1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:05,320 Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Sheep Get Sheered Podcast. 2 00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:07,200 I'm your host Austin Creed. 3 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:14,480 My friends, today we're going to revisit the concept, the institution of family. 4 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:18,400 Now you might ask yourself why. 5 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:20,640 Well that's a very good question. 6 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:26,120 Because one of the tenets of the biblical bachelor lifestyle which I created and wrote 7 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:29,480 a whole book about, one of the chapters is about surrogacy. 8 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:35,320 Now you know, you would be shocked at how many people when I tell them and I don't 9 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:37,920 write that chapter for a fact. 10 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:40,880 I write it because that's what I'm planning to do. 11 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:45,440 I've done a lot of research on the topic because I genuinely want to pursue that. 12 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:47,480 I don't plan on being a married man. 13 00:00:47,480 --> 00:00:50,200 I don't plan on having children. 14 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:55,120 Normally, you know, almost every other human in the history of the world has had. 15 00:00:55,120 --> 00:00:57,320 Why you might ask? 16 00:00:57,320 --> 00:01:01,960 Well, you know, you could read my chapter, but I'll give you a little bit of an obsessive 17 00:01:01,960 --> 00:01:03,440 what we're talking about. 18 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:10,160 Reason why is you ask any divorced guy who's in this community who listens to this show, 19 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:15,800 you ask them what it's like to put your life together to help continue on after your divorce 20 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:22,680 is over, after your marriage is over, after you're trying to pick the pieces up, you're 21 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:24,160 trying to raise your kids. 22 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:30,600 Your kids, your own flesh and blood are used as pawns against you on the chessboard of 23 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:32,600 life. 24 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:38,320 You as a man are at a disadvantage in the system because the marriage laws were represented 25 00:01:38,320 --> 00:01:41,320 at the time about 100 years ago, not now. 26 00:01:41,320 --> 00:01:44,600 No, no, no, they don't represent the modern man. 27 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:46,280 They don't defend you. 28 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:48,680 They tell you to use protection when you have sex, right? 29 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:53,680 Because that makes sense, prevents diseases, prevents you from having unwanted pregnancies, 30 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:54,680 etc. 31 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:57,920 Well, then where's the protection on my marriage? 32 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:01,680 I can wrap up my schmangrid, but I can't wrap up my marriage. 33 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:04,600 I can't sit there with protection against the system. 34 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:07,720 I can't sit there with protection against the woman and her feelings. 35 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:15,000 I can't do anything other than get blamed for everything on the way out by people, by 36 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:20,920 judicial figures, and by my ex-wife in my estimation that if anybody's been married and 37 00:02:20,920 --> 00:02:25,600 they want to sit here and tell me I'm wrong, feel free, because I have not been married. 38 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:30,640 I am merely a watcher, an observer on the tower, looking down at the village beneath 39 00:02:30,640 --> 00:02:35,080 me, seeing what is unfolding, and ringing the bell when necessary, and this is one of 40 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:39,440 those times when I'm ringing the bell because this is the problem. 41 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:46,400 This is not an enemy from outside, the walls of the city, of my mind, this is on the inside. 42 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:50,840 These are people who are supposed to be your biggest supporter. 43 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:56,880 And yet, you as a man, you are put in a position where you have, next to if not any leverage 44 00:02:56,880 --> 00:03:01,160 at all, nothing, zero. 45 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:06,200 Because the average person, the average schmuck, will believe that, whether they're male or 46 00:03:06,200 --> 00:03:11,000 female by the way, they will believe that you as the man, let's say for example a woman 47 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:15,760 you're trying to go out with, right, she says that she was in an abusive relationship. 