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Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Sheepkitshire podcast.

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I'm your host, Austin Creed.

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My friends, we're going to talk about the conversation of younger women versus older

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women today.

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Raise it being that there are some of us men in this community who are not fully in on

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going your own way forever.

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They maybe believe in monk mode, which is important.

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They believe in having relationships selectively, which, you know, it's interesting to even

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have that discussion because, you know, my friends, I want to be totally honest with

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you.

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I'm in a very interesting situation myself in that I move around a lot with the jobs

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I've done over the last couple of years and moving around in parts of the country.

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And it's hard for me to have a consistent relationship in the same way that a lot of

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dudes who, for example, let's say you can't get a girlfriend, you're not going to fully

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understand why guys like me and guys on the side of the Internet, we talk about not having

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a girlfriend, not having a wife, not having these things.

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The reason is not because we want you to suffer.

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The reason is not because we want to flex that we get girls and you don't or anything

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else like that.

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That is goofy.

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It's stupid.

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The reason is because relationships are not what they once were.

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If you look at the ghost of Chris past, you look at the world out used to be.

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And when you look at how the world used to be, the world that was a lot simpler back

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in the day, the world was men ran things, women followed.

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And of course, I'm very oversimplifying.

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But when we look at the modern world, modern world is we're living in a reactionary period.

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But even in history, we look guys like Benjamin Franklin, who allegedly, and I put allegedly,

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you allegedly said that a younger guy should be with an older woman because they tended

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to have more sex and because they were, you know, you had lower standards as a guy and

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you had to kind of just take what you can get.

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And of course, I'm paraphrasing him.

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I'm not quoting him exactly, but that's what he's talking about allegedly.

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And when I look at a quote like that, I say, you know what's funny?

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He's not totally wrong.

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In the sense that you look at the fact that a lot of older women are now talking about

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how they're dating 19 year olds, 20 year olds, 21 year olds, and they're like 40, 50.

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Now this is, this is nothing new.

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This has been going on forever.

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But when we get into the conversation of guys doing it, like guys are 40, 50, 60, and they're

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dating a woman who's 20, all of a sudden, oh my gosh, she's a pervert.

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He's no good.

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He's creepy.

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He's weird.

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Blah, blah, blah.

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And I see it even in my own, I see it sometimes even in my own profession.

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Now, am I sitting here and telling you you should do this?

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No, am I telling you that it's the right thing to do?

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No, I'm telling you that it's legal.

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Number one, let's get that straight.

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And number two, it's a lot of times more normal than you think.

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We put it to you in perspective.

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When we talk about older guys, that usually means guys who are five to 10 years older

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than the woman they're dating or older woman, women's five to 10 years older.

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Men, naturally, we take time to accumulate resources.

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We take time to build ourselves in our industry, build ourselves with our lifestyle and build

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ourselves in a way where people respect us.

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Okay.

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Now, people want us to say that, oh, it's you should get married in college or you should

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date someone that's the same age as you.

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Or I think the normies say, what is it?

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Your age divided by two plus seven, I think is what most people say.

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Now, the reason I don't subscribe to that is number one, I'm kind of on the younger

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side, so it doesn't really affect me yet.

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And number two, if it's legal, as in, if it is legal to do in your country, if it is

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legal to do in your state, if you live in America, then it's nobody's business.

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Number one, and number two, a lot of times as a guy, you're not going to hit your stride

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till you're in your 40s.

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Sometimes your 50s, sometimes beyond that.

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So why the hell would you bust your behind work your absolute hard out just to get something

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that you don't really want?

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Why in the world would you go out there sacrifice, risk, eat plates of crap day in and day out

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from the from the boss, work hard at the gym, take risks in your career and your personal

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life?

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Why would you do all those things?

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But there wasn't a reward for doing it.

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That's one of the reasons why I hate socialism and communism, because there are systems of

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government that subsidize people's own sloth and enables them to make money and make a

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living out of other people's work.

