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Welcome to Season 3 of Love & Context. This season,

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we're exploring the life of Jesus step -by -step

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and uncovering what His story teaches us about

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loving God and others. Here on Love & Context,

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we're all about having real conversations about

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how to live out that love in practical, everyday

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ways, and understanding the Bible in its full

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context. We're so glad you're here. Let's dive

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into Season 3 of Love & Context. Welcome to the

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Love and Context Podcast. Podcast! Yeah. We are

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continuing with our series on the life of Jesus.

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Podcast. You're just going to keep saying podcast.

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That's the only word Ben's going to say now.

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There was an episode, sorry, I'm just interrupting

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you already, but in season one where we were

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like, we're like, podcast, podcast, podcast,

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podcast. So that was it. Yeah. We're going to

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be talking about the woman at the well, John

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chapter 4. Life of Jesus. Yep. Yeah, we are going

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to be talking about that. In fact, the first

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thing I think we should probably do. That's the

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first thing we should do? Yes. Okay, hold on.

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Yes, we are going to talk about that. This is

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one of the stories that is... It's interesting

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to see the perspective that some people take

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on it initially. We're going to read the text,

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and then I want you to hear it, and I want you

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to pretend like you've never heard it before.

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Because I think if you do that, then when we

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actually start having this conversation, you'll

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be like, oh, I'm throwing a lot of assumptions

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into this text that aren't actually there. It's

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fine to think. But people have made very definitive

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statements about what's going on in this text

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on the character of the woman, the character

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of just different things that aren't actually

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explicitly said in the text. Yep. There's a lot

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of things culturally that could be going on.

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And it's always interesting to me how that happens.

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Yeah. I mean, to be fair, this is not the only

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scripture people do that on. Really? Yeah. No,

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this is not. It's the first time I'm hearing

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that. I was reading the book of Second Opinions

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the other day. It's written by a doctor, by the

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way. That's a joke for all my MD friends. It's

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not written by Luke. It's written by Juke. Juke?

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Yeah. Wow, we're on a roll today. I'm killing

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it. This is cool. All right. So if you remember

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last week, we were in the story of Nicodemus

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and Jesus, and they're having this conversation.

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This story is actually going to parallel a lot

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of the things that are happening here. Yeah.

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We'll just read through the story to start out,

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and we're going to go section by section, just

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comment on it, and then I want to go back and

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take some big high -level views and talk about

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that. Does that sound good? Yeah. All right.

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I'm going to start in verse 1 here. Chapter 4.

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Now Jesus... Learned that the Pharisees had been,

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sorry, I can read. Now, geez, stop laughing because

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it's not going to cut together well. Just get

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in front of your microphone. I might leave that

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in just so people know the absurdity that I have.

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Actually, okay, real talk here. We are going

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to get into the story, but I'm going to tell

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you a quick story. I was editing yesterday our

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episode that we posted, and I am not allowed

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to have soda. during the episode again because

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i had to have so many belches removed like i

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had to go in so many times because i'd be talking

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then it's like you know and i was like it wasn't

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like a loud one but it was like very clear and

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i'm like imagining people are listening to this

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on their way to to work in the morning and they're

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like yeah and then jesus comes in and then you

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know like it's just weird pause in the middle

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of it i personally i think it'd be really funny

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for me to show up with like 12 different shirts.

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And then like every time you're like, okay, let's

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try that again. I change a shirt. It would be

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incredibly confusing. Yeah. And then people watching

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on YouTube would be like, wait. What? The downside

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for me is that I'd have to wait for you to change

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each shirt just to go back and do it again. Yeah.

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All right. Now, for real, John chapter 4, starting

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verse 1. Now, Jesus learned that the Pharisees

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had heard that he was gaining and baptizing more

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disciples than John, which I don't know why they

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care. Although, in fact, it was not Jesus who

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baptized, but his disciples. So he left Judea

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and went back once more to Galilee. Now he had

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to go through Samaria, so he came to a town in

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Samaria called Sychar, near the plot of the ground

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Jacob had given to his son Joseph. Jacob's well

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was there, and Jesus, tired as he was from the

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journey, sat down by the well. It was about noon.

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When a Samaritan woman came to draw water, Jesus

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said to her, Will you give me a drink? His disciples

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had gone into the town to buy food. The Samaritan

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woman said to him, You are a Jew, and I am a

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Samaritan woman. How can you ask me for a drink?

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For Jews do not associate with Samaritans. Jesus

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answered her, if you knew the gift of God and

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who it was to ask you for a drink, you would

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have asked him and he would have given you living

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water. Sir, the woman said, you have nothing

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to draw with and the well is deep. Where can

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you get this living water? Are you greater than

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our father Jacob who gave us this well and drank

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from it himself? as did his sons and his livestock.

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Jesus answered, Everyone who drinks this water

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will be thirsty again, but whoever drinks the

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water I give them will never thirst. Indeed,

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the water I give them will become in them a spring

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of water, welling up to eternal life. The woman

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said to him, Sir, give me this water and I won't

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get thirsty and have to keep coming here to draw

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water. He told her, Go and call your husband

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and come back. I have no husband, she replied.

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Jesus said to her, Yeah, at that point, right?

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Our ancestors worshiped on this mountain, but

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the Jews claim that the place where we must worship

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is in Jerusalem. Woman, Jesus replied, believe

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me, a time is coming when you will worship the

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Father, neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem.

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You Samaritans worship what you do not know.

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We worship what we do know, for salvation is

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from the Jews. Yet a time is coming and has now

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come that true worshipers will worship the Father

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in spirit and truth, for they are worshipers

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the Father seeks. God is spirit, and the worshipers

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must worship him in spirit and truth. The woman

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said, I know that Messiah, called Christ, is

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coming. When he comes, he will explain everything

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to us. Then Jesus declared, I, the one speaking

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to you, I am he. Okay, let's pause there. So

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what's going on in this story? Lots of things.

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Was that helpful? It's so helpful. So helpful.

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You know, this whole thing thrives on dialogue.

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And so I love it when you just give me like...

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statement endings, right? It's like a concrete

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wall you put up. You're like, I'm like, hey,

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what do you think about this? Things. Oh, you

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know I did that on purpose. I do. So they're

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actually the first couple verses where it talks

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about Jesus gaining and baptizing more than John.

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There is a significance there because John was

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a recognized prophet amongst the Pharisees. If

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you read the earlier stuff that John's doing,

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which there's not a lot about, they're not going

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after John the same way they're going after Jesus.

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Well, I think they recognize that John is calling

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for something that they agree with, which is

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repent because the kingdom of heaven is here.

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They're like, yeah, and follow Torah and all

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those different things, which, by the way, not

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wrong, but also missing the heart. Jesus, on

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the other hand. is kind of ruffling some feathers

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with them because he's like okay yeah we want

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to follow torah and by the way you're not understanding

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what it's actually saying and what it's actually

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teaching and so g so they're getting to the point

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with jesus at this point where they're like okay

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how can we trick this guy like they're not quite

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to let's kill him let's arrest him let's kill

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him but let's prove that he's wrong which by

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the way they weren't ever able to do yeah um

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so the fact that The fact that it's actually

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saying, hey, they're recognizing that Jesus is

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getting more followers than John is the point

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where it's one of those turning points in Scripture

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where... It's starting to become worrisome for

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the Pharisees. Yeah. Well, and it's more of something

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that is also when you start to have this amalgamation

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of more disciples, you're going to get more attention.

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And so one of the things we've pointed out and

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we'll point out more towards the end of Jesus's

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life is Jesus spends about three years having

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conversation with the Pharisees in the triangle

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and one week in Jerusalem and they kill him.

