1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:05,280 Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Sheep Get Sheered podcast. I'm your host, Austin 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:12,240 Creed, my friends. Oh, we're gonna go back and talk about marriage again. Reason being, 3 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:18,880 I don't know about y'all, but a lot of my friends are getting married. A lot of people 4 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:23,400 I know have gotten married recently. It's that season of life for me. I'm in my early 5 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:28,280 to mid 20s and I've seen a lot of people get married and the more weddings I go to, 6 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:33,920 the more times I see guys get on their one one need and get engaged, the more I realize 7 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:40,200 why I will never support modern marriage. And I'll tell you a couple of the reasons 8 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:44,920 why a lot of you probably already know what I'm gonna say. Maybe you don't. But we're 9 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:49,240 gonna jump into this because I think it's extremely important. And you might say, Austin, 10 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:53,840 how in the world could you as a so called Christian man, how could you say that marriage 11 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:58,360 is no good? How could you say that you'll never be married? What are you gonna do? You 12 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:03,480 can be a homeowner? I never said that. I mean, hell, the idea is so bad when I'm thinking 13 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:07,560 about it. But that's not what I said. But you see, that's the problem. A lot of people 14 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:13,800 assume immediately that you're either the model of the best thing you would ever have. 15 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:19,680 Or you're a low life degenerate scumbag. People are so narrow minded. They assume that you 16 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:26,200 either got to be Mr. Holier than everybody or Mr. Gutterrat. They hear that there's 17 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:30,720 almost no in between for most people. And so one of the reasons why let's go to the 18 00:01:30,720 --> 00:01:37,360 number one reason, the number one reason why I will never support modern marriage is it 19 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:44,040 turns men into inferior pieces of shit. It turns you into a beta because if you don't, 20 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:48,400 you give up all leverage when you get married. I know some people disagree with me. They 21 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:54,760 say, no Austin, I'll give up leverage because I have freedom. I don't give up leverage because 22 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:59,880 I hold my woman in check. Austin, I don't give up leverage because I got masculine 23 00:01:59,880 --> 00:02:07,080 pain. I don't give up any leverage. You know what I say to that? I say, you're stupid. 24 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:14,360 You're stupid because legally you give up all leverage. Look, I understand a lot of 25 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:19,760 you know about this game like I do, but there are some of you who don't. And so we're going 26 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:24,000 to put you up on game both in the comments section and right here on this video, we're 27 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:31,360 going to put you all up on game. Number one, when you get into a marriage, you have to 28 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:37,840 take a subservient role might not immediately not immediately. Oh no, you'll think everything's 29 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:44,200 good because men marry women hoping that they never change women, marry men hoping that 30 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:50,240 they will change. And inevitably, they are both disappointed. That is how marriage works. 31 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:59,920 And it's so predictable how it goes. And you start to go on this ever so descending staircase 32 00:02:59,920 --> 00:03:06,800 of making compromises, doing things you don't want to do her giving you a shit test and 33 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:10,560 you're probably going to fail because you don't fail. You're going to use that with 34 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:16,000 whole sex. I mean, I mean, the whole thing is so predictable. And it's so predictable 35 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:21,440 in fact that there are a movement of men called the passport bros shout out to the passport 36 00:03:21,440 --> 00:03:28,400 bros. They are going to countries like the Philippines, who have no divorce laws, not 37 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:33,800 no no fault. They make it illegal to get a divorce in the Philippines. I think the only 38 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:39,680 other one is Vatican City, which might have changed