48 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:21,800 Out the gate, you're going to assume that the man was abusive to her when statistically 49 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:28,360 speaking it's about even, and arguably could be that women are more abusive than men, if 50 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:34,640 you factor in emotional abuse, gaslighting, manipulation, etc. 51 00:03:34,640 --> 00:03:35,960 Guess what? 52 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:42,520 All of a sudden, you would change your tune, but that's not what you're initially going 53 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:48,440 to believe, is it because you've been conditioned to believe that the man is naturally more 54 00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:53,800 inclined to be abusive and the woman is more inclined to be tolerant and nice to the Oshigar 55 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:56,240 and Spice and all that crap, right? 56 00:03:56,240 --> 00:03:58,880 Well, we get into surrogacy. 57 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:07,360 Surrogacy is basically paying upfront for somebody to, for lack of a better term, incubate the 58 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:15,040 child and then you have full rights to that child, full parental rights, and nobody gets 59 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:17,760 to come in there and cut you off. 60 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:22,000 Now you might say, well Austin, but the mother has to be involved too. 61 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:23,000 Hey, guess what? 62 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:26,920 If you want to work that out from a legal perspective, you are more than happy to do 63 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:34,400 that, but let me tell you something, do not for a second use that argument as an excuse 64 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:38,440 to try to get married because let's be honest, that's not the reason you're doing it. 65 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:40,720 The reason you're doing it is you won't fit in. 66 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:45,400 The reason you're doing it is you think you're going to have exclusive access to that punani 67 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:48,400 when statistically that is not true. 68 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:53,960 Statistically, if you look at stats, men and women cheat about equally and that's just 69 00:04:53,960 --> 00:05:01,640 when they self-report the cheating and men tend to get caught more when they cheat because 70 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:05,520 women tend to tell other women when their man is cheating because they want to be the 71 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:11,000 main bitch whereas men, if you're a sneaky link, fuck it some other guy's girlfriend, 72 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:13,640 what are you going to tell that guy your fucking girlfriend? 73 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:14,640 Absolutely not. 74 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:15,640 No you're not. 75 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:19,360 You're going to get those guts and send her back leaking to her boyfriend or husband, 76 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:20,360 that's all. 77 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:24,760 What, did it be a rocket scientist to figure this out? 78 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:31,600 This is why the stats look the way they do and why the average schmuck will say, oh 79 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:35,440 you know often you're being paranoid, just pick the right woman, just pick the right 80 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:38,120 woman man, it's that simple, it's that easy. 81 00:05:38,120 --> 00:05:39,920 Oh it's simple is it? 82 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:45,120 Well if it was so simple you would think that most people would get that when in fact 83 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:52,520 they don't, they usually have to pretend like the guy basically is like a hostage. 84 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:58,680 You basically, let me put it to you this way, when I'll bring up Israel for a second, why 85 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:01,760 do you think they're so stupid? 86 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:07,200 Remember those attacks in October where people got captured and were taken to underground 87 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:08,200 tunnels? 88 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:13,240 Yeah, and then remember when they were getting released and we all expected the people to 89 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:17,120 be like oh they were horrible, they were abusing me, they were torturing me, they were treating 90 00:06:17,120 --> 00:06:21,600 me like crap, and then they came out of the hole and they were like oh no, oh no, the 91 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:27,960 women were like no they treated us like goddesses, they were so kind, the terrorist scum who 92 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:32,920 killed my grandfather and raped my mother, no they were nice people, no they treated 93 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:33,920 us respectfully. 