WEBVTT 00:00:01.200 --> 00:00:04.559 My friends welcome to the sheep get cheered podcast. 00:00:04.639 --> 00:00:07.839 I'm your host Austin Creed my friends before 00:00:07.839 --> 00:00:12.080 we get into the topic at hand I want to a let 00:00:12.080 --> 00:00:14.400 you know that I'm planning on posting every day 00:00:14.400 --> 00:00:19.199 from now on getting back to and Video and podcast 00:00:19.199 --> 00:00:20.820 which is what I used to do. If you look back 00:00:20.820 --> 00:00:25.300 at my older stuff But before we do anything else, 00:00:25.300 --> 00:00:28.640 I wanted to let you all know that before we start 00:00:28.640 --> 00:00:31.359 on this topic about how women run the church. 00:00:31.399 --> 00:00:35.359 I want to give this disclaimer and not to pander, 00:00:35.679 --> 00:00:38.539 but to just give you an understanding of what 00:00:38.539 --> 00:00:41.479 you're about to hear will probably offend you 00:00:41.479 --> 00:00:43.840 and it will probably make you question going 00:00:43.840 --> 00:00:46.820 to church at all. What I will challenge you to 00:00:46.820 --> 00:00:51.299 do is not react emotionally, but instead be open 00:00:51.299 --> 00:00:53.560 to the possibility that what you're about to 00:00:53.560 --> 00:00:58.109 hear is true because it is. And it's also not 00:00:58.109 --> 00:01:00.890 exclusively my idea, even though I will interpret 00:01:00.890 --> 00:01:04.069 it through the lens that is uniquely my own. 00:01:05.150 --> 00:01:07.069 You might ask me, well, Austin, how could you 00:01:07.069 --> 00:01:09.530 say the church is run by men because it's mostly 00:01:09.530 --> 00:01:12.849 taught? It's run by women, but taught by men. 00:01:13.049 --> 00:01:15.909 And I say, well, that's a very good question. 00:01:16.870 --> 00:01:19.370 You might say in the Bible and then Romans, it 00:01:19.370 --> 00:01:21.730 talks about how women are not supposed to teach 00:01:21.730 --> 00:01:24.930 in the church and how You look at most congregations 00:01:24.930 --> 00:01:28.290 and the pastor and elder staff of almost exclusively 00:01:28.290 --> 00:01:31.329 men. So how can I make the argument that women 00:01:31.329 --> 00:01:34.189 run the church? Well, I'm so glad you asked. 00:01:35.829 --> 00:01:38.310 First of all, it's not a bad thing necessarily 00:01:38.310 --> 00:01:40.109 that women run the church. I'm not even saying 00:01:40.109 --> 00:01:42.170 it's a good or bad thing. I'm saying it is the 00:01:42.170 --> 00:01:44.709 way it is. I'm saying it's the truth, whether 00:01:44.709 --> 00:01:47.349 you want to accept that or not. And here I'm 00:01:47.349 --> 00:01:49.230 going to give you a couple of reasons as to why 00:01:49.230 --> 00:01:53.439 that is the case and tie it into both secular 00:01:53.439 --> 00:01:58.480 and religious contexts. Number one reason why 00:01:58.480 --> 00:02:04.219 women run the church. Women overwhelmingly go 00:02:04.219 --> 00:02:07.500 to churches, more than men do, by the way, in 00:02:07.500 --> 00:02:09.159 case you didn't know that. And do you know why 00:02:09.159 --> 00:02:13.379 that is? Well, number one reason why they do 00:02:13.379 --> 00:02:17.659 that is because the church itself, and it's not 00:02:17.659 --> 00:02:19.759 just the Christians, by the way, that do this. 00:02:20.000 --> 00:02:22.460 All religions do this to an extent. The more 00:02:22.460 --> 00:02:25.500 organized they are, the more they do this. They 00:02:25.500 --> 00:02:29.280 are distributors of the blue pill. I came up 00:02:29.280 --> 00:02:31.680 with this months ago. If you look back at most 00:02:31.680 --> 00:02:33.599 of my older show, I don't expect people to do. 00:02:33.680 --> 00:02:36.139 That's why I'm mentioning it again. There are 00:02:36.139 --> 00:02:38.919 distributors of the blue pill. And when I'm in 00:02:38.919 --> 00:02:41.639 say blue pill, I'm going back to matrix terminology, 00:02:41.819 --> 00:02:44.800 which is so 2018 I'm aware, but I'm trying to 00:02:44.800 --> 00:02:47.460 use symbolism so that you're so that you understand 00:02:47.460 --> 00:02:53.020 and