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What an amazing, probably if I had to guess, one of the most

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famous hymns of all time, Amazing Grace.

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And no matter what tech issues we have, that song resounds in

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our hearts and tech is great until it doesn't work.

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But that grace will lead us home.

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Like I said, this is one of two more sermons we have in the book

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of Hebrews.

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We have this week and then we have next week because Advent

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starts later than normal this year.

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It starts in December.

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Usually it would be normally next weekend.

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But I was told once of a story at this church and I don't

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remember the name and I don't want to say it to get it wrong,

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but that years and years and years ago there was a child that

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was misbehaving in the church.

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And as the parent was bringing them to the back of church, they

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yelled out for all to hear, pray for me, because they knew that

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they were going to be disciplined in some way, shape or form when

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they got out of the sanctuary.

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Now, if that were to ever happen here, that would be amazing

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because it's just hilarious of the understanding that a child

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really knows when discipline is coming.

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And that's another reason why we understand that we as children,

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right, though we are called to have faith like a child, which

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is unquestioning, right, that is a faith that is assured that mom

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and dad love us, that as we though we as we are younger and

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we get disciplined, we still want to make sure that mom and

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dad are there, that we may have a child that when you go out

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maybe on a date night or on a vacation, they want to know when

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you're going to be back to the minute or the date of when

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you're going to be back and that there's a comfort in our parents

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even though they might be disciplinarians.

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Now I understand that me saying that not everybody here had that

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and that not everybody when they think back about their

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relationship with their mom and dad is a positive one.

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knowing that for some of you that might bring pain, the

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discipline in your life has happened nonetheless.

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Though like the child that understands whatever kind of

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beating that child was going to get, he wanted the church to

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pray for them, there's an understanding of discipline in

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the Bible that really starts from the very, very beginning.

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If we go all the way back to the Garden of Eden, I would think

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that after the fall when Adam and Eve bit the apple and sin

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entered the world that God was pretty upset, that God

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disciplined and he did that via a curse, right?

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That he cursed the ground, all of those things that the fall

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happened, sin now had entered the world, that there is

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something now in our DNA, there's something in Hudson,

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there's something in Addison that wants to always fight

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against discipline, that wants to fight against a father or a

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mother or a parent who disciplines them.

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And even like us, when we were kids, we didn't like to be

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disciplined.

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I don't know anybody that was like, no, I enjoyed being

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disciplined by my parents.

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That discipline is hard, but it's a principle and really an

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attribute in the Scriptures that we see from the very beginning.

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Our confessions even speak about it now, our confessions that

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we hold the three forms of unity here in the church, the

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Heideberg Catechism, the Belgian Confession, the Canons of

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Dorian.

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These are historical writings that are there to help us

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understand God's Word.

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That as a Christian-informed church, we hold to those, that

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myself included, none of us are endowed with all wisdom of all

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things in the Bible, that there were people before us that had

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deep, amazing thoughts of how to make sense of the Scriptures.

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morning.

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We've been in the Heideberg a lot and the Canons of Dorian,

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the sermon series.

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believe that although it is useful and good for those who

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govern the churches to establish and set up a certain

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order among themselves for maintaining the body of the

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church, they ought always to guard against deviation from

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what Christ, our only master, has ordained for us.

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Therefore, we reject all human innovations and all laws

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imposed on us in our worship of God, which bind and force our

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consciousness in any way.

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unity to keep all in obedience to God.

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To that end, excommunication, it involves according to the word

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of God, is required.

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So you can leave that, that's a really harsh last paragraph.

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there for order, that God is a God of order, right?

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That we as a church, we order ourselves in the way of Jesus.

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that's key, that discipline ought to be enacted.

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parents and even as adults, we break a rule, there are

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consequences, right?

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There are times that we as adults get disciplined.

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Does it look different?

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We are being corrected in life.

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The church has the obligation and in some ways the honor,

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though that's a weird way of saying it, to discipline those

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that deviate from the truth.

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Because it's a truth that as a Christ-reformed church and a,

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what I would call a church of God, a true church, the Belgian

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That there are three tenets of the true church.

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The pure preaching of the gospel, right?

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The pure administration of the sacraments and church

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discipline.

