1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:06,000 is if I as a man in the year 2024 a young man I 2 00:00:06,900 --> 00:00:12,680 Say you know what guys whether you be above below mean age doesn't matter. It's not relevant 3 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:18,480 If I say to you hey guys, you know what you should go out there and you should soil those 4 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:21,460 So those royal oats you should go out there 5 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:27,080 sleep with X number of women so that the first woman who gives you a nice 6 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:30,180 go up look 5000 7 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:33,800 Snob's all over your salami paws 8 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:37,680 Or somebody who gives you that really good punani 9 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:42,460 You don't immediately wafer up because you got to make sure that you look at the whole package 10 00:00:42,460 --> 00:00:48,420 You don't just jump in you're not just like oh hell. Yeah, she's my all my kids. I'm gonna marry this woman right now 11 00:00:48,420 --> 00:01:01,300 Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the sheep get sheared podcast. I'm your host Austin creed and my friends 12 00:01:01,980 --> 00:01:04,580 You know before we get into the main topic of today 13 00:01:05,180 --> 00:01:08,180 Without being what Christians get wrong about relationships 14 00:01:08,940 --> 00:01:13,460 Today's not a good day. It's not a good day for me. It shouldn't be a good day for you 15 00:01:14,660 --> 00:01:16,660 reason being I 16 00:01:16,660 --> 00:01:18,980 Check the news pretty much every single day 17 00:01:19,820 --> 00:01:24,420 Why I mean you could call me an addict you could say that I'm obsessed with the news 18 00:01:24,420 --> 00:01:29,160 I'm addicted to bad news. I mean you could say whatever you want the fact of the matter is 19 00:01:29,540 --> 00:01:32,600 When I look at my news feed and I see that the 20 00:01:33,340 --> 00:01:35,340 animals and I mean that 21 00:01:35,740 --> 00:01:38,780 very poignantly the animals in Hamas 22 00:01:40,540 --> 00:01:42,540 Wasted all the hostages 23 00:01:43,380 --> 00:01:45,380 in Gaza 24 00:01:45,380 --> 00:01:50,540 Before the Israeli troops could save them. It's not a good day for the world. We're not I 25 00:01:51,180 --> 00:01:59,860 Don't understand how these these people of my generation these Gen Z morons how they can support these these disgusting vermin 26 00:02:00,980 --> 00:02:06,740 I'm getting mad. I'm getting mad at we have or what a minute into the show and I'm getting mad already 27 00:02:07,180 --> 00:02:09,080 We slow down 28 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:10,740 How are you doing? 29 00:02:10,740 --> 00:02:13,820 How was your long weekend? Is it good? 30 00:02:13,820 --> 00:02:15,300 Good 31 00:02:15,300 --> 00:02:17,300 I'm glad 32 00:02:17,300 --> 00:02:26,340 Welcome back to the show. I think we should start out with a nice mellow intro now that I've gotten a little bit of my anger out of the way 33 00:02:27,340 --> 00:02:29,840 Start being nice and calm 34 00:02:30,980 --> 00:02:34,860 Collected we don't want to scare any women who might come to this channel guys 35 00:02:34,860 --> 00:02:40,100 We don't want to we don't want to scare them by acting like men and having raw emotion. No 36 00:02:40,100 --> 00:02:44,580 Oh, no, no, no, no, we don't want to do that because that would 37 00:02:45,220 --> 00:02:50,860 That might be scary. They might think of us as being in a wrong light 38 00:02:50,980 --> 00:02:56,220 It's speaking of wrong lights. You know what I think what we need to do 39 00:02:56,660 --> 00:02:58,420 We need to talk about 40 00:02:58,420 --> 00:03:04,300 Christian relationships and what they get wrong now. I want to backtrack to the past for a second 41 00:03:04,300 --> 00:03:10,300 Okay, I grew up in the Christian church non-denominational Christian church was my home for a very long time 42 00:03:11,500 --> 00:03:12,380 and 43 00:03:12,380 --> 00:03:14,940 What I find very interesting my friends is 44 00:03:15,700 --> 00:03:20,420 If I as a man in the year 2024 a young man 45 00:03:21,780 --> 00:03:27,940 I say, you know what guys whether you be above below mean age doesn't matter. It's not relevant 46 00:03:27,940 --> 00:03:34,380 If I say to you hey guys, you know what you should go out there and you should soil those royals 47 00:03:34,380 --> 00:03:36,700 So those royal oats you should go out there 48 00:03:37,220 --> 00:03:42,300 sleep with X number of women so that the first woman who gives you a nice 49 00:03:43,180 --> 00:03:45,180 Gulp glug five thousand 50 00:03:47,020 --> 00:03:49,020 Snobbs all of your salami pause 51 00:03:50,220 --> 00:03:52,900 Or somebody who gives you that really good punani 52 00:03:52,900 --> 00:03:57,660 You don't immediately wafer up because you got to make sure that you look at the whole package 53 00:03:57,660 --> 00:04:03,620 You don't just jump in you know, I just like oh hell. Yeah, she's small my kids. I'm gonna marry this woman right now 54 00:04:05,460 --> 00:04:10,820 Gives you that perspective if I as a man even a Christian man if I say that oh 55 00:04:13,260 --> 00:04:17,060 This guy is a terrible sinner man, you don't want to listen to this guy this guy is 56 00:04:17,780 --> 00:04:19,940 He's a heretic. You don't want to listen to that guy 57 