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to another episode of the Innovation Conversation.

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Today we are joined by Tash Rebuck. Welcome to

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the podcast, Tash. Thanks so much Riccardo, I'm

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really excited to be here. It's a pleasure having

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you here. Tash, I know you have an amazing story

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to tell the audience. So would you please like

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to introduce yourself to the audience? Absolutely.

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So if you can't tell, I am born and bred in London

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and I always grew up being absolutely desperate

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to be an actor and eventually realized that I

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would like to move out of my parents' home. So

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I took up a very adaptable and similar career,

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which is sales. divulge more into my story, but

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in the shorthand, I'm now a sales consultant.

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I do coaching, advice, and training, and that's

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what I do. I love helping people fall in love

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with sales. Interesting. The sales, obviously

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my background is also in sales. So we both know

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sales is actually quite scary most of the time.

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And I think for a lot of the audience listening

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to this and first time entrepreneurs just starting

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the business to actually go out and talk about

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their business and what they're building. It's

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really, really scary because you don't want to

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hear your nose. So how did you, I guess, took

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the knowledge and the expertise you had as an

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actor from you hear nose literally all the time,

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right? Into sales, how was the process like?

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Tell us a little bit more about that story. It's

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a really interesting one. I think that there

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are so many reasons why actors become salespeople.

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I think the first one is absolutely we're so

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used to rejection. I used to put in my CV when

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I was going for sales jobs, used to be a stand

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-up comedian, can take rejection very well. And

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it's so true because when you're in acting, every

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single no you get you have to see it as the stepping

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stone to the next yes or sometimes your first

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yes and sales is exactly the same ultimately

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it's a numbers game the more people you reach

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out to the more you speak about what you do you

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get past all the no's that will then open the

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door to that one big or hopefully many big yeses

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but also i think the biggest thing is being a

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chameleon. You know, I was very traditionally

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trained in acting. I did theatre. And the reality

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is you can walk on stage, a prop can fall over,

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someone can forget their line, and you have to

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come up with something completely new. And that

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is exactly what sales is. You know, you have

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to adapt to who you're speaking to. You have

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to sometimes be a different kind of person, you

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know. We're not all what everyone is looking

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for. You have to be able to adapt and come up

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with different ideas. And that has been really,

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really helpful from my acting background. I was

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looking at I was watching a movie the other day

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and they kind of showcase the basics of improv

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comedy, which is that you never say no, we just

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say yes. And so if someone if there's two people

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on stage, one says, I am a doctor. The other

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says, yes, and I am a pharmacist. If they say,

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no, you're not a doctor, then there's no way

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to go. And I think if you take that to sales,

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you can actually use that. Oh, I already bought

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a software. Yes. However, or yes. And I can,

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you know, improve the way you're using software

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or something like that. Right. So it just works.

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Exactly. I think it all comes down to like positivity

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as well. Just bringing a nice happy spin to things.

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Oh, you're already doing that. Amazing. That

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means you already know how valuable it is. That's

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great news. It's just, yeah, keeping your head

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up, keeping positive, even when you might be

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facing a lot of rejection. Now, I know there

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is a little bit of a very interesting story.

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because there was a time in your life you were,

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I think it was probably your first sales job.

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Would you like to tell that story? Because I

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absolutely love the story and obviously the audience

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doesn't know that we met before, but I really

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want to hear that story again. Absolutely. I'll

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pretend like you've never heard it. So when I

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did eventually decide I'd like to not live with

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my parents forever, I looked up different roles

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and it was amazing. because the company that

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I found, like the recruitment company, they were

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desperate for me to get into recruitment because

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that was really the big sales job that everyone

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was doing. Startups had just been building in

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excitement and so everyone was hiring. And I

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interviewed at 13 of the top London recruitment

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companies. Every single one rejected me. and

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I got to the last stage of every single one and

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they sat me down and they'd asked me the same

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question and I'm a total fool because I gave

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the same answer. I knew what was going to happen

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but they asked me would you screw over the person

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you were sat next to if you knew you could place

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someone in a role that they were going for. Every

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single time I went no. I wouldn't, that's not

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how I'd work. I'd talk to them, I'd let them

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know I think I had a really good candidate and

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say, hey, look, if I hand it to you, why don't

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we do a commission split or something along those

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lines. Apparently I'm too nice for recruitment.

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So what does a nice, nerdy salesperson do? go

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and get hired by one of the biggest board game

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companies in the world. So I amazingly ended

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up in an interview to work for Monopoly and what

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we did there was make bespoke editions of board

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games and It was such an incredible experience

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because we were almost seen as this team that

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we were in, we were like the specialist sales

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agents because we made limited edition versions

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of games. So you might go to a football club

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who's just won the league and get them to make,

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you know, 5 ,000 editions of their championship.

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monopoly round or you might go to a comic book

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and say why not make for your 10th anniversary

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a pack of top trumps where you've got all the

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characters and that was really really interesting

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because you got to work with massive enterprise

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companies building things that were really fun

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and different. My cupboard is just full of monopoly

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boards. Yeah, and also making like city editions,

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so getting to travel around the UK and make sort

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of their own versions of Monopoly boards. And

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I won't give away too many secrets, but almost

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everyone pays to be on a Monopoly board. It's

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not quite as, you know, tourist -driven as one

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might hope. There's a lot of commercial. What

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a surprise. Monopoly is quite a commercial. But

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it was an amazing job. It was so much fun. And

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like I said, I'm a big nerd. So it was a great

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opportunity to marry two things that I really

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love together. Are you a big board game person?

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You're literally talking about my favorite game.

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I love Monopoly so obviously you know we're part

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of the older generation so we grew up without

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internet right they wanted to watch a movie it

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was the same old VHS tape over and over again.

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So my summers were spent literally watching Star

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Wars, The Sound of Music and Indiana Jones because

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those were the only cassettes we had in the house

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kind of and then Monopoly was introduced so I

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spent summers playing Monopoly with my sister

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getting into huge fights with her and that was

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it. And then over Christmas, big classic, let's

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bring out the Monopoly game. So yeah, absolutely.

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Exactly. Well, do you and your family still play

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Monopoly? Well, this is actually, you kind of

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hit like a really sad story there. My sister

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once loaned my Monopoly game to one of her random

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friends and it's been lost ever since. And every

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year I kind of gently nudge her. Maybe she's

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watching this, she'll be like, you know, probably

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should buy him the Monopoly game. Hey, Monopoly,

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I really like the game. Hey, sis, I really like

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the game. She never bought me one again. So yeah,

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it's missing. Do you know what, Ricardo, seeing

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as you've invited me on this podcast, maybe if

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you send me your address, I will ship you a cool

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version. I'm thinking Star Wars edition of Monopoly,

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because it was our office that made that. So

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definitely can send that to you. Yeah, absolutely.

