We're gonna see what she has to say. 

I'm a 32 year old Christian girl who got married at 28. 

All this video's. What am I just saying? What did I just say about women going into the church from age 25 to 30 looking to get married? What did I just say? I told you I don't watch these videos all the way through. I told you. What did I just say already? Prove my point right out the gate. Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the sheep Get Sheared podcast. I'm your host, Austin Creed, and my friends today we're gonna ask a simple question. Should you trust Christian women? I am. I ask, why am I picking on the Christian women? Why am I not discussing the Jewish women I know? Muslim women, Hindu women, you could say in general, I'm referring to religious women in general, but the reason I highlight the Christian Church is number one, it's still the biggest religion on the planet. That's number one. Number two, I grew up in the Christian Church. I grew up in the non denominational evangelical type church. 

Church. 

Though I grew up around this and I understand it more than I understand other religious communities that I have not had personal experience with, well, I can read data and I can read page in verse. I am not fully immersed in the culture like I am in the Christian. Culture. So that's why I wanted to discuss the Christian women in general, because I've been surrounded by these people my entire life. More accurately, I grew up with these people. I went to high school and middle school with these people I grew up around them. I know the types. I know how they operate. I know the lifestyle, the thought process and everything. In between. So that's why we're gonna discuss them, and we're gonna ask the question again. Should you trust Christian women? I I understand. On the face of it, it's a very provocative question. But that's good because that's the point. I want you to think about these things rationally. I want you to think, wait a minute. Why do I trust people who claim to be religious or? Who? Use their religion as the shield from the accountability of the world. That you can use for example single mothers, the skeezers who package themselves up and come to church about age 3025 to 30 to 40. Ohh yeah. You know who I'm talking about. I can guarantee you I can go in any congregation, especially in the more liberal, you know, metropolitan areas. And I can find the women who are between the ages of 25 and 30 suddenly reentering the church again. And now they want the good man. Now they want that Gump. They want to check out of the marketplace, cause they've been on the on the Rooster roller coaster with Pookie and Tyrone and and Chad and Ray Ray. And they're done. And they're tired of it. And now they want the good man. They could have had at age 18, but he was lame, he was goofy. He wasn't interesting. And now? Now you can trust them, because now they now they want you. Now I understand. That's not every person's experience. I am fully aware. I have friends or my age, early 20s who are getting married. OK, so don't think I only see one side of the spectrum because you're wrong. Don't typecast me. That being said, that is the exception #1, not the norm and #2. We're assuming that that always works out when statistically speaking it does not change the overall demographics of who gets divorced and for what reasons, though without further ado, we're going to look at some videos we're going to talk about this. Topic and you feel free to share your comments, your thoughts, your feelings, because a lot of us this hits home for us, whether it's we're new Christians, old school Christians, agnostics. 

This. 

This hits home for us, the people who are religious. If you're not religious, how many of you think of religious people as hypocrites or you think of them as cherry pickers? Virtue signalers. I don't blame you. A lot of times that's actually pretty spot on, quite frankly. And look. We need to make this distinction. The reason I ask the question of should you trust Christian women or religious women is because there's still women? And just like men are just men and women are just women. People tend to pretend like, oh, because I'm religious, all the other rules, they don't apply to all the other expectations. I've got to change it. All the stuff I did beforehand. Uh, it's not important cause I've been forgiven. But now because I've been forgiven, you gotta forget you can't bring it up. You can't use it against me, or if you're a man, you can. But if you're a woman, you can't use it against me because. Then you're a bad person. You're not a real man. You're not a real Christian man. If you use your head, you're not a real Christian man. If you hold me accountable, you're not a real Christian man. If you don't just man up and pay off my tab of bad decision. You all know what I'm talking about, so without further ado. And let this woman talk. We're going to hear what she has to say. Like I said, for those of you who watched the show before first welcome second. I don't watch these clips in their entirety before the show. I just make sure there's not a bunch of goofy music or a bunch of unnecessary swearing or whatever, because then it distracts from what they're trying to say. And what the message of the show is so. Let's see what she has to say. I have no idea on the screen. It says a lot of Christian women end up dating men. They were supposed to intercede for. Ohh no. This already sounds like we're we're pulling a beauty and the beast we're trying to turn pookie into a nice Christian guy wearing an old school pimp suit, alright. 

A lot of Christian women end up dating men that they were simply supposed to intercede for. Those are the words of my mentor, and we are about to break it down real quick. Obviously, this is not a one-size-fits-all type of thing, so if it fits cool, if it doesn't cool, where we go wrong as Christian women is one not learning the voice of God, right, and what God is really saying. You're misinterpreting things. He's showing you as this is supposed to be my husband because you're looking at from a view of you want to get married. This is what does God want in this season, especially when you're new in the faith or you need healing in self love you desire marriage so badly you want to be loved, right? So you're willing to end up almost settling for somebody that. 

