I this is so high, but I guess you'd have to be like a millionaire. 

Any millionaires who will? Who would take this woman? Here's the thing, here's the thing. OK, I you might say. Austin, you're on the line for laughing. This isn't funny. No, it actually is funny. Cause I'll tell you why. It's one thing for wanting a guy like that, OK? It's another thing to want that guy and have him all to yourself. Let me tell you something. Dudes who you're talking about, dudes who make over 100K in their 20s, guys who make 100K period and above much less millionaires. Most of them don't just have one woman. Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the sheep Get Sheared podcast. I'm your host, Austin Creed. My friends, I want to welcome you into the show. And today, you know, I want to talk about something that I've actually never heard anybody talk about to such an extent. And what I mean is we're going to talk about. The women's standards, but not in the way that you're expecting, because I really want to focus on the standards and how that we can lead into the toy industry, the vibrator industry and how it's destroying relationships and how. There's a reason. Why you see that go up and you see the satisfaction relationships go down. It's not the only cause, mind you. But I've never heard anybody really talk about the fact that when you see some of these, these toys and these things that these women have, man, they're crazy, bro. And they create these expectations for men that you just can't live up to and people talk about this in the space from multiple different angles. It's very easy to just focus on, like the height and the money and the six pack abs and all that kind of stuff, which is totally fair to do. And we'll talk about it in a second. But. The toy part, the industry where they are comparing men against these inanimate objects. Brother, let me tell you, it's like the almost the body pillow industry on steroids. And it's so bad and it's so normal. It's one of these things you don't even think about because so many people you don't even think about it as a dude. It's just so normal you don't even think about like the women do. This all the time. And so we're going to break into this and we're going to just break down this article talking about this before we do that. Let's talk about these standards in general. And as we talk about in general, we'll we'll get into specifics. So we'll do that in a second. In the meantime, as we go through these videos and we go through the article that I have for you guys, you. Let me know in the comments. Your experience with this department, have you hear anybody else talk about this? How has this impacted your life directly? And I think the more we talk about this, the more it might gain some light because it's very easy to gaslight. Do it and be like, oh, it shouldn't matter or oh, you're just insecure. No, you're not insecure. And yes, it matters. Why? Well, let's flip it on his head for two seconds before we break into these video. My friends, let's pretend for a second that you as a guy, you got this blow up doll of a woman who had, like, the the proportions that were out of like, let's say, AI gets to the extent where you basically could have like an AI robot that looks and almost feels like a real woman, right? Let's just hypothetically, I'm not saying this will ever exist. Let's just go with that hypothetical 2 seconds. OK, let's say you could have that right. And. No, it was how proportions you wanted. It looked fantastic, but modified any way that you wanted. It felt amazing, right? Well, that's what women have in, in reverse. They have stuff that they can have any size. It could have all kinds of different stuff, like ribs and stuff on it. It could, it could vibrate it. Move again it it's. It's really it's wild, dude. I'm not trying to get too graphic. I'm not trying to gross you out in any way. I'm just trying to paint this picture. As accurately as I can without being super graphic and unnecessarily, you know, uncomfortable. So anyways, let's get with these videos. Let's get let's go from very. Abstract and very like what you heard before. Get a little more specific on maybe what you haven't heard discussed. Let's get going. Leave your thoughts and your comments below. They're very welcome. Let's get started. 

Rather be single than settle for. Less than that, so the frustum a millionaire just to sort out what's the ideal age for a guy that you would be looking to marry like a five year gap would be good. So if I'm 28, maybe like he's in his young to mid 30s, OK, so like 33, we'll say, yeah, OK. And you're 28. Yes, 3035. Like in that range. OK. So when I go like 33 to go in the middle. OK. And then how old were you 2828? 

OK. Ohh I'd say maybe like 26 or 20. 

Seven. OK. We'll go 20. How old are? 

You 2121. 

Yeah, pick 26 or 27/26/20. 

Well, I'm 25, so I'd say them Max is like 30 or 32. 

