1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:05,740 Oh man guys, I got a great story for you all today, but what's going on? 2 00:00:05,740 --> 00:00:08,340 This is the Sheep You Cheered podcast, my friends. 3 00:00:08,340 --> 00:00:09,340 Welcome to the show. 4 00:00:09,340 --> 00:00:11,700 I'm your host, Austin Creed. 5 00:00:11,700 --> 00:00:14,020 My friends, I'm attiling the show. 6 00:00:14,020 --> 00:00:15,020 She's never yours. 7 00:00:15,020 --> 00:00:17,940 You want to know why I say that? 8 00:00:17,940 --> 00:00:21,500 Not because I'd gotten done seriously bad or anything like that. 9 00:00:21,500 --> 00:00:25,540 That's not the point of the show today, because I honestly, I haven't. 10 00:00:25,540 --> 00:00:26,540 I'm just observant. 11 00:00:26,540 --> 00:00:32,700 So first, I want to give you all those backdrops on why I decided to do the show. 12 00:00:32,700 --> 00:00:37,380 First of all, if you are not out here and getting receipts and out here in the field, 13 00:00:37,380 --> 00:00:44,780 I don't know how easy it is to hop on YouTube, hop on Rumble, hop on X and just read and 14 00:00:44,780 --> 00:00:50,380 consume other people's stories, other people's experiences when it comes to dating, when 15 00:00:50,380 --> 00:00:55,580 it comes to money, when it comes to traveling, when it comes to experiencing these different 16 00:00:55,580 --> 00:01:02,180 avenues of life, I understand how easy it is to live by proxy and not live by personal 17 00:01:02,180 --> 00:01:03,180 experience. 18 00:01:03,180 --> 00:01:07,140 And I'm not saying you base everything off of your anecdotal evidence. 19 00:01:07,140 --> 00:01:12,940 I'm saying you need to prove to yourself whether or not what you believe works in the 20 00:01:12,940 --> 00:01:13,940 real world. 21 00:01:13,940 --> 00:01:18,780 If you think I write books like the biblical bachelor and I just sit back in my ivory tower 22 00:01:18,780 --> 00:01:22,540 in my room and don't do shit, you're wrong. 23 00:01:22,540 --> 00:01:25,980 I've traveled all kinds of places and I'm going to continue to travel because that's 24 00:01:25,980 --> 00:01:28,900 part of my job. 25 00:01:28,900 --> 00:01:34,660 What makes no sense to me are guys who don't practice what they preach and who don't put 26 00:01:34,660 --> 00:01:38,100 their belief systems to the test. 27 00:01:38,100 --> 00:01:40,300 You might ask, well, what does that have to do with the story? 28 00:01:40,300 --> 00:01:41,900 Well, I'm glad you asked. 29 00:01:41,900 --> 00:01:48,140 See, the story is I was hanging out with with this girl that I'm talking to all weekend. 30 00:01:48,140 --> 00:01:49,620 She she doesn't live. 31 00:01:49,620 --> 00:01:54,460 She's like right next door to me, she lives like 30 something minutes away. 32 00:01:54,460 --> 00:01:56,100 So I decided, you know what? 33 00:01:56,100 --> 00:01:58,780 We're going to go to this concert. 34 00:01:58,780 --> 00:02:02,660 So we decided to hang out this weekend. 35 00:02:02,660 --> 00:02:06,620 And keep in mind, I'm usually on my head to the grindstone. 36 00:02:06,620 --> 00:02:12,260 I'm usually working, sending emails, make phone calls, working on the show, etc. 37 00:02:12,260 --> 00:02:17,060 I'm not usually doing this type of stuff because I just don't care enough to do it. 38 00:02:17,060 --> 00:02:21,420 But I said, you know what, we're going to put my belief system to the test. 39 00:02:21,420 --> 00:02:25,100 We're going to see if what I wrote about the biblical bachelor about going your own 40 00:02:25,100 --> 00:02:27,580 way, finding your own personal philosophy. 