And so, sadly, in this day and hour we got a bunch of men whose wives are 10 times more spiritual than the men are. 

Wait, hold on a second. Was that before or after they were in the streets with Chad and Pookie? Was that before or after we she was out there cheating because most of the time, women cheat more on the men? Statistics bear this out. Don't come at me. Come at the people who actually make these statistics. Was this before or after? When he got home? She got mad at him for not doing the dishes. Not taking care of the kids, not walking the dog. Was that before or after all those things, Sir? Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to Sheep Get Sheared podcast. I'm your host, Austin Creed. My friends, today, we're going to discuss how pastors are failing young men. Now, obviously, I don't mean every single pastor in every single church, but I am noticing an unfortunate shift. And the pastors and unfortunately, a lot of the younger pastors. So we're going to breakdown where kind of each group is prone to fail young men. But it's an undeniable fact that since World War 2, younger men have left the church and usually not come back. And the only time they do is usually because they want a wife and then they either get married or they quickly find out. Wait a minute. This ain't working. I thought it'd be better over here, but it's not really better. It's just a different brand of the same thing that I've encountered in the secular world or in the streets or wherever. And that is one of the most important aspects that I highlight on this show. The idea of the show being about exposing the reasons how you're getting exploited in society, and unfortunately one of the biggest places is the church. And I don't mean that like the teachings are inherently bad. I mean, the pastors, the elders, the leadership, they're not giving you solutions. They're gonna help you actually live your life. A lot of times they. Give you good ideas. But then they don't give you a way to actually live out what they're teaching you, and that's just one way. Then we go on to the affirming churches that soon be popping up under every crevice in every town, in every city in America. And then we, I compound that with the fact that a lot. Of. Pastors shift the blame to man. And then the wife blames the serpent. Or just like EVE did in the Garden of Eden. And unfortunately, we have that happening a lot in the society. So what we're going to do is you have to take my word for it. What we're gonna do is we're to watch videos. And I actually did bring some comedy on this show today because you know what, the last the Blue Show has been very dark, brooding and everything, and we need. Some levity, right? I mean, what is life if we can't laugh at a couple of things, right. So we're definitely gonna be doing that, but. 1st. You're an example of why I would say that a lot of passers are failing men look no further than this video. I'm not seeing it all the way through. All I know is it started off and I was very unhappy with how it started and you'll see why in, in in a second before we play the video, I encourage everybody to share their thoughts, their comments, whether it's before or after we break these videos. Down because your story, I don't care if you've never gone to church or if you've been in church your whole life. Everybody has a story. And number one, I love to read the stories and #2. A lot of men, especially men who are thinking about men getting married, are married or been divorced. They think they're alone. They think that no one's going to understand or sympathize with them, because when they encounter difficulties a lot of times they'll side with the woman they won't side with you, they'll tell you to suck it up. They'll tell you to deal with it. They won't give you the time of day. Over here on this channel, we give you the time of day, because this is about men sharing notes, and this is about us coming together and understanding. Wait a minute. A lot of our stories line up, a lot of us are being told the same thing, so it can't be a coincidence, and instead it must be a calculus. Related playbook that's being used by other people. I'm not in a diabolical way per say, but you find the feminist programming the gynocentrism in a lot of the progressive women who pretend like they are not progressive but conservative. Without further ado, we're going to get into why a lot of pastors are exactly the problem with shifting the blame. And blaming men for everything, just like the women do. Let's get into the here we go. 

Hey, Daddy, if you don't get a hold of the Bible and the Bible gets inside of you. It ain't my job. Teach your kids about Jesus. It's your job. Teach your kids about Jesus. It ain't my job to fight the spiritual warfare. Your home. It's your job to fight the spiritual warfare, your home. And so sadly in this day and hour, we got a bunch of men whose wives are 10 times more spiritual than the men are. And somehow we wonder why our homes been defeated when God chose the husband to be the high priests. 

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Of the home. And you've been a little Sissy and you playing on your PlayStation and looking at TV all night long. And your kids are going crazy. Your money went funny. Your manager's going down the tube and you ain't. In the sense to get on your knees, get in that Bible and find out what God said for your marriage. It's time for the men to be men and take the spiritual authority and pray the warfare off of your home. Offer your family. If you don't pray for your kids, who's gonna pray for your kids if you don't pass for your babies, who's gonna pass for your babies? Hogwash. I'm coming here and let me tell you what God said. You got a Bible. Get your nose in the Bible and start fighting the warfare like a good soldier of Christ, son. 