94 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:37,800 Does anybody believe that at all? 95 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:42,480 And if you do you're a really sick person as far as I'm concerned, but the same thing 96 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:47,400 can be said for the average guy in his relationship, you think he's gonna tell his guy friends 97 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:52,720 or his parents or anybody about hey man you know my wife doesn't really have sex with 98 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:57,880 me much anymore, you know my wife's kind of being really passive aggressive against me, 99 00:06:57,880 --> 00:06:59,800 you think they're gonna do that? 100 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:03,080 No, because then he's gonna get blamed, oh what did you do? 101 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:08,160 Oh it must be your fault, you must not be hitting it right, you must not be listening to her, 102 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:13,040 you must not be doing this, that and the other thing, tell me I'm lying, you can't, because 103 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:18,920 you know it's true, married men know this, versus the married women will complain about 104 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:24,360 their husbands every damn day, oh we don't do the dishes, oh his breath stank, oh he 105 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:30,360 left his underwear in the, in a lot, he left his clothes on the bathroom floor, oh he didn't 106 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:33,800 take the dog for a walk, he can sing, sing garbage. 107 00:07:33,800 --> 00:07:39,680 Well guys, if you want to get married go ahead, I'm not stopping you, but I'm telling you 108 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:46,280 there are alternatives out there where you get to keep your leverage, you don't have to 109 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:53,640 be in a prostate of, state of mind, you don't have to be a subservient man, you don't have 110 00:07:53,640 --> 00:08:01,240 to, now if you want that because you're a sexual deviant, feel free, that's your choice, 111 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:08,200 but understand that the normies don't know what they're talking about, look if you want 112 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:14,240 to go and be like the average guy then go ahead but don't expect to live an above standard 113 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:20,280 life when you take the standard route, and when we get in this idea of surrogacy, a lot 114 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:24,320 of people want to say or look at the price tag and say, often you know it's like 100 115 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:29,920 grand, 150 grand, that's too much, that is too much, I'd rather just, you know, roll 116 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:35,560 the dice and get married to a woman or a baby mom or whatever, and I say, hey you know what, 117 00:08:35,560 --> 00:08:40,360 you go ahead and do that, just know though it's not going to be cheaper than the option 118 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:44,360 you're turning down, oh I know that if you look at it right now it seems like it's really 119 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:50,640 expensive and it is, but you're paying on the back end, you're paying incrementally, 120 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:57,320 that's like saying, hey you can pay $600 now or $100 a month in the next 6 months, you're 121 00:08:57,320 --> 00:09:05,000 paying the same amount of money, or arguably more if you factor interest in there, but 122 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:10,760 because you only see $100 going in incrementally, there's a mental switch that says, oh I'm 123 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:16,040 not paying as much, but actually you are, you're paying more, but because it doesn't 124 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:20,760 happen all at one time, you think you're winning, you think you're saving money, you think 125 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:25,000 you're making the right decision, but you're not, you're falling for the trap that they 126 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:28,240 expect you to fall for, why? 127 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:35,320 Because most people do it, most people do it, it's easy to fall for this trap, gentlemen 128 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:41,240 we need to understand how the world works if we want to win, and so when I bring up 129 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:48,400 surrogacy I'm not telling you to do it because you hate women, no, no it's because you understand 130 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:54,480 a female, you understand where they come from, when they get bored of monogamy much quicker 131 00:09:54,480 --> 00:10:00,760 than you, because they sacrifice all their other options by the way in case you don't 132 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:06,280 know it, even if they have a sneaky link when they're in a relationship with you, they 133 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:11,520 have dudes in their DMs, dudes that hang them up at the coffee shop, at the gym, you name 134 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:18,200 it, there's a dude there who would instantly pipe your girl down, no questions asked, doesn't 135 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:24,000 care if she has an STD, doesn't care if she's in a relationship, nothing, he doesn't care, 136 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:28,200 he's horny, who cares, he's thinking, well he's dingling, he ain't thinking with his 137 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:35,120 