Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Sheep Get Sheered podcast.
I'm your host Austin Creed.
My friends today we're going to discuss the monetized dating marketplace.
Now I've been trying to turn us not not just towards relationships but to the overall big
picture of life.
But one of the picture one of the aspects of this giant picture we call life is the unfortunate
reality that we as men we crave a wit we crave women we crave sex we crave intimacy we crave
physical emotional spiritual all that stuff right which then leads us usually to the dating
marketplace.
Now the day marketplace of yesteryear is a lot different than it is now is even different
than it was 10 years ago five years ago and the internet was a huge game changer and not
only was the internet a big game changer but we've gone from more of a traditional culture
to hook up culture to now we have a monetized dating marketplace we have people openly selling
themselves the highest bidder on X on Instagram on tick tock it's right it's all over the
place it used to be a microcosm of the dating marketplace but now it's mainstream now it's
right in front of your face they call it sugar babies they call it dating for the celebrities
a lot of these women are under contract now my friends those of you who are on the the
dark side if you want to call it that or they're you're outside the norm you know this better
than I do probably just how monetize the dating marketplace is and this is part of the red
pill this is part of the truth that relationships are never free a lot of men they pay on the
back end they pay with their attention their energy usually through the form of listening
to women's problems and paying for dates and hearing about their problems to try to have
sex with them you know the you know the game you learn this in high school for God's sakes
but what's interesting my friends is a lot of people they still try to think that this
is back in like the early 2000s when hookup culture was still raging you know when Tinder
was new and all that kind of stuff but hookup culture is largely gone traditionalism almost
impossible to find it because it's not the mainstream anymore you have women getting
more attention from more men they've ever gotten in the history of the world on on Instagram
on X on tiktok on Facebook you name it you name it there it is women who are mid at best
are now getting hordes of thirsty dudes in their DMs hordes of men calling them pretty
and amazing and beautiful and you name it inflating their egos we call this whole flation
you have inflation with the economy and have whole flation in the dating marketplace and
my friends we all know this to an extent that the dating marketplace is off but we don't
always know why we don't know who's to blame we don't know what to do with the information
and despite the fact that even if we know it even if we actively are practicing sexual
transmutation even if we're doing all these things we still find ourselves or at least
I sometimes find myself in this position of well I still have needs so what am I supposed
to do what do we do and I think this is part of the biblical bachelor lifestyle that isn't
talked on enough and it's understanding that you need to decide what you want you can be
like everybody else and kind of just look in but not looking but looking but like not
trying to look desperate but like not you know you want sex but you don't want to be
you know a dirt bag or you're trying to you know trick on chicks all the time which you
want to do that go ahead or you're trying to run game and get it for free there are
so many different people doing so many different things from the passport bros to the guys
who are out here trying to run game and Mac these hoes like it's tooth like it's 1994
I mean I don't know what to do with those guys because they're totally out of the realm
of reality but the problem my friends is what do we do with this and what do you choose
in to do with it what do you do with your sexual energy because I would argue it's
not evil I would argue it's not bad in fact that's like saying oh I have an appetite that's
bad or I need to go I need to go take a dump that's bad no it's not so normally it's
a normal function of your body in the same way that sex is the same it's the same thing
in my opinion but a lot of people who are religious they won't see it that way because
they've been told not to they've been conditioned not to but when you look at the dating marketplace
you could often times suffer from dating fatigue if you're choosing to do it at all and for
those of us who have learned not to participate in the system but may not always have the
money to trick on hoes or pay for a rotation of chicks if you even want to go down that
route even if you're doing that you can often times you can get sick of it and so the question
is how do you deal with the dating marketplace the way it is how have you overcome the hookup
culture how have you overcome this natural desire to have this traditionalism that's
fed to you and entertainment and social media and pop culture and maybe even your family
and your community and your church how have you overcome these expectations because look
let's be real as much as we are probably off the beaten path with a lot of what we believe
a lot of what we say a lot of what we think we still have to be around these people I
mean I'll tell you guys I go to every day at this point hasn't always been like this
but every day I go to a coffee shop usually a different one every day to get some editing
done on my manuscripts I'm working on to think about what I want to talk about on the show
that that day and to kind of get away from it all and to an extent people watch a little
bit all in the same thing but what's interesting is amidst my active working I'll look around
I'll see what people are doing I might eavesdrop on two seconds of what they're talking about
at the close enough to mean which if you do that at the either your own fault for talking
too loud but it's interesting that people are so simple we like to over complicate
the human condition a lot but when you break it all down you strip away all the romantics
you strip away all the schematics you strip away all the if and buts what ifs and all
that it's pretty simple it's very simple and I am not a communist but when Karl Marx
said that use was the only currency I think he had a point that's what a lot of relationships
between man and woman are amongst people in general but especially amongst men and women
it's use the other person using the other person that's how it works oh I know that
that's not it doesn't sound good doesn't make you feel good but that's too damn bad too
damn bad that's the way it works everybody knows that and only people who don't want
to admit that they don't want to admit that that's what they do and that's the way they
operate there's no shame in it that's the reality we live in that is part of the game
now when it comes to this monetized dating marketplace we have to decide whether we want
to be go on the quote dark side or whether we want to just try this it's it's like going
from it's like taking the red pill but then wanting to go purple pill again guys let me