Ohh my, where do I begin? Ohh. In other words, it's your fault you went to work, you went to the gym. You did all these things. You paid the rent. You did all these things. But apparently it's still your fault. You can't win. You can't win. You're not doing enough over here. You're not putting enough work. You don't spend enough time with your kids. You don't do this, and you don't do that. It's always your fault as a man. That's the moral of the story, you know. You know what? Let's break this down because this gets. This is the kind of crap that gets me so. And because, again, he's shifting the blame to the men. As if Ohh it's always the men's fault. You know, women don't have anything, anything to hold accountable for. And the men, it's always your fault. Now do. There's some things he said that I agree with. Absolutely. Does that mean that it's 100% his fault? I'm sorry. Who's supposed to go to work? Who's supposed to pay for things? Who's supposed to mow the lawn? Who's supposed to pay for the pool? Who's supposed to do all these things? Somebody else. Again, there was nothing said about hey wives, make sure you're helping your husband. You know, like what you were created to do according to the Biblical account. But none of that was there. Let's see what else. Let's go. Breakdown. Exactly. What he said. 

Hey, Daddy, if you don't get a hold of the Bible and the Bible gets inside of you. It ain't my job. Teach your kids about Jesus. It's your job. Teach your kids about Jesus. It ain't my job to fight the spiritual warfare in your home. It's your job to fight the spiritual warfare your. 

Look at that old woman in the front row. Look at her. She's like, ohh yeah. Please. Yeah, you get those gut man? Yeah. You get those men? Those no good dudes. Get them in their place. Look at that woman, man. Look at that. Ohh, man. This is ain't this ain't good. 

Your home and so sadly in this day and hour we got a bunch of men whose wives are 10 times more spiritual than the men are. 

Wait, hold on a second. Was that before or after they were in the streets with Chad and Pookie? Was that before or after we she was out there cheating because most of the time, women cheating on the men's statistics bear this out. Don't come at me. Come at the people who actually make these statistics. Was this before or after? When he got home, she got mad at him for not doing the dishes, not taking care of the kids, not walking the dog. Was that before or after all those things? Sir, could you could you kindly explain to me where he's supposed to find time to do all these things again? He's not wrong with the fact that he's supposed to teach his kids about these things. This is a fact. This is true. However, here's what he's omitting, making it sound like. All you doing is sitting at home watching the football game, the soccer game, the basketball game, baseball game, drinking beer, not doing Jack all day, which is just completely untrue. Completely untrue, but of course he frames it as if you ain't doing Jack Ish and the wives over there busting her behind doing everything and you can't be bothered to do anything or contribute a Dang thing, which is a complete lie. Complete lie and then he wants to pretend like ohh your wife. More spurs than you. Where? Please tell me where I love to hear. What is he talking about? Give me an example. Because if your example is correct, I might agree with him. But he's not giving an example. He's just trying to make the men look. 

And somehow we wonder why our home been defeated when God chose the husband to be the high priest of the home. And you've been a little Sissy and you're playing on your PlayStation and looking at TV all night long. And your kids are going crazy. Your money went funny, your marriage is going down the tube and you ain't gonna see us to get on your knees. Get in that Bible and find out what God said. Your man. 