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That church discipline is being used in a Godly, God-honoring

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biblical way.

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It's not a three-strike rule and you're out.

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It's not you mess up and you're gone.

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No, it's an understanding that there is grace, a grace that is

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greater than all of our sin.

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The church should reflect that as well.

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However, the church should also correct.

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The church should also maintain unity.

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Now, are we all, each and every person, going to agree 100% on

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everything in the Bible?

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No, we're not.

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Hopefully we agree on the, what I would call the essentials of

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the faith, faith Christ, Christ crucified and was raised from the

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dead.

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It's in Christ that we are saved.

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That is the most important thing.

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But there are other theological things as well that I hope we

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have agreement on.

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Things that are necessary for the faith.

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And when that's not there, that discipline and accountability

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have to happen.

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This isn't an easy topic.

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It's not super comfortable to preach up here on the stage,

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especially as a sinner.

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book of Hebrews.

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in a book that's telling us Jesus is better than everything,

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Jesus is supreme over everything, he is the best,

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he is simply irresistible in life,

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that following Jesus is the greatest thing you could ever do

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in your life, he's ending with discipline.

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This is after the faith sections.

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So he wants us to have defined what faith is, right?

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It is the belief in what we cannot see,

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the assurance that God is there, that we have new life in Christ

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though we are tempted and attacked day in and day out,

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that God is with us.

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those that have gone in the faith.

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We can look to Moses, we can look to Elijah,

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we can look to David, to all of these people in Scripture,

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but our ultimate view should be Jesus,

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the author and perfecter, the artist of your faith is Jesus.

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And what I love about that is he doesn't paint with the same

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brush for all of us.

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That I could sit with, I don't know, 250 people here,

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you've all come to faith differently.

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But I find it fascinating, it's faith in Christ alone.

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That if there is another entity, another person,

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another belief that you're putting on par with Jesus,

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then you can't say that.

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something else, an ideology, a political system,

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a other belief, a world religion with that.

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We believe that you can't say that I believe in Jesus but I'm

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a Buddhist.

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That doesn't make sense that we understand that in Christ alone

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our hope is found, our definition is given.

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That there is a difference.

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He is the author and the perfecter of our faith.

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If you think you are, then you're putting yourself on the

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same level as Jesus.

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It's a real dangerous place to be.

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But we know in time and in life we may be tempted to do that.

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For some of you it may be in there right now.

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Your love for a certain potential sin is on par with

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Jesus.

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And pastor, what do you mean by that?

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That you engage that sin week in and week out more than you

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engage Jesus.

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If all of a sudden, how do I kind of understand that analogy

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if my wife Carrie and I, if I went a week without talking to

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her, actually you may like that.

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to want to know, well then who are you talking with?

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I know you need to talk.

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Babe, you talk to the wall.

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Like what else have you given this affection for talking to?

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That at some point I'm desiring to talk to this or do this or

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whatever this is on par with my wife.

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That is not right.

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Yet we do that with faith and we do that with Jesus all too

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often.

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Our ideology, our sense of identity, ourselves, we can put

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on par with Jesus to the point where we may even say, well,

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I'm going to actually put that, because I believe this, I'm

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going to, Jesus, you have to believe in me like this.

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Any stance you're going to have over Jesus is not a stance, not

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a Christian stance.

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Just like we say a Christian stance is not to have a stance

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over anybody else but to come alongside them in life.

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To come alongside them in unity, even in discipline.

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Now we see there's that statement of excommunication

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and that's a scary word.

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Friends, that is a process.

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No elder in a church, well, you know what, I'm just going to

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speak for our church.

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No elder in this church is going to look, A, we don't take

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attendance, but if so and so is not at church on a Sunday, they

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don't come to me or they don't come to the rest of the elders

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who go, it's time to excommunicate.

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We don't do that.

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That excommunication in Matthew 18, Jesus makes it very clear,

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there needs to be a process of offering repentance and

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forgiveness to make relationship with an airing way of somebody,

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a deviation of the gospel.

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And I love how the Belgian Confession uses that word

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deviate, that there's a deviation.

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A deviation isn't, I accidentally did that or, oh,

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man, I just completely messed up and I fell that way.