Ohh no hey German. The reason why I'm cautioning you and we're asking this question today is because this this exact line of talking points he just laid out one of the one of the best supporters on this in this community as a gentleman who's he's a African American gentleman. He just told me and before on this show in the comments, he's. Told me I I don't wanna. I don't wanna give him. I don't wanna like expose too much of his business cause he told it to me. I think in somewhat confidence. But he's an he's an African American man and he wants to marry a a black woman. But he can't find a good black woman. In his words, he can't find one, and I don't blame him because this is the kind of woman he has to deal with. You don't think I met these people? I grew up in California. I was surrounded by these types of people who were like, ohh, I want to be a Christian. I want to follow the Lord. But I don't want to submit to a man, but I don't want to do what I want to do. What I feel like doing, not what the Bible actually says, not what the Torah actually tells me to do. Now. I don't want to do none of that because that's oppressive. That makes me feel bad. So instead I'll submit to God. But because men are fallible. You know, I gotta listen to no man, but I'll listen to. God, that's the line of logic these women use. This is the type of Crimson Christianity I talked about on this show that the the subtle communist feminist garbage that's been injected into the church because the church is weak, and especially the evangelical Protestant Church, the Catholic and the Orthodox churches, they're not immune to this phenomenon. But in my experience they are not as bad from what I've seen. Again, that's anecdotal, I understand, but. Because of the rich tradition of the Catholic and the Orthodox Church and the rites and the sacraments, and they're usually a little bit better at calling out this rubbish, they're better at saying no. No, ma'am, you can't do this garbage, OK? You can't have it both ways. You can't say, hey, I'll follow God over here because I like it. But I'm not going to do what God says, because then that's no good. That makes me feel bad. So I'm not going to do that. This makes me feel valuable. So I'll do that. This makes me feel secure. So I'll do this. But this makes me feel restricted. So I'm not going to do that. That's the garbage I'm hearing in this video, right. 

Well. 

And This is why we're asking this question. Should you trust Christian women? And my answer is no. You shouldn't just trust people because they say they're religious or they say this, or they say that look at how they act. Listen to what they actually say, read between the black of the letters and the you'll see. What they're saying this is what I'm hearing right now, I. Can't stand people like this because they make me sick and they're the same people. Would lecture me about. Well, let's know what the Bible said, what at what point have you actually interpret the Bible? Literally. Do you even know what the Hebrew that you're talking about? Probably not. Why? Because you're not educated. Why? Because you don't care. You listen to some feminist who interpreted it, and then you like the way media feels. He latched on to. It let's continue that. 

Is not quite there yet, but do you just see the good in them? So you wanna you know. So sometimes you meet people whether they're a friend. Business partner or even a potential love interest, right? 

Nor she mentioned that last because it was the most socially unacceptable, but that should have been. 

1st and you automatically assume because they are a man, you're attracted to him. You know, maybe this is the one and. 

In other words, beauty and the beast, this is the modern day of beauty and the beast story is the average woman trying to get poo. E or Ray Ray to become this good man. And even if that guy does that he's not interesting anymore, she will waste her youth turning the bad guy the beast into a man instead of choosing the man who's already there, who would have given her everything. But he was boring. He was not interesting. He was lame. He was goofy. Gentlemen, this is not. This is a woman who's supposed to be a Christian woman, giving you the playbook of every other woman you would hear on on the Internet. You think because they have they wear a cross or a yin Yang symbol or a a Crescent moon that they're or, or a Star of David that they're different. No, they're not. Their biology is the same. Hypergamy is still there. Gentlemen, the game does not change. It's the same game, just on a different playing field. The game just looks different. It's not actually different. This is the whole problem. This is why we have to talk about this because I know so many good Christian men who are. They're strong, they are very moral. They care about their communities, they care about other people. And then people like this type of woman will come in there. And manipulate the living life out of this guy. Gaslight him the Kingdom come. And then I gotta sit there and I'm like. My guy, what the hell are you doing? You're falling for this. And then I try to tell them dude, she's manipulating the absolute living life out of you, and they're gonna look at me. Like I'm crazy. What? No. She's a girl. Woman. She wouldn't do that to me. No, no, no, no. She just wants what's best for me. No, no, she's just pushing me to be a better man. No, that's not what the Bible says that you should do. No, that's the culture talking that's you're ***** and you wanna hit that? Don't lie to yourself. See this is the problem. This is the part that makes me so angry when I hear about. Sorry, I gotta I gotta. I gotta get myself under control. I'm gonna go off the rails. The reason why I hate it when passers talk about to teach men basically to be afraid of of sex is because then the one power that women have over men, which is the power of intimacy. They have no defense against it. 0 nothing. You want to know why guys who have been with multiple women, they are basically immune to the garbage and the BS and the games. It's because they played the game. They know how it works, they know how to avoid it. They know what the playbook is. It's like playing chess. You play enough games of chess, you could see what the next guy's going to do. You could see what moves are available. For what? Peace and when you can react if you never played chess, you have no idea what the other person's gonna use against you. U for a strategy versus. Let's apply that to the dating world. If you're the average schmuck who has next to no experience, you don't know your own biology, you don't know the power of post nut clarity. You haven't developed pre nut clarity much. Let's experience post nut clarity and now you're going up against these women so-called born again virgin. Women who have been out in these streets for 10 years, you think that that's a level playing field. No, it's not, and it's no wonder that you're getting exploited. You're getting gas lit. You're turning to a beta male. Hawking book with short hair. And why you're left hole in the back thinking you're the problem because you don't. Even know what happened? And the pastors, they don't prepare you for this. Why? Because if they told you what I'm telling you in the church, the women wouldn't would leave the church and stop doing any money to them and would make them feel bad. And they turn their dumb husbands against the pastor. You don't think you think I don't know it? I know it for a fact. German This is why I'm passionate about this stuff, because this, this stuff your pastor won't tell you because he's he's been cooked out in plain English. You noticed the so feminist rhetoric in there. I hope you did, because it was very obvious to me. I hope you noticed it too. We got one more video on the show today. Relating to this idea, and this is a married woman, apparently. Let's see what she has to say. We're not going to play all 8 minutes of this video. I don't have enough sanity to spend on that. But we're. Gonna see what she has to say. 

