What happens if in this crystal clear pond that you're talking about, ma'am? What if these fish from this algae infested worm filled mosquito pond? What happens if those fish get taken from that pond and put into this crystal pond you're talking about? Cause it's the same fish. It's the same fish you're just talking about the. On being this. See see, I love that. She mentioned that analogy because she's talking about the pond, the place. She's not talking about the fish in those lakes. Well, if you pick up the fish out of this algae infested in her work. Algae infested worm filled mosquito bedding pond and you put them in a nice healthy one. Are the fish still the same fish? Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the sheep Get Sheared podcast. I'm your host, Austin Creed. My friends, Today, we're going to ask very important question, one that I happen to see on social media all the time and we're going to flip it a little bit and we're going to have some fun with it today. The question. Is where have all the good girls gone? Now? I realize that you're probably used to hearing on social media. Ohh, we're of all the good men gone. Where are the good men? Usually women. You know when they're, you know, late 20s, early 30s, even up to 40. They seem to be asking this question right. And then you look at the comments section and the comments section is full of dudes were like, oh, I'm a good guy. Oh, I'm a good guy or at the gym or at church or whatever they that you get some answers that are trolley cause they know what's going on and then you have some people who are actually like ohh look pick me. I'm a good guy, you know like a like the classic Gump and then what happens is. They are unaware that she's not talking to them, she's talking to Chad. Who happens to be a nice guy guy who has a nice he has a business or he has high status or he's good looking or whatever, while being a somewhat nice guy. That's what we're talking about. But I'm gonna let you know what my thoughts are as this episode unfolds. Of. Where have all the good girls gone? Because this is a very pregnant question and I think it's very important to the society we live in because a lot of men they love to be married, I have some. Friends. Who are married, very close ones. And it's very interesting to see this conversation unfold because everybody has an answer. But some answers are more unpopular than others because you will, you will will not have to look very long to find content about. Ohh I'd what a good man. Where are the good men? I can't find them. Where are they? Where are you finding them? Where are you finding guys over 60 who also make a lot of money who are nice guys. Where are you finding these men? When? When you really dissect this, I've made this comparison so many times, but I'll do it again before we end of the episodes. For the videos I have prepared for today's. Show. One of the things I've identified as a metaphor for this is when you apply for a job. So let's say you're applying for a job at a corporation, OK? And you go on LinkedIn or whatever and you look at the job, the job says. Ohh, we're looking for someone who's good with the team, who is enthusiastic, who's ready to learn, you know, the classic corporate garbage right of a good team player, good Communicator, gets along with people, can speak in public, you know, whatever. It's efficient, has good time management. You know, the classic stuff, right? But and then you're ready to click on. Ohh, that sounds like me or me. I put that bill and then you go to apply for the job and right you're about to click on it. You look at the fine print right below and you say. And it says there must have a four year must have a bachelor's degree, must have seven years of experience, must have a good recommendation, must have certain certificates. You don't. They don't advertise that up front because if they did. Then it might make them look bad. First. They want to seem like it's appealing to everybody. Everybody should just apply. But then when you dig a little bit deeper, you see things for how they actually are, and it's usually something that you don't like and then you realize, oh, OK, yeah, never mind. That's what a lot of men are finding out. They hear girls on social media talking about. Ohh, we want. I want a guy who's kind and caring and nice and thoughtful and loving and romantic and whatever. Right. And you think ohh I could be that guy. I mean, not a good enough decent guy. I mean, my parent. My mom said I was a a nice guy and. And you know, I have tons of friends and I'm a pretty social, you know, outgoing guy. And I care about people, the environment, you know, all the social causes and whatever. And I think that I'm a nice guy. So women are women, all, like women are like me, right. 

Oh, hell no. 

