Oh man guys, I got a great story for you all today, but what's going on?
This is the Sheep You Cheered podcast, my friends.
Welcome to the show.
I'm your host, Austin Creed.
My friends, I'm attiling the show.
She's never yours.
You want to know why I say that?
Not because I'd gotten done seriously bad or anything like that.
That's not the point of the show today, because I honestly, I haven't.
I'm just observant.
So first, I want to give you all those backdrops on why I decided to do the show.
First of all, if you are not out here and getting receipts and out here in the field,
I don't know how easy it is to hop on YouTube, hop on Rumble, hop on X and just read and
consume other people's stories, other people's experiences when it comes to dating, when
it comes to money, when it comes to traveling, when it comes to experiencing these different
avenues of life, I understand how easy it is to live by proxy and not live by personal
experience.
And I'm not saying you base everything off of your anecdotal evidence.
I'm saying you need to prove to yourself whether or not what you believe works in the
real world.
If you think I write books like the biblical bachelor and I just sit back in my ivory tower
in my room and don't do shit, you're wrong.
I've traveled all kinds of places and I'm going to continue to travel because that's
part of my job.
What makes no sense to me are guys who don't practice what they preach and who don't put
their belief systems to the test.
You might ask, well, what does that have to do with the story?
Well, I'm glad you asked.
See, the story is I was hanging out with with this girl that I'm talking to all weekend.
She she doesn't live.
She's like right next door to me, she lives like 30 something minutes away.
So I decided, you know what?
We're going to go to this concert.
So we decided to hang out this weekend.
And keep in mind, I'm usually on my head to the grindstone.
I'm usually working, sending emails, make phone calls, working on the show, etc.
I'm not usually doing this type of stuff because I just don't care enough to do it.
But I said, you know what, we're going to put my belief system to the test.
We're going to see if what I wrote about the biblical bachelor about going your own
way, finding your own personal philosophy.
And I was going to test my belief system and say, you know what?
I need to get my reality checked.
Maybe I'm wrong.
In fact, I said, you know what?
Maybe I'm wrong.
Maybe I need to go out there and I need to find love.
Maybe I need to go out there and improve myself wrong.
Well in reality, I prove myself right.
But I'll get there eventually.
I'm hanging out with this woman.
We'll call her Rachel.
I'm hanging out with Rachel and as we're hanging out first off the rip, the sex is pretty good.
I'll mention straight up.
If that is graphic or uncomfortable for you, I don't know what to tell you.
It's just the reality.
But anyways, what happened was we were hanging out.
I had to spend so much time and energy.
Shout out to coach Greg Adams.
He came up with this analogy called meat.
Your money, energy, attention and time.
You know how much meat I spent on this woman all weekend?
A lot.
Okay.
I spent a lot of money.
Not like thousands and thousands of bucks, but I definitely spent a couple hundred bucks.
And we went to the.
I showed her the gym I go to.
We were hanging out and I've noticed one for a little bit.
She's not just some random random woman.
I met on like Tinder yesterday.
Okay.
But what matters is I spend all my time, energy and time.
I put myself to the test.
I said, I know what's going to happen.
As I do this, I know that I'm going to reach a point of diminishing returns.
Before I do the lesson, I'm going to get.
Now keep in mind, I'm not acting like a total sip.
Okay.
I, I make jokes.
I don't put on a pedestal.
I don't do any of that stuff.
I'm not going now far in this experiment.
And as I'm doing this, I'm riding in the car when they're to the gym.
And as I'm riding, I, there is this like nice BMW series that drives by.
Then immediately she just goes, she goes nuts and she's like, Oh my God, I love BMWs.
They're so cool.
Oh, you know, the rooms are so cool.
They make me all wet.
I was like, what?
Like she's sitting in my fucking passenger seat.
I was just saying this and I'm like, well, um, there's a hypergamy check in case I wanted
to know it.
Uh, there it is.
I'm just sitting here in my head.
The others in the inside out movie, the new one, where they have all the different emotions
in their head and they're like all talking.
And then when that's what it's like in my brain, I was like, well, there's a hypergamy.
Oh, there's the, um, there's a hypergamy there.
There's the red pill there.
I need to swallow that.
I'll take that red pill.
Take that one.
I'll take, I was just sitting there.
I was like, okay.
Yep.
I'm being proven right right here.
The shit testing was real.
I can personally tell you guys that you might ask me what the shit test a shit test is when
women will ask you to do stupid things to try to see if they can get you to do it.
For example, let's say if you're sitting on the couch, right?
And her phone's over on the counter.
Instead of going and getting in her cell, she'll ask you to do it.
Or say the other is hanging out and she's like, hey, I'm thirsty.
