Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the sheep get sheared podcast. I'm your host, Austin
Creed. But for the know, it's been a couple of, actually, it's been like a week since
the last time the upload a lot's been going on. I've been trying to adjust the new job,
new location, all that kind of stuff. But we're not here to talk about excuses. You know,
you read the title, we're talking about why men get in relationships in the first place.
Now, this is an interesting discussion because a lot of people have their own reasons for
getting in relationships. But I want to focus on men in particular. And the reason why is
because a lot of men are checking out of relationships entirely and a lot of epinormies, people,
NPCs, they're like, why are men checking out? This is a crazy phenomenon. It's all because
of those equal migtail guys in the red hill. And it's all, it's all terrible. But here's
the thing. What is it that men want in relationships? Let's start there. Because in order to answer
the question of why men get in relationships with ask, well, what do people want in relationships?
Well, men usually want intimacy. That's number one. They also tend to want women who are
going to be an asset to them and not just another bill to pay. And if we look back in
the past, men wanted legacies, they wanted to be able to protect and provide. But they
also with that came a level of control. I don't control the dirty word. People are like,
Oh, control. Oh, it's so horrible. Oh, it's normal. It's like saying, it's like me going
to my body and saying, Hey, I want you to, um, per, I want you to protect my and provide
for my car while I'm gone. But you can't drive it. You can't move it. You can't do
anything to it. You just kind of, but you still have to protect and provide for you.
You can't have any control over it whatsoever. That'd be stupid, right? And I can hear people
in the comments, Austin, you're comparing women to cars. We're not objects. You're
missing the point. You are missing the point entirely. And in fact, this is why a lot of
men don't want to get in relationships just because of this exact attitude. We as men,
we want peace. We want quiet. We want to be able to get and take on the world. And we
don't want to be taking on a war on two fronts, meaning we fight with the one with our woman
and with the world. We don't want to do that. But a lot of dudes will settle for that because
they have no backbone and they've been taught through years of the public school, years,
maybe in the church, years of listening to relatives, mothers, fathers, grandparents,
aunts, uncles, cousins, whatever. And they've been told that this is all it's all it's
just part of the relationship. You got to get over it. You got to get over yourself.
You're taking yourself too seriously.
Gentlemen, let me tell you something. One of the things that men want that I found in
relationships. We want not discompanion ship, because such a such a cop out phrase. What
we want is we want someone to be an asset to us, help us build, but promise a lot of
women don't want to do that. You know what? And I don't blame them either, by the way.
I don't blame them. This is not kind of show where I sit here and tell you that men are
perfect and women are evil. That's not truth. There's his side, her side, and then there's
the truth. And when we want to talk about the truth, and if we want to really get to
the heart of the issue and not just vent, we need to see things from all sides, not
just one side. And to do that, we must not just give a cop out answer. And in the comments,
gentlemen, as we're talking about what men want in relationships, you're more than welcome
to leave what you look for in the comments below, because I think it's interesting that
a lot of men have a lot of similarities in what we want. And a lot of times we are shamed
for what we want in a relationship. We're not allowed to have preferences where we're
said, Oh, you're toxic. You're not a nice guy. You're you only want one thing. You've
heard all this garbage before, right? But I also think it's interesting that despite
a lot of labeling, whether it's red pill, purple pill, blue pill, whatever, a lot of
people, they still have this natural desire to pair up this natural desire to find somebody.
I think that that's natural. And I don't think it's evil. I don't think it's bad. But I've
talked about this before on the show. You need to vet people. You need to understand
what you can live with and what you can't. Well, you're willing to deal with and what
you won't. And you need to have a backbone first, number one. And if you're trying to
do anything more than just, you know, get some side chicks, you need to have a stream of
income. You need to have some kind of going for you. You can't just expect a woman's loyalty
to you and you're broke in your your insecure and you got all this stuff going on. And I'm
not taking their side. I'm being realistic here. It's not my job to tell you as a man
that you're enough because you were born with a schmendrick. That's not how this works.
That's not how this works. That's not how this works, my friends. What meant? What is
it that you think men want in relationships? I can speak about this for hours, because
at the end of the day, the problem is a lot of men are not getting what we want. We're
not getting women who are loyal to us. We're not getting women who want to be, you know,
build with us. We're not getting women who want anything more than to be another bill
for us. Hey, which, hey, you know what? If that's what you want, that's fine. But you're
nothing. The women who are like that are not different than just street workers. They're
not. The only difference is one's obvious and the other one's being less obvious. I
mean, one's in front of your face and the other one's behind your back. I mean, let's
just be real here. And my friends, I know that might sound harsh. I know that might,
you know, rub your little the wrong way, but you know what? The truth has a ring to it.
And if at any point, whether it is your first time listening to the show or you've listened
to every show that we've ever done, if you think I'm lying to you at any given point,
the unsubscribe button is right there. The mute this channel button is right there.