you can kind of color code this message distributors 00:02:53.020 --> 00:02:55.139 of so what is the blue pill for those of you 00:02:55.139 --> 00:02:56.780 who have no idea what i'm talking about i'll 00:02:56.780 --> 00:02:59.400 break it down for you the blue pill is the idea 00:02:59.400 --> 00:03:03.159 of selling you a fantasy not exposing reality 00:03:03.159 --> 00:03:06.520 in the matrix which i have really only seen clips 00:03:06.520 --> 00:03:10.020 of i know the gist more than anything else the 00:03:10.020 --> 00:03:15.319 matrix blue stands for fantasy red stands for 00:03:15.319 --> 00:03:18.610 reality So when I say distributors of the blue 00:03:18.610 --> 00:03:21.370 pill what I mean is they they sell you a dream 00:03:21.370 --> 00:03:24.530 In the sense that they tell you what should be 00:03:24.530 --> 00:03:28.810 You can break down fantasy versus reality of 00:03:28.810 --> 00:03:31.949 if someone uses this is what you should do. It's 00:03:31.949 --> 00:03:35.490 fantasy Because if it was normal, you wouldn't 00:03:35.490 --> 00:03:40.009 use the word should If they use the word is Like 00:03:40.009 --> 00:03:42.150 this is the way things are versus this is the 00:03:42.150 --> 00:03:45.830 way things should be Totally different conversation 00:03:46.219 --> 00:03:48.819 anybody who starts with the word this is what 00:03:48.819 --> 00:03:53.860 life should be or could be is selling you a dream 00:03:53.860 --> 00:03:58.120 if someone doesn't use those two words should 00:03:58.120 --> 00:04:01.939 or could then they're giving you a more blatant 00:04:01.939 --> 00:04:07.020 reality check the reason I say that women run 00:04:07.020 --> 00:04:09.539 the church is because women and overall overwhelmingly 00:04:09.539 --> 00:04:14.280 go to churches war number one And number two, 00:04:14.280 --> 00:04:16.899 we're using why women run the church, is they 00:04:16.899 --> 00:04:19.740 benefit the most from church. Now, what's interesting 00:04:19.740 --> 00:04:22.240 is a lot of women, especially more secular ones, 00:04:22.740 --> 00:04:27.220 they make the argument that, oh, well, it's overwhelmingly 00:04:27.220 --> 00:04:30.439 patriarchal, so therefore it benefits men and 00:04:30.439 --> 00:04:34.480 not women, which is 100 % false. And I'll tell 00:04:34.480 --> 00:04:38.939 you why. Because we don't live to 100 years ago. 00:04:41.370 --> 00:04:44.449 We live in a world today where marriage overwhelmingly 00:04:44.449 --> 00:04:48.329 does not benefit men. Now, can other statistics 00:04:48.329 --> 00:04:50.189 out there that say that men live longer and whatnot? 00:04:50.649 --> 00:04:54.350 Yes. Does that mean it benefits you overwhelmingly? 00:04:54.490 --> 00:04:57.870 The answer is no. And the reason I say no is 00:04:57.870 --> 00:05:01.189 because it works really well until it doesn't. 00:05:04.430 --> 00:05:07.370 The marriage laws in America are fair in the 00:05:07.370 --> 00:05:11.550 sense that they favor the person who makes more 00:05:11.550 --> 00:05:14.410 money which could be the man or the woman but 00:05:14.410 --> 00:05:17.189 overwhelmingly we all know this men are the ones 00:05:17.189 --> 00:05:20.930 who make the most money and people will say that 00:05:20.930 --> 00:05:23.829 oh marriage is safer in the in the biblical context 00:05:23.829 --> 00:05:28.829 which technically they are true here's the catch 00:05:28.829 --> 00:05:33.769 the divorce is worse in the church than it is 00:05:33.769 --> 00:05:36.949 outside the church because and i'll tell you 00:05:36.949 --> 00:05:42.000 why Anyone who's been in church knows that Divorce 00:05:42.000 --> 00:05:43.600 is not supposed to happen and overwhelmingly 00:05:43.600 --> 00:05:49.060 because you're so plugged in The fallout is gonna 00:05:49.060 --> 00:05:54.920 be worse for the man and Gentlemen you might 00:05:54.920 --> 00:05:56.660 say well often these are superficial things. 