But we're gonna let this woman talk about this, cause this is a topic not enough people discuss. Because I know, I know. Men on this channel. Who talk about wanting a traditional woman, and I don't blame you. Not for a second. I started off that way too. But the problem is, even if and this is a big if, even if she's traditional now, you need to understand that the woman you married will not be the same woman that you are with five years from now, 10 years from now. 20 years from now, if you even make it that far. Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the sheep Get Sheared podcast. I'm your host, Austin Creed, and my friends, I got a question for you today, one that I think you'll enjoy very much and. It's this. Are men the problem? You see? I was. I was just going having having an average morning, you know, I got my coffee, got some breakfast, made myself some. And about French toast, you know. And I was thinking to myself. I said wait a minute. You know, I'm really harsh on tracons. I'm really harsh on women. And I'm really harsh on the gumps and and in the simps. I'm hard on these men, but wait a minute. Is it just them or maybe maybe my friends? Who knows, maybe I could been wrong this whole time. Maybe it's men who are the problem. I mean, after all, I mean, you go on TikTok and you see that all these women they're talking about. How? It must be men. You look at the divorce statistics and you think Oh my. Oh my, all these women are divorcing these men, so it must be in the men's fault, right? I mean, you hear everybody, you hear men say it. You hear women say it. I mean, maybe they might have a point. And I thought to myself, you know what? I need to address this, because who knows, maybe relationships can be fixed. I mean, I know I have solutions like going your own way. Either going back to complete traditionalism, which includes but is not limited to, men holding other men in check, and women holding women in check and promiscuity being reined in or open, and basically having a free open meat market. On the other end of the spectrum, those are solutions. But maybe in my friends, you know what? I could just be part of the toxic masculinity culture and I think that we need to have a frank discussion and I think I, my editor, pulled up some videos for me and I think that we should really look at these videos and we should decide for ourselves. Are men the problem? Are we the problem gentleman? Who knows? We might be the problem. I think we should keep an open mind. I mean, I'm sorry. Can't do it, OK? I mean, all joking aside, well, we're going to look at what arguments people might have for men being the potential problem. I mean, let's not get it twisted. You know where I stand? I don't think this is true. Now, are there some men who are weaker? Who are enabling the bull crap? Are they part of the problem? Yes. Is it men in general but have a problem? No, I don't think so. But we're gonna pretend like I do think that it's possible. Who knows, maybe I'm wrong. In fact, this woman right here, she thinks that men are indeed the problem, and she has a whole rant prepared for us to educate us on how men are the problem. So, gentlemen, if you want to listen to miss Bug eyes and you wanna, you want to hear, maybe if you're the problem. What's I would only ask that you keep an open mind. Maybe we might learn something. I mean, who knows? We might learn something new. But my friends throughout the show today, you have anything you want to say? Anything you wanna comment adds to the discussion. Please feel free to do so. Comment section is all yours. I even go and out check sometimes YouTube. I'll give you a little peek behind the curtain. I've done this before, but I'll do it again. Sometimes YouTube what they'll do is if it's considered insensitive or could be they let me decide whether I want to allow it or do you allow or nor not allow it. Get rid of it. I allow it even if I think it's offensive or something that I think maybe arguably shouldn't have been said, I still lay it on there because I'm a. Believer. In free speech, but my friends, with that being said, I'm not trying to virtue signal. Just saying that I actually do want to hear your comments even if I don't agree with them. But Speaking of things I don't agree with, let's see if this woman could be added to the. List. 

Men are the problem. Every single woman I know has a vision for the future, knows what they want out of life. You ask a woman where she sees herself. In 10 years, she has an idea. Men, on the other hand, ask a man where he sees himself. In 10 years he doesn't know. Ask him if he wants. Relationship he doesn't know. Ask him if he sees himself. Having kids he doesn't know. And I know people are. Gonna make that's a lifestyle. Not everyone has to want. Kids. Ohh. I'm not talking about men who say I don't want. To get married or have kids. I'm talking about the men. Who I. Don't know. Maybe 35 years old. Figure it out. What do you want? You live in your brain. 24/7. And you don't even know what you want. Newsflash. Going out four nights a week, binge drinking is shallow and empty and meaningless. It's. Not a life. It can be a phase in your life. We're talking about 40 year old men who've just done that for the past. Two decades. Get it together. 