41 00:02:27,580 --> 00:02:31,980 And I was going to test my belief system and say, you know what? 42 00:02:31,980 --> 00:02:34,780 I need to get my reality checked. 43 00:02:34,780 --> 00:02:35,780 Maybe I'm wrong. 44 00:02:35,780 --> 00:02:38,540 In fact, I said, you know what? 45 00:02:38,540 --> 00:02:39,540 Maybe I'm wrong. 46 00:02:39,540 --> 00:02:42,660 Maybe I need to go out there and I need to find love. 47 00:02:42,660 --> 00:02:47,500 Maybe I need to go out there and improve myself wrong. 48 00:02:47,500 --> 00:02:51,100 Well in reality, I prove myself right. 49 00:02:51,100 --> 00:02:52,100 But I'll get there eventually. 50 00:02:52,100 --> 00:02:54,540 I'm hanging out with this woman. 51 00:02:54,540 --> 00:02:58,300 We'll call her Rachel. 52 00:02:58,300 --> 00:03:05,180 I'm hanging out with Rachel and as we're hanging out first off the rip, the sex is pretty good. 53 00:03:05,180 --> 00:03:08,300 I'll mention straight up. 54 00:03:08,300 --> 00:03:12,780 If that is graphic or uncomfortable for you, I don't know what to tell you. 55 00:03:12,780 --> 00:03:14,340 It's just the reality. 56 00:03:14,340 --> 00:03:19,140 But anyways, what happened was we were hanging out. 57 00:03:19,140 --> 00:03:23,780 I had to spend so much time and energy. 58 00:03:23,780 --> 00:03:25,100 Shout out to coach Greg Adams. 59 00:03:25,100 --> 00:03:27,580 He came up with this analogy called meat. 60 00:03:27,580 --> 00:03:30,060 Your money, energy, attention and time. 61 00:03:30,060 --> 00:03:33,700 You know how much meat I spent on this woman all weekend? 62 00:03:33,700 --> 00:03:34,700 A lot. 63 00:03:34,700 --> 00:03:35,700 Okay. 64 00:03:35,700 --> 00:03:37,660 I spent a lot of money. 65 00:03:37,660 --> 00:03:42,940 Not like thousands and thousands of bucks, but I definitely spent a couple hundred bucks. 66 00:03:42,940 --> 00:03:43,980 And we went to the. 67 00:03:43,980 --> 00:03:45,660 I showed her the gym I go to. 68 00:03:45,660 --> 00:03:48,180 We were hanging out and I've noticed one for a little bit. 69 00:03:48,180 --> 00:03:49,940 She's not just some random random woman. 70 00:03:49,940 --> 00:03:52,380 I met on like Tinder yesterday. 71 00:03:52,380 --> 00:03:53,380 Okay. 72 00:03:53,380 --> 00:03:57,820 But what matters is I spend all my time, energy and time. 73 00:03:57,820 --> 00:03:59,060 I put myself to the test. 74 00:03:59,060 --> 00:04:01,700 I said, I know what's going to happen. 75 00:04:01,700 --> 00:04:06,820 As I do this, I know that I'm going to reach a point of diminishing returns. 76 00:04:06,820 --> 00:04:09,340 Before I do the lesson, I'm going to get. 77 00:04:09,340 --> 00:04:12,700 Now keep in mind, I'm not acting like a total sip. 78 00:04:12,700 --> 00:04:13,700 Okay. 79 00:04:13,700 --> 00:04:15,380 I, I make jokes. 80 00:04:15,380 --> 00:04:16,380 I don't put on a pedestal. 81 00:04:16,380 --> 00:04:17,780 I don't do any of that stuff. 82 00:04:17,780 --> 00:04:19,900 I'm not going now far in this experiment. 