She was there when you were at the bottom and she's there smiling with you at the top. And remember, she pushed you. She had her hand on your shoulder and she just pushed you. And that's what a good woman is about. 

Notice you he forgot to mention where you find said good women. He left that part out. 

Thank you for being so dumb. 

Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the sheep Get Sheared podcast. I'm your host, Austin Creed. My friends. Today, we're going to discuss a lesson that I had to learn the hard way. And I think a lot of other men have also had to learn the hard way. And that is the hidden powers that women have especially. Over men. Now, my friends, you be forgiven. Thinking that, oh, women are powerless, they don't have power. They live in a paint journal society. They don't have any power. Yeah, sorry, man, but if that's what you think, you're in for a very rude awakening. Get back to me in five years because you haven't lived enough life. You haven't seen what we're going to be talking about today. And there are multiple avenues we can approach this by. Way we could approach this from a biological standpoint, we could approach this from a socioeconomic standpoint. We can approach this in many different ways, but what we're going to do, we're going to approach it from a story and I'm going to tell you to happen to me the other day and. Then we're going to look at. The dynamics that you might find on the Internet, we're going to end with some conversations and. And throughout all of this, what I would encourage you to do is we each have a story and a lot of times you think that your story is, oh, my story is not normal. Austin, my story is maybe unrelatable. I don't know who can relate to it. It's personal. I don't see it being of any benefit to anybody. I can hear you saying that or thinking that in your own mind. Because that's what I once thought too. I used to think that as well. Ohh, nobody wants to hear what I have to talk about. Nobody wants to hear this conversation. Nobody wants to to discuss these types of topics that we bring up day in, day out. But you're. And so I think it's important for you to Share your story as we break through the stories that I'm going to tell you, the information we're going to be going through together via the videos and the conversation, we're going to have throughout the show today. So without further ado, sit back, relax and it's story time. And we're going to talk about the story and. You might. Maybe wondering what it's about. Well, actually I kind of hinted at it in the thumbnail I was. Out last night. I was actually gonna go get gas, but then the gas station was closed. I got upset. I got thinking about the woes of the world, you know, classic stream of consciousness, type of behavior. So then what I did was I looked up and I was like, I really just. It was a beer. I didn't wanna go out and get drunk to the middle of the week. I was like, no, I'm not gonna go out and get trash. I just wanna wanna get a pint, you know? So what I did was I went to the the Irish pub in town. I sat at the bar and as I sit at the bar, I see ohh harp of Aaron over here. Irish flag. American flag. You know, standard stuff. Have you ever been to a Irish type of pub? But when I'm sitting at the bar, I look over to my right and I see this woman who's working in the bar. And she's a blonde haired woman. She looks like she's about 2425, about the about the same age as me and all these dudes were sitting at the bar. They're all just. Like looking at her now, they're not doing it super obvious and creepy because that would just be obvious. So instead what they did was they put like. They would like be talking to each other and they look then be talking to each other and then look and then talk to each other and then look and it it was so obvious they were checking someone out. And I don't blame. Him for checking. Her out. I mean, she was. He was a pretty good looking woman. But as I was sitting there and I was drinking my pie and Guinness, which is. 1. Of my favorite things to drink and I was thinking to myself, I was like, wait a minute. How many? Different men, do you think do this subconsciously, #1 and #2? Women are really good at pretending like this doesn't happen. All the oldest victims, even though I could tell she was milking it, cause I would see the dude I thought couple dudes leave the bar while I was sitting there, and when they did, they left their like 10 bucks, 20 bucks even. And I was like, what? This can't be, dude. I was shocked and I was. I was sitting there I. Was. Thought to myself. Ohh, she knows what she's doing. She knows exactly what she's doing, and she's doing it really well. And I'm not here to hate on people's hustle. I'm not. I'm not here to shame her. I don't know her. But what was interesting to me to see the fact that she knew where her power came from. She was using it and I was there to witness it. And it got me thinking about. Wait a. Minute. How many of us men we either we we see this or we don't think twice about it or to a lot of us met our ghastly. And it's thinking that that's not power, it's victimhood. And I'm here to tell you it's not. A victimhood mentality, if it was, and that's a very easy fix, the Muslims figured it out like 1000 years ago. It's called a burka. If they don't want attention. They. Can do that? Of course. They're not going to do that. The human rights violation. You can't do that. And I'm not here to tell you that they should or should not be done. I'm here to tell you is is an easy fix to the solution. The problem is. People want to cherry pick, and that's why we're getting this conversation today of the power that women have, and we're gonna get into this multifaceted issue now that you have a little bit. Of background as to. Why this came to my own, you know, to my attention. So when I'm talking about the gas lighting of men, we're going to jump into this first video and I want you to let me know if you've ever been the sky. Sounded like this guy or have been conditioned to be this guy in any form or fashion. Let's get started. 