Ohh hell no. I love the poorly educated. 

I'm sorry. I mean, for God's sakes, tell me you've only been with Pookie and Ray Ray without telling me you've only been with Pookie and Ray. Ohh my land. I'm sorry I can't stop laughing. What is it, man? With I've said this before, I'll say it again. If you listen to what a what a lot of women say, they tell themselves without realizing it. When they talk about men, what they're talking about is men. They've dated, men, they've encountered men, they've let enter their body. That's what they're talking about. They're talking about every dude they've ever met, every dude they've walked past on the street, every dude they've met. No, no, not talking about him. She's talking about the guys in high school and college. She's talking about the basically the pookie and and Chad and Tyrone, these guys that don't have to do really much of anything to get intimacy from women. You know, the types, right, that kind of have the easy access and whatnot because a lot of women like the same men and whatnot. This is what they're they tell on themselves when they're describing the kind of men like that. She's not talking about you. She's not talking about me because I know what I want out of life. You probably do, too. That's why you're on this channel. But at the end of the day, we need to understand them when she says men are the problem. She's not talking about us because to us we probably don't exist to this woman. This is the kind of woman who will chase Chad, get Chad and then be mad that Chad doesn't commit to her. Meanwhile, there's no reason. For Chad to commit to her when she's giving him everything that he wants and he has tons of other options in case she decides to leave, I mean like it's not. It's laughable because this is something that you could have figured out 20 years ago, ma'am. I mean, I assume that you're talking about a very, very small percentage of men who don't know what they want. Most men know what they want. And it's just not you. And that's why you're upset. That's why you're upset. I mean, look, women want to talk about men being bitter and hurt. I mean, gentlemen, does that sound bitter and hurt to you? Because it certainly does to me. Speaking of complaining, we got another woman here on the whatever podcast. Shout out to them. Let's see what she's got to say and add to this. Add to this very illustrious discussion. 

I mean, I don't want to be rude, but if the guy didn't pay for our date, there wouldn't be another. 

One there wouldn't be another one like that. 

Traditionally agreed, I would offer to be. 

Nice. But if a guy were to have taken you up on the token offer. Say it would. 

I would pay, but then it would be no second. 

Day. See, I gotta challenge you a little. 

Really. 

Bit on. This here so OK so. Women often complain that men are poor communicators, but I feel like men are very literal logical thinkers. So like when I think of that, if a girl offers to pay and then say a guy in good faith takes up that offer and then you disqualify him because of the words that came out of your mouth, wouldn't that? Quite literally be poor communication. 

I guess in a sense, but. 

Uh. 

What? 

OK, gentlemen, we need to, we've had this conversation on this channel before, but I'll have it again because I can tell you from personal experience and other men in this channel will tell you and other men on the Internet. And across the world will tell you. And this isn't just women. This is people in general. When I say this, you need to look at what people do, not what they say. OK, because people will virtue signal, they'll say things they don't actually mean because they want to be perceived as being better, more accepted, and a better person. Instead of saying what they actually mean. I make it a conscious effort, me, myself, to say what I mean and to mean what I say and not be passive aggressive, not say things that I don't actually being. Excuse me, because at the end of the day, what does that actually do for anybody besides make them confused and make me look like a piece of garbage? German. I'm not gonna come up here and tell you to do something that I myself would not even consider doing. And so when women call talk about ohh we want equality, we want men to we want men, you know. We wanna go 5050 we wanna be treated like equals. Well, that's what that consists of me personally I pay for dates like if I take a woman out on a date which is rare because most women. Don't qualify for me. I know you might not believe that, but it's true. Most women, they don't qualify for me because they don't fit the roles that I have lined out for myself. Now, does that mean that I don't hook up with the occasional chick? No, of course I do. I'm not gonna lie to you and say that I don't. What I will tell you is that I don't go out with these. These women who are at the bottom of the food chain, who are more likely than not gonna waste my time. And I don't. I don't just do that. I used to back in the day when I was down bad and I didn't have options and I didn't have any sense of self and I didn't have standards. You know, women like to talk about how they have standards. Most men need to have some standards out here. If you're let's go back to this video for a second. Hold on, let me, let me pull this up again. Hold on. Sorry about pulled it down. Let's look at look at this. These types of chicks. Right? Look at this. Does this not look like somebody who would set you up? I I don't know this woman personally. I'm not trying to degradate her. I'm saying look at this type of of woman right here. 