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And so there is a difference between the Jews

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that are in Jerusalem. the ruling council and

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the rulers of the law, to put up air quotes for

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those that are just listening, and the guys that

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he's engaging with on a regular basis. And so

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every time he starts to get like a massive following,

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Jesus kind of... moves away and then he moves

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away and then he moves on right um he's kind

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of like the the uh if you think about modern

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church plans is like you want to grow bigger

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and bigger and bigger he's like the opposite

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he's like we're big and now i'm going to move

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on yeah big and move on growing moving on right

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the other thing to note on that is the fact that

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his disciples were the ones baptizing because

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to be someone who would be administering baptism

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you typically would be a rabbi or someone higher

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up in the religious chain. I also wonder if there's

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not some of this with John writing back against

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the Gnosticism that crops up, if there's not

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some people in that day who are like, well, I

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was baptized by Jesus himself. And he's like,

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well, Jesus didn't really baptize, the disciples

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did. Yeah. Like, I hear you, but I was there.

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We were the ones baptized. Yeah. And then you

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get down to verse 4, and I think this is one

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thing where we've made assumptions, but this

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is mostly factual at this point, is they did

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not have to go through Samaria. Correct. Right?

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There was a road around Samaria. Right. So they

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could have avoided it altogether. Correct. So

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when it says they had to go through Samaria,

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they had to go because Jesus knew he was going

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to have a conversation. Right. That part is the

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assumption. Right? We're assuming Jesus knew

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that this conversation was going to happen. Now,

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based on your theological background, some of

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you might be like, well, no, there's actually

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no proof in the text of that. True, there's no

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proof in the text of that. There's also proof

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in the text of Jesus is the Son of God. He is

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one with the Father. Last week, not last week,

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a couple weeks ago, because that's when I recorded

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it, with Les, we were talking about when Jesus

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is tempted by Satan in the desert. All three

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Gospels, Matthew, Mark, and Luke, recorded as

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Jesus is led by the Spirit to the desert. And

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once again, we doesn't say specifically led by

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the Spirit in the Gospel of John, but where Jesus

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is going is where the Spirit is leading. So whether

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or not you are of the opinion, depending on where

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your theology falls, you may be like, oh, well,

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God, he just knows what God wants him to do when

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he goes, or he's being led by the Spirit to a

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specific place, and his Spirit says, stop, something's

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coming up, and you just recognize what's coming

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up. Either one of those, it's clear that God

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is orchestrating something. And it's going to

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be really clear when we come back and do the

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story and I start talking about how it compares

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to this conversation with Nicodemus. Yes. But

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he did not have to go through Samaria. Correct.

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But he did. Yeah. Which is significant because

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Jews do not like Samaritans. I'm trying to think

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of, like, there's not really a really good modern

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equivalent. Maybe Israel and Gaza. Maybe. Maybe.

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I'm trying to think of a modern equivalence of

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people who are closely related but really despise

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each other. Yeah, Ukraine and Russia. Yeah, maybe

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Ukraine and Russia. Go back to the Old Testament.

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You guys do your own research on this. The relationship

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between the Jews and Samaritans is not a... good

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one. It's one where it's one that's full of violence,

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full of strife, full of hurt and anger. It's

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crazy that a lot of Jews would rather spend time

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with Romans than Samaritans. And yes, the Romans,

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the ones who occupied them and are taxing them

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to oblivion, they would rather spend time with

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them than spend time with Samaritans because

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in the Jewish mindset, Samaritans, they look

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at them as dirty half -breeds. Right. That have

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compromised the true way of Israel. Right. And

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yet Jesus is like, nope, we're going here because

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it's important that we go here. Yes. And one

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of the things that is really important that perhaps

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to understand about Samaria is their observance

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of Judaism. They only saw the first five books

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of the Bible as authoritative, which is going

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to be very in line with like the Sadducees, for

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example. Yeah. They only see the first five books,

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the Torah, as authoritative and everything else

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is just commentary. And so they're going to diverge

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from people in that capacity. And so a lot of

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the conversations that Jesus even has with the

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woman are tied back to Torah. Yeah. Right. Which

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totally tracks. Some of the other assumptions

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that we make in here is that she's coming at

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noon because she's ashamed to be around other

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people. Possible. She could also just be on a

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schedule that noon makes sense. Yep. Just because

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everybody comes at a certain time and you go

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at a different time doesn't mean you're going

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there to avoid everybody else. I mean, it's pretty

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well documented that most people would draw water

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in the morning or evening. Yeah. Right? That's

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pretty well documented. But it's not documented

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that everybody... Well, and I think the reason

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I think people jump to that is that it says that

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you've married five times, but the person you're

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living with is not now, not your husband. Now,

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immediately people jump on that and they say,

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oh, well, she had five husbands. She's been divorced

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five times. And this person that she's living

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with, she's living in sin. Also not stated in

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the text, she could have been caring for a relative.

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She could have been a caretaker for somebody,

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which also might be why she's there at noon.

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And you also have to recognize Torah a little

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bit on this, right? Because Torah specifically

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states that if you are widowed, that the next

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brother in line of the family would marry. Yeah,

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think back to the story of Judah and Tamar, right?

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Tamar marries his first son, and then he's struck

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dead. So the next son marries her, and he's supposed

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to provide an heir, and then he's struck dead.

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And then he's like, well, you just go be in widow's

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clothing for a while in my household until my

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other son comes of age. This is a leverite marriage.

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You're supposed to take care of the familiar

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obligations. I've said that before and I've had

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people be like, okay, but five brothers? And

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I was like, okay, we're also talking there's

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no birth control. Yeah. And reproducing having

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five, seven, 10, 12 kids. Totally normal. Is

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pretty normal. Yeah. Now, what we're not saying

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is that's for sure what's going on. No. What

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we are saying is we need to curb our assumptions

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when we're coming to the text. That when we assume

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that she is. getting divorced lots of times,

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and she's been getting rid of divorce lots of

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times, and she's living in sin, it's going to

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cause us to read the story a certain way. So

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instead of doing that, why don't we actually

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read what the story says, place it in its context,

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and it's fine to make some assertions and be

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like, I wonder if, right? But it's problematic

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when we put our own biases in there. You should

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not read your own stories into the Bible. Yeah,

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to be fair, we do like the story of the worst

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of these coming to know Jesus and changing a

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community. Right. But already going from Nicodemus

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being a highly respected biblical teacher to

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a Samaritan woman at a well, it's already going

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from the highest to the lowest. Yeah. In fact,

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it's probably the fact that we don't view women

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as subordinate as much in America. The reason

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that we don't realize how dramatic that tension

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is, right? Yeah. Yeah, so. All right, so I want

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to jump in here. Let's jump back into 27. The

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disciples rejoined Jesus. This is one of my favorite

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parts, by the way. Just then, his disciples returned

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and were surprised to find him talking with a

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woman. But no one asked, what do you want or

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why are you talking with her? Probably because

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they've learned their lesson so far that let

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him do his thing. Then leaving her water jar,

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the woman went back to the town and said to the

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people, come see a man who told me everything

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I ever did. Could this be the Messiah? They came

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out of town and made their way toward him. Meanwhile,

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the disciples urged him, Rabbi, eat something.

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He said to them, I have food to eat that you

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have known nothing about. Then his disciples

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said to each other, could someone have brought

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him food? My food, said Jesus, is to do the will

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of him who sent me and to finish his work. Don't

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you have a saying? It's still four months until

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harvest. I tell you, open your eyes and look

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at the fields. They are ripe for harvest. Even

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now, the one who reaps draws a wage and harvest

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a crop for eternal life, so that the sower and

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the reaper may be glad together. Thus the saying,

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one sows and another reaps, is true. I sent you

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to reap what you have not worked for. Others

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have done its hard work, and you have reaped

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the benefits of their labor. Okay, so once again

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here is this lady immediately upon hearing what

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Jesus says drops her jar and goes back because

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what she's doing is not as important as what

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he just said. Hey, I am Messiah and I can explain

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to you the things you don't understand. Those

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things you've been really confused about, I can

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tell you about it. Yeah. Like, that's exciting.