00:05:56.959 --> 00:05:59.139 No mice. No my friend. They're not and I'll tell 00:05:59.139 --> 00:06:04.000 you why If you've ever read the book The Manipulated 00:06:04.000 --> 00:06:06.699 Man by Esther Velar, which is a fantastic book. 00:06:06.860 --> 00:06:09.779 I recommend it. You will listen to this book 00:06:09.779 --> 00:06:14.720 and you will understand that women want men to 00:06:14.720 --> 00:06:17.839 teach in the church. Do you know why? I'm so 00:06:17.839 --> 00:06:20.860 glad you asked. The reason they want men to teach 00:06:20.860 --> 00:06:23.139 in the church is because now they get plausible 00:06:23.139 --> 00:06:27.300 deniability. A woman's best friend is plausible 00:06:27.300 --> 00:06:31.019 deniability, which means they could say or do 00:06:31.019 --> 00:06:37.089 anything behind the scenes You can't shoot the 00:06:37.089 --> 00:06:39.269 mess they they're not the messenger so they can't 00:06:39.269 --> 00:06:46.029 get shot They want men to teach other men how 00:06:46.029 --> 00:06:53.430 to be simps and gumps which again This conversation 00:06:53.430 --> 00:06:55.750 is so 2018. I'm aware, but I'm building this 00:06:55.750 --> 00:06:58.509 something else I'm giving you the bare -bones 00:06:58.509 --> 00:07:00.790 basic one -on -one stuff because I don't assume 00:07:00.790 --> 00:07:03.610 everybody knows what I know I think it's foolish 00:07:03.610 --> 00:07:06.069 for you to assume that everybody knows everything. 00:07:06.370 --> 00:07:09.230 Oh, oh yes, I know everything about all these 00:07:09.230 --> 00:07:12.990 terms and all this red pill stuff. I'm not saying 00:07:12.990 --> 00:07:15.029 this in any rage, by the way. If you were enraged 00:07:15.029 --> 00:07:19.329 by this, you're way behind. This should not make 00:07:19.329 --> 00:07:21.170 you mad at anything you've just heard. This is 00:07:21.170 --> 00:07:23.709 just a reality. It's not meant to make you angry. 00:07:24.120 --> 00:07:26.480 It's meant to expose to you the world you're 00:07:26.480 --> 00:07:29.600 living in, whether you be a man or a woman, so 00:07:29.600 --> 00:07:32.360 you then get to decide what you do with that. 00:07:33.120 --> 00:07:36.319 That's the whole premise of this show. My ideas 00:07:36.319 --> 00:07:38.939 are not meant to make you angry and hate anybody. 00:07:39.379 --> 00:07:42.060 This message is meant to educate you so you can 00:07:42.060 --> 00:07:47.500 then decide how you want to live your life. Whether 00:07:47.500 --> 00:07:49.459 you want to keep going to church or not. Whether 00:07:49.459 --> 00:07:51.579 you want to get married or not. Whether you want 00:07:51.579 --> 00:07:54.620 to date women or not. Whether you want to be 00:07:54.620 --> 00:07:57.319 celibate or not, all these things are up to you. 00:07:58.519 --> 00:08:00.839 And the only way you can make an educated decision 00:08:00.839 --> 00:08:05.540 in your life is to have knowledge. That's the 00:08:05.540 --> 00:08:09.480 only way to do it. Now, my friends, let's return 00:08:09.480 --> 00:08:13.300 the topic to hand, shall we? When it comes down 00:08:13.300 --> 00:08:16.459 to the church, the church is run overwhelmingly 00:08:16.459 --> 00:08:19.220 by women because women are the puppet masters 00:08:19.220 --> 00:08:23.290 of the church. They're the ones who enforce monogamy 00:08:23.290 --> 00:08:26.269 because monogamy doesn't really benefit anybody 00:08:26.269 --> 00:08:28.870 in the sense that I firmly believe this by the 00:08:28.870 --> 00:08:31.709 way I don't care how sinful this makes me. I 00:08:31.709 --> 00:08:34.669 don't care about any of that crap We're in season 00:08:34.669 --> 00:08:38.009 2. I don't give a fuck about what anybody thinks 00:08:38.009 --> 00:08:41.269 when it comes to how you feel about what I say 00:08:41.269 --> 00:08:43.889 Everything that I'm saying is true and the reason 00:08:43.889 --> 00:08:45.889 that you're most likely gonna react negatively 00:08:45.889 --> 00:08:49.730 to it is because you know, it's true Part of 00:08:49.730 --> 00:08:53.179 the reason Why, despite the fact that people 00:08:53.179 --> 00:08:55.720 try to use the Bible to enforce monogamy, that 00:08:55.720 --> 00:09:00.039 it doesn't always work, is because women use 00:09:00.039 --> 00:09:02.980 men