Be nice. 

Does this not look like somebody that might be a horrible investment and did you catch at the beginning of that conversation? Now the one was like ohh I'm traditional see this is the kind of cherry picking that I talk about. On this show, when we talk about Cherry picking, they want to be traditional when it comes to you paying for stuff you as a man, you be traditional cause that benefits them. But when it comes to them benefiting you with being traditional, that becomes optional and oppressive. That's the problem, and that's why I say don't get mad at them. Don't hate on them, just walk away. Realize it for what it is, which is a. Dam and we need to walk away from it because we should not accept things that are bad deals. I have never understood the concept of German. Let me stop me if this sounds familiar. How many of you have been in a relationship or even in a talking? Phase. And you, whether it's you just hooked up with this chick or you're just. Trying to hook up with this chick. And she starts talking and talking and talking, and she won't stop talking, and you're just gonna laying there, you're sitting there and you're like, I don't care about anything. This woman has to say, or even if you do care, and then you realize that she's part of the problem and you want to address that, she'll get mad at you. Does that sound familiar to anybody? I'm not a huge fan of dealing with that, in my opinion is not my job as a man to sit there and listen to your problems because I'm with an ear shot. To me, that's not fair. OK to me, part of our relationship is not me just sitting there and you unloading and me being an emotional tampon for you. I don't think that that is something that men are required to do now. If you do something, for example, you cook me a sandwich or you make me a cup of coffee or you give me a gift or you do something for me. So that while I'm doing something else. You wanna talk? That's fine. If you wanna help me do something. For example, if you wanna help me make a thumbnail for my video or you wanna come out and help me write my book. You wanna help edit. You wanna listen to while I'm reading it and give me critiques? Then I'll listen to your problems cause you're doing something for me. And so I say, OK, I want to reward this and that's cool. But if you're gonna sit there because I want an earshot and you wanna give me a bunch of stuff that I don't care about that you don't actually want fixed, why would I do that? That doesn't make any sense, right? But again, people would say that I am part of the problem where you are part of the problem for having an attitude like that because apparently it's toxic. It's toxic for you to have standards, but when they have standards that's expected, that's just part of the game. No, I don't think so. To me, that's that is not. That's double standard, and that's cherry picking. And Speaking of cherry picking one of the biggest things I've noticed. That women complain about, especially in Gen. Z and millennials, is women. Don't wanna be women don't wanna be stay at home moms because apparently, feminism has given them this idea that being a stay at home Mom is oppressive and evil and bad and whatnot. When I have not met a single dude who wants to has been given the opportunity to get stay at home husband or a stay at home dad and has not taken that. Chance the first chance he got because he knows it's better than climbing the corporate ladder and he knows and he wants to. Spend time with his kids. But we're gonna let this woman talk about this, cause this is a topic not enough people discuss. Because I know, I know. Men on this channel. Who talk about wanting a traditional woman, and I don't blame you. Not for a second. I started off that way too. But the problem is, even if and this is a big if, even if she's traditional now, you need to understand that the woman you married will not be the same woman that you are with five years from now, 10 years from now. 20 years from now, if you even make it that far, because most marriages end before 10 years. Unfortunately. And so we need to understand that and a lot of men, they get married for intimacy, which is one of the worst ideas you would ever have, because statistically speaking, you're your intimacy is gonna slowly decline over time. Versus if you're single, your worth is going to go up as a man, which means you're going to have more options. But let's hear what this woman has to say about not liking being a seeing stay at home mother, let's see what she has to say. 

I might get some hate for saying this, but I don't enjoy being a stay at home Mom. Actually, I hate it, especially being a stay at home mom to five kids and now the summer is here. 

Hmm. 

None of them are in school right now, and it's. Yeah, it's almost like no matter what I plan or. What I do or how I react? Nothing goes smoothly. To start the day off, we already had. Fighting screaming. A Nosebleed slapping. Ridiculous fits. Kicking the door, I thought he was gonna kick the door down. 