The gentleman I want to pause it right here. There is this thing. There's this website on the Internet called the delusion calculator. For him, and if you put in a lot of the information that they've just given you on age alone. Their options are very, very low. Again, this is what we talk about in the space all the time, not to ridicule people. Well, at least me. I don't ridicule people for their their opinions and their preferences and whatnot. I'm just coming on from point of view and I say, OK, you want these things? Or what are you doing to to get what you want? Cause you're you're gonna sit there. For example, I had this conversation with a friend of mine recently. I think I told you guys about this before, but I didn't go into detail. So she's a Christian woman. She grew up in the same church as me when I was a kid. I don't go to that church. Anymore, it's a. Different state, but what I'll tell you is. We were getting in this conversation. She asked me. I don't go out there and just talk about the stuff I talk about on this show with the people that I know #1 because. They don't want to hear it. It's not normal conversation to have conversations like what you and I have on the show. And. I've made it a point to follow what Napoleon Hill talked about, and outwitting the devil with their three appetites that every man has appetite for food, appetite for sexual expression, and the appetite to express your opinions. And so with the third appetite being the expression of opinions, I make it a point to not just express my opinions Willy nilly to people who I know or people even, that I don't know the reason we talk about this on this show is because for me, this is an outlet to an extent, but it's also an exchange of ideas. You're here because you want to be here. You wouldn't want to be here. You click off the video or. You would never found a channel in the first place. That's why you're here. You want to hear this? People in our lives, we often we can't talk about this type of stuff with them because they don't want to hear it. Number one, it's not a normal conversation. #2 and #3 a lot of times we're just still. Trying to figure all this stuff out. We're trying to figure out, OK, this is what I think is right, but I'm not sure. So let's test it. Let's look at information. Let's do all these different. Things. And a lot of times we can. Come across as stupid. When we're not actually dumb, we just haven't fully matured our way through. Maybe what a guy who's been doing this for 20 years, 15 years, went through a divorce, or several divorces, God forbid, or whatever has gone through. Who would have a more mature perspective than when we get to these? Women and they have these. These desires, these preferences for men, what they're not understanding is they don't understand how few men are in this group, that they're looking for. And they're also assuming that the men who actually fit this. Glory would actually choose them over the number of different women who also want the same guy that they do, and then it becomes a pride issue when suddenly they have to appeal to that guy. Oh, I'm not going to appeal to him. No, he has to come and pursue me. OK, we'll have fun with that because it's probably not going to happen. Because you're not the only one who thinks that way. You see, and a lot of dudes they can, they might be in some rage mode. They might be unhappy, and they're gonna see that from like a ohh I'm mad. Perspective. Ohh. I'm not. I'm mad about this at all. For me, I'd see it more sad because people like this are not going to find the person they're looking for, cause it doesn't seem like they're actively trying to appeal to that person that they want. The law of economic states there is supply and there is demand, and if there's a small or short supply of the people you're looking for. And there's a high demand. Because let's face it, there is. How are you going to bridge that gap? Because then when there's a very high demand and a short supply, the supplier, IE the guy in this situation, he gets to set the price for what his commitment is going to cost you. But you say people don't like how that makes them feel. They want to feel like they can be whoever they have. They are. Make all the mistakes that they want. And then you as a man are supposed to have zero standards, even though you've invested in yourself, you invested in others, you've taken risks, you've lost, you've won. You've gotten to where you are, but you're not supposed to have standards, even though when they. Hadn't they were broken on nothing but their looks and their fertility, their their. Price was so high, nobody qualified to see how this works. I know a lot of you know exactly what I'm talking about and that's why I think it's important that we talk this through because a lot of times it's better to hear somebody else talk about this and you're like, Oh my God, thank you. I'm not alone. This is great. Well, let's get back. To. This video let's see what else they have to say. I'm curious now. 

OK. Do we want to go with 30? Just. To be safe, yeah, for like marriage. Or something like that. OK. 

Oh no, Mary. 

2930. 

OK, pick one. If you had to. 

29 his income should be something close to about 160,000. 

What? That is nuts. That is nuts. What did she say before she wanted a guy that was like, 26? She wanted a guy who's 26 making a. 160K. 

Wow. 

Thank you for being so dumb. Let's continue. 

OK. And then you would contribute around the same? Amount. Yeah. OK. 

Ma'am, you only make it 160 K. What do you mean? What are you? Is this woman on on on on OF on only? 

Fools because you said the 5050 I would like to say maybe 100,000 eddies. Yeah, alright. We'll go with 100K. 

That's the rich. Unfortunately, I this is so high, but I guess you'd. Have to be like. 

Any millionaires who will? Who would take this woman? Here's the thing, here's the thing. OK, I you might say. Austin, you're out of line for laughing. This isn't funny now. It actually is funny cause I'll tell you why. One thing for wanting a guy like that. OK. It's another thing to want that guy and have him all to yourself. Let me tell you something, dudes who you're talking about. Due to make over 100K in their 20s. Guys who make 100 Tate period and above much less millionaires. Most of them don't just have one woman now, are there exceptions? Duh. And or hello. Of course there are exceptions, but the exceptions make the norm, not the other way around. So when we talk about even the guys who are married were millionaires, they have mistresses. They have, they go to the the massage parlor, they they go to, you know, whatever, let's be honest. We all, we've met guys like this. We've heard of guys like this. We know this is a reality. Now I'm not casting moral judgment. Let's put morality to the side for two seconds because it's usually used against men because it usually benefits women. Let's just be real about that. OK, now you could argue that that doesn't matter. That's why I'm putting it out of the conversation. We're we're putting logic here. We're not getting in emotions of morality and everything else, because at the end of the day. Morality is a moving target, and I'm not gonna sit here and argue morality with people. We're gonna talk about logic logically what they're saying. Is not unattainable, but it becomes unattainable when you want him all to yourself. That's when it becomes unattainable. 

