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Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Sheep Get Sheer podcast. I'm your host Austin

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Creighton, my friends, before we get into the meat and potatoes of the show

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today, first thing I want to tell you all is number one, my car got broken into over

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the weekend so if the sound sounds weird it's because I'm getting a new mic for

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when I'm going around town and I don't have time to be at my setup which is

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becoming more and more frequent. So if the sound sounds a little different it's

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because someone stole my microphone when they broke into my car like two days

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ago. Anyways, oh man I got stories y'all. I don't want this to become like a

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story channel. That's not really what I normally do but I tell the stories not to

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show you that I'm some adventurer and I'm so cool and whatnot. No, I'm not a lot

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of jerk like that. No, I mean I told you stories to show y'all why I came up with

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the biblical bachelor lifestyle. Why I believe in being a intellectual nomad.

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Why I talk about the things we talk about on the show and why people love

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listening to the show. The reason is because it's there's realness in these

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stories. I'm not talking about these fake TikTok stories that these women and

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these dudes tell that's like there is no way. You took some plot of some movie and

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you put yourself in there with a bunch of made-up names and you thought oh this

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sounds like a good idea let's make this up. I got receipts on

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everything and if anybody wants me to show my text messages they want me to

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show timestamps I could do all that. I don't make this up. But over the weekend

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I was hanging out with Rachel again over the weekend. Those of you don't know

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what I'm talking about. Rachel's the girl that I've been hanging out with for the

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last couple weeks. She's very territorial over me. She doesn't like when other

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girls talk to me. She doesn't like it when I show her that I got options and I

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don't go out of my way to be a jackass because I don't see a point in just

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being a jackass for no reason. But other girls they approached me they look at me

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in the gym they do all this shit not because I'm some alpha or whatever but

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because that's just the way my life goes. And I was hanging out with her this

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weekend. Yo man. Tell me why when I'm hanging out with her over the weekend

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she just she she dropped the fact that she loved me and I was like oh um you know

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that's a little gun a cuckoo for cocoa puffs I know yo I know what y'all gonna

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say. Hold on hold on don't don't don't type yet don't say anything don't don't

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hold on I'm not done. Over the weekend so she comes over to my place she lives a

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little bit away so she stays for a couple days and it's so hilarious we go we go

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first of all we went to the shooting range that was really fun she could

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actually shoot a gun pretty well but what's so weird guys and if any of you

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all have had a girlfriend or a wife you know what I'm gonna say when you are

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around a woman for a couple days like she sleeps in your bed she's hanging out

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with you you get food for her all this stuff the more you hang out with a woman

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the less you get back there's like a point of diminishing returns there's a

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there's a certain point where the more you do the less you get you know I've

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been in the situation before where the more you do the less you get in return

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like the more you try to do that the more you try to give the more you try to

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be nice the more you try to do stuff the less you're getting back in return

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which I already knew that but I was testing it just to see how I what point

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stuff changed because I wanted to experiment this for me I don't want some

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of you all expressed concern for me and I appreciate y'all brothers for for

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showing concern for me I really do just know this is not my first rodeo this is

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just the first time that I'm actually showing y'all what behind the scenes

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what it is I'm doing because I don't want this to be another show where oh I

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just brag on women and women are no good and men are gray and the divorce laws

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suck like yeah we'll talk about those things they're important but I want to

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talk more about what women don't want you to know and what a lot of us don't

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find out to later in life we weren't high school we were in college or outside

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college not all of us get to see behind the curtain of the game the games

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unfolding on the stage and we're in the audience sometimes we get called up and

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we're in the game we don't get the peak behind the curtain to see what the

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friends are saying to see what the family is saying to see what she's saying

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to see where the X is oh yeah all those things we don't find out about it

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usually after the relationships over when we hear about it no I'm doing this

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because I want to show y'all what it is that women want you to do to keep you

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in the loop and to go back to the plantation that is most relationships

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today there are some relationships very few and I don't I say this not the