recently. I don't think so. But that's 39 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:45,520 like a metropolitan country. And it's run by the Pope. So you want to go there be my 40 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:52,240 guest, I don't I don't want to do it. But it forces you to take this absurd route because 41 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:57,080 if you don't, bam, you ain't getting sexual with your wife. And if you ever think about 42 00:03:57,080 --> 00:04:03,960 cheating, they get some side poor Johnny, what, your head's going to get chopped off? 43 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:10,800 Not actually speaking by the family court system and then you're far now. You only hear 44 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:14,840 something funny that I found out I'm in Spain right now. You only found out I found something 45 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:21,600 out today that I was shocked. I was flabbergasted. Apparently in in Spain and in a lot of the 46 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:30,080 European Union countries, believe it or not, they will pay you a certain amount per month 47 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:36,920 to help you raise children. Oh, yes, you heard me right. Their birth rate is so bad. They 48 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:44,760 are paying people to have babies. Now, I would never move here for that reason, because they 49 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:50,040 are allowed for surrogacy. Surrogacy is illegal here. So I would never come here because I 50 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:55,160 would be a surrogate father who raises his kids on his own. Why? Because that's the 51 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:59,920 best way to do it outside of a two parent household. And I'm not going to go to the Philippines 52 00:04:59,920 --> 00:05:05,040 and do that. I mean, the passport brothers can do it. God bless you. That's great. I'm 53 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:10,400 not doing that. I'm not going to the Philippines. You know, I mean, radical Muslims come out 54 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:15,240 of the Philippines, man. Hell no, I ain't going over there. But let's get back to modern 55 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:20,720 marriage for two seconds. We talked about how we got to basically become the most beta 56 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:25,960 cuck version of yourself if you want to be married. But what they don't tell you is 57 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:31,840 the other side of the coin is if you don't do that, you don't cuck out, you don't beta 58 00:05:31,840 --> 00:05:38,760 up and be the oh, it's such a pistol. Let me run this by the wifey. My wife holds the 59 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:43,880 purse strings as dude. If you don't become that guy, well, then we go on to the next 60 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:55,320 potential phase, which is you get your pockets ran like crazy. It's basically a penis tax. 61 00:05:55,320 --> 00:06:01,840 Instead of it being a protective tactic to protect women, it's become a penis tax because 62 00:06:01,840 --> 00:06:09,440 most child support, most alimony is paid by men. So when we have this conversation about 63 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:14,760 modern marriage, we look at the fact that 80% of the voices are filed by women and then 64 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:21,120 conversely about 80% of the child support is not more and alimony is paid by men. Do 65 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:28,520 you see how that might be a little connected? Just a little bit. Yeah, okay, good. I'm glad 66 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:34,720 you get out of one plus one and not equal 11. I'm not be good. But you see, gentlemen, 67 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:42,240 the reason why I absolutely despise the Meyer Christian church is because they'll tell 68 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:47,920 you the shit that said they'll be like, Oh, don't worry, man, just like just like trust 69 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:53,440 God, man. And don't worry, because God got you back. Well, God, my buddy's back when 70 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:58,120 he went through divorce court. I didn't think God take the stand and say, everybody, this 71 00:06:58,120 --> 00:07:04,520 is not okay. We need everybody to know my guy here, he's been a good man. He's been 72 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:09,080 a good Christian man with that. And I'm not gonna let his pockets get ran. I'm not gonna 73 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:15,240 let kids get taken from him. No, none of that. We're settling this now. No, no, I didn't 74 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:20,360 hear God do that. Anybody else? If you've been through divorce, and I know at least 75 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:27,000 one of you has probably more than you just haven't told me. Where was God in your divorce 76 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:33,440 court? Answer, nowhere. We was he got your marriage ceremony? Probably yes. Was he at 77 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:41,160 the divorce? Nope. Who was there? Your lawyer? Who was there? This this this burning of your 78 00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:47,200 real ex wife. The one you saw in divorce court was the real her not the one that was before. 