We have no response because guess what? I lead. You're supposed to follow me, but they can't say that. Cause they'll. They'll glitch. They'll be like what? Me submit to a man. Ohh, no glitch. And they're gonna like, they're gonna flip out because they can't say that. They they can't say it. It goes against their feminist programming. Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the sheep Get Sheared podcast. I'm your host, Austin Creed, and my friends, they were going to discuss a. A topic of great interest to a lot of young men especially. About how to date women now I'm on record for saying that I believe dating to be deceased and well, I believe that to be the case. There are a lot of people out here who still want to go on dates that want to have girlfriends. They still want to have the traditional relationship or as close to it as you can get in. This day and age. And so I thought, you know what? We need to have a frank discussion. About. Whether we're going to love women or understand them now, you might say awesome. I could do both. That doesn't sound too hard. Well, unfortunately you can't, because you can either love them or you can understand them, because once you understand them, it's kind of hard to really love them anymore because you're disillusioned. To the antics, the decisions, the natural nature that they possess that is different from you. Chores. And we're going to get into that as the show progresses and I'm going to show you what I'm talking about and maybe you. Have received the Suppository of that's known as the Red Pill. And you understand that you started off wanting to be a good guy. Your mom, your grandma, sister, Auntie, cousin, friend, girls, whoever holds you. Ohh, you gotta be nice to women. You gotta treat them well. You gotta do all these things and then you gotta fall in love with you. Because. Women love men who are good and charming and kind and everything right. And then you found out. Wait a minute. I'm in high school or I'm in junior high and the bullies getting the chicks. The guy who's on the the most popular, loudest dude who's rebellious is getting chicks. Not me. I'm trying to be nice. And I'm trying to be kind. I'm trying to be I'm charismatic versus this guy. He's kind of a douche. He's going out here doing reckless stuff, doing drugs, drinking at the parties, and he's getting all the chicks and you're wondering. Wait a minute. Wait, just don't add up. I thought women like nice guys. Well, what you failed to understand because nobody told you. It's not your fault. What you failed to mention. What they failed to mention to you is that women. Don't they like nice guys? But the nice guys who are tall, handsome, have money. Have status and have everything else. I've made this direct example before with. It's like applying for a job and when you apply for a job they usually say they want someone who's good, who's good with other people. They are good at learning new things. They adapt to great different environments. They are good with baby PowerPoints or they're good on the job and whatnot. And then when you go to apply for the job, you look at the fine print and the fine print, it says. You must have a. The X degree must have had X number of years of. Must have a referral, must have certain certifications and all this kind of stuff that they did not lead with. It's the same thing with women. They will not tell you straight up that, hey, if you're not over six feet, I don't want you. You're not making six figures. I'm not gonna get. I don't want you. And if you don't have a certain, you know, hang out with certain people. Or not. The Country Club. I don't wanna be with you. They won't tell you these things because then that makes them look bad. Instead, it looks better to lie to you and blame you instead of telling you the truth. So that's what we're gonna do on the show. Today, and I'm gonna. From you. They'll get a little toxic bite. Because this is a learning opportunity, and if you're not here to learn, I'm sorry I don't know what to tell you. You came to the wrong show. So without further ado, what we're going to do, let me pull this up is we are going to show. This first video called. Do. We're going to compare and contrast do. He's going to ask women do women do we need men? You're gonna hear their answers, and then they're he's gonna ask men. Do you like? Do we need women? And you're gonna hear their responses. Let's hear. Let's hear. It you need men. No. Do we need? Men. No, no, no, you don't. Do we need? Men. Need short? No. Do you need a? Man. No, no, no, no. You need a man. Do you need a man? Do we need men? What? I don't know. You hear that? Yeah. Cause they don't think. Need men? No. Do we need men? We need men to make us stupid, OK? Do we need men? Do we need men? Do women need men in this world? Do we need men? Why? Do we need men? Like, not necessarily, but