and men use women. People use each other 00:09:02.980 --> 00:09:05.840 all the time. In fact, it's one of the few things 00:09:05.840 --> 00:09:08.379 that I actually agree with that Karl Marx said, 00:09:08.419 --> 00:09:13.019 even though I hate communism. He said usury was 00:09:13.019 --> 00:09:15.179 the only currency, which I 100 % agree with, 00:09:15.200 --> 00:09:24.019 by the way, to an extent. and he called bourgeoisie 00:09:24.019 --> 00:09:30.519 the bourgeois marriage was very oppressive now 00:09:30.519 --> 00:09:32.399 I'm not gonna go that far I think it's oppressive 00:09:32.399 --> 00:09:35.039 I think it's a sacrifice on both sides if it 00:09:35.039 --> 00:09:37.919 works the way it's supposed to work which again 00:09:37.919 --> 00:09:39.480 we're going back to the shoulda woulda coulda 00:09:39.480 --> 00:09:43.039 conversation but again I have no issue with how 00:09:43.039 --> 00:09:46.679 things are supposed to work no No issue. If things 00:09:46.679 --> 00:09:49.039 work that way, all I'd be talking about day and 00:09:49.039 --> 00:09:50.679 night is how wonderful a marriage is and that 00:09:50.679 --> 00:09:54.659 you should do it. But unfortunately, my friends, 00:09:55.440 --> 00:09:58.759 you well know as well as I do that even if you 00:09:58.759 --> 00:10:01.779 get married, it's not a cherry. It's not a bowl 00:10:01.779 --> 00:10:05.139 of cherries. It's not a perfect road. It's a 00:10:05.139 --> 00:10:08.399 lot of problems in marriages, a lot of problems 00:10:08.399 --> 00:10:10.799 in relationships. That's why podcasts like mine 00:10:10.799 --> 00:10:14.019 and a lot other ones that are a lot bigger have 00:10:14.019 --> 00:10:17.360 so many things. to discuss and so much content 00:10:17.360 --> 00:10:21.620 to go through is because it never ends. People 00:10:21.620 --> 00:10:25.399 are so consumed with this type of content. They 00:10:25.399 --> 00:10:28.039 know that it resonates with them. They understand 00:10:28.039 --> 00:10:30.720 that people have needs and people are inherently 00:10:30.720 --> 00:10:36.500 fearful of being hurt. They're fearful, they're 00:10:36.500 --> 00:10:38.980 sad, they've been through some bull crap, they 00:10:38.980 --> 00:10:42.080 don't know what to do, and they want answers. 00:10:42.779 --> 00:10:45.559 They want to know hey if I go to church am I 00:10:45.559 --> 00:10:49.039 gonna be safe? Hey, if I do this am I gonna be 00:10:49.039 --> 00:10:57.320 safe and the answer unfortunately is no You won't 00:10:57.320 --> 00:11:01.059 not necessarily no one's ever safe and I say 00:11:01.059 --> 00:11:05.980 this is somebody who I broke up with my with 00:11:05.980 --> 00:11:10.720 my girlfriend who had had for over a year And 00:11:10.720 --> 00:11:13.169 I'll still recovering from that I didn't do it 00:11:13.169 --> 00:11:16.149 in a way I'm very proud of, but I did it because 00:11:16.149 --> 00:11:21.210 it had to be done. And as somebody who regularly 00:11:21.210 --> 00:11:25.870 engages in a fight against fear, you have to 00:11:25.870 --> 00:11:28.570 not make decisions in fear despite the fact that 00:11:28.570 --> 00:11:34.889 I sometimes still very much do that. I really 00:11:34.889 --> 00:11:38.029 will challenge you to do better when it comes 00:11:38.029 --> 00:11:42.629 to not engaging in fear. I'm not peddling fear 00:11:42.629 --> 00:11:45.789 to you. I hope you realize that by me telling 00:11:45.789 --> 00:11:47.769 you that the church is run by women I'm not telling 00:11:47.769 --> 00:11:49.929 you not to go to church I'm telling you as a 00:11:49.929 --> 00:11:52.710 man that when you get into the church Whether 00:11:52.710 --> 00:11:54.990 you grew up there or whether you were going there 00:11:54.990 --> 00:11:57.610 for the first time Understand that it is not 00:11:57.610 --> 00:12:00.409 the church of a thousand years ago. You see in 00:12:00.409 --> 00:12:02.090 documentaries. It is not the church for a hundred 00:12:02.090 --> 00:12:06.110 years ago You are dealing overwhelmingly with 00:12:06.110 --> 00:12:08.490 people who are not up -to -date. They've