Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Sheep Get Sheered podcast. I'm your host Austin
Cream, my friends. Oh man, I don't tell you. Life's exhausting, man.
Learning ins and outs of a new profession, joling a new place to live, they can try to
make new friends even though I'm kind of an intellectual nomad as probably most of you
are. It's important for us to remember that we're going to face challenges. And one such
challenge that I think we need to address today is the idea of a rotation, the idea
of setting up and managing the different short term relationships that we have. And I want
to provide a disclaimer right out the gate, my friends. Number one, if you have never
gone through Monk mode, you must start there first. Why? Well, because number one, you
need to not broke date. broke dating is the number one reason that a lot of men are depressed.
They're trying to get maximum results with minimal effort. And it's a disgrace and a
gigantic waste of time. That's what we're going to be talking about the idea of a rotation.
How to set one up. And we're going to be talking about whether or not you should even be out
there trying to get one. Now, first, I wanted to find what a rotation is. Some people refer
to it as a roster. Some people refer to it as spinning plates on this side of the internet.
But I like to refer to it as rotation. I'm a volleyball guy. And we have six rotations.
And so that's why I want to call it a rotation. I'm sure I'm not the first person to do so.
But what I will tell you, my friends is it takes tremendous work. And you are taking
risks. But there are levels to this. If you have not gone through Monk mode, if you have
not put women put all the distractions on the back burner and grinded for 60 months,
at least, then or you have not been on senior retention for at least three months, 90 days.
You should not do this. Because you are not ready. You have not had the reset. You have
not allowed yourself to put the past behind you to then embrace the future that is in
front of you. You might say, Austin, I don't need to do all that. That's stupid. You made
that up. It's not important. Hey, man, you don't need to listen to me if you don't want.
You can go out there and be an ignorant individual and make mistakes that are avoidable. If that's
what you want to do is your life. But I'm here to tell you as a guy who's relatively
young but I've made a tremendous amount of mistakes. I'm here to tell you this is necessary
for growth. This is necessary. And if you're going through a divorce, or you're going through
a long term breakup, you need to multiply it by two. You need to go 180 you need to go
60 days, see when we're 10, then I'm sorry, I said 90 days first 180 days on senior retention,
or a year of monk mode. And you might think it's excessive. The answer is no, it is not
excessive. See, you have to reset your brain from trying to chase hose to establishing
ground rules, having standards and setting up actual expectations and rules. For example,
I'll use an example for myself to give you guys in a little bit of a way to measure this.
For example, I do not have women come over to the crib after nine o'clock. Why? Because
I have shit to do in the morning. They don't want to sit here and talk about, hey, girl,
come through or I'll hit me up and be like, Daddy, can I come over and I say yes at nine
at 830. She's like, all right, I'm leaving at nine 930. Get here at 10. We talk about
bullshit till 1030. We have sex till 1130. She leaves at 12. I happen to shower 1230.
You see how this is and then I wake up and I'm trying to get up in the morning and be
productive. You see how that doesn't make sense? You see how that doesn't make a whole lot
of sense? Good. I'm glad you saw that because that's exactly what a lot of you guys done.
Why? Because I've done it. A lot of us have done it. There's no shame in that. But understanding
that you have bigger fish to fry. Having sex with women is not the end all be all it is
the cherry on top of the cake. It is not the cake. A lot of guys get this messed up and
that is why muck mode and senior attention are necessary for you to hit that reset button
in your brain so that instead of being a guy who's desperate, you're a guy with a destination
and you have more important things to be doing than to dedicating your entire life around
trying to get bitches. That is the difference maker. And that takes time. You can't just
go to sleep tonight, wake up tomorrow morning and say, well, I'm a new man with a new mission
and all that stuff is behind me and no, sorry, bro, you can't do that. You could have that
intellectually, but you have not gone. That's like saying, oh, I went to the doctor doctor
gave me a prescription. I took one dose of them of the prescription and now all of a
sudden I'm cured and I don't need the rest of the medication. You see how dumb that sounds?
Exactly. You need to empty that bottle in the same way that you need to empty yourself
of all the dumb crap you've been doing all the bad habits you've picked up, etc. This
takes time. This takes discipline to unlearn the bad behavior and relearn good behavior.
