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Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Sheep Get Sheered podcast. I'm your host Austin

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Cream, my friends. Oh man, I don't tell you. Life's exhausting, man.

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Learning ins and outs of a new profession, joling a new place to live, they can try to

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make new friends even though I'm kind of an intellectual nomad as probably most of you

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are. It's important for us to remember that we're going to face challenges. And one such

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challenge that I think we need to address today is the idea of a rotation, the idea

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of setting up and managing the different short term relationships that we have. And I want

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to provide a disclaimer right out the gate, my friends. Number one, if you have never

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gone through Monk mode, you must start there first. Why? Well, because number one, you

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need to not broke date. broke dating is the number one reason that a lot of men are depressed.

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They're trying to get maximum results with minimal effort. And it's a disgrace and a

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gigantic waste of time. That's what we're going to be talking about the idea of a rotation.

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How to set one up. And we're going to be talking about whether or not you should even be out

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there trying to get one. Now, first, I wanted to find what a rotation is. Some people refer

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to it as a roster. Some people refer to it as spinning plates on this side of the internet.

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But I like to refer to it as rotation. I'm a volleyball guy. And we have six rotations.

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And so that's why I want to call it a rotation. I'm sure I'm not the first person to do so.

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But what I will tell you, my friends is it takes tremendous work. And you are taking

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risks. But there are levels to this. If you have not gone through Monk mode, if you have

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not put women put all the distractions on the back burner and grinded for 60 months,

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at least, then or you have not been on senior retention for at least three months, 90 days.

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You should not do this. Because you are not ready. You have not had the reset. You have

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not allowed yourself to put the past behind you to then embrace the future that is in

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front of you. You might say, Austin, I don't need to do all that. That's stupid. You made

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that up. It's not important. Hey, man, you don't need to listen to me if you don't want.

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You can go out there and be an ignorant individual and make mistakes that are avoidable. If that's

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what you want to do is your life. But I'm here to tell you as a guy who's relatively

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young but I've made a tremendous amount of mistakes. I'm here to tell you this is necessary

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for growth. This is necessary. And if you're going through a divorce, or you're going through

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a long term breakup, you need to multiply it by two. You need to go 180 you need to go

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60 days, see when we're 10, then I'm sorry, I said 90 days first 180 days on senior retention,

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or a year of monk mode. And you might think it's excessive. The answer is no, it is not

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excessive. See, you have to reset your brain from trying to chase hose to establishing

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ground rules, having standards and setting up actual expectations and rules. For example,

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I'll use an example for myself to give you guys in a little bit of a way to measure this.

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For example, I do not have women come over to the crib after nine o'clock. Why? Because

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I have shit to do in the morning. They don't want to sit here and talk about, hey, girl,

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come through or I'll hit me up and be like, Daddy, can I come over and I say yes at nine

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at 830. She's like, all right, I'm leaving at nine 930. Get here at 10. We talk about

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bullshit till 1030. We have sex till 1130. She leaves at 12. I happen to shower 1230.

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You see how this is and then I wake up and I'm trying to get up in the morning and be

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productive. You see how that doesn't make sense? You see how that doesn't make a whole lot

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of sense? Good. I'm glad you saw that because that's exactly what a lot of you guys done.

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Why? Because I've done it. A lot of us have done it. There's no shame in that. But understanding

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that you have bigger fish to fry. Having sex with women is not the end all be all it is

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the cherry on top of the cake. It is not the cake. A lot of guys get this messed up and

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that is why muck mode and senior attention are necessary for you to hit that reset button

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in your brain so that instead of being a guy who's desperate, you're a guy with a destination

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and you have more important things to be doing than to dedicating your entire life around

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trying to get bitches. That is the difference maker. And that takes time. You can't just

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go to sleep tonight, wake up tomorrow morning and say, well, I'm a new man with a new mission

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and all that stuff is behind me and no, sorry, bro, you can't do that. You could have that

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intellectually, but you have not gone. That's like saying, oh, I went to the doctor doctor

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gave me a prescription. I took one dose of them of the prescription and now all of a

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sudden I'm cured and I don't need the rest of the medication. You see how dumb that sounds?

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Exactly. You need to empty that bottle in the same way that you need to empty yourself

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of all the dumb crap you've been doing all the bad habits you've picked up, etc. This

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takes time. This takes discipline to unlearn the bad behavior and relearn good behavior.