like if I can look at them. Like we need a man to. Look up. We need men. Why? No, nobody needs men, really. Why not? Why don't we? Need men? Why? Why would? I need men. So what? What? What can you get from someone? Else that you don't get from a man. The only thing I can get from a man that I can't get anywhere else. Anywhere else, OK. I don't need. Do we need women? Yes, we do. Why? These women are awesome. You see the stark difference? My friends? Right out the gate. Do you hear the very stark difference? Women saying we don't need men. Men are no good. Men are garbage. And then they ask them why and they're like. I don't know. Or they say something that's has nothing to do with why they don't actually need men. Like instead of saying, hey, we don't need men because women are doing all these jobs that men used to do, ohh blah blah blah. Nope, nowhere to be found. It's just the classic propaganda answer of I'm a strong, independent woman and I don't need a man. Meanwhile, as soon as they. Or putting the. They're probably living off their daddy. That's number one. Number two, they either live off Sugar Daddy or their actual father, or they live off their boyfriend, or they live off Uncle Sam's, all of which are usually men. But OK, yeah, we don't need men versus you. Look at the men like this and they say, do we need women? They're like. Obviously, of course we do. You see the stark difference, my friends straight out the gate. This is part of the understanding of women. Women are naturally rebellious, OK and. They're way more influenced by popular culture than are you as a dude, I can guarantee you even the most sheltered girl at your church, even if you're Mormon or if you're, I don't know or really Orthodox Jew, or you're really Orthodox Islamic person, doesn't matter. I can guarantee you. The women you're talking. Two, if you're in that community, they know who Billie Eilish is. They know who Taylor Swift is. They know who Beyoncé is. They know who Oprah is. They knew who they know these people. OK, you probably are not as up on the popular culture because it doesn't matter as much to you as a man. For women, this matters a lot. OK, what is cool? What is trendy? What is hip? What is cool and what is high class and what they should be attracted to very highly influences them more than it does you. We have to understand that. And we already see this in this video. Do we need women? Of course. Why is that beautiful? Do we need women? Women. Right. Just feel compassion and affection. I love winning women. Course we did. We need women. Yes. Why? Because they're hot. And what else? They're hot. Right. Do we need women? I mean, ****. Unless they're Yeah, we need women. Do we need women? Yeah. Yes. Who's going to do my dishes? Oh, hell no. I love it. Great. That's a great answer. See, gentleman, do you notice the giant discrepancy? With what men say versus what women say, because when it comes down to a gentleman, when we want to understand women, we understand that this is in every woman's lexicon. Now, whether they're blunt and honest, like those women were. Or not. We need to understand that it's that programming of men are not necessary, despite the fact that they do most of the jobs that are no one else does. You know, like soldiers, and they serve in soldiers, firemen, police. You can go. I can go down the list. Carpenters, oil riggers, all these things. They're all done by men because women don't. Do these jobs. Now my friends, if we really want to break this down piece by agonizing piece, we can do that. But instead what I think we should shift into next when we talk about wanting to understand women versus loving them is understanding. Why we fall for love in the 1st place and one of these is because of these. Romance novel industry and Disney and Time Warner and News Corporation and all of these massive multibillion dollar industries and how they push it towards you as a man that you should love women. You should give them Princess treatment. Do all these things for them. But then they fail to mention what the women should do for you. There are so many people on the Internet who will talk about, oh, this is what a man should do. This is what a man ought to do and what they won't say is OK, well, if I'm as a man, am I supposed to lead? What are you supposed to do as a woman? They have no response because guess what? I lead. You're supposed to follow me, but they can't say that. Cause they'll. They'll glitch. They'll be like what? Me submit to a man. Ohh, no glitch. And they're gonna like, they're gonna flip out because they can't say that. They they can't say it. It goes against their feminist programming. OK. So what we're going to do now is we're going to look at this skit about hopeless romanticism. Hopeless romantics are the most dangerous people out here and right now because they're chasing after something that's not