79 00:07:47,200 --> 00:07:54,420 A gentleman had get it. It sucks. I understand that guess what? Life sucks. And once you 80 00:07:54,420 --> 00:08:00,560 accept that life sucks, it gets easier. Trust me, I've been down bad, man. I have been in 81 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:05,800 a mental hospital, and I was on suicide watch. I've been in the trenches. I understand what 82 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:09,920 it's like to be depressed. I understand what it's like to be anxious. I understand what 83 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:15,560 they have means to not have anything to live for in your own head. I understand that. But 84 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:21,800 guess what? There's so much out here, man. Yeah, I would say all story. I was going out 85 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:26,600 earlier. And I went to this one place. I won't name them because they're you probably wouldn't 86 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:31,240 even know where it is anyway. It's in Spain. But there was this guy who owns like this 87 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:37,040 go this miniature golf course. There's two that sort of funniest memes in his bathroom 88 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:42,880 I've seen in my life. This she was so funny. Actually, I'm thinking about the end this 89 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:49,040 trip. I'm going to put together like a collage of pictures of the stuff that I've been going 90 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:55,240 to and seeing and all that and put it on a video while while we're doing our show and 91 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:59,000 we're having a conversation. I'm all going to do that and I'll show you some of the things 92 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:04,220 that he had. I took the pictures. This guy was basically saying he'd been divorced several 93 00:09:04,220 --> 00:09:08,200 times in the owner of the restaurant. He'd been divorced several times and he was telling 94 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:14,840 the story. And he told me he was like, Hey, Austin, you know, I kept getting married over 95 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:20,320 and over again because society told me to do it. I didn't want to do it. But I wanted 96 00:09:20,320 --> 00:09:26,160 to finish. He's an older guy. This is he wasn't born yesterday. He's not like 25. The guy's 97 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:32,220 like we look like he's like 6065. This guy has been in the business for a while. He 98 00:09:32,220 --> 00:09:36,480 knew back in the day he was expected that you got married. And he would tell me he was 99 00:09:36,480 --> 00:09:40,960 telling me well over over dinner, he was telling me he'd come by back and forth to talk while 100 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:46,360 he was doing business. And he told me he's like I got married over and over again. But 101 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:52,720 it's because mostly due to social pressure. And because no matter against his best judgment, 102 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:59,120 he wanted to find love. He was kind of a hopeful, traumatic type from the one I was hearing. 103 00:09:59,120 --> 00:10:05,680 But he knew the reality because in the bathroom, the men's bathroom, that is, he had all these 104 00:10:05,680 --> 00:10:11,720 hilarious memes of like, there was one that was like the prince proposed to the princess 105 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:17,920 and he said, Will you marry me? She said no, he then proceeded to go out and have nice 106 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:27,000 bikes, buy nice cars, go go hook up with women half this age, go to the bar, live in peace, 107 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:31,880 all that kind of stuff, right? And I'm thinking to myself, this dude knows what's going on. 108 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:37,440 Why? Because he's paying for all the bullshit. And a lot of men, we have to learn the hard 109 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:43,800 way. I thank God every day that I learned by other people's mistakes, what an absolute 110 00:10:43,800 --> 00:10:50,480 fraud the modern system is, and it makes me sick. And I said to myself, this guy knew, 111 00:10:50,480 --> 00:10:56,000 but he still went for it. Why? Because social pressure, he just died bad. And then you add 112 00:10:56,000 --> 00:11:03,280 to social pressure and the fact that we naturally have a desire to procreate, to be with a woman, 113 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:08,400 to live with a woman, have sexual women, all this stuff and you combine those two and it 114 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:14,600 produces the cocktail of chaos that eats away our lives. And so when we get into this, why? 115 00:11:14,600 --> 00:11:20,240 I will never