83 00:04:19,900 --> 00:04:25,540 And as I'm doing this, I'm riding in the car when they're to the gym. 84 00:04:25,540 --> 00:04:32,980 And as I'm riding, I, there is this like nice BMW series that drives by. 85 00:04:32,980 --> 00:04:40,420 Then immediately she just goes, she goes nuts and she's like, Oh my God, I love BMWs. 86 00:04:40,420 --> 00:04:41,420 They're so cool. 87 00:04:41,420 --> 00:04:43,620 Oh, you know, the rooms are so cool. 88 00:04:43,620 --> 00:04:44,620 They make me all wet. 89 00:04:44,620 --> 00:04:47,620 I was like, what? 90 00:04:47,620 --> 00:04:50,620 Like she's sitting in my fucking passenger seat. 91 00:04:50,620 --> 00:04:57,260 I was just saying this and I'm like, well, um, there's a hypergamy check in case I wanted 92 00:04:57,260 --> 00:04:58,260 to know it. 93 00:04:58,260 --> 00:04:59,260 Uh, there it is. 94 00:04:59,260 --> 00:05:02,460 I'm just sitting here in my head. 95 00:05:02,460 --> 00:05:06,660 The others in the inside out movie, the new one, where they have all the different emotions 96 00:05:06,660 --> 00:05:09,820 in their head and they're like all talking. 97 00:05:09,820 --> 00:05:15,380 And then when that's what it's like in my brain, I was like, well, there's a hypergamy. 98 00:05:15,380 --> 00:05:19,140 Oh, there's the, um, there's a hypergamy there. 99 00:05:19,140 --> 00:05:20,300 There's the red pill there. 100 00:05:20,300 --> 00:05:21,420 I need to swallow that. 101 00:05:21,420 --> 00:05:22,780 I'll take that red pill. 102 00:05:22,780 --> 00:05:23,780 Take that one. 103 00:05:23,780 --> 00:05:25,380 I'll take, I was just sitting there. 104 00:05:25,380 --> 00:05:26,900 I was like, okay. 105 00:05:26,900 --> 00:05:27,900 Yep. 106 00:05:27,900 --> 00:05:30,780 I'm being proven right right here. 107 00:05:30,780 --> 00:05:33,180 The shit testing was real. 108 00:05:33,180 --> 00:05:37,260 I can personally tell you guys that you might ask me what the shit test a shit test is when 109 00:05:37,260 --> 00:05:42,460 women will ask you to do stupid things to try to see if they can get you to do it. 110 00:05:42,460 --> 00:05:46,380 For example, let's say if you're sitting on the couch, right? 111 00:05:46,380 --> 00:05:48,300 And her phone's over on the counter. 112 00:05:48,300 --> 00:05:52,100 Instead of going and getting in her cell, she'll ask you to do it. 113 00:05:52,100 --> 00:05:56,500 Or say the other is hanging out and she's like, hey, I'm thirsty. 114 00:05:56,500 --> 00:06:01,580 Go go go go grab me a soda from the quarter store down the street. 115 00:06:01,580 --> 00:06:04,740 That's a shit test. 116 00:06:04,740 --> 00:06:08,700 Or that shit test basically her getting you to do something to see if you're going to 117 00:06:08,700 --> 00:06:10,220 do it. 118 00:06:10,220 --> 00:06:12,500 She gave me at least three of those. 119 00:06:12,500 --> 00:06:14,860 Now keep in mind, she's not a bad looking woman. 120 00:06:14,860 --> 00:06:16,420 She's not an annoying individual. 121 00:06:16,420 --> 00:06:22,820 I dare you, these are the things I pick up on because I know to look there are men, thousands 122 00:06:22,820 --> 00:06:28,260 of millions of men who in this exact situation, they would be like, oh, I'm just being a 123 00:06:28,260 --> 00:06:29,260 good guy. 124 00:06:29,260 --> 00:06:32,100 Oh, there's nothing wrong here. 125 00:06:32,100 --> 00:06:37,700 Gentlemen, the reason I did this was to put myself to the test. 126 00:06:37,700 --> 00:06:43,580 There are many of you who might align with the same ideals that I profess on the show 127 00:06:43,580 --> 00:06:48,740 or other guys in the manastere, red pill, whatever space you identify with these talking 128 00:06:48,740 --> 00:06:52,660 point problem is a lot of you, you don't put them to the test. 129 00:06:52,660 --> 00:06:57,940 See if you were right or if you are wrong in the sense that if you know what you're looking 130 00:06:57,940 --> 00:07:01,700 for, if you don't know what I'd pertin