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Now it's one thing if you set up a business to run autonomously, that is not at all the

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same thing.

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But when you have systems of government that allow you to just sit back as a gender and

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make as much money as a doctor or a lawyer or whatever, that's not going to work.

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That's not sustainable.

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In the same way that guys will risk, they'll take a ton of risk.

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They'll take oftentimes a lot of L's on their way to building themselves, their brand, their

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image, their reputation.

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And then they want their expected when they hit 35 or 40 to get with a woman who is 35

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or 40, who when he was 20 years old, when he was 18 years old, was telling him that

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he wasn't good enough, he was garbage, he was dusty, he was broke, he was no good.

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He now has to wipe up that woman.

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Oh I don't think so.

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Oh hell no.

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Why in the world would you do that?

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Why?

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Why should that person who didn't build with you, who didn't invest in you, who didn't

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take a chance on you, why in the world should that person eat the fruits of your labor?

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Why should those people be rewarded for being pieces of garbage?

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Why should they be rewarded for betting against you?

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Now this is just one of the ways you can look at this conversation.

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The other way you can look at this conversation is to say men especially are naturally attracted

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to women who are fertile, who are pleasant, who don't have a lot of baggage and all these

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things are normal.

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In fact back in the day they were very mainstream across multiple different patriarchal cultures.

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But the problem is today with all the pseudo psychology, all of the mad scientists out

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there, all the Dr. Frankensteins, they want to come out of the woodwork and they want

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to say hey you know what, your brain doesn't develop till 25 so therefore if you're 25

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you're a kid.

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Well first of all, screw you, I'm not a child, I'm 24, I'm not a kid.

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I've served in the military as an adult, I've paid taxes as an adult, I work really hard

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and I don't want to sit here and people tell me oh you're a kid.

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Like hell I am.

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No I'm not and in fact what it does is it makes a lot of young men lose out and young

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women as well but I will speak from a young male perspective on this and it basically

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enables you to be a leech, to be a mooch, to be a sloth instead of taking risks and

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taking advantage of called power interest when you're younger.

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Instead of saying hey you're 18 or you're 16, you've hit puberty, you're starting to

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become an adult by animal standards, you should start acting like one.

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No that doesn't mean you're not going to make mistakes, that doesn't mean you're not

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going to do stupid things here and there and learn in the school of hard knocks and get

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your degree.

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No, that's part of the game.

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For example, I took one wrong turn here in Kansas and now I'm driving an extra hour

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to get home.

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Now I could sit here and talk about how that's not fair and this, that and the other or I

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could just do it.

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In the same way there are a lot of people or I don't want to put in hard work, I don't

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want to take eat plates of garbage, I don't want to do those things, I want to just win.

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I want to look at the guy who's been grinding for 15 years, oh I want to have his life with

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a nice house and the car and all the stuff that he didn't have when he was starting

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out the same way that you're starting out.

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But you see, you might ask Austin, what does this have to do with dating younger women?

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Everything.

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Because when a guy risks, when a guy puts his heart and soul and everybody around him

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is either a, not interested or be telling him he's not going to do it or to be careful

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or he might fail, whatever.

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And then he doesn't or he fails and he fails and he fails, then eventually he wins.

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Takes one huge win to make all your losses worth it.

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Never forget that.

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And eventually you start to win and when you start to win, the people suddenly feel like

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oh now that you're winning, let me tell you what to do with your winnings.

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Here are some rules you need to follow.

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You can't enjoy yourself too much.

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You got to enjoy yourself the way we want you to enjoy yourself, they say.

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No, I don't believe in doing that.

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Why?

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Why in the world would a person be interested in doing that?

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That's my question.

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Maybe you can answer that in the comments.

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To me it's the equivalent of socialism and communism because if you're told as a doctor

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or a lawyer that you're going to make the same amount of money as a guy who doesn't

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go to college, doesn't take all those student loans out, doesn't put in all this extra work

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and sacrifice and heartache and bullshit and all this, why would you go through all that

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struggle if you're not going to gain from it?