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Well, if you do get the board, and this is a

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trade secret, yellow and red, if you buy them,

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Statistically, you are more likely to win. They

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are the most landed on properties. You see, I

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agree. However, you can't disagree with me. This

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is statistics. Statistics. Yes, I see your point.

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However, because it's a square, right? The easiest

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ones to get, which are the cheapest ones, are

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the orange and the one straight after a go when

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you pass go. And if you buy those two, people

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are never afraid of landing on those two, right?

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But they actually increases your cash flow very

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early on. because it's the cheapest one to get

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a hotel. So like, you know, I'll buy a couple

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of hotels. You just got some money because it's

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just best to go. Then you start paying, you know,

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for staying in those hotels. So actually build

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your cashflow very quickly if you happen to get

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them. And normally people always go for like

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Park Lane and is it Hyde Park as well? Yeah,

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Hyde Park corner or something like that. Which

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are really expensive to build a hotel, but a

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small hotel and you keep on falling there you

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know super is the bills or so it makes you win

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the game in this case. This is the issue with

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two commercial experts sitting down and talking

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about Monopoly because now we could get into

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a whole thing about really but should you save

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up to make a bigger and better investment but

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we won't get into all of that at least not Monopoly

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related. No no 100 % not. So you started selling

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Monopoly you were very very successful and then

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when did you realize actually I can make a career

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out of this. It can become the way of making

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money, the way of being successful in life. So

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I had a really interesting journey where I went

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from the really old traditional world of monopoly

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and games where we were basically sat at a big

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old desktop computer with a proper dial -up phone,

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and I had a Rolodex of business cards, like an

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actual flipping Rolodex of business cards. No

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CRM, no automation tools. And then I went from

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that to the startup world, and I joined a, well,

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ended up becoming a unicorn. So when I started,

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there was 20 of us in the UK office, and by the

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time I left, there was over 900 people globally.

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So it was just in four years, massive growth.

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And so I got to see how a startup can grow and

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then was able to sort of do that myself for a

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few years in head of sales and head of commercial

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roles. But the light bulb moment for me to start

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my own business and to actually just work one

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-on -one with founders and business owners was

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the last role I had. I was head of commercial

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for a charity and volunteering platform. We were

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a B Corp and I was just. doing real positive

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good for the world, but still B2B sales. So it

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was two things I absolutely loved. And I had

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had this, you know, it's kind of the dream for

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any head of sales is I had this wonderful team,

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they were growing really quickly, closing loads

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of deals. And the CTO said to me, the last enterprise

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client you've signed has taken us over our capacity.

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Could you personally stop doing sales for a little

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bit? And I was like, yeah, absolutely. I can

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stop doing sales. And then that lasted about

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a day. And I was like, I really miss sales. So

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I went onto the platform and I looked up to see

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if there was any volunteering projects that were

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around sales consulting. And there was one, there

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was a domestic abuse organization that basically

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was at the point where they thought if we don't

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have something happen in the next three months,

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we'll have to shut down shop, which for the amazing

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good that they were doing was a devastating possibility.

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And in the three hours, because that was what

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was offered to them, the difference that happened

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in their business was more than anything I've

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ever been able to achieve internally. And that

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was really the light bulb because I realized

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two things. One is you can be a founder of an

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incredible business. You can be an absolute genius,

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come up with the best idea in the world. But

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if you don't know how to sell it, you won't get

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fundraising, you won't get clients, you won't

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get partnerships, and you'll disappear. The second

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thing was that people listen to you when you're

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a consultant. They don't really listen to you

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when they hire you as an employee. Do you know,

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I mean, I'm sure there's so many like psychological

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reasons behind it, but I don't know them. I'm

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just a salesperson, but I do think it's something

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about, okay, this is also a business owner. They're

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going through it too. They understand. And so

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you meet them at the same level rather than there

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being an imbalance of power. It's the authority

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thing that makes a big difference. One assumes

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that they know more about it than you do, whereas

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the other one actually assumes that you know

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more about it than they do. That's why they're

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paying you good money for it, right? Exactly.

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Even though that is how a founder should see

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their head of sales, if you hire a head of sales,

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that is the person you trust. Otherwise, why

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have you hired them? But reality and what we

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think it should be, sometimes different things.

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I actually, the last job I had, well, this was

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only a very temporary thing. The CEO there, which

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was a very incapable founder, told me, you don't

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know how to do sales. And I'm looking in the

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eye, you can't be serious. Literally, my CP,

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like I've done more stuff than you've done in

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your entire life. And you're telling me, I don't

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know how to do sales. Okay, cool. Fine. Thank

00:14:20.179 --> 00:14:22.500
you. Bye bye. So yeah, it's just one of those

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things. It is. It's unbelievable. So yeah, that

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was, it was two years ago and I just, I mean,

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I haven't looked back. I really, I haven't. I

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love it. I love the freedom. of being able to

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work with whoever I want. I have a very nice

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rule. No arseholes. It's a good rule to have.

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And I, yeah, I love the people I work with. I

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love the work that I'm doing. I have more flexibility

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and freedom that I ever had. Like before we started

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recording, I can say this to the audience, Ricardo

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was like, oh my God, you're literally always

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on holiday because I just came back from one.

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And the last time we spoke, I'd also been on

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one. And then I'm going on another in a couple

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of weeks. But I'm able to do it. I can hop online,

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I can work if I need to, but for the most part,

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you know, as long as my clients are happy and

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their engine is running and they're getting deals,

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I can take a little break and sit by a pool and

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read a book for a week. And I think this is actually

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quite a lot of, there's quite a lot of value

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in this statement you just made, which is it's

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not about, it's not only about how many hours

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you put in, it's also about the intensity of

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those hours and the value you get out of those

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hours. Cause I know a lot of the first time founders

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and they say, Oh, I've worked from eight till

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midnight and I do like, like crazy hours. And

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I'm like, well, hold on. How many of those hours

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are actually very productive? Cause if the only

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thing you're doing is just like, I don't know.

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It's not the best use of your time, is it? So

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this way is actually very productive. And if

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you're able to do that, then you can grow your

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business. Then you like, you can grow, expand

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and be very, very successful. Exactly. Thank

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you. I try. But yeah, no, I mean, like I say,

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I say to my clients all the time, because often

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we'll, you know, in between sessions, they'll

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go, I didn't manage to get to this. I didn't

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manage to get to that. And now I'm feeling stressed

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because, you know, we don't have anything at

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the top of the pipeline. And it's at that point

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that I go, we have a new rule then. You are not

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allowed to do anything unless you are being paid

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to do it, or it's going to get you paid in the

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future. So don't make a workshop. that you would

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give if you sold it, sell it, then build it.