even real. It's the same type of mindset of people who literally watch, like. They watch cartoon prawn. It's not real stuff. People still watch it the same thing when it comes to hopeless romanticism. They're looking for something that doesn't actually exist, and then they're get frustrated why it doesn't exist. Let's watch this skit. Tell me how many of you can resonate with this. This can resonate with you. It's not you, it's me. Wow. Original. No, I sensationalized you. When I meet someone, I build them up in my head. What, like a character, delusion, romance. Same ****. Oh, and as my character Withers away, the let down of reality. Exactly. I created a storyline for us and became infatuated. I created a character of you and fell in love with her. I'm pulled from the excitement of fantasy. Yeah, that's blocked. I know. I'm sorry. What? No for you. Distance timing expectations. Two of those are. The great adversaries of love. Out of your. Control but and if you. Expectations are self-inflicted. Expect real love to match up with delusional romance. You'll never be satisfied. It's a repeating cycle. Disappointed by love because of your ones? Not an expectation. Because Fantasy will never live up to reality. And then run away at a fantasy for comfort. The hopeless romantic is a tragic character. And if I'm incapable of giving the expectations at Bay. You'll always find yourself saying. See how many of you this resonates with just a little bit. Now, admittedly, women tend to be more guilty of this than men, but men, you're not off the hook. We're not off the hook either. Do you have any idea how many men want have a woman that doesn't exist? I mean, look, let's be frank, OK? Men want a woman who's misses. Who's kind? Who's? Usually silent because women tend to talk a lot and they want women who. Who? Who only has eyes for them. Who's not out here getting their back blown out by all these dudes? They that's what they want. Now. Of course, women are trying to shame men out of this. And we can also add they want the women to be fit them and then and whatnot. But here's the problem. There are also dudes who have an unrealistic expectation. Women. They want their woman to be really good in bed, but also be a virgin. They want their woman to be confident and assertive but also quiet and submissive. It doesn't make a lot of sense, right? But conversely, women also have really bad expectations with men. They want these men who are high achieving, who are successfully ambitious. But also. Want to spend all this time with them and want to go on all these trips and spend all this time and whatnot and. You can't have it both ways. They want men who are kind and loving and whatnot, but also men who are very competitive, very ambitious and have to constantly fight and and wrestle and grapple for what they want out of life. You can't have it both ways, but people still, they think that if they just look harder, they try harder. They look more fervently that they'll find this person that doesn't exist and a perfect example of this person, that of this dichotomy is in this picture I found on Twitter. For those of you who are all listening and you're not watching the screen, there's a guy on the left who looks like a mix of like future and. I don't know like future and six, nine and all these other rappers. Right? And it says the guy she got pregnant with on the left and then on the right there's there's Chad mic, Channing, 10 or Giga Chad, as people like to refer to him. On the right, with his Lambeau in his fancy house and his helicopter where it says the guy she expects to raise the kids with. After. And gentlemen, this is the ultimate dichotomy of what we were just talking about. Women wanting a guy who doesn't exist. They want this guy over here on the left when they want to, when they want, like their sexual fantasies fulfilled. Then after it's over, they want you to be this guy. They want you to be like Batman and Superman mixed together. They want you to have all the power in the world, but you don't exercise. But then they want you to be dark and brooding and have a tragic back story, but not be a, you know, not take it out on them or make it their problem. You see how it doesn't work out and in my opinion, the biggest problem with the hopeless romantics is because they get new movies like this. So for those of you who have never seen this movie. I'm not recommending you see it, but if you want insight into understanding women and not just wanting to blindly love them like it's pushed in modern society, I'd recommend you watch the movie Pretty Woman. The whole premise of this movie is about a guy who is rich, he's affluent, he's has status and money. But he doesn't have love. And then you have the woman in the story who is a. She's a pro. She's a pro. He's a professional 304. On the streets and everything. And she and she falls in love