me looks like in real time, and you've got to 131 00:07:01,700 --> 00:07:02,780 change that. 132 00:07:02,780 --> 00:07:06,180 If you don't know what it looks like in real time when a woman's given another guy choosing 133 00:07:06,180 --> 00:07:09,860 the signals in front of you, you're going to see that. 134 00:07:09,860 --> 00:07:14,660 If you don't know what it's like to see a red flag where she's a bad and long term investment, 135 00:07:14,660 --> 00:07:16,020 you got to be able to do that. 136 00:07:16,020 --> 00:07:21,500 You got to be able to vet women in real time, right in front of your face, not just for 137 00:07:21,500 --> 00:07:23,780 her, but for yourself. 138 00:07:23,780 --> 00:07:30,540 You got to know what to look for so that when it shows up in the future, you know what to 139 00:07:30,540 --> 00:07:31,540 look for. 140 00:07:31,540 --> 00:07:33,700 You immediately are like, Oh, yep, there it is. 141 00:07:33,700 --> 00:07:36,540 Okay, now I know what category to put her in. 142 00:07:36,540 --> 00:07:38,300 Now I'm not going to put her in a pencil. 143 00:07:38,300 --> 00:07:40,180 Now I know exactly what to expect. 144 00:07:40,180 --> 00:07:41,180 Okay, good. 145 00:07:41,180 --> 00:07:43,180 Gents, that's what it takes. 146 00:07:43,180 --> 00:07:44,620 That's what I'm saying. 147 00:07:44,620 --> 00:07:46,060 It's not, she's not yours. 148 00:07:46,060 --> 00:07:47,060 It's just your turn. 149 00:07:47,060 --> 00:07:48,460 That's what the saying comes from. 150 00:07:48,460 --> 00:07:50,460 She's not yours. 151 00:07:50,460 --> 00:07:52,700 It's your turn. 152 00:07:52,700 --> 00:07:58,900 You need to learn to enjoy your turn, whether your turn lasts 10 years, 10 months, 10 minutes. 153 00:07:58,900 --> 00:08:01,860 You need to know what you're looking at. 154 00:08:01,860 --> 00:08:04,140 Some dudes have been married for a long time. 155 00:08:04,140 --> 00:08:05,140 That's fantastic. 156 00:08:05,140 --> 00:08:10,540 I'm not taking that away from you and understand you're still on your turn. 157 00:08:10,540 --> 00:08:11,780 Your turn can end. 158 00:08:11,780 --> 00:08:16,580 Not that it will end, but it can't end at any time. 159 00:08:16,580 --> 00:08:21,500 I know that makes you uncomfortable and your first reaction is to tell me that, Oh, Austin, 160 00:08:21,500 --> 00:08:23,100 that's not going to happen. 161 00:08:23,100 --> 00:08:24,100 My woman's different. 162 00:08:24,100 --> 00:08:25,500 You deal with the hose. 163 00:08:25,500 --> 00:08:26,500 Okay. 164 00:08:26,500 --> 00:08:27,500 All right. 165 00:08:27,500 --> 00:08:31,020 If that's what you want to think, go right ahead. 166 00:08:31,020 --> 00:08:32,580 I know you have to believe that. 167 00:08:32,580 --> 00:08:37,060 I'm not saying that you don't, that you, you are not going to see it my way if you're 168 00:08:37,060 --> 00:08:41,700 a married man or any of us in the comments section talk about these things. 169 00:08:41,700 --> 00:08:46,140 You will never see it our way because you can't afford to. 170 00:08:46,140 --> 00:08:49,980 If you thought about it the way I think about it with other guys in this community, think 171 00:08:49,980 --> 00:08:51,100 about it. 172 00:08:51,100 --> 00:08:53,340 You would not be married. 173 00:08:53,340 --> 00:08:54,860 You would have gotten divorced. 