My friends welcome to the sheep get cheered podcast.
I'm your host Austin Creed my friends before
we get into the topic at hand I want to a let
you know that I'm planning on posting every day
from now on getting back to and Video and podcast
which is what I used to do. If you look back
at my older stuff But before we do anything else,
I wanted to let you all know that before we start
on this topic about how women run the church.
I want to give this disclaimer and not to pander,
but to just give you an understanding of what
you're about to hear will probably offend you
and it will probably make you question going
to church at all. What I will challenge you to
do is not react emotionally, but instead be open
to the possibility that what you're about to
hear is true because it is. And it's also not
exclusively my idea, even though I will interpret
it through the lens that is uniquely my own.
You might ask me, well, Austin, how could you
say the church is run by men because it's mostly
taught? It's run by women, but taught by men.
And I say, well, that's a very good question.
You might say in the Bible and then Romans, it
talks about how women are not supposed to teach
in the church and how You look at most congregations
and the pastor and elder staff of almost exclusively
men. So how can I make the argument that women
run the church? Well, I'm so glad you asked.
First of all, it's not a bad thing necessarily
that women run the church. I'm not even saying
it's a good or bad thing. I'm saying it is the
way it is. I'm saying it's the truth, whether
you want to accept that or not. And here I'm
going to give you a couple of reasons as to why
that is the case and tie it into both secular
and religious contexts. Number one reason why
women run the church. Women overwhelmingly go
to churches, more than men do, by the way, in
case you didn't know that. And do you know why
that is? Well, number one reason why they do
that is because the church itself, and it's not
just the Christians, by the way, that do this.
All religions do this to an extent. The more
organized they are, the more they do this. They
are distributors of the blue pill. I came up
with this months ago. If you look back at most
of my older show, I don't expect people to do.
That's why I'm mentioning it again. There are
distributors of the blue pill. And when I'm in
say blue pill, I'm going back to matrix terminology,
which is so 2018 I'm aware, but I'm trying to
use symbolism so that you're so that you understand
and you can kind of color code this message distributors
of so what is the blue pill for those of you
who have no idea what i'm talking about i'll
break it down for you the blue pill is the idea
of selling you a fantasy not exposing reality
in the matrix which i have really only seen clips
of i know the gist more than anything else the
matrix blue stands for fantasy red stands for
reality So when I say distributors of the blue
pill what I mean is they they sell you a dream
In the sense that they tell you what should be
You can break down fantasy versus reality of
if someone uses this is what you should do. It's
fantasy Because if it was normal, you wouldn't
use the word should If they use the word is Like
this is the way things are versus this is the
way things should be Totally different conversation
anybody who starts with the word this is what
life should be or could be is selling you a dream
if someone doesn't use those two words should
or could then they're giving you a more blatant
reality check the reason I say that women run
the church is because women and overall overwhelmingly
go to churches war number one And number two,
we're using why women run the church, is they
benefit the most from church. Now, what's interesting
is a lot of women, especially more secular ones,
they make the argument that, oh, well, it's overwhelmingly
patriarchal, so therefore it benefits men and
not women, which is 100 % false. And I'll tell
you why. Because we don't live to 100 years ago.
We live in a world today where marriage overwhelmingly
does not benefit men. Now, can other statistics
out there that say that men live longer and whatnot?
Yes. Does that mean it benefits you overwhelmingly?
The answer is no. And the reason I say no is
because it works really well until it doesn't.
The marriage laws in America are fair in the
sense that they favor the person who makes more
money which could be the man or the woman but
overwhelmingly we all know this men are the ones
who make the most money and people will say that
oh marriage is safer in the in the biblical context
which technically they are true here's the catch
the divorce is worse in the church than it is
outside the church because and i'll tell you
why Anyone who's been in church knows that Divorce
is not supposed to happen and overwhelmingly
because you're so plugged in The fallout is gonna
be worse for the man and Gentlemen you might
say well often these are superficial things.
No mice. No my friend. They're not and I'll tell
you why If you've ever read the book The Manipulated
Man by Esther Velar, which is a fantastic book.