with him. And and he falls in love with her. She he basically rises this woman up from the gutter. And they have like this forbidden kind of romance where started off just about the physical intimacy. And then it led into romance. So this woman was a complete pro down in the gutter down on her luck, using her body to get cash. And then she becomes this romantic. Has this romantic entanglement with this ultra rich giga Chad guy? This is what women want to do. They want to have all their fun, make all the bad choices, drink all the drinks, smoke all the smoke, have all the intimacy, and have all the shenanigans happen. But then they want someone to save them. Like this kind of guy and watch. Well, watch this video and I'll show. You what I'm talking about. Baby, I'm gonna treat you so nice. You're never gonna want to let me. Go. Big mistake. Big huge. No one could look mercy. I forget to tell. You later. I had a really good time. Woman, you pardon me. That's every woman's kind of fantasy right there. There are a lot of women who love that movie, didn't know. But this this is all part and parcel of what I'm talking about when it comes to dating, you might say awesome. What does have to do with dating? What if what in the last, like 20 minutes have you been talking about when it comes to dating? Well, I'll tell you. Because when you understand the game, you're less likely to fall for the shenanigans that are pushed on. You're less likely to make bad deals, all for **** tests, all for the little jabs here and there, and might ask what is a **** test for those of you who are new, they don't understand what a ship test is. A **** test is basically. I'll give you an example. OK, let's say you're sitting at home. You're playing Fortnite or apex or whatever. OK. And you're sitting there. You're playing video game, and your girlfriend, your wife or whoever walks in the room. Comes in the house and she's like, hey, I'm you. Give me a Pepsi. I'm on my period or whatever. And you're sitting there playing your game and she's like, can you go to the store and get me a a Pepsi? And you're like, OK, and you're like, whatever. And you keep playing your game. She takes a shower. She gets out, she comes back and she's like. Where's my drink? And you're like ohh yeah, I kind of forgot about that. And then she starts crying and she's like, who did you do those? Blah blah. She's basically she throws the whole tantrum on you. Now if you go and you get that Pepsi and you bring it back, that's the you failed the ship test. That's the **** test. In other words, she's trying to see what? What it takes to get you? To do what she wants. Are you gonna stop what you're doing? Do what she wants you to do. Or are you gonna stand on principle, stand on business and not fall for it? That's a **** test. Now. This is how women condition men the same way you might condition your dog to listen to you. This is why women tend to like men who are more beastly. Ever seen the movie? Beauty and the beast? You think it's just a fairy tale? No, it's based off of a real. Very unsay read truth that a lot of people they don't like. Wow. I don't like to convert these bad dudes into good guys. Using usually their their Vijay as the. Way as a carrot stick method to train you into becoming the pet wallet. The hubby they want. Instead of being a husband your hubby. Gentleman, you might think this is distasteful. I'm not saying this to be distasteful. I'm saying this because this is the truth that you're not going to get from a lot of different places. And I had to learn this the hard way. You think that I just got? I was just born and I was like, hmm. Yes, I have all this knowledge and I know everything. No, I learned this because when I was younger. I fell for these BS **** tests. I fell for the garbage. Instead of seeing it for what it was, I was told hey, be good to her. She'll reward you. Do what she says and it'll make you happy. Happy wife. Happy life, happy girlfriend, happy existence. Blah. Yes. What it doesn't. Work that way. Because they'll lose respect for you. You think you'll win momentarily, cause you'll reward you. But you lost long term, Sir. Ohh yeah. You lost by the. Way. Now you may not accept that right now, but you lost. Because it all comes back to hypergamy. If you're not the ultimate guy, that she can get, or at least in her mind, the highest she can get, she's always going to be on lookout for some other dude. And this is not bad, by the way, hypergamy is good for the human race. But we can look at people are naturally getting taller because women are liking taller men. Hypergamy is something that can work for you as a man, but you have to know how it works. You have to understand the game so you can then understand how you want. To play it. But women don't want you to know how to play this game. Why? If you wanna date women, you gotta know the game of dating. You