been 00:12:08.490 --> 00:12:12.690 married for 20 years if they're in gen x or they're 00:12:12.690 --> 00:12:15.070 so far out of reality it's run overwhelmingly 00:12:15.070 --> 00:12:20.049 by all the millennials gen xers and boomers who 00:12:20.049 --> 00:12:22.490 even if it hit them in the face will not accept 00:12:22.490 --> 00:12:25.830 the realities of gen z younger millennials zoomers 00:12:25.830 --> 00:12:29.769 gen alpha nobody gets it they don't want to accept 00:12:29.769 --> 00:12:33.139 it because in their minds if only they follow 00:12:33.139 --> 00:12:36.139 the Andrew Wilson approach of enforcing monogamy. 00:12:36.220 --> 00:12:39.080 If only they follow these guys, these goofy guys 00:12:39.080 --> 00:12:42.519 in the atmosphere. If only they follow the Bible, 00:12:42.720 --> 00:12:45.480 which was written 2000 years ago, the New Testament, 00:12:45.519 --> 00:12:48.139 and sometimes four or six thousand, sometimes 00:12:48.139 --> 00:12:51.279 more. If you believe in the Old Testament, they 00:12:51.279 --> 00:12:54.879 want to take those prescriptions with no cultural 00:12:54.879 --> 00:12:58.779 pressure at all and give them to you as a prescription 00:12:58.779 --> 00:13:01.539 for your life. If only you believe in God. Everything's 00:13:01.539 --> 00:13:04.480 gonna work out for you Well, I don't know if 00:13:04.480 --> 00:13:06.360 you've read the Bible recently, but the most 00:13:06.360 --> 00:13:08.940 those most stuff doesn't work out for most people 00:13:08.940 --> 00:13:13.919 in the book at all God is not mr. Rogers. God 00:13:13.919 --> 00:13:17.440 is not your friend. I firmly do not believe that 00:13:17.440 --> 00:13:20.480 God is the so -called friend that everybody wants 00:13:20.480 --> 00:13:22.720 to make him out to be I think there's part of 00:13:22.720 --> 00:13:26.000 it. Sure, but even your friends so -called are 00:13:26.000 --> 00:13:27.220 going to put you in your place. They're going 00:13:27.220 --> 00:13:28.799 to call you out on your bull crap and they're 00:13:28.799 --> 00:13:30.980 not going to sit there and let you just do whatever 00:13:30.980 --> 00:13:36.639 the hell you want. A lot of people use religion 00:13:36.639 --> 00:13:39.580 and spiritual fire insurance. They don't use 00:13:39.580 --> 00:13:43.740 it as anything more than that. So we talk about 00:13:43.740 --> 00:13:46.860 men being prayed upon in the church when it comes 00:13:46.860 --> 00:13:50.419 to, hey, just get married. Hey, just accept all 00:13:50.419 --> 00:13:53.440 this responsibility with no guardrails. Just 00:13:53.440 --> 00:13:56.320 just go for it. Just take the prescription that 00:13:56.320 --> 00:13:58.860 worked a thousand years ago, two thousand years 00:13:58.860 --> 00:14:02.220 ago, six thousand years ago and just go for it. 00:14:03.559 --> 00:14:06.840 I can't cosign that in good faith. I can't do 00:14:06.840 --> 00:14:10.639 it. Can it work for you? Yes, it works for some 00:14:10.639 --> 00:14:13.299 amazing people in my life. I'm not saying it's 00:14:13.299 --> 00:14:16.679 impossible. I'm telling you, you are not set 00:14:16.679 --> 00:14:20.940 up in a system that is meant to. Really nurture 00:14:20.940 --> 00:14:24.340 you unless you really get into almost like cult 00:14:24.340 --> 00:14:28.779 level participation even then All it takes is 00:14:28.779 --> 00:14:34.799 one day in the next 50 years and your host And 00:14:34.799 --> 00:14:37.120 a lot of people they jump in with all this faith 00:14:37.120 --> 00:14:41.899 and no knowledge about life about the other gender 00:14:41.899 --> 00:14:46.120 about Relationships about sex anything. That's 00:14:46.120 --> 00:14:48.870 the other part of the coin too, by the way Women 00:14:48.870 --> 00:14:51.549 overwhelmingly come around the church with so 00:14:51.549 --> 00:14:54.350 much more sexual experience than most of you 00:14:54.350 --> 00:14:57.009 goofy -ass men. That's a whole other thing too, 00:14:57.029 --> 00:15:01.870 by the way, in case you don't know. And that's 00:15:01.870 --> 00:15:04.950 a huge problem for divorce too. And divorce isn't 00:15:04.950 --> 00:15:07.049 even the worst thing, by the way. Do you think 00:15:07.049 --> 00:15:09.970 divorce is bad? Think about sexless marriages. 