Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Sheep Get Sheered podcast. I'm your host, Austin
Creed, my friends. Oh, we're gonna go back and talk about marriage again. Reason being,
I don't know about y'all, but a lot of my friends are getting married. A lot of people
I know have gotten married recently. It's that season of life for me. I'm in my early
to mid 20s and I've seen a lot of people get married and the more weddings I go to,
the more times I see guys get on their one one need and get engaged, the more I realize
why I will never support modern marriage. And I'll tell you a couple of the reasons
why a lot of you probably already know what I'm gonna say. Maybe you don't. But we're
gonna jump into this because I think it's extremely important. And you might say, Austin,
how in the world could you as a so called Christian man, how could you say that marriage
is no good? How could you say that you'll never be married? What are you gonna do? You
can be a homeowner? I never said that. I mean, hell, the idea is so bad when I'm thinking
about it. But that's not what I said. But you see, that's the problem. A lot of people
assume immediately that you're either the model of the best thing you would ever have.
Or you're a low life degenerate scumbag. People are so narrow minded. They assume that you
either got to be Mr. Holier than everybody or Mr. Gutterrat. They hear that there's
almost no in between for most people. And so one of the reasons why let's go to the
number one reason, the number one reason why I will never support modern marriage is it
turns men into inferior pieces of shit. It turns you into a beta because if you don't,
you give up all leverage when you get married. I know some people disagree with me. They
say, no Austin, I'll give up leverage because I have freedom. I don't give up leverage because
I hold my woman in check. Austin, I don't give up leverage because I got masculine
pain. I don't give up any leverage. You know what I say to that? I say, you're stupid.
You're stupid because legally you give up all leverage. Look, I understand a lot of
you know about this game like I do, but there are some of you who don't. And so we're going
to put you up on game both in the comments section and right here on this video, we're
going to put you all up on game. Number one, when you get into a marriage, you have to
take a subservient role might not immediately not immediately. Oh no, you'll think everything's
good because men marry women hoping that they never change women, marry men hoping that
they will change. And inevitably, they are both disappointed. That is how marriage works.
And it's so predictable how it goes. And you start to go on this ever so descending staircase
of making compromises, doing things you don't want to do her giving you a shit test and
you're probably going to fail because you don't fail. You're going to use that with
whole sex. I mean, I mean, the whole thing is so predictable. And it's so predictable
in fact that there are a movement of men called the passport bros shout out to the passport
bros. They are going to countries like the Philippines, who have no divorce laws, not
no no fault. They make it illegal to get a divorce in the Philippines. I think the only
other one is Vatican City, which might have changed recently. I don't think so. But that's
like a metropolitan country. And it's run by the Pope. So you want to go there be my
guest, I don't I don't want to do it. But it forces you to take this absurd route because
if you don't, bam, you ain't getting sexual with your wife. And if you ever think about
cheating, they get some side poor Johnny, what, your head's going to get chopped off?
Not actually speaking by the family court system and then you're far now. You only hear
something funny that I found out I'm in Spain right now. You only found out I found something
out today that I was shocked. I was flabbergasted. Apparently in in Spain and in a lot of the
European Union countries, believe it or not, they will pay you a certain amount per month
to help you raise children. Oh, yes, you heard me right. Their birth rate is so bad. They
are paying people to have babies. Now, I would never move here for that reason, because they
are allowed for surrogacy. Surrogacy is illegal here. So I would never come here because I
would be a surrogate father who raises his kids on his own. Why? Because that's the
best way to do it outside of a two parent household. And I'm not going to go to the Philippines
and do that. I mean, the passport brothers can do it. God bless you. That's great. I'm
not doing that. I'm not going to the Philippines. You know, I mean, radical Muslims come out
of the Philippines, man. Hell no, I ain't going over there. But let's get back to modern
marriage for two seconds. We talked about how we got to basically become the most beta
cuck version of yourself if you want to be married. But what they don't tell you is
the other side of the coin is if you don't do that, you don't cuck out, you don't beta
up and be the oh, it's such a pistol. Let me run this by the wifey. My wife holds the
purse strings as dude. If you don't become that guy, well, then we go on to the next
potential phase, which is you get your pockets ran like crazy. It's basically a penis tax.
