1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:04,380 Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Sheep Get Sheered podcast. 2 00:00:04,380 --> 00:00:07,220 I'm your host Austin Creed. 3 00:00:07,220 --> 00:00:11,600 My friends today we're going to discuss the monetized dating marketplace. 4 00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:19,320 Now I've been trying to turn us not not just towards relationships but to the overall big 5 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:21,040 picture of life. 6 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:26,080 But one of the picture one of the aspects of this giant picture we call life is the unfortunate 7 00:00:26,080 --> 00:00:35,680 reality that we as men we crave a wit we crave women we crave sex we crave intimacy we crave 8 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:43,440 physical emotional spiritual all that stuff right which then leads us usually to the dating 9 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:44,760 marketplace. 10 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:50,640 Now the day marketplace of yesteryear is a lot different than it is now is even different 11 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:56,880 than it was 10 years ago five years ago and the internet was a huge game changer and not 12 00:00:56,880 --> 00:01:04,600 only was the internet a big game changer but we've gone from more of a traditional culture 13 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:12,120 to hook up culture to now we have a monetized dating marketplace we have people openly selling 14 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:20,440 themselves the highest bidder on X on Instagram on tick tock it's right it's all over the 15 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:26,880 place it used to be a microcosm of the dating marketplace but now it's mainstream now it's 16 00:01:26,880 --> 00:01:35,200 right in front of your face they call it sugar babies they call it dating for the celebrities 17 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:41,720 a lot of these women are under contract now my friends those of you who are on the the 18 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:47,960 dark side if you want to call it that or they're you're outside the norm you know this better 19 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:54,000 than I do probably just how monetize the dating marketplace is and this is part of the red 20 00:01:54,000 --> 00:02:01,760 pill this is part of the truth that relationships are never free a lot of men they pay on the 21 00:02:01,760 --> 00:02:07,600 back end they pay with their attention their energy usually through the form of listening 22 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:14,280 to women's problems and paying for dates and hearing about their problems to try to have 23 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:20,920 sex with them you know the you know the game you learn this in high school for God's sakes 24 00:02:20,920 --> 00:02:25,080 but what's interesting my friends is a lot of people they still try to think that this 25 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:31,080 is back in like the early 2000s when hookup culture was still raging you know when Tinder 26 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:37,800 was new and all that kind of stuff but hookup culture is largely gone traditionalism almost 27 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:44,880 impossible to find it because it's not the mainstream anymore you have women getting 28 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:51,240 more attention from more men they've ever gotten in the history of the world on on Instagram 29 00:02:51,240 --> 00:03:00,400 on X on tiktok on Facebook you name it you name it there it is women who are mid at best 30 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:06,640 are now getting hordes of thirsty dudes in their DMs hordes of men calling them pretty 31 00:03:06,640 --> 00:03:14,160 and amazing and beautiful and you name it inflating their egos we call this whole flation 32 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:19,880 you have inflation with the economy and have whole flation in the dating marketplace and 33 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:24,680 my friends we all know this to an extent that the dating marketplace is off but we don't 34 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:30,180 always know why we don't know who's to blame we don't know what to do with the information 35 00:03:30,180 --> 00:03:37,400 and despite the fact that even if we know it even if we actively are practicing sexual 36 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:42,760 transmutation even if we're doing all these things we still find ourselves or at least 37 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:50,520 I sometimes find myself in this position of well I still have needs so what am I supposed 38 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:56,720 to do what do we do and I think this is part of the biblical bachelor lifestyle that isn't 39 00:03:56,720 --> 00:04:03,760 talked on enough and it's understanding that you need to decide what you want you can be 40 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:09,960 like everybody else and kind of just look in but not looking but looking but like not 41 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:16,040 trying to look desperate but like not you know you want sex but you don't want to be 42 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:22,200 you know a dirt bag or you're trying to you know trick on chicks all the time which you 43 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:27,520 want to do that go ahead