our conversations with you where
I was really fascinated by your insights where
you were sharing how most people just really
want connection. Very often it's all about why
people come and book a service is because they
just want to connect. They just want to be seen.
They just want to share their time. They want
to feel emotions. What are the feelings that
people look for? I think actually just to be
seen and validated. and to shed some layers of
shame around being a sexual human, but they all
are. In the core, we're all the same. We all
want to be seen, witnessed, and touched. We tend
to under -appreciate how much it means for a
human being on a physiological level, this need
of touch and the need of connection. And to put
it into a horrific statistics context, one of
the major causes of suicide for people is loneliness.
That's actually one of the major causes, it's
loneliness. So many people are so lonely, but
that's of course, it's really a big zoom out
on just the state of the world. But in a simple
sense of when it comes to sensuality and sexuality.
It is just really about connection. People so
want to be connected and sometimes people don't
find it even with those who they are supposedly
close with. That's the sad part. So I feel like
the things that you've been describing in this
episode, like having dates. playing with your
partner in a different way, in a more intentional
way, or having a sensual guide like yourself
coming to a date, or recognizing the fact that
we are sexual beings and honoring that by giving
ourselves certain experiences helps us to connect
at the very core. It's just like he satisfies
that one need of connection. And thus, it is
sad how stigmatized sensual services and sexual
services I understand why, because there is a
shadow to it. There are people, a lot of people
who are in those professions that are forced
to be there. But that's again, if we only understand
it that way, then we only fuel the shadow because
then there is a light part of it where people
only create connection and it all comes consensually
and by choice. So I just want to put that into
this differentiation to place the background.
And I wonder, what do you think about it? Because
do you face any stigma, any shame from other
people? And how do you respond to that? I mean,
of course I do. I work in a field that is stigmatizing
society, even though I live in a country where
all that I do is legal. It has always been legal.
I was raised open -mindedness, but still. I grew
up in a small village where people like to gossip.
I am not immune to what I believe society thinks
about stigmatization. And I simultaneously feel
incredibly lucky with the friends that I have
and how greatly surrounded I am by people who
have never judged me for what I do. But of course,
it's here. What an ideal world would it be if
it would not be here? I mean, even on Instagram,
you get shadowbanned forever, you know, this
is the example. But I mean, honestly, also, also
at times if I'm in a place where I don't know
anyone and people ask like, oh, what do you do?
It's always like, it's always a moment for me
where I have to kind of think like, okay, even
though I could easily share what I do, it's not
something that just that then doesn't raise any
questions. And I'm not always in the mood. So
sometimes I just also say something that's not
true. I'm like, yeah, I do this or that, like
something a bit more vague. It's just, it's just
a profession that comes with and that needs a
lot of explanation still. And I'm happy to provide
that. And at the same time, it's exhausting.
Yeah. How do you then say what it is that you
do? Like if you go fully into it, how do you
describe feel? Oh, if I go full into it, I explained
that we help women to connect to their bodies
and their feminine and their sexual energies
by giving them practices and tools and education
and courses in a very simple way and help them
to connect. You see, and then people get really
curious and then they start asking a lot more
questions. And it really depends whether in that
moment I am in a place where I want to talk a
lot and explain, or if I'm in a place where I'm
not. I'm not that tall. And that's why in those
moments when I'm not, I just prefer to say I'm
an entrepreneur. If I take the stigma out and
I really look at these services, I mean, especially
nowadays, we tend to ask help for every aspect
of our lives. Preferably, there are people who
cook for us, clean our house for us, we get massages,
we get our hair done, we go to a psychologist,
or any other form of therapy. But when it comes
to our sexuality, we're supposed to just figure
it out alone or with our partner. Like how old
school is that idea? And how great that there
are more and more options, either online or in
person to actually, yeah, get to the bottom of
that. Exactly. And this is a great point. Let's
let it sink in because why do we not use help?
When it comes to our sexuality, why do we not
use knowledge, support, insights, ancient wisdom,
or we basically majority of people are just trying
to figure it out like in the old days before
the internet, before big cities, before connections,
before everything. And that's really confusing.
Because we are all about enhancing our experiences,
even biohacking everything, when it comes to
pleasure, not so much. Exactly. Even though it
is the core center of our being, it has so many
levels of depth to reach. And most of us will
never explore those territories. And that is
still completely fine. Nobody has to. But there
are so many things to explore when it comes to
our sexual pleasure for all genders, for everyone,
that are sometimes just much easier to explore
with a professional or with people you don't
really know. In our partnerships that's also
sometimes just so charged or difficult or we
are set in a certain scenario where we don't
really want to change anything so much. But even
that actually, you know, the luxury to have people
around you with whom you feel open enough to
talk about it. Like that is not a given for so
many of us. For so many men and women we're dealing
with this on our own without people to actually
ask the uncomfortable questions like, hey, I
had this happening and I don't know what to do
or have you ever had this or that? And in the
end, we are all so similar, but until the moment
we talk, we will always feel like we're the odd
one out and that's just sad. Yeah, there is a
lot of healing that can happen in a community
where people just know from other people that
their experiences are similar, their experiences
are normal, validated, connected. We're simply
receiving someone's words of support. So it's
extremely powerful. And again, sexuality is not
something most people openly speak about. And
that's why it creates so much shadow as well.
Our invitation is to look into that shadow and
see what's underneath and heal. That was Lynn
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