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Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the sheep get

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shared podcast. I'm your host Austin Creed and

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I want to welcome you into the show today though

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my friends I wanted to update you so when it

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comes to I want to do two shows a day. It's one

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of those things that I think it needs to be Done

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to get the show to the next level But I also

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have a story to update you on and we have three

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different stories that we're going to address

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on today's show So without further ado I'm going

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to show you the first story. These are all from

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my ex account, by the way. Those of you who don't

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know, I am on ex. And so what we're going to

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do is we're going to look at three different

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stories that I've responded. I've been that I've

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found and might've even left a comment on or

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reposted with a comment from myself. But here's

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the first story of the day. First story of the

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day is from this woman right here. This woman

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is talking about her marriage and we're going

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to listen. And feel free to share your thoughts

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and comments below. But let's get into what she

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has to say. I've been with my husband for almost

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20 years, but about three years ago, I was strongly

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considering divorce and I want to talk to you

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about why. So I'm going to tell you the story

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of the day where I thought to myself, maybe I

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don't want to do this anymore. My husband and

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I had four kids. We both worked full time. We

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had been together for 16 years at this point.

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We've been together since high school and on

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paper. I have an amazing husband. He is incredibly

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supportive. He's kind. He's loyal. He's a great

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dad. He's very hands on. He's an active participant.

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He's always present. Like on paper, what else

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could I ask for? Um, but in reality, my experience

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is very similar to the experience of other women.

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I had this amazing husband who on paper was great,

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but I was incredibly frustrated and burnt. Okay.

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Hold on a second. Let's stop right there before

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she keeps going. It's a five minute video. Oh

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my gosh. Okay. Okay. First of all, anytime that

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anybody ever says, oh, he's great, but you know

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that there was some kind of rug pull bait and

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switch. Something happened where she put up with

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it. She put up with it. She put up with it. Didn't

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tell him. Didn't say anything. Didn't, and then

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all of a sudden she saw her friend getting a

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better deal. She saw that she was just, something

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happened. She woke up one day and was like, I'm

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done with this and moved on. All this is preparing

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you. to let you know why she's justifying bad

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behavior. Nice frame freeze. I'm like, ha ha

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ha, by the way. All right, let's see what else.

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Keep going. Out from our marriage and from motherhood,

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because what happens to so many of us is that

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we marry these amazing men. Did you just say

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she's burned out from motherhood? Gentlemen,

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if you procreate with a woman, please, please

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be careful who you procreate with, because this

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can you imagine? Being told that That's bad man

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and we have amazing relationships and then we

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have kids and when we have kids women tend to

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carry a Disproportionate amount of the work in

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the home the work of raising kids and the mental

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load and that oh my god This is the same garbage

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women always say okay first of all Women will

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use this argument on you gentlemen. Let me only

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change the frame for a second back to my book

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into the show brand. First of all, let's get

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this out of the way. Women will use the mental

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load and the housework as a tool to manipulate

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you. First of all, mental load, you can't measure

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that. That could be anything from I'm worried

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about what you're worried about to I'm thinking

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about you throughout the day. That's mental load.

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You can't measure that. So therefore, because

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you can't measure it, I think it's garbage. Number

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two, Of course you're going to be expected to

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do a lot of the housework. You're probably at

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home more than he is. That's part of being a

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mom. It's been like this forever. Okay? I don't

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understand where this idea came from all of a

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sudden. This equal partnership garbage. No woman

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actually wants this. And let me tell you why.

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They think they want it. Because it sounds good

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in their heads. It doesn't work though when you

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take it into the real world. In the real world,

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a woman wants a man who's equal to or better

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than her. She's gonna try to upgrade on you if

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there's a quote, partnership. She's gonna want

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a better deal. It's not her cause she's evil,

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it's her cause she's a woman and this is how

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women work. She's using this as a tool to manipulate

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you. If anybody's ever read The Manipulated Man

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by Esther Velar, fantastic book. I'd recommend

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it right after you read my book, Biblical Bachelor.

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But nonetheless, this whole argument is frame

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by frame exactly what she talks about in her

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book. If you, let's look up, let me send you,

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look, here's the screen. What do you see right

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in the corner? That's a dishwasher. Back in the

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day, women didn't have dishwashers. Guarantee

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you with a house like that, with a nice granite

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island that she's filming this from, guarantee

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you she has a nice washer and dryer. I guarantee

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you she has a maid or she has a landscaper. She's

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got people to help her with this so -called homework

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and mental load. Ma 'am, you signed up to be

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a mother. Unless you marry a man who doesn't

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want kids, you know you signed up for her and

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now you want to play the victim afterwards and

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it doesn't work Now it's one thing if he said

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hey, I don't want I want kids now. I know I don't

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want kids now I want kids. Okay. No, he's payment

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switching. That's not fair. You can't do it So

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you can't do it So, you can't rug pull like that.

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But here's the problem. Women do this in droves.