Ohh. In other words, men don't come home and you know, do things you enjoy doing. No, you gotta do another job. Which is, you gotta take care of your wife. You gotta take care of your kids. You gotta take care of your dog. You gotta do all these things. Again, so I can't come home and play on my PS5I can't come home and play on my Steam account. I can't come home and watch the football game that I recorded. I can't do any of those things because apparently now I'm supposed to do all. There's a bunch of other stuff too. OK, great. Oh, and I'm. I'm sorry. Where was the the help supposed to be out here? So in other words, as a leader, I'm supposed to do everything. I can't delegate anything. I can't do anything I actually like. I gotta do everything for everybody else. Meanwhile, they're ungrateful. That's that's the that's the conclusion he came to. Wow, what great advice? So you know this is what I'm talking about. He is blaming the man for everything. Is there a certain part of what he said that is true? Yes. Are there some men who actually don't do enough? Yes, but they are not the norm. They are the exception. Most men work super hard and get very little, if anything, not even to thank you. In response, I do my best to thank my father for all the things he does. I mean, when I was younger, did I appreciate them. I didn't know any different. Now I do. See, here's the problem. We act like men are you are utility. That just keeps getting tapped and if you're not doing everything, you're not pitching A shutout, then you're not doing enough. Then you're failing as a man. You're failing as a husband. You're failing as a leader of the household. This is a untrue, disgusting lie. It's disgraceful. Where is the talk about? Hey, wives, what are you doing? Help your husband do all these things? Nothing. It's nowhere to be found. How about teach your kids have a good work ethic so. They can help with. That no, no, nowhere to be found. See this is the problem gentlemen. This is the kind of stuff that men hear in the church. Women get up and like, ohh yeah, praise Jesus. This is great advice. And if you think he's alone, he's not alone. Here's some more advice. What does this have? To say. 

And telling a married man that is struggling, that will change your life. You marry. I struggle. 7 things I can tell you don't have time for that today, but one of which is about treating your wife well, to turn your life around like this instantly, instantly. If you treat your wife well. I'm not talking about doing show. I mean for real even when nobody is watching. 

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Even when she won't know because you know you can treat your wife and she won't know. But the bless her knows. Say your prayers will. Be. Hinder. So treat her well. Is one of them. Second one, listen to her. Most men that make serious mistakes. Don't listen to their advice. See the whole purpose of mind. That woman is defeated. If you listen to her. Say two are better than one. So you are. You are wasting the whole concept of marriage. 

Ohh no. 

If you marry someone, you're not. Gonna listen to. Some of the best decisions of my life came from my wife and I. It still pains me that I didn't listen fast enough. I learned. These things slowly. Men, these men don't use ear to ear. This ear is more design. 

Ohh men don't hear anything. Ohh is that what you're trying to? Ohh my gentleman said. Here's this guy is another. I mean I don't know if he's a comedian or a reverend. I think he says he's a pastor. Gentleman. What kind of advice is this? Ohh, just listen to your wife. Just do everything she says and your life will be great. A lot of men are doing that right now and they're miserable. Just so you know. A lot of men do that and still get divorced. A lot of men do that end up in sexless marriages. And yet for some reason this is the solution. Gentlemen, when you're in a marriage, you lose all leverage. I'm not telling you that you can't be married. Do I encourage it? No, because at the end of the day, as a man, you lose all. Leverage you. Can't. If you wanna stop for example. You can't just stop paying the bills. You can't just stop mowing the lawn. Can't stop making you know, making the money and doing all these things cause the minute you do, she's gonna divorce you and she's gonna leave. You can't stop going to the fair or the farmers market, the festival, the family gatherings. You can't stop doing all of those things because immediately she's going to cut you off and then you're going to be left with half of your stuff that you've worked. Sure. And she doesn't have to give you sex, by the way. No, no. She's entitled to your money, but you're not entitled to anything else, apparently. See, this is the problem. Men who have their their schmendrick on the shelf are some of the unhappiest dudes in the world. Unfortunately, a lot of married men fit in that category. Now is every married man going to be in that category? No, but are a lot of them in there right now, and they don't talk about it, which is why we look at the. Only fans, I mean only fools, shout out the Joker from Meta Bachelor only fools and all of their spicy content is mainly being subscribed to by married guys. Yes, it actually explains it a lot because you would be inclined to think ohh it's those single dudes who can't get any women. It's the guys who are broke and unhappy, no? You think broke guys can afford that? No. You think they'd rather do that as opposed to up their Instagram or even run game? God forbid? Or anything else? Absolutely not. But gentlemen, we have this kind of advice rating as being a good guy. Good men don't get rewarded. Not really. Maybe a little bit at first, but not for very long. And this is the problem. This is why a lot of pastors are giving men this advice, and this advice leads to this kind of humor being extremely funny. We're gonna go to something that might, maybe some of you can relate to. I have never been married. I'll give you that disclaimer right now. I've never been married. I don't plan on ever being married, however. Married men, divorced men, men who are thinking about getting married right now let me know how you relate to this. 