or you're trying to run game and get it for free there are 44 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:33,640 so many different people doing so many different things from the passport bros to the guys 45 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:39,840 who are out here trying to run game and Mac these hoes like it's tooth like it's 1994 46 00:04:39,840 --> 00:04:45,000 I mean I don't know what to do with those guys because they're totally out of the realm 47 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:51,720 of reality but the problem my friends is what do we do with this and what do you choose 48 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:57,200 in to do with it what do you do with your sexual energy because I would argue it's 49 00:04:57,200 --> 00:05:02,480 not evil I would argue it's not bad in fact that's like saying oh I have an appetite that's 50 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:08,440 bad or I need to go I need to go take a dump that's bad no it's not so normally it's 51 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:12,640 a normal function of your body in the same way that sex is the same it's the same thing 52 00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:16,960 in my opinion but a lot of people who are religious they won't see it that way because 53 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:22,800 they've been told not to they've been conditioned not to but when you look at the dating marketplace 54 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:28,280 you could often times suffer from dating fatigue if you're choosing to do it at all and for 55 00:05:28,280 --> 00:05:34,560 those of us who have learned not to participate in the system but may not always have the 56 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:41,200 money to trick on hoes or pay for a rotation of chicks if you even want to go down that 57 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:49,520 route even if you're doing that you can often times you can get sick of it and so the question 58 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:56,360 is how do you deal with the dating marketplace the way it is how have you overcome the hookup 59 00:05:56,360 --> 00:06:00,920 culture how have you overcome this natural desire to have this traditionalism that's 60 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:09,520 fed to you and entertainment and social media and pop culture and maybe even your family 61 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:15,680 and your community and your church how have you overcome these expectations because look 62 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:22,240 let's be real as much as we are probably off the beaten path with a lot of what we believe 63 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:27,560 a lot of what we say a lot of what we think we still have to be around these people I 64 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:32,840 mean I'll tell you guys I go to every day at this point hasn't always been like this 65 00:06:32,840 --> 00:06:40,640 but every day I go to a coffee shop usually a different one every day to get some editing 66 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:45,080 done on my manuscripts I'm working on to think about what I want to talk about on the show 67 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:51,240 that that day and to kind of get away from it all and to an extent people watch a little 68 00:06:51,240 --> 00:07:01,840 bit all in the same thing but what's interesting is amidst my active working I'll look around 69 00:07:01,840 --> 00:07:06,680 I'll see what people are doing I might eavesdrop on two seconds of what they're talking about 70 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:11,440 at the close enough to mean which if you do that at the either your own fault for talking 71 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:19,880 too loud but it's interesting that people are so simple we like to over complicate 72 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:26,880 the human condition a lot but when you break it all down you strip away all the romantics 73 00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:32,720 you strip away all the schematics you strip away all the if and buts what ifs and all 74 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:42,640 that it's pretty simple it's very simple and I am not a communist but when Karl Marx 75 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:50,360 said that use was the only currency I think he had a point that's what a lot of relationships 76 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:56,440 between man and woman are amongst people in general but especially amongst men and women 77 00:07:56,440 --> 00:08:01,640 it's use the other person using the other person that's how it works oh I know that 78 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:07,640 that's not it doesn't sound good doesn't make you feel good but that's too damn bad too 79 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:13,640 damn bad that's the way it works everybody knows that and only people who don't want 80 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:16,960 to admit that they don't want to admit that that's what they do and that's the way they 81 00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:24,040 operate there's no shame in it that's the reality we live in that is part of the game 82 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:31,480 now when it comes to this monetized dating marketplace we have to decide whether we want 83 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:37,880 to be go on the quote dark side or whether we want to just try this it's it's like going 84 