Instead of it being a protective tactic to protect women, it's become a penis tax because
most child support, most alimony is paid by men. So when we have this conversation about
modern marriage, we look at the fact that 80% of the voices are filed by women and then
conversely about 80% of the child support is not more and alimony is paid by men. Do
you see how that might be a little connected? Just a little bit. Yeah, okay, good. I'm glad
you get out of one plus one and not equal 11. I'm not be good. But you see, gentlemen,
the reason why I absolutely despise the Meyer Christian church is because they'll tell
you the shit that said they'll be like, Oh, don't worry, man, just like just like trust
God, man. And don't worry, because God got you back. Well, God, my buddy's back when
he went through divorce court. I didn't think God take the stand and say, everybody, this
is not okay. We need everybody to know my guy here, he's been a good man. He's been
a good Christian man with that. And I'm not gonna let his pockets get ran. I'm not gonna
let kids get taken from him. No, none of that. We're settling this now. No, no, I didn't
hear God do that. Anybody else? If you've been through divorce, and I know at least
one of you has probably more than you just haven't told me. Where was God in your divorce
court? Answer, nowhere. We was he got your marriage ceremony? Probably yes. Was he at
the divorce? Nope. Who was there? Your lawyer? Who was there? This this this burning of your
real ex wife. The one you saw in divorce court was the real her not the one that was before.
A gentleman had get it. It sucks. I understand that guess what? Life sucks. And once you
accept that life sucks, it gets easier. Trust me, I've been down bad, man. I have been in
a mental hospital, and I was on suicide watch. I've been in the trenches. I understand what
it's like to be depressed. I understand what it's like to be anxious. I understand what
they have means to not have anything to live for in your own head. I understand that. But
guess what? There's so much out here, man. Yeah, I would say all story. I was going out
earlier. And I went to this one place. I won't name them because they're you probably wouldn't
even know where it is anyway. It's in Spain. But there was this guy who owns like this
go this miniature golf course. There's two that sort of funniest memes in his bathroom
I've seen in my life. This she was so funny. Actually, I'm thinking about the end this
trip. I'm going to put together like a collage of pictures of the stuff that I've been going
to and seeing and all that and put it on a video while while we're doing our show and
we're having a conversation. I'm all going to do that and I'll show you some of the things
that he had. I took the pictures. This guy was basically saying he'd been divorced several
times in the owner of the restaurant. He'd been divorced several times and he was telling
the story. And he told me he was like, Hey, Austin, you know, I kept getting married over
and over again because society told me to do it. I didn't want to do it. But I wanted
to finish. He's an older guy. This is he wasn't born yesterday. He's not like 25. The guy's
like we look like he's like 6065. This guy has been in the business for a while. He
knew back in the day he was expected that you got married. And he would tell me he was
telling me well over over dinner, he was telling me he'd come by back and forth to talk while
he was doing business. And he told me he's like I got married over and over again. But
it's because mostly due to social pressure. And because no matter against his best judgment,
he wanted to find love. He was kind of a hopeful, traumatic type from the one I was hearing.
But he knew the reality because in the bathroom, the men's bathroom, that is, he had all these
hilarious memes of like, there was one that was like the prince proposed to the princess
and he said, Will you marry me? She said no, he then proceeded to go out and have nice
bikes, buy nice cars, go go hook up with women half this age, go to the bar, live in peace,
all that kind of stuff, right? And I'm thinking to myself, this dude knows what's going on.
Why? Because he's paying for all the bullshit. And a lot of men, we have to learn the hard
way. I thank God every day that I learned by other people's mistakes, what an absolute
fraud the modern system is, and it makes me sick. And I said to myself, this guy knew,
but he still went for it. Why? Because social pressure, he just died bad. And then you add
to social pressure and the fact that we naturally have a desire to procreate, to be with a woman,
to live with a woman, have sexual women, all this stuff and you combine those two and it
produces the cocktail of chaos that eats away our lives. And so when we get into this, why?
I will never support modern marriage. That's why, because you as a man could invest your
soul, your wallet, your future, everything into this and then it could just not pay it
out. You could do it and try to pitch a shutout, but you throw one ball, bam, pokey smash
in your girlfriend. Boom. She's out with Chad while you're out there at work. All this
stuff happens, man. Now, what happened to everybody? Oh, I'm asking, it doesn't happen
to everybody and not all police come into my damn channel. Okay. No, will it happen
to everybody? No, well, it's statistically happened to you. Yes. Yes, he will. In fact,
guys in this comment section in the community here will tell you that it's happened to them.
This is not a joke. This is your life. So the question is, are you gonna sit there and
let people pretend like the whole year than you steamrogui want to doing something that
you know is not a good deal? Or are you gonna pray yourself like a tree in the city? No,
what? I understand the nature of wanting to be a good person leaves the world better than
how he found it. I find theology interesting or I find all the different stunning of religions
interesting. I find spirituality interesting, whatever, but I will not go for the organized
religion that is basically just religion incorporated is there to get my money. I will not see
here and have you tell me who do you believe in me or your eyes. I'm not going to sit here
and buy this garbage by this absolute rubbish about all I'm more righteous about X, Y and
Z gentlemen, let me tell you something. Okay, we will get old school marriage, but I'm not
talking like the 80s. I'm talking like the eight hundreds, the 800 BC marriages. Okay.