brain, in the same way that you my friend, you sacrifice your options but it takes you 138 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:43,160 time to build those options, women are built with value, men must create their value, that's 139 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:47,760 why when women are young they have tons of options and you as a guy when you're young 140 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:53,920 you tend to not have much unless you are gifted physically or financially or whatever it may 141 00:10:53,920 --> 00:11:01,360 be, you don't have that, they do, I know that a lot of this is like basic crap that a lot 142 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:09,720 of you already know but it gives you the proper perspective to understand why this is important, 143 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:14,120 because once you understand you can go to the junior college, shout out to cga, once 144 00:11:14,120 --> 00:11:19,200 you understand that sugar babies exist, once you understand that a lot of guys in hollywood, 145 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:25,040 a lot of guys on social media, on the podcasting realm, you name it, they and a lot of the 146 00:11:25,040 --> 00:11:31,160 rich guys like Elon muskin in my estimation and those types of guys, they don't have normal 147 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:40,360 girlfriends, they don't have normal wives, they have women under contract, of course 148 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:45,120 they don't advertise that because then you wouldn't buy their rap music, you wouldn't 149 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:48,680 listen to their rap music if you knew the guy was paying for the sex, instead of pretending 150 00:11:48,680 --> 00:11:54,080 like he was macgin' them down at the club, it's all based on an illusion that you are 151 00:11:54,080 --> 00:11:59,920 buying because they're selling it to you and this is the problem, once you understand 152 00:11:59,920 --> 00:12:04,520 that a lot of the guys at the top who you actually idolize are not doing what they're 153 00:12:04,520 --> 00:12:09,320 telling you that they're doing, in fact they're doing something a lot easier in my opinion, 154 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:15,960 something that's a lot less, except in a lot less mainstream, it's changing but it's 155 00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:21,040 not quite there yet, you understand you have to operate differently than these people in 156 00:12:21,040 --> 00:12:26,400 this big persona that they're pushing on you, I'm not pretending, you think I read an old 157 00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:30,840 chapter about this, and talk about it if I didn't believe in it, that'd be stupid and 158 00:12:30,840 --> 00:12:38,800 a waste of my time, it's time as your own valuable asset, so why would I waste it, gentlemen, 159 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:43,040 I'm telling you and as time goes on in the next 10 years, as I will be doing the show, 160 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:51,320 unless I get some random car accident happens, the classic standard accident happens type 161 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:57,240 garbage, unless I get assassinated, I'm gonna keep doing the show and you're gonna see in 162 00:12:57,240 --> 00:13:02,360 10 years, I'm gonna have exactly what we're talking about now, I'm gonna have certain 163 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:07,840 kids, I'm gonna have multiple girlfriends from probably sugar babies, jucoes, whatever, 164 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:13,560 why, because that's how I'm choosing to operate, I'm not choosing to be a normie because I 165 00:13:13,560 --> 00:13:18,680 don't want normal results, I don't want a normal life, do you? 166 00:13:18,680 --> 00:13:23,440 Is that what you want, do you want to give up leverage in your life so you get to be 167 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:29,560 like the average schmuck, I don't think so, so why do you live that life while wanting 168 00:13:29,560 --> 00:13:37,480 something different, that's incongruent, doesn't work, my friends please listen to me, listen 169 00:13:37,480 --> 00:13:43,240 to me dammit, if you want to have an above average life, then stop living like the average 170 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:51,840 schmuck who has nothing, stop acting like if I just live this certain way or I'm, no, 171 00:13:51,840 --> 00:13:56,320 you don't want big results, you're gonna have to make big changes in your life, you don't 172 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:59,840 want to have everything, well guess what, you're gonna lose a lot of the process, including 173 00:13:59,840 --> 00:14:04,560 a lot of your so called friends, family members, and people who claim to support you, what 174 00:14:04,560 --> 00:14:10,560 all they do is protect and support this version of you that doesn't exist that they see, that's 175 00:14:10,560 --> 00:14:14,840 all, my friends please let me know what you think, if you've considered this, if you've 176 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:19,920 done this, let me know, if you consider this let me know, let me know what you think, this 177 00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:24,920 is important, my friends take care of yourselves, speak for yourselves, I gotta get out of here, 178 00:14:24,920 --> 00:14:30,280 I got an appointment to get to, so I gotta dash, I gotta delta out of here, my friends 179 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:35,560 take care, I'm out, peace.