So when it comes to rotation chicks, number one, you have to do the setup. You have to
lay the groundwork first. Otherwise, none of this other stuff we're going to talk about
works. Otherwise, all you're going to do is be building a house of cards that you're
going to end up blowing over or someone's going to blow over and then you're going to
be up a creek and you'll have wasted your time, their time and lost out on compound
interest. And I don't want that for you. I want you to capitalize on compounding interest
of time, not sit there and be thinking about how you got to pay for it. Fuck that shit.
Forget that crap. We're focusing on how we can win, not just how we cannot lose. So number
one is monk mode. You got to go there first. Number two, it is a numbers game. You need
to understand that at the end of the day, your feelings are not dependent upon the validation
or lack thereof of the women you are engaging with. Now I don't care if you participate
in pay for play, or you participate in hookup culture, I don't care what you're doing.
The sentiment is the same. You must understand, you're going to face rejection, they're going
to face people switching up on you and pulling a bait and switch. You got to be prepared
for this. If you're not, then go back to step one and go back to monk mode and go back.
Don't try to get yourself ready for something that you're not ready for and there's no
shame. There's no one size fits all for this. We have our own issues. We have our own problems,
we have our own setbacks. There's no one size fits all for this. This is a formula you must
apply to your life and fit it into how it's appropriate. The number two, you need to understand
that you're going to face rejection. Sorry, I've had a long day. You're going to have
to forgive my yawning. It's late, tired, but I want to put this out because this is important
information that could save man's life, making really stupid, short side of decisions. And
you're going to regret it for the time for a long time to come. Number three, after you
must manage things correctly, you must have discipline on your time. We kind of touched
on this earlier with time with not having chicks over to the crib past nine o'clock.
In my example, you must have rules. You must say, Hey, I will do this. I'm not going to
do that. Because otherwise, women are agents of chaos by nature. They will test you. They
will see if you're just some schmuck who's got nothing better to do than stay up till
12 o'clock on a Wednesday night. Or you got nothing better to do than to have her cancel
on you and then reschedule for the next day and then cancel on you again because she can
and because Tyrone hit up her phone to come through and she'd rather see Tyrone than see
you. You need to know when to cut bait. You need to know when you're getting played and
just not be afraid to tell bitches to fuck off. So many people are afraid. Oh, Austin,
my roster is shrinking. What do I do? Bruh, relax, man. There's always more where that
came from, bro. Let me tell you something. You there is more out there, man. Don't be
sitting there being like, Oh my gosh, I need to find I need to find it when I make this
work. No, man, relax, dude. Don't get so riled up about this. This is not a big deal. Number
four and this is one of the most important ones after care. Let me repeat that in case
you missed it after care. You go out there and you blow this woman's back out. Make sure
you actually make her orgasm. By the way, this is a this is a family show for the most
part minus the occasional word here and there. But understand that you will set yourself
apart if you actually pretend to care. And you actually make them feel good. That's a
little bonus information in case you didn't know. No number four is after care. I don't
care what you did, how you did it, how dirty it was. It doesn't matter. After it's over,
you treat her nicely. You make sure she's okay. You get her a towel. You get her some
water. You get her a gift basket. I don't care what you do. You make sure that when
she leaves, she feels good about what you guys did and about you. Because otherwise,
that is how you catch a case after the fact and you end up in court. You end up getting
sued. You end up with your reputation being put through the weed whacker. We don't want
that. We want people to have a good time. We want people to feel valuable. We want people
to leave feeling happy. Not people feeling like gosh, they got used. That's how you get
a case. That's how the bullshit shows up. Don't deal with that. Do not do not just bust
that nut and then kick the kick the girl out. Do not do this. I know you're going to feel
like it. You're going to bust that nothing you're going to be like, Hey, I got to get
out of here. Do not do that. You got to sit back there. You got to make sure she feels
good. You got to make sure she feels like you actually didn't just ski on her and then
kick her to the street. You do that. You are risking a big portion of your neck on the
guillotine that could fall down on you five years, 10 years down the line after you start
making some money. Do not do this. This is how you get caught. This is how you end up
getting a me to case 10 years from now. Do not do this. Take care of people after care
is critical. Number five, make sure you vet this person if there's more than just a one
night thing, even then I'd say vet the person. But you must know who is do you're dealing
with what their background is and how much of a liability they potentially are understanding
what they want where they're going do not lead people on other false pretenses. That's
as bad as number four. That's all but this is part number four, the aftercare. You make
sure the person feels good when they leave your house, your apartment, your condo, you
make sure they feel good so that they don't come back later and say that you use them,
you did this and you did that. No, we will avoid that. That is how we get in trouble.