I recommend it. You will listen to this book
and you will understand that women want men to
teach in the church. Do you know why? I'm so
glad you asked. The reason they want men to teach
in the church is because now they get plausible
deniability. A woman's best friend is plausible
deniability, which means they could say or do
anything behind the scenes You can't shoot the
mess they they're not the messenger so they can't
get shot They want men to teach other men how
to be simps and gumps which again This conversation
is so 2018. I'm aware, but I'm building this
something else I'm giving you the bare -bones
basic one -on -one stuff because I don't assume
everybody knows what I know I think it's foolish
for you to assume that everybody knows everything.
Oh, oh yes, I know everything about all these
terms and all this red pill stuff. I'm not saying
this in any rage, by the way. If you were enraged
by this, you're way behind. This should not make
you mad at anything you've just heard. This is
just a reality. It's not meant to make you angry.
It's meant to expose to you the world you're
living in, whether you be a man or a woman, so
you then get to decide what you do with that.
That's the whole premise of this show. My ideas
are not meant to make you angry and hate anybody.
This message is meant to educate you so you can
then decide how you want to live your life. Whether
you want to keep going to church or not. Whether
you want to get married or not. Whether you want
to date women or not. Whether you want to be
celibate or not, all these things are up to you.
And the only way you can make an educated decision
in your life is to have knowledge. That's the
only way to do it. Now, my friends, let's return
the topic to hand, shall we? When it comes down
to the church, the church is run overwhelmingly
by women because women are the puppet masters
of the church. They're the ones who enforce monogamy
because monogamy doesn't really benefit anybody
in the sense that I firmly believe this by the
way I don't care how sinful this makes me. I
don't care about any of that crap We're in season
2. I don't give a fuck about what anybody thinks
when it comes to how you feel about what I say
Everything that I'm saying is true and the reason
that you're most likely gonna react negatively
to it is because you know, it's true Part of
the reason Why, despite the fact that people
try to use the Bible to enforce monogamy, that
it doesn't always work, is because women use
men and men use women. People use each other
all the time. In fact, it's one of the few things
that I actually agree with that Karl Marx said,
even though I hate communism. He said usury was
the only currency, which I 100 % agree with,
by the way, to an extent. and he called bourgeoisie
the bourgeois marriage was very oppressive now
I'm not gonna go that far I think it's oppressive
I think it's a sacrifice on both sides if it
works the way it's supposed to work which again
we're going back to the shoulda woulda coulda
conversation but again I have no issue with how
things are supposed to work no No issue. If things
work that way, all I'd be talking about day and
night is how wonderful a marriage is and that
you should do it. But unfortunately, my friends,
you well know as well as I do that even if you
get married, it's not a cherry. It's not a bowl
of cherries. It's not a perfect road. It's a
lot of problems in marriages, a lot of problems
in relationships. That's why podcasts like mine
and a lot other ones that are a lot bigger have
so many things. to discuss and so much content
to go through is because it never ends. People
are so consumed with this type of content. They
know that it resonates with them. They understand
that people have needs and people are inherently
fearful of being hurt. They're fearful, they're
sad, they've been through some bull crap, they
don't know what to do, and they want answers.
They want to know hey if I go to church am I
gonna be safe? Hey, if I do this am I gonna be
safe and the answer unfortunately is no You won't
not necessarily no one's ever safe and I say
this is somebody who I broke up with my with
my girlfriend who had had for over a year And
I'll still recovering from that I didn't do it
in a way I'm very proud of, but I did it because
it had to be done. And as somebody who regularly
engages in a fight against fear, you have to
not make decisions in fear despite the fact that
I sometimes still very much do that. I really
will challenge you to do better when it comes
to not engaging in fear. I'm not peddling fear
to you. I hope you realize that by me telling
you that the church is run by women I'm not telling
you not to go to church I'm telling you as a
man that when you get into the church Whether
you grew up there or whether you were going there
for the first time Understand that it is not
the church of a thousand years ago. You see in
documentaries. It is not the church for a hundred
years ago You are dealing overwhelmingly with
people who are not up -to -date. They've been
married for 20 years if they're in gen x or they're
so far out of reality it's run overwhelmingly
by all the millennials gen xers and boomers who
even if it hit them in the face will not accept
the realities of gen z younger millennials zoomers
gen alpha nobody gets it they don't want to accept
it because in their minds if only they follow
the Andrew Wilson approach of enforcing monogamy.
