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Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the sheep get sheared podcast. I'm your host, Austin

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Creed. But for the know, it's been a couple of, actually, it's been like a week since

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the last time the upload a lot's been going on. I've been trying to adjust the new job,

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new location, all that kind of stuff. But we're not here to talk about excuses. You know,

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you read the title, we're talking about why men get in relationships in the first place.

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Now, this is an interesting discussion because a lot of people have their own reasons for

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getting in relationships. But I want to focus on men in particular. And the reason why is

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because a lot of men are checking out of relationships entirely and a lot of epinormies, people,

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NPCs, they're like, why are men checking out? This is a crazy phenomenon. It's all because

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of those equal migtail guys in the red hill. And it's all, it's all terrible. But here's

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the thing. What is it that men want in relationships? Let's start there. Because in order to answer

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the question of why men get in relationships with ask, well, what do people want in relationships?

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Well, men usually want intimacy. That's number one. They also tend to want women who are

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going to be an asset to them and not just another bill to pay. And if we look back in

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the past, men wanted legacies, they wanted to be able to protect and provide. But they

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also with that came a level of control. I don't control the dirty word. People are like,

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Oh, control. Oh, it's so horrible. Oh, it's normal. It's like saying, it's like me going

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to my body and saying, Hey, I want you to, um, per, I want you to protect my and provide

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for my car while I'm gone. But you can't drive it. You can't move it. You can't do

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anything to it. You just kind of, but you still have to protect and provide for you.

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You can't have any control over it whatsoever. That'd be stupid, right? And I can hear people

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in the comments, Austin, you're comparing women to cars. We're not objects. You're

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missing the point. You are missing the point entirely. And in fact, this is why a lot of

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men don't want to get in relationships just because of this exact attitude. We as men,

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we want peace. We want quiet. We want to be able to get and take on the world. And we

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don't want to be taking on a war on two fronts, meaning we fight with the one with our woman

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and with the world. We don't want to do that. But a lot of dudes will settle for that because

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they have no backbone and they've been taught through years of the public school, years,

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maybe in the church, years of listening to relatives, mothers, fathers, grandparents,

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aunts, uncles, cousins, whatever. And they've been told that this is all it's all it's

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just part of the relationship. You got to get over it. You got to get over yourself.

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You're taking yourself too seriously.

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Gentlemen, let me tell you something. One of the things that men want that I found in

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relationships. We want not discompanion ship, because such a such a cop out phrase. What

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we want is we want someone to be an asset to us, help us build, but promise a lot of

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women don't want to do that. You know what? And I don't blame them either, by the way.

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I don't blame them. This is not kind of show where I sit here and tell you that men are

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perfect and women are evil. That's not truth. There's his side, her side, and then there's

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the truth. And when we want to talk about the truth, and if we want to really get to

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the heart of the issue and not just vent, we need to see things from all sides, not

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just one side. And to do that, we must not just give a cop out answer. And in the comments,

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gentlemen, as we're talking about what men want in relationships, you're more than welcome

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to leave what you look for in the comments below, because I think it's interesting that

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a lot of men have a lot of similarities in what we want. And a lot of times we are shamed

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for what we want in a relationship. We're not allowed to have preferences where we're

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said, Oh, you're toxic. You're not a nice guy. You're you only want one thing. You've

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heard all this garbage before, right? But I also think it's interesting that despite

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a lot of labeling, whether it's red pill, purple pill, blue pill, whatever, a lot of

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people, they still have this natural desire to pair up this natural desire to find somebody.

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I think that that's natural. And I don't think it's evil. I don't think it's bad. But I've

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talked about this before on the show. You need to vet people. You need to understand

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what you can live with and what you can't. Well, you're willing to deal with and what

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you won't. And you need to have a backbone first, number one. And if you're trying to

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do anything more than just, you know, get some side chicks, you need to have a stream of

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income. You need to have some kind of going for you. You can't just expect a woman's loyalty

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to you and you're broke in your your insecure and you got all this stuff going on. And I'm

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not taking their side. I'm being realistic here. It's not my job to tell you as a man

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that you're enough because you were born with a schmendrick. That's not how this works.

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That's not how this works. That's not how this works, my friends. What meant? What is

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it that you think men want in relationships? I can speak about this for hours, because

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at the end of the day, the problem is a lot of men are not getting what we want. We're

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not getting women who are loyal to us. We're not getting women who want to be, you know,

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build with us. We're not getting women who want anything more than to be another bill

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for us. Hey, which, hey, you know what? If that's what you want, that's fine. But you're

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nothing. The women who are like that are not different than just street workers. They're

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not. The only difference is one's obvious and the other one's being less obvious. I

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mean, one's in front of your face and the other one's behind your back. I mean, let's

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just be real here. And my friends, I know that might sound harsh. I know that might,

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you know, rub your little the wrong way, but you know what? The truth has a ring to it.

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And if at any point, whether it is your first time listening to the show or you've listened

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to every show that we've ever done, if you think I'm lying to you at any given point,

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the unsubscribe button is right there. The mute this channel button is right there.