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A deviation is a premeditated thing that we are going to go

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away from the truth.

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That if there's someone in the church that is trying to bring

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people away from the truth of God, that that is a deviation.

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And it doesn't mean, and you're done.

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That there is a process of walking alongside them, of

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correcting them.

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And yes, I understand that that puts the elders and myself in a

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very high position, but that is our governance structure.

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There's sinners just like I am, just like you are, but that we

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are called to hold each other accountable for when we deviate

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because it says in the book of Hebrews, chapter 12, if you're

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new, we read from the ESV, but you have whatever translation of

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the Bible you might have on your phone or with you.

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Starting with verse 12, we're going to go 12 through 14.

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Again, this is after he is saying, do not despise the Lord's

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discipline because the Lord chides or disciplines those that

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he loves.

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I use the example of my boys.

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I discipline them because I love them.

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Now, they may not feel that way, right?

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Do you guys feel that way all the time?

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No.

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And I'm sure if you asked your kids, they would say the same

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thing, but we discipline because we love.

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We see an error or a deviation in some way, right?

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Like we learned this past week, you don't throw a poop bag on

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the roof and then tell nobody that it's up there.

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Now, you don't even know my kids, but you're looking right

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at them, and I appreciate that.

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I do, yeah.

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Went up on the roof today, found a poop bag.

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How did that get there, right?

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I had one of my sons say, I tried to throw it over the

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house.

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That's not a thing, right?

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How many people is that a thing in your house?

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Like we're going to try to throw poop bags over the house

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and see what sticks.

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No, that's disgusting, right?

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So we learn, we correct.

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That one's fairly easy.

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Hey, don't do that, right?

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Not okay.

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But whatever that is, whatever the deviation from what your and

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your spouse or your family agrees upon that is right in the

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society, right?

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You want to correct that.

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You can go to like law and justice and all of that.

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Now, again, I understand that we all may feel different things

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about different laws being put in place, but the laws are there

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to help correct, right?

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You're doing 80 in a school zone and you get a pretty hefty

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ticket.

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Please don't come to me and go, this is not right.

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You're doing 80 in a school zone.

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At least do it on ridge, not a school zone.

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You know, you will find no compassion from me if you get

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pulled over doing 80 in a school zone.

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But the police officer has every right to correct you and say,

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don't do that.

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That correction and discipline in life is what the writer of

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Hebrews brings up in the beginning of chapter 12.

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He continues with verse 12.

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Therefore, lift your drooping hands and strengthen your weak

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knees and make straight paths for your feet so that what is

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lame may not be put out of joint but rather be healed.

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Strive for peace with everyone and for the holiness without

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which no one will see the Lord.

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So he's continuing, this writer is continuing with this

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understanding that discipline is put in place as a mature

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believer to make things right.

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But what this says is that discipline should strengthen

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you.

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Though in the moment you may feel weak, right, on my mom's

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side of the family, my papa didn't slap with his hand.

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He hit with his belt, right.

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And I was a frequent recipient of that form of discipline.

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Now, you get hit once with a belt and you're thinking, why

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would I ever do that again?

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Like nothing about that felt good.

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And I would love to be able to give testimony that papa only

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had to do it once.

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But that's not true.

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Or, and you all, and maybe you remember my grandma, right,

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Grandma Bonnie Wells, my mom's mom, right, who I get my

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glorious height from as she died at 4'8", 5'7 tall to 4'8",

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Rick, don't look at me like that.

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She was a ninja when it came to discipline, right.

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The two times that I remember vividly being disciplined is

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when we were at the table and my elbows were on the table and

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then out of nowhere what seemed like a samurai sword, it was

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only her fork, was jabbed into my elbow.

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Grandma, what in the world?

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No elbows on the table.

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Grandma, words work, right, but she understood me and understood

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that maybe a little poke in the elbow would get the point

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across and then I will remember, and a lot of you will remember

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this as well.

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I remember in junior high, I would say that in junior high

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the verbal disrespect in my mouth was probably somewhat at

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an all-time high and I remember I said something sarcastic to my

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grandma as I'm standing over her at 5'7", because I haven't

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grown since junior high, at least vertically, all of a

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sudden my mouth's hurting.