You got to make sure you do your due diligence and you don't try to be a cheap piece of work
and then it comes back to bite you in the behind. Don't do this. If you're good, if
you're out with working girls, that's your business. Just make sure you don't try to
skip because that's how you get caught. My friends, rotations might sound like a lot
of work and in some ways they actually are. But once you understand that if you can manage
yourself, you can manage your own life. You have more important things to do than just
have intimacy with women. For example, my job is more important. Doing this show is more
important to me than getting the main vein drained by some chick to feel good. Of course,
it does. It's part of the release. I might it's like me eating food or a grab and a drink.
It's no different. But understand that you must not be addicted to this. You got to set
yourself apart. And that's why I say month mode is step one. So we're tension to step
one because once you once you stop with the no fap, once I want you go no fap, once you
start to your attention, you gain self control. You start to understand that you can get
pleasure through achievements, through understanding yourself and putting yourself in a better
position. This is going to be better than any amount of orgasms you have because the
post not clarity will kick in when you have success. There is no post not clarity. There's
just feeling good about your success and moving on to the next goal. My friends, a rotation
can be complicated and I'd love to hear how will you manage yours. But understand there
are levels to this. You can just jump in and try to do this tomorrow. You have to lay the
groundwork. You have to be prepared. You have to know what you're getting yourself into.
And you have to not be afraid to cut bait. You got to be unafraid to be confrontational
about what it is and what it isn't about this relationship with these women. Except you
are not. That's how you get hemmed up. That's how you get a case. That's how you deal with
your cars getting your car tires getting slashed. When you try to go to work in the morning,
don't do this. It's entirely avoidable. If you are able to maintain your aura, you are
able to maintain yourself and your relationships properly, instead of trying to be a cheap
piece of work or trying to be a sloth will sack a shit and trying to get around things.
Stop trying to get around things and deal with things directly. That's how you avoid
the BS. That's how you avoid people putting the knives in your back. Don't let them do
it. Do not allow yourself to be put in that situation.
My friends, I could keep talking about this for the next half hour and frankly, I kind
of want to. But it's kind of late and I got to be up early tomorrow. And I'm kind of coming
down with cold kind of feel is like it anyway. Don't like ever push yourself so hard, your
body is kind of quitting on you, but your mind's still racing. And it's just like, I
want to keep going and one keep working. I want to keep going and one keep working.
Yeah, it's kind of where I'm at right now. I'm not satisfied. I'm always wanting to work
more work better than yesterday. But it's freaking exhausting. I'll tell you the truth.
But anything worth doing is hard. The show is not growing as much as I figured it would
have. At the point we're at. But you know what? It's impacted certain men's lives were
very valuable to me into this show. And to me, I'd rather impact 20 people really strongly
than 2000 people who barely watch who barely give a crap.
My friends, I share this type of information with you not because I don't think you don't
know, but because the kind of information that I wish that people told me. I grew up
in a very old school Christian kind of European fashion where a lot of shame, a lot of not
explaining things and I had to figure things out the hard way, especially as a home school
kid. So if you ever feel like Austin, I've heard this before, it's not interesting.
It's not original. I'm trying to give you my original taste because these are all personal
experiences mixed in with data and what I've seen other people go through as well. So my
friends, I never think you're stupid. I'm just trying to explain it in a way that maybe
might give you extra food for thought. You might not have thought about it in that direction
before my friend, you take care of yourselves. I got ahead to bed. I'm falling asleep right
now, not because this is boring, but because I'm just fricking exhausted and I'm gonna
work in all day. So I'll head out. I'll talk to you all later. Let me know how you handle
a rotation or how it hasn't worked or has worked for you. I'd love to hear it. My help
some dudes in the comments who are due to watch the show who are afraid to comment. Maybe
it'll help save their life and it'll prevent them getting a false allegation or dealing
with the garbage. Take care of yourselves, my friends. I will be back. I look forward
to hearing from you. I'm out of here. I got ahead to bed. Peace.