support modern marriage. That's why, because you as a man could invest your 116 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:26,240 soul, your wallet, your future, everything into this and then it could just not pay it 117 00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:32,200 out. You could do it and try to pitch a shutout, but you throw one ball, bam, pokey smash 118 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:37,880 in your girlfriend. Boom. She's out with Chad while you're out there at work. All this 119 00:11:37,880 --> 00:11:43,840 stuff happens, man. Now, what happened to everybody? Oh, I'm asking, it doesn't happen 120 00:11:43,840 --> 00:11:49,840 to everybody and not all police come into my damn channel. Okay. No, will it happen 121 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:59,000 to everybody? No, well, it's statistically happened to you. Yes. Yes, he will. In fact, 122 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:05,480 guys in this comment section in the community here will tell you that it's happened to them. 123 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:10,240 This is not a joke. This is your life. So the question is, are you gonna sit there and 124 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:15,240 let people pretend like the whole year than you steamrogui want to doing something that 125 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:19,800 you know is not a good deal? Or are you gonna pray yourself like a tree in the city? No, 126 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:26,920 what? I understand the nature of wanting to be a good person leaves the world better than 127 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:33,520 how he found it. I find theology interesting or I find all the different stunning of religions 128 00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:39,440 interesting. I find spirituality interesting, whatever, but I will not go for the organized 129 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:44,560 religion that is basically just religion incorporated is there to get my money. I will not see 130 00:12:44,560 --> 00:12:49,880 here and have you tell me who do you believe in me or your eyes. I'm not going to sit here 131 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:55,680 and buy this garbage by this absolute rubbish about all I'm more righteous about X, Y and 132 00:12:55,680 --> 00:13:01,320 Z gentlemen, let me tell you something. Okay, we will get old school marriage, but I'm not 133 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:08,360 talking like the 80s. I'm talking like the eight hundreds, the 800 BC marriages. Okay. 134 00:13:08,360 --> 00:13:16,920 Um, gentlemen, there are rules for divorce. And forever one divorce almost didn't exist. 135 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:26,160 Let's dispel that myth. And number two, men were part of a community. Men actually men 136 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:33,160 who worked hard and built things that got rewarded for doing those things today is expected. 137 00:13:33,160 --> 00:13:39,840 And if you don't do it, well, then you just don't you're a dusty, you're nobody, you're 138 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:45,720 garbage. You're supposed to be Mr. Chad McChannington. Back in the day, even if you were slightly 139 00:13:45,720 --> 00:13:51,600 above average, you got rewarded. Your hard work paid off and you know for a fact that 140 00:13:51,600 --> 00:13:56,040 would pay off. And that's why people killed themselves to build their life, build their 141 00:13:56,040 --> 00:14:01,120 generation of build their legacy. Today, they don't do that as much because there's no 142 00:14:01,120 --> 00:14:06,520 incentive. That's why socialism is on the rise. The birth rates going down is because 143 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:13,280 people want to have fun. Mostly the women would have all the fun, no accountability. 144 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:18,800 And then even the good men who want to are penalized for it. They're left holding the 145 00:14:18,800 --> 00:14:25,760 bag instead of using their card bag to build even more than I'm having to reconstruct what 146 00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:32,800 they had before with half the funds. That's why we're such a hard spot. And especially 147 00:14:32,800 --> 00:14:36,960 in the black community, I feel bad for you black brothers out there. I feel bad for you. 148 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:43,080 Your women are the most divorced, least married, and a lot of you like black women, but the 149 00:14:43,080 --> 00:14:50,280 black women spend on you and they make you feel like you're nothing. Trust me. I sing 150 00:14:50,280 --> 00:14:57,240 it. It makes me sick and it's sad. But my friends, this is no time to give up. This 151 00:14:57,240 --> 00:15:01,520 is no time to throw in a towel and check out. No, you just need to find a better way to 152 00:15:01,520 --> 00:15:06,080 navigate operate differently. Don't just sit there and feel sorry for yourself. Your life 153 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:10,400 is too valuable. You have too many things you could be out here doing than to be sitting 154 00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:15,560 around healing sorry for yourself and whining about other people and how you can't control 155 00:15:15,560 --> 