OK, probably like 100K and. 

Up if the average is like 50, maybe like. 

Average is not 50K. In your 20s it is like 30 K but OK. 

70. 

Plus, even in your 30s like the think the average is 40K. 

Having budgeted like a vacation fund and a savings fund saving money. And money to being up that way. 

We want to say like 70 K 80. 

K Yeah, I'd say. 

So and you also said you would contribute 5050, so that's 140 ton. 

Gentlemen, do not fall for 5050 garbage that puts you in a terrible position to where you depend on the woman and the divorce actually hurts you more if it happens than if you have been paying 100% and you're paying child support and alimony and everything else. Just just letting. 

You know, household income, would that be enough? Would that does that sound right? 

Uh, yeah, I think that that sounds. 

Median income for age that picked me, I would say probably like 70K maybe? 

It's actually $49,000. What percent of men do you think make $100,000 at 33 years old? 

What's your guest? Gentlemen, let me know in the comments. 

Don't cheat. What is the percent of men that you are wanting here? 

I'll probably say. 

Maybe 30%, it's actually 15%. 

Half of which see this is the problem. See to me if like I'll, I'll be honest with you gentlemen. I was a woman. I know exactly how to win in life. It's to me it's not conceptually hard, but then here's the thing. We're calling out this from a logical perspective. They are not. They're coming out from out of the the the feelings perspective. And I'm not saying that to talk down to them. I'm saying that this is the this is the divide between men and women. That people get hung up on and why I This is why we talk about this and the comments we talk about it on the show. We talk about it in our own lives. We we see this happen folding in real time and a lot of us we are not warned that this is the reality. We're not warned that women tend to get with us because they want. That security, they want the money. They want something that comes along with being with us, not us. As an individual, we. Are not warned of this. See, that's the issue. If men were warned of it, and then they still chose to do it, then that's on them or a lot of dudes. They're not told or warned about what to expect. So then they walk in thinking that she loves them for them, and then when they get cut from their job or they really get out of shape or whatever or life just happens and they get divorced. They're like but. But I thought you loved me for me. And she was like, no. And then you're like, the whole world falls apart. I want you to avoid that. I want you to avoid falling for fairy tales, but the fantasy aside, pick up reality even though it's going to be heavy, uncomfortable and you're not going to want to put it on like a backpack. But you got to do it and you gotta keep walking. Like pilgrims progress without burning on your back. You gotta keep walking. Why? Because the alternative will be nice for a short period of time. Then. Everybody pays the piper and the piper. Always gets his whether he pay, whether you pay upfront or on the back end. I'm telling you, nothing is free. You're always going to pay the price. Let's continue with this video. 

Top 15%. So there's one age from 16 to 75 where the top 30% of men make $100,000. So you guess 30%. So we'll try to guess what age that is since you know it's. Not 33. Between 16 and 75 one. 

It's like 60. 

Age. I feel like 4573, really. 

Ohh, you know, I was off. 

Maybe I should go with the old? Man, just kidding. 

Ohh she's not joking. Ah Ohh Sugar Daddy has entered the building. 

Is that out of your out of your? Age bracket there? Yeah. 

Yeah, trying to take every job into consideration 30 year. Old, I'd say maybe. 65. 

You lied to me. Wow. 

And they say that I'm out of line. 

Between 65 and 70 for a 30 year old. 

She thinks it's the average 30 year old guy is making 65 to 70 K Oh no. It's like half I. 

See 45, OK. 

Oh. 

And you were the most realistic 1 so. 

Far. 

So the fact that, yeah, no one's guessing it, right. Because it's way lower than people. People think. 

Well, social media has been messing the game up on that end, too. They see gig at Chads and Chads all on their timeline and tyrones they think that the average guy is chattered Tyrone, when in fact he's not. 

Long as he love your job and hopefully are investing it wisely, then I don't see a problem with it. 

For a 26 year old, what do you? 

Think the median income is? I'm pretty sure it's closer to like 60,000. 