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You don't have to listen to this. If you think we're lying to you in this community over

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here, go ahead, go find somewhere where you think the truth is being spoken because at

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the end of the day, the truth has a ring to it. I'll pass you about this stuff. I'm sick

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and tired of seeing men waste their whole life chasing after women who don't care about

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them. I'm sick and tired of dudes ruining the dating marketplace, women ruining the

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dating marketplace. I'm sick of it all. It's not just one side. One side, just a lot more

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obvious than the other one. Number one and number two, most women have more options

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than most men in the system. One on one level of reality check, but the women will only

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see about the top five to 10 percent of men, maybe 20 percent of them are a bottom feeder,

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and they don't have any, you know, they have less options. And they think that all of us

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are like that when it's not true. My friends, I want to pay you here for a second because

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I want to tell you something. I'm actually considering conducting an experiment. And

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what do you what do I mean by experiment? Well, what I mean is I'm considering getting

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in a relationship to then document it for you guys and explain to you in real time

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how it's going, how the hypergamy is showing up, how the monkey branching may or may not

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be kicking in all these types of things. I want to be able to show it to you and give

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you those infield receipts in real time, because I think it's something that a lot of guys

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will talk about after the fact, but not during when it's happening to them. They're not

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seeing it. I'm thinking about doing that. I'm also considering really diving in depth

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on this because I want to show you guys as a I'm a younger guy. I'm 24. What it's like

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out here for us. They did a marketplace and what you might be dealing with, what you might

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encounter and how work and how I get around it. And then you can talk about whether you

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want to deal with. I think it's an interesting idea. I mean, why else talk about why men

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get in relationships with I'm not. I've haven't been in one a long time and I don't want to

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be disingenuous and just give you a cop out answer. I think it's a good idea. And I'm

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curious what you all have to think, what you all have to say. I think it's an interesting

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experiment and worthwhile idea. So if you think it's a good idea, let me know because

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I'm more than happy to do it. Well, and we could see how it would all go down because

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I can guarantee you big for some very interesting content of that you can be sure. I have no

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idea what would happen, but what I can gather it'd be very interesting and I haven't been

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in a relationship in a while. I haven't wanted to. And I don't want people to be like, Oh,

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it's because you don't have options. Austin, you can't get chicks. Okay, bro. Okay. Yeah,

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sure. Have you believed that again, you're more than welcome to say, Oh, I don't know

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what I'm talking about. Go ahead. Or anybody else in who loves the show who listens to the

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show. They don't know what they're talking about, even though I know guys who've gotten

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divorced on this channel, guys who've gotten their kids taken from them. Oh, yeah, it's

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a real thing. It's not just on social media. It happens to real people. And so when we talk

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about men and women relationships, we take on a significant amount of risk being in a

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relationship. Significant. It ranges from false allegations to child support to dealing

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with the police to ruining our reputation. I mean, to dealing with emotional garbage

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and paying and losing money, all these things. But I'm here. I'm willing to put myself out

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there and let you guys know in real time how it's shaking out so that maybe you can learn

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or if you're a younger guy or even an older guy who's your outer relationships, you haven't

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been in one a long time and you want to instead of dealing with it yourself, you want to have

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a guy like me deal with that and you can hear all the tea. You can kind of see the train

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wreck happening in real time. So to speak, if that happens, which statistically it does.

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Let me know. I'm I'm willing to do it. So let me know what you want. Just let me know.

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I'm curious to hear what you have to say, because I think it's an interesting idea and

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I don't know anybody else who's doing it. And I'm not. I wouldn't just do it for content.

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I would do it to be like, Hey, you know what? Maybe we're wrong, guys. Maybe we as men were

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wrong because, you know, a lot of us are toxically masculine and we have all these ideas and,

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you know, they could be very hurtful to a lot of people, especially to women. And I

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think that we really need to put ourselves out there and stop being so bitter and hurt.

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Oh, man. But I think it'd be interesting. I really think that if I decided to do that

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and y'all want me to, then I'm going to document it and talk about in real time how it's going,

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why it's going a certain direction, how to handle it based on what you want to do, when

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to cut bait, when not to cut bait. I think it's an interesting idea because the end

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of the day, it's like someone saying I'm a bodybuilder, you know, they've never been

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in a bodybuilding competition. I can't claim to be some relationship guru know it all.

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If I don't go into relationships myself and in it goes to show why I'm going my own way

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and why a lot of other men go their own ways to show in a relationship why men are choosing

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to go their own way. A lot of men will talk about it after the fact, which is good, but

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a lot of times they won't talk about it during the fact. They won't document it when it's

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happening. They'll only talk about it after it's already happened. And I wanted to change

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that. Let's do some groundbreaking journalism, gentlemen. Let's do it. I'm really open to

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doing it. I say we do it. Give you guys the in depth. I'll give you the lowdown. Let's

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just hope that she doesn't find the channel before then and realize what's going on and

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we'll see what's happening, bro. But anyways, let me know what y'all had to say. I wanted

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to put that put that out there. I left it a comment on one of my on the most recent

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show hinting at this and I wanted to really bring it out and show it to all of you. So

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we have a conversation about it and you let me know what you think I should do, whether

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you want me to do it, what the pitfalls I should look out for. If I do do it, let me

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know. I'd love to hear all of it. But my friends, I got to get back to work. I got a lot of

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things to get done today. The the roofing industry is rough. Man, I'll tell you dealing

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with insurance people dealing with sometimes difficult situations with homeowners. It's

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tough, man. But I don't want to vent to y'all. You're not my therapist. I'm not a weak guy.

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So we'll leave. We'll table that discussion for another time. But in the meantime, let

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me know what you have to think about your relationships in the past, whether you think

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my experiment should go forward. All those things I'd be here curious to know what you

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have to say. In the meantime, take care of yourselves. I'm out of here. I'll see you

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soon. Peace.