Power of a woman is incredible. I don't think you guys realize as I watched my mom. And my dad. That. I started realizing things a woman can do to make that man push himself to the Max. A woman is going to be there for you, to nurture you. A woman is going to be there to push you. A woman is always going to be there for you, for your success and your failures, and she will make sure that when you fall. She will pick you up. 

So general, we're gonna pause right there. We're gonna pause right there as I want the guys who have been divorced to enter the chat. Please and tell these guys. What actually happens? Tell these men who are watching the show right now listening to the show right now. Can you please sound off and tell these men? Is what this guy saying true? Do women do this? Do they? Do they actually stick around? You know, for, for good or for worse, for good, for bad, for rich, for poor, for failures, for success, Joe. And please let these guys know. Whether you're still married, you been married for 50 years or you got divorced last week. I'm here to listen to it all. And I think that if you as a guy, you don't want to hear either side of the argument. Well, you're setting yourself up to live in this box, and I'm here to tell you that there are a lot of guys, especially in the so-called conservative wing of the Republican Party. They are, or even though libertarians so-called. They are very quick to side with men like this who tell you, sell you this dream. Of what marriage should be, what it ought to be, what I think it might, you know, it could be. If only you did XYZ thing. If only you were a a real enough man. If only you were hitting it right. If only you were a good enough father. If only this and only that you could be having this too. If only you chose the right one, you could have what this guy is describing. And let me tell you. This is where we get into the conversation of the power that women have a lot of men. And they're boys when they're underage, they're in their infancy. Toddlers, elementary school, middle school, high school. They have a lot of women teachers that have a lot of women role models, which is not inherently negative, but they have the woman telling them how to interact with women and they don't have a lot of men. To counteract that message and say, OK, look, this is what she's telling you. Here's what I'm going to tell you has worked for me. Here's what I'm gonna show you. Worked for me. And you don't have a lot of this overall balanced input that a lot of men lack. And then what they gotta do is in their adulthood, they get hit by the train. Of reality. And then then they got run over by the train of reality and they got to pick themselves up off of the rails that they got. Thrown on and they're like, oh. Ohhh my head. I can't take it. Oh my, I do. I don't know what to do. How do I fix myself? How do I heal myself off of this? This trauma that's been inflicted upon me by all these people who lied to me who didn't tell me the truth. Who set me up for failure? Only to somebody that dream that I can't have. See guys like this be selling me a dream that I wish I could have. But you know it doesn't exist outside of Mickey Mouse and Donald Duck's fantasies at Disneyland, in my estimation. This is the problem you got, Mickey Mouse men who sound like this. If only you did XY or Z guys, Lasky could sits continue this video and let me know is this guy right or is he wrong? 

When you have a good woman in your life, she will always protect you, even when you're not around. And people are talking bad about their man. You know what she's going to do? She's going to fight for you, a woman. Can only see her man do better because as a woman they fail if you fail. 

That doesn't happen anymore. More. I don't know what I don't know what this guy's from. Not from America, but that's not what happens in the Western world. They jump ship so quick. Again guys, you don't have to take my word for it at any point during the show. You think I'm lying to you? The dislike button is there right there. The unsubscribe button is right there. The report video button is down there. You have all the power. Go ahead. Show me where I'm wrong. Comment sections there. Tell me how you made it work. Let me know. Let these guys and the comments know. Whether this guy is right or wrong, I think he's wrong. In fact, I think he's doing a gigantic disservice to a lot of men, giving them false hope about this Mickey Mouse mentality. But let's continue. 

They never want to see you fail if you have a good woman in your life, she will always encourage you, and she's always going to say she believes it and she. 

Loves. 

This is all a man needs in their life. When a woman can push you for success. A man doesn't have to stress anymore for a good woman. She's right there in front of you, bro. She was there when you were at the bottom and she's there smiling with you at the top. And remember, she pushed you. She had her hand on your shoulder and she just pushed you. And that's what a good woman is. About. 

Notice he he forgot to mention where you find said good women. He left that part out. 

Thank you for being so. 

Dumb. He left that part out also, Sir, for all of your Nuggets of wisdom, you also failed to mention what a good woman is. I I noticed the the framing. Was interesting as well. What do you mean by a good woman? What does that mean? You you failed to define that you failed to define where you find said women. You failed to define what you have to sacrifice to keep said woman. You fail to mention the fact that a lot of men are told this, but a lot of them end up in family court. You fail to mention that part, Sir, and that is a shame. 

On you. Oh my God. 