gotta know the game of marriage. You gotta understand the game of attract. Yeah, because once you understand it, you can use it any way that you want to get what you want. But if you are not doing that, you have no idea what you want. No idea how to get it, and it's no wonder that you're unhappy. My friends, this is what we must discuss and I love discussing this. So those of you who don't know hypergamy is we're going to look at a little video that explains it before we end the show today. Here it is. Hypergamy is the art of marrying up, so you either marry someone who has a higher financial status than you or you marry someone who has a higher social status than you. Most women are trying to say that they're dating for the ability, so when you talk about women wanting a man who has a bag is because it takes a certain type of man to earn a certain type of money. It takes a certain type of. Bishan takes certain type of character. You know, just characters in general, so that's. What the women are going for, it sounds like entitlement, cause not every woman is entitled to those caliber of men. If you do see those men, you have to compete because guess what other? Uncle Pete film because he's in the top 10% of men. He's not just gonna come to your front. And. Door because you did a Sierra's. If y'all want to practice hypergamy, that's understandable, but not everybody is qualified for hypergamy. Sometimes you can just find a guy that makes regular average money. There's nothing wrong with that. On this show, there's women who constantly will bash the hard working men and saying he's not as much of a man compared to the other guy that's high earning because you equate high earning with a certain sense of masculinity, a certain sense of leadership. Mm-hmm. But there's quality men out here that's working hard and can still provide for his family. See, I agree with him. Here's the problem though. Gentleman, he's only he only got 1/2, right. He's missing the other half of the equation. There's the men who are achieving, who are successful. But there's also the guys on the other side of the tracks. They got good pipe game. They got the mouthpiece, they got this other level of of swag U that you as a. Maybe goofy up or cheating that I don't have when women are younger, they like exciting dudes. They don't like boring square guys. OK, not to say that you shouldn't be a square squares are usually the ones who win long term, but just under. Understand how this works, because when you're young you are likely to fall prey to. Maybe I should be a pookie. Maybe I should go out here and running game on girls. I should go out here and, you know, be a **** **** and doing all these goofy things that are gonna make you lose in the long run. I found that in your 20s what you want to do is you want to use those years to put yourself in the best position possible and avoid making the bad choices they're going to set you back ten years, 20 or 30 years. And one of the biggest ones is mistakes you make with women that might end you up in jail. On child support. Run out of certain areas because you've just gotten a bad reputation. We gotta be aware of all these things and this all ties into the game of dating, marriage relationships and loving versus understanding. And this is a very rich topic that I'll probably discuss more and more. But once you understand, you can either love or understand them. You gotta choose. Do I want to fall in love or do I want to understand? And I do. I want to move and adapt differently. We don't live in the same world that our fathers and grandfathers lived in. We don't have the same rules expectations of move. The goal posts have gotten even harder to kick a fuel goal through. The question is, are you going to try to keep kicking the fuel going and hopefully make it or are you gonna walk away and say I'm gonna play my own game? I'm gonna do what I want to do because at the end of the day. The average dude is trying to do what the average dude of the past used to do and get away with and went out, but now it's not the case anymore. Now you can't afford to be average. You gotta be better. The question comes down to are you going to step up or are you gonna step away? Your choice. Friends of you inviting comments, questions, concerns, criticisms, praises. Anything you want. Please add it. I'd love to hear your story if you want to share. If you like the video, you know what to do. The last thing I want to leave you with is if in doubt, use your brain and not what's below your belt, because that thing will lead you into a lot of trouble. Transmute that energy and it's something beneficial that will help you build something that will stand the test of time and not just be around for a short but pleasurable period of time that could lead you to being in big trouble later, my friends, to carry yourselves out. Of here. Peace.