00:15:19,480 them. How you can't get what they we what you want because they're in your way. This 156 00:15:19,480 --> 00:15:25,760 is why I don't like the idea of modern marriage limits you to one one avenue that doesn't 157 00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:32,360 advantage you in any way. And not only does it not advantage you, it actively disadvantages 158 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:41,480 you. And then God like the passport bros are put down by the Sims, the gums, the no nothings, 159 00:15:41,480 --> 00:15:46,720 the betas, they're put down by that one. It makes me sick. Gentlemen, there are so many 160 00:15:46,720 --> 00:15:50,560 avenues out here. And that's why I talked about being a biblical bachelor. That's all 161 00:15:50,560 --> 00:15:54,560 I get for you things. Now you can do your own thing. You can do exactly what I do. It 162 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:59,000 doesn't matter to me. What matters to me is that you understand that just because you 163 00:15:59,000 --> 00:16:03,080 don't want to be a normie that there's so many options out there for you. You can do 164 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:07,240 so much with your life. And so to sit around and feel sorry for yourself that you can't 165 00:16:07,240 --> 00:16:12,320 have this this fantasy that you've been fed. Those if they were feel bad for yourself, 166 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:16,960 please, because all for the do is make you waste the one life you're ever going to have 167 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:23,760 as far as I know. And that's so sad to me. Because you are you have the penis, you have 168 00:16:23,760 --> 00:16:30,040 the power. But you're wasting it by trying to kill the people who don't care about you 169 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:37,120 by trying to pander the people who do actively it say they're going to replace you. Why? 170 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:47,040 It's so dumb. My friends, arm yourself with knowledge. Encourage yourself with invalid 171 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:52,200 motivation and have goals and aspirations. Don't just be there and think about what 172 00:16:52,200 --> 00:16:57,680 you can't have actively or towards what you want. Because this is the only way you're 173 00:16:57,680 --> 00:17:03,560 going to survive out here. The world is in a tough place, man. What I mean, I don't want 174 00:17:03,560 --> 00:17:07,520 to get too much of the politics, but the elections around the corner, you got Jack Black selling 175 00:17:07,520 --> 00:17:15,960 out. You got the drafts being revisited by Congress, all these things signal that we're 176 00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:22,520 going down a dark path, man. And if you think that you can afford to build a dark path, 177 00:17:22,520 --> 00:17:27,040 while you're sitting around feeling sorry for yourself getting horizontal, getting you 178 00:17:27,040 --> 00:17:32,680 million to buy chicks, getting dumped on by your work and accepting subparts shit, you 179 00:17:32,680 --> 00:17:39,240 won't make it. And you can, but you just got to get past the bullshit. You got to go 180 00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:43,400 on yourself out of the hole that you and other people have dug for you. And then you got 181 00:17:43,400 --> 00:17:48,440 to build your own life from the from the ashes. And before you know it, you're working with 182 00:17:48,440 --> 00:17:54,120 ashes, but now you're working with platinum and diamonds, but it takes time. I'm still 183 00:17:54,120 --> 00:17:59,280 working through how the diamonds yet, but I'm working and I'm getting towards it. Despite 184 00:17:59,280 --> 00:18:02,960 anything that's coming in my way. What's your excuse? I'm going to start my new job 185 00:18:02,960 --> 00:18:08,800 after this vacation is over. Only last time I'll see my family for a while. Guess what? 186 00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:14,040 Don't matter. Why? Because I'm pushing through it. What's your excuse? Don't don't don't 187 00:18:14,040 --> 00:18:18,720 give excuses to me. Because all you're doing is telling yourself why you can't do something 188 00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:23,960 instead of why you can do something. I didn't mean for this to be motivational inspiration. 189 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:28,400 I just I this is pouring out of my soul, man. I really wanted you to understand that you 190 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:32,520 are not alone in the struggle. And this is why modern marriage is a trap because it 191 00:18:32,520 --> 00:18:36,880 can set you so far back that it takes you double the time to get to where you want to 192 00:18:36,880 --> 00:18:42,480 go. Anyway, my friends, I'll stop right there. I'm getting too preachy out here. I'm not 193 00:18:42,480 --> 00:18:48,040 trying to sound like your pastor who you tune out and fall asleep on. I'll play candy crush 194 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:53,440 or clash Royale or whatever on your phone while you're not paying attention. My friends, 195 00:18:53,440 --> 00:18:57,480 take care of yourselves. Let me know if any thoughts, comments, concerns, questions, whatever 196 00:18:57,480 --> 00:19:01,720 you have below. Let me know. Take care of yourselves. I'm out of here. Peace.