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:43,240 from it's like taking the red pill but then wanting to go purple pill again guys let me 85 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:51,560 tell you something as I wrote a whole chapter in biblical bachelor the book about surrogacy 86 00:08:51,560 --> 00:08:58,000 and about not being a normie when it comes to relationship because so many of us we can 87 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:03,600 be surrounded by people especially when we're just starting out we can be surrounded by 88 00:09:03,600 --> 00:09:07,840 these people who are trying to tell us to be normal again they're trying to push us 89 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:12,120 to go back into the matrix and try to push us to go back and do these things and it's 90 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:18,280 hard to cut them off especially if they're family but my friends I've learned as I'm 91 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:24,400 sure you have as well but this will get one life we only have one chance to get everything 92 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:28,560 we ever wanted and we can sit back and think about all the reasons why we shouldn't go 93 00:09:28,560 --> 00:09:33,240 for it or we can accept it for what it is just as we can accept women we can accept the 94 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:39,000 financial freedom aspect we can accept politics and religion for what it is which is largely 95 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:45,800 a scam and we could say you know what I'm gonna go full monk forever hey if you can 96 00:09:45,800 --> 00:09:51,840 do that my god my hats off to you you're a special breed I'll tell you but for all most 97 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:59,720 of us mere mortals who are not monks who are not enlightened such as you we have needs 98 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:05,520 we don't have the ability to never go without and you know what I'm not a big believer in 99 00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:12,320 masturbation and the reason why is I think you can I think you're wasting the energy 100 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:17,720 without adequate compensation now is it better than throwing your time in a garbage disposal 101 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:24,360 going out on dates with chicks yeah yeah in my opinion is better than that but there's 102 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:31,880 better ways of going about it and my friends we need to have an open conversation I think 103 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:37,160 about this and I know that YouTube especially is really bad about allowing free speech I 104 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:41,160 mean it's look at what they're doing with Trump and the assassination attempt and how 105 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:46,640 they're actively trying to get rid of it in my estimation and then we won't go down 106 00:10:46,640 --> 00:10:50,040 that rabbit hole because I don't want it in the politics right now and the whole thing 107 00:10:50,040 --> 00:10:57,480 is a whole thing is so stupid whole thing is just a neutrosweet one or neutrosweet two 108 00:10:57,480 --> 00:11:01,880 you want blue neutrosweet or red reach I mean the whole thing is largely just owned by the 109 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:07,960 same people and the whole thing is a shameless and a two-card Monty hose job in my opinion 110 00:11:07,960 --> 00:11:14,360 but again we're getting off the tracks here we're getting off tracks it comes to the dating 111 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:20,920 marketplace I'm not telling you you need to go on looking for pros on the street that's 112 00:11:20,920 --> 00:11:27,240 not what I'm telling you at all what I'm saying is at the end of the day we have to protect 113 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:32,200 ourselves and I would recommend that you pay up front whether it's with your time your 114 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:37,520 energy your attention you pay up front you be honest with these people up front what 115 00:11:37,520 --> 00:11:42,800 you expect don't try to weasel your way through the back door that's how you get an allegation 116 00:11:42,800 --> 00:11:51,360 that's how they feel cheated by you and then all of a sudden you're going to court all 117 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:56,760 of a sudden you're getting fired from your job all of a sudden your life is in a really 118 00:11:56,760 --> 00:12:02,240 tough position and I don't want you to be there we underestimate just how much power 119 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:06,960 women have I know this is like red pill one-on-one stuff we we need to return to the basics 120 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:11,760 are once in a while to build upon it and go farther because a lot of us we don't fully 121 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:19,480 get this part we don't fully understand the danger we could be in if we are not careful 122 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:23,520 whether it's with financial freedom whether it's with religion and politics relationships 123 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:32,600 you name it all of it we need to be careful because we are menaces to society that's 124 00:12:32,600 --> 00:12:39,840 really good book title menaces to society means to which a man becomes free now that's 125 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:45,440 a good book