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Now, leading further credence to not placing

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her as reading our assumptions into the text,

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she goes and tells the city, which if you're

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a person of ill repute, if you just make an announcement

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and you say, hey, come and see somebody who told

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me everything, they're a prophet, could this

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be the Messiah, is your first reaction to just

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follow them, the entire city? I don't know. Maybe.

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One of the assumptions, though, that's also bred

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into this text is that she's a younger woman.

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Right. And that's not explicitly said either.

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True. And so it's actually would be a safer assumption.

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And again, assumptions can be dangerous, but

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it'd be a safer assumption to say that she was

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actually an older, more well -respected elder

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in the community. Right. Who's had bad luck with

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husbands. Well, and there is a certain amount

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of connection because she does seem to have some

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sort of education because the questions she asked

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Jesus are profound. Like they're much more profound

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than they look on their surface. which has led

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so many people, we've talked about it in the

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past on the podcast, about whether or not she

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was a religious leader in her town. It's possible.

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We're not going to speculate. More, we're recognizing

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that people from the highest stratosphere to

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the lowest stratosphere have significant questions

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about God. The point in pointing out that when

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she goes and everybody wants to follow her to

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find out if, hey, this is Messiah, is pointing

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out the fact that we need to not read our assumptions

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into it. Because if we're like, well, she's just,

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you know, she's been married a bunch of times

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and she's been sleeping around and blah, blah,

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blah. So that's why people come out. You have

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to really start to do what I call hermeneutic

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gymnastics. For those of listening who are like,

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what are hermeneutics? It's something about how

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you interpret scripture, right? So I say you

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kind of have to do gymnastics to make your theory

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fit. And we shouldn't have to do that. Yeah.

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And one of the things with this story, too, is

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the details that are left out. aren't important

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correct and so you need to you need to look at

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the details that are in there and say what is

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important and one of the things in this part

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is the fact that she encountered jesus and went

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to her town whether she was of ill repute or

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not she went to her town and her town listened

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and came out to meet him the disciples are really

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funny here yeah because they're like he's hanging

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out with a woman by a well samaritan woman i'm

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gonna keep my mouth shut but what is going on

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Yeah. Well, and to be fair on the disciples front,

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they're probably already very stretched and uncomfortable

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in this situation because earlier in the text,

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it says they went into town to buy food. Now

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all the disciples are not Samaritans. And so,

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and the woman talks about how like Jews and Samaritans

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don't associate. So you have a group of Jews

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going into a Samaritan town to buy food, right?

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For the disciples. this would be a very uncomfortable

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situation. One, you almost wonder because they

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went into town, left Jesus at the well, like

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with cultural taboos, is their thought maybe

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spare rabbi from having to go into the Samaritan

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town? Yeah. And then the Samaritan is coming

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out and he's actually talking to the Samaritan.

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Yeah. Which these are contextual clues that would

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potentially hold some accuracy. Yeah. But again,

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not explicitly said in the text, but, but then

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to have them come back being like, okay, we,

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associated with the unclean, right? And then

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to come back and be like, Jesus, what are you

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doing? Like, that's kind of what it feels like

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to me, at least. All right, so I want to just

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close off this last portion of this. We are going

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to talk about Jesus healing the official son,

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too, but this is verse 39. Many of the Samaritans

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from that town believed in him because of the

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woman's testimony. He told me everything I ever

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did. So when the Samaritans came to him, they

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urged him to stay with them and he stayed with

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them two days. And because of his words, many

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more became believers. They said to the woman,

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we no longer believe just because of what you

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said. Now we have heard for ourselves and we

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know that this man really is a savior of the

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world. Okay. Once again, this is playing once

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again into this idea of she has to be in some

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capacity a member of the community because they

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believe because of her words. Yeah. So this isn't

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somebody that has no credibility. Now, if you

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hold that opinion, it's fine. It's fine. I think

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you still catch the crux of the story. But I

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want to challenge us not to make assumptions

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on the text. And especially when you come into

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a story like this. So love and context, we talk

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about having real conversations about the scriptures

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and talking about Jesus. There are... issues

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that i see on social media and we we've talked

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about this type of thing before where two people

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have a difference of opinion on a passage and

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it's a minor thing was she a respected member

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or was she uh an outcast doesn't matter doesn't

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matter and yet we there are there are times where

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we will take these and we will build like entire

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walls against each other about why the other

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person doesn't really believe in the true story

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that's problematic yeah right yeah So take a

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look at how you've heard this story before. Like

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you've heard it before as like this is a woman

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of ill repute, a woman who potentially a prostitute,

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not respected in the community, coming out during

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the daytime to draw water because nobody likes

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her, right? And then you contrast that with what's

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actually happening in the story and you realize

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that everything I just listed actually isn't

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in there. Those are all assumptions we've made.

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Yeah. What we know is she's a Samaritan woman.

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came out midday to draw water, encountered Jesus,

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realizes that there's something more to him.

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She goes and tells her community. Her community

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listens, and this whole town comes to believe

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who Jesus is. Yeah. That's what we know. So there

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is, yeah, and those are the things we know. And

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so then when we're trying to fill in the details,

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we're actually driving those points deeper. Right?

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You don't drive the points that aren't explicit

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deeper. You're actually saying, you're asking

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questions about cultural context, linguistics,

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all these different things to try to drive those

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points deeper. Now, we said that the story really

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pairs really well with the story of Nicodemus.

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So I want to point out a few things that I think

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is really interesting. So these are direct, literally,

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and thematic contrasts. So the time of the encounter.

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Nicodemus comes when? Middle of the night. She

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comes when? Middle of the day. Middle of the

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day. Okay. Nicodemus, social status. He is? High

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-ranking religious official. And male, right?

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She is? A Samaritan woman. Right? She is a Samaritan

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woman, marginalized, stigmatized, all those different

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things that are happening with those, both women

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and Samaritans. In the approach, who seeks out

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Jesus in Nicodemus' story? Nicodemus. Okay. Who

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seeks out Jesus or who gets sought out in the

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story of Jesus and Samaria? The woman as well.

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Okay. So they're different ways. Like one's coming

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to Jesus, one Jesus is going to, right? Both

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of them are given a chance to respond, Nicodemus

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and Jesus. Ultimately, we know Nicodemus does

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respond because he's there at the burial of Jesus

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at the end of the book. But in the moment, does

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Nicodemus have a response? No. No. Does she have

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a response? Yes. Leads to testimony, right? Mm

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-hmm. Here are some more shared themes, some

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things going on. These are going to involve some

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Greek words. So if you are a Greek speaker or

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Greek linguistic from the Bible, I apologize

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because it's going to be wrong. Just forewarning

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you. If you're trying to listen and write these

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out, I'm probably saying them wrong. So just

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go look them up yourself. So Nicodemus, connecting

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these stories again. Greek words to show again.

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Nicodemus misunderstands the words born again,

00:25:24.410 --> 00:25:28.440
which is antheon. right? As a physical rebirth.