I I see this is the problem guys. I want nothing more. That's how you this dude is 100% right. But guess what. The numbers. The experiences of a lot of other men, they tell a different story, a more humbling and less idealistic version of the story. He just let out. And my friends. I'm not here to tell you that if you. Want to have this? That, it's quote, impossible to have this, but here's what you need to understand. This is not what is biologically put into a woman's mind. You ever noticed throughout the let's go. Let's do some not so drunk history with your boy Austin Creed. For two seconds, my friends, let's go to the various wars that have happened over the history. Of humans. Let's go to the Crusades. We could go to the ****** invasion. We could go to the Muslim invasion. We could go to the Greeks and Alexander the Great, where we could go to the conquests of Egypt. We could go to the conquests of North America and South America. By the conquistadors we could go through the entire litany and you know, one thing is constant. The fact that the conquerors got the spoils of war, which was say with me gold. Girls and glory. You ever notice that women are usually spoils of war? You know why that is? Because they side with the people who win because they want to survive. So if you as a man are losing. Their biology does not tell them to stick with you. They tells them to find a better mate who would ensure their future survival and the survival of their offspring if they have any, or if they want to have any. They left that part out. But again. Because a lot of people want this Mickey Mouse dream of, I can have my castle. I can be a king, but I don't have to build this Kingdom by myself. When my friends, we look at the history, let's look at the history of Europe for a second. I'll use that as the history. I'll use that as the marker because it's the one I know the most about. I think it's the only example, but it's the one I know the most about. You look at ancient Europe. The men who got married usually who had their pick of the litter, had land a suitable income. And they had stability. Whether they were merchants, nobility, land owners, doesn't matter. They had actionable, tangible assets. They didn't have to run game. They didn't have to spit NDM's they didn't have to do any of this. This gobbledygook that y'all trying out here today, they didn't have to do that. What did they do? They had receipts. Were actual assets that they owned and what did they use that for? They used it to say now I can be married now I can have a legacy because I have actual assets. I have things that are going to ensure the survival of those who side. To me, so when we look at the modern era of now, with a lot of dudes who are building themselves or they're broke or they're busted and disgusted, physically, being out of shape, they want to come out here and look for a woman to build with them when they don't have anything. Building this guy was talking about building with you. Most men don't build anything. They work for corporation. Where they're building something for somebody else. And there's this thing that a lot of you may have heard of. It's called. 

Hypergamy. Ohh I know I can't say that because that makes people feel uncomfortable. It's the women feel triggered, but that doesn't. 

Matter. You know why it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter. Because it's the truth. Truth is. People want the best they can get. Men, women, aliens, animals, people want the best thing you can get. Not because. They are greedy or because they're bad, but because that is what we are naturally designed to do. I think the Greeks said it best. They said the strong. Yet what they can the weak suffer. What they must now what we're going to do is we're going to go to the next and we're going to explore the other side of this coin. So you heard him talk about how if you just find the right woman, then everything's gonna be great for you. You heard that part right? Good. OK. So now what we're going to do is we're going to explore the other side of this coin. And I'm curious to hear if you agree with this woman or not. Let's see what she has to say. Take it away, ma'am. 

Sexual manipulation is when you use sex as an object of control. Or punishment. For example, a man or a woman can say because of this reason, or that I'm not going to engage in sexual activity today as a form of punishment. In essence, that is manipulation and manipulation does not have any part or any place. In a healthy marriage, so please don't manipulate your partner. 

You know my as the partner, but at the end I 100% agree with this woman and I'll tell you why. Because this is what women are trained to do at a very young age, you as a man are told that your power comes from your ability to produce and become something. There's an adage that I heard once that I've never let go of, and it was. 

In. 