Gentlemen, you remember like 2 minutes ago when I talked about how it's not my job as a man to listen to a woman's BS and and her. Just. Being fluent in Yap, in Japanese. This is what I'm talking about. Is stuff like this where we're, what, 50 seconds in and what have you, what have you actually said about being a stay at home Mom other than it's difficult and complaining about things. Again, this is what I don't get. Ma'am. What is your husband doing? What is he doing for this family? How many hours a day does he work? How? The fact that you even have a house and kids to complain about is a blessing and of itself. But we'll take that. Off the table for a second. Let's have this frank conversation, gentlemen. Can you? Can you imagine this woman being your wife and and her making this video on TikTok talking about how she has it extremely rough. Meanwhile, you're working your behind off to get a promotion. You're working your behind off to make sure that you can provide a better life for the people who are actively complaining. About it and basically saying that you're not doing enough, you're not making their life easy enough. See, this is the part of the problem. They you can't please these kinds of people. You just can't. I can guarantee you if she went up to her husband and she said, look, I think I want to be the breadwinner and you could stay at home with the kids. I can guarantee you if if there wasn't the penalty of her drying up like Sahara desert and cheating on him and there was no risk of that. You could probably do that. He'd probably be like sweet. I'll take that in a heartbeat. And but that's. But women don't want to accept that. It doesn't work when the man's the stay at home husband, statistically speaking, cause the woman will cheat on him with the work husband. Let's continue. 

And as somebody who's already trying to like heal or get over or work through the way my mom did things the way my mom talked to me the way. My mom reacted. Along with a lot of other people in my family. Right, because I didn't just live with my mom. It's really hard not to get triggered by certain behaviors based off of what you experienced and. I'm trying really really hard to enjoy this. I want to enjoy motherhood. I know I'm a good mom and I love my kids. They're an extension of me. I love them with my whole heart. 

Really. Doesn't really sound like it, but OK, we'll take your word for it. 

But. 

Anything before the word, but is BS. Just so you know. 

Being the 24/7 parent is like. 

Wait, what? 

Not fun. 

Wait, hold on a second. Where's the husband? Where's the father at? What do you mean, 24? Something parent. Mina, tell me he's not doing his job as a parent. I can guarantee you if that is in fact the. Case. It's probably not because he doesn't want to be involved, just so we're clear. 

I don't enjoy this. I today was supposed to be a full day like it's supposed to be a good day. Like I tried really hard and. It just didn't turn out that way. And now I'm beating myself up because. How do people do this? How do people do this and make it look so ******* good? 

The answer is they don't, because it's supposed to be hard. Whatever. 

We've got to, I mean, I don't want to say we have to stop glamorizing every part of motherhood, but. 

Ohh. 

To be honest, it is setting some seriously unrealistic expectations. 

ohh I see what this is. She's comparing herself to other mothers. She feels inadequate. You see that she feels inadequate. And that's why this conversation was being had. She probably saw another woman who was doing better. Her kids were more well behaved. She maybe wore better. She looked better. Or maybe to signal that her husband made more money. Whatever, and now she's unhappy with what she. Has and now she's going to make it the husband's problem. If he's still around, which it sounds like he is. Gentlemen, you've heard her side of the story. Let's go to the day in the life of a single. I mean, not a single dad. A how I stay at home, dad. Well, see, he has to say, shall we? 

We're stay at home dads. We have to do this trend all by ourselves because all of our guy friends are at work right now. We're stay at home dads. When we go to the grocery store, somebody will say ohh, it's good that you're babysitting today. Yeah. Babysitting my own kids. It's. For the we're stay at home dads. We don't force our lives to stay home to take care of the kids like society says. We want them to go out and fulfill their dreams and goals, stay at home dads. We've accepted the fact that will be the one of the only guys at story time on a weekday morning or stay at home dads. A lot of other men will think we're lazy and unemployed, but that's OK. They're just jealous or stay at home dads. We take pride in how we treat our spouse. Because we're setting the example for our kids of what to expect in. A relationship we're saying. 

Ohh no. 

People will think that I'm sinning and going to hell because I don't leave the house and provide for my family. Well, guess what? I'll bring my sunscreen. We'll stay at home dads. No, we don't plan on going back to work when the kids are in school. We plan on being stay at home husbands. We're staying home dads. We always like a good cup of tea or too. When it comes to the mom drama. We're stay at home dads. This is what? 

Work. 