Um, gentlemen, there are rules for divorce. And forever one divorce almost didn't exist.
Let's dispel that myth. And number two, men were part of a community. Men actually men
who worked hard and built things that got rewarded for doing those things today is expected.
And if you don't do it, well, then you just don't you're a dusty, you're nobody, you're
garbage. You're supposed to be Mr. Chad McChannington. Back in the day, even if you were slightly
above average, you got rewarded. Your hard work paid off and you know for a fact that
would pay off. And that's why people killed themselves to build their life, build their
generation of build their legacy. Today, they don't do that as much because there's no
incentive. That's why socialism is on the rise. The birth rates going down is because
people want to have fun. Mostly the women would have all the fun, no accountability.
And then even the good men who want to are penalized for it. They're left holding the
bag instead of using their card bag to build even more than I'm having to reconstruct what
they had before with half the funds. That's why we're such a hard spot. And especially
in the black community, I feel bad for you black brothers out there. I feel bad for you.
Your women are the most divorced, least married, and a lot of you like black women, but the
black women spend on you and they make you feel like you're nothing. Trust me. I sing
it. It makes me sick and it's sad. But my friends, this is no time to give up. This
is no time to throw in a towel and check out. No, you just need to find a better way to
navigate operate differently. Don't just sit there and feel sorry for yourself. Your life
is too valuable. You have too many things you could be out here doing than to be sitting
around healing sorry for yourself and whining about other people and how you can't control
them. How you can't get what they we what you want because they're in your way. This
is why I don't like the idea of modern marriage limits you to one one avenue that doesn't
advantage you in any way. And not only does it not advantage you, it actively disadvantages
you. And then God like the passport bros are put down by the Sims, the gums, the no nothings,
the betas, they're put down by that one. It makes me sick. Gentlemen, there are so many
avenues out here. And that's why I talked about being a biblical bachelor. That's all
I get for you things. Now you can do your own thing. You can do exactly what I do. It
doesn't matter to me. What matters to me is that you understand that just because you
don't want to be a normie that there's so many options out there for you. You can do
so much with your life. And so to sit around and feel sorry for yourself that you can't
have this this fantasy that you've been fed. Those if they were feel bad for yourself,
please, because all for the do is make you waste the one life you're ever going to have
as far as I know. And that's so sad to me. Because you are you have the penis, you have
the power. But you're wasting it by trying to kill the people who don't care about you
by trying to pander the people who do actively it say they're going to replace you. Why?
It's so dumb. My friends, arm yourself with knowledge. Encourage yourself with invalid
motivation and have goals and aspirations. Don't just be there and think about what
you can't have actively or towards what you want. Because this is the only way you're
going to survive out here. The world is in a tough place, man. What I mean, I don't want
to get too much of the politics, but the elections around the corner, you got Jack Black selling
out. You got the drafts being revisited by Congress, all these things signal that we're
going down a dark path, man. And if you think that you can afford to build a dark path,
while you're sitting around feeling sorry for yourself getting horizontal, getting you
million to buy chicks, getting dumped on by your work and accepting subparts shit, you
won't make it. And you can, but you just got to get past the bullshit. You got to go
on yourself out of the hole that you and other people have dug for you. And then you got
to build your own life from the from the ashes. And before you know it, you're working with
ashes, but now you're working with platinum and diamonds, but it takes time. I'm still
working through how the diamonds yet, but I'm working and I'm getting towards it. Despite
anything that's coming in my way. What's your excuse? I'm going to start my new job
after this vacation is over. Only last time I'll see my family for a while. Guess what?
Don't matter. Why? Because I'm pushing through it. What's your excuse? Don't don't don't
give excuses to me. Because all you're doing is telling yourself why you can't do something
instead of why you can do something. I didn't mean for this to be motivational inspiration.
I just I this is pouring out of my soul, man. I really wanted you to understand that you
are not alone in the struggle. And this is why modern marriage is a trap because it
can set you so far back that it takes you double the time to get to where you want to
go. Anyway, my friends, I'll stop right there. I'm getting too preachy out here. I'm not
trying to sound like your pastor who you tune out and fall asleep on. I'll play candy crush
or clash Royale or whatever on your phone while you're not paying attention. My friends,
take care of yourselves. Let me know if any thoughts, comments, concerns, questions, whatever
you have below. Let me know. Take care of yourselves. I'm out of here. Peace.