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Ladies and gentlemen, welcome back to the sheep cashier podcast.

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I'm your host, Austin Creed.

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Today, my friends, we're going to return to monogamy.

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We're going to jump right in.

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Now, the reason I want to talk about monogamy is I'm sick and tired of myths being pushed

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out about monogamy.

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For example, the biggest one running out here is from the church.

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That's number one.

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I will not mention names because a lot of these people I know in real life, so I will

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not mention names.

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But what I will tell you is monogamy is one of these things that sounds good on paper

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and it might have worked.

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Oh, I don't know.

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Back in days when humans live to about 45, 50 on our like 50 was like 90 today.

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When humans didn't live very long, it worked better than it does now.

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You might wonder why marriage rates are the way they are.

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You might be curious as to why are we degenerated so quickly?

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Why is it that men and women can't seem to get along anymore?

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Why is it that the family court system has been completely messed up and is not the point

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where it's at?

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Well, I use the term the poignant term the long march.

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I use that term for a reason because we are on the long march on the reactionary phase

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we're currently in.

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And yet make no mistake, we are in a reactionary phase of human history for a very long time.

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Men were in charge of everything and arguably we still are.

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But the strong rule of the week or better or for worse.

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And we knew what it was.

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There was a king.

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There was a council.

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There was a democracy like in Greece that was set up in a way where people knew people

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who had voted had skin in the game.

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And that is not the case anymore.

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You want to sit here and tell me that people have skin in the game today when in a lot

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of ways they don't have skin in the game.

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Might be asking for an example.

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Okay, I'll give you an example.

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I'm for example, I hate to pick on the ladies, but I got to pick on the ladies for a second.

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Ladies, you all don't have skin in the game when it comes to matters of national security,

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when it comes to the military, because you do not have a select service number.

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You will not be drafted if and when the time arises to we fight.

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I don't know.

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China, China, Russia, India.

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You won't have North Korea.

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You won't have to go fight.

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You are not volunteered to go serve us.

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We are, which is why you don't have skin in the game when it comes to matters like that.

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No, I'm not telling you, you don't have a right to an opinion.

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Everybody has a right to an opinion.

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I now understood this idea of like, oh, it comes to abortion.

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If you don't have a vagina, you get no opinion.

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Oh, oh, is that how that works?

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Okay.

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How about no select the service number?

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No opinion on foreign affairs.

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How about we do that?

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Oh, oh, you can do that.

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That's discrimination.

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That's messed up.

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Oh, really?

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And what you said is it?

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That's one of the reasons why people get triggered when JD Vance talks about the cat, the child,

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childless cat ladies, which was pretty funny line, by the way.

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But people get mad.

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Oh, oh dear.

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You say that.

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And while you look at the teachers, the administrators, the lobbyists and everybody who works in a

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lot of people work in the school education system, a lot of them have no kids and are

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not traditional individuals when it comes to lifestyle.

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I'm being PG about it, but I could be a lot more vulgar, but I won't do it because it's

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not necessary.

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When I say alternative lifestyles, I think you know what I'm talking about and what I'm

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referring to?

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You know, the people with the clipped hair, the people with the rainbow flags in their

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classroom, the people who talk about all colonialism is this and love is love and blah, blah.

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You know, people who use the positive language to poison your mind and to put you in mental

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prison.

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Yeah, those people.

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Well, let's go back to monogamy for a second.

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You want to see here and tell me that monogamy as a system works today?

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Now, I'm not going to see here.

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I'm not telling you marriage does not work as there are people who I know, including

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my parents, God bless them who are married and I've been for years.

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Now let's make one very important distinction and I want to make this very clear.

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Marriage can work, but in most cases, it doesn't.

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Number one and number two, for those who make it work, it requires tremendous personal

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sacrifice and tremendous risk.

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As at any point, the other shoe could drop or at any point, the rug can be pulled.

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Now is it going to guarantee that said thing will happen?

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No.

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But guess what?

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There are a lot of people in the statistics bear this out, whether it raises from 50 percent

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to 80 percent.

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These statistics are high.

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It should not be above five to 10 percent.

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What the five to 10 percent being people who had not a why am I blinking on this fucking

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six in the morning?

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Why am I blinking on this?

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It can't be for a.

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It's for a reason that divorce happens for a reason.

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It's not a just all we got divorced for no reason.

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I'm somebody who might mean the goddamn comment section.

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I'm going to I'm mad at myself.

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I can't think yet.

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I'm driving to the gym.

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I'm I'm blinking on no fault divorce.

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Thank you all my land.

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Why was that so hard to remember?

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Anyways, and when I think about no fault, there was no no no no fault divorce.

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The fault divorce would probably be about five to 10 percent, and it would need to be proven

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with documentation, not this.

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He said she said garbage, which is where the entire world is gone to.

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Just look at what happened with the movement of oh, he touched me.

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He did this.

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He did that.

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Look at Johnny Depp.

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Look at Trevor Bauer.

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Look at all these men who get out here and they get accused of things they didn't do.

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And as soon as the accusation hit the headlines, you are a guilty individual, regardless of

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whether you did or not.

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The people who don't like you will believe it.

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And the people who are normies are probably going to believe it because who believes men?

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After all, we're all filthy lying sons of bitches, you know, we don't believe we don't

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tell the truth.

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You have a penis.

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You can't tell the truth.

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No, no, that requires a vagina apparently to tell the truth.

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Oh my God.