00:15:10.409 --> 00:15:12.690 Dudes who stick around for the kids. Women who 00:15:12.690 --> 00:15:15.169 just stick around because they get the rent paid 00:15:15.169 --> 00:15:21.019 or the mortgage paid. my friends When we get 00:15:21.019 --> 00:15:23.860 to the church is run by women you need to understand 00:15:23.860 --> 00:15:27.480 that when men Basically tell other men to quote 00:15:27.480 --> 00:15:31.159 man up and just take Roll the dice on their future 00:15:31.159 --> 00:15:33.200 without see this is this is why I'm telling you 00:15:33.200 --> 00:15:36.080 is run by women Because women put other women 00:15:36.080 --> 00:15:39.720 up on game That's one thing women do really well 00:15:39.720 --> 00:15:42.700 by the way ladies you do a good job of teaching 00:15:42.700 --> 00:15:47.120 other women about men Really good job men. We 00:15:47.120 --> 00:15:49.919 don't do a good job of that at all, especially 00:15:49.919 --> 00:15:54.299 in the church, especially. I have never gone 00:15:54.299 --> 00:15:58.879 to a men's group or a church service or a Bible 00:15:58.879 --> 00:16:02.980 study where the older men have sat down with 00:16:02.980 --> 00:16:05.279 the younger men and said, gents, let's have a 00:16:05.279 --> 00:16:10.279 serious conversation. You might think that these 00:16:10.279 --> 00:16:12.240 women are not your so -called sisters in Christ 00:16:12.240 --> 00:16:13.940 or not out here being sluts, but some of them 00:16:13.940 --> 00:16:19.159 definitely are. And you need to understand that 00:16:19.159 --> 00:16:21.799 you need to be a Dom in your marriage. You need 00:16:21.799 --> 00:16:24.860 to lead, not just lead in the ways of, I hold 00:16:24.860 --> 00:16:26.899 my Bible study every morning before I go to work. 00:16:27.039 --> 00:16:31.200 Nah, dude. No, you got to run your Dom game permanently. 00:16:32.419 --> 00:16:35.919 You got to understand how to operate in your 00:16:35.919 --> 00:16:39.600 masculine, holding masculine frame, teaching 00:16:39.600 --> 00:16:44.159 my example, dominating during sex. When's the 00:16:44.159 --> 00:16:46.259 last time you heard men like talk like this in 00:16:46.259 --> 00:16:48.960 your church, if you go to church? When's the 00:16:48.960 --> 00:16:50.500 last time that they said, hey, you know what, 00:16:50.500 --> 00:16:53.080 when your wife's getting out of control, you 00:16:53.080 --> 00:16:54.399 got to listen to her, but you're also going to 00:16:54.399 --> 00:16:56.860 know when you need to really, you know, hit that 00:16:56.860 --> 00:17:02.600 bottom. Nope. Never heard that. They don't, they 00:17:02.600 --> 00:17:06.099 are afraid to talk about sex, the sexual underworld, 00:17:06.440 --> 00:17:09.279 fantasies, fetishes, you name it. All these things 00:17:09.279 --> 00:17:12.339 exist. Just because you don't want to talk about 00:17:12.339 --> 00:17:14.220 it doesn't mean that it doesn't exist and it's 00:17:14.220 --> 00:17:17.500 not happening That's not how it works. That's 00:17:17.500 --> 00:17:19.319 the approach that a lot of people take in the 00:17:19.319 --> 00:17:21.900 church Oh, if we don't talk about abortion if 00:17:21.900 --> 00:17:24.559 we don't talk about Sex before marriage if we 00:17:24.559 --> 00:17:27.240 don't talk about calling people out and not even 00:17:27.240 --> 00:17:30.480 exposing them to shame them But saying look we 00:17:30.480 --> 00:17:32.960 know y 'all are out here participating in this 00:17:32.960 --> 00:17:37.059 and we need to prepare these men. Nope Why are 00:17:37.059 --> 00:17:40.470 goofy dudes? who are trying to do what you think 00:17:40.470 --> 00:17:42.730 is the right thing to do when all you're doing 00:17:42.730 --> 00:17:45.190 is being led into the meat grinder you're being 00:17:45.190 --> 00:17:48.210 led right into the utility shed that is where 00:17:48.210 --> 00:17:52.130 you're going you are not going to a loving marriage 00:17:52.130 --> 