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Welcome to the Sheep Get Sheered podcast.

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I'm your host, Austin Creed, and my friends.

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It's been a while.

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A little too long in my opinion since I've been doing this show.

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And that's because I have some good news.

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Well, I guess it depends on who you're asking, but I got news.

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News is I decided to go through with my experiment.

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What experiment you might be asking?

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Well, if you ask the question you didn't listen to the last show, that's okay.

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I'll give you the low down anyway.

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I've decided, my friends, to experiment with being in a relationship because I want to

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see in live time whether the biblical bachelor lifestyle works and I want to see what I want

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to see the other side of the story.

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Now I'm really gunna lean to, I'm going to tell you off the gate.

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I'm not trying to treat this woman like a guinea pig, nothing like that.

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It's not like that.

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I'm just trying to see the other side of the tracks because as much as I would love to

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say, everybody here's what you need to do.

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I can't do that if I have not experienced the other side of the story.

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It would be disingenuous to you, my beloved audience.

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It'd be disingenuous for me to say here and say, oh, you guys, relationships are horrible.

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Don't get in them.

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They're garbage.

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You have to get your bubble, even though I've been in semi-relationships before, I have

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not actually undergone a relationship like that.

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In my attempt to prove myself right or wrong, I have decided to go ahead and green light

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this experiment.

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Now, I want to let you guys know right ahead of time that it's going to be a little bit

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harder to do a lot of these shows not because I'm not going to do it or don't want to, but

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because I don't want people to get the wrong idea.

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I'm not trying to treat, I'm not treating her like garbage.

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I'm not doing any of that stuff.

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I don't see a point in doing that.

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I wouldn't want somebody to treat me that way.

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So I'm not going to do that.

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But I'm using this experiment mainly because I want guys who are both younger and older

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than myself.

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I'm 24 years young to understand why I wrote the book that I wrote.

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The reason is because I firmly believe that marriage for the most part is a gigantic trap

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for men.

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I think for the most part, relationships turn men into betas as it is incredibly hard to

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be alpha.

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I've even experienced that in this relationship thus far because you naturally as a man, you

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naturally have a desire to acquiesce.

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You have a desire to just make things okay, even if they are not okay.

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And it's one of those things that you, when you're, it's like going, if for those of you

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who play video games, I'll put it in these turfs.

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It's like going into the boss room, you fight the boss, you use almost your items, maybe

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your low health, and then it's like you go into work and doing it with your day, and

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then you deal with them after you do all those things.

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Or if you live together, it's even more difficult.

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But then there's an old, another boss behind the boss, you just fought.

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And then you're like, oh my gosh, you've got to be joking.

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And you have no save point.

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You have no idea how to refill your gear.

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You have no potion refills.

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You got no stamina, no potion, nothing.

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You're just out there and you're having to deal with the fact.

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And now you have a whole other boss to fight.

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That's basically what you're doing every day.

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Okay.

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And now, now every day is going to be bad.

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That's a if, that's a duh.

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There's not every day is bad, but I have noticed in my brief experiment thus far, I have found

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that it's very interesting how you as a guy, you must set boundaries.

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You must do what you say you're going to do and not do what you say you're not going to

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do, because if you don't stand on your principles, if you don't stand your ground, they'll walk

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all over you.

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That goes their evil, but because think about it like this, you as a guy, you probably do

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the same thing, right?

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If somebody was just, if somebody would always give you money, if you asked for it, you probably

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keep asking for money, right?

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Of course you would.

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In the same way that if a woman keeps telling you, you keep telling her, oh, I'm not going

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to do this.

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I'm not going to do that.

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But then you do it.

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Guess what?

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You are going to get treated with this respect because you're allowing it.

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These are just some of the things I've found thus far.

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I'm going to continue to go into the extensive detail, not because I'm, and I'm going to

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tell you guys straight up, I'm not trying to sabotage this relationship.

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I'm actually going to see if it is, if it succeeds, but most of them don't.

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Most relationships fail, but I'm going to, I'm going to really see how this plays out.

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Because I work with her.

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I spent a lot of time with her.

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So it's a little more under pressure per se.

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And so we're going to really use this as an experiment to see if I was right or if I was

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wrong.