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That's the startup mentality. I mean, we all

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know that so many times an idea is pitched before

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it's built. And that's okay, because sometimes

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you need that revenue or that promise of revenue

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to give you the freedom to take a step back from

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business development and just refocus on what

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you're actually going to provide. But that's

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a it's a hard place to to be because it's nice

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to procrastinate because people hate sales. They

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see it as a dirty word. So if there's anything

00:17:01.009 --> 00:17:03.909
they can do anything nice and shiny other than

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sales, that's what they're going to go and do.

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Sorry, I think it's the fear of rejection, isn't

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it? Like it's what they did a study about what's

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the biggest fear worldwide. And of course, it's

00:17:16.009 --> 00:17:18.380
like fear of heights fear of you know, you know,

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getting killed in the plane, something like that.

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But the fear of rejection, being rejected by

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your peers, it's like the worst thing ever. That's

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why people are so afraid of public speaking.

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Now, for people like you and me, that's like,

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oh yeah, this is safe. I feel happy here. All

00:17:31.339 --> 00:17:33.980
the eyes are on me. So happy days, right? But

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for a lot of people, it's like the worst thing

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ever. Absolutely. And I think one reason is that

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I like to say, you know, when it comes to rejection,

00:17:42.599 --> 00:17:45.000
what you think it's going to be is so much worse

00:17:45.000 --> 00:17:47.960
than what it really is. Like, take sending a

00:17:47.960 --> 00:17:50.079
cold outreach message. You've seen someone on

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LinkedIn that's your ideal prospect and you are

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terrified to send a message because you think

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they're going to reject you. I always say to

00:17:57.640 --> 00:18:00.640
people, okay, what we need to do is go, what's

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the worst case scenario? What's the best case

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scenario? And then what's the most realistic?

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Because worst case scenario is they turn around,

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they go. why are you in my inbox wasting my time

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blah blah blah I mean someone did once I just

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connected with them on LinkedIn and they said

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I don't connect with people that are beneath

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me so you know worst -case scenario it was incredibly

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hot I was like wow mum I was not expecting that

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what does that make you say that to you only

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well that is a bit wild okay then best -case

00:18:32.819 --> 00:18:35.940
scenario is they go oh my god amazing yeah contract

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deal yes let's do it What's the most realistic

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situation? What is 95 % most likely to happen?

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Nothing. They're not going to respond. And then

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it's about, you know, the no is a good thing.

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Back to the whole acting. Because you can close

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that. You can close that window. Okay, now I

00:18:57.940 --> 00:18:59.740
can focus on something else. And then if they

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are complete, you know, very rude to you, you

00:19:02.940 --> 00:19:05.339
actually it's not about who you are. It's about

00:19:05.339 --> 00:19:07.670
who they are. Because if you're able to treat

00:19:07.670 --> 00:19:09.670
people like that without any reason apart from

00:19:09.670 --> 00:19:11.970
hey, can we connect on LinkedIn? It's like, well,

00:19:11.990 --> 00:19:14.190
hold on. There's a problem with you because I

00:19:14.190 --> 00:19:16.529
don't know about you, but I got like 20 connection

00:19:16.529 --> 00:19:17.930
requests of people trying to sell me something

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every day. I'm like either reject or if I do

00:19:20.809 --> 00:19:22.049
accept it, I said, thank you. This is not for

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me. Or then I don't say anything. It's fine.

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It's part of life. Exactly. I guess people are

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afraid of it. I think also entrepreneurs probably

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are afraid of having rejection because that means

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that their idea is not solid. And then when you

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get that rejection, you assume it's feedback.

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Oh my god, the market is telling me something.

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No, that person is telling me something. 100

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different people tell you totally completely

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different things. So just go and ask 100 people,

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then you can have an opinion but not before that.

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Exactly. It's like people who drop their pricing

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because one person tells them they can't afford

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it. And you have to remind them one or even a

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number of people's budgets doesn't define your

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value that you're giving. You know, like just

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because I can't afford to fly in a private jet

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every single day or ever. Yet. Does not yet.

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No, I wouldn't because of the environmental impact,

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Riccardo. I wouldn't do it. You're a much better

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person than I am. I'll just go private. I'll

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let you buy my own jet and go fly everywhere

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like an idiot. Fair. Fair, because I have a friend

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who works at a private jet company and I got

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to go with her on a free leg or an empty leg

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for no cost. I would also love to fly again,

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but I wouldn't want to pay for it. It's too expensive.

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Silly waste. I don't want it really. But you

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know, just because I can't afford that yet doesn't

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mean it's not worth the value of what it is.

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I just can't afford that. Exactly. I also think

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when it comes to rejection, a lot of people are

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worried about their reputation. And they think

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if I get rejected, if I send too many messages,

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people will view me as less than, and it will

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damage my reputation. It's a good point there.

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That is a good point. I don't think it will because

00:21:11.500 --> 00:21:14.359
that just means you're doing business. Well,

00:21:14.380 --> 00:21:18.619
okay. You just said you had maybe 20 people trying

00:21:18.619 --> 00:21:20.720
to sell something to you this morning. Tell me

00:21:20.720 --> 00:21:24.380
one of their names. I don't remember them because

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they're not even relevant. And there's a really

00:21:26.319 --> 00:21:28.430
good reason why. I tell you what, there's actually

00:21:28.430 --> 00:21:30.089
a really good reason why I haven't replied to

00:21:30.089 --> 00:21:32.769
most, I don't reply to people. And that is when

00:21:32.769 --> 00:21:34.829
they haven't done their research and I can tell

00:21:34.829 --> 00:21:37.289
it's very low effort. Cause we can automate,

00:21:37.289 --> 00:21:39.390
you know, outreach on LinkedIn. We can automate

00:21:39.390 --> 00:21:41.650
a lot of emails. If they haven't even bothered

00:21:41.650 --> 00:21:44.789
to type my name correctly or to fully understand

00:21:44.789 --> 00:21:47.289
the needs of my business, then why would I waste

00:21:47.289 --> 00:21:50.410
my time replying to them? Now, if I have, if

00:21:50.410 --> 00:21:52.029
they did take the time for it, for example, someone

00:21:52.029 --> 00:21:53.970
says, Hey, I listened to your podcast. I really,

00:21:53.990 --> 00:21:56.009
really enjoyed this episode with John Smith,

00:21:56.150 --> 00:21:57.730
which by the way, no John Smith has ever been

00:21:57.730 --> 00:22:00.170
on a podcast. Then I'm like, you know what? This

00:22:00.170 --> 00:22:02.789
person deserves a reply and I'll reply to them.