00:17:56.490 you are going right to being used as a as a toy 00:17:56.490 --> 00:17:59.789 soldier with a battery in your back your wife 00:17:59.789 --> 00:18:04.589 run in your house and you have no idea your wife 00:18:04.589 --> 00:18:07.609 settled for you you she didn't have genuine burning 00:18:07.609 --> 00:18:09.980 desire for you I know you don't want to accept 00:18:09.980 --> 00:18:13.240 that, but that's the truth. If she has some dude 00:18:13.240 --> 00:18:15.319 who in her past that she talked about when she 00:18:15.319 --> 00:18:19.980 was dating you, she didn't love you. If she talked 00:18:19.980 --> 00:18:22.740 about how, oh, I went through this bad relationship 00:18:22.740 --> 00:18:24.339 and that bad relationship and you're the first 00:18:24.339 --> 00:18:27.099 man to treat me with respect, that's not a flex. 00:18:27.740 --> 00:18:31.079 That means you're the cleanup guy. That means 00:18:31.079 --> 00:18:35.160 you are not the man she wanted. You are the man 00:18:35.160 --> 00:18:39.730 she settled for. And gents, I get this is going 00:18:39.730 --> 00:18:42.089 to offend you. Ladies, ladies, you need to be 00:18:42.089 --> 00:18:45.369 honest with these men. I know a lot of men don't 00:18:45.369 --> 00:18:47.630 have the stomach, but I'd like to think my audience 00:18:47.630 --> 00:18:51.190 has the stomach to handle these harsh realities 00:18:51.190 --> 00:18:54.809 that, you know, one of my favorite content creators 00:18:54.809 --> 00:18:57.509 who really, you know, put me on a better place 00:18:57.509 --> 00:18:59.730 in my life was coach Greg Adams. He's a little 00:18:59.730 --> 00:19:03.109 more non -religious than I am, which that's his 00:19:03.109 --> 00:19:05.710 right. I get it. I understand his cynicism more 00:19:05.710 --> 00:19:10.039 than most. But one thing he said is women, no, 00:19:10.059 --> 00:19:12.140 men are in love and women are in business, but 00:19:12.140 --> 00:19:13.720 here's the thing about the business part. It's 00:19:13.720 --> 00:19:15.759 not that women are in it to finesse you and stuff 00:19:15.759 --> 00:19:18.740 like that only. That's definitely part of the 00:19:18.740 --> 00:19:21.660 game, but men and women finesse each other pretty 00:19:21.660 --> 00:19:25.740 regularly. The reason I say that, and I'm quoting 00:19:25.740 --> 00:19:29.740 him, is because you need to get down to business 00:19:29.740 --> 00:19:31.559 with that woman that you're talking to in your 00:19:31.559 --> 00:19:34.559 life. You need to know why she's dealing with 00:19:34.559 --> 00:19:36.730 you, whether you're married or not. You need 00:19:36.730 --> 00:19:39.009 to know why she's there if she's there for the 00:19:39.009 --> 00:19:42.089 security. She's there for the money You got to 00:19:42.089 --> 00:19:45.289 accept that If she's there because you got the 00:19:45.289 --> 00:19:47.930 best Johnson in town awesome, but I guarantee 00:19:47.930 --> 00:19:51.309 you nine out of ten times. That's not the reason 00:19:51.309 --> 00:19:57.150 I Can guarantee you it's not also the reason 00:19:57.150 --> 00:20:00.569 that I think that women run the church is because 00:20:00.569 --> 00:20:05.289 Women overwhelmingly are the ones who are enforcing 00:20:05.289 --> 00:20:09.589 the rules in church. They're the ones who are 00:20:09.589 --> 00:20:11.029 the target audience because they're the ones 00:20:11.029 --> 00:20:13.529 that fill the pews. The pastors are pandering 00:20:13.529 --> 00:20:17.750 to them, not you as a man. They know that if 00:20:17.750 --> 00:20:19.630 they get enough women in their church, men will 00:20:19.630 --> 00:20:23.609 come, especially young women. Forget it. Anywhere 00:20:23.609 --> 00:20:25.690 where there are young, semi -attractive women, 00:20:25.930 --> 00:20:31.369 men are going to show up. People who have kids, 00:20:31.369 --> 00:20:34.670 they know they all show up. It's like a Taylor 00:20:34.670 --> 00:20:38.210 Swift concert. They know men are going to show 00:20:38.210 --> 00:20:40.130 up. Why? Because the girls will drag them there. 