00:04:20,700 --> 00:04:24,500 Me while they're letting the girls go out there and you're encouraging it. Oh, yeah 58 00:04:24,500 --> 00:04:32,500 Oh, yeah societies out there telling women to do that. Oh, yeah, go out there find Tyrone find pookie find Ray Ray 59 00:04:32,500 --> 00:04:35,740 Go get that Chad. Yeah, go out there and 60 00:04:36,740 --> 00:04:44,060 Get all the Johnson you can and then you know you settle down, you know when you're 30 who cares, you know 61 00:04:44,700 --> 00:04:48,340 The shea boom just gas light them. You know what it's all good 62 00:04:48,340 --> 00:04:55,020 Yeah, I know I don't think so. Oh, I'm not down with that and the reason is I 63 00:04:55,380 --> 00:04:58,220 Don't understand how you don't see it as this 64 00:04:59,020 --> 00:05:05,120 The worst kind of discrimination the kind against me because it's discrimination plain and simple 65 00:05:05,740 --> 00:05:11,960 If anybody wants to sit here and tell me oh Austin, you know men shouldn't be going out here sleeping around why? 66 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:20,360 Because they want to just do it to do it. No, there's a purpose. There's a method to the madness that we speak of here 67 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:25,420 You know the only way if you look at Leviton law, which is the 68 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:33,840 The Pentateuch the Torah, you know what all Abrahamic religions are based off of if you look in the Leviton law 69 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:39,760 Nobody was supposed to have sex before marriage if we really want to get I know a lot of Christians hate 70 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:45,520 The Old Testament they say it's old news. It's not relevant unless they want to you know 71 00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:48,240 Cherry pick here and there to add to the New Testament 72 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:51,040 But I disagree 73 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:56,400 And so when I look at the Leviton law and it says that you're not supposed to have sex before marriage 74 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:58,400 I say, you know what that's a good idea 75 00:05:59,320 --> 00:06:04,120 But you know what they leave out that really ruins the whole thing. Oh, I'll tell you 76 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:10,520 It was that they got married from the point where they got they hit puberty 77 00:06:11,280 --> 00:06:18,000 To about age 18. That's when they got married in the Leviton days. Oh, yeah. Oh 78 00:06:18,840 --> 00:06:25,260 You didn't know that did you you thought that you were supposed to just live till 25 to 30 being a virgin 79 00:06:28,160 --> 00:06:31,520 Yeah, yeah, right, uh-huh. You like to me 80 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:34,960 Yeah, no, sorry man, even if you do that as a guy 81 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:38,960 Women aren't doing that. I don't care what lie they tell you 82 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:44,320 I don't care how the guests like you and they're not even one to ask the question. It's not true 83 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:47,480 Think about it like this 84 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:50,280 Let's flip the script for two seconds. Okay 85 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:52,480 It was a dude 86 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:55,000 We're getting attention from all these chicks 87 00:06:55,360 --> 00:07:00,320 All the time no matter what you were doing whether it was online whether it was in person 88 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:05,480 You will honestly think that you would just sit there and be like, no man 89 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:10,040 All these women are throwing themselves at me some of them very attractive 90 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:15,760 They're all throwing themselves at me and I'm just gonna turn every single one of them down 91 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:19,960 Probably wouldn't do that would you of course not 92 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:23,800 That's what women have dude. I 93 00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:30,040 I swear some of y'all need to make a tinder a bumble a hinge and 94 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:36,320 I don't care you get a picture of your sister's hand or your mother's arm and you put that on tinder 95 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:41,640 You will get matches and likes out the wazoo with a name like Kayla or 96 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:46,200 Or Maddie you're gonna meet like get like boom 97 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:51,000 So many different matches from all these thirsty dudes in your DMs 98 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:59,120 Instantly overnight, you don't believe me go out and try it. You don't believe me. Please go try it right now 99 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:05,400 I'm not making this up. So this is where Christians get this wrong they think that 100 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:08,920 Because this 101 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:12,760 Says it in