00:22:03.069 --> 00:22:06.930
I agree. Yeah. Personalization is so key. Now

00:22:06.930 --> 00:22:10.490
when, yeah, all of this automation is completely

00:22:10.490 --> 00:22:14.670
taking over. It's so obvious now, even the slightly

00:22:14.670 --> 00:22:18.430
more advanced ones, you can still tell. I got

00:22:18.430 --> 00:22:21.109
a great one the other day. It said, dear sir,

00:22:21.349 --> 00:22:27.410
slash madam, comma, rebook. And I was like, It's

00:22:27.410 --> 00:22:29.609
really good. One or the other. You're right.

00:22:29.769 --> 00:22:32.549
You know, you've got a 50 % chance of getting

00:22:32.549 --> 00:22:36.490
that right. And you went zero. Yeah, that is

00:22:36.490 --> 00:22:39.029
horrible. I once got a meeting with I was selling

00:22:39.029 --> 00:22:42.230
a film production services. So it was a film

00:22:42.230 --> 00:22:44.470
agency slash production company. And obviously,

00:22:44.589 --> 00:22:46.470
they leave off getting really nice contracts

00:22:46.470 --> 00:22:48.930
to do films and do commercials. And we're trying

00:22:48.930 --> 00:22:52.049
to get a Renault in France, right? Renault has

00:22:52.049 --> 00:22:54.930
had the same agency for decades. They don't reply

00:22:54.930 --> 00:22:56.150
to anyone else because it's just go with that

00:22:56.150 --> 00:22:59.319
one. Guess who managed to get a really nice reply?

00:23:00.259 --> 00:23:02.259
And you know why? Because the email I sent them

00:23:02.259 --> 00:23:04.240
or the message I think was on LinkedIn was like,

00:23:04.539 --> 00:23:07.400
Hey, I know you're doing this with them. My family

00:23:07.400 --> 00:23:10.119
has had three Renaults. It was actually the first

00:23:10.119 --> 00:23:12.880
car I was ever driven on. It was a Renault five.

00:23:13.299 --> 00:23:15.460
Then my dad gave me a Clio to drive around and

00:23:15.460 --> 00:23:18.390
it was amazing. like sex for the first time in

00:23:18.390 --> 00:23:19.930
a clip or something like that. I don't think

00:23:19.930 --> 00:23:21.809
I had that many details, but I've probably had

00:23:21.809 --> 00:23:24.029
too many details of the story. And I really like

00:23:24.029 --> 00:23:25.710
your cars. It's amazing. I know you're launching

00:23:25.710 --> 00:23:27.630
the new model. I'm, you know, passionate about

00:23:27.630 --> 00:23:30.230
it. I love to show you what you can do. Of course

00:23:30.230 --> 00:23:31.789
we got to reply because they read the whole story.

00:23:31.829 --> 00:23:33.529
Like I can connect with this person. They get

00:23:33.529 --> 00:23:36.950
us. Yeah. But exactly. I can do that much. I

00:23:36.950 --> 00:23:39.009
don't think you like that many stories and many

00:23:39.009 --> 00:23:41.349
details to it. No, I mean, definitely not the

00:23:41.349 --> 00:23:43.670
losing your virginity in the car. That one definitely.

00:23:44.009 --> 00:23:45.029
Yeah, that's probably too much. I'll probably

00:23:45.029 --> 00:23:48.660
add this up. I don't think you should, but yeah,

00:23:48.779 --> 00:23:52.400
no, like exactly. I have some, some, some of

00:23:52.400 --> 00:23:55.299
my clients, they come to me because it's not

00:23:55.299 --> 00:23:58.599
about numbers. They've got 10 people they need

00:23:58.599 --> 00:24:01.259
to get in front of and it's do or die. If you

00:24:01.259 --> 00:24:03.240
don't get in front of those people, those are

00:24:03.240 --> 00:24:06.519
all your prospects. And when it comes to that,

00:24:06.599 --> 00:24:10.359
I'm always, you've got to go the most personalized

00:24:10.359 --> 00:24:12.920
that you can possibly do. Send them something.

00:24:13.220 --> 00:24:17.059
Don't do it online anymore. And so. We'll do

00:24:17.059 --> 00:24:19.980
things like send funny things in the mail. I

00:24:19.980 --> 00:24:21.079
don't know if you've ever seen me. You can send

00:24:21.079 --> 00:24:24.099
a coconut and you just write a note on it that

00:24:24.099 --> 00:24:26.079
says, you'd be nuts not to have a meeting with

00:24:26.079 --> 00:24:30.480
me. It's so silly. But what a funny thing to

00:24:30.480 --> 00:24:32.619
do. I have one client. They're a branding and

00:24:32.619 --> 00:24:36.160
marketing agency. They're amazing. And what we

00:24:36.160 --> 00:24:38.579
did is create a board where you can put your

00:24:38.579 --> 00:24:40.920
head through the middle. And it was their faces

00:24:40.920 --> 00:24:44.400
either side. And it said, you look like our next

00:24:44.400 --> 00:24:47.680
favorite client. And it was just, we all, we

00:24:47.680 --> 00:24:50.440
hand wrote notes saying, just let us know if

00:24:50.440 --> 00:24:54.039
you're interested. People sent photos of themselves.

00:24:54.259 --> 00:24:57.240
We're talking about the heads of massive companies,

00:24:57.779 --> 00:25:00.500
putting their heads through this thing, sending

00:25:00.500 --> 00:25:02.420
a photo, being like, yeah, go on. I'll have a

00:25:02.420 --> 00:25:05.539
chat with you. But it works. You've got to do

00:25:05.539 --> 00:25:08.319
it. Yeah. You've got to stand out. Otherwise

00:25:08.319 --> 00:25:11.019
you're just like everyone else and your business

00:25:11.019 --> 00:25:13.660
probably isn't just like everyone else. Otherwise

00:25:13.660 --> 00:25:16.019
you wouldn't be doing it. Exactly. Especially

00:25:16.019 --> 00:25:17.779
when you're selling high ticket price items,

00:25:17.900 --> 00:25:20.039
like you actually want to get personalized. You

00:25:20.039 --> 00:25:22.039
want to get to know them because it's a big number.

00:25:22.400 --> 00:25:24.339
If it's a big number, you need, you know, take

00:25:24.339 --> 00:25:26.799
your time to look at them, what they do, what

00:25:26.799 --> 00:25:29.339
they don't like, stuff like that. I used to work

00:25:29.339 --> 00:25:31.440
for one that was selling software and we used

00:25:31.440 --> 00:25:35.220
to send coffee cups with instant coffee and they'll

00:25:35.220 --> 00:25:37.099
get this really nice package with the mug and

00:25:37.099 --> 00:25:39.059
some instant coffee. What's this? And then I

00:25:39.059 --> 00:25:41.460
put like a little note saying time for coffee.