174 00:08:54,860 --> 00:08:56,660 You would have moved on. 175 00:08:56,660 --> 00:09:01,180 You would start to see things for how they are and not how you're told to see them. 176 00:09:01,180 --> 00:09:04,900 You know, another funny thing that happened to this weekend and I was hanging out with 177 00:09:04,900 --> 00:09:12,060 Rachel was she met my boss because I had to, I got a phone call to go into a job. 178 00:09:12,060 --> 00:09:13,340 My job is not normal. 179 00:09:13,340 --> 00:09:14,340 Okay. 180 00:09:14,340 --> 00:09:16,380 I have two projects that I'm working on insurance companies. 181 00:09:16,380 --> 00:09:17,380 I'm dealing with, et cetera. 182 00:09:17,380 --> 00:09:21,460 I'm essentially a one man show with my own company. 183 00:09:21,460 --> 00:09:23,900 A super pride or LLC if you will. 184 00:09:23,900 --> 00:09:25,700 So I got a call. 185 00:09:25,700 --> 00:09:28,700 Oh, Hey, the insurance adjuster wants to come by. 186 00:09:28,700 --> 00:09:29,940 You got to come, you know, come over. 187 00:09:29,940 --> 00:09:30,940 I said, okay, I'll be there. 188 00:09:30,940 --> 00:09:31,940 I dropped everything. 189 00:09:31,940 --> 00:09:34,860 I went over there and she was with me. 190 00:09:34,860 --> 00:09:39,100 I met with my with my with my boss who I love by the way, my boss is great. 191 00:09:39,100 --> 00:09:43,180 The one thing that I cannot agree with him on is always sees women though. 192 00:09:43,180 --> 00:09:46,700 That's the one thing that I don't agree with him on at all. 193 00:09:46,700 --> 00:09:48,020 I would hang out with Rachel. 194 00:09:48,020 --> 00:09:54,020 She's standing next to me while I'm talking to my boss and my boss likes her by the way. 195 00:09:54,020 --> 00:09:55,700 Again, she's not a bad person. 196 00:09:55,700 --> 00:09:58,180 She's just a woman. 197 00:09:58,180 --> 00:09:59,900 Like there are no good women and bad women. 198 00:09:59,900 --> 00:10:02,140 They're just women as there are no good men or bad men. 199 00:10:02,140 --> 00:10:05,180 They're just men, people who make choices. 200 00:10:05,180 --> 00:10:10,340 I don't believe in making titles like good men, real men, real women, bad women, good 201 00:10:10,340 --> 00:10:11,340 women. 202 00:10:11,340 --> 00:10:13,100 It's a cop out. 203 00:10:13,100 --> 00:10:15,140 People live on a spectrum. 204 00:10:15,140 --> 00:10:19,700 You make good choices sometimes make bad choices sometimes and people will determine whether 205 00:10:19,700 --> 00:10:27,020 you're good quote or bad unquote based on what they see of you or you let them see. 206 00:10:27,020 --> 00:10:34,660 Nonetheless, as I think about my boss and she's talking, my boss didn't proceed to look 207 00:10:34,660 --> 00:10:42,060 at me and he's like, you know, I made some crack about how like, oh, I don't know if 208 00:10:42,060 --> 00:10:44,260 I ever get married, you know, it's not my type of thing. 209 00:10:44,260 --> 00:10:48,940 Like I'll make jokes like that just to kind of break the ice because when you're working 210 00:10:48,940 --> 00:10:54,820 with people who are matrix minded, you can't just go off the rift about what your beliefs 211 00:10:54,820 --> 00:10:55,820 are. 212 00:10:55,820 --> 00:10:59,420 Number one, I wouldn't force my religion or my political orientation down somebody's 213 00:10:59,420 --> 00:11:00,420 throat. 214 00:11:00,420 --> 00:11:05,100 So why am I going to force my beliefs about women, the universe and everything else makes 215 00:11:05,100 --> 00:11:06,100 no sense? 