Then you find out that that's not you because you don't have. The look you don't have the drip. You don't have the sex appeal. You don't have the things you're looking for that they don't talk about. That was left out of that conversation cause you took everything at face value instead of digging a little deeper. And then you found out, hmm? Yeah. Never mind that doesn't that doesn't apply to me. So before I show the clips on today's show, I would like to invite you to answer the question where do you think the good girls are have gone? Do you think there are any good women? I'll flip the question are there is there such a thing at all? And if there is, where are they? How did you find one? If you think that your girl's a good girl, where did you find her? Whatever. What's have this conversation? I think it's very important. And I think a lot of men wanted to know the answer to this question, whether they're young or middle-aged or old. And everybody has their opinions. And I would love to hear it because this is a very important question. For a lot of men who they don't wanna fully step out, they don't wanna fully go their own way. They kind of wanna go their own way in certain avenues and certain parts of their life. On this, they still want what they think their grandfather had, or their parents had, or what they think they see on TV. They still want this dream relationship, so let me know what you think in the comments below, but without further ado, let's get into this question with this first video. 

People are always saying where are the good men at man? Where are the good women at? 

What the **** is a good woman? Had you said? Where are these sexy hoes at? I would say she's right here. But you didn't. So. 

I hope she's trolling. But, gentlemen, when you when you peel back the layers a little bit, you'll quickly find that. There are not a lot of good quote good women out here because women. A are not really rewarded. I know you want to think that good women are rewarded. Some of them are, but a lot of good women, they're not really rewarded for being good women. They're being shown the lifestyles on social media of all these. I'm not caping for them. By the way, this is just the reality of it. I I call a spade a spade. I don't care if it's in my hand or your hand. We gotta call things out for what they are, even if it goes, quote, go against the quote, Men aspheric line. We have to have this frank conversation, a lot of good women are not rewarded. You look at the the skeezers and the the talls as I call them. It's if you spell, if you look at tolls backwards, you'll see the word. I'm actually trying to use, but I can't use it on YouTube. When you look at these people, they're the ones that get the most attention. They get the most money, they get the most followings, they they get rewarded for this ratchet bad behavior, right? And then you look at the good women, a lot of the good women are looked over because they're assumed to be skeezers and tolls and everything else, OK? Now, I'm not kidding for them. I'm not saying that good women are rewarded, period. Some are. I'm saying that most are not. And secondly, this whole myth of a good man and a good. Woman. People live on a fluctuating spectrum. People are not just one thing the same way forever. For example, I've met people in my life who I. I know one person and my friend knows the same person and I described that person and then my friends like. We talk about the same individual because that is not how I know them at all. Where you meet people, how you meet people, how your dynamic is will always be different, even if it's the same person. And you know that somebody else also knows you'll know them differently depending on where you met them, how you met them, how long you met them, and all these different factors. So again. I'm sure that I hope that woman was trolling about the the last part of what she said, but she told on herself immediately with the reaction she had to that question. And Speaking of reactions, gentlemen, please let me know what your reaction is to this video. This will be very interesting. This gentleman wants to come in and answer where about the good man question. Let's hear what he has to say. 

Where are all the good women at? Like? Where are the good guys? 

You are the. 

Wait, wait, wait. You're not. You're not by any chance talking about that girl who cleaned up after you, who cooked for you all the time, supported you, and you still ended up cheating on her? Got it. 

You are the. 

Or that guy who got upset at you for liking all those dudes photos, or finally left because you wouldn't stop partying with all your single friends. 

And I'm still. 

Now. 

Yeah, you're not talking about that guy, are you? OK, just making sure. 

OK, first of all the the the what he said at the beginning when he talked about the guy, this woman doing all these things with this guy and the guy cheating on her, first of all. This might come across as insensitive or controversial. I don't particularly care, but what I will tell you is men cheating versus women cheating are not the same thing. That's number one, number two. Most men would lop off their left nut for what? That dude just described. So for a man to give it up, most dudes who would even get that scenario much less pass up and throw that away, are men at the very top of the pyramid of the social order. OK, we're talking rich guys, handsome and rich guys, guys with status, money and looks like we're talking the cream of the crop. Ice the cream rises to the top. If you didn't know that. If you look at milk, cream always rises to the top. I know. If you only had pasteurized $5 milk from Walmart, you probably don't know that because you don't never see milk with cream in it before. But when you look at cream, it always goes to the top and so then at the top they can afford to do that average guy. He would live his whole life looking for that scenario and he still won't get. 