00:25:42.259 --> 00:25:44.900
That's good. they always reply to you say thank

00:25:44.900 --> 00:25:46.640
you so much for the mug and the coffee and they

00:25:46.640 --> 00:25:48.099
get the joke and like yeah you know what let's

00:25:48.099 --> 00:25:50.900
stop i think that's great i might steal that

00:25:50.900 --> 00:25:53.019
ricardo it's a good it's a good one yeah the

00:25:53.019 --> 00:25:57.039
only problem with this was i hate coffee so people

00:25:57.039 --> 00:26:01.220
say yes i'm like i have to have coffee now oh

00:26:01.220 --> 00:26:03.660
my god i do the same thing i say to people let's

00:26:03.660 --> 00:26:05.839
go grab a coffee and then they'll pick a coffee

00:26:05.839 --> 00:26:09.240
shop and i'm like i only drink tea yep done the

00:26:09.240 --> 00:26:11.660
same Which yeah, it's a bit awkward sometimes.

00:26:11.660 --> 00:26:13.619
You don't drink coffee. No, but you come from

00:26:13.619 --> 00:26:15.000
Portugal. I know we drink stress all the time

00:26:15.000 --> 00:26:17.420
Yeah, but not me say I doesn't make for some

00:26:17.420 --> 00:26:19.859
but then it's a good conversation starter, isn't

00:26:19.859 --> 00:26:22.299
it? Which then brings me to my next topic of

00:26:22.299 --> 00:26:25.259
question, which is how can we use our weaknesses?

00:26:25.940 --> 00:26:28.579
Into our superpowers because I know you know

00:26:28.579 --> 00:26:31.279
how to do this and something that says salespeople

00:26:31.279 --> 00:26:33.819
tend to be very good at doing it So I think that's

00:26:33.819 --> 00:26:36.539
really interesting because what I often find

00:26:36.539 --> 00:26:39.980
myself doing is I'll work with a lot of founders

00:26:39.980 --> 00:26:43.160
who sales is their biggest weakness. Like you're

00:26:43.160 --> 00:26:45.420
not speaking to me if you're amazing at sales,

00:26:45.640 --> 00:26:48.579
unless I'm doing training for your team and you

00:26:48.579 --> 00:26:51.140
recognize you need a great sales trainer. But

00:26:51.140 --> 00:26:53.259
for the founders who come to me because they

00:26:53.259 --> 00:26:57.440
literally find it terrifying, it's about reframing

00:26:57.440 --> 00:27:01.769
it and making them recognize that. Sales isn't

00:27:01.769 --> 00:27:05.950
one thing. It's not this one image of, you know,

00:27:06.150 --> 00:27:10.450
slicked back hair, selling a car, you know, snake

00:27:10.450 --> 00:27:13.890
oil style kind of salesperson, you know, rubbing

00:27:13.890 --> 00:27:16.690
their hands together as you sign the contract.

00:27:16.970 --> 00:27:18.730
Though I'm sure we've all been that at some point

00:27:18.730 --> 00:27:21.990
in our careers. No? I'm just thinking. I don't

00:27:21.990 --> 00:27:23.930
think I've ever been in that situation. Like

00:27:23.930 --> 00:27:25.990
I would only sell products that I would believe

00:27:25.990 --> 00:27:28.349
in because if I believed in them, I could sell

00:27:28.349 --> 00:27:29.829
them passionately. If I didn't believe in them,

00:27:29.990 --> 00:27:32.289
if I thought I was selling snake oil, it just

00:27:32.289 --> 00:27:34.849
wouldn't work. And I got offers to sell, how

00:27:34.849 --> 00:27:37.630
would you win those things when you build those

00:27:37.630 --> 00:27:42.819
conservatories? Like double -paned glass. Oh

00:27:42.819 --> 00:27:45.099
my God, they love me. Come and work for us, Mike.

00:27:45.200 --> 00:27:47.539
Yeah, no, I don't really believe in that. And

00:27:47.539 --> 00:27:51.359
their sales tactic, we're crazy. Yeah, you can

00:27:51.359 --> 00:27:54.259
offer up to 70 % discount on every sale. Yeah,

00:27:54.359 --> 00:27:55.940
on every sale. We make so much money out of this.

00:27:56.059 --> 00:28:03.380
It doesn't really matter. I had that kind of

00:28:03.380 --> 00:28:06.640
situation. I was for three months at a neon light

00:28:06.640 --> 00:28:09.819
company. And apart from the fact that the culture

00:28:09.819 --> 00:28:13.200
was incredibly toxic, it became very apparent

00:28:13.200 --> 00:28:16.420
that it was not the kind of thing that I enjoyed

00:28:16.420 --> 00:28:19.220
selling. I'm not a B2C salesperson. I'm B2B.

00:28:19.400 --> 00:28:21.960
That's where my heart is, you know? All those

00:28:21.960 --> 00:28:24.500
big contracts, those big exciting contracts.

00:28:24.740 --> 00:28:27.200
Love a long sales cycle. Yeah, and also the financial

00:28:27.200 --> 00:28:29.599
consumers is always harder because if you try

00:28:29.599 --> 00:28:33.319
to scan them, I honestly think if you have an

00:28:33.319 --> 00:28:35.359
ounce of decency, you don't feel good about yourself

00:28:35.359 --> 00:28:38.960
doing that. Not at all. Not at all, exactly.

00:28:39.220 --> 00:28:42.539
And I think actually that is probably what most

00:28:42.539 --> 00:28:44.559
people feel really uncomfortable about because

00:28:44.559 --> 00:28:46.559
they think that if they have to sell, they have

00:28:46.559 --> 00:28:49.079
to be dishonest, even when they're talking about

00:28:49.079 --> 00:28:52.680
themselves and what they really do. And so I'll

00:28:52.680 --> 00:28:55.160
often have people who are, they're very quiet,

00:28:55.240 --> 00:28:57.200
they're very softly spoken, they're not very

00:28:57.200 --> 00:28:59.440
sort of pushy or demanding. And they come to

00:28:59.440 --> 00:29:02.259
me and they go, how on earth can I be a salesperson?

00:29:02.759 --> 00:29:06.220
And I'm like, you can be the best salesperson

00:29:06.220 --> 00:29:10.839
because if you can shut up and just listen, and

00:29:10.839 --> 00:29:15.099
every now and again, ask a soft but deeply insightful

00:29:15.099 --> 00:29:18.799
question, you'll be one of the best consultative

00:29:18.799 --> 00:29:21.940
salespeople. Because you're actually taking it

00:29:21.940 --> 00:29:24.299
in, absorbing what they're saying to you, and

00:29:24.299 --> 00:29:27.460
then recommend based on what they have shared.