the scripture that it's just supposed to be that way 102 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:17,680 They're leaving out the fact that if unless both sides stay clear to that 103 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:26,760 There's a enormous imbalance that's only going to hurt the party that is being left out in which case is going to be men 104 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:28,880 They are gonna be left out in the cold 105 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:36,160 They're going to not have as much experience as their female counterparts, which is going to be used against them 106 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:42,920 Because that's just how life works think about it like this if you was a dude if you're used to getting 107 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:47,400 Amazing sex. I'm not talking about average. I'm talking about great sex 108 00:08:47,400 --> 00:08:52,920 And then all of a sudden you get with this one chick. She can't she can't go down on you 109 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:57,600 She can't do anything with just like lay there and not do jack right and she's like 110 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:01,760 She can't do anything right you're gonna be like 111 00:09:03,480 --> 00:09:05,480 What 112 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:07,480 You're joking right 113 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:10,240 She's gonna be like you're joking right 114 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:15,240 You're probably gonna be turned off by that. It's the same thing with dudes. He's going go out here 115 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:22,160 I get ramrodded by Tyrone by Ronnie Tyrone Shad pookie you name it 116 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:29,520 Dude's got more he's got more size than you he can go longer than you you can do all this shit and 117 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:34,840 Then you're gonna marry this woman and your five stroke specials gonna be enough 118 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:40,000 No, it's not and the fact of the matter is 119 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:44,840 This is what older men don't tell young men about marriage 120 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:52,040 Especially in the church. They won't do it. Why oh, that's that's crude. It's inappropriate 121 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:57,960 We don't want to talk about that. It's it's it's it's inappropriate. It's not polite conversation 122 00:09:57,960 --> 00:10:03,360 I don't care if it's polite conversation. I care about it because it's relevant. I 123 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:07,880 Wish I'd been told this but you're not told this why? 124 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:15,760 Because a most men won't accept it and be because they want to pretend like even if it's real 125 00:10:15,760 --> 00:10:20,960 You can overcome it by doing x y or z thing which if you look at the data 126 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:26,120 The divorce statistics data the body count data. It's not adding up 127 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:28,240 and 128 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:34,560 I don't understand why this is not a bigger topic. The problem is a lot of Christian men 129 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:38,560 Think that because the Christian women go to Sunday school in a sundress 130 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:44,240 Or they go to to the sanctuary and a sundress on Sundays that they're not getting 131 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:51,960 Their guts rearranged by Tyrone on Saturday or on Tuesday night at two o'clock in the morning because it's happening 132 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:57,360 And you being mad at me or disagreeing with me is not going to change anything 133 00:10:57,360 --> 00:11:02,320 I know you don't want to believe this. I know a lot of you you believe it now 134 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:09,120 But you didn't believe it back in the day. Why because you didn't want to you want to believe that your girl was different 135 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:13,400 The girl you liked was different the girls at your church were different, but they're not 136 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:17,080 Why 137 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:22,040 Because this is all part of the cultural dynamics that have shifted 138 00:11:22,040 --> 00:11:27,400 This is all part of the game my friends. I'm not sitting here and telling you 139 00:11:28,240 --> 00:11:32,920 Anything that you probably haven't heard before but the problem is if you are a church going guy 140 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:36,920 You haven't heard this before you want to look over at your girlfriend 141 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:40,520 You want to look over at your wife and you want to pretend like it's not I'm not talking about her 142 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:48,080 But the problem is you don't know why because you didn't ask number one and because even if she told you 143 00:11:48,080 --> 00:11:56,120 You would not want to accept it as being the truth tell me I'm lying you wouldn't want to accept it and 144 00:11:56,960 --> 00:11:59,920 Because of that you'd rather get me angry at me 145 00:11:59,920 --> 00:12:03,960 You'd rather get angry at guys like myself on this side of the internet 146 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:06,520 You'd rather get mad at the guys who watch this channel 147 00:12:06,520 --> 00:12:13,080 You'd rather get mad at us instead of looking in the mirror and saying you need to accept the realities of life 148 00:12:13,080 --> 00:12:21,320 You need to accept that because the church is not what it once was that because we have been so indoctrinated over the last 149 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:25,160 40-50 years from feminism from the 1960s and 70s 150 00:12:26,240 --> 00:12:28,240 The world is not the same place 151 00:12:28,960 --> 00:12:29,960 and 152 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:33,360 You must accept this to move forward but the problem is 153 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:37,040 Men want to go to church and they want to pretend like oh 154 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:43,800 Because they wear a sundress and they have a Bible in their hands that all of a sudden they're immune to all this bullshit 155 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:46,440 And the answer is no they are not 156 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:51,960 They are not if they're posting bikini pictures at the beach with their friends 157 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:55,160 They're not different if they're going out to parties 158 00:12:55,200 --> 00:13:02,840 They're not different if they're going out to the bar the club the the line dancing. They're not necessarily different 159 00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:06,880 If they smoke weed they're not different 160 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:12,360 If they have multiple boyfriends multiple fiance's they are not different 161 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:15,800 They have an STD. They're not different 162 00:13:17,080 --> 00:13:23,800 Do I need to keep going down the list because I'll keep going down the list because y'all hard-headed men need to hear this shit 163 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:27,240 You need to hear this because you don't want to accept this is true 164 00:13:27,240 --> 00:13:32,080 Or maybe you have and if you have sit back and enjoy the show because you've taken a leap 165 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:37,000 Then most men don't have the guts to do most men don't want to hear this 166 00:13:37,880 --> 00:13:41,160 In the same way that if I got on here and I said hello ladies 167 00:13:41,680 --> 00:13:46,200 Today we're gonna talk about how you can please your man how you can have a better marriage 168 00:13:46,440 --> 00:13:49,680 How you can do things for your husband immediately 169 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:55,820 They turn the channel. They're not listening versus if I got up here and I said yeah, you know what this peed 170 00:13:55,820 --> 00:14:01,000 Joke he's oppressing all of you and you need to go out there and fight for your rights and get that abortion and do this 171 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:07,080 To do that in both for cup all of hairs. They'd be like. Oh my god. This guy is brilliant. This guy is the best 172 00:14:07,080 --> 00:14:09,080 I got a subscriber right now. I 173 00:14:09,480 --> 00:14:11,480 Don't do that. Why? 174 00:14:14,360 --> 00:14:17,360 Because good medicine tastes lousy 175 00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:27,400 And I'm not a quack who gives you the cotton candy flavored cough syrup that doesn't do jack besides taste good 176 00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:34,560 I'm out here trying to give you the medicine that I took the other men in my life have taken that I made them better men 177 00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:41,640 Then I angry don't mistake my passion for anger if I was angry. I'd be cursing at the women 178 00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:44,140 I'd be cursing at the men. I'm not angry 179 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:51,480 I'm passionate because I want you to avoid some of the pitfalls I myself have had you think I discovered this overnight 180 00:14:51,680 --> 00:14:53,600 No, sir. I did not 181 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:58,720 No, sir. I didn't when I first heard this message. I thought it was a bunch of garbage. I didn't listen to it 182 00:14:58,720 --> 00:15:05,200 I didn't want to hear it. I kept going and saying and that ain't me not my girl not gonna happen and guess what I 183 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:10,600 Was wrong every time until I realized wait a minute. Hold up. Wait a minute 184 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:15,240 Maybe I'm wrong here. Maybe there's something to this. Maybe I need to 185 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:20,320 Change my perspective because whatever I'm doing is not working 186 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:26,440 So I need to fix it. I'm the common denominator here something is wrong with what I'm doing 187 00:15:26,440 --> 00:15:30,680 