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That without me even seeing it, she whacked this part of my

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mouth, this upper lip, and so fast that I really didn't even

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see it coming.

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And I looked at her and I said, grandma, what did you do that

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for?

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And she looked at me dead up and said, because it won't leave

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a mark.

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You say that in 2023, where's grandma going?

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To jail.

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But that was her form of discipline and she's doing it to

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correct that you don't sass your grandma.

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Now, again, grandma, words work, but she chose that form of

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discipline.

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It strengthened me.

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Right?

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It's the people we know in life that when they get disciplined,

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they just flop on the floor.

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They think it's the worst thing ever.

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Right?

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I don't know if you guys ever saw the video or the meme of

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there's a dog chewing, I think it's a bone on a couch and it

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falls off.

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And so funny, the dog looks at the bone and just falls

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backwards.

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Super dramatic, like I cannot believe this bone fell on the

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floor.

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That's not what discipline is supposed to be.

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We're not supposed to wallow in discipline and go, whoa, it's

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me.

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The writer of Hebrews is saying, no, it strengthens your legs.

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It strengthens your arms.

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It strengthens your person.

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Because regardless of your discipline, you have a job to

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do.

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Right?

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You may always joke that if you get in early on a Monday morning

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to work and something bad happens, you're like, I just

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want to quit today.

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No, grow up.

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That sometimes things happen.

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We get disciplined and we are to continue moving on.

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We don't, oh, we're disciplined, so that's it.

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I'm going back to bed.

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No, it's there to strengthen us because we still have a job to

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do.

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I think of the manufacturer, right, who's on the line in a

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factory.

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They do something wrong and they get disciplined for it.

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Maybe they get written up, verbal warning or whatever, and

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they go, that's it, I'm out.

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No, the cars still have to get made.

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There's still a job to do.

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Discipline does not destroy your life.

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Discipline strengthens your life.

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Now, maybe you've had this moment where as you got older,

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you've reflected on your relationship with your mom or

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your dad or whoever was kind of the disciplinarian in your

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family, and one day you went to them and just said, thank you.

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I know I was a handful.

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Hopefully you don't wait until that person's gone, but you

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have that connection moment that you recognize that the

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discipline you had in your life worked, at least in some way,

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because you stopped doing that thing.

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You stopped making that mistake.

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You grew up and you grew out of it.

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That is part of this discipline process of faith.

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That, believe me, the Lord is everlasting and everlasting, and

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the Lord plays the long game with you as he does with me.

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He is willing to discipline you about the same thing over and

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over and over again, but I guess the question I would ask then is

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you're the common denominator.

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What are you going to do differently?

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As a dog returns to his vomit, so we return to our sin.

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And if we're being corrected about something, we should

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really be mature enough to look inward and go, oh, maybe I

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shouldn't do that.

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Yet for some of us that's hard, because the other thing that

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discipline does, discipline exposes.

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That when we are disciplined, when we're called out, when

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we're held accountable, when we didn't make the right choice or

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we hurt somebody or whatever, discipline can expose the sin

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in our life.

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It strengthens us, but it also exposes.

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Verse 15.

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Starts with, see to it that no one fails to obtain the grace of

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God, that no root of bitterness springs up and causes trouble,

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and by it many become defiled, that no one is sexually immoral

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or unholy like Esau who sold his birthright for a single meal.

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For you know that afterward when he desired to inherit the

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blessing, he was rejected, for he found no chance to repent,

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though he sought it with tears.

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You go back to Jacob and Esau, that there is, you know, there

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are problems on both sides.

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Jacob, he tricks his mom, right?

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He tricks the understanding of his parents and he steals Esau's

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blessing, that Esau for a mere thing of soup gives his

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birthright and his blessing away.

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Talk about a giant wah-wah in Esau's life.

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I guarantee he probably would have wanted that back, and maybe

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you have been there in life.

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Maybe you have given away a part of yourself.

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Maybe you have made decisions that has completely changed your

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course of life in your mind.

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And maybe you are sitting here weeks, days, weeks, months,

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years later, and you go, oh, I wish I wouldn't have done that.

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You guys all know the saying, woulda, woulda, coulda, shoulda.

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We look back and we go, man, I shoulda done that.