00:29:27.599 --> 00:29:30.140
And don't just waste their time talking their

00:29:30.140 --> 00:29:32.440
ear off about everything you do and how amazing

00:29:32.440 --> 00:29:35.740
you are. Just talk about that one thing that

00:29:35.740 --> 00:29:39.720
you feel really confident about and just speak

00:29:39.720 --> 00:29:41.720
truthfully about what you do. Because if you're

00:29:41.720 --> 00:29:44.200
good at what you do and you're not bullshitting,

00:29:45.079 --> 00:29:48.059
then it's not a lie. It's not a manipulation.

00:29:48.480 --> 00:29:51.839
It's the truth. And I think that's how you can

00:29:51.839 --> 00:29:54.799
turn those kind of weaknesses into strengths

00:29:54.799 --> 00:29:58.119
is just by reframing them and recognizing that

00:29:58.119 --> 00:30:00.720
not everything has to be done the way that you're

00:30:00.720 --> 00:30:03.559
shown on TV. It doesn't always have to be the

00:30:03.559 --> 00:30:10.150
American influence of sales. I've done that a

00:30:10.150 --> 00:30:12.150
couple of times in job interviews. I mean, it

00:30:12.150 --> 00:30:13.609
does work. I mean, it does show your ability

00:30:13.609 --> 00:30:16.190
to articulate around the problem and solving

00:30:16.190 --> 00:30:18.509
the issue, right? You mentioned, you said something

00:30:18.509 --> 00:30:20.930
that I learned a couple of years ago, which is

00:30:20.930 --> 00:30:24.230
the magic wand question. And at the time I was

00:30:24.230 --> 00:30:27.230
selling ERP software and the CEO there, Ashley,

00:30:27.549 --> 00:30:30.069
great guy. He asked that question on the first

00:30:30.069 --> 00:30:32.430
meeting we had, like, if you had the magic wand,

00:30:32.910 --> 00:30:35.630
what would you fix? And when you open this type

00:30:35.630 --> 00:30:37.329
of open -ended question, and keep in mind, we're

00:30:37.329 --> 00:30:39.730
selling really complex software, so you have

00:30:39.730 --> 00:30:41.410
meetings with like 10 different stakeholders,

00:30:41.789 --> 00:30:43.750
and they all have different needs. You just ask

00:30:43.750 --> 00:30:45.809
them, hey, what do you guys want to see? What

00:30:45.809 --> 00:30:47.470
problems do you have that I can help you fix?

00:30:47.849 --> 00:30:49.910
Instead of me trying to guess what the problems

00:30:49.910 --> 00:30:52.609
are and then showcase something you're not really

00:30:52.609 --> 00:30:54.710
interested in, when you do that and then you

00:30:54.710 --> 00:30:56.490
actually do a presentation after that, oh my

00:30:56.490 --> 00:30:59.130
god, the results were amazing. Because all of

00:30:59.130 --> 00:31:01.109
a sudden, like your finance guy was saying, actually,

00:31:01.210 --> 00:31:03.650
I need to really improve the forecasting for

00:31:03.650 --> 00:31:05.369
the company. That's awesome. Let me show you

00:31:05.369 --> 00:31:08.130
the forecasting tool. The conversation gets so

00:31:08.130 --> 00:31:10.109
much more specific, and also they trust you a

00:31:10.109 --> 00:31:12.450
lot better because they know you're not just

00:31:12.450 --> 00:31:15.809
filling the air with empty words. It's like every

00:31:15.809 --> 00:31:19.410
word you say hits the nail in the head. Then

00:31:19.410 --> 00:31:21.890
you always want to spend some time with the salesperson

00:31:21.890 --> 00:31:23.109
because they know what you're talking about.

00:31:23.769 --> 00:31:26.549
Exactly. Yeah. I always liken it to going out

00:31:26.549 --> 00:31:29.029
for a meal. If you sit down at a restaurant and

00:31:29.029 --> 00:31:32.430
your menu is 50 pages long, you know you're not

00:31:32.430 --> 00:31:35.230
going to get the best meal. But if you walk into

00:31:35.230 --> 00:31:37.390
a Michelin star restaurant and they sit down

00:31:37.390 --> 00:31:40.190
and they go, we prepared a menu based on all

00:31:40.190 --> 00:31:42.630
the photos you've put on Instagram and all the

00:31:42.630 --> 00:31:45.730
reviews you've done online. This is what we think

00:31:45.730 --> 00:31:47.849
you'd enjoy. You're going to have the best meal

00:31:47.849 --> 00:31:50.859
of your life. And that is what I think doing

00:31:50.859 --> 00:31:53.519
a good sales pitch is. It's hearing all the problems,

00:31:53.920 --> 00:31:56.740
cutting through all the sort of nonsense that's

00:31:56.740 --> 00:31:59.259
in there, understanding the real problem and

00:31:59.259 --> 00:32:02.059
going, my solution is made for you because I'm

00:32:02.059 --> 00:32:03.819
not going to waste your time with everything

00:32:03.819 --> 00:32:06.200
that I can do. I'm just going to talk about this

00:32:06.200 --> 00:32:08.819
one thing because that's what you actually care

00:32:08.819 --> 00:32:11.240
about. I think it's one thing I also learned

00:32:11.240 --> 00:32:14.200
was the ability to say no to the person you're

00:32:14.200 --> 00:32:16.599
trying to sell to. because they always assume

00:32:16.599 --> 00:32:18.640
you're a salesperson. You're going to say yes

00:32:18.640 --> 00:32:21.359
to everything. All my problems have one solution.

00:32:21.380 --> 00:32:23.480
The solution is the magic hammer you have. But

00:32:23.480 --> 00:32:25.740
in reality, we should say it's actually the opposite.

00:32:25.859 --> 00:32:28.079
You know what? I have, yes, I do have a hammer.

00:32:28.220 --> 00:32:30.119
I'm not sure if you have the right size nails

00:32:30.119 --> 00:32:32.740
to fix or to hammer around. And when you do that,

00:32:32.839 --> 00:32:34.420
they're like, oh, so you're not going to try

00:32:34.420 --> 00:32:37.160
to push anything to me and sell me? No, it might

00:32:37.160 --> 00:32:38.880
work, might not work. I'm here just to tell you

00:32:38.880 --> 00:32:40.440
if it's a good match and then you make the decision

00:32:40.440 --> 00:32:44.160
yourself. Ah, okay. that makes it completely

00:32:44.160 --> 00:32:46.579
swaps the roles and people just trust you a lot

00:32:46.579 --> 00:32:49.259
more when you do that. And I actually walked

00:32:49.259 --> 00:32:51.579
away from a couple of deals because I just told

00:32:51.579 --> 00:32:54.519
them, hey, it's not a good match. This company

00:32:54.519 --> 00:32:56.880
is a much, much better match for you. And then

00:32:56.880 --> 00:32:58.079
a couple of months down the line, I'll reach

00:32:58.079 --> 00:32:59.940
you like a couple of weeks after, hey, Ricardo,

00:33:00.099 --> 00:33:01.480
I know you're selling this software, you're doing

00:33:01.480 --> 00:33:03.640
this. Let me introduce you to this guy. He actually

00:33:03.640 --> 00:33:05.359
has a need, which I think you can actually fulfill.