For our family and brings us happiness. Isn't that all that should matter? 

Ohh anybody else noticed that whenever you look at like these stay at home Dad types, they're usually not in shape. They usually have a, their hairline usually is kind of messed up. They they're they're out of shape. Their voices are a little higher. Does anybody notice that besides me? I I know he's kind of trolling here. I can understand that there's truth and humor, though we have to understand that there's tremendous truth in humor. But did you notice not at one point that he say that he couldn't do it was exhausting? He he couldn't take it anymore. Which is what most women say, you know. That's not not at one point did he say that? Ohh. I want my wife to come home because I can't do it. Says what? I. They'd have society. Believe is. Ohh motherhood so hard that men couldn't do it. No men could do it. Now we can do it. I mean just look at statistically single fathers do better than single mothers. Tremendously. Most single mother raised kids end up in jail or on drugs. So when we look at this, when we look at the statistical analysis. Are men the actual problem here? It doesn't seem like men are the problem. But it also seems like the only way to fix relationships is for both sides, both sides being men and women to lose something. To gain back this tradition, and once the genie is out of the jar, once Pandora opened her box. Kind of a wrap after that, unfortunately. And my friends, I'll leave you with this. We talked about a we had one of the stay at home dads talk about. Let's talk about the house husband life. Cause he mentioned it in his video. Let's talk about this. So let's see how this goes. 

Day in a life as a house husband dropped off my wife at work, took a nap, organized our room. Made our bed, fixed our living room, organized the kitchen, washed and put away the dishes, refilled our burkey, took out the trash, stacked and recycled our moving boxes, went on a run. After that, I picked up my wife from work. 

I said, kid. 

And this was her reaction when she walked through. 

This is his wife. Ohh no. Ohh brother brother. Ohh no. 

Hell no. 

Oh, this is this is terrible. 

I mean. 

After spending quality time with my wife, I began to cook dinner. I cut. Veggies. 

Can I get a check on anybody in the? Does any raise your hand if you think the woman we just looked at leads a lot of vegetables? Ohh nobody. Yeah, I kind of what? I thought. 

Took some chiller and then my wife helped me in the kitchen. Check out a show you guys recommended. Put away the leftovers chin with my beautiful wife to sleep with my 15 then started to pack her lunch. Reminded her that I love her and. The. Went to bed. 

Oh no. 

You lied to me. 

Ohh, does anybody want to be that guy? I don't know how you could be this emasculated. Like can I get a check on this guy's testosterone per deciliter, please? Can I please get a check on that? There's no way it's above 300. There isn't. There ain't no way. That's that's above 300. See, this is what I talk about. I talk about weak men. Weak men are part of the problem. Guys like that are part of the problem that those kind of guys, unless they're trolling, are the kind of guys who would call us toxic. Meanwhile, their entire life. Is built on the toxic femininity, but don't tell that to them because they don't want to accept it. Gentlemen, let me ask you. We'll go back to the problem that I asked the beginning of the show are men the problem and can relationships be fixed? Relationships can be fixed, will they? Probably not, unless the apocalyptic event epic proportions takes place. Which is it? Possible. I mean anything is possible, but I'm not really wanting that to happen but. I don't think that men are the problem. I don't think that. Women, inherently all women, are the problem per se. But I do think that we look at the society, we look at, the problem is weak men. And the not even the radical feminist women like the somewhat feminist women, cause they're the most insidious. You know why? Radical feminists? You can see them immediately when you walk past them on the street. They're very obvious. It's the pseudo feminists, the one I have the programming just under the surface. Who? Act like they're not, but then you find out later that they are and by the time you find out, you're usually married to them and it's too late. And or you think you're too far in and you've invested and you can you could just get you can you could push past it, it don't matter. There are the most insidious ones, and that's the problem right there. But gentlemen, let me know what you think about any of the videos we discussed today about the question that I posed. Please let me know. Leave your thoughts, your comments below. I encourage you to do your own research and always think for yourself because it's dangerous to just trust what anybody tells you. It's good to get a diversity of opinion. Again. And always think with your brain not what's below the belt. I've made some of the worst mistakes in my life off of doing that. So hopefully you can avoid some of. Them. Yourself. But and if you like the video, you already know what to do. Take care of yourselves. I'll see you next time. Peace.