I don't care if it's 10% or 100% something ain't working 188 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:37,920 And then when I look at the Old Testament and I look at the fact of the matter or even we can go to the New Testament 189 00:15:37,920 --> 00:15:39,600 Let's go to the New Testament 190 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:45,160 When we look at Paul and he talks about why husband should love their wives with Christ loved the church 191 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:50,720 He was living in a society where you could beat the crap out of your wife and nobody gave a shit 192 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:55,440 Nobody sat there was like, oh my god. I gotta call cops on this dude. No 193 00:15:56,000 --> 00:16:01,520 No, nobody cared you could do whatever the hell you wanted and no one could do anything about it 194 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:03,520 Why cuz she was basically just your property 195 00:16:05,440 --> 00:16:08,920 You could do it over the hell you wanted and nobody did anything about it 196 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:13,000 You could afford to be a monster. So when you weren't 197 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:18,000 That was virtuous today. If you even raise your voice, it's 911 already 198 00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:24,080 You already know it immediately the cops are getting called and your ass is your your your going to jail 199 00:16:24,760 --> 00:16:26,840 Game over you know it 200 00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:32,360 Some of you have experienced this in your divorce. So if you experienced this in a nasty breakup 201 00:16:34,360 --> 00:16:38,160 You know this to be true. I don't need to remind you of what you already know 202 00:16:38,160 --> 00:16:44,440 Problem is people think that if you go to church, you are immune to all of this circus level crap and the answer is no 203 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:46,440 You are not 204 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:48,440 You must accept reality 205 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:51,520 Whether you want to or not because it ain't going anywhere 206 00:16:52,760 --> 00:16:57,960 Now you might have a slightly different experience. That's great. However 207 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:06,280 You're taking one example for fifty thousand and saying that because of that year, it's not relevant. Oh 208 00:17:06,280 --> 00:17:10,200 Hey, do what you want. So it's your life. Do what you want. Just be aware 209 00:17:12,200 --> 00:17:18,000 That if you try to do this you are playing with fire fire that could burn your the entire kindling 210 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:20,600 Which is your life and be aware of that 211 00:17:22,560 --> 00:17:29,760 My friends I would love to hear from you about how you were lied to when you were younger whether it was by society 212 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:32,680 church school parents 213 00:17:32,680 --> 00:17:33,680 peers 214 00:17:33,680 --> 00:17:36,680 You name it politicians 215 00:17:36,880 --> 00:17:40,440 I'd love to hear it because this is a relevant conversation to a lot of men 216 00:17:41,240 --> 00:17:44,920 Who think that because they're religious that this doesn't apply to them? 217 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:50,680 They think that if they just go to church and date the nice looking girl in the sundress who has the Bible on the cross 218 00:17:50,680 --> 00:17:54,440 Necklace that they're gonna be immune to the circus, but they're not 219 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:57,880 They are not immune to this and the fact of the matter is 220 00:17:57,880 --> 00:18:02,040 Sun Sue said in the art of war that unless you know yourself and your enemy 221 00:18:02,040 --> 00:18:08,040 You cannot hold the key to victory and a lot of men are turning their backs for the brutus to stab them 222 00:18:08,040 --> 00:18:12,640 And it's not gonna happen right away gonna happen over time because you were never the first choice 223 00:18:12,640 --> 00:18:16,400 There are always other options out there. She's gonna ask herself 224 00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:24,240 Why you and what does she have the gain by being with you because she wouldn't be with you if there was nothing to gain by being with you 225 00:18:24,240 --> 00:18:32,440 You're all important aspects you are overlooking and the name of love because a lot of men want to be loved when women are in business 226 00:18:32,440 --> 00:18:35,840 We must understand this if we wish to survive 227 00:18:37,440 --> 00:18:40,800 My friends again, I'd love to hear from you. How has 228 00:18:41,440 --> 00:18:48,440 Religion how politicians how a society school and what not led you to make bad decisions when it came to women thinking you were immune 229 00:18:48,440 --> 00:18:49,840 Because of XYZ 230 00:18:49,840 --> 00:18:55,240 Reason let me know let other men know that they're not alone if they struggle with the same thing 231 00:18:57,840 --> 00:19:00,440 My friends take care yourselves 232 00:19:01,840 --> 00:19:03,840 Let me know what you think 233 00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:18,840 We need to share and compare notes on this issue and many many others to come. Take care. I'm out of here. Peace