Go go go go grab me a soda from the quarter store down the street.
That's a shit test.
Or that shit test basically her getting you to do something to see if you're going to
do it.
She gave me at least three of those.
Now keep in mind, she's not a bad looking woman.
She's not an annoying individual.
I dare you, these are the things I pick up on because I know to look there are men, thousands
of millions of men who in this exact situation, they would be like, oh, I'm just being a
good guy.
Oh, there's nothing wrong here.
Gentlemen, the reason I did this was to put myself to the test.
There are many of you who might align with the same ideals that I profess on the show
or other guys in the manastere, red pill, whatever space you identify with these talking
point problem is a lot of you, you don't put them to the test.
See if you were right or if you are wrong in the sense that if you know what you're looking
for, if you don't know what I'd pertin me looks like in real time, and you've got to
change that.
If you don't know what it looks like in real time when a woman's given another guy choosing
the signals in front of you, you're going to see that.
If you don't know what it's like to see a red flag where she's a bad and long term investment,
you got to be able to do that.
You got to be able to vet women in real time, right in front of your face, not just for
her, but for yourself.
You got to know what to look for so that when it shows up in the future, you know what to
look for.
You immediately are like, Oh, yep, there it is.
Okay, now I know what category to put her in.
Now I'm not going to put her in a pencil.
Now I know exactly what to expect.
Okay, good.
Gents, that's what it takes.
That's what I'm saying.
It's not, she's not yours.
It's just your turn.
That's what the saying comes from.
She's not yours.
It's your turn.
You need to learn to enjoy your turn, whether your turn lasts 10 years, 10 months, 10 minutes.
You need to know what you're looking at.
Some dudes have been married for a long time.
That's fantastic.
I'm not taking that away from you and understand you're still on your turn.
Your turn can end.
Not that it will end, but it can't end at any time.
I know that makes you uncomfortable and your first reaction is to tell me that, Oh, Austin,
that's not going to happen.
My woman's different.
You deal with the hose.
Okay.
All right.
If that's what you want to think, go right ahead.
I know you have to believe that.
I'm not saying that you don't, that you, you are not going to see it my way if you're
a married man or any of us in the comments section talk about these things.
You will never see it our way because you can't afford to.
If you thought about it the way I think about it with other guys in this community, think
about it.
You would not be married.
You would have gotten divorced.
You would have moved on.
You would start to see things for how they are and not how you're told to see them.
You know, another funny thing that happened to this weekend and I was hanging out with
Rachel was she met my boss because I had to, I got a phone call to go into a job.
My job is not normal.
Okay.
I have two projects that I'm working on insurance companies.
I'm dealing with, et cetera.
I'm essentially a one man show with my own company.
A super pride or LLC if you will.
So I got a call.
Oh, Hey, the insurance adjuster wants to come by.
You got to come, you know, come over.
I said, okay, I'll be there.
I dropped everything.
I went over there and she was with me.
I met with my with my with my boss who I love by the way, my boss is great.
The one thing that I cannot agree with him on is always sees women though.
That's the one thing that I don't agree with him on at all.
I would hang out with Rachel.
She's standing next to me while I'm talking to my boss and my boss likes her by the way.
Again, she's not a bad person.
She's just a woman.
Like there are no good women and bad women.
They're just women as there are no good men or bad men.
They're just men, people who make choices.
I don't believe in making titles like good men, real men, real women, bad women, good
women.
It's a cop out.
People live on a spectrum.
You make good choices sometimes make bad choices sometimes and people will determine whether
you're good quote or bad unquote based on what they see of you or you let them see.
Nonetheless, as I think about my boss and she's talking, my boss didn't proceed to look
at me and he's like, you know, I made some crack about how like, oh, I don't know if
I ever get married, you know, it's not my type of thing.
Like I'll make jokes like that just to kind of break the ice because when you're working
with people who are matrix minded, you can't just go off the rift about what your beliefs
are.
Number one, I wouldn't force my religion or my political orientation down somebody's
throat.
So why am I going to force my beliefs about women, the universe and everything else makes
no sense?
And do you think that makes me fake?
What you want, I could care less.
But when I was telling her I made that joke, he looked at Rachel and he was like, oh, guess,
you know, maybe hasn't learned yet, you know, the whole happy wife, happy life thing, you
gotta realize that women run the show and I looked at him and I was like, oh, no.
Why are you telling this to her?
And of course, she's eating it up.
She's like, yeah, yeah, he's right.
Yeah, you gotta listen to this guy.
He's right.
I think to myself, of course, you're gonna think he's right.
He's telling me it'd be a fucking simp.
Of course, you're telling him that he's right.
I'm not a simp.