If only they follow these guys, these goofy guys
in the atmosphere. If only they follow the Bible,
which was written 2000 years ago, the New Testament,
and sometimes four or six thousand, sometimes
more. If you believe in the Old Testament, they
want to take those prescriptions with no cultural
pressure at all and give them to you as a prescription
for your life. If only you believe in God. Everything's
gonna work out for you Well, I don't know if
you've read the Bible recently, but the most
those most stuff doesn't work out for most people
in the book at all God is not mr. Rogers. God
is not your friend. I firmly do not believe that
God is the so -called friend that everybody wants
to make him out to be I think there's part of
it. Sure, but even your friends so -called are
going to put you in your place. They're going
to call you out on your bull crap and they're
not going to sit there and let you just do whatever
the hell you want. A lot of people use religion
and spiritual fire insurance. They don't use
it as anything more than that. So we talk about
men being prayed upon in the church when it comes
to, hey, just get married. Hey, just accept all
this responsibility with no guardrails. Just
just go for it. Just take the prescription that
worked a thousand years ago, two thousand years
ago, six thousand years ago and just go for it.
I can't cosign that in good faith. I can't do
it. Can it work for you? Yes, it works for some
amazing people in my life. I'm not saying it's
impossible. I'm telling you, you are not set
up in a system that is meant to. Really nurture
you unless you really get into almost like cult
level participation even then All it takes is
one day in the next 50 years and your host And
a lot of people they jump in with all this faith
and no knowledge about life about the other gender
about Relationships about sex anything. That's
the other part of the coin too, by the way Women
overwhelmingly come around the church with so
much more sexual experience than most of you
goofy -ass men. That's a whole other thing too,
by the way, in case you don't know. And that's
a huge problem for divorce too. And divorce isn't
even the worst thing, by the way. Do you think
divorce is bad? Think about sexless marriages.
Dudes who stick around for the kids. Women who
just stick around because they get the rent paid
or the mortgage paid. my friends When we get
to the church is run by women you need to understand
that when men Basically tell other men to quote
man up and just take Roll the dice on their future
without see this is this is why I'm telling you
is run by women Because women put other women
up on game That's one thing women do really well
by the way ladies you do a good job of teaching
other women about men Really good job men. We
don't do a good job of that at all, especially
in the church, especially. I have never gone
to a men's group or a church service or a Bible
study where the older men have sat down with
the younger men and said, gents, let's have a
serious conversation. You might think that these
women are not your so -called sisters in Christ
or not out here being sluts, but some of them
definitely are. And you need to understand that
you need to be a Dom in your marriage. You need
to lead, not just lead in the ways of, I hold
my Bible study every morning before I go to work.
Nah, dude. No, you got to run your Dom game permanently.
You got to understand how to operate in your
masculine, holding masculine frame, teaching
my example, dominating during sex. When's the
last time you heard men like talk like this in
your church, if you go to church? When's the
last time that they said, hey, you know what,
when your wife's getting out of control, you
got to listen to her, but you're also going to
know when you need to really, you know, hit that
bottom. Nope. Never heard that. They don't, they
are afraid to talk about sex, the sexual underworld,
fantasies, fetishes, you name it. All these things
exist. Just because you don't want to talk about
it doesn't mean that it doesn't exist and it's
not happening That's not how it works. That's
the approach that a lot of people take in the
church Oh, if we don't talk about abortion if
we don't talk about Sex before marriage if we
don't talk about calling people out and not even
exposing them to shame them But saying look we
know y 'all are out here participating in this
and we need to prepare these men. Nope Why are
goofy dudes? who are trying to do what you think
is the right thing to do when all you're doing
is being led into the meat grinder you're being
led right into the utility shed that is where
you're going you are not going to a loving marriage
you are going right to being used as a as a toy
soldier with a battery in your back your wife
run in your house and you have no idea your wife
settled for you you she didn't have genuine burning
desire for you I know you don't want to accept
that, but that's the truth. If she has some dude
who in her past that she talked about when she
was dating you, she didn't love you. If she talked
about how, oh, I went through this bad relationship
and that bad relationship and you're the first
man to treat me with respect, that's not a flex.