00:33:05.539 --> 00:33:08.859
Yeah, awesome, cool. Absolutely. Yeah. I always,

00:33:08.940 --> 00:33:11.039
you know, used to say I'll be the most honest

00:33:11.039 --> 00:33:13.380
sales person you sit down with because I'll tell

00:33:13.380 --> 00:33:15.539
you if we're not going to work together. And

00:33:15.539 --> 00:33:18.440
it's the same with some of my clients. I will

00:33:18.440 --> 00:33:22.599
either like fire them or never start in the beginning

00:33:22.599 --> 00:33:26.400
because if I can tell that we're not going to

00:33:26.400 --> 00:33:28.319
mesh or I'm not going to be able to provide you

00:33:28.319 --> 00:33:30.960
what you need, I don't want to waste your time.

00:33:31.000 --> 00:33:34.630
I don't want to waste my time. And so let's just

00:33:34.630 --> 00:33:37.329
stay connected, have a nice relationship, but

00:33:37.329 --> 00:33:40.190
never have to go down that specific road. And

00:33:40.190 --> 00:33:42.609
people are surprised when you reject them, but

00:33:42.609 --> 00:33:45.009
you know, it's nice. It's not something I've

00:33:45.009 --> 00:33:47.049
been able to do very much in my life. I've only

00:33:47.049 --> 00:33:49.890
ever been rejected. I feel very powerful. Come

00:33:49.890 --> 00:33:52.490
on. But I think it actually works in dating as

00:33:52.490 --> 00:33:55.609
well. People don't realize that. It's not a one

00:33:55.609 --> 00:33:58.109
size fits all type of thing. It's like, who would

00:33:58.109 --> 00:34:00.009
be a good match? And then if they're not a good

00:34:00.009 --> 00:34:01.630
match, if you just say, you're not going to be

00:34:01.630 --> 00:34:04.140
a good match. Why? Well, because you're a six

00:34:04.140 --> 00:34:06.619
foot tall Swedish supermodel and whilst I do

00:34:06.619 --> 00:34:08.320
appreciate the extra height to reach, you know,

00:34:08.420 --> 00:34:10.360
in the kitchen cabinet, I don't think it's really

00:34:10.360 --> 00:34:11.820
going to work because I really don't like that

00:34:11.820 --> 00:34:15.619
rotten fish you guys eat in the tin can. When

00:34:15.619 --> 00:34:17.539
you say that, you're like, oh wow. Obviously,

00:34:17.739 --> 00:34:19.800
I might think twice about rotten fish if it's

00:34:19.800 --> 00:34:23.960
a Swedish supermodel, but... What's really funny,

00:34:24.159 --> 00:34:26.639
Ricardo, is I'm married to a Swedish woman! No

00:34:26.639 --> 00:34:30.079
way! That is actually, okay, that is a clue why

00:34:30.079 --> 00:34:31.840
you're going Sweden then. Okay, interesting.

00:34:32.260 --> 00:34:35.219
That's so funny! But they don't eat the fish.

00:34:35.820 --> 00:34:37.659
Yeah, they do eat the fish. You know what I'm

00:34:37.659 --> 00:34:39.780
talking about? The thin ones. The strumming,

00:34:39.980 --> 00:34:43.860
yeah. Yeah, that's a bit... Although I do like

00:34:43.860 --> 00:34:46.800
the amounts of licorice that everyone in Nordics

00:34:46.800 --> 00:34:49.599
eats. But do you like licorice? I can bring some

00:34:49.599 --> 00:34:51.860
back for you. I'm not a big fan but... It stands

00:34:51.860 --> 00:34:55.639
for licorice. I think... Okay. So we in Portugal,

00:34:56.000 --> 00:34:57.599
they have this... all the shopping centers have

00:34:57.599 --> 00:35:01.820
this candy shop and the licorice box is always

00:35:01.820 --> 00:35:03.440
full because no one ever buys licorice apart

00:35:03.440 --> 00:35:05.400
from me apparently every time I go there. So

00:35:05.400 --> 00:35:07.199
I just absolutely love licorice. Okay, I'm gonna

00:35:07.199 --> 00:35:09.360
come back with some really strong licorice for

00:35:09.360 --> 00:35:11.920
you. I like the salt bombs, you know the salt

00:35:11.920 --> 00:35:13.619
bombs you put in your mouth and it explodes.

00:35:13.960 --> 00:35:17.250
Yes. Yeah. Yeah, I know exactly what I'm getting

00:35:17.250 --> 00:35:20.349
here. Thank you. I love them. Once I was in this

00:35:20.349 --> 00:35:24.429
company and this, my colleague Alex, he's Danish

00:35:24.429 --> 00:35:26.730
and every time we went to our home countries,

00:35:26.929 --> 00:35:28.829
we bring something. I brought some pistachios,

00:35:28.929 --> 00:35:31.769
he brought some salt bombs. No one, 30 people,

00:35:31.949 --> 00:35:33.650
no one ate them apart from me. So I was like,

00:35:33.909 --> 00:35:36.489
the rest of the month just me eating them, loving

00:35:36.489 --> 00:35:39.230
it. It was amazing. They're so strong, I can't

00:35:39.230 --> 00:35:42.190
have them. Literally every couple of months or

00:35:42.190 --> 00:35:45.059
year, really. I'll try them because I always

00:35:45.059 --> 00:35:48.619
want to enjoy it. The salt alone blows my head

00:35:48.619 --> 00:35:50.840
off. I can't even get to the licorice flavor.

00:35:51.760 --> 00:35:53.139
Interesting. They're good in the cold day though.

00:35:53.280 --> 00:35:55.440
If you're walking like in there's like snowy

00:35:55.440 --> 00:35:57.039
conditions or something like that, they actually,

00:35:57.139 --> 00:35:59.139
I think they elevated your heart rate. So that's

00:35:59.139 --> 00:36:01.360
actually quite good. That's probably why the

00:36:01.360 --> 00:36:03.320
Swedes like them then. Probably. Yeah, there's

00:36:03.320 --> 00:36:05.900
just a little boost. There you go. But yeah,

00:36:06.260 --> 00:36:09.739
completely off topic. Yeah, absolutely. Speaking

00:36:09.739 --> 00:36:12.869
of topics. What advice, or going back to topic,

00:36:13.130 --> 00:36:15.710
what advice would you give to entrepreneur that

00:36:15.710 --> 00:36:17.050
they're launching their business, they don't

00:36:17.050 --> 00:36:19.329
really know how to do sales? What would you tell

00:36:19.329 --> 00:36:22.610
them to do? So I would give them my three golden

00:36:22.610 --> 00:36:26.809
rules of sales. The first is to be positive because

00:36:26.809 --> 00:36:29.449
whatever you're about to do is going to be tough.