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So when it comes to rotation chicks, number one, you have to do the setup. You have to

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lay the groundwork first. Otherwise, none of this other stuff we're going to talk about

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works. Otherwise, all you're going to do is be building a house of cards that you're

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going to end up blowing over or someone's going to blow over and then you're going to

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be up a creek and you'll have wasted your time, their time and lost out on compound

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interest. And I don't want that for you. I want you to capitalize on compounding interest

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of time, not sit there and be thinking about how you got to pay for it. Fuck that shit.

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Forget that crap. We're focusing on how we can win, not just how we cannot lose. So number

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one is monk mode. You got to go there first. Number two, it is a numbers game. You need

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to understand that at the end of the day, your feelings are not dependent upon the validation

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or lack thereof of the women you are engaging with. Now I don't care if you participate

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in pay for play, or you participate in hookup culture, I don't care what you're doing.

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The sentiment is the same. You must understand, you're going to face rejection, they're going

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to face people switching up on you and pulling a bait and switch. You got to be prepared

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for this. If you're not, then go back to step one and go back to monk mode and go back.

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Don't try to get yourself ready for something that you're not ready for and there's no

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shame. There's no one size fits all for this. We have our own issues. We have our own problems,

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we have our own setbacks. There's no one size fits all for this. This is a formula you must

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apply to your life and fit it into how it's appropriate. The number two, you need to understand

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that you're going to face rejection. Sorry, I've had a long day. You're going to have

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to forgive my yawning. It's late, tired, but I want to put this out because this is important

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information that could save man's life, making really stupid, short side of decisions. And

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you're going to regret it for the time for a long time to come. Number three, after you

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must manage things correctly, you must have discipline on your time. We kind of touched

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on this earlier with time with not having chicks over to the crib past nine o'clock.

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In my example, you must have rules. You must say, Hey, I will do this. I'm not going to

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do that. Because otherwise, women are agents of chaos by nature. They will test you. They

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will see if you're just some schmuck who's got nothing better to do than stay up till

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12 o'clock on a Wednesday night. Or you got nothing better to do than to have her cancel

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on you and then reschedule for the next day and then cancel on you again because she can

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and because Tyrone hit up her phone to come through and she'd rather see Tyrone than see

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you. You need to know when to cut bait. You need to know when you're getting played and

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just not be afraid to tell bitches to fuck off. So many people are afraid. Oh, Austin,

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my roster is shrinking. What do I do? Bruh, relax, man. There's always more where that

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came from, bro. Let me tell you something. You there is more out there, man. Don't be

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sitting there being like, Oh my gosh, I need to find I need to find it when I make this

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work. No, man, relax, dude. Don't get so riled up about this. This is not a big deal. Number

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four and this is one of the most important ones after care. Let me repeat that in case

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you missed it after care. You go out there and you blow this woman's back out. Make sure

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you actually make her orgasm. By the way, this is a this is a family show for the most

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part minus the occasional word here and there. But understand that you will set yourself

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apart if you actually pretend to care. And you actually make them feel good. That's a

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little bonus information in case you didn't know. No number four is after care. I don't

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care what you did, how you did it, how dirty it was. It doesn't matter. After it's over,

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you treat her nicely. You make sure she's okay. You get her a towel. You get her some

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water. You get her a gift basket. I don't care what you do. You make sure that when

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she leaves, she feels good about what you guys did and about you. Because otherwise,

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that is how you catch a case after the fact and you end up in court. You end up getting

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sued. You end up with your reputation being put through the weed whacker. We don't want

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that. We want people to have a good time. We want people to feel valuable. We want people

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to leave feeling happy. Not people feeling like gosh, they got used. That's how you get

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a case. That's how the bullshit shows up. Don't deal with that. Do not do not just bust

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that nut and then kick the kick the girl out. Do not do this. I know you're going to feel

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like it. You're going to bust that nothing you're going to be like, Hey, I got to get

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out of here. Do not do that. You got to sit back there. You got to make sure she feels

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good. You got to make sure she feels like you actually didn't just ski on her and then

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kick her to the street. You do that. You are risking a big portion of your neck on the

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guillotine that could fall down on you five years, 10 years down the line after you start

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making some money. Do not do this. This is how you get caught. This is how you end up

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getting a me to case 10 years from now. Do not do this. Take care of people after care

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is critical. Number five, make sure you vet this person if there's more than just a one

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night thing, even then I'd say vet the person. But you must know who is do you're dealing

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with what their background is and how much of a liability they potentially are understanding

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what they want where they're going do not lead people on other false pretenses. That's

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as bad as number four. That's all but this is part number four, the aftercare. You make

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sure the person feels good when they leave your house, your apartment, your condo, you

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make sure they feel good so that they don't come back later and say that you use them,

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you did this and you did that. No, we will avoid that. That is how we get in trouble.

