Even the Christian women are admitting to this. Ohh God's a better father than my biological father. So I'm kicking him out the picture. It's not for the money, not for the Child Support, not for the alimony, not for the the social services. The Section 8, the wake, the BT and everything else. No. When it's for, it's for God. Because God's better. Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the sheep Get Sheared podcast. I'm your host, Austin Creed. My friends, I want to help up front and apologize if my voice sounds a little different. My voice is kind of gone today, but I wanted to do. This. Show I. Since my move, I've been looking different churches and exploring them both online and whatnot, and it's interesting. Interesting to hear a lot of what I talk about on this. Show. Continue to play out no matter where I am. What state I'm in. What county? I'm in for some reason. A lot of these topics we discuss how Christian pastors are letting women off the hook, how they're putting young men doubly accountable for things that they're not. Meant to take accountability for and they're teaching them to be weak men who are not attracted, who are not attractive to women. They're letting women off the hook. They glorify Mother's Day, but they kind of downplay Father's Day. They trying to get men who have skills, whether it be electricians, plumbers, carpenters, et cetera, to basically give them free labor for stuff. They got. The list goes on and on. Well, my friends, you know what really gets me? And every time around this Mother's Day season. For for some reason, pastors seal the need to bump up single mothers as the single mothers in the church are oh, they're so important. Ohh, they're so wonderful and so great. No, actually there are disgrace. And then you'll hear women be like, oh, but God is the father to the fatherless. Yeah. Tell that to the to the communities in the inner cities who don't have fathers who have the biggest crime rates. Hmm. Oh, I'm sorry. Was I not supposed to say that? This is what you get when you have these single mothers who their their kids are more likely to go to jail. You don't believe me? Check the statistics. I'm not making this up. Say they'd have you believe it's the other way around. German single fathers and single mothers are nowhere near the same thing. Ideally you have a two parent household, but the problem is even in the church today and in larger society, that's just not feasible because women are selfish. Number one, most men are not attractive #2 and #3. There's no reason to hold it together. There's no glue in society that's holding it together anymore. And if you don't take my word for it, that's OK. I brought proof. We're going to discuss this on the show today, my friend, before I start playing the clips, let me know, please, throughout the show. Whether it's on videos, on the comments I make, please leave your thoughts and your comments below. I love reading them. I love interacting with everybody on the show, so let me know what you think. I'd love to hear your thoughts. Let's jump into the first video about how single mothers. Are supposed about single mothers in the church and about the Christian single mothers? Can they even be Christians? Can they be classified as such? Well, let's see. Let's see what they got to say. 

Listen y'all, I really used to grieve in my spirit over being a single mom and not because it's hard, which it is, but because I am a woman raising a young man and I know and acknowledge there are things that he needs to learn as a young man that I as a woman cannot teach him. And it used to cause me to grieve. So much up until last year, when my son started. Into youth group and I really started to see him develop a relationship with God that was completely independent from my relationship with God and I started to see a shift and it it clicked for me. God is a father to the fatherless and the areas where I lack. He does not, and he's a far better parent. 

Oh. 

No. 

Than I am then his biological father than any of us are. He's a far better parent. The best thing that we can do a single. 

Ohh my goodness. 

Mothers is to give our children to Christ and let him take care of them, and he will. I know that it's not his design for us to be a single mom, but he works everything together for our good. So he will take care of our babies. 

Ohh. 

This is the worst kind of discrimination. The kind against me. 

Ohh my goodness, where do I begin? First of all, gentlemen, this is the kind of stuff you're up against, by the way. Not only are relationships. About to hit a flatline, but on top of that, you have these women talking about how you're a deadbeat dad and Jesus is a better father than you. Now you're being compared to God as if the bar wasn't high enough. Now you got this garbage to contend with. Gentlemen, this is the problem right here. This this is the problem right here. She is a single mother whose, statistically speaking, her son has a higher chance of ending up in prison. Higher chance of ending up being a criminal being in St. gangs go down the list having drug issues. You can go down the litany, but then these same women want to be like ohh it's OK because God's going to father my child, ma'am. How has that worked out statistically for people? I'm just going to ask the question. First of all, where is the father? What does he do? You failed to mention that part. Who is the father? What does he do? You fail to mention that part. I can guarantee you he's not that bad. Of. A guy, or if he is, that's your fault for procreating with that man. You chose that man you at that man's getting your guts. You let that man do that to you. You let that man clap those cheeks. Guess what that's on you. And now you want to make it not only he. He's a problem now you want to be like, ohh, don't worry, I don't need a. Father in my life I got God. Oh, she's also looking for a good Christian shatter Tyrone too. At the same time blaming men for not one to wife her up. That's why she joined the church in the 1st place most likely. Gentlemen, this is what you're competing against. This is what is in the church right now. This is what you are dealing with. Gentlemen, this is the problem. And if it wasn't bad enough, look at this clip right here. Let's see what you think about this. 