I'm not going to ever do that.
No, I'm not going to be mean for no reason or anything like that.
I don't believe in doing that.
Excuse me, I guess I'm watering my system.
But I was sitting there and I was like, oh my God, brother, why, why would you say this?
It's just not like the here like I respect him and I always will.
He's a very wise individual.
He's just he doesn't see things the way that we see him on this on the side of the Internet
and that's okay.
He doesn't need to.
He's a little bit older.
He doesn't need to.
He probably never will and that's fine.
I don't think he less of them for that.
I don't need to surround myself with people that I always agree with.
Number one, I've never met something like that in my life, so there's that.
But number two, it was a wake up call, guys.
You know how many people are around you who think like that, but they're not going to
actually say what he said.
That is what you are programmed to believe.
And that is why I go out of my way sometimes to have weekends like this where I test my
beliefs.
I test what I teach you on this show.
Yes, you.
You're listening to the show right now.
This is why I do what I do.
I test my theories.
I test how I do things.
I don't just sit here and talk bull crap.
You think I wrote a whole book about a lifestyle because I just sounded good?
No, I did it because number one, I needed to be done as long overdue and number two,
is I'm out here using the scientific method, trying to understand the world.
But Jens, if you've not tried what I'm talking about, seeing in real time how you're able
to vet women understand what they're doing, why they're doing it and just testing yourself
and your ability to react to situations and to understand what's unfolding in front of
you without someone having to tell you what it is.
You trust your gut.
You trust your ability to observe and your ability to be instinctual on this is good.
This is bad.
This is I program me.
This is a red pill experience.
This is a wake up call.
This is a red flag, whatever.
If you can't do that, then you don't have the advantage.
You can't be a dominant alpha in a relationship if you don't know what's happening.
If you are not able to dominate a situation by understanding the dynamic, then you are
dooming yourself and deluding yourself in a thing and you're in control.
You are not.
You are not in control.
You are being controlled and manipulated.
Being the witch going back to my weekend with Rachel, her friend, her friend Kayla.
Oh my God, bro.
This woman is like fresh out.
She's like fresh out of any marketplace just becoming a young adult.
And she is taught like she's in my car, right?
Because we're all going to lunch.
She's in my car.
She's like gosh, and she has a boyfriend, by the way.
She's got you know, all of these dudes who drive the Harleys, the fast, like Japanese
sports bikes.
He's like, oh my God, there's so long.
Oh my God, I want to break her boyfriend so bad me while this woman is in a relationship.
And I was sitting here and I'm like, bro, hypergamy is so real.
Anybody who wants to sit here and tell me that hypergamy ain't real.
I don't know why the fuck you live.
I don't know what life when universe you live in.
Please let me know what Rick and Morty universe you live in because I want to know what dimension
that is.
Guys, hypergamy is real.
My ask me what is hypergamy?
Hypergamy is natural selection.
It's the way by which a woman finds the best possible mate, have the best possible future
and or offspring that she could possibly have.
In the same way that we as men want to have the best looking woman, the best acting woman,
with the best potential mother for our children, etc. women want the same thing.
They want the most dominant, the best looking, the wealthiest, the old guy they can get their
hands on.
That's why they're not loyal.
They're as loyal as their options.
One can have children with you and be hypergamous onto another guy because the guy is better
than you.
Oh, I know, you don't want to hear that I don't make you feel bad, but it's true.
Very real, very heartless in some ways.
But guess what?
Reality is often disappointing.
That else told you that.
That else told you all the reality was often disappointing.
But unless you have a reality stone, you better fall off.
Find that red pill.
If you can't find the reality pill, find the red pill is a metaphor for the truth and
the matrix.
I don't know who I have no idea where that term comes from.
The truth will set you free.
The Bible told you that.
But the truth is not free and it will cost you everything.
You need to understand how to vet people, whether they be women or men in your life,
to know what role they can fit, if any, if they need to be disqualified, disqualify them,
understand what you're dealing with, so you are not disappointed by having unrealistic,
unachievable expectations.
If you want to be the master of your life, you need to know how to set things up, how
to organize your life.
My friends, let me know if you tested your belief system the way I told you I tested
mine this weekend.
Let me know how it went for you, what wake up calls, reality checks and red pills that
you took like daily vitamins.
Let me know.
I'd love to hear it.
My friends, I got to go get to work done.
I wanted to share with you or at least begin to share with you what happened this weekend.
I might expand upon it again later today, but I just wanted to get this out.
Let me know what you had to say because this is something that a lot of men can relate
to, married, never been married, interrelationship, not interrelationship, but want to be in
one, everybody can relate to this.
Take care of yourselves.
I'm out of here.
Thanks for listening.