216 00:11:06,100 --> 00:11:08,940 And do you think that makes me fake? 217 00:11:08,940 --> 00:11:12,620 What you want, I could care less. 218 00:11:12,620 --> 00:11:19,540 But when I was telling her I made that joke, he looked at Rachel and he was like, oh, guess, 219 00:11:19,540 --> 00:11:23,940 you know, maybe hasn't learned yet, you know, the whole happy wife, happy life thing, you 220 00:11:23,940 --> 00:11:28,460 gotta realize that women run the show and I looked at him and I was like, oh, no. 221 00:11:28,460 --> 00:11:29,740 Why are you telling this to her? 222 00:11:29,740 --> 00:11:31,660 And of course, she's eating it up. 223 00:11:31,660 --> 00:11:33,380 She's like, yeah, yeah, he's right. 224 00:11:33,380 --> 00:11:34,780 Yeah, you gotta listen to this guy. 225 00:11:34,780 --> 00:11:35,780 He's right. 226 00:11:35,780 --> 00:11:39,260 I think to myself, of course, you're gonna think he's right. 227 00:11:39,260 --> 00:11:41,060 He's telling me it'd be a fucking simp. 228 00:11:41,060 --> 00:11:43,460 Of course, you're telling him that he's right. 229 00:11:43,460 --> 00:11:45,180 I'm not a simp. 230 00:11:45,180 --> 00:11:46,460 I'm not going to ever do that. 231 00:11:46,460 --> 00:11:50,660 No, I'm not going to be mean for no reason or anything like that. 232 00:11:50,660 --> 00:11:52,260 I don't believe in doing that. 233 00:11:52,260 --> 00:11:56,500 Excuse me, I guess I'm watering my system. 234 00:11:56,500 --> 00:12:03,380 But I was sitting there and I was like, oh my God, brother, why, why would you say this? 235 00:12:03,380 --> 00:12:08,540 It's just not like the here like I respect him and I always will. 236 00:12:08,540 --> 00:12:10,060 He's a very wise individual. 237 00:12:10,060 --> 00:12:14,820 He's just he doesn't see things the way that we see him on this on the side of the Internet 238 00:12:14,820 --> 00:12:15,820 and that's okay. 239 00:12:15,820 --> 00:12:16,820 He doesn't need to. 240 00:12:16,820 --> 00:12:19,260 He's a little bit older. 241 00:12:19,260 --> 00:12:20,260 He doesn't need to. 242 00:12:20,260 --> 00:12:22,300 He probably never will and that's fine. 243 00:12:22,300 --> 00:12:25,220 I don't think he less of them for that. 244 00:12:25,220 --> 00:12:28,780 I don't need to surround myself with people that I always agree with. 245 00:12:28,780 --> 00:12:33,740 Number one, I've never met something like that in my life, so there's that. 246 00:12:33,740 --> 00:12:37,420 But number two, it was a wake up call, guys. 247 00:12:37,420 --> 00:12:40,860 You know how many people are around you who think like that, but they're not going to 248 00:12:40,860 --> 00:12:44,540 actually say what he said. 249 00:12:44,540 --> 00:12:46,580 That is what you are programmed to believe. 250 00:12:46,580 --> 00:12:52,780 And that is why I go out of my way sometimes to have weekends like this where I test my 251 00:12:52,780 --> 00:12:53,780 beliefs. 252 00:12:53,780 --> 00:12:57,180 I test what I teach you on this show. 253 00:12:57,180 --> 00:12:58,180 Yes, you. 254 00:12:58,180 --> 00:13:00,460 You're listening to the show right now. 255 00:13:00,460 --> 00:13:02,420 This is why I do what I do. 256 00:13:02,420 --> 00:13:04,580 I test my theories. 257 00:13:04,580 --> 00:13:06,540 I test how I do things. 258 00:13:06,540 --> 00:13:11,220 I don't just sit here and talk bull crap. 259 00:13:11,220 --> 00:13:16,460 You think I wrote a whole book about a lifestyle because I just sounded good? 260 00:13:16,460 --> 00:13:23,020 No, I did it because number one, I needed to be done as long overdue and number two, 261 00:13:23,020 --> 00:13:31,900 is I'm out here using the scientific method, trying to understand the world. 