Yeah. 

See that? That's the problem right there. The the second-half that he highlighted of the woman being the party animal and whatnot. And the guy being a good man and she going out and partying and not getting off the the pickup going with her single friends. That is much more mainstream than the first thing that he said. The first scenario he gave, we're talking like the. CEO of your company that you work for? That guy, not you. But that guy, that guy could do that and get away with it because he's got tons of options. Most dudes have next to no options in case you didn't know, and you've never really gone on the side of the Internet before. Just so you know, the according to the data, the average man in his entire life, I'm talking across the spectrum in this in this survey, the average. Dan has about 7:00. Encounters and with intimacy in his entire life, like with seven different women, seven is a number for the average man. They say that the woman's a little bit more than that, but we're gonna say that that's probably not true, considering that Esther Villar in her book The Manipulated Man who was a woman back in the 70s and she wrote her book in response to the Women's Rights Liberation movement. Considering that she herself discussed the idea that women don't care about male statistics and whatnot, and care more about feelings, her words, not mine. I'm inclined to not believe that data that it's just slightly higher or slightly lower than men. That's just bogus, but OK, if we if you want to live in, if you want to believe in fairy tales, go right ahead. You're welcome to do that. But Speaking of, let's go back to basically Speaking of fairy tales. Ohh, anybody wanna listen to this one? This one is apparently from a church girl who's gonna say that. So this guy's questioning. I I've played a couple of this guy and stitches to this guy's clip because I think it's an important question. He says, where are the good women at this woman, apparently is going to say that they're at. Church. Ah. All right. Buckling your seat belts, boys. It's going to be a bumpy. 

Ride people are always saying where are the good men at man? Where are the good women? 

Church where we're at. There are a lot of people who go to church and they're religious and they're not kind and they don't love people and they treat people bad. I'm not talking about those people, if you. 

Ohh no. Look at the Starbucks Cup she got in her hand. Ohh no, we're we're not off to a great start. Anybody know the politics of Starbucks besides me? Anybody. First of all, gentlemen, let's let's look at this woman in general, would we would if you saw this woman, would you? Would you invest in this woman? They say the eyes are the window to the soul, and when I look at these eyes the the wider the eyes go. Usually the more crazy there is, I'm just gonna leave that out there. You can feel free to disagree. One man's opinion. Let's see what else she has to say. We have 14 seconds in to an almost minute and a half video. Let's see what she says. 

If you can find a man or a wife who loves Jesus, is not religious, loves Jesus, loves God with all of their heart, they're going to treat you right because the love of God is going to just beam and radiate out of them. They're going to have peace. They're going to be kind, they're going to be loving because they actually have a relationship with the Lord. No. 

Own. Gentlemen, do not ever, and I repeat, do not ever fall for these terms. Like real, actually genuine. Do not fall for these words. They are a ploy to lower your guard. When someone says real men, real women, actual Christians do not fall for this. OK, this is a ploy to get into your subconscious mind. And get you to accept their narrative because they're saying no, they're not calling you fake, but they're implying it. You see, if they called you a fake Christian, if you didn't agree with them, you would immediately sense that as an attack and you would rebut and you'd defend. But because they call themselves real, they are not inherently calling you fake. You don't perceive it that way, so instead you're gonna be like, ohh real, huh? Well, I like things that are real. I like things that are genuine. OK, I could go with that. That's you're going to. Without realizing there was actually a subtle attack against you by insinuating that if they're real and you're not them, then you're fake. Be aware of that. Never fall for that. That is a huge red flag right there. Be careful of that. 

Not just religious following rules and dead and bitter on the inside, I'm married. I've been married for years. I love my husband. He's an amazing man of God because he loves Jesus, I'm telling. 

I would love to hear the man's side of this. I can guarantee you I don't know who this man is. If you could be married to Giga chat for all I know, I do. But it but it's possible. Here's what I can guess that her husband is her husband is probably hen pecked. He's probably beta Brad. He's probably a nice guy, but he's probably not very masculine. He probably he might have some, you know, pattern balding going on, which is cool. I don't know. You know, it it is what it is. It's genetic. You can't help it. But something tells me this dude is not giga chat. He's not gonna pull up looking like the rock, super masculine, deep voice and everything. I can guarantee you this guy is probably just another beta Brad. Regular regular dude. Maybe wears A snapback hat. What I can guarantee you this dude is pen packed as a ****. I can guarantee you right now that's my prediction. I could be wrong. But I can guarantee you that's what I'm thinking right now. 