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pander I say this because there are relationships that are outside the norm

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that are healthier and are not as toxic as most relationships but the reason I

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point them out is to prove the rule not to get you a shoot to be some miracle

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unicorn couple that's not what I want you to do because that's just not these

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are all it's not feasible for you to do that if you do that you're trying to aim

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for the 1% of the 1% you're trying to shoot for something that's just not

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realistic and even if you're married and you're listening to the show

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understand that you could you should still be alpha in your relationship you

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should still be the leader in your relationship don't think that the game

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is over because you're married enough the game just changed a chapter you're

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playing a different game you're playing a different level of the same game and if

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you think I'm making this up well okay you can feel free not to listen but when

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I'm telling you the story of I'm simulating this when I'm hanging out

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with Rachel I'm getting their lunch breakfast dinner all the stuff I'm

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basically almost semi-living with this chick for the weekend now I'm not gonna

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move in with this girl I'm not gonna marry this woman I don't plan on doing

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any of those things you know why because that doesn't work at least not for me

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doesn't work not a good idea the more you entertain go stuff the more you risk

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getting completely screwed over now the reason that I bring this up is because

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men you understand how to speak a woman's language this is discussed in the

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manipulated man by Esther V. Log fantastic book I recommend you listen to it

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or read it only if you are ready to hear the truth in a way that's gonna change

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your life forever if you're ready for that read that book when I talk about

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speaking the language of women I mean you need to hear what they say and

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understand there are layers to what they said for example oh I can't believe I'm

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gonna tell you all this but I'm gonna do it anyway I was hanging out with Rachel

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yesterday I dropped her off yesterday I was like I need to get away I need to go

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back to my normal life I can't handle this shit no more I need to be alone for

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at least a week if not more she was like oh you have boyfriend dick and I was

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like what and she's like oh no that's a compliment and I'm like no it's not no

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it's not I was like oh fuck I need to step my game I was like and what dimension

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is that a compliment I was like oh yeah oh y'all can make fun of me if you want

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go ahead it's up to you you can tell me it's all good it's part of the game it's

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part of the game it's one of those things where I'm like I would rather be I

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don't see is that a compliment to anybody what do you think do you think

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it's a compliment I don't I think that you're I rather you just have said oh

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you don't get my pussy wet I'd rather you just said that because that seems like

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a bad thing to say even though I know it to be factually incorrect like you don't

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have to believe me but I'll tell you right now that's that thing ain't never

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dry what I'm you know when I'm going in there just so you know so that's but

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that was a thing of three off I was like wait a minute what does that supposed to

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mean because like I was thrown by that I was like that is not a compliment I know

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you're phrasing it like it is but it's not and so I was thinking myself I'm

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like I'm doing too damn much now keep in mind her friends hate me because I've

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openly told her oh yeah I got other girls on the roster I see them on the

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regular she got mad about that her friends got mad about that and I was like

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look if you want to get mad stay mad I don't care but gentlemen the more you

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hang out with the woman the more she's gonna expect things from you I know some

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of you have been married or you are married and you know exactly what I'm

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talking about but you can't give up leverage that's the point I want you to

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know when they tell you oh I want to be monogamous oh I really want you to just

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I don't want to share you ever heard that one before I don't want to share she

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uses that all the time and I say I say to myself then why is it whenever other

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girls check me out and you're with me you'll grab my hand tighter you'll

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you'll hug me or you'll give me a kiss on the cheek like you'll do these things

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when other women check me out I know it I see it but yeah you just won't mean to

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yourself but yet you like it when other women are checking me out when your

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friend told you that I looked so I look like an AI generated guy I look that

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good I'm not making this up as she said that to me yesterday her friend told me

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that yesterday her other friend told me that she was single she would have sex

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with me and I'm thinking myself bro everything that women accuse us of as

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men it's the other way around they call us men always dirty dogs always think

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about as one thing yeah all they think about is one thing monopolizing you

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they want how all your attention your resources your money your time your