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It's not going to benefit you tangibly.

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And the way you want it to, why would you do it?

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Is there maybe one or two out of a hundred altruists out in the world somewhere?

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But even if they made complete pennies on the dollar, they'd still go to medical school.

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They'd still take out all those loans, those long nights, take all those hard tests and

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all that.

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Sure, I'm sure there is.

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But most people wouldn't.

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And they shouldn't be expected to do that.

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The same way, why should a man strive for greatness if he's going to be expected to

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just accept mediocrity as his reward?

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And I'll be real with you, as a guy right now who's talking to a girl who's 19, as

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a 24 year old man, I understand guys who are 35, 45, 55 and why they are doing what they're

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doing if they choose to do this.

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I understand it now in a way that I didn't when I was 19, when I was 20, I didn't get

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it.

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I thought, hey, these dudes are tricks.

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You know, they're cheating.

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They can't do this.

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This isn't fair.

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You know, all the girls are weird for liking these guys.

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It's gross.

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No, it's not gross.

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It's normal.

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It's how life works.

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The women want security, they want guys have respect, have resources who have things in

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life.

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They want to go out on they want to go out and have fun.

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They want to go into the cool restaurant and just open.

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They want to go to the nice VIP section at the club.

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They don't want to bum it with you.

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Will they do it if they have to?

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Yes.

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Are they going to do it if they have the option not to?

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No.

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They're not going to do it and they shouldn't.

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Why should they?

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If they don't why would you would you take the hard road if you didn't have to?

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Probably not.

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Right.

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Yeah.

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Women are humans just like you.

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I know that might shock you.

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But women are humans just like you.

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So when they don't want to take the hard road, if they don't have to, don't be surprised

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when if you do the same thing and going back to the why I think younger women, they're

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not going to always be better in every circumstance.

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God knows that my generation of Gen Z, why these people are absolutely entitled, intolerable

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and a headache to deal with.

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I can tell you that point blank period.

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However, I can also tell you that when you're dealing with there's less baggage.

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No.

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Is their baggage?

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Yes.

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Is there less baggage?

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Also yes.

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Because the older people get, the more bad experiences, the more trauma, the more headiness

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and BS they're going to have is part of life.

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I have more baggage than I did when I was 19.

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I'm 24, can you imagine what women are like when they're 30?

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Women live life a lot faster than men do, by the way, to the 90th percentile.

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If not more women live a totally different existence than you do as a man.

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They are learning about stuff in their teens that you're learning about in your 20s and

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they're learning stuff in their 20s that you're going to learn your 30s and 40s.

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Not because you're stupid as a guy, but because you're not at the VIP at the bar.

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You're not getting celebrities hitting up your DMs, promising you all this, that and

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the other thing.

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You're not dealing with that.

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Men don't deal with that.

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Women do.

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So when you're talking to a woman who's younger, are they going to have some trauma?

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Yeah, high school boyfriend, maybe first adult boyfriend, maybe a sugar daddy, whatever.

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Versus I got divorced or I have a kid by another man or I've been dating in these streets for

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four years and I've not had a relationship, basically being on the carousel for four years.

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Guys, these are real realities out here.

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You act like I'm making this up.

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I'm not making this up.

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I'm in these streets right now.

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I understand it.

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I'm shuckling, jiving through these streets, trying to dodge the hoes, hurl over the nightmares,

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get, you know, avoid the allegations, all this stuff.

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Another year to tell you the best way to operate is just to be upfront like I am on this show.

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To tell people the real and if they don't like it, tell them to kick rocks.

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You're not in business to be liked.

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You are not doing what you're doing in life to be liked.

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Now, does that mean you're going out of your way to be annoying?

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No.

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But does that mean you're going to sit there and take people's garbage?

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No.

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Why would you?

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Why would you sit there and accept something you don't want?

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Why would you do that?

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Because all you're doing is lowering your standards to quote the women's lingo.