00:25:28.559 --> 00:25:30.380
Like he says, born again, he's the Antheon should

00:25:30.380 --> 00:25:33.779
be like a physical rebirth. She misunderstood

00:25:33.779 --> 00:25:36.859
stands the word living water, which is also related

00:25:36.859 --> 00:25:42.160
to Antheon, right? Because rebirth actually could

00:25:42.160 --> 00:25:45.680
mean coming from above. Yeah. And in both cases,

00:25:45.680 --> 00:25:48.700
God redirects them to a deeper truth. Nicodemus

00:25:48.700 --> 00:25:51.039
hears that one must be born of water and spirit

00:25:51.039 --> 00:25:52.819
to enter the kingdom of God. The Samaritan woman

00:25:52.819 --> 00:25:54.920
is offered living water that leads to eternal

00:25:54.920 --> 00:25:58.200
life. Yeah. And you are to worship in spirit

00:25:58.200 --> 00:26:02.299
and truth. Like a lot of these words lining up.

00:26:02.400 --> 00:26:04.740
Jesus tells Nicodemus that belief in the Son

00:26:04.740 --> 00:26:08.400
brings eternal life. The Samaritan woman learns

00:26:08.400 --> 00:26:14.440
that living water leads to eternal life. Nicodemus

00:26:14.440 --> 00:26:16.980
is invited to live by truth. She is invited to

00:26:16.980 --> 00:26:19.319
that true worship must be in spirit and truth.

00:26:22.430 --> 00:26:25.509
Nicodemus represents a lot of just the religious

00:26:25.509 --> 00:26:31.230
Jewish people. Yeah. Right? And she represents

00:26:31.230 --> 00:26:36.309
the marginalized outsiders. Together, they show

00:26:36.309 --> 00:26:38.690
that Jesus' mission is not just to save a person,

00:26:38.750 --> 00:26:40.589
but it's actually to save the entire world. Yeah.

00:26:40.650 --> 00:26:45.789
Right? Let's see here. There is, this is really

00:26:45.789 --> 00:26:48.829
cool too here. So spirit, the pneuma, John 3,

00:26:48.950 --> 00:26:51.450
5 through 6, he says to Nicodemus, born of water

00:26:51.450 --> 00:26:54.750
and spirit, same word that is being used in worship

00:26:54.750 --> 00:26:57.410
and spirit and truth, central in both stories.

00:26:58.009 --> 00:27:00.069
Nicodemus says eternal life through the sun,

00:27:00.210 --> 00:27:02.809
living water flowing up for eternal life, same

00:27:02.809 --> 00:27:06.769
word that is being used, zoe, truth, alathie,

00:27:06.890 --> 00:27:10.589
theia. I should make. Actually, make somebody

00:27:10.589 --> 00:27:15.130
else read these. Just call Nick on this. Living

00:27:15.130 --> 00:27:17.670
by the truth brings one into the light. True

00:27:17.670 --> 00:27:19.910
worshipers worship in spirit and truth. The world,

00:27:19.970 --> 00:27:23.130
the cosmos, God so loved the world. She declares,

00:27:23.309 --> 00:27:25.990
the Samaritans declare Jesus Savior of the cosmos,

00:27:26.210 --> 00:27:30.410
the world. Testimony, Jesus speaks of testimony

00:27:30.410 --> 00:27:33.230
not received, and her testimony leads to many

00:27:33.230 --> 00:27:37.890
believing. So we have right here again this chiastic

00:27:37.890 --> 00:27:41.880
structure. Nicodemus comes at night. She comes

00:27:41.880 --> 00:27:44.220
in the day. He's respected. She's marginalized.

00:27:44.599 --> 00:27:47.680
He seeks Jesus. Jesus seeks her. They both have

00:27:47.680 --> 00:27:49.359
a misunderstanding. One about being born again.

00:27:49.440 --> 00:27:52.680
One about living water. Yep. The central idea

00:27:52.680 --> 00:27:55.779
is spiritual rebirth versus true worship. It's

00:27:55.779 --> 00:27:57.420
almost like those things might be related. Yeah.

00:27:57.519 --> 00:28:01.220
Right? He has slow, hesitant faith. She has an

00:28:01.220 --> 00:28:05.599
immediate, robust response. And the outcome is

00:28:05.599 --> 00:28:07.480
he remains cautious and hidden, but the outcome

00:28:07.480 --> 00:28:10.319
of Jesus is that she becomes a bold evangelist.

00:28:10.400 --> 00:28:14.839
Yeah. Right? So these stories, and by the way,

00:28:14.859 --> 00:28:17.039
I only just took a little sampling. Yeah. There's

00:28:17.039 --> 00:28:18.660
actually a lot more that connects these two stories.

00:28:18.759 --> 00:28:24.359
Yes. And so what John is doing is all throughout

00:28:24.359 --> 00:28:27.059
his gospel, he's going to have this idea of light

00:28:27.059 --> 00:28:30.200
and darkness, truth and lies. He's going to be

00:28:30.200 --> 00:28:32.160
kind of contrasting these things over and over

00:28:32.160 --> 00:28:39.160
again. So this story should be viewed as informing

00:28:39.160 --> 00:28:43.980
on each other, right? And so, like I said, being

00:28:43.980 --> 00:28:47.559
born again connects to this idea of true worship,

00:28:47.720 --> 00:28:51.039
right? Like being born again actually enables

00:28:51.039 --> 00:28:53.420
you to see the kingdom of God and actually engage

00:28:53.420 --> 00:28:57.500
in true worship with the Father, right? It's

00:28:57.500 --> 00:28:59.240
a profound statement. And as you're starting

00:28:59.240 --> 00:29:00.740
to hear these and you start to connect these

00:29:00.740 --> 00:29:03.730
ideas, you're like, oh, good golly. There's a

00:29:03.730 --> 00:29:05.569
lot more going on here than I thought. Yeah.

00:29:05.829 --> 00:29:08.250
And one of the things that, and the reason you're

00:29:08.250 --> 00:29:10.430
able to connect those two ideas is because Jesus

00:29:10.430 --> 00:29:13.630
is proclaiming the same message in a different

00:29:13.630 --> 00:29:16.130
language for a different audience. Yeah. Right?

00:29:16.529 --> 00:29:19.109
And that's something we could learn, right? Because

00:29:19.109 --> 00:29:22.089
so many times I hear Christians be like, okay,

00:29:22.109 --> 00:29:24.349
well, this is the gospel, and they proclaim a

00:29:24.349 --> 00:29:27.210
good message, right? But the audience they're

00:29:27.210 --> 00:29:29.890
proclaiming it to just leaves them be like, what

00:29:29.890 --> 00:29:32.289
are you talking about? Yeah. And so, but here

00:29:32.289 --> 00:29:33.630
you have Jesus being like, okay, I'm talking

00:29:33.630 --> 00:29:37.789
to a high ranking religious leader who's a man.

00:29:37.990 --> 00:29:40.130
This is what we're going to talk about. And then

00:29:40.130 --> 00:29:42.750
I'm talking to a Samaritan woman at the well

00:29:42.750 --> 00:29:44.730
from a Jewish perspective, which is like the

00:29:44.730 --> 00:29:46.990
worst of the worst, right? You don't hang out

00:29:46.990 --> 00:29:50.440
with Samaritans. I'm not saying women are the

00:29:50.440 --> 00:29:51.839
worst. I'm just saying from a Jewish perspective.