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This is why so many men are quitting relationships.

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It's because of this woman, this type right here.

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Let's continue with this. This is exactly what

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happened to us. About three months after my fourth

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baby was born. Fourth. I remember looking at

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my husband and saying, I mean more. I need you

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to do more. See? See? Okay. Um, let's steal a

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page from coach Greg Adams. Shout out to CGA.

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Great man in the great, great YouTuber, great

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content creator. Go check out his page if you

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haven't. I want to give credit where credit is

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due. He calls this the bait and switch. Now that

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the investment phase of his, of her relationship

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is there, fourth kid, right on cue, she wants

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more from him. In other words, you, what was

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working before was fine. Now I want more. In

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other words, Hey, you know what? You got to step

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up your game now because now I have a new kid.

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And either you're going to pay, you're going

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to do what I say, or I'm going to turn you over

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to child protective services over to the core

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family court system through child support. And

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one way or another, I'm going to get what I want

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out of you is what she's saying. And if you don't

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like that, I'm sorry. What else am I supposed

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to take from this? Huh? This isn't done in good

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faith. If this was good faith, she would have

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said this up front. But now she's doing it after

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the fourth kid is born. This is not in good faith.

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She's not doing this to be a good person. This

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is a bait and switch. Play it simple. Let's continue

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with this. Exhausted. I am in charge of everyone

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and everything in this house. Every night. When

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we cook dinner, you ask me what to make. Every

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day, when you drop off the kids at daycare, you

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ask me what they need in their backpacks. I am

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the project manager. What does your husband do

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for a living? Can I ask that question? Can I

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ask you what your husband does for a living?

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Because it looks like you live in a pretty nice

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house. I guarantee you he makes more money than

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you do. Because if you made less, then you wouldn't

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be with him most likely. But let's continue with

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this. For all I know, she's a breadwinner, which

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at that point, you're a dumb woman who married

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a broke dude. I mean, At that point, it's still

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your fault, I don't know what to tell you. It

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always starts like this, but uh... As you do

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it, it gets worse and worse. Just FYI, ask any

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man who's been divorced, he'll tell you. It would

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make my life so much easier because when I've

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got the four kids running around and the baby

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crying, I can't be looking for their favorite

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water bottle in the dishwasher. I just need to

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know it's clean. And he said, yeah, of course.

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Yeah, I'll do that. That's no problem. And so,

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of course, he does it. But then I have to remind

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him and then he forgets. Maybe because he's working.

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I need more context than this because I guarantee

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you we're missing part of the story. That's all

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I'm gonna say. Let's continue. I have to remind

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him again and there was this one morning where

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I woke up and I went to put something in the

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trash and it was overflowing and I went to get

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my son's water bottle and it was in the dishwasher

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with all the other clean dishes and I felt so

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disrespected and unseen and unvalued at that

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point in time. felt is the key word in that sentence

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that you might want to underline just so you

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know he she says i instead of saying i knew i

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was disrespected she said i felt which means

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you can't again can't measure feelings again

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you can't do anything about feelings they're

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you can't debate them you can't discuss them

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they're not logical continuing i remember texting

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my husband being like what happened like why

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didn't you do this and he said sorry i was running

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late for work and i remember thinking Oh my God,

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he doesn't see me. Because what he's done has

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now made me late for work. And he doesn't care

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about that. He doesn't care about the impact

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on me. And he doesn't see how every single thing

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in our home happens because I ask him to do it

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or because I do it. What does your husband do

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for work, ma 'am? What does he do for work? That's

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kind of an important detail that you're conveniently

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leaving out. Myself or because I planned and

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organized it. The diaper bag is full because

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I filled it, right? I put the wipes in there.

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And I felt so frustrated. Okay. I got to pause

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it here. My friends for a second. Okay. Let me

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ask you a question. How is it that grandma, you

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know, your, your grandma used to be able to raise

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15 kids, eight kids, seven kids on her own and

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didn't complain whatsoever. But this woman can't

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even raise four kids without having a meltdown

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on social media. Can I ask that question? How

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is that possible? How is it possible that she's,

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she's melting down? She's melting down. I can't

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handle it. I can't do it. Meanwhile, her grandma

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probably raised six kids on her own while the

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dad was working at the factory all the time.

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Are you kidding me with this crap? How many men

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have had this happen to them? Please raise your

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hand in the audience of the, of the sheep kid

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shoot podcast. Uh, in the studio that's I can

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see golf clubs, you know, golf clubs on my wall.

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I imagine that there's a decent number of hands

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going up in the audience. Why? Because this is

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what happens to us as men. Where's this guy giving

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his side of the story? Answer, nowhere, it sounds

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like. Maybe we'll get to see it at some point,

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but it certainly doesn't seem like it. This is

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the kind of stuff that makes men give up. Is

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this garbage right here? What does he do for

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a living? You haven't answered that yet. What

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does he do? I remember thinking, what's the point?