Like women are born with their value, men must build their value. In other words, women are naturally sought after if they are fertile, they're pretty. They have the whether it's a short or long shelf life, depending on how attractive they are, how fertile they are, you can go down the litany. OK, but women? Have natural value in society because they. Their their beauty is valuable. Their fertility is valuable and they are born with those things. Men. We are not born with value. We must build our value, whether it's we get a head start because our father, our grandfather started off doing really well. We might get a leg up, but it doesn't matter whether they did some groundwork for us. Or we start in the gutter with nothing. We must build our value for others to see us with high status for us to possess wealth for us to build a legacy, we must. Build ourselves up. Whereas women are born with value, you see, that's why when you're in your 20s, your teens, even in your, you're maybe early to mid 30s, women have tremendous choice in the dating marketplace, whereas men in that age group do not have the same. But as the man builds himself, he builds his credit score. He builds his stock portfolio, he builds his assets, he builds his experience. He then can. Slowly but surely gain more leverage that he did not possess when he was in his youth. He did not possess when he, when she was in her prime, he was nowhere near his prime. A man's prime as usual. Physically you might say, is different, but I'm gonna say in general is usually about. Late 30s to 40s and even into his 50s, depending on how good your health is. But you see, when we get in this manipulation aspect, a lot of young men especially, they fall for this. They are so manipulated because they're they're testosterone is used against them. Their natural drive to pose to, to possess. And outlet for their sexual energy. Is out of their reach, and So what do they do? They do everything in their power, which is limited because they don't have leverage. They then use their time, which could be spent better use their money, which they could be utilized better and their attention, which could also be utilized better in the pursuit of not gaining leverage. But in the pursuit. Of love, suit of lust, the pursuit of. Attaining something that they think will solve their problems, when in fact all it does is put them in a subservient state that will not lead to capitalizing on compounding interest. Whether it be they invest in the market, whether it be they invest in themselves, whether it's they invest in a business or whatever it may be, and a skill, a trade, all of these things have value. The more you put into it. But instead of utilizing this energy towards something productive, they attempt to be prolific. In the relationship department. And this is what leads them to this. Becoming weak to this type of manipulation that she's outlined in this video. But even in marriage, it doesn't stop. See, that's what she was highlighting again. You think that if you get married, you're going to have more access and exclusive access when in fact that's not a guarantee. It used to be enforced once by the society. You were around. Adultery was frowned upon both by for women and men. Coincidentally, yes. Oh yes. It was condemned by both sides. A man she known his wife, his dude his, his friends would beat him up. He was ostracized. If a woman did it, she was shunned. Got the scarlet letter, you name it. It was once in monogamy was once enforced. Today it is not enforced. It is more laughed and scoffed at. Because it doesn't mean anything anymore. So what we're going to do now is we're going to go to the final video. I wanted to show you guys. About how it is that women hold these powers over men, and we've been dancing around the issue, but I think for the final time we're gonna just drive this whole point home because we've been hinting around it this whole time. And now what we're going to do is we're going to drive it all home with this video right here and let's see what this guy has to say. Take it away, Sir. 

Everything is about sex except. For one thing, which is sex itself, this is an argument that the French psychoanalyst Jacques call makes based on Freudian psychology, says sex sells. We sell fashion with sexuality, we sell perfume. With sexuality, we sell cars with sexuality, we sell movies with sexuality. The one thing. That we don't sell with sexuality is sex itself. We keep sex hidden and private and away from the public eye. This is why everything in the world is about sex, except for one thing. Sex. It's all. 

Very interesting perspective. I like it. I would also say my friends, what do you think about all this? What are your thoughts? I think that he's on the money. That. I also think that if you look at the society we live in now, like my. Differ a little bit depending on where you are in the United States or in the world. I think that the natural inclination is to utilize. The natural desire that humans have for sex, for sexual expression, not necessarily indulgence, but expression. The two are not mutually exclusive. You can't have both. Or you could have neither. You can have one of the other. This natural desire for expression can often lead one to. Focus on it as a tool instead of seeing it for what it is, which is meant for the production of the next generation. That is what it is actually for. Now, other people use it for pleasure or not is their business, and I think a lot of people do. But here is the bottom line. We need to understand that it is the. Biggest power women have over. Men. Not because women do not feel a desire for sexual expression, but because they understand that men are naturally wired to want from, from them, and they know that if they want to get things from men, the easiest way to do it is to exploit them not through their brain, but through their. Which ones? Through their schmendrick the thing between their legs, that's what they use. They and this has been going on. Not this is not a recent phenomenon. This has been going on since the beginning of time. According to my reading of history, it's been going on forever and a lot of men, unfortunately. And I'm sorry to tell you, they don't have discipline with their dingling. What they do is they tend to just. Go in. They tend to take the dive and then figure out whether they're piranhas in the tank afterwards. Whether the the water is toxic afterwards, they figure everything out after they take the plunge, not before. And I would encourage you to not be like that because all it's going to do is set you back. Have you take risks that have little to no reward? You know a lot to potentially lose. We talked about that earlier this week with no risk, no reward. A lot of us, we take the wrong risks that have little to no rewards at the end. Should we even win if it's possible. We want to take risks that can lead to a reward, not ones. We just need to rescue ourselves from after we put ourselves in a tight situation, though pun intended, our friends let it be know. Have you witnessed this type of power, whether it be at the pub like me or in person, in your marriage? Or maybe you've seen some of your friends experience this? Maybe you experienced this, you let me know what the guys in the comments know. If you want to Share your story, you want to vent a little bit. You want to share and get it off your shoulders. You're welcome. To do it here on the show. My friends take care of yourselves. I would love to hear your stories. Let me know if anything you want to hear discussed more of or something that's been, you know, eating away your heart or your soul. You let me know. Till next time my friends take care. I'm out. Peace.