Oh God. Ohh no man. You see why I went much mowing gentlemen. Ohh dude, This is why This is why I went biblical. Bachelor melon man. Oh gosh, this is so bad. 

It is $38,000. Ohh wow. What do you think is the median income for the age that you specified so a 33 year old? I would like to say around 100K. 

33 any 3033 year olds making 100K in a comment section. Want to be with this woman? Oh man, if I saw this woman and I like the like a bar or something, I think she was gay. But that's neither here nor there. 

Maybe. 

80 K I'm not exactly sure. 

But it's a whopping $49,000. Oops. My like brain was somewhere else. 

Yeah, your brain was in the social media. I'm looking for Chad, Giga Chad mode. But sorry, man, Giga Chad is. He's like a Unicorn. You see him one time and. You're like, Oh my. Gosh, guys, look, there he is there. Like where and you can't find. 

Him. So what do? You think is the median income for the age that you specified at 29. 

I want to say like 60K. 

45 K really yes. OK. 

This is the millionaire woman, by the way. 

Does that shock? You. Yes, it does. So I'm just going to put your. 

Also I I like to direct your attention to the hoop earrings and by you remember the old saying, the hoop earrings. Bigger the hoop, the bigger the I'll leave you to figure that one out. For yourself. 

What you wanted in this little calculator here. So $1,000,000 at 29. 

I mean, I've I've met a few. I have. 

Gentlemen, she has told on herself. She's met. Millionaires were 29. The shade, the good chads. She's met them. She's been alpha widowed gentleman. This is the this is, see. They tell. See. This is why I talked about on one of my previous shows that you need to listen to what they say cause they tell on themselves. And they warn you of what you're dealing with when you associate with them. Gentlemen, this is a warning to all of you. The standards are high. If you need to understand something. She's been with guys who fit those standards. She has got a commitment from those guys. She's been with them and now that is the standard and you'll never live up to that standard. It's always evolving, always changing. You'll fall for it. And we haven't even gotten into the the toy conversation that we'll get into. This is just. Like. Up front, like total circumstantial stuff, we haven't even gotten to. If you even get past this point, most people don't even get past this point. 

OK. We'll talk about. We'll talk about that in a minute, so. 

It's possible. 

It's possible to see that. See that. The hope is still there. The hope is still there. Gentlemen, she's not going to ever stop looking. This is the alpha widow. 

It's a fraction of a percent. The top 1% of men are making 240 at 29, so you're about 800,000. 

That that's why I'm single. 

You said 160,000 at 26. That is the top 2% of men. Oh. 

And I can. She probably also wants a black man, which is totally cool, but about 2% and a lot of them are going to be guys who are who are also black. So that's going to be tough. See, this is the thing I feel bad for a lot of black men, by the way. They're women are the most up front of a seat. Here's the thing. I'm not black. You can. You could tell that by my voice and by my my skin color. It's pretty obvious. But I met black guys who they'll tell me they're women up front are very like, much like this. And. It hurts them because they like black women, but black women treat them like garbage. Don't think I don't know it. Let's continue. 

Discretion at 26? Yes. So think about the valedictorian at your high school. The smartest person you've ever. Right. They have a better chance of getting into Harvard. And you do so fine the 2% man. Isn't that kind of crazy to? 

Think about ohh yeah definitely. 