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Anyway, sorry, guys, it's early in the morning for me going to the gym.

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Just trying to.

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I'm talking to you the way I would talk to you if you were in the thousands you see

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in my car right now when you were just talking about life, about relationships and whatnot.

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And, you know, one thing I really wish the church did a better job and I grew up in the

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church and I'm not just some guy who went to church one time and has all this stuff

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to say, no, I grew up in the church.

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Another thing that church needs to do a better job of is if they're going to criticize, for

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example, educators or people who are the LGBTQ variety, then they need to not be a super

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repressive community.

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They need to understand that people have questions and young people have hormones that go cuckoo

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bananas and they need to step it up.

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They need to address sex, they need to address gender, they need to address these things

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and not just say use the whole, oh, if I don't say nothing, then they won't think anything

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about it.

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No, my friends, that doesn't work in the same way that marriage, if we just say, oh, we

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don't tell them all the bad stuff about marriage or all the sacrifices or all of the risk and

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all of the realities of life that come with the so-called love that we talk about day and

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night, then if nothing bad will happen because we don't tell anybody.

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No, my friends, that's what's caused the decrease in monogamy along with the family

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court system and the fact that people feel disenfranchised, both men and women, I would

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argue have been disenfranchised.

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But men in particular, because we now live in a society where we went from men run everything

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to men have basically no rights unless they do X, Y or Z or they're not a real man unless

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they do at Y, Z and A. You are not blank if you don't do this for a break.

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Instead of, hey, it would be wise if you learn this because this will make you a better business

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man and this will make you a more likeable person who is more likely to get better business,

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stuff like that.

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That is a better course of action, but let's return to monogamy before I go in the gym

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here and meet my buddy for a workout.

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When it comes down to it, a lot of people.

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They are not.

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They're not telling you the truth about what it's like out here in these streets.

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First of all, marriage is going the way the dinosaur for most people and you could cite

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any reasons, including the ones I've discussed or ones that you think are not being discussed

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that should be discussed, which we can totally do at another time.

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But when it comes down to it, my friends, marriage is going the way the data sore.

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Men.

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We are feeling disenfranchised more than ever.

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The marriage system is basically turned into a giant penis tax.

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And so I got to ask you, do you still believe that a monogamy can still exist?

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And when I say monogamy, I want to define this very clearly for you so we're not getting

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wires crossed.

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Here's what I think monogamy is.

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Monogamy is you have had one sexual partner for your entire life.

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Mono means one.

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Not one here and there.

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And then I settled down.

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And I'm talking about both the man and the woman, one partner, one sexual lover for

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their entire life.

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No comparing it to somebody else.

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No wishing you were had somebody else still and picturing them while you're in bed.

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None of that.

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And I'm not going to say here and say that I'm hardly and all y'all are dirty because

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I'm not.

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I'm not some holy guy who has all the answers who's right about everything.

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I know I'm a fallible man.

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But I'm a fallible man who's asking the following questions.

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Do you believe in this in an anonymous system?

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You think that we have been lied to and how would you fix the problem if there is a solution

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that doesn't just completely shut people out?

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Because I could fix a problem.

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But you have to give me absolute control and most people were never going to do that as

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I would never expect them to.

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But when I look at the fact that a lot of men are becoming more effeminate and women

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are becoming more masculine and being rewarded for it, it's not a surprise though.

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When guys like me who are more shark like than guppy like enter the dating marketplace,

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dudes get mad, women get wet.

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And I'm like, I'm not doing my hornier guys.

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I'm telling you the way it is.

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You know, I can catch my story about what happened the other like last weekend.

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Go catch that show called She's Never Yours.

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Listen to that show.

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Listen to my story about how I've about my threesome with two other girls.

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I'm not making this up guys.

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I'm out here in these streets actively getting time in.

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And I know say that to brag to you.

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I want to brag I'd be out here showing all this.

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Oh, I'm doing this and I'm doing that.

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Well, I do it to just show you that I'm not just spewing hot air on this little corner

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of the Internet.

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We're trying to figure out a way to make life work.

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We're trying to figure out ways to make ourselves better men without compromising values and

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without putting ourselves in a vulnerable and weak position.

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We want leverage.

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Leverage gives us opportunity.

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Opportunity can help us blaze a trail to the life that we want, not for free, not something

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that's going to come easy, but something that's going to be worthwhile.

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Discovering the complexities of the universe, trying to understand why we are the way we

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are, why we do the things that we do and how we ended up in the situations we ended up

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in with the habits that we possess.

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These are all important things that are overlooked.

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Because we want to be liked because we want people to think a certain way about us or

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we want people to feel a certain way about us.

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I say, forget that.

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That's not going to help you.

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All I'm going to do is make you subservient to the opinions which are going to be fleeting

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at best to others.

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My friends, what are your opinions about monogamy?

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Do you think it still exists today?

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Certain corners of the world?

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Or do you think that polygamy is better?

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Do you think that polyamory is better?

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What is your opinion?

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How do we detach this from religion or from stigmas and have a rational discussion?

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Because we need to have that.

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I don't want to have a dogmatic discussion.

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I want to have an exchange of free ideas.

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My friends, you say, carry yourselves.

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I got to get out of here and go to the gym.

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Let me know what you think.

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Please leave it in the comments.

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I want to hear about it.

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You might find you're not as alone as you think you are.

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My friends, I'm out of here.

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Take care.

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Peace.