262 00:13:31,900 --> 00:13:37,500 But Jens, if you've not tried what I'm talking about, seeing in real time how you're able 263 00:13:37,500 --> 00:13:44,540 to vet women understand what they're doing, why they're doing it and just testing yourself 264 00:13:44,540 --> 00:13:48,460 and your ability to react to situations and to understand what's unfolding in front of 265 00:13:48,460 --> 00:13:51,020 you without someone having to tell you what it is. 266 00:13:51,020 --> 00:13:52,260 You trust your gut. 267 00:13:52,260 --> 00:13:57,660 You trust your ability to observe and your ability to be instinctual on this is good. 268 00:13:57,660 --> 00:13:58,660 This is bad. 269 00:13:58,660 --> 00:13:59,660 This is I program me. 270 00:13:59,660 --> 00:14:00,660 This is a red pill experience. 271 00:14:00,660 --> 00:14:01,740 This is a wake up call. 272 00:14:01,740 --> 00:14:03,100 This is a red flag, whatever. 273 00:14:03,100 --> 00:14:07,100 If you can't do that, then you don't have the advantage. 274 00:14:07,100 --> 00:14:13,900 You can't be a dominant alpha in a relationship if you don't know what's happening. 275 00:14:13,900 --> 00:14:18,820 If you are not able to dominate a situation by understanding the dynamic, then you are 276 00:14:18,820 --> 00:14:23,060 dooming yourself and deluding yourself in a thing and you're in control. 277 00:14:23,060 --> 00:14:24,060 You are not. 278 00:14:24,060 --> 00:14:26,780 You are not in control. 279 00:14:26,780 --> 00:14:30,460 You are being controlled and manipulated. 280 00:14:30,460 --> 00:14:37,340 Being the witch going back to my weekend with Rachel, her friend, her friend Kayla. 281 00:14:37,340 --> 00:14:40,300 Oh my God, bro. 282 00:14:40,300 --> 00:14:44,460 This woman is like fresh out. 283 00:14:44,460 --> 00:14:53,380 She's like fresh out of any marketplace just becoming a young adult. 284 00:14:53,380 --> 00:14:56,740 And she is taught like she's in my car, right? 285 00:14:56,740 --> 00:14:59,300 Because we're all going to lunch. 286 00:14:59,300 --> 00:15:01,380 She's in my car. 287 00:15:01,380 --> 00:15:05,780 She's like gosh, and she has a boyfriend, by the way. 288 00:15:05,780 --> 00:15:10,620 She's got you know, all of these dudes who drive the Harleys, the fast, like Japanese 289 00:15:10,620 --> 00:15:12,540 sports bikes. 290 00:15:12,540 --> 00:15:15,140 He's like, oh my God, there's so long. 291 00:15:15,140 --> 00:15:21,140 Oh my God, I want to break her boyfriend so bad me while this woman is in a relationship. 292 00:15:21,140 --> 00:15:28,420 And I was sitting here and I'm like, bro, hypergamy is so real. 293 00:15:28,420 --> 00:15:31,020 Anybody who wants to sit here and tell me that hypergamy ain't real. 294 00:15:31,020 --> 00:15:33,620 I don't know why the fuck you live. 295 00:15:33,620 --> 00:15:36,020 I don't know what life when universe you live in. 296 00:15:36,020 --> 00:15:39,700 Please let me know what Rick and Morty universe you live in because I want to know what dimension 297 00:15:39,700 --> 00:15:42,860 that is. 298 00:15:42,860 --> 00:15:45,620 Guys, hypergamy is real. 299 00:15:45,620 --> 00:15:47,500 My ask me what is hypergamy? 300 00:15:47,500 --> 00:15:49,860 Hypergamy is natural selection. 301 00:15:49,860 --> 00:15:55,620 It's the way by which a woman finds the best possible mate, have the best possible future 302 00:15:55,620 --> 00:15:59,980 and or offspring that she could possibly have. 303 00:15:59,980 --> 00:16:04,860 In the same way that we as men want to have the best looking woman, the best acting woman, 304 00:16:04,860 --> 00:16:11,620 with the best potential mother for our children, etc. women want the same thing. 