00:29:51.960 --> 00:29:54.500
You heard it here first on the Love and Conduct

00:29:54.500 --> 00:29:58.420
podcast. Spencer McDowell, care of. And I will

00:29:58.420 --> 00:29:59.980
be sleeping on the couch because when my wife

00:29:59.980 --> 00:30:02.599
listens to this, she'll be like, what the? I

00:30:02.599 --> 00:30:04.380
hear you, but what's the likelihood your wife

00:30:04.380 --> 00:30:10.380
is going to listen to this? She's not. I've asked

00:30:10.380 --> 00:30:11.680
her, I was like, hey, have you listened to any

00:30:11.680 --> 00:30:13.839
of our episodes? She's like. I hear you and Ben

00:30:13.839 --> 00:30:15.980
talk about them all the time. I don't need to

00:30:15.980 --> 00:30:18.180
go listen to it. Fair enough. Fair enough. Fair

00:30:18.180 --> 00:30:23.740
enough. But you have Jesus proclaiming the same

00:30:23.740 --> 00:30:28.119
message in different words, both of which, by

00:30:28.119 --> 00:30:32.319
the way, are relating to not just the audience

00:30:32.319 --> 00:30:35.640
he's talking to, but the physical surrounding

00:30:35.640 --> 00:30:39.160
that he's in. Right. So like you take Nicodemus,

00:30:39.200 --> 00:30:42.019
for example, the idea of being born again, bringing

00:30:42.019 --> 00:30:44.059
light into the darkness, he's talking, they're

00:30:44.059 --> 00:30:46.859
talking at night. And so like there's that imagery

00:30:46.859 --> 00:30:49.779
of like light is coming. Right. And then you

00:30:49.779 --> 00:30:52.140
have the imagery of the water at the well. Right.

00:30:52.380 --> 00:30:54.599
Of like, well, I'm thirsty. Let's talk about

00:30:54.599 --> 00:30:57.160
living water. Right. Yeah. He's using what's

00:30:57.160 --> 00:30:59.660
there to bring the gospel message to these people.

00:30:59.759 --> 00:31:02.680
And that's something I think we could take note

00:31:02.680 --> 00:31:07.150
of. I also think there is this, we quote John

00:31:07.150 --> 00:31:10.250
3 .16, but I actually find because 3 .16 is quoted

00:31:10.250 --> 00:31:13.549
so often, we curtail it before 17, 18, 19, right?

00:31:14.670 --> 00:31:17.869
Which are significant. And even we do that with

00:31:17.869 --> 00:31:22.089
this story here, right? 17, 18, 19, real quick,

00:31:22.170 --> 00:31:25.599
just to give you guys a reminder. For God did

00:31:25.599 --> 00:31:27.819
not send his Son into the world to condemn the

00:31:27.819 --> 00:31:30.000
world, but to save the world through him. Whoever

00:31:30.000 --> 00:31:31.700
believes in him is not condemned, but whoever

00:31:31.700 --> 00:31:33.480
does not believe stands condemned already because

00:31:33.480 --> 00:31:35.099
they have not believed in the name of God's one

00:31:35.099 --> 00:31:37.359
and only Son. This is the verdict. Light has

00:31:37.359 --> 00:31:38.980
come into the world, but people love darkness

00:31:38.980 --> 00:31:40.559
instead of light because their deeds are evil.

00:31:40.880 --> 00:31:42.779
Everyone who does evil hates the light and will

00:31:42.779 --> 00:31:44.619
not come into the light for the fear that their

00:31:44.619 --> 00:31:47.440
deeds will be exposed. But whoever lives by the

00:31:47.440 --> 00:31:49.220
truth comes into the light so that it may seem

00:31:49.220 --> 00:31:53.339
plainly that they have done That what they have

00:31:53.339 --> 00:31:55.400
done has been done in the sight of God. Now,

00:31:55.420 --> 00:31:59.400
she says, Jesus is Messiah. He told me everything

00:31:59.400 --> 00:32:04.200
I ever knew, I ever done. Right? And people come

00:32:04.200 --> 00:32:07.880
running to see him. This is the verdict. Light

00:32:07.880 --> 00:32:10.640
entered the world. And if you're evil, you're

00:32:10.640 --> 00:32:12.400
not going to want to see your stuff exposed.

00:32:14.160 --> 00:32:17.119
But light can expose garbage. And then they come

00:32:17.119 --> 00:32:18.940
there and they said, now we don't believe just

00:32:18.940 --> 00:32:21.240
because of what you said, but because we've actually

00:32:21.240 --> 00:32:23.440
been in the light. We've heard the words of God

00:32:23.440 --> 00:32:26.759
from his very mouth. Yeah. Right? The response

00:32:26.759 --> 00:32:29.940
here is staggering. Right? And I don't want to

00:32:29.940 --> 00:32:31.859
be hard on Nicodemus because he eventually comes

00:32:31.859 --> 00:32:34.819
around. Yeah. I think this is also a pretty good

00:32:34.819 --> 00:32:38.579
conversation about sometimes you just plant a

00:32:38.579 --> 00:32:42.250
seed and are okay just walking away. Yeah. you're

00:32:42.250 --> 00:32:44.990
not in charge of the outcome, right? And I think

00:32:44.990 --> 00:32:48.150
as churches and other people who follow Jesus,

00:32:48.210 --> 00:32:50.069
we often want to be in charge of the outcome,

00:32:50.230 --> 00:32:53.329
right? Especially in the U .S. We live in a control

00:32:53.329 --> 00:32:57.859
-based society. You take control of... Let's

00:32:57.859 --> 00:32:59.880
just take finances, for example. If you're bad

00:32:59.880 --> 00:33:02.160
with money, it's like, no, you have to take control

00:33:02.160 --> 00:33:04.099
of that. Okay, you're not making enough money.

00:33:04.160 --> 00:33:05.920
Well, pull yourself up by your bootstraps. Change

00:33:05.920 --> 00:33:07.920
your living situation. You take control of that.

00:33:08.279 --> 00:33:10.839
So on and so forth. And we kind of bleed that

00:33:10.839 --> 00:33:14.079
over into the church. But the reality is redemption

00:33:14.079 --> 00:33:17.720
comes from Jesus, comes through Jesus. Forgiveness

00:33:17.720 --> 00:33:20.539
comes from Jesus, through Jesus. And what are

00:33:20.539 --> 00:33:23.250
we supposed to do? Love the Lord with everything

00:33:23.250 --> 00:33:25.730
we have. Love and love your neighbor as yourself.

00:33:26.170 --> 00:33:29.309
And if you present the gospel to somebody and

00:33:29.309 --> 00:33:31.130
you're in relationship with them and you are

00:33:31.130 --> 00:33:33.349
loving them as the Bible is calling you to love

00:33:33.349 --> 00:33:35.710
them and they want nothing to do with Jesus,

00:33:35.809 --> 00:33:39.970
that's not on you. Right? You can still be there

00:33:39.970 --> 00:33:42.250
for them. You can still pray for them. You can

00:33:42.250 --> 00:33:44.609
still present the gospel to them. But you're

00:33:44.609 --> 00:33:46.430
planting the seed. You're not in charge of the

00:33:46.430 --> 00:33:49.769
outcome. That's on the Lord. He's the one who's

00:33:49.769 --> 00:33:52.369
in charge of that. I was having this conversation

00:33:52.369 --> 00:33:54.410
with somebody and they said, they're like, well,

00:33:54.430 --> 00:33:57.430
if people aren't coming to Christ because of

00:33:57.430 --> 00:34:00.849
X, Y, or Z, right? I was like, should we even

00:34:00.849 --> 00:34:04.049
be doing this? And I was like, is it good work?