That means you're the cleanup guy. That means
you are not the man she wanted. You are the man
she settled for. And gents, I get this is going
to offend you. Ladies, ladies, you need to be
honest with these men. I know a lot of men don't
have the stomach, but I'd like to think my audience
has the stomach to handle these harsh realities
that, you know, one of my favorite content creators
who really, you know, put me on a better place
in my life was coach Greg Adams. He's a little
more non -religious than I am, which that's his
right. I get it. I understand his cynicism more
than most. But one thing he said is women, no,
men are in love and women are in business, but
here's the thing about the business part. It's
not that women are in it to finesse you and stuff
like that only. That's definitely part of the
game, but men and women finesse each other pretty
regularly. The reason I say that, and I'm quoting
him, is because you need to get down to business
with that woman that you're talking to in your
life. You need to know why she's dealing with
you, whether you're married or not. You need
to know why she's there if she's there for the
security. She's there for the money You got to
accept that If she's there because you got the
best Johnson in town awesome, but I guarantee
you nine out of ten times. That's not the reason
I Can guarantee you it's not also the reason
that I think that women run the church is because
Women overwhelmingly are the ones who are enforcing
the rules in church. They're the ones who are
the target audience because they're the ones
that fill the pews. The pastors are pandering
to them, not you as a man. They know that if
they get enough women in their church, men will
come, especially young women. Forget it. Anywhere
where there are young, semi -attractive women,
men are going to show up. People who have kids,
they know they all show up. It's like a Taylor
Swift concert. They know men are going to show
up. Why? Because the girls will drag them there.
That's what church is today. Women drag men to
church. I have very few examples of men dragging
women to church. Tell me I'm wrong. Tell me I'm
wrong. I would love to hear this. Tell me I'm
wrong. gents again none of this ladies and gentlemen
none of this is meant to trigger you make you
angry make you resent anybody this is all meant
to educate you on what you're dealing with in
your life and to understand that there are not
safe places out here you can't escape reality
you can't escape the truth and the only way you
get through it is to embrace it and understand
if you want to get married go ahead roll that
dice but know that you're rolling the dice. If
you want to ignore women altogether and go monk,
go right ahead. If you want to practice what
they did in the Old Testament, how more of the
polyamory polygamy type of thing, legally, of
course, I'm not telling you to break the law,
then go and do that. Because in my opinion, a
lot of these people who say that God quote tolerated
it, I think that's garbage personally. I think
that's garbage, personally. Polygamy is not only
about sex. It's about providing for women. Most
women want their own personal man. Most men are
too broke to have their own woman. Most men are
broke. And these broke dudes come out here and
they want to tell you how to run game, tell you
how to do all these stupid things, goofy things,
instead of just bossing up. They don't want to
do any of that. So the men who have have a duty
to provide for those who have not That's a fact
So anybody who's trying to sit there and tell
me that's not biblical Yeah, I don't believe
that and of course you could say whatever you
want, but I'm telling you what I think I think
it's full I think you're full of crap personally
Again, I think women did that because they don't
want to share their they don't want to share
a man even though You're probably sharing that
woman by the way, whether you realize it or not.
Hopefully you don't hopefully you're not but
Overwhelmingly, that's what's gonna happen whether
it's your attention her body Whatever that's
happening happen in the past. It's happening
now My friends, I know you're trying to trigger
some of you But I'm not trying to trigger you.
I'm trying to give you food for thought. I'm
trying to under make you understand that What
you think is true is not and maybe what you thought
was false might possibly be true. Let me know
what you think about anything that I've said
today. Let me know. Until then, I'll talk to
you all next time. I'm out of here. Peace.