Advice to men advice to men men pay attention whenever you feel overloaded with your wife's issues rather than engaging in domestic violence, please go to the nearest biological unset relief bar. And order any of the following antidotes. Wipe irritation neutralized. Extra wine. Refreshing unique medicine. Ram. Other some exchange wise elimination rebooter beer. Wi-Fi infusion suspicion killing energy? Yes, with skill. Make yourself happy. There's more to life than domestic violence at home. 

Oh. Listen to that woman laughing in the background. You know why wouldn't find this funny? Because they know that they're doing this and they drive a lot of men to drink. Now, I'm not absorbing the men and the personal responsibility. Here's what I am saying. Gentlemen, a lot of men who end up in a situation like this. They do it. This has a common this has a comedic effect because a lot of men can relate to this. A lot of women, they think it's funny. They're like oh, oh, oh, oh, it's so funny for a lot of men. This is a very tragic reality. A lot of men, they don't want to go home because when they go home, they feel like they're going home to a second boss, to someone nagging them. To someone who's not appreciative of the work he just did see, that's the problem. A lot of men. Understand this reality that they hear about it online. They see it for themselves. They experience it for themselves and a lot of times the pastors in the church who are supposed to be paragons of the truth and of superior virtue and everything else, they blame the man the same way society blames the man. Social media blames the man. The women blame the man. And then they're supposed to just flock to these men because, oh, they're so holy and they teach the word and they they sew the scriptures together and they make it into a beautiful quilt that you can wear on your back for. The rest of your life. 1. A lot of men aren't doing. This. Because of the fact that it sounds no different than the things they hear on social media, the things they hear at their job, they things they hear from their wife or their spouse or their relationship, they hear these things enough already. Why in the world would they sign up? Or another thing to exploit them, use them and appreciate them and turn them out. Why would? They do that. Oh, and call them the problem. If they don't pitch a shutout. Why would they do it? The answer is a lot of men are choosing not to do it now. Is there a way to fix this? Absolutely there is, but unfortunately. That would mean you might have to take off the women a little bit by reeling back on the feminism, reeling back on the fact that wait a minute. We're preaching a lot of things that are anti men in pro women. We got to bring it back a little more to actual tradition, you know, like no rainbow flags in the church. Women are technically by the Scripture not supposed to be and have leadership roles in the church. You can debate me on that if you want. But according to a lot of things I've read and there's good arguments on both sides. But traditionally it's not been normal. How about we go back to marriage? The church ran marriage back in the day, not the state. We would have to change that. So there's no child support, no alimony. There's no incentive for the woman to rip the contract up and walk away with your stuff. And your kids? All of these things can be a solution. The problem is we're not going to see it because at the end of the day, the biggest voting bloc in the West is women. Ever since World War 2, Vietnam, Korea. This the men have been lower than the women population, and so they're the biggest demographic and they tend to be more hive minded, whereas men tend to be more individualistic and competitive. So women are going to vote more on women's issues, which is why since the 1960s and forward, we've seen more and more. Progressive ideology and sort of pruned traditionalism. But of course. This is just one man's opinion, one that's based on a lot of evidence. Common sense. And reason my friends, please share your thoughts and comments below. I know that I try to inject a little bit of comedy into the show because this is a very tragic topic for a lot of people. It hits a lot of close to home, hits them between the eyeballs and I want there to be a little levity. Would you let me put it up on? The screen one more time. Let's see where. Where is hold on. Hold on. Hold on. Hold on. Hold on. But where is the actual? Let me know if you can relate. 

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To any of. These any of these acronyms the guy came up with biological anxiety relief for bar wife irritation neutralizing extract or wine refreshing unique medicine rum. Bothersome estranged wife. Elimination booster beer. Sure. Or Rebooter's wife high infusion suspicion, healing, energy, yeast, whiskey. I mean, that's kind of funny. Try to inject a little bit of comedy into the show because at the end of the day, a lot of this is tragic, makes you unhappy, hits a little close to home. The gentleman. Please share your stories, your comments, your thoughts, your opinions. Even if you don't agree with me, that's totally fine. I would love to hear about it. My friends. Take care of yourselves. Think with what's up here, not what's down there. It'll help save your life. But until next time, my friends, you take care of yourselves and I'm out of here. Take care of yourselves. Peace.