305 00:16:11,620 --> 00:16:17,060 They want the most dominant, the best looking, the wealthiest, the old guy they can get their 306 00:16:17,060 --> 00:16:18,220 hands on. 307 00:16:18,220 --> 00:16:21,060 That's why they're not loyal. 308 00:16:21,060 --> 00:16:24,540 They're as loyal as their options. 309 00:16:24,540 --> 00:16:28,980 One can have children with you and be hypergamous onto another guy because the guy is better 310 00:16:28,980 --> 00:16:29,980 than you. 311 00:16:29,980 --> 00:16:35,460 Oh, I know, you don't want to hear that I don't make you feel bad, but it's true. 312 00:16:35,460 --> 00:16:39,140 Very real, very heartless in some ways. 313 00:16:39,140 --> 00:16:40,980 But guess what? 314 00:16:40,980 --> 00:16:42,460 Reality is often disappointing. 315 00:16:42,460 --> 00:16:44,780 That else told you that. 316 00:16:44,780 --> 00:16:48,180 That else told you all the reality was often disappointing. 317 00:16:48,180 --> 00:16:50,980 But unless you have a reality stone, you better fall off. 318 00:16:50,980 --> 00:16:51,980 Find that red pill. 319 00:16:51,980 --> 00:16:58,900 If you can't find the reality pill, find the red pill is a metaphor for the truth and 320 00:16:58,900 --> 00:16:59,900 the matrix. 321 00:16:59,900 --> 00:17:05,620 I don't know who I have no idea where that term comes from. 322 00:17:05,620 --> 00:17:07,100 The truth will set you free. 323 00:17:07,100 --> 00:17:09,780 The Bible told you that. 324 00:17:09,780 --> 00:17:13,980 But the truth is not free and it will cost you everything. 325 00:17:13,980 --> 00:17:19,140 You need to understand how to vet people, whether they be women or men in your life, 326 00:17:19,140 --> 00:17:24,540 to know what role they can fit, if any, if they need to be disqualified, disqualify them, 327 00:17:24,540 --> 00:17:30,300 understand what you're dealing with, so you are not disappointed by having unrealistic, 328 00:17:30,300 --> 00:17:33,460 unachievable expectations. 329 00:17:33,460 --> 00:17:38,460 If you want to be the master of your life, you need to know how to set things up, how 330 00:17:38,460 --> 00:17:41,700 to organize your life. 331 00:17:41,700 --> 00:17:45,660 My friends, let me know if you tested your belief system the way I told you I tested 332 00:17:45,660 --> 00:17:48,460 mine this weekend. 333 00:17:48,460 --> 00:17:55,420 Let me know how it went for you, what wake up calls, reality checks and red pills that 334 00:17:55,420 --> 00:17:58,020 you took like daily vitamins. 335 00:17:58,020 --> 00:17:59,020 Let me know. 336 00:17:59,020 --> 00:18:01,020 I'd love to hear it. 337 00:18:01,020 --> 00:18:03,380 My friends, I got to go get to work done. 338 00:18:03,380 --> 00:18:07,700 I wanted to share with you or at least begin to share with you what happened this weekend. 339 00:18:07,700 --> 00:18:12,540 I might expand upon it again later today, but I just wanted to get this out. 340 00:18:12,540 --> 00:18:15,420 Let me know what you had to say because this is something that a lot of men can relate 341 00:18:15,420 --> 00:18:21,060 to, married, never been married, interrelationship, not interrelationship, but want to be in 342 00:18:21,060 --> 00:18:24,220 one, everybody can relate to this. 343 00:18:24,220 --> 00:18:25,220 Take care of yourselves. 344 00:18:25,220 --> 00:18:26,220 I'm out of here. 345 00:18:26,220 --> 00:18:48,140 Thanks for listening.