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I coulda done something different.

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And this is different than thinking you could make it in

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baseball or whatever it was.

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These are decisions that change the course of your life because

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of maybe a mistake you made or something you chose to do.

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And you go back and you go, ugh.

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But the mature believer doesn't go back and go, ugh.

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The mature believer goes back and goes, man, but God still

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found me.

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God's still there.

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God did not give up on me.

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God did not say, and you are out.

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That God still not only desires a relationship with you, but he

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wants to guide your life.

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God is the number one person in the world that could say to each

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and every one of us, told you so, but he doesn't.

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That's grace.

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He doesn't give us what we do deserve, wrath, death, but he

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gives us grace when we don't deserve it.

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None of us have earned it.

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None of us has gone to church as much to earn his grace.

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All of you that are gonna sign up for nursery and actually do

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it, you're not gonna earn the grace of God.

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He gives it to you so you can say, oh, I did sign up a year

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ago.

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I forgot that I did.

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Or whatever it is.

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That he's correcting that in your life.

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Do not despise the Lord's discipline.

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And there he makes it actually very specific.

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He knows that in our society, sexual sin and sexual immorality

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is going to run rampant.

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I think he's right.

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We look at 2023 and it is all over the place.

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That God understands that that is going to be something that

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his followers and his people fall in time and time again in

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a myriad of sins, right?

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And understanding that he's saying stop.

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Come back to me.

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This is what my desire is for you.

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And understanding that forgiveness.

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But it's one thing to understand the forgiveness.

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It's another thing to correct the behavior.

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God, I get it, but I still want to do it.

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Oh, but I know that the hundredth time I do it, you'll

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forgive me that too.

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Dieter Bonhoeffer calls that cheap grace.

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We talked about that weeks ago.

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That's probably an ideology that's going to sting of a false

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conversion.

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That if you think God is just this immoral or moral ATM

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machine that I'm going to step in the sin but I'm going to get

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grace so I keep stepping in the sin so I'm going to get grace,

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that is a very ugly understanding of Jesus.

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Of the grace he actually affords you.

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That he went to the cross to die and then perfect it in you.

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That's not a perfected faith.

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That's taking advantage of faith.

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And so we understand, see it was a good idea.

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We understand that not only does this strengthen us when we get

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discipline, it exposes our need for discipline, especially for

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all those that think we can hide our sin from God.

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00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:46,560
Spoiler alert, you can't.

506
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:52,060
And the understanding that he's with you every step of the way.

507
00:26:52,060 --> 00:26:56,500
I remember growing up in youth group when youth group people

508
00:26:56,500 --> 00:26:59,460
would date and all of that because that happens in the youth

509
00:26:59,460 --> 00:27:00,460
group.

510
00:27:00,460 --> 00:27:03,520
Our youth leaders, our youth pastor would always say, hey,

511
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:07,200
leave room for Jesus.

512
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:10,020
Super awkward.

513
00:27:10,020 --> 00:27:12,820
And I may or may not have responded but I have him in my

514
00:27:12,820 --> 00:27:17,800
heart so this is okay as my way of saying no, I want to do these

515
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:19,400
things.

516
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:20,860
We can't justify it out.

517
00:27:20,860 --> 00:27:24,220
God is not going to, he understands.

518
00:27:24,220 --> 00:27:26,800
Jesus doesn't go, God doesn't go, oh, I didn't know Jim was

519
00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:28,800
going to say that.

520
00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:32,060
And I know there are a lot of parts of my testimony, my life

521
00:27:32,060 --> 00:27:36,160
where all, I think what Jesus is doing is the hand and face emoji.

522
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:37,260
I get it.

523
00:27:37,260 --> 00:27:40,160
But he's shown me that and says, hey, grow from this.

524
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:43,660
He puts people in by life.

525
00:27:43,660 --> 00:27:46,800
I remember when internet filters became a thing and I was a

526
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:51,020
sophomore in high school and part of my journey was to find

527
00:27:51,020 --> 00:27:53,860
areas of the internet I probably shouldn't be and I would get

528
00:27:53,860 --> 00:27:55,160
access denied, right?