00:36:29.610 --> 00:36:31.489
You're going to get rejected. You're going to

00:36:31.489 --> 00:36:34.929
have bad news. And so keeping a positive mindset

00:36:34.929 --> 00:36:37.869
is hands down the most important thing that you

00:36:37.869 --> 00:36:41.480
can do. The second thing is being persistent.

00:36:42.079 --> 00:36:44.039
It's what everyone shies away from. It's why

00:36:44.039 --> 00:36:47.619
we've talked about rejection, but sales is about

00:36:47.619 --> 00:36:50.000
persistence. People don't respond to a first

00:36:50.000 --> 00:36:52.400
message. In fact, I think it's something ridiculous.

00:36:52.619 --> 00:36:55.539
Like 80 % of contracts get signed after five

00:36:55.539 --> 00:37:00.119
follow ups. So if you're going to fight, like

00:37:00.119 --> 00:37:02.639
no one will fight for your business as hard as

00:37:02.639 --> 00:37:05.539
you will. And so you've got to be persistent.

00:37:05.960 --> 00:37:08.579
And then the third thing is really the only way

00:37:08.579 --> 00:37:11.460
you can do the first two, which is to be brave.

00:37:12.039 --> 00:37:15.260
You have got to push yourself out of your comfort

00:37:15.260 --> 00:37:18.099
zone. It doesn't have to be massively. You don't

00:37:18.099 --> 00:37:20.460
have to do things you don't morally agree with,

00:37:20.800 --> 00:37:23.900
but you have to push yourself because only then

00:37:23.900 --> 00:37:26.260
are you going to grow and achieve something.

00:37:26.510 --> 00:37:30.150
And whenever I say that, I always say, as a challenge,

00:37:30.610 --> 00:37:33.369
if right now, hearing that, there's a voice in

00:37:33.369 --> 00:37:35.909
your head going, oh, yeah, that is that person

00:37:35.909 --> 00:37:38.130
I've been avoiding calling, or that is that email

00:37:38.130 --> 00:37:42.250
I've been not sending. Just go do it. Go see

00:37:42.250 --> 00:37:44.829
what happens. And if you get a contract, 10 %

00:37:44.829 --> 00:37:46.730
commission. But that's the thing. It's about

00:37:46.730 --> 00:37:49.289
the ability to... I think actors actually get

00:37:49.289 --> 00:37:52.940
this really, really well. to be judged and to

00:37:52.940 --> 00:37:54.900
make mistakes and to make mistakes in public,

00:37:54.900 --> 00:37:58.739
right? Because when you go on stage or before

00:37:58.739 --> 00:38:02.539
the opening night, you make so much mistakes

00:38:02.539 --> 00:38:05.260
in the way you interpret that character and the

00:38:05.260 --> 00:38:06.920
way they should speak, the way they should move,

00:38:07.400 --> 00:38:10.119
are they like higher pitch, lower pitch, should

00:38:10.119 --> 00:38:12.159
they speak, you know, so many different things

00:38:12.159 --> 00:38:15.340
that getting that feedback can either destroy

00:38:15.340 --> 00:38:18.280
you or build you up. But as long as you assume

00:38:18.280 --> 00:38:21.380
that as a salesperson or as a CEO or as a founder,

00:38:22.139 --> 00:38:24.219
you're learning what works, what doesn't work.

00:38:24.320 --> 00:38:26.300
And that person selling is different than who

00:38:26.300 --> 00:38:28.840
you are in your intimate moments. That's completely

00:38:28.840 --> 00:38:30.960
fine. Like if you're on a shirt, okay, this is

00:38:30.960 --> 00:38:33.519
my sales shirt. Technically, this is my podcast

00:38:33.519 --> 00:38:36.059
shirt. Well, clearly me too. I mean, I got the

00:38:36.059 --> 00:38:39.360
memo. It's blue podcast shirt. But that's the

00:38:39.360 --> 00:38:41.000
thing. You put on this, it's like, okay, podcast

00:38:41.000 --> 00:38:43.679
mode on. Cool. And you know, the mindset completely

00:38:43.679 --> 00:38:46.340
swaps. But if I'm wearing, I don't know, a tank

00:38:46.340 --> 00:38:48.739
top or is it tank top, the men wear tank top,

00:38:48.960 --> 00:38:51.219
slivvish? Q -cap, you can wear whatever you want.

00:38:51.880 --> 00:38:55.980
But yeah. Is this how you call it? Slivvish top,

00:38:56.119 --> 00:38:58.579
I guess. Then probably shouldn't be doing a podcast

00:38:58.579 --> 00:39:01.079
because it's like still relaxed mode. Not really

00:39:01.079 --> 00:39:03.760
the type of podcast we want. But yeah. Yeah,

00:39:04.000 --> 00:39:06.219
absolutely. Tez, as we're nearing the end of

00:39:06.219 --> 00:39:08.579
the podcast, if people want to reach out to you,

00:39:08.579 --> 00:39:11.400
what's the best way of doing so? So, best thing

00:39:11.400 --> 00:39:14.159
that they can do is either find me on LinkedIn,

00:39:14.300 --> 00:39:17.860
I'm really active there and it's just... I think

00:39:17.860 --> 00:39:20.260
I'm the only Tash Rebuck on LinkedIn, but you

00:39:20.260 --> 00:39:22.440
can challenge me on that if I'm wrong. Or you

00:39:22.440 --> 00:39:24.380
can come and visit my website. I've actually

00:39:24.380 --> 00:39:28.179
just redone it. So please go and enjoy. It's

00:39:28.179 --> 00:39:32.219
trsalesconsultancy .co .uk. And you can reach

00:39:32.219 --> 00:39:34.960
out to me there. Book 30 minutes free. We chat

00:39:34.960 --> 00:39:37.280
through your business, see if I can help. Like

00:39:37.280 --> 00:39:39.699
we were saying, only if I'm the right fit. But

00:39:39.699 --> 00:39:42.360
yeah, anyone who resonated with it, I'd love

00:39:42.360 --> 00:39:45.099
to hear from you. Sounds good. Thanks. Thank

00:39:45.099 --> 00:39:46.300
you so much for your time. It's been an absolute

00:39:46.300 --> 00:39:49.480
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