This message is for my single moms and my single moms only. If you are not a single mom, this message is not for you. Now that it's just us, I just want to remind you that you are doing an amazing job. I know it is hard raising kids by yourself. I know you hear things and and when you go out in public you see. Families and it hurt. A little bit inside. Every time you see that and you don't have that, but I just want to remind you that God has not forgotten about you. And where you are currently is not the end of your story, and I want you to remember that you are not with the world says that you are. You are not. You are not disgraced. You are not a disappointment you. To remember that you are first a child of God. You are first a child of the king. And although your circumstances may have you in a certain situation right now, this is not where you are going to stay. So I just want to remind you that you are loved. God sees you, God hears your prayers. God. 

Hmm. 

He's your tears. He hears when you cry out to him and I want you to remember who you are and who's you are. We are not our own. We are bought with the price. And just because you are a single mom does not mean that God will not use you or that. Your mistakes outweigh the promise that he has for your. 

Yes. 

Life. You got this. 

Ohh my goodness, gentlemen, at what point I got out of it, I was that was painful, dude. Does anybody else have a headache now? Oh, my goodness. OK, I have so many things. Number one, ma'am. Where is the father? Because here's my question. If you are the common denominator, all how has it happened that there are so many men who are good Christian men who want to have families, and yet there are a lot of single mothers out there who can't? I can't help but notice either a or completely unmarriageable or two, they have pookies kid walking in they they snot nose. Come snatching kid. That's that's half pookie walking. In there. Disrupting the classroom, disrupting everything. And then you wanna pretend like ohh, don't worry, girl. God got your back. Only God can judge you. Mm-hmm. So we're using God as a convenience, so it's OK to be bought with a price when God's paying the bill, but not when you know, we could have made good decisions. We could have made great decisions, both financially for. Us for our children, for our future. That was nowhere to be found. But now that I'm in the need position and I don't have the money, I don't have the support. I don't have the guidance now. I'm gonna get that from God. I'm gonna get that from my pastor. I'm gonna get that from the gumps. I mean, the good man in the church. This is what this is the problem. These people are leeches. But they want to pretend like their their weakness is a virtue. They want to pretend like their deficiency is an advantage for you. No, it's not. You are a disgrace. You are doing your children a disservice doing the community a disservice, and you're pretending like you're not doing that. And that's the worst part. And then adding only God can judge you as if I, as if I can't see what's blatantly staring me in the face and the rest of the men listening to this show can't see what the hell they're looking at. Which is? You're desperate. You wanna Gump a guy you don't respect. You wouldn't have given a chance. You didn't have that child behind you. Now all of a sudden you want a good man when you couldn't be helped to find a good man. When you write, your prime didn't have a kid and had your youth and fertility all of a sudden. No, no, no, no. The good man wasn't. No, he was no good then. But now that you have pookie's kid or you could lock down the father or you you praying Mantis, the father out of the relationship. Now all of a sudden, God, we I need you. God. Following man. Who's who's gullible? I need you. This is a disgrace. This is predatory. This is apex predator behavior. What's the difference between this and women who baby trap athletes? It's the same idea. They're getting somebody else. To pay for their their bad decisions. It's a it's a disgrace. And then they wanna pretend like, oh, don't worry, it's not a problem. And then not always. Not a problem. You got men in the church saying that not only is it not her fault, it's your fault. Listen to this now. 

Many men in the world. I hate to hear me preach this. That's right. But you know what? I'm gonna preach it. If you die because I travel around the world and there's too many women that's on their own, raising their own children while the bum who claim he's a man don't want to do nothing. But have sex. That's it. Tell him, brother. 

Am I right? I said go ahead. 