All you guys, if you want to find a good man or a Good Wife, look in the charts for. 

OK, let's oh the church. Ohh, you mean I get to pick out of the 3035 year old women? That or 25 year olds who have been on the carousel for the last 10 years. Ohh, that's where I can find the good women. See, gentlemen, here's what I here's my thing that I don't like. You wanna know what I don't like about this? It's disingenuous because you're assuming that because they're pure now, or at least they claim to be that everything in the past don't matter, that everything in the past because it's been washed away by the blood of the lamb. It has no importance, no impertinence, no potential pitfalls to what you are trying to build. Now and in the future, you left that part out, though you left that part out. We have not heard a single thing about the past background checking. Qualifying nothing. All we've heard is if you go to church, find the first woman there who you think is attractive, it's a safe bet. No, absolutely not. 

People who love God, not every Christian, is meant to be with you. But when you meet the right person, you'll know. And why fish in a, you know, algae infested worm, parasite infested mosquito larva pond like you know, looking for a gem in a club or in a strip club or in a bar. When you could go and you could go fishing in a healthy clean crystal clear, beautiful pond again. 

The. 

What happens if in this crystal clear pond that you're talking about, ma'am? What if these fish from this algae infested worm filled mosquito pond? What happens if those fish get taken from that pond and put into this crystal pond you're talking about? Cause it's the same fish. It's the same fish you're just talking about the. On being this he see I love. She mentioned that analogy because she's talking about the pond, the place. She's not talking about the fish in those lakes. What happens if you pick up the fish out of this algae infested in her work? Algae infested worm filled mosquito bedding pond and you put them in a nice healthy one. Are the fish still the same fish? I'll repeat that in case you missed it. Are they still the same fish because they are, and that is exactly why so many men. Are unhappy with the dating marketplace because they figure that out and they don't like it and they don't like the number one. You lied to them. 

You lied to me. 

And #2, they don't like that you are being disingenuous because they want to believe you. So here's the thing that gets men the most. Men want to believe. This, and that's why they do, because they want to believe you are correct. They want to believe that you are telling them the truth and that they can get the green light and go for it. Men naturally want to. Do. This not about whether men want to or not, because they want to. The fact of the matter is, a lot of men do this and they figure out. That the women that that the fish in this clear pond and the fish in this infested pond are the same exact fish. With the same exact problems, same scale, different scales, but they are the same exact fish. And a lot of men figure this out by hook or by crook through mistakes or through the learning from others. They learn this and they get mad, or they check out. And This is why what you're saying is extremely disingenuous. And I would love to see your husband. And he has to hear what he has to say. Because to me I get one. Look at this guy and I can immediately know everything that I need to know. I might even go look for him right after this. 

Church isn't perfect, but your pool of options is going to be people who are trying to better themselves and grow in their relationship with God. It's just wiser. 

Gentlemen, how many of us actually wait a minute? Do I want to do this? I think I want to do this gentleman. Here's what we're going to do. We're gonna go and look for this woman's husband. I can't wait to see who this dude is. See on and see on her channel. Because I'm not seeing him. I'm not. I'm looking. Look, look, here's your channel right here. I'm not seeing the. I'm not seeing him anywhere. I'm not seeing the where. Where's the husband at? I'm not seeing him. Ohh, I'm not seeing him. Hold on. Let me look. 

Hey guys I want to. 

Is this him? Is this the guy? Is this the guy? No way. No way. Gentleman, I think this is the guy. Let's look at let's look at the video. 

To introduce you to my friend Tyler, and we're going. To say a prayer to. 