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You got to make sure you do your due diligence and you don't try to be a cheap piece of work

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and then it comes back to bite you in the behind. Don't do this. If you're good, if

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you're out with working girls, that's your business. Just make sure you don't try to

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skip because that's how you get caught. My friends, rotations might sound like a lot

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of work and in some ways they actually are. But once you understand that if you can manage

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yourself, you can manage your own life. You have more important things to do than just

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have intimacy with women. For example, my job is more important. Doing this show is more

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important to me than getting the main vein drained by some chick to feel good. Of course,

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it does. It's part of the release. I might it's like me eating food or a grab and a drink.

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It's no different. But understand that you must not be addicted to this. You got to set

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yourself apart. And that's why I say month mode is step one. So we're tension to step

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one because once you once you stop with the no fap, once I want you go no fap, once you

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start to your attention, you gain self control. You start to understand that you can get

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pleasure through achievements, through understanding yourself and putting yourself in a better

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position. This is going to be better than any amount of orgasms you have because the

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post not clarity will kick in when you have success. There is no post not clarity. There's

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just feeling good about your success and moving on to the next goal. My friends, a rotation

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can be complicated and I'd love to hear how will you manage yours. But understand there

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are levels to this. You can just jump in and try to do this tomorrow. You have to lay the

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groundwork. You have to be prepared. You have to know what you're getting yourself into.

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And you have to not be afraid to cut bait. You got to be unafraid to be confrontational

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about what it is and what it isn't about this relationship with these women. Except you

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are not. That's how you get hemmed up. That's how you get a case. That's how you deal with

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your cars getting your car tires getting slashed. When you try to go to work in the morning,

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don't do this. It's entirely avoidable. If you are able to maintain your aura, you are

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able to maintain yourself and your relationships properly, instead of trying to be a cheap

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piece of work or trying to be a sloth will sack a shit and trying to get around things.

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Stop trying to get around things and deal with things directly. That's how you avoid

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the BS. That's how you avoid people putting the knives in your back. Don't let them do

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it. Do not allow yourself to be put in that situation.

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My friends, I could keep talking about this for the next half hour and frankly, I kind

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of want to. But it's kind of late and I got to be up early tomorrow. And I'm kind of coming

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down with cold kind of feel is like it anyway. Don't like ever push yourself so hard, your

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body is kind of quitting on you, but your mind's still racing. And it's just like, I

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want to keep going and one keep working. I want to keep going and one keep working.

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Yeah, it's kind of where I'm at right now. I'm not satisfied. I'm always wanting to work

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more work better than yesterday. But it's freaking exhausting. I'll tell you the truth.

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But anything worth doing is hard. The show is not growing as much as I figured it would

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have. At the point we're at. But you know what? It's impacted certain men's lives were

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very valuable to me into this show. And to me, I'd rather impact 20 people really strongly

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than 2000 people who barely watch who barely give a crap.

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My friends, I share this type of information with you not because I don't think you don't

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know, but because the kind of information that I wish that people told me. I grew up

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in a very old school Christian kind of European fashion where a lot of shame, a lot of not

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explaining things and I had to figure things out the hard way, especially as a home school

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kid. So if you ever feel like Austin, I've heard this before, it's not interesting.

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It's not original. I'm trying to give you my original taste because these are all personal

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experiences mixed in with data and what I've seen other people go through as well. So my

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friends, I never think you're stupid. I'm just trying to explain it in a way that maybe

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might give you extra food for thought. You might not have thought about it in that direction

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before my friend, you take care of yourselves. I got ahead to bed. I'm falling asleep right

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now, not because this is boring, but because I'm just fricking exhausted and I'm gonna

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work in all day. So I'll head out. I'll talk to you all later. Let me know how you handle

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a rotation or how it hasn't worked or has worked for you. I'd love to hear it. My help

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some dudes in the comments who are due to watch the show who are afraid to comment. Maybe

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it'll help save their life and it'll prevent them getting a false allegation or dealing

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with the garbage. Take care of yourselves, my friends. I will be back. I look forward

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to hearing from you. I'm out of here. I got ahead to bed. Peace.