529
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:57,860
Because that was the, or like, and it was like, okay, I'm going

530
00:27:57,860 --> 00:28:00,520
to try to fly past this one.

531
00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:04,320
I remember one night after youth group, and this, guys, a lot of

532
00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:05,320
you have met my dad.

533
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:07,700
He didn't come in to parent, he came in to disciple because I

534
00:28:07,700 --> 00:28:09,600
was about ready to start high school and my sister was already

535
00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:11,020
in high school.

536
00:28:11,020 --> 00:28:13,520
No one was home and it was very strange because I was like, this

537
00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:14,960
is Sunday night, why isn't anybody home?

538
00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:17,220
My little brother has to go to bed.

539
00:28:17,220 --> 00:28:19,820
And he's down by my room in the basement.

540
00:28:19,820 --> 00:28:24,860
And every time the computer went, eh, access denied, he made

541
00:28:24,860 --> 00:28:28,300
a copy of it and he printed it out.

542
00:28:28,300 --> 00:28:32,220
And there was this little mini phone book of access denied.

543
00:28:32,220 --> 00:28:35,020
And all he said to me was, you've been in places you

544
00:28:35,020 --> 00:28:36,720
shouldn't be.

545
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:39,860
You got to talk about this.

546
00:28:39,860 --> 00:28:41,360
Oh, believe me, I was grounded.

547
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:43,820
Yeah, there's a definitely grounding part of that story.

548
00:28:43,820 --> 00:28:47,520
I don't think I was able to touch a computer for six months.

549
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:51,220
But it was understanding that we have to correct this behavior.

550
00:28:51,220 --> 00:28:54,760
Because if you go off now as a sophomore in high school and you

551
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:58,200
go, let's say, five years, you're going to be here.

552
00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:01,020
And his worry is that that place on the internet was going to

553
00:29:01,020 --> 00:29:03,300
become second nature to me.

554
00:29:03,300 --> 00:29:07,860
And he knew that can't be the case.

555
00:29:07,860 --> 00:29:09,760
And maybe that's your story.

556
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:13,360
Whatever your internet filter is, maybe God is trying to get

557
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:16,520
you to understand that you keep going and trying to do that

558
00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:18,000
thing.

559
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:21,360
God is going to give you those messages, those, eh, access

560
00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:22,160
denied.

561
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:27,460
And a mature believer takes that and says, all right, I'll stop.

562
00:29:27,460 --> 00:29:30,060
But the immature believer says, nope, I'm going to try to go

563
00:29:30,060 --> 00:29:31,260
right around it.

564
00:29:31,260 --> 00:29:34,660
Maybe if I spell it this way, we're going to try to justify

565
00:29:34,660 --> 00:29:36,400
sin.

566
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:37,720
And that is a foolishness.

567
00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:41,700
That's not a maturity in Christ.

568
00:29:41,700 --> 00:29:45,100
So God's discipline not only does it strengthen, it exposes

569
00:29:45,100 --> 00:29:46,800
and that hurts.

570
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:49,960
When our sin is exposed, right, when that wound of sin is

571
00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:52,100
exposed, it doesn't feel good.

572
00:29:52,100 --> 00:29:55,800
We want to get rid of it.

573
00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:58,600
So we need to accept the Lord's discipline.

574
00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:01,260
We need to correct that error in our life.

575
00:30:01,260 --> 00:30:05,260
We need to be held accountable for those things.

576
00:30:05,260 --> 00:30:08,900
Because the final thing that discipline, the end game, I

577
00:30:08,900 --> 00:30:12,700
believe of discipline is that discipline emboldens.

578
00:30:12,700 --> 00:30:14,260
I had a different word for that.

579
00:30:14,260 --> 00:30:15,800
You can put the slide up.

580
00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:19,960
And Mike helped me and found a way better word for this.

581
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:21,960
That discipline emboldens.

582
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:23,200
Verse 18.

583
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:26,860
For you have not come to what may be touched, a blazing fire

584
00:30:26,860 --> 00:30:29,960
and a darkness and a gloom and a tempest and the sound of a

585
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:34,000
trumpet and a voice whose words made the hearers beg that no

586
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:36,400
further messages be spoken to them.

587
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:39,440
For they could not endure the order that was given.