00:34:04.609 --> 00:34:07.730
Is it loving people well? Are you still sharing

00:34:07.730 --> 00:34:11.710
Jesus? Be living as a testimony? Like, well,

00:34:11.750 --> 00:34:13.429
yeah. And I said, then yes, you should be doing

00:34:13.429 --> 00:34:14.869
it. You need to stop focusing on the numbers

00:34:14.869 --> 00:34:18.000
and leave that to God. So a pastor friend of

00:34:18.000 --> 00:34:19.760
mine years ago shared this story, and it was

00:34:19.760 --> 00:34:23.179
about this guy who was in prison. And someone

00:34:23.179 --> 00:34:25.460
went to him, shared the gospel, and he accepted

00:34:25.460 --> 00:34:28.199
Jesus. And then the guy immediately afterwards

00:34:28.199 --> 00:34:30.739
looked at the guy who presented the gospel to

00:34:30.739 --> 00:34:33.039
him and said, okay, I don't want you to get a

00:34:33.039 --> 00:34:36.300
big head because you're the 19th person to come

00:34:36.300 --> 00:34:40.139
do this. Right. Right? So there were seeds being

00:34:40.139 --> 00:34:42.440
planted all along. And the point of that story

00:34:42.440 --> 00:34:46.349
is sometimes you're the third person. who's sharing

00:34:46.349 --> 00:34:48.909
who's sharing that news with somebody sharing

00:34:48.909 --> 00:34:50.429
the good news with somebody sometimes you're

00:34:50.429 --> 00:34:52.570
the seventh person sometimes you get to be that

00:34:52.570 --> 00:34:55.289
19th person sometimes you're the person who gave

00:34:55.289 --> 00:34:57.190
them a loaf of bread so their stomach stopped

00:34:57.190 --> 00:34:59.570
rumbling long enough for somebody else to share

00:34:59.570 --> 00:35:02.809
yeah like we don't know where we are in those

00:35:02.809 --> 00:35:06.849
and it's it's one of those um man, I'm such a

00:35:06.849 --> 00:35:09.489
rabbit trail. That's okay. Um, it's one of those

00:35:09.489 --> 00:35:11.449
things where I've talked about, uh, people that

00:35:11.449 --> 00:35:13.489
are like, they're like, well, you have to evangelize.

00:35:13.489 --> 00:35:16.010
I was like, or your life could actually be so

00:35:16.010 --> 00:35:18.170
much about Jesus that he just shows up in what

00:35:18.170 --> 00:35:22.710
you do. Yeah. Right. Like there's not some, like

00:35:22.710 --> 00:35:25.130
I, I shouldn't have to change the way that I

00:35:25.130 --> 00:35:29.929
speak to talk about Jesus. I have somebody I

00:35:29.929 --> 00:35:32.809
work with right now who really is frustrated

00:35:32.809 --> 00:35:37.920
with me. I get that. Yeah, I know. But the reason

00:35:37.920 --> 00:35:42.679
they're frustrated with me is because every time

00:35:42.679 --> 00:35:45.079
they say something, I spend a positive on it.

00:35:45.139 --> 00:35:47.400
Yeah. And be like, well, you know, this is happening.

00:35:48.659 --> 00:35:52.239
And they straight up told me, I just want to

00:35:52.239 --> 00:35:55.380
be miserable. And I was like, why? Yeah. I was

00:35:55.380 --> 00:35:58.579
like, why? And they're like, well, I could be

00:35:58.579 --> 00:36:00.260
doing so much more with my life. And I was like,

00:36:00.300 --> 00:36:01.659
hey, we're about the same age, and we're doing

00:36:01.659 --> 00:36:04.429
the same thing right now. I was like, it's not

00:36:04.429 --> 00:36:07.590
about that. And, you know, just get to have some

00:36:07.590 --> 00:36:10.199
of those conversations. But he. It's to the point

00:36:10.199 --> 00:36:11.639
where he's just not really talking to me because

00:36:11.639 --> 00:36:13.880
he's like, Spencer just tries to make everything

00:36:13.880 --> 00:36:17.280
joyful and happy. And I'm like, well, there's

00:36:17.280 --> 00:36:19.619
something in my life. Can I ask a question? It's

00:36:19.619 --> 00:36:21.139
like, where's this Spencer when we're hanging?

00:36:22.360 --> 00:36:25.559
No, no, no. I'm the angry, spiteful Spencer with

00:36:25.559 --> 00:36:28.519
you. You're like, listen, you've got to be there

00:36:28.519 --> 00:36:30.320
sometime when I'm talking to Ben. All the anger

00:36:30.320 --> 00:36:33.500
and spite will come out. No, but to your point

00:36:33.500 --> 00:36:36.340
is that when you have a relationship with God,

00:36:36.440 --> 00:36:38.440
and what we're not saying is that you should.

00:36:38.989 --> 00:36:40.110
always going to be happy about everything happens

00:36:40.110 --> 00:36:42.969
to you of course not um but there is a uh circumstance

00:36:42.969 --> 00:36:45.550
of joy yeah me and carrying an atmosphere with

00:36:45.550 --> 00:36:47.409
you that even when you're angry like you understand

00:36:47.409 --> 00:36:50.010
you have purpose you have hope you have uh you

00:36:50.010 --> 00:36:52.650
know moving forward and stuff like that what's

00:36:52.650 --> 00:36:54.769
really strange to me is like they talk about

00:36:54.769 --> 00:36:57.949
um when we talk about evangelism we talk about

00:36:57.949 --> 00:36:59.969
talking people to jesus they're like listen you

00:36:59.969 --> 00:37:01.369
got to go through walk through the romans road

00:37:01.369 --> 00:37:04.590
i was like i i don't i'm not begrudging the tools

00:37:04.590 --> 00:37:07.960
i think the tools are fine But what's more authentic

00:37:07.960 --> 00:37:11.739
when you're like, hey, why do you follow, why

00:37:11.739 --> 00:37:13.260
do you go to church? And I was like, oh man,

00:37:13.420 --> 00:37:16.099
let me just, I can talk to you about my life,

00:37:16.179 --> 00:37:19.639
what God's done, where I was, the hope I have.

00:37:20.190 --> 00:37:22.570
The security, the things he's done in my life,

00:37:22.630 --> 00:37:24.329
the miraculous things he's done in my life, the

00:37:24.329 --> 00:37:26.449
blessings of my kids. I watched him work through

00:37:26.449 --> 00:37:30.070
my wife and my kids and my friends and my church

00:37:30.070 --> 00:37:33.969
and my family. And I watch people who are consumed

00:37:33.969 --> 00:37:36.090
by anger, and I don't know what that's like anymore

00:37:36.090 --> 00:37:39.269
because I'm not consumed by it. Now, do we get

00:37:39.269 --> 00:37:43.519
angry on occasion? Yes. Yes, like today my daughter

00:37:43.519 --> 00:37:45.559
rolled down the window in our car and it wouldn't

00:37:45.559 --> 00:37:48.880
roll back up. I got angry and my daughter was

00:37:48.880 --> 00:37:50.119
like, why are you mad at me? I was like, I'm

00:37:50.119 --> 00:37:53.440
not mad at you. I'm just tired of stuff breaking.

00:37:53.719 --> 00:37:56.340
He says this and this is after he zip -tied back

00:37:56.340 --> 00:37:58.579
on the rear view mirror because it got ripped

00:37:58.579 --> 00:38:01.860
off too. Yeah, it works. It does work. I'm not

00:38:01.860 --> 00:38:04.199
begrudging you. There are people who are like,

00:38:04.280 --> 00:38:05.920
I've never thought about using a zip -tie. We

00:38:05.920 --> 00:38:09.360
just helped just now. I am not going to say how

00:38:09.360 --> 00:38:11.289
many zip -ties are on that car. Holding it together.

00:38:11.590 --> 00:38:14.929
At least seven. At least. Yeah. At least. But

00:38:14.929 --> 00:38:16.510
anyway, this whole idea of you don't need to

00:38:16.510 --> 00:38:18.550
become somebody else. You don't need to memorize

00:38:18.550 --> 00:38:21.849
a script to talk to people about Jesus. In fact,

00:38:22.030 --> 00:38:24.949
and it's fine if you get these tools to learn

00:38:24.949 --> 00:38:28.269
where scriptures are and contextualize and you

00:38:28.269 --> 00:38:29.989
study and all those things. Absolutely. Because

00:38:29.989 --> 00:38:31.369
that's going to get the scripture inside of you.