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energy all that they want all of it they don't want anybody else to get

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anything and gentlemen when that's why I'm telling you you need to understand the

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language of women you need to do these infield tests I know guys who are quote

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red pill but they don't interact with women very much and I think to myself

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that's like saying I practice a really I think saying I'm a Christian but I don't

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read the Bible I don't go to church I don't believe in Jesus it's like wait a

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minute what but what sense does that make none but you need to you need to

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test these things the way I do or the very least you could say hey Austin I

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appreciate you sharing these infield burses even if they're embarrassing

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because that's what that's what I want to be doing from now on

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alongside the normal programming that we have because I'm gonna be moving here

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in about a week and a half going to a different state and so it's gonna be on

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a lot more time especially on my road trip but probably just doing more road

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rants and I'll talk more about different topics throughout my what 20 hour

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drive so be prepared for that I think in the coming weeks but my friends when it

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comes down to it more of us need to compare notes because at the end of the

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day we can get on the same page with principles but if you're not out here in

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the field you're not out here testing these theories how you're putting your

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belief system to the test I'm not gonna take a single word you say seriously

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you're repeating to yours gonna repeat talking points from 2016 it's from 2015

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2020 and think that you're you're in the know you know you're talking about no

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my friends the dining marketplace is always adapting always changing and you

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need to be on the front line so that you can share experiences like I do and I

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have been and let me tell you something do not validate the woman too much I

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don't care if you're even married to her make her work for your validation make

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her work for you saying yeah you know you know you look decent in that dress or

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yeah you know you you could look back you always keep them on their toes because

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most dudes are sips and they will validate their woman immediately all girl

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you look so good or damn babe you look great don't say those things I've been

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saying for for example when I talked to Rachel and she's like oh do I look good

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in this or oh do I look good in that or whatever I tell her I always say something

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so what good and then give constructive criticism right afterwards I'd be like

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for example she's like oh I look good in this dress I'd be like well you know you

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look better in these leggings instead I'll say something like that or you know

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it would look good if it weren't for you know your hair is all messed up like I

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say something like that not to be a dick but to say it because it's true I'm not

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gonna say here and just say oh you're beautiful and all you're this or you're

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that no I'm gonna tell you the way it is and men if you think the women are gonna

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have despise you for that no no they honestly respect you more for it because

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you're honest you're not just sitting there telling them what they want to

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hear being like a programmed NPC you remember y'all ever played like RPGs

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like Skyrim or Elden Ring or all these other games where you talk to the NPC

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and after you exhaust their dialogue they just say the same thing over and

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over and repeat every time you talk to them that's what a lot of men are like

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they run out of things to say so they just start flattering the woman they

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just start saying things that they think they want to hear they don't actually

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mean them don't be that guy don't be that guy because that guy sucks that guy's

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uninteresting and boring gentlemen I'm happy to share more of these stories I

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have plenty of them as time goes on I'm putting myself in situations that I

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normally wouldn't put myself in because I want to use them a for content and B

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to get the point across as to why I say don't get married if you're not married

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because it's just a huge risk you're already married I recommend you make it

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work but if you're not married don't just get married because you think you

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should if anything you should make it strategic like the politicians do you

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ever wonder why a lot of politicians like the Clintons the Obamas the true you

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know why do you think they don't get me why do they don't get divorced like that

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answer because they didn't marry for love they're not stupid they don't marry for

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love very new concept by the way my friends if you want to hear more about

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the story I'm happy to tell you more about this weekend but the main theme I

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got from this weekend that I wanted to share with you is a the law of

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diminishing returns and be you need to understand that women talking away that

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makes it seem like you're there saying something good but in fact they're

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saying something bad they're insulting you or they're saying something that

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sounds good but it's actually bad or it's constructive so be aware of that my

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friends take care of yourselves prepare for more stories in the future as this

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train wreck pulls into the station I'm curious how this plays out my friends

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take care of yourselves I'm out of here take care peace out