588
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:43,860
If even a beast touches the mountain, it shall be stoned.

589
00:30:43,860 --> 00:30:47,300
Indeed, so terrifying was the sight that Moses said, I

590
00:30:47,300 --> 00:30:52,340
tremble with fear that you have come to Mount Zion and to the

591
00:30:52,340 --> 00:30:55,860
city of the living God, the heavenly Jerusalem and the

592
00:30:55,860 --> 00:30:59,960
innumerable angels in festal gathering and to the assembly

593
00:30:59,960 --> 00:31:02,660
of the firstborn who are enrolled in heaven and to God,

594
00:31:02,660 --> 00:31:05,740
the judge of all and to the spirits of the righteous made

595
00:31:05,740 --> 00:31:10,060
perfect and to Jesus, the mediator of the new covenant and

596
00:31:10,060 --> 00:31:13,700
to the sprinkled blood that speaks a better word than the

597
00:31:13,700 --> 00:31:14,900
blood of Abel.

598
00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:20,160
That we are emboldened.

599
00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:24,760
That when we are disciplined, not only are we strengthened by

600
00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:28,640
the Lord's discipline because it's exposed what is going on

601
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:32,740
in our life and saying if you keep following this, not only

602
00:31:32,740 --> 00:31:37,700
are you a fool, but you're not going to get anything from it.

603
00:31:37,700 --> 00:31:40,000
You're not going to add this to your life.

604
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:45,400
This is going to bring you spiritual death.

605
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:49,740
The word I had was reverent fearlessness.

606
00:31:49,740 --> 00:31:54,260
But I think emboldened makes it so much better that we know

607
00:31:54,260 --> 00:31:57,600
and we are emboldened that we come to the Mount of Zion.

608
00:31:57,600 --> 00:32:01,360
We come to the city of Jerusalem which is now Christ

609
00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:05,100
and we lay down our sins.

610
00:32:05,100 --> 00:32:09,900
A beginning person of faith, a new believer's faith isn't

611
00:32:09,900 --> 00:32:13,660
tied up with if we confess our sin, he is faithful and just.

612
00:32:13,660 --> 00:32:16,200
They don't realize that yet.

613
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:21,000
But it's the seasoned person of faith, the mature believer as

614
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:27,200
Hebrews says understands and recognizes that when we confess

615
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:31,540
our faith, he is faithful and just.

616
00:32:31,540 --> 00:32:35,200
The new believer may think if I confess my faith, not only

617
00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:39,800
are you going to be disciplined, God is going to be done with me.

618
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:43,160
I likened that to maybe when you were dating, right, and you

619
00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:46,240
didn't want to bring out your inner crazy or whatever it was

620
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:48,600
because you wanted that person to like you for the version of

621
00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:53,740
the person you wanted to give them.

622
00:32:53,740 --> 00:32:57,660
But the relationship takes a whole new turn when you feel

623
00:32:57,660 --> 00:33:00,960
like you can be yourself.

624
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:04,940
When you don't feel like the date mask has to be put on.

625
00:33:04,940 --> 00:33:10,400
When they see you, really see you in the good, the bad,

626
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:11,400
and the ugly.

627
00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:13,500
How do I know?

628
00:33:13,500 --> 00:33:15,840
Not that I've ever been on a dating site because those weren't

629
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:18,300
a thing when Carrie and I got engaged and got married but I

630
00:33:18,300 --> 00:33:22,440
hear stories of people on dating sites and there's a myriad of

631
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:24,500
them, I'm not going to say them because I'll probably say the

632
00:33:24,500 --> 00:33:28,160
wrong one and you're all thinking of me very differently.

633
00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:29,760
But what do people put on?

634
00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:33,760
Do they put all of their failures on there?

635
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:37,300
Come date me because I keep trying to find those places on

636
00:33:37,300 --> 00:33:40,400
the internet, I keep traveling 80 down school zones, I keep

637
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:44,200
doing all of these things, please date me.

638
00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:46,640
No.

639
00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:49,200
And what person is going to be like, oh, yeah, give me some of

640
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:50,200
that?

641
00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:51,200
No.

642
00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:52,960
And the boss, they're like, oh, they're a project, I'm going to

643
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:53,960
fix them.