that's a good book title anybody want to steal that go ahead but not anybody 126 00:12:45,440 --> 00:12:55,120 want to steal that you're welcome good go ahead make my day but again guys I think it's important 127 00:12:55,120 --> 00:13:01,440 and I would love to hear your thoughts on this as well about getting past the hookup culture 128 00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:08,720 getting past the desire for tradition not just in theory not just intellectually understanding 129 00:13:08,720 --> 00:13:14,880 it but emotionally integrating it into us that we can never have that because it's an 130 00:13:14,880 --> 00:13:21,880 illusion meant to domesticate us like a treat is used to entice a dog to sit marriage is 131 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:28,520 meant to entice a man to give up his soul the system marriage is just a legal prostitution 132 00:13:28,520 --> 00:13:35,640 license in my opinion that's what it is oh I know that makes it sound really revolting 133 00:13:35,640 --> 00:13:40,880 and bad but when you strip it all away that's what it is so then what are you supposed to 134 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:46,440 do you're gonna just go for it putting yourself in an in an arcade system that's meant for 135 00:13:46,440 --> 00:13:55,320 guys of the prohibition era man I'm telling you I don't I wouldn't do it I wouldn't do 136 00:13:55,320 --> 00:14:00,120 it not for two seconds would I consider doing something like that today but then yeah then 137 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:04,640 you have a whole new set of problems so what do you do then you go to the pub and help 138 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:10,160 to get lucky every weekend or every other night or do you go for sugar babies on the internet 139 00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:15,960 or do you just find the jerk shack like what do you do because you gotta find something 140 00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:21,760 you can't just sit in your in your house and bust gallons of nuts on yourself forever for 141 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:29,480 it oh god what a horrible stuff god get that off oh man I want that image out of my mind 142 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:36,680 why did I do that to myself anyways enough of this enough of this my friends let me know 143 00:14:36,680 --> 00:14:42,600 what you've done because I know what I'm planning to do I just at this point don't have the 144 00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:49,880 fundage that I want to do what I want to do and I'm actively working to rectify that problem 145 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:54,440 well what have you done I know a lot of you guys are older than me and frankly I'll be 146 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:59,320 honest I'm surprised you listen to me if you're older than me because a lot of guys I grew 147 00:14:59,320 --> 00:15:06,160 up with who their fathers older brothers cousins uncles whatever they don't listen to me well 148 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:11,640 they know as much as I think they should but a lot of guys were older they don't listen 149 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:16,520 to younger guys so if you're older why do you why do you listen to me what have you 150 00:15:16,520 --> 00:15:22,960 how have you made it through this problem how have you rectified this how do you satisfy 151 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:29,280 your sexual needs without being a normie and training your soul for it because I'm going 152 00:15:29,280 --> 00:15:37,440 to pay but that's too high a price a soul is too valuable man let me know what how you 153 00:15:37,440 --> 00:15:41,320 how y'all have figured this out what have you done because maybe someone else is in 154 00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:44,800 the same position or they don't know what to do or they're tired of what they're currently 155 00:15:44,800 --> 00:15:49,520 doing and they want a fresh start they want to do something new maybe maybe you could 156 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:53,840 open a door for somebody else and you've put in that hard work and you've saved somebody 157 00:15:53,840 --> 00:15:57,240 else at time that's what I'd hope to do with guys who are younger than me who listen to 158 00:15:57,240 --> 00:16:05,200 the show if there are if there are any my friends let me know I'd love to hear it in 159 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:09,160 the meantime I think I'll do another show on this because I'm moving here in about a 160 00:16:09,160 --> 00:16:14,240 week so I'm kind of getting ready for all that but I'm probably gonna do another show 161 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:19,600 on this showing you exactly what I'm talking about and how dating went really meant prostitution 162 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:24,680 back in the day and how it's evolved to what we have now and whatnot give you guys a little 163 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:30,040 history lesson if you didn't already know it but anyways my friends take care of yourselves 164 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:34,160 let me know please I'm not joking I'd love to hear how you how you manage this aspect 165 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:40,080 of your life how you've navigated through this difficult situation when you're not a 166 00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:48,400 normie anyways take care stay encouraged continue searching for the truth don't give up I'm 167 00:16:48,400 --> 00:17:10,960 out peace.