tell you something as I wrote a whole chapter in biblical bachelor the book about surrogacy
and about not being a normie when it comes to relationship because so many of us we can
be surrounded by people especially when we're just starting out we can be surrounded by
these people who are trying to tell us to be normal again they're trying to push us
to go back into the matrix and try to push us to go back and do these things and it's
hard to cut them off especially if they're family but my friends I've learned as I'm
sure you have as well but this will get one life we only have one chance to get everything
we ever wanted and we can sit back and think about all the reasons why we shouldn't go
for it or we can accept it for what it is just as we can accept women we can accept the
financial freedom aspect we can accept politics and religion for what it is which is largely
a scam and we could say you know what I'm gonna go full monk forever hey if you can
do that my god my hats off to you you're a special breed I'll tell you but for all most
of us mere mortals who are not monks who are not enlightened such as you we have needs
we don't have the ability to never go without and you know what I'm not a big believer in
masturbation and the reason why is I think you can I think you're wasting the energy
without adequate compensation now is it better than throwing your time in a garbage disposal
going out on dates with chicks yeah yeah in my opinion is better than that but there's
better ways of going about it and my friends we need to have an open conversation I think
about this and I know that YouTube especially is really bad about allowing free speech I
mean it's look at what they're doing with Trump and the assassination attempt and how
they're actively trying to get rid of it in my estimation and then we won't go down
that rabbit hole because I don't want it in the politics right now and the whole thing
is a whole thing is so stupid whole thing is just a neutrosweet one or neutrosweet two
you want blue neutrosweet or red reach I mean the whole thing is largely just owned by the
same people and the whole thing is a shameless and a two-card Monty hose job in my opinion
but again we're getting off the tracks here we're getting off tracks it comes to the dating
marketplace I'm not telling you you need to go on looking for pros on the street that's
not what I'm telling you at all what I'm saying is at the end of the day we have to protect
ourselves and I would recommend that you pay up front whether it's with your time your
energy your attention you pay up front you be honest with these people up front what
you expect don't try to weasel your way through the back door that's how you get an allegation
that's how they feel cheated by you and then all of a sudden you're going to court all
of a sudden you're getting fired from your job all of a sudden your life is in a really
tough position and I don't want you to be there we underestimate just how much power
women have I know this is like red pill one-on-one stuff we we need to return to the basics
are once in a while to build upon it and go farther because a lot of us we don't fully
get this part we don't fully understand the danger we could be in if we are not careful
whether it's with financial freedom whether it's with religion and politics relationships
you name it all of it we need to be careful because we are menaces to society that's
really good book title menaces to society means to which a man becomes free now that's
a good book that's a good book title anybody want to steal that go ahead but not anybody
want to steal that you're welcome good go ahead make my day but again guys I think it's important
and I would love to hear your thoughts on this as well about getting past the hookup culture
getting past the desire for tradition not just in theory not just intellectually understanding
it but emotionally integrating it into us that we can never have that because it's an
illusion meant to domesticate us like a treat is used to entice a dog to sit marriage is
meant to entice a man to give up his soul the system marriage is just a legal prostitution
license in my opinion that's what it is oh I know that makes it sound really revolting
and bad but when you strip it all away that's what it is so then what are you supposed to
do you're gonna just go for it putting yourself in an in an arcade system that's meant for
guys of the prohibition era man I'm telling you I don't I wouldn't do it I wouldn't do
it not for two seconds would I consider doing something like that today but then yeah then
you have a whole new set of problems so what do you do then you go to the pub and help
to get lucky every weekend or every other night or do you go for sugar babies on the internet
or do you just find the jerk shack like what do you do because you gotta find something
you can't just sit in your in your house and bust gallons of nuts on yourself forever for
it oh god what a horrible stuff god get that off oh man I want that image out of my mind
why did I do that to myself anyways enough of this enough of this my friends let me know
what you've done because I know what I'm planning to do I just at this point don't have the
fundage that I want to do what I want to do and I'm actively working to rectify that problem
well what have you done I know a lot of you guys are older than me and frankly I'll be
honest I'm surprised you listen to me if you're older than me because a lot of guys I grew
up with who their fathers older brothers cousins uncles whatever they don't listen to me well
they know as much as I think they should but a lot of guys were older they don't listen
to younger guys so if you're older why do you why do you listen to me what have you
how have you made it through this problem how have you rectified this how do you satisfy
your sexual needs without being a normie and training your soul for it because I'm going
to pay but that's too high a price a soul is too valuable man let me know what how you
how y'all have figured this out what have you done because maybe someone else is in
the same position or they don't know what to do or they're tired of what they're currently
doing and they want a fresh start they want to do something new maybe maybe you could
open a door for somebody else and you've put in that hard work and you've saved somebody
else at time that's what I'd hope to do with guys who are younger than me who listen to
the show if there are if there are any my friends let me know I'd love to hear it in
the meantime I think I'll do another show on this because I'm moving here in about a
week so I'm kind of getting ready for all that but I'm probably gonna do another show
on this showing you exactly what I'm talking about and how dating went really meant prostitution
back in the day and how it's evolved to what we have now and whatnot give you guys a little
history lesson if you didn't already know it but anyways my friends take care of yourselves
let me know please I'm not joking I'd love to hear how you how you manage this aspect
of your life how you've navigated through this difficult situation when you're not a
normie anyways take care stay encouraged continue searching for the truth don't give up I'm
out peace.