00:38:31.429 --> 00:38:33.269
It's going to get the spirit inside of you. Right?

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And so then you just need to go and... B. I was

00:38:37.880 --> 00:38:42.300
working in insurance a few years back, property

00:38:42.300 --> 00:38:44.199
and casualty. And one of the first things that

00:38:44.199 --> 00:38:46.619
you do when you first go into insurance is they

00:38:46.619 --> 00:38:48.199
want you to read from scripts. And scripts are

00:38:48.199 --> 00:38:52.800
incredibly successful at making sales. They're

00:38:52.800 --> 00:38:56.340
incredibly bad at making clients. And some of

00:38:56.340 --> 00:38:57.639
you are like, well, what's the difference? It's

00:38:57.639 --> 00:39:00.780
like making a sale, you do it once, and then

00:39:00.780 --> 00:39:03.099
you might get that person back. When you make

00:39:03.099 --> 00:39:04.920
clients, you make a relationship that lasts a

00:39:04.920 --> 00:39:09.420
long time. And so when I first got started, I

00:39:09.420 --> 00:39:11.159
learned all these scripts so I knew where to

00:39:11.159 --> 00:39:12.820
go and what to talk about and how to get there

00:39:12.820 --> 00:39:14.420
and all those different things. And I was like,

00:39:14.440 --> 00:39:17.219
when I got good at it, I stopped using a script.

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And I started looking at the person and talking

00:39:19.789 --> 00:39:21.750
to the person and understanding the person and

00:39:21.750 --> 00:39:23.909
understanding what they were looking for, what

00:39:23.909 --> 00:39:25.889
was wrong in their life, what I could do to actually

00:39:25.889 --> 00:39:28.090
address something that's going on inside of them.

00:39:28.250 --> 00:39:30.949
Yeah. Give them hope. Yeah. And by the way, I

00:39:30.949 --> 00:39:32.550
don't think this is a big rabbit trail because

00:39:32.550 --> 00:39:35.389
the reality is, is what is Jesus doing in this

00:39:35.389 --> 00:39:37.929
situation? He's just being like, hey, this is

00:39:37.929 --> 00:39:40.769
who I am. Let me tell you about. And also addressing.

00:39:40.769 --> 00:39:42.690
Tell you about that. And addressing them directly.

00:39:42.769 --> 00:39:46.639
So like Nicodemus, he drops him right into. You

00:39:46.639 --> 00:39:47.860
can't see the kingdom of God unless you're born

00:39:47.860 --> 00:39:51.780
again, dude. Why? Nicodemus, high academic guy.

00:39:52.320 --> 00:39:55.639
He immediately jumps to Torah and references

00:39:55.639 --> 00:39:58.679
the Torah. And the Samaritan woman at the well

00:39:58.679 --> 00:40:00.059
is like, all right, let's talk about physical

00:40:00.059 --> 00:40:03.460
needs. And not only that, he speaks to her. A

00:40:03.460 --> 00:40:07.239
Jew spoke to a Samaritan. That's the first place

00:40:07.239 --> 00:40:09.699
he meets her is he speaks to her. That's cool.

00:40:11.670 --> 00:40:13.469
So yeah, like when it comes to this type of stuff,

00:40:13.610 --> 00:40:15.630
like we can take a note out of Jesus's playbook,

00:40:15.670 --> 00:40:17.929
by the way, we should be doing that. Yeah. In

00:40:17.929 --> 00:40:19.750
general, I, in general, I think you should get

00:40:19.750 --> 00:40:21.750
most of your evangelism tips from Jesus. Yes.

00:40:22.110 --> 00:40:24.789
Um, I want to share one, like, this is the, this

00:40:24.789 --> 00:40:28.369
is the last story here because I think, so you've

00:40:28.369 --> 00:40:31.309
seen Jesus having a conversation with a, um,

00:40:31.389 --> 00:40:35.500
Jewish. teacher, Samaritan woman. Now we're going

00:40:35.500 --> 00:40:37.320
to run into an official. Likely we're dealing

00:40:37.320 --> 00:40:40.280
with a Roman official. Let's hear this story

00:40:40.280 --> 00:40:41.960
and see if we can see some similar themes here.

00:40:42.380 --> 00:40:44.960
After two days, he left for Galilee. Now Jesus

00:40:44.960 --> 00:40:47.000
himself had pointed out that a prophet has no

00:40:47.000 --> 00:40:49.119
honor in his home country. That's always a great

00:40:49.119 --> 00:40:51.420
way to start out the visit. When he arrived in

00:40:51.420 --> 00:40:53.500
Galilee, the Galileans welcomed him. They had

00:40:53.500 --> 00:40:56.559
seen all that he had done in Jerusalem over the

00:40:56.559 --> 00:40:58.760
Passover festival, for they had also been there.

00:40:59.369 --> 00:41:01.869
Once more he visited Canaan in Galilee, where

00:41:01.869 --> 00:41:03.929
he had turned the water into wine, and there

00:41:03.929 --> 00:41:06.190
was a certain royal official whose son lay sick

00:41:06.190 --> 00:41:10.289
at Capernaum. When this man heard, that Jesus

00:41:10.289 --> 00:41:12.889
had arrived in Galilee from Judea, he went to

00:41:12.889 --> 00:41:14.909
him and begged him to come and heal his son,

00:41:14.989 --> 00:41:17.690
who was close to death. Unless you see signs

00:41:17.690 --> 00:41:19.750
and wonders, Jesus told him, you will never believe.

00:41:19.989 --> 00:41:22.449
The royal official said, Sir, come down before

00:41:22.449 --> 00:41:25.150
my child dies. Go, Jesus replied, your son will

00:41:25.150 --> 00:41:27.369
live. The man took Jesus at his word and departed.

00:41:27.570 --> 00:41:29.230
While he was still on his way, his servants met

00:41:29.230 --> 00:41:30.530
him with the news that his boys were living.

00:41:31.239 --> 00:41:33.820
When he inquired as to the time when his son

00:41:33.820 --> 00:41:36.179
got better, they said to him, yesterday at one

00:41:36.179 --> 00:41:38.239
in the afternoon, the fever left him. Then the

00:41:38.239 --> 00:41:40.219
father realized this is the exact time at which

00:41:40.219 --> 00:41:42.639
Jesus had said to him, your son will live. So

00:41:42.639 --> 00:41:46.099
he and his whole household believed. This is

00:41:46.099 --> 00:41:48.139
the second sign Jesus performed at coming to

00:41:48.139 --> 00:41:51.239
Judea to Galilee. Okay. By the way, the story

00:41:51.239 --> 00:41:52.860
coming right after there is not going to be an

00:41:52.860 --> 00:41:54.780
official, but what a poor man sitting by the

00:41:54.780 --> 00:41:56.559
water at the pool of Bethsaida that Jesus is

00:41:56.559 --> 00:42:00.619
going to heal. Once again, we have a stark comparison.

00:42:00.860 --> 00:42:04.460
Yep. Right? So Jesus has just come, and he's

00:42:04.460 --> 00:42:07.039
dealt with, talked to Nicodemus, and then he's

00:42:07.039 --> 00:42:08.360
talked to this woman at the well, and they got

00:42:08.360 --> 00:42:09.980
all these people who are believing just from

00:42:09.980 --> 00:42:12.639
the words that he's saying, understanding Torah

00:42:12.639 --> 00:42:15.460
and engaging the Spirit and understanding streams

00:42:15.460 --> 00:42:18.739
of living water bubbling up inside him. He goes

00:42:18.739 --> 00:42:21.219
back to his hometown where he's like, I know

00:42:21.219 --> 00:42:22.300
that I'm not going to be able to do signs and

00:42:22.300 --> 00:42:23.780
wonders, but everybody's talking about the stuff

00:42:23.780 --> 00:42:25.440
he did in Jerusalem, and immediately someone

00:42:25.440 --> 00:42:26.920
comes up and they're like, hey, my son is sick.