No, not for me, it's not. Legitimacy. This is the circumstantial stuff. Now we're going to take it to. The next level. Now we're going to take it to this conversation. How the sex toy industry impacts relationships. Now we're gonna get into this conversation. See, this is if you even get past this and you're actually having, you know, bedroom time with with these women, whether it's in a marriage or outside a marriage. Let's look at this. It says the popularity of the adult toy industry has greatly increased. No kidding? No kidding. I'm. I'm shocked by that. Shocked. OK, let's keep going. Enhancing physical pleasure. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But how does using these adult toys impact the satisfaction of both partners? Well. The answer is they don't. And here's the part where it gets interesting, because this author, you might notice is a woman author. And as we get farther in this article, you'll quickly pick up on that. Whether I showed you her picture or not. You'll see why in a moment. A large nationally. A representative study, OK, led by a researcher named Michael Reese, PhD, examined the prevalence of the vibrator use amongst heterosexual men in the United States. Intriguingly, the heterosexual men who used these toys with their partners, I ate the word partners, by the way. You mean their girlfriends. There are wives. They're their fiancees like this whole thing is a PSYOP word. But anyways, I'm not going to get down that rabbit hole right now. Reported lower levels of satisfaction than men who did not, you might say, huh? Well, how could this be? Well, as as the researchers couldn't say for sure. Note, note this. Note this they couldn't say for sure. Why the satisfaction was lower in this cohort? No kidding. Oh, you couldn't figure out why men weren't? I weren't happy with it. It's almost like you're telling the man that he's not good enough and you're expecting him to like it. But given the most, given the most straight men who used these toys with their part their partner. Reported doing so to increase their partners pleasure as opposed to their. Own you see this? You see this? This is very important. It's possible that these men. That their satisfaction was unchanged by the introduction of these toys and may have already been low to begin with. You see that? In other words, they already had low self esteem. They had low confidence in their pipe gain. That said, it may also be the case that these straight men who have used these toys on their partners, either by their partner suggestion or by their own, felt that using. Such devices reflected poorly on their own romantic abilities. You see this? In other words, a lot more people, mostly they say straight men, are using these because they don't think they can cut it by using their own God-given. Biology and anatomy. Mm-hmm. See, gentlemen, let's go back. Hold on a second. Let's go back to this. Remember this video we just talked about? This one right here. That's just to get your foot in the door. Now your foot's in the door, and now you're dealing with this. Now you've gone through all of that, but now, now you don't feel adequate in the bedroom because you're competing with toys that are. Paint a totally unrealistic picture of men and how men operate. You see how this works? See how many of you have ever encountered this? Unfortunately I have. Now. I know it for what it is. It fuels the delusion even more like social media does. Like the entertainment industry. Does this fuels it in a totally different way. Well, let's return to this article is the belief that using these toys means your partner isn't good enough of a lover is common, says a licensed marriage and family therapist. Even the marriage and family therapists know this to be true. He. It's common for this to be true. In other words, by your partner is not doing enough of a. Lover, they mean men. Men are increasingly insecure. You look not to be vulgar, but if you look, the average man's anatomy is about 6 inches. No, actually, no. It's about 5. It's like four or five. Average man is like four or five, depending on the country, ethnicity, race, so on and so forth. Like 4:00 to 5:00. These women have toys that are 8/10/12. See how that might skew things in a way that will make it impossible for a guy who's even good looking with a good job who's a good guy who manages to be the anomaly that looking for? He's not here. He's not pitching a shutdown because he doesn't have 12 inches. Down low doesn't have the anatomy. He wasn't blessed with it. It's not like again, men don't get to choose this. This is part of your biology, your genetic code. You can't get as of right now until technology comes out that changes this. This is a reality that men face. Let's go look at this PhD counselor, she says. One partner, the man may fear that the other partner's use of a toy, the woman will replace them, or overall they will become overly reliant upon them. Gentlemen. This is not a conspiracy. This is unfortunately a very real thing. Generally speaking, couples who explore these novel ways, she says of being intimate together, tend to fare better in terms of maintaining passionate ma'am, have you asked the man how he feels about this answer? No, because number one people don't care. And number two, men are not going to be honest. About it because they don't wanna. What is a man gonna do? Ohh yeah. I feel great about the fact that my, my spouse, my girlfriend prefers and and and and an object over me. Men are going to admit that. What are you talking about? Men are going to admit that garbage. A 2016 study so-called conducted by Chapman University's David Frederick, PhD, found that women and men who reportedly who reported feeling satisfied by their relationship and their intimacy with their partner were more likely to report having to use. Boys together. My friends, I can guarantee you that the men are going along with this. The men are not. They're going along with this because they don't want to be called it secure and they want to make the woman happy because. The woman needs. This I've never met a dude who just initiates this stuff. It is women who do this. You know, this is what I'm talking about. This is what producing in the context of using such toys. Positive communication means that partners can discuss their physical needs and desires and show respect for each others preferences. And boundaries. Lot of code words for the woman letting the man know that he's that she has. She's used to certain things, requires certain things and he's not cutting it in plain English, you know, and this is the problem. This is why I felt the need to talk about this, because guess what, not enough people talk about the subject and I can guarantee you it is one of the unspoken destroyers of relationships today and we need to speak out about this or at the very least arm ourselves about this knowledge that we. Are not surprised when it shows up at our doorstep. My friends, do you agree you disagree? Have you experienced this? Have you encountered this? If you have, I would encourage you to sound off and let me know. Let other guys in the comments in this community know. Because we are shadow band and throttled on this channel for a reason. Because we speak the truth over here, we let it known. The way it is. Not to make people feel good. Not the strong people's egos any. Money. But the count on the truth is the truth sets us free. My friends, I encourage you to keep thinking for yourself. Challenge this. That you think it's wrong or let me know which have found to be impactful in the meantime. I look forward to seeing you guys next time and hearing what you have to say about the subject matter and others that were raised. Hey, care. I'm out. Peace.