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What's the point of doing this with someone else?

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I might as well just do it alone. And it's not

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- You hear that? Did you hear that? Now all of

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a sudden she's giving up. Four kids - Did you

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think about the kids without her - without their

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dad? Now they're gonna be used as pawns in your

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game? Not once. Do you think about the kids?

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It's all about how you felt. Did anybody catch

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that? How she felt in that moment? Not what it

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was, not what are the kids, not how can I make

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this work, how can I maybe do something differently,

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it was I give up, I'm done. I felt disrespected,

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saw them out. Not because my husband didn't love

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me or he did anything to me, and it's not because

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I didn't love him, but because I felt so taken

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advantage of in our relationship and his dynamic.

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It doesn't happen by accident, right? I wonder

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how much money you spend, ma 'am, on a bunch

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of garbage and your husband feels used for his

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money, but we'll continue. Not like my husband

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did it to me, but we've been raised in this society

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that... Oh, God. ...who they should be in marriages,

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and what it looks like to be a good mom versus

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a good dad, and we know the bar for moms is way

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up here, and the bar for dads is way down here.

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Oh, my God. Oh, the women! It is so hard! Oh,

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my God! Ma 'am, nobody told you to be a mom.

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You wanted to be a mom. You signed up to be a

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mother and yet here you are complaining about

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it If it's so bad and so hard then why did you

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sign up for it? Can I ask that? Can I ask that

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question am I allowed to ask that I'll ask it

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why did you sign up for it? I Mean for God's

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sakes nobody forced you and yet here you are

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complaining about the probably you asked him

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for kids Most women do that by the way The tactic

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to manipulate the man in case you don't know

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Because now she has access to his resources But

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here we are and yet I guarantee you the man's

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like what the heck I Didn't what you guys probably

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really lost here. He's like what I guarantee.

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He's probably a little beta though, too But you

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know that's the tend to happen when uh men are

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in relationships they tend to naturally take

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that disposition, but Nevertheless, let's revisit

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this. And we fell into these norms. We fell into

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these roles in our family despite the fact that

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we never wanted to. And I'm lucky, and I say

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lucky because I have a partner who I know. Partner,

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not husband. And wants me to be happy. And was

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willing and able to change. And so we did the

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work. Oh, you're punishing him for changing.

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Gentlemen, don't do this. Just so you know. To

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figure out what equity looks like in our relationship.

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Equity? Equity is a code word for we end up at

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the same place. You know three years later that

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we are happier than ever our kids are thriving

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What is this Don't give me the spinning wheel

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of death. No No, you mean it. No. Oh curse. Okay.

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So now did you take it down? Did you take it

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down? I Mean you get the picture. I mean, what

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the hell am I supposed to think about this? It

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was all I feel statements. It was, I want, look,

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I see from a certain perspective, what she's

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talking about when it comes to, Hey, I want this

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and I want that. I want this. I want that. I

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get it. Here's the problem though. You've made

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it all about yourself. I guarantee you your husband

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has done a lot for you and how you repaying him

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is, is with this, it was with a divorce. What

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it sounds like to me. What it sounds like what

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do you guys think? Let's move to the next Next

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video is this one right here. Let's take a look

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at this guys seen this Look at them vandalizing

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the castle of the only ship look at them Look

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look at these losers right here Look, I don't

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care what you think about musk. Okay. I think

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musk is the kind of guy that He's successful

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like every successful person he has haters, but

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here's the problem I think that these people

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who vandalize Tesla's like this they They're

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wasting their time. They are not actually making

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a difference. They're only serving To put themselves

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in prison and They look stupid because here's

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the difference here's the difference Tesla is

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not completely owned by Musk, in case you didn't

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know it. He owns about 20%, I think, last time

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I checked. About 20 % of the company. The rest

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of it is publicly traded on the market. Which

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means that people with 401ks, people with retirement

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benefits, you're hurting them, not Musk. You

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are hurting them more than you're hurting him

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by doing this. By burning down Tesla stations.

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By keying Tesla's cyber trucks, by putting paint

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all over Tesla dealerships, you're not actually

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hurting Musk. You're more hurting the people

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who put their money in the stock market. That

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is the difference. And that to me is why it's

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so stupid what they're doing. It's ridiculous.

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Let's look at this. According to the New York

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Post, and this is a little oldest from January,

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single women own millions more homes than single

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men in the United States, and the gap is only

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growing. Well, first of all, kind of a misleading

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headline, and it's going to have a bias because

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it was written by a woman. That's number one.

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Number two, even if that is true, can someone

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explain to me why it is that this is a story?

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I don't understand. Why this is a flex just before

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the This is this is the kind of stuff we see

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all the time Let me know what you think about

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this in the comments below I'm curious to hear

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what you have us to say about this because I

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think that that's not it's a non -story I'll

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be I'll be back We need to talk more about these

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things, but I got to get back to work. I'll see

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you guys later. Peace