I'm a 32 year old Christian girl who got married at 28. 

All this video. What am I just saying? What did I just say about women going into the church from age 25 to 30 looking to get married? What did I just say? I told you I don't watch these videos all the way through. I told you. What did I just say? Already? Prove my point right out the gate. Right. About 30. Going into the church. Finding a Gump. Right out the gate. You proving my. 

Point and here are some honest reflections on marriage that is not your highly curated Christian girl. I love being married content. This is just some honest observations. 

All this should be good. 

From me, after almost three years of marriage. 

Hmm. 

And some of you all might think this is oversharing, but if you know me, you know, I'm just a complete open book. And if what I have gone through and maybe some of these observations are helpful to you, whether you're single, still waiting for your spouse or your in a relationship and help you to have more perspective and help you to not have as many crazy expectations like I did. Then keep watching. 

Do anybody else knows the very passive aggressive language? In other words, what she's saying is I wanted to get married, and I've already been married for three years and I'm bored out of my mind and I can't say that because then I'm not gonna get called out. So what I'm gonna do is I'm gonna use a lot of passive aggressive, non direct coded language for the men. So they can't say anything. But the girls y'all are gonna get everything about to say for the next 8 minutes. That's what she said. 

Or maybe you're not a Christian and you're like, Oh my gosh, saving yourself from marriage is so stupid and antiquated, but you're just, like, morbidly curious. 

Ma'am, you didn't save yourself for marriage. No woman over the age of 22. No. No woman over the age of 21. Is a virgin. I don't care what lies you're told. I don't care what excuse they have. It's a complete and utter lie. It's a fabrication. There's it's not possible. The only place you might find that, if at all, is like Iran or Afghanistan, where they hold their win basically under lock and key in a burqa. You ain't gonna find that United States with all the. Does nobody else go to high school with the high school parties and the trains being ran on girls with like and and and what? Please don't even try this to tell me this, this this absolute hogwash. 

About what someone's marriage experience has been like after saving themselves for marriage. Keep watching because it might satisfy your morbid curiosity. OK, random observations, in no particular order. Number one, it can be really hard to go from a series of short term relationships to a long term marriage. 

In other words, I'm used to having a ton of. I'm used to doing a lot of salami smugly. And my Vijay from a bunch of Chads and Tyrones and that was exciting, but now this is not exciting. He's probably vanilla as hell and I'm bored, OK? 

Longest relationship I was ever in was four months and I. Attribute a lot of this. 

Why would you marry a woman like this? Why would you marry this woman? She's giving it out to you, telling you, hey, I've been imprinted by Chad and Tyrone probably had a 12 inch ******* and beat the brakes off of me and I'm gonna compare him to you every other day for the rest of your life. What are you doing? Why would you sign up for this garbage bro? 

It's like, I mean, I'd go on three dates with someone and be like, yeah, no, they're not the one. 

Ohh three dates. Ohh yeah. Ohh and sleeping with him. You left that part out. 

And my relationships were always so short because I was such a quick decider and I thought that was a good thing. Hey, I've got my list of non negotiables. What I'm looking for in a godly spouse, and you've probably seen all the Christian girl Tik Toks that are like, here's your list that you should have. 