Oh, oh, yeah. You heard that, right? He blamed you. He blamed you. He said you're the problem. You, my friend of the problem. Not not the women for letting him, not letting who eat it raw. Not not. It's your fault. Now you get to pick up the tab. Apparently we as men we we're back to the we only want one thing argument. Ohh that's great. Good, great. My friends, does anybody actually think that this is accurate? If you do, please leave my show because you're part of the problem. If you honestly think that I'm for one second gonna fall for this. Ohh, but it's the men's fault. Last time I checked, the women were the ones who controlled the intimacy. And the access and it was the men who controlled the relationship. So if you're the one who's letting them ***** in the guts and and and and we're even assuming he's running away, not that you're forcing him out for the child. Support the alimony, the public assistance and everything which most Western countries have. We're pretending like that's not a a reality. And yet this is what most men hear when they go to church. They hear the single mothers of Princess Warrior and the no good men are out there knocking these women up and never calling them again. First of all, that is a myth. That is a total and absolute myth. Most men love their children. They just don't like the women and how the woman is treating them. That's what they don't like. But then you ever seen the movie Toy Story 3 with that bear the pink Bear Lotso, where they they the him and two other toys get left behind. An accident by the kid. They find the kid the kid replaces. Him. But not the other two toys. And then he leaves and she's like he's like they replaced us. Come on. I play the clip for you, but I probably get a copyright. But there's a scene of Lotso the bear, where he goes to him and like the clown and the and the. And then the and the little baby, they go back and they find the woman, the the owner's house. They go in the window. They look through the window. And only Lotso has been replaced. He then says she replaced all of us. And then gets all of them to leave when the other two could have easily gone back in the house and easily had their place restored with that little girl except for Lotso. So what did he do? He poisoned all of them and took the took them all and bounced. That's exactly what women do. They'll they'll say to the children. Oh. Your daddy doesn't love you because you're the daddy. Doesn't love her. The kids could easily go live with the father and the father would give them everything that he didn't have as a kid and do his best for them. But instead the woman, because she's been replaced, will poison the children against that man. That's called the parental alienation, and it's disgusting. But tell me I ain't lying. Even the Christian women are admitting to this. Ohh. God's a better father than my biological father. So I'm kicking him out the picture. It's not for the money, not for the Child Support, not for the alimony, not for the the social services. The Section 8, the the BT and everything else. No. When it's for, it's for God. Because God's better. 

What? 

What? What real? Gentlemen, this is what you're up against, man. This is why I say can single mothers even be Christians? They don't act like one. They don't talk like them. They use God as a shield and a spear, like in the failings formations that the Immortals Persians used to do with a shield like this and then use a spear to defend back the enemy. Who? The accuser. That's what they do with with God. They use God as a shield and as a spirit and against anybody who would say that they would do it. Anything it's going towards their own ambitions and their own. Self survival. It's unfortunately the reality and a lot of Christian men would rather blame you as the problem and cater to the women instead of holding everybody equally accountable for their own actions. Now, that's not fashionable, that doesn't get them paid. You see that women are more likely to spend than men, So what do they do? They cater to the women so they can get more money in the church. Tell me how you're lying. Tell me I'm lying. I would love to hear it, cause it's not true. Gentlemen, please let me know what you. Think. About this because This is why men are running from relationships. I don't care if they're religious, not religious, spiritual. I don't care what they are. Men are running away from relationships. Not every man. But a lot of them, enough to affect the marketplace. And now women are pretending like ohh, I'm being single by choice. No, you're not. You're being single by choice. Just not your choice. Because women don't control relationships, and as men who control the relationships. That's like me saying, oh, I'm not having sex as a man. OK, well, I don't. I don't have access to that ones given to me. It's kind of a stupid point. My friends, please let me know what you think. I'll leave it right here. I could I could join on 15 more minutes, but I'm not gonna do it because I kind of don't want to get thrown off the Internet. I think I've already said enough, but my friends, this is the this is part of the reason why men are checking out. We're done with this garbage, especially the young men are young men are saying I don't want to be like this dumb pastor who nobody actually respects. I'm done with this dude. He sounds weak and I don't want to be weak and I'd rather listen to guys on this side of the Internet who sound more masculine and who actually have things going for them. Who talk with authority and don't sound like Mickey Mouse on laughing gas. Our friends take care of yourselves. I'm out of here. Please leave your thoughts below. I'd love to hear them. And you take care of yourselves. I'm out of here. Peace.