Oh, he's just a friend. I thought this was the husband I was gonna be like. Ohh. He fit every description. Not sad. Ohh no. Where's the dude? Where's the husband at? Why is he not? He's nowhere to be found, bro. She was bragging about her husband and now I can't find him. He I can't find his dude anywhere. Oh. OK. We're gonna move on then. OK. I'm just gonna just think that my, my. I think that I'm just right then, because if I can't find him then he obviously isn't the pinnacle of masculinity, cause he was. Then she'd she'd advertise that. Ohh my goodness. Ohh man, I'm having fun on the show today. I don't know about y'all but I'm having fun today. Let's see what this man has to say about where all the good men have gone. Let's see what he has to say. 

If I hear one more single, beautiful, available, smart, funny, sexy. Connected woman say to me. Guys just aren't guys anymore. They just, they're just like, we're all the men. What's happening with all the men? And I hear it so often from women that I meet women that I know women that I ask questions about, because I'm curious because I want to understand what's going on. It happens over and over and over again. Is that US men? We are not stepping up. Into the role of of of the MASCOM, which is to lead to take initiative, to be present, to be available, to plan, to make asks, to pick. Up the phone. To get off of the passive texting. To take initiative, whatever it may be, let's. 

Are you kidding me? That's what you that's what you took away from that. No, Sir. The reason why they're not finding these quote good men is because they're not looking for good men. They're looking for good chads, good tyrones, good pookies. 

Is. 

That's who they're looking for. Good. Ray rays. They're not looking for good. Average dude. Good. Average Dave. Good. Average Joe. Good. Average. Tim. They're not looking for him because if they were, they would have found him ten years ago. But they didn't. Cause they're not looking for him. See this is the problem, gentlemen. Let's go. Let's go back. Let's go back for a second. Look at this guy right here. He looks like he's a nice guy, masculine guy, caring man. But here's the issue. He has not seen what he doesn't want to see, which is that it is not the men's fault. It is the fact that women want what they can't have, and a lot of men can't be the guy that they want. Because it's just not in their genetics. Or by the time that they are that guy, they realize wait a minute. I am that guy. Now, why would I settle for you now? I can have as many women as I want. Why in the world would I choose you? And then they sit there like Bugs Bunny, tweaking, and then they can't answer the. Question. Because a lot of the same women want the same dudes. Look, we all know this. A lot of the women want the same dudes. And the same dudes at the very top who could pick from all these women, they do. And they don't have to. OK. Now should they? Well, that's not really part of the question now, is it? It's not about what they should do. It's about what happens. Because look, this is the unfortunate reality we're living in, and This is why when I asked the question of where all the good women at, they're not looking for the good men. They're looking for good chads. Now is it possible we can turn this around? Well, I don't think people have the guts to actually do what would need to be. Done. And you could never get rid of hypergamy in general. You can't. It's always been around. This is not a new phenomenon. It's been around since the beginning of time. However, your pool is now bigger than it's ever been. Gentlemen, if you want to find a good woman. You're hard pressed to even find that if it exists at all, that's what we refer to as a Unicorn. The reason we say that is not because we like the My Little Pony or some we don't like horned horses. We say that because they don't actually exist. It's a front. It's the same thing in the as the game guys pretending to be really strong and caring and and and charming dudes. When a lot of them are just goofies and lames, we're just trying to get some. Get some, get some action. The same thing. We're going to get the commitment, they play the role that they think you want until they get what they want and then they show you who they really are and you're like, oh, shoot. That's how it works, man. I'm sorry. I wish I could sit here and tell you if you want good women, just go here or just go there. But it's not simple like that. If it was, everybody would do it. The divorce rate would go down. We wouldn't have this issue, but guess what? Women are the ones filing the divorces because they're the ones that gain the most by doing so. And the men are not filing the divorces. Because they just. Aren't they? Don't. There's no benefit in them doing it. They only stand to lose. But generally, if you disagree with me and you think that I'm wrong. Maybe you married your wife in church or whatever it may be. Feel free to let me know, because at the end of the day. We all have different opinions and different ways of approaching this topic, and I'd love to hear them. My friends, in the meantime, you take care of yourselves. Do your own research. Please feel free to Share your story and your thoughts below. And if you like the video, you know what to do. I'll see you next time. Peace.