644
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:57,840
Danger, do not go, do not collect $200.

645
00:33:57,840 --> 00:33:59,920
Don't do that.

646
00:33:59,920 --> 00:34:04,400
People put what they think those people want to see.

647
00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:05,520
Right?

648
00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:10,600
If you're on some kind of fitness dating app, you're not

649
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:12,640
going to, first thing you're going to say is I'm a couch

650
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:14,480
potato.

651
00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:17,760
I love chili and I hate working out.

652
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:20,520
Oh, pastor, why do you have to throw chili under the bus?

653
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:23,120
I don't know why that came into my, are we having chili

654
00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:24,120
today?

655
00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:25,120
I don't know why.

656
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:26,120
I have chili in my head.

657
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:27,600
But to me couch potatoes eat chili.

658
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:30,200
You're welcome.

659
00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:32,600
But understand, like, we're going to try to put our best

660
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:35,800
foot forward in those dating apps, I assume.

661
00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:40,200
Yeah, I went, I tried out for a triathlon.

662
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:41,560
Didn't finish but I did it.

663
00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:42,560
Right?

664
00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:45,040
I go to the gym all the time.

665
00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:48,500
I go to the snack bar but I go to the gym all the time.

666
00:34:48,500 --> 00:34:50,320
We try to put our best foot forward.

667
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:54,240
The immature person tries to do that with God.

668
00:34:54,240 --> 00:34:57,680
That's what the writer of Hebrews is saying.

669
00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:01,200
Don't be a failure in your faith.

670
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:04,400
Don't try to be what you think people want you to be.

671
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:05,400
Be you.

672
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:08,920
And if you are encouraged, if you are emboldened, if you are

673
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:14,000
exposed and you've learned and now strengthened in the follies

674
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:17,920
of your life, lead with that because that's the power of your

675
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:20,960
testimony.

676
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:23,160
That's what a mature believer does.

677
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:27,000
That's why Jesus is the greatest because Jesus says, no, no, no,

678
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:29,200
no, no, I'm going to use your good and your bad and your

679
00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:34,840
ugly to help bring my word of the gospel to the world.

680
00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:39,120
So you may be coming here this morning and go, God can't use

681
00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:40,880
me because I do this.

682
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:42,920
Oh, no, he can because guess what?

683
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:45,080
He already knows you do it.

684
00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:50,360
So as we turn and we finish this book of Hebrews with chapter 13,

685
00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:53,320
he's going to tie it up in a nice bow, but I think the ending

686
00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:55,320
is really here.

687
00:35:55,320 --> 00:36:02,440
And if Jesus is the greatest thing in your life, live that

688
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:05,440
out.

689
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:08,480
Because so often we're tempted to live another version of that.

690
00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:11,880
We're tempted to say, oh, no, I get that.

691
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:13,400
Me and Jesus, yeah, we're tight.

692
00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:14,400
We're BFFs.

693
00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:18,400
But in the world, I don't want to be seen like this.

694
00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:21,400
I want people to see the way I want them to see me.

695
00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:24,400
But the real believer says this is me.

696
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:29,400
This is the good, the bad, and the ugly, and Christ died for me.

697
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:34,400
I think that makes a lot more sense in a fallen world because

698
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:38,400
people are going to, wait, if Jesus can love a Jim Holland

699
00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:41,400
owner, I'm not nearly as bad as him.

700
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:48,400
He can love me or it could be if Jesus can save a Jim, he can

701
00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:50,400
save a me.

702
00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:53,400
I'm so sorry that sounded like Mario.

703
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:55,400
I am so sorry for that.

704
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:57,400
But it's the same holds true.

705
00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:00,400
That he can save you and he wants to save you and if he has

706
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:03,400
saved you, walk that out.

707
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:05,400
Not your own version of it.

708
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:10,400
Walk out the fact that you are saved by Jesus in your muck, in

709
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:11,400
your mire.

710
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:13,400
You are saved by Jesus.

711
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:15,400
Your sin has been exposed.

712
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:18,400
You've been strengthened and you've been emboldened to walk

713
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:21,400
that out.

714
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:24,400
And he has one more encouragement for us next week.

715
00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:40,400
Let's pray.