00:42:26.960 --> 00:42:32.909
I need you. And he's like, okay. It seems like

00:42:32.909 --> 00:42:35.949
all y 'all want is the show. Yeah. I just came

00:42:35.949 --> 00:42:39.809
from Samaria, where you guys don't like those

00:42:39.809 --> 00:42:42.630
people. And they responded to the message. Yeah.

00:42:44.210 --> 00:42:46.730
But Jesus, with his compassion, still heals the

00:42:46.730 --> 00:42:49.409
people. He heals the son. And as he's coming

00:42:49.409 --> 00:42:54.449
back, the son is healed. And the guy and his

00:42:54.449 --> 00:42:57.280
entire household now believe. So now Jesus has

00:42:57.280 --> 00:42:58.780
interacted people with three different ways.

00:42:59.280 --> 00:43:02.639
Yeah. Intellectually, emotionally, theologically,

00:43:02.800 --> 00:43:06.860
or, you know, like relationally and signs and

00:43:06.860 --> 00:43:09.219
wonders. Yeah. So the answer is which, which

00:43:09.219 --> 00:43:11.219
of these things should you do to share Jesus?

00:43:11.739 --> 00:43:15.679
Yes. Right. Yeah. All of them are going to meet

00:43:15.679 --> 00:43:18.260
people where they're at because the, the official

00:43:18.260 --> 00:43:20.679
can't see past his sick son, which by the way,

00:43:20.699 --> 00:43:24.519
that's, I get it. Yeah. Right. Yeah. He can't

00:43:24.519 --> 00:43:27.449
see past his sick son. You can't see past the

00:43:27.449 --> 00:43:30.909
sickness to hear Jesus. Yeah. So Jesus heals

00:43:30.909 --> 00:43:33.869
him. And as soon as that barrier is gone, the

00:43:33.869 --> 00:43:39.190
man believes. Right. Crazy. Yeah. Ministry by

00:43:39.190 --> 00:43:42.070
Jesus. Yeah. He does a lot of different things,

00:43:42.090 --> 00:43:44.309
a lot of different ways. And not shockingly,

00:43:44.369 --> 00:43:47.929
the guy who is known for being the word, spoken

00:43:47.929 --> 00:43:50.610
word of God, is really good at communicating

00:43:50.610 --> 00:43:53.829
with people. The one constant through all these

00:43:53.829 --> 00:43:57.449
encounters is Jesus meets them where they're

00:43:57.449 --> 00:44:01.150
at, right? And before you write in and be like,

00:44:01.230 --> 00:44:04.050
well, Nicodemus went to Jesus. Yes, he did. And

00:44:04.050 --> 00:44:07.230
what did Jesus do when Nicodemus was there? Met

00:44:07.230 --> 00:44:11.289
him where he was at. By the way, I think it's

00:44:11.289 --> 00:44:13.309
interesting. I don't remember if it's in one

00:44:13.309 --> 00:44:14.829
of the upcoming episodes. I'm going to try not

00:44:14.829 --> 00:44:16.949
to spoil too much in case we get into it. The

00:44:16.949 --> 00:44:18.949
Pool of Bethsaida. What does he say to the guy

00:44:18.949 --> 00:44:21.329
sitting there? I can't remember off the top of

00:44:21.329 --> 00:44:25.630
my head. Do you want to be well? Yeah. Who did

00:44:25.630 --> 00:44:28.030
you just interact with? A guy who ran up and

00:44:28.030 --> 00:44:29.789
didn't say anything, but just immediately asked

00:44:29.789 --> 00:44:32.590
for healing. Yeah. And Jesus comes to this poor

00:44:32.590 --> 00:44:35.030
guy sitting by the water, like doing the work.

00:44:35.130 --> 00:44:39.349
And he says, do you want to be well? Yeah. Something

00:44:39.349 --> 00:44:42.969
to think about. Yeah. Yeah. So, so take that

00:44:42.969 --> 00:44:45.510
from Jesus, Jesus's playbook and be like, all

00:44:45.510 --> 00:44:47.929
right. How can I be more intentional about meeting

00:44:47.929 --> 00:44:50.530
people where they're at? It's almost like getting

00:44:50.530 --> 00:44:53.170
to know people and speaking into their life with

00:44:53.170 --> 00:44:58.590
intention matters. Right? Yep. That's good. I

00:44:58.590 --> 00:45:00.949
like that. Also, one more thing, then we can

00:45:00.949 --> 00:45:04.489
close on this. No. Close now. Okay. So these

00:45:04.489 --> 00:45:07.070
three encounters, well, four encounters, if you

00:45:07.070 --> 00:45:10.750
include the pool of Bethsaida, none of these

00:45:10.750 --> 00:45:13.329
encounters were proclaiming the gospel to a large

00:45:13.329 --> 00:45:16.519
crowd. Nope. Now does Jesus do that? yes he does

00:45:16.519 --> 00:45:19.320
it actually says he teaches yep large crowds

00:45:19.320 --> 00:45:24.880
which is an interesting contrast but um there's

00:45:24.880 --> 00:45:27.820
the relational component of you got to get out

00:45:27.820 --> 00:45:30.079
of your shell and you just got to get to know

00:45:30.079 --> 00:45:32.940
people yeah do you have i mean you could argue

00:45:32.940 --> 00:45:35.000
the woman at the well but that's that's a reaction

00:45:35.000 --> 00:45:39.230
to the inner interaction exactly Yeah. Get out

00:45:39.230 --> 00:45:41.550
and actually get to know people. Which, by the

00:45:41.550 --> 00:45:42.670
way, I'm just going to go ahead and plug this.

00:45:42.969 --> 00:45:45.070
Wherever you are, if your church has small groups,

00:45:45.130 --> 00:45:47.730
you should be in one. Life is not meant to be

00:45:47.730 --> 00:45:49.449
done in isolation. It's meant to be done in a

00:45:49.449 --> 00:45:51.590
group. Wrestling with the text, struggling with

00:45:51.590 --> 00:45:54.530
what Jesus calls us to do, balancing, am I going

00:45:54.530 --> 00:45:56.789
too far or not far enough on these things? Yeah.

00:45:57.730 --> 00:45:59.369
There are times where we'll be like, you know,

00:45:59.409 --> 00:46:00.610
I think you could probably push that a little

00:46:00.610 --> 00:46:02.250
further. Yeah. And sometimes we're like, chill,

00:46:02.289 --> 00:46:07.199
dude. Yep. Calm down. Yep. Good stuff. Positive

00:46:07.199 --> 00:46:15.820
spin. All right. Until next time. Welcome to

00:46:15.820 --> 00:46:18.840
Season 3 of Love & Context. This season, we're

00:46:18.840 --> 00:46:21.380
exploring the life of Jesus step -by -step and

00:46:21.380 --> 00:46:23.840
uncovering what His story teaches us about loving

00:46:23.840 --> 00:46:26.519
God and others. Here on Love & Context, we're

00:46:26.519 --> 00:46:28.659
all about having real conversations about how

00:46:28.659 --> 00:46:30.539
to live out that love in practical, everyday

00:46:30.539 --> 00:46:32.599
ways and understanding the Bible in its full

00:46:32.599 --> 00:46:35.219
context. We're so glad you're here. Let's dive

00:46:35.219 --> 00:46:37.380
into Season 3 of Love & Context.