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No, my father thought it was sort of you're probably cringing.

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You're like, Austin, why are you doing this?

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You know the right answers, but you're doing this anyway.

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Why?

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Well, the reason I'm doing it is because I need to do it A for myself and B, I'm doing

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it for you.

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I want you to learn from my mistakes as I've learned from other people's mistakes.

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Well, you know, most of the time, in a way.

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And not my friends is why we're doing this because I want to be on the inside.

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I don't want to just take other people's word.

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I want to undergo it myself and see how it goes.

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I have firewalls in place, but I will tell you thus far it's been a very interesting

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experience, because in my life I've had flings.

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I've gotten experienced hookup culture, all that stuff.

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But I have not genuinely tried to have a long-term relationship before my life.

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I just haven't.

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And because of that, I'm in new territory.

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I'm undergoing, I'm breaking new ground, as it were.

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And because of that, it's very interesting gathering data.

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I'm kind of a nerd.

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So I like gathering data on this type of stuff.

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And because of that, I encourage you to discuss how you either you've had a marriage or a

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long-term relationship, or maybe you haven't had any of the above.

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And you're curious how this plays out because you yourself maybe can't get that just yet,

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or maybe you just have the desire and you want to see somebody else put themselves in

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the train tracks and wait for the train to go over them.

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I don't know what you, why you're listening to it or why this is resident with you today.

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What I do know is it's very important for us to undergo tests to see whether we were

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right or wrong with what we believe to be true.

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If we just live in a world where we believe ourselves to be true, we never test ourselves,

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then we're not doing ourselves a service.

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We're actively doing a disservice because we're not saying we're right because we're

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proving it to ourselves and to the world.

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We're saying we're right because we want to be right, which makes us no different, knows

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we criticize.

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So we must test ourselves.

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We must go underneath the belief systems that we have and we must test them.

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You don't have to do what I've been doing per se, but I'm testing myself in a way that

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I honestly never thought I would, but I'm doing it because I think this is the best

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choice.

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I'm doing it not only for content, I'm doing it because I genuinely want to see if I was

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right or if I was wrong.

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So I'll keep you guys updated on how this experiment's going on top of the other shows

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I have planned for the next couple of weeks.

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But I wanted to get this out because A, I've been slacking on doing it because of the job

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and a bunch of, and just dealing with this new relationship.

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Very time consuming, by the way.

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He didn't know relationships are very time consuming.

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And so just be aware of these things, gentlemen.

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It's one of those things that you don't truly understand until you're in it.

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And once you're in it, you start to understand why people say the things they say and why

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they do the things that they do and why so many men are blue-pilling beta.

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You understand why?

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Because they're in the matrix.

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When you dip your fingers back into the matrix a little bit, you start to realize why people

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lose themselves, even if they start off red-pill and they become beta.

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They lose their alpha mentality and become beta.

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You never stop being red-pill, but seeing reality for what it is, once you've seen it,

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you're just ignoring it if you choose not to follow it.

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But you are naturally going to start having beta tendencies because people are going to

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pressure you, number one, and you're naturally going to get whittled down if you're not careful

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number two.

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It's very important for us to understand what we're dealing with and understand the dangers

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that are associated.

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So my friends, in the coming days and weeks and months, depending on how long this relationship

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lasts, I have no intention of sabotaging it.

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We'll see what happens and we'll use it for content.

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I might add it into my new book I'm working on that I've been working on for a little

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while.

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I'm doing everything I can.

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I'm not going to be beta.

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I'll tell you guys about it right now.

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If you ever start hearing me say I'm beta, you've got to slap me silly and tell me Austin,

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you're losing yourself to the experiment.

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My friends, take care of yourselves.

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I encourage you to actively talk amongst yourselves and on this channel about what you think about

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this experiment.

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Whether you think it's a horrible idea or not, I think this is incredibly necessary.

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And I also want to hear what you have to say whether you think it's a good idea or a bad

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idea because this is one of those things that's going to be polarized people.

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There's some people who are going to think I'm crazy.

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Some people are going to think that this is necessary and something that could really

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make a difference.

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So I'm curious to hear what you have to say.

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Till next time, I'm out.

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Please feel free to leave your thoughts and comments.

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I'm out.

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Thank you.