Gentleman, just a little FYI from your boy Austin, just so you know, women make lists for betas. If you're that guy. If she likes you, she's attracted to you. She gets wet whenever you walk by her list doesn't mean anything. It's a bunch of crap. She does not care about. She ain't going to whip out no list for Chad. You feel me? You think she's looking at it? You could chat with the muscles and the and the nice and the Bentley and and and then 12 inch long. And she gonna be like no, no, he he doesn't pray four times a day. Like it. Like I like my my. My father said he should. So I'm not going to let him Pike me. I'm not going to let him treat me to dinner. I'm not going to let him do any of that stuff. Oh yeah. 

Ohh hell no. 

Are you kidding me? Come on, let's see. This is the kind of stuff that men listen to and they're. Like. Oh oh, yeah, that that doesn't sound that bad. Sounds innocent enough. Gentlemen, I. Yes, me. Austin Creed, I have slept with women on the first date and I didn't have to ask him for it. They dropped neck on me and I did not ask for it. I was literally like, no, no, not a girl like, don't worry about it. I'm not that kind of dude. They were throwing it on me. Hey, you choose not to believe me if you want, that's your choice. I'm telling you the way it is. I have had multiple intimate, intimate relations with women on 1st dates most of the time without ever walking in and being like I'm gonna get. I'm gonna get some tonight. I've done it. And so you mean to tell me this woman has it? I'm a man. Sex is harder for me than it is for her. You really think she hasn't done it? Are you kidding me? Stop lying. 

And while that's great, while I believe you should have non negotiables and not drag someone along, if you know that they don't. Meet those, but it can set you. Up for some difficulty. Again, I wouldn't have done it any differently, but it was so hard to go. From just these very short. Relationships where you really don't have to go through a whole lot with that person. Yes, there come a point, you know, maybe right before you break up from that two-month relationship where you're going through something you're like, wow, we really don't see eye to eye. So. We'll just break it off. 

She's used to toxic men, and now she doesn't have a toxic man and she's bored in plain English. She's telling you she's bored out of her mind and maybe even thinking about cheating on her husband. I know that's not what she said. But that's what she meant. Ladies, if you're here, please let me know if I'm lying. I'm not trying to lie. I'm just telling you the way I see it. And I'm not mad at her. By the way, I'm not mad. I'm just passionate about the subject, and I think it's something that we need to discuss more because this is something that you're not going to get told. As a man, most likely. 

Well, it can be hard to know rhythms of conflict and conflict resolution in a long term relationship if that is your experience. Again, I would have done anything. Only, but just be prepared. It's going to be different and you might find yourself going like, Oh my gosh, you know, we argue and this is a an argument maybe we've had for two years in our marriage. Does that mean something's wrong? No, it just means you're in a long term relationship. 

Oh. Now it means the guy is freaking beta as hell and you don't respect him. That's what that see, guys, this is what I'm talking about. She's telling you the problem. But you're not listening. You see, if you just listen to everything she said and take it at face value and you don't decipher it, you'd be forgiven for thinking that this is somewhat of a wholesome video. It's not. She's telling you. She's bored. She's telling you that she's already pretty much uninterested in her husband already. Probably doesn't even probably is having. 

And. 

Mayoral missionary with this man, she's probably done with it. Look, gentlemen, this is the kind of stuff you you run into in relationships. Like. This This is why we're talking about it today, not because I'm angry. I know it could sound like it, but I'm not. I'm more angry when people lie. OK, when people are truthful, even if I hate the answer, I'm not gonna get mad at you for that. I'm gonna thank you for being honest with me, but if you're gonna lie to me, you're gonna try to waste my time and my and and the time of the men and women in this community then. We have a problem. Because when you lie about something. It's it makes me sick, frankly, especially when it's so blatantly obvious that you're lying. It makes me sick, and I know that I'm not alone. Gentlemen, this is the kind of stuff you have to endure if you choose to go down this road. Now, are you guaranteed this type of relationship? No. Is it statistically what you're likely to run up against? Yes. So then we have to be careful about what we engage with and what we allow. And so we shouldn't just trust people because they put a title letters in front of their name, like a PhD or a Masters or or whatever or they say they're Christian or they say they're Jewish or they're Islamic or whatever. You shouldn't just trust people because they say they're in a similar. Faithful than as you or situation as you think for yourself. And don't just go with the program. That's what I hope you learn from. This show is to not fall for the exploitation that traps the people set for you because they think you're not gonna see it coming. My friends, if you anything you want to add to the discussion, anything you want to comment on your way out, please feel free to do so. You like the video? You know what to do? I'm not. I don't gotta beg for it. But. I just want to leave you with some food for thought and I hope that. You ask yourself what is it you want? Why do you think you've been conditioned to act the way you act or think the way you think? My friends, take care of yourselves. I'm out of here. Peace.