00:20:41.009 --> 00:20:43.849 That's what church is today. Women drag men to 00:20:43.849 --> 00:20:47.470 church. I have very few examples of men dragging 00:20:47.470 --> 00:20:51.269 women to church. Tell me I'm wrong. Tell me I'm 00:20:51.269 --> 00:20:54.529 wrong. I would love to hear this. Tell me I'm 00:20:54.529 --> 00:21:00.150 wrong. gents again none of this ladies and gentlemen 00:21:00.150 --> 00:21:02.730 none of this is meant to trigger you make you 00:21:02.730 --> 00:21:06.089 angry make you resent anybody this is all meant 00:21:06.089 --> 00:21:10.150 to educate you on what you're dealing with in 00:21:10.150 --> 00:21:13.650 your life and to understand that there are not 00:21:13.650 --> 00:21:16.430 safe places out here you can't escape reality 00:21:16.430 --> 00:21:21.690 you can't escape the truth and the only way you 00:21:21.690 --> 00:21:24.390 get through it is to embrace it and understand 00:21:24.390 --> 00:21:26.450 if you want to get married go ahead roll that 00:21:26.450 --> 00:21:29.630 dice but know that you're rolling the dice. If 00:21:29.630 --> 00:21:31.750 you want to ignore women altogether and go monk, 00:21:31.970 --> 00:21:36.109 go right ahead. If you want to practice what 00:21:36.109 --> 00:21:39.230 they did in the Old Testament, how more of the 00:21:39.230 --> 00:21:42.009 polyamory polygamy type of thing, legally, of 00:21:42.009 --> 00:21:43.349 course, I'm not telling you to break the law, 00:21:43.990 --> 00:21:47.210 then go and do that. Because in my opinion, a 00:21:47.210 --> 00:21:49.910 lot of these people who say that God quote tolerated 00:21:49.910 --> 00:21:52.799 it, I think that's garbage personally. I think 00:21:52.799 --> 00:21:55.640 that's garbage, personally. Polygamy is not only 00:21:55.640 --> 00:21:58.579 about sex. It's about providing for women. Most 00:21:58.579 --> 00:22:00.819 women want their own personal man. Most men are 00:22:00.819 --> 00:22:04.539 too broke to have their own woman. Most men are 00:22:04.539 --> 00:22:09.619 broke. And these broke dudes come out here and 00:22:09.619 --> 00:22:12.000 they want to tell you how to run game, tell you 00:22:12.000 --> 00:22:14.619 how to do all these stupid things, goofy things, 00:22:15.779 --> 00:22:19.140 instead of just bossing up. They don't want to 00:22:19.140 --> 00:22:24.900 do any of that. So the men who have have a duty 00:22:24.900 --> 00:22:29.859 to provide for those who have not That's a fact 00:22:29.859 --> 00:22:32.220 So anybody who's trying to sit there and tell 00:22:32.220 --> 00:22:35.140 me that's not biblical Yeah, I don't believe 00:22:35.140 --> 00:22:37.660 that and of course you could say whatever you 00:22:37.660 --> 00:22:39.859 want, but I'm telling you what I think I think 00:22:39.859 --> 00:22:42.299 it's full I think you're full of crap personally 00:22:42.299 --> 00:22:45.180 Again, I think women did that because they don't 00:22:45.180 --> 00:22:47.079 want to share their they don't want to share 00:22:47.079 --> 00:22:50.730 a man even though You're probably sharing that 00:22:50.730 --> 00:22:53.369 woman by the way, whether you realize it or not. 00:22:53.369 --> 00:22:55.490 Hopefully you don't hopefully you're not but 00:22:55.490 --> 00:22:57.789 Overwhelmingly, that's what's gonna happen whether 00:22:57.789 --> 00:23:00.910 it's your attention her body Whatever that's 00:23:00.910 --> 00:23:03.430 happening happen in the past. It's happening 00:23:03.430 --> 00:23:06.730 now My friends, I know you're trying to trigger 00:23:06.730 --> 00:23:10.130 some of you But I'm not trying to trigger you. 00:23:10.130 --> 00:23:12.170 I'm trying to give you food for thought. I'm 00:23:12.170 --> 00:23:16.410 trying to under make you understand that What 00:23:16.410 --> 00:23:19.250 you think is true is not and maybe what you thought 00:23:19.250 --> 00:23:22.589 was false might possibly be true. Let me know 00:23:22.589 --> 00:23:24.670 what you think about anything that I've said 00:23:24.670 --> 00:23:27.089 today. Let me know. Until then, I'll talk to 00:23:27.089 --> 00:23:28.690 you all next time. I'm out of here. Peace.