You don't have to listen to this. If you think we're lying to you in this community over
here, go ahead, go find somewhere where you think the truth is being spoken because at
the end of the day, the truth has a ring to it. I'll pass you about this stuff. I'm sick
and tired of seeing men waste their whole life chasing after women who don't care about
them. I'm sick and tired of dudes ruining the dating marketplace, women ruining the
dating marketplace. I'm sick of it all. It's not just one side. One side, just a lot more
obvious than the other one. Number one and number two, most women have more options
than most men in the system. One on one level of reality check, but the women will only
see about the top five to 10 percent of men, maybe 20 percent of them are a bottom feeder,
and they don't have any, you know, they have less options. And they think that all of us
are like that when it's not true. My friends, I want to pay you here for a second because
I want to tell you something. I'm actually considering conducting an experiment. And
what do you what do I mean by experiment? Well, what I mean is I'm considering getting
in a relationship to then document it for you guys and explain to you in real time
how it's going, how the hypergamy is showing up, how the monkey branching may or may not
be kicking in all these types of things. I want to be able to show it to you and give
you those infield receipts in real time, because I think it's something that a lot of guys
will talk about after the fact, but not during when it's happening to them. They're not
seeing it. I'm thinking about doing that. I'm also considering really diving in depth
on this because I want to show you guys as a I'm a younger guy. I'm 24. What it's like
out here for us. They did a marketplace and what you might be dealing with, what you might
encounter and how work and how I get around it. And then you can talk about whether you
want to deal with. I think it's an interesting idea. I mean, why else talk about why men
get in relationships with I'm not. I've haven't been in one a long time and I don't want to
be disingenuous and just give you a cop out answer. I think it's a good idea. And I'm
curious what you all have to think, what you all have to say. I think it's an interesting
experiment and worthwhile idea. So if you think it's a good idea, let me know because
I'm more than happy to do it. Well, and we could see how it would all go down because
I can guarantee you big for some very interesting content of that you can be sure. I have no
idea what would happen, but what I can gather it'd be very interesting and I haven't been
in a relationship in a while. I haven't wanted to. And I don't want people to be like, Oh,
it's because you don't have options. Austin, you can't get chicks. Okay, bro. Okay. Yeah,
sure. Have you believed that again, you're more than welcome to say, Oh, I don't know
what I'm talking about. Go ahead. Or anybody else in who loves the show who listens to the
show. They don't know what they're talking about, even though I know guys who've gotten
divorced on this channel, guys who've gotten their kids taken from them. Oh, yeah, it's
a real thing. It's not just on social media. It happens to real people. And so when we talk
about men and women relationships, we take on a significant amount of risk being in a
relationship. Significant. It ranges from false allegations to child support to dealing
with the police to ruining our reputation. I mean, to dealing with emotional garbage
and paying and losing money, all these things. But I'm here. I'm willing to put myself out
there and let you guys know in real time how it's shaking out so that maybe you can learn
or if you're a younger guy or even an older guy who's your outer relationships, you haven't
been in one a long time and you want to instead of dealing with it yourself, you want to have
a guy like me deal with that and you can hear all the tea. You can kind of see the train
wreck happening in real time. So to speak, if that happens, which statistically it does.
Let me know. I'm I'm willing to do it. So let me know what you want. Just let me know.
I'm curious to hear what you have to say, because I think it's an interesting idea and
I don't know anybody else who's doing it. And I'm not. I wouldn't just do it for content.
I would do it to be like, Hey, you know what? Maybe we're wrong, guys. Maybe we as men were
wrong because, you know, a lot of us are toxically masculine and we have all these ideas and,
you know, they could be very hurtful to a lot of people, especially to women. And I
think that we really need to put ourselves out there and stop being so bitter and hurt.
Oh, man. But I think it'd be interesting. I really think that if I decided to do that
and y'all want me to, then I'm going to document it and talk about in real time how it's going,
why it's going a certain direction, how to handle it based on what you want to do, when
to cut bait, when not to cut bait. I think it's an interesting idea because the end
of the day, it's like someone saying I'm a bodybuilder, you know, they've never been
in a bodybuilding competition. I can't claim to be some relationship guru know it all.
If I don't go into relationships myself and in it goes to show why I'm going my own way
and why a lot of other men go their own ways to show in a relationship why men are choosing
to go their own way. A lot of men will talk about it after the fact, which is good, but
a lot of times they won't talk about it during the fact. They won't document it when it's
happening. They'll only talk about it after it's already happened. And I wanted to change
that. Let's do some groundbreaking journalism, gentlemen. Let's do it. I'm really open to
doing it. I say we do it. Give you guys the in depth. I'll give you the lowdown. Let's
just hope that she doesn't find the channel before then and realize what's going on and
we'll see what's happening, bro. But anyways, let me know what y'all had to say. I wanted
to put that put that out there. I left it a comment on one of my on the most recent
show hinting at this and I wanted to really bring it out and show it to all of you. So
we have a conversation about it and you let me know what you think I should do, whether
you want me to do it, what the pitfalls I should look out for. If I do do it, let me
know. I'd love to hear all of it. But my friends, I got to get back to work. I got a lot of
things to get done today. The the roofing industry is rough. Man, I'll tell you dealing
with insurance people dealing with sometimes difficult situations with homeowners. It's
tough, man. But I don't want to vent to y'all. You're not my therapist. I'm not a weak guy.
So we'll leave. We'll table that discussion for another time. But in the meantime, let
me know what you have to think about your relationships in the past, whether you think
my experiment should go forward. All those things I'd be here curious to know what you
have to say. In the meantime, take care of yourselves. I'm out of here. I'll see you
soon. Peace.