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What you're also doing is you're telling yourself that that's what you should want.

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That's what you deserve.

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That's what you've earned is garbage.

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You are not garbage, especially not if you actually want to better yourself.

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If you want to become somebody and you're working towards it every day, you are not garbage.

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Let me repeat that in case you missed it.

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You're not garbage.

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You're on a journey.

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You are trying to make yourself better.

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So when we talk about younger women being better than older women, if you're actually trying

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to build anything, even if you're trying to enjoy your turn more, you're going to do it

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with younger women more than older women.

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I've dealt with older women.

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I dealt with a woman who was in her fifties once last not my last year, senior year college

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in Scottsdale, Arizona.

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I dealt with a woman who was in her late fifties who had just gone through her second divorce.

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I didn't date her seriously, but we were kind of like friends with benefits.

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We hooked up a couple of times.

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And let me tell you, she had all kinds of drama.

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She talked about how her kid was younger.

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Her kid was older than me.

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And oh, yeah.

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Oh, yeah.

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Lot of baggage going on with ex-husband number one, ex-husband number two, you know, having

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expectations for me as a guy, even though I was like a third of her age, almost like

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a third of her age, you know, like, guys, you think that it's just do it out.

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You're doing this stuff.

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You are sadly mistaken.

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In fact, women are literally making content about snow.

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Trying to normalize this.

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For God's sake, so I need to bring up the fact that a lot of the predators in the schools

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right now are the teachers who are in my age demographic, who are women going after high

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school guys.

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I mean, do I need to bring that up?

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I'll bring that up.

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Gentlemen, this is not just a guy thing, but it's important for us to understand why certain

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state, why certain saying stereotypes, slogans exist in the space of younger women are better

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or that we don't do committed relationships or no long term commitment, etc.

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The reason we do that is because we want to protect ourselves.

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We want to be able to give ourselves a best chance to get what we want out of life.

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Now it's going to look different depending on who you are.

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This is unavoidable fact.

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But just remember, you should not accept something less than what you actually want.

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Because when you do that, you're disrespecting yourself.

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You are telling yourself that you worked hard, hard grueling hours for something that you

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don't even want, that you don't even like.

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And guess what?

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Is that going to motivate you to get to the next level?

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No, no, it's not.

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It's going to make you think, yeah, I've done enough.

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Yeah, I'll kind of just coast.

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I'll need to push myself in the order versus when you're redlining it and you see the finish

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line, you see the refreshments, you see the girls, you see the money, you see the freedom

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that's that's there.

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That's going to push you to go that extra mile.

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And all of this can be tied back to the fact that when men grind for 20 years, 30 years,

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they want something to show for their hard work.

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And they don't want to just accept something they don't want.

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When a guy's out his way up, he doesn't want to pair up with a woman who's on her way down.

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Men don't want that.

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But yet a lot of men are ashamed and taking that very deal.

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Some of you are probably listening to the show right now.

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And I don't say that to make you feel bad.

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I don't say that to make you feel guilty.

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No, I said that because I want you to liberate yourself.

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Save yourself from feeling like you are powerless, like, oh, I don't have a voice.

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It's over for me.

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No, it's never over.

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It's not over while you're breathing, sir.

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It's never over.

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Just remember who you are.

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Remember what you set out to be.

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And if you don't have that, then you can build it today.

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If you don't have a vision for your life, you don't have a purpose that you want to be working

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towards.

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That's OK.

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But there's a way we can fix that.

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There's a way for you to be a man who you never thought you could have become.

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Now have the option.

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Now you have the opportunity because now you've decided to not be a normie.

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You've decided that you want to be someone better than you are right now.

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And that is respectable.

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My friends, I think I'm going to leave it there because at the end of the day, we

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need to be honest with ourselves.

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It's very easy for us to just believe what we want to believe, to not test the theories

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that we hold dear.

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It's very easy to do that.

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But it's time that we did better.

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My friends, take care of yourselves.

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I'm out of here.

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Peace out.